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Pastor John, if you're up for it, give us a theology of biblical womanhood in five minutes. 00:00:11.000 | 
I would start with where God starts in Genesis 1, where he says that God 00:00:17.900 | 
created man, male and female, in the image of God. He created them, not just the man. 00:00:26.060 | 
And so I would start with the massive, and I mean immeasurably massive truth, 00:00:32.640 | 
that men and women, and we're talking about women here, are created in the 00:00:38.520 | 
image of the Creator of the universe. This is simply stunning. It means that 00:00:43.480 | 
every woman you look at on the street, or every woman you relate to in any way, is 00:00:49.360 | 
a potential queen of heaven, because she's created in the imago dei. She's in 00:00:58.240 | 
the image of God in the same way that the man is in the image of God, having a 00:01:04.720 | 
human nature which mirrors the very nature of God. That's where I'd start. 00:01:11.360 | 
Secondly, I would draw attention to the fact that her worth, therefore, when you 00:01:16.040 | 
talk in terms of dignity or worth, is the same as man's. In fact, I would say both 00:01:23.720 | 
male and female are essential to the full revelation of God's glory. He didn't 00:01:32.120 | 
just create man. When you get to the second part of the story, where man 00:01:36.160 | 
is created first, which I think is significant, and then woman is created, it 00:01:40.880 | 
says it wasn't good. It just wasn't finished. It wasn't good, until this woman 00:01:45.240 | 
who came from his side. No animal would do, because no animal was created in the 00:01:49.560 | 
image of God. She must be of his nature, and thus of the nature of God. So she's 00:01:55.440 | 
of an equal worth, and both together, then, are the fuller revelation of God's 00:02:00.960 | 
glory. And then I would say that she has unique, special capacities, both 00:02:08.120 | 
physically, mentally, emotionally, that are different from men. And we should 00:02:13.800 | 
celebrate the differences between manhood and womanhood, and stress that 00:02:20.000 | 
those differences are meant that when we're together, both as singles, I would 00:02:24.480 | 
argue, there are cultural dynamics for people who are not married, and then 00:02:28.120 | 
there's cultural dynamics for people who are married. When you're together, 00:02:30.840 | 
something more beautiful is shown of God than if we were all in our little silos 00:02:35.940 | 
of individuality. And the last thing I would do is draw attention to what we 00:02:39.680 | 
mean by complementarity, and say that one of the unique things about women is that 00:02:45.560 | 
they are ordained by God, called by God, to receive honor, I mean, to receive from 00:02:55.080 | 
man, and honor man, and support the leadership, and the protection, and the 00:03:00.640 | 
provision of godly men according to those appropriate roles. And the reason I 00:03:09.120 | 
say that last little phrase is that as a woman navigates her life, if she's 00:03:14.640 | 
married, she's got a husband, she's got a pastor, she's got male friends who are the 00:03:20.960 | 
husbands of her female friends, she's got maybe colleagues at work, she's got the 00:03:26.800 | 
mailman who comes to the front door, perhaps, she has the mechanic at the 00:03:32.200 | 
precision tune, and so on. All these males fulfill very different roles in her lives, 00:03:38.200 | 
and I don't mean that she receives and honors and supports leadership, 00:03:43.000 | 
protection, and provision from all of them in the same way. It's the dynamic 00:03:47.120 | 
and the dance of gender relations are different for every relationship, but 00:03:52.760 | 
there is something that God has put, I think, into men to be leaders and 00:03:58.040 | 
protectors and providers, and women to love that, delight in that, honor that, 00:04:03.400 | 
come alongside that, use all their manifold gifts to advance the cause of 00:04:07.960 | 
Christ through that, so that when they're together, they are complementing 00:04:14.120 | 
each other and the beauty of God is displayed more fully. 00:04:18.440 | 
Do you suspect that gender role differences will carry over into eternity? 00:04:23.880 | 
Yes. Yes, because I think, even though the Bible says there'll be no marriage or 00:04:29.720 | 
giving in marriage, we won't have children in the age to come, I think that 00:04:35.040 | 
our personhood is so wrapped around our gender, or you could say our gender is 00:04:43.760 | 
wrapped around our personhood, that if we were stripped of our maleness or 00:04:49.960 | 
femaleness, we would be unrecognizable. I think Jesus is a man today in heaven. He 00:04:56.880 | 
is Jesus Christ, the same as He was here, well, He was glorified, and I don't think 00:05:05.440 | 
we should think of Him in some androgynous way up there, or ourselves, 00:05:10.000 | 
entering into a kind of existence that has no correlation to the male and 00:05:14.760 | 
female that we had here, and it's going to be utterly, utterly beautiful. 00:05:20.120 | 
There, all the sinful dimensions of manhood and womanhood will be taken away. 00:05:25.920 | 
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