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I've just returned from Gainesville, Florida, 00:01:25.000 |
where I was speaking at Camp Mustache Southeast 2017. 00:01:29.000 |
And today I share with you the audio from the speech 00:01:37.000 |
I had some, even though I'd gotten there early 00:01:39.000 |
and practiced it all, all of a sudden in the moment 00:01:42.000 |
I had some technical details that messed everything up 00:01:45.000 |
and you'll hear as I begin, I'm a bit flustered 00:01:48.000 |
and it takes me a few minutes to settle down. 00:01:50.000 |
But the topic is why wait until you're financially independent 00:01:56.000 |
Hey, if you can start early, why not start now? 00:02:16.000 |
to be able to record a live show in front of you, 00:02:23.000 |
the show dedicated to providing you with the insight, 00:02:26.000 |
the intelligence, and the fun, and the education, 00:02:29.000 |
and everything that you need to live a rich life now 00:02:31.000 |
while also building a plan for financial freedom 00:02:34.000 |
My name is Joshua Sheets, we're recording live here tonight 00:02:39.000 |
hardcore mustachians, that's what you all call yourself, right? 00:02:49.000 |
including we have Mr. Money Mustache himself right here. 00:02:56.000 |
I'm gonna first just share a little bit with you, 00:02:58.000 |
and then this will go out as a live podcast as well. 00:03:01.000 |
So we're gonna first start a little bit with my journey, 00:03:03.000 |
talk with you a little bit about financial independence, 00:03:10.000 |
Like You're Financially Independent Until You Are. 00:03:13.000 |
Why should you wait until you are financially independent 00:03:22.000 |
is technology will always mess you up as a public speaker, 00:03:25.000 |
so especially when you're trying something new. 00:03:30.000 |
my path with financial independence and personal finance 00:03:33.000 |
is very different probably than many of yours. 00:03:36.000 |
As I tell the story, I was the 13-year-old nerd 00:03:38.000 |
who was reading books on personal finance and investing. 00:03:41.000 |
I always loved the personal finance section of the bookstore. 00:03:48.000 |
That was goal number one, was I wanted to be rich. 00:03:51.000 |
Now, I always defined rich not as financially independent. 00:03:55.000 |
I wanted to be a big, kind of big-shot business tycoon. 00:03:58.000 |
When I went into college, it was to go in and study business 00:04:07.000 |
and at 18 years old, I started the proper steps. 00:04:09.000 |
I remember on my 18th birthday, I bought my first mutual fund, 00:04:12.000 |
and I opened my first credit cards on my 18th birthday. 00:04:15.000 |
So I sat there at my kitchen table, and I said, 00:04:19.000 |
I opened a Roth IRA and decided that I was going to get things started. 00:04:23.000 |
Worked my way through college, and during college, 00:04:31.000 |
My sophomore year of college, I decided I had been working too hard, 00:04:38.000 |
And what's interesting is, in order to graduate from college debt-free, 00:04:42.000 |
my first year, I worked a total of three jobs concurrently, 00:04:49.000 |
I took 18 hours of class, and I did pretty well. 00:04:52.000 |
My second year of college, I started borrowing money on student loans, 00:04:56.000 |
and in order to make sure that I could have more fun, 00:05:02.000 |
So I dropped classes, stopped working, and my grades went down. 00:05:05.000 |
Theoretically, I had a good time, but looking back on it, 00:05:09.000 |
My junior year, I studied abroad, continued borrowing money, 00:05:12.000 |
dropped out of school after coming back from Costa Rica 00:05:15.000 |
Why am I spending all this money going into debt to get a college degree? 00:05:19.000 |
And then my senior year, after my brother had given me a copy 00:05:22.000 |
of Dave Ramsey's book, My Total Money Makeover, 00:05:26.000 |
and after reading it, disagreeing with him, reading it, 00:05:29.000 |
disagreeing with him, reading it, finally saying, 00:05:31.000 |
"You know what? If I had no payments, how much money would I have?" 00:05:35.000 |
I decided that I would go ahead and do what he had to say. 00:05:39.000 |
So my senior year, I worked full-time, worked 40 hours a week, 00:05:42.000 |
took 19 hours of class, and was able to graduate on time in my four years, 00:05:48.000 |
and I was also able to pay off all my student loans, 00:05:50.000 |
graduate completely debt-free, while also having cash flow 00:05:54.000 |
And so I experienced kind of the benefit of focus, 00:05:56.000 |
and also that year I got the best grades I had gotten in college, 00:06:02.000 |
So that was really a watershed moment in my life, 00:06:05.000 |
to realize how, with focus and attention, we can make a tremendous difference. 00:06:10.000 |
When I went past there, I was in the corporate world. 00:06:13.000 |
I got laid off from the job that I worked in college. 00:06:16.000 |
I mentioned that the other night when we were doing introductions. 00:06:19.000 |
I was doing well, but I wound up getting laid off, 00:06:21.000 |
and I thought, "Wow, I thought this only happened to other people." 00:06:29.000 |
I knew there were a number of things that I wanted in a job, 00:06:34.000 |
So a couple weeks later I was meeting with--having lunch with my former boss, 00:06:38.000 |
and he said, "Have you considered the financial services industry?" 00:06:47.000 |
I thought brokers were out to make you broker. 00:06:49.000 |
Everything's a total scam and a total waste of money. 00:06:55.000 |
But I decided to go ahead and start doing some interviews. 00:06:58.000 |
So he sent me to a friend of his who was actually his financial advisor, 00:07:01.000 |
and I sat down with the man for my initial conversation. 00:07:10.000 |
chartered life underwriter, chartered financial consultant, 00:07:12.000 |
and I sat down, and the whole time we argued about whole life insurance. 00:07:17.000 |
that whole life insurance was the biggest scam in the history of financial products, 00:07:20.000 |
and he started telling me things that I didn't know. 00:07:27.000 |
Maybe there's another side to this type of story." 00:07:31.000 |
Just the other aspects of the business opened my eyes, 00:07:33.000 |
and I realized that if I worked as a financial advisor, 00:07:36.000 |
I could get a lot of the lifestyle benefits that I wanted to get. 00:07:39.000 |
I could get a flexible schedule, a flexible business, 00:07:42.000 |
doing work that I cared about, helping people, 00:07:47.000 |
I ultimately wound up with that same company, 00:07:59.000 |
And I was 23 years old, and I was driving a $2,000 Honda Accord 00:08:02.000 |
with 220,000 miles on it, going out and said, 00:08:05.000 |
"Okay, now I've got to learn the ropes in the financial services business." 00:08:09.000 |
So I started off selling life insurance, disability insurance, 00:08:11.000 |
long-term care insurance, and health insurance. 00:08:15.000 |
And I went to school and just started studying. 00:08:18.000 |
And over the years I transitioned my practice from an insurance primary practice 00:08:22.000 |
to an investment and a retirement planning practice. 00:08:25.000 |
Along the way, I got my certified financial planner designation, 00:08:28.000 |
chartered life underwriter, chartered financial consultant. 00:08:31.000 |
I went on and got a master's degree in financial planning 00:08:42.000 |
with the world of personal finance and the world of financial advice. 00:08:45.000 |
And I got frustrated how so much with my learning, 00:08:49.000 |
how much of the financial advice that I heard out in the world of punditry 00:08:53.000 |
was not wrong, it just wasn't right in every situation. 00:09:00.000 |
how there are ways to use different aspects of the tax code, 00:09:03.000 |
there are ways to use different financial products in different situations. 00:09:07.000 |
And I also grew frustrated with how there was this really exciting world 00:09:11.000 |
of early retirement, financial independence, stuff that made me click, 00:09:18.000 |
And as a financial advisor, I sat down and asked hundreds of people, 00:09:22.000 |
"What do you want to do when you retire? What age do you want to retire?" 00:09:25.000 |
And the same standard answer, 65. "Well, what do you want to do? People don't know." 00:09:28.000 |
And I said, "Somebody should go and try to cross this chasm." 00:09:32.000 |
So in July of 2013, I sat down in the middle of my bed 00:09:38.000 |
"Okay, hey, this is Joshua," and I talked for 45 minutes. 00:09:41.000 |
And if you ever want to hear what I said, it's still in my podcast feed. 00:09:46.000 |
Just sat there and just talked and turned it off, and I listened to it later. 00:09:49.000 |
I said, "Would I listen to that?" And I said, "I would listen to that." 00:09:54.000 |
There were some interesting concepts that would be helpful. 00:09:56.000 |
And as a financial advisor, I spent a lot of time on the road. 00:09:59.000 |
So I've always been a--read a lot, but I also drove a lot. 00:10:02.000 |
And so I would probably listen to about 50 to 60 hours of audio per week 00:10:07.000 |
on 2x speed. So I've consumed hundreds of hours of audio. 00:10:11.000 |
And I'm a verbal person, so I think verbally as well. 00:10:14.000 |
So I looked around at the world of blogging and I said, 00:10:22.000 |
but I couldn't find the type of podcast that I wanted to listen to. 00:10:28.000 |
So the first three weeks, I created ten episodes, and I just really enjoyed it. 00:10:32.000 |
And then I went to my company and I submitted to them and I said, 00:10:40.000 |
"Take the show down or leave one of the two." 00:10:44.000 |
Well, my wife was, as I remember, six, seven, eight-- 00:10:51.000 |
Now I was very proud--if I told you what my name was in the Mustachian forums, 00:10:59.000 |
But I had just bought a house. It was a beautiful purchase. 00:11:02.000 |
It was right next to my office. I could walk to work. 00:11:07.000 |
We had gotten rid of our second car and were in this situation. 00:11:09.000 |
But still, I wasn't financially in a position to where I could just walk away 00:11:18.000 |
And I spent the next six months trying to decide 00:11:20.000 |
if there was some way that I could make a change, 00:11:22.000 |
because I saw a hunger for people, for information, and for education 00:11:27.000 |
that was presented in a straightforward way-- 00:11:29.000 |
to treat people like adults, not to say, "You have to do this 00:11:33.000 |
but to say, "Here are the different options, and you can choose. 00:11:38.000 |
So I spent six months deciding whether or not I was going to do it, 00:11:41.000 |
and then I spent six more months deciding how. 00:11:44.000 |
And the reason was I had to actually completely leave my industry 00:11:50.000 |
There was no way for me to stay in the industry. 00:11:53.000 |
I called around. I talked to people like Jeff Rose, 00:11:55.000 |
some of you guys would know, or some of the financial advisors 00:11:57.000 |
that are in the media space, and I concluded that there was no way 00:12:00.000 |
for me to stay in the industry and do what I wanted to do. 00:12:02.000 |
So it took me a while to figure out the plan. 00:12:04.000 |
But I figured out the plan. I said, "If I just leave 00:12:06.000 |
and go get a bird-brain job that doesn't require any kind of long-term thing, 00:12:12.000 |
and not have to dip into savings for that while building the business." 00:12:15.000 |
And on July 1, 2014, I launched Radical Personal Finance. 00:12:18.000 |
Fast forward, we're two and a half years later, 00:12:26.000 |
I worked part-time and created the show full-time for the first year, 00:12:31.000 |
and then after a year, I was able to make enough money 00:12:35.000 |
to where since then I've been living on the income 00:12:43.000 |
So at first, I thought, "Well, maybe I can go and deliver pizzas," 00:12:51.000 |
I figured if I did it at night and delivered pizzas, 00:12:53.000 |
then I could listen to podcasts, I could compose shows 00:12:56.000 |
while I'm doing it, and I could make $20 an hour. 00:13:00.000 |
you can't make $20 an hour delivering pizzas. 00:13:02.000 |
No matter how hard you hustle, you make $10.73 an hour. 00:13:08.000 |
So then I thought, "Well, maybe I should go and sell cars. 00:13:11.000 |
What I ultimately did was I found a consulting role 00:13:17.000 |
making financial plans for financial advisors 00:13:20.000 |
and then training them on how to present them to the clients 00:13:22.000 |
in a way that the clients would actually get it. 00:13:24.000 |
There are some financial advisors who understand financial planning, 00:13:27.000 |
but the majority of people whose name says "financial advisor" 00:13:29.000 |
on their card don't actually get financial planning. 00:13:34.000 |
so that they could do a better job for their clients. 00:13:40.000 |
So my number one job was radical personal finance. 00:13:47.000 |
Soon after I left--story I mentioned last night-- 00:13:52.000 |
and was driving up to Wyoming to visit my 100-year-old grandmother, 00:13:54.000 |
and I was able to swing by, and I emailed Pete, 00:13:58.000 |
and I said, "Hey, I'm coming through Colorado. Are you around?" 00:14:00.000 |
And he invited me by and graciously spent the evening 00:14:03.000 |
with him and his wife, and another--he was hosting a meetup. 00:14:05.000 |
And then he actually very graciously hosted me in his attic for the night. 00:14:12.000 |
But it was funny. As I told him, I said, "Here's what I'm going to do." 00:14:14.000 |
I don't know if you remember. I said, "I'm going to create this podcast. 00:14:17.000 |
It's going to be just hardcore financial information, 00:14:24.000 |
So I guess podcasts don't fit into the retirement lifestyle. 00:14:29.000 |
Now, in that process, I feel like I have a unique perspective. 00:14:33.000 |
And I have a unique perspective based partly on my professional background. 00:14:37.000 |
Remember, I came from the world of personal finance. 00:14:39.000 |
Then I went to the world of professional financial advice, 00:14:41.000 |
and now I'm back in the world of personal finance. 00:14:45.000 |
If you ever want to ask me questions on why do financial advisors 00:14:48.000 |
do the things they do or why do they believe the things they do, etc., 00:14:53.000 |
And that is a whole speech in and of itself right there. 00:14:57.000 |
But I also have an interesting perspective of trying to show how these things relate. 00:15:01.000 |
And because I study the industry, I kind of see what works and what doesn't. 00:15:06.000 |
So the reason I chose the title of the talk, which was 00:15:13.000 |
"Why Wait to Live Like You're Financially Independent 00:15:17.000 |
is because I feel like this is one of the concepts that's under-discussed, 00:15:28.000 |
I've divided the room in half, and I've put those of you who are financially independent on one side, 00:15:31.000 |
and I've put those of you who aren't financially independent on the other. 00:15:34.000 |
So I want you to think. I want you to ask a question. I want you to think. 00:15:37.000 |
In the last day and a half, as you have been visiting with your compatriots, 00:15:42.000 |
have all of you spent all of your time visiting with people on this side of the room? 00:15:47.000 |
And all of you spent all your time visiting with this side of the room? 00:15:49.000 |
Because we don't talk to them, we don't have anything in common? 00:15:59.000 |
So my point with that is to say that although in our minds we often think there's a big difference 00:16:05.000 |
between not being financially independent and being financially independent, 00:16:10.000 |
you guys haven't demonstrated that in the last few days. 00:16:15.000 |
You've talked to one another, you probably all have interesting lives, interesting experiences, 00:16:21.000 |
and you're all on the stages and journeys toward financial independence, in financial independence, 00:16:29.000 |
Now I think this often gets lost in our thinking. 00:16:35.000 |
I am not financially independent by the standard measured as I have enough income, 00:16:41.000 |
passive income from the dividends and income from my investment portfolio to support my lifestyle. 00:16:50.000 |
I don't think I feel as financially independent as I will feel when I'm there, 00:16:57.000 |
I'm here, and you all are here, with these people. 00:17:04.000 |
It's not like there's a super secret club after financial independence, 00:17:09.000 |
but before, like you just can't do anything fun. 00:17:14.000 |
You think there is, and I just don't know about it, right? 00:17:25.000 |
So I really want to drive this point home, because I think sometimes the sacrifices 00:17:32.000 |
of focusing exclusively on the FI date are a little bit too high, 00:17:39.000 |
and we should consider very seriously if they're worth paying. 00:17:43.000 |
Now I love the questions that JD asked this morning. 00:17:46.000 |
I love his presentation on mission statements, but I want to give you one more question. 00:17:51.000 |
I wonder if any of you have ever done this one as a journaling activity. 00:17:56.000 |
I challenge you to write this down and to think about it. 00:18:04.000 |
What would you do if you knew you could never retire? 00:18:15.000 |
What would you do if you knew for the rest of your life 00:18:18.000 |
it were never possible to become financially independent? 00:18:26.000 |
How would you approach your life under those circumstances? 00:18:38.000 |
Yes, you have to be able to live, but you can never quit work. 00:18:49.000 |
If you find the right woman, you can be a house husband. 00:18:52.000 |
I asked this question not because I believe that achieving financial independence is not possible. 00:19:01.000 |
I asked the question not because I believe achieving financial independence is not worthwhile. 00:19:09.000 |
But my emphasis to you is that in many ways I think you would probably pursue 00:19:18.000 |
and live similar to some of the things that you're doing now. 00:19:21.000 |
If you think about what is Pete's core message with Mr. Money Mustache, 00:19:33.000 |
is a secret ploy to get people to realize how awesome their lives already are 00:19:43.000 |
would you all of a sudden move out of the house that you're living in now 00:19:45.000 |
and all of a sudden say, "I have to go somewhere else"? 00:19:52.000 |
would you start by looking for a job in Longmont, Colorado, 00:19:55.000 |
or would you immediately say, "I'm going to Miami, Florida"? 00:20:05.000 |
He'd say, "Man, I live in this super fancy house. 00:20:19.000 |
It's just a comfortable house that he's put a lot of his sweat equity into 00:20:31.000 |
would you all of a sudden move out of where you're living 00:20:33.000 |
and say, "I'm going to go to Miami, Florida and do something different"? 00:20:42.000 |
Monday mornings, I think, are much more free over here 00:20:50.000 |
But the lifestyle doesn't look that different. 00:20:55.000 |
So if you think about what you would do if you knew you could never retire, 00:20:59.000 |
I have found that to be an incredibly helpful thing. 00:21:08.000 |
Earlier I was having an interview with Joel and -- 00:21:17.000 |
I was having an interview with Joel and Alexis, 00:21:19.000 |
and they were talking about how, Pete, you wrote, 00:21:21.000 |
and you said that one of the greatest things you did 00:21:27.000 |
For me, my definition of financial independence has often been this. 00:21:32.000 |
"I don't want to have to get up with an alarm clock and leave the house." 00:21:37.000 |
I don't want to have to get up with an alarm clock. 00:21:44.000 |
and moved over to starting Radical Personal Finance, 00:21:51.000 |
I lost that need because I run my own schedule. 00:22:00.000 |
Three-year-old and one-year-old and one on the way. 00:22:03.000 |
So, yes, we'll come back to that in a second. 00:22:05.000 |
But I lost--this was when they were still little and slept late. 00:22:09.000 |
Kids sleep late for a while, and here's the secret. 00:22:12.000 |
Don't move your child from a crib to a toddler bed too soon. 00:22:15.000 |
My son was so well-trained in a crib, he would sleep until 9 a.m. 00:22:21.000 |
The next day, 4.30 in the morning, he was up. 00:22:24.000 |
It took me five months--five months of training to get him to sleep 00:22:31.000 |
What I found, though--and so I worked on this, 00:22:36.000 |
where I would focus on not using the alarm clock. 00:22:39.000 |
But then I found I wasn't getting as much accomplished as I wanted to. 00:22:43.000 |
I found that I wanted to make a bigger impact. 00:22:47.000 |
And so then I started setting the alarm clock again. 00:22:49.000 |
And so now, for me now, I don't have to set an alarm clock. 00:22:52.000 |
Yes, I have children, and they sleep until 6.45 or 7. 00:22:56.000 |
But what I find now is I set the alarm clock for 5, 4.30 in the morning 00:23:01.000 |
because I want to, because I feel very seriously-- 00:23:07.000 |
I'm not a night owl. I'm an early-to-bed guy. 00:23:09.000 |
I'm useless after 9 o'clock. My brain shuts down. 00:23:13.000 |
I was trying to be nice last night and talk, but it doesn't work. 00:23:18.000 |
So the point is I don't have to set an alarm clock, but I want to 00:23:21.000 |
because I feel that what I'm doing is important. 00:23:23.000 |
And I'm convinced this is a major thing that all of us want. 00:23:27.000 |
We want to feel like what we're doing is important. 00:23:31.000 |
Now, I challenge you to think seriously about this question. 00:23:37.000 |
So one was, what would you do if you knew you could never retire? 00:23:41.000 |
What would you do if President-elect Trump issued an edict 00:23:46.000 |
that said wealthy people are bad and he took away all your money? 00:23:53.000 |
It could have been President-elect Hillary Clinton, whichever it was. 00:23:57.000 |
And throughout history, lots of rich people have found themselves suddenly poor. 00:24:04.000 |
Lots of rich people have gone through a change in government. 00:24:07.000 |
I live in West Palm Beach, Florida. I have lots of Cuban friends. 00:24:10.000 |
Lots of Cuban friends who went to Miami after Fidel Castro came to power 00:24:13.000 |
and took all their money, took all their business, 00:24:15.000 |
and they fled with the clothes on their back. 00:24:19.000 |
There were all kinds of Jews who fled out of Europe 00:24:23.000 |
And guess what? Many of them came to the United States, to other places, 00:24:28.000 |
and they started again, and they did it again. 00:24:32.000 |
One of the most important things about becoming financially independent 00:24:35.000 |
is the person that you become to become financially independent. 00:24:39.000 |
It's acquiring the skills. It's acquiring the perspective. 00:24:42.000 |
It's acquiring the lifestyle. It's acquiring these habits. 00:24:46.000 |
The reason that the rich get richer and the poor get poorer 00:24:49.000 |
is not always, or even necessarily, the fact that somehow 00:25:00.000 |
The reason the rich get richer is because they do different things 00:25:04.000 |
than the poor do in general. It's not true on a global basis. 00:25:09.000 |
So I challenge you to spend a lot of time focused and thinking 00:25:13.000 |
about the impact that you want your life to have 00:25:19.000 |
and set your life up in such a way that you're going to achieve that goal, 00:25:25.000 |
Now, for those of you who are financially independent, 00:25:28.000 |
if I told you that you could pursue a very aggressive plan 00:25:32.000 |
for financial independence, very aggressive and do it very quickly, 00:25:35.000 |
but it were going to cut a decade off of your life at the end, 00:25:43.000 |
I don't think any of you would. None of us would. 00:25:47.000 |
Now, what this is pointing out--I hope you recognize what this points out-- 00:25:51.000 |
(audience member) If I were younger, I might take it. 00:25:54.000 |
There we go. Age brings a little bit of perspective. 00:25:56.000 |
What I'm pointing out is that life in pre-FI is not so bad 00:26:01.000 |
if you're doing the types of things that are going to lead you to FI. 00:26:05.000 |
And so that's why JD was joking me that I talk a lot 00:26:12.000 |
It's on my website, there's a podcast, JD has his version of that. 00:26:15.000 |
Financial independence can be experienced in stages. 00:26:17.000 |
And I want to just give you a couple of ideas 00:26:22.000 |
in addition to simply that one day, that one goal. 00:26:27.000 |
These are not my stages, these are just things to consider. 00:26:49.000 |
So for those of you over here, if you hate your job, change it. 00:26:54.000 |
There are lots of jobs out there that will pay you 00:27:01.000 |
And there's no reason why searching for a better job, 00:27:04.000 |
a more profitable job, a job that is more appropriate 00:27:07.000 |
for your unique skills, experience, talents, and ability 00:27:10.000 |
has to in any way conflict with financial independence. 00:27:14.000 |
The only reason it would conflict is if you were only focused 00:27:16.000 |
on that one date, that FI date, and you said, 00:27:19.000 |
"I'm going to put my head down and blow my way through to it." 00:27:26.000 |
You can choose a great job, and if it takes a little while 00:27:30.000 |
and then start to make the plans along the way, 00:27:39.000 |
It was powerful because she shared her process up and then down, 00:27:44.000 |
and now she's working her way back up, and she says, 00:27:48.000 |
But, Felisa, how would you have felt if the only thing you did 00:27:51.000 |
for the last 15 years of your life, or 10 to 15 years, 00:27:54.000 |
was stress about the fact that you weren't financially independent? 00:27:57.000 |
You would have missed the whole most important years 00:28:10.000 |
I'm not the one to say what it is or what it isn't. 00:28:13.000 |
I don't think that you're suffering just because you don't have a car. 00:28:18.000 |
What was the one, the bicycle, and it said Energizer, or what was it? 00:28:23.000 |
So you can look, and that's what everything that he writes about, 00:28:26.000 |
everything that is so attractive, the reason why he's created a leaderless cult, 00:28:33.000 |
And we're all comparing, "Hey, who spends less? I spend less. You spend less." 00:28:36.000 |
It's the weirdest conversations in the world. 00:28:41.000 |
And it shows how, when you frame things in a different way. 00:28:44.000 |
So I encourage you, think carefully about your job. 00:28:48.000 |
Much of the stress that people experience is based upon debt. 00:28:55.000 |
If you just simply eliminate or substantially lower your debt, 00:29:01.000 |
I'll pick on Felisa because she told her story publicly. 00:29:03.000 |
If Felisa and her husband had not had massive amounts of debt, 00:29:06.000 |
because they were very focused on growing as quickly as possible, 00:29:10.000 |
they wouldn't have experienced the massive stress. 00:29:12.000 |
Now, they wouldn't have been financially independent as quickly as leverage, 00:29:17.000 |
but they would have avoided a whole lot of stress. 00:29:20.000 |
I was telling some of you last night, I used to be so hard on Dave Ramsey. 00:29:24.000 |
I had so many conflicts with him. I was so frustrated with him. 00:29:28.000 |
I have almost no criticisms of Dave Ramsey anymore. 00:29:32.000 |
Because now that I've walked a little bit in his shoes, 00:29:37.000 |
I often have this conversation around the topic of debtlessness. 00:29:40.000 |
I have this conversation with people and they say, "You know what? 00:29:42.000 |
It's really hard to go wrong if you don't borrow a bunch of money." 00:29:46.000 |
It's really hard to go wrong. You may not get there as quick. 00:29:49.000 |
Leverage is powerful. I'm a financial planner. I cannot deny. 00:30:01.000 |
Consider Jim Collins' concept of "F-you money." 00:30:11.000 |
For me, I think this number is something like 100 grand. 00:30:17.000 |
When I first had $100,000 in a checking account, 00:30:20.000 |
I sat there and I said, "I'm financially independent." 00:30:25.000 |
I made the decision. Earlier, Bill and I were talking. 00:30:29.000 |
I encourage you to look for that one in the podcast feed as well. 00:30:32.000 |
We were talking about the day that he made the decision to say, 00:30:36.000 |
"I'm no longer going to make decisions for money." 00:30:44.000 |
I made that decision when I had $100,000 in the bank. 00:30:47.000 |
I don't think I'm as hardcore as he probably was. 00:30:51.000 |
But I made the decision. I said, "From now on, 00:31:01.000 |
If you combine those two things, debtlessness and $100,000 in the bank, 00:31:06.000 |
there's no transition that you can't make into a great career. 00:31:13.000 |
You have everything you need to take some steps. 00:31:16.000 |
That's a strong approach to financial independence. 00:31:20.000 |
One of the things I learned when I started studying the history of retirement, 00:31:23.000 |
and I did it because I was always interested in it, 00:31:25.000 |
I learned, and I maintain this, it sounds weird, 00:31:27.000 |
the people who can afford to retire don't retire. 00:31:33.000 |
are the ones who will never be able to afford to retire. 00:31:35.000 |
I have searched diligently for this elusive retiree. 00:31:39.000 |
And no, I'm not the internet retirement police. 00:31:44.000 |
I've searched diligently to find this retiree, 00:31:57.000 |
I found one, I read, I forget the guy's name, 00:32:01.000 |
"How to Live on Charles Something" or one of the old guys. 00:32:06.000 |
he's like, "I don't want to do a podcast interview." 00:32:08.000 |
I said, "Ah, there he is, and I can't even get him on my show 00:32:24.000 |
How do you conceive of any of these people here 00:32:30.000 |
but none of us, all of you do things that aren't for money already. 00:32:33.000 |
All of you volunteer, all of you help family. 00:32:38.000 |
until you're financially independent to say no to money 00:32:42.000 |
And before, you have to do everything that earns you money. 00:32:46.000 |
So you just don't have to start with money as the primary goal. 00:32:55.000 |
buys you a huge degree of financial independence. 00:32:57.000 |
And a career that gives you the characteristics that you want 00:33:04.000 |
well, my managing director when I first started, 00:33:06.000 |
his name at Northwestern Mutual, his name was Ed. 00:33:12.000 |
Ed loves boats, and he loves fishing, and he loves fast cars. 00:33:15.000 |
And Ed loves to work hard because he loves his toys. 00:33:21.000 |
He had an airplane, and a boat, and a motorcycle, 00:33:23.000 |
and he had this crazy Mercedes 12-cylinder souped up by Rentech, 00:33:32.000 |
years later, he finally retired, '67, he retired, a rich guy, 00:33:37.000 |
And I went down and visited him down in the Keys. 00:33:39.000 |
He had a job of a guy who paid him $100,000 a year, 00:33:48.000 |
when he came down and flew down with friends of his, 00:33:53.000 |
Now, Ed loved fishing. Ed had his own multi-hundred-thousand-dollar boat. 00:33:58.000 |
But he had a guy who was paying him $100,000 just to come up 00:34:02.000 |
because the man appreciated how Ed ran his boat. 00:34:04.000 |
And I've observed that again and again and again and again. 00:34:11.000 |
People who used to work for me just fired half his clients 00:34:15.000 |
But he still has things. He doesn't make decisions for money, 00:34:17.000 |
but he still has things that bring him in money. 00:34:23.000 |
One of the things that you should seriously consider 00:34:25.000 |
is spending a lot of time on career selection 00:34:30.000 |
Entrepreneurship is very difficult. We know that. 00:34:36.000 |
many of the aspects of flexibility that you're looking for. 00:34:44.000 |
that give you that flexibility, that sense of control. 00:34:47.000 |
So you don't have to wait until you're financially independent 00:34:49.000 |
in order to not be beholden to somebody who has you punch a time card. 00:34:53.000 |
I don't punch a time card, and I know one special. 00:34:56.000 |
Many people here don't have to punch a time card. 00:35:01.000 |
And it's possible to do this within your career, 00:35:05.000 |
and it's possible to do this by changing careers. 00:35:07.000 |
And when you combine all of the skills that you have 00:35:13.000 |
that means that you can make even a lateral or a down career move. 00:35:18.000 |
One of the challenges is so many people are stuck at their lifestyle. 00:35:21.000 |
If you go out and you're earning six figures, 00:35:23.000 |
and you've got a big mortgage and big car payments and big debt, 00:35:35.000 |
But he said, "I could go and work as a bag boy at Publix," 00:35:40.000 |
our grocery store down here, "at Publix, and I could do it." 00:35:43.000 |
He never borrowed money, never exposed himself. 00:35:45.000 |
And he had tons of money, had tons of freedom, 00:35:49.000 |
Well, guess what? The mustachioed lifestyle has bought you that. 00:35:59.000 |
Finally, one of the most powerful things about financial independence 00:36:08.000 |
to consider alternative approaches, alternative lifestyles. 00:36:12.000 |
And the skill that you gain in living more cheaply, 00:36:16.000 |
the skill that you gain in putting yourself in a situation 00:36:22.000 |
those skills can be translated to many other things. 00:36:25.000 |
My wife and I, over Christmas here, we took our camper van, 00:36:28.000 |
and we took our kids, and we traveled for two weeks 00:36:30.000 |
all around the Southeast here on a road trip. 00:36:36.000 |
is that in every campground, there's somebody called a camp host. 00:36:43.000 |
they get a free site, a free campsite to park their RV in, 00:36:53.000 |
If it's not out in the boonies, a lot of them do. 00:36:55.000 |
And all they need to do in exchange for that is, 00:36:58.000 |
they do a little bit of picking up around the campsite, 00:37:01.000 |
and at some facilities, they may do things like 00:37:06.000 |
Most of the time, the people who are camp hosts are retirees, 00:37:22.000 |
But last week, I saw this person who had this little old F-150, 00:37:27.000 |
like a 1979 F-150 pickup truck that they were driving, 00:37:31.000 |
and this tiny little ancient, like from the '70s, 00:37:34.000 |
single axle travel trailer parked in the camp host spot. 00:37:37.000 |
And they were doing camp hosting with this cheap little rig 00:37:44.000 |
Now, most people don't want to live in a trailer. 00:37:49.000 |
But here was a couple who was completely happy in that trailer. 00:37:52.000 |
And so you can grasp or pursue alternative ideas if you're flexible. 00:37:59.000 |
And you can use and you can combine these things in radical ways 00:38:03.000 |
that allow you to get where you want to go faster. 00:38:07.000 |
So you can use your flexibility, you take a job as a camp host, 00:38:09.000 |
you use that as a time to write your work, do your art, whatever it is, 00:38:18.000 |
but there was this awesome story from a guy in Finland 00:38:24.000 |
but he was completely broke and he had no time to do it. 00:38:28.000 |
So he quit his job, he bought a tent, and he moved to the forest. 00:38:32.000 |
And he lived in a tent in the forest during the summer. 00:38:37.000 |
And he had a solar panel to power his laptop, 00:38:42.000 |
He didn't need the internet to do his coding. 00:38:44.000 |
And then once a week he would go get groceries, come back. 00:38:49.000 |
but he got his app built because he did that. 00:38:52.000 |
Now, did he have to wait to be financially independent 00:38:56.000 |
Did he have to go work the soul-sucking job that he hated? 00:39:08.000 |
My final closing thought for you to consider is this. 00:39:18.000 |
a physically challenging race or, like, event? 00:39:25.000 |
Or how many of you like to challenge yourself physically? 00:39:30.000 |
For some people, it comes in, "I'm doing a heavy lift. 00:39:34.000 |
For other people, it's, "I'm going to run a marathon. 00:39:36.000 |
I'm going to do a tough mudder," things like that. 00:39:45.000 |
because it allows you to sit down and do nothing, 00:39:49.000 |
because of the results on the other side of the activity? 00:39:57.000 |
For you to say both, I don't know what to do. 00:40:01.000 |
It was supposed to be latter. That was the point. 00:40:11.000 |
that we go out and seek weird, crazy, strange challenges. 00:40:21.000 |
Why can your job or your career or your business 00:40:31.000 |
Why can you not derive similar amounts of satisfaction 00:40:35.000 |
from the job or the career or the business that you're doing? 00:40:41.000 |
The answer is you won't derive that satisfaction 00:40:45.000 |
if the job, career, or business has no meaning to you, 00:40:52.000 |
you can derive the same amount of satisfaction from that 00:41:09.000 |
"Well, I can work hard and do a construction project," 00:41:13.000 |
You don't have to say, "I don't get that same sense of challenge from business." 00:41:23.000 |
JD's building Money Boss again. He doesn't have to. 00:41:26.000 |
JD, I guarantee-- I mean, do you have, in the long run, 00:41:30.000 |
are you-- I mean, do you compete with people? 00:41:34.000 |
but do you kind of get a little joy out of competing with people 00:41:40.000 |
I like collaborating with people. I'm not competing with anybody in the financial world. 00:41:49.000 |
Hey, if you want to compete, I'll take you on. I'm kidding. 00:41:54.000 |
I collaborate with a number of other podcasters, 00:41:58.000 |
It's fun. I think we're all in the same world. 00:42:00.000 |
We all have different voices, but it is fun for me 00:42:02.000 |
to get with some of my other friends who are podcasters in this financial space, 00:42:05.000 |
and we hash out ideas, and we're all doing different things. 00:42:14.000 |
So for me, radical personal finance is an outgrowth of my goal setting, 00:42:19.000 |
my mission, all those questions that JD asked. 00:42:21.000 |
For me, the big one was, "What is your perfect day?" 00:42:30.000 |
Got that one wrong. I got it right, and then I realized that was silly. 00:42:33.000 |
I wanted to wake up when I wanted to, have breakfast, 00:42:39.000 |
that was important to me in the finance space. 00:42:43.000 |
And so I said, "If I were financially independent, 00:42:51.000 |
It had everything to do with the type of work, 00:42:53.000 |
and it had everything to do with being able to do 00:42:55.000 |
the things I wanted to do the way I wanted to do them-- 00:43:07.000 |
I sat down at the kitchen table with my wife one morning 00:43:12.000 |
"I feel free for, I think, the first time in my life 00:43:24.000 |
I thought back--I thought back through it over the years. 00:43:31.000 |
so we had far more rules than a lot of other people. 00:43:33.000 |
And the administrators could have power over me 00:43:37.000 |
and I could risk suspension and all of that stuff. 00:43:40.000 |
And then I went to college. I had all the same things. 00:43:44.000 |
So there I had even more rules than a lot of other people have. 00:43:47.000 |
Then I went immediately into the corporate world, 00:43:49.000 |
where, of course, I'm accountable to my bosses 00:43:53.000 |
And then I go into the financial services industry, 00:43:55.000 |
where it's like the rules go up through even there. 00:44:08.000 |
and I realized I can say or do anything I want, 00:44:25.000 |
And I challenge you to consider what JD said this morning. 00:44:32.000 |
I don't think that financial independence is a great goal. 00:44:37.000 |
I think it's a great milestone, and a very worthwhile one. 00:44:41.000 |
I remember the day that I paid off all my debt in college. 00:44:44.000 |
Two weeks before I graduated, wrote a check to Sally Mae. 00:44:47.000 |
I think it was, like, 13 grand, something like that. 00:45:02.000 |
And it took a long time for me to grab the next thing. 00:45:05.000 |
Now, on my show, I've interviewed a bunch of people 00:45:11.000 |
Those who set financial independence as the primary goal 00:45:19.000 |
Those who have goals that reach beyond financial independence 00:45:30.000 |
So make sure that when you're thinking about financial independence, 00:45:35.000 |
Don't wait for that magical date to pursue the "why." 00:45:40.000 |
There are lots of non-profit organizations out there 00:45:42.000 |
that need executive directors that are willing to pay $200,000 a year 00:45:48.000 |
I just use that because people often associate my generation, 00:45:53.000 |
"We don't want to go work for the for-profit. 00:45:57.000 |
You can make hundreds of thousands of dollars a year 00:45:58.000 |
working for non-profits, or you can volunteer your time. 00:46:07.000 |
as you go through the process of your financial independence journey. 00:46:27.000 |
And I'm telling you, the price can be too high. 00:46:34.000 |
It's a subject that I'd love to see us talk more about 00:46:39.000 |
and I don't think these goals are mutually exclusive. 00:46:42.000 |
Does anybody have any questions on anything on that? 00:46:48.000 |
- I'm going to make this talk so awesome, it's really good. 00:47:02.000 |
What do you think would actually change about your life right now 00:47:06.000 |
if you were this moment financially independent? 00:47:10.000 |
If I were this moment financially independent, 00:47:14.000 |
so right now I do-- in 2017, I do five podcasts a week, 00:47:19.000 |
and I do that because I had so many years of pent-up frustration 00:47:24.000 |
of all of these topics that I wanted to get out 00:47:29.000 |
I was like, "It'll take me years to get everything out." 00:47:31.000 |
So I still feel that way, but it's also a lot of work. 00:47:37.000 |
To create five new one-hour speeches every day 00:47:42.000 |
I think I would drop my show to, like, two days a week. 00:47:48.000 |
I'm not waiting on financial independence to do that. 00:47:56.000 |
It's just a matter of me building things out. 00:47:58.000 |
And right now, I'm working very, very diligently 00:48:06.000 |
you know, for me, 2016 was, for me, in many ways, 00:48:26.000 |
where in ten words, I can give you a framework 00:48:58.000 |
and they ask each other, "What's the elephant like?" 00:49:00.000 |
One of them says, "It's kind of like a tree trunk." 00:49:05.000 |
And the other one says, "No, it's not. It's like a snake." 00:49:08.000 |
It's like, "What does a tail feel like? I don't know." 00:49:13.000 |
They just are all looking at different parts of it. 00:49:22.000 |
I'll give you a situation in which it's right. 00:49:28.000 |
I'll give you a situation in which it's right. 00:49:37.000 |
So what I want to do is I want to give people those tools 00:49:43.000 |
and they can evaluate it with a clear approach. 00:49:57.000 |
That was supposed to be smoother than what it was. 00:50:07.000 |
You have--your work has fundamentally transformed 00:50:19.000 |
you know, fancy financial advisor office with people, 00:50:21.000 |
and I would pull up the shockingly simple math 00:50:25.000 |
And I would just use it, and I would explain to them, 00:50:29.000 |
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