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I recently returned from Camp Mustache Southeast 2017 where I spoke. 00:02:13.840 |
I did a bunch of interviews while I was there. 00:02:16.120 |
And today I'm going to share with you the audio of one of the most interesting interviews 00:02:20.680 |
that I did while I was there, an interview with a man named Bill who achieved financial 00:02:49.960 |
A show dedicated to providing you with the stories and examples of other people who lived 00:02:57.320 |
rich and meaningful lives now while also concurrently working their own plans for financial freedom 00:03:06.560 |
Today it's inspiration hour on Radical Personal Finance. 00:03:17.040 |
Over the coming weeks I'll be bringing you a bunch of interviews. 00:03:22.200 |
I did an interview with Mr. Money Mustache, with this Bill, with all kinds of interesting 00:03:26.760 |
people, several couples of people who've had interesting stories, some younger people who 00:03:31.440 |
are pursuing financial independence, some older people pursuing financial independence. 00:03:34.720 |
I think all these interviews have things to offer. 00:03:36.920 |
So there are a total of about nine of them in the can that I'll be releasing to you in 00:03:41.200 |
But today I'm going to leave you or start you off with what may have been my favorite. 00:03:46.280 |
Let's do this interview with a man named Bill who achieved financial independence. 00:03:58.960 |
So we're here at a very, what's the right adjective to use, a very select group of people 00:04:10.800 |
And when we were going around doing introductions last night you introduced yourself. 00:04:16.160 |
I've done this for years and I feel good and validated when I hear young people doing the 00:04:22.520 |
So of course that immediately piqued my interest and I want to make sure that I got you on 00:04:25.960 |
the microphone and hear a little bit of your story. 00:04:28.080 |
So tell us a little bit about your story, especially as it relates to money and financial 00:04:36.720 |
So when I was at a young age, my mom introduced me to the idea of financial independence. 00:04:43.360 |
So this was back in the 70s when I first heard this concept of having financial independence 00:04:56.400 |
She was on her way to financial independence. 00:04:58.760 |
Was she like a Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robinson, like your money or your life back in that 00:05:11.360 |
So I was always understanding the concept of having enough money and it wasn't dissimilar 00:05:16.780 |
to Jim Collins' idea, JL Collins of the FU money, of having enough money that there was 00:05:23.000 |
nothing that was going to rock the boat too badly to allow me to keep going on the track. 00:05:27.520 |
So even at a very young age, I was making money and saving money and I never had a problem 00:05:33.360 |
So definitely the key to my financial independence, which happened probably in my late 30s, was 00:05:40.560 |
an extreme saving rate and all equity investments when I did have money to invest. 00:05:46.640 |
So a lot of the things that are being sort of pushed now are things that I naturally 00:05:50.160 |
came to long before there were blogs, et cetera. 00:05:53.560 |
And a combination of, as JD Roth says, patience and an all equity investment portfolio back 00:06:02.600 |
when things were extremely cheap and staying the course has gotten me certainly to the 00:06:06.720 |
point I am now in combination with a much greater than 50% annual savings rate. 00:06:12.840 |
So with your mom at least planting the idea in your head, back in the early days, your 00:06:18.000 |
late teens, early 20s, what did that look like? 00:06:20.640 |
Did you follow through at that time or did you have a... 00:06:24.200 |
So at that time, I mean the first job I was really making money was when I was 10. 00:06:30.040 |
I had a paper route in my town in New Hampshire and I kept collecting more and more customers 00:06:36.040 |
and I was subcontracting that out and saving 75%. 00:06:41.600 |
And the money that I did spend, I bought things that helped me do the paper route better or 00:06:45.420 |
helped me enjoy doing it more, like having a radio on my bicycle. 00:06:49.920 |
So her lead, rather than forcing me to do it, she led by example. 00:06:56.400 |
And I saw the comfort that she had compared to some of my other friends who were less 00:07:02.680 |
mustachians since here we are at Camp Mustache. 00:07:07.760 |
So their parents had cool new cars, which we never had, or they had fancy clothes or 00:07:12.440 |
cool new sneakers or a bicycle that had shock absorbers on it. 00:07:15.640 |
And we didn't have any of that stuff, but when things happened like the water heater 00:07:18.640 |
failing or whatever, there was not even a ripple that went through our lives because 00:07:25.840 |
So I saw that and it made it a lot easier to follow in her footsteps because I saw that 00:07:38.120 |
And what type of work did you do getting out? 00:07:40.440 |
I was immediately recruited by a joint venture Japanese-American management consulting firm. 00:07:47.780 |
And I worked there for six months before I realized, about two months into it, that I 00:07:55.820 |
But it got me back to Japan, which is where I had gone for my junior year abroad. 00:08:02.680 |
And luckily, through a connection I had made by talking to strangers, which is something 00:08:06.880 |
I've been doing my whole life, again, cued by my mom to not be afraid of strangers, but 00:08:11.360 |
to glean them for information or to ask them for it and glean it from them, was that I 00:08:18.000 |
found somebody who I ended up bumping into at the Japanese embassy in Boston who gave 00:08:21.920 |
me a multiple re-entry visa, which allowed me to, say, take this job and shove it to 00:08:29.640 |
And I didn't have to then leave because I didn't have a sponsorship. 00:08:33.760 |
So that was really the first step, because then I could start taking on work, things 00:08:38.000 |
that I enjoyed doing in Japan, and not worry about having to do things in order to stay. 00:08:43.280 |
So then I had a variety of really cool jobs in Japan that made really good money, because, 00:08:48.440 |
again, I was just naturally frugal and banking tons, and being able to do whatever I wanted. 00:08:55.360 |
I still had to pursue money, but I was working for myself as opposed to being tied to, like 00:09:00.880 |
most expats there, tied to an English teaching gig or a multinational corporation that's 00:09:06.280 |
funded their stay while they work for Goldman Sachs, for example. 00:09:10.240 |
Were you in Japan as just kind of for the adventure of it? 00:09:14.240 |
So I was getting a liberal arts education, had no clue what to do. 00:09:21.520 |
And my brother, who is a mentor, had already gone ahead, he's five years older, he spoke 00:09:28.400 |
And he said, "If you really don't know what you want to do or where you're going to go, 00:09:35.960 |
People are, they'll hire you because you're a blank slate, and they can train you to do 00:09:40.280 |
what they want, but they can't teach you how to learn how to speak Japanese, for example." 00:09:45.240 |
And so his advice was, "Are you interested in anywhere in Asia? 00:09:54.160 |
And I wanted to go to Korea, but my college wouldn't allow me to go there, so I defaulted 00:10:02.080 |
I learned Japanese pretty quickly and well, and was recruited by that company entirely 00:10:07.420 |
based on my decent grades and my fluent Japanese. 00:10:11.040 |
Do you have any guess or knowledge or remembrance of your savings rate during those early years 00:10:18.160 |
I would say my savings rate in my first year in Japan was probably upwards of 60%. 00:10:28.600 |
And the other big difference is that now that I've achieved financial independence, I was 00:10:33.520 |
talking to another, one of the conference attendees today, my lifestyle has not changed 00:10:39.880 |
So many people, as they make more money, they expand into as much money as they make. 00:10:45.880 |
I lead a very similar lifestyle, maybe not as frugal as I was as a 20-year-old in Japan, 00:10:52.280 |
but it's not really that different than it was 15 years ago when it was, I was dating 00:11:00.080 |
my wife and living in San Francisco and having fun. 00:11:14.160 |
And these shorts a decade ago and these shoes that I got from my neighbor. 00:11:18.160 |
So that's just sort of built into the way I am. 00:11:21.680 |
Again, I think partially from my mother and partially from wanting to achieve financial 00:11:27.160 |
independence, not necessarily through making tons of money, but through making my money 00:11:32.540 |
Let me make sure I describe for the audience. 00:11:43.040 |
I get lots of free food at the homeless shelter. 00:11:49.520 |
The shoes look very fancy and expensive and up to date. 00:11:52.480 |
And he has a neatly trimmed goatee and is an upstanding looking gentleman. 00:11:59.400 |
So you reached a point in time at which you said, "Okay, I'm financially independent." 00:12:07.320 |
It's an interesting question actually because in retrospect, I realized that I was financially 00:12:18.520 |
And I continued to work hard and worry a lot about money, even though I had a lot. 00:12:22.920 |
And I just didn't grasp the power that I had financially. 00:12:27.840 |
And because I was alone, I've always worked alone and had a hard time sort of connecting 00:12:34.080 |
with other people on a more intimate level, like we would be talking about finances. 00:12:41.200 |
So in retrospect, I think I was financially independent easily by the time I was about 00:12:47.000 |
But I didn't retire by literally moving away from where I was living and working and kind 00:12:51.440 |
of leaving my business behind until six years ago when I was 42. 00:12:56.280 |
So between then and now is when I really identified myself as retired. 00:13:04.200 |
When I meet new people and they say, "What do you do?" 00:13:09.840 |
And they are intrigued usually and they want to know more. 00:13:16.440 |
So I have a premonition that you might be the elusive retiree that I have often been 00:13:24.840 |
searching for, excuse me, the elusive early retiree that I've often been searching for, 00:13:33.960 |
So I'm going to find out, are you actually retired? 00:13:45.040 |
And although some of the things I do are things that other people do for work and get paid 00:13:54.880 |
And I don't make decisions based on how much money it's going to make me. 00:14:01.120 |
And in addition to that, you don't have a blog, you don't have a website. 00:14:04.720 |
You're not trying to tell people they should be financially independent or sell financially 00:14:08.800 |
You're here for fun because it's a gathering of like-minded people and it's in Gainesville, 00:14:14.840 |
Florida, not Portland, Maine, during the middle of the winter. 00:14:19.640 |
Okay, so this is intriguing to me because you're a rare species. 00:14:23.120 |
I have this theory that nobody ever actually retires. 00:14:28.900 |
But the number of people that actually retire versus the number of people that think they 00:14:31.960 |
want to retire or the number of people that talk about retirement or the number of people 00:14:35.640 |
who leave a job, I find it to be very, very low. 00:14:38.360 |
Now, I'm enjoying the moment, but I have met other people who've done this and I've met 00:14:47.400 |
But I want to explore what you've gained from this path of early retirement. 00:14:56.040 |
No, I didn't hate my work because I chose it. 00:14:58.880 |
So unlike a lot of people who I speak to who were on the path or even passed and have passed 00:15:05.040 |
into financial independence, I, from after that job back in 1991, I've been doing all 00:15:11.280 |
sorts of really cool things that made money and that I chose to do. 00:15:22.400 |
I just didn't like the idea that I had to make decisions based on how much money it 00:15:27.920 |
So the analogy I like to tell people is that I hated, for example, always looking at the 00:15:37.100 |
So I didn't know if I really wanted the chicken or if I was just ordering the chicken because 00:15:43.600 |
So it was the idea that I could choose to do what I wanted to do and then secondarily 00:15:51.880 |
make sure that it was something that was lucrative. 00:15:55.180 |
And there were plenty of times when I was younger where there were jobs that were really 00:15:57.800 |
interesting to me that didn't pay as well and I didn't take. 00:16:02.920 |
And I think it's important to make that distinction between, as I said, now where I might do things 00:16:08.540 |
that make money, but I'm not making that decision on a daily basis as to what's going to pay 00:16:14.240 |
So again, with kudos to mustachianism, Mr. Money Mustache talks about acting like everything's 00:16:21.800 |
free and I similarly look at acting like everything doesn't pay. 00:16:28.580 |
So instead of, "Oh, that's going to pay more per hour," or "That's going to make me more 00:16:32.880 |
money in the long term," if it was all volunteer work or it was all free, what would I actually 00:16:41.520 |
And that's not dissimilar to really deciding whether I want the cheap salad or the expensive 00:16:52.000 |
How has that changed your experience of life? 00:16:58.080 |
It's changed it in a positive way because it's given me a great deal of time to reflect 00:17:07.380 |
I think a lot of people, there are multiple reasons why people work. 00:17:11.400 |
We all like to look at the money side of it, but there are also the benefits, the social 00:17:16.960 |
I mean, a lot of people love to go to work because they love meeting the people that 00:17:22.460 |
Or the distraction that work gives you from thinking about everything a little too much 00:17:27.260 |
or having to make decisions about what you're really doing with the rest of your life. 00:17:30.940 |
And then on the negative side, I think that sometimes I made choices before I was financially 00:17:39.500 |
independent that didn't get me closer to happiness or didn't get me closer to having a sense 00:17:50.580 |
And now that I have financial independence, I can think about looking at the other side 00:17:55.860 |
of the menu, but looking at it from the perspective of, is this going to gain me a great new friendship? 00:18:01.260 |
Is this going to be an experience that I'm going to look back on? 00:18:04.180 |
I'm a big fan of talking about deathbeds, but rather than in a morbid way, I think, 00:18:13.880 |
what am I going to think about on my deathbed? 00:18:16.140 |
Am I going to wish I made 20 more grand on that deal? 00:18:19.500 |
Or am I going to be happy that I followed that dream or that I was a kid on a train 00:18:26.460 |
in Europe and I didn't get off at my stop and instead kept talking the girl across from 00:18:34.580 |
And to the degree that I actually do talk to other people about this, I try to motivate 00:18:44.940 |
The longer perspective of what they're going to look back on their lives and think that 00:18:48.300 |
they accomplished and what brought them joy and happiness, because it's all finite. 00:18:52.700 |
What types of work/job/businesses did you do from 1991 up through six years ago? 00:19:07.060 |
Yeah, it was helping American small businesses enter the Japanese market. 00:19:14.140 |
Basically it was technical production, semiconductors and switches and stuff like that. 00:19:22.140 |
Then I quit and went on this wild spree of doing all these things that were a blast. 00:19:30.820 |
So not a DJ like modern idea of spinning discs at the party. 00:19:35.220 |
I was actually the disc jockey at a radio station. 00:19:41.020 |
And I worked there for a while playing music. 00:19:52.700 |
I got some great gigs because my girlfriend at the time was the cover girl for Shiseido 00:20:01.260 |
And I got to go to shoots and got offered modeling jobs. 00:20:07.060 |
Those of you listening can't see me, I'm an average looking guy. 00:20:11.300 |
I'm not a model and I'm five, eight and a half on a good day. 00:20:14.500 |
But in Japan, luckily I'm exactly Japanese height and I fit into Japanese men's clothes 00:20:23.240 |
So I got these great jobs because I was also an avid motorcyclist, being the face of Suzuki 00:20:32.700 |
So I got some really good gigs, modeling bikes, essentially riding bikes and having pictures 00:20:38.540 |
taken of me looking off into the sunset, looking against the newest Suzuki. 00:20:44.980 |
And then the final big job I had in Japan was working with an advertising executive 00:20:49.540 |
who owned a large company there and needed somebody who would tell him the truth. 00:20:55.740 |
Japan is filled with, as you can imagine, people who are following this sort of the 00:20:59.740 |
status quo and there's a lot of concern about your level compared to your boss and you don't 00:21:15.580 |
Be an opinionated jerk and not wear a suit to work like everybody else. 00:21:22.420 |
Then I came back to the United States and essentially started my small tech consulting 00:21:26.820 |
business in San Francisco by buying and selling Mac books. 00:21:32.100 |
At the time they were called Power Books and I was finding them in the newspaper before 00:21:36.940 |
And the people at, basically I was looking for one for myself. 00:21:41.020 |
And then in the next two weeks I saw two more that were even cheaper than the one I got 00:21:44.300 |
myself and realized that those prices were under market and I started trading in Power 00:21:51.660 |
And that basically made its way into a business of doing end user tech support for highly 00:22:02.220 |
And along the way many of those people who needed somebody who was discreet and responsible 00:22:15.100 |
and could find the answers to sometimes unknown questions. 00:22:26.060 |
So my job sort of segwayed from being a tech support guy to just being a resourceful individual 00:22:34.820 |
There's a lot of money in San Francisco and when people who have a lot can find someone 00:22:40.320 |
they trust, since I always charge the same rate for my time, because that's what I think 00:22:44.980 |
an hour of my time was worth, regardless of how many literally billions of dollars some 00:22:49.620 |
of my clients had to some of the people who were making the same money I was, I was fair. 00:22:57.260 |
And I loved having sort of a different job every day. 00:23:01.980 |
But eventually I moved out of San Francisco and retired to Maine. 00:23:10.340 |
Since you retired, have you continued to earn, have you earned any money doing similar types 00:23:17.180 |
So your retirement was a very intentional decision, as you just described. 00:23:24.420 |
I'm going to ignore the money, pretend it's all volunteer and I'm just going to go with 00:23:29.340 |
But since then, there have been opportunities that have been fun that have brought in additional 00:23:34.860 |
So there are clients in San Francisco who were despondent that I left. 00:23:38.620 |
So occasionally when somebody gets in touch with me with something cool, or it's one of 00:23:42.300 |
my clients who I had, in some cases, over 15 year relationships with, I wanted to continue 00:23:51.180 |
So I would say yes to particular people and no, I'm retired to others. 00:23:55.780 |
And then within Maine, there's a great deal of opportunity. 00:23:58.800 |
So I've taken on the job of being a property manager. 00:24:03.840 |
So I have some investment property, which is again, following in my mother's footsteps. 00:24:07.860 |
She was a property owner and I was sort of a property manager as a young boy pushing 00:24:12.180 |
the lawnmower and fixing broken panes of glass. 00:24:17.580 |
And then there are volunteer opportunities that have made me none, but I actually suspect 00:24:22.460 |
that they may turn into money-making opportunities without even trying. 00:24:28.660 |
There's a lot of sort of kind of office space where I've said absolutely not, and then it 00:24:39.260 |
And now I'm trying to follow the lead of again, Mr. Money Mustache with ramping up my charitable 00:24:48.020 |
donations or even considering starting some sort of a scholarship or something fun to 00:24:57.460 |
Because that's going to serve me selfishly, because ultimately I think a lot of giving 00:25:00.820 |
is actually kind of greedy because it'll make me feel good and somebody else wins. 00:25:07.300 |
And it'll also keep me mentally stimulated to help other people. 00:25:18.740 |
It's not something I recommend or that I do frequently. 00:25:22.980 |
As I think, what's so interesting to me about your story is in some ways you are the elusive 00:25:30.620 |
early retiree, but yet you prove my theory, which is that people don't retire. 00:25:35.940 |
And the reason I say that is I think for you, you had to reach that point where you said, 00:25:40.180 |
I'm going to make this intentional decision." 00:25:42.380 |
But I can imagine that perhaps if you were around other people earlier, you could have 00:25:51.660 |
I don't know what the number, but something like $100,000 in the bank is certainly not 00:25:57.340 |
enough money to live on for the rest of your life, but it's enough of a cushion that it 00:26:01.860 |
gives you a margin between just about anything that somebody who had that much of a cushion 00:26:11.380 |
Somebody with that much of a cushion could make a similar decision. 00:26:14.620 |
As long as they're not substituting, say, lying around on the couch and gaming constantly. 00:26:22.700 |
They make a lot of money as a game expert, which people do now. 00:26:27.660 |
So we face this tremendous challenge of how to articulate the concept of financial independence 00:26:37.780 |
while recognizing that financial independence is one, it's a sliding scale, it's a moving 00:26:49.620 |
It's not going to change all that much, because I am confident that if we'd been talking 20 00:26:54.100 |
years ago, you would have been just as chilled out, you would have been just as an interesting 00:26:58.580 |
person, you would have had all these interesting things that you were working on. 00:27:02.100 |
And so the difference between you as a worker and you as an early retiree, I'm not convinced 00:27:08.460 |
I think for you, it was something where you just said, "I'm gonna consciously choose never 00:27:16.100 |
But in terms of how I perceive you, I think you were probably a similar guy. 00:27:20.380 |
I was similar, but I had a great deal more anxiety about it. 00:27:27.900 |
I think I spent a lot of time worrying about things that in retrospect would have happened 00:27:36.220 |
And I had a lot of people who were in your position, they were usually a lot older than 00:27:39.700 |
you are, but they would say, "Oh, you're gonna be fine." 00:27:45.740 |
I've gotta pay rent and I'm not making enough money." 00:27:49.660 |
And they would just look at me and say, "No, no, you're fine." 00:27:54.940 |
And I didn't listen, 'cause I couldn't see what they were seeing. 00:27:59.420 |
So I suspect that some of those older people, they were typically men, sort of father figures 00:28:05.200 |
who told me that, would probably say the same thing you're saying. 00:28:08.220 |
"Yeah, that's the same kid I met when he was 22. 00:28:15.580 |
And as I spend more time retired, I realize not that I wasted time in between, but that 00:28:23.180 |
I had to go through those feelings in order to enjoy where I am now. 00:28:28.220 |
And that I couldn't have retired, even if I suddenly had had as much money as I do now, 00:28:34.140 |
I would have been just as afraid, felt just as nuts about money as I did. 00:28:40.240 |
So I wasn't as chill then as I am now, but I suspect you are right, that the core way 00:28:50.480 |
I am and the person who I am has not changed drastically. 00:28:55.180 |
And that I could have done it much, much sooner and been wherever I'll be in 10 years now, 00:29:15.120 |
And I'm guessing, correct me if I'm wrong, but I think I'm pretty safe on safe ground 00:29:18.920 |
here, that you deeply value what your mother sewed into you and that you're seeking to 00:29:27.400 |
Tell me what you're doing with your daughter, what you've done at an early age, what you're 00:29:31.320 |
doing now and what you're planning to do to pass on your mother's legacy through you to 00:29:38.280 |
At first, I worried much more about the answer to that question than I am now. 00:29:44.400 |
I realize increasingly that being who I am, so it's that lesson we just talked about, 00:29:56.520 |
I don't try to be a mustachian, since we're going to keep going back to that theme. 00:30:05.120 |
So like it or not, my daughter is seeing that, and that is the biggest lesson. 00:30:12.000 |
Certainly you can try very hard to teach your children things, but they learn most from 00:30:19.560 |
And I think the active things that I've done, in order to give some meat to the answer, 00:30:26.720 |
my daughter doesn't have a lot of the stuff that other kids have currently. 00:30:32.560 |
She doesn't have an allowance, even though a lot of her peers have allowances. 00:30:37.520 |
And over the years, she has seen me not buying the newest, spiffiest, coolest thing. 00:30:46.600 |
She's actually has made comments about the fact that every single picture of us in the 00:30:57.840 |
You're just wearing the same shirt over, like you're just getting older. 00:31:05.140 |
And I think that is a lesson that she's getting, is the fact that I'm not buying all this stuff, 00:31:12.880 |
And then there are just some lessons when she actually asks things like renting versus 00:31:19.160 |
We're walking around, she sees for sale signs and wants to know what that concept is. 00:31:22.520 |
And I explained to her what I think is right about renting versus buying, and having the 00:31:27.000 |
power of money work for you, and leasing, because I'm also this car guy, so I give a 00:31:33.520 |
lot of people advice about cars, and making things, repairing things rather than replacing 00:31:40.040 |
These are all lessons that I actively teach as well as passively do by example, set by 00:31:48.840 |
So you are semi-famous under a pseudonym for the topic of cars, and your knowledge of and 00:31:57.640 |
experience with vehicles, especially how to get a good deal. 00:32:02.200 |
How did you acquire your skills with being able to drive well for cheap? 00:32:09.600 |
So that also was a job that I skipped mentioning in Tokyo. 00:32:13.200 |
So I've been a motorcyclist my whole life, and in Tokyo I was buying and selling motorcycles 00:32:19.160 |
Because of my language skill and my long-term being able to stay there without an official 00:32:27.120 |
job, I learned the official paths to getting a vehicle licensed for a foreigner. 00:32:36.600 |
So I could buy motorcycles cheaply and get them licensed, et cetera, and sell them to 00:32:41.540 |
foreigners who were usually there for a short period of time, all licensed. 00:32:44.680 |
They didn't have to go wait in line, deal with the DMV, et cetera. 00:32:47.640 |
So this idea of buying and selling vehicles started actually back in Tokyo. 00:32:52.920 |
I was making things easier for people who wanted to exchange money for hassle and time. 00:33:01.500 |
And most of them were actually very wealthy people who were there for short periods of 00:33:04.720 |
time for their one-year stint with an investment bank, but they wanted a cool motorcycle to 00:33:10.960 |
So that was where I got into the idea of buying and selling vehicles and seeing how easy it 00:33:18.400 |
was and what the spread was between them, and that a lot of it had to do with paperwork. 00:33:23.920 |
And then my own motorcycle experience, I've had, I think I'm on my 29th personal motorcycle. 00:33:31.680 |
Because I'm always looking for the right bike. 00:33:45.600 |
And I started to be interested in fixing the vehicles when I had to. 00:33:55.520 |
When I was more worried about money, I started to learn to fix actual problems with motorcycles. 00:34:02.760 |
And then when I finally got my first car, it was one that I was going to own for a while 00:34:08.900 |
There were some things that went wrong with it, and I started to realize that I could 00:34:15.360 |
I mean, if you get multiple quotes for a hole in your roof or for braces or for whatever, 00:34:20.760 |
you could go to multiple car shops and ask what the price was to get something fixed 00:34:26.960 |
and start to glean information by asking questions and what the parts were and could I bring 00:34:34.800 |
And then I started to realize that it wasn't rocket science and I could possibly do it 00:34:39.600 |
So fast forward to moving to Maine where I had a great deal of time and I finally had 00:34:46.560 |
And I'm just talking about my little one car garage in my house, not some fancy garage 00:34:52.000 |
I started to use the power of the internet and my own two hands and have, I think, the 00:34:59.720 |
I figured at any point if I really messed something up, I could call AAA and have them 00:35:06.720 |
So why should I pay some mechanic to screw it up when I could screw it up for free? 00:35:11.000 |
And especially the fact that you didn't have to be at a job on Monday morning with a working 00:35:14.600 |
car so you have time and you didn't really have to be anywhere. 00:35:18.080 |
So that's a key thing because I, I, um, I'll just keep going in a moment, but I've faced 00:35:24.080 |
I see how simple it is to fix things oftentimes, but I also recognize how many of those projects 00:35:32.320 |
And if you don't have the flexibility of time, it's been the challenge for me. 00:35:35.160 |
I'm not financially independent under the terms of, well, I can just do whatever. 00:35:38.560 |
I have family members who are, and when I observed them, one of them is just world class 00:35:44.960 |
But it's also because they have the time to do the research, order the parts, wait four 00:35:51.640 |
And so time makes a huge difference in having that time where I'm right in that middle where, 00:35:56.920 |
okay, I could make changes, but I'm still in that. 00:36:00.640 |
I still have some of those pressures of my business and my job that cut into things. 00:36:06.040 |
And you, and you're, you know, I understand the value of convenience. 00:36:09.320 |
I mean, that's exactly what you're talking about or not being able to do that because 00:36:14.080 |
you have other responsibilities or other things you'd like to do. 00:36:16.960 |
I luckily am in this position that I finally got myself into where I do have the time and 00:36:23.520 |
There are certain things that, um, for example, I have an accountant, not unlike Mr. Money 00:36:32.360 |
Like I've been sourced most things in my life because I like to learn stuff, but I, I am 00:36:38.640 |
I'm, I'm willing to pay somebody else to do that when it comes to fixing cars. 00:36:46.440 |
Um, it's, it's a huge high to, to fix something yourself. 00:36:51.040 |
And you know, I'm probably, uh, not that much more mechanically inclined than other people 00:36:59.040 |
I, I, you know, I went to prep school, I went to a fancy college, I went to go work in the 00:37:04.720 |
You know, I didn't have grease under my fingernails until much later in life, but I figured out 00:37:10.280 |
that I really like it and, um, and that it's very satisfying to kind of do that work to 00:37:16.400 |
actually like manual work, especially when it is so, um, binary. 00:37:22.920 |
I mean you fix it and it works or you don't and it doesn't. 00:37:27.200 |
I like to do work that because so much of my work is mental, um, where you can't physically 00:37:33.840 |
Uh, I find it also satisfying to do things that result in a physical tangible result, 00:37:39.200 |
fixing the car, improving it and also the process because the process is relatively 00:37:43.440 |
straightforward in many ways, a linear process. 00:37:46.980 |
If you understand where you're going from point a through, you know, point Z of the 00:37:50.360 |
instructions or the process, um, you know, you can put on something nice to listen to, 00:37:55.000 |
a great podcast, great radio, great music, whatever. 00:37:59.840 |
You can just slow down and enjoy the process and it can be very, uh, for me, I, I, I share 00:38:05.960 |
that same enjoyment of it, but then if you've got to have it done by a certain time and 00:38:11.080 |
it doesn't work and the part doesn't fit, you know, my camper van, I bought my camper 00:38:15.360 |
van and the generator wasn't working and so I fixed it twice and it still wasn't working 00:38:20.440 |
and I was like, I've got to get this thing working. 00:38:22.080 |
So finally I admitted defeat and took it to the shop and they fixed it and got it working. 00:38:29.080 |
So that's one of your secrets is, is your fix of cars. 00:38:33.880 |
Uh, and when I don't know how to fix it, I'm certainly happy to involve a professional. 00:38:39.200 |
And it has, uh, also allowed me in many ways to sort of spread the word actually. 00:38:46.160 |
Um, cause a lot of times I end up selling these cars to friends or friends of friends, 00:38:51.960 |
et cetera, um, for cost or very close to it because I'm not really in it to make money. 00:38:58.720 |
It's more that I, uh, not dissimilar again to, to Mr. Money Mustache. 00:39:03.480 |
I see it as, um, as a form of environmentalism. 00:39:06.960 |
Um, actually someone here on the trip asked, you know, should I get rid of my, uh, Toyota 00:39:17.420 |
He drives less than 5,000 miles a year and he really loves that truck and has 150,000 00:39:27.540 |
The, um, the easy answer would be, oh yeah, you should have a Prius. 00:39:30.660 |
It's going to get two to three times the gas mileage of your truck. 00:39:33.580 |
But what about the environmental impact of him buying a whole nother vehicle? 00:39:40.020 |
And I'm sure people who are listening are going to make all sorts of arguments against 00:39:44.380 |
But at the end of the day, what I told him is the lowest hanging fruit is just drive 00:39:48.140 |
If you drive your car half as much as you do now, you've just doubled the time that 00:39:56.660 |
Uh, and he said, yeah, I guess I don't have to drive to the gym every day. 00:40:01.660 |
And I said, yeah, you don't, of course you don't. 00:40:03.180 |
And I didn't, you know, and I said, Hey, I'm not Mr. Money Mustache. 00:40:08.380 |
I said, no, I'm not going to beat you over the head. 00:40:12.820 |
I'm not going to tell you to get rid of it, but just drive it less. 00:40:16.260 |
Maybe you can just walk around your neighborhood on Tuesdays and Thursdays instead of walking 00:40:20.700 |
And there you've just massively reduced your footprint. 00:40:30.740 |
How much of a role does environmentalism play into your behavior, your decisions, your financial 00:40:41.960 |
I think there are times when for me, I worry too much and focus too hard on the environmental 00:41:01.420 |
The case in point would be a water fight at my daughter's birthday party. 00:41:08.780 |
And I'm thinking the whole time about how much water are we using? 00:41:12.220 |
And then I try to think, well, it's, you know, it's splashing on the ground and, you know, 00:41:16.460 |
water's a closed system on our planet and that's okay. 00:41:22.040 |
And I also find myself occasionally still getting sort of upset when I see people wasting 00:41:31.960 |
A big thing in Maine is to idle your vehicle. 00:41:35.280 |
People will get out of their car and leave it. 00:41:38.780 |
I'll see a car in my neighbor's driveway idling for an hour while they go inside and they 00:41:43.180 |
were just going in to get something and then they get distracted. 00:41:46.460 |
And I realize I can't save the world that way. 00:41:53.780 |
And yes, we all need to think about the tiny things we can do, but it's not worth getting 00:42:01.220 |
steamed up about, you know, to sort of make the joke. 00:42:08.300 |
And interestingly enough, a little side story is that my daughter, who I never purposefully 00:42:15.620 |
teach environmentalism to, got very upset the other day when she drew a bath for herself. 00:42:26.180 |
She came back and I hear her wailing from upstairs and I run upstairs thinking something 00:42:32.860 |
And, you know, 11-year-olds don't cry that much anymore. 00:42:38.140 |
She said, "I forgot to put the plug in and all the water I've been, it's been on for 00:42:42.900 |
like five minutes and that water level hasn't gotten any higher and I wasted all that hot 00:42:48.140 |
And she was really upset and I had to pat her back and calm her down and say, "It's okay. 00:42:56.560 |
And part of me was like, "Wow, I'm really screwing my kid up with like being that uptight 00:43:05.020 |
Her reaction was a little strong, but she does understand that every drop counts. 00:43:12.220 |
And sometimes I feel that that's a burden and sometimes I feel that that's a blessing. 00:43:18.020 |
When you think of environmentalism, do you think of that as, like for you, what does 00:43:27.500 |
For me, I think about it as a way for me to lessen my use of stuff. 00:43:38.960 |
So it's, I don't really think about the calculations of carbon footprints, how many tons of carbon 00:43:46.740 |
oxide am I emitting per mile in a particular vehicle, et cetera. 00:43:50.420 |
I think about it more in terms of what am I consuming? 00:43:58.020 |
So again, back to the car thing, I'm always trying to convince people actually to keep 00:44:06.020 |
Even though maybe another car is more fuel efficient, the most efficient thing is for 00:44:11.700 |
A lot of my neighbors, when they're remodeling their houses and they remodel them "green" 00:44:16.780 |
and it's LEED compliant, et cetera, I think, "Well, what about all the crap you just ripped 00:44:22.820 |
You just ripped out all these nice old Formica countertops that were working perfectly. 00:44:29.300 |
And the appliances that were avocado green or perhaps even as simple as white, you've 00:44:36.860 |
And unless you made a very strong effort to recycle those by selling them to somebody 00:44:40.140 |
else on Craigslist or reusing them in your basement or something like that, you just 00:44:50.740 |
So when people are throwing things away, so I'm constantly trying to reduce the amount 00:44:56.140 |
of stuff that I'm consuming or that by nature of consuming, I'm excreting. 00:45:11.400 |
And that actually brings me back to money, which was how do you figure out what is enough? 00:45:15.660 |
I think a lot of people are going to have that question. 00:45:18.760 |
But that's a big question for your listeners who are interested in financial independence, 00:45:25.980 |
Because had I had the insight that you came to so quickly, because you're smarter than 00:45:31.260 |
I am, was I had enough a long time ago and I just didn't realize it. 00:45:36.220 |
So in terms of how much is enough with sort of the environmental slant, I'd like to think 00:45:45.460 |
So if I let it mellow and only flush it down when it's brown, I've just saved a whole bunch 00:45:53.840 |
more water than the guy in the next house who flushes every time he pees. 00:45:58.700 |
I don't really have to get caught up in the I didn't save enough or I used too much. 00:46:04.140 |
If there's an opportunity for me to use less easily, then I should. 00:46:08.860 |
Again it's that low-hanging fruit of the guy who I just say, "Just drive your car less. 00:46:14.860 |
Buying something else isn't going to solve this problem. 00:46:17.180 |
If you're really worried about the environmental impact of your truck, just drive it less. 00:46:27.180 |
So for me, it's not so much that there's a line for what is enough. 00:46:30.380 |
If it's better than what I would have done without thinking, then I've already accomplished 00:46:37.540 |
And that bar is set in a place where it's really easy to access so I can feel good about 00:46:42.100 |
it instead of getting caught up in like I used to about how many gallons are being used 00:46:47.260 |
and just looking at everything around me as being the whole world's going to hell. 00:46:54.100 |
It could be and perhaps ignorance is bliss in this case, but I do have to consider my 00:47:03.660 |
And I've often wondered, and I have some ideas in terms of how it can be done better. 00:47:11.580 |
Have you redesigned your house to use any other than just using less? 00:47:16.140 |
Have you changed any of the technology of your house so that things are reused or recycled 00:47:21.460 |
intentionally internally in the house or on the property? 00:47:25.500 |
Some of the water that's the wastewater in my house gets reused just to a very small 00:47:30.060 |
degree because I didn't want to have to go through a bunch of compliance issues with 00:47:35.140 |
I did install things, for example, a wood stove insert. 00:47:38.820 |
So about 80% of my heat now is from wood from a state that's 90% wooded. 00:47:45.420 |
When my furnace broke, I replaced it with a much more efficient unit rather than the 00:47:52.640 |
I would not if that old furnace was still working, I probably would still be using it. 00:47:58.180 |
So I haven't made massive changes to the output. 00:48:02.620 |
Although I would say by far we have the smallest amount of garbage that leaves our house. 00:48:13.780 |
And I actually purchase things with packaging in mind. 00:48:24.920 |
It's really that little, but all those plastic bags add up. 00:48:34.540 |
For example, my garage where I'm working on cars and projects and stuff is filled with 00:48:40.500 |
old yogurt containers for storing screws and the top of a milk jug cut off as a scoop. 00:48:47.980 |
I look at these things and try to use them at least once again. 00:48:52.500 |
Almost partially, that's partially frugal because I don't want to go buy that special 00:48:59.120 |
And then the second one is because it's just there. 00:49:00.820 |
I'm in the recycling bins right there in the garage and I know I'm about to drain some 00:49:05.900 |
So gee, that's a good plastic cup to put it in. 00:49:08.580 |
And then gee, that drained gas is kind of crappy, but my Honda Odyssey gas tank has 00:49:16.820 |
Half a gallon of crappy gas is not going to hurt it and it's going to get used efficiently. 00:49:21.740 |
Because how else am I going to dispose of that in an environmentally conscious way? 00:49:26.100 |
So I make those steps, but I certainly don't have a composting toilet. 00:49:32.360 |
My house is just on a regular street with everybody else's and I haven't made massive 00:49:38.820 |
changes and all the changes have been either for my own comfort, like the wood stove, which 00:49:45.340 |
I love, or because something broke and then it needed to be replaced. 00:49:51.460 |
So I have this theory about environmentalism, is just simply that environmentalists sell 00:50:00.500 |
And I say they because I don't have a problem with the word environmentalist applied to 00:50:08.860 |
Like you're a person, if you want to say you're an environmentalist, fine. 00:50:13.220 |
It's become such a militant term in so many ways that it's got some baggage. 00:50:23.300 |
And the difference that I see is a difference of hierarchy and superiority. 00:50:26.860 |
It's a philosophical difference where it seems to me that many environmentalists, I know 00:50:31.660 |
nothing about your personal philosophy, but many environmentalists look at the world and 00:50:35.060 |
say the best thing that could happen would be to wipe all humans off the planet. 00:50:38.860 |
Because the world is God, the actual physical creation, the world, the natural environment 00:50:48.380 |
So I don't believe that philosophy, I don't resonate upon it. 00:50:56.040 |
But it's also here for me to care for and to be a steward of. 00:50:59.260 |
And so to me I think that fits better under the word conservationist. 00:51:02.860 |
So I personally like that word conservationist. 00:51:05.400 |
But kind of environmentalism as I see it sells the problem of deprivation instead of the 00:51:13.820 |
And I see two parallel tracks where it happens in terms of money and finance and also in 00:51:21.900 |
That people often sell money and finance as deprivation. 00:51:25.860 |
Well you should save more because that's the right thing to do. 00:51:29.540 |
Well again to pay homage to our friend Mr. Money Mustache, we're here with him at this 00:51:36.220 |
And one of the things that I believe he does better than anybody else in the world is he 00:51:40.460 |
paints financial stewardship, good financial decisions, not as deprivation but as the ultimate 00:51:48.860 |
And that's what this early retiree movement is about. 00:51:53.480 |
And so if you don't go through that, I've talked to people all the time, like listen, 00:51:58.180 |
if you just save 75% of your income you'll be in a position to where you'll be financially 00:52:03.740 |
And they look and they view 75% of income as just this horrible deprivation. 00:52:09.260 |
Instead of saying, "Oh, I'll be financially independent, look how great it is." 00:52:12.540 |
So frugality I don't see is any end in and of itself. 00:52:18.080 |
It's something that gains you something that you want better. 00:52:22.460 |
In the same way environmentalism, my issue a lot of times with environmentalism, is that 00:52:34.940 |
You must live in a yurt in the woods and go barefoot and poop in a bucket." 00:52:38.420 |
Like hold on a second, why don't we apply and say, "How can we make so that we can have 00:52:44.100 |
everything that we want for our own human needs and comfort and luxury and make the 00:52:53.140 |
Why can't we turn it into a surplus and live richly with it?" 00:52:57.220 |
And so when I look at it, the thing I say about like water, is that if the water gets 00:53:01.380 |
wasted for example, if the water just kind of gets flushed down the pipe, goes in with 00:53:05.260 |
the sewage, I can't stand, I personally can't stand that concept. 00:53:09.220 |
I hate, my house right now is just a standard apartment. 00:53:12.180 |
And so the water goes right down in the sewer with all of the feces. 00:53:15.580 |
And that is so frustrating to me because that is the dumbest thing to do, to take drinking 00:53:19.700 |
water and pollute it with feces, when it could be repurposed and used in so many ways. 00:53:25.740 |
And so that annoys me because it doesn't follow that principle of conservation. 00:53:30.520 |
But I don't want to not take a bath every day. 00:53:32.780 |
I don't want to take a bath once a week because, "Oh, I can only take a bath once a week." 00:53:36.020 |
I want to take a rich, hot, luxurious bath every day. 00:53:39.500 |
But for you in Portland, I'd be thinking, "But how can I make sure that I'm using the 00:53:43.180 |
waste heat from my wood stove to heat the boiler and it's just always hot and it's wasted 00:53:48.460 |
So now we're using the heat multiple times in order to provide this luxury. 00:53:53.340 |
Then we're going to take the water, we're going to run it through a gray water system, 00:53:56.300 |
we're going to use it twice, then we're going to flush it out into a reed bed." 00:53:59.340 |
Well, it doesn't work in the winter, but you can come up with a version that does. 00:54:04.480 |
So then I'm using that to reeds to filter the water. 00:54:08.100 |
Then at the end of the reed bed, I'm going to pass the water down into my garden so it's 00:54:12.020 |
And I'm going to put that at the top of my property so it can be used multiple times 00:54:18.380 |
Then I'm going to take the reeds, I'm going to take those, use those as mulch, and I'm 00:54:21.540 |
going to use that as a process of taking those nutrients that were grown from there and take 00:54:27.260 |
And so the problem with it is that that's just good thinking. 00:54:31.140 |
That's saying, "How can I get everything I want? 00:54:35.820 |
But how can I do it in a way that recognizes my responsibility of stewardship and conservation 00:54:42.300 |
while also recognizing that I don't serve this goal out here?" 00:54:49.460 |
I was glad, I was going to ask you, I was glad that you didn't define environmentalism 00:54:57.340 |
This is one of my biggest issues with people who think environmentalism, they think carbon. 00:55:05.180 |
Instead of saying, "Well, how can we create a system that not only fills our needs, but 00:55:11.140 |
also not just doesn't produce carbon, why don't you create a system that actively pulls 00:55:17.620 |
And that is so simple in some ways to do, and there's so many people who are doing much, 00:55:22.180 |
so much progress there, but instead everyone just wants to guilt everyone and say, "No, 00:55:29.180 |
We could design and we could completely transform literally the planet. 00:55:36.180 |
I'm convinced it's going to happen in the coming decades. 00:55:38.720 |
You can transform the planet and you can green the planet in such a way that you can fly 00:55:43.480 |
every day in your luxury private jet and still have a carbon negative environment. 00:55:53.940 |
So when you attack somebody's jet and you say, "No, you can't drive," or, "You can't 00:55:57.340 |
do that," the point about that, it's not to say that there's not a principle there. 00:56:01.420 |
Yes, you need to be careful of it, but by focusing on the positive, you create something 00:56:10.940 |
Yeah, I definitely agree with the idea of we have huge brains. 00:56:21.700 |
Instead of either guilt, it's the carrot stick kind of analogy. 00:56:25.860 |
So I agree with you that there is, you used a term just as you were talking about, it's 00:56:36.220 |
It's not always the easiest path, but it's better thinking and there is a huge incentive, 00:56:46.980 |
Yeah, which can be done in your climate with wasted heat. 00:56:50.580 |
Things that would otherwise just be lost and it wasn't recycled. 00:56:53.620 |
And then it becomes about the goal and the challenge of saying, "How many times can I 00:56:58.460 |
I'll give you, recycling programs drive me nuts. 00:57:02.580 |
Recycling, however, as in that you're reusing, I think that's fantastic. 00:57:07.220 |
If recycling programs, as in the blue truck pulled up, was the end of the waste stream, 00:57:19.860 |
And that's what to me is frustrating, is because it's inefficient. 00:57:24.060 |
I will grant that the blue truck might be valuable, but try to put the blue truck at 00:57:29.620 |
the end of the waste stream, not at the beginning. 00:57:36.220 |
And let's teach people a little bit of an idea about that instead of creating this artificial 00:57:43.580 |
sense of being a do-gooder that, "Oh, I put all my stuff in the blue bin." 00:57:52.540 |
Where that's great is there's a school in Portland, Maine called Breakwater School, 00:58:02.780 |
And just like when I was a kid at the Arts and Science Center in Nashua, New Hampshire, 00:58:11.900 |
It was all these bins and things that people were throwing away that people were giving 00:58:17.460 |
to kids to play with and to make things out of, whether it was art or little projects 00:58:27.020 |
There's a lot of scrap that's going to use, and that's direct reuse/recycling, because 00:58:33.180 |
it's my plastic quart yogurt cup going to mix paints in, rather than buying little paint 00:58:42.780 |
stirring things that they sell at Home Depot. 00:58:46.720 |
It's actually better than the one that you're going to get. 00:58:49.880 |
So reusing that stuff for a completely different purpose and then giving the children the opportunity 00:58:54.640 |
to look at it as something other than a yogurt cup. 00:59:23.400 |
My wife's family is in Portland, Maine, so we had been visiting and were both familiar 00:59:31.140 |
My daughter was starting kindergarten, and the public schools in San Francisco at the 00:59:39.440 |
And we made a very strong effort to get into a school that we felt she'd be comfortable 00:59:45.460 |
And we were denied our first seven choices, went back into the system, were denied the 00:59:54.560 |
And that was the straw that broke the camel's back. 00:59:57.580 |
And then, of course, the third one was that I was saving money for a down payment for 01:00:03.160 |
a house in San Francisco, which is pretty much a million dollars. 01:00:09.000 |
Without that payment, I was able to buy a house in Portland, Maine. 01:00:14.200 |
So given the opportunity of doing the right thing for my daughter to have a better environment 01:00:18.800 |
to grow up in and go to school in, the second one of having a familial support and finally 01:00:23.520 |
having Grammy around, and then the third of being able to take naps whenever I want. 01:00:35.200 |
Something like a snowy day that does something for the napping makes it even better. 01:00:38.760 |
It also happens to be an incredibly gorgeous location. 01:00:43.160 |
Portland is doing everything in a great way right now. 01:00:53.400 |
And you didn't have to spend a million dollars. 01:00:58.000 |
Bill, is there anywhere that you want to direct people to or any final closing thoughts that 01:01:02.640 |
you'd like to just share with my audience as we go? 01:01:05.840 |
There's nowhere in particular I want to direct people to. 01:01:11.320 |
I would like to tell people, as I did here last night, you actually hit the nail on the 01:01:20.400 |
You have to figure out what enough is and then maybe take a leap. 01:01:26.960 |
The big one is, are you going to lie on your deathbed and think, "I should have made more. 01:01:32.360 |
I should have stayed in my job for another year to make another $20,000 when I retire. 01:01:39.880 |
No, they generally say, "I should have gone to my friend's wedding. 01:01:46.200 |
I made the mistake of waiting much longer than I should have to retire. 01:01:51.400 |
I had much more money at retirement that I really needed. 01:01:58.200 |
I'm not regretting it, but it would be nice if somebody else could hear these words since 01:02:02.840 |
that's the great thing that humans can do is tell our stories to others and have them 01:02:08.520 |
Consider jumping ship earlier rather than later. 01:02:12.160 |
I'm certainly going to be a parent who does not push my kid to make more money or get 01:02:18.760 |
I really want her to find what's going to make her happy. 01:02:22.500 |
If you're not happy, you can do something about it. 01:02:29.440 |
Financial independence or just plain old being rich doesn't change that at all. 01:02:34.700 |
You're still you and you've still got your things going on. 01:02:37.800 |
You can change them right now even if you're broke. 01:02:44.520 |
You on the shoulders of your mom and now we on your shoulders. 01:02:52.480 |
There is one thing that I want you to know that happened after the interview. 01:02:56.720 |
The next day I was sitting and talking with Bill and we were just talking a little bit 01:02:59.800 |
more about his story after we finished the interview. 01:03:05.080 |
He shared something with me that didn't come up in the context of the interview but it's 01:03:09.560 |
Obviously, it's great that he achieved financial independence. 01:03:13.320 |
The next day as he was talking, he said, "You know, I really struggled when I first became 01:03:20.240 |
When he first declared that financial independence, he said he struggled with depression for about 01:03:25.800 |
two years total before he finally was able to work out his new lifestyle. 01:03:31.840 |
I mention that because number one, it's an important detail but it's also a common theme 01:03:36.360 |
that I have seen among many people who have pursued financial independence and who have 01:03:42.000 |
built it is once they achieve it, that transition can often be difficult. 01:03:49.040 |
Now this shouldn't be surprising because we know this from the research that's done on 01:03:54.580 |
Many people who retire at traditional retirement age of 65 tend to find themselves feeling 01:04:00.480 |
depressed, losing some of their sense of meaning and purpose of their lives. 01:04:08.040 |
You can replace that and you can find a new sense of meaning and purpose but it's something 01:04:16.500 |
Now my summary of how to handle it is very simple. 01:04:20.040 |
If you're retiring from something alone, you're probably going to face significant emotional 01:04:29.840 |
and mental problems when you first start retirement. 01:04:33.500 |
If you're just retiring to get away from a job you hate or out of a business that you 01:04:36.880 |
can't stand, you're probably going to have problems. 01:04:42.160 |
If you're retiring from something, you're going to have problems. 01:04:48.260 |
But the people that I have seen that have had the most successful retirements are those 01:04:56.520 |
If you're retiring to something, you're likely to have an extremely successful retirement. 01:05:03.560 |
The person who trades in a job that, hey, it's working fine but they'd love to be able 01:05:06.960 |
to devote that 40 hours to something that's more important to them that may not be income 01:05:15.640 |
You should have tested that, the lifestyle, partly before retiring. 01:05:20.680 |
Slower transitions are usually a better move. 01:05:24.440 |
But the key is, are you retiring from something or you're retiring to something? 01:05:31.920 |
It's too important of a point for you to miss. 01:05:39.100 |
And with that, that's the end of the show today. 01:05:41.880 |
I want to thank Bill for coming on and sharing his experience. 01:05:51.720 |
Fixer just means somebody who just fixes stuff for people. 01:05:54.240 |
If you've got a problem, how do you get it done? 01:05:58.640 |
And to think that somebody could build a career doing that should be inspirational to many 01:06:03.500 |
And it's something that you can do on your own terms. 01:06:06.720 |
I think you have to have a unique set of skills. 01:06:08.440 |
But maybe you should put fixer on your career aspiration. 01:06:14.240 |
As we go, a quick reminder, I'm focusing very hard on finishing this demographic survey 01:06:22.640 |
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And with that, I'm out of here until tomorrow. 01:07:16.720 |
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