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of thinking in bets, which is that, you know, 00:00:15.180 |
Like the fact that we think of these beliefs, 00:00:18.380 |
we have these ideas that we think are so certain 00:00:21.120 |
I'm gonna hire someone, they're gonna be the best, 00:00:23.480 |
is really just thinking about everything in life as a bet 00:00:26.780 |
and challenging yourself to put certainties around things, 00:00:37.860 |
So here's the thing, when I say, do you want to bet? 00:00:40.660 |
All I'm doing is making you examine the assumptions 00:00:46.260 |
- Yeah, one for my wife and I is always just like, 00:00:49.100 |
I'm like, oh, I'm totally sure that our daughter's preschool 00:00:59.460 |
like I don't know if I want to put all my money on the line. 00:01:03.180 |
- Right, because what it makes you think about 00:01:13.580 |
'Cause I'm telling you that I have a perspective 00:01:16.660 |
If I'm willing to bet, that means that I'm saying 00:01:22.220 |
Okay, so it's automatically making you start to think like, 00:01:25.060 |
well, what's a different way to look at this, right? 00:01:35.740 |
my husband and I talk like this all the time, right? 00:01:45.340 |
which is just a way to say what's the probability, right? 00:01:47.500 |
So we don't think about bets as just like dollar for dollar. 00:02:05.100 |
I'm sure John Fetterman's gonna win the election 00:02:09.240 |
They might, you could say, you could immediately say yes, 00:02:13.020 |
but then the response would be, well, what's the price? 00:02:15.460 |
What are you willing to, are you willing to lay me a price? 00:02:21.580 |
if I say to you, I'll bet $10 for every dollar that you bet, 00:02:25.340 |
I'm telling you that I'm very certain that I'm right. 00:02:28.540 |
'Cause I'm risking a lot compared to what I can win. 00:02:46.060 |
When you say, okay, I'll take the nine to one 00:02:48.620 |
and I go, wait, no, no, no, no, no, like even money. 00:02:59.140 |
So it's like a good way to kind of be like interacting. 00:03:04.140 |
And I can tell you that I do this with little things 00:03:08.540 |
It's actually kind of fun once you start like, 00:03:16.340 |
So, but I think that the thing that's really important 00:03:30.460 |
that are implicit in the decision you're making explicit. 00:03:41.180 |
that is always implicit in the decision you're making 00:03:59.780 |
I'm gonna meet you for dinner at seven o'clock 00:04:08.200 |
Implied in that is that I must have a tendency to be late. 00:04:18.660 |
yes, I'll bet you that I'm gonna be on time, right? 00:04:22.660 |
So when I say things like that and then you bet back, 00:04:26.100 |
those are all things that have to do with base rates, right? 00:04:31.940 |
I know the stock market is gonna go up this year. 00:04:36.940 |
And if I know the base rates, I may bet you on that, 00:04:39.740 |
depending on what you're willing to lay me, right? 00:04:42.680 |
'Cause the stock market goes up actually somewhere 00:04:44.300 |
between like, it depends on how you measure it, 00:04:54.740 |
- I would take that bet because there are actually options 00:04:57.500 |
out there I could use to arbitrage your confidence. 00:05:08.020 |
So you can hedge away, I'm just gonna take my bet. 00:05:15.980 |
when somebody says wanna bet, it's like, when you say, 00:05:21.560 |
is gonna work out 90% of the time and I bet you, 00:05:24.140 |
it makes you actually go through and start thinking, 00:05:32.860 |
is to start thinking about what's the quality 00:05:35.620 |
of the beliefs that we have that go into any decision 00:05:39.020 |
And part of that is making the implicit explicit. 00:05:48.900 |
where like you send out to a bunch of people like, 00:05:51.220 |
what do you think the job description should be? 00:05:57.280 |
what, and you're getting that all independently, right? 00:06:01.200 |
What you're finding out is in an explicit way, 00:06:05.040 |
when they would otherwise just go and interview somebody, 00:06:08.140 |
what are the things that they think are important 00:06:21.380 |
And that means that we have to actually make all this stuff 00:06:31.720 |
You can walk around it, you can have discussions about it. 00:06:35.060 |
You can, I can see that you have a different perspective. 00:06:38.180 |
And when we see that we have a dispersion of opinion, 00:06:48.660 |
And this is the way that we start to learn really fast. 00:06:52.140 |
It's the way that we start to get our decisions