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Arianna Huffington: Thrive Global and the Huffington Post | Take It Uneasy Podcast


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0:0 Introduction
0:50 Meaning of life
2:30 Mortality
4:48 Failure
7:34 Elon Musk and singular obsession
11:13 Politics and journalism
18:43 Family, love, and ambition

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00:00:00.000 | The following is a conversation with Arianna Huffington.
00:00:03.080 | She's the founder of the Huffington Post in 2005
00:00:06.260 | and the founder and CEO of Thrive Global in 2016.
00:00:10.200 | She's the author of 15 books,
00:00:12.160 | most recent to being Thrive and Sleep Revolution,
00:00:15.280 | both international bestsellers.
00:00:17.520 | These books explore how to both work hard
00:00:20.660 | and keep a lifestyle that seeks well-being,
00:00:22.600 | wisdom and wonder.
00:00:24.400 | We got a chance to sit down for this quick chat
00:00:26.240 | after a conference we both spoke at
00:00:28.400 | and got right into the big topics of mortality,
00:00:31.480 | obsession, meaning, happiness and love.
00:00:35.280 | This conversation is part of the Take It Uneasy podcast.
00:00:38.560 | If you enjoy it, subscribe on YouTube, iTunes
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00:00:43.560 | at Lex Friedman spelled F-R-I-D.
00:00:46.200 | And now here's my conversation with Arianna Huffington.
00:00:50.040 | You tell a story of getting recognition for your first book,
00:00:54.240 | The Female Woman, when you were 23 and sitting in a hotel
00:00:57.880 | and wondering is this all there is?
00:01:00.440 | The old question of meaning and purpose.
00:01:05.080 | So now, just a couple of few years later,
00:01:08.240 | let me ask from your perspective now,
00:01:10.840 | what is the purpose?
00:01:12.760 | What is the meaning of life?
00:01:14.160 | - Well, if you believe as every major philosophy
00:01:23.360 | and every major spiritual tradition argues
00:01:28.360 | that life does not end with death,
00:01:31.320 | but that there is another dimension of consciousness,
00:01:36.840 | then clearly a full life, a meaningful life
00:01:41.320 | includes exploring that dimension.
00:01:43.800 | And for me, that exploration has been part of my life
00:01:49.700 | from my teenage years.
00:01:53.160 | I went to Shantaniketan University in India
00:01:57.600 | when I was 17 to study comparative religion.
00:02:00.880 | And I always wanted to understand what life was about
00:02:05.880 | because I never believed that all this whole experiment
00:02:11.040 | ends with each individual death.
00:02:13.960 | So that's for me at the heart of my life.
00:02:18.400 | I mean, I've always been very active with books,
00:02:22.760 | with The Huffington Post, now with Thrive Global,
00:02:24.960 | but that's been an underlying dimension
00:02:27.440 | that I think gives real meaning to life.
00:02:29.920 | - So mortality is a really interesting question
00:02:32.440 | at the core of all of these philosophies.
00:02:34.680 | So you mentioned also memento mori,
00:02:37.880 | the Latin remember death,
00:02:39.600 | the idea that reflecting on one's own mortality
00:02:43.240 | puts things into perspective.
00:02:44.440 | - Yes.
00:02:45.280 | - In a tough question, perhaps, perhaps not,
00:02:50.080 | do you often think about your own mortality
00:02:52.760 | and what perspective does that help you gain?
00:02:56.680 | - Yes, I think about it a lot.
00:02:59.400 | And it does give me perspective
00:03:02.080 | and it does help me focus on the things that matter to me
00:03:05.400 | in terms of my children, my close friends,
00:03:10.320 | the impact I want to have through what we're doing at Thrive.
00:03:13.480 | I have zero interest in what is known as legacy
00:03:18.480 | because since I don't think life ends with death,
00:03:22.800 | I'm just much more interested in what happens to my soul
00:03:27.440 | and then what happens to my legacy on earth.
00:03:32.440 | - Do you have a sense of what happens after you die,
00:03:37.440 | of soul, is it more of a feeling
00:03:41.880 | or do you have a more concrete sense spiritually?
00:03:44.760 | How do you see the world or what happens to your soul
00:03:48.120 | to whoever the heck you were while you were here on earth?
00:03:52.120 | What does that become in time?
00:03:55.380 | - So my sense is that who we are, our personality,
00:04:01.320 | the body, the mind is like a car that we rented
00:04:06.680 | and we return at the airport and get on a plane.
00:04:17.280 | - And go to another city and rent another car?
00:04:19.840 | - No, well rent another car if you believe in reincarnation
00:04:23.480 | depending on where you are in your state of evolution.
00:04:27.000 | But definitely that what survives is the soul.
00:04:30.680 | And that's why how we live our lives
00:04:34.460 | and the choices we make and how we treat others
00:04:38.440 | is so central to what happens after our death.
00:04:42.720 | - All of those elements you believe kind of feed the soul.
00:04:46.280 | - Yes.
00:04:47.240 | - So you've also mentioned that
00:04:49.160 | on the harsh, challenging part of life
00:04:54.600 | that failure is an essential part of life.
00:04:57.560 | So what may be a major failure
00:04:59.520 | that stands out to you for yourself?
00:05:02.800 | One of the toughest ones for you psychologically
00:05:05.120 | to have bounced back from if you ever did bounce back from?
00:05:09.480 | - Yes, well first of all, I don't think there is an if.
00:05:12.440 | I don't think there is a single successful person
00:05:16.320 | who has not failed along the way.
00:05:18.320 | I mean, I challenge you to find one.
00:05:21.240 | If you do, let me know.
00:05:23.040 | But in my experience, everybody has failed along the way.
00:05:26.600 | And I think it would be great
00:05:28.640 | if successful people talk more about their failures.
00:05:32.560 | The difference is resilience
00:05:35.920 | and how quickly do you get discouraged.
00:05:39.000 | In my case, actually, probably the hardest failure
00:05:43.240 | was when I was 28.
00:05:45.800 | And my second book, you mentioned my first book,
00:05:50.800 | which did very well.
00:05:53.280 | My second book, which was on the crisis
00:05:55.960 | in political leadership in the West,
00:05:58.480 | was rejected by 27 publishers,
00:06:04.840 | you know, one after the other after the other.
00:06:07.360 | And by that time, I had run out of money.
00:06:13.560 | I had been living off the proceeds of my first book.
00:06:16.400 | And I remember walking kind of depressed
00:06:21.560 | down St. James Street in London where I live
00:06:24.200 | and thinking, well, maybe my first book was just a fluke
00:06:28.960 | and I'm not really a writer and I have to go get a real job.
00:06:32.880 | And then I saw Barclays Bank in the corner
00:06:35.560 | and I walked in and asked to see the manager
00:06:38.080 | and asked the manager for what the Brits call an overdraft,
00:06:42.040 | which is a loan.
00:06:43.560 | And I had nothing, I had no assets.
00:06:47.760 | And for some reason, the manager,
00:06:49.520 | whose name is Ian Bell, gave it to me.
00:06:52.800 | And that kind of changed my life
00:06:54.520 | because it made it possible for me to keep things together
00:06:57.320 | for another 13 rejections.
00:06:59.400 | And at that point, I got an acceptance
00:07:02.120 | and I sent Ian Bell a holiday card every year.
00:07:06.480 | And he's a little bit like, you know, in fairy tales,
00:07:09.800 | when the hero or the heroine gets lost in a dark forest
00:07:13.480 | and suddenly a helpful animal comes out
00:07:18.480 | and guides them out of the forest.
00:07:21.880 | Well, sometimes helpful animals in our lives
00:07:25.000 | are in the form of a bank manager.
00:07:27.480 | They take funny disguises.
00:07:31.680 | - A modern fairy tale.
00:07:33.440 | So I spoke with Elon Musk recently on the podcast
00:07:37.520 | and you've had a friendly exchange with him on Twitter
00:07:41.440 | last year about work hours and sleep.
00:07:44.400 | So I, myself, as an engineer,
00:07:46.040 | I'm obsessed with the work I do.
00:07:48.240 | I keep a schedule closer to one that Elon does, I would say.
00:07:52.640 | Plus I'm Russian,
00:07:53.560 | so I believe suffering is good for the soul.
00:07:55.840 | So how does a singular obsession
00:08:00.400 | in the sort of the turmoil of innovation
00:08:03.480 | fit into a lifestyle you discuss and thrive?
00:08:05.920 | One focused on wellbeing, wisdom, and wonder.
00:08:08.640 | So how do you score that with like singular obsession?
00:08:12.000 | - Oh, I think singular obsessions are wonderful.
00:08:15.120 | All my favorite people are addictive
00:08:18.400 | and obsessive personalities.
00:08:20.400 | But if you're obsessed about whatever it is
00:08:25.280 | you're looking to achieve,
00:08:26.840 | whether it's in research or electric cars
00:08:31.320 | or going to the moon or anything,
00:08:34.320 | you need to look at the science and the data
00:08:37.080 | that shows that you're going to be more creative
00:08:39.800 | and more productive and more likely
00:08:42.240 | to achieve the results of your obsession
00:08:45.040 | if you actually take some time to recharge.
00:08:49.880 | That's really what we're talking about.
00:08:52.280 | - So your senses, so science and data,
00:08:56.180 | these things you talk about,
00:08:58.040 | are things of rational people.
00:09:00.880 | So you think the impossible can be achieved
00:09:04.900 | by rational people or does madness play a role?
00:09:09.200 | - Madness plays a role.
00:09:11.120 | But also looking at the results needs to play a role.
00:09:16.120 | And listen, I have huge admiration for Elon Musk
00:09:20.360 | and I wrote the open letter to him with that in mind,
00:09:24.040 | kind of lovingly and admiringly.
00:09:27.000 | And helping him, I hope, look at the laws of human energy.
00:09:32.000 | Because if you violate the laws of human energy,
00:09:38.640 | it's like violating the laws of gravity.
00:09:42.040 | There are consequences and he's facing the consequences.
00:09:45.240 | He's being distracted from his amazing obsession.
00:09:50.240 | - And you think there's a way to do better?
00:09:52.000 | - Absolutely, I mean, I think he should look
00:09:54.080 | at what happened.
00:09:55.040 | The results of tweeting in the middle of the night
00:09:57.560 | because his cognitive impairment makes him do things
00:10:01.480 | which he knows he should not be doing.
00:10:03.960 | And ending up having to step down as chairman,
00:10:07.560 | pay 20 million, having to go to court to deal with the SEC.
00:10:11.760 | Who needs that when you are building
00:10:13.720 | something amazing for humanity?
00:10:16.320 | - You think a more balanced sleep cycle?
00:10:18.880 | - It's not really about balance.
00:10:20.560 | I hate that term.
00:10:22.080 | Because I agree with you that
00:10:24.960 | there's no balance when you are trying
00:10:27.880 | to achieve something big.
00:10:29.840 | I mean, there are times when I've pulled all-nighters.
00:10:33.120 | There are times when people at Thrive
00:10:35.320 | have pulled all-nighters to ship a product.
00:10:39.200 | In fact, we make that very clear when we hire people.
00:10:42.840 | We're not a nine to five operation
00:10:45.000 | where you just balance things.
00:10:47.160 | But you need to, after that, take time to recharge.
00:10:50.640 | And the faster you do it,
00:10:52.200 | the more effective you're going to be.
00:10:53.800 | We call it Thrive time.
00:10:55.160 | So let's say you pulled an all-nighter,
00:10:57.440 | take some time the next day to recharge
00:11:00.280 | before your exhaustion becomes cumulative.
00:11:05.280 | Either you do stupid things or you fall sick,
00:11:08.360 | or all the things that we are seeing around us.
00:11:11.120 | - Catches up to you.
00:11:12.800 | On another topic, you have evolved throughout the years,
00:11:17.120 | your political views from, maybe you can correct me,
00:11:21.200 | but from right of center to left of center.
00:11:26.000 | Can you take me through your journey of political thought
00:11:28.400 | and how you see the evolution
00:11:29.840 | of the greater political landscape
00:11:32.360 | along with your evolution
00:11:34.240 | throughout the last several decades?
00:11:37.640 | - So my evolution was from being a kind of Republican
00:11:42.640 | that's practically extinct now,
00:11:46.000 | kind of pro-choice, pro-gay rights,
00:11:48.640 | pro-gun control Republican.
00:11:51.320 | (both laughing)
00:11:53.440 | To someone who realized that my understanding
00:11:58.200 | of the role of government was limited.
00:12:00.840 | I really was a Republican because I thought
00:12:03.440 | that the private sector would step up
00:12:06.200 | and address inequalities and the need to take care of people
00:12:11.200 | at the lower socioeconomically ranks.
00:12:15.760 | And I saw firsthand this wasn't going to happen
00:12:18.200 | and that you needed the raw power
00:12:20.000 | of government appropriations to be able to achieve that.
00:12:24.880 | So it was my shift in my understanding
00:12:27.920 | of the role of government
00:12:28.960 | that led to my shift in political views.
00:12:32.320 | I think what's happening right now,
00:12:34.080 | we're at this moment when the chickens
00:12:39.080 | are coming home to roost.
00:12:41.720 | Like a lot of problems that we've seen coming,
00:12:47.600 | that we've been discussing at endless conferences.
00:12:50.200 | I don't know how many conferences I've been at
00:12:52.360 | with titles like inclusive capitalism,
00:12:54.920 | the dangers of growing inequalities.
00:12:57.960 | We talked about them,
00:12:58.920 | but didn't really do anything about them.
00:13:01.920 | And so the results are different forms of right-wing
00:13:06.760 | or left-wing populism.
00:13:08.960 | And it's a very serious moment,
00:13:11.200 | but I don't think it's going to be solved
00:13:14.680 | by living in a perpetual state of outrage.
00:13:18.000 | - So you've also launched this incredible platform
00:13:21.880 | in 2005 of Huffington Post,
00:13:23.920 | HuffPost as it's now called.
00:13:27.480 | What impact do you think it had over the past 14 years
00:13:31.080 | on the nature of public discourse?
00:13:32.840 | So if you look at what that discourse is today,
00:13:35.640 | the divisiveness,
00:13:37.200 | what impact does the digitization of our conversation,
00:13:41.720 | the online, of Twitter,
00:13:43.720 | and then of more journalistic type of content
00:13:46.720 | like Huffington Post contains,
00:13:48.400 | what do you think it has done for our discourse?
00:13:52.760 | Was it been a positive thing?
00:13:54.560 | Was it been a catalyst for the divisiveness?
00:13:56.520 | Or did it simply reveal the divisiveness
00:13:58.440 | that was latent there already?
00:14:00.640 | What do you think?
00:14:01.480 | - Well, the Huffington Post
00:14:03.040 | helped democratize the conversation.
00:14:06.960 | It helped elevate what blogging was.
00:14:10.440 | When we launched the Huffington Post in 2005,
00:14:13.960 | blogging was dismissed as something
00:14:16.040 | that people who couldn't get a job
00:14:17.560 | were doing in their parents' basements.
00:14:21.000 | And because we brought in people
00:14:23.440 | who could have written for the New York Times
00:14:25.720 | like Walter Cronkite and Nora Ephron and Larry David,
00:14:30.720 | we elevated the opportunity afforded to all of us
00:14:35.360 | to express ourselves.
00:14:37.040 | But we had very, very careful guidelines.
00:14:40.720 | So for example, everything was curated.
00:14:46.440 | We did not allow ad hominem comments.
00:14:49.920 | At some point before I left the Huffington Post,
00:14:53.280 | I even ended anonymous comments altogether
00:14:56.680 | because it was becoming too hard to police them.
00:14:59.720 | So from the beginning,
00:15:01.120 | I wanted to democratize the conversation
00:15:03.840 | side by side with investigative journalism
00:15:07.600 | and all the things that I loved and honored.
00:15:11.360 | But at the same time,
00:15:13.360 | I saw the dangers of the toxicity
00:15:17.200 | that can infiltrate these conversations
00:15:22.160 | if they're not monitored and if there is no real curation.
00:15:26.160 | - So one of the core things
00:15:28.240 | that emerged from the Huffington Post is,
00:15:30.600 | I mean, there is a little bit of a viewpoint
00:15:33.120 | underlying it, it is left of center.
00:15:35.760 | - I don't call it left.
00:15:37.160 | There's definitely a viewpoint.
00:15:39.120 | In fact, we called our journalism beyond right and left.
00:15:43.120 | I think the right-left divisions,
00:15:45.920 | the way of looking at the world in terms of right and left
00:15:48.800 | is incredibly obsolete.
00:15:50.840 | Being concerned about growing inequalities
00:15:57.000 | is not a left-wing position.
00:15:58.720 | If you are somebody who cares about law and order,
00:16:01.880 | you should care about that,
00:16:03.960 | unless you want the country to be turned
00:16:05.880 | into a banana republic with rich people
00:16:08.680 | living behind gates with security guards.
00:16:12.520 | If you care about climate change,
00:16:17.000 | does that mean you're on the left
00:16:18.720 | or does it mean that you want to preserve the planet?
00:16:21.600 | So I think by looking at the world in right or left,
00:16:25.640 | we're simply polarizing the conversation.
00:16:29.240 | - But, so that's a beautiful idea and I share it,
00:16:33.600 | but nevertheless, it seems that
00:16:35.920 | there's a strong gravitational field
00:16:37.640 | that pulls people into left and right.
00:16:39.680 | And no matter what,
00:16:40.600 | they will place different venues into those polars.
00:16:44.380 | So it seems that in the public perception,
00:16:48.560 | Huffington Post kind of gets into the left
00:16:50.400 | and there's these opposing forces, Breitbart and so on,
00:16:54.320 | that get placed somehow into the right.
00:16:57.400 | And then there's the red team and the blue team.
00:16:59.840 | I guess my question is, do you see, do you notice this?
00:17:03.320 | And do you see a path forward in the coming decade
00:17:06.360 | in the era of our current president
00:17:08.400 | of maybe bringing us back together
00:17:11.680 | and having a healthy disagreement on the issues
00:17:15.320 | as opposed to having teams and tribes of red and blue?
00:17:19.560 | - I absolutely do.
00:17:20.880 | I think there are two things that are essential
00:17:23.040 | in order to achieve that.
00:17:24.320 | One is a reverence for facts.
00:17:26.700 | - Hmm.
00:17:27.540 | - You and I have the right to our own opinions,
00:17:31.620 | but we don't have the right to our own set of facts.
00:17:34.460 | - Yes.
00:17:35.300 | - So that's number one.
00:17:36.580 | And number two is to end the view of journalists
00:17:41.580 | that Jay Rosen has described as the view from nowhere.
00:17:46.620 | Like I think climate change is not a matter of opinion.
00:17:51.620 | So a lot of journalists feel that their position
00:17:55.960 | is to have one person who thinks climate change is real
00:18:00.140 | and another person who thinks it's not,
00:18:01.980 | and their job is to stay in the middle
00:18:03.860 | and play Pontius Pilate.
00:18:05.780 | To me, that's like not at all great journalism.
00:18:10.780 | And the Huffington Post definitely had a viewpoint,
00:18:15.500 | as you said.
00:18:16.340 | - Mm-hmm.
00:18:17.620 | - But it was a viewpoint based on facts.
00:18:20.420 | - And I actually recommend that people listen
00:18:22.900 | to your podcast with especially conversation
00:18:25.540 | with Neil deGrasse Tyson that kind of emphasizes,
00:18:28.500 | it talks about science and the importance
00:18:30.900 | of that people have in terms of the seriousness
00:18:35.900 | amongst our leaders towards science
00:18:38.540 | as a thing that you shouldn't politicize.
00:18:41.180 | Well, last question.
00:18:42.360 | How do you balance love and ambition?
00:18:49.900 | Thinking about your work with Thrive,
00:18:53.100 | this obsession towards whether it's building electric cars,
00:18:57.380 | going to Mars, building Huffington Post,
00:19:00.620 | obsession with your work life,
00:19:02.780 | and a genuine deep obsession with your family
00:19:05.980 | or people in your life that you love.
00:19:08.060 | How do you balance that time and energy?
00:19:11.900 | - Well, let me give you an example.
00:19:14.460 | Right now, Thrive Global is an obsession,
00:19:19.740 | ending the stress and burnout epidemic is our mission.
00:19:24.740 | And I see it as having a huge impact on our health,
00:19:30.900 | on our mental health, and on our performance.
00:19:34.660 | But at the same time, I have two daughters that I adore.
00:19:39.660 | And everybody in my office knows that when I get a call
00:19:43.660 | from one of my daughters at any point, I will take it.
00:19:48.180 | And that they are a priority.
00:19:51.020 | That doesn't mean that I can't also be obsessed
00:19:54.820 | about what we're doing and our growth.
00:19:58.100 | I think this is sort of false dichotomies
00:20:00.460 | because I think when we nurture the part of us
00:20:05.460 | that is about love, that is about connection,
00:20:09.980 | we also nurture the deeper parts of our humanity.
00:20:14.780 | And it's from those parts that wisdom and creativity come.
00:20:18.980 | - So more love will strengthen all parts of your life
00:20:21.900 | and improve productivity in all aspects.
00:20:24.340 | - Exactly.
00:20:25.180 | And interestingly enough, Jack Ma,
00:20:27.580 | hardly a wilting violet in the obsession department,
00:20:33.180 | said in Davos last year that what's going to win the future
00:20:40.300 | is not just IQ or even EQ, emotional intelligence,
00:20:45.300 | but LQ, the love quotient.
00:20:48.040 | Which is something surprising coming from Jack Ma.
00:20:52.700 | But I think it's part of the shift that's happening
00:20:56.300 | where we recognize that while AI and machine learning
00:21:01.300 | are going to take over huge parts of our life
00:21:05.420 | and destroy many jobs, the things that AI
00:21:08.740 | is not going to be able to do
00:21:10.380 | are the distinctly human things.
00:21:13.240 | And loving is one of them.
00:21:15.460 | - And so I think it's a beautiful place to end on is love.
00:21:19.460 | Arianna, thank you so much for talking today.
00:21:21.260 | - Thank you so much.
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