back to indexHow Do You Stop Stressing About Money?
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0:0 Intro
3:10 Utilizing a HELOC
8:30 Saving for a large expense
13:45 Managing emotions while saving
20:7 Reinvesting interest income
23:40 Selling assets for a downpayment
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to their peers, other people, not our audience. 00:00:28.480 |
Every week, we get emails from people who diligently 00:00:30.080 |
save their money, improve their career prospects. 00:00:36.600 |
These people are in a great place financially, 00:00:41.200 |
because you have this uncertainty we're dealing with. 00:00:44.680 |
Every year, I feel like I learn more and more, 00:00:49.080 |
So that's what we're doing here at The Compound. 00:00:53.480 |
- Sure, I learn every week. - Our email here, 00:01:10.980 |
So this one, much like the Bird Dog shorts and pants 00:01:20.880 |
but in the summer, I'm out on the lake, I'm at the beach. 00:01:25.280 |
with the kids and the boat, and it's a lot of wind. 00:01:29.560 |
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I do look like I'm going for a golf game after this. 00:02:06.240 |
But if you're gonna do golf or tennis or something, 00:02:10.200 |
- Yeah, you look like you're heading out to the courts 00:02:26.880 |
your intro just made me think, for people new here, 00:02:29.080 |
I guess we never really explained the setup of this show. 00:02:32.640 |
I have people sometimes reach out and I'm like, 00:02:49.840 |
We needed someone to help us make our videos look better 00:02:53.080 |
And Duncan is on the production side of things, so. 00:03:18.340 |
since purchasing in 2015, but it's a tiny place 00:03:21.600 |
and we want more space for our family of four. 00:03:25.520 |
and given the fact that we love our neighborhood, 00:03:27.480 |
we would rather add a second story than move. 00:03:31.320 |
to cover the $250,000 price our architect is estimating. 00:03:40.940 |
but we need to withdraw the full amount we're eligible for. 00:03:44.420 |
We could begin to pay off the loan immediately 00:04:05.220 |
We have no other debts and don't foresee any windfalls 00:04:07.840 |
or additional income streams in the near future. 00:04:10.520 |
Obviously, the safest choice would be to keep saving 00:04:15.840 |
during the time we'd be getting the most utility 00:04:18.360 |
out of having a bigger home while our kids are still young. 00:04:22.960 |
Is it foolish to max out a HELOC to fund an addition? 00:04:31.480 |
Are there creative solutions we aren't considering? 00:04:33.640 |
So, just before you get into that second to last part, 00:04:37.360 |
maybe explain for people like me that don't understand, 00:04:43.240 |
- Because unless you're doing a cash out refinance, 00:04:57.440 |
So, it's not, again, if you did a cash out refinance, 00:05:01.240 |
But with the HELOC line of credit, that moved. 00:05:11.740 |
This is the whole idea behind taking out HELOC. 00:05:16.740 |
How much would it cost if you're moving to a new house 00:05:24.960 |
I look at this like taking on a 50 or 40 or 60% mortgage, 00:05:33.560 |
It doesn't impact your retirement or emergency fund 00:05:37.240 |
You can pay it off in a reasonable period of time. 00:05:39.600 |
I say, what good is that equity doing sitting in your house 00:05:47.380 |
you obviously wanna stay there for the long haul. 00:05:50.240 |
The whole point of the home equity loan in the first place 00:05:54.840 |
You have this asset that you can borrow against. 00:06:01.220 |
where you can invest and pay it off interest only. 00:06:16.280 |
- Right, so there's no cap to what it could go to. 00:06:18.800 |
- Yeah, so rates could go higher if they keep going up. 00:06:26.520 |
can handle 8% to 9% interest rates for very long, 00:06:30.280 |
but it's possible so that it could take a while longer 00:06:37.960 |
- If rates keep going up, it could keep going up, 00:06:43.000 |
from the time that interest-only period is done 00:06:47.200 |
So, we're talking like a 25-year period to pay it off, 00:06:50.880 |
So, I don't see why you need to get more creative than this. 00:07:04.020 |
is the fact that it's probably gonna cost more 00:07:05.960 |
than you think and it's gonna take longer than you think. 00:07:15.680 |
this was only like a 30, $35,000 project back in the day. 00:07:20.360 |
We talked about this on Animal Spirits this week 00:07:21.680 |
a little bit, and it gives you like a 12, 15, 00:07:30.040 |
but you could use it for a little bit of spending 00:07:32.280 |
if you wanted to shelter from that HELOC rates for a while 00:07:36.800 |
But I highly doubt you'll regret this decision 00:07:39.880 |
in the future, especially if you have a family. 00:07:42.840 |
and you wanna make the house how you want to make it. 00:07:47.520 |
- I mean, the one thing that came to mind for me, though, 00:07:50.480 |
How long is that gonna take to do that addition? 00:07:52.400 |
So if they're really looking to maximize time, 00:07:54.800 |
probably getting into another place would be faster, right? 00:07:58.040 |
But I know they say they like their neighborhood 00:08:01.080 |
- Yeah, and I think this is probably gonna be 00:08:02.840 |
the cheaper route, especially since you're using the equity. 00:08:06.440 |
but you're not borrowing the full amount of a house. 00:08:16.760 |
which again, takes longer than you probably think. 00:08:19.220 |
This is the whole point of these loans in the first place. 00:08:34.360 |
both the roof on my house and a car five years from now. 00:08:41.320 |
I wonder how many know they're gonna need a new roof 00:08:43.200 |
in five years, but that's neither here nor there. 00:08:47.560 |
Five years out feels like an investment no man's land. 00:08:49.980 |
Stocks seem to be a bit risky in that timeframe 00:08:52.360 |
and high interest savings, while attractive now, 00:08:58.560 |
like a target date fund through a robo-advisor 00:09:00.640 |
and having it managed for stock and bond allocations, 00:09:04.960 |
Do you have recommendations for how to allocate savings 00:09:09.280 |
- Google tells me 25 to 30 years for a good shingle, Duncan. 00:09:12.440 |
So maybe they've got the clock winding down here. 00:09:27.960 |
that you had the money, you had the 100 grand right now 00:09:37.760 |
in a five-year treasury, something like that. 00:09:40.640 |
That's a pretty good return for the asset liability match. 00:09:42.940 |
The fact that you're saving money periodically 00:09:46.440 |
it kind of changes the equation a little bit, 00:09:47.860 |
but I think we can still use the five-year time horizon 00:09:49.600 |
to see like, are stocks too risky for this kind of goal? 00:09:54.000 |
This is five-year rolling returns for the S&P 500 00:10:02.800 |
John, next chart for another way of looking at these, 00:10:07.600 |
You can see most returns over a five-year period. 00:10:11.160 |
They don't include inflation and taxes and fees 00:10:25.240 |
the range of returns from worst to best is huge. 00:10:28.200 |
So the worst five-year return ever, down 61%. 00:10:31.600 |
The best five-year return ever, up almost 370%. 00:10:36.480 |
a lot of these five-year windows occurred in the 1930s, 00:10:38.800 |
but even if you look at post-World War II data, 00:10:40.800 |
the worst five-year return was almost a loss of 30%. 00:10:55.600 |
I'm not a big fan of taking a ton of stock market risk, 00:11:02.240 |
And since you're saving this money over time periodically, 00:11:05.720 |
dollar cost averaging in, you have a lower time horizon. 00:11:16.920 |
We've talked about this for three or four years 00:11:22.480 |
Two years, three years, it's like 85% of the time. 00:11:25.460 |
Four years, 87, and we talked about five years, it's like 88. 00:11:32.560 |
I still think that there's just two types of risks 00:11:35.600 |
There's avoidable risks and there's unavoidable risks. 00:11:41.160 |
Bear markets, all these things, you can't avoid those. 00:11:45.600 |
unnecessary levels of stress to your financial life. 00:11:49.160 |
So I do think the idea of maybe a target date or robo-advisor 00:11:57.540 |
The Vanguard 2030 target date fund is $65.35. 00:12:09.920 |
These are the yields for short-term treasuries 00:12:13.800 |
I don't know why you want to overcomplicate things. 00:12:16.480 |
You can earn 4.5% to 5.5% from three-month T-bills 00:12:24.400 |
Sure, they could, especially for T-bills and high yield 00:12:28.160 |
That's a strong possibility in the coming years. 00:12:30.760 |
But you have the ability to lock in higher yields for longer 00:12:33.800 |
now, the first time in, I don't know, 15, 20 years. 00:12:39.720 |
to short-to-intermediate-term financial goals like this. 00:12:44.480 |
Two, I'm not willing to accept much, if any, volatility. 00:12:47.640 |
And three, I don't want the possibility of large losses 00:12:49.800 |
right when I need to spend it at the worst possible time, 00:12:52.360 |
You could have a down 20% month in the stock market 00:13:00.880 |
But I think the downside of not having that money or the money 00:13:08.800 |
Short-term bonds, cash, high-yield savings account, 00:13:17.200 |
It's way easier now to save for a goal like this, 00:13:21.560 |
And talking about the market being difficult to predict, 00:13:24.520 |
after the Nvidia earnings, why is the market down today? 00:13:45.040 |
All right, up next, we have a question from Mike. 00:13:48.360 |
Big fan, haven't missed a single episode since you started, 00:13:54.480 |
I'm 53, with a secure career, and have $1.2 million 00:13:57.400 |
invested across IRAs, Roth IRA, 401(k), and brokerage account. 00:14:01.960 |
I have no debt except a mortgage where my home has approximately 00:14:07.040 |
$200,000 in equity, and I hold six months' expenses in cash 00:14:24.480 |
going to have enough money to retire a little early. 00:14:26.820 |
I don't purchase lavish items, no extravagant mudrooms for me. 00:14:40.980 |
and two is the psychology behind spending money. 00:14:43.200 |
So let's bring in someone who's on the front lines, 00:14:47.720 |
Financial advisor with us at Riddles, Kevin Young. 00:14:52.480 |
Kevin, we get a lot of questions from people, 00:15:02.420 |
want to know when they come to a financial advisor 00:15:06.540 |
And you can never give someone 100% certainty 00:15:11.100 |
But that's the job of being a financial advisor 00:15:13.680 |
in a lot of ways, is managing the emotions as much 00:15:17.740 |
So how do you help people work through these things, where 00:15:20.900 |
they're balancing the need to save and invest 00:15:30.540 |
from people who know something psychologically 00:15:40.580 |
When somebody reaches out to a financial advisor, 00:15:44.140 |
I think it's more about this behavioral aspect 00:15:51.940 |
regardless of maybe what happens in the markets. 00:15:54.900 |
And so for this question, to answer a question 00:15:58.660 |
with a question is, well, how much are you spending? 00:16:01.260 |
Like, if you're planning on spending $40,000 a month, 00:16:11.740 |
So a little bit of it depends on the spending habits 00:16:14.340 |
that you're going to be envisioning yourself having 00:16:16.420 |
in retirement, which that's another really good question, 00:16:19.780 |
because I think a lot of people just imagine, OK, well, 00:16:25.580 |
I like to think about it that, if every day were Saturday, 00:16:40.380 |
that whatever you're doing now, maybe plus 20%. 00:16:43.300 |
And then whatever that number is, sort of the rule of thumb-- 00:16:47.020 |
and I use that term very loosely in financial planning-- 00:16:55.580 |
And so if you do that math and you're around 4% right now, 00:17:05.580 |
is to make sure that, if you are going out and spending 00:17:08.980 |
that money, that you're actually enjoying spending it. 00:17:15.300 |
and you're worried about every single dollar or euro 00:17:19.220 |
that you spend, you're not really enjoying the money. 00:17:22.640 |
So you've got to kind of find that perfect middle ground 00:17:31.540 |
Right, the old Nick Murray quote is, if you're still worried, 00:17:36.760 |
I want to take this extravagant vacation for six weeks 00:17:39.580 |
on the Amalfi Coast, or I want to buy a convertible 00:17:45.060 |
or I want to buy a vacation home or whatever. 00:17:46.980 |
How do you help them work through the finances behind that 00:17:49.900 |
and also the emotions of, like, here's your financial plan. 00:18:05.220 |
So instead of saying, yeah, like, I'm looking at the numbers 00:18:07.940 |
and you should be OK, like, that's not a great answer. 00:18:12.700 |
and just kind of our institutional knowledge here 00:18:15.220 |
to understand, well, how would this impact it? 00:18:17.340 |
And it might just be saying, well, normally, I 00:18:25.820 |
and if everything still looks good and makes sense, 00:18:30.060 |
it gives us the ability to say to that person, yeah, 00:18:34.300 |
And it gives the client the feeling that, hey, like, 00:18:43.620 |
or whoever your financial advisor is saying, yeah, 00:18:45.980 |
you're good, trust me, because that's not a great answer 00:18:51.400 |
or they're just looking for some reassurance that, OK, 00:18:54.580 |
I was worried about this, and I want to do it, 00:19:09.380 |
would agree that one of the actually more challenging 00:19:14.060 |
aspects of our job is getting people to spend money. 00:19:20.300 |
that I've been doing nothing but save, save, save, save, save 00:19:23.580 |
every two weeks into my 401(k) for 35 or 40 years, 00:19:27.020 |
and now you're telling me that I'm not going to make 00:19:34.260 |
So that's what I think we do, and financial advisors 00:19:37.300 |
can help people manage that emotional aspect. 00:19:40.900 |
It's like Ben Graham said, more money, more problems. 00:19:48.660 |
Hey, you gave me the drum chime on "Animal Spirits" this week. 00:20:00.780 |
You always make jokes, and Michael just steamrolls ahead. 00:20:10.140 |
I have a question about what to do with the dividends 00:20:18.900 |
from my state, New York, for the tax-free dividends. 00:20:22.140 |
Does it make more sense to reinvest the dividends 00:20:24.260 |
and buy more shares of the ETF or to allocate the dividends 00:20:27.460 |
elsewhere, given owning more shares of the ETF 00:20:31.500 |
will likely lead to a bigger capital gains tax bill 00:20:36.340 |
This reminds me of something I was pretty late to figuring out 00:20:40.260 |
But when you have drip set up, it can mess up. 00:20:45.980 |
you get out of something, which I'd never really-- 00:20:49.020 |
I'd never thought of until I saw it actually happen in my account. 00:20:51.980 |
I think the spending, getting out and selling or spending, 00:21:06.140 |
No matter what, because when you're setting expectations 00:21:12.740 |
that's the biggest part of the return, is the income. 00:21:15.860 |
So if you're trying to keep things in balance asset 00:21:29.940 |
I'm assuming this person's buying a muni bond ETF. 00:21:32.620 |
Or even if it's just regular muni bonds, it's fine. 00:21:34.900 |
But as you're reinvesting dividends into things, 00:21:43.500 |
or whatever it might be, is rising over that time period, 00:21:54.380 |
You're not reinvesting at the original cost basis. 00:22:00.620 |
is you don't want to let the tax tail wag the portfolio dog. 00:22:06.620 |
So I wouldn't be thinking about capital gains 00:22:14.020 |
of the thing that's going to drive the allocation decision. 00:22:17.140 |
And you're probably not going to have a huge capital 00:22:27.580 |
It's probably going to be relatively slow and steady. 00:22:30.140 |
So the capital gains shouldn't be super significant. 00:22:35.660 |
I mean, I had a call with Bill Sweden, a client this morning. 00:22:40.260 |
He said, if there's a hierarchy, investing comes first. 00:22:45.620 |
But that's where you kind of improve on the margins. 00:22:52.740 |
would have all their money in municipal bonds. 00:23:01.140 |
of whether it's a bond ETF, or an individual bond, 00:23:04.020 |
or a stock, or a stock fund, you're going to pay taxes. 00:23:14.020 |
you're paying taxes on an investment, that means you won. 00:23:35.700 |
You joked, but I think it did just hit a new all-time low. 00:23:41.240 |
I can just judge by the expression on your face 00:23:49.140 |
to work in the finance industry in Manhattan, which 00:23:51.540 |
has allowed me to build up a good cushion of assets 00:23:53.820 |
that I keep in a diversified portfolio and a brokerage 00:23:59.380 |
are you supposed to feel uneasy about liquidating 00:24:01.380 |
a portion of this portfolio for a down payment? 00:24:03.460 |
I understand that real estate becomes the largest 00:24:14.540 |
It's bizarre, because the whole point of saving 00:24:17.820 |
going to spend that money at some time in the future. 00:24:20.020 |
But I think once you start seeing the numbers go up 00:24:22.960 |
and reach different goalposts, you're kind of hoarding this, 00:24:26.020 |
and you're wanting to let go of it less and less. 00:24:35.080 |
if I don't hit this return, I'm going to be upset or whatever. 00:24:41.300 |
If my portfolio is above $1 million, I'm happy. 00:24:46.140 |
Not taking into account spending and all these different things 00:24:53.960 |
even though doing this would be trading one financial asset 00:24:58.080 |
You're essentially rebalancing your personal balance sheet. 00:25:01.060 |
But how do you think through this stuff with people 00:25:03.180 |
when it's, OK, this is a financial goal you've 00:25:07.460 |
And at a certain point, you just have to let go and accept 00:25:10.420 |
that this was the whole point of the goal in the first place. 00:25:14.300 |
I mean, if you're not emotional about a home purchase, 00:25:29.020 |
And yeah, I think what you just said is perfect. 00:25:31.900 |
You probably started saving in this portfolio 00:25:36.140 |
And if the goal was, I'm going to use this money 00:25:38.460 |
to buy a house, this portfolio is just a tool 00:25:48.420 |
is the home purchase something that is the goal? 00:25:50.620 |
Or is it just you feel like you should buy a house 00:25:52.700 |
because that's what people do when they're growing up 00:26:02.520 |
about your financial world being liquid and having 00:26:05.300 |
this portfolio and continuing to pay rent, which right now it's 00:26:08.300 |
not a bad deal, then that might be the right answer. 00:26:12.740 |
Especially in a high cost of living area like Manhattan, 00:26:18.180 |
I think the other thing is you can look at the portfolio value 00:26:21.060 |
change in your brokerage account on a daily basis. 00:26:26.380 |
I guess most people don't think of it that same way as, 00:26:29.340 |
here's the value of my home, and it's worth this much money. 00:26:31.840 |
Because whatever, it's a form of consumption. 00:26:36.300 |
because it's like, well, that's the next logical step. 00:26:43.860 |
No, yeah, you don't have to buy a house just because you 00:26:47.860 |
But the other thing, if this was the whole point of saving 00:26:50.320 |
in the first place, then that's what you want to do. 00:26:53.580 |
And you're going to own this house, or this apartment, 00:27:11.500 |
If you move to a new neighborhood and buy a house, 00:27:15.540 |
that you love the neighborhood, even if you actually secretly 00:27:22.580 |
If you're going to move for remote work or other career 00:27:29.140 |
get to the point of, I don't want to touch my principal. 00:27:33.260 |
And they think if they touch their principal, 00:27:47.820 |
and just live off something besides the income. 00:27:52.740 |
I think the other thing to think about is you can-- 00:27:55.620 |
you might get a lot of joy opening your portfolio 00:27:58.540 |
and seeing it up, or seeing, oh, great, we were up 2% today, 00:28:02.900 |
or we're up 1% today, or I'm up 8% on the year. 00:28:05.560 |
You're not going to get that same emotional kick, 00:28:07.600 |
like you said, pulling into the driveway of your house. 00:28:09.900 |
There's not a ticker symbol floating above your house 00:28:14.220 |
But there's a nice emotional component to that. 00:28:20.820 |
knowing the memories that are going to be made there, 00:28:22.700 |
et cetera, you're not going to get that out of a portfolio. 00:28:25.160 |
Do people check the Zestimate regularly on their house, 00:28:29.780 |
I would bet that people the last couple of years 00:28:34.060 |
than they would have in the previous three years. 00:28:37.620 |
Yes, this is what happens when we get the middle age. 00:28:51.100 |
from all sorts of people who are very financially secure, 00:28:54.220 |
or they have a high income, or they have a lot of money saved. 00:28:57.060 |
And there's just some sort of emotional hurdle 00:29:03.140 |
that sometimes this stuff sounds easier on paper 00:29:09.100 |
Buying a house could be the right answer here. 00:29:15.460 |
But either way, it could be the right answer, 00:29:17.500 |
depending on how they feel in their circumstances. 00:29:23.580 |
And just because it makes sense on a spreadsheet 00:29:25.580 |
doesn't necessarily make sense for you as a person. 00:29:36.380 |
Every week I get a Google Doc sent to me of new questions. 00:29:39.100 |
And it seems like more and more questions every week. 00:29:41.740 |
Or you can email us, askthecompoundshow@gmail.com. 00:29:48.340 |
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