Are You Truly Happy?
00:00:00.000 | I try and talk about these things in the here and now because it's such a trope to say that
00:00:03.960 | nobody is on their deathbed and wishes they worked harder and spent more time at work.
00:00:09.500 | People always wish they spent more time with their family and friends.
00:00:11.840 | Like it's such a joke, but it's like nobody thinks the house is going to burn down when
00:00:15.580 | they buy insurance.
00:00:16.580 | We're terrible long-term planners.
00:00:18.120 | People are terrible at saving money because nobody thinks they're going to need it until
00:00:21.400 | it's too late.
00:00:22.400 | We have to talk to people in the here and now, right?
00:00:23.880 | Let's get them where they are.
00:00:24.880 | Are you the happiest you can be?
00:00:25.880 | Do you feel like you've got someone who's got your back?
00:00:27.800 | Do you feel like you can call someone when you're not doing well and that they have the
00:00:31.860 | skill set to know how to hold space?
00:00:33.760 | Do you ever get people to call to brag about how freaking amazing you are and they share
00:00:37.480 | in the joy with you and big up you and make you feel even better?
00:00:40.000 | Or do you have to keep it to yourself because you're kind of embarrassed that you're going
00:00:42.480 | to be that guy to your friends?
00:00:44.880 | Just ask yourself these questions if you have any of these people in your life.
00:00:48.560 | And if the answer is no to any of them, then maybe a little work is required.