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Today I want to tell you about the worst international trip that I myself have ever taken, which 00:00:38.400 |
just so happens to have been my honeymoon, which just so happens to have been to the 00:00:44.600 |
And I want to draw from this trip for you some important lessons related to societies 00:00:49.740 |
in general, economics broadly, and personal finance. 00:00:54.580 |
Haiti has been in the news over the last, well, really months, but it really came to 00:00:58.820 |
a boiling point over this past weekend as the nation's capital and indeed the country 00:01:04.680 |
broadly has been wracked by violence, extreme violence for months now. 00:01:10.200 |
And it has boiled over to the point where over the weekend, the United States of America 00:01:14.480 |
performed an emergency airlift to withdraw all non-essential personnel from the US embassy. 00:01:19.960 |
The European Union has withdrawn all of its diplomats. 00:01:23.040 |
And it's so bad that the leader of the country can't even get back into his own country 00:01:28.180 |
because of the violence that ultimately shut down the airport. 00:01:31.760 |
Now all of this is ineffably sad, but none of this is surprising. 00:01:37.920 |
My first experience with Haiti came on my honeymoon. 00:01:41.960 |
Now before you think I'm the worst president in the world, remember that other great people 00:01:45.800 |
have also taken their wives to Haiti for honeymoon. 00:01:49.560 |
After all, former President Bill Clinton took Hillary Clinton to Haiti on their honeymoon. 00:01:54.440 |
But my story is not quite so interesting as that. 00:01:57.400 |
When my wife and I were newly married, I was looking around trying to figure out where 00:02:00.920 |
would be an interesting place to go for a honeymoon. 00:02:04.080 |
And I was able to get a great deal on an all-inclusive resort in the Dominican Republic, which is, 00:02:11.200 |
And there are two nations that share that island. 00:02:13.960 |
You have the Dominican Republic and also the nation of Haiti. 00:02:17.280 |
And since my wife and I both enjoy Spanish and French, I thought it would be a fun travel 00:02:22.300 |
experience for us to spend a week in the Dominican Republic and then to go to Haiti. 00:02:26.720 |
So we flew into the DR, and then after a week at an all-inclusive resort, we got on a bus 00:02:32.000 |
and went from Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic, to Port-au-Prince, Haiti. 00:02:37.360 |
And on that bus ride, I began to understand that perhaps I had gotten myself in a little 00:02:45.240 |
I just knew that, "Hey, it's a French-speaking place." 00:02:52.000 |
I've traveled in a lot of difficult places, and I thought, "It'll be fine. 00:02:56.740 |
But on the bus itself, I wound up meeting some people on the bus who were quite concerned 00:03:03.240 |
And in fact, there was one lady who was on the bus who had a private driver who was meeting 00:03:08.560 |
her, and she insisted that her private driver would be the one to drive us from the bus 00:03:16.360 |
So we went to – I think it was called the Caribe Hotel in downtown Port-au-Prince for 00:03:22.640 |
We were there a year after the big earthquake, and actually I wound up meeting Anderson Cooper, 00:03:27.880 |
the CNN host, who was in Haiti for basically a review of the earthquake, what was happening 00:03:39.040 |
And we started in Port-au-Prince, and then from Port-au-Prince, we took a bus across 00:03:46.760 |
I wanted to visit the Bassin Bleu there in Jacmel, so we took a little minibus across 00:03:52.880 |
And that was where everything started to go awry because we did not have an enjoyable 00:04:00.680 |
And in fact, after getting to Jacmel and spending two days in Jacmel, I experienced the desire 00:04:07.880 |
– and in fact, I actually chose to do something I had never done before and have not done 00:04:13.000 |
since, which was just to leave somewhere as quickly as possible. 00:04:17.680 |
When we were in Jacmel, our experience was so bad that my wife and I took the first bus 00:04:22.520 |
back to Port-au-Prince that we could get, and we went directly to the airport. 00:04:27.120 |
And I was determined to buy the first flight out that I could get. 00:04:30.240 |
Unfortunately, when we got to the airport, all of the international flights had gone 00:04:35.200 |
And so instead of taking a flight out of the country, I wound up taking an early morning 00:04:39.700 |
flight the next day and flying to Cape Haitian, where we spent one more day visiting something 00:04:48.120 |
called the Palace of Saint-Suzy and the Citadel, which is truly remarkable, an amazing place 00:04:54.320 |
We really enjoyed our time in Cape Haitian and then later wound up taking the bus early 00:05:03.360 |
Well, I'll tell you, quite simply, I felt like every single person with whom I interacted 00:05:10.860 |
in our trip in Haiti was out to cheat me in some way, shape or form. 00:05:18.020 |
I'm not an inexperienced traveler, but I found it quite challenging to hang on to my money, 00:05:24.180 |
to hang on to my luggage, when every single person at every single level of society, including 00:05:30.660 |
all of the people who are serving tourists in the tourist industry, is trying to cheat 00:05:38.340 |
And I reflected quite a lot, I spoke to a lot of Haitians trying to understand why that 00:05:46.460 |
This is purely my theory, my experience from spending what wound up being three or four 00:05:53.440 |
But my theory as to why my experience in Haiti was so unpleasant is this. 00:05:58.540 |
Haitians refuse to cooperate with one another in any meaningful way. 00:06:03.580 |
The experience that I had being in Haiti was that every single Haitian is out to fight 00:06:10.980 |
against every other single Haitian on a daily basis. 00:06:17.860 |
My opinion or my theory is that it has something to do with the history of Haiti. 00:06:22.260 |
One thing that's very important to understand about the Haitian nation and culture is that 00:06:29.100 |
Haitians are extremely proud of their heritage as being the only successful black slave revolt 00:06:38.900 |
So as many black Africans were enslaved all around the world, in Haiti, the slaves were 00:06:43.100 |
able to rise up and defeat their masters in battle and create the only independent formerly 00:06:52.740 |
But as I reflected on it and thought about my own experience there, I thought this must 00:06:56.160 |
explain at least some of the horrifically unfriendly culture. 00:07:05.420 |
It seems like they don't ever want to take the lower place, the place of a servant. 00:07:10.900 |
Now I believe that the basic foundation of a functional society is the willingness that 00:07:18.260 |
neighbors, friends, co-workers, that we all have to serve one another. 00:07:23.180 |
I take that primarily from Christian theology. 00:07:25.500 |
Jesus taught that the greatest among you must be the servant of all. 00:07:29.260 |
And I see that throughout society, especially in a free capitalist society, the man who 00:07:34.300 |
can serve the most people in the most effective way is ultimately the man who winds up becoming 00:07:41.220 |
All of the greatest entrepreneurs of our culture, the people that we lionize, became well appreciated 00:07:46.700 |
by the public because they served the public effectively. 00:07:51.180 |
And in a country where we love one another and we serve one another, we can have lots 00:07:57.580 |
But if we aren't willing to humble ourselves and genuinely serve one another, all of our 00:08:09.180 |
Now it should be no surprise to you where Haiti is today because the situation that 00:08:14.340 |
you see today, the horrific, awful situation that you see today is the natural outgrowth 00:08:20.340 |
of this philosophy, this philosophy of battling with one another. 00:08:24.820 |
And when you bring all of the other human failings and sins into it, of corruption and 00:08:34.980 |
The other thing I want to point out to you is that you don't need a newspaper to tell 00:08:42.500 |
Yes, I speak a little bit of French and so I was able to have access to the Haitian culture. 00:08:47.180 |
But I didn't even need French to access that feeling. 00:08:51.780 |
I knew very, very quickly that something was dreadfully wrong in the society. 00:08:56.340 |
And I got out as quickly of the country as I was able to. 00:08:59.740 |
Today, there are thousands and thousands and thousands of people who are fleeing Haiti 00:09:04.660 |
trying to escape to the Dominican Republic or elsewhere, trying to escape to South America, 00:09:08.860 |
trying to get into the United States, across the border. 00:09:11.180 |
There are many, many people who are fleeing, but it's not easy to flee today. 00:09:15.140 |
It's not nearly as easy as it was many years ago. 00:09:17.700 |
So remember this other truth, that if you see a society heading in the wrong direction, 00:09:22.660 |
if you see people arguing with one another, unwilling to submit to one another, unwilling 00:09:26.580 |
to serve one another with a free and glad heart, make a plan. 00:09:31.700 |
This is one of the reasons why I built International Escape Plan, www.internationalescapeplan.com, 00:09:39.580 |
Any Haitian who got out of Haiti years ago is extremely satisfied with his choice today. 00:09:46.180 |
You do not want to be among those who are heading last minute to the airport or heading 00:09:49.940 |
last minute to the border, trying to bribe someone to get your way out so you and your 00:10:00.220 |
There's a reason why when I do Q&A calls, I always say, "How can I serve you today?" 00:10:06.780 |
I want to serve you every single day, and I want to spread the attitude of service in 00:10:13.820 |
every cultural corner of the world that I can myself impact with my example, with my 00:10:21.620 |
Service is the foundation of a healthy society. 00:10:24.060 |
And when that service is missing due to arrogant pride, ridiculous pride of your unwillingness 00:10:30.500 |
to humble yourself and serve another human being because of the cultural baggage of what 00:10:34.980 |
happened to your ancestors, you are never going to wind up in a good situation. 00:10:40.920 |
If you see problems happening in your country, if you see a breakdown of society, make a 00:10:48.740 |
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