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0:0 Can we make learning as addictive as social media? []
31:41 Can I be happy in a job that doesn’t require me to learn?
38:57 How can I fight deep procrastination to learn better?
45:12 How can I identify the school for my kid to learn better?
49:47 How can I reflect on work concepts without feeling the urge to work?
53:37 How does Ultralearning apply to Slow Productivity?
55:59 Recommendations on learning
58:52 Designing a system to learn
68:17 The 5 books Cal read in October 2023
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Can we make learning as addictive as social media? 00:00:09.060 |
about a TED talk that has been going viral recently. 00:00:13.200 |
It was done by Louis Von Ahn, the co-founder of Duolingo. 00:00:18.200 |
Today, I wanna take a deeper look at this question. 00:00:21.460 |
I wanna draw from the science of motivation and distraction 00:00:24.380 |
to argue number one, Von Ahn's specific claims 00:00:29.220 |
about making learning as addictive as social media 00:00:35.020 |
if we look more closely at how the brain actually functions, 00:00:39.060 |
we can find there is a lasting and effective way 00:00:44.800 |
and yes, even more appealing to social media. 00:00:46.780 |
It's just gonna be different than the Duolingo approach. 00:01:04.060 |
you can see this is Louis Von Ahn giving his talk. 00:01:09.060 |
I wrote down here the main points from his talk 00:01:30.220 |
Some people pay for it, or you can watch the ads. 00:01:44.180 |
that game and social media apps use to hook users 00:01:49.860 |
They're showing you can use addictive techniques for good. 00:01:58.320 |
Von Ahn hopes that these techniques can be applied 00:02:00.980 |
to teaching other subjects like math on phones. 00:02:22.340 |
as opposed to just listening, I'll narrate it to you. 00:02:29.900 |
you're clicking on things, questions are coming up, 00:02:33.180 |
quick, bright graphics so you can see what's happening. 00:02:42.180 |
Things are moving around, questions are coming up. 00:02:51.300 |
And so it's supposed to have this addictive feel 00:03:03.300 |
All right, so let me start by saying a couple things 00:03:12.380 |
especially information you can use to better yourself 00:03:27.140 |
and then making those mathematic lessons widely available. 00:03:31.020 |
That is the internet being used towards its full potential. 00:03:44.140 |
due to the integration of large language models 00:03:52.260 |
ChatGPT and related language model-based chat tools 00:03:56.420 |
You can go back and forth and ask it questions, 00:04:04.740 |
in terms of tutoring and education with those tools as well. 00:04:08.660 |
The internet bringing more information to more people. 00:04:11.780 |
But what about this idea that we can make a learning app 00:04:25.780 |
and increase the level of learning in the world? 00:04:37.400 |
we actually are gonna have to look a little bit deeper 00:04:39.380 |
about how the brain gets motivated to do things. 00:04:41.840 |
There are two separate types of motivational systems 00:04:47.540 |
If we're gonna understand the problem with Vaughn On Strategy 00:04:55.580 |
And so to help us understand the first system, 00:04:57.460 |
I'm bringing an article up here on my screen. 00:05:08.660 |
is that it does a good job of explaining the dopamine system 00:05:15.740 |
when we think about the urge to pull out a phone 00:05:27.180 |
I'm gonna read a couple of quotes from this article 00:05:34.620 |
Dopamine is a chemical produced by our brains 00:05:38.220 |
that plays a starring role in motivating behavior. 00:05:41.260 |
It gets released when we take a bite of delicious food, 00:05:45.980 |
and importantly, when we have successful social interactions. 00:05:50.100 |
If you can do all four of those things at the same time, 00:05:58.260 |
So this is sort of what we've heard about dopamine. 00:06:09.220 |
Every time a response to a stimulus results in a reward, 00:06:15.820 |
every time a response to a stimulus results in a reward, 00:06:21.460 |
so the associations mediated by the dopamine system, 00:06:30.340 |
This process strengthens frequently used connections 00:06:39.860 |
When we look closer at the mechanisms of the dopamine system, 00:06:49.500 |
and there's a response to that stimuli that feels good. 00:07:03.900 |
I'm seeing something that triggers an emotional reaction, 00:07:14.080 |
from a curated list that's towards funny videos, 00:07:28.300 |
and says, "Let's go do this behavior right now 00:07:40.680 |
have recently focused on a feature of our dopamine neurons 00:07:46.520 |
These prediction errors serve as dopamine-mediated 00:07:49.720 |
So we're constantly, the system is constantly monitoring 00:08:04.080 |
Now, this was the effect, all of this was unlocked. 00:08:08.240 |
When this effect was uncovered in the context of apps 00:08:18.680 |
Facebook engineers, we've talked about this before, 00:08:21.680 |
Facebook engineers had this very pragmatic idea 00:08:32.800 |
when a Facebook post is generating lots of simple, 00:08:42.320 |
And the Facebook engineers were very pragmatic 00:08:52.440 |
So I post the picture of myself with my diploma 00:08:56.160 |
and everyone's saying, "Great, congratulations." 00:08:57.640 |
And you have 30 or 40 of these short exclamatory comments. 00:09:00.760 |
You don't realize that three pages into those comments 00:09:03.420 |
is the guy who's saying, "Hey, in the background, 00:09:11.640 |
stealing the Jeep in the background 'cause it's buried. 00:09:14.800 |
So if all you're gonna do is say, "That's great." 00:09:16.560 |
You click the like button and we can save the comments 00:09:24.720 |
They turn it on, almost immediately they noticed, 00:09:27.040 |
"My God, people are using the app a lot more." 00:09:29.340 |
And the reason was, is that the accumulation of likes 00:09:38.760 |
that little white F in the blue box on your phone, 00:09:44.940 |
You press that stimulus and often you get this nice reward 00:09:57.200 |
on the type of ideas we talk about in this show, 00:10:02.200 |
The link is right here below in the description. 00:10:14.700 |
to me and my audience's quest to live a deeper life. 00:10:27.580 |
your dopamine system is like, "Click that button. 00:10:31.940 |
And people would click it more and more and more. 00:10:33.660 |
That was the birth of the attention engineering 00:10:38.700 |
That was the realization among attention economy platforms 00:11:06.640 |
there's an owl wearing glasses and stars fly around 00:11:09.940 |
and you have streaks and that dopamine system will say, 00:11:12.400 |
"Hey, let's take out this app and let's play it." 00:11:16.260 |
If you had nothing else going on on your phone, 00:11:18.180 |
if it was your phone had the weather app and Duolingo, 00:11:20.740 |
that's a nice reward and you might feel compelled 00:11:25.420 |
The problem is, is that you are competing with TikTok, 00:11:35.860 |
that are also trying to hack the dopamine system. 00:11:40.940 |
You want your dopamine neurons associated with Duolingo 00:11:47.420 |
than these other attention engineered applications. 00:11:50.300 |
And the reason why I think that is almost likely 00:11:52.800 |
not going to happen is because you cannot engineer 00:12:03.860 |
This is something I've talked about first in my book, 00:12:09.920 |
I think this also comes up in my book, "Digital Minimalism." 00:12:16.980 |
It's through a process known as deliberate practice. 00:12:20.700 |
Deliberate practice forces you to strain yourself 00:12:23.660 |
with the activity at hand, be it conceptual or physical, 00:12:28.560 |
And it's in that strain past where you're comfortable 00:12:30.860 |
that you're able to actually move forward your capabilities. 00:12:39.560 |
where you can comfortably play that guitar lick. 00:12:47.640 |
And it's really hard, you're making mistakes. 00:12:55.880 |
I know that analogy 'cause I actually captured that 00:13:02.320 |
I spent time with a professional guitar player, 00:13:06.840 |
the amount of strain this guy had practicing. 00:13:13.220 |
on guitar picking faster, he would concentrate so hard 00:13:23.520 |
to stave off him going unconscious from lack of oxygen. 00:13:35.880 |
You have to stretch yourself past where you're comfortable 00:13:47.000 |
because people would often take these type of activities 00:13:49.920 |
and say, "Yeah, yeah, yeah, you gotta get in a flow state." 00:14:00.080 |
and studied by the late great performance psychologist, 00:14:09.480 |
Flow states, you lose yourself in the activity. 00:14:28.340 |
You can get lost playing a song you really know well 00:14:32.720 |
You never get lost when you're practicing a song 00:14:36.340 |
that you're like, "Oh my God, this is miserable." 00:14:41.560 |
To try to learn without strain would be like saying, 00:14:46.640 |
Isn't there a way I could grow my biceps bigger 00:14:52.280 |
No, you have to actually overload your muscle 00:14:57.080 |
So learning is always gonna have that strain. 00:15:01.420 |
And so you can add as many owls with glasses and streaks 00:15:06.360 |
but TikTok doesn't have the unpleasant strain. 00:15:08.720 |
It's just like saying, "If I want you to eat more broccoli, 00:15:16.640 |
where confetti flies open when you open the wrapper. 00:15:21.780 |
and the french fries are gonna taste much better. 00:15:24.060 |
And in the end, I'm gonna eat the french fries 00:15:26.900 |
if it's just they're both sitting there in front of me." 00:15:30.180 |
So I'm not sure that when you take an activity, 00:15:40.220 |
that you are gonna be able to win in the dopamine neuron game 00:15:43.400 |
against other types of stimulus reward pairings 00:15:47.080 |
The reward is simply much more pure with TikTok. 00:15:50.360 |
Just like if you wanted to compare TikTok to meth, 00:15:55.760 |
the reward for meth is probably much stronger than TikTok 00:16:00.880 |
that is crossing the blood brain barrier, right? 00:16:03.520 |
So if I'm a meth addict, I'm like, "Well, I like TikTok, 00:16:13.000 |
So if it's just an apples to apples comparison 00:16:21.960 |
just have the upper hand on any type of learning app. 00:16:25.700 |
Okay, so does that mean that we're out of luck, 00:16:29.040 |
that basically social media is gonna take all of our time? 00:16:33.160 |
And the reason why is because there are other systems, 00:16:40.960 |
that is not built off of this near term stimulus reward 00:16:56.960 |
It helps explains why humans are so successful 00:17:07.360 |
to build motivation based off of future predictions. 00:17:13.440 |
for those who are watching instead of listening. 00:17:28.020 |
I like this article because it has a good summary 00:17:49.500 |
EFT is often described as a kind of mental time travel 00:17:53.680 |
because your brain is working to help you see 00:18:21.660 |
with what you might really feel and do in the future. 00:18:37.200 |
It helps us decide, is this a world I wanna wake up in? 00:18:50.460 |
According to fMRI studies, EFT involves heightened activity 00:18:58.940 |
Compare this to simply remembering a past event 00:19:01.420 |
which activates just six of those 11 regions of the brain. 00:19:15.560 |
plus any other facts and ideas you've stored away. 00:19:18.600 |
Depending on what kind of future you're imagining, 00:19:20.240 |
the hippocampus identifies the most relevant stuff 00:19:22.320 |
and retrieves and recombines it into a new scene. 00:19:30.360 |
Your brain fires up the ventromedial prefrontal cortex, 00:19:35.360 |
otherwise known by the catchy acronym, VMPFC, 00:19:42.680 |
whenever you set goals and track your progress. 00:19:45.060 |
Like the hippocampus, the VMPFC can suggest any goals 00:19:51.280 |
One of the most interesting things about the EFT 00:19:53.160 |
is that the motivations that pop into your mind first 00:19:56.180 |
are likely to be closely linked to your deepest values 00:20:03.440 |
helping others, pushing yourself to do brave things, 00:20:12.120 |
for your future you to achieve these future goals. 00:20:18.160 |
also part of the motivation and reward system kicks in. 00:20:21.320 |
The putamen, which I'm almost certainly saying wrong, 00:20:23.420 |
helps keep track of what specific actions and behaviors 00:20:27.680 |
It's the part of the brain that knows things like, 00:20:36.680 |
that this is a different type of motivational system. 00:20:39.540 |
It is based on you projecting yourself into the future, 00:20:44.000 |
imagining a result in the future that is very positive 00:20:47.020 |
because you have evidence from your past it will be positive 00:20:50.200 |
and it connects to your deeply held values and goals. 00:20:57.460 |
that gives you motivation to do the thing right now 00:20:59.920 |
that's gonna help lead you to that future state. 00:21:07.480 |
It is a system that can beat the dopamine system. 00:21:16.040 |
This is why you can have in the caveman times 00:21:23.520 |
Okay, there's honey on the ground and I really want honey. 00:21:30.680 |
My God, eat that honey, that's gonna feel good. 00:21:36.560 |
And the EFT system says, the thing about bears 00:21:42.000 |
And so we're gonna override the dopamine system 00:22:09.160 |
that Yuval Harari in "Sapiens" identifies as the crux 00:22:15.320 |
So this EFT style motivation is more powerful 00:22:17.940 |
because it's what allows us to do big and great things. 00:22:21.240 |
It's what allows us to rise above our base instincts 00:22:23.200 |
in a way that a tiger cannot or a house cat cannot. 00:22:25.760 |
So when we think about, hey, how do we learn more? 00:22:34.600 |
We don't wanna say, how do I make learning feel the same 00:22:38.480 |
as checking Facebook to see if I get those likes. 00:22:45.940 |
And what this means is we have to fill up that hippocampus 00:22:50.920 |
with all sorts of concrete details and experiences 00:23:00.680 |
It requires us to have really deeply instilled values 00:23:03.280 |
about what we care about so that we can then say, 00:23:08.760 |
leads me to something that I feel really strongly about. 00:23:12.100 |
Now, I talk about this a lot in the context of the deep life 00:23:20.860 |
and use that to work backwards to build plans. 00:23:26.640 |
This is a instruction manual to fully leveraging your EFT. 00:23:49.720 |
You need to watch these documentaries, read these profiles, 00:23:52.240 |
read the biographies, look for these types of videos, 00:23:54.720 |
meet these people in real life, go to their talks, 00:24:01.800 |
of people who have converted a love of learning 00:24:32.480 |
You know that there's almost a religious impulse 00:24:39.780 |
and my brain is gonna be one way I can do this. 00:24:42.080 |
There's whatever it is, you have a clear value 00:24:44.040 |
and you expose yourself to example after example 00:24:46.120 |
that resonates about people who have pursued this value. 00:24:49.440 |
And they're showing you tangibly in their example, 00:25:02.040 |
and it's gonna give me a little reward in the moment. 00:25:06.960 |
But this future I'm projecting feels even better. 00:25:10.540 |
And so you know what, I'm not gonna take out TikTok. 00:25:15.120 |
I'm gonna read, I'm going to go watch this movie. 00:25:21.080 |
of stretching my mind past what it can do or not, 00:25:23.400 |
whether or not there's an owl wearing glasses 00:25:28.460 |
So, I mean, I think Vaughn is on to something 00:25:32.720 |
when he says, we shouldn't just take learning for granted 00:25:35.840 |
and say, learning is good, you should learn more. 00:25:42.000 |
And I think it's fantastic that he is thinking about that, 00:25:50.320 |
that can improve the world in so many different ways. 00:25:53.040 |
I'm arguing though, the right way to spread that 00:26:01.680 |
that will take a shallow life and make it deeper. 00:26:08.440 |
for how we convince ourselves to work towards 00:26:13.440 |
and not just the most desirable understanding 00:26:18.220 |
There you go, Jesse, that's my take on that video. 00:26:27.840 |
Neuroscientists have their acronym game on point. 00:26:37.880 |
if you're watching instead of just listening, 00:26:40.280 |
the mix of lowercase and capital letters in an acronym. 00:26:50.560 |
all roughly about learning and these types of things. 00:26:52.980 |
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and I read and learn constantly about all kinds of topics. 00:31:51.880 |
but learning as much as I can about law stuff 00:32:05.480 |
I'm gonna be careful and a little bit 50% curmudgeonly 00:32:15.380 |
which is a standard notion in our current world 00:32:32.720 |
this follow your passion idea that really became 00:32:36.180 |
a mimetic vector that spread widely starting in the 1990s 00:32:41.180 |
and beyond that your work is gonna be your main source 00:32:52.260 |
I guess probably last January about quiet quitting 00:32:55.220 |
where I get into the ways different generations grappled 00:33:00.180 |
of the baby boomers invented for their kids this idea 00:33:03.680 |
of well, you need to work like a normal job, right? 00:33:07.860 |
Because the baby boomers tried counterculture 00:33:17.260 |
leave the world of work and find passion in other things 00:33:24.900 |
And that kind of didn't work because it turns out 00:33:29.740 |
well, you need to work and pay for your mortgage 00:33:31.660 |
but your work itself maybe should be a source of passion. 00:33:38.780 |
Should be interesting, it should be engaging, 00:33:43.380 |
it should be like everything needs to come from my work, 00:33:48.660 |
especially if you think about what work was like 00:34:17.100 |
a reputable member of the communities that you care about. 00:34:24.300 |
You sold insurance or maybe you were a farmer, right? 00:34:26.500 |
These weren't jobs where the things you were doing every day 00:34:29.540 |
was super exciting, you were learning all this novel stuff. 00:34:41.980 |
and you're involved in coaching the football team 00:34:49.000 |
The insurance salesman is also at the rotary club 00:34:52.280 |
and it's just a piece, you're supporting your family, 00:34:56.240 |
you're a productive member of your community, 00:35:02.960 |
this is what has to be exciting and interesting, 00:35:05.760 |
So I say that first just to lay the foundation 00:35:09.640 |
that like let's come off the ledge a little bit, Matt, 00:35:11.800 |
we'll look at this a little bit more closely, 00:35:14.560 |
oh my God, this is a crisis, something has to change. 00:35:20.280 |
It doesn't mean that we shouldn't have lawyers. 00:35:25.600 |
you definitely shouldn't try to change something? 00:35:31.840 |
we had a couple of drinks, now we're relaxed. 00:35:35.960 |
having something interesting in your job is good too. 00:35:44.200 |
So if you're a lawyer, something that makes use of the fact 00:35:58.360 |
who dresses up as pirates for kids' birthday parties 00:36:03.000 |
because you're starting with no career capital. 00:36:07.280 |
at dressing up as pirates for kids' birthday parties 00:36:09.360 |
and you're not, and it's gonna be hard to make a living. 00:36:30.220 |
is gonna be some lifestyle-centric career planning. 00:36:32.680 |
Fix the full vision of what you want your life to be 00:36:34.840 |
like five years, 10 years, and 15 years from now, 00:36:40.880 |
the character of the day, the people you're around, 00:36:50.200 |
And then you work backwards from that and say, 00:36:55.720 |
And that will give you a lot more confidence. 00:36:57.840 |
And you might find that actually, my job is just fine. 00:37:01.480 |
There's other parts of my life I need to update. 00:37:13.320 |
and not a sort of more primal or spasmatic switch 00:37:22.680 |
in the suburb of a city, and you're in, you know, 00:37:30.240 |
and things are expensive, and you have this vision 00:37:33.180 |
that, you know, it's a mix between the Gilmore Girls, 00:37:36.660 |
but you're near the ocean, and you're walking in the woods 00:37:45.080 |
wills and trust lawyer in a town up in Cape Ann, 00:37:51.920 |
and small town kind of near the water, we live cheaper. 00:37:55.160 |
This work is, it's not that the work is more interesting 00:37:57.060 |
here, but having a small shingle out up near Newberry Port 00:38:03.800 |
and have more flexibility, and it's near the woods. 00:38:05.800 |
And so when you're working from a lifestyle image, 00:38:12.080 |
'Cause I really, as long-time listeners know, 00:38:14.200 |
get very nervous about random or obsessive changes. 00:38:17.360 |
I'm just obsessed on this piece, my work's boring. 00:38:22.480 |
You gotta have the whole lifestyle image in place. 00:38:29.520 |
Now most of history's people's jobs were boring, 00:38:32.040 |
but a lot of people had interesting, meaningful lives. 00:38:35.120 |
So you gotta open up the window to the full part 00:38:37.440 |
of your life once you start making your plan, 00:38:39.080 |
and then you can actually work with the full set of tools 00:38:52.400 |
As a medical student, when I'm revising a topic, 00:38:55.080 |
I tend to spend way too much time on a topic. 00:38:57.280 |
I feel the urge to read a condition from many sources. 00:39:03.120 |
I end up covering one topic in that entire day. 00:39:05.920 |
A few days later, it appears like I haven't retained 00:39:17.840 |
The good news is what I'm about to tell you is fixable, 00:39:21.280 |
and in fact, just knowing it's a problem is half the battle. 00:39:29.440 |
because we don't often contextualize learning 00:39:34.400 |
as a skill that has a spectrum of proficiency. 00:39:49.600 |
I'm gonna stay up a couple more hours studying. 00:39:52.800 |
And so we just think about this generic thing 00:39:53.920 |
that we all do, it's just a matter of how much we do it, 00:39:58.720 |
You know, I wrote some books about this back in the day, 00:40:05.760 |
Those books have been out there for 15 years now, 00:40:13.280 |
So I used to think a lot about how students actually learn. 00:40:15.960 |
And in fact, Jesse, I just got the royalty statements. 00:40:18.560 |
Those books are quietly, they quietly move on. 00:40:28.400 |
275,000 on "How to Become a Straight-A Student." 00:40:31.440 |
- It just sort of trickle, trickle, trickles, 00:40:34.400 |
So you know the stuff is actually right in there. 00:40:39.800 |
and the better you get at it, the better you do. 00:40:42.760 |
And so you need to be super specific about how you learn. 00:40:53.440 |
but it's also going to involve a lot of experimentation. 00:41:02.760 |
the number one "New York Times" bestselling author, 00:41:15.320 |
so that you can see what works and what doesn't. 00:41:17.400 |
You have to do that with your learning, Dylan. 00:41:26.600 |
Do I go on, like you said in your extended answer, 00:41:29.000 |
on the YouTube and start watching videos about it? 00:41:34.360 |
And then after each exam, go back and do a post-mortem, 00:41:55.160 |
to a larger, better performance that I didn't do? 00:41:57.520 |
And you use that feedback to refine your study plan 00:42:02.240 |
Evidence-based evolution of how you actually do this work. 00:42:09.280 |
all sorts of random stuff for no real reason. 00:42:15.440 |
so in an evolution, natural selection type style, 00:42:17.920 |
you're gonna get better, better, better really fast. 00:42:21.080 |
And you're gonna stop spending all day on a topic 00:42:34.280 |
you check it off, you put it in another folder, 00:42:42.720 |
And I know this because I was one of those students. 00:42:50.720 |
freshman at Dartmouth College coming out of public school. 00:42:53.160 |
I didn't know how to study with the intensity 00:42:57.600 |
I didn't have the background in the math and science 00:43:01.920 |
So I was like an average or above average student. 00:43:05.280 |
I got very serious about studying how I studied, 00:43:10.680 |
Let's try this, let's try that for this type of test. 00:43:12.760 |
Let's do this for problem sets, let's try that. 00:43:25.440 |
except for my senior spring where I got one A minus. 00:43:31.480 |
I mean, I was like an A away from being the valedictorian 00:43:34.800 |
of the entire graduating class of my Ivy League college. 00:43:38.840 |
I didn't get smarter between my freshman year 00:43:58.400 |
It's like one of the reasons why I started writing books. 00:44:16.720 |
And it's not that hard, it's not that hard to learn. 00:44:19.480 |
So I have faith that things are gonna get better for you 00:44:21.280 |
if you just take your learning more seriously 00:44:33.240 |
and you're gonna find it's not nearly as hard as you feared. 00:44:44.200 |
See, I was safe, I was taking a lot of math and science 00:44:47.640 |
and computer science courses where it was just, 00:44:53.320 |
Like I just got more points than everyone else. 00:45:13.640 |
and a sense of community inside and outside of school. 00:45:17.680 |
We wanna put him on a path to cultivate the skills required 00:45:22.400 |
What do you recommend we look for in schools? 00:45:31.280 |
than I would care about what you are modeling 00:45:36.960 |
Now, I don't mean don't care about the school at all, 00:45:39.140 |
but when it comes to choosing the school for your kid, 00:45:43.580 |
that anyone would think about when choosing a school. 00:45:57.740 |
Do they have good programs, like stuff he's interested in? 00:46:05.700 |
But when it comes to this more advanced stuff, 00:46:07.420 |
like, well, we want him to be a deep thinker, 00:46:10.980 |
an intellectual, someone who can really succeed 00:46:22.080 |
They see you're engaged with books and ideas. 00:46:25.060 |
They see that you're not on your phone all the time. 00:46:32.480 |
making sure that your sixth grader going on seventh grader, 00:46:50.020 |
So yes, you do wanna make sure that you're not, 00:46:53.640 |
by giving your 12 year old unrestricted access 00:47:12.020 |
that a sixth or seventh grader cannot handle. 00:47:16.620 |
of respect for deep work and intellectualism. 00:47:19.900 |
And then beyond that, just choose a good school. 00:47:28.460 |
growing up my dad really admired mathematicians 00:47:33.160 |
and theoretical physicists of extreme intellect. 00:47:36.100 |
So we heard a lot growing up about Richard Feynman. 00:47:39.080 |
We heard a lot growing up about John von Neumann. 00:47:59.900 |
I was being recruited to work in systems groups. 00:48:03.060 |
And I sort of tricked my way into a theory group 00:48:10.760 |
than staring at a whiteboard and solving math equations. 00:48:13.100 |
And so I tricked my way into a theory group by saying, 00:48:16.940 |
And then as soon as I got to the theory group, 00:48:31.220 |
Model a life that's engaged and that's reads. 00:48:34.960 |
Talk about people you admire in the different types of, 00:48:43.200 |
let your kids see that and keep them away from TikTok. 00:48:47.520 |
Do those two things and give them a fine school. 00:48:55.400 |
You're not gonna be able to engineer your kid. 00:49:00.040 |
That if I just get the right supplemental activities 00:49:07.160 |
But if I don't do that, they're not gonna get there. 00:49:13.680 |
it's not gonna be because you got them in Russian math. 00:49:22.240 |
If they're seeing that, they have the right brain for it, 00:49:27.040 |
And if they don't, there's nothing you can do 00:49:44.760 |
I'm a junior UX designer working at a consultant agency. 00:49:55.080 |
After I finished my day, I'm usually pretty done mentally. 00:50:01.260 |
If I come back later to reflect on work or learning, 00:50:04.160 |
I often end up feeling like I need to check something, 00:50:13.160 |
and feelings and ideas that are not strictly work output, 00:50:20.720 |
One, integrate the reflection, the closing of loops, 00:50:24.080 |
the engagement with how you feel about things. 00:50:30.920 |
So what a lot of people do is calendar filling. 00:50:39.360 |
from meeting in the meeting, jumping over here, 00:50:52.120 |
You're in email and it just spirals out of control. 00:50:57.600 |
you have the second shift where you're spending hours 00:51:06.200 |
which means you have to put aside the time to do that. 00:51:12.200 |
we have a Zoom call, I'm putting an hour on my calendar. 00:51:16.520 |
to the end of that appointment for processing. 00:51:28.560 |
Let me walk around the block and think about this. 00:51:38.640 |
Do the same type of post session loop closing session 00:52:17.400 |
In the long run, it doesn't mean you get more done. 00:52:32.180 |
It sounds like you don't have a good shutdown ritual. 00:52:37.800 |
thinking about your work at the end of the day 00:52:48.580 |
Even if it's just you frantically writing down things 00:52:52.620 |
and putting a half hour appointment in your morning 00:52:56.160 |
you're making sure that nothing is floating out there 00:53:00.040 |
And then you have some sort of shutdown routine, 00:53:06.560 |
on the top of every day in my time block plan 00:53:20.520 |
and close your day with a better shutdown routine. 00:53:25.000 |
Your brain's gonna be better and you're gonna be happier. 00:53:35.440 |
"Ultra Learning" and wondered what your thoughts were 00:53:41.800 |
I wanna get up to speed as quickly as possible 00:53:49.400 |
- Well, I was just talking to Scott yesterday, Brian. 00:53:56.720 |
between ultra learning and slow productivity. 00:54:03.720 |
you're changing the definition of ultra productivity 00:54:13.800 |
But if you read "Ultra Learning," a book I really enjoy, 00:54:28.920 |
And the answer is it has to do with the techniques 00:54:32.520 |
You have to learn how people who learn really hard things 00:54:47.080 |
Now, the pace at which you learn hard things is up to you. 00:54:50.640 |
The quantity of hard things you learn, that's up to you. 00:54:54.620 |
If anything, ultra learning is a type of skill 00:54:56.640 |
you would see a slow productivity practitioner deploying. 00:55:00.940 |
They're saying, okay, I'm going to, over time, 00:55:10.060 |
Because once I've mastered this really complicated thing, 00:55:17.380 |
whereas a fast productivity practitioner would say, 00:55:23.220 |
I need to be emailing and jumping around in meetings. 00:55:28.340 |
this really difficult new body of mathematics 00:55:36.820 |
So ultra learning, I think, is one of the key tools 00:55:39.760 |
in the toolkit of the slow productivity practitioner, 00:55:57.660 |
who's seriously learning and pursuing multiple avenues, 00:56:02.140 |
in my case, music, graphic design, and copywriting, 00:56:08.880 |
I'm a delivery driver, and I work 40 to 50 hours a week. 00:56:15.120 |
- Well, Randall, I'm gonna differentiate here, 00:56:19.460 |
or ask for you to differentiate between hobbies 00:56:27.900 |
as part of a bigger picture, vision, or strategy you have. 00:56:33.260 |
I'm interested in music, I like playing music, 00:56:36.140 |
the key there is you wanna integrate this into your life, 00:56:47.060 |
And I talk about this in "Digital Minimalism," by the way, 00:56:57.820 |
"I'm gonna learn all the songs from this album 00:57:07.820 |
I do this 'cause I enjoy it, I listen to music, 00:57:11.060 |
and so I feel more meaningful when I'm learning music, 00:57:13.420 |
I'm immersing myself in it, but if I have a busy, 00:57:26.600 |
for improving or changing your life in a very specific way. 00:57:35.740 |
which I've convinced myself would be available to me 00:57:37.800 |
if I built these skills, would allow me to implement this. 00:57:40.560 |
I could reduce my delivery hours and do this consulting. 00:57:44.460 |
that gets me closer to my ideal lifestyle vision. 00:57:46.920 |
In that case, you do need to be a little bit more systematic. 00:57:51.620 |
You schedule time like that, like you would with the doctor. 00:57:59.020 |
about where that work happens, how I do that work, 00:58:06.300 |
It might be some pain that you're going through 00:58:08.700 |
because you know it's gonna deliver something good. 00:58:15.820 |
release or relaxation from the systematic acquisition 00:58:25.060 |
it becomes impossible and you beat yourself up 00:58:31.080 |
these are the things I'm systematically pursuing. 00:58:36.320 |
You know, just only be realistic about your capacity 00:58:39.580 |
and keep everything else a little bit looser. 00:58:41.860 |
I think that's gonna be the best way to balance those. 00:58:52.060 |
Cage says, "I bought 'How to Become a Straight A Student' 00:58:54.900 |
"and 'Deep Work'," reading the former multiple times over. 00:59:09.460 |
"in two internships in conjunction with my schooling. 00:59:12.900 |
"is the benefit I've found in the quantification of goals 00:59:22.380 |
"that I will readily admit is both over-engineered 00:59:27.060 |
"It contains rows for all my projects, school or otherwise. 00:59:30.360 |
"The first column is the day I put into the planner. 00:59:43.200 |
"and the sixth is the estimated time it will take. 00:59:48.200 |
"and the eighth is the time left in the project." 01:00:09.820 |
"Though not perfect, I can usually guess within an hour 01:00:14.660 |
"Through this system, I am able to flag projects due in a day 01:00:20.820 |
"tackle problems based on the time left per day. 01:00:23.400 |
"This keeps big research papers from distracting me 01:00:25.520 |
"from smaller projects that are coming up fast, 01:00:27.300 |
"while still allowing me to ensure I attack them 01:00:31.480 |
"This triaging has been essential to my life, 01:00:35.220 |
"has essentially become my time block planner. 01:00:37.460 |
"Additionally, I can see exactly how many hours per day 01:00:45.740 |
"The reason I bring this up is because I think that 01:00:56.860 |
probably more complicated than I would recommend 01:00:58.740 |
for most people, unless that's the type of thing you like. 01:01:01.340 |
But what I wanna highlight about Cage's approach 01:01:07.260 |
by being realistic about what's on his plate, 01:01:13.040 |
You don't necessarily have to have eight columns 01:01:15.440 |
with equations to get there, though that's one way to do it. 01:01:25.660 |
because when you're blocking off time for things 01:01:30.440 |
every time something goes past the block you gave it, 01:01:34.240 |
you begin to get a realistic feel for your timing. 01:01:41.500 |
"Oh, I thought I would just edit this article this week. 01:02:02.920 |
you can move around the chess pieces of your schedule 01:02:06.920 |
That's a weird mixed metaphor, but let's just go with it. 01:02:10.080 |
You know what's on your plate, what's realistic. 01:02:12.900 |
You know when to say no, you know when to say yes. 01:02:14.700 |
You know how to make sure the things that need to get done 01:02:16.660 |
get done in early enough time that you don't have pileups, 01:02:27.320 |
So I like this case study because it tells you 01:02:30.500 |
if you don't have control over what's going on in your life, 01:02:35.460 |
And it's not gonna drive you and your chess pieces 01:02:38.920 |
in the direction most likely that you wanna actually go. 01:02:49.060 |
that's probably gonna get you half, most of the way there. 01:02:51.260 |
Have a good task capture system that you review 01:02:53.460 |
where things have statuses and you have different lists 01:03:00.860 |
but it's why control is a key layer in my deep life stack 01:03:03.960 |
because if you don't control all the stuff on your plate, 01:03:06.140 |
it's very hard for you to actually control your life 01:03:10.000 |
All right, so I wanna move on to our final segment, 01:03:15.020 |
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The way it works is instead of talking directly 01:06:39.100 |
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The server talks to the website on your behalf, 01:06:54.780 |
What does your internet service provider learn? 01:06:56.700 |
What does the guy with the antenna sniffing your packets 01:07:00.420 |
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I summarize the books I read in the month previous. 01:08:24.500 |
So it gets kind of complicated, but whatever. 01:08:27.300 |
All right, so what books did I finish in October, 2023? 01:08:42.140 |
I read it because it reminds me of the type of things 01:08:46.800 |
It's a book about engineering your life to be better. 01:08:55.540 |
because Arthur is actually gonna join us on the show, 01:08:58.420 |
but Arthur Brooks next month is gonna join us on the show 01:09:06.840 |
- I also read "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius. 01:09:11.340 |
So if you're a listener to the show, you know this 01:09:14.820 |
I did a segment about ideas from "Meditations," 01:09:22.020 |
I told you about this, Jesse, but it was amazing 01:09:52.220 |
One flaw with that, I mean, I'm a thriller aficionado, 01:10:00.660 |
is "Dr. No," Bond is escaping from the torture tunnel. 01:10:12.180 |
and the woman he's with, they stake down outside 01:10:16.860 |
on a path where Jamaican black crabs every day migrate 01:10:20.980 |
with the idea that the crabs are gonna eat you, 01:10:26.640 |
You can tell by the way this is grade A literature here. 01:10:36.520 |
They were just like, oh, it turns out "Dr. No" 01:10:42.120 |
So she just sort of waited till the crabs were gone 01:10:45.480 |
So that's not really a fulfilling way to get out of that. 01:10:49.000 |
Bond gets out of the torture tunnel, that's fine. 01:10:51.240 |
The issue is, so now he has to kind of escape the island. 01:10:54.040 |
He kills "Dr. No" halfway through the escape. 01:11:05.560 |
he takes over a crane and just dumps a bunch of bird guano 01:11:16.580 |
It's like, this is this big villain they've set up 01:11:18.560 |
and they're just like in the middle of escape, 01:11:20.560 |
And they like keep going with like the rest of the stuff. 01:11:29.440 |
These are not the type of analysis you'll hear 01:11:31.120 |
from someone who's talking about their experience 01:11:48.960 |
Anyways, he's a psychologist who has innovated 01:11:51.440 |
the scientific study of awe, A-W-E, as a feeling. 01:11:56.580 |
hey, let me get into my research and how this works. 01:11:59.780 |
The final book I read was "Israel" by Noah Tisby. 01:12:31.060 |
You can go to social media and say, get me mad. 01:12:54.180 |
So the three books, so the Noah Tisby's book, 01:13:05.200 |
but it's more like "Riot of Sin" or pro-Israel. 01:13:10.200 |
For the center book, and I just finished this, 01:13:14.280 |
but it's November now, so it's not on this list, 01:13:15.960 |
is Martin Gilbert's epic history of Israel, 650 pages. 01:13:20.280 |
I thought I could do it in a week, took me two weeks. 01:13:26.680 |
Just this is the history starting mid 19th century 01:13:31.080 |
to late 1990s, right, just like TikTok history, 01:13:35.620 |
And now I've just ordered Yusuf HaLevi's letter 01:13:41.780 |
to my Palestinian neighbor to cover the perspective 01:13:56.920 |
in terms of thinking about on the left of Israel. 01:14:06.260 |
boom, someone who's coming more from the Israeli left. 01:14:11.240 |
- I'll tell you, it feels like a more productive, 01:14:24.240 |
I don't know who, but someone I gotta get on there 01:14:30.720 |
Sometimes reading, at least for me, let me learn. 01:14:35.640 |
It's a calming effect, but like a determined way. 01:14:39.160 |
It's like, let me figure out what's going on. 01:14:41.240 |
So I am learning more about the history of Israel 01:14:43.480 |
in this very short period than I thought I would be, 01:15:03.840 |
- He went over there right away after October 7th. 01:15:05.680 |
I think he's back now, but he reported from there for weeks. 01:15:13.720 |
David Remnick writes about a political situation. 01:15:16.320 |
I mean, this is one of the preeminent writers 01:15:24.720 |
He has a Pulitzer Prize for his reporting on Russia. 01:15:34.440 |
who blogs about productivity to write for them sometimes. 01:15:43.880 |
You're gonna eventually, you're gonna occasionally, 01:15:45.600 |
accidentally get people writing about getting things done, 01:15:52.600 |
other than that, I think it was a pretty high hit rate. 01:15:56.560 |
Like outside of any particular issues going on, read. 01:16:11.680 |
And you mind meld with someone when you read a book. 01:16:21.560 |
I mean, it is the way that as like heightened 01:16:23.680 |
intellectual beings, we should engage with the world. 01:16:44.640 |
from more diverse backgrounds get into publishing. 01:16:51.280 |
because there might be these like very low paid jobs 01:17:01.760 |
it's the portal to understanding ideas and experiences, 01:17:13.320 |
a bigger variety of people in the publishing, 01:17:15.120 |
they will bring in a bigger variety of books, 01:17:21.520 |
So I'm just such a huge believer of books and reading. 01:17:24.440 |
It really is the right approach to almost everything. 01:17:28.160 |
So I'm now 800, 900 pages in my Israeli reading. 01:17:35.560 |
By next week, I'll have finished my reading assignment. 01:17:37.920 |
So we'll have to like ask the fake rabbi segment 01:17:51.640 |
I want, we have eight sound effects on there. 01:17:54.240 |
We have pads, room on there for eight sound effects. 01:18:06.560 |
I think like whenever I say something particularly smart, 01:18:22.840 |
And then we can have like enthusiastic applause 01:18:26.960 |
where the applause then crescendos into cheering 01:18:30.560 |
and just bravo, bravo, bravo, bravo, bravo, bravo, 01:18:51.840 |
We'll be back next week with another episode of the show. 01:19:04.600 |
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About struggling to take back control of their life