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It's Friday. That means live Q&A. I've got an open phone line with one, two, three, four, 00:00:05.760 |
five, six, seven callers on the line. So today's going to be busy and fast paced. Let's see 00:00:27.920 |
Welcome to Radical Personal Finance, the show dedicated to providing you with the knowledge, 00:00:31.480 |
skills, insight and encouragement you need to live a rich and meaningful life now while 00:00:36.120 |
building a plan for financial freedom in 10 years or less. My name is Joshua Sheets and 00:00:39.760 |
I am your host on Fridays. I do my very best to do a weekly live Q&A. Got a live phone 00:00:44.920 |
line with callers. It's kind of like radio and just recorded a day in advance before 00:00:48.840 |
you hear it. And we've got a diverse array of questions today. I think you'll really 00:01:00.160 |
like it. These Friday Q&A shows for the last few weeks, they were a really good opportunity. 00:01:04.040 |
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get right to it. I've got one, two, three, four, five, six men and one lady. So in my 00:02:15.640 |
world, ladies come first. So Ruha in Alabama, go ahead and let us know your question or 00:02:19.600 |
comment please and let's see how I can serve you today. 00:02:22.160 |
Great. Thanks, Joshua. So we are actually moving into a tiny home. So we're moving 00:02:30.800 |
from Alabama to Louisiana and currently we live in one big home and we also bought some 00:02:38.280 |
land in Alabama to park the tiny home on before deciding we were going to move down to be 00:02:43.640 |
closer to family. So my question is, what should we do with the house and the land? 00:02:52.160 |
The house is currently, if we sell it, it'll be worth about $20,000 less than what we paid 00:02:57.400 |
for it. And that was four years ago when we bought it. And the land, I mean, we can probably 00:03:03.720 |
get exactly what we bought it for, but I'm worried about closing costs and also I don't 00:03:11.400 |
So the land that you own is in Tennessee or Alabama? Which one? I got confused on the 00:03:19.480 |
Okay. But you're moving from the land and the house to other land? 00:03:27.640 |
Why would you not sell it? What reasons would you have for keeping it? 00:03:31.280 |
Well, the land, I don't really have a reason for keeping it. I do definitely want to sell 00:03:40.640 |
the land. I guess my question on that is more along the lines of what are the implications? 00:03:45.240 |
Because I wouldn't sell it if it turns out that buying and selling something back to 00:03:50.480 |
back is detrimental to our taxes for the year. 00:03:54.880 |
Do you think that you have a profit in the land? 00:04:00.520 |
No. Meaning that you said it's worth about what you paid for it, right? So you don't 00:04:07.360 |
And so let's deal with them one at a time with the land. If you say you have no reason 00:04:12.640 |
for keeping it and you want to sell it, then you should just simply sell it. And as far 00:04:17.360 |
as the financial implications of it, the financial implications is just simply going to be how 00:04:23.560 |
much gain or loss will you have from the sale. And it sounds like you're not going to have 00:04:29.440 |
any gain. If it's worth about what you're going to sell it for, you're not going to 00:04:32.400 |
have any gain. And your only potential loss would be any sales costs with the transaction 00:04:37.680 |
costs of actually selling it, commissions and things like that. 00:04:41.440 |
If you don't see any reason to own it, if the land is not particularly valuable to you, 00:04:45.480 |
you don't think that it's going to appreciate measurably in price, then I think the simplest 00:04:49.920 |
and easiest thing to do is just to go ahead and sell it and be free of the hassle, be 00:04:54.800 |
free of the constraint, be free of the lack of minimalism dealing with a property that 00:05:00.360 |
you don't really want to own, and just be free of the headache of it. Even if it loses, 00:05:04.960 |
even if you lose a little bit of money, a negligible amount of money, I would see value 00:05:09.400 |
in just simply having it gone so that my life is more streamlined and more simple, unless 00:05:18.520 |
That approach is relatively simple. And because it's basically a wash, you're not going to 00:05:23.200 |
have any gain or loss in the sale, then there are really almost no tax implications. It's 00:05:28.480 |
just a matter of mentally getting over it. So that one seems simple. Now, the house, 00:05:32.800 |
why would you choose to keep the house? What would be your argument there? 00:05:35.880 |
Well, there's a lot of developments coming closer and closer to where the house is located. 00:05:43.480 |
And my hope is that in a year or two, it's actually going to be worth at least what we 00:05:48.840 |
paid for, if not a little bit more. So my hope there is, I believe we can rent it for 00:05:56.320 |
definitely the cost of the mortgage and some extra to cover any maintenance repairs and 00:06:04.800 |
things like that. So I think we can break even on renting it through a property manager 00:06:12.880 |
And so I just don't have a really strong motivation to sell it because I don't need the capital 00:06:19.800 |
If you sold the property today, what do you think it would sell for? 00:06:26.040 |
About $20,000 less than what we paid for it originally four years ago. 00:06:33.560 |
And you've been living in the house for the last four years, right? 00:06:40.720 |
So if we sold it today, it'd be about $285,000. 00:06:45.160 |
And how much equity do you have in the property? 00:06:52.480 |
Okay. So the way to answer the question, so the scenario that you're describing here is 00:06:59.440 |
I don't want to sell it for less than what I paid for it, which is an appropriate consideration. 00:07:05.080 |
I don't want to sell it for less than I paid for it because you've put investment capital 00:07:12.660 |
The way to answer the question is to calculate what your potential return is from this investment 00:07:19.180 |
and compare it to your potential return from another investment. 00:07:23.300 |
And so if you sold it today, you think it would sell for about $285,000. 00:07:34.660 |
And for the sake of simple radio math, I'm going to use just simply, I'm going to ignore 00:07:40.140 |
the sales costs right now, but you need to redo this analysis later with what you think 00:07:44.820 |
would be the actual transaction costs of the deal. 00:07:48.380 |
But if you sold it today for $285,000 and you paid off the mortgage of $225,000, that 00:07:56.140 |
means that you would clear $60,000 of equity. 00:07:59.020 |
Again, you need to factor in transaction costs, but for radio math, I'm going to just use 00:08:05.420 |
The question is this, the $60,000 of equity that you have in this property, if your estimate 00:08:12.460 |
is accurate, if you think that in the next year, because of the local development costs 00:08:16.900 |
and because of the local changes in the market, if you think that property would increase 00:08:22.860 |
in value by $20,000 such that your $60,000 of capital would increase to $80,000 of capital, 00:08:32.660 |
if you think that's a good investment, then you should consider keeping it. 00:08:36.820 |
If you think you can do better elsewhere, if you think you can redeploy that $60,000 00:08:41.540 |
of capital into something else that's going to do better, then you should consider selling 00:08:47.900 |
Because it's immaterial what you paid for the property versus what it's worth now. 00:08:53.260 |
That's a sunk cost and you can't do anything about it. 00:08:56.020 |
So you've got to clear that from your mind and you've got to think, "Would I rather have 00:09:00.020 |
$60,000 invested in this property in Alabama, in this particular house, or would I rather 00:09:06.980 |
have the $60,000 invested into something else or under some other conditions?" 00:09:12.700 |
That's the question that you have to ask yourself. 00:09:14.860 |
And then as you look at that, you need to also consider what the rental cost would be. 00:09:19.620 |
So if you are just simply renting it out for enough to cover the mortgage and you're not 00:09:24.100 |
going to be gaining any profit, then you're not getting any return on that $60,000. 00:09:31.340 |
But the way to do it is just simply to look exclusively at the equity that you have in 00:09:36.820 |
Consider what you think will happen with that house and then compare it to anything else 00:09:43.220 |
And then out of that analysis, you should be able to make a decision properly. 00:09:53.500 |
Next we are going to go to Guy in Pennsylvania. 00:09:57.100 |
Guy, it's a little bit noisy, so try to be quiet here. 00:10:05.140 |
I've been a listener since you interviewed on the Money Plan SOS podcast a few years 00:10:16.500 |
My question today is in regards to switching to a local advisor. 00:10:22.620 |
This question comes up for me because my younger brother is working with a local advisor 00:10:28.620 |
who frequently contacts him and keeps him updated, asks him questions just to make sure 00:10:39.540 |
So it's clear that he's monitoring the account. 00:10:41.620 |
The guy that I set mine up with when I was 27 years old right around in 2012 was a Dave 00:10:51.620 |
He came, we sat down, spent a lot of time together, and he set me up a couple of different 00:10:57.860 |
accounts through Fidelity with the same, in the Dave Ramsey structure. 00:11:07.060 |
One set of five is in a Roth IRA that is set up for long-term investing and one that's 00:11:13.340 |
in an individual that is set up for short-term that I essentially use for a long-term car 00:11:19.220 |
fund but I'm pulling out of it frequently when we need new vehicles. 00:11:24.740 |
And then he also set me up with a C-share that I used to save up for a down payment 00:11:28.940 |
on my house over a four-year span which worked out, everything has worked out really well. 00:11:35.460 |
The challenge that I have is from my understanding, if I try to contact him, it takes a while, 00:11:46.540 |
So I know he's very busy driving all over the region. 00:11:54.060 |
So I don't think that he's monitoring my account at all. 00:11:58.460 |
To me, I feel as if he, because of being so busy, he became one of those guys that sets 00:12:05.580 |
you up and then moves on and collects the commission which I find to, which I think 00:12:19.300 |
So my question to you is, and it's set up, it's an individual Fidelity account so I can 00:12:27.280 |
It's not something that I have to contact him with to get the money from it or to make 00:12:34.980 |
So I don't need him other than unless I want to make structured changes. 00:12:40.500 |
So my question to you is, how do I know if I should switch? 00:12:46.380 |
Is there value in having a guy like my brother has that will contact him that I can go sit 00:12:51.000 |
down with at his office to switch to something where I know that it's being monitored and 00:12:58.180 |
I'm going to get updates on even law changes and just suggestions based on stage of life 00:13:06.540 |
or can I just trust what I have and just keep putting in the money and I watch it in personal 00:13:14.820 |
capital and I know what's there and what's happening for the most part. 00:13:20.460 |
How much money do you have invested with this particular advisor? 00:13:28.540 |
$26,000 of that is in the Roth and $8,000 is in what I call the car fund, the individual 00:13:34.900 |
Okay, so this is the most important consideration here in terms of how much money you have because 00:13:42.820 |
this is what's going to drive how much service you get with a financial advisor. 00:13:48.180 |
And you need to think like a business person and think about the business of giving financial 00:13:53.020 |
If you think about the business of giving financial advice, you have to recognize that 00:13:56.460 |
your financial advisor is being paid based upon the revenue to their practice. 00:14:04.240 |
And for the sake of simplicity, let's start with pretending that this is a fee-based account 00:14:10.100 |
where the financial advisor is earning a flat fee and let's use a flat fee of about 1% which 00:14:18.140 |
If you have a $34,000 account, then that means that on a flat fee basis of 1%, your financial 00:14:28.140 |
Now on a $34,000 account, your fee would actually be far higher than 1% because there's no 00:14:33.900 |
way for the advisor to cover the cost, to cover the cost of technology, the platforms, 00:14:38.700 |
et cetera, and to do it in any measure profitably. 00:14:41.180 |
Your fee with a standard personal financial advisor who works with individuals would be 00:14:46.460 |
probably closer to 2% on this amount of money, 1.5%, 1.75%. 00:14:50.860 |
So total revenue to that advisor's practice would be about $340 per year. 00:14:55.820 |
Now in your case, because you don't have this set up in the context of a fee-based account 00:15:03.780 |
but rather your account is based on commissions, the advisor received a large upfront commission 00:15:15.380 |
So on $34,000, pretend you invested that much money, then that would be about $1,900 of 00:15:21.620 |
commissions and then they're receiving a small trail commission, what are called in the business 00:15:25.860 |
of trail commissions, which is a very small amount of money on an ongoing basis. 00:15:31.100 |
So they've received most of their compensation upfront. 00:15:34.420 |
So here's the incentive that the advisor has and here's how I would approach the problem 00:15:41.740 |
Because the advisor earned an upfront commission, let's assume the best. 00:15:51.260 |
Because he earned an upfront commission, he knows that he earned that money upfront for 00:15:56.180 |
And so when you call, he's going to want to do a good job for you to help service your 00:16:00.980 |
clients, to help you with the questions that you have. 00:16:05.340 |
But when he's earning a small trail commission of – I can't – I mean, what, 25 basis 00:16:10.340 |
points, something like that, he's only earning revenue to his practice from your accounts 00:16:17.640 |
So in terms of his actual incentive to meet with you, if he's got incentive to meet with 00:16:22.420 |
you of under $100 a year versus other prospective clients that are million-dollar accounts where 00:16:28.180 |
he has the potential revenue of say $10,000 a year of revenue or potentially much larger 00:16:34.420 |
commissions if he's working on a commission basis, he doesn't have a lot of incentive 00:16:42.580 |
He knows that he wants to help you and he knows that he wants to do a good job for you 00:16:49.160 |
But he also knows that you're not an A client. 00:16:52.220 |
And so if I were coaching a financial advisor like him, the first thing that we would do 00:16:56.060 |
is we would do client segmentation and you'd segment your clients into A clients, B clients, 00:17:02.980 |
And each advisor will have their own criteria for how they would segment their clients. 00:17:07.560 |
But the criteria would involve, number one, financial considerations, how large is the 00:17:14.180 |
account or how much financial potential does the advisor have, and it would also involve 00:17:25.860 |
I worked with clients that probably I shouldn't have spent as much time with, but I liked 00:17:32.820 |
And most advisors, one of the biggest things, once you have your feet under you and you're 00:17:36.460 |
confident in what you're doing, one of the great things you try to do every year is fire 00:17:41.020 |
a client that you don't like because working with people who drain your energy is really, 00:17:47.300 |
And so one of the good pieces of consulting and coaching advice for financial advisors 00:17:51.100 |
is go through your practice at least once a year. 00:17:53.460 |
And I always love Nick Murray always recommended doing it on your birthday as a birthday present 00:17:58.740 |
You go through your practice and you fire your most obstreperous client. 00:18:01.860 |
And whoever you don't like, whoever's the biggest problem, you go ahead and send them 00:18:07.620 |
So what advisors do is they segment their clients into A clients, B clients, and C clients, 00:18:11.980 |
done based upon strength of relationship, current financial position, and financial 00:18:17.900 |
Many advisors, if you are, let's say that you earn a little bit of money, but they can 00:18:22.420 |
tell that you're working in a business that's going to result in a lot of income in the 00:18:26.420 |
future, then they'll say, "Well, this client, they're a B plus because they don't have a 00:18:32.300 |
They're not earning a lot, but they have a lot of financial capacity." 00:18:35.520 |
So the problem with you is, and let's ignore the prospect of financial capacity, the problem 00:18:42.020 |
that you face with this advisor is the fact that with a $34,000 of account, you're not 00:18:49.220 |
And unless you're going to become an A client, this is probably going to continue. 00:18:54.280 |
Well, if you like this guy and if he helps you with some of the information that you 00:18:58.020 |
need, then you can continue to work with him, but you're going to have to be the one who 00:19:04.960 |
Because when an advisor segments their client base into A, B, and C, an experienced advisor 00:19:10.880 |
also goes ahead and puts in place a contact plan. 00:19:14.200 |
And so you reach out and you contact your best clients a certain number of times per 00:19:18.860 |
year based upon whether they're in your A tranche, your B tranche, or your C tranche. 00:19:24.260 |
And so your C clients will receive, let's say, your monthly newsletter. 00:19:28.140 |
You sign up your C clients for your monthly newsletter, and then you have your staff go 00:19:32.380 |
ahead and once a year reach out to you and see how everything's going. 00:19:37.100 |
Your B clients get a monthly newsletter and they get a call from you once a year or twice 00:19:43.340 |
And your A clients get a call from you every quarter or more, and you send them and you 00:19:47.660 |
set up a spreadsheet in your office and you say, "Okay, they're getting to..." and you 00:19:50.720 |
plan out the number of client contacts that they're going to get per year. 00:19:54.760 |
So the A clients get invited to a client appreciation event. 00:20:02.280 |
They get personal things, and it's based upon their financial capacity. 00:20:09.680 |
Now when they're very busy, it's not that he means bad. 00:20:12.440 |
He wants to do the best for you, but there's no way for it to work financially to be a 00:20:21.440 |
In order for you to get more advice, you're going to have to pay more money. 00:20:26.020 |
So if you're not getting advice from this guy, then you should look at your account 00:20:30.340 |
and you should look around and see is there a place that you can get a better deal. 00:20:34.600 |
Thankfully in today's world, there are tons of really great independent investing options. 00:20:40.600 |
And you can look at your accounts and you can say, "What are my fees? 00:20:45.560 |
And you can go and you can look at other places and try to figure out, "Can I get a better 00:20:53.160 |
What I would do is I would try, if you like this guy, I would try to ask him your questions, 00:21:00.360 |
The best way to do that is probably to reach out to his staff and schedule a time with 00:21:03.560 |
his staff to schedule an appointment with him because he's going to have... 00:21:08.760 |
He knows he owes you a loyalty because you're a client of his and he feels bad. 00:21:14.040 |
He feels bad that he hasn't served you as much as he would like to, but you're in his 00:21:20.320 |
If you're the squeaky wheel, you can get time with him and that's how I would approach it. 00:21:24.800 |
If you need more financial advice, you're going to have to find some way to pay for 00:21:29.360 |
With $34,000 of assets, the only way that you're going to get more focused, clear, comprehensive 00:21:35.000 |
financial advice is to pay for it on an hourly basis with somebody who works with somebody 00:21:40.940 |
on an hourly or package deal because you don't have enough money pulled together yet to where 00:21:45.460 |
you're really going to be able to get the services of a good financial advisor. 00:21:59.840 |
It's really hard because that's the type of thing that the financial advisors face commonly 00:22:04.920 |
is just this desire to do the best for everybody, but also this constraint with the numbers. 00:22:14.800 |
Businesses go through this life cycle where in the beginning, they'll work with kind of 00:22:18.000 |
almost anybody, but then they create this massive client base of clients that really 00:22:27.560 |
they probably shouldn't be spending a lot of time with. 00:22:30.400 |
One more idea that I forgot, Guy, that you can do is reach out to this advisor and see 00:22:34.240 |
if he'll refer you or refer your account to a younger, more junior advisor, somebody who 00:22:40.200 |
can work with you on your account who may not be as big or as busy as this other person. 00:22:47.400 |
A lot of times, if you don't have a lot of money pulled together, you may be able to 00:22:51.680 |
find a young and less experienced star who will give you time, give you effort, give 00:22:58.000 |
you focus and energy while they're still building and developing things. 00:23:02.600 |
So go ahead and see if you can find, maybe get a referral to somebody within their practice 00:23:08.000 |
or reach out to one of their junior associates for help. 00:23:21.440 |
Usually I have where people come to me for financial help and I like helping like non-custodial 00:23:30.880 |
And lately I've been coming across a lot of non-custodial parents who they have one bad 00:23:36.600 |
relationship, have a child and that breaks up and then they have the follow-up, another 00:23:42.320 |
relationship that breaks up and then they got two custody or two child support payments. 00:23:47.600 |
Now usually in most states, well every state is different because it's state by state. 00:23:51.880 |
It's about a third of your income for each bad relationship. 00:23:54.760 |
So they have a third of their income towards the first child and then a third of the income 00:23:59.440 |
might be towards the second child and then another third of their income goes towards 00:24:03.920 |
So basically no matter how hard they work, it seems to go in a negative manner because 00:24:10.960 |
child support is usually based upon a percentage of the income. 00:24:18.120 |
And I've been giving them some advice what I could think of but I just wanted to bounce 00:24:22.600 |
those ideas off of you as well as if you can come up with anything else like to tell them 00:24:27.000 |
because the divorce rate is high, whatever it is. 00:24:31.240 |
I don't know what the actual statistic is but it does seem to affect a lot of people. 00:24:36.200 |
And it's a negative cycle and I want to see if I can help some of these guys change their 00:24:41.920 |
finances and change their financial momentum so they could be actually a better parent 00:24:48.360 |
So if you're working overtime and crazy time and all that kind of stuff, then you have 00:24:54.040 |
And a lot of times I've come across guys that are living in containers, living in people's 00:25:01.040 |
basements and my main advice that I can give them is it's a financial game. 00:25:08.320 |
They can only take child support on money you earn. 00:25:11.000 |
So I say, "Okay, well, where can you go and use your social capital and say, 'Hey, 00:25:18.760 |
friends and family, where you can ask for help?'" 00:25:21.840 |
And some of them have been able to be living with relatives for free and some of them have 00:25:31.440 |
But the ones that have houses, I tell them, "Hey, maybe you could take on roommates and 00:25:35.440 |
then defer the cost of the mortgage payments or something like that." 00:25:40.320 |
And a lot of it depends upon what kind of situation they're coming in. 00:25:43.480 |
Some are in their court case and some are after the court case, which after the court 00:25:48.080 |
case, of course, is harder because prevention is... 00:25:51.760 |
An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. 00:25:55.360 |
And the court sometimes take in the factors such as the distance between the non-custodian 00:26:01.880 |
custodial parent and that into the child support and so forth and the cost of that. 00:26:08.680 |
The only other advice I've been giving them is maybe start a business on the side and 00:26:14.600 |
live in the business, place of business for a little while until you can figure out something. 00:26:19.860 |
And then if they get a second job, that's even harder, reduces their time with their 00:26:30.160 |
children, which is kind of counterproductive. 00:26:33.160 |
With 90% of the people in jail have no father involvement, that's kind of a bad thing. 00:26:38.200 |
And they got the big sticker over them of if they don't pay child support, they get 00:26:45.840 |
I had a truck driver that was in danger of losing his license, which is his livelihood. 00:26:52.640 |
And people with passports, all that kind of crazy stuff. 00:27:01.160 |
That would help to get them on a more positive thing? 00:27:05.160 |
Because running on zero, the math, one third, one third, one third, you're left with zero. 00:27:17.400 |
My question, I'm glad you kind of shared what you tell them because that was going to be 00:27:23.600 |
I don't think I've ever given financial advice personally to someone in that situation. 00:27:34.920 |
It's funny, last night I was looking at a book by a lady named Helen Smith called Men 00:27:39.800 |
on Strike, Why Men are Boycotting Marriage, Fatherhood and the American Dream and Why 00:27:45.040 |
And one of her major propositions that she puts forth is that in her opinion, men are 00:27:53.820 |
And the standards that are held on men are much higher than on women. 00:27:57.740 |
And it leads to ruination for many of the men. 00:28:00.800 |
And that's one of her arguments is that many men see this. 00:28:04.040 |
And so they're avoiding marriage because of seeing how, in her opinion, they're unfairly 00:28:09.800 |
So I was just thinking about this just last night and wondering if that were true, wondering 00:28:13.560 |
how I could learn whether I felt it were true or weren't true. 00:28:27.600 |
Obviously the man is sitting there in front of you. 00:28:29.320 |
My first concern is not for the financial well-being of the man. 00:28:35.440 |
My first concern is for the financial well-being of his child or children and of his wife. 00:28:44.360 |
All of this could have been avoided if he'd been able to stay there and to support his 00:28:49.320 |
children in the relationship in which they were birthed. 00:28:53.580 |
So I tend to be one of those who starts there. 00:28:57.180 |
But I also do acknowledge that the situation is very, very difficult. 00:29:01.000 |
And if you're sitting there with a guy and he's saying, "Listen, I am doing this. 00:29:08.720 |
And what I'm trying to do here is I'm trying to figure out how to get free and how to be 00:29:16.280 |
a better father because I'm not spending all my time working and all the money's not sucked 00:29:23.560 |
So I guess the only advice that I could think of in that situation would be to study the 00:29:29.960 |
rules of the game and figure out how it's played and then find the break in the rules. 00:29:39.440 |
First, it would be a very high-earning man who one-third of his income goes to taxes. 00:29:44.980 |
That would be a very high-income earning person. 00:29:50.000 |
A truck driver, as you said, somebody who's earning, let's just say, $60,000, $70,000, 00:29:54.200 |
$80,000 a year, a third of the income is not necessarily going to go to taxes. 00:30:00.240 |
So we got to look at what exactly are we talking about. 00:30:04.200 |
If the child support payments – so a couple of things. 00:30:07.360 |
As you well know, if you were retained to give financial advice to the husband in a 00:30:15.480 |
divorce proceeding, one of the major things you want to do is you want to get as much 00:30:19.440 |
of the money that – as much of the settlement that's split between alimony and child support, 00:30:26.880 |
you want to get as much of the money counted as alimony versus as child support in order 00:30:35.020 |
If a man is going through divorce proceedings and if the judge rules that he owes $1,000 00:30:42.080 |
a month of alimony and $1,000 a month of child support, the $1,000 a month of alimony, the 00:30:48.960 |
tax burden of that will be removed from his return and it will be added to his wife's 00:30:55.920 |
So that can help with the tax planning as well. 00:30:57.600 |
Now I think most divorce attorneys, if the man has good counsel, most divorce attorneys 00:31:05.040 |
It's not a matter – there's going to be – when the judge is working through the 00:31:08.760 |
case, they're going to decide how much goes to alimony and child support based upon the 00:31:15.660 |
But that is important and that can be a very significant financial planning consideration 00:31:20.080 |
because if we can lower the taxable income by having more of the money shifted to alimony 00:31:26.280 |
payments versus shifted to child support payments, then that will be helpful for the man that 00:31:34.800 |
So that's – but by the time you come into the situation, that's a little bit too late. 00:31:39.120 |
Next, I think it's important to look at the term of the payments. 00:31:43.960 |
So given the fact that we're talking about child support, child support is not judged 00:31:51.280 |
It's generally until the child reaches the age of majority. 00:31:54.260 |
So there's a difference if a man has a 15-year-old son or daughter versus if a man has a 2-year-old 00:32:01.260 |
That will make a difference in the financial advice. 00:32:03.440 |
So I think it's important to consider where the person is in their financial journey. 00:32:09.680 |
Then if the game is played on income, I think you go to income. 00:32:13.000 |
I think that instead of – if the man is going to be assessed higher child support 00:32:19.000 |
payments by – based upon earning a higher income and I want to be very clear. 00:32:27.640 |
First I want to make sure that he's meeting his child support obligations and I think 00:32:30.560 |
we – I would assume we would be agreed on that. 00:32:32.360 |
I don't want a man playing games and his child going uncared for because that would 00:32:36.760 |
be immoral for him to not take care of his own children. 00:32:40.560 |
So as long as his children are being cared for adequately and their needs are being covered 00:32:45.800 |
and we're just doing – we're just trying to figure out how can we fix the situation 00:32:50.920 |
I think you lower your income partly through to reducing needs, doing things like you said 00:32:56.640 |
of reducing living expenses, taking advantage of some of the social capital that you have 00:33:02.000 |
to be able to lower housing costs, to be able to lower transportation costs. 00:33:06.600 |
I think you approach your business and your career differently. 00:33:10.360 |
Instead of pursuing earned income, you pursue equity. 00:33:15.000 |
So if I'm advising a man who is – for the sake of scenario analysis here, he's 00:33:20.280 |
got 13-year-old children and he's got high child support payments which would adjust 00:33:26.600 |
based upon him earning a higher income and he knows that and he is adequately caring 00:33:34.040 |
for his children, their needs are met, they're not suffering. 00:33:37.360 |
Then in that situation, I'm going to tell him, "Build something. 00:33:40.600 |
Build something that's going to result in higher equity. 00:33:44.880 |
If you need to make a career transition, transition into something that's going to 00:33:48.320 |
be lower earning for the next few years and then when your child support obligations are 00:33:52.840 |
going to be paid, then you'll be in a situation where your income is increasing because of 00:33:59.820 |
That can be done in building of a private business. 00:34:02.920 |
For example, maybe the trucker should pursue working as an owner-operator instead of working 00:34:09.980 |
It can also be done in some jobs that are commission-based and that are slow to get 00:34:14.180 |
started such as real estate or something like I did, life insurance sales and financial 00:34:19.720 |
The first five years of a financial advisor's career are very expensive, very low-earning 00:34:26.120 |
But the balance of the career would be much higher-earning years and there's really 00:34:29.220 |
not much of a way around those first five years. 00:34:32.680 |
So if I'm making a career decision and I know that if I take this job that's high-paying 00:34:37.240 |
over here, I'm just going to lose all that money to higher taxation and child support 00:34:41.920 |
payments or if I've got the other job opportunity where I'm going to build equity and deferred 00:34:48.060 |
comp, then I'm going to move in the position of equity and deferred comp. 00:34:54.920 |
That was just me elaborating and explaining what you already said. 00:34:59.640 |
I've never really faced that situation in consultation so I've not thought a lot about 00:35:03.920 |
it but I will invite any listeners who have additional ideas. 00:35:07.320 |
This would be a great place for listeners to chime in. 00:35:09.680 |
Come on by today's show and give us your suggestions of anything that Chuck and I are missing. 00:35:17.200 |
Well, I just really appreciate it and I really think you hit the nail on the head when I 00:35:26.160 |
Maybe they could use the benefit of like one guy slept in his business and he wasn't realizing 00:35:32.880 |
too much income from it but he had a normal job so his business was on the side and then 00:35:38.560 |
he was able to defer it and then I think his kids are a majority age so then he's starting 00:35:44.720 |
to reap the profit from it and then be able to do a career transition. 00:35:50.040 |
So it's a delayed gratification and long-term planning which is what I try to talk to people 00:35:55.280 |
about rather than the short jab that gets you in trouble. 00:36:01.720 |
I mean the biggest challenge is that the men and women with the highest divorce rates are 00:36:06.560 |
usually in the lower class and they're often the ones who struggle the most with financial 00:36:11.520 |
planning, the ones who struggle with business and that's kind of really sad. 00:36:16.000 |
I don't know how relevant some of this is going to be but I applaud you for seeking 00:36:19.840 |
to help these men and I would encourage – as again, I'm sure you'll agree. 00:36:27.960 |
The primary interest here that we need to look – be careful for is to protect – we 00:36:32.600 |
need to protect the innocent party and we need to protect the person who's most helpless 00:36:40.240 |
So I do appreciate your counsel to the man to say giving more money to your son or daughter 00:36:44.920 |
is probably not going to materially change their life. 00:36:48.680 |
But giving them the love and the care and the focus and the attention and the time and 00:36:53.160 |
really seeking to care for them even though it's difficult when you're far away, that 00:37:02.880 |
If I've got a 13-year-old, I'm not going to say how much more money can I – how much 00:37:10.880 |
For the next few years, things are going to be tight. 00:37:13.460 |
But I'm really going to do everything I can to build into the life of my son or daughter 00:37:18.360 |
during this very important transition period of childhood to adulthood and I'll pick 00:37:24.520 |
up my own personal financial well-being in a few years." 00:37:34.320 |
Matt, go ahead and let us know your question or comment and let's see how I can serve 00:37:39.960 |
Matt Thurston, Chief Financial Officer, Alphabet and Google 00:37:42.320 |
Thank you very much for the chance to be speaking to you again. 00:37:47.740 |
A lot of times when I'll listen to you talk to callers, you'll just have some very kind 00:37:52.260 |
of quick and good consulting ideas from a business standpoint. 00:37:56.100 |
One of the things that I've been working on is organizing a branch after FinCon. 00:38:00.660 |
I'm looking forward to going to that for the first time in 2017, just for some of the folks 00:38:05.620 |
who've been helpful to me in my own, I guess, personal finance blogging journey. 00:38:10.940 |
Certainly, as you know, you're among that crowd. 00:38:14.780 |
I wanted to ask, essentially, kind of besides the meal, which will be delicious, do you 00:38:19.100 |
have any special ideas to make this more interesting and valuable to the folks that I hope will 00:38:23.660 |
For example, in the case of each of the invites that I've made, I've offered folks the chance 00:38:28.100 |
to bring guests or things like that, but I'm wondering if you have ideas about ways to 00:38:32.700 |
And then secondly, one of the things that I'm hoping to do with this is maybe use it 00:38:38.820 |
as a chance to gain some additional visibility for my blogging work. 00:38:44.260 |
And in addition to what I hope will be some of my, I guess, guests who can join me, will 00:38:50.220 |
be to do some giveaways of spots at that event through my website. 00:38:54.420 |
So I didn't know if you had any thoughts on adding value there as well as combining kind 00:38:59.660 |
of the marketing element with that thank you brunch, which is sincere. 00:39:08.660 |
I'm kind of feeling flat-footed at the moment. 00:39:25.060 |
So I'll just tell you, yeah, yeah, it's an interesting question and I want to give you 00:39:28.420 |
something helpful and I appreciate your heart and even your service. 00:39:33.580 |
I think that probably just from my perspective, having – I'm kind of in this in-between 00:39:40.620 |
world where I'm not unknown, but I'm also not a major celebrity. 00:39:53.020 |
So conferences for somebody like me, and I would use that as an example because obviously 00:39:57.820 |
that's the question you're asking, or other people who are in the middle tiers of a profession. 00:40:04.180 |
Something like a conference can be a very exhausting experience. 00:40:09.460 |
It's really, really tiring because the primary reason that I go to a conference is – or 00:40:17.860 |
The primary reason why I go to a financial conference, something like a FinCon, is to 00:40:23.060 |
be available to my audience, to be accessible to my audience because the most important 00:40:30.660 |
people to me are my listeners, the people who tune in. 00:40:34.460 |
And I want to make sure that I do everything I can to be as available as possible. 00:40:39.700 |
And it's really hard to do that on a private basis, although I try really hard. 00:40:44.540 |
Even last week I had dinner with a couple of listeners who came to town. 00:40:48.180 |
But at some point in time, I always have to put borders around my schedule and make sure 00:40:54.500 |
And I just have to turn off the email, and I feel bad that I can't respond to everybody, 00:41:02.260 |
So conferences can be very tiring and very kind of emotionally draining because it's 00:41:12.420 |
It's from breakfast through the whole day and through the evening. 00:41:16.500 |
And it's also challenging because somebody who's at a conference often has a lot of 00:41:24.180 |
If someone has a – they're speaking, they're having a meetup with their audience, their 00:41:34.340 |
I try to be very accessible to my audience, have meetups or breakfasts or things like 00:41:42.660 |
And if you're doing podcast interviews or TV or YouTube interviews or whatever, the 00:41:49.220 |
So I think anything you can do to provide a little bit of a respite from that that also 00:41:57.100 |
And probably the biggest thing that I would say, the biggest thing that would be exciting 00:42:02.340 |
to me is something unique that's small, that's intimate, but that's a unique activity. 00:42:14.700 |
And when you go to these meetings, it's just as simple. 00:42:16.980 |
When you go to a FinCon as someone like me, a podcast host, from morning till night, it 00:42:29.300 |
PT, the founder of FinCon, does a great job of providing lots of food. 00:42:37.400 |
In the evening, all of the companies and the vendors make offers to go to various parties 00:42:49.060 |
What I look for is – and what I notice that nobody really does very well – is something 00:42:58.620 |
I'm not a big drinker and I don't drink it when I'm in public and in situations like 00:43:05.940 |
But if you told me, "Hey, let's go skeet shooting," or "Let's go and do this ATV 00:43:11.780 |
ride," or something unique like that, to me, that would be something that would quickly 00:43:20.680 |
So obviously, you have to balance this financially with the invitation that you make. 00:43:25.440 |
But if you told me and said, "Hey, Joshua, listen, there's a skeet club," or – where 00:43:36.680 |
So you find some local gun dealer who has a class three license and says, "Hey, man, 00:43:44.360 |
we can go shoot fully automatic rifles and they got a full auto Glock." 00:43:50.680 |
I mean, there's no chance in the world I'm saying no to that. 00:43:53.160 |
Now those are kind of guy things that really appeal to me. 00:43:57.560 |
If I were in a situation like that, I would rent a room. 00:44:01.000 |
Instead of doing a dinner at a hotel where it's in conflict, I would set up – and 00:44:05.280 |
I might do it in the middle of the day, like a lunch because oftentimes a lunchtime thing 00:44:09.760 |
– many times people like me – I used to go to all the sessions. 00:44:13.880 |
But at this point in time, I get so tired and I don't go to all the sessions. 00:44:18.600 |
I go to a session where I have a friend who's speaking or somebody who's maybe – I go 00:44:24.800 |
But if you look on the schedule and you pick a time that's not during a keynote and when 00:44:28.760 |
there's not a lot of other presses, when there aren't a lot of other meetups, and 00:44:31.920 |
you put together a small group of people who might like to know each other, which is the 00:44:34.840 |
basis of connection, which you're already doing, but you try to figure out who would 00:44:38.560 |
this person – who do I have in my network that I can introduce these few people? 00:44:47.400 |
Texas, there's got to be some gun ranges or some ATV rides or something cool like that. 00:44:58.920 |
That would also be fun because when I go to a conference, I almost never do any kind of 00:45:05.440 |
I fly in and I go to the thing and I fly out. 00:45:08.200 |
I just want to get home as quickly as possible. 00:45:11.040 |
Scheduling a tourist event like that I think would be – that's the best I got for you. 00:45:19.240 |
Let me know what you wind up with and we'll look forward to it. 00:45:26.760 |
That's true, but I wasn't going to call you out on the air about that. 00:45:32.200 |
There's a second idea in there that might be of interest to you that I won't share on 00:45:40.800 |
You got time for one more or are you two jammed up? 00:45:44.560 |
I want to take one more caller from another Matt in Tennessee and then call back in with 00:45:54.200 |
Let's go to another Matt or Matthew in Tennessee. 00:45:56.520 |
Go ahead and let me know what's on your mind and let's see how I can serve you today, please. 00:46:03.920 |
I actually might have to drop off after I ask the question because I've got to run to 00:46:08.280 |
a meeting here, but I wanted to go ahead and ask it and I might actually have to get the 00:46:15.640 |
I just want to give you that heads up in case you tried to have some dialogue or something 00:46:25.200 |
Just imagine that I am your financial planning client and we're having a discussion primarily 00:46:30.960 |
around the investment management piece of financial planning. 00:46:34.960 |
What would you say to educate me on why it's a good decision on going with DFA funds over 00:46:43.800 |
I know in previous podcasts you said that DFA does a good job of keeping hot money out 00:46:48.760 |
of their funds, but what are the other advantages of going with DFA? 00:46:53.800 |
DFA does a good job because DFA funds are only sold through financial advisors. 00:46:59.920 |
They do a good job of keeping hot money out and that's big for them. 00:47:04.400 |
They focus heavily on training financial advisors to train their clients and hot money means 00:47:14.600 |
One of the major helps that a financial advisor can provide to a client is helping them to 00:47:20.080 |
stay invested and that helps the fund manager to be able to do a better job when he doesn't 00:47:24.760 |
have to go and sell investments all of a sudden and they can take advantage of some of the 00:47:28.280 |
little things that DFA focuses on to take advantage to possibly improve their returns 00:47:35.520 |
To me that's the biggest thing is that DFA does a brilliant job of bringing together 00:47:41.600 |
the basic ideology of passive investing, indexing, passive investing and marries that into a 00:47:48.720 |
package that the financial advisor can use and really serve their client. 00:47:53.320 |
The financial advisor is not in competition with the internet and that's really helpful. 00:47:58.960 |
I think that just their focus on a financial advisor, their focus on keeping costs down, 00:48:04.440 |
their focus on trying to tweak some of those little investment things that they do because 00:48:08.640 |
of the benefit of going through an advisor, to me that's the biggest benefit. 00:48:14.080 |
You have to read their literature and judge that. 00:48:16.520 |
I can't know that but when I was looking at them I really appreciated that they were focused 00:48:21.640 |
on advisors, not going direct to the client and I felt like there was a lot of value there 00:48:26.320 |
that I would be able to help my clients understand. 00:48:44.040 |
This is more about your personal finances so feel free to divulge whatever you feel 00:48:52.920 |
I know that you've been trying to build a business over the past three years and I'm 00:48:56.520 |
curious what personal planning have you done to capitalize on these early years of building 00:49:04.200 |
For example, have you completed any traditional IRA conversions to Roth during low income, 00:49:09.960 |
low tax years with the business or any other planning opportunities that you went through? 00:49:15.320 |
I've got to decide what I'm willing to talk about publicly. 00:49:33.200 |
It's so hard because I've lost so much of my own personal privacy since starting this 00:49:37.760 |
It's so hard to decide how much to talk about publicly and what to do because I really hate 00:49:53.160 |
In a business transition, I took a massive cut to my income. 00:49:58.360 |
Yes, I have focused on taking advantage of every opportunity that has presented itself 00:50:05.880 |
to me because of the massive cut to my income. 00:50:11.280 |
I've focused on – I actually took some of my – I closed some of my traditional 00:50:23.040 |
I actually closed some of my – just a small – one or two small ones, previous accounts 00:50:29.280 |
because I have become increasingly convinced that I don't want to play the game with 00:50:35.280 |
the IRS – with the US government in the IRA world. 00:50:40.080 |
I haven't gone to the point of saying, "I'm never going to open one again." 00:50:43.720 |
I haven't gone and said, "Oh, I'm never going to deal with this." 00:50:50.040 |
But when I look more and more and more, the whole scheme of put all your money into mutual 00:50:57.320 |
funds and retirement accounts, it just doesn't work well with the major benefits of investing 00:51:06.560 |
I think it's really wise to invest where you have an ability to compete really well. 00:51:18.680 |
I'm not going to go into a world where I'm investing with jockeys to try to ride horses. 00:51:24.480 |
But I may go into a world where my size is a natural advantage. 00:51:28.880 |
I see the same thing with regard to investing. 00:51:32.300 |
It often feels very lonely for me because I feel like I got to take on the whole financial 00:51:40.120 |
I often question myself of am I accurate in my understanding? 00:51:49.840 |
It's really hard because taking some of the opinions that I've taken forces, puts me up 00:51:56.680 |
against things that I previously said and talked to clients. 00:52:01.120 |
But I just don't see people winning because of IRAs and mutual funds. 00:52:11.840 |
There are people in this audience who are winning. 00:52:15.140 |
But we had the call earlier from the guy who had $34,000 in his various mutual fund accounts. 00:52:26.880 |
If we were to go back, and I don't know anything more about Guy other than that fact, but my 00:52:40.240 |
If I were to go back and try to think what could we do with that $34,000 that would be 00:52:44.560 |
more productive than buying growth stock mutual funds inside of IRAs and other accounts, I 00:52:52.000 |
got to imagine at this point I could come up with a whole long list of things that I 00:53:00.700 |
The big challenge that I face in trying to figure out how to do this is to look at it 00:53:08.260 |
and say, "You got to know someone's background. 00:53:21.280 |
I cashed out some of my retirement accounts because I was able to get my tax burden low 00:53:25.440 |
enough that the 10% penalty was lower in terms of a total effective tax rate. 00:53:31.080 |
The 10% penalty was lower than what the tax rate would be in the future and I was able 00:53:35.960 |
to transition some of that money from under somebody else's control to under my direct 00:53:42.920 |
When I look at the business opportunities in front of me and the things that I'm concerned 00:53:46.280 |
about and the things that I'm interested in, not so many of them can be done within an 00:53:53.120 |
Not so many of them can be done within a retirement account. 00:54:02.280 |
Given the fact that investing with retirement accounts, it's not the only tax break. 00:54:08.800 |
When I look at the goals that I have, I'm finding more and more that I want the flexibility 00:54:18.120 |
The other thing that I have done is I have – I guess the other thing I'm willing to 00:54:21.680 |
talk about is that I've become much more conservative as a person because of the unique 00:54:28.240 |
risks and the unique risks that I face going forward that are different than some other 00:54:36.600 |
I think about the aggressiveness and here I'm not talking about asset allocation conservative. 00:54:42.520 |
What I mean is when you look at the – how aggressive you want to be versus how conservative 00:54:46.980 |
you want to be, it's really valuable to look at the whole situation. 00:54:53.240 |
Because I have more business opportunities, which if I can figure out how to make them 00:55:02.800 |
If I can figure out how to make them work, they have more – they have much more unbounded 00:55:10.120 |
That's caused me to be more aggressive with – sorry, more conservative with other 00:55:17.680 |
It probably doesn't make a lot of sense if I don't give specifics but I don't 00:55:23.560 |
think at this point in time that I'm willing to give any more specifics than that. 00:55:28.880 |
Just to say that what you hear when I talk on the show, what you hear from me is I don't 00:55:36.520 |
It's all – you can hear and you can hear some of the challenges that I face and things. 00:55:42.520 |
So I have sought to make intelligent financial moves all along the way based upon the unique 00:55:48.240 |
situations – based upon the unique circumstances that I have, the unique advantages and benefits 00:55:54.960 |
I have sought to do that all along the way and practice what I preach. 00:55:58.600 |
Maybe in the future I'll talk more about them. 00:56:00.040 |
But when you're in the middle of stuff, it's not a good time to talk about it. 00:56:12.740 |
I know that I turned away about a half a dozen of you. 00:56:16.840 |
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