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0:0 Confronting Your Phone
25:10 What does Cal think about Neil Postman’s “Amusing Ourselves To Death”?
29:49 Can you pursue high quality leisure after a day filled with deep work?
34:2 Can commercial breaks be used for high quality leisure?
37:11 Will digital minimalism work in age of augmented reality?
43:28 How can a full time YouTuber practice digital minimalism?
49:13 How to share content online?
57:29 Cost-benefit analysis of technology usage
63:8 JRR Tolkien’s Search for Depth
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So one of the things I'm most known for is the fact that I have never used social media. 00:00:07.640 |
My 2016 TED talk, which is titled "Quit Social Media" just passed the 10 million view mark. 00:00:15.760 |
My 2019 book "Digital Minimalism" has sold hundreds of thousands of copies. 00:00:21.880 |
In recent years, I've been extensively covering the social media industry from a critical 00:00:29.120 |
So this is something that I am deeply associated with. 00:00:32.340 |
It occurred to me recently, however, how do I know I'm not missing out on something special? 00:00:39.160 |
What if social media really has evolved into something that is a true source of value in 00:00:45.720 |
So I thought today it might be fun if I was to actually live here in the show, load up 00:00:53.360 |
some actual social media apps and see what's going on. 00:00:57.400 |
Jesse, you can attest I did not look at these in advance, so God knows what we're going 00:01:01.460 |
But we're going to look at some social media together and then talk about how we might 00:01:09.000 |
Jesse, it would be funny if when I turn on these tools, it turns out that I'm in the 00:01:14.080 |
middle of like a global canceling campaign that I didn't realize. 00:01:19.000 |
That "Cancel Cal" is like the number one trending hashtag would be a funny way to figure that 00:01:26.560 |
For those who are watching at home, I'm bringing this up on the screen. 00:01:29.240 |
We're starting with Twitter, or as the kids call it today, X. 00:01:35.960 |
Right off the bat, there is a tweet response here. 00:01:42.960 |
There's a tweet, first of all, that's showing Taylor Swift hugging Travis Kelce after their 00:01:50.040 |
We're recording this a couple of days after the Super Bowl. 00:01:53.760 |
The original tweet says, "Imagine being against this," all right? 00:02:04.160 |
This response from SmugFacundity, so I'm sure this is going to be very well-reasoned and 00:02:09.680 |
compassionate, is the following, "Look, I hope everyone finds a wonderful spouse and 00:02:15.160 |
brings 10 kids into the world and raises them together. 00:02:18.280 |
Here's why this falls flat for 'the audience.' 00:02:21.760 |
There is no hero's journey, no character arc. 00:02:23.960 |
This is a perfect example of potential marriage as the capstone to a perfect life, and I'm 00:02:30.800 |
Jesse, I don't even know if I know what that means. 00:02:35.600 |
SmugFacundity is upset that Taylor Swift is hugging Travis Kelce. 00:02:39.240 |
I wonder if she's whispering into his ears, "Only two receptions for serious yardage? 00:02:49.320 |
So what I want you to do is think of something mean to say and hope that you get clout for 00:02:54.000 |
Let me click on something else on here, #farmersprotest, all right? 00:02:59.200 |
Let's just see what else is going on on Twitter. 00:03:06.080 |
This is a protest going on in India, it looks like, and then there's a lot of arguing back 00:03:14.520 |
So let me read this, "They're fighting for regime change on behalf of opposition parties, 00:03:18.560 |
said the professional protester, Chitra Singh," and here's some video of what looks like tear 00:03:30.000 |
All right, look, I think this is like classic, as I would expect, this is classic Twitter, 00:03:35.320 |
and I don't mean this in a dismissive way because what we're seeing here is both the 00:03:40.180 |
The bad, I think, is let's all just take a pop culture event involving people that are 00:03:45.340 |
impossibly distant from us, like Super Bowl champions and Taylor Swift, and just take 00:03:49.480 |
turns seeing who can say like the more mean thing or smarmy thing and sort of hope we 00:03:57.000 |
On the other hand, we also see Twitter highlighting here a protest happening in India that maybe 00:04:04.880 |
you otherwise wouldn't come across it unless you were reading a newspaper. 00:04:09.360 |
Let's check in on some other social media, see what we are missing. 00:04:22.520 |
I'm on the page here, Jesse loaded up, is popular hashtag, so I don't know if that actually 00:04:27.960 |
means popular post or post that just happened to be associated with the word popular. 00:04:36.960 |
If I click on this post, is it going to be something, let's see, it looks harmless. 00:04:41.080 |
It looks like a nice couple in their young thirties, well-dressed with complicated glasses, 00:04:53.120 |
All right, so we can't actually click on these without logging in, so let's just look at 00:04:58.960 |
Here's a person with huge muscles in the gym, looking nice. 00:05:05.360 |
This is kind of classic Instagram, looking over a nice swimming pool with cabanas, so 00:05:10.440 |
they're probably bragging about their vacation. 00:05:16.400 |
All right, this is a classic Instagram, people, everyone looks kind of happy. 00:05:22.880 |
Everyone is sort of showing off a life that they want you to think is good. 00:05:41.920 |
Every time I touch the screen, it just throws up another video as soon as I get bored. 00:05:45.120 |
All right, here's a girl saying, "How much do I owe you?" 00:05:49.720 |
I don't even know what they were showing, probably something inappropriate. 00:05:55.520 |
I got hired as a security guard at a pizzeria. 00:06:05.240 |
Here is some sort of mashed potato dinosaur volcano. 00:06:25.160 |
Look, there's nothing intrinsically evil about what I just saw. 00:06:29.040 |
There's nothing inherently bad about engaging with anything I just saw. 00:06:32.960 |
But I can tell you as an outsider who doesn't use these services, who is looking at these 00:06:37.400 |
with fresh eyes, guys, this stuff is really weird. 00:06:42.440 |
It's really weird looking at what we just saw there, not in isolation that any one of 00:06:48.360 |
those things is crazy, but that the foundation for a huge portion of our culture, the foundation 00:06:55.200 |
of their engagement with their leisure time is based on these types of interactions. 00:07:02.880 |
We get used to things once we've been in that world, but the outsider perspective here is 00:07:07.080 |
these short videos, the people trying to be smug about celebrities and who can outdo each 00:07:13.800 |
other, this pictures of various people's vacations. 00:07:17.160 |
For this to be the foundation of your engagement with leisure, if a time traveler came forward 00:07:22.880 |
from 2005 and looked at what I just looked at, it's not that they would be horrified 00:07:28.200 |
I really do think however, they would be somewhat perplexed by the idea that this is the foundation 00:07:38.160 |
This stuff is okay, but it really does not seem like this should be the core of how we 00:07:48.200 |
So if you agree with this, what should we do about it? 00:07:51.960 |
I don't want to, oh my God, the video now, Jesse, because the TikTok's on my screen here 00:07:56.440 |
still, they're pouring gravy down the mashed potato mountain. 00:08:02.840 |
Just imagine you're the time traveler from 2005. 00:08:04.840 |
Like, okay, so I'm watching, and the music playing is the Jurassic world theme song while 00:08:11.240 |
gravy pours down a chute carved into a mashed potato mountain covered with chicken nugget 00:08:27.280 |
We could do better than making this the main thing we're looking at. 00:08:32.080 |
So let me start with the biggest mistake people make when they finally get fed up with how 00:08:38.500 |
The biggest mistake people make is they go straight to white knuckle abstention. 00:08:44.680 |
I am fed up with people's comments on Taylor Swift and dinosaur mountains. 00:08:51.960 |
And I'm going to actually feel righteous by the fact I don't use my phone. 00:08:55.140 |
You know these people because they will tell you immediately that they don't use social 00:09:02.760 |
You can be in a building that's on fire and you can say this way, this way, this is the 00:09:05.880 |
only staircase that's not engulfed in flames quickly. 00:09:14.720 |
I have an account, but I barely, and then they catch on fire. 00:09:17.520 |
So, you know, when people are doing white knuckle abstention, because they talk all 00:09:26.080 |
My philosophy of digital minimalism, my approach for dealing with these issues argues that 00:09:31.120 |
these tools push out other things in your life and therefore then feel a void that those 00:09:38.440 |
When you just do white knuckle abstention, you are faced with the yawning void of boredom 00:09:48.560 |
You just sit there like, what am I supposed to do? 00:09:51.220 |
You need something to have that smoothing distraction. 00:09:55.320 |
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So the first step is not to abstain from your phone. 00:10:58.160 |
The first step is forget your phone, do what you want to do on your phone, watch your Dino 00:11:00.900 |
Mountain Gravy videos, but start adding at the same time really quality alternatives. 00:11:09.060 |
Start adding into your life things that can eventually take the place of just looking 00:11:14.560 |
at your phone, that can eat away at that sensation of boredom and anxiety of being alone with 00:11:21.640 |
your own thoughts that drives us back to the suker of low-quality distractions. 00:11:27.400 |
I'm going to give you six different things, we'll call this our high-quality leisure toolkit. 00:11:32.140 |
Six different things that you should probably engage with, all of them, to some degree in 00:11:36.880 |
your life in preparation to changing your relationship with your phone. 00:11:44.160 |
This could be a mix of things that are just really fun, magazine articles or books that 00:11:49.560 |
are really fun to read, as well as things that are smarter. 00:11:54.240 |
A recent episode of the show, Jesse, I don't know if that was 286 maybe, I got into how 00:11:59.800 |
to engage with this higher quality leisure, how to learn to engage with harder books. 00:12:07.440 |
All right, second, higher quality video media, prestige TV, movies, documentaries. 00:12:17.240 |
This is content, which I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess that slightly more 00:12:24.480 |
money and time was invested than in the video of gravy being poured down the mashed potato 00:12:30.280 |
So stuff in which real creative energy and focused effort was placed. 00:12:38.600 |
Something you're into that requires a skill you can get better at, your results get better 00:12:42.800 |
This creates a feedback loop that our mind really likes that can be more compelling to 00:12:50.000 |
Hey, I'm working on this new project that is more advanced than I've done before. 00:12:59.320 |
Compelling enough that these other lower quality distractions aren't so strong in their appeal. 00:13:04.320 |
Four, have some sort of exercise-based hobby, some sort of physical fitness where you're 00:13:09.320 |
trying to build a streak, hit some marks in terms of where you want to get in your health, 00:13:14.840 |
some sort of serious engagement with the physical. 00:13:18.540 |
Among other things, this frees up, it frees up your body, it releases these chemicals 00:13:25.500 |
into your mind that makes you less, gets you out of this torporific state of I'm low energy, 00:13:33.680 |
I want to minimize energy, what's the lowest energy thing I can do to engage, it puts you 00:13:37.860 |
more into a state of we're active, our muscles are growing, our lungs are being used. 00:13:44.660 |
Number five, get involved with communities that meet regularly, even if this is just 00:13:48.380 |
friends that you have a standing, we go and see a movie every other week, we go to dinner 00:13:53.740 |
once a month or a bigger, more organized activity, a league or a group that you go to. 00:14:01.180 |
Have something that meets regularly that involves other people. 00:14:07.120 |
I want to go travel to see the sports team play at the away stadium. 00:14:12.980 |
I want to go to this museum, there's a special exhibit that's coming, I want to go read by 00:14:18.500 |
a waterfall that I heard about that takes a two mile hike to get to. 00:14:23.460 |
Things that are above and beyond what's easy and are really cool could create a really 00:14:29.020 |
If you have these six things in your life, reading, high quality TV movies, skilled based 00:14:33.540 |
hobby, exercise based hobby, regular meeting communities and adventures, take some time 00:14:42.660 |
Now you're going to be in a position where the monopoly that your phone has on your time 00:14:49.340 |
It is now competing against higher quality versions of things that can satisfy the same 00:14:59.400 |
Those needs are going to drive you one way or the other, but the phone gives you a low 00:15:07.860 |
These high quality leisure activities give you a higher fidelity solution and therefore 00:15:19.260 |
That's step one, you put alternatives to your phone in your life before you even worry about 00:15:26.140 |
Now this is the core idea for my book, Digital Minimalism. 00:15:30.860 |
I don't believe in detoxing in the sense of take a break and then go back to what you're 00:15:37.900 |
So you step away, you take a break as step one of making permanent change. 00:15:43.220 |
So the way this works is that you take 30 days where you are now ready to stop using 00:15:47.300 |
these optional digital technologies in your life. 00:15:50.340 |
The TikTok, the Instagram, the Twitter, the video games, YouTube. 00:15:57.220 |
You step away from these optional technologies, but now you're prepared to do so because you 00:16:02.060 |
have these six areas of high quality leisure already in your life, already rock and rolling. 00:16:10.460 |
You're not sitting there like a detoxing drug addict, shaking, like what am I going to do 00:16:17.660 |
So you're getting a taste of life without these tools. 00:16:23.900 |
You can also figure out what you really care about. 00:16:26.740 |
At the end of the 30 days, then you can decide what, if anything, you want to add back into 00:16:30.820 |
your digital life, to add back a tool, it must be really valuable, like, hey, this actually 00:16:38.900 |
And two, when you add it back, you should have clear rules for how and when you're going 00:16:44.660 |
So maybe Twitter comes back into your life because you realized you really do need to 00:16:50.940 |
keep up with baseball trade rumors that are going on. 00:16:55.160 |
This is really important to you that during the hot stove season, you do really like baseball 00:17:00.060 |
and it helps you engage to hear the baseball reporters sharing rumors on player trades. 00:17:06.980 |
Well, now that you know this is why you're bringing Twitter back into your life, you 00:17:12.100 |
I check in on these rumors during lunch break. 00:17:20.140 |
I just bookmarked the four baseball reporters who I follow, two from my team and maybe like 00:17:27.220 |
Ken Rosenthal and Jay Papasan, national reporters have good sources. 00:17:32.700 |
And I look at it on my desktop computer when I'm at work. 00:17:38.540 |
But I also don't have Twitter with me on my phone. 00:17:40.900 |
And these are part of a much larger timeline that I can check at any time. 00:17:46.300 |
I put this tool back into my life for a specific reason with specific rules. 00:17:50.620 |
This is how you reconfigure a digital life that operates on your terms, supports what 00:17:55.220 |
you value, and yet minimizes the unnecessary negative side effects. 00:18:03.260 |
So none of this is about this technology is good or that technology is bad. 00:18:06.660 |
None of this is about you need to live exactly this way versus that way. 00:18:12.180 |
It's about intention, but you can't have intention about your digital life until you build a 00:18:16.940 |
life that's better than what we just saw when we took this quick tour through the state 00:18:24.020 |
Again, what we just encountered here is fine, but also sort of weird and eccentric and idiosyncratic. 00:18:31.380 |
It's like reading the tabloid in the supermarket checkout line. 00:18:35.660 |
But if I found you reading the National Enquirer three to four hours a day, seven days a week, 00:18:40.340 |
I would say, "Okay, buddy, I think we need a better hobby." 00:18:43.060 |
And that is implicitly what we've all ended up doing. 00:18:46.940 |
So to fix this relationship with social media and our phones more generally, put in place 00:18:54.820 |
Get yourself to the place where your mind is increasingly embarrassed by choosing TikTok 00:18:59.620 |
over all of these other much richer options, and then do your organized declutter. 00:19:04.700 |
If you want to find out more about this, my book, Digital Minimalism, of course, dives 00:19:09.780 |
into all these details, but hopefully I've given you enough there to get you started. 00:19:14.220 |
Did you see, Jesse, in the Super Bowl, there was an ad for Snapchat? 00:19:21.300 |
It seemed to me like Snapchat was trying to argue, "We don't have some of the same problems 00:19:30.300 |
Even though Snapchat, as any social media research will tell you, has been at the core, 00:19:35.260 |
for example, of the teenage mental health crisis and its intersection with social media. 00:19:38.540 |
It's very big among teenagers and Snapchat conversations, it leads to all sorts of issues. 00:19:43.980 |
I was joking with the person I was with when we were watching the Super Bowl. 00:19:46.820 |
I was like, "This is sort of like having an anti-Fentanyl ad sponsored by Crack." 00:19:56.060 |
This was better in some sense than it was now with Fentanyl. 00:19:58.540 |
That was sort of the sense I got with that ad. 00:20:01.280 |
It was hard to get Crack, so you wouldn't do as much of it. 00:20:08.020 |
Hey, we're better than the other stuff that's causing damage. 00:20:14.020 |
So, I'm not joining social media yet, Jesse, but it was good to see it. 00:20:18.020 |
By the way, I was proud that Instagram was not signed in on your iPad. 00:20:22.260 |
That means you must not be a heavy Instagram user. 00:20:24.420 |
I tried to open it on the app on my iPad and then I was asking for my password and I haven't 00:20:31.420 |
Then I tried to find my password and I entered it, but then it wouldn't let you reset it. 00:20:36.340 |
That means you haven't used it in a while and you've been okay. 00:20:39.980 |
Think about all those beach vacations, though, you could have been learning about. 00:20:43.540 |
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"What do you think of Neil Postman's 'Amusing Ourselves to Death?' 00:25:10.740 |
I feel like that book fits well as a root for your digital minimalist philosophy. 00:25:14.700 |
Do you think that the medium of screens fundamentally opposes the deep life?" 00:25:20.380 |
- That's a good book, "Amusing Ourselves to Death" by Neil Postman. 00:25:24.420 |
The late Neil Postman is often cited by people who do techno-criticism. 00:25:28.940 |
So Henry, I'm going to point you towards a recent article I wrote for The New Yorker. 00:25:36.860 |
I don't remember the exact title of the article, but I can tell you it is about Neil Postman, 00:25:44.420 |
not "Amusing Ourselves to Death," but instead his subsequent book, "Technopoly." 00:25:51.060 |
So I argue in this article that "Technopoly" is probably the best full summary of Neil 00:25:59.820 |
And in that article, I get into the impact of Postman's "Technopoly" theory on my own 00:26:06.540 |
thinking about technology and techno-criticism, and it did have a big impact. 00:26:10.300 |
So you're correct to note that Postman is related to my work. 00:26:14.240 |
I draw probably more heavily from "Technopoly" than "Amusing Ourselves to Death." 00:26:17.860 |
So check out that New Yorker piece to get a better sense of that. 00:26:25.480 |
It definitely is a standalone book worth reading. 00:26:29.500 |
What people often get wrong about it is they think it's just a book about TV being bad. 00:26:37.660 |
It was written in the 1980s, the "Amusing Ourselves to Death." 00:26:41.320 |
It's talking about doing so with TV and the way that TV has evolved. 00:26:45.820 |
But there is a deeper techno-critical argument that's proven very influential in that book. 00:26:50.600 |
What Postman argues is technologies in general, and media technologies more specifically, 00:27:03.220 |
So he talks in the book famously about how during the time of Abraham Lincoln, the media 00:27:11.660 |
And newspapers would have really long articles in them, right? 00:27:16.500 |
You have thousands of words, articles, and speech transcriptions. 00:27:20.220 |
The America at that time was actually highly literate. 00:27:25.540 |
So you're plenty happy to spend lots of time reading all these details in the newspaper. 00:27:33.220 |
He said in a lexicographic media culture, we were very comfortable with consuming information 00:27:42.340 |
This is why, for example, when Abraham Lincoln was debating Stephen Douglas in the famed 00:27:46.860 |
Lincoln-Douglas debates, these were huge spectacles that have huge crowds. 00:27:51.660 |
They would each talk for three hours at a time. 00:27:54.580 |
Lincoln would talk for three hours, and then they would all get lunch or dinner. 00:27:58.580 |
And then Stephen Douglas would talk for another three hours, and then Lincoln would have a 00:28:04.220 |
And Postman said, "We were completely comfortable with that in the mid-19th century, because 00:28:09.860 |
this was the media culture was one of long discursion." 00:28:12.380 |
And so he argues in the culture of the '80s, which was based on soundbite television, the 00:28:16.860 |
way that we process information and think about things is much different. 00:28:22.900 |
The bigger example, I mean, he goes into how Gutenberg and the printing press, that gave 00:28:29.020 |
us a way of thinking and introduced a way of thinking that was more precise and structured. 00:28:37.480 |
And he said that the printing press changed the way we thought in such a way that the 00:28:40.340 |
Enlightenment and the scientific revolution became possible. 00:28:43.580 |
And until the printing press, the media changed and changed the way our minds worked, we weren't 00:28:47.900 |
actually capable of having the scientific revolution. 00:28:54.980 |
How we changed how we thought, we could do things like invent science. 00:28:58.060 |
Newspapers changed how we thought, so we were comfortable with very long discursive discussions 00:29:03.300 |
So, of course, the interesting question is, how did social media and phones change the 00:29:09.100 |
How does it change the way we engage with the world? 00:29:11.340 |
That's a question a lot of people post-Postman have been tackling more recently, and it's 00:29:18.680 |
If the media itself, the form of the media changes how we just cogitate, what does that 00:29:26.700 |
mean about how our brains operate in a world of social media? 00:29:29.900 |
That is something worth thinking about because I think those impacts have been profound. 00:29:35.940 |
Check out my New Yorker piece about Technopoly as well, because that's also a very deep book. 00:29:46.540 |
I was wondering if you could square the theoretical four-hour daily limit on deep work mentioned 00:29:50.760 |
in Deep Work and the pursuit of high-quality leisure mentioned in Digital Minimalism. 00:29:55.800 |
Is it possible to pursue a high-quality leisure activity on a day you completed deep work 00:30:06.000 |
That four-hour daily limit, what that comes out of actually is people who are in states 00:30:13.320 |
That number was first identified in a study of professional violin players. 00:30:18.560 |
Four hours broken into two two-hour chunks was about on average the maximum a professional 00:30:23.520 |
player could practice because when professional players practice, it's incredibly intense. 00:30:31.000 |
They don't just play stuff they know how to play. 00:30:34.040 |
They're instead systematically and deliberately trying to push their skills to the next level. 00:30:39.120 |
Professionals can do that for four hours but not much longer. 00:30:45.400 |
There's a type of software development called extreme programming in which you sit two people 00:30:54.020 |
It is very intense programming where the one person's looking over your shoulder and you're 00:30:58.360 |
trying to build the best code with someone watching you do it. 00:31:01.980 |
This is very intense because you have to have like a violin player practicing complete unbroken 00:31:07.520 |
I write about this a little bit in my book, "A World Without Email." 00:31:11.880 |
What they found with extreme programming is that it's super productive. 00:31:15.700 |
You would think, "Hey, we're doing two people per screen. 00:31:17.400 |
We're going to get half as much done," but the code is so good. 00:31:24.120 |
But they also learned you can only do it for a certain number of hours a day. 00:31:32.960 |
It's like everyone has to go home and take a nap. 00:31:34.880 |
There is no notion of working late in an extreme programming environment because it's too exhausting. 00:31:40.920 |
High quality leisure typically doesn't trigger this unless your high quality leisure is intensely 00:31:46.760 |
High quality leisure is not going to exhaust you in the same way as fully focused deep 00:31:54.420 |
If you feel like what you're doing is pretty exhausting, like maybe you're working on a 00:31:58.080 |
novel on the side as a leisure project, and that really can, like extreme programming, 00:32:05.800 |
like practicing an instrument, that really can actually make a lot of demands. 00:32:10.040 |
Do less of it and balance it out with other leisure activities that pull from different 00:32:15.720 |
There's a cool book on this from the early 20th century, Arnold Bennett's "How to Live 00:32:23.280 |
One of his arguments is even if you're exhausted from your work, if you switch over to unrelated 00:32:30.000 |
high quality leisure, your energy raise is not false. 00:32:35.720 |
So he's arguing our brain, yes, our brain needs rest, but it gets that rest and sleep. 00:32:41.340 |
So yes, we do have to sleep every day, but when our brain is active, like we are awake, 00:32:46.420 |
it does not actually demand in the way that we imagine complete downtime, where it just 00:32:51.400 |
needs to sit there and do nothing or consume very low quality media. 00:32:57.920 |
In the world of Arnold Bennett, sort of snobby, striving middle-class that's middle-class 00:33:04.840 |
England in the early 20th century, he described as sort of low quality media that you're drinking 00:33:10.920 |
and like playing cards and sort of just sitting around and listening to popular music. 00:33:19.240 |
Under poetry or whatever his definition of high quality leisure is, he says it'll re-energize 00:33:26.280 |
So yeah, you might have to adjust a little bit, but you should be able to find on almost 00:33:31.200 |
any day, unless you're actually sick, a groove of high quality leisure that is going to feel 00:33:36.020 |
better and be more energizing than just falling back to let me do nothing hard at all. 00:33:41.200 |
I actually have a listener sent me a first edition of "How to Live on 24 Hours a Day." 00:33:56.800 |
I'm working on digital minimalism and one of the high value activities I want to include 00:34:03.600 |
But there are so many commercials throughout sports that I feel like I could use the commercial 00:34:07.640 |
Do you have any ideas on how to deal with activities that have inherent frequent breaks 00:34:13.960 |
What do you do, Jesse, when you're watching TV sports? 00:34:24.640 |
Like, for instance, during the Super Bowl, I had it on, and I was just... 00:34:29.680 |
But a lot of times during NFL games, like on Sundays, I'll be at work, so the sun's 00:34:38.060 |
But then on like a Saturday, or sorry, like a Monday night game, I will, yeah, just have 00:34:44.920 |
One of the things I used to like, well, I still do, I wrote about this in my newsletter, 00:34:49.520 |
is reading a book while listening to baseball on the radio. 00:34:53.120 |
That's a favorite of mine, maybe even outside on a summer day. 00:34:56.200 |
You read a book and then you sort of put the game on when it comes back. 00:34:59.800 |
And with baseball, you can kind of tune in and out a little bit, right? 00:35:02.600 |
So you're like, okay, if something interesting is happening, I'll really listen. 00:35:06.040 |
But now it's going to commercial break, I'll go back to my book. 00:35:08.260 |
During a pennant race, I could get more reading done, because as we got towards later innings, 00:35:14.880 |
I would turn the radio down when we were pitching, because it was too much stress. 00:35:19.600 |
So then you could get a whole half inning of reading, because when it's your team up 00:35:24.880 |
You're like, hey, anything good could happen here, nothing that terrible could happen other 00:35:31.400 |
So I don't know, if you're watching sports on TV, I would say it's fine to have some 00:35:35.640 |
sort of leisure activity that you're going back and forth through. 00:35:39.600 |
I would not make it work-related, because if you context ship like into your email and 00:35:44.880 |
then back to the football game, your mind is now stuck between these two worlds, and 00:35:50.160 |
you're not going to get the sense of relief of doing something unwork-related. 00:35:55.640 |
Also, don't make it engineered to be addictive. 00:35:58.500 |
So you mentioned in the longer version of your question that you're watching YouTube 00:36:04.480 |
I don't like necessarily that tension between, hey, look at me, look at me, like addictive 00:36:10.320 |
if the content has these recommendations that are grabbing your attention. 00:36:13.640 |
And now you're competing that against the high-quality activity. 00:36:16.960 |
I would rather your secondary leisure activity be a little more boring, be on that same level 00:36:28.720 |
Some other sort of analog thing that you're working on, something that you're trying to 00:36:32.120 |
fix, you're cleaning something while the game is on, and you kind of clean during the commercials. 00:36:37.360 |
Maybe have a secondary activity that is on an equal level of slowness. 00:36:42.300 |
It's not competing for your attention, because then you really get the experience then of 00:36:46.520 |
your brain downshifting to this medium, which itself I think is just clearing and useful. 00:36:53.740 |
So I think it's okay to have something to do during the commercials. 00:37:06.160 |
How do you envision digital minimalists interacting with augmented reality once the technology 00:37:10.580 |
has advanced sufficiently to replace all the screens in our lives as you have predicted? 00:37:15.760 |
Well, first of all, I still think my prediction is not being discovered enough. 00:37:23.360 |
Not necessarily from me, but I don't see enough other people talking about that prediction, 00:37:28.000 |
in particular in their coverage of the new Apple Vision Pro. 00:37:32.240 |
I don't know that everyone yet is still on the same page that I'm on, which says the 00:37:36.240 |
whole reason why Apple is investing in the Apple Vision Pro, the whole reason why they're 00:37:41.540 |
doing this is because you don't need to, once this technology is sufficiently advanced, 00:37:48.840 |
Once you can fit an Apple Vision Pro into a pair of Ray-Ban glasses, I don't need a 00:37:54.200 |
phone and an iPad and a laptop and a TV and an office computer. 00:37:58.640 |
I just need these glasses, which can put similar-sized screens wherever I happen to be, so why buy 00:38:10.880 |
Apple's profit comes almost entirely from building physical screens in nice brushed 00:38:19.120 |
If those all go away, Apple's in trouble, so they want to own the virtual screen future, 00:38:22.720 |
and I'm still convinced that's where we're going to end up. 00:38:25.520 |
If I want to make a phone call, I put a screen in front of me projected by my glasses. 00:38:30.080 |
If I want to watch TV, there's a screen put on the wall projected by my glasses. 00:38:35.600 |
If I want to write, a screen comes in front of me at the coffee shop projected by my glasses. 00:38:41.560 |
I don't need to own other bits of electronic. 00:38:47.560 |
So when people do hear about this future, their concern is, like Chris's concern is 00:38:51.360 |
here in this question, are we going to be super distracted in a way that we don't even 00:38:57.140 |
Because there is no hard line between reality and the digital. 00:39:00.680 |
Could our whole world be full of these distractions? 00:39:06.800 |
I think even in a world of virtual engagement, so augmented reality engagement, we are still 00:39:14.840 |
going to prefer the screen metaphor as the mediation with the digital. 00:39:22.520 |
So even when these screens are not physical, they're being projected in the space by a 00:39:27.320 |
pair of Apple glasses, we still are going to want our digital to be within some sort 00:39:32.520 |
of screen, a clear demarcation between the digital and the real. 00:39:37.480 |
It would be possible, of course, for the digital world to be fully integrated in a more obfuscated 00:39:46.360 |
I don't think that's what the market's going to demand. 00:39:48.080 |
I think the market is going to be very happy with, I don't have to buy screens anymore. 00:39:52.240 |
My TV is awesome because I can just make a giant screen without having to buy one. 00:39:57.360 |
I don't need a separate laptop and iPad or what have you, because I can just have four 00:40:04.580 |
I don't need keyboards and mice, it's just going to look at my hands. 00:40:07.720 |
I think that is going to be a compelling pitch to the market, but the screen metaphor will 00:40:14.480 |
This has been the dominant metaphor of media consumption for over 500 years. 00:40:20.800 |
Basically when we switched from the scroll to the codex, the bound codex, as our way 00:40:25.060 |
of conveying written technology, the idea of a constrained rectangle containing information 00:40:36.440 |
Movie screens, constrained rectangles, televisions, constrained rectangles, computer screens, 00:40:40.280 |
constrained rectangles, phones, iPads, video games, constrained rectangles, which information 00:40:46.680 |
So I think that that metaphor is going to continue, not because it's necessarily the 00:40:51.440 |
I mean, maybe it is better to have the things we're interacting with just sort of be in 00:40:58.240 |
the world and we can't tell the difference between them and other things. 00:41:01.440 |
Maybe it is better, but psychologically and philosophically, I think we prefer to have 00:41:09.120 |
So yes, I think AR is going to completely up in the consumer electronics industry. 00:41:14.800 |
Most of us will be engaging with a world augmented with digital elements just all day long, but 00:41:21.080 |
it might not look as paradoxical as this might seem that different than our current world 00:41:27.440 |
We might not be able to reach out and grab the screen we're looking at, but I think it's 00:41:31.960 |
There might be some exceptions, some games, et cetera, but some pop out stuff, but I don't 00:41:40.240 |
Like, so Jesse, I see a lot of these demos of checking email and AR. 00:41:46.240 |
The demo videos, they like to have it sort of your messages fly out or like they're kind 00:41:53.080 |
of in space and you're scrolling in space and then over here you're writing. 00:41:57.960 |
And you know, maybe, but I also think people will be happy with, no, I could just have 00:42:01.400 |
a giant screen in front of me so it's, you know, I can see my, I have two messages side 00:42:07.680 |
I don't need the messages to float in like little envelopes. 00:42:13.040 |
I just want to be able to access Gmail wherever I am and have like a really big screen where 00:42:16.640 |
I can look at two messages side by side and drag things back and forth. 00:42:19.880 |
So I think something like the screen metaphor, that's my new prediction, um, is going to 00:42:27.040 |
It's going to be the, that's going to be easier than trying to more complexly integrate digital 00:42:33.640 |
The easiest thing to do with AR is just try to anchor a screen in space as you move around. 00:42:38.800 |
So we'll see, but that's my current, that's my current guess. 00:42:43.600 |
I still haven't found an excuse to get an Apple vision pro. 00:42:46.080 |
I'm trying to find like an article idea that's going to, that would require me to get one 00:43:00.800 |
I just wrote a good New Yorker piece on, on this. 00:43:02.800 |
That might've burned the, my opportunity to convince the New Yorker that I really need 00:43:13.000 |
So I think he was well suited to write about this. 00:43:14.640 |
He probably has to, I, yeah, I should, he probably does. 00:43:27.520 |
When I have a online business based on social media, I'm a full-time YouTuber who struggles 00:43:32.200 |
with keeping up with my subscribers in their actions. 00:43:35.520 |
I have a channel with 30,000 subscribers that keeps growing at a very good pace. 00:43:39.480 |
I've been trying to reply to all the comments on my channel, but lately it's been getting 00:43:43.920 |
Well, Laura, I think that's a good question because it emphasizes a common confusion about 00:43:54.400 |
You have an entrepreneur workflow problem, and I want to distinguish between these two 00:44:01.520 |
When people hear digital minimalism and they know that it has to do with having a more 00:44:07.440 |
healthy relationship with your tools, they often change the second word in their head. 00:44:12.520 |
And so, yes, what we're talking about here is digital minimization. 00:44:18.680 |
The goal of this philosophy is to use as little technology as possible, to remove technology 00:44:28.520 |
And from the perspective of digital minimization, you say, "I'm spending all this time on YouTube. 00:44:33.080 |
That goes against minimization because I'm spending time on YouTube, and so maybe this 00:44:42.520 |
Minimalism says you figure out what's important to you in your life. 00:44:45.600 |
You figure out what tools, if anything, support these things that are important. 00:44:49.680 |
Because you know why you're using the tools, you can put rules around their use that dictates 00:45:00.840 |
Clearly, when you go through this exercise, you would say, "Yes, engaging with YouTube 00:45:07.320 |
does support things I value, such as making money and keeping my job. 00:45:13.080 |
There's no minimalism to say there's a reason why you're using YouTube. 00:45:17.120 |
It would also say, of course, have rules about how and when you use it to make sure that 00:45:20.080 |
you do the stuff that's important, but not paying unnecessary side effects. 00:45:24.120 |
And this is where I think this becomes a business workflow problem. 00:45:27.500 |
Your issue is your channel has grown, and it takes a lot of time to interact with subscribers. 00:45:36.720 |
Your rules for engaging with YouTube as your channel grew was, "I'm going to try to answer 00:45:40.800 |
user comments because that leads to more engagement and will help the rate at which my channel 00:45:47.040 |
I guess this is like a common YouTube strategy idea. 00:45:49.960 |
Now your channel is up to a given size that these interactions become more difficult because 00:45:59.240 |
Either I have to put aside more time for doing this or move on to the next stage of my channel 00:46:03.600 |
growth where I no longer try to interact directly with subscribers. 00:46:06.680 |
I mean, all YouTube channels will eventually go through that stage. 00:46:10.680 |
Once you get to a certain size, you're not interacting with your commenters. 00:46:18.400 |
He's not sitting there trying to answer every comment. 00:46:20.800 |
So there's some point where that no longer makes sense. 00:46:23.680 |
And maybe you're at that point, which would mean you stop doing that. 00:46:26.840 |
And if you're not at that point, my suggestion would be to lean into the how and when attributes 00:46:33.120 |
that digital minimalism says you should place around any technology in your life and be 00:46:38.280 |
I have one hour here and a half hour here every other day where I go through and reply 00:46:49.040 |
You either need better fences, wider pastures fenced in for this behavior, or you need to 00:46:55.340 |
But this is a business workflow problem more than it is a minimalism problem. 00:47:00.480 |
Minimalism is not about stop using technology. 00:47:02.640 |
If you have to use technology, give up on it. 00:47:06.620 |
So just be very careful about your intentionality here with YouTubers and comments and say, 00:47:14.800 |
Let's rethink how I want to engage with these tools. 00:47:19.080 |
I mean, I remember going through this with my newsletter and blog. 00:47:23.520 |
Very similar, Laura, to what you're talking about here. 00:47:26.440 |
Early on, we're talking 2007, 2008, when I started this, I answered every email that 00:47:32.520 |
And I was talking mainly to students back then. 00:47:34.580 |
And so I would get these emails from students with specific problems that I really liked 00:47:42.160 |
And B, it helped me better keep up with what are the specific issues that students right 00:47:47.560 |
As I talk about often on the show, however, there was this point where I had to stop doing 00:47:53.320 |
There was just too many readers, therefore too many emails. 00:48:00.440 |
I was spending hours working on it, and eventually I had to evolve to the next stage of my media 00:48:05.960 |
career and say, "Okay, I no longer have a sort of open email address where I just answer 00:48:17.520 |
But I like this question because if you use your businesses based on social media, you 00:48:27.320 |
If you're having trouble with your work, it might not be a technology problem, but just 00:48:37.120 |
Does that help your channel grow or something? 00:48:40.760 |
I think it might, but it seemed like it would be pretty... 00:48:49.320 |
You just go to the YouTube studio and then... 00:48:51.760 |
You do it in the back end, and then it would show up as coming from the channel itself. 00:48:59.040 |
So if you're watching this on YouTube, I am unlikely to go in and start responding to 00:49:16.520 |
I'm a Kiwi currently living in the US working as a financial consultant. 00:49:20.400 |
I have a question around decentralized social media. 00:49:23.960 |
I've spent the last five years developing my artistic drawing skills to a proficient 00:49:27.920 |
level and feel that I could now generate some real revenue. 00:49:32.920 |
My question is more about how do I share my content with an audience? 00:49:38.280 |
How do I do this and still maintain control over what I create while not handing over 00:49:42.560 |
the reins of these things and my audience to a large social media company? 00:49:48.360 |
Ideally I would only use social media as a tool to funnel viewership into some other 00:49:54.920 |
I've heard you talk theoretically about this idea, but don't really know how you imagine 00:50:11.960 |
You're monetizing a rare and valuable skill you have online. 00:50:16.280 |
There's a fundamental principle here which says you need a home where, like a home base 00:50:22.560 |
for this material, this content, the drawings, music, artwork, whatever it is, you need a 00:50:28.600 |
home base that you can control or allows you to control what you're selling. 00:50:34.600 |
You also want to have control over how it's sold. 00:50:39.000 |
So never let your home base for what you're trying to monetize online be something owned 00:50:47.040 |
So this is what would happen, for example, if your main place where you hold your contents 00:50:53.280 |
on a social media platform, that's their content. 00:50:55.560 |
You're working for that platform to help them harness eyeballs. 00:51:03.120 |
They can do what they want with that material. 00:51:05.460 |
This is very different than having your own website, for example. 00:51:09.040 |
It's very different than selling things using the Shopify store. 00:51:15.480 |
It's very different, let's say, you know, a podcast. 00:51:17.960 |
Yeah, you'll have a hosting service somewhere, but this is just a server that hosts your 00:51:24.280 |
And all these other players like Spotify or Apple iTunes players are just getting copies 00:51:32.080 |
So you want to own, have a home base for whatever you're trying to monetize online. 00:51:37.400 |
The more you can have your own home base that you can control and that you own, the better. 00:51:42.980 |
You can then use, as you mentioned, various platforms to try to draw attention to this 00:51:50.680 |
So for writers, for example, their home base might be an email subscription newsletter 00:51:55.200 |
and they use other social media tools to try to pull people towards it. 00:52:00.720 |
Artists might show some of their artwork on Instagram, but they have a website where their 00:52:04.760 |
art lives and where you can actually order limited edition prints to their own Shopify 00:52:11.160 |
Creators like me, we put video versions of these podcasts on YouTube. 00:52:15.940 |
There's a whole new audience there, a younger audience that can learn and find these on 00:52:20.140 |
YouTube and some people just like to watch it. 00:52:24.820 |
It lives on our own third-party podcast server. 00:52:29.780 |
That's what matters to us is the show itself is something we own. 00:52:33.020 |
You can shut down YouTube tomorrow and it doesn't matter because we have this show with 00:52:37.260 |
an audience we've built and we owned and so on. 00:52:39.940 |
So I think that's a good principle to go into this idea of using existing algorithmically 00:52:46.820 |
recommendation driven platforms like social media to promote your work. 00:52:52.920 |
What I often tell people who are wondering, okay, I have this old fashioned skill. 00:52:59.080 |
I say, start by seeing what you would have done 12 years ago, 2012. 00:53:04.640 |
We think of that roughly speaking as the point where social media tipped into becoming something 00:53:12.040 |
That's when it really grew to cultural ubiquity. 00:53:17.720 |
How did people who drew get attention to their work and sell their work? 00:53:22.740 |
How did people who wrote books used to get attention to their work? 00:53:27.200 |
How did artists get attention for their work? 00:53:28.840 |
How did musicians find and grow in audiences in 2011? 00:53:34.160 |
Ask yourself that question and start there because what often turns out is those are 00:53:42.540 |
That social media, sure, you can go on there. 00:53:45.180 |
Maybe there'll be some break, but more likely it'll just be you are dedicating your time 00:53:51.480 |
to help generate attention for these companies so they can monetize it more. 00:53:56.500 |
I think the reason why we get so, it's so appealing to think, I want to promote this 00:54:02.140 |
work on social media is because there's this lottery ticket feel to it. 00:54:10.080 |
These TikToks might go viral and I'll be the next Justin Bieber. 00:54:17.180 |
The platform will string you along, give you a little burst of views every once in a while 00:54:21.300 |
so you think that you're just around the corner. 00:54:23.380 |
But for 99.9% of the people, that's not how it worked. 00:54:25.820 |
The old fashioned way is what really matters. 00:54:33.580 |
My skills get to a place where this begins to attract the attention of A&R executives 00:54:37.580 |
who are desperate to find actually really good musicians. 00:54:40.660 |
Now that I'm connected with A&R representatives, I go on tour, I'm opening for bigger bands. 00:54:48.720 |
It probably takes about 10 years, but now we're ready to actually have an awesome album. 00:54:52.180 |
We have the whole mechanisms of this record label behind the album. 00:54:56.780 |
What's better is I'm on YouTube and next week, Kim Kardashian or Mr. Beast is going to mention 00:55:04.900 |
The 10 million people are going to view it and then I'm just going to have a lot of money. 00:55:07.820 |
There's a lottery ticket feel that I think new media, social media gives to us. 00:55:12.580 |
There's also a scariness with the existing traditional methods of getting an audience 00:55:21.020 |
There's a scariness because it is rife with rejection. 00:55:24.700 |
Well, an agent might say, I don't want your book. 00:55:29.460 |
You perform and they don't call you back because your music's not that good. 00:55:33.540 |
You try to move your drawings in a gallery or sell prints at the market and people don't 00:55:42.340 |
Social media kind of hides you from that type of rejection. 00:55:44.720 |
It's like, no, like it's out there and it engineers like a background hum of attention. 00:55:51.540 |
So if you're on social media, you'll make sure that like you're going to get some people 00:55:56.780 |
So it gives you that simulacrum of people care and then you have this lottery ticket 00:56:06.460 |
So I think we get seduced by these new channels because it gets around everything that made 00:56:11.380 |
succeeding as a creative hard just 12 years ago. 00:56:18.580 |
That being said, you might find when you do this exercise that no, no, no. 00:56:22.180 |
There is a particular now market for this stuff that didn't exist before and there's 00:56:26.020 |
a way to get there through a particular social media channel. 00:56:28.460 |
So sure, go with that with your eyes open, execute that plan carefully, but be careful 00:56:33.380 |
about just this general seduction that somehow everything that has always been hard about 00:56:38.840 |
trying to make a living in a sort of interesting, creative, autonomous field that you can bypass 00:56:45.820 |
The person who's winning in that equation is Mark Zuckerberg, right? 00:56:50.140 |
The person winning that equation are the people that can monetize all that time you spend 00:56:55.500 |
doing this sort of like easy, low return activities online, monetizing your attention. 00:57:02.620 |
Be very careful about how you use that world and why you're using that world. 00:57:08.780 |
So I want to do a case study before we get to our final segment. 00:57:12.700 |
We found a case study that has to do with digital minimalism. 00:57:15.820 |
I don't think I got a name on this one actually, so we'll just call this person anonymous. 00:57:25.740 |
In May of 2022, I read a post on lesswrong.com called do a cost-benefit analysis of your 00:57:34.020 |
I immediately read digital minimalism, completing it in June of 2022 and beginning my digital 00:57:41.020 |
declutter, then gradually removing more and more apps from my phone. 00:57:45.460 |
I also eventually picked up deep work and spent time on improving my time blocking and 00:57:53.700 |
It's been 1.5 years since I read digital minimalism and started applying its lessons. 00:57:59.060 |
Since then, I have one, drastically increased how much I read, two, drastically increased 00:58:06.820 |
how much I exercise, three, incrementally increased how much I sleep and four, significantly 00:58:14.620 |
increased the amount of movies and video games I have actively and consciously consumed in 00:58:21.180 |
contrast to passive or regretful consumption. 00:58:25.660 |
After one and a half years of saying to my wife, let me tell you what Cal Newport says 00:58:31.500 |
She has gone from rolling her eyes and making fun of my hints and razor to forcing me to 00:58:36.180 |
listen to her read out loud passages from So Good They Can't Ignore You. 00:58:45.580 |
The negative lesson there is don't bother your wife about Cal Newport stuff. 00:58:48.780 |
Trust me, there's thousands of wives and girlfriends around the world who are tired of hearing 00:58:55.640 |
But the good in here is that digital declutters and digital minimalism works, right? 00:59:03.140 |
He got intentional about his technology usage. 00:59:06.220 |
He added things into his life that was more meaningful to him. 00:59:11.500 |
He's reading, he's exercising, he's sleeping more. 00:59:13.860 |
He's much more conscious about how he engages with media. 00:59:16.500 |
This is someone who I can tell you is probably a lot less anxious, a lot more engaged than 00:59:20.700 |
he was before, probably a lot more productive in work as well. 00:59:25.440 |
It's like the heavy drinker doesn't realize the impact this is having on their lives, 00:59:30.620 |
the hangovers, the lack of energy, the lack of other pursuits until they move on. 00:59:34.420 |
And then they realize, oh my God, life is in technicolor before it was in a sort of 00:59:42.820 |
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So now we've made our way to our final segment where I react to something I've seen in the 01:03:09.900 |
And we are combining this final segment with another segment, which is our weekly slow 01:03:27.360 |
The slow productivity corner is where we do answer a question or tackle a segment each 01:03:31.660 |
week that's related to my upcoming book, Slow Productivity, which you can pre-order now. 01:03:37.300 |
Go to calnewport.com/slow to read an excerpt and find out more. 01:03:41.700 |
I usually use a question, but I had this final segment, which put me in a slow productivity 01:03:47.700 |
mood because it featured someone who is featured in the book. 01:03:53.780 |
So the person I want to talk about today is J.R.R. 01:03:57.140 |
Tolkien, author of other things, among other things, of the Lord of the Rings trilogy. 01:04:03.140 |
In particular, there's a quote that was sent to me by a curator of medieval manuscripts 01:04:12.260 |
So I thought that was just so cool that I was like, "I'm going to take seriously whatever 01:04:18.020 |
You know when you're getting a message from a curator of medieval manuscripts at Oxford, 01:04:22.700 |
they're probably not writing you about kettlebells or bow hunting. 01:04:29.460 |
They're probably not, "Hey, do you see this fire TikTok video?" 01:04:33.380 |
At first I thought this guy was sus, but now I know they're Audie 9000. 01:04:40.300 |
I'm mixing late '90s lingo with modern lingo. 01:04:48.700 |
I'm actually going to bring up an article on the screen for those who are watching that 01:04:54.340 |
Here's an article here from the New Criterion called The Constellations of Fantasy that 01:04:59.140 |
is talking about this really cool Tolkien exhibit that was put on by the Morgan Library 01:05:05.300 |
What I like about some of this artwork, so you can see for those who are watching on 01:05:10.260 |
the screen, an illustration that Tolkien did himself for The Hobbit. 01:05:18.580 |
You sort of see this fantastical English landscape. 01:05:21.300 |
I assume this might be the Shire done in pastel colors. 01:05:26.020 |
Here he is working, a picture of him working. 01:05:27.620 |
All right, here's other illustrations he did. 01:05:29.860 |
This is from a series of stories he did for his children about Father Christmas. 01:05:33.220 |
It's a fantastical picture he did about Father Christmas going to his snow palace. 01:05:42.660 |
Here's a collection of graph paper from the exhibit that had been pasted together and 01:05:47.220 |
on here, Tolkien has drawn out a map of Middle-earth. 01:05:55.020 |
This caught my attention because I know a lot about Tolkien. 01:05:58.260 |
I read the Raymond James academic biography a couple of years ago. 01:06:02.940 |
He's living his life at Oxford where he's being overwhelmed to some extent by the administrative, 01:06:10.580 |
by the details of being a lecturer at Oxford in the early 20th century, the stresses of 01:06:16.980 |
being in a field, philology, that was transforming into modern linguistics. 01:06:37.160 |
He's drawing these almost childlike, fantastical images. 01:06:43.500 |
When Lord of the Rings began to do well, he finally saw that he had a chance to spend 01:06:52.180 |
less time with all of these grinding activities that he just felt were put upon him and more 01:06:58.300 |
time in these fantastical worlds that are revealed through his artwork. 01:07:02.420 |
This brings us to the quote that was sent to me by this curator of medieval manuscripts 01:07:07.260 |
It's a quote in a letter sent from Tolkien to Stanley Unwin. 01:07:13.260 |
Here's the quote, "Writing stories in prose or verse has been stolen, often guiltily, 01:07:20.180 |
from time already mortgaged and has been broken and ineffective. 01:07:23.900 |
I may perhaps now do what I much desire to do and not fail a financial duty." 01:07:30.500 |
What he's pointing out there is that he had been stealing time from these other professional 01:07:38.940 |
grinding activities to which it had already been mortgaged to work on these fantastical 01:07:48.220 |
Once his book started doing a little bit better, he finally had time to actually, without guilt, 01:07:53.580 |
focus on this thing that's really important to him. 01:08:00.580 |
Tolkien, as an exemplar of fast productivity, of all these things I'm doing and juggling 01:08:05.180 |
as a professor and doing all these things, wasn't that happy. 01:08:09.540 |
Where did he find real peace, being able to return to these fantastical worlds that he 01:08:13.860 |
was creating, working on fewer things, slowing down on the work, obsessing over the quality 01:08:22.140 |
Not all of us are going to get there completely. 01:08:24.820 |
Not all of us are going to write Lord of the Rings. 01:08:27.120 |
I give a lot of advice in my book about how to move towards this world, but I just thought 01:08:31.140 |
it was a great example of the joys of slowness. 01:08:35.260 |
This is what Tolkien wanted to do, was engage in this slower, more engaging world, to get 01:08:44.620 |
The issues we face today in our world of slack and email were issues that Tolkien faced in 01:08:50.100 |
the early 20th century in his age of academic responsibilities. 01:08:54.060 |
I just thought it was cool to see that quote and to see these examples of the fantastical 01:09:01.340 |
Here's an ink drawing he did called Eeriness. 01:09:03.700 |
He had this childlike imagination, but it was sophisticated. 01:09:08.020 |
That's what he wanted to do, and eventually he would slow down enough to be able to do 01:09:15.240 |
Perfect example of the promise of slow productivity, and a great excuse, Jesse, to hear once again 01:09:33.980 |
Remember calnewport.com/slow to hear more about my book, thedeeplife.com/listen for 01:09:39.620 |
instructions on how to submit your own questions and calls to the program. 01:09:43.580 |
We'll be back next week with a new episode, and until then, as always, stay deep. 01:09:48.980 |
Hey, so if you enjoyed today's discussion of digital minimalism, I think you'll also 01:09:54.020 |
like episode 286 in which I go into the different types of self-help from the simple and advice 01:10:01.640 |
focus to the deep and philosophical and tell you how to integrate these sources of wisdom 01:10:14.300 |
The general topic is how do you cultivate a deep life in a world that is increasingly