back to indexJordan Peterson: Life, Death, Power, Fame, and Meaning | Lex Fridman Podcast #313
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0:0 Introduction
0:47 Dostoevsky
11:48 God
19:58 Science
32:21 Death
35:15 Elon Musk
39:13 Global Crisis
51:26 Dangerous ideologies
62:40 Justin Trudeau
76:46 War in Ukraine
94:14 Day in the life
130:18 How to think
145:26 Depression
153:33 Advice for young people
167:22 Russian literature
179:10 Meaning of life
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- Battle not with monsters, lest ye become a monster. 00:00:21.680 |
- The following is a conversation with Jordan Peterson, 00:00:27.240 |
an influential psychologist, lecturer, podcast host, 00:00:43.000 |
And now, dear friends, here's Jordan Peterson. 00:00:50.440 |
spoken through the character of Prince Mishkin, 00:01:04.120 |
- Well, I guess it's the divine that saves the world, 00:01:13.160 |
And then you might say, well, are there pointers 00:01:20.140 |
And the answer to that, in all likelihood, is yes. 00:01:34.640 |
That's a difficult case to make, but definitely a pointer. 00:01:53.240 |
'cause we could define the divine in some real sense. 00:01:59.360 |
what is divine to you is your most fundamental axiom. 00:02:03.440 |
And you might say, well, I don't have a fundamental axiom. 00:02:08.760 |
'cause you have a bunch of contradictory axioms. 00:02:11.960 |
And you might say, well, I have no axioms at all. 00:02:14.040 |
And then I'd say, well, you're just epistemologically 00:02:16.200 |
ignorant beyond comprehension, if you think that, 00:02:20.640 |
- So do you don't think a human being can exist 00:02:24.160 |
- Well, yeah, we have to exist within contradiction, 00:02:26.280 |
but when the contradictions make themselves manifest, 00:02:33.020 |
then the consequence of that technically is anxiety 00:02:43.920 |
signifying multiple pathways forward is anxiety. 00:02:51.080 |
- But you don't think that kind of entropy signal 00:03:04.480 |
- Well, I would say it probably doesn't have to be, 00:03:08.700 |
it can't be reduced to clarity and simplicity 00:03:15.880 |
it's a balance between order and chaos, not order itself. 00:03:20.880 |
If it's too ordered, if music is too ordered, 00:03:29.560 |
It has to have, well, it has to have some fire in it 00:03:45.880 |
When Moses first encounters the burning bush, 00:03:49.400 |
it's not a conflagration that demands attention. 00:03:54.500 |
It's a phenomena, and that means to shine forth, 00:03:57.960 |
and Moses has to stop and attend to it, and he does, 00:04:01.260 |
and he sees this fire that doesn't consume the tree, 00:04:05.540 |
and the tree, the tree is a structure, right? 00:04:14.000 |
It's a fractal structure, and it's the tree of life, 00:04:17.160 |
and it's the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, 00:04:23.040 |
that's always occurring within every structure, 00:04:25.360 |
and the fact that the fire doesn't consume the bush 00:04:32.400 |
of the balance of transformation with structure, 00:04:37.920 |
and what attracts Moses to it, in some sense, is the beauty. 00:04:46.480 |
That's a good way of thinking about it, a great painting. 00:04:50.720 |
You know, my house was, and will soon be again, 00:05:01.800 |
because, well, my mother, for example, would say, 00:05:04.500 |
"Well, why would you want to live in a museum?" 00:05:07.040 |
And I'd think, "Well, I would rather live in a museum 00:05:15.080 |
They're terrified of buying art, for example, 00:05:19.760 |
because generally, people have terrible taste. 00:05:22.320 |
Now, that doesn't mean they shouldn't foster it 00:05:30.720 |
- Even to yourself, as you walk past it every day. 00:05:38.360 |
and look how trite it is, and look at how cliched it is, 00:05:41.400 |
and look at how sterile or too ordered it is, 00:05:45.140 |
- Or how quickly you start to take it for granted, 00:05:48.600 |
- Well, if it's a real piece of art, that doesn't happen. 00:05:53.400 |
- The whole is greater than the sum of the parts. 00:05:55.720 |
I mean, there are images, religious images in particular, 00:06:02.120 |
that people have been unpacking for 4,000 years, 00:06:19.640 |
When God kicks Adam and Eve out of the Garden of Eden, 00:06:25.200 |
he puts cherubim with flaming swords at the gate 00:06:28.400 |
to stop human beings from reentering paradise. 00:06:31.920 |
I thought, what the hell does that mean, cherubim, 00:06:41.280 |
who wrote a great book on symbolism in Genesis, 00:06:44.220 |
that cherubim are the supporting monsters of God. 00:06:50.100 |
and that they're partly a representation of that 00:06:53.700 |
which is difficult to fit into conceptual systems. 00:06:57.120 |
They've also got an angelic or demonic aspect, 00:07:07.580 |
and the separation of the wheat from the chaff. 00:07:13.340 |
You use a sword to cut away, to cut away and to carve. 00:07:18.340 |
And a flaming sword is not only that which carves, 00:07:27.400 |
It carves away everything about you that isn't perfect. 00:07:37.700 |
So you could say that the entire Christian narrative 00:07:44.940 |
Well, let's say that flaming swords are a symbol of death. 00:08:18.740 |
And it shines forth in some fundamental sense. 00:08:22.600 |
It reaches into the back tendrils of your mind 00:08:25.620 |
at levels you can't even comprehend and grips you. 00:08:35.320 |
what's the most expensive objects in the world? 00:08:59.460 |
Well, what makes you think you're secular then? 00:09:03.820 |
- It's arguable that the thing many, many centuries 00:09:07.060 |
from now that will remain of all of human civilization 00:09:12.980 |
- Well, a book has remained a very long time, right? 00:09:21.140 |
- But that's in the full arc of living organisms. 00:09:58.700 |
And it's partly because there are things in Europe 00:10:27.900 |
I got a good analysis of the statue of David. 00:10:35.980 |
And this cathedral, we went down into the under structure 00:10:40.860 |
of it and there were three floors of bones from the plague. 00:11:03.420 |
But there's no arguing with the architecture, 00:11:07.460 |
with their sterility and their giant middle fingers 00:11:22.120 |
You cannot move forward into the unforeseen horizon 00:11:31.380 |
It's like, well, good luck with the future then, 00:11:38.380 |
And if not, well, something's guiding you forward. 00:12:05.860 |
because otherwise there's no communicating about it. 00:12:08.980 |
It has to be something that can be brought down to earth. 00:12:12.340 |
- Well, we might be too dumb to bring it down. 00:12:20.540 |
and then there's wanting to know or refusing to know. 00:12:24.540 |
And so you might say, well, could you extract God 00:12:30.900 |
Is God just the ultimate unity of the natural reality? 00:12:41.740 |
because God in the highest sense is the spirit 00:12:53.460 |
The spirit that you must emulate in order to thrive. 00:13:08.620 |
Okay, well, I can tell you that to some degree. 00:13:18.940 |
This isn't propositional, you have to notice it. 00:13:21.620 |
It's like, oh, it turns out I admire that person. 00:13:28.100 |
Well, it means I would like to be like him or her. 00:13:32.940 |
It means there's something about the way they are 00:13:49.300 |
Well, let's say, okay, fine, but it grips you, 00:14:03.340 |
And there's no, that worship, that celebration 00:14:08.460 |
That's what worship means most fundamentally. 00:14:11.180 |
Now imagine you took the set of all admirable people, 00:14:24.700 |
until you purified it to what was most admirable. 00:14:36.180 |
And you might say, well, I don't believe in that. 00:14:47.460 |
And then I could say something about that too, 00:15:05.660 |
It's like, okay, but Nietzsche said God is dead, 00:15:10.220 |
and we'll not find enough water to wash away all the blood. 00:15:17.740 |
And so then you think, okay, well, we killed the transcendent. 00:15:30.420 |
that stops the scientific process from moving forward. 00:15:35.420 |
That's basically the new atheist claim, something like that. 00:15:40.020 |
Do you believe in the transcendent if you're a scientist? 00:15:44.500 |
And the answer is, well, not only do you believe in it, 00:15:58.460 |
Now, we gotta think that through very carefully. 00:16:09.020 |
well, even though that's my description of the world, 00:16:18.100 |
And so I'm gonna throw my theory against the object 00:16:21.740 |
and then I'm going to use the evidence of the break 00:16:25.340 |
as a source of new information to revitalize my theory. 00:16:28.780 |
So as a scientist, you have to posit the existence 00:16:33.900 |
before you can move forward at all, but more. 00:16:43.080 |
annoying though it is because it upsets your apple cart, 00:16:53.560 |
and that contact with that transcendent reality 00:17:01.860 |
well, why would you bother making contact with it? 00:17:03.860 |
You're gonna make everything worse or better. 00:17:13.860 |
I mean freedom in the most fundamental sense. 00:17:15.940 |
It's like, well, freedom from want, freedom from disease, 00:17:22.420 |
- So it's the five of science. - The logos in it. 00:17:31.460 |
that's a narrative direction, not a scientific direction. 00:17:34.180 |
And then the question is, what is the narrative? 00:17:38.860 |
It posits that the transcendent reality is corrective. 00:17:51.820 |
And you have to take a vow, you know this as a scientist, 00:18:01.480 |
and that means you posit the truth as a redemptive force. 00:18:13.080 |
So it's all ensconced within an underlying ethic. 00:18:20.800 |
it's like, this is a very complicated topic, right? 00:18:25.080 |
See, okay, now let's say you buy the argument 00:18:30.080 |
you say, yeah, yeah, that's just nature, that's not God. 00:18:46.320 |
materialist objective view of what constitutes nature. 00:18:50.240 |
But if you're a scientist, you're gonna think, 00:18:52.640 |
well, in the final analysis, I don't know what nature is. 00:18:55.280 |
I certainly don't know its origin or destination point. 00:19:10.720 |
So I could say, will we have a fully reductionist account 00:19:16.320 |
And the answer to that is yes, but by the time we do that, 00:19:19.380 |
our understanding of matter will have transformed so much 00:19:24.580 |
won't look anything like what we think of reductionism now. 00:19:45.260 |
that you can reduce the complexity of what is 00:19:48.820 |
to your assumptions about the nature of matter. 00:20:03.740 |
in this complicated, big definition we're talking about, 00:20:15.260 |
or rather science can err in taking a trajectory 00:20:27.820 |
the Frankenstein story comes out of that instantly. 00:20:30.540 |
And that's a good story for the current times. 00:20:33.740 |
It's like, you're playing around with making new life? 00:20:51.340 |
- Well, there's a, you know, science is a big word. 00:21:06.700 |
And I think biology, especially when you get closer 00:21:09.540 |
and closer to medicine and to the human body, 00:21:14.420 |
has a history with Nazi Germany of being abused 00:21:18.260 |
But it has a history of taking this stuff seriously. 00:21:21.100 |
What doesn't have a history of taking this stuff seriously 00:21:27.300 |
Because you don't, you know, you called me a scientist, 00:21:31.260 |
but, and I would like to wear that label proudly, 00:21:34.860 |
but often people don't think of computer science 00:21:37.780 |
as a science, but nevertheless, it will be, I think, 00:21:41.500 |
the science of one of the major scientific fields 00:21:48.660 |
Oftentimes when people build robots or AI systems, 00:22:02.420 |
- But, you know, at a certain moment, you might, 00:22:15.620 |
Well, the other thing too, and this is a weird problem 00:22:23.980 |
I mean, the big classes of interest are interest in things 00:22:30.700 |
- Yeah, right, and thing people are very, very clear, 00:22:35.100 |
logical thinkers, and they're very outcome oriented 00:22:43.220 |
That makes the machinery and keeps it functioning. 00:22:49.340 |
And you get the extreme thing people, and you think, 00:22:55.260 |
And when we're talking about, we've been talking 00:22:58.740 |
about the necessity of having a technological enterprise 00:23:01.740 |
embedded in an ethic, and you can ignore that. 00:23:06.300 |
You can ignore the overall ethic in some sense 00:23:11.900 |
But when you're building an artificial intelligence, 00:23:36.660 |
And what is it with you engineers and your inability 00:23:43.440 |
It's like, I have to hold this for five seconds 00:23:51.780 |
- Well, what is it with you humans that don't put off 00:23:57.020 |
Because there's a magic to the thing that you notice, 00:23:59.580 |
and it hurts for both you and perhaps one day 00:24:05.980 |
And so you have to be very careful as an engineer 00:24:09.980 |
I think it's a feature, not a bug, the off switch. 00:24:14.380 |
The off switch gives a deadline to us humans, 00:24:33.300 |
and perhaps the sword as a thing of transformation. 00:24:36.660 |
It's also, it's a transformation that kind of 00:24:41.380 |
- Well, it depends on how much of the thing is chaff. 00:24:48.660 |
And this is why people can have very bad psychedelic trips. 00:24:57.140 |
the 5% that's left might not be able to make it. 00:25:04.700 |
but I think there is some aspect of destruction that is, 00:25:14.300 |
- Don't you think that destruction's part of-- 00:25:23.180 |
Invite in the judgment, because maybe you can die 00:25:27.860 |
- You know, and that's, I think it's Alfred North Whitehead. 00:25:30.220 |
We can let our ideas die instead of us, right? 00:25:43.220 |
And so, yeah, there's this optimal bite of death. 00:25:46.380 |
And who knows what it would mean to optimize that? 00:25:49.620 |
Like, what if it was possible that if you died enough 00:25:52.460 |
all the time, that you could continue to live? 00:25:56.180 |
And the thing is, we already know that biologically, 00:25:58.260 |
because if you don't die properly all the time, 00:26:04.020 |
and it's a very fine balance between productivity 00:26:09.020 |
on the biological front and the culling of that, right? 00:26:14.020 |
Life is a real balance between growth and death. 00:26:17.620 |
And so what would happen if you got that balance right? 00:26:21.540 |
Because if you live your life properly, so to speak, 00:26:25.900 |
and you're humble enough to let your stupidity die 00:26:28.740 |
before it takes you out, you will live longer. 00:26:33.260 |
Well, but then what's the ultimate extension of that? 00:26:40.140 |
- Well, let me ask you a difficult question, because-- 00:26:42.940 |
- As opposed to the easy ones that you've been asking so far. 00:27:00.940 |
- Yeah, yeah, 'cause you don't wanna forget the hell part. 00:27:12.300 |
- Yeah, well, Elvis became an Elvis impersonator 00:27:24.260 |
the famous suit-wearing, brilliant Jordan Peterson, 00:27:29.260 |
the certainty in the pursuit of truth, always right? 00:27:34.260 |
- I think I worry about it more than anything else. 00:27:40.020 |
- Has fame, to some degree, when you look at yourself 00:27:50.180 |
I mean, it's a very difficult thing to avoid, 00:27:57.140 |
People are much more likely to do what you ask, 00:28:01.860 |
And so that's a danger, because one of the things 00:28:04.380 |
that keeps you dying properly is that people push back 00:28:08.820 |
This is why so many celebrities spiral out of control, 00:28:11.460 |
especially the tyrannical types that, say, run countries. 00:28:27.300 |
It's like, well, you think, wouldn't that be lovely? 00:28:29.780 |
It's, well, not if the red carpet is rolled out to you 00:28:40.020 |
And so one of the things that I've tried to learn to manage 00:28:43.180 |
is just to have people around me all the time who are critics, 00:28:48.180 |
who are saying, yeah, I could have done that better. 00:28:52.900 |
And you're alienating people unnecessarily there. 00:28:55.660 |
And you should have done some more background work there. 00:28:58.980 |
And I think the responsibility attendant upon that 00:29:19.380 |
about things that perturb me, like the forthcoming famine, 00:29:35.540 |
And it would be easier just to go up to the cottage 00:29:37.540 |
with my wife and go out on the lake and watch the sunset. 00:29:40.900 |
And so I'm tempted to draw on anger as a motivating energy 00:29:48.100 |
to help me overcome the resistance to doing this. 00:29:52.020 |
But then that makes me more harsh and judgmental in my tone 00:29:55.980 |
when I'm reading such things, for example, on YouTube, 00:30:00.260 |
Now, I've had debates with people about that. 00:30:05.540 |
if you're calling out the environmentalist globalists who 00:30:10.660 |
are harassing the Dutch farmers, then a little anger 00:30:17.940 |
want to be too harsh because you alienate people who would 00:30:22.020 |
It's like, that's a hard balance to get right. 00:30:28.380 |
to where you don't notice the subtle, quiet beauty 00:30:31.180 |
of the world, the quiet love that's always there, 00:30:36.180 |
Sometimes you can become deeply cynical about the world 00:30:41.860 |
Battle not with monsters, lest ye become a monster. 00:30:45.780 |
And if you gaze into the abyss, the abyss gazes also into you. 00:30:57.340 |
That's why I also say, knowing that he's absolutely right, 00:31:12.820 |
Because it might distort your mind to where all you see-- 00:31:21.260 |
Well, then I would say you haven't looked long enough. 00:31:33.260 |
It's like, the story of Christ, psychologically, 00:31:36.900 |
is radical acceptance of the worst possible tragedy. 00:31:48.500 |
Because in the story, Christ goes through death into hell. 00:32:06.260 |
And that's like-- there is no more terrifying idea than that, 00:32:30.740 |
Because you, as a deep thinker and a philosopher, 00:32:33.700 |
it's easy to start philosophizing and forgetting 00:32:51.300 |
I think it's one of the things that made me peculiar. 00:32:57.700 |
When I was in graduate school, I thought about-- 00:33:02.020 |
I had the thought of death in my mind all the time. 00:33:05.140 |
And I noticed that many of the people that I was with, 00:33:26.900 |
I would say, and it's unbearable in some sense. 00:33:49.420 |
But I am very worried about making a mistake. 00:33:53.220 |
I heard Elon Musk talk about that a couple of months ago. 00:34:06.780 |
And I thought, well, you know, he's got a lot of weight 00:34:14.300 |
I'd be easier just if this wasn't here at all. 00:34:19.460 |
But it was a telling moment, in my estimation. 00:34:40.100 |
I don't know if it follows or if it's always here. 00:34:47.300 |
What's the connection between death and hell? 00:34:55.240 |
Is there something that needs to be done before you arrive? 00:35:00.280 |
if you live in a manner that brings you to hell. 00:35:26.820 |
well, it's like, do you find this comedian funny? 00:35:44.300 |
It strikes me as absurd in the most fundamental sense. 00:35:49.300 |
to build an outpost in the Antarctica or in the desert. 00:35:52.340 |
Well, how much of the human endeavor is absurd? 00:35:56.960 |
Great men are seldom credited with their stupidity. 00:36:19.440 |
I do think that having talked to him quite a bit offline, 00:36:24.440 |
I think these, several of his ideas, like Mars, 00:36:29.260 |
like humans becoming a multi-planetary species, 00:36:31.900 |
could be one of the things that human civilization 00:36:35.580 |
looks back at as, duh, I can't believe he's one 00:36:40.180 |
of the few people that was really pushing this idea. 00:36:49.580 |
that I'm in any position to evaluate Elon Musk. 00:37:01.460 |
It's like, he built an electric car that works. 00:37:07.280 |
I don't know, but if we're gonna build electric cars, 00:37:14.260 |
And he more or less did that, people carp about him, 00:37:19.020 |
I know he's very good at distributing responsibility 00:37:41.220 |
It's sort of, it's this whimsical joke in some sense, 00:37:47.340 |
- And Neuralink, delving into the depths of the mind. 00:37:51.420 |
- And Starlink, it's like, go Elon, as far as I'm concerned. 00:37:55.260 |
And then, he puts his finger on things so oddly. 00:38:05.260 |
the West, for example, is no longer at replacement 00:38:11.020 |
It means we've abandoned the virgin and the child 00:38:21.060 |
And where everyone else is running around going, 00:38:26.900 |
Not only, see, I've learned that there are falsehoods 00:38:33.300 |
And an anti-truth is something that's so preposterous 00:38:49.660 |
well, you have to accept limits to growth and et cetera. 00:39:11.140 |
Here, I'll tell you why it's the wrong idea, I think. 00:39:13.740 |
So imagine that there's an emergency, dragon. 00:39:38.220 |
of myself every time when I spend time alone. 00:39:40.340 |
- Is the apocalypse looming on the environmental front? 00:39:44.100 |
I'll just leave that aside for the time being. 00:39:55.100 |
And there are environmental issues that are looming large. 00:39:59.380 |
Whether climate change is the cardinal one or not 00:40:01.940 |
is a whole different question, but we won't get into that. 00:40:11.460 |
Well, let's see how you're reacting to the dragon. 00:40:14.340 |
First of all, you're scared stiff and in a state of panic. 00:40:17.340 |
That might indicate you're not the man for the job. 00:40:25.260 |
to harness other people to fight the dragon for you. 00:40:33.260 |
So then I would say, well, then you're not the Moses 00:40:35.580 |
that we need to lead us out of this particular exodus. 00:40:41.420 |
It's like, if you're so afraid of what you're facing, 00:40:45.020 |
that you're terrified into paralysis and nihilism, 00:40:47.900 |
and that you're willing to use tyrannical compulsion 00:40:50.300 |
to get your way, you are not the right leader for the time. 00:40:54.260 |
So then I like someone like Bjorn Lomborg or Matt Ridley 00:40:59.700 |
well, look, we've got our environmental problems. 00:41:06.820 |
that there's a Malthusian element in some situations, 00:41:11.100 |
but fundamentally the track record of the human race 00:41:14.540 |
is that we learn very fast and faster all the time 00:41:40.100 |
They're not just saying, oh, the environment doesn't matter, 00:41:44.060 |
You know, the environment, I don't even know what that is. 00:41:57.580 |
How are those statements different semantically? 00:42:04.940 |
A lot of these complex systems are difficult to talk about 00:42:10.900 |
And then these models, 'cause people have gone after me 00:42:22.940 |
well, there's gonna be a certain degree of heating, 00:42:27.500 |
It's like, okay, some of that might be human generated, 00:42:30.860 |
some of it's a consequence of warming after the Ice Age. 00:42:40.700 |
and any error in your model multiplies as time extends, 00:42:46.660 |
Okay, now we're gonna extend the climate model, 00:42:50.780 |
So I just did an analysis of a paper by Deloitte, 00:43:03.700 |
I wrote an article for it in "The Telegraph," 00:43:05.380 |
which I'm gonna release this week on my YouTube channel. 00:43:08.700 |
Said, well, if we get the climate problem under control, 00:43:15.820 |
are now being generated on the economic front, 00:43:17.940 |
so now we have to model the environment, that's climate, 00:43:23.580 |
and then we have to model their joint interaction, 00:43:26.500 |
and then we have to predict 100 years into the future, 00:43:29.780 |
and then we have to put a dollar value on that, 00:43:32.660 |
and then we have to claim that we can do that, 00:43:35.340 |
which we can't, and then this is our conclusion. 00:43:38.720 |
We're going to go through a difficult period of privation, 00:43:45.700 |
there's gonna be a catastrophe 50 years in the future, 00:43:48.500 |
or thereabouts, and so to avert that catastrophe, 00:44:06.340 |
than they would be if we just left them the hell alone. 00:44:17.140 |
Got a hierarchy, right, of stability and security. 00:44:25.020 |
You stress a hierarchy like that, a social hierarchy, 00:44:31.900 |
and an avian flu comes in, and then you look at the birds 00:44:34.660 |
in the social hierarchy, and the low-ranking birds 00:44:38.300 |
have the worst nests, so they're most exposed 00:44:40.540 |
to wind and rain and sun, and farthest from food supplies, 00:44:46.820 |
which is what happens to you at the bottom of a hierarchy. 00:44:49.060 |
You're more stressed, 'cause your life is more uncertain. 00:44:52.220 |
You're more stressed, your immunological function 00:44:56.220 |
You're sacrificing the future for the present. 00:44:58.500 |
An avian flu comes in, and the birds die from the bottom up. 00:45:07.380 |
Okay, so they say, when the aristocracy catches a cold, 00:45:13.980 |
All right, so now we're gonna make people poorer. 00:45:19.460 |
Well, we know who we make poorer when we make people poorer. 00:45:23.020 |
We make those who are barely hanging on poorer, 00:45:28.900 |
It means they die, and so what the Deloitte consultants 00:45:36.820 |
it's kind of unfortunate, but according to our models, 00:45:44.620 |
so that a lot more poor people don't die in the future. 00:45:52.820 |
The hypothetical poor people that you're gonna 00:45:57.860 |
or the actual poor people that you are actually 00:46:04.220 |
Well, I'm gonna cast my lot with the actual poor people 00:46:13.060 |
It's like, well, okay, the Deloitte consultants, 00:46:22.660 |
with the demonstration that you're so intelligent 00:46:24.900 |
that you can actually model the entire ecosystem 00:46:39.220 |
so I talked to Bjorn Lomborg and Michael Yon last week. 00:46:42.100 |
I accepted the UN estimates of starvation this coming year. 00:46:47.100 |
150 million people will suffer food insecurity. 00:47:05.780 |
"What happens in a famine is that the governments 00:47:08.580 |
"go nuts, crazy, the governments destabilize, 00:47:12.940 |
"and then they appropriate the food from the farmers. 00:47:21.780 |
And I think, yeah, that's exactly what they do. 00:47:37.700 |
- Let me ask you about the famine of the '30s. 00:47:58.300 |
- Well, now I've just spent four weeks in Ukraine. 00:48:02.740 |
There's different parts of the world that still, 00:48:14.940 |
They had a famine at the end of World War II, 00:48:21.300 |
is that the Dutch swore at the end of World War II 00:48:26.340 |
And then they had to scrape land out of the ocean, 00:48:32.740 |
The fact that it's the world's number two exporter. 00:48:35.140 |
You know that it's the world's number two exporter 00:48:39.940 |
It's like, I don't think it's as big as Massachusetts. 00:48:49.380 |
Let's put 30% of the farmers out of business, 00:48:52.700 |
while the broader ecosystem of agricultural production 00:49:17.460 |
How are you not gonna bring the whole thing down, 00:49:22.900 |
How are you not gonna impoverish the transport systems? 00:49:27.180 |
How are you not gonna demolish the grocery stores? 00:49:32.420 |
and pare it back by fiat, by 30% and not kill it. 00:49:39.420 |
I mean, look what we did with the COVID lockdowns. 00:49:52.740 |
So I don't know what these people are thinking. 00:49:56.740 |
And then I think, okay, what are they thinking? 00:49:58.300 |
Well, the Deloitte people are thinking, aren't we smart? 00:50:00.540 |
And shouldn't we be hired by our corporate employers? 00:50:21.140 |
Do you love the planet or do you hate capitalism? 00:50:24.820 |
Let's pit those two things against each other. 00:50:27.260 |
Oh, well, it turns out we actually hate capitalism. 00:50:36.020 |
with these 20 million people who now have nothing to eat? 00:50:44.580 |
It's like, so is your environmental globalist utopia 00:50:51.780 |
And that's okay, 'cause we'll wipe out capitalism. 00:50:55.420 |
- Yeah, the dragon and the fear of the dragon 00:50:57.900 |
drives ideologies, some of which can build a better world, 00:51:20.980 |
Let me table the turns, turn the tables on you. 00:51:27.180 |
You are terrified, afraid, concerned about the dragon 00:51:52.100 |
- Yeah, I'm not paralyzed, and I don't wanna be a tyrant. 00:51:55.300 |
- The tyrant part, I think, is missing with you. 00:52:00.740 |
The intensity of your feeling does not give much space, 00:52:13.640 |
and sipping a couple of beers and thinking about this thing. 00:52:20.460 |
concern about certain things you're seeing in society, 00:52:33.780 |
So we've kind of come to a cultural conclusion 00:52:46.460 |
I also don't trust people who are angry about the Nazis. 00:52:53.140 |
- Well, as you know, there's a lot of people in the world 00:52:58.140 |
that use actual Nazis to mean a lot of things. 00:53:16.820 |
I think a lot of people that call you a Nazi mean it. 00:53:29.820 |
- And a lot of the people that lost their home, 00:53:46.380 |
really believe they're saving the people of Ukraine 00:53:56.740 |
- So to them, it's not just that the Ukrainian government 00:54:11.220 |
So this, again, Nazi's still a dragon that lives. 00:54:22.680 |
So I just wanted to kind of say that we have agreed 00:54:27.220 |
on this particular dragon, but I still don't trust 00:54:34.140 |
- Yeah, but we have issues with boundaries, right? 00:54:36.820 |
No, no, it's, so this is a very complicated problem, right? 00:54:40.660 |
So René Girard believed that it was a human proclivity 00:54:55.880 |
- Should he be inside the village or outside? 00:54:58.280 |
- Well, maybe he should be inside you, right? 00:55:02.080 |
That's the fundamental essence of the Christian doctrine. 00:55:05.680 |
It's like, Satan is best fought on the battleground 00:55:17.640 |
- Can you actually put words to the kind of dragon 00:55:24.680 |
- Can you elaborate what the spirit of Cain is? 00:55:30.700 |
- So after Adam and Eve are thrown out of paradise 00:55:36.200 |
for becoming self-conscious, or when they become 00:55:41.740 |
And the reason for that, as far as I can tell, 00:55:44.600 |
is that to become self-conscious is to become aware 00:55:51.160 |
That certainly happens in the Adam and Eve story, 00:55:56.080 |
And then the consequence of that is that you now 00:55:58.960 |
have to labor to prevent the catastrophes of the future. 00:56:22.760 |
So those are the first two people in history, 00:56:28.120 |
And they're the first two people who are born 00:56:32.680 |
And that's a hell of a story, because it's a story 00:56:40.640 |
So that's fun for the opening salvo of the story, let's say. 00:56:48.760 |
And for some reason, Abel's sacrifices please God. 00:57:00.460 |
that it's because Cain's sacrifices are second rate. 00:57:11.320 |
So you could imagine that Cain is sacrificing away, 00:57:32.880 |
And Cain is bearing this terrible burden forward 00:57:45.520 |
enough resentful enough to call God out and say something 00:57:50.280 |
like, this is quite the creation you've got going here. 00:57:55.680 |
I'm breaking myself in half, and nothing good's coming my way. 00:58:01.520 |
And then there's Abel, the sun shining on him every day. 00:58:10.360 |
And so God says what Cain least wants to hear, 00:58:35.640 |
And you've invited it in to have its way with you. 00:58:41.600 |
And so he basically says, you have allowed your resentment 00:58:47.600 |
And now you're brooding upon it and generating 00:58:56.280 |
And that's why you're in the miserable state you're in. 00:59:04.160 |
And Cain leaves, and he's so incensed by this. 00:59:06.600 |
Because God has said, look, your problems are of your own making. 00:59:13.760 |
And not only that, you engaged in this creatively. 00:59:18.760 |
And not only that, that's making you jealous of Abel, 00:59:29.520 |
And then Cain's descendants are the first people 00:59:35.440 |
And so that's-- OK, you want to know what I think? 00:59:42.520 |
And it's playing out right now, except at 1,000 times the rate. 00:59:56.200 |
That it is not always easy to know which among us are the Cain. 01:00:06.680 |
It is possible to imagine you as the person who 01:00:11.720 |
has a resentment towards a particular world view 01:00:19.080 |
Yeah, well, I talked to a good friend of mine 01:00:25.120 |
So I said, well, do I have a particular animus 01:00:33.440 |
Well, first of all, I'm a university professor. 01:00:38.520 |
It's not like the universities are threatened by the right. 01:00:45.160 |
And they're not just threatened a little bit. 01:00:55.600 |
And that's not over yet, because I have 10 lawsuits against me 01:00:59.240 |
out right now from the College of Psychologists, 01:01:02.240 |
because they've allowed anyone to complain about me, 01:01:09.520 |
with an investigation, which is a punishment in and of itself, 01:01:15.320 |
And then I've been tortured nearly to death multiple times 01:01:21.520 |
Now, I've had my fair share of radical right-wingers being 01:01:27.400 |
But personally, that's been the left the whole time, 01:01:33.800 |
Put my family at risk in a big way, and constantly. 01:01:46.680 |
And I know like 200 people now who've been canceled. 01:01:53.400 |
is one of the worst experiences of their life. 01:01:58.960 |
And so-- and then I also know that the communists killed 01:02:07.080 |
that the intellectuals excused them for it nonstop, 01:02:10.800 |
and still haven't quit, that almost no one knows about it, 01:02:19.040 |
And so do I have a bit of an animus against that? 01:02:26.760 |
The story you just told, it seems nearly impossible 01:02:33.680 |
not to have a tremendous amount of resentment. 01:02:41.080 |
Can you steal, man, the case that the prime minister 01:02:52.440 |
wants the best for this country, and actually 01:03:08.680 |
And he's in a position where that could easily be the case. 01:03:11.800 |
He seems to have done some good things on the oceanic 01:03:19.440 |
And that might be his most fundamental legacy, 01:03:34.600 |
There is some aspect to him that makes him a good man, 01:03:40.720 |
I mean, he's not a Jeffrey Epstein profligate 01:03:45.400 |
And his wife, they seem to have a real marriage. 01:03:51.900 |
That's a good start, by the way, for a leader. 01:03:58.240 |
after the Liberals had brought in a Harvard intellectual who 01:04:02.040 |
was a Canadian to be their last leader, he didn't work out. 01:04:06.120 |
And then they're flailing about for a leader. 01:04:08.320 |
And the Liberals in Canada are pretty good at maintaining 01:04:13.500 |
power and leadership, and have been the dominant governing 01:04:18.600 |
And so they went to Justin and said, well, you know, 01:04:24.720 |
And you can imagine that's not a positive specter for someone 01:04:37.400 |
And then I thought, OK, well, the answer to that 01:04:40.600 |
should have been no, because Trudeau, Justin, 01:04:46.520 |
He's not-- he's a part-time drama teacher, fundamentally. 01:04:51.320 |
He just didn't know enough to be prime minister. 01:04:54.160 |
But then I'm trying to put myself in his position. 01:04:56.520 |
So it's like, OK, I don't know enough, but I'm young. 01:05:08.560 |
Maybe I could surround myself with good people, 01:05:12.960 |
And I could become the person I'm now pretending to be, 01:05:17.920 |
which we all have to do as we move forward, right? 01:05:23.920 |
you made a mistake there, because you ran only 01:05:29.600 |
But let's give the devil his due and say, that's no problem. 01:05:36.440 |
And your first act is to make the cabinet 50% women, 01:05:42.480 |
despite the fact that only 25% of the elected members 01:05:47.040 |
It's like, OK, you just halved your talent pool. 01:05:50.520 |
That was a really bad move for your first move. 01:05:55.000 |
Do you think-- where does that move come from? 01:06:00.480 |
Or is it trying to listen to the social forces of the moment 01:06:06.760 |
and try to ride those ways towards maybe greater 01:06:13.960 |
It's like, no, you just halved your talent pool 01:06:22.080 |
You could argue that each of them met threshold. 01:06:27.920 |
- So you don't think that came from a place of compassion? 01:06:40.800 |
Compassion can come deep from the human heart 01:06:46.160 |
Are we talking about the same kind of compassion? 01:06:49.800 |
- Treating adults like infants is not virtuous. 01:06:55.040 |
Well, compassion isn't treating adults like-- 01:07:01.280 |
- Whatever the term is, maybe love is maybe the better word. 01:07:08.520 |
You don't think those ideas came from concern? 01:07:15.680 |
- Love is a blend of compassion and encouragement and truth. 01:07:20.520 |
- Yeah, it has a lot of good things in it, yes. 01:07:22.160 |
- If I love you, is it compassion or encouragement 01:07:30.080 |
ultimately, that leads to the growth of both. 01:07:35.720 |
Because the growth element, to foster the growth element, 01:07:43.840 |
and have been conceptualized this way forever, 01:07:50.880 |
And mercy is, flawed as you are, you're acceptable. 01:08:03.320 |
It's like, well, that's where the judgment comes in. 01:08:12.880 |
And there has to be a active exchange of information 01:08:20.280 |
So even if Trudeau was motivated by compassion, 01:08:23.280 |
and it's like, yeah, just how loving are you, first of all? 01:08:29.080 |
And then he's expressed contempt for monetary policy. 01:08:34.560 |
It's like, okay, but you're a prime minister. 01:08:39.560 |
And he's expressed admiration for the Chinese Communist 01:08:51.600 |
The efficiency of the tyranny in the service of your terror. 01:09:05.760 |
And that's hard too, because his father, Pierre, 01:09:09.800 |
devastated the West in 1982 with the national energy policy. 01:09:14.800 |
And Trudeau is doing exactly the same thing again. 01:09:18.160 |
And so as a Westerner as well, I have an inbuilt animus 01:09:22.840 |
and one that's well-deserved, because Central Canada, 01:09:26.600 |
especially the glittery, literati elite types 01:09:34.480 |
have exploited the West and expressed contempt 01:09:42.960 |
And that's accelerating at the moment, for example, 01:09:45.360 |
with Trudeau's recent attack on the Canadian farmers. 01:09:52.480 |
which is an utter and absolute bloody catastrophe. 01:10:04.160 |
I try to put myself in the position of the people 01:10:09.920 |
- Do you think there's a degree to which power changed him? 01:10:24.920 |
I mean, at the least, if you don't have the chops 01:10:30.760 |
to the point where you can feel comfortable inhabiting it. 01:10:43.360 |
We have to fill out an arrive can bureaucratic form 01:10:46.280 |
on our phones because a passport isn't good enough. 01:11:07.640 |
would you and what kind of things would you talk about? 01:11:14.840 |
- I don't think I've ever said no to talking to anyone. 01:11:24.360 |
Do you believe in the power of those kinds of contacts? 01:11:31.720 |
I have lots of things I'd like to ask him about. 01:11:33.480 |
I mean, I've had political types in Canada on my podcast 01:11:40.400 |
You know, maybe I've got a big part of him wrong. 01:11:46.640 |
But my observation has been that every chance 01:11:50.160 |
he had to retreat from his pharaonic position, 01:11:55.400 |
And these, our parliament is not running for the next year. 01:12:06.160 |
For the next year, it's already been fatally compromised, 01:12:11.160 |
perhaps, by the lockdowns for the last couple of years. 01:12:32.360 |
but it's almost like a fear of this unknown thing 01:12:36.920 |
And that, unfortunately, that fear is leveraged by people 01:12:41.640 |
that, you know, who aren't in academic circles, 01:12:55.280 |
It does lend people in the positions of power 01:13:02.080 |
to become slowly, day by day, a little bit more corrupt. 01:13:07.080 |
- I was really trying to figure out, you know, 01:13:21.200 |
And I thought, "That's a really good question." 01:13:28.560 |
the principles by which the advice would be trustworthy. 01:13:34.520 |
Well, one potential response to that would be 01:13:39.520 |
the claims are not in accordance with the facts. 01:13:48.520 |
because, for example, Lomberg's fundamental critics 01:13:51.920 |
argue about his facts, not just his interpretation of them. 01:13:58.000 |
And so I thought, well, the facts exactly doesn't work, 01:14:01.760 |
'cause when it's about everything, there's too many facts. 01:14:05.280 |
So then how do you determine if someone's a trustworthy guide 01:14:13.360 |
And the answer is, they're not terrified tyrants. 01:14:22.960 |
- How do you know if they're a terrified tyrant? 01:14:32.800 |
They said, "Look, we have every economic reason 01:14:40.800 |
"We have satellite maps of where we put the fertilizer. 01:14:44.880 |
"We have cut our fertilizer use so substantially 01:14:57.960 |
you think those people don't know what they're doing. 01:15:00.600 |
It's like, they're pretty damn sophisticated, man. 01:15:04.600 |
Like way more sophisticated than our prime minister. 01:15:08.840 |
And now you tell them, "No, it's a 30% reduction, 01:15:11.800 |
"and we don't care how much food you're growing." 01:15:18.240 |
on amount of food produced per unit of fertilizer used, 01:15:21.760 |
which would be, at least you could imagine it. 01:15:24.560 |
So, okay, so you're producing this much food, 01:15:27.240 |
and you use this much fertilizer, so you're hyper-efficient. 01:15:35.160 |
and we say to them, "You have to get as efficient 01:15:46.160 |
You know, you obviously have to bargain with that, 01:15:48.160 |
but at least you reward them for their productivity. 01:15:52.200 |
Well, it's like, "Well, Holland isn't gonna have beef." 01:16:00.160 |
"You get to tell me what I can eat now, do you? 01:16:08.900 |
"that's more efficient on the fertilizer front? 01:16:16.460 |
"And isn't this gonna make food prices more expensive? 01:16:20.460 |
"And doesn't that mean that hungry people die? 01:16:37.900 |
because they say, "Well, ultimately, the poor will benefit." 01:16:52.620 |
from the decision made by the powerful, the rich, 01:16:56.540 |
the political elite. - Yeah, 'cause they can just leave. 01:17:03.360 |
- Oh, yeah, I got into plenty of trouble about that, too. 01:17:12.220 |
talking on microphones and writing brilliant articles. 01:17:20.740 |
It's their land, it's their country, it's their history. 01:17:26.420 |
It's people trying to ask, they have many dragons, 01:17:32.460 |
who are we, what is this, what is the future of this nation? 01:17:59.500 |
Something you regret saying. - Well, it wasn't that much. 01:18:15.300 |
I gave a variety of reasons why the war happened. 01:18:26.580 |
It's understandable 'cause it's extremely complex. 01:18:29.100 |
Hyper-reliance on Russia as a cardinal source 01:18:35.980 |
in the wake of idiot environmental globalist utopianism. 01:18:53.180 |
I got in trouble for, which is Putin's belief 01:18:57.460 |
or willingness to manipulate his people into believing 01:19:08.460 |
It's like, while you're justifying Putin, it's like, 01:19:20.140 |
It's like, well, I went to 15 Eastern European countries 01:19:35.300 |
Most of them were conservatives 'cause it turns out 01:19:46.060 |
And a fair number of them were canceled progressives. 01:19:51.860 |
about the culture wars that perhaps are a signal 01:20:02.340 |
for this part of the world, that reason stands out. 01:20:06.300 |
And do you sort of looking back at four reasons, 01:20:11.300 |
think it deserves to have a place in one of the four? 01:20:22.180 |
Because I said, look, Putin might believe this. 01:20:40.020 |
And you might think, well, some people are so tricky. 01:20:47.140 |
that's completely separate from their personality 01:20:49.820 |
and their personality is pursuing a different agenda. 01:20:52.740 |
And this whole body of speech is nothing but a front. 01:20:55.980 |
It's like, good luck finding someone that sophisticated. 01:21:02.900 |
- That's a really interesting and fascinating 01:21:05.980 |
Even if you start out as a lie, as a propaganda, 01:21:16.100 |
- Well, you've thought a lot about AI systems. 01:21:19.300 |
It's like, don't you become what you practice? 01:21:26.420 |
It's like when you first formulate a concept, 01:21:28.460 |
huge swaths of your cortex are lit up, so to speak. 01:21:45.860 |
And then you start to see it, not just think it. 01:21:49.100 |
And so if you're telling the same lies over and over, 01:21:58.420 |
And if they're effective enough to fool millions of people, 01:22:23.580 |
And that's that third way that Dugin and Putin 01:22:26.660 |
have been talking about, the philosopher Alexander Dugin 01:22:34.580 |
Solzhenitsyn thought the Russians would have to return 01:22:38.260 |
to the incremental development of Orthodox Christianity 01:22:46.900 |
'cause there's been a return to Orthodox Christianity. 01:22:49.500 |
Now you could say, yeah, but the Orthodox Church 01:22:53.980 |
And I would say there's some evidence for that. 01:22:56.020 |
I've heard, for example, that the Metropolitan owns, 01:23:06.340 |
And I would say there's a bit of a moral hazard in that. 01:23:11.700 |
has been co-opted, but there has been somewhat 01:23:18.580 |
Now, even if Putin doesn't believe any of this, 01:23:24.180 |
and unfortunately, I don't think that's true. 01:23:32.460 |
And he is by no means the worst Russian leader 01:23:51.500 |
And so we're stuck with the claim in either case. 01:23:56.500 |
And that's the point I was trying to make in the article. 01:23:59.860 |
- Sometimes I'm troubled by people that explain things. 01:24:20.340 |
But then I get to see people that lost their home. 01:24:24.100 |
I get to see people on the Russian side who believe they're, 01:24:33.500 |
They see themselves as heroes saving a land from Nazis. 01:24:37.660 |
- How else would you motivate young men to go fight? 01:24:45.740 |
not only their homes, but creating generational hate, 01:24:49.580 |
destroying the possibility of love towards each other. 01:24:54.700 |
What I've heard a lot of is on February 24th of this year, 01:24:59.500 |
hate was born at a scale that region has not seen. 01:25:36.820 |
with fighting the ideologies of the woke and so on, 01:25:45.660 |
that war is not fought about any of those things. 01:25:52.500 |
- War started and war is averted based on human beings, 01:26:07.700 |
How much face-to-face communication was there 01:26:17.020 |
Especially given that Europe was completely dependent 01:26:21.180 |
Well, not completely, but you know what I mean. 01:26:25.940 |
So maybe he had to go talk to him once every six months. 01:26:39.220 |
- Look, one of the things I've really learned, 01:26:41.260 |
there's a real emphasis on hospitality in the Old Testament. 01:26:53.740 |
but they're on board for this mission, let's say. 01:27:01.420 |
They laid out nice platters of meat and cheese and crackers. 01:27:04.340 |
They spent all day preparing this house I had rented 01:27:07.260 |
so that we could have a hospitable time with these scholars, 01:27:11.140 |
but who said they would come and spend eight days 01:27:19.660 |
We got to know each other, and we got to trust each other 01:27:22.820 |
because we could see that we could have some fun 01:27:30.780 |
And then we found out we couldn't get through Exodus 01:27:33.660 |
in eight days, and so I had proposed very early on 01:27:38.780 |
And so I pulled eight people out of their lives 01:27:46.300 |
and the Daily Wire Plus people picked all that up. 01:28:08.420 |
And so when they were offered that combination 01:28:11.020 |
of intellectual challenge, let's say, in hospitality, 01:28:17.580 |
"If I can do it in any way, I will definitely be there." 01:28:20.220 |
And this, I went to Washington a bunch of times, 01:28:43.020 |
And so, and I tried to have some meetings in Washington 01:28:53.940 |
"Oh, it was so interesting, 'cause one of the lunches 01:28:57.100 |
was about 15 people, half Democrats and half Republicans, 01:29:01.260 |
and all I'd asked them to do was just spend three minutes 01:29:03.780 |
talking about why you decided to become a congressman, 01:29:08.460 |
You spend 25 hours a week fundraising on the telephone. 01:29:14.820 |
You have to run for re-election every two years. 01:29:17.660 |
You're beholden to the party apparatus, right? 01:29:32.060 |
and then have to beg for your job every two years 01:29:34.180 |
while your enemies, the worst of your enemies 01:29:37.060 |
and the worst of your friends are viciously hen-pecking you. 01:29:41.300 |
And so anyways, we had them all sit around a table, 01:29:43.500 |
said, "Okay, just say why you ran for Congress." 01:29:49.460 |
'cause you Americans, you're so bloody theatrical. 01:29:56.940 |
It's like, "Well, this country has given us so much. 01:30:31.740 |
And I'm sure there's some bad apples in the bunch, 01:30:34.180 |
but by and large, you walk away from your meetings 01:30:42.020 |
- They really are giving a part of themselves 01:30:48.180 |
and become jaded and worn down by the whole system. 01:31:02.340 |
that a lot of it is healed through the power of conversation, 01:31:15.460 |
And it doesn't have to be talking about the actual issue. 01:31:17.980 |
It's actually humor and all those kinds of things 01:31:28.620 |
- Yeah, well, the great leaders that I've met, 01:31:45.780 |
And then they listen, and then they're struck by them. 01:31:49.780 |
and they bring it to the congressional office 01:31:53.220 |
And they think, "Here's what the people are crying out for." 01:32:06.860 |
and he's sold out stages worldwide on a tour, 01:32:14.380 |
He said, "Comedy is the most, stand-up comedy, 01:32:23.380 |
"to what I'm doing on my book tours, I would say. 01:32:27.460 |
He said, "It's the most dialogical enterprise." 01:32:36.260 |
I mean, you have to interact dynamically with the audience 01:32:44.700 |
He said, "Well, here's how you prepare the jokes." 01:32:49.500 |
You go to 50 clubs before you go on your tour 01:32:52.620 |
and you got some new material and you think it's funny. 01:32:55.300 |
And you go into a club and you lay out your new material 01:33:06.380 |
So you subject yourself to the judgment of the crowd 01:33:09.060 |
and you get rid of everything that isn't funny. 01:33:11.380 |
And if you do that enough, even if you're not that funny, 01:33:20.060 |
and each is an hour long and you collect two minutes 01:33:24.500 |
So you throw away 90, you throw away two hours, 01:33:28.000 |
more than 98% of it, collect two minutes per show. 01:33:43.140 |
and he aggregates the misery, you know, and the hopes. 01:33:48.900 |
to someone who would otherwise be cynical and jaded 01:33:52.080 |
because then the person can say to themselves, 01:33:56.860 |
and my inadequacies, I'm gathering up the misery 01:34:07.500 |
- Yep, giving it, that's right, giving it a voice. 01:34:10.820 |
'cause this is fascinating, through your comedy tour. 01:34:14.620 |
What does a day in the life of Jordan Peterson look like? 01:34:22.500 |
Let's look at the day when you have to speak. 01:34:24.740 |
Preparing your mind, thinking of what you're going 01:34:28.460 |
to talk about, preparing yourself physically, mentally 01:34:33.460 |
to interact with the crowd through the actual speaking. 01:34:37.260 |
How do you adjust what you're thinking through 01:34:41.740 |
so you can start all again as a limited biological system? 01:35:13.820 |
- Well, I did the proper, I usually eat just once a day. 01:35:23.140 |
- Yeah, well, if you have to only eat one thing, 01:35:38.860 |
because the commercial airlines aren't reliable enough 01:35:53.060 |
anybody who causes any trouble on the tour is gone. 01:36:08.100 |
if they make a mistake, they fix it right away. 01:36:13.700 |
- There's a lot of people relying on you to be there, 01:36:19.900 |
So then I'm on the plane and I usually write, 01:36:26.100 |
or often, because there's no internet on the plane 01:36:32.500 |
So I'm writing a new book, so I write on the plane. 01:36:48.780 |
It's not corporate, I don't really like corporate hotels. 01:36:54.700 |
has got quite good at picking kind of adventurous hotels, 01:37:00.260 |
They're usually in the old parts of the city, 01:37:08.940 |
And sometimes that's an air fryer and a steak 01:37:19.980 |
and have a walk or something and take a look at the city. 01:37:22.580 |
And then I have a rest for like an hour and a half 01:37:32.940 |
- Yeah, that gives me, that wakes me up again 01:37:40.180 |
And so she has to sleep longer in the afternoon. 01:37:42.500 |
And that's absolutely necessary for both of us 01:37:54.660 |
If I'm gonna lecture, I've been doing a lot of Q and A's 01:37:57.860 |
But if I'm gonna lecture, I have to sit for an hour. 01:38:13.140 |
It's usually associated with one of the rules in my book 01:38:17.700 |
but each of those rules is an investigation into an ethic. 01:38:21.700 |
And each of them points to a deeper sort of mystery 01:38:25.420 |
And there's no end to the amount it can be explored. 01:38:56.860 |
So I start to think about how to decompose the question. 01:38:59.340 |
- And you start to think which of these decompositions 01:39:11.140 |
Then I think, okay, how can I approach this problem? 01:39:13.700 |
I think, well, I have this story that I know, 01:39:19.940 |
And there's gonna be some interesting interaction 01:39:24.820 |
and I kind of have a framework of interpretation. 01:39:27.540 |
And then I have some potential narrative places I can go. 01:39:35.140 |
And so then what I wanna do is concentrate on that process 01:39:42.540 |
and then see if I can delve into it deeply enough 01:39:45.060 |
so that a narrative emerges spontaneously with an ending. 01:39:50.060 |
Now, I'm sure you've experienced this in podcasts, right? 01:40:03.660 |
And then, so you'll kind of know when the midpoint is 01:40:06.180 |
and you'll kind of see when you're reaching a conclusion. 01:40:15.340 |
and you have to be alert and patient to see that. 01:40:24.180 |
But if you do that, and then it's like a comedian 01:40:28.740 |
It's like, I've got all these balls in the air 01:40:37.700 |
To say, oh, this and this and this and this and this, 01:40:45.980 |
- Well, that's interesting because your mind, 01:40:53.380 |
I would say for me in a podcast conversation, 01:41:11.740 |
- Actually, the more you drive towards an arc, 01:41:49.060 |
And it manifests itself as the instinct of meaning. 01:41:57.700 |
You know, I mean, the biblical claim is that logos 01:42:07.860 |
'Cause I think that that meaning that guides you, 01:42:26.780 |
It's like, okay, what's the most real of what matters? 01:42:47.700 |
Doesn't that lead to nihilism and hopelessness? 01:42:59.780 |
Is there anything more fundamental than pain? 01:43:37.500 |
'Cause you have to, 'cause if you're a scientist, 01:43:44.980 |
It's like, well, you don't know what the matter is. 01:43:49.740 |
and it will, you'll find out what's most real. 01:43:59.220 |
the physical reality is missing some of the things. 01:44:03.540 |
So of course, pain has a biological component 01:44:06.860 |
but it's missing something deep about the human condition 01:44:10.660 |
that at least the modern science is not able to describe. 01:44:21.100 |
as you're describing is the reason it's reaching it 01:44:23.700 |
is because underneath of science is this assumption 01:44:31.980 |
Thing to this whole thing we're trying to do. 01:44:34.780 |
Well, you know, there's two traditions, right? 01:44:39.540 |
There's the Greek rational enlightenment tradition. 01:44:45.780 |
And it insists that there's a logos in nature 01:44:55.100 |
And I would say the West is actually an attempt 01:44:59.020 |
And it's the proper attempt to unite those two 01:45:07.460 |
You know, I talked to friends to all, for example, 01:45:09.660 |
about the animating principle of chimpanzee sovereignty. 01:45:16.780 |
Because that's the claim even from the biologists often. 01:45:19.340 |
The most dominant chimp has the best reproductive success. 01:45:29.900 |
Are the chimps who use compulsion the most successful? 01:45:46.660 |
The subordinates over whom they exercise arbitrary control 01:45:52.380 |
wait for a weak moment and then tear them into shreds. 01:46:00.500 |
And de Waal has showed that the alpha chimps, the males, 01:46:04.420 |
who do have preferential mating access often, 01:46:14.100 |
And so even among chimps, the principle of sovereignty 01:46:21.580 |
And that's a way better principle than power. 01:46:28.700 |
what's the antithesis of the spirit of power? 01:46:34.460 |
And you know, I don't know what you think about that, 01:46:37.460 |
but when you have a good podcast conversation, 01:46:39.580 |
you already described it in some sense as play. 01:46:48.140 |
And if you get that right, then it's really engaging. 01:46:51.340 |
And then it seems to have its own narrative arc. 01:46:58.140 |
I didn't come to this conversation at all thinking, 01:47:01.300 |
here's what I want out of a conversation with Lex Friedman. 01:47:04.580 |
Like instrumentally, I thought, I'll go talk to Lex. 01:47:26.340 |
So what you have this, when you're lecturing, 01:47:32.060 |
you thought of a question, you get on the stage. 01:47:46.020 |
which is why my wife and I have been doing Q&As, 01:47:54.460 |
Like Joe Rogan just did his special this weekend. 01:48:10.780 |
instead of the Q&As, basically what I was doing 01:48:14.820 |
was writing a whole book chapter every night. 01:48:17.780 |
And you know, now that's a bit of an exaggeration 01:48:20.300 |
'cause I would return to themes that I had developed, 01:48:24.500 |
because I didn't ever just go over wrote material, ever. 01:48:29.380 |
So it's very demanding and that part's nerve wracking 01:48:34.540 |
'cause I sit down, it's an hour before the show, 01:48:41.020 |
And you know, the answer is, well, you did it 1000 times, 01:49:00.060 |
And so then I get it together in my mind, I think, 01:49:02.660 |
and that's hard, it takes effort and it's nerve wracking. 01:49:15.180 |
And then the question is, well, you're gonna find out, 01:49:41.060 |
and I listen, it's like, are they rustling around? 01:50:08.900 |
And if the frame is, well, I'll talk while you're talking, 01:50:17.860 |
This is a place where people paid to hear me talk. 01:50:21.180 |
So I'm not gonna talk till everyone's listening. 01:50:28.180 |
'cause that stillness turns into an expectation. 01:50:30.820 |
And then it comes, turns into a kind of nervous expectations 01:50:38.700 |
It's like, just when that's right, you think, 01:50:46.180 |
is from an audience perspective, we're in it together. 01:50:53.100 |
- Of course, it's the union of everyone's attention. 01:51:05.260 |
it's like we're all worshiping the same thing, right? 01:51:09.260 |
And that would be the point of the conversation, 01:51:13.660 |
And the worship is the direction of attention towards it. 01:51:16.620 |
And it's communion because everyone's doing it 01:51:23.260 |
between a lecture theater and a church in that regard, right? 01:51:25.620 |
It's the same fundamental layout and structure. 01:51:28.460 |
And they're very integrally associated with one another. 01:51:38.540 |
And so, and then, okay, so after the lecture, 01:51:42.180 |
we play a piece of music that is a piece of music 01:51:47.980 |
for a couple of books I'm gonna release in the fall. 01:52:09.420 |
And then afterwards, I usually meet about 150 people 01:52:17.220 |
- Is there a little sparkle of a human connection? 01:52:22.460 |
It's very intense, 10 seconds with every person. 01:52:26.460 |
You think, well, how can 10 seconds be intense? 01:52:33.260 |
- Does it break your heart to say goodbye so many times? 01:52:42.820 |
And that's so weird, 'cause I bought these expensive suits 01:52:48.940 |
I thought, God, that's completely unconscionable. 01:53:15.060 |
Because normal interactions are pretty shallow. 01:53:19.020 |
And you think, I don't want shallow interactions. 01:53:29.140 |
- Yeah, but I also have, when a person recognizes me, 01:53:33.300 |
and they come with love, and they're often brilliant people, 01:54:02.580 |
because if someone comes up to you in an airport, 01:54:11.260 |
and you make a mistake, they will never forget it. 01:54:19.380 |
- And the flip side of that, especially with young people, 01:54:23.220 |
a few words you can say can change the direction 01:54:28.180 |
And so I really have to watch this too in airports, 01:54:31.700 |
I do not like the creeping totalitarianism in airports. 01:54:38.420 |
And I'm an unpleasant travel companion for my wife 01:54:42.060 |
Although I think we've worked that out, thank God, 01:54:46.460 |
But most of the security guards and the border personnel, 01:54:52.380 |
And as a general rule, they're positively predisposed to me. 01:55:05.260 |
because I do not like that creeping totalitarianism. 01:55:13.820 |
sometimes it's good just to be one of the crowd, 01:55:21.060 |
But if you're someone they have dared to open their heart to, 01:55:41.140 |
And so Tammy and I, our life has got complicated, 01:55:52.500 |
and they have some heart-rending story to tell. 01:56:03.740 |
They don't just open themselves up to you like that 01:56:29.140 |
'cause I walk down the street in any city now, virtually, 01:56:32.300 |
and people say, "Hello, Dr. Peterson, so nice to see you." 01:56:47.500 |
- And there's an intimacy, they know you well, 01:57:01.860 |
For me personally, the experience is the goodbye hurts, 01:57:09.860 |
where you're never gonna see that friend again. 01:57:14.380 |
- So to me, a lot of it just feels like goodbyes. 01:57:23.380 |
And I mean, that's, I suppose, in some sense, 01:57:26.700 |
part of the pain of opening yourself up to people, 01:57:29.500 |
because they also, Tammy has been struck particularly. 01:57:33.060 |
She said, "I really never knew what men were like." 01:57:36.900 |
She said, "I cannot believe how polite the men are 01:57:49.100 |
"And they're tentative, and they're very polite, 01:57:55.500 |
"Do you mind that I say that they're not bothering me, 01:58:27.940 |
or 10 seconds, or 20 seconds, whatever it is. 01:58:33.980 |
and so you can really nail them if you're foolish. 01:58:37.540 |
- After the 150 people, how do you come down from that? 01:58:44.620 |
- Well, that was often when I got caught in Twitter traps, 01:59:00.820 |
it's a new book chapter, it's a whole new horizon of ideas, 01:59:06.740 |
I'm so burnt out by then that I'm not as good 01:59:15.340 |
'cause it would hook me, and then I couldn't, 01:59:17.500 |
like I used to, when I was working on my book a lot, 01:59:22.260 |
"Look, you have to come and get me, I can't stop. 01:59:34.580 |
"I need to get away from this," but I couldn't stop. 01:59:37.260 |
And so it's better to read something, a book. 01:59:47.460 |
Stephen King, I was reading a lot of Stephen King 01:59:56.460 |
And there's a familiarity about Stephen King's writing too, 02:00:10.300 |
And that in order to tolerate this, let's say, 02:00:20.260 |
and her life is part of this, whatever this is. 02:00:28.420 |
For example, now she has a different hotel room 02:00:32.380 |
And she found that she didn't wanna be on the tour 02:00:35.380 |
this spring, and I was ill again for part of it, 02:00:39.060 |
But she went away back home, and she came back, 02:00:54.900 |
She has to do exercises because she was really sick, 02:01:03.820 |
and she needs the time, and she has her own podcast, 02:01:05.940 |
which is going quite well, and she needs the time. 02:01:08.860 |
And I trust her, and she said, "Well, I need this 02:01:32.740 |
And that was a really good decision on her part. 02:01:36.100 |
And she's very good and getting better all the time 02:02:05.260 |
and you have to, both you and her have to figure out 02:02:08.220 |
how to manage this very intense intellectual, 02:02:13.060 |
social journey. - Well, there's another element 02:02:16.380 |
So that was a typical day, but it's missing a big component 02:02:22.140 |
with like 30 cultural representatives, I suppose, 02:02:28.700 |
'Cause I have a network of people who have networks 02:02:32.100 |
who are setting me up with key decision makers 02:02:37.140 |
And so then we have like an hour and a half of that. 02:02:39.540 |
Now, sometimes that's on a day when I don't have a talk, 02:02:44.860 |
And so she also has to manage that and to be gracious. 02:02:49.700 |
And then people are showing us exciting things 02:02:57.340 |
But it's still, yeah, you have to be there for it. 02:03:07.820 |
- Fortunately, that is almost never a problem. 02:03:11.820 |
Even when I was unbelievably ill for about three years, 02:03:19.220 |
I didn't do a really good job of explaining that 02:03:21.380 |
while I was ill because it appeared in some sense 02:03:29.820 |
I was ill and then I took them and very low dose. 02:03:44.980 |
And so I took a little bit more for about a month 02:04:06.060 |
and Tammy has three immunological conditions. 02:04:23.020 |
And so Michaela seems to have got all of that. 02:04:25.700 |
And so that, and that I think was at the bottom of, 02:04:28.460 |
'cause I also had this proclivity to depression 02:04:53.100 |
I was always on the border of an anaphylactic reaction, 02:05:17.300 |
but this diet seems to have stopped all of that. 02:05:19.660 |
I don't have psoriasis, all of the patches have gone. 02:05:41.260 |
- I should mention that I too am not a deep investigator 02:05:57.980 |
the people that profit of different kinds of diets. 02:06:15.540 |
I started listening to ultra marathon runners 02:06:20.380 |
and they started talking about fat adapted running. 02:06:25.380 |
So I first discovered that I don't have to run super fast 02:06:32.420 |
And in fact, I really enjoy running at a slower pace. 02:06:45.020 |
If I maintain that, you can actually get pretty fast 02:06:47.780 |
while maintaining a pretty slow average speed in general. 02:06:50.700 |
Anyway, they fuel themselves on low carb diets. 02:07:15.300 |
and obviously, if you think about it biologically, 02:07:17.860 |
is, well, what does your body scavenge first? 02:07:22.980 |
So I know the literature on fasting to some degree, 02:07:35.020 |
below their optimal body weight, they live 30% longer. 02:07:43.820 |
- Well, there is aspect to a lot of these things 02:07:46.340 |
that make me nervous, 'cause I always feel like 02:07:48.700 |
there's no free lunch that I'm gonna pay for it somehow. 02:07:51.500 |
But there is a focus that I am able to attain when I fast, 02:08:01.340 |
It's almost like an anxiety, but a positive one, 02:08:04.100 |
or one that I can channel into just like an excitement. 02:08:07.180 |
- You know, I wonder how much of that's associated with, 02:08:10.460 |
well, imagine that that signifies lack of food, 02:08:19.260 |
Biologically speaking, because you're in hunting mode, 02:08:22.740 |
let's say, you know, not desperate, but in hunting mode. 02:08:46.380 |
the thing I enjoy, I just don't enjoy eating fat as much. 02:08:51.380 |
So I love eating meat, when you talk about low-carb diet. 02:09:05.500 |
like a little groggy or like full or just whatever, 02:09:28.780 |
Now, I don't do the, you have a very serious thing 02:09:41.500 |
I'll still do the things that add a little bit of-- 02:09:56.500 |
although she might be able to eat non-aged beef. 02:09:58.860 |
And that makes traveling complicated too, right? 02:10:15.540 |
when you were thinking about a question before the lecture. 02:10:20.660 |
This is something maybe that you and Jim Keller 02:10:38.100 |
We tried to work that out with this essay app 02:10:42.740 |
the first question is, well, what should I write about? 02:11:02.220 |
Your destiny is to be found in what bothers you. 02:11:07.380 |
There's a lot of things you could be bothered by, 02:11:13.580 |
They bug you, and they might make you resentful and bitter, 02:11:25.980 |
that I don't, and I would really like the answer to it, 02:11:32.380 |
'cause I would actually really like to have the answer. 02:12:07.140 |
it's a real question, do you get an answer or not? 02:12:29.060 |
So imagine that your intent is to make things better. 02:12:43.460 |
It's like, you're so sure about that, are you? 02:12:47.420 |
Like, are you able to introspect with intent? 02:12:51.740 |
'Cause as you practice something consciously, 02:12:56.180 |
It's like, when I sit down before I do a lecture, 02:13:05.060 |
Well, people are coming here not for political issues. 02:13:14.940 |
into the nature of that which makes life better. 02:13:25.980 |
Or am I clued in and thrilled that 4,000 people 02:13:30.260 |
have showed up at substantial expense and trouble 02:13:35.420 |
And if I'm not in that state of mind, I think, 02:13:44.460 |
It's like, I should be thrilled to be there, obviously. 02:13:58.740 |
in the final analysis, which is why the investigation 02:14:03.700 |
Me, whoever I'm communing with, and the audience. 02:14:24.200 |
And I often don't even use the structure that I laid out. 02:14:31.580 |
Do you try to encapsulate an idea into a sentence or two? 02:14:46.600 |
I try to feel and see if the words are stepping stones 02:15:21.220 |
in your ability to ask questions and inquire. 02:15:36.780 |
when I step on a word and I know it's unstable. 02:15:41.840 |
You kind of realize that you don't really know 02:15:51.460 |
So I kind of try to be more carefree about the words I use. 02:16:00.880 |
- Like literally, my mind halfway through the sentence 02:16:04.860 |
will think, well, what does the word sentence mean? 02:16:17.380 |
- Well, neurologically, there's a production center 02:16:23.820 |
and those can be separately affected by strokes. 02:16:27.180 |
And so often when people are writing or talking, 02:16:33.100 |
And that's so people will try to write an essay 02:16:35.700 |
and get every sentence right in the first draft. 02:16:39.860 |
well, how can you be careful with your words, but carefree? 02:16:42.780 |
And the answer is orient yourself properly, right? 02:16:50.020 |
You want to be prepared, you want to be attentive. 02:16:53.860 |
Then you want to have an interesting conversation, 02:16:56.300 |
and you want to have the kind of interesting conversation 02:17:06.300 |
And then you kind of scour your heart and you think, 02:17:14.220 |
I'm not saying any of those things are necessarily bad, 02:17:20.060 |
especially if you're not willing to admit them, right? 02:17:33.100 |
You have to put yourself in the right receptive position 02:17:38.140 |
Then you can, and I think you can get better and better 02:17:43.060 |
at this, then you can trust what's going to happen. 02:17:47.340 |
You know, so for example, before I came here, 02:18:05.900 |
The, one of the reasons is I've listened to you 02:18:17.660 |
Some of my best friends don't even know I exist. 02:18:20.220 |
So I'm a big fan of podcasts and audio books. 02:18:31.020 |
- I've worked with a lot of dead, great dead friends. 02:18:34.380 |
So I wanted to meet this one-way friend, I suppose, 02:18:52.980 |
What is this thing that happened in the 20th century? 02:18:59.420 |
and I feel so much of my family's defined by that place. 02:19:14.580 |
and huge millions of people that were lost in the beauty, 02:19:22.060 |
but were also the torture that was forced onto them 02:19:33.500 |
And you are somebody that seemed from some angle 02:19:37.300 |
to also be drawn to try to understand what was that. 02:19:55.760 |
- I felt I wanted to, from a very different backgrounds, 02:20:04.180 |
You know, I'm an engineer, you're a psychologist, 02:20:08.560 |
both lost in that curiosity and both wear suits. 02:20:17.000 |
about sort of the shadows that that history casts on us. 02:20:31.580 |
I wanted to be a psychiatrist for a long time. 02:20:41.060 |
the fact that I could program and make a robot move, 02:20:47.660 |
I thought I wanted to understand the human mind 02:20:50.020 |
by being a psychiatrist, by talking to people, 02:20:59.740 |
- Yeah, I mean, but the dream ultimately is the robot. 02:21:09.420 |
I mean, we all have different skills and proclivities. 02:21:27.620 |
because it allows you to build a little toy example. 02:21:30.660 |
So in the same way you can do a little thought experiment, 02:21:33.820 |
programming allows you to create a thought experiment 02:21:40.260 |
So all of those, because of my interest in Freud and Jung, 02:21:45.020 |
you're also in different ways have delved deeply 02:21:56.700 |
through the perspective of those psychologists. 02:22:00.300 |
So for all those reasons, I thought our paths would cross. 02:22:04.380 |
- Yeah, so that's quite a frame for a discussion, right? 02:22:07.500 |
You had all sorts of reasons and then you think, 02:22:09.860 |
well, are you just letting the conversation go where it will? 02:22:19.820 |
this conversation, you spent all this time framing it. 02:22:23.020 |
And so all of that provides the implicit substructure 02:22:28.580 |
And if you have that implicit, here's another way, 02:22:34.260 |
if you get the implicit structure of perception right, 02:22:45.820 |
So, you know, that's obviously a distant beckoning ideal, 02:22:52.180 |
but we know games need rules or there's no play. 02:22:57.180 |
- Is there advice you can give now that we know the frame 02:23:03.140 |
to give to me, Lex, about how to do this podcast better, 02:23:08.140 |
how to think about this world, how to be a good engineer, 02:23:20.960 |
how to be a good human being from what you know about me? 02:23:25.520 |
- Take your preoccupation with suffering seriously. 02:23:33.760 |
And that's part of that, to circle back to the beginning, 02:23:36.600 |
let's say, that's that willingness to gaze into the abyss, 02:23:43.440 |
It's like, it's gazing into the abyss that makes you better. 02:23:48.440 |
The thing is, and this is maybe where Nietzsche's idea 02:23:55.100 |
Sometimes your gaze can be forcefully directed 02:24:00.840 |
towards the abyss, and then you're traumatized. 02:24:04.920 |
If it's involuntary and accidental, it can kill you. 02:24:08.140 |
The more it's voluntary, the more transformative it is. 02:24:14.100 |
And that's part of that idea about facing death and hell. 02:24:21.280 |
And the answer is, this terrible answer is yes, 02:24:26.280 |
to the degree that you're willing to do it voluntarily. 02:24:31.580 |
And then you might ask, well, why should I have 02:24:40.800 |
even the innocent must be voluntarily sacrificed 02:25:00.960 |
Well, that's why the central Christian doctrine is, 02:25:06.960 |
And I'm speaking, not in religious terms, saying that. 02:25:15.360 |
in the last hundred years is, voluntary exposure 02:25:32.460 |
Do you have advice for people on how to find a way out? 02:25:53.640 |
if someone comes to me and says they're depressed, 02:26:03.640 |
maybe they're hyper-anxious, or maybe they're obsessional. 02:26:06.840 |
Like, there's various forms of powerful negative emotion. 02:26:12.360 |
But then the next question you have to ask is, 02:26:14.120 |
well, are you depressed, or do you have a terrible life, 02:26:21.820 |
So if you're depressed, as far as I can tell, 02:26:39.220 |
you're not beholden to alcohol or other temptations, 02:26:42.620 |
you're engaged in the community in some fundamental sense, 02:26:49.440 |
Now, if you have all that, and you're feeling really awful, 02:26:54.920 |
And so then sometimes there's a biochemical route to that, 02:27:14.840 |
You have no relationship, your family's a mess, 02:27:20.080 |
you've got no friends, you've got no plan, you've got no job, 02:27:33.520 |
you are completely unengaged in the surrounding community, 02:27:37.320 |
you have no scaffolding whatsoever to support you 02:27:41.300 |
in your current mode of being, or your move forward. 02:27:44.460 |
And then, as a therapist, well, you do two things. 02:27:48.700 |
Well, if it's depression, per se, well, like I said, 02:27:51.820 |
there's sometimes a biochemical route, a nutritional route, 02:27:56.760 |
it's probably physiological, if you're, at least in part, 02:27:59.660 |
if you're depressed, but you have an okay life, 02:28:03.900 |
You can turn to dreams, sometimes to help people, 02:28:06.580 |
'cause dreams contain the seeds of the potential future, 02:28:12.140 |
and you can analyze dreams, that can be really helpful, 02:28:14.540 |
but that seems to be only true for more creative people. 02:28:17.460 |
And for the people who just have a terrible life, 02:28:26.820 |
How about you need a friend, like one sort of friend? 02:28:31.820 |
Do you know how to shake hands and introduce yourself? 02:28:36.340 |
I'll have the person show me, so let's do it for a sec. 02:28:46.800 |
and then they can't even get the ball rolling. 02:28:49.100 |
- For the listener, Jordan just gave me a firm handshake. 02:28:56.940 |
that hypothetically, if you were well cared for, 02:29:02.060 |
and sometimes people have, I had lots of clients, 02:29:09.900 |
And they needed like 10,000 hours of attention. 02:29:13.980 |
'cause they had 10,000 hours of conversations 02:29:21.620 |
And they had to just, one client in particular, 02:29:38.020 |
and to just tell me what had happened to her. 02:29:42.020 |
And then what happened at the end of the conversation, 02:29:50.300 |
the amount of time that we spent in discussion 02:29:55.220 |
until by the time we stopped seeing each other, 02:30:09.980 |
And so she was an uncarved block in the Taoist sense, right? 02:30:13.620 |
She hadn't been subjected to those flaming swords 02:30:29.860 |
'cause it's actually become illegal to be a therapist now, 02:30:37.420 |
Just like it's terrible just to arbitrarily oppose them. 02:30:40.700 |
You could do the self-authoring program online, 02:30:46.580 |
And so if you have memories that are more than 18 months old 02:30:54.340 |
An undeveloped part of you is still trapped in that. 02:30:59.340 |
That's a metaphorical way of thinking about it. 02:31:01.620 |
And that's why it still has emotional significance. 02:31:04.140 |
So you can write about your past experiences, 02:31:10.460 |
'cause otherwise you just hurt yourself again 02:31:13.180 |
You can bring yourself up to date with an autobiography. 02:31:25.980 |
That's, young men who do that could go to college. 02:31:38.900 |
- So sometimes depression is this heavy cloud 02:31:43.580 |
that makes it hard to even make a single step towards it. 02:31:52.060 |
- Oh my God, sometimes it's way worse than that. 02:32:05.940 |
No, can you prop yourself up on your elbows once today? 02:32:19.900 |
Scale back the dragons till you find one conquerable. 02:32:29.140 |
'cause that's, you think that, God, that's depressing. 02:33:04.180 |
But by the end, she was doing stand-up comedy. 02:33:10.900 |
But still, most people won't do stand-up comedy. 02:33:19.260 |
So for someone who was petrified into paralysis 02:33:23.860 |
by social anxiety, and who had to start very small, 02:33:33.940 |
Do you have advice for young people in high school? 02:33:38.220 |
You're given, a lot of people look up to you for advice, 02:33:41.340 |
for strength, for strength to search for themselves, 02:33:54.700 |
while you're doing that, even if you don't know it, 02:33:57.260 |
for sure, 'cause you're a community across time. 02:34:04.900 |
- A job, find a job, do your best with the customers. 02:34:10.220 |
You're gonna get an entry-level job when you're a kid. 02:34:20.260 |
You know, if you're working in a grocery store, 02:34:23.340 |
assuming you're not working for terrified tyrants, 02:34:30.940 |
You can learn how to handle boss-employee relationship. 02:34:34.140 |
You can be there 15 minutes early and leave 15 minutes late. 02:34:37.780 |
Like you can learn in an entry-level job, man. 02:34:40.380 |
And I'll tell you, if you take an entry-level job 02:34:42.900 |
and you learn, and it's a reasonably decent place, 02:34:45.860 |
you will not be in an entry-level job for long. 02:34:52.140 |
And if you go and show yourself as competent, 02:34:57.140 |
all sorts of doors you didn't even know were there 02:35:01.060 |
- So you strive for competence, for craftsmanship. 02:35:16.660 |
You know, it actually took me quite a long time in my life 02:35:21.500 |
before I made my bed regularly in the morning. 02:35:25.340 |
but that was one thing I didn't have in order. 02:35:27.660 |
My clothes in my closet as well, all that's in order. 02:35:33.260 |
but look around and see what bugs you in your room. 02:35:44.780 |
Well, the paint's peeling there and it's dusty there 02:35:47.340 |
and the carpet's dirty and that corner's kind of ugly 02:36:07.460 |
So the rule is pick something you know would make, 02:36:24.700 |
I've been in here for 10 years and I've never cleaned it up. 02:36:27.060 |
It's like, well, obviously that's too big a dragon for you. 02:36:41.580 |
which I cleaned up in my room the other day, by the way. 02:36:47.580 |
That's like 30 seconds of your life every day. 02:37:12.900 |
- Ladies and gentlemen, Jordan Peterson did just some math 02:37:15.300 |
how many five-minute chunks there are in a day. 02:37:20.620 |
So you got 200 five-minute chunks and they repeat. 02:37:33.100 |
The things you repeat every day, the mundane things. 02:37:36.820 |
Think I could get all those mundane things right. 02:37:43.380 |
Now you can play 'cause all the mundane's in place. 02:37:47.020 |
So with children, imagine you want your children to play. 02:37:53.700 |
Any competing motivation or emotion will suppress play. 02:38:05.980 |
So you put everything in order and you think, 02:38:09.580 |
It's like, no, you aren't, not if it's voluntary. 02:38:12.580 |
And then the order is the precondition for the freedom. 02:38:15.740 |
And so then all of a sudden you get all these things 02:38:28.660 |
Try putting your room in order, perfect order. 02:38:31.940 |
- I mean, it's a really powerful way to think 02:38:40.740 |
You know, I thought I did that with my clients a lot. 02:38:45.540 |
The guys, hey, and their wives would meet them at the door 02:38:51.180 |
'cause he comes home and he's tired and hungry. 02:38:53.340 |
He's worked all day and he's hoping that, you know, 02:38:55.740 |
he gets welcomed when he comes back to the home, 02:39:03.460 |
he'll show her some appreciation for what's happened today. 02:39:05.860 |
And then they clash and then they both have problems 02:39:08.260 |
to discuss 'cause they've had their troubles during the day. 02:39:13.220 |
they're not like it's a bit of a fight for 20 minutes 02:39:18.940 |
And so then you think, okay, here's the deal. 02:39:24.980 |
Okay, you get to pick what happens when you come home, 02:39:33.900 |
You imagine coming home and it goes the way you want 02:39:56.060 |
My wife says, hi, it's so nice to hear your voice. 02:40:02.420 |
She gives you a hug and she says, how was your day? 02:40:05.100 |
And you say, well, we'll sit and talk about that. 02:40:39.260 |
okay, if he comes home, what do I want to have happen? 02:40:41.520 |
And then now you got two visions and you say, 02:40:45.200 |
And you listen and she says, what would you like? 02:40:50.560 |
okay, now how can we bring these visions together? 02:41:04.320 |
It's a union of ideals that's even makes a better ideal. 02:41:09.440 |
And then there's another rule that goes along with that, 02:41:25.960 |
And then we'll practice stupidly for 20 times 02:41:44.560 |
- Let me ask for some dating advice from Jordan Peterson. 02:41:47.560 |
How do you find on that topic, the love of your life? 02:41:59.560 |
'cause we ask people to use this Slido gadget. 02:42:11.680 |
And then I thought, why don't I have a good answer? 02:42:25.400 |
Because it's putting the cart before the horse. 02:42:42.000 |
If I offered everything I could to a partner, 02:42:52.560 |
I have to be the person that women would want. 02:43:28.020 |
That's the music, patterns, patterns of being. 02:43:52.840 |
It's like, you can go through this in your imagination 02:43:58.000 |
And then you think, well, how far am I from those things? 02:44:01.740 |
it's pretty horrible abyss separating you from that ideal. 02:44:06.600 |
But the harder you work on offering other people 02:44:14.140 |
the more people will line up to play with you. 02:44:18.360 |
It's like, how can I be the best partner possible? 02:44:30.340 |
well, I'll be good and everyone will treat me right. 02:44:45.740 |
And that's why you're supposed to be, what is it? 02:44:55.780 |
Maybe I know it more than you do, but we'll play anyways. 02:45:04.260 |
It's like, and what's so cool about that is that 02:45:08.940 |
is full of snakes, if you offer your hand in trust 02:45:13.140 |
and it's real, you will evoke the best in them. 02:45:18.900 |
who were pretty damn criminal and pretty psychopathic 02:45:28.180 |
And you tread very lightly when you're dealing 02:45:30.780 |
with someone like that, especially if they're intoxicated. 02:45:33.980 |
And even then, your best bet is that alert trust. 02:45:38.980 |
It's the only, it's the fact that the only thing I know that 02:45:58.020 |
and restraining orders don't work on the sort of people 02:46:05.500 |
you know, a bureaucrat in a bank with delusions of power. 02:46:10.180 |
And he would say to them, he used to kind of act this out 02:46:23.780 |
He had this obsessional psychopathic vengeance 02:46:27.700 |
that was just like right there, paranoid to the hilt 02:46:34.100 |
So they're watching you for any sign of deceit 02:46:38.580 |
or manipulation, and they're really good at it. 02:46:41.540 |
'Cause like they're 100%, that's what paranoia is. 02:46:49.820 |
if you step carefully enough, you can, maybe, 02:47:07.940 |
towards another person, even when they're dangerous, 02:47:18.380 |
then that's probably the only way you're going to find it 02:47:26.420 |
by Solzhenitsyn that speak to this very point. 02:47:33.980 |
I'm sure in many ways we are talking about it forever. 02:47:38.020 |
But there is sort of one of the themes captured 02:47:41.180 |
in the few ways that was described through the book 02:47:48.580 |
As he writes, "The line dividing good and evil 02:47:52.820 |
"cuts through the heart of every human being. 02:47:59.700 |
"Sometimes it is squeezed one way to exuberant evil, 02:48:03.500 |
"and sometimes it shifts to allow enough space 02:48:09.780 |
"at various ages, under various circumstances, 02:48:27.740 |
What do you think about this thing where we talked about 02:48:36.420 |
that throughout time that line shifts inside each person, 02:49:14.680 |
What does that mean cosmically and ontologically? 02:49:35.220 |
As the literature becomes more pop, I would say, 02:49:44.900 |
and there's a real good guy, and he's all good. 02:49:53.500 |
in literary representation, or Shakespearean heights, 02:50:00.720 |
And that's when literature really reaches its pinnacle, 02:50:11.260 |
Taking the speaking of Russia more seriously recently. 02:50:34.940 |
Because there was a sense like he was too rushed 02:50:43.580 |
The characters were unpredictable and not inconsistent. 02:50:46.580 |
There's parts of phrases that seemed to be incomplete. 02:50:52.300 |
that's not, that's actually crafted that way. 02:51:03.700 |
That captures the humanity of these characters, 02:51:12.580 |
is there a case to be made that Brothers Karamazov 02:51:30.420 |
Some of my best friends are inside that book. 02:52:05.740 |
still kind of sees me, saw me in my perception, 02:52:42.500 |
That's why no one enters the kingdom of heaven 02:52:59.820 |
Because I was tempted by Luciferian intellect, 02:53:18.540 |
'Cause everything else just felt insipid afterwards. 02:53:36.900 |
And I still, there's still, it's unbelievably deep. 02:53:43.460 |
Some of his books are, his writing is amazing as well. 02:54:03.620 |
You know, you have to be deaf in some fundamental sense 02:54:08.380 |
not to encounter a great dead friend and fail to learn. 02:54:13.300 |
No, and I mean, I tried to separate the wheat 02:54:17.580 |
You know, and I read all the great clinicians, 02:54:25.340 |
And I tried to pull out what I could, and that was a lot. 02:54:31.180 |
And I learned a lot from, well, from Dostoevsky and Nietzsche. 02:54:33.860 |
I'm gonna do a course on Dostoevsky and Nietzsche 02:54:43.940 |
- I hadn't thought about doing them together. 02:54:53.140 |
- You often weave them together really masterfully 02:54:55.420 |
because there is religious, in the broad sense of that word, 02:55:12.180 |
but that's because he was a writer of fiction. 02:55:15.580 |
- Nietzsche is almost a character in a Dostoevsky novel. 02:55:21.380 |
Apparently, Nietzsche knew more about Dostoevsky 02:55:25.740 |
There's been some recent scholarship on that grounds. 02:55:27.940 |
Dostoevsky didn't know anything about Nietzsche, 02:55:32.340 |
But the thing that Dostoevsky had over Nietzsche 02:55:35.300 |
is Nietzsche had to make things propositional 02:55:37.660 |
in some real sense, 'cause he was a philosopher. 02:55:42.420 |
that are outside your ken, but you can characterize them. 02:55:49.340 |
Ivan is a more developed character than Ilyosha, 02:56:12.740 |
And so, Dostoevsky had that edge over Nietzsche. 02:56:14.820 |
He said, well, Ivan is this brilliant rationalist, 02:56:17.460 |
atheist, materialist, and puts forward an argument 02:56:23.460 |
as far as I'm concerned, and overwhelms Ilyosha, 02:56:26.860 |
who cannot respond, but Ilyosha's still the better man. 02:56:42.540 |
because you are one of the intellectuals of our time, 02:56:45.660 |
rigorous in thought, but also are able to have that kind of, 02:57:31.780 |
into a world such as this, which is a fundamental question 02:57:36.460 |
It's an act of faith to declare that it's good, 02:57:59.700 |
The more you act out the proposition that it's good, 02:58:09.420 |
And so that's, Dostoevsky said, this is something else. 02:58:14.820 |
Every man is not only responsible for everything he does, 02:58:24.980 |
Then you think, is what you receive back proportionate 02:58:36.780 |
And it's certainly, you can see that it's true 02:58:38.580 |
in some sense, because people certainly respond to you 02:58:53.380 |
So, yeah, you create the world by the way you live it. 02:59:22.340 |
And I would say, where's that adventure to be found? 02:59:29.800 |
The highest value is love and truth is its handmaiden. 02:59:58.120 |
How do I find out if this is the person for me? 03:00:05.240 |
Well, maybe the same thing's true of life, right? 03:00:41.380 |
attendant upon betrayal and tyranny, followed by hell. 03:00:48.280 |
Well, that's a hell of a thing to radically embrace. 03:00:52.620 |
- I think a lot of people put truth as the highest ideal 03:01:13.940 |
is the highest ideal to reach for, and truth is-- 03:01:23.020 |
And the thing about truth, that bitter truth, let's say, 03:01:25.560 |
that cynical truth is it can break the shackles of naivety. 03:01:30.560 |
And actually, a burnt cynicism is a moral improvement 03:01:44.200 |
And the other is bitter and dark, but still better. 03:01:57.060 |
Are you, I'm an Auschwitz prison guard level of cynical? 03:02:00.920 |
'Cause you have to go down pretty deep into the weeds 03:02:09.420 |
And then you think, well, I want to stop this. 03:02:16.040 |
what happened on these mass scale catastrophes 03:02:21.380 |
It's like, well, millions of people participated. 03:02:24.740 |
So you could have, and maybe you would have enjoyed it. 03:02:48.820 |
And once you do, maybe eventually you can find the love. 03:02:56.980 |
Thank you for being a truth seeker in this world, 03:03:09.100 |
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