The Modern Friendship Blueprint
00:00:00.000 | You want to know my fail safe for crashing a party?
00:00:02.020 | This worked every time and it never doesn't work.
00:00:03.760 | If you come in with like a lanyard under like a green yellow and purple lanyard, it doesn't
00:00:07.420 | really matter, but it's like covered by your suit.
00:00:09.300 | And then you also walk in with a glass of wine with wine in it and a cocktail napkin
00:00:14.040 | around that glass.
00:00:14.840 | And you just walk in on the phone.
00:00:16.260 | They're like, clearly this guy was just inside the high end party.
00:00:19.620 | It works so well that it was such a cheat code.
00:00:21.440 | And so that's how, that's how I originally formed a network by like crashing parties.
00:00:25.260 | And so that was a great way that I met a lot of mentors.
00:00:28.260 | And then later in life, I realized like, if I just look at the best men at my wedding,
00:00:32.560 | almost all of them were from the internet.
00:00:35.020 | Like people I met on the internet years ago, Noah Kagan, Sam Parr, he's been buddies for decades,
00:00:39.660 | right?
00:00:39.920 | And we met each other through our blogs, through social media.
00:00:43.460 | And so when you meet, it's, it's like, you got a buddy.
00:00:45.780 | And so I also think like posting on the internet and just participating on the internet, you
00:00:50.280 | don't even have to post, even replying and having conversations is probably one of the best
00:00:54.240 | ways to meet people now.