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Chapters
0:0 Cal's intro
0:10 Cal reads a question about getting out of urgent quadrant
0:41 Cal talks about A World Without Email
1:45 Cal explains the solution
2:25 Cal explains how to add stuff back
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All right, so we have another question here from Mel. 00:00:05.760 |
Mel says, "How do I get out of the urgent quadrant for long enough to hire or outsource 00:00:15.040 |
All right, so she elaborates, "I manage my husband's medical practice. 00:00:20.600 |
I am burnt out and cognitively depleted by the volume, time sensitivity, and unrelenting 00:00:26.040 |
I spend all my time in the urgent quadrant and in hyperactive hive mind. 00:00:31.720 |
I can hire and outsource to some extent when I'm able to make time for it, but how do I 00:00:35.120 |
get out of the urgent quadrant for long enough to recruit and train staff and to implement 00:00:40.600 |
Mel, I talk about exactly this problem in my book, A World Without Email. 00:00:48.220 |
It is, I describe as an insidious negative feedback loop. 00:00:52.880 |
And here's what happens, and here's what's happening to you, but it's very common. 00:00:58.000 |
When you become too hyperactive with the hyperactive hive mind, so that the sheer quantity of work 00:01:05.680 |
that you're trying to organize in this very inefficient way with ad hoc, unscheduled back 00:01:09.880 |
and forth messaging, when that gets to a certain point, you have so little breathing room, 00:01:16.840 |
just trying to keep up with all these unscheduled back and forth messages, that there's no free 00:01:21.200 |
time or energy to actually put in place the alternative systems that could reduce all 00:01:26.720 |
of these unscheduled messages, these unscheduled ad hoc messages. 00:01:30.760 |
So when it gets too bad, you strip yourself of the time and energy required to make it 00:01:36.360 |
So it's an insidious negative feedback cycle. 00:01:44.060 |
You have to temporarily but drastically give yourself some breathing room by dramatically 00:01:48.300 |
reducing the amount of things that you're trying to coordinate in this inefficient manner. 00:01:54.840 |
So you do these drastic emergency reductions of what's on your plate. 00:01:58.920 |
That gives you breathing room to look at what remains and figure out sustainable systems 00:02:04.120 |
that don't require you just constantly being on email, constantly being on Slack, constantly 00:02:10.040 |
And then once these systems are in place, then your breathing room gets much bigger 00:02:14.440 |
because the things that remain have now been, from a cognitive perspective, made much more 00:02:19.720 |
You're able to add stuff back because now the systems are there, but you have to pull 00:02:26.760 |
It's going to feel like you're leaving money on the table. 00:02:31.640 |
And then things come back once you have the actual systems in place. 00:02:35.260 |
Now the added benefit of this approach is when you add things back, you maybe don't 00:02:41.240 |
Maybe when you're trying to add things back, you say this one type of business we do is 00:02:45.520 |
not easily tamable by systems to get rid of unscheduled messages. 00:02:50.600 |
It's this particular client or type of work that requires and demands this berating constant 00:02:57.180 |
And now it's really clear, well, that type of work is not compatible with the type of 00:03:06.000 |
So it also gives you a chance to clean house as you're thinking about all the different 00:03:12.000 |
So what this means for your husband's medical practice, for example, is cut back on clients, 00:03:19.480 |
Like there's going to be a period where you say we're cutting back. 00:03:22.120 |
You're not stepping away from existing things, but you're going to put a hold on bringing 00:03:26.540 |
You're going to have a six month period where you fall back towards a baseline and make 00:03:30.540 |
less money and miss out opportunities, but allows you to actually build in better systems, 00:03:37.840 |
hire new staff, train that staff, figure out how to make sure that you are not context 00:03:41.440 |
shifting every two to three minutes, that you're not constantly email, that you're not 00:03:45.720 |
And here's the thing, who cares about six months worth of money? 00:03:48.960 |
That's a miserable existence you're talking about. 00:03:50.480 |
And your husband's probably burnt out too, because it bleeds over. 00:03:58.240 |
You have to make a dramatic temporary reduction if you're going to get the breathing room 00:04:01.240 |
required to build up systems that will be sustainable going forward. 00:04:05.120 |
The money will come back, but with much less stress once those systems are in place.