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Welcome to Radical Personal Finance, the show dedicated to providing you with knowledge, 00:00:05.400 |
skills, insight, and encouragement you need to live a rich and meaningful life now while 00:00:10.680 |
building a plan for financial freedom in 10 years or less. 00:00:16.040 |
Jason, I'm holding in my hands your book called You Only Live Once, The Roadmap to Financial 00:00:27.240 |
So if your subtitle and the slogan of my show are that similar, we're going to have a good 00:00:35.560 |
Thank you so much for having me on instead of beer. 00:00:37.560 |
So we're going to talk about your book, but I'd first like to kick it off. 00:00:41.200 |
Tell us a little bit about your story, especially as it relates to money. 00:00:43.600 |
Where did you start and what's been your path up to now in some of your ventures currently? 00:00:48.560 |
Yeah, I think the most interesting part for many people is that I started my relationship 00:00:55.880 |
with money, with working, cleaning toilets, serving drinks, and found myself four years 00:01:03.240 |
later in the boardroom making a six-figure salary, moving from New Jersey where I was 00:01:09.280 |
raised to living out in Palo Alto, California. 00:01:12.320 |
Okay, so I'm going to stop you there because that sounds interesting. 00:01:16.040 |
That's good marketing speak, but I want to know more specifics. 00:01:19.120 |
What type of work were you doing when you started? 00:01:25.440 |
I started as a bartender in Newark International Airport. 00:01:28.840 |
I mean, it all really started because of the fact that I never had the conversation about 00:01:37.080 |
I think for most people, it's so much easier for my parents to talk about the birds and 00:01:43.520 |
the bees, talk about politics and religion than it was to talk about money. 00:01:48.880 |
But they were forced to talk about money when I was 17. 00:01:52.960 |
When they sat me down and said, "Jason, we can't afford to send you to school," that 00:01:57.840 |
to me was really devastating because I did all the right things. 00:02:04.360 |
I was class president, honor society, what have you. 00:02:09.840 |
But my parents, like many others that I've met, they made enough to disqualify me for 00:02:16.240 |
financial aid but didn't have the resources or the means to send me to school. 00:02:25.800 |
And so when all my friends were going to their freshman year, I had to start working. 00:02:32.800 |
And so at 18, that's how I found myself bartending, to raise enough money, to save enough money 00:02:40.800 |
Is it legal for a bartender to be 18 years old while serving alcohol? 00:02:45.220 |
In New Jersey, yes, as long as there's no money exchanged. 00:02:48.680 |
So I was working at first class lounges in Newark International Airport. 00:02:53.840 |
So you can imagine, I grew up in Elizabeth, New Jersey, which is the fourth largest city. 00:03:02.920 |
And so you can imagine, here I am in the first class lounge serving people like business 00:03:10.560 |
people, those who can afford to spend $5,000, $10,000 on a seat to fly anywhere around the 00:03:21.400 |
But then, like, no, we're struggling to find $5,000 to send me to college. 00:03:27.920 |
So that was one of the eye-opening experiences of how little I really had and how much others 00:03:36.080 |
And so that reinforced kind of this mentality of not having the means and wanting to make 00:03:47.880 |
But that pretty much led to me spending everything I earned just to tell others, hey, I'm not 00:04:04.360 |
And so every chance I got to spend cash, I did. 00:04:12.680 |
You continued working and then you got another job in California. 00:04:15.060 |
What actually happened that took you across the country? 00:04:18.800 |
So eventually when I did get to school, I went to Rutgers University. 00:04:27.580 |
So I thought that everyone I was seeing was in business. 00:04:31.560 |
And the way for me to become successful and to make money, I needed to be in business. 00:04:37.120 |
And so I found myself in the business school studying finance. 00:04:42.880 |
And there's no way that I could go from serving drinks as a bartender to making the money 00:04:52.040 |
that I saw people were making that were entering the first and business class lounges. 00:04:57.720 |
And so I said, well, I need to get into banking. 00:05:06.840 |
And I worked really hard and tried to learn as much as I could. 00:05:15.480 |
So in a very short period of time, I was being promoted very quickly. 00:05:24.080 |
So I was making at the time minimum wage, and in Jersey, it was around $7. 00:05:29.840 |
And then I had the opportunity to, from going as a teller, I became a customer service rep 00:05:34.960 |
and a customer service reps and assistant branch manager, all within a very short time 00:05:40.920 |
And I've always had this philosophy, which started in going to the public school system, 00:05:48.440 |
And I wanted to pick the brains of some of the-- and I look back now, it's like some 00:05:53.440 |
of the smartest people, which ended up having to be either my work colleague or my supervisor, 00:06:02.880 |
And they would just ingrain certain skills that enabled me to be able to perform a job 00:06:10.240 |
level that was higher than what I was being paid for. 00:06:14.040 |
And that also exposed me to a network that enabled me to get promoted. 00:06:20.480 |
And I mean, my story goes all around the place. 00:06:23.920 |
But eventually, I found the credit union world. 00:06:27.640 |
I went in as-- in the branches in the credit union. 00:06:41.040 |
And eventually, four years from starting in the banking industry as a teller, I found 00:06:47.520 |
myself in the boardroom for a credit union out in Silicon Valley. 00:06:51.280 |
- How much were you earning in that job in Silicon Valley? 00:06:55.280 |
- I was earning $100,000 when I started in 2009. 00:07:01.200 |
- So to go from $7 an hour to $100,000, I mean, that goes from, what, $15,000 a year 00:07:13.160 |
That's quite a story and an achievement in and of itself to do that in four years. 00:07:18.680 |
So when I go and I sit back and I can spend hours and days talking about the processes 00:07:25.440 |
and the nuances of going from being a teller to sitting in the boardroom in four years, 00:07:33.880 |
And then as I mentioned, it had a lot to do with just increasing my value for the time 00:07:38.740 |
that I was spending at work and also the network of people that I was meeting. 00:07:45.000 |
And interesting enough, early on in life, I learned the power of the people who you 00:07:54.120 |
And so I wasn't one of those worker bees that was saying, "It's not my job. 00:08:02.080 |
It's like, "Well, maybe it's something that I can learn and will make me more valuable." 00:08:08.440 |
And so that in a sense, when I think about growing up with not having the luxuries of 00:08:15.920 |
life, that that was really a really good thing for me to have. 00:08:21.440 |
- I always love the aphorism, "If you do more than what you're paid to do, the day is gonna 00:08:25.500 |
come eventually when you're paid more for what you do." 00:08:31.240 |
You can't expect to be paid more because compensation always comes after work is done. 00:08:38.260 |
So you're at this credit union in California. 00:08:42.680 |
- Yeah, so I was in the credit union in California and I was there as VP of Marketing and Business 00:08:51.920 |
So I was in charge of growing the credit union. 00:08:56.000 |
And the credit union had this field of membership all across the United States and they're pretty 00:09:03.360 |
And it just says a really interesting side note, when I was up for the job for this VP 00:09:11.180 |
position, I was up against two other individuals who had more experience, who had fancier degrees. 00:09:19.380 |
And I remember going and presenting and talking about my idea to help grow awareness for the 00:09:33.860 |
It was all focused on helping people like me when I saw myself in the mirror knowing 00:09:39.220 |
that I had the resources and the means and that this financial institution can help those 00:09:47.420 |
like me who weren't educated and/or had access to other types of products. 00:09:53.880 |
And so I was hired and I remember my CEO telling me, eventually we became friends, that they 00:10:05.240 |
And when I was in front of the board of directors and the other executives, they saw this unpolished 00:10:15.580 |
but very passionate kid, and they put that in air quotes, that had this big, bold idea 00:10:22.920 |
to revolutionize how they were marketing and growing the credit union. 00:10:28.280 |
And so that's how I was selected to be part of the executive team. 00:10:34.200 |
And I had the go-ahead to really do something really radical, which was to talk about basic 00:10:41.640 |
And when you think about this, at the height of the Great Recession, that's in 2009, 2010, 00:10:48.760 |
when I joined that credit union out in Menlo Park, California, everyone was still talking 00:10:55.960 |
Everyone was still talking about investing and the future. 00:11:01.360 |
And I knew from my personal experiences and the experiences of those that I became friends 00:11:06.880 |
with and the jobs that I had, that we were struggling day to day. 00:11:11.840 |
And we were struggling with basic personal finance, with basic fundamentals about banking, 00:11:22.240 |
And I really wanted to go back to that, to the basics. 00:11:26.360 |
And with that, we were extremely successful in getting our sponsor. 00:11:35.320 |
You had to work for a specific company, this particular credit union I worked for. 00:11:44.920 |
And so they realized that there was a benefit to this financial information that we were 00:11:52.040 |
sharing, the seminar that I created, all around financial motivation, all around really basic 00:12:00.720 |
And it became the most widely requested seminar series of this Fortune 500 company all across 00:12:13.240 |
They hire and they pay so much money to get the big guys to come in and talk about the 00:12:21.960 |
But I knew that if you were struggling to pay your rent or that car payment or that 00:12:27.480 |
credit card or debt collectors are calling you, chances are there's no way that you can 00:12:35.160 |
pay towards your retirement into that 401(k) plan. 00:12:39.560 |
There's no way that you are performing at 100% at the workplace because you're thinking 00:12:46.440 |
And so we grew very quickly in the three and a half years that I was at the credit union. 00:12:54.160 |
So you're looking at when I joined, it was a $65 million asset credit union. 00:13:03.400 |
And because of the successes that we've had in a very short period of time, the board 00:13:10.520 |
of directors and my CEO sat me down and said, Jason, we'd like to select you as the successor 00:13:21.360 |
And we'd like to put you into the path of replacing my CEO when she would retire in 00:13:40.720 |
I finished my college degree before I got out to California. 00:13:51.880 |
I got the American dream of making six figures and living in a really beautiful place and 00:14:02.880 |
But then I just kind of looked around the stuff that I was surrounded with. 00:14:08.720 |
And at that point, living out in California, I was away from my family. 00:14:16.840 |
And so I just looked around and I said, wow, is this what I worked for? 00:14:24.200 |
All this stuff that filled my apartment in Palo Alto, California. 00:14:30.820 |
And so you're looking and thinking about that I came from Elizabeth. 00:14:42.120 |
Before I graduated high school, I lived in seven different houses. 00:14:46.880 |
My parents, my family, we moved around a lot. 00:14:57.680 |
So we never had to worry about money and they never had to talk to us about money. 00:15:05.920 |
I instead of getting Nike's, we got the I think it was like I don't even know if they 00:15:14.760 |
There is these shoes that they could get for like fifteen dollars, these sneakers. 00:15:19.800 |
And I'll get the hand-me-downs from my brother. 00:15:30.240 |
I think it was 16, a little over sixteen hundred dollars for a 700 square foot apartment in 00:15:38.520 |
San Francisco, the San Francisco Silicon Valley Bay Area. 00:15:42.200 |
So quite expensive and at a walk in closet with with tags with their clothes, I mean, 00:15:49.840 |
clothes with their tags still on them, gadgets and things that I didn't use. 00:15:53.840 |
And I had two cars, a motorcycle, a pedal bike. 00:16:03.280 |
And at the end, I just said, OK, well, if I had to reassess the direction of my life 00:16:11.080 |
and my content and not being and being away from family for three and a half years and 00:16:15.720 |
my friends and Jersey and now being this having this offer laid out to me, I wasn't quite 00:16:22.600 |
sure if that was the you know, the path that I wanted to continue on. 00:16:39.240 |
So it was I just remember the look on the faces of these of the executives and as well 00:16:49.560 |
as the board of directors saying, you know, you're in this upward career trajectory. 00:16:55.960 |
And and then I knew just something was missing and I wasn't quite sure what that what that 00:17:02.400 |
And I was equating success with all the things that I was purchasing and the fancy title. 00:17:08.600 |
And and so so eventually, when I had that moment where I had this opportunity that I've 00:17:18.120 |
wanted for a very long time and I looked at my bank account, I looked at the things around 00:17:24.200 |
me and I was like, wow, this is a reflective of success. 00:17:34.480 |
I was saving I was buying, you know, the stock options for our parent company, T connectivity. 00:17:41.440 |
So I was doing all these really good things for my future. 00:17:45.400 |
But when you looked at my bank account, you'd see every payday, the funds that were there 00:17:53.880 |
And and I spent everything else on things just to keep me satisfied. 00:17:58.280 |
And in the book, I I would say that I was I continue to mindlessly consume and obsessively 00:18:08.480 |
And and I remember having this conversation with my VP of finance and saying, I think 00:18:15.880 |
And and so I was one of those individuals, whether through luck or whether through circumstance, 00:18:21.840 |
I was every time I asked for a raise, I would get it and then some. 00:18:29.160 |
And so even before I decided to to quit officially or resign my position, my my the executive 00:18:41.680 |
team, the CEO and the board of directors offered to provide me down payment assistance to buy 00:18:51.640 |
It's like these are the golden handcuffs that people are talking about and they want to 00:18:56.800 |
And I wasn't necessarily sure if this is what I want to continue on. 00:19:00.900 |
And I think for many of us, right, when we're in our mid to late 20s, we're still trying 00:19:08.120 |
Many people are successful and they're in that career. 00:19:12.540 |
They're in that financial situation that they are extremely happy with. 00:19:18.280 |
And others and many others that I've met is that we're still trying to define our life. 00:19:23.240 |
We're still trying to define our purpose, the meaning. 00:19:26.960 |
And I thought that purpose and meaning all equated to the size of the income that I was 00:19:32.960 |
making or that I was hitting these just financial milestones in terms of contributing to my 00:19:40.560 |
401k, contributing to different different things to set my life and be able to live 00:19:48.680 |
my life the way I wanted to live it when I was 70 years old. 00:19:52.720 |
And all those thoughts all culminated to to the moment where I said I quit and quitting 00:20:02.520 |
landed me the opportunity to free myself from any work obligations. 00:20:08.880 |
And in 2012, I found myself backpacking around the world. 00:20:12.760 |
I went to 20 countries in 12 months, Southeast Asia, Central America, Western Europe. 00:20:18.480 |
And then I started having these conversations with people who were telling me I was lucky 00:20:28.080 |
And it didn't matter what part of the country, what part of the world I was going to, whether 00:20:32.520 |
it was Southeast Asia or in Belize or in Portugal, they were saying, you're so lucky it's the 00:20:41.680 |
I remember I was having this conversation with this guy in a village in Dala, Myanmar. 00:20:50.640 |
And he said to me, you know, are the streets paved with gold? 00:20:59.760 |
And the look in his eyes and and at that time in 2012, Myanmar, which is this country sandwiched 00:21:06.440 |
by I think it's Bangladesh and Thailand, just opened up. 00:21:11.320 |
They had a military junta that had been in control and they closed the country to the 00:21:18.240 |
And in 2012, they just started allowing Americans and those who are holding American passports 00:21:25.440 |
And so I was one of the very few to get there. 00:21:28.660 |
And when people would look at you and and they know you're different and they know that 00:21:33.000 |
you're coming from the United States, they're just bombarding me with questions about opportunity, 00:21:42.200 |
I mean, not in those contexts, but all around those subject matter. 00:21:47.280 |
And here I was thinking to myself, these people believe that we have tremendous opportunity 00:21:57.560 |
in the United States, that people are are able to just quit their jobs and backpack 00:22:05.320 |
And there is a point where all these conversations culminated to to me going to another part 00:22:17.400 |
And I and it's a picture that has become really synonymous with my brand and my image. 00:22:24.280 |
I'm sitting on this eighth century temple staring out of five thousand temples, pagodas, 00:22:33.360 |
And it was that moment where I said to myself, I'm living my dreams. 00:22:40.600 |
And through that, that aha moment, I I took that through all the other countries I went 00:22:47.840 |
through for that year and the other conversations that impacted me. 00:22:54.720 |
And I said, how did this guy who grew up in Elizabeth, New Jersey, that everything stacked 00:23:01.000 |
up against him, that had this horrible relationship with money that was doing some of the right 00:23:07.320 |
How did I get from that point to to saying no to the traditional path, to being able 00:23:14.080 |
to say no to a higher paying position, fancier title and just go backpacking around the world 00:23:21.320 |
without any plans of what's next when I came back? 00:23:26.600 |
And I realized that was just it was financial knowledge. 00:23:32.040 |
And I like to say that knowledge is power, but financial knowledge is life changing. 00:23:38.600 |
And being exposed in the banking industry, being exposed to experts, certified financial 00:23:45.360 |
planners, financial advisors and having conversations with people when that opening up their accounts 00:23:51.720 |
or on taking their deposits or or what have you in the branch. 00:23:56.080 |
I was having these conversations with people who are handling their money very well and 00:24:04.200 |
And I could see people driving in with their fancy Mercedes Benz or or Range Rovers. 00:24:10.840 |
And I would look in their bank account when they're making their deposit or opening up 00:24:17.040 |
And I'll notice that there were no savings whatsoever or that they paid multiple numbers 00:24:28.320 |
And so through that process, when I got back in 2013, I wanted to understand what got me 00:24:38.120 |
And and again, it had a lot to do with just beginning to understand money, beginning to 00:24:43.120 |
understand my relationship with money and addressing these money beliefs that stemmed 00:24:52.520 |
You feel a little guilty while traveling, because obviously when you travel extensively, 00:24:59.440 |
you see people who, as you say, they say that the roads are paved with gold in America. 00:25:04.600 |
And here you are walking away from from all that to come and to to depending on how I 00:25:12.480 |
frame the question, to gawk at them or to experience their lifestyle. 00:25:17.560 |
Did you feel a little guilty about walking away? 00:25:22.760 |
And so something that that that I don't share as as often and I probably should. 00:25:28.320 |
So when I left in in January, I think it's it was the 11th of 2012 to my first country, 00:25:39.120 |
I went to I flew into Manila and the Philippines. 00:25:46.080 |
It's a country that is growing, but it's a third world country. 00:25:49.400 |
And I remember walking around and I'm part Filipino. 00:25:52.720 |
And and I saw people struggling and they were having, you know, when there is poverty in 00:26:01.680 |
the US, but you haven't seen poverty until you've seen third world poverty and people 00:26:08.440 |
living in slums or living on top of each other. 00:26:11.320 |
They're living by the riverbanks in these shanty like homes. 00:26:20.880 |
And and so I remember I was flying from Manila in the Philippines to another island, Cebu, 00:26:29.680 |
and I went and I bought I purchased my ticket and I'm in the plane and I'm sitting down 00:26:41.120 |
And all these thoughts, these emotions are rushing into my body. 00:26:53.280 |
So I'm holding them really tightly and I have my eyes closed and I'm thinking about, you 00:26:58.680 |
know, all the all the images, the conversations that I was just having in that short two week 00:27:07.000 |
And I remember closing my eyes and I was having a nervous breakdown and I go, God, did I make 00:27:17.600 |
And and so at that point, I realized I was like, you know, did I make that right decision? 00:27:22.840 |
And I decided when I landed and I went backpacking in Cebu, I was doing all the normal taking 00:27:36.400 |
And as I was in Cebu, all of a sudden I see hordes of people running and screaming and 00:27:46.080 |
And and I took a step back going, oh, my God, this is a riot. 00:27:50.960 |
And, you know, coming from Jersey, coming from the things that I've seen, I'm like, 00:27:55.940 |
And so I stand back and I let these people pass. 00:27:58.720 |
And all of a sudden, motorcycles and cars are zipping, rushing by. 00:28:02.100 |
And I'm there with my camera going, I don't know what's going on until someone stopped 00:28:07.340 |
and said to me and looked at me and said, run tidal wave. 00:28:12.840 |
And at that point I go, I start running and I'm looking behind me thinking like, you know, 00:28:20.360 |
all these people that are running behind me, you know, where's the wave coming from? 00:28:27.260 |
So where is this wave and where am I supposed to go to? 00:28:33.140 |
And at that point, like I switched the camera on and I and I covered kind of the last moments 00:28:45.160 |
But I was in my hotel room and I would still feel the aftershock. 00:28:48.760 |
So there was an earthquake that happened in a neighboring island. 00:28:52.080 |
And because of what happened in Thailand and Indonesia with the tsunami, the swelling of 00:28:57.800 |
the ocean for a bit caused a panic throughout kind of like the islands in the middle part 00:29:05.720 |
And so people started text messaging and and saying that there was a tidal wave that was 00:29:10.880 |
And then all of a sudden I had all these images of what that could look like. 00:29:15.320 |
And I thought, OK, well, I left this comfy job. 00:29:18.280 |
I'm having this nervous breakdown because I left a six figure salary and people are 00:29:23.240 |
And here I am, like exploring without a care in the world. 00:29:28.840 |
And then now I'm going to die in a tsunami here in Cebu. 00:29:34.680 |
And everything with everything ended up being being fine. 00:29:40.360 |
And I got some some fame because I went and I posted this video on YouTube and the National 00:29:49.840 |
And then all of a sudden they plastered my face on TV. 00:29:54.440 |
And so on the news, people they had American caught in tsunami. 00:29:58.900 |
And so I had my little bout of my five minutes or 15 minutes of fame in the Philippines. 00:30:03.680 |
But it was that moment when I closed my eyes. 00:30:06.640 |
And this was probably after midnight in the hotel room. 00:30:10.320 |
And I remember going, OK, God, I I said I wanted an adventure. 00:30:18.760 |
And that was quite an answer to to that question. 00:30:24.240 |
And from that point on, I said, I'm going to, you know, throw my plans across. 00:30:29.860 |
And that's how I ended up, you know, backpacking through through 20 countries in that 12 month 00:30:35.440 |
And allow myself to open up and come to terms with the mindset that I had and the steps 00:30:42.880 |
that I took to get me from again, from where I was, where I am today. 00:30:46.680 |
So I want to get to the content of your book and what you actually teach. 00:30:49.000 |
So just to summarize, you went on that trip, came back to the US, I guess, took a little 00:30:54.400 |
bit of time to figure some things out, started working on some of your personal finance projects. 00:31:00.200 |
And then recently you've finished a 50 state tour this past summer of teaching seminars 00:31:06.320 |
And then you've just recently published the book, You Only Live Once. 00:31:09.240 |
Is that a reasonably correct, concise summary of the last few years since your trip? 00:31:15.280 |
That's what has transpired in the last three years. 00:31:17.400 |
OK, so you based upon your experience, which you charted out, which in many ways, don't 00:31:25.360 |
I think it's the perfect stereotypical millennial experience. 00:31:29.000 |
And I want to explore it because we are compatriots in terms of being of similar age. 00:31:39.640 |
But this is kind of the experience that many of our generation faces. 00:31:43.920 |
And this is something that the reason I ask you about if you're guilty and the reason 00:31:47.640 |
I'm asking you some of these probing questions is you and I might understand this, and perhaps 00:31:56.220 |
But there are many people who hear this angst that you described, living in California, 00:32:01.680 |
working, being in line with a CEO, who hear this kind of personal turmoil, angst, and 00:32:13.040 |
You can go visit your family, and you can set up a nice life. 00:32:16.840 |
So I want to explore the emotions of this a little bit and also explore your advice 00:32:24.080 |
So you've spoken with a lot of people all around the world, and you put a lot of research 00:32:30.800 |
What is different about you and our generation that makes you approach money this way as 00:32:39.120 |
compared to perhaps your parents or grandparents who would have been content to say, I've got 00:32:46.520 |
a great opportunity here at this credit union, I'm going to keep on working and doing good 00:32:51.960 |
I think we are a generation that was raised to believe that anything and everything was 00:32:59.360 |
That if we wanted something, we had to work really hard, and we can achieve it. 00:33:06.160 |
We are the first generation to say, if you have a dream, you can live it. 00:33:14.000 |
And our parents, the baby boomers, worked really, really hard to enable us to be able 00:33:23.980 |
And maybe they had to, and I have these conversations with baby boomers, who say, yes, I sacrificed 00:33:31.160 |
I stayed at one or two jobs in my lifetime so I could provide food on the table. 00:33:36.880 |
I could make sure that my kids went to college so they can live their dream life. 00:33:43.440 |
And what's really interesting, when you talk about that point of contention, is that, yeah, 00:33:47.600 |
I'll hear some baby boomers saying, yes, you're an entitled generation. 00:33:50.920 |
You're a generation that, like you, here you are, Jason. 00:33:59.400 |
You graduated and you went to, you had this fancy job, and you're making money, more money 00:34:08.400 |
And you turned it all around and said, forget this. 00:34:12.480 |
I'm going to go backpacking around the world. 00:34:15.680 |
And that really boils down to the values that our parents, my parents, instilled in me. 00:34:20.880 |
My parents worked really hard, and they wanted to make sure that I had the opportunity to 00:34:29.840 |
So they spent their time working to give their kids a better life. 00:34:34.360 |
And so that value system, all relating to time. 00:34:41.840 |
And so, and like my brothers and sisters and I, we had to take care of ourselves. 00:34:45.880 |
But it really had to do with this value of time, this belief that we can achieve and 00:34:54.840 |
we can live the life of our dreams sooner rather than later. 00:34:59.720 |
These are things that we were taught by our parents, the baby boomers. 00:35:04.060 |
And so when I hear this point of contention between baby boomers and millennials, Gen 00:35:08.200 |
Y, I like to say that we are the product of our parents' hopes and dreams. 00:35:15.300 |
So our parents had these hopes, they had these dreams, and they instilled them into us. 00:35:23.200 |
And so we are an entitled generation in the sense that we were told that if we go to college, 00:35:30.640 |
we'll get a great job and we'll be able to afford a house and start a family. 00:35:35.600 |
And then for many of us, we were raised in what, two, like the internet bust in the early 00:35:42.320 |
2000s, and then the housing crisis in our formative years after college. 00:35:48.440 |
And so all of a sudden we start saying, wait a minute, like this traditional path that 00:35:52.720 |
they went on doesn't really align with the values that they taught us. 00:35:59.720 |
And so for many of us, that's how we were stressing and using our hard-earned dollars 00:36:15.040 |
And let me give a little bit more background to the question. 00:36:17.720 |
You, in your work in the credit union, you had some exposure to traditional financial 00:36:22.760 |
And now in your work of You Only Live Once and the work that you've done of laying out 00:36:28.640 |
how to approach financial planning, you've talked more, you're incorporating some of 00:36:36.120 |
And even in your own story, you were putting money into a 401k, but then you quit your 00:36:42.040 |
Now you're trying to put together this career that's different. 00:36:45.880 |
Now you've put together this career that is different than what it was previously. 00:36:51.040 |
So I find that in the world of financial planning, there's a real disconnect in the ability for, 00:36:56.840 |
say millennials with the life attitude that you just described, and financial advisors 00:37:02.760 |
who are trained to serve a baby boomer generation. 00:37:05.440 |
I find there's a real disconnect of their ability to communicate with one another. 00:37:08.980 |
So how does this type of approach, this You Only Live Once approach affect financial planning? 00:37:17.960 |
How do you incorporate this desire to live now, do it now, while also recognizing the 00:37:23.320 |
value of saving and investing over a lifetime? 00:37:27.720 |
So I first, I'm sure as people are listening, and I get this a lot too, it's like, why did 00:37:35.120 |
That comes from our generation's use of YOLO, right? 00:37:39.260 |
We shortened it up, used the acronym YOLO, and that was associated with mindless spending 00:37:43.980 |
sprees that was associated with just kind of living for the moment without a care to 00:37:50.060 |
And as we get older, so we're no longer 21 and careless, and many of us can still be 00:37:59.020 |
careless in our 30s, we're really understanding the term YOLO as it relates to what it stood 00:38:09.900 |
for, You Only Live Once, and that yes, we can make unwise financial decisions for the 00:38:15.320 |
moment that can curtail our ability to enjoy future moments. 00:38:20.640 |
So You Only Live Once is an understanding, it's awareness that through sound financial 00:38:27.220 |
decision making, you can have a lifetime of moments that are positive. 00:38:32.940 |
So it's not about saying, okay, well, I need to buy that expensive luxury car that I can't 00:38:39.700 |
afford, but YOLO, and then all of a sudden we find ourselves six months later struggling 00:38:44.840 |
to make the car payment or the insurance payment, because to me, that's not living this one 00:38:53.780 |
So I really wanted to stress that it wasn't about this consumption and this spur of the 00:39:02.100 |
moment decision making, that it's true awareness that you have this one lifetime here on this 00:39:09.940 |
planet, and you have the opportunity to make sound financial decisions that can enable 00:39:24.060 |
I mean, I have traditionalists that attend the sessions as well as baby boomers who said, 00:39:28.700 |
I wish I knew this 30, 40 years ago, because this aligns with my values today, that there's 00:39:36.420 |
There's a balance of saving for the future and also enjoying some of the things that 00:39:42.740 |
you enjoy, whether it is luxury goods or it is experiences. 00:39:47.920 |
And I found that speaking with financial advisors and experts who serve the baby boomer generation, 00:39:56.760 |
they're still looking at this tried and true method, right? 00:39:59.660 |
This method of, okay, you're buying a home, you need to send these kids to school, you 00:40:13.500 |
And then I see speaking with those who are retired and follow this traditional financial 00:40:19.820 |
planning, they get sick because one, there is no purpose to their life for one, so they 00:40:28.660 |
become ill and they end up passing a few years after retirement. 00:40:32.560 |
I had one individual share that with me that happened to their spouse. 00:40:37.960 |
And so what I've noticed, and there's a growing shift of advisors and CFPs that are catering 00:40:45.720 |
to our generation and generation Z and even generation X, that we can do sound financial 00:40:52.900 |
planning, we can contribute to our retirement at the same time, be able to enjoy the things 00:40:59.640 |
that, you know, in our lives that make our life worth living, that we can look back and 00:41:07.640 |
say, yes, that was a great lifetime of moments. 00:41:12.640 |
And it really starts with the vision for life. 00:41:17.380 |
And when I've sat down with traditional financial advisors, they'll talk to me specifically 00:41:24.440 |
And we rarely had a conversation about how those financial goals relate to the vision 00:41:32.240 |
And I've noticed that I was always pushed to, okay, what's the vision for your retirement? 00:41:38.280 |
So here I am in my 20s being told, how do you envision your retirement? 00:41:44.940 |
What do you hope to be doing when you're 70, when you're unable to walk or you're having 00:41:52.620 |
It's like, how am I supposed to think about something 40, 50 years into the future? 00:42:01.180 |
But that's what all the conversations were being steered at was something down at 70. 00:42:07.840 |
And now I was following this traditional path. 00:42:11.040 |
And when I shared my story, things weren't working out the way that I'd envisioned in 00:42:17.120 |
And I realized that's like, okay, there has to be some type of middle ground. 00:42:20.920 |
There has to be a way for us to allocate our time and resources on the things that matter, 00:42:33.560 |
But also to the point where I'm saving for the future. 00:42:37.680 |
And I think of retirement quite differently, and I've noticed, than the majority of people 00:42:43.120 |
that I do meet out on the road, that retirement is the state in which you are physically unable 00:42:50.800 |
to exchange your time for a paycheck or for money. 00:42:55.240 |
So I meet people who are 70, 80, they're still working, they're still chugging along, and 00:43:00.120 |
they want to work because, yeah, they get some additional cash and they don't necessarily 00:43:03.920 |
need to because they have a great nest egg, but they do it for social reasons. 00:43:08.360 |
They do it because they want to use their time as opposed to just sitting around. 00:43:15.000 |
And then so I knew that there's that middle ground. 00:43:18.260 |
And looking back again, in my experience, looking back on the things that I purchased 00:43:23.400 |
and how do they represent my values in terms of the time spent here in this world, I realized 00:43:32.040 |
I can spend on the things that matter and I can plan for the future to the point where 00:43:37.680 |
if I'm physically unable to exchange my time for a paycheck, that I have enough to pay 00:43:51.520 |
And that was again, was like one of that aha moment. 00:43:55.200 |
And the more that I speak, the more I got into personal finance blogging. 00:43:59.000 |
And that's what I started doing in 2013, just kind of sharing this. 00:44:02.520 |
And the community started growing and I started meeting you and others like you that had this 00:44:08.920 |
different idea that we can spend our money on things that we enjoy. 00:44:16.400 |
We have to understand the value in which they contribute to our life. 00:44:23.800 |
And so that moment, that's how I've been living my life in some degree and just more so in 00:44:31.880 |
I want to ask you one more question on this mindset. 00:44:35.280 |
I want to transition to actually some of the specifics, things that you've done and the 00:44:39.640 |
strategies you've employed to make this work for yourself. 00:44:41.880 |
As a listener of my show who is very financially knowledgeable, has a young family and has 00:44:48.760 |
money in a retirement account, but in considering the age of their children, they're considering 00:44:56.400 |
pulling out of the workforce for a year and traveling with their family and their children 00:45:04.480 |
But in order to finance it, they'd need to choose to withdraw money from their 401k early. 00:45:12.560 |
This listener is very aware of the costs of penalties and taxes, et cetera. 00:45:19.320 |
What I care about is, so I'm not asking you to comment on the advisability of such an 00:45:25.480 |
What I care about is the challenge of prioritizing now versus later. 00:45:30.480 |
If you were given a scenario like I've just described, how would you advise somebody to 00:45:37.120 |
consider the advisability of pursuing a short term goal versus a long term goal, given that 00:45:49.520 |
I mean, we can go and do an analysis and I tend to state to people when they're deciding 00:45:57.800 |
whether or not to leave a job, and then for this instance, leave for a year and go cross 00:46:03.360 |
country to outweigh the financial cost, the pros and the cons, to outweigh the experiences 00:46:12.400 |
And I think at this point, there are ways for you to plan the finances for this year, 00:46:23.800 |
And so for me to kind of give you my strategy and how I left my senior executive job and 00:46:30.880 |
was able to travel for a year without thoughts to finances, and I still had expenses very 00:46:41.960 |
If you have this idea, this thought you want to go away for a year is to start saving to 00:46:53.600 |
So that is definitely a strategy that does work. 00:46:56.440 |
And so it's not about saving tons of money, it's saving the amount that you need just 00:47:04.380 |
And that could be maybe you still have some student loan debt that you need to pay. 00:47:12.040 |
Maybe there are some credit card debt that needs to be paid, etc. 00:47:19.840 |
So you need to know and calculate how much those things are and be able to project, okay, 00:47:25.420 |
this is the amount that I need in order for me to cover whatever those basic living expenses 00:47:34.120 |
And the wonderful thing about that, it's not about, you're not looking at income, you're 00:47:41.840 |
And so you have the ability to start cutting things that are eating at your income or your 00:47:48.420 |
ability to put money into an account that you can use for the entire year. 00:47:54.360 |
And so for me, I looked at, I was saving for a down payment in a home. 00:47:58.600 |
And then when I realized I wanted to go backpacking around the world instead, I used the money 00:48:04.880 |
that I was saving for this down payment on a home and I paid off the rest of my debt. 00:48:10.040 |
I mean, I was still carrying student loan debt. 00:48:14.600 |
And so I used that down payment to pay off the rest of that debt. 00:48:21.360 |
At that point, I let go of, you know, I didn't have my apartment. 00:48:23.960 |
I sold a majority of my things, I think 99% of my things, the cars. 00:48:30.280 |
And so I had the most minimal expenses that you could have on a monthly basis. 00:48:37.000 |
And that allowed me to backpack around the world for an entire year at $10,000. 00:48:43.440 |
And so I look at this as you don't want to stress yourself with leaving the workforce, 00:48:50.800 |
going on this cross country adventure, and then coming back and going, "What the heck 00:48:59.320 |
Now I'm stressed because you're not going to look back. 00:49:02.980 |
And I think of success as the ability to look back in time through whatever you've gone 00:49:13.720 |
I'm in a good place today," regardless of the things that happened. 00:49:17.160 |
And now if you're coming back from this cross country trip and you've placed yourself in 00:49:22.760 |
a financial situation, all this uncertainty, this debt, you're not going to be able to 00:49:31.240 |
You're not going to be able to have the experiences that you want. 00:49:37.000 |
And so I really encourage people to think about the various options that they have before 00:49:43.100 |
leaving a job and then going out traveling the world if the company offers a sabbatical. 00:49:48.960 |
If not and you do decide to leave, you do some planning. 00:49:53.880 |
And that kind of goes back to financial wellness. 00:49:56.520 |
It's the vision, getting clarity of your values, and financial planning. 00:50:01.000 |
That's a really key component, making sure that those expenses are paid up. 00:50:06.940 |
So there are some traditional aspects to kind of doing the non-traditional path. 00:50:11.680 |
And again, all aimed at being able to enjoy your short-term goals at the same time, not 00:50:22.600 |
Jason, you left the job that had a lot of career promise. 00:50:27.440 |
How do you support yourself financially now since coming back from your trip? 00:50:31.440 |
So as I mentioned, I did some wise financial decision making. 00:50:42.240 |
When I was younger, when I was 21 and I joined the workforce, someone sat me down. 00:50:49.380 |
And she said, Jason, whatever you do, just keep contributing 10% into your 401(k) because 00:50:55.800 |
And she says, I don't care what you do with your money. 00:51:00.260 |
And then for some reason, it was the first financial advice that I ever got from at that 00:51:05.300 |
point someone that I knew was an expert and had all these certifications and licenses. 00:51:11.020 |
And so I followed that and I contributed 10% of my 401(k) and then I dabbled in the stock 00:51:18.820 |
market and just kind of playing around saying, OK, well, that's interesting. 00:51:23.660 |
And so I do have investments that I've held on to through the years that are paying off. 00:51:36.900 |
So there are moments where I get an opportunity to write. 00:51:39.260 |
I've also become a consultant and I address millennial issues in the workplace and also 00:51:50.060 |
how to speak our language, specifically with fintech companies or financial technology 00:51:56.620 |
companies, financial services such as credit unions and community banks. 00:51:59.980 |
Like how do you talk to us in a way that you know you understand our value system, you 00:52:06.660 |
understand how we do prioritize experience over things and how we want to live for the 00:52:13.380 |
moment but also plan for the future and how we don't want to be sold products and we want 00:52:17.820 |
to be aligned with brands that understand, again, our values. 00:52:24.020 |
And so that's how I'm able to support myself through some blogging, through some consultations 00:52:31.780 |
Have you ever wondered if you made the right decision? 00:52:36.580 |
I can tell you right now, as I mentioned, success is looking back and saying, wow, through 00:52:42.660 |
And there hasn't been a moment in the past three years that I've questioned my decision 00:52:51.180 |
And that's because it has been a roller coaster ride. 00:52:55.500 |
And I've realized at this point when we when we incorporate sound financial decision making 00:53:03.260 |
with a very clear focus and purpose, I don't have time to go, wow, maybe I should be back 00:53:13.700 |
But I do want to say I went back to during my road trip across the country where we drove 00:53:23.420 |
I was back in the Bay Area in San Francisco and I had three events all across the Bay. 00:53:28.460 |
And I remember I was in San Jose, California, and I wanted to check the the condo that I 00:53:36.460 |
It was a two bedroom condo at these towers at the new building in downtown San Jose. 00:53:42.740 |
And it was going for four hundred thousand dollars back in 2011. 00:53:47.100 |
And so I went and I look at what the two bedroom condos going for close to one point 00:53:56.380 |
So when you're talking about thinking, thinking about, well, maybe did I make the right decision 00:54:04.660 |
I just laugh because in a very short period of time, you're looking at that the value 00:54:09.380 |
If I had purchased it back in 2011 would be three times as much then. 00:54:15.940 |
But again, at that point, I wouldn't have had this clarity of thought. 00:54:20.140 |
I wouldn't have been clear in terms of money mindset and I wouldn't have been able to truly 00:54:25.820 |
understand my relationship with money, to craft a life of financial well-being and a 00:54:33.740 |
Final question is always would you even have sold at that point in time because or would 00:54:41.580 |
It is definitely a matter of intelligent timing, but sometimes it's easier to jump a little 00:54:46.180 |
early than a little bit late because you're less you're less committed. 00:54:51.060 |
I know when I left when I left my and closed my financial planning business to pursue radical 00:54:56.980 |
personal finance, there were many factors involved. 00:54:59.920 |
But one that I did seriously consider was the fact that although it was a very expensive 00:55:04.660 |
decision for me to leave, I walked away from a lot of of future income that I had already 00:55:09.340 |
earned in various deferred compensation arrangements. 00:55:13.340 |
But I looked at it and said, "If it's this hard now, in five years when the numbers are 00:55:21.940 |
And will I really walk away at that point in the future?" 00:55:24.780 |
Now I think anybody, if you count the cost and you decide that you want to make a change, 00:55:31.120 |
But golden handcuffs are very real and you get used to certain things. 00:55:35.980 |
And so I think it's worth factoring that in to your decision criteria. 00:55:41.540 |
Last question I want to bring to you Jason here is you just finished this trip that you 00:55:45.180 |
briefly said, 18,000 miles, 54 stops doing financial wellness seminars. 00:55:54.920 |
So what's interesting to me about this is it's a good way of showing how when you have 00:55:59.740 |
an area of interest and an area of focus, you can incorporate work and fun. 00:56:08.260 |
I'm sure a lot of parts of it were difficult and were work, but it was also fun, wasn't 00:56:14.740 |
I got to hike, I got to explore, and I got to eat at really fancy places that you'd see 00:56:25.740 |
And exactly what you said, I'm at the stage in my life where I'm very fortunate through 00:56:32.060 |
a lot of hard work and timing and new networks and connections that I'm able to incorporate 00:56:43.820 |
I'm passionate and love traveling and having new experiences. 00:56:48.220 |
That's what I wanted to do when I decided to leave corporate and start backpacking around 00:56:54.780 |
And I look at myself and I'm in the mirror and I say, "Jason, is this real life?" 00:56:59.620 |
Because I now have this opportunity to incorporate all these things that I enjoy into something 00:57:11.180 |
So how did you, what were the financial arrangements for a trip like this? 00:57:15.060 |
I assume you had a couple sponsors and you were doing some work with a client and then 00:57:21.700 |
But my impression is that you made money on this road trip. 00:57:28.340 |
So I had sponsors who purchased copies of the books and also sponsors who paid me to 00:57:35.020 |
go speak in front of an audience to share the exact parts of the story that I just shared 00:57:44.900 |
And so the majority of my sponsors throughout the country were credit unions. 00:57:56.700 |
But you're looking at 30 stops across the country were sponsored by local credit unions. 00:58:02.820 |
And also work with some FinTech folks and nonprofit organizations and city organizations, 00:58:07.060 |
all excited about trying to figure out what makes us tick? 00:58:10.020 |
Why are we so focused on experiences and not just things? 00:58:16.900 |
So yeah, the generosity of sponsors that align with my vision as well as the mission of the 00:58:27.060 |
And part of that too was to ensure that the cost was covered. 00:58:31.260 |
It's a really expensive endeavor to spend 107 days on the road as well as host events. 00:58:37.280 |
So not only did we just show up in a couple of places, we hosted events, we found the 00:58:46.180 |
But also at the point to knowing that what was the value with the time that we spent 00:58:53.220 |
on the road as well as the potential for profit to continue the conversation going forward. 00:58:59.940 |
It is just a cool example though of how many things can be done where when you get free 00:59:05.700 |
of some constraints, you can substitute ways to earn income and do something that you care 00:59:11.940 |
about and there are plenty of ways in today's world to integrate this with sponsors, etc. 00:59:18.940 |
Jason, thanks for coming on and sharing your story. 00:59:21.780 |
Tell us about the book and any actions that you'd like my audience to take as a result 00:59:31.780 |
For those of you who want to learn more, you can visit jasonvita.com. 00:59:37.060 |
Just some personal thoughts that I share on my personal website. 00:59:40.020 |
I also do have a Q&A platform about 65,000 millennials sharing financial information, 00:59:53.820 |
And you want to learn more about the Road to Financial Wellness, that's roadtofinancialwellness.com 00:59:59.740 |
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