back to indexFull Length Episode | #174 | February 17, 2022
Chapters
0:0 Cal's intro
2:34 Behind the Curtain
24:31 Finding the counter argument
33:42 Solid activities for a gap year
42:15 Jugging lots of hobbies
47:13 Staying disciplined to keep motivated
58:57 Cal's thoughts on the Metaverse
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I'm Cal Newport, and this is Deep Questions, episode 174. 00:00:15.580 |
I'm here in my Deep Work HQ, joined by my producer, Jesse. 00:00:22.080 |
Jesse, something I am supposed to do and I always forget to do, 00:00:37.000 |
consider leaving a review so that people who are interested in the show can see that people like it. 00:00:43.360 |
If you listen but don't subscribe, subscribe. 00:00:47.080 |
Are these the right things to ask people to do? 00:00:49.440 |
Yeah, people should definitely subscribe to your podcast. 00:00:51.880 |
All right, there we go. I used to tell my listeners, 00:01:01.720 |
This is how you know I'm not a digital media native. 00:01:06.760 |
Might as well tell people about your YouTube channel too. 00:01:11.440 |
The YouTube channel has the videos of every question asked, 00:01:19.360 |
so you can save, refer to, and share all of that. 00:01:24.320 |
YouTube is something you can subscribe to too, right? 00:01:30.200 |
With the podcast, subscribing makes sense to me 00:01:32.560 |
because then it means they'll see all the new episodes. 00:01:34.720 |
I don't know what it means to subscribe on YouTube. 00:01:38.480 |
and you get notifications, which you'd be all about, 00:01:49.240 |
"Oh, here's new videos from people you subscribe to"? 00:01:52.280 |
I don't get any notifications on any of my, including YouTube, 00:02:09.360 |
Is there some sort of stuff like that going on? 00:02:12.000 |
'Cause comments, subscribers, views, likes, all that stuff. 00:02:18.560 |
Well, do those things, don't do those things, I don't know. 00:02:24.040 |
I get in front of the mic and I answer your questions 00:02:29.960 |
leave a review for the podcast if people know you like it, 00:02:32.240 |
and I won't bother you about this again for a while. 00:02:41.680 |
I used to do a segment where I would give updates 00:02:44.560 |
about what was going on in the life of Cal Newport. 00:02:50.600 |
but I would, on things I was comfortable talking about, 00:02:59.080 |
because it's myself basically just talking about myself. 00:03:02.320 |
But now it occurred to me, now that we have Jesse here, 00:03:11.240 |
since, well, we are in a room surrounded by curtains. 00:03:13.600 |
So it's like what happens outside of this room, 00:03:17.640 |
where Jesse will be the proxy for you, my audience, 00:03:26.680 |
I have not seen these questions ahead of time, 00:03:36.160 |
- Take that $250,000 a month and go buy a new truck. 00:03:40.360 |
- I am gonna spend that on YouTube subscriptions. 00:03:51.880 |
and you don't get the ads and you get the music. 00:03:58.320 |
- You save so much time when you don't have to watch ads 00:04:09.720 |
send me encouraging telegrams so I know what's going on. 00:04:17.640 |
Send cards to your network executives, I don't know. 00:04:29.120 |
- All right, so I got a bunch of questions here. 00:04:32.040 |
So I'm just gonna fire a couple off and we'll see how it goes. 00:04:36.000 |
Can you give any updates on your Zittelkasten experiment? 00:05:00.640 |
And I was doing that jog in the morning and I heard this. 00:05:05.600 |
And then I was in a cool place too, near the beach, 00:05:13.400 |
so I wanted to know what's going on with that. 00:05:21.120 |
I was like, man, I should just have you call into the show. 00:05:25.080 |
And we could do like a Zittelkasten back and forth, 00:05:29.720 |
So I think we could technically do that, right? 00:05:32.040 |
Like we could have him call in on Zoom or something, 00:05:43.600 |
He has a lot of thoughts on what I've been saying. 00:05:45.280 |
And he thinks like I'm missing out on some of the value. 00:05:49.760 |
In my own life, I haven't made any big steps forward. 00:05:53.080 |
I mean, I'm still in the place where I want Roam, 00:06:05.000 |
which requires math notation, it's a whole separate thing. 00:06:23.120 |
which is its own issue I'm having in my life right now. 00:06:27.840 |
but pretty brutal these past months with my workload. 00:06:31.600 |
And to me, that's something you do when you have some time. 00:06:33.680 |
So I'm thinking as the spring gives way towards summer 00:06:43.440 |
basically capturing the place where I capture 00:06:46.000 |
most of my ideas, 'cause I have a lot of ideas. 00:06:49.320 |
And so we'll have Srinian, he can help me out. 00:06:55.280 |
Yeah, I mean, that book, "How to Take Smart Notes" 00:06:57.200 |
is what really introduced me to Zittelkasten. 00:07:03.760 |
And a listener sent it to me just out of the blue. 00:07:37.480 |
and come out on the other side with an article 00:07:39.880 |
or a book or an academic paper is just not how that works. 00:07:43.360 |
But it's a really cool way to probably organize a lot 00:07:59.800 |
For your own life, do you think you're close? 00:08:06.840 |
I think changes are looming that would get me closer. 00:08:10.760 |
So I've done extreme lifestyle centric career planning. 00:08:22.680 |
Very autonomous and interesting income stream 00:08:31.560 |
That was very much a lifestyle centric career planning, 00:08:35.600 |
very explicit planning process of where do we want to live 00:08:46.280 |
between where I am right now and the very clear lifestyle, 00:08:49.880 |
and I gotta say, I have this written out very clearly 00:08:53.120 |
I mean, I know the bullet points of what goes 00:08:56.160 |
into the lifestyle that I'm working backwards 00:09:01.920 |
Right now, I still have too much on my plate. 00:09:04.160 |
And so the old joke on the podcast is I have 17 jobs, 00:09:10.840 |
So that's, I think, the next evolution to come 00:09:15.840 |
is it's to be a full-time this and a full-time that 00:09:19.960 |
and a full-time that, like three or four multiple things. 00:09:25.800 |
My ideal lifestyle is slower and way more autonomous. 00:09:30.480 |
Less things, high stakes, like, hey, deliver a book. 00:09:46.240 |
There's some early stage visions we're working on 00:09:53.560 |
getting a little bit more involved in Tacoma Park. 00:10:03.680 |
Do we wanna be, so there's a lot of thoughts we have 00:10:05.360 |
about being more integrated into what's going on 00:10:08.680 |
in our town, which I think is interesting too. 00:10:14.960 |
In the moment, I have way too much, but strategic. 00:10:25.080 |
And I think it's also gonna maybe be important 00:10:33.040 |
where I'm thinking through what I wanna, wanna, 00:10:37.320 |
'Cause right now I'm just being crushed with overload. 00:10:54.520 |
It's an initiative at Georgetown I think is very important, 00:11:00.080 |
I probably should have aggressively slowed down 00:11:04.840 |
I added it on top of the stuff that was working just fine 00:11:07.040 |
and now it doesn't add up and work just fine. 00:11:13.120 |
and I have the, technically I have the time for it. 00:11:15.960 |
The issue is, and this is a core idea of slow productivity, 00:11:20.400 |
no matter, even if you do have the time to get it done 00:11:26.960 |
So it's a good kind of kick in the butt right now 00:11:46.080 |
that you read recently, you told Tim Ferriss about. 00:11:50.720 |
And generally, do you find that time goes by very fast? 00:12:10.760 |
like this day's basketball and this day I teach. 00:12:13.160 |
And so you have this sort of very regular schedule 00:12:15.440 |
that each day is different than the one before, 00:12:19.760 |
I always feel like time moves very fast during those seasons 00:12:39.440 |
I mean, I don't mind it because like winter's 00:12:40.880 |
not the best time anyways, but yeah, winter's fast. 00:12:45.880 |
- And then, so does that lead to like broader thoughts 00:12:57.080 |
I'll tell you, I definitely started thinking about that 00:13:08.680 |
especially if you're looking at bigger types of achievements 00:13:13.960 |
if that's not happened by 40, that's not on your list. 00:13:24.360 |
There's writers that are a lot more successful. 00:13:27.160 |
You would think, yeah, you're where you're gonna be. 00:13:31.600 |
You've been doing this since you were 20 years old. 00:13:36.600 |
Like you've taken your swings and it's gone well. 00:13:43.080 |
of the market writer, you'd be an absolute top 00:13:50.200 |
in that world, you would have been a breakout brain 00:13:52.320 |
You've been doing this for a long time, you know? 00:13:55.440 |
you still feel like you're working on things. 00:14:02.000 |
these are my levels, so how do we build a life around it? 00:14:06.480 |
but that's kind of an Oliver Berkman point, which I like. 00:14:13.400 |
So I've gone down a Taylor Sheridan rabbit hole. 00:14:21.200 |
And he, so he was an actor, probably best known 00:14:39.160 |
- Okay, so he's like a big character in that. 00:14:57.880 |
I think the Coen brothers kind of helped usher this in 00:15:02.600 |
So neo-westerns, they take place in our modern world. 00:15:11.960 |
It's like the economic hardships of whatever. 00:15:15.360 |
And so he's like, "Great, I'm just gonna like 00:15:24.840 |
these like great movies, started writing in his 40s. 00:15:28.200 |
His second movie was Oscar nominated for best screenplay. 00:15:48.040 |
And he's part of, I don't know if we talked about this 00:16:05.080 |
And he's part of a group that just bought it. 00:16:17.880 |
and he's always just doing crazy things on horses. 00:16:20.200 |
And all the horses in the show are his horses. 00:16:44.400 |
- Cal's 40 miles in the other direction on a horse 00:16:49.320 |
- No, I was gonna say more, Cal has been killed. 00:16:54.280 |
trampled by his snake bitten body was trampled by horses 00:16:58.520 |
and then dragged by cattle through barbed wire 00:17:08.080 |
I don't know if I worry about it, I think about it. 00:17:11.320 |
until I realized I was gonna turn 40 this year. 00:17:14.880 |
- Yeah, and then I was like, oh my God, I guess this is like 00:17:18.240 |
I'm no longer like the hungry upstart thinking like, 00:17:25.280 |
So it's not bad, but it's definitely an adjustment. 00:17:35.680 |
You talk a lot about training like an athlete. 00:17:38.560 |
Are there any athletes that you closely follow 00:17:46.840 |
and like what they do, what they're all about? 00:18:04.800 |
I mean, the deal he just signed with the Mets, 00:18:23.720 |
I like the thing, I'm like the Max Scherzer of, 00:18:55.960 |
If you have questions you want Jesse to ask me, 00:19:05.320 |
Those type of ranches that we are going to buy imminently 00:19:23.520 |
for actually like productivity tutoring or something, 00:19:25.360 |
because like what they're doing here is pretty smart. 00:19:32.000 |
You get a coach, they come up with a plan for you, 00:19:47.480 |
So you have the consistency of a coach with the convenience 00:20:00.080 |
If you're like, "I want to get in better shape. 00:20:03.880 |
Sign up for MyBodyTutor, get one of these tutors. 00:20:14.160 |
And you would check in online with me, right? 00:20:50.760 |
and you tell them that you came from Deep Questions, 00:20:53.920 |
Adam looks at every single person who comes in. 00:20:56.440 |
I mean, he gives you his personal phone number, 00:21:01.040 |
So this is not some anonymous Peloton type nonsense. 00:21:06.720 |
If you tell him, "Hey, I came from Deep Questions," 00:21:22.720 |
so that we can recruit them to come work on our ranch 00:21:31.600 |
it's a powder that includes 75 high-quality vitamins, 00:21:35.480 |
minerals, whole food source, superfoods, probiotics, 00:21:38.760 |
and the thing I'm always bothering Jesse about, adaptogens. 00:21:43.240 |
I'm always like, "Hey man, how's your adaptogens going?" 00:21:59.280 |
is because it is all they do is this one product. 00:22:08.640 |
to have the very best sourced materials in it. 00:22:11.520 |
The whole point is that you don't have to worry, 00:22:34.200 |
So you add a couple of drops to it for the vitamin D. 00:22:47.400 |
Wherever you are, you just throw it into some, 00:23:10.400 |
I'm gonna bring some Athletic Greens in the studio 00:23:12.040 |
and force you to take some before every episode 00:23:21.200 |
and arm your immune system with convenient daily nutrition, 00:23:32.040 |
It's just one scoop and a cup of water every day. 00:23:35.600 |
No need for a million different pills and supplements 00:23:44.280 |
I have three young kids that are just germ factories. 00:24:04.360 |
my immune system is at war every day in the winter. 00:24:09.520 |
Athletic Greens is going to give you free one year supply 00:24:15.280 |
and five free travel packs with your first purchase. 00:24:18.600 |
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and pick up the ultimate daily nutritional insurance. 00:24:46.640 |
And he has a question about finding the opposing views 00:24:57.680 |
and I'm also a professor at an R1 university in the DC area. 00:25:05.440 |
of building up the Socratic dialectic, as you call it, 00:25:08.160 |
or finding the best thinkers or writers or speakers 00:25:19.200 |
but perhaps you're not as familiar with the topic 00:25:25.600 |
how would you go about the specific mechanics 00:25:32.920 |
For example, let's say I wanted to understand 00:25:36.920 |
It's not a topic I'm typically familiar with. 00:25:40.160 |
How would I go about finding the two or three 00:25:48.320 |
So this is sort of the curse of knowledge situation, 00:25:55.320 |
about the field to understand what the key points are. 00:26:00.160 |
But if I'm just entering something for the first time, 00:26:02.440 |
it's actually quite difficult to do what you're describing. 00:26:10.080 |
Let me start by just underlining the bigger picture method 00:26:16.560 |
So it's one of the big points I've been making 00:26:36.040 |
I just wanna be told what I'm supposed to think 00:26:44.920 |
Your mind knows that you are being subservient 00:26:48.880 |
when you do that, and it's not happy with yourself. 00:27:03.520 |
So beware if you are wandering through the waters of Twitter, 00:27:10.840 |
I don't know what people use these days, Instagram. 00:27:12.840 |
So my alternative, and by my, I mean this goes back 00:27:16.040 |
to the very early days of systematic thinking 00:27:19.200 |
about thinking, is the Socratic dialectic method. 00:27:24.000 |
listen to really good thinkers on multiple sides of it. 00:27:28.920 |
you get more insight, you get a more nuanced, 00:27:32.560 |
one that you can actually base real action on 00:27:36.560 |
If by contrast, you just do intellectual groupism, 00:27:39.880 |
your mind often is not gonna really trust your stance 00:27:42.640 |
because you know you're just following a crowd. 00:27:51.400 |
So then you end up just doing very little about a cause, 00:27:54.440 |
maybe like tweeting about it or yelling at people, 00:27:57.120 |
or like getting mad at your cousin or something like this, 00:28:01.000 |
So there's this irony of intellectual groupism 00:28:07.880 |
If we could just get people to just be on our side 00:28:10.400 |
and don't question it and attack the other side, 00:28:13.400 |
But actually what you do is you defang people's 00:28:15.800 |
actual activist impulses and very little action is taken 00:28:18.560 |
because they don't trust the intellectual foundation 00:28:25.400 |
So encounter real argument, real argument on both sides. 00:28:31.400 |
Your deep moral intuitions will not be tricked 00:28:34.440 |
because you read a particularly clever National Review 00:28:40.920 |
It's gonna make your belief stronger and more nuanced. 00:28:43.000 |
It's actually gonna make you a better advocate 00:28:47.840 |
Well, for really specific issues like the Baltic War, 00:28:54.080 |
you don't have to find from scratch the best thinker. 00:28:56.480 |
You just have to find someone who knows about it 00:29:02.200 |
Like, oh, here's a professor who wrote an article 00:29:09.640 |
Like, hey, what are like the definitive books on this? 00:29:22.000 |
and then ask them who they think the best thinkers are. 00:29:25.480 |
Now, if there's already a clear tribal divide on the topic, 00:29:30.560 |
who seems to be roughly speaking on one side. 00:29:33.280 |
Find a reasonable person who, roughly speaking, 00:29:41.000 |
Then you're going to get those two opposing viewpoints. 00:29:44.880 |
You are going to have the more nuanced understanding. 00:29:48.360 |
All right, so Mark, I appreciate the question 00:29:54.240 |
There's actually a name I heard for that approach 00:29:59.120 |
especially like culturally relevant intellectual life. 00:30:01.600 |
It was a name that was coined by a former doctor 00:30:14.840 |
and this name is not going to make you feel better 00:30:19.720 |
but he goes by the name ZDogg with two Gs, MD. 00:30:23.880 |
That's how you can find him on YouTube, ZDoggMD. 00:30:43.080 |
where instead of partaking in intellectual groupism, 00:30:57.360 |
if it's interesting or relevant to me and I have the time. 00:31:18.000 |
And so I'm going to hold that with some contingency 00:31:24.280 |
And that is what he calls the alt-middle approach. 00:31:29.640 |
He does a lot of sort of COVID centrist type communication. 00:31:34.760 |
So one of these people that's very plugged in 00:31:37.280 |
and mainstream on COVID and understands the science, 00:31:45.080 |
by really extreme anti-vaccination type of discussion. 00:31:55.040 |
because there's a guy who lives six states over 00:31:56.960 |
who was once immunocompromised type thinking. 00:31:59.200 |
And so through COVID centrism, he has evolved this idea, 00:32:02.880 |
but I think it could apply to all of intellectual life. 00:32:10.360 |
Find people who seem reasonable, ask them who the best is, 00:32:13.360 |
read on both sides of the topic, think for yourself, 00:32:23.200 |
You're not going to be tricked into believing something bad. 00:32:31.400 |
Your ability and motivation to actually make change 00:32:34.040 |
in the world, which is what actually matters, 00:32:59.560 |
it's like a big studio and it's in soft focus or something. 00:33:03.160 |
- Yeah, it kind of looks like a really nice yoga studio. 00:33:05.040 |
- Yeah, and I don't know if he has like a nice camera. 00:33:14.280 |
That's such a like, the first name I came up with 00:33:20.680 |
"I signed up for YouTube on a whim 20 years ago." 00:33:23.000 |
And it was like the first name that came to mind 00:33:25.920 |
It's like when you end up with like your email address 00:33:56.680 |
and I'm currently in a gap year before college. 00:34:02.000 |
and I'm pretty confident I'll get into at least one of them, 00:34:07.080 |
I'm trying to make the most of my time during my gap year. 00:34:10.000 |
My country is still in the dying thralls of the pandemic 00:34:19.840 |
averaging at least one or two nonfiction books per week 00:34:23.120 |
by employing your method of making it a default activity. 00:34:28.840 |
I have approximately 10 months before college 00:34:33.440 |
I want to come out of it becoming the best possible version 00:34:36.360 |
that a 19-year-old like me is capable of actualizing. 00:34:41.760 |
and what kind of mindset should I employ going forward? 00:34:47.280 |
- So given that you're somewhat physically stuck, 00:34:52.280 |
that's gonna change the way we think about this gap year 00:34:55.080 |
because often gap years is built around experiences. 00:34:59.320 |
You go to interesting places, you meet interesting people, 00:35:09.560 |
So instead of just, which by the way is great, 00:35:12.600 |
but instead of just encountering and reading a lot of books, 00:35:15.880 |
let's have a curriculum that has maybe three goals 00:35:20.880 |
that you're gonna make consistent effort towards. 00:35:27.960 |
I'm trying to get through these particular books 00:35:33.600 |
to try to fill in a particular subject matter 00:35:38.480 |
And I don't care about the details so much here 00:35:40.800 |
as it is just doing some sort of consistent intellectual work 00:35:47.720 |
I mean, for example, I'll give you an example from my life. 00:36:03.360 |
So she had to actually go to work for normal hours 00:36:11.000 |
a book of philosophy called "All Things Shining." 00:36:22.280 |
about the sacred and finding meaning in life. 00:36:32.760 |
And the reason Tim didn't like it is he said, 00:36:38.320 |
And so what I did, I said, "Here's what I'm gonna do. 00:36:46.840 |
"that it references, I'm gonna stop and read that." 00:36:50.080 |
So I'm gonna go, you know, I started with "The Odyssey" 00:36:52.760 |
because they started with the classical heroic Greeks. 00:36:55.200 |
And I read "The Odyssey" and then I read Aeschylus 00:37:02.000 |
And so I followed this book and I would read the things 00:37:08.160 |
then read the next things and read what they talked about. 00:37:13.360 |
And the book ended up with David Foster Wallace. 00:37:15.120 |
So we went from Homer to David Foster Wallace. 00:37:32.400 |
And there's a lot of different topics you can do this on. 00:37:35.920 |
you might consider subscribing to the great courses 00:37:41.120 |
you pick a topic from there and let that course 00:37:42.720 |
actually watch the lectures and then read the books. 00:37:48.900 |
some sort of focused intellectual exploration 00:37:57.600 |
should have you building or creating something. 00:38:03.440 |
if it's digital, if it's written, if it's code, 00:38:05.600 |
but it's just you're building and honing a skill 00:38:07.680 |
and creating things, making intentions manifest concretely 00:38:12.800 |
while you have the time of developing a skill 00:38:15.680 |
and creating things, being able to actually add new things 00:38:18.120 |
into the world, I think that's quite fulfilling. 00:38:40.160 |
I'm the type of guy that can structure my time 00:38:42.080 |
and get after it, I'm getting in really good shape. 00:38:46.120 |
over your own life so that when you get there, 00:38:48.800 |
when you get to college, you have all this confidence. 00:38:52.560 |
I can control my life and create something here 00:39:01.880 |
Like you feel like you're actually in control. 00:39:04.440 |
That's my three-part curriculum I would suggest 00:39:17.240 |
as the Philippine pandemic restrictions allow. 00:39:21.840 |
You need to sacrifice on behalf of other people. 00:39:42.960 |
Make the social aspect of your life really amplified. 00:39:50.560 |
of pandemic restrictions that we all went through before. 00:39:53.160 |
And it's the thing that you have to push over the top 00:40:02.040 |
And so I just want you to see that as medicine. 00:40:06.760 |
and depressed medicine for this very specific circumstance. 00:40:09.800 |
It is, I'm gonna become more socially engaged 00:40:14.360 |
on behalf of other people than I ever have before in my life. 00:40:19.040 |
So Drew, hopefully things will calm down there soon. 00:40:24.040 |
Hopefully you'll find your way to a nice school soon 00:40:27.440 |
But in the meantime, that is my prescription. 00:40:31.920 |
- It's kind of weird, Jesse, to imagine there's still, 00:40:41.840 |
I mean, I think we've been done with those here for a while. 00:40:54.440 |
Montgomery County, Maryland is not exactly chill, 00:41:08.120 |
Interesting times, but hey, we can go outside. 00:41:11.920 |
- When you were doing that All Things Shining project, 00:41:43.280 |
and these understandings of all these different books. 00:41:48.760 |
That's what I should have told Tim on the podcast. 00:41:54.480 |
Which it kind of is, if you haven't read the books. 00:41:57.400 |
You're like, what the hell are they talking about? 00:42:07.640 |
And so, longtime fans will recognize the reference, 00:42:13.840 |
So that's where that original reference came back. 00:42:23.520 |
I'm pretty sure he's submitted a question before. 00:42:37.240 |
My name is Shane, and I work as an operations analyst 00:42:43.280 |
and credit the embrace of "Deep Work" principles 00:42:49.480 |
just want to express my utmost gratitude to your work, 00:42:52.200 |
and I look forward to your future work as well. 00:42:55.240 |
What I want to ask you is your advice and strategies 00:43:06.520 |
cooking, and playing guitar, which I all tend to. 00:43:12.760 |
and I guess I just operate as a right-brained guy 00:43:25.760 |
When I write, it seems like the optimal state 00:43:28.160 |
is quite different than when I'm coding in JavaScript, 00:43:36.000 |
with managing this juggling act I'm in the middle of. 00:43:47.960 |
the best solution is to take out a bunch of the balls. 00:43:57.840 |
So instead of trying to figure out how to juggle five balls, 00:44:06.520 |
I think the overhead of having that many things 00:44:09.240 |
is probably counterbalancing a lot of the value. 00:44:12.800 |
So if we wanna see what's a more reasonable load, 00:44:16.360 |
these are all sort of out-of-work leisure-type pursuits, 00:44:21.720 |
If we're looking through the different deep life buckets, 00:44:29.400 |
I mean, first of all, there's the community bucket. 00:44:31.000 |
I mean, serving your family, serving your friends, 00:44:35.560 |
enjoying and savoring times with people you care about. 00:44:47.000 |
It's the best way also of keeping anxiety low, 00:44:53.240 |
for doing things with your life going forward. 00:45:10.760 |
really enjoying a sunset while you're out for a walk, 00:45:12.800 |
and that type of just present gratitude-generating moment. 00:45:20.880 |
is there's a primary hobby that you work on over time, 00:45:25.880 |
and of developing a really refined taste in one area. 00:45:31.960 |
you don't just get the benefit of the mastery 00:45:35.440 |
you get the benefit of really being able to appreciate 00:45:46.360 |
and then I'm really busy and I'm doing no secondary thing. 00:45:50.080 |
I'm gonna make like a video game for my kids. 00:46:10.320 |
And the overhead of just switching back and forth 00:46:12.080 |
between these things are gonna make you more anxious 00:46:15.440 |
So I'm not sure if that's the answer you wanna hear, 00:46:17.440 |
but that's the answer I am gonna give right now 00:46:20.040 |
is if you do less, this might sound paradoxical, 00:46:36.280 |
How many total questions we're gonna try to do today? 00:46:55.640 |
and there's some struggles to stay disciplined. 00:47:01.800 |
- Hi Cal, this is Ina, and besides being a homemaker, 00:47:11.400 |
My question has to do with rituals and motivation. 00:47:14.440 |
I have done life-centric career planning, as you recommend, 00:47:20.800 |
I have chosen adequate goals towards the future I desire. 00:47:28.820 |
and to show up in the morning and get to work. 00:47:31.600 |
Thinking back on advice you've given on this podcast, 00:47:34.480 |
there are at least two ways I can approach this. 00:47:37.120 |
One is to automate the process with a specific when, 00:47:41.600 |
so that I can let the power of habit take control, 00:47:44.160 |
and the other is to seek a variety of awe-inspiring places 00:47:47.660 |
to keep my brain interested and to jog my memory 00:47:50.440 |
about why this work is important in the first place. 00:48:02.600 |
So I think there's a few things that are relevant here, 00:48:07.520 |
So my answer is gonna overlap pretty strongly 00:48:13.520 |
and automation can mean multiple different things 00:48:28.700 |
And that is when I do it, right after the gym on Wednesdays, 00:48:37.100 |
and put them in a two-process sorter on that desk 00:48:46.080 |
There is an actual boost you get from organization 00:48:49.260 |
where you say, "I built out a system for this." 00:48:54.580 |
and see everything was here and it works really well, 00:48:56.600 |
and then you're more likely to actually do the work. 00:49:00.140 |
The other type of automation is literally automating it. 00:49:05.540 |
especially when it comes to work, household admin work. 00:49:09.260 |
I think Laura Vanderkam has a good book about this, 00:49:19.620 |
this is where you should be putting a lot of your money 00:49:32.580 |
and he just takes it and does those things around the house. 00:49:36.940 |
is that is a super high return investment in money. 00:49:39.500 |
And what happens instead is people often say, 00:49:48.560 |
And it's actually what it got a lot more return 00:49:50.200 |
in your life just to take those things off your plate. 00:49:56.040 |
is a priority to the extent that you could do it. 00:50:03.120 |
Sometimes when you're not able to get started on things, 00:50:06.640 |
it's because you're overloaded, there's too much, 00:50:08.200 |
your mind is exhausted, it knows it's not sustainable. 00:50:15.760 |
This is a bridge too far with like my exercise routine, 00:50:20.120 |
So when your load is reasonable, it's easier to execute 00:50:24.360 |
because you're playing with your wiring here. 00:50:26.560 |
Your brain is very good at the things important, 00:50:30.560 |
let's feel really good because we got the plan done. 00:50:39.000 |
to actually do the daily work that's important. 00:50:41.520 |
We are wired to do daily stuff that's important 00:50:44.080 |
for the survival of us and our families, right? 00:50:49.760 |
but you can't take advantage of those mechanisms 00:50:53.260 |
And then clarity would be my final suggestion, 00:50:58.960 |
Here's my vision, lifestyle-centric career planning, 00:51:12.440 |
that's really fulfilling, and we're saving up to do this. 00:51:15.160 |
And you have this vision that this is all a part of that. 00:51:20.600 |
You are building towards a vision that you believe in 00:51:24.520 |
You're working backwards from that positive goal. 00:51:32.000 |
there's a couple natural milestones to think about. 00:51:47.040 |
time with them, the role of work, where you live, 00:51:50.080 |
really thinking through what that experience is like. 00:51:54.600 |
okay, when does the last kid leave the house? 00:51:56.840 |
These are the changes that are happening then. 00:52:05.800 |
that you're working towards with your day-to-day efforts. 00:52:10.520 |
And that, again, you're very right to point that out. 00:52:19.640 |
in a disciplined fashion on the stuff that's annoying, 00:52:27.120 |
by exhaustion and indecision and lack of motivation. 00:52:44.100 |
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It can tell you what the tone is on your email, right? 00:55:44.920 |
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like it's super official, it's super friendly, colloquial, 00:56:24.540 |
but this is what I feel like when I use this tool. 00:56:28.580 |
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but no one's gonna know what the hell you're talking about. 00:56:35.960 |
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It's like professors, we're all weird and live in bubbles 00:57:33.840 |
And there's always that one professor in every department 00:57:36.440 |
that has to send out an incredibly like a grieve 00:57:50.400 |
And you will get this long email almost immediately 00:57:52.680 |
that is like, in this day and age to have a water cooler, 00:57:57.280 |
because my uncle was killed by a water cooler, 00:58:00.880 |
and I don't like the way that water cooler looked at me, 00:58:04.200 |
and I think it's an antisemitic water cooler, 00:58:17.080 |
don't send this, you sound like a crazy person. 00:58:19.800 |
Everyone's gonna think you're a crazy person. 00:58:22.040 |
And it just flash, just crazy person detection, 00:58:29.200 |
and they just are, I just imagine in a dark room 00:58:31.520 |
with their, somehow it's a typewriter hooked up 00:58:37.600 |
They need a grammarly.com detector that's like, 00:58:40.240 |
people are gonna think you are literally insane. 00:59:05.840 |
How do you think that it's going to affect society? 00:59:30.280 |
Facebook posted one of their first reductions 00:59:37.040 |
and their stock lost something like $150 billion. 00:59:43.040 |
single one-day drop of a company's valuation ever. 00:59:51.200 |
This era in which there's six platforms you have to use, 01:00:01.920 |
And I've talked about before why this has happened. 01:00:03.760 |
I talked about this on Lex Fridman's podcast, for example. 01:00:10.720 |
the main network effect that these platforms had 01:00:20.160 |
you're gonna update people on what you're up to 01:00:26.240 |
If I need a place to go to see what people I know are up to, 01:00:42.040 |
with this algorithmic curated timeline feature. 01:00:48.880 |
and then Facebook eventually bought Instagram, 01:01:01.440 |
and we'll put them in an infinite scroll newsfeed. 01:01:03.520 |
And you could just click on that F on your phone 01:01:05.520 |
when you're bored, and there'll be something there 01:01:06.880 |
that's gonna press your buttons in as a good distraction. 01:01:09.520 |
That was the beginning of the end for these platforms. 01:01:14.840 |
on these platforms, they were gonna use it more 01:01:18.240 |
in the short term, 'cause that's more interesting 01:01:26.920 |
Yeah, that's entertaining, but so are podcasts. 01:01:39.320 |
where it could care less if my cousin uses it. 01:01:42.960 |
And that's exactly what happened to Facebook, 01:01:48.280 |
their users were saying, I don't really wanna see 01:01:50.760 |
Facebook newsfeeds, I wanna watch Yellowstone 01:01:57.800 |
on some niche topic I'm really interested in. 01:02:12.240 |
if we're gonna do distraction, let's just do distraction. 01:02:26.020 |
Let's get rid of the whole, like, my cousin's on here 01:02:28.120 |
and I have a wall and I'm connecting to people. 01:02:37.440 |
dopamine hijacking, attention generating style of content. 01:02:41.160 |
And don't even worry about where it comes from. 01:02:43.200 |
We'll just show you things one after another. 01:02:45.360 |
If that's our game here, then let's just purify that. 01:02:57.680 |
However, that is a world in which the obligation 01:03:01.880 |
to be on these platforms completely dissolves. 01:03:04.220 |
And I don't mean to rant too much about this, 01:03:11.520 |
I don't use social media, I don't use Facebook, 01:03:19.080 |
How can you survive in our society without it? 01:03:31.140 |
'Cause it's just purified dopamine distraction. 01:03:35.040 |
So if you say, hey, I don't have a TikTok account. 01:03:43.260 |
but there's no expectation that you would use it. 01:03:46.760 |
And that's actually way more healthy relationship 01:03:49.720 |
And so what we're gonna get is TikTok 2.0 and 3.0, 01:03:54.680 |
that directly press buttons in very specific types of ways. 01:04:02.820 |
None of which have any network effect requirements. 01:04:04.840 |
I don't need my cousin and my friends from high school 01:04:18.540 |
And so once you got rid of the network effects, 01:04:22.440 |
into lots of different sources of entertainment. 01:04:24.580 |
Some different than others, some much more base, 01:04:29.680 |
And no one will be expected to use any one of these things. 01:04:34.440 |
And that's actually a much better, healthier world. 01:04:36.760 |
This more long tail niche social media type world 01:04:39.280 |
that's less about connection and more about distraction 01:04:46.480 |
social media company anymore once we get to that world. 01:04:51.000 |
And that's why they're trying to shift away from it. 01:04:53.200 |
So that's the whole background for what's going on. 01:04:56.720 |
I think the particular meta vision that we see now, 01:04:59.740 |
which tends to be focused on social life occurring 01:05:14.220 |
I was talking to some people in the industry about this 01:05:17.040 |
when I was doing a New Yorker piece last fall 01:05:21.480 |
This Cameron is the trend that is much more powerful. 01:05:27.120 |
Once augmented reality glasses get to a certain level 01:05:30.900 |
of quality, and once we have sufficient high-speed internet 01:05:35.900 |
wherever we need to be, and we're very close to that, 01:05:39.740 |
there'll be no need to own any other consumer electronics 01:05:48.920 |
There is a instance in some Amazon virtualization cloud 01:05:52.880 |
somewhere of my computer running in a giant server farm 01:05:58.280 |
wherever I want in the environment in front of me. 01:06:00.360 |
And there is a screen of whatever size I want. 01:06:04.600 |
I do not need to own an iPhone or an Android phone. 01:06:14.340 |
If I want to watch TV, I do not need a 65 inch TV. 01:06:17.520 |
I can make a 65 inch TV show up wherever I want in my house. 01:06:26.900 |
We can't tell the difference between that screen 01:06:33.760 |
That is the huge game changer that is coming. 01:06:37.160 |
The virtualization of computation into the cloud 01:07:14.440 |
All of the major players are investing huge amounts of money 01:07:22.080 |
Facebook is also caring a lot about this future 01:07:27.620 |
They are spending a lot of money on, guess what? 01:07:30.480 |
Their own pair of these augmented reality glasses. 01:07:33.600 |
Apple is putting a ton of money into this as well 01:07:44.980 |
who produce the best glasses that virtualize all this, 01:07:57.080 |
which they put well over a billion dollars into. 01:08:00.240 |
Amazon is trying to be the back-end computation. 01:08:12.260 |
"We can make anything you want happen in our servers, 01:08:14.400 |
"and we'll just beam the screen to wherever you are." 01:08:19.440 |
that's going to completely upend our industry. 01:08:21.800 |
Not, as Mark Zuckerberg videos would seem to imply, 01:08:25.180 |
us playing cards in virtual reality in a space station 01:08:39.360 |
And 80% of the major digital electronics companies 01:08:49.200 |
not being in one of these weird virtual reality 01:08:52.480 |
space stations and doing Facebook with avatars 01:09:01.880 |
All right, well, speaking of where my eye is right now, 01:09:05.580 |
so we should probably wrap up this week's episode. 01:09:17.500 |
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