back to indexFull Length Episode | #161 | January 3, 2022
Chapters
0:0 Cal's intro
0:12 How can a freelancer perform deep work?
3:13 Should I follow my skill or my passion?
12:11 How do you manage group projects in college?
16:41 Do you recommend listening to music while doing deep work?
22:21 What do you do when your boss has allocated you to a team “half time”?
26:1 How do you return to time blocking after falling off the wagon?
28:57 How should you think about the Deep Life in retirement?
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Our first question comes from Irfana, who asks, 00:00:13.840 |
The freelancer has to create his personal brand on LinkedIn. 00:00:17.920 |
You know, suppose he's a social media manager, 00:00:26.080 |
of an important phenomenon to discuss briefly, 00:00:33.960 |
And what I mean by single drop social media use 00:00:35.920 |
is the mindset that if there is any social media use 00:00:43.520 |
so something professionally or what have you, 00:00:47.920 |
and you have to check for questions on Facebook 00:00:52.360 |
that if there is any, a single drop of social media use 00:00:56.680 |
then you have to just unrestrictedly use social media 00:01:01.120 |
And that's what I'm sensing in this question, 00:01:04.880 |
there's some stuff you might want to do on LinkedIn. 00:01:06.680 |
Maybe you have a LinkedIn Pulse style newsletter 00:01:10.440 |
and/or you have to keep up on inquiries from people 00:01:17.280 |
but in your mind that small amount of mandated use means, 00:01:20.880 |
I guess I just have to be on social media all the time. 00:01:25.560 |
In fact, this would be the challenge I would give you. 00:01:30.200 |
here's the new law under a penalty of $100,000 fine. 00:01:34.260 |
You are only allowed to be logged into LinkedIn 00:01:47.020 |
Well, first of all, if you were posting content on LinkedIn, 00:02:05.160 |
Maybe you would update your profile to somehow say, 00:02:21.100 |
So you would be absolutely fine in 20 minutes once a week, 00:02:26.600 |
This is the type of exercise I want people to do 00:02:28.840 |
when they think about unavoidable social media use. 00:02:34.200 |
for a very small amount of time, quite infrequently? 00:02:41.240 |
And I think in most cases, the answer would be yes. 00:02:54.440 |
to endlessly lose yourself into those distractions. 00:02:57.980 |
All right, we have a question here from Career Opportunist 00:03:03.600 |
who says, "Are there times where it is worthwhile 00:03:08.760 |
to follow intimations of your career interest, 00:03:12.440 |
even if you take non-trivial cuts in your career capital 00:03:15.040 |
outside of the corner cases you've already mentioned 00:03:29.460 |
who has built up quite a bit of career capital in that role. 00:03:33.640 |
He then goes on to say, "My core interest in college, 00:03:36.920 |
however, were in front-end client-facing work 00:03:44.360 |
I just want to experience building user-facing software 00:03:53.720 |
to become a more proficient backend engineer, 00:03:56.060 |
but it does feel like a less interesting route for me, 00:04:02.100 |
on the opportunities to negotiate lifestyle improvements." 00:04:04.400 |
All right, so I don't have a definitive answer, 00:04:15.240 |
maybe front-end stuff seems more interesting, 00:04:22.040 |
I actually think that's probably the right answer. 00:04:25.120 |
And it might not be the answer you want to hear from me, 00:04:46.000 |
where there's other things going on in your life. 00:05:00.780 |
because again, you've got to that quarter-life stage 00:05:02.720 |
where you found the job, you found the skill, 00:05:04.520 |
you have some stability, you have some ability, 00:05:10.480 |
And in our culture, and especially American culture, 00:05:19.000 |
is going to be the key driver of our satisfaction. 00:05:20.960 |
So when you feel that initial tinge of malaise, 00:05:25.860 |
your culturally trained mind immediately says, 00:05:32.880 |
the content of our work, we would no longer be adrift, 00:05:37.440 |
So maybe it's back-end software is the issue, 00:05:41.560 |
is that I really should be doing front-end software. 00:05:45.540 |
but you'd be back in the same place in a couple of years. 00:05:47.280 |
So now is the time to do lifestyle-centric career planning, 00:05:53.120 |
to that feeling that so many standard knowledge worker types 00:05:58.900 |
but the basics of lifestyle-centric career planning 00:06:28.960 |
commonly just shooting the breeze out on a front porch 00:06:39.240 |
where there's interesting new poetry being done, whatever. 00:06:50.720 |
Am I spending six months a year not even working at all 00:06:53.200 |
and doing other types of things and traveling around? 00:07:18.160 |
and something that really hits those intimations of, 00:07:21.400 |
And then you say, great, what are the paths to get there? 00:07:34.160 |
that pushes all of these right buttons and really resonates. 00:07:37.040 |
And that is where as you enter this quarter-life period, 00:07:40.360 |
Aiming the ship that is your life towards the port 00:07:43.480 |
that is a lifestyle that is deeper, that resonates with you. 00:07:49.220 |
And again, I keep emphasizing different people 00:07:54.080 |
It could look very different depending on the people. 00:07:56.580 |
That's where I'd want you to put your energy. 00:08:08.160 |
because it's easy to take good capital and make it great 00:08:10.520 |
than it is to go from no capital to good capital. 00:08:18.040 |
is almost always gonna be the right thing to do. 00:08:23.560 |
So Good They Can't Ignore You, which you mentioned. 00:08:25.600 |
There was a very similar character in that book. 00:08:31.760 |
This was Lulu, and she was a back-end programmer. 00:08:38.120 |
more like a database programmer designer, but similar idea. 00:08:41.760 |
Not front-end facing, worked for financial sectors. 00:08:47.240 |
she said, "What did I want my life to be like?" 00:08:59.200 |
She was heavily in demand because she was great on this. 00:09:02.840 |
That's roughly enough time to do one or two engagements. 00:09:12.960 |
It was a cool, it's a cool neighborhood outside of Boston. 00:09:15.320 |
They had this cool old house that they were renovating. 00:09:30.720 |
And it was just a really interesting lifestyle. 00:09:36.200 |
And then she said, "What's the best way to get there?" 00:09:40.440 |
I can wield that to get where I want to get." 00:09:42.720 |
So that is what I'm going to suggest for opportunities 00:09:44.520 |
is do the lifestyle-centric career planning thinking 00:09:47.320 |
and work backwards to say, "How do I get there?" 00:09:56.240 |
will tell you almost certainly take the skill 00:09:59.080 |
you have out for a spin and use it to build a cool life. 00:10:01.400 |
It might tell you, however, when you do this, 00:10:04.560 |
that's front-end facing and you live kind of cheap 00:10:07.760 |
So maybe it would put you to front-end facing work, 00:10:09.760 |
but it would be pushing you there for a reason. 00:10:13.400 |
This is part of a big picture, not just an instinct 00:10:21.320 |
just as an intriguing intellectual challenge, 00:10:25.120 |
even if this exercise has you stick with back-end programming 00:10:43.760 |
build it around something you're really interested in. 00:10:46.680 |
Like you're some sort of super fan of "The Matrix" 00:10:56.840 |
You're a super fan of "The Matrix" or something like this, 00:11:01.720 |
I'm not good with this, "Dungeons and Dragons" or something. 00:11:06.080 |
Like, okay, build it about something interesting, fun, 00:11:08.040 |
a community that you get some depth out of, whatever it is, 00:11:12.800 |
All right, so that's a long answer to a short question 00:11:14.520 |
because I really wanted to get to that bigger point, 00:11:16.600 |
which is I'm increasingly a big believer in this idea 00:11:20.440 |
that stage one of your career is figuring out 00:11:24.120 |
how to be a adult in the world who's dependable 00:11:27.320 |
and gets things done and starts to develop a real skill, 00:11:37.200 |
And then stage three is actually probably gonna be 00:11:41.800 |
it's gonna be much more about yourself and self-discovery. 00:11:50.840 |
So that's my advice, lifestyle-centered career planning, 00:11:56.800 |
All right, we have a question here from Groupmate. 00:12:07.560 |
"How do you effectively manage group projects in college?" 00:12:16.920 |
group projects in college are pretty hit or miss, 00:12:24.200 |
'cause you're a Cal Newport type, you are organized, 00:12:27.440 |
and therefore you basically end up doing a lot more work 00:12:38.520 |
You actually wanna plan your work out in advance, 00:13:20.080 |
who wanted to be in problem-set groups with me 00:13:23.440 |
because they would get all the right answers. 00:13:34.120 |
and these were the students I would come back to 00:13:38.240 |
and it made these problem-set groups really effective. 00:13:41.400 |
I actually got a note like a year or two ago. 00:13:46.120 |
but it was a group mate I worked with in a lot of courses 00:13:50.280 |
and he came across on my writing or something recently. 00:14:04.960 |
the most organized people you can when you can. 00:14:13.560 |
I'm not a big fan of group projects in college, 00:14:28.740 |
Rodrigo asks, "Do you recommend listening to music 00:14:40.340 |
What I always tell people when they ask about this 00:14:43.880 |
is that music can help you drown out other distractions 00:15:03.360 |
you might actually find it a little bit distracting, 00:15:05.640 |
but after a while, your brain learns to filter it out 00:15:20.760 |
I interviewed years ago who had four kids at home. 00:15:24.720 |
It was a very noisy home, and he had to work there, 00:15:32.640 |
And what he did in the end was got NASCAR-style headphones. 00:15:42.880 |
is you wear these really insulated headset headphones, 00:15:47.080 |
but you want the audio of the commentary playing. 00:15:53.720 |
into these heavily insulated headphone speakers. 00:15:56.240 |
So there was literally no sound from his kids. 00:15:59.000 |
And I have three kids, so I can attest to this. 00:16:03.240 |
eliminate the sound of your kids from your life 00:16:05.680 |
if they're home and you are trying to work at home. 00:16:15.840 |
If I tried this now, it would be incredibly distracting. 00:16:24.280 |
It would actually probably be pretty effective. 00:16:28.100 |
All right, let's do one more question about deep work. 00:16:46.420 |
"I worked full-time on one team for my current employer. 00:16:50.360 |
My boss has decided that we need to start on a new effort 00:16:55.600 |
We were supposed to spend half our time on this new project 00:16:59.480 |
but I feel like I'm still allocated 100% to both teams now. 00:17:08.760 |
Ask your boss specifically which half of my hours 00:17:28.520 |
and the hours in which I'm working on team B, 00:17:30.400 |
and I am going to completely segregate these two efforts. 00:17:40.540 |
as opposed to mixing them together in one job, 00:17:45.040 |
If you want to have a meeting related to team A, 00:17:49.040 |
If you want a meeting having to do with team B, 00:18:19.820 |
a real issue we have is this push model of work allocation, 00:18:25.700 |
where anyone can push work onto anyone else's plate 00:18:39.860 |
There's no one looking at how much is on your plate. 00:18:43.620 |
So we end up with way too much work on our plate. 00:18:47.140 |
Can't make progress on all of it at the same time. 00:18:49.060 |
So that is stressful, but it's not just stressful. 00:18:51.460 |
Each of these things that's now on your plate 00:18:53.780 |
brings with it some amount of fixed overhead. 00:18:57.620 |
Emails about that work with people checking in, 00:19:06.140 |
the fixed overhead itself can take over most of your hours, 00:19:24.500 |
Does it make sense to give you something else? 00:19:37.340 |
where any amount of work can be pushed towards you. 00:19:50.060 |
'Cause what you're doing here is actually forcing work 00:19:57.300 |
Well, where are the hours where this is gonna get done? 00:20:09.100 |
And honestly, I think there should be a bigger effort 00:20:14.460 |
I wrote about this in "A World Without Email," 00:20:37.200 |
Here they are on my calendar when I'm working on this. 00:20:47.540 |
because there's all these people that want you to do things. 00:20:49.460 |
Like I know your hours are full, but this is important, 00:20:54.940 |
And less of these requests are allowed to be generated. 00:20:57.560 |
And more of these requests generating entities 00:21:00.380 |
have to figure out other ways to get their work done. 00:21:15.560 |
It's like running a car factory where everyone comes in 00:21:20.300 |
and you just say, "Guys, there's a bunch of parts 00:21:29.820 |
Or if it does, the cars are gonna get built terribly 00:21:37.700 |
Mr. S, if your boss wants you to spend 50/50, 00:21:45.040 |
They're now hours he cannot get you to do work for team A 00:21:49.220 |
And if he wants to put another thing on your plate, 00:22:02.860 |
So let's move on now to some questions about the deep life. 00:22:14.240 |
"but how do I avoid feeling like it's redundant? 00:22:18.060 |
"Sometimes I don't need to change things around 00:22:24.340 |
"and then two days, the next thing you know, it's a week." 00:22:31.360 |
of falling off the habit of daily time block planning 00:22:36.360 |
and how that can snowball to many days without it. 00:22:39.860 |
Typically, it's a sign that you're overworked. 00:22:43.160 |
There's too much going on, your mind is exhausted. 00:22:47.020 |
So I think it's actually an important signal. 00:22:50.800 |
that maybe we need to pull back on commitments 00:22:53.440 |
so that the amount we're doing each day is less 00:22:57.660 |
Your mind needs time off and it's getting it informally 00:23:02.380 |
by just refusing, mentally speaking, to do any planning. 00:23:06.140 |
The thing I'm gonna recommend that you do persist with, 00:23:20.900 |
There's certain key metrics I write in there every day. 00:23:28.380 |
and you just do it at the end of the day, right? 00:23:33.840 |
of I am being intentional, I'm keeping track of my life. 00:23:40.060 |
in my living altogether, even though it only takes 20 seconds 00:23:42.120 |
and even if what you're writing down is really bad. 00:23:44.900 |
So if there's things you track, like, did I read today? 00:23:50.700 |
you're writing that down saying that you didn't do it. 00:23:53.300 |
Bad or not bad, that is like a bare bones fallback plan 00:23:57.580 |
even if I'm not getting around to my time block planning. 00:24:06.940 |
so I have the very basic behavior, the metric tracking, 00:24:10.780 |
so you never leave the mindset of I control my life 00:24:13.160 |
and I care about what's happening in my life, 00:24:16.100 |
And then two, if you're consistently skipping time blocking, 00:24:19.220 |
take that as a signal that you have too much going on. 00:24:24.380 |
You need a day off, you need earlier shutdowns, 00:24:26.620 |
you need to take three things off your plate. 00:24:31.340 |
not a sign that you're doing something wrong. 00:24:37.660 |
Patrick asks, how would you approach including 00:24:48.420 |
Well, if it's during the actual hours of your workday, 00:24:54.500 |
but before you do your shutdown ritual for the day, 00:24:59.020 |
You just time block it like any other thing you would do. 00:25:02.220 |
In fact, time blocking it allows you to find the best times 00:25:05.060 |
for scheduling this non-work related activity. 00:25:08.940 |
You have some control over where that's gonna fall, 00:25:18.940 |
where I'll just block off a time for book reading. 00:25:22.000 |
The other thing you can do is to shut your days down 00:25:26.180 |
So I can end my day at 3.30, full schedule shutdown complete, 00:25:28.880 |
3.30 to 5.30, I'm doing my leisure activity I'm really into. 00:25:34.980 |
where other people are working, but you're done 00:25:37.540 |
because you're organized and you're in control, 00:25:40.500 |
and you can end that day early without it being a crisis 00:25:57.640 |
Patrick says, "How do you structure your time 00:26:03.500 |
I wonder if this is the same Patrick as before. 00:26:16.580 |
but some of his leisure activities are related to his work. 00:26:26.380 |
So he's reading philosophy and trying to write 00:26:31.260 |
He's also taking some MOOCs, massively online courses, 00:26:39.140 |
after he does schedule shutdown and complete. 00:26:43.660 |
and tries to eat healthy foods and reads a lot. 00:26:47.020 |
And he's trying to figure out, here's what he says. 00:26:49.900 |
"As you can see, some of these leisure activities 00:26:51.320 |
"are also work-related, although not that closely. 00:26:54.680 |
"I emphasize that I enjoy doing these activities. 00:26:57.060 |
"Do you think this is a sustainable approach, 00:26:58.380 |
"or do I need to focus more on another bucket of my life?" 00:27:01.340 |
All right, so basically, Patrick, you have a cool job, 00:27:05.200 |
and you have a lot of things you're interested in, 00:27:08.420 |
between the things you're interested in and your job. 00:27:18.020 |
and just leaving more time free in your schedule. 00:27:20.220 |
You're doing nothing because you're being energized by this. 00:27:22.380 |
What I would, I think what I would moderate here 00:27:35.820 |
versus here is something I'm going to do right now 00:27:41.140 |
But it would be no problem if I didn't do it. 00:27:47.860 |
because I want to be a better science writer. 00:27:49.140 |
I'm reading this book because I'm interested in the topic. 00:27:51.980 |
I have a hobby AI project I'm monkeying around with 00:27:58.120 |
I think it's fine to have a bunch of stuff like that, 00:28:01.300 |
that you're using to free up, to fill up your leisure time, 00:28:04.700 |
because it's not gonna cause stress if it's not commitments. 00:28:10.260 |
if you know that you can put the break down as needed. 00:28:20.600 |
it's not a big deal if you stop reading the book. 00:28:27.620 |
the academic projects you're working on, the mentoring, 00:28:30.900 |
and you have no options, keep that reasonable. 00:28:45.540 |
filling your time with things that you can pause as needed 00:28:49.820 |
is I think completely fine if you find that energizing. 00:28:53.480 |
All right, we have a question here from Jenny. 00:28:58.360 |
Jenny says, "How do you suspect that you're thinking 00:29:00.300 |
"about living a deep life will change in retirement?" 00:29:12.820 |
my general framework for thinking about the deep life 00:29:20.160 |
as you shift from full-time work to retirement. 00:29:22.500 |
The decisions and activities that this framework generates 00:29:28.740 |
as you shift from full-time work to retirement. 00:29:31.020 |
So just as a reminder, my framework for the deep life says 00:29:34.580 |
you identify the buckets that are important to you 00:29:37.260 |
and your life and your vision of a life well-lived 00:29:39.220 |
and you give each of these buckets independent attention. 00:29:45.060 |
and then you overhaul that part of your life. 00:29:46.820 |
And so you make sure that you're seeing holistically 00:29:49.380 |
all the elements of your life that are important 00:29:50.940 |
and that you're giving intention to each of those 00:29:52.660 |
and making sure that they have a expression in your life 00:30:00.940 |
It just changes what you're doing in some of those buckets. 00:30:04.700 |
In particular, you have what I call the craft bucket, 00:30:09.500 |
That's gonna look a lot different after retirement. 00:30:13.740 |
producing things of value, skill is still important, 00:30:16.380 |
but you'll probably then be pushing that part of your life 00:30:23.020 |
And the other buckets of your life remain unchanged, 00:30:28.940 |
the day before you retired in those other buckets, 00:30:32.860 |
Your constitution bucket for your health and wellbeing, 00:30:36.740 |
Community, what you're doing with your friends and family 00:30:44.080 |
Contemplation, thinking through philosophical 00:30:46.260 |
or theological issues is just as important before and after. 00:30:49.100 |
So I think if you're living with this bucket-based approach 00:30:53.540 |
it will be a seamless transition to retirement. 00:31:06.800 |
All right, I think we have time for one more question. 00:31:19.980 |
You ask, "Which habits are needed to be an MVP 00:31:48.680 |
This won't necessarily get you there, but they're necessary. 00:31:50.680 |
So at the very least, you'll have to do these three things. 00:31:55.640 |
and by read, I mean you do the work to keep up 00:31:58.380 |
with the latest literature in your particular specialty. 00:32:06.740 |
in the topics you study and mastering their techniques. 00:32:17.820 |
Trying to figure out what academics is doing is hard. 00:32:30.720 |
And when you finish one thing, you move on to the next. 00:32:36.360 |
put into their research is typically much bigger 00:32:54.100 |
And then three, you attach yourselves to stars. 00:32:59.940 |
you have to be training under MVP caliber people. 00:33:04.940 |
It's very difficult to break up to a higher level 00:33:11.740 |
There's a reason why star academics are stars. 00:33:19.260 |
So you have to work with the very best people. 00:33:25.200 |
There's raw brain power and luck play a big role in this. 00:33:39.300 |
and how much of it is the training you've done 00:34:07.620 |
Like I'm gonna do a postdoc at the, wherever. 00:34:27.140 |
Like what you're doing is really, really useful. 00:35:11.340 |
And it's a focused, intense, deep work effort every day, 00:35:19.540 |
You could probably only do four hours of this a day