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- Hello, and welcome to another episode of All The Hacks, 00:00:05.640 |
a show about upgrading your life, money, and travel. 00:00:09.720 |
and if you've been watching this podcast recently on YouTube, 00:00:15.980 |
I signed up for Kevin Chen's Dream Studio course, 00:00:19.600 |
because it's fantastic and got so many great tips 00:00:27.400 |
And I even have a setup for in-person interviews, 00:00:29.600 |
which you'll see the first version of in a few weeks. 00:00:38.680 |
I have loved skateboarding since I was a kid, 00:00:51.480 |
that I'm sitting down with Tony for today's episode. 00:00:54.040 |
He is one of the most decorated athletes in the world, 00:00:56.580 |
having turned pro at 14, and by 16 he was considered 00:01:05.280 |
launched a video game franchise with 30 million games sold. 00:01:09.040 |
He also runs a skate brand, an awesome nonprofit, 00:01:12.040 |
a clothing brand, and has made hundreds of appearances 00:01:27.680 |
what he's learned being a parent to four kids, 00:01:37.080 |
so if you wanna check out the video from this episode, 00:01:39.120 |
I'll put a link to the YouTube channel in the show notes. 00:01:50.540 |
what is one thing you think most people just don't get 00:01:57.220 |
I think that there's still a stigma that skaters, 00:01:59.780 |
especially people who make their living from skateboarding 00:02:02.560 |
or from riding their skateboards are slackers, are stoners, 00:02:07.280 |
they just get up late, they do what they want, 00:02:14.080 |
to get to some of the more difficult maneuvers, 00:02:17.840 |
it takes years of discipline and perseverance, 00:02:30.200 |
they got crazy hairdos, they go against the grain. 00:02:33.040 |
It's like those things are also true in a lot of ways, 00:02:38.320 |
it's more out of function of where they came from 00:02:41.040 |
because especially in the early '90s, mid '90s, 00:03:03.200 |
Shays' lounges at the pool and trying to grind 00:03:06.560 |
the rails on, there was nothing to do back then. 00:03:32.400 |
That was her nice way of summarizing my behavior, 00:03:35.960 |
but I think that I wanted to figure things out 00:03:41.440 |
I wanted to, I mean, I played baseball and basketball, 00:03:44.960 |
but I didn't thrive, and only because of my size. 00:03:48.280 |
I was committed to it, and I was doing the work, 00:04:06.640 |
I didn't have to listen to a coach or rely on the team, 00:04:10.460 |
and there was something about that that spoke to me, 00:04:15.060 |
and how people's attitudes was very do-it-yourself, 00:04:24.460 |
but there were a lot of other people involved. 00:04:26.220 |
There were a lot of other skaters growing up. 00:04:30.460 |
that it was like, "I'm just on my own mission." 00:04:48.680 |
for the, I don't know, coordination or anything like that. 00:04:55.600 |
and then someone else is trying something else, 00:05:06.620 |
I was bullied a lot, mostly because of my size, 00:05:17.200 |
and they all connected through skateboarding. 00:05:29.240 |
I didn't have, I think, the determination you did. 00:05:34.080 |
at an amazing level, and it just never clicked for me. 00:05:37.320 |
I found determination in other places later in life, 00:05:44.560 |
a lot of your experiences in life are documented. 00:05:53.000 |
where you're trying to do your 900 12 times in a row, 00:06:02.040 |
What do you think allows you to go and just keep going? 00:06:13.480 |
- I think, firstly, that I have convinced myself 00:06:19.400 |
and so I just have to figure out the right approach 00:06:23.080 |
to make it so, and that comes in a lot of forms. 00:06:27.280 |
But I do feel like, especially if I go to try a new trick, 00:06:30.260 |
it's like I have every element of this trick. 00:06:38.120 |
So it's like, how do I combine all those elements 00:06:50.800 |
Like when you talk about, saw the 900 was 12 tries. 00:06:54.340 |
Those 12 tries are representative of thousands of tries. 00:07:06.680 |
But I understand that if people saw that from the outside, 00:07:26.280 |
Actually, after the broken rib, that put me on pause. 00:07:28.640 |
That one, I had actually stepped away from that trick 00:07:32.720 |
And at some point thought, I've given it everything I have, 00:07:36.320 |
I've fully committed to it, and that's what happens. 00:07:41.380 |
- At the time, did you think I'm quitting on this endeavor? 00:07:47.080 |
I had every element, I had every piece of it. 00:07:50.960 |
And so if it didn't work, it's never gonna work. 00:08:01.720 |
I had a trick in mind for what I wanted to do 00:08:11.820 |
So I didn't really have anything else planned. 00:08:26.560 |
- No, I mean, I probably would have tried it anyway 00:08:28.720 |
'cause it's like, yeah, that would be my next trick 00:08:42.120 |
And then somewhere around the third or fourth try, 00:08:45.400 |
my speed was consistent, my spin was consistent. 00:08:51.360 |
I only ever spotted the landing maybe one out of five tries 00:08:54.960 |
because the ramps were all pretty terrible back then. 00:09:01.400 |
So you're always kind of struggling to adjust. 00:09:06.880 |
So I didn't have to struggle with the construction. 00:09:13.640 |
So after about my third or fourth try, I can see it. 00:09:22.080 |
the first time when I tried to put it on the wall, 00:09:24.680 |
I fell forward, but I didn't fall forward so hard 00:09:31.360 |
Because it was like, oh, I can adjust the landing 00:09:37.120 |
And then I basically shifted my weight mid-spin 00:09:39.980 |
so that when I landed, I was more on the back foot 00:09:49.360 |
So the first one, I was too top heavy, I fell forward. 00:09:59.080 |
because it was like, we'll split the difference. 00:10:03.720 |
- Let's say someone listening is hearing this story, 00:10:05.040 |
they're like, this guy's not afraid of anything. 00:10:13.400 |
People say, well, you ride these giant ramps. 00:10:15.120 |
Yeah, but if I fall, the giant ramp doesn't crash 00:10:23.080 |
and that's how I got into skateboarding, my older brother. 00:10:30.160 |
And it's just like, I like riding a big wave, 00:10:32.280 |
but I don't wanna suffer the consequences of falling on one. 00:10:35.760 |
- My first experience surfing was a friend of mine took me 00:10:39.080 |
and he was like, let's just try these on a short board. 00:10:42.520 |
- Yeah, a great first experience on a short board. 00:10:45.520 |
And then the next one was like Hawaii, long board, 00:10:50.680 |
Well, I'll tell you, I have surfed through my years 00:10:52.000 |
because my brother wouldn't allow me to exist 00:10:54.320 |
without at least a foot or a toe in the water, so to speak. 00:10:57.400 |
But I have fallen in love with the wave machines, 00:11:17.480 |
You've got to figure out kind of how to navigate nature 00:11:25.680 |
And so in that sense, you have what I consider a skate park 00:11:29.460 |
to try to learn tricks and try to learn techniques. 00:11:38.160 |
But for me, it's just a controlled environment 00:11:46.360 |
because I don't think there's one near San Francisco, 00:11:52.300 |
Not go out for a few hours and then come back. 00:11:56.040 |
- So you've got this crazy determination with skateboarding. 00:11:58.860 |
Did you ever figure out or do you know the secret 00:12:09.720 |
But that doesn't mean that I can take that same thing 00:12:11.760 |
and apply it necessarily to go learn a kickflip. 00:12:14.240 |
Though you've somewhat inspired me to do that 00:12:17.000 |
- I think I learned the value of patience and perseverance 00:12:36.260 |
I could do this as hard, I could try everything 00:12:38.460 |
and they get to work and they're like, oh, it's hard. 00:12:42.180 |
oh, well, I know how to do this with skateboarding. 00:12:43.780 |
- Yeah, and also trying to reach back to remembering, 00:12:58.740 |
and they're difficult and you want to just yell 00:13:08.700 |
and to see what is effective and that is really hard. 00:13:16.260 |
so I've had time to figure it out even more so. 00:13:18.860 |
And I learned the value of persistence and determination 00:13:33.820 |
but I've seen some small wins and it's like, whew. 00:13:40.020 |
And you can see that, oh, well, I planted the seed. 00:13:42.260 |
I'll tell you what I did with all my kids early on, 00:13:49.740 |
I just travel with them and it wasn't a question of like, 00:13:52.780 |
oh, I got to go, I'm going to have to find carers. 00:13:57.420 |
especially when they're toddlers and they don't have patience. 00:14:00.020 |
We didn't have iPhones or anything like that. 00:14:05.940 |
because I had the opportunity to do some skate demos. 00:14:08.540 |
No one was paying me to do skate demos at the time. 00:14:17.780 |
and do two skate exhibitions a day in the skate shop. 00:14:21.180 |
So they built these little ramps in their skate shop, 00:14:25.580 |
And I brought him along and yeah, it was challenging, 00:14:29.380 |
but it made him appreciate different cultures and travel 00:14:37.100 |
He understands and he embraces other cultures 00:14:44.560 |
It's not like everything's so, ew, it's weird. 00:14:46.220 |
It's crazy, this food or the way they do things. 00:14:50.700 |
- I think in the moment, we just took a trip with two kids, 00:15:04.120 |
because it's like, they're not gonna remember any of this, 00:15:08.300 |
and it sets a way of functioning with your family 00:15:16.780 |
Eventually, they're gonna want to bring friends along. 00:15:19.020 |
The friends are like, what, I don't, I can't. 00:15:26.180 |
- Even adapting ourselves, getting comfortable with, 00:15:28.460 |
okay, well, traveling in London with two kids 00:15:34.100 |
And so we're trying to get comfortable with that, 00:15:36.860 |
which was hard, and I think it worked really well. 00:15:43.660 |
Is there anything else you were trying to teach your kids? 00:15:51.140 |
but I do feel like there is also a nature over nurture 00:15:58.980 |
And a couple of them have that relentless determination 00:16:02.500 |
and they're gonna see it through against all odds, 00:16:05.420 |
One of them was actually kind of so determined 00:16:11.140 |
and so fearless that I worried for him when he was young. 00:16:17.300 |
but I used to say like, you don't babysit Keegan, 00:16:20.420 |
You're just trying to keep him from hurting himself 00:16:22.460 |
because he doesn't understand the consequences 00:16:26.940 |
but I do see that they do have that same sense of commitment. 00:16:35.620 |
or do you think it was just by watching you have it yourself? 00:16:40.780 |
but they all do see their challenges through. 00:16:44.420 |
Some are just a little more daring with their challenges. 00:16:50.420 |
I mean, maybe they saw that I would pose a challenge 00:16:56.780 |
like some of my kids were really, really good skaters, 00:17:02.500 |
but didn't really wanna push their limits too hard 00:17:15.060 |
but would try anything and get hurt, didn't care. 00:17:21.340 |
or what was your kind of role to help them grow and evolve? 00:17:25.820 |
because of course I'm qualified to give them advice, 00:17:30.020 |
but because I'm dad, they don't wanna hear it. 00:17:32.740 |
And I actually have seen it happen time and time again, 00:17:41.020 |
'cause they're determined to do it their way. 00:17:43.620 |
"Oh, you should put your foot over here more." 00:17:49.540 |
- I feel like the same lesson applies with spouses as well. 00:17:55.220 |
And honestly, it's fun too 'cause they all skate. 00:17:57.540 |
And so when we go travel, I mean, they're all adults now, 00:18:04.220 |
And then my daughter's the only one still at home. 00:18:07.060 |
So whenever we travel, they're very self-sufficient, 00:18:13.660 |
"You guys, can I get a break from skating maybe?" 00:18:16.900 |
So I ended up going with them as their filmer. 00:18:25.420 |
- Getting the crew together isn't as easy as it used to be. 00:18:29.860 |
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- So we actually talk a lot about travel on the show. 00:20:57.900 |
I'm imagining you've been to countless countries. 00:21:04.060 |
Are there places that you love going and going back to, 00:21:09.180 |
- Iceland is amazing because the landscape is so diverse. 00:21:19.580 |
And there's just all this moss covering these rocks, 00:21:26.860 |
it completely changes into almost like a farm setting. 00:21:38.980 |
almost 15 years ago now, and it felt very untapped. 00:21:46.300 |
And now it feels much more like there is tourism. 00:21:55.740 |
not when everyone else goes and leave a little bit outside, 00:22:00.660 |
- Yeah, we're not afraid to go way off the beaten path, 00:22:27.340 |
I brought all of them just before they were teenagers, 00:22:44.900 |
I gotta ask a question I know everyone is thinking 00:22:50.540 |
'Cause I know you weren't making a lot in the early days, 00:22:53.580 |
especially in that kind of mid part of your career. 00:23:07.340 |
- Were you optimizing things when you traveled, 00:23:09.340 |
thinking okay, I'm gonna rack up a bunch of miles? 00:23:11.300 |
- Yeah, but also I just learned how to travel 00:23:22.900 |
instead of the one where everyone's just being fed into, 00:23:26.380 |
I guess I learned how to be a better traveler in those days, 00:23:29.220 |
but I learned the value of frequent flyer miles 00:23:33.780 |
especially when I wasn't making very much money, 00:23:39.940 |
I mean, I was a million miler on United very early on. 00:23:54.860 |
if you were telling your favorite travel hacks 00:23:56.980 |
to how you make your life efficient when you travel, 00:23:59.180 |
whether it's a secret neck pillow or some crazy eye mask? 00:24:03.060 |
I just flew home from New York and it was last minute, 00:24:09.900 |
but if you want to travel with your laptop or anything else, 00:24:14.660 |
'cause you have to put your backpack up in the overhead, 00:24:21.140 |
take your laptop out and put it right under your feet 00:24:25.020 |
so that half of it's kind of under your own seat, 00:24:29.060 |
you just kind of lightly put your heels on it. 00:24:37.700 |
- Yeah, if you have one of those laptop sleeves, 00:24:41.820 |
- Yeah, I'm pretty good at just hiding it all together. 00:24:44.900 |
And then usually like I'll have a little bag, 00:25:02.520 |
it's not like I carry some big wardrobe or anything, 00:25:05.160 |
but I do try to keep it down to a carry-on and a backpack 00:25:14.720 |
I'll tell you the biggest travel hacks for skateboards 00:25:22.020 |
and put it in the overhead anywhere in the US. 00:25:59.380 |
No, I've actually thrown a skateboard away because of that. 00:26:02.380 |
- In London, they said, "Oh, you got to check in." 00:26:05.020 |
They go, "Well, I don't know what to tell you." 00:26:17.620 |
you can't carry a skateboard on the airplane in Mexico. 00:26:20.840 |
So every time we travel with the kids to Mexico, 00:26:29.900 |
I don't know if it's a hack, it's just my advice. 00:26:31.380 |
Like if you're going to travel through Europe, 00:26:44.080 |
There's some country where you can't bring nail clippers 00:27:05.080 |
I live in San Diego, but I live in North County 00:27:07.160 |
and used to be able to fly from Carlsbad Airport to LAX. 00:27:11.080 |
And so basically you could go anywhere from LAX, right? 00:27:14.320 |
So that was always like the best way to do it. 00:27:17.760 |
But many times our Carlsbad flight would be canceled 00:27:20.960 |
and we just have to literally drive to Carlsbad Airport. 00:27:24.440 |
just keep going North to LAX with the skateboard thing. 00:27:27.640 |
I remember, so my wife and I usually carry our skateboards 00:27:31.640 |
when we go places, 'cause we like to skate around cities, 00:27:51.820 |
And immediately was like, "Go that way to secondary." 00:28:00.560 |
And he looked up and he saw my face and he recognized it, 00:28:25.840 |
I'll encourage anyone here to go check out the internet 00:28:28.240 |
for all the stories of you getting recognized 00:28:36.140 |
It's weird now because obviously, as you would know, 00:28:40.900 |
Not the meme, but it's just me telling my story. 00:28:43.540 |
Like all the stories I tell are absolutely true, 100%. 00:28:48.820 |
it would happen pretty frequently and I was sharing it. 00:28:50.840 |
And at some point people thought I was making it up. 00:28:54.860 |
because people were just like, "Come on, like really?" 00:28:59.900 |
it's like this vicious cycle where people now want to say it 00:29:07.540 |
So I would say that happens probably three times a day, 00:29:12.660 |
Like anyone ever tell you, you look like Tony Hawk? 00:29:16.980 |
But then it happens genuinely at least once or twice too. 00:29:41.780 |
and this guy was sitting across from me at the gate 00:29:43.660 |
and he came over, he's a man, he looked just like Tony Hawk. 00:29:52.220 |
and then a group of people came who did recognize me 00:30:03.380 |
because he's in on the joke that it's not really me. 00:30:09.180 |
Like he and I are sharing this inside joke somehow 00:30:11.540 |
that these people are crazy and they're mistaken. 00:30:16.660 |
- Did you ever tell him at the end or did he ever? 00:30:19.620 |
It's up to them to either decide that or to ask me. 00:30:26.260 |
"Everybody tell you you look like Tony Hawk." 00:30:36.900 |
- All right, well I hope whoever was sitting across from me 00:30:39.460 |
and they can finally come to terms with the fact 00:30:41.260 |
that this guy is really you. - No, I think he had 00:30:42.100 |
way more fun in his mind making fun of people. 00:30:46.620 |
- Like that was his thing, so I just let him run with it. 00:30:49.060 |
- So to round out travel, I'm sure you buy lots of things. 00:30:53.820 |
Do you try to rack up points or cash back on credit cards 00:30:58.620 |
- Yes, I try to focus in on one or two airlines 00:31:02.020 |
or their partners so that I rack up the most points on them, 00:31:07.460 |
but also all my credit card purchases go towards miles. 00:31:14.900 |
So for instance, we have the skater Felipe Nunez 00:31:26.420 |
I'll find a link to and put it in the show notes. 00:31:31.140 |
Like he is incredible and has only gotten better, 00:31:33.980 |
but it's tricky 'cause he lives in a really small town, 00:31:41.020 |
So for me to get him flights is always really tricky 00:31:57.780 |
if they need to get somewhere for a skate trip or whatever. 00:32:04.060 |
no matter how famous or rich or whatever you are, 00:32:07.880 |
that when they're spending money on their card, 00:32:09.260 |
they're getting like the most they can out of their rewards. 00:32:17.420 |
If I'm going to an event, I do a lot of speaking gigs, 00:32:21.480 |
And so sometimes it's up to them to do the travel 00:32:29.340 |
And it's such a hassle, like it all seems so frivolous, 00:32:34.940 |
you can go to a different line, you know what I mean? 00:32:44.980 |
- I know someone who's part of their rider for speaking 00:32:46.940 |
is like, I will book my flights and you will reimburse me 00:32:49.740 |
because I just don't want-- - That is usually what we do. 00:32:51.560 |
But every once in a while, it slips through the cracks. 00:32:54.120 |
- Well, if anyone's listening, if you ever take a flight 00:32:57.540 |
you can actually retroactively ask for credit. 00:33:02.520 |
- It's better to do it at a ticket counter though. 00:33:04.840 |
- Yes, they can do it faster. - They can do it immediately. 00:33:10.240 |
they wield such great power at the ticket counters. 00:33:13.360 |
They could literally just put you on a flight to London 00:33:15.900 |
first class without blinking an eye if they wanted to. 00:33:19.120 |
- It always amazes me when something happened 00:33:22.580 |
And I'm like, you realize the person that holds the keys 00:33:28.080 |
- Is that person who is not responsible for your delay 00:33:34.160 |
- I think just being nice to the person at the desk 00:33:36.520 |
can pay dividends on-- - Oh, absolutely, yeah. 00:33:43.400 |
we're just gonna upgrade you for no reason kind of thing. 00:33:45.600 |
Obviously, if you have status, you can get it. 00:33:47.720 |
But everything else like, oh, my flight's gone. 00:33:51.240 |
on that easy connection or do I wanna just give you a coupon 00:33:53.640 |
and you can get a hotel and come back tomorrow. 00:33:57.480 |
And if that line's too long, I always try to call 00:34:00.040 |
and see if I can get someone faster than a long line. 00:34:09.080 |
that will sometimes alert me to a problem with my flight 00:34:13.920 |
So I'm always kind of ahead of the curve with that 00:34:17.080 |
where it's like, oh, this thing's getting canceled. 00:34:19.040 |
I'm gonna go figure this out before everyone else 00:34:26.600 |
Oh, yes, it is canceled, you're telling them. 00:34:28.680 |
So one other area that we haven't talked a lot about 00:34:33.400 |
And people like Laird Hamilton go nuts about everything 00:34:36.160 |
they do with their regime for exercise, sauna, 00:34:45.440 |
I can assure you, I'm sure you can assure everyone 00:34:48.920 |
How much was kind of diet, exercise, training 00:34:55.280 |
Or how has that evolved as you've gotten older? 00:34:58.760 |
I didn't recognize the importance of my diet and training 00:35:02.160 |
and whatnot, but I was so obsessed with skating 00:35:10.280 |
three to four hours a day, every day, giving it my all. 00:35:13.480 |
So I think that over time, and also just seeing my peers, 00:35:18.480 |
I saw a lot of them not take care of themselves, 00:35:25.600 |
And so skating was always such a paramount importance to me 00:35:38.760 |
And so for me, that was sort of the first lesson 00:35:41.920 |
was not completely, but clean living for the most part. 00:35:49.480 |
and of trying to stay active when I can't skate. 00:35:52.760 |
And now, especially at my age and with my current recovery, 00:36:03.000 |
I'm recovering from a broken femur from last year. 00:36:05.840 |
I need to do so many things to help that healing. 00:36:12.920 |
'Cause I was like, maybe I just need to wait, 00:36:16.640 |
all these other things like hyperbaric chamber 00:36:19.640 |
and laser treatment and acupuncture and peptides. 00:36:22.200 |
And I was going all the way in with all those treatments. 00:36:27.320 |
I actually went the wrong way with my recovery, 00:36:41.680 |
- Are there things that you've experimented with, 00:36:43.360 |
whether it's diet or different kinds of treatment 00:36:46.720 |
that you think you'll keep in a routine that are lasting 00:36:51.200 |
or any of those things that are part of your routine? 00:36:53.880 |
- I think swimming helped me with my strength a lot 00:36:58.280 |
So I'm gonna lean into that more going forward, 00:37:01.000 |
including with my skating and just trying to, 00:37:07.320 |
and not indulging in sweets and sodas and stuff like that. 00:37:10.680 |
I still carry a lot of my habits from as a kid. 00:37:14.080 |
Then I still enjoy, you know, not the healthiest of foods, 00:37:21.680 |
and just more stuff that's gonna slow me down 00:37:24.120 |
and try to make a concerted effort to take supplements, 00:37:28.660 |
to eat greens, less processed foods, stuff like that. 00:37:32.840 |
- Well, I take quite a few, but most importantly, 00:37:36.440 |
'cause I have high cholesterol because of my family history. 00:37:50.880 |
And so I was kind of the perfect one for their campaign. 00:37:55.080 |
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I heard you say in a podcast almost five years ago 00:41:58.680 |
It's hard, especially when things are growing 00:42:07.100 |
or for you to do interviews and things like that. 00:42:09.480 |
And at some point, I thought I don't need to do these things 00:42:13.800 |
and I don't think that they are necessarily beneficial. 00:42:19.780 |
They just don't seem like they should be so obligatory. 00:42:44.220 |
if your attention is elsewhere, you're not really home. 00:42:46.520 |
I think it's something that when you have young kids, 00:42:50.200 |
the number of times I'm just a little bit distracted 00:42:57.620 |
and you're like, uh-huh, yep, yep, uh-huh, uh-huh. 00:43:16.960 |
We were still using VHS and he would wake up super early 00:43:20.420 |
and sometimes before Sesame Street was on the air. 00:43:24.280 |
You know what I mean? - Yeah, you're like, what do we do? 00:43:25.680 |
- Yeah, what do we, yeah, let's read a book or do something. 00:43:28.580 |
You learn to entertain the old-fashioned way. 00:43:33.920 |
It's like you're on a flight, you're on Southwest. 00:43:35.900 |
There's no TVs, there's no, you're sitting there 00:43:37.620 |
and you're like, it's amazing how kids are like, 00:43:43.860 |
Okay, five minutes in, I don't wanna read a book anymore. 00:43:45.760 |
So I think flights in that kind of toddler age 00:43:50.300 |
since you do have young ones and this is gonna be weird, 00:44:00.200 |
Sometimes we would be walking through a terminal 00:44:04.760 |
And I learned that it's very easy to remove your shoe, 00:44:25.460 |
- The last thing we didn't really talk on was around money. 00:44:35.180 |
are making maybe a couple bucks on a side gig. 00:44:38.300 |
What was the relationship with money like back then? 00:44:42.260 |
'cause it wasn't like you got into skateboarding 00:44:55.860 |
I'd say I started making pretty good money around 16, 17. 00:45:05.140 |
I'm going to Sharper Image and buying all the gear. 00:45:07.540 |
And at some point my dad gave me the best advice. 00:45:10.940 |
He said, I really think you should put some of that money away. 00:45:15.180 |
As if it's just gonna keep raining down on me. 00:45:23.100 |
you should really save from what you're making here. 00:45:37.740 |
So I lived in my own place as a senior in high school. 00:45:47.020 |
I had one roommate that was also at the same high school. 00:45:49.420 |
We had two older roommates that just had jobs, 00:46:09.560 |
And it was very challenging to stay focused on school 00:46:13.100 |
when I'm already making more than my teachers. 00:46:21.060 |
But I did, mostly because of how important my parents, 00:46:27.700 |
My mom was a teacher at a junior college at the time. 00:46:45.780 |
So a few years later, I bought another property. 00:46:50.940 |
It was a four acre lot here in kind of East San Diego. 00:46:57.980 |
my income started dropping by half, by half every month, 00:47:04.260 |
It was all based on items or products with my name on it. 00:47:26.140 |
I'd taken equity out of it to start a skate company, 00:47:28.940 |
which seems like not the smartest move at a time 00:47:43.060 |
And their popularity was waning, so was skateboarding. 00:47:46.220 |
And I thought, well, I could probably just start a brand 00:47:48.660 |
because it seems like now my career as a skater 00:47:56.300 |
as sort of a team manager, curator, marketer. 00:48:08.100 |
then moved back into the house I was living at 00:48:15.620 |
lived off of Top Ramen, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, 00:48:23.380 |
to have to travel to make ends meet, like Japan, 00:48:32.260 |
- There wasn't childcare at home to help out, 00:48:34.180 |
because if you're eating Top Ramen, it's tough. 00:48:39.500 |
Now are you much more passionate or interested 00:48:43.820 |
- I think I have much more respect for saving money 00:48:48.820 |
and for making sure everyone's taken care of, 00:48:51.820 |
I want them to all forge their own way, for sure. 00:48:53.620 |
But at the same time, we want to be able to know 00:48:56.140 |
that we have a nest egg in case something goes south. 00:48:58.980 |
So my relationship is just that I have much more reverence 00:49:03.100 |
And that I also don't take every single opportunity. 00:49:08.100 |
That's the reason why I had so many relationships 00:49:10.980 |
fall apart too, 'cause I just kept chasing the carrot. 00:49:25.100 |
chasing some dream that I've already realized. 00:49:33.460 |
I can't go to the thing, I can't go to the thing. 00:49:35.260 |
And I think if you pause and reflect for a moment, 00:49:43.780 |
but if there's one thing that your kids can teach you, 00:50:03.820 |
Good luck getting your kids to say thank you, 00:50:09.300 |
But I think it was just that I had gotten so used 00:50:12.180 |
to the hustle of not being successful and all the time, 00:50:30.220 |
- Is there something that you wish you'd known 00:50:34.860 |
that could have gotten you out of that earlier? 00:50:37.580 |
I think it was all so new and fantastical to me 00:50:40.980 |
that I don't think I was gonna listen to a voice of reason. 00:50:51.820 |
- Now I'm just so thankful to still be in the scene 00:51:06.060 |
But just to see it come of age and to be an activity, 00:51:13.660 |
that is super diverse, that is now an Olympic sport. 00:51:21.940 |
cultures, economics, people that get together to skate. 00:51:36.740 |
I'm doing whatever I can to still be an advocate for skating 00:51:46.260 |
And like I said, I do a lot of speaking gigs now, 00:51:48.940 |
which I never imagined would be a way of living 00:51:52.780 |
I say it all the time because when I go to these things, 00:51:55.580 |
I never imagined anyone would pay me to skate. 00:51:57.180 |
So I certainly never imagined that people would pay me 00:51:59.100 |
to talk about skateboarding, but here we are. 00:52:03.820 |
- What's the advice to someone who's passionate 00:52:06.020 |
about a thing that's not necessarily a revenue source 00:52:14.340 |
If you go to work and your work makes you happy, 00:52:20.900 |
And if it's very successful financially, great. 00:52:43.940 |
to follow your passion, not as a job, that's okay. 00:52:52.140 |
And then got a job and just golfs on the weekend 00:52:58.220 |
even pursuing it to some extent can actually take away. 00:53:00.740 |
I don't know if there was ever a moment in your career 00:53:02.060 |
where it was like skating to win competitions 00:53:16.140 |
I've got to learn a couple of new tricks for the event 00:53:18.420 |
because the judges saw my current roster of tricks. 00:53:26.220 |
But it became so formulaic that it really was not fun. 00:53:32.660 |
because skating had become a job and it wasn't fun for me. 00:53:39.780 |
and I was able to really learn a lot of different techniques 00:53:44.820 |
even though I wasn't making a living at it at the time. 00:53:48.780 |
I still had signature skateboards and whatnot, 00:53:56.740 |
You were not going to get career opportunities, 00:54:08.980 |
and with a different approach that was less careful 00:54:29.620 |
And if it works, then it's going to work awesomely. 00:54:37.300 |
it was when skateboarding was starting to take a downturn. 00:54:43.980 |
And all of a sudden it was like, what happened? 00:54:53.300 |
It was kind of like the wrong place at the right time. 00:54:56.140 |
- But you probably wouldn't have had the career 00:55:03.940 |
I was skating more than ever, having fun doing it. 00:55:07.340 |
You know, learning new tricks and learning new techniques. 00:55:09.220 |
It was just that I wasn't doing it in front of crowds 00:55:15.540 |
And I think you did the same with your podcast. 00:55:24.620 |
I never thought I'd be going over countries as episodes. 00:55:28.580 |
I want to talk to someone who knows everything about London. 00:55:38.780 |
it sometimes creates an even better experience. 00:55:44.620 |
we have a lot of experience, obviously skating, 00:55:50.060 |
And when we have guests, especially with non-skating guests, 00:56:05.220 |
And people were like, why would you have them on? 00:56:06.900 |
And then when we started to talk about our experiences 00:56:18.980 |
Those guys take as much abuse as skateboarders. 00:56:32.940 |
but I know there's some cool guests coming down the pike. 00:56:34.780 |
So if anyone's listening and wants to check it out. 00:56:39.780 |
and I feel like now we're starting to hit our stride 00:56:42.940 |
So you're right, it wasn't something that we needed, 00:56:47.180 |
And we did find that we had something unique to offer. 00:56:52.700 |
It was just that we weren't doing all the right things 00:57:07.540 |
especially 'cause I have my childhood skate dreams 00:57:11.460 |
For anyone else listening, where else do you want to send them 00:57:15.540 |
- Well, I'm out there on all the social media 00:57:20.020 |
I think I had to buy one of someone squatted my name 00:57:26.540 |
and that's where I put all of my content out there. 00:57:31.060 |
I think if anything, my energy also is directed 00:57:36.100 |
which is my foundation for public skate parks 00:57:42.420 |
We've helped to fund over a thousand skate parks 00:57:46.500 |
We have a couple of international projects as well. 00:57:54.220 |
I was an outcast kid, I was bullied at school, 00:57:56.820 |
but I found my tribe and my community at the skate park. 00:58:02.300 |
that I grew up skating at was one of the last ones 00:58:08.860 |
And that was never lost on me how lucky I was 00:58:11.180 |
to have that place to go and to have that crew. 00:58:19.940 |
that's what I focused in on was public skate parks. 00:58:22.780 |
- I grew up kind of at the born in the early eighties. 00:58:25.740 |
I was in that kind of dearth of lack of skate parks. 00:58:30.780 |
that lived across the street that had a skateboard. 00:58:34.140 |
- And also that these kids that they find something 00:58:40.860 |
They find something they love and they're mostly told 00:58:43.020 |
that they can't do it 'cause they're trespassing 00:58:47.420 |
- They put things to prevent you from doing it. 00:58:50.020 |
This kid has finally found something that speaks to them. 00:58:56.940 |
So to have those parks, the kids feel like they matter 00:59:06.020 |
we try to empower groups that are already doing it themselves 00:59:20.540 |
that will never end, especially with the red tape 00:59:27.520 |
But we give them the roadmap to do it the right way. 00:59:33.980 |
and possibly funding, that's usually the tipping point 00:59:39.020 |
And so for us, it's empowering those go-getters 00:59:42.420 |
that were trying to do it in the first place. 00:59:45.580 |
So you should all definitely check out the podcast 00:59:48.340 |
but definitely check out the skate park project. 00:59:50.340 |
I wish that it was around 30 something years ago for me. 00:59:55.300 |
Any parting advice for anyone who's looks at you and says, 01:00:05.060 |
My approach always has been to keep improving what I do. 01:00:11.780 |
from trying to do these big spins and these big stunts 01:00:17.540 |
but something that I feel like is progressive. 01:00:19.540 |
And I'm talking about just in terms of physical skating, 01:00:25.300 |
to keep trying to improve what I do, keep evolving, 01:00:29.240 |
listen to other input and glean what you can from them, 01:00:35.140 |
I'm fascinated listening to people who are passionate 01:00:37.860 |
about what they do, whether they're successful or not, 01:00:43.520 |
And a lot of times you can translate that to what you do. 01:00:47.100 |
- Is there a favorite way you consume these stories, 01:00:51.020 |
- For these days, it's actually doing my own podcast 01:00:52.980 |
'cause I like to invite people that I think are fascinating 01:01:02.380 |
who grew up in a Ukrainian orphanage after Chernobyl 01:01:20.260 |
So that's my homework for the flight home today. 01:01:22.260 |
Thank you so much for being here or for having me here. 01:01:24.940 |
- Oh yeah, thanks, this is my home away from home. 01:01:33.420 |
Big thanks to Tony for hosting me in his space 01:01:44.580 |
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