Supercharge Your Leadership Presence with This Powerful Habit"
00:00:00.000 | The biggest change is going to go on offense.
00:00:02.320 | Let's say you do okay at work meetings, but you want to just like own the room.
00:00:06.240 | You want to be like a powerful force of leadership and speaking up and authority.
00:00:11.000 | So then you say, okay, I'm going to have a commitment.
00:00:12.920 | Like every single meeting, I'm going to intentionally speak up and I'm
00:00:16.580 | going to intentionally steer at once.
00:00:17.940 | I'm going to intentionally ask a question.
00:00:19.420 | And so you start to build that.
00:00:21.120 | That's the action side.
00:00:22.520 | Now the habit that really strengthens that, and it serves multiple purposes.
00:00:26.580 | It neutralizes the critic and it builds your optimal coach.
00:00:29.920 | And this one is right after the meeting is done.
00:00:31.920 | Don't just do it in your head, force yourself to do it on a note file on your
00:00:35.920 | phone or on a sheet of paper where you write down three wins from
00:00:39.440 | the meeting right afterwards.
00:00:40.640 | What are three things that you did that went well?
00:00:42.200 | You might say, nah, nah, I don't need to do that.
00:00:43.460 | I know I was fine.
00:00:44.520 | It went great.
00:00:45.120 | No, no, no.
00:00:46.440 | This is going to really encode it into your, your identity.
00:00:49.640 | And it doesn't matter what you write down.
00:00:51.720 | It matters that you're training your brain to say, Hey, when I go into
00:00:55.360 | these situations, I'm competence.