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Chapters
0:0 Cal's intro
1:12 Cal talks about the context of his original talk
4:21 How TEDx changed the title
7:0 New York Times commissioned response op-ed
10:0 How Social Media companies shifted in 2016
12:55 Social Media universalism
18:0 Cambridge Analytica
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is because that was the title of the single video 00:00:18.700 |
I've ever produced that has been the most watched. 00:00:29.320 |
And that went on 8 million something views since then. 00:00:47.560 |
I thought it might be interesting to give the backstory 00:00:53.120 |
Then I wanna talk about what happened after it came out, 00:00:56.780 |
and then finally reflect on how do I think today, 00:01:00.420 |
five years later, about the points I was making then. 00:01:28.900 |
I did an article for the Harvard Business Review 00:01:32.260 |
that was titled "Modest Proposal, Eliminate Email," 00:01:38.680 |
that I later elaborated in my book, "A World Without Email," 00:01:44.020 |
And one of the other things that I talked about 00:01:47.480 |
There was a chapter on social media being distracting, 00:01:52.620 |
when there's deeper skills that are probably more valuable. 00:02:04.940 |
I had spent my entire adult life up to this point 00:02:14.900 |
I would travel around the country talking at colleges, 00:02:17.680 |
then eventually at large conferences and corporate events. 00:02:24.580 |
at Lincoln Center and at the World Domination Summit, 00:02:27.340 |
these type of places, as well as corporate gigs, 00:02:35.020 |
And when you're a talker who's been around for a while, 00:02:37.280 |
I used to get lots of invitations for TEDx conferences. 00:02:40.860 |
There was a time back then, 2014, 2015, 2016, 00:02:45.180 |
where TEDx conferences were popping up everywhere 00:02:48.780 |
And I would get those invitations all the time, 00:02:50.540 |
and I was like, "No, I'm not gonna go to a TEDx conference. 00:02:58.140 |
But when we were trying to promote deep work, 00:03:02.900 |
to introduce this idea of not using social media, 00:03:05.960 |
I had this idea that you know who does video best 00:03:11.440 |
when it comes to talks is these TEDx conferences. 00:03:20.880 |
So I said, "Okay, the next reasonable TEDx invitation I get, 00:03:23.920 |
"I'm gonna say yes, I'm gonna use that as a venue 00:03:26.020 |
"to give a fire-breathing talk about social media." 00:03:29.060 |
And a TEDx conference that was being held in Virginia, 00:03:35.620 |
And I said, "Yes, I don't really care what your theme is. 00:03:38.020 |
"I'm gonna come talk about quitting social media." 00:03:41.100 |
And so I wrote this talk, and it's a TED talk, 00:03:52.980 |
and its damages are bigger than people might think. 00:03:55.260 |
And I came to this TEDx talk, it was a small room, 00:03:58.220 |
it was like a classroom, there must have been, 00:04:09.180 |
Almost immediately, it made the organizers uncomfortable. 00:04:16.100 |
to say it with a straight face, without a ton of caveats, 00:04:20.860 |
So the first thing they did was change the title of my talk 00:04:35.820 |
here's what it's like to not use social media, 00:04:37.700 |
it's great, I was being purposefully provocative 00:04:40.420 |
and clear about it, and they changed the title, 00:04:42.580 |
because they were worried, this is eccentric. 00:04:45.140 |
Let's make it Working Deeply in a Distracted World. 00:04:50.820 |
is so that talk could be called Quit Social Media. 00:04:53.660 |
A talk called Quit Social Media will be posted by TED. 00:04:58.380 |
So they went back and they changed the talk back. 00:05:07.020 |
it's not like it's the most popular TEDx talk of all time, 00:05:09.580 |
but I think it's easily in the top 100 or top 50. 00:05:18.300 |
is that if I had given that same talk two years earlier, 00:05:23.140 |
That the timing of that talk was just perfect, 00:05:34.020 |
And to understand that there's a little bit of history 00:05:45.300 |
there was a lot of exuberance around social media. 00:05:58.420 |
that is a progressive force of good for the world, 00:06:13.120 |
During that period is when I began to build up a skepticism, 00:06:18.280 |
but about what I used to call social media universalism. 00:06:20.940 |
The idea that we all needed to be using social media, 00:06:23.060 |
I thought for most people, this is not that great. 00:06:27.320 |
most people are not bringing interesting new voices 00:06:31.140 |
most people are looking at their phone three hours a day 00:06:35.920 |
and the idea that we all have to be on where it's weird 00:06:44.560 |
So the TEDx organizers tried to change the name of my talk. 00:06:51.700 |
that argued that social media was not as important 00:06:58.320 |
The New York Times actually had to commission 00:07:10.780 |
I went on a major national radio show in Canada 00:07:19.860 |
here to tell you that social media is important, right? 00:07:22.380 |
Because it's so infuriated people that anyone say that. 00:07:25.180 |
There was a professor in this area here in DC 00:07:27.620 |
who was frantically trying to get me to come debate him. 00:07:31.500 |
Like he couldn't take that in a national publication 00:07:34.580 |
someone had said social media is not important. 00:07:39.140 |
and that's where things were when that talk came out. 00:07:47.620 |
that that quit social media talk was released 00:07:55.180 |
And it was the 2016 presidential election here in America. 00:08:01.300 |
And that election had a very unfortunate outcome 00:08:15.220 |
actually when I was promoting Deep Work in early 2016. 00:08:24.300 |
everyone was asking me about censorship on social media. 00:08:28.420 |
And this was not something that was in my normal orbit. 00:08:32.060 |
It's not something I'd heard about or encountered. 00:08:37.180 |
So I would get caught off guard by these questions. 00:08:45.020 |
where they said when we look at like what gets taken down 00:08:47.340 |
and what doesn't, it all comes from like a standard set 00:08:50.820 |
of relatively far to the left political perspective. 00:08:56.700 |
These companies are based in Northern California. 00:09:00.140 |
the political left is way more dominant there. 00:09:08.460 |
And then the election happened and Donald Trump won. 00:09:11.500 |
And it took a little while, about a half a year or so 00:09:15.580 |
but the left then began to get real upset about social media 00:09:20.140 |
because of their role in helping Donald Trump win. 00:09:33.700 |
I think it's often portrayed as they saw specific harms 00:09:38.660 |
that like Facebook was doing and that's why they were upset. 00:09:46.900 |
what really happened with the left and social media 00:09:51.420 |
the mainstream sort of political and cultural voices 00:09:55.980 |
entered a resistance mode after Donald Trump was elected. 00:09:58.980 |
Like our goal, the point of our paper and what we're doing 00:10:01.660 |
is there's an existential threat to our country. 00:10:14.140 |
Zuckerberg, a couple of years later, came to Georgetown, 00:10:20.660 |
They were trying to, they weren't supporting Donald Trump 00:10:24.940 |
but they were not ready to go full resistance mode. 00:10:41.100 |
And you're like, "Look, I'm no fan of the king, 00:10:43.860 |
but I also am not going to go to the Bastille." 00:10:49.900 |
Like the revolutionaries are going to see you 00:10:51.100 |
as with like a sort of bourgeois suspicion, right? 00:10:53.620 |
And I think this was a big thing that happened. 00:10:59.060 |
that was going on here where the left was like, 00:11:03.620 |
And so a lot of those mechanisms turned against it. 00:11:09.900 |
and you had like the delete Facebook movement 00:11:23.460 |
who maybe was not looking at these technologies 00:11:37.420 |
It had dislodged them from exuberant cool new technologies 00:11:41.180 |
to something that there's probably issues with, 00:11:44.460 |
And once it was in a category where we acknowledged 00:11:47.700 |
people that were far away from political concerns 00:11:52.940 |
I'm on this too much, I don't really like this. 00:11:58.220 |
So it took this particular political disruption 00:12:00.700 |
to change our cultural categorization of social media. 00:12:14.740 |
It was perfectly timed to a cultural awakening 00:12:21.260 |
but they were ready to hear an argument from my side. 00:12:39.620 |
So I think that's the story behind that video. 00:12:44.380 |
how do I feel about the issues I talked about in that video? 00:12:56.540 |
was my wariness of social media universalism. 00:13:08.420 |
that were engineering highly addictive experiences. 00:13:10.900 |
And I did not think it was good for the body politic. 00:13:14.780 |
that everyone had to be on Facebook and Twitter 00:13:23.740 |
Not that these were evil tools, but for most people, 00:13:25.900 |
it's the time it takes, the emotional labor it creates 00:13:54.060 |
I think in recent years, after this political disruption, 00:13:59.620 |
we are seeing a fragmentation of the social media universe. 00:14:17.540 |
Most people don't really care what's going on on Twitter. 00:14:20.060 |
There was things like Snapchat that rose and are gone. 00:14:22.620 |
We're in a moment now where TikTok has become really good, 00:14:28.900 |
where it would be considered weird to not use. 00:14:32.820 |
I was labeled a heretic for saying, "I don't use Facebook." 00:14:36.500 |
There is no such platform today, no matter how popular, 00:14:44.740 |
No one would bat an eye if you say, "I don't use TikTok." 00:14:50.020 |
and some people think dragons are kind of stupid. 00:14:58.340 |
"It's kind of toxic on there, anxiety-producing. 00:15:04.380 |
So what's gonna come next in the world of social media? 00:15:21.620 |
"Let's touch your brainstem in 30-second burst." 00:15:42.540 |
that are spending hundreds of billions of dollars 00:15:49.500 |
Like there's endless things they're trying to provide 00:15:51.380 |
distraction and you can choose which ones are best for you. 00:15:57.140 |
And like, we're getting to a point where that's all fine. 00:16:02.860 |
of different technological tools and innovations 00:16:05.500 |
coming and going, some getting popular, some falling, 00:16:09.940 |
but we'd never had this sense of universalism. 00:16:16.020 |
That was the world I was hoping for in that talk. 00:16:42.620 |
both the right and the left is out for blood. 00:16:44.620 |
You are our tribal enemy and we will destroy you. 00:16:48.940 |
I'm just saying like, hey, maybe don't use Facebook. 00:16:51.300 |
And I think that is a probably a good switch of affairs. 00:17:16.540 |
- The internet says that it was September 19th, 2016. 00:17:37.580 |
was the week after the presidential election. 00:17:44.220 |
before Cambridge Analytica, I think, helped did this. 00:17:47.660 |
There was like this general upswelling of, wait a second, 00:18:04.820 |
I mean, even, do you remember Cambridge Analytica? 00:18:08.140 |
- Right, this is like an interesting example. 00:18:16.660 |
was basically that there was like a Bond villain 00:18:22.580 |
that was on like a secret laser phone to Donald Trump, 00:18:34.420 |
It was what like everyone was doing, political or not. 00:18:46.700 |
like a few months before or something like that. 00:18:48.100 |
But like that was not some unusual use of Facebook. 00:18:53.460 |
You could go in and scrape all this information 00:18:57.300 |
And my contention is that like Facebook saw the danger 00:19:02.060 |
of people recognizing like, this is what we do. 00:19:05.180 |
We, you play the, you do the personality test 00:19:25.540 |
like broke into the data safe and was doing things. 00:19:27.660 |
And because they, so they were trying to desperately, 00:19:30.020 |
I believe, they did not want the story out there 00:19:32.780 |
that was like Cambridge Analytica reveals the extent 00:19:39.620 |
And so they were very successful, I think at the time 00:19:42.100 |
and making it seem like it was an exceptional case. 00:19:44.380 |
And the only real thing exceptional about it was like 00:19:50.700 |
but that was a standard academic research study play 00:19:59.580 |
So I really think they leaned in the trying to make it 00:20:05.460 |
And I think, because again, I think that was something 00:20:07.980 |
that Facebook felt like we can play on that ground 00:20:16.620 |
So that can't happen again and distract people 00:20:21.060 |
but it didn't work because of the political anger. 00:20:22.980 |
So even though they were like, yeah, we agree. 00:20:25.620 |
And we're gonna like change our privacy laws, 00:20:27.580 |
the sort of you were not enough on our side post Trump, 00:20:39.340 |
that they could be like, yeah, we're on your side. 00:20:42.940 |
We definitely did not encourage exactly that behavior 00:21:13.580 |
That smell is the grease trap of the kitchen below us.