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Today on the show I share with you an interview with Tom Corley. 00:00:04.320 |
Tom is an accomplished accountant who is also a financial planner by trade. 00:00:10.720 |
He became interested in the subject of wealth and performed a survey of his wealthy clients 00:00:16.780 |
trying to elucidate what made them different from other people. 00:00:22.480 |
Completed a survey of a number of wealthy people and also a number of poor people and 00:00:26.300 |
from those surveys and from that research extracted some habits and some principles 00:00:32.680 |
that were common to all of the wealthy people and were uncommon to the poor people. 00:00:38.640 |
He went on to write a book called Rich Habits, the Daily Success Habits of Wealthy Individuals. 00:00:46.240 |
Find out how the rich get so rich, the secrets to financial success revealed. 00:00:49.820 |
He followed that up with an additional book called Rich Kids, How to Raise Our Children 00:00:59.100 |
Kind of an important subject, don't you think? 00:01:17.240 |
Welcome to the Radical Personal Finance Podcast. 00:01:19.120 |
My name is Joshua Sheets and I'm your host, your guide and your fellow adventurer on the 00:01:25.420 |
This is the show where we talk each and every day about all of the concepts and all of the 00:01:29.360 |
content and all of the information required to construct a rich and successful life, day 00:01:35.340 |
by day, working hard, doing all we can do to build and grow toward financial independence. 00:01:44.320 |
I'm very much looking forward to hearing your feedback after this interview. 00:01:54.040 |
It's one of the more enjoyable interviews that I have done with an author and it's enjoyable 00:01:58.480 |
Number one, the content matter of this interview is a perfect fit for Radical Personal Finance. 00:02:03.640 |
After all, this is exactly what we talk about. 00:02:06.520 |
It's also in many ways a confirmation of many of the ideas that I've held for a long time 00:02:11.760 |
and it's always exciting to see some of the ideas that you hold near and dear to your 00:02:18.960 |
Most importantly, I want you to pay attention to the story. 00:02:22.480 |
During the course of this interview, I did not focus heavily on the content of Tom's 00:02:28.280 |
I personally have found that authors are very challenging people to interview and one of 00:02:31.800 |
the changes that I've made with my interviewing style, you can tell me if you like it or not, 00:02:36.960 |
is not so much to focus on trying to get an author to go step by step through their book. 00:02:41.920 |
That's a mistake that I made in earlier episodes of Radical Personal Finance and it doesn't, 00:02:45.760 |
in my opinion, doesn't work well because they wrote a book for a reason. 00:02:49.440 |
If you want to know what the rich habits are, read the book and obviously a good quick summary 00:02:56.600 |
But more than that, I was interested in Tom's story. 00:03:02.480 |
So listen for that through the course of this interview. 00:03:04.800 |
Listen for Tom's story and how he personally changed and the steps that he took because 00:03:12.160 |
there's nothing that Tom has done that you or I can't do as well. 00:03:22.000 |
I've been looking forward to speaking with you. 00:03:24.320 |
Tom Gjelten: Thanks for having me on your show Joshua. 00:03:28.720 |
Tom Bilyeu: I've been wanting to talk with you because you have written extensively about 00:03:36.080 |
success habits which is going to be the core of our show but you've also built a career 00:03:45.760 |
And so as a fellow financial planner, I've been looking forward to talking to you about 00:03:51.240 |
Before we get into the meat and potatoes, I'd love it if you'd share a little bit about 00:03:53.880 |
your background and your journey through the financial planning industry and the accounting 00:03:58.380 |
industry and how that ultimately led to your creating the Rich Habits books. 00:04:03.920 |
Well, I'm a CPA and I'm also a certified financial planner. 00:04:08.200 |
I also have a master's in tax and I mention that only because I spent a great deal of 00:04:12.300 |
my career focused on large corporate tax and complicated individual tax areas like expatriates 00:04:24.200 |
What happened was the transition into what I'm doing here was really just by happenstance. 00:04:32.440 |
I took over the reins of this CPA firm, Seraphus & Company in 2003 and sometime in the middle 00:04:41.800 |
of 2004, one of our clients who was a business owner was struggling financially. 00:04:50.480 |
They needed to have a meeting with me immediately. 00:04:53.720 |
Their bank had shut down their line of credit and they couldn't make payroll and so they 00:05:00.160 |
were basically coming to me looking for a Hail Mary pass with a couple of seconds on 00:05:06.800 |
the clock and I told them I couldn't find a bank that quickly. 00:05:11.880 |
Those things take time, building banking relationships. 00:05:18.360 |
It was a family business he had inherited from his dad and because of, as I found out, 00:05:25.440 |
because of certain bad habits that he had, he was basically taking all the cash flow 00:05:35.640 |
He started crying and he asked me what was he doing wrong, what are my successful clients 00:05:43.760 |
It affected me emotionally and so I started doing some initial research. 00:05:49.280 |
I found some okay information, mainly it was the millionaire next door research, but it 00:05:56.120 |
didn't really tell me what the guy was doing wrong and there wasn't a lot of information 00:06:09.120 |
It took me about six months to develop what became my 20 question list, which is really 00:06:14.400 |
154 questions, but I broke it down into 20 categories. 00:06:27.640 |
Initially I started out interviewing wealthy people and I stopped at 233. 00:06:37.040 |
I didn't want to go above really 150, but I was just drawn into this. 00:06:42.000 |
It was so compelling, the information I was gathering. 00:06:45.680 |
Then I said, "Well, I know what wealthy people are doing, but what are poor people doing 00:06:55.380 |
My goal was to just interview 100 poor people. 00:07:00.140 |
My goal was actually 150 poor people, but I struggled, believe it or not, finding poor 00:07:07.680 |
I only got 128, but I thought it was relevant enough sampling for me. 00:07:17.520 |
I was doing it to try and answer a question that I had, which is why are people rich and 00:07:24.360 |
I took all of this information that I gathered through this 20 question list and I dumped 00:07:31.160 |
it onto a bunch of Excel worksheets and I started categorizing it. 00:07:40.680 |
Now I've got over 300 data points that I've tracked from my research that really tell 00:07:50.360 |
the story, tell us a whole story about why you're rich and why you're poor. 00:07:58.720 |
I have a conference room here in my office and you could fit about 10 to 12 people in 00:08:04.360 |
I had about a dozen of those learning sessions. 00:08:08.440 |
Some of the people had real success with some of the training from my research. 00:08:19.240 |
I was reluctant because I'd never written a book before. 00:08:25.820 |
That took another six months of research on how to write a book. 00:08:35.520 |
I ended up spending about a year writing Rich Habits. 00:08:41.360 |
I had two manuscripts that I ended up throwing out and I settled on a template that I used 00:08:50.480 |
was Aguilino's Greatest Salesman in the World. 00:08:55.760 |
My initial template was The Millionaire Next Door. 00:09:04.800 |
Someone whose opinion I value a great deal sent the manuscript back and said, "This 00:09:09.800 |
is great for college students or postgraduate work, but you're not going to help anybody 00:09:19.900 |
He sent back the manuscript with a copy of Aguilino's book. 00:09:23.840 |
I'd never read it before, so I read it and I realized, "Oh my God, this is what I 00:09:33.440 |
I used it as the format and Rich Habits was the end result. 00:09:40.560 |
It's a good format for those who haven't read Greatest Salesman in the World. 00:09:45.960 |
It's kind of a combination of what you call a parable. 00:09:49.320 |
It's almost a story with a bit of instruction and an overall narrative parable and then 00:09:56.520 |
I don't quite know how to name the genre, but it's a useful style. 00:10:01.080 |
I think of even books similar in some ways to Richest Man in Babylon as a narrative format, 00:10:08.360 |
but you're trying to use that to teach these certain steps. 00:10:12.280 |
I wanted to tell a story and weave into the story the rich habits somehow and that's 00:10:23.720 |
I want to ask you a follow-up question on your research. 00:10:26.960 |
The way that I first came across – by the way, I really enjoyed both of your books. 00:10:32.680 |
The way that I came across your name, though, however, was after you gave an interview on 00:10:40.680 |
Then later he published a blog post that listed out some of the data from your research. 00:10:47.800 |
Well, that blog post went on to become quite the controversial topic. 00:10:51.800 |
That was when I came across it was after hearing about the controversy. 00:10:57.520 |
When I read the blog post, though, everything within me wanted to jump up and down and say, 00:11:03.360 |
Just to cite a few example statistics of how this data is presented, things like 80% of 00:11:11.640 |
the wealthy are focused on accomplishing some single goal. 00:11:17.280 |
Or 63% of the wealthy listen to audio books during their commute to work versus 5% of 00:11:22.920 |
Or 63% of wealthy parents make their children read two or more nonfiction books a month 00:11:28.160 |
There are many other data points that are cited. 00:11:31.600 |
My reaction to that was as a lifelong self-learner and someone who's been focused for a very 00:11:37.840 |
long time on my own personal development, I wanted to jump up and down and say, "Yes, 00:11:41.940 |
this is the greatest thing of all time for the personal development industry. 00:11:47.440 |
That immediately made me become suspicious because of the ability to actually trust the 00:11:53.120 |
data because it almost seems like too perfect of a package. 00:11:56.760 |
It feels more like you invented numbers to match a story rather than pulling a story 00:12:06.480 |
Number one, has anybody questioned or affirmed the statistical validity of your sample set? 00:12:15.760 |
Secondly, did you go into it with a perception of thinking what you were going to find or 00:12:25.360 |
On the first question, I have sent some data to different people, particularly after that 00:12:32.360 |
CNN article came out that lambasted me and Dave Ramsey. 00:12:46.120 |
My brother Tim is a top dog at the DEA, so he wasn't too happy about that. 00:12:57.560 |
Anyway, it's hard for me to send the entire research because there's four -- I mean, it 00:13:08.960 |
What I was doing was sending out the research summary and some other information that I 00:13:12.480 |
had that I knew would make it more accessible to people and easier to look at. 00:13:19.120 |
And then they wanted to know my demographics. 00:13:22.040 |
I've got a hundred questions that people ask me and I tried to respond to each one of them. 00:13:30.620 |
How many were -- what were the nationalities? 00:13:41.040 |
So, I sent all that stuff out as best as I could, which took a lot of time, but it was 00:13:48.280 |
There was a little bit of vetting going on there. 00:13:52.240 |
And the second part of your question was -- just repeat that again, Joshua. 00:13:56.440 |
I was just saying, like, in the book, you talk about it using the narrative that you 00:14:01.520 |
tell in the book as from the perspective of, "Well, I was starting to do the research to 00:14:05.320 |
figure out what was wrong in my life as the accountant, your protagonist. 00:14:10.480 |
I was just curious if you were actually starting from that place yourself or if you were coming 00:14:15.120 |
from a place of more experience and then kind of having an idea of what you would find and 00:14:21.000 |
Well, you know, I think part of the problem is, one, I hated wealthy people when I started 00:14:31.560 |
You know, because my story was we were rich and then we were poor and I spent most of 00:14:37.200 |
So I had a real -- just from growing up, my mother was the homemaker. 00:14:41.960 |
And, you know, some of the things that through my upbringing that I -- some of the beliefs 00:14:48.440 |
that I held were not too favorable to wealthy people. 00:14:53.440 |
So there was a prejudice there, which probably is contrary to what, like, CNN was thinking. 00:15:00.000 |
So, you know, I think for sure that affected me. 00:15:05.760 |
But what happened during this whole research project is I went from hating the wealthy 00:15:16.340 |
And it was sort of catharsis for me because then I said, "Wow, you know, I've got this 00:15:23.320 |
I mean, I really -- I really grew up in a way that we had most of these poverty habits 00:15:32.480 |
And so I was -- I don't know if that makes me objective or subjective, but it is what 00:15:39.400 |
And the other part of it was I was a CPA and a financial planner, so I was in constant 00:15:46.080 |
And that part of it, you know, a lot of my best clients were my wealthy clients. 00:15:53.440 |
They were the ones who were in constant contact with me, communication. 00:15:58.360 |
They weren't -- you know, the ones that I struggled with were the people in the middle 00:16:01.240 |
class or who were trying to get out of the middle class who were constantly complaining 00:16:05.440 |
about their fees and the time I spent on stuff. 00:16:08.120 |
They were the ones that gave me the heartache, not the wealthy people. 00:16:11.840 |
So a lot of these things were kind of playing in my mind. 00:16:17.520 |
And so when I wrote Rich Habits, I guess I had -- I was at that point where I had reached 00:16:22.800 |
a conclusion that wealthy people weren't bad people after all and that this information 00:16:29.720 |
needs to get out there because, you know, society, especially nowadays, everybody's 00:16:35.480 |
And they're, you know, with all that happened in 2008 and 2009, it didn't help. 00:16:41.280 |
So I said, well, you know, I'm going to write a book about this. 00:16:44.800 |
I'm just going to lay it out there and, you know, I don't know if I'm going to sell 00:16:48.720 |
one book or a million books, but I'm just going to try and write something that I think 00:16:53.880 |
But, you know, the other part of what you said is, you know, I have over 300 data points. 00:17:01.400 |
And some of the data points, they don't fit the narrative necessarily that, you know, 00:17:15.700 |
And so the only data points that the media picked up on or wanted to highlight were the 00:17:22.320 |
ones that showed the big differences between the wealthy and the poor. 00:17:29.840 |
And I'm sorry to lead off with an aggressive question. 00:17:33.320 |
But as we get into the habits, I love the material that you presented so much. 00:17:39.280 |
But I'm, as I already said, I was so immediately fearful of, wait a second, I love it too much. 00:17:45.400 |
I'm immediately suspicious of the objectiveness of it. 00:17:49.080 |
Because all of the habits that you outline in the book are habits that I have learned 00:17:54.560 |
over time from other people that I have been taught and that I've worked hard to implement. 00:17:58.520 |
So it's easy to get into a position of confirmation bias of, well, I've already figured those 00:18:03.680 |
So absolutely, this is exactly what I'm looking for. 00:18:06.400 |
So let me outline the habits real quick just for those who obviously haven't read the book. 00:18:14.640 |
I'll read just one paragraph here as a summary. 00:18:18.640 |
That the summary of the Rich Habits promises is that I will form good daily habits and 00:18:22.480 |
follow these good daily habits each and every day. 00:18:25.240 |
I will set goals for each day, for each month, for each year, and for the long term. 00:18:33.080 |
I will engage in self-improvement each and every day. 00:18:35.920 |
I will devote part of each and every day in caring for my health. 00:18:39.280 |
I will devote part of each and every day to forming lifelong relationships. 00:18:43.080 |
I will live each and every day in a state of moderation. 00:18:45.960 |
I will accomplish my daily tasks each and every day. 00:18:51.320 |
I will engage in rich thinking each and every day. 00:18:53.720 |
I will save 10% of my gross income every paycheck. 00:18:56.640 |
I will control my thoughts and emotions each and every day. 00:19:00.240 |
Each of those is expanded in many chapters across the two books. 00:19:05.400 |
But in looking at that list, it's certainly intuitive when you look at it and say, "Any 00:19:11.280 |
person, starting from any place, if they would implement those habits consistently in the 00:19:16.560 |
fullness of time, they're going to experience a massive change in their life." 00:19:27.040 |
It's the little things that you do every single day that change your life or create the life 00:19:45.560 |
Habits are, because they're unconscious, for the most part, they're unconscious activity. 00:19:50.080 |
In a book that I'm writing right now that's actually at the publisher, they're working 00:19:55.680 |
on it, "Change Your Habits, Change Your Life," I get into a lot of neurogenesis, neuroplasticity, 00:20:02.160 |
and how the brain works with respect to habits and how the habits can increase your intelligence 00:20:11.120 |
There's a lot of cool stuff that I'm unearthing from my research that ties into science and 00:20:22.720 |
I think that I've really stumbled onto something profound. 00:20:31.480 |
I'm going to be doing this until the day I die, whether I make any money on it or not. 00:20:35.560 |
How has your life changed since you started to understand the habits that your wealthy 00:20:39.360 |
clients implemented and to implement them in your own life to a greater degree? 00:20:44.640 |
I can tell you that there are two things that have changed dramatically for me. 00:21:00.280 |
I didn't understand why wealthy people were healthy people, but they are. 00:21:03.920 |
I found out why, because if you're healthy, you can make more money. 00:21:16.600 |
A lot of the wealthy people take care of their health. 00:21:18.880 |
Even before they're wealthy, they got into that habit. 00:21:22.200 |
I was able to create something I call the tracking schedule. 00:21:27.920 |
I call it my rich habits weight management system. 00:21:31.600 |
I was able to go from 214 pounds in July of 2007 down to 174 pounds in February of 2008 00:21:41.040 |
just by tracking my calories in, calories out, and the amount of exercise. 00:22:02.280 |
The second thing is it shined a light on one of the things that wealthy people do, which 00:22:13.200 |
Almost all the wealthy people in my study had three streams of income. 00:22:22.800 |
What I started doing was that was just about when I got into financial planning. 00:22:29.480 |
The research made me realize that I had to add multiple streams of income, and financial 00:22:45.760 |
Some of the speaking engagements, that became an income stream. 00:22:47.960 |
Of course, the royalties from the book, that's an income stream. 00:22:53.280 |
Now I've got five streams of income, whereas before my research, I had one. 00:22:59.960 |
I think those two things have—my income's doubled. 00:23:05.720 |
I have a whole one stream of income that gives me half of my income and four streams of income 00:23:16.600 |
I didn't know that wealthy people had multiple streams of income. 00:23:20.320 |
How has your personal self-development plan changed since this transformative research, 00:23:28.240 |
since you started about seven, eight years ago? 00:23:31.240 |
Now I wake up a quarter to five in the morning. 00:23:41.200 |
That was something I picked up in my research. 00:23:44.120 |
In my business, I always had to do technical reading, but I never processed it, to be honest 00:23:52.760 |
I'd spend a Saturday and read for five hours or something like that. 00:23:56.520 |
Wealthy people process their learning every day. 00:24:01.080 |
I found about 30 minutes a day is what the wealthy devoted to learning. 00:24:05.560 |
I said, "Well, if I do 60, maybe I'll get wealthier quicker." 00:24:15.880 |
I read everything, anything and everything that has to do with learning. 00:24:20.160 |
Right now, I'm reading books on history and on successful people. 00:24:27.680 |
What I do is I read the books, and then I highlight the important sections. 00:24:32.640 |
Then I sit down and I transcribe it onto a piece of paper, and I put it into a binder 00:24:40.720 |
That is helping me learn more and become more knowledgeable. 00:24:44.480 |
It does have a positive impact on my life because now I'm able to converse with people 00:24:52.240 |
on many subjects that I wasn't able to before. 00:24:58.080 |
The exercise, I always was pretty good at exercise, but again, I didn't process it. 00:25:06.880 |
I'd do four months during the spring and the summer, and then I'd tail off and I wouldn't 00:25:15.400 |
When I learned that wealthy people exercise every day, so now I do. 00:25:19.400 |
The key is to do your exercise, not an enormous amount of exercise, but a little bit every 00:25:26.520 |
If you do a little bit every day, for me it's 30 minutes to 60 minutes every day. 00:25:31.720 |
If you do a little bit, you'll do it every day. 00:25:33.720 |
If you do too much or you put too much of a—where you're obligated to do too many, 00:25:48.720 |
There are days that I only do 25 minutes a day of aerobic exercise. 00:25:53.120 |
There are days where I do an hour and a half that includes weightlifting now. 00:25:56.120 |
I just incorporated that about a year and a half ago. 00:26:02.440 |
I guess those are some of the benefits that I derive from the research. 00:26:07.200 |
When you wrote the book, had you previously or when you started the research, prior to 00:26:13.720 |
starting the research, had you been publishing within your industry within the accounting 00:26:27.160 |
I'd write about tax issues, commodity traders, and all hosts of different things that were 00:26:37.640 |
I guess I had the writing down in a sense that I knew how to write an article. 00:26:52.920 |
Even when I was writing the technical articles, I knew I had some good grammatical skills. 00:26:59.080 |
I had to read a couple of grammar books so I could understand where commas go and where 00:27:04.400 |
parentheses go and where the apostrophes go and all that stuff, quotes, commas, and that 00:27:12.640 |
But since I did my research and I started writing Rich Habits, I started doing more 00:27:26.440 |
The reason I ask is what I was trying to figure out. 00:27:28.760 |
Let me give you just my 30-second review of the books. 00:27:34.080 |
I preferred actually your second book, Rich Kids. 00:27:37.320 |
Although I thought Rich Habits was good, in Rich Kids you brought together all of the 00:27:42.620 |
rich habits but with much greater granularity. 00:27:48.560 |
It's a very pithy book with many, many things that can be highlighted and many valuable 00:27:56.040 |
It's one of those things where I constantly found myself saying, "Ah, he's including 00:28:02.340 |
He just listed it in one sentence in the middle of a piece of dialogue, but this is a key 00:28:05.900 |
idea that if somebody were to read this multiple times and they focused on this idea here brought 00:28:13.880 |
artfully into the dialogue, just that idea alone is worth the price of admission times 00:28:20.220 |
I really thought it was extremely well-written. 00:28:22.600 |
What I'm most interested in, as is probably apparent from my questions, because the audience 00:28:28.120 |
can read the books, what I'm most interested in is the changes in your life. 00:28:33.720 |
You had so much personal development material in Rich Kids. 00:28:40.160 |
It's fascinating for me to try to figure out how much came from the wealthy people that 00:28:44.240 |
you talked to and how much came from what talking to the wealthy people caused you to 00:28:49.160 |
do which was to up your personal development regimen and then finding all of the many other 00:28:53.820 |
ideas that have been well-written about by personal development authors. 00:28:57.360 |
Do you have a sense as to the varying impact of the changes in your own personal habits 00:29:10.880 |
I would say probably 30% of the interviews that I did with the wealthy people were in-person 00:29:19.400 |
The rest were either primarily on the phone, but the in-person interviews had more of an 00:29:25.480 |
impact on me when I was sitting across from them. 00:29:30.160 |
I guess a good example is this one individual who was 67 years old. 00:29:35.880 |
He was worth about $17 million and he's still working, Joshua. 00:29:42.160 |
I asked him the question, I said, "Why are you still working? 00:29:48.740 |
You could be traveling, you could be enjoying your life and doing fun things." 00:29:55.920 |
You can only get that when you're sitting across from someone. 00:30:02.560 |
I'll be honest with you, I felt like I was an idiot for asking the question the way he 00:30:09.840 |
He said, "Look, I've been exercising for 45 years. 00:30:16.080 |
He was probably 5'9" and 140 pounds or something. 00:30:20.760 |
He said, "I did all of that because I knew at the end of my career, that would be when 00:30:30.600 |
I was trying to squeeze an extra four or five years out of my career." 00:30:34.720 |
The impact that that had on me was, "Oh my God, I've really got to exercise more and 00:30:44.480 |
Because he's right, I'm going to make more money at the end of my career than probably 00:30:49.880 |
the last four years or five years of my career, I'll make more money than I made in my first 00:30:57.600 |
Dr. Andrew Hill: So that's when I said I'm—I was all in after that. 00:31:02.720 |
After he said that, that's when I started creating the Rich Habits Weight Management 00:31:06.800 |
Program and I started processing my workout routine and started watching what I ate. 00:31:13.600 |
I don't think I would have had the same impact if I was talking to him on the phone. 00:31:19.200 |
So yeah, I would tell you that the face-to-face meetings, they had the most impact on me and 00:31:30.320 |
And of course, they worked their way into my research but the impact was already there 00:31:35.360 |
Dr. Justin Marchegiani: The lesson I'd like to focus on from what you just shared is there's 00:31:39.960 |
nothing that you have done that any person listening to my voice can't do themselves. 00:31:46.480 |
One of the success habits that I've tried to have over the years is to always invest 00:31:51.400 |
a certain percentage of my income back into my own personal development. 00:31:54.360 |
My numbers have fluctuated from anywhere from a few percent to 10%. 00:31:59.320 |
But when you look and say, "Okay, if we use as a good example the 10% number and we 00:32:04.240 |
say how can I invest 10% of my income back into myself which is in my opinion a far better 00:32:09.400 |
investment to start with than buying mutual funds, then all of a sudden when you have 00:32:14.520 |
a budget, it leads you to the question of what do I do. 00:32:17.040 |
So in the early years, I might be reading a book. 00:32:20.400 |
But one of the habits that I've tried to implement is consistently connecting with 00:32:25.400 |
anybody that I admired, whether that was somebody that I admired for their financial success, 00:32:29.040 |
I knew they were wealthy, whether it was somebody I admired their character, and just set aside 00:32:33.440 |
a lunch budget and take that person out to lunch. 00:32:36.000 |
And almost anybody will be happy to be invited out to a nice place for lunch and be asked 00:32:43.080 |
to talk about themselves obviously if it's clear that there's no ulterior motive other 00:32:49.560 |
And what has emerged from my doing that is feeling like when I was reading your book, 00:32:56.280 |
you had all the same conversations that I've had. 00:32:58.920 |
You learned all the same things that I've learned from other people that I've talked 00:33:08.320 |
It's a matter of implementing a systematic process, some core habits, some key ideas 00:33:15.000 |
and then giving enough time for those actions to lead to the ultimate effect that you are 00:33:25.600 |
I don't know if you've given I'm sure many interviews but I've zeroed in more on your 00:33:29.160 |
story than the content of your books because what I perceived in reading your books was 00:33:35.520 |
that this was a very transformative experience for you and it's something that every listener 00:33:41.320 |
can model and repeat and duplicate themselves. 00:33:46.880 |
I was just thinking about this over the last couple of months because my mindset now before 00:34:01.320 |
I thought about these worries as a negative thinking, right? 00:34:06.160 |
And when I started talking to all these wealthy people, Joshua was as if they didn't have 00:34:13.840 |
a problem in the world and I thought, "My God, isn't it great to be wealthy where you 00:34:21.040 |
They had probably ten times the amount of things to worry about that I had because they 00:34:29.880 |
They had to worry about each of those streams, right? 00:34:33.000 |
But what they got into the habit of doing was what now I call positive thinking or rich 00:34:45.240 |
And I just wrote a great piece on that this morning. 00:34:47.560 |
My tip of the morning to you was unhealthy thoughts. 00:34:51.160 |
And it's with all the stuff that's going on in the news with Donald Trump and McCain and 00:34:56.840 |
the Iraq, the Iran nuclear thing and all these murders going on, all these riots. 00:35:03.920 |
You know, I see on social media all these people, you can tell that they're ticked off 00:35:13.600 |
And now I look at it and I said, "These people are just wasting their time. 00:35:16.760 |
They're thinking about things that they can't possibly control." 00:35:22.720 |
What the wealthy people worried about, if they were worrying, was only about the things 00:35:31.680 |
The things that the circumstances that they could have control over. 00:35:35.000 |
They didn't worry about all these other things that all of us think about and that cause 00:35:40.560 |
worry and that cause stress and that creates, you know, the cortisol production and unhealthy 00:35:48.080 |
So I've been thinking about the last three months because my mindset right now is, I 00:35:55.720 |
And I believe this is absolutely a byproduct of all this research and these people that 00:36:04.600 |
I would say you have good reason, not only just from the mental perspective, but you 00:36:13.240 |
And certainly there are always going to be problems. 00:36:15.840 |
The richer you get and the older you get, it seems to me, the bigger your problems get. 00:36:20.040 |
But with regard to the worries, if you think about the transformation that's happened in 00:36:24.040 |
your life and in your career, to go from a respected accountant to leading a larger financial 00:36:32.480 |
planning firm with multiple areas of business to establishing a personal brand that goes 00:36:37.800 |
beyond your professional capacity, that just gives you so many more backup options and 00:36:41.880 |
backup plans that if your business fell apart, just even the personal network that you've 00:36:46.840 |
developed from your publishing work gives you a whole host of opportunities that would 00:36:52.840 |
not exist if you were a staff accountant at a large international tax firm. 00:36:58.360 |
Yeah, I think that the important point to highlight here is, without me really knowing 00:37:04.760 |
it, I was pursuing what is now my main purpose in life, teaching these rich habits and continuing 00:37:13.640 |
And I think that's part of the reason why I feel so mentally content. 00:37:21.960 |
And I think when you find your calling in life, when you pursue that thing that you're 00:37:27.200 |
passionate about, I really think it transforms your mind from negative to positive just almost 00:37:34.440 |
by default because what you're doing is you're stoking the fires inside of you. 00:37:45.440 |
It gets bigger when you pursue your main purpose in life. 00:37:49.320 |
So I think that part of the reason I'm content is I now know I'm doing what I'm going to 00:37:58.920 |
Most of us, 95%, aren't crazy about their job. 00:38:04.040 |
In fact, in my research, only 7% actually loved their job, even the wealthy, 7% of the 00:38:09.720 |
wealthy, only 7% loved what they did for a living. 00:38:13.320 |
But I'm telling you I love what I'm doing with this rich habits and I feel that that's 00:38:18.520 |
because it's my main purpose and it's the reason I'm feeling worry-free right now because 00:38:29.440 |
And we can think about this and you pick which of these you want to answer, but your personal 00:38:32.500 |
vision, and let's talk about it in the context of your own personal financial plan, your 00:38:36.840 |
own numbers on paper, what you project for your own life, or just think about it with 00:38:41.080 |
your own future mirror letter to the 70-year-old you, the 80-year-old you, the 90-year-old 00:38:49.040 |
How much has your personal vision changed over the last 10 years? 00:38:54.720 |
Prior to this, I felt, well, I was very good at taxes and I liked taxes, but it wasn't 00:39:04.220 |
I mean, let's be honest, you're preparing tax returns, you're dealing with usually stressful 00:39:09.540 |
situations, so there's all of that that goes into the tax career. 00:39:16.100 |
I think that because my whole mindset shifted when I started pursuing this, it's of course 00:39:27.200 |
improved my life financially, and now what I'm thinking about is, okay, I'm going to 00:39:37.200 |
Some of the things that I've always wanted to do, my wife and I used to live down by 00:39:41.600 |
the shore, the Jersey Shore, so we're going to end up selling our house and we're going 00:39:51.600 |
Now I'm having some success in life and I'm getting close to being able to afford to do 00:39:57.560 |
I'm feeling that I'm going to have a retirement now. 00:40:04.960 |
I feel confident about a lot of things, I guess is the main point that I wasn't confident 00:40:11.080 |
about before because I know I'm on the right path. 00:40:16.840 |
It's not something that if you have to ponder whether or not you're on the right path, you're 00:40:22.080 |
I can tell you that because I don't think about it anymore. 00:40:24.800 |
I know this is the right path and I know I'm going to benefit. 00:40:28.400 |
When you help other people improve their lives, you derive a benefit from it. 00:40:38.400 |
I'm confident now that this is just going to grow. 00:40:45.680 |
My success is going to increase incrementally over the next 20 or 30 years. 00:40:54.040 |
I'm tickled pink that I'm in the situation that I'm in right now. 00:40:58.160 |
When I read Rich Kids, and the premise of the book is the narrative that you used is 00:41:03.480 |
a father on his way to college with his son recounting some early childhood experiences 00:41:08.840 |
that the father had had with his grandfather back in the early 1980s. 00:41:15.480 |
When I was reading it, I had the distinct impression that you were writing the vision 00:41:19.680 |
for your life at 67 years old and you were writing about the summer that you intend to 00:41:27.240 |
You were clearly identifying each of the personal goals and the personal lifestyle that you're 00:41:40.120 |
What's interesting about what you just mentioned is this. 00:41:51.440 |
We're kind of like leaves on a fall day, just kind of floating around. 00:41:55.400 |
When I wrote Rich Habits, and also Rich Kids, but Rich Habits got me started on this, I 00:42:13.000 |
When I wrote Rich Kids, you were exactly right. 00:42:15.440 |
I was thinking about my grandkids and teaching them and instilling in them, mentoring them 00:42:22.360 |
through all these habits and these strategies. 00:42:28.120 |
Where I'm going with this is where you can benefit from this is if you just sit down 00:42:36.440 |
and write a 500 to 1,000 word narrative on the future version of yourself, the ideal 00:42:42.640 |
perfect future Joshua Sheets, it gets your subconscious mind working behind the scenes. 00:42:54.800 |
It starts nudging you with intuition on, "Hey Joshua, you should do X or you should do Y 00:43:07.880 |
It starts moving you in a different direction, but it all starts with crafting a narrative 00:43:14.680 |
I think that's the most important thing you can do. 00:43:18.280 |
It's a beautiful, even just your vision is a beautiful vision. 00:43:23.000 |
I found it's in many ways similar to some of my visions. 00:43:31.080 |
What you describe is a grandfather being able to take an entire summer and just experience 00:43:35.880 |
this incredible joy-filled summer with his grandson. 00:43:41.040 |
That involves the grandfather showing his grandson and his grandson's friend around 00:43:45.680 |
the country in an incredible lifestyle, able to easily afford all of these peak experiences. 00:43:55.520 |
It's the peak experiences of a helicopter ride over New York City or an RV trip through 00:44:00.880 |
the Shenandoah Mountains to go and get the best burger in the world from New Orleans. 00:44:05.520 |
All the time, it's done with health and vitality. 00:44:13.480 |
When I compare that to the vision that many people have, at least what I've worked with 00:44:16.640 |
in financial planning, many people have a vision that's so boring, there's no ability 00:44:24.960 |
With you have a small vision, there's small motivation to actually get up and do anything 00:44:32.280 |
I found it to be inspiring because in many ways, it mirrors some of my own vision. 00:44:36.880 |
It's a retirement years that aren't retirement at all, but it's something that's worth looking 00:44:42.680 |
forward to instead of this horrifying US-American archetype that we have of age being something 00:44:52.680 |
Why is it that our end game is retirement and then doing nothing, when what it should 00:44:59.280 |
be is pursuing something that you're passionate about until the day you die? 00:45:07.360 |
He was still at the age of 67 and teaching and educating, and he was doing it around 00:45:22.600 |
I think that when you create, most people, like you said, lack a vision of where they 00:45:30.880 |
Their vision might be just that they're going to retire, but what happens after that? 00:45:36.680 |
If your vision is real enough to you, it's going to alter your behavior. 00:45:47.240 |
It's going to change the course of your life, and I think you're spot on. 00:45:51.400 |
Most people don't create a vision for their ideal perfect life, and as a result, their 00:45:59.520 |
I'd like to dig deeper on one of the pieces of research, one of the wealth habits that 00:46:06.920 |
In my experience, I personally began in the professional world of financial planning at 00:46:11.240 |
the age of 23, following years and years of consuming personal finance suggestions. 00:46:18.200 |
What I thought was the path to wealth was to save and invest heavily in my retirement 00:46:24.680 |
accounts and to always put a portion of my money aside and to invest it appropriately 00:46:28.800 |
in a diversified portfolio of mutual funds, because that was what the personal finance 00:46:35.840 |
When I started working as a financial planner and had the opportunity to be face-to-face 00:46:39.640 |
over six years in the trenches with over a thousand people, many of whom were wealthy, 00:46:44.080 |
I started to notice a trend, and the trend was the fact that none of my wealthy clients 00:46:49.440 |
ever became wealthy because of saving 10% of their income. 00:46:53.480 |
Rather, they actually became wealthy because they had built a business that was extremely 00:46:59.120 |
valuable or they had developed an extremely high income so that when they naturally saved 00:47:04.600 |
a percentage of their income, the compounding effect of 10% of a $400,000 income was so 00:47:10.000 |
massive that they almost couldn't help but become wealthy. 00:47:14.200 |
My question is I concur absolutely that saving is an important discipline because of who 00:47:22.600 |
it can transform you to be and because it can provide the capital to be able to build 00:47:28.280 |
future businesses, to invest in future opportunities. 00:47:31.400 |
But in your research, did you ever find that anybody who is wealthy actually became wealthy 00:47:36.820 |
through what's taught on the front page of Yahoo Finance or CNN Money, put 10% of 00:47:42.520 |
your money into a Roth IRA, buy an index fund in it and leave it alone for 50 years? 00:47:46.240 |
Or did you find that the majority of the wealthy had achieved it through private business and 00:47:57.560 |
Well, 51% of the wealthy in my study were business owners and 177 of them were self-made 00:48:10.120 |
millionaires, meaning they came from nothing. 00:48:13.400 |
But there were a good percentage that-- I'm thinking of one individual right now who was 00:48:22.120 |
an attorney and he worked most of his life for the government, which you don't make a 00:48:30.960 |
But what he did that was different is he didn't invest in mutual funds and stuff like that. 00:48:38.980 |
And then he would reinvest-- there were two individuals in my study who did this. 00:48:45.680 |
And so he has now-- well, at the time, he had about $4 million in stock that he probably 00:48:53.880 |
invested $400,000 in over the years just by living below his means and just investing 00:49:01.600 |
The other guy was a little bit lower than $4 million. 00:49:07.640 |
But the vast majority of the individuals in my study who were wealthy, where the savings 00:49:13.560 |
came into play was to give them just what you said, the seed capital to start a business 00:49:18.880 |
and to do something with that money, whether it was start a business or real estate or 00:49:24.200 |
invest it in some way that created a revenue stream before they were retired. 00:49:30.280 |
So they were investing their savings and then doubling down on it, and they just built an 00:49:39.920 |
There's really three ways that you can become wealthy. 00:49:42.680 |
This is really-- it boils down to three things, in my opinion. 00:49:46.200 |
You either live below your means, you either expand your means, or you do both. 00:49:53.320 |
And the ones that made the most money or had the most net worth of all the millionaires 00:50:00.720 |
They had gotten into the habit of living below their means and saving. 00:50:06.760 |
They took their money and they invested it in something, and they just persistently pursued 00:50:13.520 |
So I think the savings is important, but if you really want to get rich, if you really 00:50:19.880 |
want to be wealthy, you've got to deploy that savings in a way that's going to involve risk. 00:50:27.120 |
I'll give you a-- I love-- I think that's a good model. 00:50:32.360 |
I'm working on a manuscript of the Radical Personal Finance book. 00:50:36.600 |
And I've boiled it down into three essential functions. 00:50:40.160 |
And these are the functions that will ultimately guarantee, no question about it, determine 00:50:51.080 |
And number three, the rate of return that you earn on the difference. 00:50:54.420 |
And there are two more pieces to the model, but they don't-- they're not numerical components. 00:50:58.720 |
If you look at each wealthy person, you can create a formula for wealth regardless of 00:51:05.080 |
the numbers of theirs as long as the income are in excess of the-- as long as income is 00:51:11.760 |
But if you want a fast-- if you want a fast growth to wealth or if you want to achieve 00:51:16.240 |
massive wealth, you need to really amp up one or more of those categories, ideally all 00:51:21.720 |
three except that usually most people don't do all three. 00:51:26.080 |
But if you could have the highest income possible and you could have the lowest expenses possible 00:51:31.800 |
and you could invest at the highest rate of return that's ever been achieved, guaranteed 00:51:36.800 |
you're going to achieve massive wealth quickly. 00:51:39.320 |
Hard to do all three of those things well, which is often why you see people focusing 00:51:44.040 |
And so the long, slow route to wealth, the people are taught, get a good job, earn $60,000 00:51:50.040 |
a year, save $6,000 a year in your IRA from 25 to 65 and earn 8% annualized on your funds. 00:51:57.960 |
Yes, that will make you a millionaire over the course of a 40-year process. 00:52:02.640 |
But if you take the same $60,000 income and you drop it to $20,000 a year of expenses, 00:52:08.240 |
so now you're able to invest $40,000 a year at the same 8%, now you move into the world 00:52:12.620 |
of early retirees, of the extreme frugality folks of which this show speaks and we speak 00:52:21.760 |
Pretty reliable thing to do if you can discipline yourself to live on very low expenses. 00:52:26.620 |
Or if you're more attracted to the business route, which is the main way, I want to emphasize 00:52:31.200 |
177 of the people that you – excuse me, 51% of the wealthy that you interviewed were 00:52:37.840 |
If you go to the general population and you compare that 51% number to whatever the number 00:52:42.800 |
percentage is in the population of actual business owners, you'll see that why the 00:52:48.520 |
massive amounts of wealth are concentrated in the hands of entrepreneurs. 00:52:51.360 |
But back to the model, you can also earn $60,000 a year and spend $50,000 a year and then you 00:52:59.240 |
can create an app that grows at annualized returns of hundreds of percents a year. 00:53:05.240 |
There you have a situation of a Mark Zuckerberg or those types of people or you can create 00:53:10.200 |
a business that grows at say 30% to 50% a year and there you have your local car dealer 00:53:14.840 |
and it takes a little longer than Mark Zuckerberg but over time that person is growing. 00:53:20.320 |
So what I love about your books and that's a long-winded compliment to kind of further 00:53:24.720 |
the discussion is that you brought together the personal development side and the business 00:53:33.760 |
I hope that in your future writing you continue that especially given your background as an 00:53:40.180 |
We need more of that in the financial planning industry. 00:53:42.440 |
We need a lot less here's how you choose between an IRA and a Roth IRA. 00:53:47.240 |
When you look at the facts which are the vast majority of Americans are broke and they're 00:53:51.500 |
never going to retire and we've been repeating the same tired problem for 30, 40, 50 years, 00:53:58.240 |
we'll just invest money in the stock market into your IRA. 00:54:02.480 |
It's not that it can't work, it can work if you reliably do consistently do it but the 00:54:06.880 |
vast majority of people have shown that they're not going to do it so therefore it doesn't 00:54:13.620 |
But these other strategies put together when you combine personal development and strong 00:54:18.040 |
personal habits and then you go ahead and say well what's a tax efficient and cost efficient 00:54:22.400 |
way of investing and I'm going to allocate some of my investments over here into passive 00:54:26.640 |
investments that aren't connected to whether or not my General Motors franchise succeeds 00:54:31.440 |
or fails because GM has a massive recall, then you get into wise financial planning 00:54:35.840 |
which is where we can really help and serve the public. 00:54:41.520 |
I think that's why I'm really trying to get this information out there because having 00:54:49.080 |
been rich as a kid and then grown up poor, it's clear to me that most people are doing 00:54:57.880 |
In fact, my mother, I just went to visit my mother who's in a rehabilitation facility 00:55:03.280 |
She's reading my book Rich Kids and she said you know I feel bad because I didn't teach 00:55:14.320 |
I said I'm trying to help other families so that their kids don't have to struggle like 00:55:26.120 |
It's actually what it boils down to is parenting. 00:55:29.280 |
If parents take on the responsibility of even if they're non-millionaire parents, take on 00:55:35.760 |
the responsibility of teaching their kids some of these good habits and these good strategies, 00:55:41.000 |
they will put their kids ahead of the eight ball because their competition isn't learning 00:55:48.720 |
I'm seeing it right now with my son who just is into his third year working. 00:55:54.240 |
He's my guinea pig because while I was doing this research, I would come home and I would 00:55:59.160 |
say, "Brendan, you got to do this," or "Brendan, you got to do that." 00:56:08.440 |
He's doing everything I told him to do because now when you get college kids, it's hard to 00:56:15.120 |
When they get out in the work world, they realize, "Oh, it's not that easy. 00:56:23.080 |
He's now realizing a lot of stuff that I taught him is going to help him in his professional 00:56:30.680 |
I wish I could just get inside the head of every parent in this country and give them 00:56:38.360 |
the same sense of importance that I feel that this stuff deserves. 00:56:43.080 |
I think too many of them are too busy watching the Kardashians or Bruce Jenner or whatever 00:56:49.000 |
you call them now, Caitlyn Jenner, and they're not interested in doing the things you need 00:56:58.040 |
Tom: Other than reading your book, I want to give you a couple of minutes and just share 00:57:02.840 |
some ideas of where a parent listening who's looking at their son or daughter and saying, 00:57:07.920 |
"I want to really help my son or daughter with some education that's helpful," what 00:57:11.360 |
would be some of the core ideas that you would like them to teach to their kids and how would 00:57:18.120 |
Dr. Fauci: One of the great stories is Dr. Ben Carson. 00:57:23.160 |
He grew up in the ghettos of Detroit and he had a brother and it was a single parent. 00:57:31.180 |
She used to clean the houses of wealthy people and she used to listen in on their conversations 00:57:37.560 |
One of the things she noticed is that they all read every single day they read. 00:57:44.120 |
She came back and she said, "No more TV," and in today's society that would mean cut 00:57:51.360 |
back on social media and on your cell phone, watching YouTube and wasting your time, and 00:58:06.560 |
They were only allowed to watch an hour of TV a day and it was specific programming. 00:58:12.560 |
Parents need to take a little bit more responsibility over the media that their kids are consuming. 00:58:20.080 |
Then make their kids read every day for education. 00:58:26.840 |
He became one of the top neurosurgeons in the world. 00:58:36.920 |
He makes a good living and he's very successful. 00:58:40.380 |
This stuff works, so parents need to really limit the consumption of TV and social media 00:58:47.280 |
that the kids are taking in and force them to do a little bit more reading. 00:58:53.920 |
One thought on the social media that ties into an earlier thread is if you, if anybody 00:58:59.280 |
listening, if you're like me, where you want to get involved in online discussions, I can 00:59:05.600 |
read just about anything and want to jump in and argue with somebody. 00:59:09.600 |
I made a commitment with the exception I break it once a month or so and then I realized 00:59:15.440 |
I made a commitment to say, "Instead of being a consumer of this stuff and arguing about 00:59:19.800 |
it with other consumers, I'm going to be a producer of thought." 00:59:24.400 |
It is not possible to argue in a Facebook comment thread and spend an hour on a political 00:59:31.620 |
debate to actually change anybody else's mind. 00:59:34.000 |
All you do is make yourself temporarily feel better because you got involved in an argument. 00:59:39.640 |
But if you sit down and go ahead and take the time to do what Tom has done with his 00:59:43.700 |
writing or do what I've done with my podcast and actually create some useful content, there 00:59:48.300 |
you have the opportunity to actually influence people. 00:59:52.720 |
That one will actually change your life over time. 00:59:56.480 |
So that's what I'm going to be teaching my kids is let's work on your skills so you can 01:00:06.520 |
At the end of your book Rich Kids, you talk about the eight core fears and those eight 01:00:12.760 |
fears are number one, the fear of failure, number two, the fear of success, number three, 01:00:18.560 |
the fear of rejection, number four, the fear of not being good enough, five, the fear of 01:00:23.840 |
scarcity, six, the fear of being alone, seven, the fear of losing control and eight, the 01:00:32.000 |
In your discussions with poor people, which of those fears stood out as being more dominant 01:00:38.600 |
than others and what would be some strategies that you've learned to work against those 01:00:44.960 |
Yeah, I think the fear of standing out is one of the things that is the worst. 01:00:51.480 |
It's the one of the worst fears, in my opinion, because it stops you dead in your tracks. 01:00:56.320 |
And I talk a lot about this and I write a lot about it. 01:01:03.860 |
We have this, I guess, this evolutionary need to herd and it's built in. 01:01:15.280 |
So what I found that the wealthy people, what the most successful wealthy people, what they 01:01:20.220 |
did is they separated themselves from the herd somehow. 01:01:30.680 |
They put themselves out there and usually they're all alone for some period of time 01:01:35.560 |
while they're investing their time and trying to be successful. 01:01:39.640 |
And while they're doing that, they are separated from the herd and they're vulnerable. 01:01:47.520 |
And in fact, there was a candid camera episode where they did this, the prank, where four 01:01:55.680 |
people entered an elevator and one person was a stranger and four people were candid 01:02:01.920 |
And they would turn around periodically and eventually the stranger would turn around 01:02:06.600 |
There's this need to follow the herd that we need to, this fear of being alone and not 01:02:12.240 |
being part of the herd that we need to break free of if we want to take ourselves to the 01:02:18.440 |
When you separate yourself from the herd, that's when you grow into a completely different 01:02:24.400 |
So what you really want to do is try and find some product or service that's unique, that 01:02:33.200 |
And if you believe in it, pursue it, you're going to be on your own for a little while. 01:02:37.440 |
But eventually, if you're persistent, you're going to draw some people into your herd and 01:02:42.920 |
then you'll create your own herd and have enormous success. 01:02:47.520 |
I forgot I had one more topic and question I wanted to ask you about. 01:02:51.080 |
So this is going to be the actual last question. 01:02:54.240 |
I heard through the grapevine and some mutual acquaintances that when you had written Rich 01:02:59.120 |
Habits, you had done a lot of work, but then it was just really struggling and you had 01:03:05.160 |
gotten to a point where you thought about kind of throwing in the towel to some degree 01:03:09.660 |
And then a few things happened and then all of a sudden some events occurred and it was 01:03:17.480 |
What was the story behind that when you were facing dark days and it felt like it simply 01:03:25.880 |
Well, you know, this book business, this author business, it's a business first and foremost. 01:03:31.560 |
I mean, it's like you're starting a new business. 01:03:35.400 |
And as in many cases, when you're starting a new business, when it's something that you've 01:03:41.040 |
never done before, you don't know what you don't know. 01:03:45.960 |
And one of the things that I learned about the author business is that 99 percent of 01:03:59.100 |
I thought you put out something great and people will automatically through grassroots 01:04:09.680 |
So I started to when I realized that somebody pointed it out to me, a famous author. 01:04:18.480 |
And I honestly, Joshua, I hate pitching the media. 01:04:21.560 |
I love doing media interviews like what we're doing right now. 01:04:27.320 |
But I hate pitching them and I hate pursuing it. 01:04:31.840 |
So but it's one of these things that in life, when you're pursuing something you're passionate 01:04:41.720 |
You know, 75 percent of what you're going to do, you're not going to like. 01:04:45.860 |
But it's the 25 percent that really gives you that passion that keeps you in the game. 01:04:51.740 |
And so I was almost fed up in 2000 and 11 and 12. 01:04:58.780 |
I was really at the point where I was going to quit and stop promoting rich habits. 01:05:05.500 |
I was just going to not promote it anymore because I didn't know what I was doing and 01:05:16.780 |
And I think it was because I was that 25 percent just kept me going. 01:05:22.740 |
And then all of a sudden it was like a watershed event, you know, three years of nothing and 01:05:27.580 |
then two years of nothing but media attention. 01:05:33.620 |
And it all started because of being persistent and tweeting. 01:05:37.500 |
I did it every day like I was brushing my teeth. 01:05:52.460 |
And then after a couple of years, I got somebody to respond. 01:06:07.020 |
We had two million hits on the video in 24 hours. 01:06:10.860 |
They never had more than 400,000 hits ever on this show. 01:06:19.260 |
Next thing I know, I'm on Dave Ramsey's show. 01:06:31.100 |
I did not quit on my dream, even though I wanted to and I came close to it. 01:06:39.700 |
The people who succeed in life, they never quit. 01:06:46.540 |
And I think that's an important line to draw in the sand. 01:06:49.700 |
If you're really dedicated to what you're doing, it means you're willing to risk everything 01:06:56.740 |
And I'm at that point right now that it doesn't matter what happens with the rest of my life. 01:07:02.500 |
I'm going to be doing this to the day I die, even if it forces me into bankruptcy, which 01:07:07.940 |
But I'm going to be doing it because I realize this is my passion and that's what I learned 01:07:26.740 |
You write a tip of the day and then a tip of the week. 01:07:29.940 |
And so I'd encourage people to consider going over and subscribing there. 01:07:35.500 |
Fischer: It's going to come out the end of October, early November. 01:07:39.700 |
And it's called Change Your Habits, Change Your Life. 01:07:42.860 |
And in it, I talk about habit change, but also I get more into the rich habits, particularly 01:07:50.700 |
with respect to the 177 self-made millionaires. 01:07:58.180 |
Put me on the publicity list if you like when you get ready for pre-orders and we'll try 01:08:03.260 |
to help you get a little bit of publicity when it's closer to launch date. 01:08:14.820 |
And there were great questions and I really enjoyed the interview, Joshua. 01:08:21.500 |
So now, here's the reading recommendations for you. 01:08:34.460 |
And if you're going to read one of the two, if you're trying to figure out which of these 01:08:50.400 |
And I think that if you're a parent, this is definitely one of those that would be valuable 01:08:54.340 |
for you to read to think about, "How do I guide my children?" 01:09:07.100 |
And if you learn them later in life, don't you think it might be worthwhile to focus 01:09:11.680 |
on how you learn them and then teach them consciously to your children at a young age? 01:09:20.060 |
As we go today, before I kick off the music, I want to recognize the sponsor of the day. 01:09:30.980 |
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If you're interested in details on that, check out episode 219 of the show for a survey of 01:09:53.540 |
And in Tom Corley's book, Rich Habits, he talks about rich habit number three, which 01:09:59.100 |
is I will engage in self-improvement every day. 01:10:02.500 |
And let me read you an excerpt from the book. 01:10:05.540 |
Successful people engage in the process of self-improvement every day. 01:10:08.940 |
They read industry periodicals and technical material specific to their profession or trade. 01:10:14.140 |
They become students of their industry, profession, or trade and keep current with changes that 01:10:18.980 |
They do not spend excessive amounts of non-work time watching television or surfing the internet. 01:10:28.220 |
Each day, they devote blocks of time to better themselves by studying subject matter that 01:10:32.820 |
will improve them in some way and better enable them to perform their jobs. 01:10:37.580 |
Time is too valuable to be wasted on matters with no tangible value. 01:10:41.420 |
They coordinate their goals with self-improvement and set specific goals. 01:10:45.940 |
This may involve obtaining an additional license, a degree, or developing a new niche for their 01:10:50.500 |
They are continuously engaged in some constructive project to increase their skill sets, promote 01:10:56.040 |
their business or careers, keep their minds sharp, or expand their business prospects. 01:11:02.420 |
Unsuccessful people are not students of their industry, profession, or trade. 01:11:07.540 |
They do not regularly read industry periodicals. 01:11:11.140 |
They would rather spend hours each day watching television or engaged in junk reading. 01:11:16.300 |
They use rationalization to justify their negligence in improving themselves. 01:11:22.040 |
It involves engaging in some activity every day that will improve your mind and expand 01:11:31.140 |
This is one of the core habits of wealth and success, and it's a habit that I believe that 01:11:36.340 |
throughout our entire lifetimes, we need to continue to implement and develop and perfect. 01:11:42.960 |
But you need a strategy because there is so much material that you need to learn and study, 01:11:50.260 |
and it's impossible to learn and read and consume it all. 01:11:54.820 |
Let's say that you're going to set aside 30 minutes a day for reading. 01:11:57.300 |
Well, 30 minutes a day for reading comes out to three hours a week. 01:12:01.340 |
You could read, book a week at that rate, depending on your reading speed, book every 01:12:06.860 |
But is that the best use of that 30 minutes of focused self-development time? 01:12:12.540 |
But remember that there are many materials that you should keep current on that are simply 01:12:17.160 |
not available in an audio format, and so you'll want to choose those materials to consume 01:12:26.960 |
That would be things like your industry trade journals, your industry publications, keeping 01:12:30.780 |
current on the latest research that's being published in your industry. 01:12:36.140 |
Now some of that might be available in an audio format. 01:12:40.660 |
If there's not, you should have started one by now. 01:12:45.860 |
If there is, you might be able to consume it in the industry podcast format. 01:12:50.140 |
However, that's going to be good material for reading. 01:12:52.660 |
If you're pursuing an additional license or degree, that's going to be good material for 01:12:56.660 |
So take some of the books that you would ordinarily read and move them over to audiobooks. 01:13:01.180 |
Now unfortunately, I wish that Rich Habits and Rich Kids were available in an audiobook 01:13:09.700 |
I'm sure there's some story to it for the reason that they're not there. 01:13:12.100 |
If they aren't, then those would be excellent books. 01:13:14.180 |
But audiobook, Audible recommendation of the day today is get the book The Richest 01:13:23.740 |
The other book that Tom mentioned, The Greatest Salesman in the World, is also excellent. 01:13:27.580 |
I've listened to the audiobook version of that, but it's not available on Audible. 01:13:32.860 |
Believe I listened to it years ago from the library. 01:13:35.360 |
And when I was an initial sales—no, I own it. 01:13:42.820 |
When I was early in my sales career with Northwestern Mutual, I would listen to that book over and 01:13:49.260 |
And if you've ever heard the book, you'd know why. 01:13:50.900 |
If you're a salesperson, it's very encouraging and motivating. 01:14:00.060 |
There are about four different narrators available on Audible. 01:14:03.300 |
Pick a narrator whose voice you like and whose style you enjoy. 01:14:07.060 |
And then use it and burn CDs for all the young people in your life. 01:14:24.740 |
So that's why we need newer versions of this type of literature. 01:14:29.300 |
But I think this is a good one to give to people to start them off with personal finance. 01:14:33.980 |
So buy a copy of The Richest Man in Babylon with your Audible subscription. 01:14:38.280 |
Burn it on a CD and share that with the young people in your life. 01:14:41.380 |
And hopefully, you'll be able to set them on the right path. 01:14:43.980 |
If you'd like to support the show, I would appreciate it if you would use the website 01:14:51.420 |
Go to RadicalAudioBooks.com, "books" with an "s" on the end, RadicalAudioBooks.com. 01:14:57.380 |
You can get a free month on Audible and you'll be able to get a free audiobook of your choice 01:15:04.980 |
If you choose to continue, it's $14.95 a month and you get a book a month with that price. 01:15:09.260 |
You can get a free audiobook at RadicalAudioBooks.com. 01:15:12.180 |
So consider making Richest Man in Babylon your choice. 01:15:22.260 |
As we go, I'm going to again point your attention to Tom's story. 01:15:28.980 |
Recognize that there's nothing that he did that I can't do and there's nothing that he 01:15:33.700 |
did that you can't do and there's nothing that he's doing now that you and I can't do. 01:15:40.560 |
You can interview all the rich people in your life and you should. 01:15:43.540 |
Take some of your education budget which you have established in your budget and use it 01:15:50.300 |
Take anybody out to lunch that you admire for some reason. 01:15:54.580 |
Financial riches are one component of a life of success but there are many other components. 01:15:59.980 |
If there's somebody that you admire how they treat other people or you admire their heart 01:16:04.540 |
and their generous attitude or you admire their relationship with their spouse or you 01:16:08.020 |
admire for their parenting ability or you admire for their academic accomplishment and 01:16:12.420 |
achievements or you admire for their place of respect in the community or you admire 01:16:16.380 |
for their spiritual vitality and insight, it doesn't matter. 01:16:20.320 |
If there's somebody that you admire, invite them out for lunch. 01:16:24.300 |
Just tell them I'm interested in asking you some questions and learning about this. 01:16:28.260 |
A couple appetizers, a couple meals, a couple of drinks and maybe some dessert, always a 01:16:33.900 |
good idea to stretch those meetings as long as you can reasonably do it to get as much 01:16:39.700 |
It's a good use of your education dollars and essentially that's what Tom Corley did. 01:16:43.600 |
Take good notes and you might find yourself writing a book. 01:16:46.300 |
You might find yourself writing a book which would then expand your career, get you featured 01:16:50.000 |
all around in the world, can allow you to be an encouragement and help to many other 01:16:57.540 |
The other thing is read Rich Kids and look at Tom's vision for his life as a grandfather. 01:17:04.820 |
That vision is powerful, a lot more powerful than this idea of I'm going to drop out of 01:17:08.300 |
life at 65 and sit around and be a hermit and play shuffleboard in Florida. 01:17:16.300 |
If you'd like to support the show, please also in addition to going to RadicalAudioBooks.com 01:17:20.260 |
and signing up for an Audible trial subscription, please go to RadicalPersonalFinance.com/patron. 01:17:26.460 |
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