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Today on Radical Personal Finance we're going to talk about budgeting. 00:00:45.440 |
There are very few jokes that you can say around me that make me really angry, but that 00:00:50.520 |
I cannot stand the negative attitude that so many people seem to have about budgeting 00:00:56.600 |
and it's perpetuated with stupid jokes like that one. 00:01:00.520 |
Because here's my contention, and I say this without reservation period. 00:01:06.440 |
Budgeting has the opportunity to change every single aspect of your life. 00:01:15.080 |
If you understand what budgeting is, how it works, the progressions of budgeting, and 00:01:23.240 |
the areas to which you should apply the concept. 00:01:43.320 |
Welcome to the Radical Personal Finance podcast. 00:01:50.880 |
I'm excited about today's show because some of the concepts that I have to share with 00:01:54.400 |
you I believe will bring some real clarity to the conversation around budgeting. 00:01:59.840 |
Today I'm going to give you a framework for budgeting, how you can apply it to your life, 00:02:04.360 |
and yes I really do believe that this show has the opportunity, the potential to change 00:02:21.160 |
People who care about finance argue about everything finance related and budgeting is 00:02:24.760 |
one of the sources of arguments that people love to argue about. 00:02:28.280 |
Talk about different ways and different approaches and things like that. 00:02:38.680 |
Budgeting is one of those things that you can't really get around and even the people 00:02:42.480 |
who think they're getting around it, "I don't budget. 00:02:46.560 |
They're getting around it without actually getting around it. 00:02:51.400 |
I hope that that becomes very clear to you in today's show that even the people who say 00:02:55.200 |
they don't budget, they really are when we understand and expand our definition of budgeting. 00:03:00.520 |
My intent in today's show is to share some ideas and some thoughts with you that I think 00:03:04.920 |
will maybe help to bring people together on the subject of budgeting because I've been 00:03:09.880 |
there, done that, tried different things, seen different things. 00:03:12.960 |
Today, I'm going to share with you a continuum of budgeting approaches that I think will 00:03:21.320 |
You would never run a business without having a budget of some kind and having some sort 00:03:26.760 |
of controls on your finances or at least you wouldn't run such a business and expect it 00:03:33.340 |
In fact, if you trace the problems of business bankruptcy, many times you're going to find 00:03:38.360 |
that often the budgeting system and the control system and the feedback mechanisms weren't 00:03:43.480 |
responding fast enough to be able to help the business owner and the entrepreneur to 00:03:49.320 |
Now, they may – the fault is not always the budgeting system, but the budgeting system 00:03:55.960 |
So why would you run your life any differently? 00:03:59.080 |
Well, you would say because money is not everything. 00:04:03.960 |
And that's why today I want to talk about budgeting in an expansive concept beyond just 00:04:12.000 |
See, there are very few times I make absolute statements because there are very few things 00:04:24.400 |
I can't come up with a single valid argument not to have a system of financial tracking, 00:04:31.080 |
budgeting and control if you are interested in building wealth. 00:04:36.200 |
And furthermore, the better your system of financial tracking, budgeting and control, 00:04:47.600 |
Now the cool thing is that principle is applicable to money and money is a great thing to talk 00:04:57.640 |
But obviously money is not the central focus of life. 00:05:01.380 |
Money is simply a tool to fund the central themes of life. 00:05:07.840 |
And so that statement can and should and we will today be applied to other areas including 00:05:20.600 |
time and food because the budgeting principles apply to each area of life and the process 00:05:26.660 |
So there are probably other areas we could apply it to. 00:05:28.240 |
But I want to talk today about the three major budgets that we need to have in our life. 00:05:32.640 |
And those three budgets are a budget for our time, a budget for our food intake and a budget 00:05:39.640 |
You could have a budget for our physical activity or have a budget for our emotional energy. 00:05:47.000 |
But today I just want to talk about three budgets. 00:05:49.040 |
Hat tip to Gary North who was the first person years ago when I was reading his site and 00:05:53.280 |
he talked about the three major budgets and it's like time, food and money. 00:05:57.880 |
Hat tip to him for originally years ago giving me the idea of three budgets. 00:06:03.120 |
But today I've expanded the idea and we're going to go beyond that. 00:06:07.080 |
I want to share with you the importance of these three major budgets and how they are 00:06:11.280 |
I want to share with you the three major stages of budgeting through which people go. 00:06:15.960 |
And the key thing here is this is where all the arguments come from. 00:06:19.200 |
This is where people argue, "Well, your budgeting system is stink because you use credit cards 00:06:22.640 |
and you run it through Mint.com and I use cash envelopes." 00:06:25.800 |
This is all a matter of understanding what stage you're at. 00:06:28.800 |
I want to share with you the major ideas that are applicable to every type of budgeting 00:06:34.120 |
I'm going to talk about some tools, basically the types of tools that you need for different 00:06:38.080 |
types of budgeting and then some tools that will give you options. 00:06:41.560 |
And hopefully at the end of today's show, if I've done my job, I will have number one 00:06:49.080 |
I will also, number two, have given you a way to assess your own personal budgeting 00:06:55.060 |
system and perhaps discussed some tools that could be helpful to you as you move on to 00:07:01.720 |
And so that's the major content of today's show. 00:07:05.780 |
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This comes from part of my manuscript of my ideas on budgeting. 00:09:11.800 |
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Today, first, I want to sell you on the impact that budgeting can make and why it can affect 00:09:44.640 |
your results and then we'll go into the stages of budgeting. 00:09:48.040 |
I want to start not with money, not even with time but actually with food. 00:09:53.960 |
I want to use food as a good concept or a good metaphor to illustrate the concepts. 00:10:00.200 |
Think of the people in the world whose bodies are instrumental in their success. 00:10:05.720 |
So here I'm thinking of athletes and ask yourself this question. 00:10:11.680 |
Do you think that a highly skilled, highly advanced athlete would have a plan with regard 00:10:25.320 |
It's almost inconceivable that they wouldn't, right? 00:10:30.480 |
Think about somebody like a bodybuilder preparing for a bodybuilding competition. 00:10:33.720 |
A bodybuilder, they've got everything mapped out. 00:10:38.200 |
They know exactly the time that they're going to eat it and depending on the type of competition, 00:10:42.160 |
maybe they've got four containers of chicken breast and green beans planned out and everything 00:10:48.280 |
Maybe they're waking up in the middle of the night to slam down their ice cream smoothie 00:10:52.200 |
with extra calories so that they can gain the weight they're trying to gain. 00:10:57.740 |
Somebody who's preparing for a marathon, they've got their supplements. 00:11:01.400 |
They've got their carbohydrate and protein intake carefully mapped out. 00:11:05.680 |
An Olympic athlete, everything is planned on a careful program and the higher the level 00:11:10.460 |
of performance that you need to go, the more important that plan is. 00:11:23.640 |
In fact, the exceptions generally in this case prove the rule. 00:11:26.760 |
The only exception that comes to mind right now is I remember when Michael Phelps was 00:11:30.420 |
competing at the Olympics, Michael Phelps was the Olympic swimmer. 00:11:34.480 |
I read an article about how he just eats like a maniac and eats all kinds of different things 00:11:42.600 |
He's eating all the food that he can possibly stuff in. 00:11:45.800 |
It's thousands and thousands and thousands of calories per day. 00:11:49.160 |
Sometimes the sources were clean and sometimes the sources were not. 00:11:52.760 |
The reason that he was able to do that though was because of all of the activity on the 00:11:56.360 |
other side, which is why when we talk about wealth planning and you see somebody who is 00:12:00.440 |
earning millions of dollars a year and is only comparing it to the fact that him swimming 00:12:05.760 |
hours and hours and hours a day and then just scarfing and then him scarfing down calories, 00:12:10.560 |
well, if you're not swimming hours and hours a day, you can't just scarf down the 6,000 00:12:15.640 |
In the same way that if you're not earning millions of dollars a year, you can't waste 00:12:18.700 |
hundreds of thousands of dollars per year like you might see some celebrity or star 00:12:26.800 |
Now, do elite athletes reach their level of eliteness and then start budgeting or do they 00:12:39.960 |
Now here for the sake of my illustration, let's focus on something that's very physical 00:12:43.840 |
related to the body, something like bodybuilding. 00:12:51.720 |
Does an elite bodybuilder budget only after they become elite or did the fact that they 00:13:00.340 |
I would argue that generally it's the latter. 00:13:04.420 |
Usually those little disciplines that started when they were a scrawny high school student 00:13:09.100 |
and wanted to start building their muscles, those little disciplines, learning how to 00:13:12.620 |
eat, learning how the process, learning how their body responded to different things, 00:13:16.140 |
learning what was right for them, that's what allows them to go to the elite levels. 00:13:20.100 |
Then they hone and refine their skill over time. 00:13:23.900 |
That's a really good example because what it shows is that – it shows that the skills 00:13:32.660 |
build the platform for somebody to go on and do later. 00:13:36.700 |
Now there are people who have natural talent or who have a natural genetic ability over 00:13:48.060 |
There are people who hit it rich unexpectedly. 00:13:50.680 |
But somebody with good genetics and a bad food budget is not going to win a competition. 00:13:56.700 |
Somebody with bad genetics, so-called, and a great food budget might win a competition. 00:14:03.300 |
Think about it and how that applies to money. 00:14:05.340 |
One more point on the food and we'll be off of it is recognize literally how big of 00:14:12.020 |
a difference food makes, going away from athletes, in the lives of the common everyday man and 00:14:19.100 |
Our level of performance is going to be driven by the quality and kinds of foods that we 00:14:25.780 |
Our level of – the amount of work that we can put out, the amount of focus, the amount 00:14:30.220 |
of clarity, the quality and length of our life is going to be driven by the amount of 00:14:37.840 |
So I was using the athlete metaphor to talk about growth into elite levels, which will 00:14:42.640 |
be especially important when we talk about when we switch to money and time. 00:14:46.180 |
But just simply recognize that I'm literally talking about having a plan for food. 00:14:50.460 |
I just – night before last was helping somebody move and this person was moving into a home 00:15:00.580 |
I walked into the home of the relative and this was an older, sick person's house. 00:15:07.940 |
But the wife was lying in a chair, obviously very sick and she was overweight. 00:15:15.380 |
She had – I don't know if she had medical equipment around her. 00:15:18.840 |
She was obviously not very mobile, lying in a chair, very sick. 00:15:29.060 |
Then the husband was moving around, hobbling around with a walker and he was very obese 00:15:38.580 |
The whole house kind of had that sick old person smell. 00:15:42.620 |
Now I don't know the circumstances of the health condition. 00:15:45.140 |
I didn't ask and obviously I don't know the details. 00:15:49.100 |
So this is a little bit of premature judging. 00:15:51.700 |
But as I walked through the kitchen, I was just struck by the food that was sitting on 00:15:57.500 |
There were crumb cakes and donuts and just – it was bread. 00:16:02.000 |
It was sugary bread of about ten different varieties all partially consumed. 00:16:12.620 |
It was all sugary breads in some state of consumption, way more than even a family of 00:16:19.200 |
many people should eat one of them and yet there were only two people in the house and 00:16:25.180 |
My heart went out to them and I didn't have opportunity to ask any questions nor was it 00:16:30.660 |
But I just thought, "Are they sick because of this or are they eating this way because 00:16:36.180 |
But the same thing happens in money and in time. 00:16:45.180 |
Are they poor because they waste money or are they wasting money because they're poor? 00:16:51.460 |
Are they unproductive because they're wasting time or you get the point? 00:16:57.220 |
So we've got to pay attention to each of these budgets. 00:16:59.260 |
The major budget I think that will make the biggest difference in how our life turns out 00:17:02.860 |
is how we budget our time because the things that we budget our time to do, that's the 00:17:11.980 |
Number two is probably food and number three is probably money if I had to put a priority 00:17:20.140 |
Let's talk about the stages of budgeting that I think are important. 00:17:24.300 |
I think there are three major stages of budgeting. 00:17:26.260 |
If you are getting the results that you're happy with, you may not need to change anything. 00:17:34.300 |
Life is not always about constantly changing everything again and again and again and again. 00:17:38.580 |
This question is are you happy with the results? 00:17:40.900 |
And if you're happy with them, just go with what you're doing. 00:17:43.080 |
But if you're not completely satisfied with your results in some area, I think there are 00:17:53.540 |
Start with awareness of what's actually happening. 00:18:02.140 |
In food, if you were working with a diet consultant, the first thing they would do is provide and 00:18:07.140 |
ask you to have some mechanism of tracking your food, whether that's keeping a diet log 00:18:12.580 |
and writing down the things that you eat, whether that's taking a picture with your 00:18:15.460 |
phone of everything that you eat, some mechanism of recording so that you can become aware 00:18:23.820 |
If you were working with a productivity coach, the first thing that productivity coach would 00:18:27.500 |
ask you to do is become aware of what you're spending your time doing. 00:18:38.260 |
Again, an app on your phone, an app on your computer, tracking the time on your computer 00:18:43.260 |
and on your phone to figure out what you're actually spending your time on, a written 00:18:47.780 |
journal of some kind, anything to gain some level of awareness. 00:18:55.260 |
If you were talking with me, the first thing I'm going to find out is where is your money 00:18:59.580 |
We have to have a system of tracking and being aware of where your money is going. 00:19:07.500 |
Stage two of making major change is proactive planning or proactive allocation. 00:19:15.180 |
It has to be proactive planning, proactive allocation with an appropriate level of detail. 00:19:22.820 |
That little caveat with an appropriate level of detail is very subjective and it's very 00:19:26.620 |
subjective based upon what you're trying to do. 00:19:30.980 |
If you're trying to win a bodybuilding competition, you're going to track every one of your macros 00:19:35.660 |
and you're going to have them every single day recorded. 00:19:38.940 |
If on the other hand, you're just trying to live a normal life, you don't need such an 00:19:48.180 |
There are times at which very, very specific and careful detail is important. 00:19:53.900 |
There are times where just big picture allocation and proactive planning is all you need. 00:20:01.860 |
Nutrition coach says, "Hey, let's adjust your food. 00:20:04.260 |
Here are the foods I want you to eat more of. 00:20:06.100 |
Here are the foods I want you to eat less of." 00:20:13.420 |
There's a food place near my house, world famous, called Hippocrates Health Institute. 00:20:19.700 |
People come in from all over the world who are in end stage cancer and just very difficult 00:20:25.380 |
Some people that just want to live a healthy life and they come in for intensive nutritional 00:20:29.980 |
Man, their level of the stuff, I've gone there for lunch. 00:20:38.700 |
But the level of specificity of the things you must eat, the things you must not eat 00:20:45.300 |
But they're working with people who are looking for hardcore extreme results. 00:20:49.820 |
So proactive planning with appropriate detail. 00:20:57.540 |
The third stage is we need a system of ongoing controls with an appropriate level of relaxation. 00:21:05.820 |
Whatever the category of life, whatever the system, we must have some kind of ongoing 00:21:13.160 |
That feedback loop can be very simple or it can be very complex. 00:21:17.460 |
But it's got to be a livable level of feedback loop. 00:21:25.060 |
Number two, proactive planning with appropriate level of detail. 00:21:28.340 |
And number three, ongoing controls with an appropriate level of relaxation. 00:21:33.260 |
Let me sketch out the framework for you and I'll give some very specific monetary examples. 00:21:40.380 |
Before I do that though, I believe there are some major ideas that are consistent across 00:21:45.260 |
all these different types of budgeting, all these different kinds of allocation. 00:21:49.780 |
First, great results come from having clear goals. 00:21:57.420 |
I just want to lose five or 10 pounds and feel better. 00:22:07.540 |
But we've got to start with clear goals and the goals inform everything. 00:22:11.060 |
Yeah, Joshua, I'd just like to get out of debt, live a normal lifestyle, save a little 00:22:14.420 |
bit of money and focus on just hanging out with my friends and doing things I love. 00:22:33.060 |
And if you have a goal of being a mega billionaire, that's going to require a very different allocation 00:22:39.980 |
of your time and a very different allocation of your money than if your goal is I just 00:22:45.940 |
want to live a debt-free life, save a little bit of money and spend a lot of time outside. 00:22:56.860 |
I'm just pointing out there's a very different plan. 00:23:02.420 |
Next major idea is in all of these circumstances, you've got to start with the big rocks first. 00:23:10.700 |
Here I'm referring back to the classic illustration of time management. 00:23:17.780 |
Professor stands at the front of the room, fills up a jar with big rocks, presents it 00:23:29.940 |
Professor puts the jar down, puts some gravel, which filters around the big rocks, looks 00:23:37.380 |
Class says, "Yeah, we think it is," but they're starting to wise up. 00:23:41.060 |
Professor pours sand down in among the rocks and holds it up and says, "Is the jar full?" 00:23:46.680 |
One student bravely says, "I think so," but they're not very sure of it. 00:23:50.140 |
Professor takes a pitcher of water, pours the pitcher of water in, fills the jar up. 00:23:57.100 |
The point of the illustration is that if you start with filling the jar with water and 00:24:01.140 |
then you put sand and then you put gravel, you're never going to get everything into 00:24:05.020 |
the jar because you put all the little things in first and you can't ever get the big things 00:24:10.420 |
The point is life only works if you start with the big rocks, if you start with the 00:24:14.140 |
important things and do those first and then fit everything else in around those. 00:24:19.260 |
That theme is consistent with regard to money, time, and food. 00:24:26.900 |
Start with the things that are going to make the biggest impact on your situation, the 00:24:35.980 |
Sometimes the major roadblock in a budget is the fact that there's a car payment. 00:24:40.820 |
If we just get rid of the car payment, it loosens everything else up. 00:24:44.060 |
It makes no sense to focus on the little things. 00:24:47.700 |
You're spending, you're buying a $4 latte or you have a bad habit of giving a dollar 00:24:53.140 |
It makes no sense to start with those things when there's a big giant problem. 00:25:04.540 |
It could be expanded to say why are we focusing on the budget when you're making $11,000 00:25:10.900 |
No matter your level of budgeting prowess, it's very difficult to live on $11,000 a year. 00:25:15.700 |
Let's start with the big thing, which leads me to my next major idea, which in some ways 00:25:22.140 |
is complementary to the idea of big rocks first, but it's also a little bit different 00:25:26.300 |
that both top-down and bottom-up approaches can work. 00:25:30.920 |
This is where you can help somebody by starting with the big stuff or you can help them by 00:25:35.160 |
starting with the little stuff because we're not necessarily talking about the specific 00:25:41.520 |
We're talking about a person and that person is going to need life change. 00:25:47.480 |
Best example on this topic is years ago, I read David Allen's book called Getting Things 00:25:52.280 |
Done and his emphasis in that book was on the very tangible tactical level of task completion. 00:26:00.360 |
What's the next action that I can take that will result in the project being moved forward? 00:26:06.080 |
He didn't spend much time talking in that book about the big giant goals that we can 00:26:10.720 |
talk about and how your vision for your life can be planned out. 00:26:14.240 |
This is why it's so utterly overwhelming when somebody who's just trying to figure out, 00:26:17.960 |
"Well, how do I have enough money to buy food this month?" 00:26:20.840 |
Talk about, "Let's plan out a major plan for your life." 00:26:26.880 |
But if you help somebody with little things, it can do it. 00:26:33.200 |
That's where sometimes you can do the top down. 00:26:36.520 |
The bottom up is the little things first, focusing on the little things, the little 00:26:39.320 |
habits, eating the – for food, it would be eating the candy on the co-worker's desk. 00:26:44.200 |
For time, it would be how many times to check Facebook. 00:26:47.640 |
But you can start with the big ones and say, "Let's just make one big major change. 00:26:51.840 |
Let's start with your most important project and spend two hours working on that every 00:26:56.480 |
Let's start with fixing breakfast and have a really great breakfast." 00:27:05.520 |
It's ultimately going to be OK to focus on either of them. 00:27:14.680 |
But we might need to get there with a bottom up approach or with a quick top down approach 00:27:19.280 |
and that's going to be very subject to the person's personality. 00:27:22.480 |
Next, we need tools that are appropriate for the job that are based on the goal. 00:27:28.240 |
Not everybody needs some fancy dancy budgeting software. 00:27:31.460 |
Not everybody needs YNAB, the sponsor of the show. 00:27:36.680 |
When I was in college, I kept my budget on a legal pad and there were six categories. 00:27:41.280 |
Every month, I write down the amount of money that I'd had, write to get my rent, take 00:27:44.720 |
out my savings, take out my giving, take out my rent, take out my car insurance, and then 00:27:49.600 |
I would take cash out of the bank for food and that included any groceries or dining 00:27:54.000 |
out and then I'd take cash out of the bank for little expenditures if I wanted to buy 00:28:00.680 |
It wasn't much more – I guess a cell phone bill. 00:28:03.720 |
But it took about five minutes and it was a once a month deal and the constraint, the 00:28:07.440 |
level of appropriate control, the appropriate tool in that situation was cash and it worked 00:28:15.480 |
But of course now, when I'm running a household with many more budget categories and multiple 00:28:20.360 |
people, it's different and I expect it to be much different in the future as my financial 00:28:27.360 |
I could not run my budget today based on cash. 00:28:36.180 |
So they're just tools and you've got to find a tool that's appropriate for the job 00:28:43.640 |
Next major idea is we need appropriate levels of control and here I'm specifically talking 00:28:54.160 |
So this is – when I'm using the term budget, it should be evident to you by now that I'm 00:28:57.520 |
thinking about budgeting perhaps in a way of thinking about allocation, choosing the 00:29:06.800 |
But when many people are thinking about budgets, they're thinking about the curbing effect 00:29:11.240 |
The idea that I only have $100 to spend on clothing. 00:29:16.400 |
Oh, I can't do it because the budget says I can't. 00:29:19.880 |
That can be very, very valuable but that needs to be appropriate based upon the phase of 00:29:24.320 |
life, phase of business and the goals involved. 00:29:28.840 |
Think about this in terms of a business startup, a business venture. 00:29:34.560 |
In the beginning of the business startup, I put a very tight level of control on every 00:29:43.480 |
When you're facing a high degree of uncertainty, you've got to keep resources back. 00:29:59.240 |
You don't need to exercise a tight level of rationing and control in the bottle of 00:30:04.960 |
You're out in the middle of the desert and all of a sudden you realize you're totally 00:30:09.360 |
You have no idea where you are and you have a half a bottle of water left. 00:30:13.320 |
You're probably going to start to think about caring for things and rationing a little 00:30:19.520 |
So the amount of certainty that you have about the situation is what dictates your ability 00:30:25.000 |
So in the initial stages of starting a business, cash controls have to be very, very, very 00:30:32.480 |
Is it appropriate that a highly functioning business that where everything is doing well, 00:30:38.360 |
there's substantial profit margins, that every single dollar has to be tracked? 00:30:44.200 |
I'm not going to say tracked, but I mean controlled. 00:30:46.840 |
I don't think so because you reach a point in time where it's more frustrating than 00:30:52.800 |
If you are running a large business, the $1.99 purchase doesn't really make nearly a big 00:30:59.120 |
difference when you're dealing with $100,000 purchases. 00:31:07.880 |
Let's say that you are this type of person or you're working with somebody. 00:31:13.960 |
They are behind on their bills and they're really struggling and there's uncertainty 00:31:20.840 |
You need an absolute tight system of control. 00:31:24.760 |
Remember, I'm not talking about necessarily how much money he spends. 00:31:29.840 |
So in that situation, when I'm counseling somebody, we take every single automatic payment 00:31:38.000 |
We take the whole – it's like a full stop on everything and we take back radical control 00:31:43.800 |
of the budget, every single dollar, every one. 00:31:51.040 |
We move to a system of controls that is absolutely foolproof, something like cash because you 00:31:56.000 |
can't afford if someone is deeply in debt, you can't afford to have a $35 bounce check 00:32:00.680 |
That's destructive when somebody is in that situation. 00:32:06.900 |
Put everything on cash, envelope system, budgeting all the way, very, very tight, daily analysis, 00:32:12.320 |
daily tracking, what's the balance today, just everything tight. 00:32:18.720 |
Out of debt, good margin between savings and income. 00:32:23.380 |
Do you really expect somebody to live on that type of tight control forever? 00:32:29.560 |
I think it's absurd to think about somebody needs to have that level of control and they 00:32:33.440 |
have to look in their wallet before going to Costco and recognize I've got $82 in here 00:32:42.760 |
You see one of their fancy doodads they bring in. 00:32:44.760 |
Oh, hey, here's a $200 item I'd really like to have and I never knew I wanted to 00:32:53.660 |
And does somebody who's a multimillionaire need a system of controls where every single 00:33:00.220 |
They just need some basic big picture intention and have a check on it maybe once a month, 00:33:06.300 |
maybe once a quarter, maybe even once a year would be totally fine. 00:33:10.500 |
So there needs to be an appropriate level of control based upon the situation that someone 00:33:16.980 |
So the process of budgeting is the same in every type of budgeting, time, money and food 00:33:32.540 |
We build a simple tracking system that's appropriate. 00:33:35.380 |
We want to move on to intentional planning and here the key is the bigger the results 00:33:39.140 |
that you want, the more intentional you'll need to be. 00:33:42.300 |
I've shared on the show how a breakthrough banner year for me was when I was in college 00:33:49.700 |
That was the year that me personally, I was determined to get out of debt. 00:33:52.740 |
I was doing the Dave Ramsey plan, work like crazy, get out of debt. 00:33:57.420 |
I took 19 hours of classes and I did well in school. 00:34:01.280 |
But in order to get there, I had to establish a very, very, very tight budget of my time. 00:34:11.620 |
The classes were all very efficiently laid out so that I could work on a certain schedule. 00:34:17.060 |
Every single thing was accounted for at the time when I'm going to do homework. 00:34:19.660 |
The only free time I had was I'd scheduled in a couple of hours of fun on Friday night, 00:34:29.820 |
But I got great results and the level of control was very, very tight because I was shooting 00:34:39.300 |
In food, the people who are going to get the best results, their level of control is going 00:34:43.620 |
In money, if that person with $2 million in the bank is determined that they're going 00:34:49.740 |
to become the next billionaire, they've still got to have a very tight level of control. 00:34:56.260 |
If they're content with a few million bucks, then they don't need such a tight level of 00:35:02.620 |
The bigger the results you want, the more intentional you need to be. 00:35:06.460 |
So the cool thing about this process of budgeting, we start with awareness, move on to intentional, 00:35:11.340 |
proactive planning of allocation, tight controls, and then we transition to habits. 00:35:20.260 |
Somebody who's developed good habits doesn't need such a tight system. 00:35:25.460 |
We just need to transition to good habits with some kind of appropriate ongoing checking. 00:35:31.860 |
People who maintain their weight, they weigh themselves every day and if they fluctuate 00:35:36.040 |
by more than a certain amount, or they weigh themselves once a month, or they go in for 00:35:39.260 |
their annual checkup, we need some sort of system of checking up. 00:35:43.380 |
With money, we need to check our account statements and see, "Okay, the last quarter, how did 00:35:50.660 |
Those controls and ongoing checking will give you the data that you need to be able to say, 00:35:56.780 |
"Are we happy and satisfied or do we need to make a change?" 00:35:59.660 |
The better the results, we'll have to tighten up, so we make the budget a little bit tighter 00:36:04.260 |
because the biggest results always come from that careful, diligent planning. 00:36:06.980 |
But if we're okay with the results we have, then enjoy the looseness a little bit. 00:36:14.740 |
I think the tools that we use vary based upon where we are. 00:36:20.140 |
So here I'm going to talk about money primarily and give you money tools, but I will weave 00:36:25.580 |
in food and time because I believe that these concepts are applicable in each category. 00:36:36.220 |
Some way to have a quick check of where we are. 00:36:39.180 |
That's what a dashboard on a car does or a dashboard on a boat or whatever. 00:36:41.940 |
It just tells you, "Hey, here are the RPMs, here's the speed. 00:36:48.620 |
It needs to have good data and it's good if it has some reports. 00:36:52.980 |
So those reports are useful if it's money and we can look and say, "Okay, the last three 00:37:03.740 |
Or if it's time, "Okay, we're spending about this number of hours on productive things 00:37:09.180 |
If it's food, "All right, our weight is adjusting in this certain way." 00:37:12.480 |
So we need some tools for the dashboard overview. 00:37:17.300 |
But we also need tools for big picture planning and intention. 00:37:22.000 |
So we need some kind of forward-looking tool that, extending the metaphor of the car, the 00:37:27.980 |
dashboard doesn't tell you where you're going. 00:37:29.500 |
It just tells you basically how things are going. 00:37:32.580 |
So we need to look forward and say, "Are we headed to the East Coast or West?" 00:37:38.700 |
So we need some kind of forward intention in a proactive forward-looking tool. 00:37:44.860 |
Then we also need some intentional boundaries, that system of controls that's going to keep 00:37:51.860 |
So the best results come when we have tools that address all of these. 00:37:59.820 |
And they might be the same tool or they might not be. 00:38:01.940 |
And again, it's got to be appropriate to the level of complexity in your life. 00:38:09.600 |
So some simple financial tools to actually implement these concepts. 00:38:28.420 |
You can see how all your accounts are at any time. 00:38:36.300 |
My favorite is Personal Capital as far as they're much prettier and they have more useful 00:38:41.260 |
I'm actually launching them as a sponsor on the show very soon. 00:38:46.780 |
If you've never used Personal Capital, go to YNAB.com/PersonalCapital. 00:38:50.500 |
It's like Mint but better and they have much prettier dashboards and it just does a good 00:39:01.700 |
What both of those companies do, Mint and Personal Capital, is they're taking a look 00:39:04.500 |
at your data and then they're trying to offer you something better, a way to save money, 00:39:08.700 |
trying to offer you a way to enhance your situation in some way. 00:39:19.380 |
It's a great way to track your data and you can use it to have great spreadsheets. 00:39:25.500 |
Your dashboard could be something as simple as checking your account statements, your 00:39:34.460 |
These are just simply concepts of – these are tools for looking at a dashboard. 00:39:41.420 |
You can see all your account balances, see how things are going. 00:39:43.960 |
They have some good simple reports for tracking. 00:39:48.480 |
These different things perform that dashboard function very well. 00:39:53.200 |
With regard to tracking of expenses, I jumped the gun there and talked about YNAB with tracking. 00:39:57.500 |
YNAB will work for dashboards because it can show you some account information. 00:40:02.460 |
But the downside with YNAB is it's got to be account information that you enter currently. 00:40:06.580 |
It's not the type of dashboard that will illustrate for you your investment balances. 00:40:16.740 |
Tracking software, your bank has some kind of tracking software. 00:40:18.900 |
So you're figuring out where is the money going. 00:40:22.100 |
Most banks now, if you categorize the stuff, you can pull up those reports. 00:40:25.380 |
So you can figure out where is the money going. 00:40:27.260 |
Quicken, Microsoft Money, all of those systems do a great job of – if you're importing 00:40:37.640 |
If you're entering the data and it's tracking, it's tracking the data going back. 00:40:42.800 |
So you can have different tools for a dashboard system, different tools for a tracking system. 00:40:49.880 |
I don't track any categories in Personal Capital. 00:40:52.780 |
All I use it is as an easy way for me to aggregate all of my accounts. 00:40:58.060 |
Tiller does tracking and does kind of big picture view dashboard stuff. 00:41:02.940 |
Then you move to the concept of proactive planning and that's where your options become 00:41:11.580 |
You can do proactive planning with a yellow pad if your situation is simple enough. 00:41:17.940 |
If you're working with a yellow pad, probably you will need to just do a cash envelope system. 00:41:22.540 |
If your situation is simple or let's say you're teaching your kids or you are a young 00:41:27.180 |
person with a simple life or maybe an old person with a simple life, some of us who 00:41:33.300 |
are at more complicated stages probably a little envious of you, cash in an envelope 00:41:38.180 |
and then you're putting some constraints on there because when the cash is gone, I 00:41:42.940 |
But you're proactively allocating, "Hey, here's $2,000 and $100 bills. 00:41:47.100 |
It's being divided up in this way," and then there's a constraint on there. 00:41:51.980 |
A great piece of software that I've used in the past is a software called Envelopes. 00:42:00.820 |
They do a good job as far as that's their whole concept is taking the cash envelope 00:42:05.020 |
system and putting it to a proactive forward-looking system. 00:42:09.620 |
I didn't like the price tag on Envelopes which is why I never continued through buying 00:42:15.940 |
That was why when I switched to YNAB, it was a better value. 00:42:18.340 |
Once I tried YNAB again, those of you who have listened to the show and that's when 00:42:21.860 |
I brought them on the show as a sponsor, when I tried YNAB, I realized, "Wait a second. 00:42:25.580 |
This does everything Envelopes does and it's a much better price point, much better deal." 00:42:30.100 |
If you'd like to try YNAB, radicalpersonalfinance.com/ynab is the link for them, the sponsor link for 00:42:37.420 |
But those tools are not necessary for everybody. 00:42:41.820 |
You don't need to necessarily track week to week, month to month. 00:42:47.660 |
I don't anticipate doing that forever, although I might because maybe it becomes such a good 00:42:53.020 |
habit and I see the value of it, but if I had 10 million bucks in the bank, I don't 00:42:58.980 |
If I had 10 million bucks in the bank, I'd create some kind of just annualized pro forma 00:43:04.100 |
big picture idea based upon my income sources. 00:43:06.820 |
I'd have a bookkeeper track that stuff and have the bookkeeper be the one providing controls 00:43:12.140 |
and just give them some guidelines to say, "I'm going to look at this stuff quarterly 00:43:16.060 |
and then let me know if I'm making a wide variation in my spending." 00:43:22.020 |
It's going to change based upon where you are. 00:43:24.540 |
That's what – speaking specifically on the money question, this is what's so frustrating 00:43:28.020 |
to people is the system that you need at 18 is not the system that you need at 68. 00:43:36.260 |
So people often have experience with their system and they don't know how to think 00:43:49.540 |
Let me give you an example just to illustrate this with an email exchange. 00:43:53.460 |
A listener of the show named Brian emailed me. 00:43:55.980 |
He says, "Joshua, I wanted to get your opinion on something as it relates to one of your 00:44:00.260 |
I'm trying to figure out if I'll get anything out of using YNAB. 00:44:02.540 |
I'll give some background on my current financial status and goals. 00:44:05.420 |
I've been using Mint to track my finances since 2009, so I have a historical data going 00:44:11.540 |
I have a budget set up on there that I use to track all of my monthly spending. 00:44:15.300 |
I meticulously itemize and categorize every transaction that Mint pulls in and I check 00:44:21.380 |
I pay off my credit card balance every month and the only loan that I have is the remainder 00:44:24.540 |
of my student loan, currently $1,300 at a 1.62% interest rate. 00:44:29.140 |
So I'm not paying it off in full until it's just making the payments. 00:44:33.340 |
I max out my 401(k), my HSA, my Roth IRA, and I put any excess money into taxable investments 00:44:38.940 |
after making sure my three and six-month safety nets are fully funded. 00:44:42.300 |
I live a simple life focusing on minimizing my expenses and environmental footprint. 00:44:46.680 |
My current savings rate is between 60 and 65% and I'm aiming for financial independence 00:44:53.220 |
Once I get there, I'm going to be volunteering my time and I'll probably still be earning 00:44:57.040 |
some money with some more fulfilling part-time work. 00:45:00.620 |
This is where I start to question my current methods. 00:45:02.540 |
I know already exactly where every single cent of my money is going but I'm wondering 00:45:06.140 |
if switching to YNAB to track everything would be beneficial for an active budgeting once 00:45:12.900 |
Were all my money current spending and savings habits strong enough that I wouldn't need 00:45:17.340 |
Most of the YNAB users I read about, they're focused on getting out of debt and getting 00:45:21.180 |
They usually start using it at a place of complete financial ignorance but I know I'm 00:45:24.900 |
already in a good place and there's room for improvement. 00:45:26.980 |
So he says, "So starting where I am right now, do you think it would be a good investment 00:45:30.940 |
of time and money to switch my finance tracking to YNAB in preparation for the future?" 00:45:35.180 |
I don't know if a 30-day trial period will answer him. 00:45:38.300 |
I said, "Brian, it's probably not going to make a big, huge difference for you how much 00:45:44.300 |
You're already disciplined and you already have a system," I would insert here, "a system 00:45:51.020 |
You have a steady income and as long as you're earning a steady paycheck, you don't need 00:45:54.340 |
the extra budgeting figures because you just don't need it. 00:45:58.260 |
I think it would be helpful when you leave your job and start living. 00:46:07.220 |
The point was this person already had a good system of tracking and there was plenty of 00:46:13.340 |
They didn't need to track every single dollar. 00:46:17.060 |
If somebody is saving 60% to 65% of their income on an ongoing basis and they're already 00:46:20.900 |
tracking carefully their money and they decide they want to spend something, they want to 00:46:25.300 |
buy some $200 item, do they have to all of a sudden rework their whole budget to figure 00:46:32.380 |
That's very different than if you're month to month, day to day and you got to figure 00:46:38.360 |
out where do I get the $200 from to buy this item. 00:46:43.360 |
The appropriate level of control has to be there at different stages. 00:46:47.360 |
I want to briefly cover how these different types of tools are available for tracking 00:46:52.200 |
time and for tracking food as well and then wrap up with some budgeting questions from 00:47:03.440 |
Dashboard overview is where is my time going? 00:47:06.620 |
I like to have a list of here's the number of hours that I'm spending. 00:47:15.000 |
I've used a few tools in the past that I've mentioned on the show. 00:47:17.640 |
Presently, I am using something called Toggle. 00:47:30.400 |
They have a web app and they have an actual program for your computer. 00:47:36.080 |
The great thing about Toggle is it allows me just to put in what I'm working on and 00:47:38.840 |
how much time and I have some different projects put in. 00:47:40.840 |
So what I track is what am I doing and then I track it. 00:47:44.560 |
Is this income producing or is this not income producing? 00:47:48.640 |
Because as an entrepreneur, it can be very, very challenging to stay focused on the things 00:47:53.140 |
that make you money instead of on the things that cost you money because the things that 00:47:57.480 |
cost you money always seem to be yelling louder than the things that make you money. 00:48:01.760 |
So I use that as a simple time tracking thing. 00:48:04.080 |
That's been helpful for me as I've just tried to get a handle on now that my life is settling 00:48:09.220 |
down a little bit and I'm able to rebuild the structure. 00:48:14.080 |
It's helpful and I would encourage you every single year, at least take a month or take 00:48:18.800 |
a week, two weeks or something and just kind of get a grasp on where is the time going. 00:48:25.200 |
When it comes to proactive planning, you have to choose, OK, how am I going to proactively 00:48:31.800 |
So here in the next year, my wife and I, we've sat down. 00:48:34.920 |
We've completely reworked our household schedule. 00:48:40.720 |
We've got her and the kids are on a schedule. 00:48:43.800 |
So we know exactly at a certain time at 1 o'clock every day and it helps so much with 00:48:52.480 |
We're not hardcore on having her totally scheduled. 00:48:57.720 |
But with my toddler, then we have a plan for him. 00:49:01.820 |
So we know at 11 o'clock, here's what the plan is because otherwise what happens is 00:49:04.840 |
you go from one thing to the next and you wander instead of, OK, at 11 o'clock, we're 00:49:11.120 |
At 2 o'clock, it's going to be time to go for a walk. 00:49:16.160 |
Here are the days we're going to go to the park and here are the days we're going to 00:49:19.480 |
The concept is the same whether you're running a multimillion-dollar business or running 00:49:25.240 |
So we have – we've built out schedules and those schedules are up on the refrigerator 00:49:30.200 |
and on my desk of here are the hours that I'm working. 00:49:32.800 |
Same thing when you come in with proactive planning, you have to have an approach for 00:49:36.800 |
What are the most important things that I'm going to get done first? 00:49:39.960 |
If you're not doing that, everything falls apart. 00:49:42.080 |
I'll be doing I think the next show after this which will be the final show of the year. 00:49:45.920 |
I'm intending to do a kind of a state of the show, just a little bit of a personal 00:49:52.360 |
Here's where it's going in the next year, some of the changes I'm anticipating for 00:49:56.360 |
But one aspect of that is when you're not on a schedule, you can't get much done. 00:50:01.360 |
The challenge in my house, the big challenge has been because of the needs of my little 00:50:05.360 |
baby girl, that completely upset the apple cart with regard to the show. 00:50:10.200 |
My average monthly show production dropped from 18-ish, 18 to 20 shows a month to – there 00:50:19.120 |
No, two months that had eight, 12, just dramatically dropped. 00:50:29.400 |
You got to deal with the emergencies when they happen. 00:50:36.120 |
You got to have tools with regard to food as well. 00:50:43.800 |
Here's my weight or body fat percentage or whatever. 00:50:52.320 |
But if you look at things like tracking, something is simple. 00:50:56.440 |
For me, taking pictures of the food as I eat it. 00:50:58.480 |
So at least if I could take a picture of it, I can be aware of it and I can go back through 00:51:05.040 |
Am I really eating too many carbohydrates or am I not? 00:51:09.760 |
Then the proactive planning is how do I make sure that the choices are there? 00:51:15.480 |
How do I budget my time so that I can cook the good food? 00:51:17.640 |
How do I make sure the good food is available when I'm in a bind instead of the wrong choices? 00:51:23.880 |
You'll have to figure out what works for you. 00:51:26.640 |
So I want to answer some questions here from the Patreon page and then we'll be done for 00:51:31.520 |
I put this out, the show topic out on Patreon in advance and a few people asked questions. 00:51:39.080 |
Scott asked me the question, he said, "What are the pros and cons of micromanaging discretionary 00:51:43.960 |
expenses versus having a monthly lump sum not to exceed limit? 00:51:48.720 |
Example, food, clothing, home, pet, baby versus Costco." 00:51:51.680 |
Scott, I think it very much depends on the phase that you're in. 00:51:58.440 |
So with budgeting, if you're just trying to make sure you don't overspend your income, 00:52:02.640 |
it doesn't matter much whether Costco is broken out into each of those different things or 00:52:10.600 |
But if you're trying to make changes at that, you need to know what those transactions are. 00:52:16.200 |
So if you're looking down and you're saying, "Man, we're spending $800 a month, $800 a 00:52:20.600 |
month on food," and you hear someone else say, "Well, we spend $400 a month," you say, 00:52:26.640 |
But if Costco is at $800 a month, you're probably not just buying food. 00:52:32.740 |
You're buying food and you're buying a generator and you're buying clothing, like you said 00:52:38.600 |
Well, you're spending $800 a month on all that stuff, not just on food. 00:52:42.960 |
And so if you're trying to make a change or if you're concerned, you got to drill down 00:52:48.640 |
Not on a month – do you need to every single month sit down and carefully itemize your 00:52:54.480 |
Costco receipt only if you're tracking it for a purpose? 00:52:59.040 |
Otherwise, it's probably not the best use of time or at least it's not the best use 00:53:02.680 |
of time as long as you have plenty of other money and you're just kind of doing it for 00:53:08.000 |
If you've got money, the money is flowing, there's excess, you're saving towards the 00:53:10.920 |
big goals, I don't think you need that crazy level of detail unless you're really going 00:53:19.280 |
Does every single person out there, every business executive, does every business executive 00:53:24.480 |
need to track every single one of their micro and macro nutrients? 00:53:27.520 |
No, only if you're trying to pursue elite athletic ability. 00:53:31.440 |
But if you're trying to dig in and say, "Why am I gaining weight?" 00:53:34.560 |
It might be good to track them for a month and find out what's going on. 00:53:39.440 |
You can draw a lot and extrapolate a lot from a month. 00:53:43.640 |
Joe asked, "What's a good budgeting strategy for a two-income household where one income 00:53:47.140 |
is steady and predictable and the other is unpredictable in timing and amount? 00:53:52.640 |
Joe, I would say budget for the bills, the ongoing expenses off of the steady income 00:53:58.680 |
and then budget the unpredictably timed, unpredictably amounted money for the more discretionary 00:54:09.080 |
YNAB is getting lots of plugs today, but this would be why I love YNAB. 00:54:13.860 |
Because with YNAB, what you're doing is you're budgeting the actual money that you have in 00:54:18.920 |
And so in that situation, I struggled with this for years because I've been on unpredictable 00:54:26.460 |
And YNAB has made such a big difference even just to... 00:54:29.600 |
My system was just more of a tracking system because I couldn't figure out the easy proactive 00:54:42.160 |
If the steady income lines up, and I've just got to figure out how much is it versus what 00:54:48.160 |
If the steady income lines up with the bills and hopefully the savings as well, then use 00:54:55.560 |
And you just, with YNAB, you budget the money that's in the account. 00:54:58.560 |
So when the money comes in, you sit down and say, "What should we spend it on?" 00:55:03.220 |
We want to fund the vacation fund or we want to go get our teeth fixed. 00:55:11.240 |
But the nice thing is most of us live in a monthly society. 00:55:14.480 |
We pay monthly bills and that steady predictable floor can make a big difference. 00:55:19.440 |
Sam says, "Do you have any particular advice about how to budget for gift giving without 00:55:26.180 |
My advice is to have a percentage of your income that you are going to give away. 00:55:33.000 |
Set that aside in a separate account and always have it available so that it's there for the 00:55:40.520 |
Take a percentage of your income, set it aside and use it for gifts. 00:55:43.120 |
Now, you can decide what the meaning of that category is. 00:55:46.280 |
So is that gift, do those gifts include birthday gifts and Christmas gifts and graduation gifts 00:55:51.160 |
or do those gifts include people on the street? 00:55:56.560 |
But just figure out how much of my money, in my percentage of my income do I want to 00:56:05.120 |
I have strong feelings about budgeting to be able to give and save before you do anything 00:56:12.800 |
Once you have a giving account, it totally changes the way that you view life. 00:56:23.520 |
What's remarkable is if you start building up some funds in your giving account, let's 00:56:30.920 |
say that you allocate 10% of your income, household income $50,000, you're going to 00:56:40.820 |
That is amazing when you start to even just on that, a median income, think about giving 00:56:45.160 |
away $5,000 every single year and you allocate the money in advance and then you have an 00:56:52.880 |
So when you come across a need and you say, "Hey, here's a need that I can help," you 00:56:56.840 |
start packing it up and you can make some really nice gifts just by simply allocating 00:57:03.300 |
That makes a huge difference in your outlook on life and it is so empowering and it's the 00:57:11.400 |
So that would be how I would handle it is decide what percentage of your money you're 00:57:14.680 |
going to give away and get rid of it and give it away. 00:57:21.440 |
Someday I should do shows on giving but for today, I'll just say it's more blessed to 00:57:26.080 |
So Chris asks, "What's the best method of budgeting calories and food? 00:57:29.560 |
I've spent over two years tuning in my usage of YNAB, which is the best product out there 00:57:34.120 |
for money budgeting, but have not yet found a good way to track my eating. 00:57:37.420 |
Many of my approaches were just not convenient as I would have liked and ended up only getting 00:57:44.480 |
So Chris, on this one, I don't have a perfect system. 00:57:54.320 |
So part of me doing the show today is to encourage myself and to push out the ideas that can 00:58:01.360 |
I've tried some of the different apps as far as where you enter in every meal and everything. 00:58:05.280 |
I found them so constrictive because I don't eat from a package. 00:58:09.080 |
Interestingly, I saw on J.D. Roth's Facebook page that he was actually telling his girlfriend 00:58:15.560 |
– he was going to design – his girlfriend wanted to lose weight evidently and his diet 00:58:19.440 |
for her was that he was going to put her on a packaged food diet. 00:58:25.920 |
The point was that by being on a packaged food diet, you could use a tracking app like 00:58:30.560 |
MyFitnessPal or whatever, something like that. 00:58:32.560 |
You could use a tracking app, scan the barcode and have all the nutritional data automatically 00:58:37.960 |
His point was calories are more important than anything else and so by tracking that 00:58:46.760 |
with a barcode, we'll be able to make more options. 00:58:49.200 |
I thought, "Interesting idea," because I can see the value. 00:58:52.240 |
Now we don't eat – in my family, we don't eat a lot of packaged foods and so it's 00:58:56.160 |
really frustrating when I'm sitting there making something with food and, "Okay, 00:58:59.120 |
am I going to weigh this and I'm making a big bowl for the family? 00:59:01.480 |
Am I going to sit there and put these things on a scale to be able to track this?" 00:59:06.260 |
So what I'm convinced has the biggest difference is personally for me, overweight guy talking, 00:59:12.320 |
take this with a grain of salt, do your own research. 00:59:14.280 |
I'm convinced calories are not a major factor in weight. 00:59:20.840 |
I'm convinced they're also not a major factor in health. 00:59:23.160 |
Now there are lots of people who disagree with me but I've read as extensively as 00:59:27.440 |
I can and I can't find the data that demonstrates that calories are the key. 00:59:32.000 |
So what I've been working on is adjusting the major choices. 00:59:35.800 |
So many people seem well agreed on the fact that calories are not the contributor of weight 00:59:44.400 |
And so each of us will have a varying level at which our bodies come out based upon the 00:59:54.760 |
It's not necessarily to track in an app, it's easier to track with the choices. 00:59:59.660 |
So that's what I choose to do and so for me, I try to just take pictures and say, "Remind 01:00:05.520 |
And so that way I know if I chose to eat something that had more carbohydrates, "Oh, I've got 01:00:13.160 |
But you're going to have to go to someone else because I'm not an expert, anything beyond 01:00:17.040 |
I would say if the most compelling book that I read on the subject was Why We Get Fat by 01:00:26.800 |
I read those books a few months ago and they both were really, really compelling. 01:00:30.400 |
And I knew the basic premise of them but finally I read the books and they helped me to be 01:00:35.800 |
confident and more confident in my perspective. 01:00:42.840 |
Lee asks, "I'd love to get to Jesse Mecham's live on last month's income but other than 01:00:46.480 |
cut back on spending, do you have any practical tips? 01:00:48.760 |
P.S. close to 20% of net income is put straight to savings so it's not like we're spending 01:00:53.760 |
Lee, I would say you're using YNAB and so one of the major premises of YNAB is live 01:00:59.360 |
I didn't get that until I walked through their training and all of a sudden I realized what 01:01:03.400 |
that little function of budgeting the income for December or January was. 01:01:10.140 |
If you are saving that much money, you're saving 20% of your income. 01:01:13.320 |
As long as you've done that for five months, you have one month's income in savings. 01:01:18.240 |
What I would do is just simply move the money into my checking account and then I would 01:01:22.720 |
allocate – I would start putting this month's money and allocating it for next month and 01:01:27.160 |
then I would go ahead and just replenish the savings and just adjust it very simply. 01:01:31.320 |
If you're saving that percentage of your income, you're in good shape. 01:01:35.040 |
If you don't have that much money in savings, then follow the plan that they have in their 01:01:42.720 |
What you do is in your YNAB budgeting system, you establish a buffer account and you fund 01:01:48.120 |
that buffer account until it's equal to one month's expenses. 01:01:52.920 |
So the money will gradually grow in your checking account and then once it's grown to be an 01:01:58.160 |
amount equal to one month's expenses, then you just pull it out of the buffer account, 01:02:04.000 |
budget it and from then on, you put all the money into the month ahead. 01:02:07.200 |
So that's the way that they do it and it really works great. 01:02:12.600 |
She says, "How do you fit budgeting for big expenses like a kitchen remodel into your 01:02:17.280 |
I tend to stop my long-term savings for X number of months to save for big purchases 01:02:22.640 |
So Victoria, I don't know if there's a better way. 01:02:26.440 |
I would just say for me, the key question here would be getting clear on your priorities. 01:02:31.900 |
So I don't have a lot of experience as being a homeowner for decades to where, "OK, I'm 01:02:38.040 |
I will tell you where I'm at now at my age is I wouldn't remodel the kitchen because 01:02:42.620 |
right now, it would cost me too much money as compared to my long-term goals of financial 01:02:48.540 |
But if I started to realize that remodeling the kitchen was a priority, then I would assess 01:02:55.120 |
it and I would say, "Would I rather have the kitchen remodeled?" 01:03:00.300 |
Maybe that would bring my wife a greater deal of happiness and that would be worth it. 01:03:04.300 |
Maybe it would bring me – if I would, I'd rather have the kitchen remodeled and delay 01:03:07.980 |
financial independence by X number of months or years or not. 01:03:16.560 |
Then if I knew that I'd rather have the kitchen remodeled, I would do exactly what 01:03:21.720 |
Right now, we're going to remodel the kitchen and this is going to be the major priority." 01:03:25.360 |
I don't know of anything more intelligent to do than that. 01:03:28.480 |
Maybe some of you guys have a better system and you can help Victoria out with that. 01:03:35.320 |
I know some of these things are a little bit conceptual but I think they're powerful. 01:03:40.640 |
Just to reiterate, three major budgets, time, food, and money. 01:03:44.320 |
There are three major stages that we go through. 01:03:49.960 |
If you don't have awareness about one of those aspects of your life, start with just 01:03:58.760 |
If you need or want big results, do very tight proactive planning. 01:04:03.200 |
If you just need OK results, then do looser proactive planning. 01:04:07.080 |
Do proactive planning with appropriate detail. 01:04:09.520 |
Number three, set up a system of ongoing controls with an appropriate level of relaxation. 01:04:13.560 |
If you're getting great results, you don't need to do that tight planning forever. 01:04:18.280 |
If you are – there was somebody I was corresponding with in the Facebook group. 01:04:27.760 |
My answer was no, you don't because you don't need to do that month-to-month planning. 01:04:32.500 |
You just need to have a vague idea of, "OK, in 2016, here's how much money I'm going 01:04:43.160 |
You go through phases and you got to get clear on the goals, put in the big rocks, get the 01:04:49.240 |
tools that are appropriate and make sure that you're having a level of control that's appropriate 01:04:55.040 |
The better the results you want, the tighter you need to make those results because mega 01:04:58.920 |
results come from the most careful, diligent planning but that may not be where you're 01:05:07.960 |
Listen, December is a great time to be doing budgeting because you can start with a fresh 01:05:17.880 |
If you're not using a system, start with something. 01:05:24.240 |
Maybe they still have the two-month code working. 01:05:32.560 |
But try something and start working on it and don't be scared if it doesn't work. 01:05:59.000 |
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