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Hello everybody, it's Sam and Sydney from Financial Samurai and we want to wish you a Happy New Year! 00:00:07.000 |
So in this episode, we just want to recap 2022 and also talk about our goals for 2023. 00:00:15.000 |
So I thought maybe you should start first and share what are some things you really liked and disliked about 2022. 00:00:23.000 |
Well, I felt like 2022 was a tough year for the first six months. We were really, really focused on your book. 00:00:33.000 |
And we were under a lot of pressure, a lot of stress. We wanted it to be a great success and we hadn't felt that amount of anxiety in a while. 00:00:41.000 |
And I think all of it paid off immensely. It was so exciting to see the whole process from start to finish. 00:00:50.000 |
And when it finally came out, when you finally got to hold it in your hands the first time, how exciting was that? 00:00:57.000 |
It was pretty exciting. Buy This, Not That started in 2020, early 2020. 00:01:03.000 |
And it was a way for me to say, well, screw the pandemic, screw suboptimal times. I'm going to make the most out of it. 00:01:11.000 |
Which is something that I've really wanted to do. And what I've been doing, that's kind of been my mindset since I was a kid. 00:01:18.000 |
When I sprained my ankle, I just say, screw you, ankle, I'm going to play anyway. And long term, actually, that might not be a good idea. 00:01:25.000 |
But that was that. Yeah, first half of the year was difficult. Did I feel anxious? I know. 00:01:32.000 |
Yes, you did. I don't know if I felt anxious about the book editing process. 00:01:38.000 |
No, that was my stress. Yeah, I was more anxious about the book marketing. 00:01:43.000 |
Because, you know, one of my goals in 2022 was to get on podcasts and do live TV interviews, which I actually did. 00:01:51.000 |
And those live TV interviews, if you've never done them, which I'm assuming most have not, is the hardest and most stressful thing. 00:01:58.000 |
Because you only have between one to maybe four minutes, probably only like two or three minutes to say something. 00:02:04.000 |
So you got to be succinct. You got to be precise. You can't stumble on your words. Yeah, there's no retakes. 00:02:10.000 |
There's no retakes. So, you know, just interesting in marketing or having a conversation, doing a 30 minute or an hour long interview is so much easier than being put on the spot for one minute to three minutes. 00:02:25.000 |
The other thing I didn't realize about the first half of 2022 was how much time I spent dealing with my contractor to remodel our previous primary residence, which was a fixer that we bought in 2019. 00:02:41.000 |
Yeah, that was so painful. Man, I just I just cannot ever remodel, do a gut remodel ever again. 00:02:48.000 |
It's so stressful. It's not worth it. And because it took so long and it cost more as usual, I think fully remodeled homes going forward are going to be more valuable. 00:03:00.000 |
People are going to appreciate it more. People are going to pay up for them because it's just so hard to get permitting, to get approval. 00:03:07.000 |
Materials these days. Gosh. Yeah, materials boomed. Well, now then they busted everything. 00:03:13.000 |
Well, labor costs are up as well. So if you can find a fully done house, I would look for that. 00:03:20.000 |
I would not take on a remodel project unless you're in your 20s or 30s without children. 00:03:25.000 |
Or if you're only trying to do one room, which is still hard, but easier than trying to do an entire house. 00:03:32.000 |
Yeah, I mean, one room. No problem. Just do some paint, change some fixtures. 00:03:37.000 |
That's easy. But yeah, doing one kitchen, four bathrooms or however many. No, three bathrooms. 00:03:44.000 |
We did three bathrooms. We gutted the ground, added square footage. Yeah, it was a lot. 00:03:50.000 |
But here's the thing, though, like all hard things, it it feels worth it at the end. 00:03:55.000 |
You know, the good thing I have a saying, the good thing about hard work is that it's over and we get to reap the rewards for hopefully years and years to come. 00:04:04.000 |
Yeah. So what are some of your highlights and lowlights of last year? 00:04:09.000 |
Well, besides the remodel and besides the release of the book, Buy This, Not That, which became a instant Wall Street Journal bestseller, pretty proud of that, 00:04:19.000 |
was running in place with the wealth creation. It was kind of depressing. 00:04:25.000 |
Let's just be frank. Stock market closed down almost 20 percent, the S&P 500 down 20 percent, pretty much giving up all its gains in 2021. 00:04:35.000 |
So I felt like I was running in molasses. 30 percent of our net worth was exposed to stocks, which is down 20 percent, which meant that our net worth declined by 6 percent. 00:04:47.000 |
Now, we ended up with a flat net worth only because of passive income savings and online income. 00:04:57.000 |
So in other words, I think you can see that as a positive or negative. 00:05:02.000 |
The first rule of financial independence is not lose money, because if you lose money, you lose time. 00:05:08.000 |
So this way, we didn't really lose time and we have all the time in the world because we don't have day jobs. 00:05:14.000 |
But on the negative, it's basically we worked kind of for free. 00:05:18.000 |
All the hours that I spent working on Financial Samurai, writing the book, editing the book, marketing was for nothing. 00:05:29.000 |
Let's just be frank. I think in finance, we got to be real. 00:05:33.000 |
The only positive thing I did at the end of 2021 was reduce our asset allocation to stocks from 35 percent to 30 percent. 00:05:41.000 |
Because 2021 was crazy and my long term asset allocation goal is to have 25 to 30 percent in stocks. 00:05:49.000 |
But I did experience something pretty great and that was health wise. 00:05:54.000 |
So in spite, in spite of losing a lot of money in the stock market, my health improved. 00:06:00.000 |
My shortness of breath issues cleared away and I also lost five pounds. 00:06:06.000 |
So what this tells me is that I have the proper asset allocation and I'm satisfied with the money we have. 00:06:16.000 |
You know how some people, they say, oh yeah, we're good, we're good. 00:06:20.000 |
But then, you know, maybe in the background, they're like working as hard as ever to make way more money. 00:06:25.000 |
Or they say, you know, they feel no pain, but deep down, they feel tons of pain. 00:06:30.000 |
So I think one of the things about our bodies is that it doesn't lie to us. 00:06:36.000 |
It's like an honest child that tells us the truth no matter what. 00:06:40.000 |
It reflects how we are feeling stress wise and more. 00:06:46.000 |
Another thing I'm really proud about is doing all this dad stuff. 00:06:56.000 |
So proud. We've got such a great picture of him graduating with his cap and gown. 00:07:02.000 |
And also teaching him how to ride a bike on November 13, 2022. 00:07:10.000 |
And the hardest thing was actually letting go. 00:07:14.000 |
You know, I basically ran behind him holding his shoulders or holding his neck, hurting my back in the process. 00:07:24.000 |
I was like, "Well, I'm glad that you did most of the work." 00:07:28.000 |
But I made a commitment to do 16 sessions once a week for 16 weeks. 00:07:34.000 |
By the end of the year, he would ride a bike and he did it. 00:07:37.000 |
And his joy and the smile on his face was priceless. 00:07:44.000 |
So those are the moments where we just think, you know, money stuff is important. 00:07:48.000 |
But so long as you have enough money to, you know, feel relatively comfortable, to do what you want, it's all this other stuff that is truly priceless. 00:07:58.000 |
So how about you? What are some highlights of your 2022? 00:08:01.000 |
Well, one thing that comes to mind is something that happened just a few weeks ago is we finally got my mom to come visit us. 00:08:14.000 |
Like she's been wanting to come for a long time and, you know, something would always come up, some excuse. 00:08:19.000 |
And then she finally decided that she wanted to come for Christmas. 00:08:31.000 |
And about four days before she was supposed to arrive, she said, "I can't come." 00:08:36.000 |
And I had to pull out all the stops, convince her that she really needed to come. 00:08:44.000 |
And then there were all the crazy flight cancellations that were happening on the East Coast like a day or two before she was supposed to fly home. 00:09:00.000 |
So that was kind of a highlight, you know, the biggest highlight at the end of the year for me. 00:09:06.000 |
To get, you know, getting her out here to see the kids and us. 00:09:12.000 |
And before that, during Thanksgiving, I got my parents to come out. 00:09:16.000 |
And so they hadn't come out in three years as well since our daughter was born. 00:09:24.000 |
That's the one biggest downer about the pandemic is fear and uncertainty and distance from family. 00:09:31.000 |
Another one that comes to mind is we had some great family vacations, which reminds me that we paid off our vacation property mortgage. 00:09:40.000 |
This was our Lake Tahoe vacation property mortgage we bought in 2007. 00:09:50.000 |
But we got a good deal relative to 2006 prices. 00:09:56.000 |
However, since our kids were born, we've been able to take them and fulfill our dream of having children enjoy the water slides and pool and so forth. 00:10:12.000 |
There was about 50,000 left at the beginning of 2022. 00:10:16.000 |
The mortgage rate was 4.25%, which was the highest mortgage we had out of our mortgages. 00:10:22.000 |
But now it doesn't look that high, right? With average 30 year fixed at around 6.2%, maybe. 00:10:28.000 |
But it still feels great, folks, to pay off your mortgage. 00:10:32.000 |
What's most interesting is our cash flow has gone way up. 00:10:40.000 |
And predominantly, most of it was paying off principal since we only had 50,000 left. 00:10:47.000 |
But by paying it off, you, we now have 2,500 more a month in cash flow, which is, what is that, 30,000 a year. 00:10:56.000 |
And also, weren't you tacking on automatic $1,000 a month to principal? 00:11:11.000 |
It's like, ah, we got all this cash flow to do what we want. 00:11:20.000 |
So, yeah, you know, there's a whole debate on paying off your mortgage or not. 00:11:25.000 |
I follow the FSDARE method, basically allocating a certain percentage based on the interest rate. 00:11:33.000 |
So if the interest rate is 4.25%, I would allocate 42.5%, so times that by 10, right, towards paying off debt and then the rest towards investing. 00:11:44.000 |
But I've never regretted paying off a mortgage. 00:11:50.000 |
It just feels good, especially during times of uncertainty. 00:11:53.000 |
So a lot of people poo-poo paying down debt, you know, let's say at the beginning of 2022. 00:11:58.000 |
But if you pay down even 0% rate debt, you outperform the S&P 500 by 20% because that's how much the S&P 500 went down. 00:12:07.000 |
So something to think about for 2023 and beyond. 00:12:16.000 |
We didn't make any money, but we progressed in terms of our health and our family. 00:12:22.000 |
What would you give 2022 in terms of a grade? 00:12:25.000 |
For myself, probably like a B-, I felt like I didn't do as much as I wanted the second half of the year, but I felt really good about the first half. 00:12:42.000 |
Well, the first thing that comes to my mind is weight. 00:12:49.000 |
Mine is to shed a few pounds because I've been having a little bit of weight creep. 00:12:55.000 |
So what I'm going to do this year is get back into a regular exercise regimen. 00:13:01.000 |
And thanks to you, I am now playing pickleball. 00:13:12.000 |
So I'm hoping, I won't be playing as much as you, but I'm hoping to play about two times a week. 00:13:18.000 |
And if I'm not, to just do some hiking around to just keep myself active. 00:13:24.000 |
Yeah, in terms of weight, I did finally lose that five pounds that I've been wanting to lose every year for the past five years. 00:13:37.000 |
At 45, it does feel a little bit harder to stay in shape. 00:13:41.000 |
But I believe if I can play tennis and pickleball on average total four times a week and just eat in moderation, 00:13:47.000 |
I should be able to stay at 168 pounds at 5'10", which is totally fine for me. 00:13:53.000 |
I can still fit in all my clothes from the past 15, 20 years. 00:13:57.000 |
Although the ideal weight chart says I should be 151 to 163 pounds. 00:14:04.000 |
I mean, if I want to apply to be a Bowflex man model, a fitness model, I guess. 00:14:14.000 |
I don't even know if a Bowflex model would weigh that little. 00:14:21.000 |
I know several people who are 140 pounds at 5'10". 00:14:28.000 |
Super lean, like all the actors and all that. 00:14:30.000 |
When you meet them in real life, you're like, "Wow, you are super skinny." 00:14:39.000 |
I'll talk about another thing that comes to mind that you also spoke to as well is about parenting. 00:14:45.000 |
We're trying to come to a more aligned parenting style, 00:14:50.000 |
which I think you're going to write about in a future post, which will be a little bit of a teaser. 00:15:00.000 |
And sometimes it can create a little tension where we each feel like we're being a little too, you know, 00:15:11.000 |
So I'm going to try and do some tweaking with my parenting tactics and see if I can do a better job there. 00:15:21.000 |
Yeah, you know, folks, I grew up kind of in a tough love environment. 00:15:33.000 |
And I see the benefit of tough love because if nobody helps you, you've got to figure out a way to help yourself. 00:15:41.000 |
And I just fear raising kids that end up staying at home dependent on us well into their 30s because I see adult sons, 00:15:51.000 |
adult sons in our neighborhood right now, at least five of them still living at home with their parents. 00:16:03.000 |
And I think there's like this issue if you do deeper research on boys versus girls in academics, in, you know, building wealth, all that. 00:16:18.000 |
Well, I think it's rational based on what we're observing in the area. 00:16:25.000 |
I don't have the same level of anxiety that you do. 00:16:29.000 |
And I think it's because we have different personalities and different responsibilities. 00:16:37.000 |
But it's definitely something that we're going to look into further this year. 00:16:42.000 |
Let's say our son slips and falls after being told five times to not run on wet cement or a sidewalk. 00:16:50.000 |
So he's crying and he's just reaching out to us. 00:16:53.000 |
And I'll look at him and I'll say, "Embrace the pain. 00:16:58.000 |
If you did not want to feel pain, you would not have run." 00:17:03.000 |
And this is a philosophy, you know, that I've had for years. 00:17:07.000 |
And then I read this book called The Courage to be Disliked. 00:17:10.000 |
And it also has that same philosophy where it says, "If you want to basically," let's say, "If you want something, you're going to take action to get it. 00:17:19.000 |
And if you don't want something, you're not going to take action to get it." 00:17:22.000 |
I have this belief that everything is rational long term. 00:17:31.000 |
Because afterwards, everything gets that much easier. 00:17:34.000 |
I'm laughing because sometimes you tell our son, "You like the pain, don't you?" when he falls down. 00:17:41.000 |
Well, I'm trying to get into his head like, "Don't hit -- if you don't want to feel pain, don't do that." 00:17:56.000 |
But I'll usually remind him that this is why we were telling you to slow down because it's slippery. 00:18:07.000 |
And then I'll still, you know, ask him after I've kind of gotten that out, "Are you okay? Do you need some ice?" 00:18:22.000 |
And one of the adult sons is right behind us. 00:18:34.000 |
And I think part of this fear is because I have to provide -- 00:18:57.000 |
It is so competitive that I wish all our youth good luck, love, and harmony. 00:19:12.000 |
It's like having interview skills is one thing, but I feel like so many people can't even get to the interview stage with the amount of competition that there is for jobs. 00:19:25.000 |
Like, any job you get is like winning the lottery. 00:19:29.000 |
I truly realized this after publishing my book. 00:19:36.000 |
Quality people, quality employees, quality books, quality products. 00:19:40.000 |
But only those that get lucky enough with the most amount of marketing budget and the most amount of attention get to the top. 00:19:50.000 |
Many, many thousands of people can replace the CEOs of great companies and still run them to the ground like they did in 2022. 00:20:01.000 |
And I know you furred your brow because I was kind of making a joke. 00:20:04.000 |
What I'm saying is that there are CEOs in 2022 that got paid tens of millions of dollars, but they still saw their share prices go down 20 to 70%. 00:20:14.000 |
What I'm saying is that you've got to be lucky. 00:20:17.000 |
Not only do you have to be good, you've got to be lucky to be embraced, to be recognized, to get ahead in this world. 00:20:24.000 |
And one of the reasons why I'm still focused on academics, good work ethic, building a rental property portfolio, and maintaining a small business is because just in case our kids don't get into a university because of their identity, 00:20:39.000 |
don't get a job because they couldn't get a good university and they don't have the connections, 00:20:44.000 |
we will be an insurance policy that hopefully is never needed to make them survive and get them out of the house. 00:20:54.000 |
Well, for listeners here, you'll be pleased to know that I plan to record at least 30 more episodes in 2023. 00:21:01.000 |
I think it's fun to connect with y'all and share new stories and bring in comment feedback. 00:21:08.000 |
That's always great because it's about a community of financial samurai. 00:21:11.000 |
Also, did you know that the Financial Samurai podcast has now achieved over 1 million downloads? 00:21:19.000 |
Yeah, we started in about 2017 regularly, haven't been promoting it, haven't gotten any advertisers, try to get straight to the point. 00:21:27.000 |
But yeah, we've got 1 million downloads as of early 2023. 00:21:33.000 |
So maybe we can, I don't know, grow to 1.5 million by the end of 2023. 00:21:38.000 |
Generally, what happens is you build upon something for a while, for a while, and then eventually you see a hockey stick up and then that extra growth comes quicker. 00:21:49.000 |
One of the challenges I had for 2022, because we were writing the book and doing the remodeling and raising kids, 00:21:55.000 |
was would I have the motivation to continue to record without any advertisers? 00:22:02.000 |
And I have to say, I was totally motivated inherently to do so without any advertisement dollars. 00:22:08.000 |
I recorded over 43 podcasts, maybe 45, and it was fun. 00:22:13.000 |
Drop off our son at school, come to the driveway and record a 10 to 20 minute episode. 00:22:22.000 |
But I will say for 2023, I want to take things down a notch. 00:22:26.000 |
I wrote before that I've been publishing three times a week since 2009. 00:22:33.000 |
I've been publishing more than, more like four times a week since 2009 because I have a weekly newsletter that comes out every Sunday morning. 00:22:41.000 |
And you can subscribe at financialsamurai.com/news so you don't miss a thing. 00:22:45.000 |
And because of this newsletter, I've had to often, actually every single weekend, work either Friday night, Saturday morning, or Sunday morning to write and edit it. 00:22:56.000 |
And then I've got to send it to you or my dad to edit it. 00:23:00.000 |
So that's not fun because I never get a weekend off. 00:23:06.000 |
And yeah, I was pretty inspired to write my newsletters. 00:23:09.000 |
But I will admit about 15% of the time, I didn't want to write it at all. 00:23:16.000 |
When you set out public goals, you are held accountable. 00:23:20.000 |
You just want to do it and not let people down. 00:23:24.000 |
So I'm trying to manage expectations for 2023. 00:23:26.000 |
And maybe I'll just publish two times a week and a newsletter. 00:23:31.000 |
And if I'm still publishing a podcast, that's still a lot. 00:23:38.000 |
I noticed in the past, I would publish three times a week. 00:23:43.000 |
Then I would do three times a week plus a newsletter. 00:23:46.000 |
And then three times a week plus a newsletter plus two podcasts. 00:23:51.000 |
And then I would write a page because I needed to update some kind of factual page. 00:24:01.000 |
Yeah, it's endless work that just never stops when you have the ability to do what you want. 00:24:08.000 |
So I'm a highly motivated person, so I just keep on going. 00:24:12.000 |
But I need to throttle that back for happiness, sanity, and health. 00:24:18.000 |
Well, in conclusion, 2023 is all about going back to the early retirement lifestyle to lead a more simple, healthier, and happy life. 00:24:30.000 |
In a bear market, which we are still in, it doesn't make sense to grind so hard because your return on effort is lower. 00:24:43.000 |
For example, can you imagine working 60 hours a week and then seeing your stock price decline by 50% in 2022? 00:24:56.000 |
So I really believe that when it's harder to make money, you shouldn't spend as much time making money. 00:25:03.000 |
You should actually spend more time cultivating the things that matter more than money, like your friends' experiences. 00:25:14.000 |
The opportunity cost of making money is lower, so you might as well spend that time enjoying life more. 00:25:23.000 |
Well, if you want to read all about our 2022 year in review and our goals for 2023, you can just check out the linked posts in the episode show notes. 00:25:34.000 |
And as always, we appreciate your positive reviews for the podcast and for my book, Buy This, Not That, at FinancialSamurai.com/BuyThisNotThat.