back to indexEp. 233: Escaping Your Tyrannical Inbox
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0:0 Cal's intro
8:25 Today’s Deep Question
37:20 Cal talks about Mint Mobile and Huel
43:26 Why does Cal suggest having multiple email addresses?
47:17 How do I convince my colleagues to actually read process-centric emails?
52:14 How do I work with people who enjoy email check-ins?
57:25 How do I get key information out of email an into a better system?
60:43 How can I focus when my job demands an open door policy?
65:16 Cal talks about Henson Shaving and Blinkist
72:55 Something Interesting
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The actual deep question then that we'll tackle today. 00:00:03.200 |
How can I free myself from spending all day in my inbox? 00:00:37.960 |
because the restaurant that used to be below us, 00:00:42.560 |
and a new restaurant's coming in, which is good. 00:01:15.280 |
Yeah, I mean, you just got to walk downstairs 00:01:19.840 |
we need to instill ourselves as a fixture here. 00:01:22.080 |
I know the owner, I probably know some of the staff. 00:01:27.880 |
Like our pre-recording, our post-recording, whatever. 00:02:04.460 |
the mentioned briefly because it's going to set up 00:02:18.580 |
the digital workplace is designed to bring you down. 00:02:23.820 |
Most of it is covering the type of ideas I talk about 00:02:37.980 |
And I don't normally read comments on things. 00:02:39.460 |
You know, I've been in this business long enough 00:03:11.600 |
I thought what we should do today in the show 00:03:18.080 |
but at least one part of a solution to this problem 00:03:36.300 |
I wanted it to be a goal about checking inboxes 00:03:40.300 |
or checking into chat channels less frequently. 00:03:52.440 |
into the average knowledge worker professional existence, 00:03:55.060 |
I think it really would make a big difference. 00:04:02.760 |
an article that I've actually cited quite a bit. 00:04:04.880 |
And I've actually talked to the data scientists 00:04:19.520 |
Sort of like the screen time feature for iPhones, 00:04:22.560 |
though it's been around much longer than that feature. 00:04:25.080 |
And the idea is you learn about what you're doing 00:04:33.680 |
Tens of thousands of knowledge workers collecting this data. 00:04:38.200 |
to properly anonymize this data and analyze it. 00:04:48.040 |
And I'm just gonna scroll to the punchline here. 00:04:54.400 |
on email or instant messenger every six minutes. 00:05:01.120 |
And again, they got this by just literally watching 00:05:03.520 |
exactly what tens of thousands of knowledge workers did 00:05:07.360 |
They were running the software that tracked every program 00:05:23.160 |
is how many of the observed users check that often. 00:05:44.780 |
So that is the most frequent interval observed 00:05:50.700 |
After the median of six, there's just a long tail. 00:05:57.280 |
a small number of users for these really long. 00:06:01.800 |
where you have one user who checked every 100 minutes, 00:06:06.600 |
I bet a lot of that is people that were away on a conference 00:06:11.360 |
or forgot to turn on the app or something like that. 00:06:14.800 |
We check email, not a lot, but constantly, constantly. 00:06:19.800 |
This is a huge issue because as I emphasize in that article, 00:06:24.800 |
as I emphasize in my book, "A World Without Email," 00:06:28.580 |
context switching is expensive for the human brain. 00:06:37.420 |
to shift our attention from one target to another. 00:06:39.960 |
We're meant to be focused on one thing at a time. 00:06:43.840 |
If you're checking your inbox once every six minutes, 00:06:46.260 |
you're constantly instigating these context shifts. 00:06:57.520 |
and this is an idea I've been developing more recently. 00:07:08.400 |
and you see on the screen 20 different emails 00:07:16.280 |
each of them requiring a different cognitive context 00:07:20.880 |
when you're seeing those all at the same time, 00:07:28.240 |
And I think a lot of people have this experience. 00:07:30.480 |
It's like, "Oh, man, I gotta clear out my inbox," 00:07:35.000 |
You freeze like, "I don't even know how to get started." 00:07:37.480 |
You feel this resistance, you feel this discomfort, 00:07:45.480 |
'cause your mind doesn't even know what to do with it. 00:07:47.120 |
That's because you're literally giving your mind a problem 00:07:55.840 |
15 different things, they're each different contexts. 00:08:02.560 |
Switching to the inbox once every six minutes is a disaster. 00:08:11.480 |
It's exhausting, frustrating, and misery-making. 00:08:17.840 |
I have five questions from my readers and podcast listeners 00:08:20.840 |
that all loosely relate to exactly this theme. 00:08:31.600 |
All right, so let's deep dive on this question. 00:08:47.640 |
Why can't we just do what Tim Ferriss suggested? 00:08:51.840 |
So again, for the people who are watching on YouTube, 00:08:56.520 |
I'm loading up a blog post from Tim Ferriss's website, 00:09:02.800 |
is the email autoresponder that in his 2007 book, 00:09:17.280 |
So autoresponder, this is what anyone who writes you 00:09:19.840 |
will automatically get this sent back to them. 00:09:22.960 |
Greetings, friends, whoops, email subscription. 00:09:29.760 |
and responding to email twice daily at 12 p.m. Eastern 00:09:39.740 |
that cannot wait until either 12 p.m. or 4 p.m., 00:09:42.480 |
please contact me via phone at whatever phone number. 00:09:49.800 |
It helps me accomplish more to serve you better. 00:09:54.400 |
I don't wanna spend all day checking my inbox, I won't. 00:09:57.220 |
I'll check it twice and I'll have an autoresponder 00:10:04.120 |
This strategy of just deciding to batch your email 00:10:23.720 |
talking about his experiences in the workplace 00:10:28.700 |
2003, 2004, that early 2000s that he's writing about, 00:10:33.840 |
that was pretty early in the period of ubiquitous email, 00:10:50.800 |
I would get knives thrown at my eyes or whatever. 00:10:59.460 |
make the tone very agreeable for your particular context. 00:11:23.300 |
became increasingly integrated into the workplace 00:11:26.320 |
and Slack came later and other types of tools like Teams, 00:11:34.760 |
Now, we've talked about this on the show before, 00:11:38.220 |
My whole book, "World Without Email" is about this, 00:11:42.840 |
the hyperactive hive mind is a mode of collaboration 00:11:49.620 |
either an email or an instant messenger services. 00:11:52.900 |
So now if we're trying to figure something out, 00:11:55.200 |
we will just start sending messages back and forth. 00:11:59.360 |
When I see a message from you, I'll reply to it. 00:12:06.000 |
That is the hyperactive hive mind mode of collaboration. 00:12:12.920 |
following Tim's suggestion of just declaring 12 and four, 00:12:32.480 |
so that a decision can be made before the end of business. 00:12:35.800 |
You can't wait three hours for your next reply 00:12:40.360 |
and then you reply to that and then they reply to you 00:12:45.540 |
what is our plan for picking up the client tomorrow 00:12:50.120 |
and it's gonna take five back and forth messages, 00:13:00.080 |
So the hyperactive hive mind makes batching difficult. 00:13:07.280 |
I'm gonna load up one more thing on the tablet here. 00:13:16.600 |
that was written by Gloria Mark from UC Irvine. 00:13:21.320 |
2016 paper, this was I believe published in CHI. 00:13:26.320 |
So the Human Computer Interaction Conference. 00:13:30.760 |
It's a well-known human interaction conference venue. 00:13:35.520 |
It's called "Email Duration, Batching, and Self-Interruption 00:13:39.040 |
"Patterns of Email Use on Productivity and Stress." 00:13:46.280 |
So telling people to just check email twice a day 00:13:52.160 |
And what they found, and I've highlighted this on the screen, 00:13:54.800 |
batching email is associated with higher rated productivity, 00:14:17.320 |
So it did not make people's lives less stressful 00:14:22.940 |
If we argued this inbox checking is a stressful thing, 00:14:44.000 |
you feel stressed because you know about all the things 00:14:45.880 |
that are being stalled because you're not in your inbox. 00:14:55.100 |
It's why they found when they dived into this research 00:14:59.240 |
about this type of thing get even more stressed. 00:15:01.740 |
So the more you worry about what other people 00:15:03.360 |
think about you, the more stressed you are gonna get 00:15:08.960 |
So we can't just say, check email less, check Slack less. 00:15:20.160 |
we're gonna actually have to change some things. 00:15:22.380 |
We're gonna have to introduce new ideas and strategies 00:15:24.500 |
if we're gonna accomplish the goal of checking email less. 00:15:33.680 |
That is a flip about how most other people think about it, 00:15:37.400 |
the first change you make to make your life less stressful. 00:15:42.140 |
So what I wanna suggest is three main strategies. 00:15:45.800 |
Three main strategies to help transform your work 00:15:49.740 |
sufficiently away from the hyperactive hive mind 00:15:53.120 |
And then I'll have one fallback bonus strategy 00:15:57.320 |
All right, number one, piece of advice number one, 00:16:04.040 |
All right, this is a technique that I actually 00:16:06.440 |
first introduced in Deep Work, my 2016 book, Deep Work. 00:16:21.620 |
and the person you're talking to are gonna collaborate 00:16:24.580 |
to accomplish whatever goal you're writing about. 00:16:28.680 |
I'll just send you something and just let's start 00:16:33.280 |
this is how I think we should collaborate about this. 00:16:38.940 |
that reduces the need for lots of unscheduled emails 00:16:44.200 |
Here is a standard email, a non-process-centric email, 00:16:48.720 |
Lisa asked us to present our merit simplification plan 00:17:05.520 |
an open-ended back and forth message exchange, 00:17:11.600 |
Here, by contrast, is a process-centric alternative 00:17:17.500 |
Lisa asked us to present our merit simplification plan 00:17:25.000 |
I uploaded the latest draft of our slides to Google Drive. 00:17:28.700 |
I'll look through them and add any updates or comments 00:17:34.640 |
until close of business Tuesday to review it. 00:17:36.480 |
And then Caleb, you can take the token on Wednesday, 00:17:42.420 |
Let's then meet on Thursday to discuss all of those notes 00:17:45.320 |
and decide any changes we wanna make for the final version. 00:17:50.800 |
just reply all with which of any of those work, 00:18:03.140 |
You have to actually sit here and think this through. 00:18:08.240 |
basically any other email exchange between now 00:18:10.680 |
and when that presentation happens on Friday. 00:18:12.880 |
You know what you're doing, they know what they're doing. 00:18:21.080 |
And this whole thing gets done and it gets done well. 00:18:23.960 |
And you have not had to keep checking your inbox 00:18:37.460 |
This took probably three minutes to think of and write 00:18:40.660 |
when the initial response would have take 30 seconds. 00:18:47.580 |
that you would have had to keep checking your inbox 00:18:54.260 |
let's say 10 minutes of a cognitive context shift 00:18:57.180 |
induced overload in which you can't focus and feel exhausted. 00:19:06.920 |
in exchange for three minutes of thinking through an email. 00:19:14.280 |
about process centric emailing being deployed in the wild 00:19:17.520 |
and some issues someone's having coming up in the show. 00:19:25.560 |
for reducing the time you spend in your inbox. 00:19:33.540 |
Defer back and forth interactions to synchronous settings. 00:19:44.160 |
One is that we're deferring back and forth interaction. 00:19:50.400 |
about what email is good for and what it's not. 00:19:57.760 |
Email is great for delivering information to people. 00:20:01.280 |
If I need a file from you, email is a fantastic technology. 00:20:07.400 |
Email is also great for broadcasting information 00:20:22.760 |
You can send that information to everyone parking 00:20:25.040 |
in that parking garage with the press of one button. 00:20:31.560 |
It's also good for questions that can be responded to 00:20:36.180 |
So maybe you heard the parking garage is gonna be closed, 00:20:40.200 |
but you don't remember if it was Friday or next Friday, 00:20:43.360 |
"Hey, Cal, is the parking garage closed this Friday 00:20:50.420 |
When I get a chance, I can see that respond to it. 00:20:58.840 |
Neither of us has to spend much cognitive overhead. 00:21:07.420 |
is when we have to do back and forth interaction, 00:21:09.760 |
where there's gonna be many emails back and forth 00:21:12.920 |
This is specifically where we need a better solution. 00:21:17.600 |
This piece of advice gives another suggestion, 00:21:19.480 |
which is move the back and forth out of the inbox 00:21:24.520 |
And that's the second piece I wanna highlight 00:21:27.600 |
Synchronous means a place where we're going back and forth 00:21:33.200 |
So we're actually talking with each other in the same room 00:21:36.840 |
or on the same phone line or in the same conference, 00:21:42.080 |
That could even be, and this confuses people, 00:21:44.840 |
but that could even be over a tool like Slack. 00:21:48.080 |
You and I have any back and forth conversation. 00:22:01.720 |
So we can get the 15 back and forth messages or chats 00:22:18.560 |
I think 2016, I wrote a Harvard Business Review article 00:22:21.720 |
about this and I've been talking about it ever since. 00:22:24.600 |
All professions that work in office buildings, 00:22:36.720 |
Defer back and forth conversations to these office hours. 00:22:41.480 |
about the merit thing we're presenting on Friday? 00:22:48.240 |
Just stop by one of my upcoming office hours. 00:22:51.560 |
And you can push so many things into those office hours. 00:22:54.100 |
Yeah, let's talk about, hey, when you get a chance, 00:23:06.040 |
than to initiate those back and forth emails. 00:23:08.480 |
The phone call deferral is another very effective tactic. 00:23:19.800 |
I'm usually, you know, usually you can catch me whatever 00:23:23.800 |
The phone deferral tactic works for two reasons. 00:23:26.840 |
One, 50% of the things coming towards you will disappear. 00:23:41.480 |
I'm just, you know, internet, internet, phone, 00:24:08.440 |
Coming from the guy who wrote a whole New Yorker piece 00:24:19.360 |
When I was young, we had to kill, this is true. 00:24:24.320 |
We had to kill a German soldier on our walk to school 00:24:48.400 |
you've saved yourself maybe five to 10 emails, 00:25:00.800 |
who uses this all the time and I appreciate it. 00:25:04.840 |
'Cause we have complicated things to work out. 00:25:21.880 |
So if there's individuals you do a lot of business with, 00:25:30.280 |
and you talk to them a lot, just maintain a list. 00:25:34.640 |
oh, here's something I wanna talk to them about. 00:25:37.380 |
Oh, here's something else that comes up later. 00:25:41.000 |
And then next time you talk to them, you say, great, 00:25:45.020 |
And if you don't have something on the books, 00:25:48.380 |
you just email them and say, hey, I'm gonna call you. 00:25:51.220 |
Let me just warn you, I have a lot of things to go through. 00:25:53.520 |
Unless I hear otherwise, I'm gonna call you at like three, 00:25:55.300 |
and then like keep trying every half hour or something. 00:25:58.060 |
And then you get through a lot of things at once. 00:26:07.300 |
especially my administrative roles at Georgetown. 00:26:09.380 |
All right, so defer back and forth interactions 00:26:19.820 |
And I gotta say, Jesse, like one of the things that, 00:26:24.180 |
but it happens a lot when I'm talking about email, 00:26:27.420 |
is people, when someone comes back and it's like, 00:26:40.020 |
or people like BCC, me on too many announcements. 00:26:44.420 |
I am not stressed out by having a lot of LL Bean emails 00:26:50.460 |
It's annoying, you delete them or filter them. 00:26:57.740 |
All right, final piece of advice here, deploy processes. 00:27:25.720 |
This is the big idea from my book, "A World Without Email", 00:27:29.420 |
is that ultimately the things you do again and again, 00:27:33.220 |
the collaborative things you do again and again 00:27:36.060 |
in a professional setting should have clearly defined 00:27:41.080 |
It shouldn't just be, we'll figure it out with emails 00:27:46.200 |
You should figure out here's how we do this work. 00:28:02.100 |
Our ad agency built what I think is a very nice process 00:28:09.260 |
There's a lot of back and forth that has to happen, right? 00:28:15.740 |
They built a very nice process based around notion 00:28:18.660 |
where every ad read has its own database entry 00:28:25.940 |
or can show up in a list of everything that that client, 00:28:33.380 |
After each episode, there's a process where you go through 00:28:45.460 |
without ever sending an email to our ad agency. 00:28:50.620 |
because I don't want us to be sending back and forth 00:28:56.700 |
This is just, I'm just throwing out a few examples 00:29:17.740 |
type your name, type your feedback whenever you have it. 00:29:20.140 |
This is when I'm gonna take everything in there 00:29:24.060 |
Again, it seems, why not just have people email you 00:29:28.980 |
and it doesn't require back and forth messages. 00:29:41.620 |
We've saved back and forth emails to figure that out. 00:29:55.060 |
So there's a lot of different things you can do here, 00:29:56.540 |
but the key is moving your collaboration methods away 00:30:01.040 |
from unscheduled messages and towards something 00:30:07.220 |
These type of strategies are the type of things 00:30:13.380 |
that will aggregate to actually relieving the pressure 00:30:21.020 |
if you're deferring back and forth out of your inbox, 00:30:23.420 |
if you have hardcore, well-structured processes 00:30:35.160 |
Therefore, the number of messages in your inbox 00:30:49.980 |
that need an answer when you get around to it. 00:30:55.180 |
but it's an inbox you could check twice a day 00:30:59.820 |
because the stuff that requires actual quick collaboration 00:31:24.040 |
in which hyperactive hive mind is inescapable. 00:31:36.560 |
I mean, in my book, "So Good They Can't Ignore You," 00:31:41.500 |
What you're doing doesn't align with your values. 00:31:45.920 |
The job you have does not offer you a way forward 00:31:50.220 |
to increasingly autonomous or interesting configurations. 00:32:02.140 |
or really change what you're doing within your company. 00:32:13.020 |
Having to constantly check an inbox or chat channel 00:32:33.460 |
caused by this hyperactive hive mind back and forth. 00:32:37.780 |
that is a really distressing work environment. 00:32:39.940 |
I don't think that is something that we should see 00:32:50.820 |
where you really just dislike the people you're around. 00:33:08.140 |
put that on your list of things that makes you say, 00:33:11.260 |
"And maybe I'll shift to something else in this company. 00:33:12.940 |
"Maybe I'll trade accountability for autonomy, 00:33:18.940 |
"or maybe I'm gonna leave and go take another job." 00:33:20.940 |
But this should be in the way you think about 00:33:24.540 |
It's one of the biggest sources of negativity 00:33:28.280 |
And it's one that no one actually directly measures 00:33:30.700 |
or thinks of as a standalone reason for making a change. 00:33:37.620 |
If nothing else works, consider making the change. 00:33:49.900 |
So I always try to just focus in on one thing at a time. 00:33:53.540 |
I mean, actually, this was almost like a frustration 00:33:58.500 |
like a minor, good problem to have type of frustration. 00:34:09.900 |
And there's like a lot of good responses like that. 00:34:12.100 |
The frustration was, "I wrote a whole book about this." 00:34:26.580 |
of the knowledge work workplace and how to get around it, 00:34:54.480 |
they thought the people on the coast were being. 00:34:56.660 |
and so there's like political wars going on about COVID. 00:34:59.420 |
And there was a presidential election that just happened, 00:35:07.820 |
"Excuse me, how often are you checking your email inbox? 00:35:15.920 |
"I have some sage advice, some pragmatic suggestions 00:35:24.420 |
Like that would have been a great book for 2003. 00:35:29.420 |
People are like, "Yeah, generally we feel good, 00:35:33.080 |
"and we wanna kind of make our lives better." 00:35:42.460 |
"or we're gonna be in civil war, or whatever." 00:35:47.640 |
So it was kind of frustrating that people I know well, 00:35:49.640 |
who should know, I wrote a, they should know about. 00:35:53.640 |
a lot of books, so I can't really blame them. 00:35:59.920 |
- So do you find any difference between work email accounts 00:36:03.640 |
and personal email accounts, or is it just all the same? 00:36:13.480 |
of the hyperactive hive mind is really diluted, 00:36:16.780 |
you might not be able to do personal email during work. 00:36:19.840 |
So you could look at how people deal with personal email. 00:36:25.000 |
towards these anti-hive mind tactics in personal email, 00:36:29.960 |
because the hyperactive hive mind just doesn't work. 00:36:35.520 |
that's gonna take 15 back and forth messages, 00:36:39.740 |
because him and I might not check personal email 00:36:45.500 |
We can't take 10 different evenings of back and forth. 00:37:06.360 |
that you could be checking it once every six minutes, 00:37:09.960 |
- Because it's plausible, then everyone's like- 00:37:12.300 |
- Yeah, it's like, "Let's just do that then." 00:37:15.700 |
- All right, well, we have a collection of questions 00:37:36.480 |
mobile data service, whatever we call that whole package, 00:37:49.360 |
They sell premium wireless service to your phone, 00:37:52.380 |
like you would get from one of the major providers, 00:37:58.340 |
or expensive infrastructure they have to support, 00:38:00.720 |
so they can sell it to you without all that overhead 00:38:27.080 |
They're delivered over the nation's largest 5G network. 00:38:29.340 |
So many people are using these same networks, 00:38:38.920 |
there's a couple of things you could do with it. 00:38:40.080 |
Some people say, "I don't wanna pay whatever I'm paying, 00:38:48.020 |
"They just send me the SIM card, I stick it in." 00:39:06.000 |
So you can buy just off Amazon, like a $50 phone, 00:39:08.800 |
get a Mint Mobile subscription for like 15 bucks a month, 00:39:13.760 |
Now you have a dumb phone you can bring with you, 00:39:17.840 |
you can be called on and do simple text messages on, 00:39:22.560 |
from the primary distractions of the internet 00:39:28.360 |
And so I've been experimenting with dumb phones for, 00:39:40.160 |
you're like, "I don't wanna give you a smartphone 00:39:42.720 |
"because I've seen the kids these days on the TikToks, 00:39:47.960 |
"when you need me to pick you up from school." 00:39:49.800 |
Mint Mobile makes it so easy, 15 bucks a month, 00:39:53.600 |
not even a burner phone, just like a nice flip phone. 00:39:56.240 |
So that's a cool, one of the cool things you can do with it. 00:40:03.640 |
and to get that plan shipped to your door for free, 00:40:24.480 |
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All right, Jesse, let's do some questions from our listeners. 00:43:07.520 |
Why do you recommend setting up different email accounts 00:43:17.160 |
I'm a big fan of having completely separate email accounts 00:43:22.860 |
Let me think how many email accounts I have right now. 00:43:32.040 |
I have a Georgetown account and I have a New Yorker account. 00:43:36.600 |
So yeah, I have four accounts, all different. 00:43:41.600 |
In fact, I have a separate Google Chrome context 00:43:59.180 |
let me have all these different emails for different roles 00:44:01.480 |
come into the same inbox and I'll just filter it 00:44:11.280 |
but I've separated things into different folders or labels. 00:44:15.420 |
The problem with it is if I am logged into one email inbox 00:44:33.000 |
not to just click, click, click, click, click 00:44:34.280 |
and see what's coming to those other ones too. 00:44:37.520 |
It takes too much willpower to not just click once 00:44:39.820 |
and see if there's any work-related emails coming in. 00:44:42.280 |
So my attempts to try to filter emails in a single inbox 00:44:45.240 |
into separate bins did not actually have the desired effect 00:44:48.800 |
of me separating these into completely separate contexts. 00:44:57.520 |
and for some of these two-factor authentication, 00:45:21.480 |
So my overarching cognitive context is Georgetown-related. 00:45:27.380 |
and while I'm working on stuff in that context, 00:45:28.940 |
I don't want to also see a deep questions-related question 00:45:33.500 |
I don't also wanna see an email from my uncle 00:45:38.340 |
And that allows me to actually accomplish things 00:45:41.340 |
when I'm working on it faster and with higher quality 00:45:49.940 |
if you can separate them in a separate email inboxes, do so. 00:45:57.660 |
I mean, I don't know if this happens for you, Jesse, 00:46:02.820 |
it's constantly requiring me to retype in the password. 00:46:13.180 |
we must have a setting, which I think is good. 00:46:15.580 |
It doesn't want you to be logged in too long. 00:46:19.940 |
And so I have to go and find it and I have to type it in. 00:46:24.780 |
So now I've learned it's no casual thing to just, 00:46:28.100 |
let me just jump over to calnewport.com and check my emails. 00:46:30.340 |
Like I might have to go find the stupid password 00:46:32.780 |
So I wait to do it until like I'm prepping the show 00:46:41.740 |
I mean, someone should invent like a Gmail plugin 00:47:00.060 |
I often get feedback like it was too long to read 00:47:05.620 |
How do I get people to actually read my emails? 00:47:08.780 |
- I think you gotta lecture them more, Marcia. 00:47:32.540 |
Marcia, what you're noting here happens often. 00:47:35.780 |
For people who are completely up to their eyeballs 00:47:38.420 |
in the hyperactive hive mind collaboration method, 00:47:47.180 |
They just like, I gotta get this out of here. 00:47:50.300 |
me no like thoughts, question marks, send, right? 00:47:52.580 |
Just whatever gets the email out of their box temporarily 00:47:56.220 |
and get that little bit of relief they're just doing. 00:48:01.300 |
and it's just random characters, send, whatever. 00:48:26.460 |
So it is difficult because they're not used to that. 00:48:30.860 |
as part of a long back and forth conversation. 00:48:32.420 |
You wanna get out of there as quick as possible. 00:48:36.540 |
One, and this is simple, but it really is effective. 00:49:00.820 |
And then you can put, you know, use equal signs 00:49:02.540 |
and make like a horizontal line and it's down below. 00:49:10.580 |
Oh, there's like a quick message, like, yeah, 00:49:17.980 |
Oh, and then down here is something separate. 00:49:25.940 |
is actually put it in a separate, get it out of email. 00:49:30.740 |
We probably should have a plan for how to do this. 00:49:32.020 |
I came up with one, here's the link, it's in Google Drive. 00:49:41.380 |
me liking, press send or whatever they do, right? 00:49:51.260 |
And so psychologically in that frame, it's easier to take. 00:49:54.220 |
So separate out the process you're giving people 00:50:03.980 |
I'm gonna look at this until close of business this day. 00:50:09.580 |
And then let's have a call on Thursday to discuss it. 00:50:12.340 |
Here's the time I suggest, if that doesn't work, 00:50:14.220 |
here's three backups, just reply with the right one bolded 00:50:32.900 |
So you're like, I don't know, now let's just, 00:50:44.060 |
So here's the link to what I think we should do. 00:50:50.420 |
Just be like, yeah, here's, I came up with a process. 00:50:56.340 |
And at first they might not do it and be like, okay, 00:51:05.340 |
you didn't have any feedback here or something like this. 00:51:09.660 |
Or we had, I told the boss, like, we didn't have this done 00:51:15.620 |
Again, you're being nice, you're not being a jerk about it, 00:51:19.100 |
I figure out like, what's our steps for doing this? 00:51:23.420 |
And if you ignore the steps or skip the steps, 00:51:27.020 |
It's like, okay, either you get taken out of the project 00:51:29.620 |
or the boss has to hear that we didn't get it done. 00:51:31.260 |
And eventually you want people to kind of turn around, 00:51:34.940 |
I guess I'll just go back and hive mind everything. 00:51:39.260 |
Don't be a jerk about it, but don't give up on it either. 00:51:44.260 |
dash, dash, dash, and you put the steps below your message, 00:51:47.500 |
it seems so stupid, but it can often make a huge difference. 00:52:00.660 |
but I've encountered an unexpected side effect. 00:52:03.260 |
Some coworkers tell me that they actually prefer 00:52:08.160 |
when I jump the gun and start executing tasks. 00:52:11.700 |
How can I stay productive and sane without stepping on toes? 00:52:15.140 |
- I know what you're talking about, Rochelle, 00:52:19.180 |
and I actually have a little bit of empathy for them. 00:52:33.140 |
We'll just sort of figure things out back and forth 00:52:38.700 |
Let me just order the food, get the caterer going. 00:52:47.900 |
because they haven't had a chance to talk to you 00:52:54.300 |
that the guest who's coming to speak is vegetarian. 00:52:56.940 |
And so we need to order from this other place over there. 00:53:01.240 |
to want to actually have a chance to talk about things 00:53:09.180 |
give people a chance to actually interact with you, 00:53:22.780 |
and kind of doing things ad hoc, like most people do. 00:53:31.960 |
what are my responsibilities in this thing we're working on? 00:53:39.120 |
process by which you're gonna get that work done. 00:53:47.500 |
I'll take care of getting the promotional materials out. 00:53:53.600 |
And so you bring them up to speed right off the bat 00:54:07.440 |
for whatever collaborative project you're working on, 00:54:17.760 |
So a feedback checkpoint is before I order the food, 00:54:22.140 |
we can talk to make sure we're satisfying whatever, 00:54:37.200 |
We all have to wait and gather at this checkpoint 00:54:44.680 |
to provide you feedback, but even if they don't, 00:54:48.840 |
So here we might say, if you have any thoughts 00:54:53.320 |
about the food or what food should be ordered, 00:54:55.360 |
I'm gonna order on Wednesday before the event 00:55:01.040 |
Send me any like issues or dietary restrictions 00:55:06.920 |
or I have a document that we're planning the product in, 00:55:10.720 |
Put that all in there before the time I listed 00:55:17.960 |
to send automatically, you know, the morning of. 00:55:23.840 |
if you have any thoughts on the food or feedback, 00:55:28.000 |
Feedback options work great because people feel included. 00:55:31.600 |
If there's something important that they do want you to know 00:55:34.280 |
they will then make sure they get you that information, 00:55:41.120 |
with back and forth emails, waiting for replies, 00:55:44.800 |
90% of the time, people don't actually have feedback 00:55:48.760 |
It's just the idea that they might, that upsets them. 00:55:55.200 |
we were inviting gremlins and it's after nine, 00:56:01.800 |
That's not what's happening, but it could have. 00:56:03.680 |
So, you know, I'm upset you didn't talk to us ahead of time. 00:56:07.080 |
With a feedback option, you take that concern away. 00:56:15.340 |
You gave me a place to tell you that information. 00:56:20.400 |
especially for logistical type gatherings like this. 00:56:28.960 |
Rochelle gave a particular example about like ordering food 00:56:37.020 |
But use feedback options instead of feedback choke points. 00:56:39.800 |
Tell people ahead of time, this is how I'm doing it. 00:56:43.700 |
In the rare cases where you need feedback, you'll get it. 00:56:45.520 |
And now you can still execute without having to be stuck 00:56:50.600 |
waiting for random email replies to make it back to you. 00:56:53.280 |
All right, these are nice and practical, Jesse. 00:57:09.840 |
What do you do when you started a correspondence over email, 00:57:16.600 |
and yet must continue to correspond over email 00:57:22.320 |
or keep manually transferring information back and forth? 00:57:25.920 |
- You manually transfer information back and forth. 00:57:50.360 |
has some notes for when we update our contract, 00:57:55.380 |
so he's an Arborist, something about tree ideas here. 00:57:59.260 |
And you go to, you have a Trello board for your clients 00:58:02.480 |
and you have a column for that particular client. 00:58:05.640 |
Maybe it's things to discuss the next contract. 00:58:08.560 |
You throw in a card and you copy that stuff out of the email 00:58:10.800 |
and you throw it in that card and now it's there 00:58:14.720 |
So you're transferring stuff from email to Trello. 00:58:19.960 |
and you see, I'll have to send a contract to this client 00:58:24.040 |
And so I'll have to pull all that information out of Trello 00:58:26.480 |
and write up the contract and email it to my client. 00:58:30.080 |
You go back and forth and it's high friction, 00:58:45.520 |
by which we organize ourselves as human in the workplace 00:58:52.640 |
where the most important thing is efficiency. 00:59:07.480 |
everything you're looking for speed and efficiency. 00:59:12.480 |
into the given frequency bandwidth that I have? 00:59:15.400 |
More and less efficiency, efficiency, efficiency. 00:59:26.600 |
Like our issue is we're not efficient enough. 00:59:28.240 |
Maybe we could have an artificial intelligence agents 00:59:30.280 |
that could automatically pull the information 00:59:31.980 |
out of our email and move it to a Trello card 00:59:34.800 |
And that's a minute that otherwise would it take. 00:59:40.140 |
that need to take 20% off our average operation time 00:59:42.880 |
so that we can charge a premium compared to our competitor. 00:59:48.240 |
to focus our mind and add value to information 00:59:57.320 |
Let me take this information and transfer the Trello, 01:00:00.680 |
In fact, we want that to take a little bit of time. 01:00:04.080 |
We want to have a good sense of what's going on. 01:00:21.680 |
that it's like you're spending all day going in Trello, 01:00:25.400 |
You got to re-engineer your client communication, 01:00:28.280 |
so you don't just have emails back and forth all day. 01:00:31.300 |
But I am not worried about the fact that you, 01:00:34.020 |
stuff in your inbox has to get manually transferred 01:00:38.960 |
A little bit of friction is not that bad of a thing. 01:00:49.640 |
Next question is from Walter G, an attorney from Arizona. 01:00:53.200 |
My office promoted me to a supervisor position 01:01:08.360 |
How can I find time to work deeply without interruption? 01:01:11.920 |
- Well, I mean, Walter, there's two options here. 01:01:16.360 |
You either cede the responsibilities to require deep work. 01:01:45.420 |
I mean, to me, that's like, I'm a baseball player 01:01:50.420 |
"Look, you gotta wear these blacked out goggles." 01:01:53.980 |
And I say, "But I can't see when I have them on." 01:02:02.300 |
So we're gonna have to figure out something else. 01:02:06.280 |
And when I'm in the outfield, I'll take them off." 01:02:08.200 |
But it's just untenable, something we'd have to give. 01:02:16.040 |
you have the conversation with your boss in your mind. 01:02:22.640 |
into some sort of fire breathing distraction gargoyle. 01:02:27.160 |
the boss is gonna be like, "No, I always must reach you 01:02:32.160 |
and then they breathe fire and they melt your computer." 01:02:37.660 |
And then the reality is if you talk to your boss, 01:02:48.300 |
I also have to write briefs and prepare cases. 01:02:50.100 |
And that's impossible if I get phone calls during it. 01:02:53.260 |
It triples the time and the quality is lower. 01:02:56.100 |
How can we figure out a way that we can do both?" 01:03:07.140 |
So this is something that a reader actually told me 01:03:09.020 |
about an agreement he worked out with his boss. 01:03:13.020 |
Two hours in the mid morning, two hours in the afternoon, 01:03:15.240 |
those are closed door hours and you're preparing briefs 01:03:18.480 |
Or they say, "We'll just tell the supervisees 01:03:21.140 |
starting at noon, they can expect that you're accessible." 01:03:26.820 |
9.5 times out of 10, if you come at this positively, 01:03:30.740 |
not, "Hey idiot, with your stupid distraction policies, 01:03:35.740 |
it's impossible to work here, stop bothering me." 01:03:46.300 |
It doesn't work if the supervise hours are the full time 01:03:50.360 |
So let's just figure out a way we can do both. 01:03:55.660 |
bosses are like, "That makes complete sense." 01:03:58.780 |
And I have a lot of other things going on in my life. 01:04:20.980 |
You're an outfielder with darked out glasses. 01:04:22.820 |
But number two, if you have a reasonable positive 01:04:26.020 |
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They're like, you're like, maybe I could have like an hour 01:04:59.420 |
Yeah, and also we should like genocide redheads, 01:05:02.740 |
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And usually they're like, yeah, whatever, I'm busy. 01:05:12.740 |
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All right, to end the show for our final segment, 01:12:26.280 |
And what I mean by that is I like to pull something 01:12:28.700 |
that someone sent me to interesting@calnewport.com. 01:12:32.160 |
This is my catch all address where my readers 01:12:34.480 |
and listeners have long sent me things they think 01:12:41.580 |
So I have a particular example I wanna share today. 01:12:47.620 |
If you're watching at youtube.com/calnewportmedia, 01:12:51.040 |
you'll see this on the screen, but I'll also read it. 01:12:54.540 |
The article is titled "Aboard the African Star" 01:13:14.140 |
So this was edited from a talk and it came out 01:13:21.900 |
So this Alex Haley wrote this in the early nineties 01:13:27.140 |
Anyways, here's what was interesting about this. 01:13:30.900 |
Haley has a interesting habit to find deep work settings, 01:13:41.320 |
I'm just gonna read this to you from the article. 01:13:43.680 |
I love how casually, by the way, he is about this. 01:13:46.620 |
Usually I go out on freight ships, cargo ships. 01:13:53.900 |
But freight ships carry a maximum of 12 people 01:13:57.800 |
I work my principal hours from about 1030 at night 01:14:07.060 |
So Alex Haley, to find a space conducive to deep work, 01:14:16.180 |
He said, okay, I could build a special deep work office 01:14:19.540 |
in my backyard, maybe convert a shed like David McCullough, 01:14:25.540 |
like Peter Benchley did at the Furnace Factory 01:14:29.660 |
in Pennington, New Jersey to get away from my house. 01:14:31.380 |
And that's where I'm gonna go to write, not deep enough. 01:14:39.660 |
So he can write without distraction like Maya Angelou did, 01:14:43.740 |
He could go out on a fishing boat like John Steinbeck 01:14:55.220 |
I'm going to become a passenger on a cargo freight liner, 01:15:05.740 |
when the 12 people on this massive boat are asleep. 01:15:08.740 |
And at the nighttime on a cargo freight liner 01:15:18.580 |
or someone who really pushed deep work forward. 01:15:22.020 |
The funny thing is where this reference came from. 01:15:25.060 |
It's actually John McPhee wrote a book about the ships 01:15:37.420 |
oh, by the way, Alex Haley liked to write on these boats. 01:15:41.580 |
And that's what sent me down the rabbit hole. 01:15:51.740 |
Jesse, we're gonna get the typical complaint email here. 01:15:56.340 |
But how am I gonna write in the middle of the night, 01:15:58.580 |
in the middle of the ocean on a cargo freight liner 01:16:05.300 |
My response is screw them, get on the freight liner. 01:16:12.180 |
So as I like to do sometimes in these interesting segments 01:16:19.940 |
but it's aspirational to see what they're doing. 01:16:37.300 |
That'd be interesting if you're like stuck on your, 01:16:44.780 |
I'm just gonna bring on like weights and a laptop. 01:16:53.460 |
If we called it like the deep work transit lines 01:16:57.540 |
and like got some really cool advertising materials 01:17:02.380 |
And they have to show up at like the Port of Baltimore. 01:17:28.420 |
So a movie about pirates taking over a cargo liner 01:17:31.980 |
does not make you want to just casually go out 01:17:39.660 |
I went down a rabbit hole and listened to an interview 01:17:54.460 |
except for they left out how gross it actually was 01:18:12.980 |
Very important information for our listeners out there. 01:18:15.900 |
I don't know what got me thinking about it, but whatever. 01:18:20.460 |
If you want to send me things you think I would like. 01:18:23.100 |
All right, that's all the time we have for today.