back to indexDan Gable: Olympic Wrestling, Mental Toughness & the Making of Champions | Lex Fridman Podcast #152
Chapters
0:0 Introduction
2:56 Russian wrestling
4:34 Coaching the science, art, and toughness of wrestling
11:30 The pain of defeat and the tattoo of a hawk clawing out the heart
14:29 Roger Bannister and the 4 minute mile
17:35 The dream of becoming an Olympic champion
20:3 The day in 1972 of the Olympic final
23:35 Sauna story
25:5 Match against the Russian
30:38 The role of fear in wrestling
35:40 The line between physical wrestling and anger
40:18 Tragic loss of Dan's sister
47:46 The role of family in wrestling
53:8 Wrestling being voted out of the Olympics
57:52 To beat the best you must study the best
63:5 The role of luck (Old Man and the Sea)
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The following is a conversation with Dan Gable 00:00:04.460 |
I did not previously publish this conversation 00:00:06.660 |
as part of this podcast, but as a separate thing. 00:00:10.020 |
And as a result, it did not receive many listens. 00:00:13.620 |
Let me be honest and say that while I usually don't care 00:00:17.160 |
about how many listens or views something gets, 00:00:19.860 |
in this one case, I feel like I failed one of my heroes. 00:00:31.380 |
Dan Gable is one of the greatest Olympic athletes 00:00:36.300 |
Bigger than records and medals, to many like myself, 00:00:39.300 |
he's a symbol of guts, spirit, mental toughness, 00:00:45.420 |
As a wrestler, he was undefeated in high school, 00:00:48.180 |
undefeated in college until his very last match. 00:00:51.620 |
And having lost that match, he found another level 00:00:55.580 |
and became a world champion and an Olympic champion. 00:01:07.740 |
As a coach, he led the Iowa Hawkeyes to 15 national titles 00:01:15.020 |
He coached 152 All-Americans, 45 national champions, 00:01:43.140 |
So the choice is AI, privacy, grammar, or safety. 00:01:49.220 |
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As a side note, let me say that I spent a few days in Iowa 00:02:05.420 |
to drill takedowns, to start a family, to live life simply. 00:02:14.860 |
where both mental toughness and technical mastery 00:02:17.620 |
of the highest form are rewarded with victory, 00:02:23.940 |
And every such loss weighs heavy on the minds 00:02:26.100 |
of anyone who has ever stepped on the wrestling mat, 00:02:30.980 |
The same is true for one of the greatest wrestlers 00:02:35.380 |
the man who graciously welcomed me into his home 00:02:38.180 |
for this conversation, the legend, Dan Gable. 00:02:42.100 |
If you enjoy this thing, subscribe on YouTube, 00:02:44.420 |
review it on Apple Podcasts, follow on Spotify, 00:02:51.900 |
And now, here's my conversation with Dan Gable. 00:02:58.260 |
because you've been trying to get me on this podcast 00:03:04.900 |
and you said you were Russian, did I call you back? 00:03:09.380 |
- Because Russia, to me, is leading the world in wrestling, 00:03:14.900 |
- What's the difference between American wrestling 00:04:05.620 |
- Most people thought I was already an artist 00:04:07.740 |
just because I won 181 straight matches in seven years. 00:04:11.460 |
And not just winning, but kind of punishing people. 00:04:31.560 |
learn some of that science, become more of an artist. 00:04:35.580 |
So the Russian way has this drilling technique, 00:04:42.780 |
How do you think you work on the science, the art part? 00:04:53.380 |
that probably showed us that being artistic, you needed that. 00:05:02.660 |
and wrestled in some major tournaments over there. 00:05:21.900 |
But I'd have to say he was more the artistic type. 00:05:33.300 |
106 Big Ten champions, and eight Olympic medalists, 00:05:42.680 |
and what are maybe some of the fundamental differences? 00:05:50.500 |
they all had one of those two avenues that we talked already 00:06:02.140 |
So in a Russian wrestling room, they got the same people. 00:06:05.360 |
Most of the time in an American wrestling room, 00:06:16.800 |
I needed some genetics in that wrestling room 00:06:25.500 |
they could look and see, wow, that execution, 00:06:32.820 |
But yet I can beat that guy after the first minute. 00:06:37.360 |
- So you think the art, the technique is genetics, 00:06:44.600 |
- I think your pop and your ability to move-- 00:06:49.240 |
- And timing and your quickness and your strength. 00:06:53.320 |
You know, the Russians, they usually picked out 00:07:12.200 |
You don't see them banging against each other that much. 00:07:25.160 |
and they'll jump up and climb a rope, boom, boom, boom. 00:07:38.040 |
get right back down, climb 'em right back again. 00:07:40.920 |
But I also realized that I had to have a mix of that. 00:07:51.080 |
and what was the role in helping these athletes 00:08:17.280 |
So you can see it when you, you know it when you see it? 00:08:26.800 |
I'm picking up after 'em and you're analyzing 'em. 00:08:29.920 |
You outwork 'em, you outwork 'em and you outthink 'em. 00:08:39.860 |
because some of my kids that were the best kids in the world 00:08:53.080 |
But they worked so hard, they developed themselves. 00:08:58.400 |
I mean, that means pushing kids to their limit. 00:09:02.920 |
- Yeah, but you can't push kids to their limit. 00:09:09.640 |
I mean, yeah, coaches sometimes accidentally don't, 00:09:15.840 |
- Because of the heat, because of hard work and all that. 00:09:24.540 |
And by that I mean, you gotta know 'em pretty well. 00:09:28.160 |
Every once in a while, you make a little bit of a mistake. 00:09:32.120 |
before it gets too far, then it's gonna be a casualty. 00:09:43.240 |
or maybe something that, wow, that was close. 00:10:10.760 |
You're there in the morning for practice sometimes, 00:10:13.280 |
you're there in the afternoon for two or three hours. 00:10:18.480 |
or you might have a sauna, or a steam, or a whirlpool, 00:10:21.720 |
and you get in there with 'em, and you listen. 00:10:24.880 |
You know, you're not just feeding out information. 00:10:28.120 |
You do that, but you're taking in a lot of that too. 00:10:31.240 |
And I'm telling you, when you get in an atmosphere 00:10:33.760 |
that they're relaxed, and they feel comfortable, 00:10:38.640 |
And that's after practice, in one of those areas 00:10:48.100 |
when all of a sudden you feel like very comfortable, 00:10:54.280 |
And when those words flow, you take 'em in as a coach, 00:11:07.320 |
I've saved a couple of kids' lives, for sure, 00:11:11.280 |
You know, sometimes performance is at such a high level, 00:11:21.520 |
And I don't mean pushing a kid to where he just dies, 00:11:24.480 |
but I mean, he might feel himself as a failure. 00:11:36.080 |
and your whole meaning of life becomes winning. 00:11:39.520 |
So, and sometimes it's so hard to lose within that context. 00:11:43.600 |
So, in your, I think, the first wrestling life, 00:11:55.440 |
and has this tattoo of a hawk clawing out the human heart. 00:12:11.040 |
- Yeah, again, you like that word, suffering, which is okay. 00:12:16.440 |
keep it, keep it, 'cause it fits right in where I want. 00:12:21.760 |
to where he makes and feels good about himself, 00:12:31.360 |
And so, but you have to actually get him to realize 00:12:38.960 |
he was unbelievably unique, right at the top, 00:12:41.880 |
just a little bit short of, but because it was, 00:12:52.800 |
And because you really have a lot of goodwill, 00:13:00.640 |
It took him probably years, years of tattooing, 00:13:15.200 |
after his wrestling was done, 'cause he had a good job 00:13:18.160 |
around here and he was, I thought he was doing a good job, 00:13:26.880 |
I had a wrestling terminology, I have to get, 00:13:42.080 |
He says, "That's where everybody goes to hide." 00:13:57.080 |
And if you can find, and he's actually turned it around. 00:14:00.240 |
I mean, it's a journey. He's actually turned it around. 00:14:04.280 |
that he thought he could fit into, and I think he did. 00:14:09.040 |
And I think he's got a good job and he's helping people. 00:14:12.940 |
He covered that tattoo with feathers, another tattoo. 00:14:36.460 |
That's the man who broke the four-minute mile, right? 00:14:59.500 |
So what lesson do you take from that story for yourself? 00:15:03.060 |
The impossible, trying to accomplish the impossible. 00:15:12.100 |
I mean, if you looked at where the mile time is right now 00:15:39.980 |
or below if you're gonna win events at major level, 00:15:45.820 |
And so you can take that and you can look at what 00:15:48.860 |
in time history has as its record performance, 00:15:59.740 |
ah, that record performance, it's gonna change. 00:16:03.460 |
- And they don't take into all the factors of knowledge. 00:16:07.400 |
They don't take in all the factors of better shoes. 00:16:41.580 |
we don't want you drinking water at practice. 00:17:00.480 |
- And so you're mostly, at the end of practice, 00:17:10.640 |
okay, go ahead and drink water during practice. 00:17:18.200 |
And so I look at my career for two and a half years, 00:17:28.880 |
as good as I could because I just was probably under. 00:17:34.220 |
- Yeah, so what, so, but at the individual level, 00:17:41.440 |
that maybe probably people would laugh at you about 00:17:46.640 |
- Well, I always visualized me being the best. 00:18:00.240 |
with competitive sports at the YMCA from age five. 00:18:06.680 |
that you're gonna be Olympic champion one day? 00:18:13.520 |
'cause there was something a little different 00:18:23.120 |
- You know, at six, at seven, at eight, at nine, at 10. 00:18:36.840 |
all of a sudden the grass was down to dirt on both sides. 00:18:48.320 |
or you know, or you get the neighborhood kids 00:18:55.600 |
I was hiking a ball like I was the quarterback. 00:18:58.120 |
And I was running and running through the furniture, 00:19:09.360 |
- And the coaches at the YMCA level, the junior high level, 00:19:12.680 |
they saw this guy come first and end up last. 00:19:24.220 |
You know, actually before I went to the Olympics, 00:19:28.080 |
And I probably came back with one of the highest scores, 00:19:40.340 |
straight across the board high on every one of them. 00:19:43.160 |
But there was always people that were higher than me. 00:19:58.640 |
that you were gonna be unscored upon at the Olympic Games. 00:20:06.120 |
1972, when you were going for the 68 kilogram 00:20:32.580 |
because we weighed in every day at that time. 00:20:41.160 |
And so that didn't mean that you weighed in two hours 00:20:44.600 |
whether you're gonna wrestle right away or later on. 00:20:47.120 |
In fact, in that day, I don't think I wrestled 00:20:49.520 |
until later on in the evening, so had all day to recover, 00:20:55.800 |
'cause I wasn't really pulling a whole lot of weight. 00:21:40.560 |
Or if I didn't figure it out, I would fall asleep, 00:21:57.120 |
how do you take Dan Gable down in the practice room? 00:22:12.720 |
arrest them the whole practice or half a practice 00:22:23.180 |
but they knew that was gonna be their victory. 00:22:27.480 |
- So in the practice room, maybe you can educate me. 00:22:39.580 |
on some kind of weird position, a weak point, 00:22:45.720 |
- It's kind of like what we were saying before. 00:22:47.960 |
If something happened and somebody scored on me 00:22:50.760 |
in a certain way, I would go over that situation, 00:23:03.520 |
'cause I didn't want the guy to not have some, 00:23:11.120 |
But maybe three days later when we wrestled again, 00:23:14.140 |
I actually had it figured out because he wasn't able to. 00:23:29.980 |
But it wasn't something that usually I couldn't solve. 00:23:44.320 |
That's about a half a kilo, 1.1 pounds is a kilo, 00:23:54.220 |
they had a sauna there, and I got in the sauna. 00:23:56.980 |
And the funny thing was, the morning of the finals, 00:24:16.680 |
I kind of think it was a plot, 'cause it was a girl. 00:24:37.140 |
that go on behind the scenes in Olympic games, 00:24:40.820 |
in world games, anytime when you have country against country 00:24:44.540 |
and so there's some crazy stuff that goes on. 00:25:24.600 |
and you're stepping on the mat against a Russian 00:25:45.000 |
where they have some of those types of moves, 00:25:50.020 |
but by cutting down a weight, he lost some of that go. 00:25:57.100 |
that's a process you gotta go about scientifically. 00:26:09.140 |
and they already didn't really do that a lot, 00:26:19.660 |
it maybe slowed his belief down a little bit. 00:26:23.900 |
The spirit was a little bit gone when you were facing him. 00:26:39.180 |
So I think I had already gained enough of artistic, 00:26:52.660 |
And I think that he was already hoping to win, 00:27:00.080 |
because he had to pin me or beat me by eight points 00:27:11.020 |
- Is it hard to pin Dan Gable versus take down? 00:27:14.500 |
Have you taken risks where you could pay for them? 00:27:21.180 |
that would actually put me in a danger position. 00:27:25.340 |
but the risks were so scientifically, technically correct 00:27:33.120 |
It's like, if I'm gonna lock up and throw you, 00:27:46.240 |
Early on, there was moves from collegiate wrestling 00:27:51.980 |
which it cost me in some early freestyle matches 00:27:57.580 |
But I would go back to my collegiate escaping type moves 00:28:12.780 |
you would get exposed under maybe a desperate situation. 00:28:28.140 |
For me, 'cause I already went through that once. 00:28:33.540 |
but the National Collegiate Championship level, 00:28:47.420 |
But it was why I changed my philosophy of training 00:29:00.100 |
even though I wouldn't have felt good about it, 00:29:09.700 |
But if I'd have won it, I would have got over it. 00:29:14.660 |
I mean, I don't know why I was doing this kind of stuff 00:29:19.860 |
By that, I mean this kind of stuff, talking-- 00:29:23.220 |
- Yeah, and I really wasn't a good talker then. 00:29:25.100 |
I mean, me and you were talking pretty good right now, 00:29:28.060 |
But I don't think I could say two words hardly then. 00:29:42.880 |
"Come watch me as I finish my career undefeated, 182 and 0." 00:29:52.700 |
And the last two or three times, they wrote it out. 00:29:56.060 |
And I read it, and still it wasn't like I just said it. 00:30:17.180 |
and for me, it was great coaching experience. 00:30:22.020 |
You know, I coached for longer than I wrestled. 00:30:30.660 |
that even in your own career that you had made. 00:30:41.020 |
Does fear have any role, do you think, for a wrestler? 00:30:48.900 |
And I'm sure that was to my advantage almost every time. 00:31:20.140 |
I don't think it was that American, you know, 00:31:33.100 |
You know, maybe this guy might be better than me 00:31:40.420 |
I think that got to me more than anything else. 00:31:46.780 |
ever having to worry about getting tired in a match. 00:31:56.020 |
that is one of the fears that a lot of wrestlers have. 00:32:08.420 |
And as a coach, that really was one of the things 00:32:15.380 |
But that fear factor would be put upon my opponent, 00:32:30.100 |
So I made sure that for my mistakes as an athlete, 00:32:38.260 |
And if you make a mistake once and then you can repeat it, 00:32:45.640 |
- Your goal throughout your wrestling career, 00:32:49.440 |
was to work so hard that you pass out on the mat, right? 00:32:56.500 |
That's one of the ways you failed in your career, 00:32:58.440 |
is you've never worked so hard that you've passed out. 00:33:02.640 |
Do you remember a time that you've come close 00:33:04.640 |
that you've been pushed to the limits of exhaustion? 00:33:07.000 |
- You know, the question's really a good question 00:33:34.000 |
You push them to the point where they go collapse. 00:33:42.760 |
We can't have our kid in that type of atmosphere. 00:34:20.440 |
I can remember walking from the far end of the room 00:34:34.520 |
but I can recount four or five times in my career 00:35:20.780 |
and she was beating people she normally never pushed, 00:35:23.260 |
but she was at a new level that she had never been before, 00:35:25.800 |
and she only needed about five feet to finish. 00:35:30.100 |
that I bet there was a lot of learning that she did there. 00:35:33.340 |
And it probably made her realize that she could be better. 00:35:42.620 |
that the Brands brothers looked up to Roy Salger, 00:35:47.380 |
who was known for pushing the limits of physical wrestling, 00:36:11.780 |
I think anger would cause you to make mistakes 00:36:17.340 |
Because I think anger is kind of a loss of control. 00:36:59.420 |
a fight breaks out and it's after the whistle's blown. 00:37:02.860 |
Well, when the whistle blew, they backed off. 00:37:07.540 |
So that whistle was something that, in a match, 00:37:18.140 |
- But perhaps it could be a little bit of fuel. 00:37:21.660 |
the book that you just got from Mike Chapman, 00:37:33.180 |
speed, and ability to think were increased tremendously 00:37:36.220 |
by just sitting apart from the action prior to the match 00:37:39.460 |
and getting into a state of controlled anger. 00:37:46.020 |
So anger could be fuel as long as it's controlled. 00:37:52.780 |
One side of the line, you can have an anger for performance, 00:37:58.580 |
if you go beyond that, it's not gonna be for performance. 00:38:14.860 |
I mean, you got world championship titles there. 00:38:18.420 |
You got a world silver medalist in Roy Seliger. 00:38:23.420 |
And when I talked to him about the world silver medalist, 00:38:32.100 |
'Cause he was actually 20 seconds away from winning 00:38:38.580 |
And I don't know whether he's okay with it or not 00:38:54.000 |
And it's hard for him to actually make amends to himself 00:39:19.340 |
And so he, it's like, why do I keep going back to it? 00:39:39.580 |
And that's why he was able to win national titles 00:39:49.220 |
he's analyzed all the people that he's wrestled. 00:39:52.260 |
And a lot of them have won World and Olympic Championships. 00:39:55.700 |
And he's beaten every one of them at one time or another. 00:39:58.580 |
And he didn't get to that world championship gold 00:40:08.040 |
So he's showing people that I've beaten those guys. 00:40:12.940 |
But apparently he didn't beat them at the right time. 00:40:22.540 |
I mean, it's just like anything in life that's really high. 00:40:39.080 |
You've talked about it, you've written about it. 00:40:41.500 |
So I hope it's okay for me to say that your sister, 00:40:53.020 |
So the echoes of pain and anger from that tragic day, 00:40:59.820 |
Through your wrestling, through your coaching, 00:41:02.500 |
through the way you, when you wake up in the morning? 00:41:07.740 |
It can be very emotional to me under certain circumstances. 00:41:21.580 |
You know, it can be maybe if I've had a Mountain Dew 00:41:43.300 |
It just so happens, you know, what brings it out? 00:41:49.340 |
to the extreme point of to where it brings it out. 00:42:09.060 |
Because I was only a sophomore, 15 years old, 00:42:20.620 |
And now that we're down just to me and my parents, 00:42:24.140 |
and I'm gonna be around the house for another two years, 00:42:37.900 |
They were the ones that were suffering much more than me, 00:42:47.860 |
that I wasn't good at was communication at that time, 00:42:50.740 |
except inside the restroom, 'cause I had been tipped off. 00:42:57.480 |
- Well, the neighbor boy said that something to me 00:42:59.580 |
about my sister just three weeks before that, 00:43:11.380 |
- You don't, is there a part of you that blames yourself? 00:43:41.060 |
and I'm telling you, when they left every time 00:43:42.780 |
to go somewhere in a car or go out with someplace, 00:43:47.800 |
And they would always say, "Dad, you said that last night." 00:43:54.100 |
- I'd say like, don't be driving and drinking, 00:44:11.400 |
You know, I just, I'm always thinking ahead a little bit, 00:44:22.100 |
with that young man, when he was talking to me. 00:44:25.140 |
And I just, I took it and I kept it inside me. 00:44:37.020 |
and I told my dad, I think I know who killed her. 00:44:47.300 |
He didn't slap me, he pushed me against the car. 00:44:49.780 |
She was the one that slapped me around a little bit. 00:45:02.380 |
but, and I don't, I doubt if I was crying yet. 00:45:08.520 |
but I just said, "Hey, I was walking to school 00:45:20.840 |
And he said something about Diane and it wasn't good, 00:45:25.840 |
but I didn't, he goes, "Why didn't you say something?" 00:45:47.920 |
And I don't, I took the word choice out of my life. 00:45:51.080 |
And I just like to say, "Okay, do the right thing. 00:46:05.400 |
And so, not that I've been perfect by any means, 00:46:18.120 |
It's just given me opportunities to be better in my life. 00:46:26.840 |
And I think my family was ready to make a split 00:46:40.840 |
but more than that, they really liked each other, 00:46:50.280 |
for a couple of years until I moved on and went to college. 00:46:52.920 |
Then they found out they really liked each other 00:46:55.280 |
when they were alone and it worked out pretty good. 00:47:02.040 |
not just through college and Olympics and Worlds, 00:47:08.160 |
So it's the same, the same success and factor, 00:47:16.960 |
And it gave my four daughters, it gave my wife, 00:47:32.080 |
and they're all interested in what we're interested in. 00:47:47.040 |
- What do you think is the role of family in wrestling? 00:47:55.840 |
- You can do it alone, but why would you want to? 00:48:03.040 |
are much less than the chances of doing it together. 00:48:06.080 |
I know they say don't bring your profession home. 00:48:27.280 |
or I'm not gonna be an assistant athletic director 00:48:39.360 |
Not you necessarily, maybe the person you're living with. 00:48:42.640 |
And so I don't know if you looked outside there, 00:48:51.520 |
It's only 30 feet from my house and it's my office. 00:49:03.320 |
"Hey, why don't you go sleep in the other house?" 00:49:23.400 |
till close to seven, 30 or eight o'clock at night. 00:49:27.400 |
Then all of a sudden you're not gone as much. 00:49:32.160 |
I'm doing not so much like here what we're doing right now, 00:49:35.040 |
but it's when I get in the car and drive somewhere 00:49:40.880 |
and I hadn't told her that this guy called me 00:49:49.720 |
Wrestlers in Business Networking out in Delaware. 00:50:14.760 |
She goes, "We're celebrating Christmas that weekend early 00:50:23.440 |
And I said, "Oh, well, that's not gonna work." 00:50:26.080 |
But I kind of didn't say anything to her at first. 00:50:32.680 |
And if I wanna stay married for another year, 45 years, 00:50:51.680 |
help start another wrestlers and business network. 00:50:54.040 |
But there's more than one Dan Gable out there. 00:50:56.760 |
But there's a lot of people that are maybe even closer. 00:51:20.280 |
But our men's freestyle team right now are excellent. 00:51:25.280 |
And the key for them is to get them all on the same page 00:51:39.120 |
Well, the three guys that have never won before 00:51:43.280 |
Our two past world champions didn't win this year. 00:51:57.200 |
- And Sajalive got, I mean, Snyder got second. 00:52:08.760 |
In fact, two of them had never made a world team before. 00:52:11.400 |
And so we have three world champions this year, 00:52:14.200 |
but we needed all five of them to come through 00:52:21.920 |
to do the same at the same time, year in and year out, 00:52:25.680 |
and not just based on, okay, Burroughs got beat this year, 00:52:32.160 |
It's gotta be every year if you're capable of doing that. 00:52:34.680 |
And that's what the coaching staff has to do. 00:52:36.760 |
What's kind of funny that I do have a lot of influence 00:52:39.000 |
actually on the coaching staffs right now at the USA level 00:52:41.960 |
because the women's freestyle guy is Terry Steiner, 00:52:46.760 |
and he wrestled for me and was a national champion. 00:52:49.080 |
He's got a twin brother that's at Fresno State. 00:52:56.560 |
and he wrestled for the Hawkeyes back in the early days, 00:53:02.040 |
So we got a lot of former Gable influence on there, 00:53:08.840 |
In 2013, the International Olympic Committee, IOC, 00:54:01.660 |
we're one of the first sports in the Olympics ever, 00:54:05.400 |
and that we think that we're in 180-some countries, 00:54:12.160 |
and some of the number one countries in the world 00:54:23.440 |
But then you gotta look and see who's running the IOC. 00:54:26.200 |
The IOC, the International Olympic Committee. 00:54:39.380 |
We've never had anybody on the IOC from wrestling. 00:54:51.920 |
And if you don't have somebody looking out for you 00:54:57.320 |
then it's pretty easy for people to turn their head. 00:55:11.460 |
- Well, yeah, I mean, it's the first time in ever, 00:55:13.680 |
in history, that probably all this competitive people 00:55:25.360 |
So that made a big difference, and we got a lot done. 00:55:30.000 |
In fact, in America, there was several people 00:55:35.420 |
that were really out there that we didn't know about 00:55:42.580 |
And when they came aboard, now they're still aboard. 00:55:46.540 |
That doesn't mean we're doing everything perfect, 00:55:57.460 |
We have to do some of the things that I'm talking about, 00:56:00.940 |
or some of the things that we didn't do before. 00:56:06.460 |
And so our leadership got changed, and it's better, 00:56:13.340 |
But there are things that we could still be doing 00:56:17.980 |
to make sure that we don't have situations like this happen. 00:56:22.740 |
I'll tell you, when I first learned about it, 00:56:38.540 |
about losing the O-ings, but I probably get more determined. 00:56:45.220 |
and think about those moments when you heard. 00:56:47.820 |
When I heard that moment, and I, it just overcame me. 00:56:57.660 |
And my wife had been up looking at the internet, 00:57:00.420 |
and she woke me up, and I thought she was joking. 00:57:03.020 |
But I jumped out of bed really quick when she said that. 00:57:14.740 |
It was one of these things that, it's a nightmare. 00:57:31.380 |
"The Loss of Dan Gable" by Ray Thompson, the ESPN article. 00:57:34.620 |
They kind of, in this very beautiful poetic way, 00:57:42.860 |
the losing your sister, losing to Larry O-ings, 00:58:00.100 |
But stepping back, wrestling is one of the oldest forms 00:58:04.940 |
Dating back, there's cave drawings, 15,000 years ago. 00:58:22.540 |
the purity of sort of two human beings locked in combat, 00:58:30.380 |
this fair struggle between two men or two women? 00:58:52.280 |
There's little markers or little points in time 00:59:14.060 |
And I don't think people can actually feel that way 00:59:17.420 |
unless you've actually had a lot of accomplishments, 00:59:20.380 |
in anything, I think there's anything out there. 00:59:39.460 |
along the line, that he did had some close calls, 00:59:54.460 |
and being very successful, that the opportunity came. 00:59:58.460 |
And so it's for me, it's like the same thing. 01:00:21.420 |
and look more how I could even make it better. 01:00:23.900 |
And so it's like, if you look at my library upstairs, 01:00:29.500 |
and there's a lot of books up there from the family. 01:00:44.260 |
I can't read the book, but I can see the diagrams, 01:00:55.760 |
And so it was like when I was trying to beat the best, 01:01:04.020 |
because they win the world championships every year 01:01:12.500 |
but it's something, you study the best who's out there, 01:01:32.980 |
- Toughness to technique, to the art, to the science. 01:01:39.420 |
and you're sitting over there and you love MIT 01:01:47.660 |
- In your eyes, and that's great, and it might be, 01:01:54.100 |
that there's something that you're probably stealing 01:01:57.700 |
from Harvard, but you won't give them credit. 01:02:18.020 |
- No, I don't think I've ever caught a big ocean fish. 01:02:30.020 |
I probably caught a northern that weighed 20-some pounds. 01:02:41.780 |
And the best eating fish are not the real big ones. 01:02:52.300 |
but they're not the best eaters if you wanna eat, 01:02:56.300 |
So I do have a couple of trophy walleyes on the wall, 01:02:59.500 |
but most of the time I throw the big ones back 01:03:05.060 |
I don't know if you know there's a book by Hemingway 01:03:13.780 |
And there's an old man that basically catches an 18-footer, 01:03:18.780 |
but can't pull it in, doesn't have the strength, 01:03:20.660 |
so they together spend while the sharks eat away at it. 01:03:27.900 |
But he says, "It's better to be lucky," the old man says. 01:03:31.700 |
"It's better to be lucky, but I would rather be exact." 01:03:43.300 |
Do you believe in free will, that we have actions 01:03:47.180 |
that control the direction, destination of our life? 01:04:19.540 |
"Hey, you've been pretty lucky to win all these awards." 01:04:29.860 |
I think it was more involved with preparation. 01:04:36.140 |
had you understood that you could do some things 01:04:54.900 |
to be able to have whatever is available to me. 01:04:59.900 |
And that's what, you call that a lot of science. 01:05:01.900 |
So for me, I think that, like right now, if I look back, 01:05:12.740 |
Like I give people water during practice, and I did. 01:05:17.380 |
And I would let them change their wrestling shoes 01:05:20.100 |
into running shoes to run sprints on the concrete. 01:05:26.740 |
climb 12 ropes after practice, one after another. 01:05:38.180 |
And you gotta learn, keep adding to your philosophy. 01:05:43.180 |
And your philosophy may have been great at that time, 01:06:16.360 |
"You think I really learned how to be a great writer 01:06:29.640 |
But really what gave me the ability to stay focused, 01:07:02.420 |
And he was a wrestler and he said the same thing. 01:07:23.800 |
So, you know, I think some of these MMA stars 01:07:28.800 |
and some of these guys that maybe weren't wrestlers 01:07:32.940 |
that had to wrestle, had to fight wrestling guys and stuff 01:07:43.480 |
But I think every martial art or every activity is good 01:07:49.800 |
But I don't think they're ever gonna overlook 01:07:58.720 |
However, that doesn't mean you're gonna make it. 01:08:12.200 |
of getting your arm raised in a wrestling match. 01:08:16.440 |
What's even greater than me getting my arm raised 01:08:20.080 |
is that if I'm a coach or if I was in "Belong With You" 01:08:42.240 |
It's the brotherhood, the sisterhood of the wrestling room. 01:08:46.960 |
that's gonna beat luck at the end of the day. 01:09:07.840 |
- Thanks for listening to this conversation with Dan Gable. 01:09:28.600 |
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And now let me leave you with some words from Dan Gable. 01:09:38.160 |
The first period is won by the best technician. 01:09:41.280 |
The second period is won by the kid in the best shape. 01:09:44.920 |
And the third period is won by the kid with the biggest heart. 01:09:48.720 |
Thank you for listening and hope to see you next time.