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0:0 Who are Cal’s “must read” writers?
8:8 Does Cal think he can get better at writing?
18:41 When does Cal find time for academic papers?
21:13 How do you get unstuck?
28:37 How should students pick a college?
37:31 What is Cal’s shutdown ritual?
42:32 Does Cal think about retirement?
49:6 Elon and Twitter
57:44 Is cal still using his ReMarkable?
80:44 Checking in on Cal’s New Year Plan
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All right, Jesse, you're in control of the show for this holiday episode. 00:00:09.260 |
Who are your must read writers, both authors, journalists, and reporters that are still 00:00:14.860 |
How do you get notified when they produce content and how quickly do you get around 00:00:18.620 |
On a similar note, who are your favorite writers of all time? 00:00:21.740 |
I mean, at this point, what I mainly do is read and reread Jane Patterson's "Eruption." 00:00:29.980 |
It's a continuation of the Michael Crichton concept about a volcano book. 00:00:40.180 |
I have a hard time rank ordering things I like. 00:00:46.820 |
I'm making up a word, ordophobia, from ordinal for ranking or ordering and phobia for fear 00:00:53.620 |
I just have a real block with things I like trying to order them. 00:01:02.220 |
It was one of the reasons why I did not sign up for Facebook when Facebook became the first 00:01:06.060 |
social media platform to have wide scale adoption because early Facebook was built on lists. 00:01:10.860 |
Your profile was favorite books, favorite movies, favorite quotes, and I have ordophobia. 00:01:14.860 |
I can't do that, and so I don't want to bother with this. 00:01:18.540 |
There is, however, I think something deeper in this question, which is deeply applicable, 00:01:23.540 |
which is this idea of how do you figure out when and not you like have something to read? 00:01:33.140 |
How do you know when there's something out that you might want to read? 00:01:36.300 |
And here, I want to maybe offer a mindset shift for the listener. 00:01:41.500 |
There's two ways to think about the reading life, the life where you read lots of books 00:01:47.700 |
One way is more of the negative avoidance approach, which is, I'm afraid of missing 00:01:54.420 |
There's something out there that's good that I would like or I should read, but I missed 00:01:59.220 |
There's a fear of missing out approach to it. 00:02:01.140 |
The flip side of that mindset is the joy and serendipity of, I found something good to 00:02:09.340 |
I think a long time ago, I realized in the world of nonfiction, which is primarily the 00:02:12.300 |
world in which I do most of my reading, there's more good authors and more books I'm ever 00:02:17.860 |
Instead of seeing that as a downside, I'm going to miss all this great stuff. 00:02:22.080 |
It's never going to be hard to find something that's going to delight me. 00:02:27.300 |
The joy or the benefit is in constantly finding stuff you like that's interesting, that challenges 00:02:33.140 |
With that in mind, I'm not super specific in how I find what I'm going to read. 00:02:42.740 |
I was just at People's Book yesterday here in Tacoma Park, just looking at the new book 00:02:48.020 |
"Hey, who has something new out that I might want to hear about?" 00:02:54.460 |
I'll see what books the Wall Street Journal is reviewing, especially in the business space. 00:03:04.060 |
When it comes to interview podcasts, I follow guest, not host. 00:03:09.860 |
There might be a huge number of interview podcasts that I might scroll through and see 00:03:13.100 |
what's on, not because I will listen to whatever they do, but to see if they have someone on 00:03:18.460 |
I might hear an interesting author come up on a friend of mine's show or something like 00:03:23.220 |
this and then listen to it and say, "Oh, that sounds fascinating. 00:03:29.820 |
I'll just wander through my library and say, "Oh, here's a book in here. 00:03:42.260 |
There's so much good stuff out there that I'm not worried about not having something 00:03:49.580 |
That being said, there's authors I really like. 00:03:51.260 |
I'm often looking for a combination of an author I like and a topic I like. 00:03:58.500 |
To be specific, I've long liked Sebastian Junger. 00:04:02.700 |
His adventure nonfiction, realistic nonfiction book was, of course, world class beginning 00:04:08.140 |
Then he switched over in the last decade or so to more of these smaller cultural critique 00:04:12.740 |
type books, which tend to be about mismatches in human wiring in modern society. 00:04:20.480 |
If I see Junger has a book out and he has some sort of interesting cultural critique 00:04:24.460 |
about these mismatches, I'm going to be on board. 00:04:27.500 |
But he had a recent book out that was his Reflections on Mortality and Dying and I didn't 00:04:32.900 |
I was like, "I like this author, but I'm not really into that topic right now, so that 00:04:38.860 |
It was like this with David McCullough, who was one of my favorite historical nonfiction 00:04:42.900 |
writers, if not my favorite historical nonfiction writer. 00:04:47.980 |
He's the master of taking the archived written word, typically in correspondence, and using 00:04:52.820 |
this to recreate in vivid detail realistic characters from history. 00:04:57.580 |
So he brings people alive by using their own written words. 00:05:00.600 |
So if I see him, plus a historical time or topic I'm interested in, I was all on board. 00:05:06.860 |
But if it was him and not a topic or area I was interested in, I might skip it. 00:05:10.900 |
Like I didn't read his book about Americans in Paris. 00:05:14.600 |
It just wasn't as interesting to me as his sort of presidential books or colonial era 00:05:20.400 |
And sometimes I won't know anything about the author, but the idea seems so interesting, 00:05:25.640 |
I'm reading right now this fantastic, crazy book. 00:05:28.760 |
It might be the only book this guy ever wrote. 00:05:31.320 |
And he's basically recreating mathematics—I've mentioned this before, Jesse—but he builds 00:05:37.480 |
from scratch mathematics from first principles in a way that's more conversational but motivated. 00:05:43.840 |
So he doesn't just say, "Here's how you take a derivative of a polynomial." 00:05:49.520 |
How would you take a derivative of a polynomial? 00:05:51.000 |
He derives all the stuff you learn in math class all the way through multidimensional 00:05:53.920 |
calculus, including trigonometry, all the major rules of algebra. 00:06:02.600 |
And that was just topic first, and I didn't know anything about this author. 00:06:22.720 |
Burn Math Class, a weird—you know, it was on a smaller press. 00:06:27.120 |
I'm not done with it yet, so I guess it'll end up on the January book list. 00:06:36.520 |
Yeah, I've been reading it, and I forgot to return it. 00:06:45.040 |
I'm in Multivariable Calculus, which, you know, I took. 00:06:54.640 |
I mean, only, like, math and science people know this, but he clearly wrote the whole 00:06:57.600 |
book using the layout software we use for scientific papers. 00:07:00.880 |
So it's not even formatted—it wasn't reformatted for book format. 00:07:06.140 |
He just wrote it with the same software you use to write a math paper. 00:07:10.920 |
I mean, crazy, but I wish more people would write crazy books like that. 00:07:15.720 |
Maybe we should buy the rights for it and, like, re-release it. 00:07:18.440 |
Remember, like, Ferris was doing that for—I don't know if you remember this. 00:07:23.800 |
He was like, "I'm going to buy the rights for books I really like." 00:07:27.520 |
He would buy, like, the audio rights and re-record them and publish them and use his platform 00:07:33.520 |
And then he realized, "Okay, that's, like, a really low-margin business." 00:07:39.480 |
I wanted to interrupt briefly to say that if you're enjoying this video, then you need 00:07:43.880 |
to check out my new book, Slow Productivity, The Lost Art of Accomplishment Without Burnout. 00:07:51.360 |
This is, like, the Bible for most of the ideas we talk about here in these videos. 00:07:56.800 |
You can get a free excerpt at calnewport.com/slow. 00:08:11.640 |
When you compare your writing to your favorite writers, do you think their level is achievable? 00:08:15.800 |
Or is it similar to your MIT experience with certain folks having extreme brain horsepower?" 00:08:24.080 |
To give context for the listener, I've talked about this with theoretical computer science, 00:08:29.500 |
my primary academic field or my original academic field, that there were differences. 00:08:36.760 |
It was very hard work to get better, but there was some point where I realized I'm not at 00:08:42.360 |
my 100%, because to get to your 100% is very difficult just in terms of the sheer intensity 00:08:49.780 |
But I realized my 100% was going to fall short of the greats in the field. 00:08:53.920 |
And there's an epsilon between, you know—so if you can't be a great, the difference between 00:09:00.760 |
being, like, very good and good was somewhat diminishing returns. 00:09:04.800 |
I mean, I had a professorship at a good university, it's respected my field, easily got my promotions. 00:09:11.820 |
And so I at some point was thinking to go all in on getting to my 100%, which basically 00:09:18.080 |
in theoretical computer science means you've got to read a lot more papers. 00:09:21.480 |
That sounds casual, but it's actually very hard to read and understand a theory paper, 00:09:26.680 |
because it's complex math that's summarized, and you have to reconstruct complicated math 00:09:33.720 |
It just really is like an all-out intellectual effort. 00:09:35.560 |
It can take days and days just to understand one paper, and you've got to do that all the 00:09:39.460 |
And if you do that all the time, you can get yourself to 100%. 00:09:42.040 |
I still think it would have been short of the very top people, and so I pulled back 00:09:49.360 |
I'm probably better at nonfiction writing, nationally speaking, I guess, than theoretical 00:10:05.560 |
It was the MIT's theory group was a good group. 00:10:13.840 |
But it's a smaller group of people to compare yourself against. 00:10:18.560 |
I just guess the reason why I say that is my national reputation as a nonfiction writer 00:10:25.560 |
And some of the accolades of nonfiction writing, like writing for The New Yorker, maybe that's 00:10:31.240 |
Maybe that's the equivalent of having a position at a top 10 CS program, right? 00:10:38.220 |
The New York Times bestsellers, the award list, maybe that's the academic equivalent 00:10:42.400 |
of—though I've won some awards for my academic work, but winning some more higher-level awards, 00:10:49.000 |
being in the—your work showed up in science and not just in the journal that's specific 00:10:55.520 |
So I think I'm a little better, nationally speaking, in nonfiction than I am in theory. 00:11:02.320 |
But I'm not one of the best nonfiction writers, right? 00:11:04.120 |
I'm not writing features for The New Yorker in the magazine. 00:11:08.360 |
I'm not up for national book awards or Pulitzers, right? 00:11:12.480 |
I mean, I'm not at that echelon of, from a craft perspective, just the very best writers. 00:11:18.760 |
I make best-of-the-year lists, but typically places that are considering business books 00:11:23.800 |
or considering pragmatic nonfiction, whereas The New York Times is top 100, that's not 00:11:30.080 |
I'm not going to show up in The New Yorker's best books of the year. 00:11:32.880 |
So in theory, there's higher craft I could get to. 00:11:36.320 |
I don't know how high I would get if I pushed for 100% in writing. 00:11:41.100 |
I think, just like in CS, I'm at that 75%, which took a decade to get here. 00:11:45.680 |
It took really hard work, don't get me wrong. 00:11:47.960 |
But to write the very best writing I could do, I would really need to do it full-time 00:11:50.720 |
all out to get to that 100%, and I don't know where that would land. 00:11:55.600 |
One of the reasons why I'm not doing that, as long as we're psychoanalyzing my career 00:12:01.880 |
One of the reasons I'm not doing that is that it might not be the most productive thing 00:12:07.080 |
for me to do from a career success or impacts perspective, right? 00:12:11.480 |
Like, really, my skill, the thing I think that I have that's more unique or my unique 00:12:22.520 |
I can make sense of information and come up with interesting ways to think about things. 00:12:26.920 |
I'm very good at consolidating things into interesting ideas and frameworks. 00:12:35.160 |
That's well-served by my current writing ability. 00:12:37.560 |
Like, I'm a pretty good writer, which means when I write about idea stuff, it has a little 00:12:42.320 |
bit of a gloss of it being maybe a little bit smarter than, like, a standard advice 00:12:48.160 |
or self-help, but not off-the-charts, like, literary nonfiction. 00:12:53.520 |
And that's probably, like, the right place, right, this sort of smart self-help balance 00:12:58.320 |
I've found, where I have ideas that can give you specific action, but I'm writing about 00:13:05.080 |
it more New Yorker-y style, like, smarter than you would get in just a standard advice 00:13:10.920 |
That seems to be, like, a combination, that's a lane I've created, which I think is a good 00:13:15.720 |
So actually becoming better at nonfiction writing wouldn't help that lane. 00:13:18.120 |
Personally, though, I'm interested in continuing to grow my craft. 00:13:21.240 |
So man, this is an interesting question, Jesse. 00:13:23.480 |
This is, like, an interesting discussion that you could have in general when talking about 00:13:27.360 |
achievement, is that gap between 75% of your capacity and 100%, because there is a huge 00:13:36.640 |
And it's a calculus that in any sort of high-achieving field you have to do. 00:13:41.040 |
Is my 100% going to justify that effort differential or not? 00:13:47.480 |
And it's a complicated question, because your 100% is where you land on that hierarchy of 00:13:52.520 |
skills, and, like, most people's 100% doesn't land at the top. 00:13:57.560 |
And so often, like, your 75%, which again is very hard, you have to focus and it takes 00:14:01.360 |
decades, but your 75% is often the right strategy with high achievement. 00:14:07.960 |
It's a complicated topic that I don't think we discuss with enough complexity in our culture 00:14:15.400 |
I could probably be a little bit better at writing, but I don't know how much better. 00:14:21.320 |
So in the time being, like, in the next 10 years, you'll hopefully be a better writer 00:14:32.240 |
Like, I keep on asking you this, is there-- eventually, you kind of go through your prime? 00:14:44.840 |
See, the thing about baseball-- and my former late editor, who edited So Good They Can't 00:14:54.520 |
Ignore You, and actually, tragically, died a couple of years ago, he used to tell me 00:15:01.520 |
this because he was a professional baseball player. 00:15:04.360 |
Didn't make it to the majors, but was in the professional minor league systems. 00:15:06.800 |
And the thing is, he said, in baseball, everyone is gunning for their 100%, to use my analogy. 00:15:11.520 |
So everyone is doing all the training you can possibly do to maximize your potential. 00:15:19.240 |
And I'm a single A player, I'm an instructional league player, I'm a double A player, maybe 00:15:23.800 |
I'm like a triple A or quadruple A style utility player, or I'm a major leaguer, or I'm an 00:15:30.440 |
And you're going to fall somewhere on that scale, and you're going to know it by, like, 00:15:36.600 |
And so you're probably not going to have-- changes happen. 00:15:39.800 |
Like, obviously, you'll get in the weeds, you'll get a sort of mid-career Daniel Murphy 00:15:45.600 |
changes his swing to be more launch angle, and suddenly becomes one of the best hitters 00:15:50.720 |
But for the most part, it kind of shakes out. 00:15:53.200 |
Most other non-athletic fields, people don't push it that far. 00:15:57.240 |
And so what I'm trying to figure out is, is your 75% sort of indicate, hey, if my 75% 00:16:04.480 |
is this good, then I just add this much to get what my 100% would be, or is it a completely 00:16:09.340 |
Like, maybe in writing, like nonfiction writing, if you're a pretty good writer and you go 00:16:18.840 |
A lot of what makes great nonfiction writing great tends to be on the research side. 00:16:23.920 |
And that's something that's pretty replicatable. 00:16:27.040 |
It's just time, it's, you know, OK, what makes a David Graham long-form piece for The New 00:16:35.200 |
So you have David Graham, who wrote Killers of the Flower Moon, and what makes his long-form 00:16:41.040 |
He spends a huge amount of time just immersing himself in the topic and the people, and he 00:16:47.640 |
just follows them, and he gets all these notes, and he goes into the archives, and he spends 00:16:50.560 |
all these times and reads all these things and just immerses himself in that world. 00:16:55.520 |
Typically puts himself into some sort of adventure as well. 00:17:01.000 |
Like often what differentiates like a great nonfiction writer from a good nonfiction writer 00:17:07.760 |
They're willing to use the Robert Caro term, turn every page in the archive. 00:17:16.480 |
Like I'm just going to, like a bulldog, cultivate these sources and just get and go and get 00:17:25.680 |
Some of that is an instinct game, but I don't know. 00:17:28.720 |
That's what I think is different about athletics and writing is that like if you're willing 00:17:31.800 |
to put in the time, yeah, it's like a pain tolerance thing. 00:17:38.240 |
It's going to be a better book than if you spend two. 00:17:41.160 |
But at some point, you're right, it's got to level out. 00:17:43.440 |
Like just your instinct for the written word and rhythm, it's just, it's going to, your 00:17:50.080 |
But I mean, you can have huge successes like Walter Isaacson. 00:17:54.840 |
It's not that his writing style is, there's something magnificent about it. 00:18:01.440 |
He does the work, he goes to the archives, he gets the important information, he sees 00:18:05.400 |
the through lines are important and he writes with a real clarity, which is like a little 00:18:08.920 |
bit different than David McCullough, who had like a real skill for capturing the essence 00:18:15.640 |
of a historical figure using the written word, quoting the right things. 00:18:19.840 |
Like he had this super empathetic brain that could inhabit the brain of the subject by 00:18:25.560 |
just reading everything that person had written and he kind of understands what gets to the 00:18:29.080 |
core of that person and what they're thinking and then can pick out those examples. 00:18:32.280 |
And like there's just like a real skill in there. 00:18:42.200 |
When do you fit in your writing blocks for academic papers? 00:18:44.760 |
Do these replace your morning blocks for book and article writing? 00:18:47.760 |
I mean, nowadays, writing is writing, like that's my main intellectual activity is producing 00:18:53.840 |
words on paper that other people are going to find interesting, important or impactful. 00:18:58.920 |
And so whether it's a book or a New Yorker article or an academic article, I just want 00:19:04.040 |
I write every morning and then I schedule more writing blocks if I need it, depending 00:19:10.560 |
And what happens in those blocks just depends on what I'm working on. 00:19:14.080 |
So if I'm heavy in book mode, those will be book blocks. 00:19:16.480 |
If I'm crunching a deadline for an academic paper, then those will be academic blocks. 00:19:25.040 |
So if I have a huge project like writing a book that I have like a New Yorker piece, 00:19:29.720 |
I just milestone things like, great, let me get to this milestone on the book, finishing 00:19:33.860 |
a draft of this chapter, then I can put that aside and move to like this New Yorker piece. 00:19:43.480 |
So I'm all in on that till I get to that milestone. 00:19:45.640 |
I go back and say, my milestone for the book is going to be like a full editing pass to 00:19:50.280 |
And like, that's what I'll work on for four or five days. 00:19:53.760 |
So I milestone my work and the things that can happen within like roughly a week. 00:20:00.200 |
I try not to switch back and forth within the same day. 00:20:02.400 |
But I also just don't differentiate that much anymore like I used to. 00:20:05.400 |
I mean, it used to be when I was struggling for computer science promotions, like that's 00:20:10.100 |
It was, I have to make sure I'm publishing this many academic papers. 00:20:15.640 |
Now I have like my book writing and I got to figure out like when I'm going to take 00:20:18.920 |
on book contracts and like when I'm going to do that book writing. 00:20:30.040 |
I milestone so I can be monofocused on one thing at any given day. 00:20:36.400 |
That's one of my ideas for my book, Slow Productivity. 00:20:49.720 |
I had to take, today is a nonwriting day because I have a meeting after this and a board meeting 00:20:55.160 |
And so I had to mentally, I had to mentally prepare myself yesterday that just this is 00:20:59.120 |
a nonwriting day because otherwise I get so frustrated that I'm not writing. 00:21:02.240 |
A break, a Christmas break can be rough for me. 00:21:05.200 |
I got to get writing in or I get really antsy. 00:21:09.560 |
It's the, this might, someone took away my cigarettes type of thing. 00:21:16.200 |
What steps do you take when completely stuck on a project? 00:21:19.120 |
For example, if you optimize a project for many months and have seen only minimal improvement 00:21:23.960 |
in minor metrics, but the overall goal isn't getting any closer. 00:21:27.520 |
You know, I was just talking about this on an interview I was recording last night for 00:21:33.040 |
They were asking about this, you know, sticking with a project for a long amount of time has 00:21:38.040 |
all these advantages I write about in slow productivity, like stuff that's cool takes 00:21:41.600 |
time and you got to stay focused on it for a long amount of time. 00:21:43.880 |
And they were wondering about, but what if it's not going well? 00:21:47.200 |
You know, if you're thinking it's going to take five years for me to get good at something, 00:21:50.880 |
what happens if after four years, it turns out that's not your thing, right? 00:21:55.920 |
So I was thinking about this problem and a book came to mind. 00:22:00.920 |
This probably would have been, if I had to guess, 2007, maybe it was 2009, but I think 00:22:06.040 |
I don't have a photographic memory, but I have a memory for books. 00:22:11.040 |
Just for whatever reason, I can remember where I am when I've read most books. 00:22:17.120 |
We were flying to a trip to Argentina and I was reading this book in, I think, George 00:22:24.040 |
Bush International Airport in Texas where we were connecting for the flight. 00:22:27.320 |
Seth Godin's book, The Dip, gets at this exact issue. 00:22:32.280 |
He says, okay, here's the cool thing, or not cool thing, the critical question when you're 00:22:38.800 |
When things start to go poorly, like you stop making progress or opportunities are not emerging 00:22:43.680 |
or you feel stuck, how do you tell the difference between being in what he calls a dip, which 00:22:48.280 |
means you want to make it through this dip and on the other side, you're going to keep 00:22:51.960 |
How do you tell the difference between a dip and a cul-de-sac? 00:22:53.960 |
Cul-de-sac means that you're just done, you're just stuck and what you need to do is quit 00:22:58.360 |
and this is not working, you need to do something else. 00:23:01.200 |
And I think he correctly points out differentiating between dips and cul-de-sacs is the key to 00:23:08.360 |
tackling a type of long-term projects that ultimately you can build really cool lives 00:23:13.240 |
The problem is, I don't remember that book giving really solid technical advice for how 00:23:20.120 |
It was more like he was saying this matters, there's a difference, it was giving you vocabulary. 00:23:24.720 |
Figuring out how to tell the difference is one of the key under-discussed elements of 00:23:31.040 |
So what I said on this podcast interview I was doing last night is you want to look for 00:23:39.200 |
Sometimes this is a skill, I'm trying to get better at something so I can just get the 00:23:44.800 |
Sometimes the indications have to come from the opportunities that are being afforded 00:23:48.720 |
You're getting more offers or opportunities or more clients or more incoming. 00:23:53.120 |
So it could be your internal skill that you can measure as getting better or your external 00:23:59.800 |
But you're looking for these indicators of progress. 00:24:02.520 |
If they're stuck for a non-trivial amount of time, you need to rethink process. 00:24:08.320 |
All right, let me go back and rethink process. 00:24:12.760 |
So I'm a writer trying to get better, I'm kind of stuck, I'm just now, I'm writing this 00:24:17.960 |
newsletter, the numbers are low, the numbers are stuck, nothing else is happening. 00:24:21.360 |
I need to go back to the drawing board and rethink the process I'm using to try to get 00:24:27.320 |
Rethink your process has to happen from an evidence-based perspective. 00:24:30.280 |
It is very tempting when working on long-term projects to write a story about what you want 00:24:37.160 |
to be true, about what's important for getting better here. 00:24:41.040 |
This is what I want to be true, that if I just keep writing this substack and I do it 00:24:45.200 |
every week and I'm very careful about putting screenshots of the essay on Twitter in the 00:24:50.960 |
optimized form after they come out and I do all the social media stuff right, that eventually 00:24:55.120 |
something will click and this will take off and I'll make a full-time living off it. 00:24:58.040 |
We tell ourselves stories about what we want to be true. 00:25:01.680 |
But the reality could be very different, and you might get a completely different story 00:25:05.320 |
from reality where it says, "Well, wait a second. 00:25:07.560 |
Writing a substack where you don't already have a reputation in a subject is not going 00:25:12.800 |
All you need to do is try to build up a footprint in the journalistic world on way to getting 00:25:17.040 |
a book, and this is difficult because you've got to make pitches and they're going to get 00:25:19.560 |
rejected and it's going to be hard work, and you don't want it to be true, but it is." 00:25:27.700 |
Talk to people who know, and then upgrade your process or update your process to reflect 00:25:34.360 |
If this still doesn't return results, like, "Okay, I'm doing the things that you're supposed 00:25:39.040 |
to do, I was reality checked, here's how people make progress in this world," and you're still 00:25:43.920 |
not getting indicators of progress, that's your sign you might be in a cul-de-sac and 00:25:48.080 |
you need to change the map of where you're going. 00:25:50.800 |
Maybe it's a small change or maybe it's a drastic change, like, "I'm just not going to 00:25:59.640 |
I become more attuned to this in the things that I do that have been relatively successful. 00:26:04.320 |
I have become attuned to the degree to which there's a survivorship bias, in which it's 00:26:09.680 |
easy to say, "Okay, here's what I did, so if you just do that, you'll be fine." 00:26:12.720 |
I've realized over time, no, no, some of these things are really hard, and you don't want 00:26:16.880 |
to get stuck in a cul-de-sac because most people will. 00:26:21.880 |
I used to always tell people, "Yeah, write books. 00:26:27.440 |
It's not too hard to sell a book, and then you'll build up your audience, and it's really 00:26:34.480 |
Then over time, I realized, no, no, there's some survivorship bias there. 00:26:39.260 |
It's really hard to get a book to actually sell to people. 00:26:46.420 |
For most people who go down the writing path, you're going to get stuck pretty quickly. 00:26:54.440 |
It's easy to say, "This is not technically that hard, what we do here. 00:26:57.680 |
I could tell you what we do here, and here's what it requires, and technically here's what 00:27:04.360 |
But I've realized, "Oh, it's really hard to have a podcast be successful," and it depends 00:27:08.700 |
on lots of things, including, I've discovered, having a national reputation or brand outside 00:27:17.920 |
You have a built-in trust or social validation that you're someone that people should listen 00:27:24.480 |
Actually, like most people I know who have tried podcasts, it's just kind of dead-ended. 00:27:32.480 |
There's no obvious thing to do to make that audience bigger. 00:27:34.640 |
It's like, "Oh, this is a difficult path to thread," and actually, it's not going to work 00:27:39.480 |
for most people, and you don't want to waste too many years trying to follow it. 00:27:43.000 |
I've become more attuned to this recently, that you want to look for indicators of progress. 00:27:49.600 |
You can update your plan with new evidence if it's not working. 00:27:52.500 |
If it's still not working after that, then it might be a cul-de-sac, not a dip. 00:27:58.160 |
You want to consider putting your efforts towards something that's more likely to succeed 00:28:01.160 |
for you, where you're building off of, "I have this pre-existing ability or platform. 00:28:06.680 |
I already have this credential that makes it much more likely I'll succeed going this 00:28:12.440 |
I've become more curmudgeonly about this, Jesse, about general stuff. 00:28:15.200 |
I used to be like, "Everyone should just do everything I'm doing. 00:28:18.320 |
But now I've been recognized, I've been very selective, and I've really leveraged pre-existing 00:28:24.860 |
cultural assets to try to make other things successful. 00:28:27.900 |
It's a lot more fragile and contingent than maybe I would have realized before. 00:28:36.620 |
What criteria do many high school students fail to consider when selecting a college? 00:28:41.940 |
On a related note, do you think tuition costs for private schools will exceed $150,000 per 00:28:49.340 |
I think students, in the American context, and this is very different than other countries 00:28:59.420 |
In the American context, I think students probably overemphasize fit. 00:29:04.500 |
It's a uniquely American thing that, "I want this to feel of the college to be right," 00:29:09.860 |
which often means physically what it feels like, where it is in the country, what the 00:29:18.740 |
The strategy that probably makes sense for most people is, go to your state school. 00:29:23.900 |
That's going to be the best bang for your buck, unless you can get into a really elite 00:29:27.020 |
school that can open up substantially more opportunities because of its eliteness. 00:29:31.160 |
But avoid that big middle ground of non-elite schools that are very expensive that you're 00:29:36.620 |
It's probably not a great investment in money. 00:29:42.500 |
Go to state school, unless you can get into a Georgetown or better or something like this. 00:29:48.760 |
There are, of course, schools where fit really matters. 00:29:50.500 |
If you're a super math whiz, try to go to MIT. 00:29:54.700 |
If you're a music whiz, you really want to try to go to Juilliard. 00:29:58.380 |
If you're film savant, you can get into USC, you should go to USC. 00:30:04.220 |
But for the most part, we probably think too much about, "Is this a fit for me?" 00:30:08.380 |
Because honestly, what does a 17-year-old know? 00:30:13.020 |
They had a good visit to a school, they met someone nice, like, "Great. 00:30:17.980 |
The cost thing, I hope it doesn't get to $150,000. 00:30:24.100 |
I think there's going to be some emergent reverse pressure on tuition prices in schools 00:30:32.060 |
There's some alternatives that are emerging, independent schools like the University of 00:30:40.220 |
There's some of these other options that are emerging, which might start to put some pressure 00:30:44.340 |
on runaway costs, because there's going to be these alternatives that emerge that have 00:30:51.940 |
There's a kind of a tragedy of the commons that goes on now, where just all schools increase 00:30:56.780 |
All these private schools, like, "Well, as long as we all do it, it's fine because you 00:31:01.860 |
Hopefully, there's some sort of capped pressure that comes in to prevent it from getting bigger. 00:31:08.820 |
I say this as a father of three kids who are going to have to go to college. 00:31:12.780 |
The only advantage I have of private school getting more expensive is, as a professor, 00:31:18.380 |
I have a tuition benefit, which is key to the cost of Georgetown's current tuition. 00:31:26.580 |
They will pay a certain percentage of Georgetown's tuition towards any school that my kids go 00:31:33.180 |
As it stands now, because private schools are so expensive, a third or whatever the 00:31:37.460 |
percentages of Georgetown's tuition is all of the University of Maryland's tuition. 00:31:43.500 |
The best case scenario is Maryland keeps its prices low, and then Georgetown gets really 00:31:50.900 |
In fact, if Georgetown can get like five times more expensive than any other college, I'm 00:31:54.900 |
It's my tuition benefit, because I'll be able to cover anything else. 00:31:59.020 |
The gap between state and private is getting big as well. 00:32:03.580 |
Most places are keeping the cost kind of reasonable. 00:32:06.060 |
But now you have this big gap that's opening, which we're noticing as we're doing college 00:32:10.980 |
Because if you save for a state university, but your kid, like in a 529, but your kid 00:32:17.060 |
wants to go to a private university, you don't have nearly enough money. 00:32:19.520 |
But if you're saving in a tax-advantaged account, like a 529 for a private university, and your 00:32:24.940 |
kid goes to a state university, you've way over-saved, and you have too much money in 00:32:29.200 |
that account, and you're going to have to pay penalties to get out. 00:32:31.140 |
So that gap is kind of complicated when it comes to tuition saving. 00:32:36.340 |
I guess it would somewhat vary, too, in terms of selection process if you're being recruited 00:32:46.380 |
You're deciding what team you want to play for. 00:32:57.740 |
I still got some time before I have to worry about it. 00:33:07.140 |
Jesse, I figure we should do a quick ad break before we keep going with Jesse Takeover. 00:33:11.580 |
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It does a great job of letting you understand what a book is about and I find it really 00:36:12.780 |
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I don't need to read a whole book about this. 00:36:20.380 |
So it's a fantastic tool for triaging what books you read. 00:36:23.820 |
Other people use it as just straight entertainment. 00:36:25.580 |
It's like an interesting podcast to learn about different topics. 00:36:28.340 |
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It could start a bad precedent though, that like every advertiser would now want us to 00:37:24.700 |
have a physical prop, but hey, we're up for it. 00:37:33.320 |
Can you walk us through your shutdown ritual? 00:37:37.700 |
Has there ever been a workday where you missed it? 00:37:40.120 |
Are there significant consequences if that happens? 00:37:43.440 |
So okay, when I'm done with work for the day, I open my first of what will be several handles 00:37:58.320 |
So what I do for my shutdown ritual is I, first of all, clean up open loops. 00:38:05.620 |
So for me, these are going to be in two places. 00:38:08.480 |
One will be my workingmemory.txt file on my computer. 00:38:15.520 |
I use this non-formatted text edit text file. 00:38:20.020 |
All throughout the day, I capture notes and ideas just to remember things temporarily 00:38:25.880 |
Like, let's say I'm trying to schedule a meeting and someone emails me some options. 00:38:29.200 |
I'll just copy that and paste it into that file and then I'll open up my calendar and 00:38:32.160 |
I have the file open up next to me and I can see what time works. 00:38:34.840 |
I keep impromptu to-do lists for admin blocks in here. 00:38:42.420 |
So I make sure at the end of the day, there's nothing loose in that file that needs to be 00:38:46.840 |
captured, that needs to be moved into my task storage system, that needs to be moved as 00:38:50.360 |
a reminder onto my calendar, that needs to generate an email that I send out. 00:38:56.520 |
I usually then do a survey of my inbox as well, just to make sure there's not something 00:39:04.160 |
Doing a final check of your inbox before you shut down will destabilize one of the biggest 00:39:11.720 |
post-shutdown sources of distraction, which is this urge to just sort of check in just 00:39:16.080 |
to be sure that you're not missing something in your inbox. 00:39:21.080 |
Then I'm going to look at my weekly plan, see if I need to update it at all. 00:39:26.220 |
I look at my calendar, my weekly plan, what changes do I need to make about what I did 00:39:29.320 |
or didn't get to today, so that I feel like my weekly plan is now at the end of this day 00:39:36.500 |
All right, it's up to speed where where it needs to be. 00:39:40.420 |
At that point, I'm ready to do my shutdown ritual, which now is typically going to just 00:39:46.620 |
be in my time block planner where I have a shutdown complete checkbox, and I just check 00:39:53.820 |
If I've done that, I can get into my evening without work stress. 00:39:58.540 |
I can get into my evening without feeling like there's something in the back of my mind, 00:40:06.420 |
Sometimes as part of the shutdown ritual, I'll sketch out a plan for the evening. 00:40:09.760 |
If it's kind of a complicated evening, I need to pick up this kid, we're going to this thing, 00:40:13.940 |
I'll sketch out a little plan, and I will look at the planner, I'll have it just so 00:40:18.380 |
I can remember when I'm trying to get done that night after my shutdown. 00:40:22.520 |
But once I do that checkmark in the checkbox, I'm not thinking about work until the next 00:40:29.220 |
The times when I miss this, it's not due to a day being so busy that I just don't get 00:40:36.180 |
The times when I miss this is where the day is sort of hybrid, when the day is sort of 00:40:44.060 |
I know a lot of people who go to an office don't have this experience, but for someone 00:40:48.100 |
like me, I'm a professor, I'm a writer, it can get kind of hazy. 00:40:55.620 |
Semester's over, Christmas break's about to start, maybe I have to go to a doctor's appointment 00:40:59.940 |
that morning, and I'm kind of working, but we're also going to pick up gifts, and it's 00:41:06.620 |
sort of a workday, and it's sort of not a workday. 00:41:09.460 |
Those are the days where the shutdowns don't happen, and I suffer for it, and it's just 00:41:13.580 |
this background hum of a little bit of destabilization and anxiety. 00:41:18.340 |
So it's the days I can get my shutdown routine, which is, I really don't like to miss it, 00:41:22.340 |
and I'm not going to miss it on a normal full workday, that really makes a big difference. 00:41:27.660 |
So you pretty much work on the same computer all day, where your working memory is. 00:41:32.260 |
Yeah, so I have two working memory.txt files. 00:41:35.740 |
I have my laptop, that's the main computer I'll use, I have an external monitor at home 00:41:40.660 |
that I'll plug it into, and then I have one here in the computers in the studio, in the 00:41:49.780 |
That one I use only in the moment, I will empty that when I'm done using that computer, 00:41:58.780 |
So if I'm writing on that computer, I'm using the big monitors, I'll usually have my laptop. 00:42:03.220 |
I will copy stuff over to the working memory.txt on my laptop. 00:42:06.160 |
So I will use the working memory.txt on the studio computers, really temporarily. 00:42:11.980 |
Like I let me remember this while I go over to my calendar, let me type the five points 00:42:15.460 |
I want to put in this thing I'm writing quotes, let me copy a quote, I'm going to move over 00:42:19.380 |
And then I clean that out when I walk away from the computer. 00:42:21.120 |
So it's really the file on my laptop that I treat as the sort of stable file. 00:42:25.820 |
And that's the one I want to be checking at the end of the day. 00:42:33.900 |
If so, is it dependent on financial or other factors? 00:42:37.180 |
Would you still work some of your jobs past technical retirement? 00:42:45.860 |
I have been thinking about this and my financial advisor asked me about this. 00:42:51.380 |
But it's complicated because I have a lot of jobs, right? 00:42:55.940 |
So what does retirement, like, what would it actually mean from a job perspective? 00:43:03.300 |
Does it mean stop being a magazine journalist? 00:43:08.880 |
Is it some subset of those, some combination of those? 00:43:12.260 |
It's unlikely to ever mean for me to do none of those things. 00:43:16.580 |
Like why would I ever stop, for example, writing books if I could or, you know, magazine articles? 00:43:23.540 |
And even like saying stop being a professor, it's not always so cut and dry. 00:43:27.580 |
Like there's professors have different setups, you know, it's, it's there. 00:43:33.420 |
I'm in a standard department with a full teaching load doing the normal thing, but there's also 00:43:38.740 |
You might not know it if you're not in academia, but like well-known professors where they 00:43:43.240 |
have a title and they're associated with a center and they don't really draw much of 00:43:47.380 |
a salary and maybe they have an office or not on campus, but they're, they're barely 00:43:52.540 |
So the word professor can mean many different things. 00:43:56.580 |
So what I've been focusing in on instead is the financial aspect and really like keeping 00:44:01.780 |
things simple, looking at straightforward financial independence so that we have a very 00:44:09.940 |
This is how much we would need to sort of comfortably live per year. 00:44:16.820 |
Like we know that number pretty well because we're pretty careful in tracking our expenses. 00:44:21.060 |
And this is what that number is going to reduce to sort of post having kids at home, because 00:44:24.620 |
that's a smaller number, but kids at home, you spend more money and you have to think 00:44:28.760 |
So you have like, what would the number be tomorrow and what would the number be once 00:44:33.300 |
the kids are gone, which is like a lower number. 00:44:35.740 |
Both of those we can translate into how many, how much assets would you have to have to 00:44:39.700 |
basically feel comfortable withdrawing that much money annually? 00:44:44.020 |
That's a big number, not a crazy number, but a big number. 00:44:50.060 |
If my next book does really well, there's some big influx of money. 00:44:56.180 |
That's what I'm putting that money towards, because the way I see it is the closer you 00:45:00.180 |
get to that sort of financial independence, the more breathing room you have to pursue 00:45:05.380 |
whatever definition of retirement seems interesting. 00:45:08.580 |
Because now you're not dependent on any of the things I'm doing as like an income source. 00:45:13.100 |
Now you can just start thinking, what do I think the ideal combination of work would 00:45:17.980 |
And you could explore that without having to worry about, yeah, but my health insurance, 00:45:22.260 |
or are we going to be able to pay for this or that or these expenses or whatever? 00:45:27.160 |
So that's the way I've been thinking about it, is not I want to stop working, but the 00:45:31.780 |
more financial independence I gain, the more comfortable I can be reconfiguring what work 00:45:40.700 |
And this is why I'd be a bad entrepreneur, I think, Jesse, is like I really have that 00:45:44.420 |
mindset of I don't trust, I think of the worst case scenarios financially, I don't take risks. 00:45:57.260 |
I think other people we know are much more aggressive about, hey, this thing's going 00:46:06.540 |
Well, I don't like to just hope it works out. 00:46:08.780 |
So I'm probably way more conservative than other people would be. 00:46:12.060 |
And because of that, I have too many jobs and that's kind of a problem. 00:46:14.660 |
What does overlapping sources of income mean? 00:46:17.340 |
So OK, like someone else's situation might say, hey, this podcast is doing well, just 00:46:20.700 |
be a podcaster or you're a successful writer. 00:46:29.220 |
Or, you know, whatever, wherever it would be. 00:46:31.220 |
Whereas I think of it as like, well, yeah, the podcast's doing well, but like, what if 00:46:40.380 |
You're a successful actor until you're not, until you make two bad movies and then you're 00:46:45.660 |
It's like I'm always sort of catastrophizing. 00:46:48.340 |
Whereas my full time writer friends, for example, are like, you're crazy. 00:46:51.020 |
Like you're very, very successful as a writer, you know, way over the threshold that someone 00:46:56.300 |
just like, great, I can just now write books. 00:46:59.260 |
Or other things where I'll be conservative would be a lot of people in my situation like, 00:47:04.620 |
I bought a farm up in, you know, Vermont or I have a cabin up in West Virginia. 00:47:13.740 |
And we spend the summers there and we write or whatever. 00:47:14.740 |
I'm in my head, the math doesn't cost this much. 00:47:19.660 |
And so I'm, I, I, I've always had this mindset of like, no one's going to save me. 00:47:27.660 |
I want, you know, I want to be able to weather multiple points of failure. 00:47:35.260 |
Also the problem is I like all these things, right? 00:47:38.220 |
Like Georgetown can be a pain in terms of work, you know, especially when I feel like 00:47:43.180 |
I'm at the height of my abilities with certain things and I'm doing forms, but I really love 00:47:47.380 |
academia and professors and being on campuses and that life and my whole life. 00:47:51.220 |
I've lived my entire adult life in academic institutions and it's really cool and rare 00:47:59.420 |
Cause I bet once you left it, you would be like, oh, I miss it. 00:48:06.900 |
I've been doing that since I'm, you know, 20 years old. 00:48:10.460 |
And this podcasting thing we're having, this is cool as well. 00:48:13.860 |
It's the modern, this is like the, what the equivalent of having a radio show that was 00:48:26.140 |
So the problem is I can do, I like all these things and like often it works and then sometimes 00:48:32.620 |
I mean, Jesse knows every September I say, that's it, I'm quitting. 00:48:35.820 |
I'm just going to live in the woods and be a writer. 00:48:37.940 |
But then every June I'm like, ah, these jobs are awesome. 00:48:41.220 |
Why would I ever want to not do any of these things? 00:48:47.420 |
I see like money is options, optionality, I don't know if that's a word, optionality. 00:48:58.080 |
It's a real insidious process, real insidious process we have here. 00:49:02.660 |
All right, next question, we have a little bit of an interactive here, but the overall 00:49:07.620 |
question is, do you think Elon Musk's purchase of X had this intended effect and are that 00:49:17.220 |
And I have a article here from the Washington Post that's like an interactive that you can 00:49:23.540 |
So we can put, this is up on the screen for people who are watching, up on the screen, 00:49:30.860 |
He's convinced that like any moment I'm not on the screen, people are going to immediately 00:49:36.940 |
I'll read this out loud for those who are listening instead of just writing. 00:49:38.700 |
I guess Elon on November 6th, he tweeted, they have the tweet up here, it's morning 00:49:46.620 |
At 1039 AM on the day Donald Trump declared victory for a second term, Elon Musk wrote 00:49:54.220 |
About an hour and a half, it had been seen more than 10 million times and was still reaching 00:50:08.540 |
With over 200 million followers, can you see this? 00:50:16.620 |
With over 200 million followers, Musk has the biggest account on X and increasingly 00:50:23.540 |
Within 26 days around the election, Musk fired off 3,870 posts that received more than 33 00:50:31.540 |
My God, if I was a shareholder in one of these companies, I'd be like, what are you doing? 00:50:37.340 |
Like this is a give those 3,000 worst, almost 4,000 posts could have been like you thinking 00:50:46.260 |
Musk reach transcends Trump's with each of his X posts typically seen by twice as many 00:50:50.540 |
users as opposed to the president elect the other post returned to Twitter. 00:50:59.540 |
As most prepares for a central role in the U.S. government, the billionaire has a political 00:51:12.060 |
I don't think that many people are really on X. 00:51:15.140 |
I think the assumption is largely correct, right? 00:51:21.180 |
X slash Twitter, whatever you, you know, Twitter now X really is a playpen of elites in a very 00:51:31.020 |
But it was a place that this is where like intellectual, academic, technocratic and political 00:51:39.260 |
And this is why there was a lot of energy in this place is where they gathered. 00:51:43.020 |
They hashed out ideas, they sought status and they sort of collaboratively warred with 00:51:51.820 |
each other to try to establish cultural Overton windows. 00:51:55.720 |
So it was a, a, an important place for various elites. 00:52:07.040 |
It doesn't have a large number of active users. 00:52:09.480 |
It doesn't play a large role in most people's day to day life. 00:52:13.320 |
It's the smallest of the platforms in terms of, you know, it's dwarfed by something like 00:52:18.940 |
That's why it was like valued so little, right? 00:52:22.120 |
That's why, that's why it was like a $40 billion company where Meta is, you know, honing in 00:52:29.640 |
It's whatever it is, $800 million, $800 billion valuation. 00:52:34.360 |
But the people who write about it are part of that category of cultural elites to which 00:52:40.600 |
So if you're covering technology, it's a really big deal. 00:52:45.040 |
It's like, this was the clubhouse where we all were. 00:52:48.440 |
And there was a, there was a change in fortune as the ownership of that clubhouse changed. 00:52:56.760 |
It was like a bigger kid took over the tree house and put up a, like a no girls allowed 00:53:00.280 |
sign like you would have had, you know, back when you were in fourth grade. 00:53:03.200 |
But it was like the, the cultural political equivalent of that, that the composition changed. 00:53:06.960 |
So there was, there was a period in the lead up, so in the last Donald Trump presidency 00:53:13.480 |
and through the Biden presidency, there was up through, you know, Elon taking over Twitter. 00:53:18.360 |
There was a period where certain groups sort of had control within these elites, certain 00:53:22.800 |
subset of the elite sort of had control of this platform. 00:53:24.720 |
And then it switched to like the other team got control of it. 00:53:28.160 |
And this is very traumatic if you're someone who was hanging out in this clubhouse. 00:53:32.800 |
But for the rest of the country, I don't think it mattered much. 00:53:35.980 |
But it did like, it set the agenda for what elites wrote about, what other elites talked 00:53:41.720 |
Elite politicians would look at what was happening on here and this would set their agenda about 00:53:44.320 |
how they thought about things or how they were reacting to things. 00:53:47.420 |
And so it mattered to this small group of people, but I don't think it matters to most 00:53:52.080 |
I actually, and I've said this from the beginning, I think it was good for our culture writ large 00:53:59.960 |
that Elon Musk bought and semi broke this platform because it reduces its influence 00:54:13.200 |
If it's more nakedly like this team has it, this team doesn't like it. 00:54:17.280 |
Its impact on how a politician thinks about what matters, doesn't matter, goes down. 00:54:21.340 |
Its impact on how a journalist thinks about what am I going to write about or not write 00:54:26.280 |
Its impact on an academic trying to think about what they want to say or not say or 00:54:32.360 |
And that's for the good because it's entirely non-representative. 00:54:35.440 |
It doesn't represent any sort of coherent understanding of the world. 00:54:39.960 |
It's status seeking elites from different sides all fighting with each other. 00:54:42.920 |
So I think the more Twitter X broke, the better for our culture writ large. 00:54:48.680 |
I think Twitter capture of cultural elite conversations was a real problem. 00:54:52.620 |
It's not a major platform, but it was punching way above its weight class. 00:54:57.720 |
So yes, I think for the people who used to be really powerful on that platform who are 00:55:00.800 |
no longer are really worried that someone they doesn't like is powerful on that platform. 00:55:03.880 |
But I think the bigger picture is most people don't care who has a lot of users on that 00:55:10.020 |
Most people have real jobs and kids to take care of and aren't going to look at memes 00:55:16.040 |
that Elon Musk is posting that he had his grok AI produce. 00:55:21.320 |
I'm working on an article right now, Jesse, that's requiring me to go deep on a few social 00:55:28.240 |
platforms I'd never use and actually use them for a little bit. 00:55:37.360 |
I think, yes, to that reporter, it seemed if this is your whole world, it's like, yeah, 00:55:43.380 |
But I'm like, great, break it, rip the rope ladder off the metaphorical clubhouse so people 00:55:49.560 |
stop paying so much attention to it because I don't think it's good. 00:55:53.880 |
I don't think it's good for our politics, not good for media, it's not good for anything. 00:55:56.960 |
The elites stop hanging out among each other and creating these sort of interior super 00:56:02.160 |
bubble meme filled worlds and giving it so much significance. 00:56:06.560 |
Because I guess if you do a little bit of math, 33 billion with 3,870 posts would be 00:56:12.760 |
about 8.5 million views per post, which I guess if you compare it to 335 million people 00:56:20.440 |
in the U.S., it's only like it's less than 3%. 00:56:28.080 |
Yes, his influence graph looks big because he sort of set it up so that everyone who 00:56:33.200 |
has a Twitter timeline just sees his latest thing. 00:56:37.640 |
Yeah, I've written about this for New Yorker a bunch of times, and I've written this article 00:56:46.600 |
Like, look at my article, "We Don't Need a New Twitter," for example. 00:56:54.440 |
It's not as important as the people who think it's important think it is. 00:57:01.880 |
So early on, there was this accusation of like, look, when Musk took this over and started 00:57:06.480 |
firing all these people, the platform itself technically was going to fall apart. 00:57:10.240 |
And I'd be like, that would be great, from my perspective as a cultural critic, because 00:57:14.720 |
this is not a useful contribution to our culture. 00:57:16.640 |
The problem is Elon Musk is good at running tech companies. 00:57:19.440 |
He fired a ton of people, brought in some 10xers, drastically cut down the expenses 00:57:31.460 |
He's too good at running companies to accidentally break it. 00:57:34.660 |
But now it's just become like a smaller playhouse. 00:57:37.760 |
It's just there's these two sides we're fighting on there. 00:57:40.720 |
Now it's like mainly just this side, and you know, I don't think it's culturally important. 00:57:49.640 |
Many fans have reached out asking me for an update on your Remarkable. 00:57:55.080 |
If so, has anything changed since your last update? 00:58:02.760 |
I use that and single purpose notebooks, small field notes that I use for very specific single 00:58:08.200 |
purpose uses, which I've talked about before on the show. 00:58:11.760 |
I either have my single purpose notebooks I can fit in my pocket, and then I have my 00:58:16.880 |
I don't have any other full size notebooks I use. 00:58:22.960 |
I cracked the screen a little bit, but it's in the corner. 00:58:26.880 |
I was actually, the doctor's appointment today, I had a surgery and I was seeing the surgeon 00:58:33.720 |
And you know, when you see a surgeon, you get six minutes max. 00:58:39.400 |
Three of those six minutes was him just wanting to know about my Remarkable. 00:58:47.520 |
In fact, so Remarkable users know you can create as many notebooks as you want within 00:58:52.720 |
And I was even seeing, actually I didn't bring it with me here. 00:58:55.320 |
You can have as many notebooks as you want within it, but there's also something called 00:58:57.960 |
Quick Sheets, which is just like a generic notebook where you can just jot down notes. 00:59:01.640 |
So like for something like a surgeon's appointment, I just opened up a Quick Sheet and Dr. Blah 00:59:07.720 |
Blah Blah, this date, took notes on what he said, because like I need to capture this 00:59:10.560 |
information just temporarily so I don't forget it, but I don't need like a whole notebook 00:59:16.440 |
Like this is, I got some information before the surgery, I got some information here and 00:59:19.720 |
let me just jot it down so I don't forget it. 00:59:21.500 |
But for other things, I, you know, I have full, I have full notebooks. 00:59:24.920 |
And there's probably now 30 notebooks on there. 00:59:29.320 |
I use it for, certainly all of my, all of my sort of work I've been doing on my new 00:59:36.120 |
quarterly plan, which we're going to talk about in the final segment. 00:59:38.360 |
I've been working a lot of that out within the Remarkable. 00:59:42.000 |
I teach, I run a robotics club at my kid's school and that's where I keep track of. 00:59:46.480 |
I have a notebook for that, where this is just like in the weeds. 00:59:52.720 |
Who like, here's the bracket for the competition, the robot competition. 00:59:58.240 |
So just, you know, I'm just using it straight up for that. 01:00:01.320 |
When I'm working on a particular article, I might have a article notebook where I'm, 01:00:07.800 |
I continue to think it's a great application. 01:00:10.080 |
They've made a couple updates to the software I like. 01:00:12.400 |
I think notably now, you know, you have to select what type of pen or pencil you're using. 01:00:19.240 |
Like, you have a stylus, but you select like how thick you want the line to be and whether 01:00:23.480 |
you want it to be a pencil line or a pen line or a highlighter. 01:00:26.600 |
They added a second pencil or like selector next to it, so you could have two different 01:00:31.640 |
things selected that you use commonly and just sort of tap on which one you want to 01:00:39.200 |
Let me tell you the thing I paid for that I've never used or have barely used. 01:00:43.240 |
I got the fancy case that has a built-in keyboard, so I can open it up, turn it around, and I 01:00:59.760 |
It's like weird where you can type and it's hard to edit, and I just don't use that. 01:01:03.480 |
So if you're thinking about getting a Remarkable, it's very expensive, but don't make it even 01:01:07.920 |
more expensive by getting the keyboard case for now. 01:01:13.520 |
Do you ever check the notebooks on another computer? 01:01:20.720 |
So I have the app on my laptop, and whenever I'm on Wi-Fi that the Remarkable knows about, 01:01:32.360 |
And then if I go over to that app, it just has all the notebooks replicated in there. 01:01:38.240 |
So I can, if I needed to, I don't use this very often, but I just like knowing it's there. 01:01:42.880 |
And I actually have, where I've used it before is I've printed stuff before, or I'd be like, 01:01:46.800 |
you know what, I want to print this, these notes I took. 01:01:50.880 |
You go to the app, you go to the notebook, you navigate over to the page and you can 01:01:59.200 |
So this one's our corner, Slow Productivity Corner. 01:02:04.280 |
All right, so this is your Slow Productivity Corner question. 01:02:13.640 |
For people who don't know, we have one question every week. 01:02:16.640 |
That's relevant to my new book, Slow Productivity, The Lost Art of Burnout, The Lost Art of Accomplishment 01:02:22.200 |
That'd be a different book, The Lost Art of Burnout. 01:02:28.000 |
Be a professor and a podcaster and a magazine journalist and a writer and on a couple boards 01:02:36.180 |
That's how you burn out and get surgery in the middle of all that. 01:02:40.240 |
What's your Slow Productivity Corner question? 01:02:42.840 |
What's your postmortem analysis of slow productivity? 01:02:46.240 |
Please consider the actual writing, marketing, and sales. 01:02:49.240 |
Are there clear things you'll do differently for your deep life book? 01:02:52.800 |
Look, I think the whole project was worth it just for that theme music. 01:02:58.160 |
It's given us an excuse to play the Slow Productivity Corner music. 01:03:02.400 |
It's been an interesting ride with slow productivity. 01:03:12.360 |
It opened up really well because I'm relatively well known right now. 01:03:20.480 |
If I have a book coming out, I can do major appearances surrounding it. 01:03:25.640 |
I did Andrew Huberman's show on the day the book came out. 01:03:35.800 |
So the book came out stronger than any book I've ever written before, which makes sense 01:03:39.080 |
given my growing audience size and reputation. 01:03:43.080 |
Debuted as number two on the New York Times bestseller list, which was sort of good news, 01:03:47.560 |
It could almost be better because you weren't so close to number one. 01:03:51.320 |
I was thwarted by James Clear having a big bulk order for Atomic Habits that week. 01:03:56.800 |
It made the UK bestseller list for the first time. 01:03:58.880 |
It made the indie bestseller list for the first time. 01:04:00.720 |
The book is actually doing very well in the UK, which has been interesting to see. 01:04:09.360 |
It's been at probably a faster selling trajectory than any past books. 01:04:14.000 |
I keep convincing myself like, "Well, that's about to stop, and now it's going to fall 01:04:18.760 |
off and fall well below other books," but I think it's doing well. 01:04:23.240 |
It got into six-figure sales as quick as any book that I have done before, which is great, 01:04:31.600 |
which means now of my eight books, there's only two of my eight books that have not made 01:04:36.400 |
it comfortably into six-figure book sales, so that I'm proud of. 01:04:41.760 |
The downside was the initial reaction to the book. 01:04:46.720 |
When it first came out, there was some negative reaction from traditional elite media. 01:04:53.420 |
As I've talked about on the show, it makes sense because I had become in this weird in-between 01:05:02.160 |
I like to write stuff that has practical advice, but I also think about things in a way that 01:05:07.760 |
you might have in a more traditional cultural commentary, more sophisticated type nonfiction. 01:05:13.720 |
I think there's a group of just sort of the standard media that my name came to their 01:05:18.080 |
attention doing much more traditional nonfiction journalism stuff like during the pandemic. 01:05:25.760 |
I spent a lot of time on NPR, for example, as a sort of resident expert on remote work 01:05:30.440 |
and knowledge work, the technology of knowledge work and knowledge work in this sort of remote 01:05:37.040 |
People came to know my New Yorker work, my New Yorker journalism on technology. 01:05:41.800 |
I got some book reviews early on from reviewers who would never review a book like Slow Productivity. 01:05:48.340 |
I've never read a book that has advice in it. 01:05:50.920 |
The New York Times, it was their main literary nonfiction book reviewers. 01:05:54.080 |
I'll review this, and they were like, "What the hell is this? 01:06:02.240 |
Pearls being clutched, people swooning on fainting chairs. 01:06:05.720 |
They had just never seen a book like this before. 01:06:09.240 |
If a book like this typically was going to get reviewed at something like the Times, 01:06:12.880 |
typically you would shop it out to someone from that field. 01:06:17.600 |
We'll have a freelancer, like someone who writes about business, review it." 01:06:21.040 |
It's like when Adam Grant gets a book reviewed in the New York Times Book Review, they'll 01:06:25.600 |
But no, it was like the literary book reviewer who was like, "What the hell is this? 01:06:37.360 |
Big publications that were more used to the world of business and business advice, like 01:06:41.960 |
the Financial Times, for example, in the UK, the Wall Street Journal here in the US, were 01:06:49.880 |
But I was thrown by the New York Times and the Times of London putting their literary 01:06:52.880 |
book reviewers on it and being like, "This is crazy that someone's giving advice. 01:07:00.000 |
It's this, "What if the book was—what if the writing is just—what if it's bad? 01:07:04.580 |
So I sort of stopped following coverage of it, stopped following sales. 01:07:08.440 |
Then the end of the year came, and it was all—everything switched, because at the 01:07:12.920 |
end of the year, it's when book awards are given out. 01:07:15.520 |
It's when best books of the year lists are given out. 01:07:18.000 |
The book did better on those than anything I've ever written before. 01:07:21.800 |
People are talking about it and passing it along, and this best book of the year, best 01:07:25.520 |
book of the year here and there, and business book awards, multiple different selections 01:07:34.040 |
So I waited until the end of the year to get that. 01:07:39.640 |
I think it is having a cultural impact, which is what I wanted it to have, and I'm continuing 01:07:46.800 |
to draw from it on this podcast because there are so many good ideas in it. 01:07:50.640 |
The new book I'm working on, The Deep Life, it's similar. 01:07:55.520 |
I see The Deep Life as sort of a one—it's not a one-off book, but it's a step out of 01:08:01.240 |
the main trajectory of my books, which is all technology and its impact in one way or 01:08:08.000 |
Slow productivity is about knowledge work broke because of computers and networks and 01:08:15.600 |
The Deep Life is about how do you—it's a pandemic idea. 01:08:20.560 |
The whole premise of that book is we spend so much time talking about what should be 01:08:27.280 |
We don't talk nearly enough about the mechanics of how one actually changes their life. 01:08:31.320 |
We don't give that nearly enough attention, the mechanics of figuring out what to do, 01:08:36.400 |
making the changes, making the changes stick. 01:08:38.680 |
That's what we ignore, and instead we focus on what your life should have. 01:08:44.240 |
It should have whatever, but not how do you actually change your life. 01:08:47.240 |
How does that happen in our current world of high-technology work with the opportunities 01:08:53.040 |
This book is a little bit of a step out of the main trajectory, and I'm just leaning 01:08:59.360 |
The chapters have numbered sections, and it's really—I'm writing this book for my gut. 01:09:12.960 |
It really is really unfiltered, purified, like the way I talk on this podcast, I guess. 01:09:19.920 |
I feel good about it, but it's its own thing. 01:09:22.760 |
It's not carefully crafted, like we have to have this very special—a lot of these books 01:09:27.340 |
Everything has to start with a story, and then the story has to have ideas extracted 01:09:34.680 |
It's sections, and some sections are smaller than others. 01:09:40.760 |
I only want super-solid ideas that I think are interesting. 01:09:47.800 |
I'm really enjoying writing it, and I'm sort of just saying, "I don't know what you're 01:09:59.600 |
I'm just really enjoying it, and it'll do what it's going to do, but I'm going to be 01:10:03.200 |
happy that it exists out there in the world, so I'm having fun with it. 01:10:06.720 |
That's a lot of things to say, Jesse, but I have a lot I've been thinking about with 01:10:20.740 |
Some feedback that it's good, so I think all that's positive. 01:10:26.380 |
The deep life right now is broken into two parts, each part around a big idea connected 01:10:32.680 |
to our general theme here, which is the mechanics of how you actually transform your life to 01:10:38.720 |
Part one right now is tentatively called preparation. 01:10:41.640 |
The big idea there is that we think too much about—we want to jump right into making 01:10:47.000 |
big changes in our life, but if you don't have your act together—we talked about this 01:10:50.680 |
on the show, but if you don't have your act together first, you're unlikely to succeed 01:10:56.120 |
The whole first part of the book, preparation, is how do you get your act together to the 01:11:02.200 |
point where making really cool, intentional changes to your life is going to be likely 01:11:11.280 |
It's where I talk about reclaiming your mind, so it's like in the weeds. 01:11:14.680 |
Part two, transformation, is about the mechanics of how you actually reliably figure out the 01:11:19.440 |
changes you want to make and successfully execute them. 01:11:22.000 |
They're the big ideas, lifestyle-centric planning. 01:11:24.480 |
Most people, when they think about trying to overhaul their life, they fixate on a singular 01:11:30.480 |
If I can just succeed with this big, bold, singular goal I like to talk about and tell 01:11:33.680 |
friends about, everything in my life will be better. 01:11:38.100 |
It's much better to establish a rich vision of an ideal lifestyle and then work backwards 01:11:42.500 |
from that to figure out, with your current opportunities and obstacles, how do I move 01:11:46.600 |
It becomes much more strategic and tactical and in the weeds, and you're much more likely 01:11:50.940 |
It really gets into those ideas and step-by-step, how you actually do those things. 01:11:59.400 |
Even if you just read part one, it's just my guide to being an eminently capable human. 01:12:06.920 |
You're going to build up your capacity for discipline. 01:12:13.040 |
My latest thinking on what matters and doesn't matter in personal productivity, this is the 01:12:23.080 |
Not just not being a slave to devices, like I talk about it, but how to actually actively 01:12:30.120 |
The ability to sit there with a book, to self-reflect. 01:12:32.840 |
You come out of part one just like you're in control of your life. 01:12:38.360 |
Part two is like, let's take that out for a spin and now start figuring out how to transform 01:12:47.120 |
When you take your time as a writer in nonfiction, what you get is density. 01:12:53.520 |
I really thought about this chapter, and I really thought about this section in this 01:12:57.600 |
chapter, and I thought about it for a while, and I wrote it, and I rewrote it, and what's 01:13:00.200 |
there is exactly what I want to say and nothing else. 01:13:03.860 |
You get this real density of arguments, and justifications, and stories, and evidence, 01:13:09.200 |
because if you just take the book one section at a time, and I just want to make this section 01:13:16.400 |
In the end, the book is very dense, and you don't have that. 01:13:18.600 |
You want to avoid that sensation you get when books are written quicker of they're kind 01:13:24.220 |
I just want to try to finish this chapter to get my word count up for the month. 01:13:29.800 |
The people I'm talking to, the things I'm reading, and I have no consistency to stories. 01:13:35.520 |
I had a particular thing I wanted to do, which was stories of traditional knowledge workers 01:13:41.240 |
Here there's like stories, but some things are not stories. 01:13:47.040 |
It's an event that happened in the world of ideas. 01:13:49.720 |
It's something that happened in the – there's no set story format. 01:13:53.800 |
It's just like what gets me to what I want to say here? 01:13:59.520 |
So some of it is like I'm talking to really interesting people, but I'm also coming up 01:14:03.680 |
with like here's like a really interesting history of how this thing changed. 01:14:06.800 |
The reception of this book teaches us like an important lesson about this. 01:14:10.280 |
Here's this thing from – I'm all over the place with this, and I think it's – I don't 01:14:16.960 |
The key question is what I'm going to do next, Jesse. 01:14:22.640 |
I'm wondering what the book cover is going to be for Deep Life too. 01:14:25.600 |
I like the full bleed image concept that came up with Slow Productivity. 01:14:32.140 |
I told my publisher, I said, "I just think we need to break out of the visual vocabulary 01:14:37.220 |
that these idea books and business books are all in," which was vocabulary invented by 01:14:50.920 |
I want my cover to induce in the reader a physiological state that is congruent with 01:14:59.680 |
Full bleed, aspirational, relaxing imagery, that I think was useful for the book and opened 01:15:05.880 |
it up to audiences that would not pick up that book if it was a turtle at the computer 01:15:10.840 |
screen in the middle or a single matte stick with a weird color flame and big teleport 01:15:17.960 |
So I'm sure I'm going to probably pitch something like that for this book too, The 01:15:25.600 |
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All right, Jesse, let's move on to our final segment. 01:20:41.000 |
All right, so if I have this right, and tell me if I have this right, Jesse, you want me 01:20:44.960 |
to talk about how I've updated my quarterly plan format and what is on my quarterly plan 01:20:52.000 |
for the quarter that's going to begin here in the new year. 01:20:55.040 |
Yeah, you mentioned in last week's episode about how you were making some changes to 01:21:02.960 |
Okay, so, well, I have, and a lot of this reflection has come out of writing my book, 01:21:08.000 |
The Deep Life, because I'm thinking about generalizing advice around this type of thing 01:21:14.160 |
and when I was thinking about it, I was realizing some changes that might be beneficial. 01:21:19.480 |
So as you know, I like to keep the big picture plan, the anchor plan of my multiscale planning, 01:21:27.840 |
So business people call these quarterly plans because they think about quarters. 01:21:33.080 |
So my sort of winter/spring plan is what I'm working on now, and this will kind of kick 01:21:40.920 |
I used to have two of these for each semester, one for my personal life, one for my professional 01:21:47.540 |
The change I mentioned in the last episode is I've consolidated them. 01:21:51.300 |
It makes more sense to have just one plan because, I don't know, these are all mixed 01:21:55.680 |
together to me, my life and my work, and these things mixed together in such a way that I 01:22:00.040 |
wanted to deal with the whole thing holistically. 01:22:02.520 |
What had held me back from doing that before is that in my professional quarterly plan, 01:22:08.120 |
I would sometimes get pretty detailed notes, especially if it's working through with writing 01:22:14.880 |
It might be pretty detailed notes about, we're going to work on this sequence of articles 01:22:19.080 |
and interleave with these articles, research for this book chapter here. 01:22:23.040 |
And actually, these bigger picture notes for the next months could get pretty complicated, 01:22:27.760 |
and so that's why I had my professional plan in a separate document. 01:22:30.680 |
I realized I could just put those specific notes in a separate document and link to it 01:22:37.580 |
So when I talk about craft in my singular semester plan, I can just link to a separate 01:22:45.240 |
document that says, OK, for this thing I'm working on really heavily this semester, over 01:22:49.620 |
here I'm getting to the weeds about how I want to sequence that. 01:22:53.120 |
So once I figured that out, I was like, great, I can have one document that I actually review. 01:22:57.240 |
I've been experimenting with the structure of this document as well, and what I've been 01:23:03.360 |
working with for the plan that's about to go live is, and this comes from my thinking 01:23:09.220 |
from the new book, is a foundation pillar approach. 01:23:12.280 |
So you have a foundation on which you have a few pillars. 01:23:17.840 |
These are what we would have used to call buckets. 01:23:20.960 |
The pillars are capturing important parts of your life, what you're trying to achieve 01:23:24.960 |
there in the long term and in the current planning semester or quarter, and the foundation 01:23:33.300 |
So right now in the plan I'm working on, I've simplified this thumb, because this has gotten 01:23:39.440 |
The foundation typically is something that's going to be some mix of spiritual, philosophical, 01:23:46.780 |
It's working on your base, your code, and base operating system, if you want to use 01:23:50.820 |
sort of nerdy terminology, that helps you figure out how you just go about your life 01:23:56.260 |
day to day, like your code, how you actually operate. 01:24:00.180 |
That's what you use to navigate hard things that are going to happen in your plan for 01:24:03.860 |
doing that, and it influences the pillars you build on top of it, like what those pillars 01:24:10.220 |
So I've increasingly come to believe you need this sort of philosophical, spiritual, ethical 01:24:13.940 |
foundation that's like your OS for life, for navigating life, and you need to keep working 01:24:20.940 |
on that and evolving that, and that has to be clearly specified. 01:24:26.860 |
Right now, there's four pillars in particular that I'm focusing on. 01:24:30.900 |
One that is what are called constitution in our classic bucket language, but this is your 01:24:39.140 |
I've mentioned often on the show I've had to have a surgery recently. 01:24:41.880 |
This has sort of really knocked me off my physical game. 01:24:44.980 |
Recovery has been what it's been, but as part of this, you get lots of tests and blood tests, 01:24:50.060 |
and it's sort of kicking off for me like my middle age renewed focus in health and fitness 01:24:57.380 |
You get to a certain age, and now health and fitness become less about wouldn't it be great 01:25:02.340 |
to be good at this sport and more about I don't want to bypass. 01:25:09.420 |
There's then a leadership pillar, being a leader in my family, being a leader among 01:25:13.540 |
sort of like friend circles, and being a leader in the community in which I'm a part of. 01:25:16.700 |
This has become a bigger focus for me as I get older as well. 01:25:21.060 |
How to be a good father, how to be a good friend, how to be a leader within, I'm more 01:25:25.500 |
leadership positions in my life now in various communities I'm involved in. 01:25:33.300 |
I guess I'll call celebration, they used the old bucket terminology, but basically a pillar 01:25:36.780 |
focused on loving life, so like stuff that you do just because life is cool and it helps 01:25:47.180 |
It's like the maker projects I do, the adventures I go on, my movie hobby of like really getting 01:25:56.220 |
That's like an important pillar for me is, you know, this is it. 01:26:01.260 |
I strive a lot, but I need to be enjoying where I am now. 01:26:07.700 |
And then probably the thickest pillar in terms of complexity is craft, my work, the things 01:26:12.780 |
I build with my hands and my mind and the things I'm known for and where I'm trying 01:26:17.380 |
to go with that craft and what's my goal long term and what am I trying to do in the semester 01:26:24.180 |
So I have foundation and I have those four pillars. 01:26:27.860 |
The method I'm applying for navigating these in the semester ahead is one of rotating focus. 01:26:35.700 |
So choose one of these pillars and make it like a big focus and try to transform that 01:26:44.020 |
The other pillars, like know what you're working on, right? 01:26:47.140 |
Make sure you're not neglecting them, but you're not trying to make major changes in 01:26:51.860 |
And then when you finish overhauling one of those pillars, then you can say, OK, now here's 01:26:57.580 |
This is not something you're necessarily doing all the time. 01:26:59.700 |
But for me, it's a sort of midlife course correction that's been building up over the 01:27:06.060 |
So like I'm starting with that constitution, physical health pillar, that's getting a huge 01:27:11.340 |
amount of my attention and it will probably for the next six months or so. 01:27:15.020 |
I will come out of that transformation with a completely different relationship to physical 01:27:21.340 |
So there's all sorts of stuff happening here in terms of doctors and fitness and trainers 01:27:28.620 |
and the amount of time and the role like exercise and diet and a lot of changes and things are 01:27:37.100 |
I want to come out of this semester having really put a lot of focus on that and my new 01:27:43.180 |
steady state being really different than it was before. 01:27:46.740 |
The other pillars, again, it's like know what you're working on, but don't try to get crazy 01:27:52.860 |
Then I'll choose another one of these pillars. 01:27:54.540 |
Like now I really want to overhaul this part of my life and really think about it and put 01:27:58.020 |
effort and energy into it and really make those changes. 01:28:02.180 |
This might be a year or multi-year process to really get through all of them. 01:28:05.820 |
But this is one way you can tame the complexity of having all these different things that 01:28:10.580 |
And it's overwhelming to think about optimizing all of those at the same time. 01:28:14.060 |
You're just going to collapse under too many changes at once. 01:28:17.580 |
So I've really become more of a fan of, you know, it's important you have your plan that's 01:28:23.340 |
And if you're going to do a major change, only work on one pillar at a time. 01:28:26.680 |
So that is what I'm really kicking off now during my surgery recovery. 01:28:29.900 |
I'm using that, all the stuff you have to do for that anyways, the physical therapy, 01:28:34.680 |
the doctor's test, like use that as the just run with that momentum. 01:28:38.700 |
And let's overhaul the whole thing, which is my way of saying by the time we get to 01:28:43.620 |
the summer, I'm going to be looking like scars guard in the Northman. 01:28:52.060 |
I just want to just, I'm just going to put it out there right now. 01:28:54.020 |
There'll be a lot of like shirtless podcasting as I look like scars with the holiday lights, 01:29:04.420 |
Oh, well, isn't these what's the like, what's shoulders? 01:29:12.020 |
Shoulders, shoulders, shoulder traps, traps, traps is kind of these. 01:29:18.300 |
You know, that's what scars guard did for the movie. 01:29:21.300 |
More people should see, by the way, uh, of two movie recommendations, Northman came out 01:29:26.740 |
So it wasn't widely seen a fantastic director, the director I really like, um, it's a Viking 01:29:32.140 |
saga and Alex, Alexander scars guards, the star of it. 01:29:37.900 |
So it's not done in a completely realistic frame, but it's a realistic treatment of Viking 01:29:45.860 |
But the key thing is Alexander scars guard is my age, the character, they built up his 01:29:53.940 |
Like they didn't want them to look, you can't get a 42 year old to look too crazy. 01:29:58.300 |
They don't want them to be like super inflated with muscles because a Viking wouldn't be. 01:30:03.300 |
He's just like, so anyways, I'm going to be doing trap style. 01:30:06.300 |
The other movie I finally got around the scene, by the way, and I'll recommend Fritz 01:30:13.340 |
One of the, uh, early in the sound movie era, he like innovated the use of sound completely. 01:30:20.660 |
It's also just brilliantly shot in other ways. 01:30:29.820 |
So you can find it Fritz Leng's 1931 German semi-expressionistic classic M it's hard to, 01:30:38.900 |
If you search for M it doesn't know what to do with that. 01:30:44.500 |
I actually ended up typing in Fritz Leng into the search bar and HBO max, and then it started 01:30:52.780 |
Same thing when I use the Apple TV search over all of the different streaming services. 01:30:56.460 |
If you just give it the letter M it's like, no, you're clearly trying to write out a word 01:31:01.540 |
that starts with M it's like, what are the most popular movies that start with M it'll 01:31:09.940 |
I've simplified these four pillars, a reasonable plan for each, but one that I'm going all 01:31:15.100 |
in on trying to overhaul and it's getting a lot of my attention. 01:31:18.020 |
So just started going, um, and the other pillars, I'm still doing stuff. 01:31:21.220 |
It's just like taking the foot off the accelerator, like have a reasonable steady state. 01:31:25.500 |
This thing is important to me and I'm working on it and being intentional about it. 01:31:30.660 |
But the big changes are happening in this one pillar. 01:31:32.500 |
Then I'll move to the next pillar and having that foundation all the way, um, that you 01:31:36.500 |
can keep falling back on, even if the pillar is faltered, that is what guides you day to 01:31:48.660 |
And uh, that's my plan for my traps, which I think is what's most important here. 01:31:58.460 |
You learned everything you were wondering about. 01:32:02.860 |
Uh, can we do like 30 minutes on the Washington nationals off season to date? 01:32:06.940 |
Is that because I'm getting worried, I'm getting worried about the lack of significant action. 01:32:12.740 |
I am hoping that Bellinger going to the Yankees clears Christian Walker to make his way to 01:32:17.820 |
the Nats, but I'm worried there's not going to be a major acquisition. 01:32:20.740 |
And for this season, I don't know what that would mean for my fandom. 01:32:31.980 |
But until then, enjoy your holidays as vacation for most people, hopefully you're hearing 01:32:37.620 |
A lot of people miss it, but you know, if you're listening, you should check out our 01:32:39.860 |
outfits online because I think they're pretty sharp and otherwise we'll be back New Year's 01:32:49.540 |
Hey, if you enjoyed watching today's holiday episode and are in the mindset of relaxing, 01:32:55.860 |
check out episode 326, which is called Time to Unplug. 01:33:02.700 |
The title of this piece is After You Vote, Unplug.