back to indexJordan Peterson: Nietzsche, Hitler, God, Psychopathy, Suffering & Meaning | Lex Fridman Podcast #448
Chapters
0:0 Introduction
0:8 Nietzsche
7:49 Power and propaganda
12:55 Nazism
17:55 Religion
34:19 Communism
40:4 Hero myth
42:13 Belief in God
52:25 Advice for young people
65:3 Sex
85:1 Good and evil
97:47 Psychopathy
111:16 Hardship
123:32 Pain and gratitude
134:33 Truth
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The following is a conversation with Jordan Peterson, his second time on this, the Lex 00:00:08.500 |
You have given a set of lectures on Nietzsche as part of the new Peterson Academy, and the 00:00:16.040 |
There's some element of the contradictions, the tensions, the drama, the way you like 00:00:19.640 |
lock in on an idea, but then are struggling with that idea, all of that, that feels like 00:00:25.960 |
Yeah, well, he's a big influence on me stylistically, and like in terms of the way I approach writing, 00:00:33.920 |
and also many of the people that were other influences of mine were very influenced by 00:00:41.000 |
So I was blown away when I first came across his writings. 00:00:44.880 |
They're so intellectually dense that I don't know if there's anything that approximates 00:00:55.200 |
Dostoyevsky, maybe, although he's much more wordy, Nietzsche is very succinct, partly 00:00:59.240 |
because he was so ill, because he would think all day, he couldn't spend a lot of time writing, 00:01:03.360 |
and he condenses writings into very short, while this aphoristic style he had, and it's 00:01:10.980 |
And then he's also an exciting writer, like Dostoyevsky, and dynamic and romantic in that 00:01:21.360 |
And I really enjoyed doing that, I did that lecture that you described, that lecture series 00:01:25.480 |
is on the first half of Beyond Good and Evil, which is a stunning book, and that was really 00:01:31.240 |
fun to take pieces of it and then to describe what they mean and how they've echoed across 00:01:36.840 |
the decades since he wrote them, and yeah, it's been great. 00:01:40.880 |
Taking each sentence seriously, and deconstructing it, and really struggling with it. 00:01:47.360 |
I think underpinning that approach to writing requires deep respect for the person. 00:01:52.960 |
I think if we approach writing with that kind of respect, you can take Orwell, you can take 00:01:57.720 |
a lot of writers, and really dig in on singular sentences. 00:02:01.440 |
Yeah, well those are the great writers, because the greatest writers, virtually everything 00:02:09.120 |
And I think Nietzsche is, in some ways, the ultimate exemplar of that, because often when 00:02:14.600 |
I read a book, I'll mark one way or another, I often fold the corner of the page over to 00:02:20.100 |
indicate something that I've found that's worth remembering, I couldn't do that with 00:02:24.680 |
a book like Beyond Good and Evil, because every page ends up marked. 00:02:30.100 |
And that's in marked contrast, so to speak, to many of the books I read now, where it's 00:02:36.280 |
quite frequently now that I'll read a book, and there won't be an idea in it that I haven't 00:02:41.560 |
come across before, and with a thinker like Nietzsche, that's just not the case at the 00:02:46.360 |
sentence level, and I don't think there's anyone that I know of who did that to a greater 00:02:53.180 |
So there's other people whose thought is of equivalent value. 00:02:56.880 |
I've returned recently, and I'm going to do a course on the work of this Romanian historian 00:03:01.840 |
of religions, Mircea Eliade, who's not nearly as well known as he should be, and whose work, 00:03:07.520 |
by the way, is a real antidote to the post-modern, nihilistic, Marxist stream of literary interpretation 00:03:14.480 |
that the universities as a whole have adopted. 00:03:20.320 |
I used this book called The Sacred and the Profane quite extensively in a book that I'm 00:03:25.680 |
releasing in mid-November, We Who Wrestle with God, and it's of the same sort. 00:03:34.400 |
I mean, Eliade walked through the whole history of religious ideas, and he had the intellect 00:03:40.280 |
that enabled him to do that, and everything he wrote is dream-like in its density. 00:03:46.400 |
So every sentence or paragraph is evocative in an image-rich manner, and that also, what 00:03:56.720 |
would you say, deepens and broadens the scope, and that's part of often what distinguishes 00:04:01.160 |
writing that has a literary end from writing that's more merely technical. 00:04:05.080 |
Like the literary writings have this imagistic and dream-like reference space around them, 00:04:11.340 |
and it takes a long time to turn a complex image into something semantic. 00:04:18.240 |
And so if your writing evokes deep imagery, it has a depth that can't be captured merely 00:04:26.580 |
One of the great romantic, poetic philosophers, Nietzsche is a very good example, Dostoevsky 00:04:30.980 |
is a good example, so is Mircea Eliade, they have that quality. 00:04:34.740 |
And it's a good way of thinking about it, you know, it's kind of interesting from the 00:04:38.460 |
perspective of technical analysis of intelligence. 00:04:41.980 |
There's a good book called The User Illusion, which is the best book on consciousness that 00:04:47.320 |
It explains the manner in which our communication is understandable in this manner. 00:04:52.100 |
So imagine that when you're communicating something, you're trying to change the way 00:04:56.820 |
that your target audience perceives and acts in the world. 00:05:03.140 |
But you're using words, which obviously aren't equivalent to the actions themselves. 00:05:09.220 |
You can imagine that the words are surrounded by a cloud of images that they evoke, and 00:05:16.100 |
that the images can be translated into actions. 00:05:19.740 |
And the greatest writing uses words in a manner that evokes images that profoundly affects 00:05:28.660 |
So I would take the manner in which I act and behave, I would translate that into a 00:05:36.740 |
Then I compress them into words, I toss you the words, you decompose them, decompress 00:05:42.420 |
them into the images, and then into the actions, and that's what happens in a meaningful conversation. 00:05:48.680 |
It's a very good way of understanding how we communicate linguistically. 00:05:51.940 |
So if the words spring to the full visual complexity, then that can then transform itself 00:06:02.940 |
Well, those are both relevant, and it's an important thing to understand because the 00:06:07.620 |
classic empiricists make the presumption, and it's an erroneous presumption, that perception 00:06:16.660 |
And they assume that partly because they think of perception as something passive. 00:06:20.360 |
You know, you just turn your head and you look at the world, and there it is. 00:06:25.240 |
There is no perception without action, ever, ever. 00:06:29.440 |
And that's a weird thing to understand, because even when you're looking at something, like, 00:06:34.080 |
If they ever stop moving for a tenth of a second, you stop being able to see. 00:06:38.200 |
So your eyes are jiggling back and forth just to keep them active. 00:06:41.560 |
And then there's involuntary movements of your eyes, and then there's voluntary movements 00:06:46.400 |
And what you're doing with your eyes is very much like what a blind person would do if 00:06:50.040 |
they were feeling out the contours of an object. 00:06:54.500 |
And you're only sampling a small element of the space that's in front of you, and the 00:07:00.680 |
element that you choose to sample is dependent on your aims and your goals, so it's value-saturated. 00:07:06.060 |
And so, all your perceptions are action-predicated, and partly what you're doing when you're communicating 00:07:11.600 |
is therefore not only changing people's actions, let's say, but you're also changing the strategy 00:07:20.060 |
And so you change the way the world reveals itself for them. 00:07:23.160 |
See, this is why it's such a profound experience to read a particularly deep thinker, because 00:07:28.700 |
you could also think of your perceptions as the axioms of your thought. 00:07:33.720 |
A perception is like a, what would you say, it's a thought that's so set in concrete that 00:07:42.120 |
A really profound thinker changes the way you perceive the world. 00:07:45.900 |
That's way deeper than just how you think about it or how you feel about it. 00:07:49.960 |
What about not just profound thinkers, but thinkers that deliver a powerful idea? 00:07:55.760 |
For example, utopian ideas of Marx, or utopian ideas, you could say dystopian ideas of Hitler. 00:08:04.140 |
Those ideas are powerful and they can saturate all your perception with values and they focus 00:08:12.700 |
you in a way where there's only a certain set of actions. 00:08:16.580 |
Yeah, right, even a certain set of emotions as well. 00:08:20.060 |
And it's intense and it's direct and they're so powerful that they completely alter the 00:08:29.520 |
So there's two things you need to understand to make that clear. 00:08:33.800 |
The first issue is that, as we suggested or implied, that perception is action predicated, 00:08:45.780 |
And these propagandistic thinkers that you described, they attempt to unify all possible 00:08:57.540 |
There's the advantage of simplicity, for example, which is a major advantage. 00:09:01.660 |
And there's also the advantage of motivation, right? 00:09:04.480 |
So if you provide people with a simple manner of integrating all their actions, you decrease 00:09:10.940 |
their anxiety and you increase their motivation. 00:09:12.780 |
And that can be a good thing if the unifying idea that you put forward is valid. 00:09:17.780 |
But it's the worst of all possible ideas if you put forward an invalid unifying idea. 00:09:23.600 |
And then you might say, well, how do you distinguish between a valid unifying idea and an invalid 00:09:33.220 |
But the postmodernists, for example, especially the ones—and this is most of them with a 00:09:37.940 |
neo-Marxist bent—their presumption is that the fundamental unifying idea is power. 00:09:43.540 |
That everything's about compulsion and force, essentially. 00:09:46.320 |
And that that's the only true unifying ethos of mankind, which is—I don't know if there's 00:09:54.660 |
I mean, there are ideas that are potentially as dangerous. 00:09:59.500 |
The nihilistic idea is pretty dangerous, although it's more of a disintegrating notion than 00:10:05.760 |
The hedonistic idea that you live for pleasure, for example, that's also very dangerous. 00:10:10.820 |
But if you wanted to go for sheer pathology, the notion that—and this is Foucault in 00:10:15.220 |
a nutshell, and Marx for that matter—that power rules everything, not only is that a 00:10:20.580 |
terrible unifying idea, but it fully justifies your own use of power. 00:10:25.660 |
And I don't mean the power Nietzsche talks about. 00:10:28.540 |
His will to power was more his insistence that a human being is an expression of will 00:10:35.940 |
rather than a mechanism of self-protection and security. 00:10:40.540 |
He thought of the life force in human beings as something that strived not to protect itself, 00:10:49.980 |
It's like an upward-oriented motivational drive, even towards meaning. 00:10:54.480 |
Now he called it the will to power, and that had some unfortunate consequences, at least 00:11:00.340 |
But he didn't mean the power motivation that people like Foucault or Marx became so hung 00:11:06.300 |
So it's not power like you're trying to destroy the other. 00:11:09.260 |
It's powerful flourishing of a human being, the creative force of a human being, in that 00:11:18.020 |
You could imagine that you could segregate competence and ability. 00:11:23.500 |
Imagine that you and I were going to work on a project. 00:11:26.280 |
We could organize our project in relationship to the ambition that we wanted to attain, 00:11:32.140 |
and we can organize an agreement so that you were committed to the project voluntarily, 00:11:36.760 |
and so that I was committed to the project voluntarily. 00:11:39.540 |
So that means that we would actually be united in our perceptions and our actions by the 00:11:45.100 |
motivation of something approximating voluntary play. 00:11:48.580 |
Now you could also imagine another situation where I said, here's our goal, and you better 00:11:57.700 |
Well the probability is that you would be quite motivated to undertake my bidding. 00:12:06.220 |
And so then you might say, well that's how the world works, it's power and compulsion. 00:12:09.740 |
But the truth of the matter is that you can force people to see things your way, let's 00:12:16.100 |
say, but it's nowhere near as good a strategy, even practically, than the strategy that would 00:12:22.300 |
be associated with something like voluntary joint agreement of pattern of movement strategy 00:12:30.900 |
See, this is such an important thing to understand, because it helps you start to understand the 00:12:37.260 |
distinction between a unifying force that's based on power and compulsion, and one that 00:12:42.940 |
is much more in keeping, I would say, with the ethos that governs Western societies, 00:12:48.860 |
There's really a qualitative difference, and it's not some morally relativistic illusion. 00:12:54.740 |
So if we just look at the nuance of Nietzsche's thought, the idea he first introduced and 00:13:01.900 |
thus spoke Zarathustra of the Übermensch, it's another one that's very easy to misinterpret 00:13:08.280 |
because it sounds awfully a lot like it's about power. 00:13:13.220 |
For example, in the 20th century it was misrepresented and co-opted by Hitler to advocate for the 00:13:20.260 |
extermination of the inferior non-Aryan races. 00:13:24.540 |
And the dominion of the superior Aryans, yeah. 00:13:27.140 |
Well, and that was partly because Nietzsche's work also was misrepresented by his sister 00:13:33.940 |
But I also think that there's a fundamental flaw in that Nietzschean conceptualization. 00:13:38.380 |
So Nietzsche, of course, famously announced the death of God, but he did that in a manner 00:13:44.300 |
that was accompanied by dire warnings, like Nietzsche said, because people tend to think 00:13:51.100 |
But Nietzsche actually said that, he really said something like the unifying ethos under 00:13:58.980 |
which we've organized ourselves psychologically and socially has now been fatally undermined 00:14:04.220 |
by, well, by the rationalist proclivity, by the empiricist proclivity. 00:14:12.060 |
Mostly it was conflict between the Enlightenment view, let's say, and the classic religious 00:14:15.380 |
view, and that there will be dire consequences for that. 00:14:19.140 |
And Nietzsche knew, like Dostoevsky knew, that, see, there's a proclivity for the human 00:14:25.380 |
psyche and for human societies to move towards something approximating a unity, because the 00:14:33.100 |
Fractionation of your goals, so that means you're less motivated to move forward than 00:14:37.460 |
you might be, because there's many things competing for your attention. 00:14:40.740 |
And also anxiety, because anxiety actually signals something like goal conflict. 00:14:45.900 |
So there's an inescapable proclivity of value systems to unite. 00:14:50.740 |
Now if you kill the thing that's uniting them, that's the death of God, they either 00:14:54.440 |
fractionate and you get confusion, anxiety, and hopelessness, or you get social disunity, 00:15:01.940 |
or and you get social disunity, or something else arises out of the abyss to constitute 00:15:12.460 |
And Nietzsche said, specifically, that he believed that one of those manifestations 00:15:20.700 |
And that that would kill, he said this in Will to Power, that that would kill tens of 00:15:25.260 |
millions of people in the upcoming 20th century. 00:15:28.820 |
He could see that coming 50 years earlier, and Dostoevsky did the same thing in his book 00:15:35.060 |
So this is the thing that the areligious have to contend with. 00:15:38.220 |
It's a real conundrum, because, I mean, you could dispute the idea that our value systems 00:15:44.620 |
tend towards a unity, and society does as well, because otherwise we're disunified. 00:15:49.500 |
But the cost of that disunity, as I said, is goal confusion, anxiety, and hopelessness. 00:15:56.780 |
So you could dispense with the notion of unity altogether, and the postmodernists did that 00:16:01.660 |
But they pulled off a sleight of hand too, where they replaced it by power. 00:16:05.500 |
Now Nietzsche did, he's responsible for that to some degree, because Nietzsche said, with 00:16:11.220 |
his conception of the overman, let's say, is that human beings would have to create 00:16:17.580 |
Because the value structure that had descended from on high was now shunted aside. 00:16:23.380 |
But there's a major problem with that, many major problems. 00:16:27.700 |
The psychoanalysts were the first people who really figured this out after Nietzsche. 00:16:31.660 |
Because imagine that we don't have a relationship with the transcendental anymore that orients 00:16:41.700 |
Okay, now if we were a unity, a clear unity within ourselves, let's say, then we could 00:16:51.080 |
But if we're a fractionated plurality internally, then when we turn to ourselves, we turn to 00:16:58.580 |
Well that was Freud's observation, it's like, well how can you make your own values 00:17:02.180 |
when you're not the master in your own house? 00:17:04.680 |
Like you're a war of competing motivations, or maybe you're someone who's dominated 00:17:12.860 |
And so why do you think that you can rely on yourself as the source of values? 00:17:16.340 |
And why do you think you're wise enough to consult with yourself to find out what those 00:17:20.620 |
values are, or what they should be, say, in the course of a single life? 00:17:24.700 |
I mean, you know, it's difficult to organize your own personal relationship, like one relationship, 00:17:31.000 |
in the course of your life, let alone to try to imagine that out of whole cloth you could 00:17:35.820 |
construct an ethos that would be psychologically and socially stabilizing, and last over the 00:17:42.500 |
And of course Marx, people like that, the people who reduce human motivation to a single 00:17:48.580 |
axis, they had the intellectual hubris to imagine that they could do that. 00:17:53.180 |
Postmodernists are a good example of that as well. 00:17:56.420 |
But if we lay on the table, religion, communism, Nazism, they are all unifying ethos. 00:18:06.620 |
They're unifying ideas, but they're also horribly dividing ideas. 00:18:12.420 |
Religion has also divided people, because in the nuances of how the different peoples 00:18:21.660 |
wrestle with God, they have come to different conclusions, and then they use those conclusions, 00:18:26.300 |
and perhaps the people in power use those conclusions to then start wars, to start hatred, 00:18:32.780 |
Yeah, well it's one of the key sub-themes in the Gospels, is the sub-theme of the Pharisees. 00:18:40.020 |
And so the fundamental enemies of Christ in the Gospels are the Pharisees, and the scribes, 00:18:51.660 |
The scribes are academics who worship their own intellect. 00:18:55.620 |
And the lawyers are the legal minds who use the law as a weapon. 00:19:09.820 |
The Pharisaic problem is that the best of all possible ideas can be used by the worst 00:19:18.900 |
And maybe this is an existential conundrum, is that the most evil people use the best 00:19:26.740 |
And then you have the conundrum of how do you separate out, let's say, the genuine religious 00:19:31.700 |
people from those who use the religious enterprise only for their own machinations. 00:19:39.200 |
Like one of the things that you're seeing happening online, I'm sure you've noticed 00:19:42.780 |
this, especially on the right-wing psychopathic troll side of the distribution, is the weaponization 00:19:53.500 |
And that's often marked, at least online, by the presence of, what would you say, cliches 00:19:58.500 |
like "Christ is King," which has a certain religious meaning but a completely different 00:20:02.940 |
meaning in this sphere of emerging right-wing pathology. 00:20:09.020 |
The political dimension isn't the right dimension of analysis. 00:20:11.800 |
But it's definitely the case that the best possible ideas can be used for the worst possible 00:20:17.440 |
And that also brings up another specter, which is like, well, is there any reliable and valid 00:20:22.060 |
way of distinguishing truly beneficial, unifying ideas from those that are pathological? 00:20:28.620 |
And so, that's another thing that I tried to detail out in these lectures, but also 00:20:33.900 |
It's like, how do you tell the good actors from the bad actors at the most fundamental 00:20:39.380 |
And good ideas from the bad ideas, and you lecture on truth that Nietzsche also struggled 00:20:45.160 |
So, how do you know that communism is a bad idea, versus it's a good idea implemented 00:20:56.520 |
That's a more subtle variant of the religious problem, and that's what the communists say 00:21:05.040 |
And you could say, I suppose, with some justification, you could say that real Christianity has never 00:21:10.840 |
been tried, because we always fall short of the ideal mark. 00:21:15.340 |
And so, I mean, my rejoinder to the communists is something like, every single time it's 00:21:22.340 |
been implemented, wherever it's been implemented, regardless of the culture and the background 00:21:27.380 |
of the people who've implemented it, it's had exactly the same catastrophic consequences. 00:21:32.300 |
Like, I don't know how many examples you need of that, but I believe we've generated sufficient 00:21:38.860 |
examples so that that case is basically resolved. 00:21:42.380 |
Now, the general rejoinder to that is, it's really something like, well, if I was in charge 00:21:49.620 |
of the communist enterprise, the utopia would have come about, right? 00:21:53.300 |
But that's also a form of dangerous pretense. 00:21:56.140 |
Part of the way—see, that problem is actually resolved to some degree in the notion of—in 00:22:02.500 |
the developing notion of sacrifice that emerges in the Western canon over thousands and thousands 00:22:08.220 |
So, one of the suggestions, for example—and this is something exemplified in the passion 00:22:13.000 |
story—is that you can tell the valid holder of an idea, because that holder will take 00:22:19.140 |
the responsibility for the consequences of his idea onto himself. 00:22:24.580 |
And that's why, for example, you see one way of conceptualizing Christ in the gospel story 00:22:34.020 |
So you might ask, well, what's the ultimate sacrifice? 00:22:39.580 |
One form of ultimate sacrifice is the sacrifice of a child—the offering of a child—and 00:22:46.460 |
And the story of Christ brings both of those together, because he's the son of God that's 00:22:51.260 |
offered to God, and so it's an archetypal resolution of that tension between ultimate 00:22:59.620 |
Ultimate because, once you're a parent, most parents would rather sacrifice themselves 00:23:07.700 |
So you have something that becomes of even more value than yourself. 00:23:11.100 |
But the sacrifice of self is also a very high-order level of sacrifice. 00:23:16.220 |
Christ is an archetype of the pattern of being that's predicated on the decision to take, 00:23:21.820 |
to offer everything up to the highest value, right? 00:23:27.620 |
And I think part of the reason that's valid is because the person who undertakes to do 00:23:36.520 |
They're not trying to change anyone else, except maybe by example. 00:23:42.140 |
Like Solzhenitsyn pointed that out, too, when he was struggling with the idea of good versus 00:23:48.580 |
And you see this in more sophisticated literature. 00:23:51.220 |
You know, in really unsophisticated literature or drama, there's a good guy and a bad guy, 00:23:58.140 |
and the good guy's all good, and the bad guy's all bad. 00:24:03.060 |
And in more sophisticated literature, the good and bad are abstracted. 00:24:12.140 |
And then those spirits possess all the characters in the complex drama to a greater or lesser 00:24:18.820 |
And that battle is fought out both socially and internally. 00:24:21.980 |
In the high-order religious conceptualizations in the West, if they culminate, let's say, 00:24:28.580 |
in the Christian story, the notion is that battle between good and evil is fundamentally 00:24:35.300 |
Yeah, so for a religious ethos, the battle between good and evil is fought within each 00:24:45.700 |
It's your moral duty to constrain evil within yourself. 00:24:48.640 |
And while there's more to it than that, because there's also the insistence that if you do 00:24:55.140 |
that, that makes you the most effective possible warrior, let's say, against evil itself in 00:25:02.020 |
the social world, that you start with the battle that occurs within you, in the soul, 00:25:08.160 |
The soul becomes the battleground between the forces of good and evil. 00:25:12.060 |
There's an idea there too, which is if that battle is undertaken successfully, then it 00:25:18.120 |
doesn't have to be played out in the social world as actual conflict. 00:25:23.120 |
You can rectify the conflict internally without it having to be played out as fate, as Jung 00:25:28.820 |
So what would you say to Nietzsche, who called Christianity the slave morality? 00:25:34.400 |
His critique of religion in that way was slave morality versus master morality, and then 00:25:41.700 |
See, I would say that the woke phenomenon is the manifestation of the slave morality 00:25:48.860 |
that Nietzsche criticized, and that there are elements of Christianity that can be gerrymandered 00:25:58.140 |
to support that mode of perception and conception. 00:26:04.180 |
But I think he was wrong, and he was wrong in his essential criticism of Christianity 00:26:10.680 |
Now, it's complicated with Nietzsche, because Nietzsche never criticizes the gospel stories 00:26:18.100 |
What he basically criticizes is something like the pathologies of institutionalized 00:26:24.660 |
But most particularly of the, what would you say, of the sort of casually too nice 00:26:34.100 |
You know, that's a thumbnail sketch and perhaps somewhat unfair, but given the alignment, 00:26:40.980 |
let's say, of the more mainstream Protestant movements with the woke mob, I don't think 00:26:48.880 |
It's something like the degeneration of Christianity into the notion that good and 00:26:54.060 |
harmless are the same thing, or good and empathic are the same thing, which is simply not true, 00:27:03.580 |
And I also think Nietzsche was extremely wrong in his presumption that human beings should 00:27:08.060 |
take it to themselves to construct their own values. 00:27:11.060 |
I think he made a colossal error in that presumption. 00:27:13.820 |
And that is the idea of the ubermensch, that the great individual, the best of us should 00:27:20.540 |
And I think the reason that he was wrong about that is that, so when God gives instructions 00:27:26.740 |
to Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, he basically tells them that they can do anything 00:27:32.500 |
So that's the kind of balance between order and nature that makes up the human environment. 00:27:37.700 |
Human beings have the freedom, vouchsafed to them by God, to do anything they want in 00:27:43.660 |
the garden except to mess with the most fundamental rules. 00:27:47.500 |
So God says to people, you're not to eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. 00:27:52.420 |
Which fundamentally means, there is an implicit moral order and you're to abide by it. 00:28:01.340 |
And you can think about that, or I'd be interested even in your ideas about this as an engineer, 00:28:06.220 |
let's say, is that there is an ethos that's implicit in being itself. 00:28:13.780 |
And your ethos has to be a reflection of that. 00:28:18.840 |
You can't gerrymander the foundation because your foundational beliefs have to put you 00:28:24.860 |
in harmony, like musical harmony, with the actual structure of reality as such. 00:28:31.360 |
So our goal, insofar as we're conducting ourselves properly, is to have the kind of interesting 00:28:37.660 |
conversation that allows both of us to express ourselves in a manner that enables us to learn 00:28:44.620 |
and grow, such that we can share that with everyone who's listening. 00:28:48.500 |
And if our aim is true and upward, then that's what we're doing. 00:28:52.380 |
Well, that means that we're going to have to match ourselves to a pattern of interaction. 00:28:59.540 |
And that's marked for us emotionally, like you and I both know this. 00:29:03.100 |
If we're doing this right, we're going to be interested in the conversation. 00:29:07.540 |
We're not going to be thinking about what we're aiming at. 00:29:11.300 |
Now, the religious interpretation of that would be that we were doing something like 00:29:15.880 |
making the redemptive logos manifest between us in dialogue. 00:29:22.740 |
To do that, we have to align with that pattern. 00:29:25.420 |
I can't decide that there's some arbitrary way that I'm going to play you. 00:29:29.100 |
I mean, I could do that if I was a psychopathic manipulator, but to do that optimally, I'm 00:29:33.980 |
not going to impose a certain mode of, a certain a priori aim, let's say, on our communication 00:29:45.220 |
So the constraints on my ethos reflect the actual structure of the world. 00:29:54.380 |
And I can't, this is the communist presumption, it's like, we're going to burn everything 00:30:01.340 |
We've got these axiomatic presumptions and we're going to put them into place and we're 00:30:05.420 |
going to socialize people so they now think and live like communists from day one. 00:30:13.360 |
And we can use a rational set of presuppositions to decide what sort of beings they should 00:30:19.660 |
It's like, no, there's a pattern of being that you have to fall into alignment with. 00:30:24.820 |
And I think it's the pattern of being, by the way, that if you fall into alignment with, 00:30:30.240 |
it gives you hope, it protects you from anxiety, and it gives you a sense of harmony with your 00:30:40.060 |
But don't you think we both arrive to this conversation with rigid axioms? 00:30:44.720 |
That we have, maybe we're blind to them, but in the same way that the Marxists came with 00:30:49.180 |
very rigid axioms about the way the world is and the way it should be, aren't we coming 00:30:54.980 |
Well, we definitely come to the conversation with a hierarchy of foundational axioms, 00:30:59.820 |
I would say the more sophisticated you are as a thinker, the deeper the level at which 00:31:06.340 |
So imagine first that you have presumptions of different depth, there's more predicated 00:31:11.780 |
on the more fundamental axioms, and then that there's a space of play around those. 00:31:17.820 |
And that space of play is going to depend on the sophistication of the player, obviously. 00:31:23.060 |
But those who are capable of engaging in deeper conversations talk about more fundamental 00:31:30.940 |
Now we have to come to the conversation with a certain degree of structure because we wouldn't 00:31:35.700 |
be able to understand each other or communicate if a lot of things weren't already assumed 00:31:43.880 |
How rigid is the hierarchy of axioms that religion provides? 00:31:50.040 |
The rigidity of that hierarchy- It's as rigid as play. 00:31:54.740 |
No, no, no, no, no, no, it's got a rigidity- There's some constraints. 00:31:58.020 |
It took me about 40 years to figure out the answer to that question. 00:32:09.220 |
So if you and I go out to play basketball or chess, there are rules and you can't break 00:32:13.580 |
the rules because then you're no longer in the game. 00:32:16.560 |
But then there's a dynamism within those rules that's- Well with chess it's virtually infinite. 00:32:22.740 |
There's more patterns of potential games on a chess board than there are subatomic particles 00:32:31.020 |
So it's not like there's not freedom within it. 00:32:37.000 |
Because music is like this too, is that there are definitely rules. 00:32:42.040 |
And so there are things- You can't throw a basketball onto a chess board and still be 00:32:47.820 |
But weirdly enough, if you adhere to the rules, the realm of freedom increases rather than 00:32:54.660 |
And I think you can make the same case for a playful conversation. 00:32:57.860 |
It's like we're playing by certain rules and a lot of them are implicit. 00:33:01.540 |
But that doesn't mean that- It might mean the reverse of constraint. 00:33:06.300 |
You know, because in this seminar, for example, that I was referring to, the Exodus Seminar 00:33:11.400 |
and then the Gospel Seminar, everybody in the seminar, there's about eight of us, played 00:33:19.580 |
They put forward their points, but they were like, "Here's a way of looking at that." 00:33:28.540 |
It's like, "This is what I've concluded about, say, this story, and I'm going to make a case 00:33:34.780 |
But I'd like to hear what you have to say because maybe you can change it. 00:33:39.700 |
And that's a conversation that has flow and that's engaging and that other people will 00:33:45.660 |
And that's also- See, I think that one of the things that we can conclude now, and we 00:33:50.340 |
can do this even from a neuroscientific basis, is that that sense of engaged meaning is a 00:33:56.180 |
marker, not only for the emergence of harmony between you and your environment, but for 00:34:01.100 |
the emergence of that harmony in a way that is developmentally rich, that moves you upward 00:34:07.100 |
towards, what would you say, well, I think towards a more effective entropic state. 00:34:13.940 |
That's actually the technical answer to that. 00:34:15.580 |
But it makes you more than you are, and there's a directionality in that. 00:34:19.100 |
- Well, I would like to sort of, the reason I like talking about communism, because it 00:34:23.500 |
has clearly been shown as a set of ideas to be destructive to humanity, but I would like 00:34:31.540 |
to understand from an engineering perspective, the characteristics of communism versus religion, 00:34:39.980 |
where you could identify religious thought is going to lead to a better human being, 00:34:44.940 |
a better society, and communist Marxist thought is not. 00:34:49.440 |
Because there's ambiguity, there's room for play in communism and Marxism, because they 00:34:53.660 |
kind of had a utopian sense of where everybody's headed, don't know how it's going to happen, 00:34:59.080 |
maybe revolution is required, but after the revolution is done, we'll figure it out. 00:35:04.020 |
And there's an underlying assumption that maybe human beings are good, and they'll figure 00:35:11.820 |
All these ideas kind of, until you put them into practice, they can be quite convincing 00:35:19.940 |
If I was reading, which is kind of fascinating, the 19th century produced such powerful ideas, 00:35:31.340 |
So, you know, if I was sitting there, especially if I'm feeling shitty about myself, a lot 00:35:37.580 |
of these ideas are pretty powerful, as a way to plug the nihilist hole. 00:35:41.940 |
- Yeah, right, absolutely, well, and some of them may actually have an appropriate scope 00:35:46.900 |
Like, it could be that some of the foundational axioms of communism, socialism/communism, 00:35:53.100 |
are actually functional in a sufficiently small social group, maybe a tribal group even. 00:35:58.860 |
Like, I also have a, I'm not sure this is correct, but I have a suspicion that the pervasive 00:36:04.980 |
attractiveness of some of the radical left ideas that we're talking about are pervasive 00:36:10.980 |
precisely because they are functional within, say, families, but also within the small tribal 00:36:17.180 |
groups that people might have originally evolved into. 00:36:19.860 |
And that once we become civilized, so we produce societies that are united, even among people 00:36:27.100 |
who don't know one another, different principles have to apply as a consequence of scale. 00:36:31.860 |
So that's partly an engineering response, but I think there's a deeper way of going 00:36:38.900 |
So I think part of the communist, the problem, fundamental problem with the communist axioms 00:36:44.420 |
is the notion that the world of complex social interactions can be simplified sufficiently 00:36:51.500 |
so that centralized planning authorities can deal with it. 00:36:54.620 |
And I think the best way to think about the free exchange rejoinder to that presumption 00:36:59.580 |
is, no, the sum total of human interactions in a large civilization are so immense that 00:37:05.680 |
you need a distributed network of cognition in order to compute the proper way forward. 00:37:10.780 |
And so what you do is you give each actor their domain of individual choice so that 00:37:16.140 |
they can maximize their own movement forward and you allow the aggregate direction to emerge 00:37:20.660 |
from that rather than trying to impose it from the top down, which I think is computationally 00:37:27.160 |
So that might be one engineering reason why the communist solution doesn't work. 00:37:31.220 |
Like I read in Solzhenitsyn, for example, that the central Soviet authorities often 00:37:41.200 |
Now if you've ever started a business or created a product and had to wrestle with 00:37:47.140 |
the problem of pricing, you'd become aware of just how intractable that is. 00:37:54.140 |
Well, there's the central existential problem of life. 00:37:59.440 |
It's not something like a central authority can sit down and just manage. 00:38:02.980 |
And there is a lot of inputs that go into a pricing decision and the free market answer 00:38:09.580 |
to that is something like, well, if you get the price right, people will buy it and you'll 00:38:15.140 |
This is a fascinating way to describe how ideas fail. 00:38:17.820 |
So communism perhaps fails because, just like what people believe, the earth is flat. 00:38:23.180 |
When you look outside, it looks flat, but you can't see beyond the horizon, I guess. 00:38:30.100 |
In the same way with communism, communism seems like a great idea in my family, in my 00:38:41.980 |
Well, I mean, whatever ways it breaks down, it doesn't scale. 00:38:45.340 |
And you're saying religious thought is a thing that might scale. 00:38:49.260 |
I would say religious thought is the record of those ideas that have, in fact, scaled. 00:38:58.060 |
So, I mean, there's a fundamental conservative aspect to religious thought, tradition. 00:39:05.580 |
This is why, like Mircea Eliade, for example, who I referred to earlier, one of the things 00:39:10.260 |
Eliade did, and very effectively, and people like Joseph Campbell, who in some ways were 00:39:14.300 |
popularizers of Eliade's ideas and Carl Jung's, what they really did was devote themselves 00:39:21.140 |
to an analysis of those ideas that scaled and iterated across the largest possible spans 00:39:27.900 |
And so, Eliade and Jung, Eric Neumann, and Campbell, they were looking at patterns of 00:39:33.940 |
narrative that were common across religious traditions that had spanned millennia. 00:39:39.820 |
The hero's myth, for example, is one of those patterns. 00:39:42.260 |
And I think the evidence that it has its reflection in human neurophysiology and neuropsychology 00:39:49.140 |
And so, these foundational narratives, they last. 00:39:53.300 |
They're common across multiple religious traditions. 00:39:58.780 |
But they also reflect the underlying neurophysiological architecture. 00:40:07.360 |
And a quest myth is really a story of exploration and expansion of adaptation. 00:40:13.020 |
So, Bilbo the Hobbit, he's kind of an ordinary everyman. 00:40:16.840 |
He lives in a very constrained and orderly and secure world. 00:40:21.300 |
And then the quest call comes and he goes out and he expands his personality and develops 00:40:26.780 |
And that's reflected in human neuropsychological architecture at a very low level. 00:40:32.800 |
So, one of the most fundamental elements of the mammalian brain, and even in lower animal 00:40:42.680 |
So, it governs lust and it regulates your breathing and it regulates your hunger and 00:40:49.380 |
it regulates your thirst and it regulates your temperature. 00:40:51.880 |
Like really low-level biological necessities are regulated by the hypothalamus. 00:40:59.520 |
When you're activated in a defensively aggressive manner, that's the hypothalamus. 00:41:04.640 |
Half the hypothalamus is the origin of the dopaminergic tracts. 00:41:10.680 |
And so, you could think of the human motivational reality as a domain that's governed by axiomatic 00:41:17.960 |
motivational states - love, sex, defensive aggression, hunger - and another domain that's 00:41:25.160 |
And the rule would be something like, "When your basic motivational states are sated, 00:41:34.840 |
Like I said, this is deep, deep brain architecture. 00:41:40.080 |
And the exploration story is something like, "Go out into the unknown and take the risks 00:41:45.640 |
because the information that you discover and the skills you develop will be worthwhile 00:41:52.920 |
even in sating the basic motivational drives." 00:41:55.520 |
And then you want to learn to do that in an iterative manner so it sustains across time. 00:42:00.680 |
And you want to do it in a way that unites you with other people. 00:42:04.620 |
And I do think that's the pattern that we strive to encapsulate in our deep religious 00:42:10.840 |
And I think that in many ways we've done that successfully. 00:42:20.480 |
Okay, so in one of the stories that I cover in We Who Wrestle With God, which I've only 00:42:26.240 |
recently begun to take apart, say, in the last two years, is the story of Abraham. 00:42:32.860 |
And it's also related, by the way, to your question about what makes communism wrong. 00:42:39.400 |
Not precisely the Abraham story, but the same reason. 00:42:43.400 |
In Notes from Underground, Dostoevsky made a very telling observation. 00:42:47.680 |
So he speaks in the voice of a cynical, nihilistic, and bitter bureaucrat who's been a failure. 00:42:53.280 |
Who's talking cynically about the nature of human beings. 00:42:57.440 |
And one of the things he points out, with regards to modern utopianism, is that human 00:43:04.420 |
And that if you gave them what the socialist utopians want to give them, so let's say all 00:43:12.560 |
All your material needs are taken care of, and even indefinitely. 00:43:15.680 |
Dostoevsky's claim was, you don't understand human beings very well, because if you put 00:43:19.720 |
them in an environment that was that comfortable, they would purposefully go insane just to 00:43:24.920 |
break it into bits, just so something interesting would happen. 00:43:29.400 |
And he says it's the human proclivity to curse and complain. 00:43:33.600 |
He says this in quite a cynic and caustic manner, but he's pointing to something deep. 00:43:37.880 |
Which is that we're not built for comfort and security. 00:43:45.000 |
So then you might ask, well what the hell are we after then? 00:43:50.200 |
And Abraham is the first true individual in the biblical narrative. 00:43:55.160 |
So you can think about his story as the archetypal story of the developing individual. 00:44:02.200 |
Well in the Abraham story, God is characterized in a lot of different ways in the classic 00:44:07.900 |
Like the Bible is actually a compilation of different characterizations of the divine. 00:44:13.480 |
With the insistence that they reflect an underlying unity. 00:44:17.080 |
In the story of Abraham, the divine is the call to adventure. 00:44:26.660 |
He's from a wealthy family, and he has everything he needs. 00:44:30.040 |
And he actually doesn't do anything until he's in his seventies. 00:44:33.280 |
Now, hypothetically people in those times lived much longer. 00:44:36.860 |
But a voice comes to Abraham and it tells him something very specific. 00:44:54.400 |
I've got naked slave girls peeling grapes and feeding them to me. 00:45:01.820 |
And God tells him, and this is the covenant, by the way. 00:45:05.080 |
Part of the covenant that the God of the Israelites makes with his people. 00:45:11.920 |
He says, "If you follow the voice of adventure, you'll become a blessing to yourself." 00:45:18.720 |
So that's a good deal because people generally live at odds with themselves. 00:45:26.360 |
You'll become a blessing to yourself in a way that furthers your reputation among people 00:45:32.560 |
and validly so that you'll accomplish things that were real and people will know it and 00:45:37.040 |
you'll be held high in their esteem and that will be valid." 00:45:41.080 |
So that's a pretty good deal because social people would like to be regarded as of utility 00:45:53.920 |
You'll establish something of lasting permanent and deep value." 00:45:57.040 |
That's why Abraham becomes the father of nations. 00:46:00.280 |
And finally he caps it off and he says, "There's a better element even to it. 00:46:07.160 |
You'll do all three of those things in a way that's maximally beneficial to everyone else." 00:46:11.400 |
And so the divinity in the Abrahamic story is making a claim. 00:46:14.800 |
He says, "First of all, there's a drive that you should attend to. 00:46:19.980 |
So the spirit of adventure that calls you out of your zone of comfort. 00:46:23.800 |
Now if you attend to that and you make the sacrifices necessary to follow that path, 00:46:29.360 |
then the following benefits will accrue to you. 00:46:35.800 |
You'll establish something of permanent value and you'll do it in a way that's maximally 00:46:40.960 |
And so think about what this means biologically or from an engineering standpoint. 00:46:45.800 |
It means that the instinct to develop that characterizes outward-moving children, let's 00:46:50.600 |
say, or adults, is the same instinct that allows for psychological stability, that allows 00:46:57.280 |
for movement upward in the social hierarchy, that establishes something iterable, and that 00:47:02.720 |
does that in a manner that allows everyone else to partake in the same process. 00:47:09.780 |
And I can't see how it cannot be true because the alternative hypothesis would be that the 00:47:15.240 |
spirit that moves you beyond yourself to develop, the spirit of a curious child, let's say, 00:47:23.920 |
Is that antithetical to other people's best interest? 00:47:27.340 |
Is it not the thing that increases the probability that you'll do something permanent? 00:47:33.800 |
So God is a call to adventure with some constraints. 00:47:42.120 |
Yeah, and then that's a good observation because that begs the question, what constitutes the 00:47:49.760 |
Well that's not fully fleshed out until, at least from the Christian perspective, let's 00:47:53.840 |
say, that's not fully fleshed out until the Gospels. 00:47:57.800 |
Because the passion of Christ is the, you could say, this is the perfectly reasonable 00:48:02.920 |
way of looking at it, the passion of Christ is the truest adventure of Abraham. 00:48:09.000 |
Because the passion story is a catastrophic tragedy, although it obviously has its redemptive 00:48:16.800 |
But one of the things that's implied there is that there's no distinction between the 00:48:22.400 |
true adventure of life and taking on the pathway of maximal responsibility and burden. 00:48:29.880 |
Because the counter-hypothesis is, well Lex, the best thing for you to do in your life 00:48:39.800 |
To remain infantile, to remain secure, not to ever push yourself beyond your limits, 00:48:48.200 |
So basically the maximally worthwhile adventure could possibly be highly correlated with the 00:48:58.780 |
The hardest possible available adventure voluntarily undertaken. 00:49:12.780 |
When Christ is, the night before the crucifixion, which in principle he knows is coming, he 00:49:22.660 |
I mean that's the scene famously in which he's sweating, literally sweating blood. 00:49:29.020 |
And the Romans designed crucifixion to be the most agonizing, humiliating, and disgusting 00:49:38.260 |
So there is every reason to be apprehensive about that. 00:49:41.580 |
And you might say, well could you undertake that voluntarily as an adventure? 00:49:45.300 |
And the answer to that is something like, well what's your relationship with death? 00:49:52.920 |
And you could fight it, and you could be bitter about it, and there's reasons for that. 00:50:00.900 |
But the alternative is something like, well that's what's fleshed out in religious imagery 00:50:14.540 |
That's why I called the book "We Who Wrestle With God". 00:50:18.940 |
But Lex, I don't see how you can come to terms with life without construing it something 00:50:24.980 |
like, construing it as something like, bring it on. 00:50:31.020 |
And I can't see that there's a limit to that. 00:50:32.820 |
It's like, well I welcome the struggle until it gets difficult. 00:50:37.260 |
So there's not a bell curve, like the struggle in moderation. 00:50:41.660 |
Basically you have to welcome whatever, as hard as it gets. 00:50:46.300 |
And the crucifixion in that way is a symbol of that. 00:50:52.420 |
Because the crucifixion exemplifies the worst possible death. 00:50:57.900 |
But that isn't the only element of the struggle. 00:51:00.460 |
Because mythologically, classically, after Christ's death he harrows hell. 00:51:06.380 |
And what that means as far as I can tell, psychologically, is that you're not only required, 00:51:11.740 |
let's say, to take on the full existential burden of life and to welcome it, regardless 00:51:16.500 |
of what it is, and to maintain your upward aim despite all temptations to the contrary. 00:51:23.060 |
But you also have to confront the root of malevolence itself. 00:51:28.340 |
And I think the malevolence is actually worse. 00:51:30.780 |
And the reason I think that is because I know the literature on post-traumatic stress disorder. 00:51:35.660 |
And most people who encounter, let's say, a challenge that's so brutal that it fragments 00:51:41.420 |
them, it isn't mere suffering that does that to people. 00:51:45.680 |
It's an encounter with malevolence that does that to people. 00:51:48.260 |
Their own sometimes, often, by the way, a soldier will go out into a battlefield and 00:51:53.020 |
find out that there's a part of him that really enjoys the mayhem. 00:51:57.940 |
And that conceptualization doesn't fit in well with everything he thinks he knows about 00:52:04.260 |
And after that contact with that dark part of himself, he never recovers. 00:52:12.280 |
And it happens to people who encounter bad actors in the world, too. 00:52:15.140 |
If you're a naive person and the right narcissistic psychopath comes your way, you are in mortal 00:52:26.060 |
If there's a young man in their 20s listening to this, how do they escape the pull of Dostoyevsky's 00:52:34.780 |
With the eyes open to the world, how do they select the adventure? 00:52:39.460 |
So there's other characterizations of the divine, say, in the Old Testament story. 00:52:44.860 |
So one pattern of characterization that I think is really relevant to that question 00:52:49.340 |
is the conception of God as calling and conscience. 00:52:56.140 |
It's a description of the manner in which your destiny announces itself to you. 00:53:01.860 |
And I'm using that terminology, and it's distinguishable, say, from Nietzsche's notion that you create 00:53:09.060 |
It's like, part of the way you can tell that that's wrong is that you can't voluntarily 00:53:18.020 |
Like you find some things interesting, and that seems natural and autonomous, and other 00:53:23.740 |
things you don't find interesting, and you can't really force yourself to be interested 00:53:28.900 |
Now, so what is the domain of interest that makes itself manifest to you? 00:53:35.660 |
It's like certain things in your field of perception are illuminated to you. 00:53:44.020 |
Rudolf Otto, who studied the phenomenology of religious experience, described that as 00:53:52.780 |
The thing grips you because you're compelled by it, and maybe it's also somewhat anxiety-provoking. 00:53:57.340 |
It's the same reaction that a cat has to a dog when the cat's hair stands on end. 00:54:03.900 |
And so there's going to be things in your phenomenological field that pull you forward, 00:54:10.620 |
That's like the voice of positive emotion and enthusiasm. 00:54:27.500 |
There's various domains of interest that shine for people. 00:54:35.880 |
That would be akin to the spirit of adventure for Abraham. 00:54:39.660 |
But there's also God is conscience, and this is a useful thing to know too. 00:54:48.820 |
They take root within you, and they turn your thoughts towards certain issues. 00:54:54.280 |
Like there are things you're interested in that you've pursued your whole life. 00:54:57.460 |
There are things I'm interested in that I felt as a moral compulsion. 00:55:01.900 |
And so you could think, and I think the way you can think about it technically is that 00:55:06.660 |
something pulls you forward so that you move ahead and you develop. 00:55:11.780 |
And then another voice, this is a voice of negative emotion, says, "While you're moving 00:55:19.620 |
And it'll mark deviations, and it marks deviations with shame and guilt and anxiety, regret. 00:55:30.460 |
While you're wandering off the straight and narrow path. 00:55:32.580 |
So the divine marks the pathway forward and reveals it, but then puts up the constraints 00:55:38.900 |
And the divine in the Old Testament is portrayed, not least, as the dynamic between calling 00:55:49.660 |
There's some really dark ones that can really pull you into some bad places. 00:55:58.700 |
Those are the sins of Cain, by the way, in the story of Cain and Abel. 00:56:02.860 |
Because Cain fails because his sacrifices are insufficient. 00:56:08.480 |
And so he's rejected, and that makes him bitter and unhappy. 00:56:12.900 |
And he goes to complain to God, and God says to him two things. 00:56:16.540 |
He said, if God tells him, "If your sacrifices were appropriate, you'd be accepted." 00:56:24.060 |
And he also says, "You can't blame your misery on your failure. 00:56:31.780 |
When you failed, you invited in the spirit of envy and resentment, and you allowed it 00:56:37.900 |
And so Cain is embittered by that response, and that's when he kills Abel. 00:56:43.000 |
And so you might say, well, how do you fortify yourself against that pathway of resentment? 00:56:48.100 |
And part of classic religious practice is aimed to do that precisely. 00:57:02.380 |
I think envy is one of the biggest enemies for a young person, because basically you're 00:57:14.180 |
And you're striving, and you're failing constantly. 00:57:17.980 |
And you see other people whom you think aren't having the same problem. 00:57:24.420 |
They could be succeeding by a little bit, or somebody on the internet succeeding by 00:57:28.560 |
And I think that that can really pull a person down. 00:57:31.960 |
That kind of envy can really destroy a person. 00:57:35.780 |
Well, the gratitude element would be something like, well, yeah, you don't know anything, 00:57:45.740 |
You know, one of the best predictors of wealth in the United States is age. 00:57:52.900 |
So then you might say, well, who's got it better? 00:57:59.180 |
And I would say most old rich guys would trade their wealth for youth. 00:58:03.800 |
So it's not exactly clear at all at any stage who's got the upper hand, who's got the advantage. 00:58:09.000 |
And you know, you could say, well, I've got all these burdens in front of me because I'm 00:58:13.360 |
Or you could say, every dragon has its treasure. 00:58:21.560 |
You know, I'm not saying that people don't have their challenges. 00:58:25.880 |
But discriminating between a challenge and an opportunity is very, very difficult. 00:58:32.060 |
And learning to see a challenge as an opportunity, that's the beginning of wisdom. 00:58:41.340 |
But when you have enemy towards somebody, if you just celebrate them, so gratitude, 00:58:48.820 |
but actually as opposed to sort of ignoring and being grateful for the things you have, 00:58:54.020 |
like literally celebrate that person, it transforms, it like, it lights the way. 00:59:01.620 |
The only reason you're envious is because you see someone who has something that you 00:59:09.940 |
Well, first of all, the fact that they have it means that in principle, you could get 00:59:19.820 |
And then you might say, well, the fact that I'm envious of that person means that I actually 00:59:25.300 |
And then you might think, well, what am I envious of? 00:59:26.980 |
I'm envious of their attractiveness to women. 00:59:29.540 |
It's like, okay, well, now you know something about yourself. 00:59:33.440 |
You know, that one true motivation that's making itself manifest to you is that you 00:59:38.300 |
wish that you would be the sort of person who is attractive to women. 00:59:41.580 |
Now, of course, that's an extremely common longing among men period, but particularly 00:59:46.540 |
among young men, it's like, well, what makes you so sure you couldn't have that? 00:59:57.020 |
And maybe you don't have enough faith in, well, I would say the divine. 01:00:00.340 |
You don't believe that the world is characterized by enough potentiality so that even miserable 01:00:09.620 |
And like, I talked about this actually practically in one of my previous books, because I wrote 01:00:13.960 |
a chapter called Compare Yourself to Who You Are and Not to Someone Else at the Present 01:00:21.060 |
Well, your best benchmark for tomorrow is you today. 01:00:25.060 |
And you might not be able to have what someone else has on the particular axis you're comparing 01:00:30.740 |
yourself with them on, but you could make an incremental improvement over your current 01:00:35.580 |
state regardless of the direction that you're aiming. 01:00:39.060 |
And it is the case, and this is a law, the return on incremental improvement is exponential 01:00:48.600 |
So even if you start, this is why the hero is always born in a lowly place, mythologically, 01:00:55.420 |
Christ who redeems the world is born in a manger with the animals to poverty-stricken 01:00:59.220 |
parents in the middle of a God-forsaken desert in a nondescript time and place, isolated. 01:01:08.380 |
Well, because everyone young struggles with their insufficiency, but that doesn't mean 01:01:14.340 |
that great things can't make themselves manifest. 01:01:17.180 |
And part of the insistence in the biblical text, for example, is that it's incumbent 01:01:22.740 |
on you to have the courage, to have faith in yourself and in the spirit of reality, 01:01:30.020 |
the essence of reality, regardless of how you construe the evidence at hand. 01:01:43.100 |
The world couldn't offer me that possibility. 01:01:48.700 |
This is what Job figures out in the midst of his suffering in the book of Job, because 01:01:52.140 |
Job is tortured terribly by God, who makes a bet with Satan himself to bring him down. 01:01:59.700 |
And Job's decision in the face of his intense suffering is, "I'm not going to lose faith 01:02:05.060 |
in my essential goodness, and I'm not going to lose faith in the essential goodness of 01:02:09.820 |
being itself, regardless of how terrible the face it's showing to me at the moment happens 01:02:16.580 |
And I think, "Okay, what do you make of that claim? 01:02:23.480 |
You're being tortured by the arbitrariness of life. 01:02:28.260 |
Now you lose faith in yourself, and you become cynical about being. 01:02:38.100 |
And then you might say, "Well, yeah, but it's really asking a lot of people that they maintain 01:02:45.220 |
And it's like, yeah, that might be asking everything from people. 01:02:50.140 |
But then you also might ask, and this is a very strange question, is, "If you were brought 01:02:56.840 |
into being by something that was essentially good, wouldn't that thing that brought you 01:03:02.940 |
into being demand that you make the best in yourself manifest? 01:03:07.460 |
And wouldn't it be precisely when you most need that that you'd be desperate enough to 01:03:17.700 |
So you kind of make it seem that reason could be the thing that takes you out of a place 01:03:23.340 |
of darkness, finding that calling through reason. 01:03:28.020 |
I think it's also possible when reason fails you to just take the leap, navigate not by 01:03:34.780 |
reason but by finding the thing that scares you, the risk, to take the risk, take the 01:03:40.740 |
leap, and then figure it out while you're in the air. 01:03:44.020 |
Yeah, well, I think that's always part of a heroic adventure, you know, is that ability 01:03:51.500 |
But you could also ask from an engineering perspective, "Okay, what are the axioms that 01:03:57.800 |
And the answer would be something like, "I'm going to make the presumption that if I move 01:04:01.260 |
forward in good faith, whatever happens to me will be the best thing that could possibly 01:04:08.420 |
And I think that's actually how you make an alliance with truth. 01:04:14.540 |
And the way you make an alliance with truth is by assuming that whatever happens to you, 01:04:22.780 |
if you're living in truth, is the best thing that could happen, even if you can't see that 01:04:29.580 |
Because otherwise, you'd say that truth would be just the handmaiden of advantage. 01:04:33.540 |
"Well, I'm going to say something truthful, and I pay a price." 01:04:42.980 |
But that's not the only possible standard of evaluation. 01:04:46.380 |
Because what you're doing is you're making the outcome your deity. 01:04:50.100 |
Well, I'd just reverse that and say, "No, no. 01:04:56.460 |
But that doesn't eradicate the initial axiom. 01:05:03.180 |
It may be when you said Abraham was being fed by naked ladies. 01:05:10.620 |
That's an interpolation, obviously, but would it have been out of keeping for the times? 01:05:14.660 |
But it does make me think, sort of in stark contrast to Nietzsche's own life, that perhaps 01:05:21.540 |
getting laid early on in life is a useful starter. 01:05:26.820 |
Step one, get laid, and then go for adventure. 01:05:29.340 |
There's some basic recommendation, satiation of basic desires. 01:05:32.140 |
I think it's perfectly reasonable to bring the sexual element in, because it's a powerful 01:05:36.500 |
motivating force, and it has to be integrated. 01:05:42.820 |
But the lack of basic interaction, sexual interaction, I feel like is the engine that 01:05:51.140 |
drives towards that cynicism of the incel in Dostoevsky's "Notes from Underground." 01:05:58.820 |
We know perfectly well anthropologically that the most unstable social situation you can 01:06:03.700 |
generate is young men with no access to women. 01:06:07.420 |
That's not good, and they'll do anything, anything to reverse that situation. 01:06:15.300 |
But then I would also say there's every suggestion that the pathway of adventure itself is the 01:06:26.260 |
We know this in some ways in a very blunt manner. 01:06:29.460 |
The Google boys, the engineers, who are too, what would you say, naively oriented towards 01:06:35.580 |
empirical truth to note when they're being politically incorrect, they wrote a great 01:06:39.280 |
book called "A Billion Wicked Thoughts," which I really like. 01:06:41.780 |
It's a very good book, and it's engineers as psychologists. 01:06:47.280 |
And so they'll say all sorts of things that no one with any sense would ever say that 01:06:51.900 |
And they studied the pattern of pornographic fantasy, and women like pornographic stories, 01:07:01.800 |
Who are the main protagonists in female pornographic fantasy? 01:07:06.660 |
Pirates, werewolves, vampires, surgeons, billionaires, Tony Stark, you know? 01:07:13.900 |
And so the basic pornographic narrative is "Beauty and the Beast," those five categories. 01:07:20.060 |
Sexual aggressive male, tameable by the right relationship, hot erotic attraction. 01:07:26.660 |
And so I would say to the young men who, and I have many times, to the young men who are 01:07:31.200 |
locked in isolation, it's first of all, join the bloody club, because the default value 01:07:37.140 |
of a 15-year-old male on the mating market is zero. 01:07:42.480 |
You know, and zero is a bit of an exaggeration, but not much. 01:07:46.740 |
And the reason for that is, well, what the hell do you know? 01:07:49.300 |
Like you're not good for anything, yet you have potential, and maybe plenty. 01:07:55.760 |
But you shouldn't be all upset, because you're the same loser as everyone else your age has 01:08:03.260 |
But then you might ask, "Well, what should I do about it?" 01:08:05.060 |
The answer is, get yourself together, you know? 01:08:14.320 |
Put yourself together, and you'll become attractive. 01:08:20.900 |
The correlation between male sexual opportunity and relative masculine status is about 0.6. 01:08:33.080 |
That's higher than the correlation between intelligence and academic achievement. 01:08:37.540 |
I don't think that there's a larger correlation between two independent phenomena in the entire 01:08:42.660 |
social science and health literature than the correlation between relative male social 01:08:50.220 |
It's by far the most fundamental determinant. 01:08:55.380 |
Men are motivated to attain social status because it confers upon them reproductive 01:09:00.100 |
And that's not only cognitively, but biologically. 01:09:04.140 |
There's a documentary I watch from time to time, which I think is the most brilliant 01:09:10.380 |
And it's the story of this underground cartoonist, Robert Crumb, who was in high school, was 01:09:16.620 |
in the category of males, for whom a date was not only not likely, but unimaginable. 01:09:29.400 |
And almost all the reactions he got from females wasn't just, "No." 01:09:41.860 |
And so the documentary is super interesting because it tracks the utter pathology of his 01:09:46.620 |
sexual fantasies, because he was bitter and resentful. 01:09:49.740 |
And if you want to understand the psychology of serial sexual killers and the like, and 01:09:56.820 |
you watch Crumb, you'll find out a lot more about that than anybody with any sense would 01:10:01.720 |
But then he makes this transition, and partly because he does take the heroic adventure 01:10:06.700 |
He actually has a family and children, and he's actually a pretty functional person, 01:10:11.880 |
as opposed to his brothers, one of whom commits suicide, and one of whom is literally a repeat 01:10:19.580 |
But what he did in his adolescence, after being rejected, was he found what he was interested 01:10:29.100 |
And he started to pursue those sort of single-mindedly, and he became successful. 01:10:33.060 |
And as soon as he became successful, and the documentary tracks this beautifully, he's 01:10:39.620 |
And then you might ask, too, even if you're cynical, it's like, "Why do I have to perform 01:10:45.520 |
And the answer to that is something like, "Why the hell should they have anything to 01:10:53.880 |
Partly the reason that women are hypergamous, unless they want males who are of higher status 01:10:58.020 |
than they are, is because they're trying to redress the reproductive burden. 01:11:03.200 |
I mean, the female of any species is the sex that devotes more to the reproductive function. 01:11:10.000 |
That's a more fundamental definition than chromosomal differentiation. 01:11:15.040 |
And that's taken to its ultimate extreme with humans. 01:11:17.600 |
And so of course women are going to want someone around that's useful, because the cost of 01:11:22.680 |
sex for them is an 18-year-old period of dependency with an infant. 01:11:34.160 |
Well, it's complex, because the other problem, let's say, with the crumb boys, is that their 01:11:38.040 |
mother was extremely pathological, and they didn't get a lot of genuine feminine nurturance 01:11:44.780 |
So the family and society are not going to help you most of the time with a heroic adventure, 01:11:50.840 |
They're going to be a barrier versus a catalyst. 01:11:53.120 |
In good families, they're both, because they put up constraints on your behavior. 01:11:57.760 |
But I've interviewed a lot of successful people about their calling, let's say, because I 01:12:07.160 |
How did the path that you took to success make itself manifest? 01:12:15.000 |
Almost all the people that I've interviewed had a mother and a father. 01:12:19.160 |
Now, it's not invariant, but I'd say it's there 99% of the time. 01:12:25.160 |
And both of the parents, or at least one of them, but often both, were very encouraging 01:12:30.560 |
of the person's interests and pathway to development. 01:12:36.000 |
I've heard you analyze it that way before, and I had a reaction to that idea, because 01:12:43.440 |
I feel like it was the ... Maybe I see biographies differently, but it feels like the struggle 01:12:49.720 |
within the family was the catalyst for greatness in a lot of biographies. 01:12:58.520 |
I don't think you ... I think that that's a reflection, maybe, correct me if I'm wrong, 01:13:03.040 |
I think that's a reflection of that dynamic between positive and negative emotion. 01:13:07.140 |
Like my son, for example, who's doing just fine, he's firing on all cylinders, as far 01:13:25.700 |
He was tough-minded, and he didn't take no for an answer. 01:13:32.360 |
There was some tussle in regulating his behavior. 01:13:35.800 |
He spent a lot of time when he was two, sitting on the steps, trying to get his act together. 01:13:40.400 |
That was the constraint, but that wasn't something that was ... It's an opposition to him away, 01:13:48.540 |
because it was in opposition to the immediate manifestation of his hedonistic desires, but 01:13:54.160 |
it was also an impetus to further development. 01:13:56.520 |
The rule for me, when he was on the stairs, was as soon as you're willing to be a civilized 01:14:04.280 |
You might think, "Well, that's nothing but arbitrary, superego, patriarchal, oppressive 01:14:11.240 |
What I'm actually doing is facilitating his cortical maturation, because when a child 01:14:15.560 |
misbehaves, it's usually because they're under the domination of some primordial emotional 01:14:22.480 |
They're angry, they're overenthusiastic, they're upset, they're selfish, like it's narrow self-centeredness 01:14:33.440 |
But see, okay, tell me if I'm wrong, but it feels like the engine of greatness, at least 01:14:40.360 |
on the male side of things, has often been trying to prove the father wrong, or trying 01:14:49.400 |
So that tension, where the parent is not encouraging, like you mentioned, but is basically saying, 01:14:58.760 |
Okay, so my observation as a psychologist has been that it's very, very difficult for 01:15:04.640 |
someone to get their act together, unless they have at least one figure in their life 01:15:09.160 |
that's encouraging and shows them the pathway forward. 01:15:13.940 |
So you can have a lot of adversity in your life, and if you have one person around who's 01:15:18.440 |
a good model, and you're neurologically intact, you can latch onto that model. 01:15:22.400 |
Now, you can also find that model in books, and people do that sometimes. 01:15:27.400 |
Like I've interviewed people who had pretty fragmented childhoods, who turned to books 01:15:32.120 |
and found the pattern that guided them in, let's say, the adventures of the heroes of 01:15:38.000 |
the past, because that's a good way of thinking about it. 01:15:40.400 |
And I read a book called Angela's Ashes, that was written by an Irish author, Frank McCourt, 01:15:48.960 |
And his father was an alcoholic of gargantuan proportions, an Irish drinker who drank every 01:15:56.560 |
scent that came into the family, and many of whose children died in poverty. 01:16:01.840 |
And what Frank did, it's a testament to the human spirit, is he sort of divided his father 01:16:09.600 |
There was sober morning father, who was encouraging and with whom he had a relationship, and then 01:16:15.400 |
there was drunk and useless later afternoon and evening father, and he rejected the negative, 01:16:23.600 |
and he amplified his relationship with the positive. 01:16:27.280 |
Now he had other things going for him, but he did a very good job of discriminating. 01:16:35.680 |
And I mean, partly the question that you're raising is, to what degree is it useful to 01:16:43.440 |
Yeah, and I mean, struggle-free progress is not possible. 01:16:49.060 |
And I think there are situations under which where, you know, you might be motivated to 01:16:54.500 |
prove someone in your immediate circle wrong, but then that also implies that at some level, 01:17:02.780 |
for some reason, you actually care about their judgment, you know, you just didn't write 01:17:08.540 |
Well, I mean, that's why I say there's an archetype of a young man trying to gain the 01:17:17.260 |
And I think that repeats itself in a bunch of biographies that I've read. 01:17:22.900 |
I don't know, there must have been an engine somewhere that they found of approval of encouragement. 01:17:29.680 |
Maybe in books, maybe in the mother, or maybe the role of the parents is flipped. 01:17:51.800 |
Was it gradual or a definitive moment when a shift happened? 01:17:57.520 |
My father was always willing to approve of the things I did that were good, although 01:18:04.920 |
he was not effusive by any stretch of the imagination and the standards were very high. 01:18:10.400 |
Now, I was probably fortunate for me, you know, and it does bear on the question you're 01:18:16.480 |
asking is like, if you want someone to motivate you optimally, God, it's complicated because 01:18:23.720 |
there has to be a temperamental dance between the two people. 01:18:27.120 |
Like what you really want is for someone to apply the highest possible standards to you 01:18:37.480 |
And that's a vicious dance because you have to have a relationship with your child to 01:18:45.800 |
You know, because if you want to be optimally motivating as a father, you keep your children 01:18:51.200 |
Like you might not reward something in your child that you would think would be good in 01:18:57.120 |
someone else because you think they could do better. 01:19:00.480 |
And so my father was pretty clear about the idea that he always expected me to do better. 01:19:07.880 |
It was like, I felt often when I was young that there was no pleasing him. 01:19:14.400 |
But I also knew that that wasn't, I knew that that wasn't right. 01:19:20.920 |
Because I could remember, especially I think when I was very young, that I did things that 01:19:29.840 |
So it wasn't unpredictable and arbitrary, it was just difficult. 01:19:36.400 |
It sounds like he's hit a pretty good optimal, but it's for each individual human that optimal 01:19:43.920 |
Well, that's why you have to have a relationship with your children. 01:20:16.440 |
You know, like if you really love someone, you're not going to put up with their stupidity. 01:20:21.280 |
You know, one of the rules I had with my little kids was, don't do anything that makes you 01:20:28.480 |
Because I don't want you disgracing yourself. 01:20:34.440 |
And you're not going to act like a bloody fool in public so that people get the wrong 01:20:42.600 |
A successful relationship, how much challenge, how much peace? 01:20:49.480 |
Is a successful relationship one that is easy or one that is challenging? 01:20:57.500 |
I would say to some degree that depends on your temperament. 01:21:04.460 |
And there are times when I, I suppose, do I wish that, there are times when I casually 01:21:11.220 |
wish that she was easier to get along with, but as soon as I think about it, I don't, 01:21:18.640 |
We were friends ever since we were little kids and she's, she plays rough. 01:21:25.200 |
Now that doesn't mean it isn't a pain from time to time, but you know, and that is going 01:21:29.960 |
to be a temperamental issue to some degree and, and an issue of negotiation, like she 01:21:36.000 |
plays rough, but fair and the fair part has been establishing that's been part of our 01:21:44.300 |
And part of it is in the play, you get to find out about yourself or what your temperament 01:21:49.440 |
Cause I don't think that that's clear until it's tested. 01:21:55.360 |
You find out all sorts of things about yourself in a relationship. 01:21:59.120 |
Well, and partly the reason that there is provocativeness, especially from women in relationship to men 01:22:05.760 |
It's like, can you hold your temper when someone's bothering you? 01:22:10.440 |
Well, maybe she doesn't want you to snap and hurt her kids. 01:22:19.360 |
Well, you're going to say, well, I'd never do that. 01:22:21.040 |
It's like never a let's find out if it's never. 01:22:26.280 |
So we don't know how people test each other out in relationships, but, or why exactly, 01:22:34.380 |
What's your, and what's in general should a man's relationship with temper be? 01:22:39.420 |
You should have one and you should be able to regulate it. 01:22:43.120 |
Like that's part of that attractiveness of the monstrous that characterizes women's fantasies. 01:22:49.580 |
Because, and Nietzsche pointed this out too, go back to Nietzsche, you know, Nietzsche, 01:22:53.660 |
one of Nietzsche's claims was that most of what passes for morality is nothing but cowardice. 01:23:00.620 |
It's like, uh, is there anybody asking you to, that you actually find attractive? 01:23:06.500 |
Or are there dozens of people asking you to, that you find attractive? 01:23:12.420 |
It's like, no, you just don't have the opportunity. 01:23:14.700 |
Now I don't, I'm not saying that everyone's in that position, you know, that they would 01:23:17.620 |
cheat even if they had the opportunity, because that's not true. 01:23:20.260 |
But, and it's the same with regards to, oh, I'm a peaceful man. 01:23:27.900 |
You wouldn't dare have it, to have a confrontation, physical or metaphysical. 01:23:32.480 |
And you're passing it off as morality because you don't want to come to terms with the fact 01:23:38.540 |
And part of the, that, what I would say is twisted pseudo-Christian morality that Nietzsche 01:23:44.500 |
was criticizing was exactly of that sort, and it tied into resentment and envy. 01:23:49.140 |
And he tied that in explicitly, said that failure in life, masked by the morality that's 01:23:57.280 |
nothing but weak cowardice, turns to the resentment that undermines and destroys everything, and 01:24:05.540 |
I think he was criticizing if under the facade of niceness, there's an ocean of resentment. 01:24:14.580 |
That's also the danger of being too forthcoming with people. 01:24:18.420 |
See, this is another thing, let's say, about my wife, who's not particularly agreeable. 01:24:21.940 |
It's like, she's not particularly agreeable, but she's not resentful. 01:24:26.620 |
And that's because she doesn't give things away that she isn't willing to. 01:24:30.960 |
And if you're agreeable and nice and you're conflict avoidant, you'll push yourself too 01:24:37.460 |
And then that makes you bitter and resentful. 01:24:40.580 |
Do you think you'll be in trouble for saying this on a podcast later? 01:24:47.820 |
And like I said, it's not, it's a trait that I find admirable. 01:25:02.180 |
If we can descend from the realm of ideas down to history and reality, I would say the 01:25:10.340 |
time between World War I and World War II was one of history's biggest testing of ideas. 01:25:19.860 |
And really the most dramatic kinds of ideas that helped us understand the nature of good 01:25:28.980 |
I just want to ask you sort of a question about good and evil. 01:25:40.980 |
Stalin, as you've documented extensively, was a horrible man. 01:25:46.860 |
But you can make the case that both were necessary for stopping an even worse human being in 01:25:56.300 |
So to what degree do you need monsters to fight monsters? 01:26:03.140 |
Do you need bad men to be able to fight off greater evils? 01:26:12.500 |
It's everything in its proper place is the answer to that. 01:26:16.380 |
You know, we might think that our life would be easier without fear, let's say. 01:26:20.540 |
We might say that our life would be easier without anger or pain. 01:26:24.140 |
But the truth of the matter is, is that those things are beneficial, even though they can 01:26:28.860 |
cause great suffering, but they have to be in their proper place. 01:26:32.340 |
And that capacity that could in one context be a terrible force for evil, can in the proper 01:26:44.180 |
And partly what that means, as far as I can tell, is that you have to be able to say no. 01:26:52.020 |
I thought a lot about no, working as a clinician, because I did a lot of strategic counseling 01:26:57.860 |
with my clients in a lot of extremely difficult situations. 01:27:04.020 |
And also when dealing with my own children, because I used no sparingly, because it's 01:27:12.260 |
And with my kids, what it meant was, if you continue that pattern of behavior, something 01:27:16.500 |
you do not like will happen to you with 100% certainty. 01:27:21.140 |
And when that's the case, and you're willing to implement it, you don't have to do it very 01:27:28.020 |
With regards to monstrosity, it's like, weak men aren't good. 01:27:35.820 |
That's partly, again, why he was tempted to place the will to power, let's say. 01:27:42.060 |
And to deal with that notion in a manner that, when it was tied with the revaluation of all 01:27:51.540 |
It's not like there wasn't something to what he was driving at. 01:28:05.380 |
He's, you know, he's a rather slight guy, but he's got a spine of steel. 01:28:10.380 |
And there's no more than a bit of what's a monstrous in him. 01:28:13.780 |
And Jocko Willink is like that, and Joe Rogan is like that, and you're like that. 01:28:19.180 |
I mean, if you look, to me, Churchill might represent the thing you're talking about. 01:28:26.020 |
But World War II, Hitler would not be stopped without Stalin. 01:28:34.280 |
And if I may insert into this picture of complexity, Hitler would have not stopped until he enslaved 01:28:42.060 |
and exterminated the entirety of the Slavic people. 01:28:45.720 |
The Jewish people, the Slavic people, the gypsies, everybody who is non-Aryan. 01:28:50.320 |
But then Stalin in the mass rape of German women by the Red Army as they marched towards 01:28:56.980 |
Berlin is a kind of manifestation, the full monstrosity that a person can be. 01:29:05.540 |
You can easily and unfortunately find yourself in a situation where all you have in front 01:29:12.460 |
You know, that's partly why, if you have any sense, you try to conduct yourself very carefully 01:29:17.380 |
in life, because you don't want to be in a position where you've made so many mistakes 01:29:22.480 |
that all the options left to you are terrible. 01:29:25.760 |
And so you said, well, was it necessary to ally with Stalin? 01:29:30.060 |
It's like, well, it's very difficult to second guess the trajectory of something as complex 01:29:36.940 |
But we could say casually, at least as Westerners have in general, that that alliance was necessary. 01:29:42.780 |
Now, I think the mistake that the West made in the aftermath of World War II was in not 01:29:49.780 |
dealing as forthrightly with the catastrophes of communism as an ideology, as we did with 01:29:56.200 |
And that's especially true of the intellectuals in the universities. 01:29:59.220 |
I mean, it was very common when I was teaching both at Harvard and at the University of Toronto 01:30:04.940 |
for the students in my personality class, where we studied Solzhenitsyn, who's actually 01:30:09.860 |
an existential psychologist in many ways, and a deep one, none of them knew anything 01:30:17.860 |
None of them knew anything about what happened in Ukraine and the death of six million productive 01:30:22.700 |
They had no idea that the communists killed tens of millions of people in the aftermath 01:30:30.100 |
They know even less about Mao and the Great Leap Forward. 01:30:35.260 |
Which some estimates are a hundred million people. 01:30:36.800 |
Now, you know, when your error bars are in the tens of millions, well, that's a real 01:30:44.020 |
And nobody knows how many people died from direct oppression or indirect in the Soviet 01:30:48.940 |
20 million, it seems like a reasonable estimate. 01:30:52.020 |
Solzhenitsyn's upper bound was higher than that. 01:30:54.300 |
And how do you measure the intellectual output that was suppressed and killed off, the number 01:31:02.980 |
of intellectuals, artists and writers that were put into the gulags? 01:31:06.360 |
Well, and productive farmers, for that matter, and anyone who was willing to tell the truth. 01:31:14.480 |
And so I think the West's failure wasn't so much allying with Stalin. 01:31:19.480 |
I mean, it was Douglas MacArthur who wanted to continue. 01:31:23.320 |
He thought we should just take the Soviets out after the Second World War. 01:31:27.240 |
And they removed them from any position of authority where such a thing might be made 01:31:38.800 |
Well, he certainly wasn't wrong in his insistence that Stalin was as big a monster as Hitler 01:31:48.040 |
So the valorization of the leftist proclivity, the radical leftist proclivity, is the sin 01:31:54.720 |
of the West, I think more intensely than allying with Stalin. 01:32:00.120 |
Tricky nuanced topic, but if we look at the modern day and the threat of communism, Marxism 01:32:05.520 |
in the United States, to me, it's disrespectful to the atrocities of the 20th century to call 01:32:18.800 |
But I see the sort of escalation of the extremeness of language being used. 01:32:24.760 |
When you call somebody like Donald Trump a fascist, then it makes total sense to then 01:32:28.960 |
use similar extreme terminology for somebody like Kamala Harris. 01:32:36.320 |
If you look at the political landscape today, somebody like Joe Biden, Kamala Harris— 01:32:40.720 |
Well, the first thing I would say is that I think that viewing the political landscape 01:32:45.120 |
of today as a political landscape is actually wrong. 01:32:49.000 |
I think it's not the right frame of reference. 01:32:52.160 |
Because what I see happening are a very small percentage of dark tetrad personality types, 01:33:00.000 |
so Machiavellian, manipulative, narcissistic, wanting undeserved attention, psychopathic, 01:33:07.960 |
that makes them predatory parasites, and sadistic, because that goes along with the other three. 01:33:14.040 |
That's about, in the serious manifestation, that's probably 3-5% of the population. 01:33:21.160 |
And they're generally kept under pretty decent control by civilized people and stable social 01:33:29.480 |
But I think that their machinations are disinhibited by cost-free social media communication. 01:33:41.560 |
Now these people want undeserved recognition and social status and everything that goes 01:33:47.000 |
along with it, and they don't care how they get it. 01:33:50.920 |
Because when I say they want that, I mean that's all they want. 01:33:56.440 |
So in the realm of social media, you mentioned, yes, but are you also suggesting that they're 01:34:02.760 |
over-represented in the realm of politics, politicians, and so on? 01:34:06.240 |
They're over-represented in the realm of fractious political discourse, because they can use 01:34:12.880 |
First of all, they can use, let's say, the benevolent ideas of the right and the benevolent 01:34:17.840 |
ideas of the left, either one, and switch back and forth, for that matter, as a camouflage 01:34:26.200 |
So how do you, you've interviewed a lot of people, and you have a really powerful mind, 01:34:31.920 |
So how do you know when you're sitting across from a psychopath? 01:34:35.840 |
In normal social circumstances, we have evolved mechanisms to keep people like that under 01:34:41.160 |
Let's say that you and I have a series of interactions, and you screw me over once. 01:34:46.880 |
Now I might not write you off because of the one time, but if it happens three times, it's 01:34:51.840 |
like, we're not going to play together anymore. 01:34:53.760 |
And in normal times, most of our social networks are connected and interacting. 01:35:01.760 |
So if you rip me off three times, and I noted that, I'm going to tell everybody I know, 01:35:09.200 |
and they're going to tell everybody they know, and soon everyone will know, and that's the 01:35:15.080 |
But that assumes that we know who you are, and we're in continual communication. 01:35:21.320 |
So anonymity does that, and so does the amplification of emotional intensity by the social media 01:35:35.740 |
I think what we're doing—this is happening on Twitter continually—is we're giving the 01:35:41.720 |
5% of psychopaths a radically disproportionate voice. 01:35:45.960 |
And what they're doing is, there's a bunch of them on the left, and they're all, "We're 01:35:49.280 |
so compassionate," and there's a bunch of them on the right, and at the moment, they're 01:35:52.840 |
all, "We're so Christian and free-speech-oriented." 01:35:56.640 |
You're a narcissistic psychopath, and that's your camouflage. 01:36:00.440 |
And you hide behind your anonymity, and you use fractious and divisive language to attract 01:36:08.080 |
fools and to elevate your social status and your clout. 01:36:13.480 |
And not only that, to gain, what would you say, satisfaction for your sadistic impulses. 01:36:18.920 |
See, the problem is, it's hard to tell who's the psychopath and who is a heterodox truth-seeker. 01:36:29.240 |
Yeah, well, if you were charitable about Tucker Carlson's recent interview, you'd say that 01:36:38.400 |
Like, I've thought about, for example, interviewing Andrew Tate. 01:36:45.560 |
I figured, "It's not obvious to me at all that he wouldn't charm me." 01:36:53.480 |
Robert Hare was the world's foremost authority on psychopathy. 01:36:58.460 |
He established the field of clinical analysis of psychopathic behavior. 01:37:04.160 |
And Hare was a pretty agreeable guy, so he would give people the benefit of the doubt. 01:37:08.400 |
And he interviewed hundreds of serious psychopaths, like imprisoned violent offenders. 01:37:13.520 |
And he told me, in one of our conversations, that every time he sat down with a violent 01:37:19.640 |
offender psychopath, and he had a measure for psychopathy that was a clinical checklist, 01:37:24.760 |
so he could identify the psychopaths from just the, say, run-of-the-mill criminals. 01:37:30.760 |
Every time he sat down with them, they pulled the wool over his eyes, and he videotaped 01:37:36.560 |
And it wasn't until later, when he was reviewing the videos, that he could see what they were 01:37:41.080 |
But in person, their tricks were more sophisticated than his detection ability. 01:37:47.080 |
Well, okay, this is fascinating, because, again, you're a great interviewer. 01:37:50.840 |
I would love it if you interviewed somebody like Putin. 01:37:54.000 |
So this idea that you are a fool in the face of psychopathy just doesn't jive with me. 01:38:02.760 |
You give people the benefit of the doubt, right, right. 01:38:04.400 |
But that's good, because the way you reveal psychopathy is by being agreeable. 01:38:10.680 |
Not weak, but seeking with empathy to understand the other person. 01:38:16.960 |
And in the details, in the little nuanced ways that they struggle with questions, the 01:38:30.320 |
You know, over-representation of psychopathy online, with anonymity, that's a serious fascinating 01:38:37.160 |
But in the interview, one-on-one, I don't know if the job of a human being in conversation 01:38:43.280 |
is to not talk to psychopaths, but to talk... 01:38:47.480 |
I mean, like, how would you interview Hitler? 01:38:49.640 |
Well, you know, I've had very difficult clinical interviews with people in my clinical practice. 01:38:57.680 |
Well, I really probably approach that the way I approach most conversations. 01:39:01.880 |
And it's something like, I'm going to assume that you're playing a straight game, but I'm 01:39:09.160 |
And if you throw in the odd crooked maneuver in, then I'll note it. 01:39:14.320 |
And after you do it three times, I'll think, okay, I see. 01:39:18.720 |
I thought we were playing one game, but we're actually playing another one. 01:39:21.960 |
And if I'm smart enough to pick that up, that usually works out quite successfully for me. 01:39:27.520 |
But I'm not always smart enough to pick that up. 01:39:30.040 |
But see, here's the nice thing, there's a one-on-one conversation that's not recorded, 01:39:34.580 |
is different than one that's listened by a lot of people. 01:39:37.760 |
Because I would venture, I trust the intelligence of the viewer and the listener to detect even 01:39:48.840 |
I've had the odd interview with people that I wasn't happy with having organized. 01:39:54.560 |
Because I felt that I had brought their ideas to a wider audience than might've been appropriate. 01:40:02.080 |
But my conclusion and the conclusion of my producers and the people I talked to was that 01:40:07.180 |
we could run the interview, the discussion and let the audience sort it out. 01:40:14.200 |
So I think as a general rule of thumb, that's true. 01:40:17.080 |
And I also think that the long form interviews are particularly good at that because it's 01:40:22.040 |
not that easy to maintain a manipulative stance, especially if you're empty for like two and 01:40:31.700 |
So you get tired, you get irritable, you show that you lose the track, you're going to start 01:40:39.200 |
And that actually is the case for all the world leaders, I would say. 01:40:46.920 |
Something happens at like two hour plus mark where you start to leak. 01:40:51.080 |
And I trust in the intelligence of the listener to sort of detect that. 01:40:56.920 |
And it might be the intelligence of the distributed crowd. 01:40:59.760 |
And I mean, that is what I've seen with the YouTube interviews is that it's hard to fool 01:41:05.480 |
people as such over a protracted period of time. 01:41:09.520 |
And I guess it's partly because everybody brings a different, slightly different set 01:41:17.520 |
And if you aggregate that, it's pretty damn accurate. 01:41:20.600 |
But of course, it's complicated because ideas of Nazi ideology spread in the 20s. 01:41:28.000 |
There was a real battle between Marxism and Nazism. 01:41:31.480 |
And I believe there's some attempts at censorship of Nazi ideology. 01:41:39.180 |
It gives the fringe ideologies power if they're being censored, because that's an indication 01:41:48.000 |
that the man in power doesn't want the truth to be heard, this kind of idea. 01:41:56.740 |
It also motivates the paranoid types, because one of the reasons that paranoia spirals out 01:42:03.000 |
of control is because paranoid people almost inevitably end up being persecuted. 01:42:08.700 |
Because they're so touchy and so suspicious that people start to walk on eggshells around 01:42:14.960 |
them as if there are things going on behind the scenes. 01:42:17.420 |
And so then they get more distrustful and more paranoid, and eventually they start misbehaving 01:42:22.100 |
so badly that they are actually persecuted, often by legal authorities, and it's down 01:42:29.120 |
And so Musk is betting on that to some degree. 01:42:32.100 |
He believes that free expression on Twitter X will sort itself out and be of net benefit. 01:42:41.580 |
And I follow a lot of really bad accounts on X, because I like to keep an eye on the 01:42:48.020 |
pathology of the left, let's say, and the pathology of the right, thinking at least 01:42:52.460 |
in my clinical way that I'm watching the psychopaths dance around and try to do their subversion. 01:42:57.700 |
And it's an ugly place to inhabit, that's for sure. 01:43:00.480 |
But it's also the case that a very tiny minority of seriously bad actors can have a disproportionate 01:43:08.260 |
And one of the things I've always hoped for for social media channels is that they separate 01:43:13.460 |
the anonymous accounts from the verified accounts. 01:43:18.820 |
People who will say what they think and take the hits to their reputation. 01:43:25.380 |
Anonymous types, if you want to see what the anonymous types say, you can see it, but don't 01:43:28.740 |
be confusing them with actual people, because they're not the same. 01:43:32.160 |
We know that people behave more badly when they're anonymous. 01:43:36.060 |
That's a very well-established psychological finding. 01:43:38.220 |
Well, and I think the danger to our culture is substantive. 01:43:41.740 |
I think the reason that everything, perhaps, the reason that everything started to go sideways 01:43:46.540 |
pretty seriously around 2015 is because we invented these new modes of communication. 01:43:54.140 |
And so the psychopathic manipulators, they have free reign. 01:44:02.020 |
A huge amount of Internet traffic is outright criminal. 01:44:05.460 |
And there's a penumbra around that that's, you know, psychopathic, narcissistic, troublemaking 01:44:11.460 |
And that might constitute the bulk of the interactions online. 01:44:14.820 |
And it's partly because people can't be held responsible. 01:44:19.980 |
It's a fascinating technical challenge of how to make our society resilient to the psychopaths 01:44:28.300 |
It might be the fundamental problem of the age, given the amplification of communication 01:44:36.180 |
And so to generalize across psychopaths, you could also think about bots, which behave 01:44:42.620 |
similar to psychopaths in their certainty and not caring. 01:44:53.580 |
Because you might, you know, that's another problem, eh? 01:44:55.100 |
Like if the algorithms are maximizing for the grip of short-term attention, they're 01:45:00.660 |
acting like immature agents of attention, right? 01:45:03.740 |
And so then imagine the worst case scenario is negative emotion garners more attention. 01:45:10.500 |
And short-term gratification garners more attention. 01:45:13.820 |
So then you're maximizing for the grip of short-term attention by negative emotion. 01:45:22.660 |
If we were talking earlier about, you know, unsustainable unifying axioms. 01:45:28.380 |
That's definitely, that's definitely one of them. 01:45:32.220 |
Maximize for the spread of negative attention, negative emotion that garner short-term attention. 01:45:39.420 |
I just, I tend to not think there's that many psychopaths. 01:45:45.500 |
So maybe to push back a little bit, it feels like there's a small number of psychopaths. 01:45:57.740 |
But in terms of the pattern of stuff we see online, my hope is that a lot of people on 01:46:01.420 |
the extreme left and extreme right, or just the trolls in general, are just young people 01:46:07.740 |
kind of going through the similar stuff that we've been talking about, trying on the cynicism 01:46:20.700 |
To talk shit about somebody, to take somebody down. 01:46:32.200 |
And I think a lot of people, I mean, you see, when you say sadistic, it makes it sound like 01:46:40.740 |
And I just think that all of us have the capacity for that. 01:46:47.420 |
Some more than others, but everyone to some degree. 01:46:49.580 |
And when you're young, you don't understand the full implications of that on your own 01:46:56.460 |
So if you participate in taking other people down, that's going to have a cost on your 01:47:03.060 |
Like it's going to take you towards a Dostoevsky's notes from underground, in the basement, cynical, 01:47:10.340 |
And I think a lot of young people try it out. 01:47:11.340 |
The reason is you get older and older, you realize that there's a huge cost to that so 01:47:17.220 |
So I would like to sort of believe and hope that a large number of people who are trolls 01:47:30.060 |
They can be shown that there's more growth, there's more flourishing to celebrating other 01:47:37.660 |
And criticizing ideas, but not in the way of derision, LOL, but by formulating your 01:47:43.660 |
own self in the world, by formulating your ideas in a strong, powerful way, and also 01:47:49.300 |
removing the cloak of anonymity and just standing behind your ideas and carrying the responsibility 01:47:57.980 |
I think the idea that that's more likely to occur among young people, that's clear. 01:48:02.380 |
People as they mature, get more agreeable and conscientious. 01:48:05.160 |
We actually know that what you said is true technically. 01:48:08.540 |
It's definitely the case that there is an innate tilt towards pleasure in that sort 01:48:12.600 |
of behavior, and it is associated to some degree with dominant striving. 01:48:17.540 |
And I do think it's true, as you pointed out, that many of the people who are toying with 01:48:29.000 |
Even the repeat criminal types tend to desist in their late 20s. 01:48:34.180 |
So imagine that 1% of the criminals commit 65% of the crimes. 01:48:39.300 |
So imagine that that 1% are the people that you're really concerned with. 01:48:43.340 |
They often have stable patterns of offending that emerged very young, like even in infancy, 01:48:52.340 |
and continued through adolescence and into adulthood. 01:48:56.660 |
If you keep them in prison until they're in the middle of their late 20s, most of them 01:49:02.940 |
And maybe the easiest way to understand that might just be delayed maturation. 01:49:16.740 |
Well, at some point it becomes, first of all, they have to want to be salvaged. 01:49:22.700 |
But then it also becomes something like, well, how much resources are you going to devote 01:49:29.580 |
Like the farther down the rabbit hole you've gone, the more energy it takes to haul you 01:49:35.340 |
So there comes a point where the probability that you'll be able to get enough resources 01:49:39.580 |
devoted to you to rescue you from the pit of hell that you've dug is zero. 01:49:46.060 |
And it's very hard to be around someone who's in that situation, very, very hard. 01:49:50.580 |
And it seems that it's more likely that the leaders of movements are going to be psychopaths 01:49:56.460 |
and the followers of movements are going to be the people that we're mentioning that have 01:50:01.620 |
kind of lost themselves to the ideology of the movement. 01:50:05.580 |
Well, we know that what you said is true, even historically, to a large degree, because 01:50:14.900 |
And it's not like everybody who participated in every element of the Nazi movement was 01:50:24.500 |
So to some degree, the same thing happened in South Africa, right? 01:50:30.340 |
And so, and it's the case, for example, also in the stories that we were referring to earlier, 01:50:36.620 |
the biblical stories, the patriarchs of the Bible, most of them are pretty bad people 01:50:42.420 |
Like Jacob's a really good, Jacob is the one who becomes Israel. 01:50:46.020 |
He's a major player in the biblical narrative. 01:50:49.420 |
And he's a pretty bad actor when he first starts out. 01:50:56.740 |
He steals from his own brother, and in a major way, he deceives his father. 01:51:01.140 |
He's a coward, you know, and yet he turns his life around. 01:51:05.500 |
So be careful the leaders you idolize and worship. 01:51:11.260 |
But then it's not always clear to know who is the good and who's the evil. 01:51:17.320 |
You have been through some dark places in your mind over your life. 01:51:21.700 |
What have been some of your darker hours, and how did you find the light? 01:51:26.020 |
Well, I would say I started contending with the problem of evil very young, 13 or 14. 01:51:34.500 |
And that's been the main, that was my main motivation of study for 30 years, I guess, 01:51:49.860 |
At the end of that 30 years, it became more and more, I became more and more interested 01:51:57.540 |
Once I became convinced that evil existed, that was very young, I always believed that 01:52:06.360 |
if you could understand something well enough, that you could formulate a solution to it. 01:52:10.980 |
But it turns out that seeing evil and understanding that it exists is less complicated than a 01:52:35.060 |
It's as far from enjoying being an Auschwitz camp guard as you can get. 01:52:38.780 |
Well, where are you when you're as far away from that as you could possibly get? 01:52:45.620 |
And it does have something to do with play, as far as I'm concerned. 01:52:49.340 |
Like I think the antithesis of tyranny is play. 01:52:54.460 |
So that took me a long time to figure out that specifically, you know. 01:53:00.860 |
I spent a lot of time studying the worst behaviors that I could discover abstractly in books, 01:53:10.100 |
but also in my clinical practice and in my observations of people. 01:53:17.920 |
More recently, I was very ill and in a tremendous amount of pain that lasted pretty much without 01:53:27.420 |
And what was particularly useful to me then was the strength of my relationships, my immediate 01:53:38.380 |
Also the relationships that I had established more broadly with people, you know. 01:53:45.680 |
Because by the time I became ill, I was reasonably well known and people were very supportive 01:53:52.260 |
when I was having trouble, and that was very helpful. 01:53:54.740 |
But it's certainly the case that it was the connections I had, particularly with my family, 01:54:00.940 |
but also with my friends, that were the saving grace. 01:54:04.140 |
And that's something to know, you know, I mean. 01:54:07.340 |
It's necessary to bear the burdens of the world on your own shoulders, that's for sure. 01:54:11.900 |
The burdens of your own existence and whatever other responsibilities you can mount. 01:54:15.620 |
But that by no means means that you can or should do it alone. 01:54:20.940 |
And so, you know, you might say, well, welcoming the adversity of life as a redemptive challenge 01:54:29.600 |
is a task that's beyond the ability of the typical person or even maybe of anyone. 01:54:35.740 |
But then when you think, well, you're not alone. 01:54:39.540 |
Maybe you're not alone socially, you're not alone familial, maybe you're not alone metaphysically 01:54:45.020 |
You know, there's an insistence, and I think it's true, there's an insistence, for example, 01:54:50.100 |
in the Old and the New Testament alike, that the more darkness you're willing to voluntarily 01:54:55.740 |
encounter, the more likely it is that the spirit of Abraham and the patriarchs will 01:55:04.300 |
I think it's sort of technically true in that the best parts of yourself make themselves manifest. 01:55:10.820 |
If you want to think about it that way, the best parts of yourself, whatever that means, 01:55:14.700 |
make themselves manifest when you're contending actively and voluntarily with the most difficult 01:55:23.140 |
And then you could think, well, that's yourself. 01:55:25.300 |
It's like, well, are the best unrevealed parts of you yourself? 01:55:30.580 |
Well, no, they're a kind of metaphysical reality. 01:55:38.820 |
They transcend anything you're currently capable of, but they have an existence. 01:55:42.980 |
You could call that yourself, but like it was Jung's contention, for example, with regards 01:55:48.520 |
to such terminology, that the reason we use the term self instead of God is because when 01:55:54.140 |
God was dispensed with, let's say, by the processes Nietzsche described, we just found 01:55:58.620 |
the same thing deep within the instinctive realm, let's say. 01:56:02.740 |
We found it at the bottom of the things instead of at the top. 01:56:10.500 |
What matters is whether or not that's a reality. 01:56:13.860 |
And I think it's the fundamental reality, because I do think that the deeper you delve 01:56:20.700 |
into things, this is what happens to Moses when he encounters the burning bush. 01:56:34.300 |
He's left his home and he's established himself. 01:56:40.680 |
And then he's out by Mount Horeb in that story, but it's the central mountain of the world. 01:56:44.760 |
It's the same mountain as Sinai, which is the place where heaven and earth touch. 01:56:49.600 |
And he sees something that grabs his attention, right? 01:56:57.680 |
And the fact that it's on fire, that's life exaggerated, because everything that's alive 01:57:04.440 |
And so what calls to Moses is like the spirit of being itself, and it tracks him off the 01:57:12.720 |
So Moses is everyone who goes off the beaten track to investigate. 01:57:16.980 |
And so as he investigates, he delves more and more deeply until he starts to understand 01:57:27.480 |
So he takes off his shoes, and that's a symbolic reference of identity transformation. 01:57:39.460 |
And that's when what happens is that he continues to interact with this calling. 01:57:44.980 |
And Moses asks what it is that's being revealed, and God says, "I'm the spirit of being itself." 01:58:02.500 |
It's the spirit of being that's speaking to him, the spirit of being and becoming. 01:58:06.280 |
And it tells Moses that he now, because he's delved so deeply into something so compelling, 01:58:12.920 |
his identity is transformed and he's become the leader who can speak truth to power. 01:58:17.700 |
And so he allies himself with his brother Aaron, who's the political arm and who can 01:58:22.020 |
communicate and he goes back to Egypt to confront the tyrant. 01:58:25.340 |
And that's an indication of that idea, that if you wrestle with life properly, that the 01:58:40.840 |
Because the contrary would be that there would be no growth in challenge. 01:58:45.380 |
Well, you have to be infinitely nihilistic to believe that. 01:58:51.140 |
It's obvious, but it's also just fascinating that hardship is the thing that ends up being 01:59:07.100 |
Look, if you bring someone into therapy, let's say they're afraid of elevators and you trick 01:59:12.180 |
them into getting near an elevator, you'll make them worse. 01:59:15.880 |
But if you negotiate with them so that they voluntarily move towards the elevator on their 01:59:23.000 |
own recognizance, they'll overcome their fear and they become generally braver, but it has 01:59:31.360 |
See, I got to push back and explore with you the question of voluntarily. 01:59:36.960 |
He suffered through several health issues throughout his life, migraines, eyesight issues, 01:59:41.520 |
digestive problems, depression with suicidal thoughts, and yet he is one of the greatest 01:59:50.760 |
So were these problems that he was suffering arguably involuntarily a feature or a bug? 02:00:00.000 |
The same thing happens in the story of Job, because Job is a good man. 02:00:05.960 |
And Satan comes along and says to God, I see you're pretty proud of your man there, Job. 02:00:14.440 |
And Satan says, I think it's just because things are easy for him. 02:00:17.980 |
Let me have a crack at him and see what happens. 02:00:24.260 |
And that's how people feel when those slings and arrows come at them, let's say, like Nietzsche. 02:00:29.120 |
Well, Job's response to that, now the story is set up so that what befalls Job is actually 02:00:34.520 |
quite arbitrary, right, these catastrophes that you're describing. 02:00:37.920 |
The volunteerism in Job is his refusal to despair even in the face of that adversity. 02:00:43.160 |
And that seems like something like an expression of voluntary free will. 02:00:49.760 |
And the way the story ends is that Job gets everything back and more. 02:00:54.120 |
And you know, so that's a descent and ascent story. 02:00:57.040 |
And a cynic might say, well, the ends don't justify the means. 02:01:01.160 |
And I would say, fair enough, but that's a pretty shallow interpretation of the story. 02:01:05.660 |
What it indicates instead is that if you're fortunate, because let's not forget that, 02:01:12.280 |
and you optimize your attitude, even in the face of adversity, that it's not infrequently 02:01:22.460 |
You know, and I found that in many situations, the journalists whose goal was most malicious 02:01:34.500 |
in relationship to me, who were most concerned with improving their own, what would you say, 02:01:43.220 |
fostering their own notoriety and gaining social status at my expense, were the ones 02:01:54.100 |
And so that's interesting, you know, because they were definitely the places where the 02:02:02.460 |
Every time that happened, my whole family was destabilized for like two months because 02:02:07.780 |
things, it wasn't obvious at all which way the dice were going to roll. 02:02:15.500 |
So in a sense that there's this kind of transformation from the involuntary to the voluntary. 02:02:23.180 |
That act of bring it on turns the involuntary hardship into voluntary hardship. 02:02:35.340 |
Well, you know, I'm never going to say that you can transcend all catastrophe with the 02:02:43.140 |
right attitude, because that's just too much to say. 02:02:47.460 |
But I could say that in a dire situation, there's always an element of choice. 02:02:54.340 |
And if you make the right choices, you improve the degree, you improve your chances of success 02:03:05.660 |
It might be too much to say, but nevertheless, this could be true. 02:03:14.140 |
Well that's what the resurrection story proclaims, is that even under the darkest imaginable circumstances, 02:03:22.060 |
the fundamental finale is the victory of the good. 02:03:31.220 |
Do you have regrets when you look back at your life in the full analysis of it? 02:03:40.180 |
Well as I said, I was very ill for about three years and it was seriously brutal. 02:03:45.140 |
Like every, this is no lie, every single minute of that three years was worse than any single 02:03:51.060 |
time I'd ever experienced in my entire life up to that. 02:03:57.940 |
Was the roughest the physical or the psychological? 02:04:05.660 |
Yeah, I was walking like 10 to 12 miles a day, rain or shine, winter, didn't matter. 02:04:18.060 |
And it was worse than that because as the day progressed, my pain levels would fall 02:04:29.060 |
until by 10, 11 at night when I was starting to get tired, I was approaching, what would 02:04:39.180 |
you say, I was approaching something like an ordinary bad day. 02:04:46.180 |
But as soon as I went to sleep, then the clock was reset and all the pain came back. 02:04:50.860 |
And so it wasn't just that I was in pain, it was that sleep itself became an enemy. 02:04:57.260 |
And that's really rough, man, because sleep is where you take refuge, you know. 02:05:02.060 |
You're worn out, you're tired, and you go to sleep and you wake up and it's generally, 02:05:13.260 |
And it was very difficult to maintain hope in that, because I would do what I could, 02:05:17.700 |
like there were times when it took me like an hour and a half in the morning to stand 02:05:22.780 |
And so I'd do all that and more or less put myself back into something remotely resembling 02:05:28.860 |
human by the end of the day, and then I knew perfectly well, exhausted, if I fell asleep, 02:05:34.220 |
that I was going to be right at the bottom of the bloody hill again. 02:05:37.300 |
And so after a couple of years of that, it was definitely the fact that I had a family 02:05:46.060 |
What did you learn about yourself, about yourself and about the human mind from that, from all 02:05:55.180 |
Well, I think I learned more gratitude for the people I had around me. 02:06:00.680 |
And I learned how fortunate I was to have that and how crucial that was. 02:06:09.680 |
She was diagnosed with a form of cancer that, as far as we know, killed every single person 02:06:19.260 |
And her experience was that what really gave her hope and played at least a role in saving 02:06:28.320 |
her was the realization of the depth of love that her son in particular had for her. 02:06:34.440 |
And that says nothing about her relationship with Michaela, with her daughter. 02:06:37.760 |
It just so happened that it was the revelation of that love that made Tammy understand the 02:06:45.720 |
value of her life in a way that she wouldn't have realized of her own accord. 02:06:51.400 |
We're very, very – there's no difference between ourselves and the people that we love. 02:06:56.960 |
And there might be no difference between ourselves and everyone, everywhere, but we can at least 02:07:01.040 |
realize that to begin with in the form of the people that we love. 02:07:12.560 |
I'm a lot more grateful for just ordinariness than I was, because when I first recovered, 02:07:19.360 |
I remember I was standing – first started to recover, I was standing in this pharmacy 02:07:24.360 |
waiting for a prescription in a little town, and they weren't being particularly efficient 02:07:29.440 |
And I got standing in the aisle for like 20 minutes, and I thought, "I'm not on fire. 02:07:36.000 |
I could just stand here for like the rest of my life, just not being in pain and enjoying that." 02:07:42.160 |
And, you know, that would have been something that before that would have been – you know, 02:07:46.560 |
I would have been impatient and raring to go, because I didn't have 20 minutes to stand 02:07:52.360 |
And I thought, "Well, you know, if you're just standing there and you're not on fire, 02:07:58.520 |
And I certainly – I know that, and I think I remember it almost all the time. 02:08:04.400 |
You gain a greater ability to appreciate the mundane moments of life. 02:08:14.400 |
I think Nietzsche had that, because he was very ill. 02:08:19.600 |
And so I suspect he had – you know, and he was regarded by the inhabitants of the 02:08:27.200 |
village that he lived in near the end of his life as something approximating a saint. 02:08:32.240 |
He apparently conducted himself very admirably, despite all his suffering. 02:08:37.000 |
You know, but that's still – there's this tension, as there is in much of Nietzsche's 02:08:40.920 |
work, between the miracle of the mundane – appreciating the miracle of the mundane versus fearing 02:08:55.520 |
Yes, but that's you giving him a pass, or seeing the good. 02:09:01.400 |
There's a kind of – I mean, the tyranny of the mediocre – I always hated this idea 02:09:09.720 |
And I understand it, but it's a dangerous idea. 02:09:12.960 |
This is why I like the story of Cain and Abel, I would say. 02:09:17.040 |
Because Cain is mediocre, but that's because he refuses to do his best. 02:09:24.600 |
And I actually think that's the right formulation, because, you know, I had people in my clinical 02:09:28.760 |
practice who were – they were lost in many dimensions, from the perspective of comparison. 02:09:37.720 |
One woman I remember in particular, who – man, she had a lot to contend with. 02:09:42.940 |
She was not educated, she was not intelligent. 02:09:46.420 |
She had a brutal family, like, terrible history of psychiatric hospitalization. 02:09:55.560 |
And when I met her at a hospital, she was an outpatient from the psychiatric ward. 02:10:07.240 |
And she had been in there with people that she thought were worse off than her. 02:10:17.100 |
It was a long-term psychiatric inpatient ward. 02:10:21.260 |
Some of the people had been there for 30 years. 02:10:24.280 |
It made One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest look like a romantic comedy. 02:10:31.160 |
And she had come back to see if she could take some of those people for a walk, and 02:10:36.160 |
was trying to find out how to get permission to do it. 02:10:39.740 |
And so, you know, better than other people – some people are more intelligent, some 02:10:47.360 |
people are more beautiful, some people are more athletic – maybe it's possible for 02:10:53.240 |
everyone at all levels of attainment to strive towards the good. 02:10:59.000 |
And maybe those talents that are given to people unfairly don't privilege them in 02:11:07.520 |
Like, there's no evidence, for example, that there's any correlation whatsoever 02:11:17.440 |
And what that also implies is if you're smart, you can be a lot better at being worse. 02:11:21.960 |
I think, for myself, I'm just afraid of dismissing people because of my perception 02:11:31.960 |
Yeah, well, that's why we have that metaphysical presumption that everybody's made in the 02:11:35.560 |
image of God, right, despite that immense diversity of apparent ability. 02:11:41.160 |
There's that underlying metaphysical assumption that, yeah, we all vary in our perceived and 02:11:48.800 |
actual utility in relationship to any proximal goal, but all of that's independent of the 02:11:57.320 |
And preposterous as that notion appears to be, it seems to me that societies that accept 02:12:03.920 |
it as a fundamental axiomatic presumption are always the societies that you'd want 02:12:11.300 |
And that, to me, is an existence proof for the utility of the presumption. 02:12:16.400 |
And also, you know, if you treat people like that in your life, every encounter you have, 02:12:21.740 |
you make the assumption that it's an assumption of, what would you, it's radical equality 02:12:29.080 |
of worth despite individual variance in ability, something like that. 02:12:35.920 |
I mean, everyone wants to be treated that way. 02:12:38.800 |
Look, here's a developmental sequence for you. 02:12:46.560 |
Okay, well, is hurt and cynical better than naive and trusting? 02:12:54.320 |
How about cynical and trusting as step three? 02:13:02.520 |
Like, yeah, I'll put my hand out for you, but it's not because I'm a fool. 02:13:09.480 |
And I think that's right, because that's the re-instantiation of that initial trust, right, 02:13:20.720 |
It's like, yeah, you know, we could be, we could walk together uphill, but that doesn't 02:13:31.560 |
But that doesn't mean that I'm not going to watch. 02:13:35.040 |
What's a better life, cynical and safe, or hopeful and vulnerable to be hurt? 02:13:42.720 |
Oh, you can't dispense with vulnerable to be hurt. 02:13:47.560 |
It's like, you're going to stake your life on something. 02:13:50.960 |
You could stake your life on security, but it's not going to help. 02:13:55.960 |
So what do you do when you're betrayed, ultimately by some people you come across? 02:14:06.760 |
Do what you can to forgive, and not least so you lighten your own burden. 02:14:14.080 |
Maybe do what you can to help the person who betrayed you. 02:14:18.280 |
And if that all proves impossible, then wash your hands of it and move on to the next adventure. 02:14:33.960 |
So we've been talking about some heavy, difficult topics, and you've talked about truth in your 02:14:41.480 |
When you think, when you write, when you speak, how do you find what is true? 02:14:47.200 |
You know, Hemingway said, "All you have to do is write one true sentence." 02:14:52.960 |
Well, I would say first that you practice that. 02:14:56.280 |
It's like, that question is something, and Hemingway knew this, at least to some degree, 02:15:02.200 |
and he certainly wrote about it, is that you have to orient your life upward as completely 02:15:08.320 |
as you can, because otherwise you can't distinguish between truth and falsehood. 02:15:14.040 |
Now, and for me, I started to become serious about that practice when I realized that it 02:15:20.400 |
was the immorality of the individual, the resentful, craven, deceitful immorality of 02:15:27.080 |
the individual that led to the terrible atrocities that humans engage in that make us doubt even 02:15:38.080 |
That the fundamental root cause of evil, let's say, wasn't economic or sociological. 02:15:48.360 |
And that if that was the case, you had an existential responsibility to aim upward and 02:16:00.700 |
And so then, look, you set your path with your orientation. 02:16:08.580 |
As soon as you have a goal, a pathway opens up to you and you can see it. 02:16:12.840 |
And the world divides itself into obstacles and things that move you forward. 02:16:17.600 |
And so the pathway that's in front of you depends on your aim. 02:16:20.300 |
The things you perceive are concretizations of your aim. 02:16:25.780 |
If your aim is untrue, then you won't be able to tell the difference between truth 02:16:30.820 |
And you might say, well, how do you know your aim is true? 02:16:32.700 |
It's like, well, you course-correct continually and you can aim towards the ultimate. 02:16:37.820 |
Are you ever sure that your aim is the right direction? 02:16:40.580 |
You become increasingly accurate in your apprehension. 02:16:44.980 |
Is it like part of the process to cross the line? 02:16:48.700 |
To go outside the Overton window, to dip a toe outside the Overton window for a bit? 02:16:53.980 |
When I was in part in play, I was at the Comedy Mothership and every single comedian was like 02:17:01.380 |
All they were doing was saying things that you can't say. 02:17:07.060 |
What I'm trying to do in my lectures is, I'm on the edge. 02:17:10.380 |
I have a question I'm trying to address and I'm trying to figure it out. 02:17:12.860 |
I don't know where the conversation is going, truly. 02:17:18.880 |
And I think the reason that the audiences respond is because they can feel that. 02:17:25.300 |
And, you know, my lectures have degrees of success. 02:17:28.460 |
Sometimes I get real fortunate and there's a perfect narrative arc. 02:17:33.580 |
It comes to a punchline conclusion just at the right time and it's like the whole act 02:17:38.620 |
And sometimes it's more fragmented, but I can tell when the audience is engaged because 02:17:43.100 |
everyone's silent, you know, except maybe when they're laughing. 02:17:47.300 |
There's a kind of sense that you're arguing with yourself when you're lecturing. 02:17:51.100 |
It's really, really beautiful and powerful to watch, like Nietzsche does the same. 02:17:53.860 |
There's contradictions in what you're saying. 02:17:57.040 |
But I do think that when you're doing the same on the internet, you get punished for 02:18:02.500 |
You get punished for the exploration, especially when that explores outside the Overton window. 02:18:07.900 |
Look, if you're going to play hard in a conversation to explore, you're going to say things that 02:18:16.020 |
That are going to cause trouble and that might be wrong. 02:18:18.720 |
And that's another reason why free speech protection is so important. 02:18:24.480 |
Let's say in the optimal circumstance, you have to protect the right of well-meaning 02:18:29.200 |
Now you probably have to go beyond that to truly protect it. 02:18:33.000 |
You have to even protect the right of people who aren't meaning well to be wrong, you know, 02:18:37.520 |
and we also need that because we're not always well-meaning. 02:18:41.420 |
But I don't, you know, the alternative to that protection would be the insistence that 02:18:45.440 |
people only say what was 100% right all the time. 02:18:49.660 |
I'm also, I guess this is a call to our fellow humans not to reduce a person to a particular 02:18:55.880 |
statement, which is what the internet tends to want to do. 02:19:01.520 |
Especially if it's the worst thing they ever said. 02:19:05.720 |
Because God, well, anyone judged by that standard is doomed unless they're silent. 02:19:12.040 |
You don't want to take sort of radical thought experiments and carry out to a natural conclusion. 02:19:16.520 |
Yeah, well, that's kind of the definition of a totalitarian state. 02:19:20.000 |
No one's playing in a totalitarian state ever. 02:19:28.520 |
Well, you know, that might be the general pattern of totalitarianism. 02:19:31.840 |
Well, in totalitarianism, there's usually one psychopath, not multiple. 02:19:36.040 |
Yeah, but everyone, well, everyone else is complicit, at least in their silence. 02:19:41.920 |
Does the study of the pathology of psychopaths online wear on you? 02:19:54.760 |
But you know, probably I experience most of that on X. 02:20:05.920 |
But that's also where I find most of my guests. 02:20:08.280 |
That's also where I get a sense of the zeitgeist, which is necessary. 02:20:13.360 |
For example, if you're going to be a podcast host, it's necessary for me to make my lectures 02:20:17.280 |
on point and up to date to get a sampling of the current moment. 02:20:22.380 |
You have to be of the moment in many ways to function at a high level. 02:20:29.160 |
There's a price to be paid for that, because you're exposed to everything in a sense. 02:20:46.080 |
Well, luckily for me, you know, I have many things that counterbalance that, the familial 02:20:49.360 |
relationships we talked about, the friendships, and then also all of the public things I do 02:20:55.480 |
The lecture tours, for example, which I'm on a lot, they're basically 100% positive. 02:21:11.040 |
As a fan in the arena watching the gladiators fight, your mind is too important to be lost 02:21:16.200 |
to the cynical, to the battles with the abyss. 02:21:21.760 |
Well, you have a moral obligation too, to maintain a positive orientation. 02:21:29.860 |
The future is, of course, rife with contradictory possibilities. 02:21:34.640 |
And I suppose in some ways, the more rapid the rate of transformation, the more possibility 02:21:40.800 |
for good and for evil is making itself manifest at any moment. 02:21:44.880 |
But it looks like the best way to ensure that the future is everything we wish it would 02:21:49.940 |
be is to maintain faith that that is the direction that will prevail. 02:21:54.880 |
And I think that's a form of moral commitment, when it's not just naive optimism. 02:22:00.100 |
Well, Jordan, thank you for being courageous and being the light amid the darkness for 02:22:10.900 |
Thanks very much for the invitation and for the conversations. 02:22:13.500 |
But it's always a pleasure to see you, and you're doing a pretty decent job yourself 02:22:19.340 |
about there illuminating dark corners and bringing people upward. 02:22:24.620 |
I mean, you've got a remarkable thing going with your podcast, and you're very good 02:22:30.700 |
Thanks for listening to this conversation with Jordan Peterson. 02:22:33.460 |
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And now, let me leave you with some words from Friedrich Nietzsche. 02:22:42.020 |
I would like to learn more and more to see as beautiful that which is necessary in things. 02:22:48.020 |
Then I shall be one of those who make things beautiful. 02:22:52.860 |
Thank you for listening, and hope to see you next time.