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Chapters
0:0 Intro
0:30 What Ben does well
1:15 Bens stories
2:55 Bens mindset
4:15 Bens relationship with Mike
5:48 How Ben got his discipline
7:59 How to bounce back from bad days
8:38 Shifting perspective
9:46 Reframing
10:50 Social Media
11:27 Being Comfortable
12:27 Being Uncomfortable
13:18 Nicks Motivation
14:30 Champions Create Distance
16:4 Take Days Off
16:57 Do Your Preparation
18:15 Mental Edge
19:6 Honoring Leaders
20:41 Moving On
21:30 Lock In
22:31 Three Habits
24:56 Outtakes
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We are here with another episode of Curious Mike out here in San Diego with my guy Ben 00:00:17.180 |
So, you know, obviously we've known each other for a while. 00:00:19.520 |
I remember meeting you back in Mizzou while I was there for that year. 00:00:24.440 |
But I play basketball and you obviously are in a different field. 00:00:26.780 |
You work with some hoopers, but kind of tell us a little bit about what you do. 00:00:30.000 |
Well, for me, it's all the mental side, right? 00:00:32.640 |
So in business and in sports, it's working with individuals on what it takes to embrace 00:00:38.180 |
And I know this is supposed to be about me, but you talk about the mental side. 00:00:42.000 |
I'm just so proud of everything you've accomplished and how you've embraced the challenge and 00:00:47.980 |
It's helping people embrace challenge and adversity to write their ultimate story. 00:00:52.620 |
And you've had some pretty awesome chapters that have come after adversity. 00:00:56.360 |
And so that's what I work every day with is just helping people embrace that to write 00:00:59.440 |
those next chapters and ultimately their story. 00:01:05.720 |
Do you have any stories from kind of when we met or any stories during our time in Mizzou 00:01:12.440 |
Because you were always around, but I didn't always, obviously you saw everything. 00:01:17.440 |
So first one is, so I was a hooper back in the day, as you know, however, I can shoot 00:01:25.600 |
So I had a couple D3 opportunities, but ended up going to Michigan State to watch them win 00:01:30.840 |
But at being a shooter, I was always impressed with shooters. 00:01:33.920 |
So one of the first things was, I thought when I came to the first practice my first 00:01:38.000 |
day, you were at the top of the key, and you hit 19 straight three pointers. 00:01:42.580 |
And what went through my mind, it wasn't necessarily the 19, it was the number of shots that this 00:01:48.720 |
young man must have taken in order to put yourself in position to hit 19 straight three 00:01:55.360 |
So I always look at work ethic, like what allows somebody to achieve what they achieve. 00:02:01.960 |
And then the second story, which is painful, but the pain is what leads us to our growth, 00:02:14.720 |
And I remember you came up to me in the locker room, and you're like, bro, I don't know if 00:02:24.600 |
And I just admired the fact that you put it on the line for the team that night. 00:02:31.200 |
And you attempted to go out there knowing the pain that you were in. 00:02:35.920 |
But then to come back into battle to when we were playing Tennessee in the NCAA tournament 00:02:45.000 |
And it's one of those things, like you got heart, you got guts, you got fight in you. 00:02:48.560 |
That's why you're achieving what you're achieving. 00:02:52.440 |
It's the hard work, but then it's the mindset that you have. 00:02:54.960 |
That's crazy, because I remember that vividly, too, that game. 00:02:57.880 |
And I remember coming up to you, because I was like, huh, he's such a good speaker. 00:03:04.200 |
What if he could say something to make the pain go away? 00:03:13.800 |
The few days leading up to that game, it was getting worse and worse. 00:03:21.080 |
But I mean, you were in my corner the entire time through the rehab process, then going 00:03:28.080 |
And then our relationship kind of changed, because I reached out to you one day. 00:03:34.480 |
I forget what it was, but I was like, could you just send me messages daily? 00:03:42.400 |
I was like, can you send me messages to encourage me daily? 00:03:45.160 |
And ever since then, every single morning, I wake up to a text from you-- I don't think 00:03:49.800 |
even as one morning-- saying something motivational, something for the day. 00:03:54.640 |
And that's unbelievable, because I mentioned it one time. 00:03:57.140 |
And I know a lot of people, they will, like you talk about it all the time, they'll talk 00:04:00.800 |
the talk, or they'll say, yeah, I'll do this for you, whatever. 00:04:03.460 |
But then they never follow through, or they might feel like a week. 00:04:07.760 |
How did you get that consistency about you, or just that routine? 00:04:12.640 |
I mean, those texts are coming in at 2 or 3 AM. 00:04:16.760 |
My favorite texts are the ones where you say things to me like, bro, what time did you 00:04:26.640 |
I'm driven by embracing your everyday opportunity. 00:04:31.720 |
I mean, I shared it with you guys the first time that I spoke at Mizzou, when Konzo brought 00:04:35.080 |
me in, which was such a blessing, being able to work with you guys that year. 00:04:39.960 |
And my mom passed away 11 days before my eighth birthday. 00:04:43.040 |
My parents were divorced when I was six months old. 00:04:45.440 |
So all I've ever known is challenge and adversity. 00:04:49.440 |
My mother passed away at 38 from a rare muscle disease there's still no cure for. 00:04:53.980 |
So every day past 38 has been a gift that God has given me. 00:04:58.960 |
So if I have a blessing of having a relationship with somebody like you, and you ask me to 00:05:03.800 |
help you with something, I'm going to be there to help you. 00:05:07.880 |
And I think the world, unfortunately, there are too many people, as you just referenced, 00:05:12.200 |
they like to talk, but the action tells the real story. 00:05:16.200 |
And so our real relationship comes from, can you call me in a bind, and I'm going to be 00:05:23.760 |
No, no, no, I'm going to be there for you, because that's the relationship that we have. 00:05:28.560 |
And I think there's too many people who talk, rather than driving action and building relationships, 00:05:36.640 |
I mean, those Mizzou days, me now, I know you talk to a lot of teams still. 00:05:41.640 |
But you, personally, as your own individual, how did you get to the point where you were 00:05:45.800 |
making these life habits of-- like, I remember not too long ago, there was a fight. 00:05:59.380 |
How did you get that in you, where you were just-- 00:06:04.640 |
I'm going to tell the people, I sent the text before I went to bed that night. 00:06:12.520 |
And I'm like, I was thinking to myself, I mean, am I going to wake up in an hour and 00:06:19.440 |
So that was one night where I had to do that, because I do have to get some sleep. 00:06:23.760 |
But a lot of the discipline is, it's wanting to maximize every single day, right? 00:06:32.400 |
You fought through all the adversity because you made a choice. 00:06:36.040 |
And oftentimes, it's not the work that the nuggets ask you to do. 00:06:41.880 |
You know, my guy, Messer, I mean, I remember speaking to his team at SIUE when he played 00:06:48.960 |
And, you know, it's the work that you guys put in in the gym. 00:06:52.720 |
And so for me, it's the little things that I've been blessed to have coaches and mentors 00:06:57.620 |
in my life who have helped me understand if you do the little things every day and you 00:07:01.040 |
keep stacking those habits every day, day after day after day, from my nutrition to 00:07:05.240 |
my health, to how I show up for my family and my kids, to how I work. 00:07:09.760 |
If we just take it one day at a time and choose to win one day at a time, you will have success. 00:07:15.040 |
And I think a lot of people, they get so caught up in, "I want the result. 00:07:22.720 |
As opposed to, "Are you willing to do what it takes every day in order to achieve that 00:07:27.240 |
And most people, they don't have that consistency. 00:07:35.920 |
You can't talk about it if you're not doing it. 00:07:38.600 |
I mean, there would be a different level of respect, or maybe we wouldn't be sitting here 00:07:42.920 |
if I didn't show up in my life and have discipline. 00:07:45.200 |
Because how could you and I have a conversation about discipline if I was completely undisciplined? 00:07:49.920 |
There would just be a different level of respect. 00:07:51.640 |
And so I feel like you have to be an example of showing up and doing the things. 00:07:55.560 |
How could I have a conversation with you about discipline if I'm undisciplined? 00:07:59.960 |
So man, I know a lot of people, they want to make these life habits, these new changes, 00:08:06.660 |
So I don't know if you ever have off days, but when people have a bad day or they feel 00:08:13.120 |
like they lost the day, how do you, when you're so driven by a standard and you're putting 00:08:19.600 |
these streaks together, whatever it is, and you have a bad day, how do you kind of bounce 00:08:23.720 |
back from that guilt and not let one bad day turn into, "Oh, I'm going to just give it 00:08:31.400 |
They might do good for a week, and then they fall off for a day, and now it's kind of hard 00:08:39.120 |
For me, it's about the shifting of perspective. 00:08:42.140 |
As tough as it is on the ears, I go back to my mother coming to the dining room table 00:08:46.360 |
with an IV stand while we had 24-hour nursing care in our house, her last year living, to 00:08:51.680 |
ask my older brother Drew and I how our days were at school. 00:08:54.820 |
So if my mother was able to do that, what's really a bad day for me? 00:09:01.680 |
It's our ability to focus on the solution rather than the problem, and I think that's 00:09:11.060 |
I have mentors, so I'm high maintenance, right? 00:09:15.540 |
I have struggles, but I have people there to help me. 00:09:17.940 |
So number one, I think it's acknowledging it's okay to have challenge and adversity. 00:09:21.680 |
I have it all the time, but I have those confidants and individuals that I reach out to who help 00:09:27.260 |
I think anytime we try to manage it alone, that's where we get in trouble. 00:09:30.500 |
That's why I admire when you'll pick up the phone and call me, "Hey, let's talk through 00:09:35.420 |
If you try to do it by yourself, you take it on to the court. 00:09:36.900 |
So my goal in a conversation like that is I want to provide peace of mind for you. 00:09:40.460 |
Let's leave it off the court so you can step on to the court, have intentional focus, lock 00:09:47.020 |
I think, like you said, the ability to reframe is so much more easier said than done, but 00:09:53.740 |
I think a lot of people, especially in today's age, I don't know if it's social media or 00:09:58.180 |
what it is, but they have a hard time with anxiety, like choosing their thoughts. 00:10:03.460 |
Is that kind of like a muscle, like you have to just do it over and over, and then you 00:10:06.740 |
get better at kind of choosing to think positive, or is it just getting off your phone? 00:10:12.340 |
I think this is it for me, kind of getting off my phone, going into quiet space, and 00:10:16.180 |
just sitting, and then kind of changing perspectives, because it's hard. 00:10:18.860 |
Like you say it all the time, eliminate distractions. 00:10:21.700 |
Is that the only way you can really do it, you think? 00:10:25.620 |
You've identified, "I have to put my phone away if I'm actually going to free my mind." 00:10:29.860 |
So most people know, "You should probably put your phone away," and then what do most 00:10:35.260 |
So you've identified, "Okay, here's the shift I have to make in my environment if I'm actually 00:10:38.740 |
going to clear my mind," and I think that's common for anyone. 00:10:41.440 |
We all know what we need to do, but do we actually choose to do the things we know we 00:10:46.000 |
need to do to have a clear mind to perform, or to give ourself that peace, or to be able 00:10:52.620 |
We always say, for a lot of people that struggle with social media use or whatever, "When I 00:10:57.460 |
get off social media, I feel the best I've ever felt," but then we always kind of end 00:11:01.020 |
up going back to some of the destructive things in our life. 00:11:06.020 |
I know there's a quote that says, "A lot of times we are more afraid of our true light 00:11:14.340 |
We feel more comfortable kind of in our old bad habits and the things we used to do," 00:11:19.540 |
which is kind of a crazy thought, you know what I mean? 00:11:21.920 |
Some people are so ... It's actually hard for them to evolve and become their better 00:11:34.660 |
It's hard to do something repeatedly over and over and over again. 00:11:39.660 |
There's a point when you train, you're going to reach a wall, and people's greatest growth 00:11:44.780 |
comes when you push through that wall, and then when that uncomfortable becomes comfortable, 00:11:49.220 |
then it's the choice, "Can I get to uncomfortable again?" 00:11:54.060 |
It's that constant pursuit of being uncomfortable. 00:11:56.340 |
When most people just want to stay comfortable, they reach a point of being content. 00:12:01.500 |
I know these types of conversations, it's hard for people sometimes. 00:12:04.140 |
They're like, "Oh my goodness, this is kind of freaking me out a little bit," but we all 00:12:09.060 |
have it in us in order to get to that place, but you have to choose to go there. 00:12:13.220 |
Once you test yourself, you realize what you have. 00:12:19.280 |
That confidence shows up in all areas of your life, and it just feels good. 00:12:22.980 |
If you're not doing what you know you need to do to feel good, that doesn't feel good, 00:12:28.580 |
Yeah, so you said on the way here, you woke up at 1 o'clock to get your workout in because 00:12:37.500 |
When you went to go speak in Orlando, so I actually ... I think you brought that up one 00:12:42.600 |
time about being uncomfortable, and I actually took that and I tried to apply it to my ... I 00:12:46.220 |
hate cold tubs, so I was like ... You sent me a text one time and you were like, "Uncomfortability," 00:12:52.620 |
or whatever the word is, "Speeds up the process of mental toughness," and so I took that and 00:12:56.940 |
I was like, "I'm going to try to make myself as uncomfortable as I can be in my workouts 00:13:01.900 |
or my recovery," whatever it is, and it really is true. 00:13:06.820 |
When you push yourself, even in the weight room, if you throw on to where you can barely 00:13:13.320 |
lift it when it's uncomfortable, that's how you really get stronger, you know what I'm 00:13:22.180 |
When you were coming back from your rehab, I remember when I would come for lifts and 00:13:27.260 |
Nick is pushing everybody, as he always does, keeping everybody uncomfortable, and I remember 00:13:31.180 |
you had the iPad tracking everybody, but you were still getting a little bit in, and I 00:13:35.420 |
knew there was something special about your ability to stay uncomfortable when you'd grab 00:13:39.180 |
some weights, and even though you probably weren't supposed to be doing it, you're like, 00:13:45.020 |
It was a choice for you to push yourself there. 00:13:47.180 |
It was a choice for you to get inside the cold tub. 00:13:49.340 |
What a lot of people don't realize is those little decisions and choices. 00:13:52.860 |
My mother taught me the greatest life lesson I've ever learned before she passed away. 00:13:57.620 |
It's how you choose to live your life, and most people don't realize when you choose 00:14:01.700 |
to get in the cold tub, you're manufacturing a 35-point game, right? 00:14:07.700 |
When you eat right, and I know how important nutrition is to you because I used to make 00:14:11.240 |
smoothies for you in the weight room, too, right? 00:14:16.480 |
You're manufacturing, by eating right, a 32-point game, a 17-rebound night, a new contract that 00:14:23.780 |
So all those little things manufacture, but most people aren't willing to consistently 00:14:29.540 |
It's gotten to the point, like you said, I don't even feel ... I don't feel comfortable 00:14:33.820 |
now unless I'm uncomfortable, and you're probably the same way. 00:14:36.700 |
Unless you see the growth every day, you're not going to feel like yourself. 00:14:42.820 |
You text it to me every Friday, "Champions create distance on Fridays." 00:14:48.440 |
So that came from ... All my work actually started corporately. 00:14:51.900 |
So my speaking, I've been doing this for 15 years. 00:14:54.320 |
So everything was corporate from '06 until 2011, until my old high school basketball 00:15:01.220 |
His name is Todd Basler, and he said, "Benny boy," he still calls me Benny boy to this 00:15:05.780 |
day, "Benny boy, these guys are underperforming. 00:15:10.740 |
And they were playing Parkway Central, Central was ranked 10th, Ledoux was unranked, and 00:15:15.820 |
I came and I fired these guys up, and they knock off Parkway Central, and I'm hooked. 00:15:21.620 |
So then it became the sports analogies and business kind of blending it together. 00:15:25.500 |
And then it just hit me, I think I've been saying it for eight or nine years now, it's 00:15:28.180 |
every Friday, "Champions create distance on Fridays." 00:15:33.220 |
If we're talking about an eight to five, they show up, I can't wait to clock out, they're 00:15:36.980 |
already thinking about the weekend, and then they get to Saturday, and they're so disappointed 00:15:41.380 |
in themselves that they didn't work on Friday, which then creates stress for Monday. 00:15:46.220 |
Yet the highest performers say, "If today's a work day, I'm going to attack that work 00:15:49.800 |
day, I'm going to create distance from the people, maybe that's creating a promotion." 00:15:58.020 |
And so champions tend to do the little bit extra when other individuals stay content 00:16:05.100 |
It's crazy because people will take those days off, those Fridays, Saturdays, Sundays. 00:16:11.420 |
Or even in basketball, like I've noticed this. 00:16:13.820 |
If I take two days off on the weekend, you come back and you lost a little bit of the 00:16:20.100 |
So even if you go in for a little bit, touch shots, feel the ball, you're going to retain 00:16:24.540 |
some of the stuff you worked on through the week. 00:16:26.020 |
But if you just take the whole weekend off, at least for me, I can't, I don't come back 00:16:37.980 |
So if you're just consistent every day, that's the way to do it. 00:16:42.900 |
For this conversation, all I had to do was go through our text and I got stuff I wanted 00:16:47.500 |
So another one you talk about is no undue pressure. 00:16:51.020 |
And you text me this before games, you'll say, "Eliminate distractions and no undue 00:16:58.980 |
When you step onto the court, the last thing I want you thinking about is, "I have to 00:17:08.300 |
That's thinking about the result that you cannot control. 00:17:11.360 |
If you do your preparation, which we know how hard you work off the court in those unseen 00:17:15.340 |
hours as our guy Drew Hamlin likes to say, in those unseen hours, then you're prepared 00:17:26.860 |
You just need to play loose, attack those 48 minutes, give it everything that you've 00:17:36.740 |
Eliminate all distractions so there's peace of mind when you get onto the court. 00:17:42.180 |
Times where things are challenging, your mind's racing a little bit. 00:17:45.340 |
When we can quiet the mind, it allows you to attack at your highest level. 00:17:50.620 |
The freer you are, the higher you can perform if you've put in the work beforehand. 00:17:56.100 |
That's the key, though, if you've put in the work. 00:17:58.740 |
Because once the game starts, you can look the man across from you, and if you know he 00:18:03.300 |
hasn't prepared, you can see it in his eyes, you will have 35 points because I will attack 00:18:07.940 |
every possession, you're not going to stop me tonight because I can see in your eyes 00:18:13.420 |
And that's a massive advantage that you can have as an athlete. 00:18:15.220 |
Man, especially at this level because it's all about, at the NBA level, it's not about 00:18:22.420 |
There's more skilled players than others, but it's way more about who has the mental 00:18:27.660 |
And that only comes from the work you put in. 00:18:29.900 |
I remember my rookie year, people were like, "Yo, why is he shooting that shot, this, that?" 00:18:34.660 |
It's because I knew I shot that shot way more times than anyone else on the court was putting 00:18:41.660 |
So you just feel more confident in yourself, and that's the way to do it. 00:18:46.420 |
You just came out with a book, bro, Oncoming Leadership. 00:18:49.980 |
You talk about the way the best leaders lead. 00:18:52.900 |
Talk about that, because you're obviously a leader of leaders, you know what I'm saying? 00:18:56.380 |
You talk to a lot of people, help a lot of people. 00:19:00.940 |
Do you think it needs to be vocal, by example, what are your biggest things? 00:19:09.220 |
So I wanted to honor 11 leaders that have impacted my life, because the blessing in 00:19:13.460 |
my work is you can say these things, I've helped you, you inspire me, right? 00:19:19.660 |
Your work every day, you fighting through challenge and adversity, when I see pain in 00:19:22.900 |
your eyes, but you fight through it, that inspires me, right? 00:19:27.300 |
So I wanted to honor 11 people that have impacted my life, how I show up, and 11 amazing leaders 00:19:33.580 |
And there's five things that they had in common. 00:19:35.820 |
Number one, they do what I call the unrequired. 00:19:37.860 |
They're willing to do that little bit extra, like we talk about. 00:19:40.980 |
Everybody knows what's required for you to win the day, to be your best, but the individuals 00:19:45.100 |
who do that little bit extra, they're the ones, a little bit extra every day, you keep 00:19:50.500 |
stacking those days, makes a profound difference. 00:19:57.480 |
So for me, when I wake up, I think about my mother every single day, literally on my phone, 00:20:01.540 |
my alarm on my phone, it says my mother's name, Jan Fishman Newman. 00:20:07.020 |
I have a little journal, I write Jan Fishman Newman like every morning, right? 00:20:11.180 |
And that's what the highest performers do, they connect to that burn. 00:20:14.420 |
They also live to the standard, they don't allow their feelings to dictate how they show 00:20:20.420 |
So if I were to text you before a game, oh, you went for 35 last night, go do it again. 00:20:24.700 |
We're living in the past of your feelings, as opposed to, same thing, nothing changes, 00:20:29.940 |
no undue pressure, eliminate distractions, one possession at a time, just go cut loose 00:20:35.860 |
So that's a standard that you've created for you to have the right mindset when you step 00:20:41.340 |
- Yeah, I wanna pause you right there, 'cause Giannis, I think he is a professional at doing 00:20:49.660 |
It doesn't matter if they play good, bad, whatever, they're not thinking about that 00:20:54.980 |
If they have 50 points, they're not getting too high, 'cause then it's gonna affect how 00:21:00.740 |
I know a lot of athletes, they'll have a good game, but then they'll be really high for 00:21:05.020 |
a second, but then they're kinda scared for the next game, because like, I gotta outdo 00:21:08.540 |
what I just did, or match it, and then they end up tripping or not having a good game. 00:21:13.060 |
But like you said, when you can move on from that previous performance, or maybe, you know, 00:21:17.660 |
be happy, but then once you go home, you sleep, wake up the next day, it's all over again, 00:21:24.180 |
That, I feel like, is a big key for athletes to be consistent in their performances. 00:21:31.460 |
- And that goes to the fourth principle, which is to lock in. 00:21:34.400 |
You gotta lock in consistently, it's not occasionally. 00:21:36.660 |
So you now understand, you have to be happy for yourself, right, I mean, you had a great 00:21:40.900 |
game, team wins a game, great team effort, great contribution, but the next day you gotta 00:21:46.500 |
And that's what the greatest champions do, you just said it, you gotta go back to work 00:21:52.060 |
- And then the last thing, it's a transfer of belief. 00:21:53.300 |
They believe in themselves, and they believe in the individuals around them, right? 00:21:57.540 |
So there's a great belief you have in yourself, right, 'cause for all of us, I always say, 00:22:02.620 |
you know, everything you need is already in you, meaning God gave it to you, but you gotta 00:22:08.060 |
So that's a belief you have, I'm gonna go take this every day, a lot of people don't 00:22:12.480 |
But then you also have an opportunity through your example to lead other people on the team, 00:22:16.380 |
to lead other people in your life, your brothers and sisters and your big, beautiful family, 00:22:19.940 |
right, to be an example, and go take yours too. 00:22:23.380 |
- 'Cause you would do it for 'em, I know how much you love your family, you would do it 00:22:28.060 |
- But the reality is, you gotta take care of yours, but be a great example for them 00:22:32.740 |
And obviously, this is the last question, everyone's not a leader, not everyone can 00:22:37.420 |
do, put in the work like we do, they just don't have it in 'em. 00:22:40.700 |
But if you had, well, I mean, they might, but it's tough, but if you had three things 00:22:44.820 |
you could tell the young people, or that you see the younger generation, three habits they 00:22:48.300 |
could change to kinda improve themselves, you know, people that just wanna get out of 00:22:53.220 |
that rut, you know, that cycle of whatever it is, what would they be? 00:22:57.260 |
I know one for me, at least, I started waking up early, you inspire me, a little bit earlier 00:23:03.160 |
- Don't wake up as early as me, though, you need more sleep. 00:23:05.740 |
- But just a little bit earlier, you know, 6.30 or 7 a.m., before I have to really do 00:23:09.340 |
stuff to get that time to lock in and think, that's a big one for me, what would you say 00:23:15.980 |
- Well, I think morning routine would be one, so we'll steal your answer, 'cause that is 00:23:23.420 |
You know, too many people, they see the fire of life and they run. 00:23:27.020 |
You know, so don't do it by yourself, but have great mentors, have great coaches. 00:23:30.700 |
My basketball coach, who I mentioned earlier, that man has mentored me now for over 25 years, 00:23:36.940 |
he's still one of the biggest blessings in my life, I mean, other books I've written, 00:23:41.060 |
he's a character in books that I've written, I mean, this man has helped mold me, but I 00:23:44.620 |
need him to get through challenge and adversity, right, so don't go into that fire alone. 00:23:49.660 |
And then number three, have great habits, and understand that consistency is not couple 00:23:54.420 |
days in a row here, and then I'm gonna stop, and then a couple good days, no, consistency's 00:24:01.820 |
- Even on the weekends, or do you get a day off? 00:24:04.820 |
- So for me, I have a crazy workout that I do, and today, this morning, was actually 00:24:10.300 |
my 823rd straight day doing this workout, it's 45 minutes, it's 10 different exercises, 00:24:15.660 |
it's 250 air squats unbroken, planking for almost 10 minutes, all these crazy things, 00:24:21.500 |
but I do that 'cause I'm an old man, I gotta keep up with you and try to stay fresh with 00:24:27.940 |
I don't necessarily recommend that to anybody, but for me, I will share with you, I feel 00:24:31.740 |
great, I'm a 42-year-old man, I haven't had any injuries in 823 straight days, so I'm 00:24:37.500 |
not saying that's the answer for everybody, go consult your physician, but I think to 00:24:40.980 |
get your body moving, it makes you feel good, it makes you confident, so all the habits, 00:24:46.300 |
whether it's your working out, whether it's being present and focused with your family, 00:24:50.380 |
whether it's getting your work in, we can all choose to focus on what's gonna make us 00:24:57.140 |
You motivate me. I know a lot of people watching this. They got a lot of wisdom today. I appreciate you being on Curious Mike 00:25:25.340 |
No five three come on give me two more go last one