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Today, as I record this show, it is the Friday before Christmas 2018. 00:00:42.360 |
Specifically, it is Friday, December 1, 2018. 00:00:46.840 |
It's 2.20 p.m. as I begin recording this show, in case you need a time stamp. 00:00:56.120 |
As we close out this week, I didn't quite know what I wanted to say to you. 00:01:00.160 |
I knew I wanted to record a show, and I had a bunch of topics. 00:01:02.760 |
I've got all kinds of topics going, series going. 00:01:09.720 |
I have shows already recorded that I could release to you, and yet it didn't feel right, 00:01:16.640 |
I thought I was going to do a show today on the deficit and do a, of course, very cheery 00:01:20.880 |
end of the year show on the trillion dollar deficit in the United States of America this 00:01:26.160 |
That would be cheery right before the end of the year, but I thought, "This is good. 00:01:33.040 |
I just want to turn on the microphone, just share a few simple thoughts with you to hopefully 00:01:39.280 |
Perhaps you're on an airplane, going to see family. 00:01:42.400 |
Perhaps you're all alone, sitting in your apartment. 00:01:45.620 |
Perhaps you're working at your desk over the weekend, feeling sorry for yourself. 00:01:49.800 |
Perhaps you're driving along with your children, sleeping in the backseat. 00:01:53.400 |
I just thought I wanted to share one simple thought with you. 00:02:02.160 |
The biggest problems that you and I think about sometimes and worry about have never 00:02:25.680 |
And yet, the real problems that you and I face have never been as soluble, as fixable. 00:02:39.240 |
There's never been so much hope, so many opportunities, so many resources available to solve the things 00:02:47.840 |
But in order to experience success in solving those things, we have to turn our attention 00:02:54.460 |
away from the macro problems that we can't solve and we can't affect to the things that 00:03:04.160 |
This concept is well-rooted by and well-talked about, well-preached about by many people. 00:03:11.080 |
Focus on your circle of influence, not on your circle of concern. 00:03:20.760 |
I've long struggled with an addiction to the news. 00:03:25.720 |
Perhaps like you, it's something that I have a hard time figuring out what the right way 00:03:33.000 |
Some people say, well, don't ever pay any attention to it. 00:03:34.600 |
Some people say, well, it's really important. 00:03:37.880 |
But oftentimes I've been sucked in by goings on and things like that. 00:03:41.520 |
But thankfully, over past months, I've been free of those grips. 00:03:48.120 |
I don't, I've stopped reading news on the internet. 00:03:55.240 |
So very little has made it under my rock and it's been great. 00:04:04.280 |
Now I had to be a little hardcore to be freed of all that stuff, but it's been great. 00:04:13.520 |
And so this afternoon when I wasn't quite sure what to do a show on, I just stopped 00:04:18.400 |
for a moment and the place where I'm working right now has a TV. 00:04:21.240 |
So I went and turned on the cable news and it was just insane to look at the news of 00:04:29.320 |
the day again, Friday before Christmas and talking about war in Syria and secretary of 00:04:36.560 |
defense, James Mattis resigning and government shutdown and people arguing and flipped around 00:04:48.600 |
And of course I had prepared this show outline for today to talk about trillion dollar deficits 00:04:53.760 |
And I thought, why don't we actually talk about this instead of, you know, a silly shutdown 00:04:58.360 |
or a border wall or whatever the news du jour is. 00:05:01.360 |
Like, why don't we talk about something that matters, this trillion dollar deficit. 00:05:04.160 |
This is unprecedented, unprecedented for the US government to run a trillion dollar deficit 00:05:11.480 |
in without there being a war or an economic recession or a crisis of any kind, unprecedented. 00:05:20.600 |
And yet we're going to argue about other things. 00:05:26.440 |
Now I understand that that's more important to me because of finances. 00:05:28.960 |
I'm not saying other things aren't important, but there's the important stuff is, it's just 00:05:35.000 |
And I, anyway, I shut it off and I just, it made me depressed. 00:05:38.240 |
And I thought, how do you, how do you get through this? 00:05:51.800 |
The paradox is this, in some ways, things have never been worse. 00:06:04.480 |
Example, I'm very concerned about much erosion of liberty and freedom, very concerning to 00:06:14.360 |
So in some ways, things have never been worse. 00:06:17.760 |
But on the other hand, in the history of mankind, it has never been easier for you and I to 00:06:26.360 |
What a paradox where there's simultaneously good and bad extremes. 00:06:35.880 |
In some ways, things have never been tougher. 00:06:42.920 |
And yet in some ways, things have never been better. 00:06:46.160 |
There's never been less poverty than there is right now. 00:06:53.860 |
In some ways, you have never been more powerless than you are today. 00:07:04.600 |
It's never mattered less whether you opened your mouth and said something. 00:07:08.920 |
There's never mattered less if you cast a vote at a ballot box. 00:07:13.120 |
And yet in other ways, an individual human has never had more individual power than you 00:07:31.320 |
And yet what keeps us from making progress in those things that we can control is worry 00:07:39.360 |
The big problems have never been bigger than they are now, never been more insoluble than 00:07:48.080 |
And yet you and I have tremendous power to fix the problems in our life. 00:07:57.320 |
I want to be a source of encouragement, of insight, of education, just like I tell you 00:08:05.120 |
But I want to focus on things that you can do. 00:08:07.000 |
It doesn't mean I want to stay away from big picture things. 00:08:11.720 |
You need to be aware of the problems, but I want to always focus on things that are 00:08:15.360 |
within reach because there's so much that's within reach that will make a big difference 00:08:31.200 |
There's a story that has always struck me and for context, there are a number of trends 00:08:37.280 |
that I watch carefully that I'm very concerned about. 00:08:40.360 |
And one of the trends that really concerns me is the trend towards suicide in the United 00:08:47.960 |
It's an epidemic and it's a tough one because of course, as with any difficult thing, there 00:08:59.520 |
I was just thinking about suicide and preparing. 00:09:03.400 |
I want to do this show for you, kind of the state of America, the things I've learned 00:09:07.480 |
from traveling around the country for the last five or six months. 00:09:11.280 |
And suicide is, of course, there are many factors involved, right? 00:09:18.200 |
It's complex and yet in some ways it's simple. 00:09:24.560 |
I guess two stories, but there was a famous story about a suicide note, about somebody 00:09:32.800 |
And a man wrote, when they went and found the suicide note at home, he wrote this. 00:09:42.200 |
If one person smiles at me on the way, I will not jump." 00:09:52.560 |
But imagine somebody walking to the Golden Gate Bridge, they wrote a note, said, "I'm 00:09:58.840 |
If one person smiles at me on the way, I will not jump." 00:10:17.720 |
There's a man named Kevin Hines who is one of the only, I think, if this is correct, 00:10:23.080 |
anyway, one of only a couple of people who jumped off the Golden Gate Bridge and lived 00:10:29.480 |
And when he tells this story, he jumped off the bridge and he was actually held up by 00:10:35.760 |
a sea lion in the water until he was eventually rescued because he was severely injured. 00:10:41.240 |
But when he tells this story about wanting to commit suicide, he went to the bridge and 00:10:47.040 |
he stood there on the bridge staring at the railing for about 40 minutes or so, trying 00:11:01.320 |
And when he tells the story, he says, "You know, if someone had smiled and stopped and 00:11:06.520 |
All he wanted to do was to beg them for help and tell them what was going on and ask for 00:11:13.680 |
But he didn't feel like he had the courage to just ask for help himself. 00:11:20.200 |
And you know, somebody did come by and ask him for help, but they asked him to take a 00:11:25.120 |
And they just walked away and he thought, "You know, nobody cares about me." 00:11:33.240 |
While he was on his way down, he said, "Wait a second, this is crazy. 00:11:37.840 |
But of course, he was hurtling through the air. 00:11:42.280 |
Today he's a public speaker and he speaks about suicide. 00:11:50.280 |
You think, could a life be saved by something as simple as a smile? 00:12:10.240 |
The suicidal tendency has a far greater grip on somebody's life. 00:12:15.640 |
So solutions are not super simple, but many of them are simple. 00:12:25.880 |
I guess in summary, what I want to say is, in the next year, I want to continue to give 00:12:31.960 |
you the most useful, actionable advice that I can that will help you. 00:12:39.300 |
With the real challenge of building financial freedom in your life. 00:12:43.640 |
And if you'll put that advice into practice, and if I'll put my own advice into practice, 00:12:49.880 |
then I think you can build up a significantly easier path through the problems that we're 00:12:58.600 |
going to face in the next year, the next decade, the next 40, 50 years. 00:13:08.080 |
And there are no easy solutions to the big problems, at least that I can find. 00:13:18.040 |
They probably would have been put in place already. 00:13:34.320 |
So as you go into the Christmas holidays, or you enjoy the time for the new year, don't 00:13:40.520 |
miss the opportunities that are in front of you to smile at somebody, to give somebody 00:13:48.120 |
a hug, to love somebody, to encourage somebody. 00:13:52.440 |
Don't miss the opportunities that are in front of you to pay off your debts, or pay off the 00:14:01.000 |
Clean up your own mess, fix your income, cut your expenses. 00:14:05.700 |
Don't miss the opportunities that are in front of you to invest wisely, avoid catastrophe, 00:14:25.120 |
Don't miss the fact that you can reach out to your neighbor, you can reach out to your 00:14:32.560 |
You can build community where you live so that as the community across the United States 00:14:38.080 |
continues to fracture, segment, balkanize, continues to be torn asunder, your own community 00:14:54.500 |
Take action on those, and then as the big problems develop, I think you can be well 00:15:07.960 |
As I considered the emotions of this afternoon, just the things I was thinking about, I often 00:15:16.440 |
The song that came to me was the song called "Just One Voice." 00:15:21.520 |
The lyrics say, "Just one voice, singing in the darkness. 00:15:26.080 |
All it takes is one voice, singing so they hear what's on your mind. 00:15:30.240 |
When you look around, you'll find there's more than one voice. 00:15:34.160 |
Singing in the darkness, joining with your one voice. 00:15:37.640 |
Each and every note another octave, hands are joined and fear is unlocked. 00:15:41.800 |
If only one voice would start it on its own, we need just one voice facing the unknown. 00:15:51.440 |
I was thinking about that song and I was reflecting on Christmas and it's a very important holiday 00:16:02.780 |
For many reasons, it's especially an important holiday for Christians. 00:16:06.960 |
And I just was thinking about that song and I was thinking about it in light of the Christian 00:16:13.400 |
If you ever think about the story of Christianity, it's one of the most improbable stories of 00:16:23.160 |
It's vanishingly improbable what the world looks like today. 00:16:31.440 |
If you were to go back about 4,000 years and you were to look at a group of people who 00:16:39.040 |
come from one relatively small family, a man named Abraham, who had a son named Isaac, 00:16:50.280 |
who had a son named Jacob, who married two women and had 12 sons, one of whom was sold 00:16:59.480 |
as a slave because his brothers didn't like him. 00:17:07.520 |
He became a servant and then he was accused of sexual assault, falsely accused of sexual 00:17:13.200 |
He was in prison, what was it, 12 years, something like that, 12 years. 00:17:19.760 |
And then the pharaoh of Egypt has a dream in the night that really bothers him, two 00:17:27.360 |
dreams about some fat cows and some skinny cows and a dream about, what was it, the wheat 00:17:39.960 |
But he has a dream in the night and nobody can interpret his dreams for him. 00:17:46.080 |
So then a dude who had his dreams previously interpreted for him says, "Hey, guess what? 00:17:52.840 |
I knew this guy in prison who interpreted one of my dreams when the cupbearer and I 00:17:57.960 |
were there and both of the interpretations, the interpretation for the cupbearer and the 00:18:03.160 |
interpretation for the steward, both of those interpretations are right. 00:18:06.080 |
We're dealing with weird stuff, dreams, interpretations." 00:18:09.200 |
So then Pharaoh goes down, sends for this dude in the prison, brings him out, tells 00:18:13.280 |
him the dream and the dude interprets the dream. 00:18:17.200 |
Pharaoh takes this guy and makes him second in command over all of Egypt, thus saving 00:18:25.720 |
the Egyptian people from a time of seven years of starvation. 00:18:31.200 |
And then this dude, his family shows up and he goes and gets his family and brings them 00:18:41.640 |
Now at this point in time, the people start to grow. 00:18:46.960 |
And I don't know about you, but one of the things that we often have a hard time understanding 00:18:51.160 |
is what that ancient Egyptian culture was like. 00:18:56.800 |
When I went to Egypt years ago, it totally rocked my world. 00:19:00.680 |
We have this modern concept that there were primitive civilizations in the past. 00:19:10.440 |
And this is based upon the evolutionary mind frame that basically controls almost all historical 00:19:15.240 |
interpretation in today's world, that the people of old days were primitive and today 00:19:20.640 |
Well certainly, that's true in some cases, but it's not true in all cases. 00:19:24.640 |
And we have this concept that past civilizations were just primitive, living in the cave after 00:19:32.440 |
And we don't have any context of how incredibly sophisticated many past civilizations were. 00:19:38.800 |
If you want to be disabused of that idea of primitivism, go to Egypt, stand in the temples, 00:19:47.400 |
Anyway, so here's this guy, Joseph, and then you have a time where these people, all his 00:19:56.520 |
siblings are protected and raised up for a while, and then they become slaves for what 00:20:05.360 |
So for 400 years, the descendants of Jacob and Abraham and Isaac, they're slaves, they're 00:20:16.600 |
And for 400 years, God says nothing, God does nothing, God is completely silent. 00:20:24.560 |
Until all of a sudden, this guy named Moses comes along, who as a baby was going to be 00:20:36.160 |
And so he comes along and he leads the people, this weak people, out of slavery without fighting. 00:20:48.640 |
And they go from poverty to wealth because the Egyptians are so eager to get rid of them 00:20:55.320 |
that when they're asked them for their gold, the Egyptians give it to them. 00:21:00.520 |
If you study the debate, the historical debate around the Exodus and the archaeological evidence 00:21:07.200 |
for the Exodus and the lack of evidence for the Exodus, really interesting debate. 00:21:12.000 |
But one of the things that is one of the clues that has to be looked into is that particular 00:21:16.240 |
fact that you have a bunch of people that go from slaves to having all kinds of wealth 00:21:21.560 |
because their slave masters were so eager to get rid of them. 00:21:26.760 |
Then you have all of this history from about 1500 BC, you have the growth of the empire, 00:21:31.760 |
you have all the prophets, you have the growth of the Jewish empire, King David about 1000 00:21:38.800 |
Then you start to have all of these prophets, then you have these people then become slaves 00:21:47.120 |
And then fast forward through all the prophets, through all the exile, then you have another 00:21:51.140 |
time when nothing, nothing, God doesn't do anything for 400 years. 00:22:00.880 |
Doesn't speak, doesn't move, there are no recorded miracles. 00:22:06.200 |
Just a group of people who are worshiping a God who is silent. 00:22:18.560 |
And then in one little place, a tiny little country called Israel, there's a boy born 00:22:31.480 |
to a teenage girl and a very ordinary middle class or lower class, I don't know, peasant, 00:22:43.400 |
And you have all of these incredible ideas of angelic visitations coming to Joseph and 00:22:50.400 |
Mary and all of a sudden this guy is born, his name is Jesus. 00:22:55.280 |
And for 30 years the man does nothing out of the ordinary. 00:23:03.160 |
Works in his father's carpentry shop, lives an ordinary life for 30 years. 00:23:13.720 |
And then for about three and a half years, three to four years, something like that, 00:23:18.520 |
goes on a ministry in one small little area and pursues a ministry of exorcism and healings 00:23:28.480 |
Spent the vast majority of his time with 12 men. 00:23:35.840 |
In today's world we would call them boys, teenagers, with 12 teenage guys, perhaps one, 00:23:43.800 |
perhaps Peter was almost 20 or somewhere around 20 or so. 00:23:47.360 |
But he spends three years with 12 teenagers and then dies. 00:23:56.800 |
Is put to death as a criminal on a garbage heap between a thief and a murderer. 00:24:05.760 |
Is put to death under false pretenses because of spouting religious heresy against the government 00:24:20.920 |
Not even his own family believes in him, his blood brothers, his mom. 00:24:30.960 |
And those 12 men who were utterly devastated by the death of the person they thought was 00:24:38.480 |
going to save them from all of the oppression and the slavery that they were under, everything 00:24:51.680 |
So then fast forward to today, you look back over the last two millennia of time and the 00:24:58.000 |
world has been on fire since then over the claims and the life and the existence of that 00:25:14.040 |
You cannot trace the arc of history without reckoning with him. 00:25:23.720 |
And yet can you think of a more improbable event? 00:25:27.480 |
Can you think of a more unlikely circumstance? 00:25:31.400 |
Now there've been a lot of unlikely things that have happened in human history, but for 00:25:35.160 |
the entire world to be set on fire over the life, the birth, the death, the resurrection 00:25:52.760 |
And today the debates rage, the scholarship rages, the wars rage, the violence rages, 00:26:00.240 |
the love goes and rages, peace, war, everything around the world. 00:26:12.260 |
And then today, of course, Christmas, people remember his birth, one of the most improbable 00:26:17.520 |
events recorded in history due to the circumstances of that birth, all coalescing around something 00:26:29.360 |
that I'm convinced nobody really knew about during his life. 00:26:33.440 |
Today, you know, the circumstances of the birth of Christ are well known and well documented, 00:26:40.240 |
I'm personally persuaded that very few of the disciples knew anything about the circumstances 00:26:50.240 |
Really the only place that all of the circumstances that today are so well known is recorded in 00:26:56.000 |
And the book of Luke, of course, was written by someone who never personally knew Jesus, 00:27:03.520 |
was not one of the 12 disciples, was not even a Jew, but was a Syrian. 00:27:10.880 |
How's that for today with the US troops pulling out of Syria? 00:27:13.840 |
Was a Syrian physician, a Syrian medical doctor who later came and researched all of the details 00:27:23.520 |
surrounding the birth of Jesus, spoke to his mother, spoke to his family members, and then 00:27:31.440 |
recorded all those things and created, as he says, even in the beginning of the book 00:27:35.000 |
of Luke, an orderly history of the account of the life of Christ, which is where today 00:27:42.520 |
I don't think anybody knew about the birth of Jesus during his lifetime in the sense 00:27:50.000 |
of they didn't know about the details that today are so commonly referred to as the Christmas 00:27:55.680 |
Now, of course, we do have some of the information recorded in the book of Matthew, so perhaps 00:28:02.240 |
But regardless, the point is, fast forward 2,000 years and in a few days, the majority 00:28:10.360 |
of the world's population will observe a day, a holiday, recording the birth of one man 00:28:19.200 |
a couple thousand years ago, and that's not even the day that was the actual birth, which 00:28:27.160 |
The most likely day of the actual birth day of Jesus, of course, being late September, 00:28:32.960 |
So to bring that to that, my point in all that, forgive me if I went on too long, the 00:28:40.960 |
Now, of course, I would say not to diminish the deity of Christ, which I would happily 00:28:52.160 |
And if you look back in the story, you could see again and again, one man, one man, one 00:29:02.600 |
And the actions of one person having an effect through human history. 00:29:08.960 |
Now, most of the time, those individual people are never recorded. 00:29:16.160 |
They never show up in a history book, and yet one person can make an impact, can make 00:29:29.480 |
And I think about it a lot at Christmas, just thinking about the impact of one man. 00:29:37.040 |
And at one tiny point in history, one tiny nation out of a tiny, endlessly persecuted 00:29:46.200 |
group of people, and yet look at the world today. 00:29:50.480 |
Now, to be clear, I'm not Jesus and you're not either. 00:29:55.880 |
So I don't want anything to do with that kind of idea. 00:30:08.160 |
This next year, I will work very diligently to give you everything I can to help you make 00:30:16.560 |
And I'll do my best to make an impact where I am. 00:30:18.800 |
I'm not going to worry about the big problems, except to be aware of them and then try to 00:30:22.280 |
help you know what you could do for yourself. 00:30:24.680 |
But if you do that and I do that, and your brother, your sister, your neighbor, your 00:30:30.640 |
dad, your mom, your children do that, in time, things can change. 00:30:36.840 |
Things in the short term never change as much as we want them to, but in the long term, 00:30:41.840 |
things can change far more than we would like. 00:30:52.400 |
I'll be back with you on Monday, January 7th for an exciting new year of Radical Personal 00:31:13.180 |
All it takes is one voice singing so they hear what's on your mind. 00:31:22.720 |
And when you look around, you'll find there's more than one voice singing in the darkness. 00:31:31.600 |
Singing in the darkness, joining with your one voice. 00:31:43.560 |
Each and every note, another octave, hands are joined and fears unlocked. 00:31:49.600 |
If only one voice would start out on its own, we need just one voice. 00:32:00.040 |
Facing the unknown and then that one voice would never be alone. 00:32:43.840 |
It takes that one voice and everyone will see. 00:33:05.920 |
Once I stood in the light with my head bowed low. 00:33:30.720 |
I looked in the darkness as black as could be. 00:35:02.560 |
But I don't know a thing in this whole wide world. 00:36:46.560 |
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