back to indexEp. 210: Dictate How You Feel With Lifestyle-Centric Planning | Deep Questions With Cal Newport
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0:0 Cal's intro
5:22 Deep Dive
26:19 Cal talks about Magic Spoon and Miracle
30:43 How do I track a long-term project?
36:12 How often should I check email?
42:8 How do I get my workplace to be less "hyperactive"?
45:57 Listener case study
50:0 Cal talks about Ladder Life and Zoc Doc
53:26 Lifestyle-centric career planning
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What I care about is, do I have the opportunities where I am? 00:00:04.760 |
Do I have the opportunities right now to make my life something I really like that's really 00:00:08.480 |
And for me, the person speaking in the voice of the person that book, that's probably staying 00:00:12.000 |
in the Pacific Northwest and finding the right skill set that allows you to not be stressed 00:00:20.480 |
Career serves your life because ultimately your daily experience of your life is what 00:00:26.680 |
Life justice or career planning is the natural consequence of that truism. 00:00:32.140 |
I'm Cal Newport and this is Deep Questions, episode 210. 00:00:49.420 |
I have always thought that in another life, Scotland is probably where I belong. 00:00:56.920 |
I'm a pale skinned, don't like being hot intellectual who likes dramatic, quiet, natural 00:01:06.640 |
So imagine an alternative universe in which I live in Edinburgh near the city, little 00:01:13.840 |
townhouse, the garden out back that I tend to where I can go on my morning walk and see 00:01:19.320 |
But then I also have the small house on some aisle off of the Scottish coast where I go 00:01:27.540 |
to think and write and walk in the drizzle with my barber jacket as I think deep thoughts. 00:01:33.960 |
I mean, I think this is probably what I'm wired to be doing. 00:01:47.400 |
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All right, so let me give you the summary of the show ahead of us today. 00:03:21.720 |
There are three segments, three segments in today's episode. 00:03:27.680 |
Segment number one will be a deep dive because Jesse is not here to constrain me. 00:03:39.280 |
This is me putting on, I guess I would say, the different hats I wear, more my New Yorker 00:03:44.040 |
hat and I go deep into a theoretical framework for understanding the media economy of the 00:03:52.560 |
Once you understand this framework, it really will help you make sense of the history of 00:03:56.160 |
the internet, where we're going, why things we're trying right now won't work, what things 00:04:04.080 |
So beware, we have some geekiness ahead of us. 00:04:06.360 |
Segment two will be focused on working deeply in an increasingly distracted world of work. 00:04:14.560 |
A good collection of pragmatic questions, real readers, real listeners with real issues 00:04:22.000 |
We will end that segment two with a new feature, a reader case study. 00:04:28.140 |
So I have a brief case study to read of someone reporting back on successfully deploying one 00:04:34.600 |
of the ideas we talked about on the show in her own working life. 00:04:39.940 |
Jesse is working on the technology infrastructure required to actually do some of these work 00:04:49.600 |
So my goal is to eventually be able to have listeners call in live, talk with me back 00:04:53.820 |
and forth and give us reports on what has been working for them in their life. 00:04:59.140 |
Segment number three, focus on living deeply. 00:05:03.940 |
And here we have another new feature to try out. 00:05:10.780 |
We will have a listener question, motivate a topic relevant to living deeply in a world 00:05:15.700 |
that's increasingly shallow and upset and distracted. 00:05:19.580 |
And then I will give a series of lessons on this skill on this topic. 00:05:27.280 |
So without further ado, and I really do mean that because to keep today's recording even 00:05:33.100 |
more interesting, I'm looking at my watch now. 00:05:35.120 |
I have a call with my doctoral student in one hour and eight minutes. 00:05:45.620 |
Nothing like having a little bit of motivation to keep moving. 00:05:51.980 |
I call this deep dive loops, networks and links. 00:05:59.660 |
What I'm going to talk about here is something you probably never knew you should care about, 00:06:03.180 |
which is distributed curation of user generated content online. 00:06:08.620 |
That is the most boring title you have probably heard. 00:06:11.740 |
This is why most people don't think about it, but it is actually a subject that is incredibly 00:06:15.340 |
important for understanding the dynamics of the current Internet economy. 00:06:21.420 |
So let me start with the backdrop to this discussion, which is this idea that right 00:06:26.180 |
now, if we look at the Internet economy, there are companies making a huge amount of money 00:06:33.380 |
monetizing content generated by users, largely unpaid users generating content, making lots 00:06:43.860 |
We're talking about some of the biggest corporations in the world right now are using this model. 00:06:51.100 |
So it's not just here's a nice niche where some people made some money monetizing user 00:06:56.700 |
generated content on the Internet has become a massive industry. 00:07:07.580 |
This idea that you could make a lot of money off of this type of content. 00:07:11.580 |
So quick beats of the timeline leading up to this current state of our economy before 00:07:16.940 |
the web, for the consumer facing web became available in the 1990s. 00:07:23.340 |
There was basically no way to make a lot of money off user generated content. 00:07:26.700 |
The model was, if you're a media company, pay a small number of talented people to create 00:07:33.140 |
content to be consumed by a lot of consumers. 00:07:36.380 |
It's not user generated content, it's highly paid professional generated content. 00:07:42.720 |
So if you were trying to reach a very broad audience, like you're a national television 00:07:46.380 |
network, there could be a lot of competition for this talent because you wanted the best 00:07:49.780 |
television writer, you wanted the best actor and they could be really highly paid. 00:07:53.260 |
But this model didn't require the superstar economics because of localization. 00:07:56.780 |
This is why you had conglomerates like Gannett become really, really big because they found 00:08:08.540 |
You pay people who are as good as anyone else who's writing for your particular market, 00:08:14.220 |
then you can make money off of everyone who lives in that market. 00:08:22.500 |
Now it is possible for individuals to create content that can be consumed by anyone else. 00:08:30.340 |
We got to emphasize that this was a major transformation in the history of media production, 00:08:39.580 |
that now anyone could produce content that could be generated by anyone else. 00:08:43.460 |
We're talking, of course, almost primarily about written content here. 00:08:47.140 |
This did not change the main media economics yet. 00:08:54.220 |
You had to hand code HTML often to try to put stuff online. 00:08:59.220 |
Most of the leveraging of the first web revolution was actually by media companies that already 00:09:04.900 |
were using the old model, small number of highly paid writers serving lots of people 00:09:16.260 |
You got existing creators like Time Magazine realizing if we release on the web, it's cheaper 00:09:26.540 |
This is the major turning point in the economics of content. 00:09:32.900 |
Web 2.0, which happens once we get to the new millennium, is where we made it easier 00:09:40.140 |
for people to publish information on the web. 00:09:44.580 |
Now instead of hand coding HTML, you can type into a box and click submit or click post. 00:09:53.400 |
For the old school web geeks among you, there is small technical innovations that were critical 00:09:58.100 |
here like AJAX, asynchronous JavaScript, that made it possible for you to send information 00:10:03.100 |
from a website to a server, have that server update the website without having to reload 00:10:08.300 |
These are the little innovations that made web 2.0 possible. 00:10:10.740 |
Now it was easy enough that almost anyone could generate content. 00:10:13.460 |
This made it possible to generate a ton of content. 00:10:16.580 |
But before we could mine this new resource, this information resource into massive companies 00:10:23.200 |
and into massive monetizations, curation had to be solved. 00:10:28.460 |
And this is what I want to talk about is the evolution of curation once web 2.0 came along. 00:10:34.780 |
Because it turns out having a lot of people generating content does you no good. 00:10:39.300 |
If you're trying to make money, selling content does you no good if you can't select for your 00:10:49.960 |
So this goes back to the title of my deep dive loops, networks and links. 00:10:54.940 |
These are the three dominant models of curation of user generated content that emerged. 00:11:02.660 |
This were first then the network model, then the loop model, I want to walk through these 00:11:06.580 |
three models briefly, how they work and their advantages and disadvantages. 00:11:10.220 |
And I think this will help clarify a lot of what we see going on. 00:11:13.900 |
Alright, so the, the first effective model for curating user generated content in the 00:11:24.820 |
When I say link, I'm talking about hyperlinks. 00:11:28.220 |
This is how the blogosphere worked during those early years of this content production 00:11:34.980 |
It is a distributed curation method that is very human. 00:11:40.420 |
It is based on human webs of trust that are augmented with digital technology. 00:11:47.420 |
If I'm going to enter the world of blogs and websites that are linked to each other, I'm 00:11:51.980 |
going to enter it in a place where I have a pre established trust relationship. 00:11:56.100 |
Okay, I know this person, this person has a foot in traditional media, maybe I've seen 00:12:01.460 |
their newspaper column, they write books I care about. 00:12:04.380 |
Friends of mine have really pushed, this is the smart person that you need to read. 00:12:07.620 |
Okay, so I enter into this web of trust relationships through an entryway of pre existing trust. 00:12:13.500 |
I then see who are the people I already trust linking to. 00:12:19.620 |
If sufficient people link to a new source of information, a new blog or a new website, 00:12:24.740 |
and that website has sufficient aesthetic capital, that it's trustworthy, it's not a 00:12:30.820 |
weird gray background website with animated gifs of eagles and what have you, then that 00:12:38.780 |
I will trust that too, and I will begin to consume that content. 00:12:41.380 |
Now that new site when it's linking to something else, again, will help convey trust into these 00:12:49.620 |
So ultimately, this is humans building trust, then using that trust to expand where you 00:13:00.780 |
This was remarkably effective, it actually works really good at if you actually stick 00:13:07.140 |
with it, excavating really interesting quality sources of information you might not have 00:13:13.620 |
otherwise had access to, and more importantly, filtering out the weirdness. 00:13:16.980 |
Because it's very difficult in this model, it's very difficult to get into someone's 00:13:22.740 |
So weird conspiratorial work, blatant misinformation, just general emotional outrage and ickiness 00:13:32.140 |
could not gain a lot of traction in the link model of curation, because it would never 00:13:38.620 |
It is very hard in other words to see something like QAnon gain a lot of traction in let's 00:13:45.900 |
say 2006 online ecosystem, because for one of these blogs, if you're one of these initial 00:13:53.500 |
somewhat eccentric QAnon conspiracy theorists, how is that going to get into a web of trust 00:14:03.060 |
The disadvantages were two, one, it was hard to monetize this type of world of user generated 00:14:10.900 |
The blogosphere was famously hard to monetize both for large networks and individual content 00:14:20.620 |
Yet the individual writers, it was hard to aggregate them. 00:14:26.260 |
And there's a lot of interesting oral history on trying to make money off that model. 00:14:36.560 |
So if I want to consume content, I have to do a lot of work. 00:14:39.940 |
You actually have to spend a lot of time online. 00:14:41.700 |
You have to see, build trust, expand this web of trust. 00:14:44.660 |
This takes a lot of time surfing, following links, being exposed. 00:14:51.340 |
If you wanted to create content, it was even harder. 00:14:57.700 |
So this was the flip side of the filtering and curation being very effective. 00:15:02.180 |
It allowed a lot more voices than existed in the world of newspapers, TV and radio only. 00:15:06.540 |
But it was really hard if you're starting from scratch to gain access to these webs 00:15:11.060 |
I mean, I remember in the early days of my blog at calnewport.com, when I used to focus 00:15:16.120 |
only on student advice, I specifically remember being very frustrated when I would see links 00:15:28.060 |
Lifehacker was one that comes to mind, to other student advice sources that I thought 00:15:39.780 |
Eventually, I gathered enough trust to get linked to a lot by those types of sources, 00:15:44.860 |
So it was not very exciting for content creators. 00:15:58.660 |
They figured out, okay, if we have a social network where we make it easy for anyone to 00:16:05.500 |
create content, so now we can greatly increase the pool of possible content out there by 00:16:12.780 |
So you don't have to worry about what you look like. 00:16:14.580 |
You don't have to worry about doing the hard effort of gaining aesthetic capital to convince 00:16:23.580 |
You don't have to set up a blog WordPress account somewhere. 00:16:27.020 |
You just sign up for this account, click these buttons. 00:16:29.940 |
And if we can get people, they realize, to do the work on their own of teaching us who 00:16:34.900 |
their friends are, we can leverage that underlying social graph to do the curation. 00:16:41.460 |
So now instead of people having to do the individual hard work of being on the internet 00:16:45.800 |
a lot and following links and building up this web of trust, you can have a newsfeed. 00:16:51.180 |
The newsfeed will fill in with what's interesting to you. 00:16:53.260 |
And what Facebook realized is, well, if we see what your self-declared friends are interested 00:16:58.980 |
in, we will guess you're probably interested in that too. 00:17:02.700 |
We can use friend relationships plus a little bit of magic secret sauce and to try to keep 00:17:06.800 |
redundant information, keep things fresh to curate for you stuff based off of your friend 00:17:16.540 |
Instagram followed up that model, but with images. 00:17:20.940 |
So now everyone can be involved in producing content and you can get a pretty well curated 00:17:25.980 |
stream of stuff that's interesting to you without having to do too much work. 00:17:37.380 |
Facebook eventually copied this model as well where they added their share button. 00:17:41.020 |
The retweet model says, let's make it really easy for you to share a piece of content with 00:17:48.860 |
And those people who you're directly connected to that really like the content will do the 00:17:54.300 |
Now if you model this out mathematically, what you see is that the most compelling content 00:17:59.700 |
on the network at any one point can dramatically, with dramatic speed, spread to huge swaths 00:18:09.740 |
So this was an even more dynamic and aggressive source of distributed curation. 00:18:19.780 |
You do the work of propagating stuff you like with this low friction retweet or in Facebook's 00:18:26.780 |
And the resulting fierce viral dynamics will become an incredibly effective distributed 00:18:32.060 |
selection mechanism for things that will engage people. 00:18:38.340 |
Facebook was interesting to see what your friends are up to and sharing. 00:18:40.740 |
But Twitter, man, it would come out of left field with things. 00:18:43.540 |
It was almost magical in the trends it would unearth. 00:18:51.780 |
That's not Hal 2000 sitting somewhere learning about the human psyche. 00:18:56.980 |
It's 100 million users making hundreds of retweet or not decisions every day. 00:19:06.460 |
Leverage homogenized interfaces and leverage these networks, these social networks to help 00:19:13.220 |
curate the content created within these closed garden networks. 00:19:23.020 |
Very easy to monetize because these networks work within closed gardens. 00:19:27.220 |
Disadvantage, you homogenize all the aesthetics of the content and the curation becomes obfuscated. 00:19:33.300 |
You just get this feed of stuff that's interesting and all looks the same. 00:19:37.020 |
Now suddenly the QAnon, the proverbial QAnon conspiracy theorist who would never be able 00:19:41.700 |
to enter the web of trust in 2005 can easily spread and gain traction in 2015. 00:19:51.460 |
Curation is happening more behind the scenes. 00:19:52.940 |
It's not based off of these more natural deeply human trust relationships. 00:19:58.700 |
Other disadvantage of course is the viral dynamics, especially the retweet share dynamics 00:20:03.420 |
led to a lot of unexpected externalities, tribalism, outrage culture, mob swarms, heavy 00:20:13.820 |
feedback influence on, for example, media outlets where then you have reporters. 00:20:18.220 |
So fearful of the fierce pushback possible that can happen overnight because of these 00:20:24.260 |
fierce dynamics starting to really start to tailor what they say or don't say. 00:20:27.620 |
Then you get the balkanization of media coverage itself and there's all these externalities 00:20:33.060 |
Twitter was not Dr. No with his cat on his island off of Jamaica with an evil plot to 00:20:43.140 |
They just wanted people to spend time on their service. 00:20:47.300 |
All right, moving quickly now, model number three is the loop. 00:20:56.780 |
So now what we do with the loop is you basically take the human out of the equation and you 00:21:03.300 |
use simple but devastatingly effective machine learning loops to just select for you as an 00:21:08.600 |
individual from the whole pool of potential content what to show you. 00:21:13.180 |
No shares required, no retweets required, no you going through and telling the network 00:21:19.540 |
And again, to the technicalities of this, what really happens with these machine learning 00:21:23.320 |
loops is that all of the content is embedded in some sort of multidimensional statistical 00:21:31.340 |
It looks at how long you watch each video to try to assess your preference towards that 00:21:38.240 |
This gives it some weighted cores in this multidimensional space that it can then weight 00:21:42.200 |
its selections of future videos by what's going to be closer to one of these cores, 00:21:46.200 |
blah, blah, blah, nerd, nerd, nerd, math, math, math. 00:21:52.440 |
You start watching videos, scrolling up and down. 00:21:54.960 |
It gathers that data, do this for half a day. 00:21:58.560 |
And it seems like TikTok knows you better than the people who are closest to you. 00:22:02.220 |
So it was an incredibly effective way of doing this. 00:22:04.720 |
Of course, services like YouTube do something similar, but YouTube is more complicated. 00:22:11.600 |
It doesn't purify this model nearly as well as TikTok, which is just this model purified. 00:22:17.280 |
Videos full screen, swipe when you're done, we'll send you the next. 00:22:22.640 |
And when you purify this model, you saw it was probably one of the most effective curation 00:22:29.120 |
So again, the advantages, no social graph needed. 00:22:35.080 |
You just need a reasonable pool of content and a machine learning loop. 00:22:40.640 |
And you can be titillating people in a very effective way. 00:22:44.160 |
Disadvantages, this is like the fentanyl of distraction. 00:22:50.360 |
It is distraction now completely purified by any even attempt to connect it to community 00:22:56.480 |
relationships or being up on the news or exposure to interesting people. 00:23:00.680 |
It is just let's go straight to the brainstem and inject that chemical. 00:23:07.920 |
So it is all humanity is now being stripped out of the curation loop. 00:23:12.620 |
So we started with 2005 rich humanity, but hard to monetize, hard to use. 00:23:19.400 |
2015, now you have this sort of we're exploiting human things like our friendship networks 00:23:30.240 |
Let's call this we're gonna use a drug metaphor, kind of cocaine of distraction. 00:23:38.340 |
And we purify down, get the human out of the loop altogether, purify the curation down 00:23:45.060 |
And we are living in a tent city drooling out the side of our mouth, waiting to overdose. 00:23:52.680 |
All right, so that is the history of distributed curation of user generated content. 00:24:01.920 |
Once we understand this, a lot of the recent history of the Internet economy makes sense. 00:24:05.280 |
Like here, for example, is two practical takeaways. 00:24:10.120 |
One, we lost something special when we left the link based curation. 00:24:15.360 |
Now, I understand we can't go back to a world where the only type of user generated content 00:24:22.520 |
We can't go back to a pure 2005 blogosphere world. 00:24:25.280 |
But couldn't we add this world back to what we have today? 00:24:28.960 |
Isn't there a market out there for this more human web, a trust based, slower, harder, 00:24:33.560 |
better quality connection, better quality information, really effective filtering of 00:24:39.520 |
the weird and the conspiratorial and the based and loose foundations? 00:24:43.440 |
Isn't there some sort of revivification of the blog that at least the sort of expert 00:24:50.200 |
class or sub expert class could be participating in? 00:24:53.040 |
Maybe podcasts are doing this, but there's not a lot of, we don't have the same links. 00:24:58.480 |
Two, once you understand distributed curation, you see that it is difficult to fix the 00:25:03.360 |
negative side effects of in particular the network and loop based curation models through 00:25:14.000 |
It's we're mixing too much two different things here. 00:25:16.480 |
So if you think you can go in and solve the negative of the let's say, Twitter based retweet 00:25:22.000 |
fierce viral dynamics by having humans in the loop, trying to kick people off of Twitter, 00:25:29.640 |
These are two completely different types of dynamics going on. 00:25:32.480 |
Same thing with TikTok, this fiercely effective machine learning loop. 00:25:36.560 |
What are you going to do when you don't like all the outcomes of that is like have a human 00:25:43.640 |
If you want to get away from the negative side effects of these distributed curation 00:25:46.920 |
models, you have to actually change the cultural zeitgeist to push people onto other sources 00:25:51.320 |
of interaction, other sources of distraction, other sources of engagement. 00:25:55.320 |
I don't know that you can come in and fix something so cybernetically effective as the 00:26:00.160 |
TikTok machine learning loop or, or Twitter retweets with a board of safety. 00:26:05.360 |
What we need to do is convince people that they shouldn't really be on Twitter that much 00:26:11.000 |
But anyways, two takeaways just to show you that once you have these frameworks, you can 00:26:17.000 |
All right, well, that's what we get when Jesse's away. 00:26:21.840 |
I geek out longer than I should, but that is my deep dive. 00:26:24.720 |
All right, I want to move on to some pragmatic questions about working deeper. 00:26:30.520 |
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All right, let's coffee up here and get to some questions about working deeply. 00:31:11.040 |
First question comes from Newport Novice who asks, can you describe how you manage a semester 00:31:20.480 |
long project using your system, particularly your Trello boards? 00:31:26.240 |
All right, good in the weeds technical question. 00:31:31.360 |
Remember I like to think about my quote unquote systems as organizational systems, not productivity 00:31:39.600 |
So I make this distinction because organizational systems mean systems to keep track of and 00:31:44.360 |
schedule the work that you've decided you need to do in such a way that you do it on 00:31:48.400 |
time at a high level quality without unnecessary stress. 00:31:52.720 |
The question about what you should be working on, how you decide to work on, how you structure 00:31:58.640 |
Those are these sort of bigger picture questions that all fall under the header of productivity. 00:32:03.160 |
There's a lot of big existential questions about the point of work to answer at the level 00:32:07.960 |
So just to set ourselves into a common conceptual map here for this question, we're honing in 00:32:14.480 |
Once you know what you want to do, what's the right way to organize that work? 00:32:19.120 |
So I want to focus in answering this question on my multi-scale planning approach to organizing 00:32:27.400 |
This I think is what is most relevant for shepherding a long project through to completion. 00:32:33.840 |
All right, so let's start with the quarterly plan, your quarterly plan, or if you're in 00:32:40.080 |
This is where that project is going to live once you start working on it. 00:32:43.400 |
It's where you make a note to yourself, I'm working on this during this quarter. 00:32:48.040 |
Here's where I'm trying to get, here's the milestones I'm trying to hit, any scheduling 00:32:52.400 |
heuristics that are relevant, like, okay, to do this, I need to spend at least two mornings 00:32:57.120 |
So why don't I protect Tuesday and Thursday mornings? 00:32:59.960 |
All of that, what you're working on, where you're trying to get, any heuristics about 00:33:03.760 |
how you're going to work on it, that all goes in your quarterly plan. 00:33:07.000 |
You look at your quarterly plan at the beginning of each week when you create a weekly plan 00:33:13.280 |
This is where the intention of working on the project gets translated into an actual 00:33:24.880 |
So it's here when you look at your quarterly plan and say, oh, my idea is to work on this 00:33:28.880 |
thing Tuesday and Thursdays every morning, that now you might block out those Tuesdays 00:33:35.720 |
Or you put your note on the weekly plan about every day, do a little bit of work on this 00:33:39.240 |
or whatever you need to do, but it's where you actually figure out where this work is 00:33:42.560 |
So of course, each individual day of your work week, you look at your calendar, you 00:33:47.280 |
look at your weekly plan, you build your time block plan for the day and the actual work 00:33:53.960 |
Now how does this intersect with task management systems? 00:33:58.360 |
You know, I use Trello, other people use other things to manage their tasks. 00:34:05.600 |
If the project generates ongoing tasks and discussions, then using your task management 00:34:10.940 |
system to keep track of what needs to be done, information relevant to those things, and 00:34:17.280 |
keeping track of, let's say, people you were waiting to hear back from. 00:34:22.440 |
This is a really important role for the task management system to play. 00:34:28.320 |
So let's say I'm working on a project that's organizing a conference. 00:34:34.320 |
I'm probably going to have a lot of specific tasks related to that. 00:34:37.080 |
And if this is a big ongoing project, I'll give it its own column in Trello. 00:34:41.680 |
And each task will have its own card, I can attach relevant files to these cards. 00:34:50.360 |
Here's I typed up notes from the last meeting about sponsors, I can just attach those notes 00:34:58.080 |
So all your information is in one place, you have clarity about what needs to be done. 00:35:02.080 |
You see that all in your task management system. 00:35:04.480 |
I would also in this situation, really heavily lean into the waiting to hear back from column, 00:35:09.920 |
really critical that you don't rely on just seeing an old email in your inbox as a reminder 00:35:14.680 |
here you want to have a card in your system in your Trello system or whatever you use, 00:35:18.680 |
where you keep track of specifically, I am waiting to hear back from Bob about sponsor 00:35:26.920 |
So it's there, it's not in your head, it's not just in your inbox. 00:35:30.880 |
So your task management system is going to help you keep track of all the different information 00:35:37.600 |
So your multiplayer, multi scale planning, make sure that you don't forget about the 00:35:41.360 |
project that gets scheduled things get executed, your task management system keeps track of 00:35:47.400 |
Some projects, however, are more uniform in their execution, they don't really require 00:35:54.240 |
So for example, I'm writing the book right now. 00:35:57.540 |
This doesn't generate tasks for the most part, to go into my task management system. 00:36:03.320 |
It's just something I'm working on most days. 00:36:06.160 |
So it's obviously a big goal in my semester plan that I see when I make my weekly plan 00:36:10.240 |
and I make sure I have plenty of time to write and if I maybe I'm losing a morning somewhere 00:36:13.520 |
in my week, I'm going to protect an afternoon somewhere else to catch up on that time. 00:36:16.920 |
So I do a lot of thinking about when am I going to write, but the actual activity is 00:36:27.640 |
So multi scale planning is how you get from conception down to execution. 00:36:31.520 |
Task management systems enter the scene if and when there's details of the execution 00:36:38.800 |
All right, question two, about deep work comes from Aron, who says, I'm curious about how 00:36:49.240 |
you approach budgeting time for email checks. 00:36:53.960 |
I recently read an academic paper that found on average, the optimal number of email checks 00:36:58.280 |
for mitigating stress is two to four times per day. 00:37:00.680 |
I find four leads to too much hyperactive hive minding, but one leads to stress accumulating 00:37:15.980 |
I don't know if this is the paper you're thinking about, but there's a good paper I cite in 00:37:19.400 |
my book, A World Without Email that was written by Gloria Mark, lead authored by Gloria Mark 00:37:24.960 |
of UC Irvine, that studied stress in relationship to email. 00:37:29.960 |
They used heart rate monitors and cameras that could look for heat blooms on workers' 00:37:34.600 |
faces and they could cross what we call it, correlate this data with logs that kept track 00:37:43.120 |
And they found that, look, if you batch your email, everyone says, check your email once 00:37:47.120 |
That is really stressful because you know there's stuff building up you're not getting 00:37:53.760 |
They found that this stress was particularly acute for some people more than others. 00:37:57.620 |
If you want to use the big five personality inventory, those who rate high on trait neuroticism 00:38:05.280 |
I think it's an important observation because it underscores a point I make in that book 00:38:10.880 |
You do not solve the problems generated by email by having better habits for interacting 00:38:18.580 |
You have to stop all those stressful emails from landing in your inbox in the first place. 00:38:24.640 |
So I don't really think that much about how many times should you check your email should 00:38:30.360 |
What I care about is how do you change the role email plays in your work so that no matter 00:38:34.120 |
when you check your email, it's not stressful. 00:38:39.400 |
It's not something that if you wait to do for most of the day, that it's going to be 00:38:47.480 |
You have to rethink the role of email in all of your work processes so that you do not 00:39:00.040 |
One, remember that the real productivity poison when it comes to email is messages that arrive 00:39:07.580 |
at unscheduled times and will require your response. 00:39:12.480 |
And figuring out the basic processes you use to execute your work. 00:39:18.640 |
Not complexity, not time required to get something done. 00:39:23.120 |
Number of unscheduled messages that require a response. 00:39:29.920 |
Knowing that at any moment, messages could be arriving that require a response sooner 00:39:35.180 |
As long as that is largely the reality of how you interact with your inbox, you will 00:39:38.440 |
have to be in there all the time, which is very distracting, or trying to batch and be 00:39:44.840 |
Second heuristic I'll briefly mention for taming your inbox is remembering that email 00:39:51.240 |
is best for delivering information, contracts, files, announcements, or non-urgent questions 00:40:05.160 |
So if I need to know, can you remind me again when your trip to Georgia is? 00:40:11.960 |
That's a great use of email, I can send it to you. 00:40:15.000 |
It's not stressful when you see that message, you can answer it whenever it's not urgent. 00:40:19.880 |
And that's a much better way for me to get that information than interrupt you or to 00:40:25.000 |
Anything beyond that, and in particular, back and forth conversation, anything that requires 00:40:28.400 |
back and forth conversation, find another place to do it. 00:40:33.040 |
And don't just say Slack because that creates the same problem if I have to keep monitoring 00:40:38.640 |
Office hours, like we talked about in episode two of nine, docket clearing meetings with 00:40:43.000 |
your team, informal conversation, I grab you in the hallway when I see you passing by, 00:40:49.480 |
"Hey, quick question, can we figure this out?" or tacking things on to existing meetings. 00:40:54.120 |
"Hey, as long as we're here talking about whatever, let's handle X, Y, and Z real fast 00:40:59.400 |
So, I use email for back and forth conversation. 00:41:04.980 |
I've had this happen twice in the last week, and really, this captures my frustration with 00:41:18.280 |
Someone will send an email to me and a couple other people, usually like a scheduling type 00:41:23.440 |
of thing, like, "Hey, when are we going to get together on this?" 00:41:25.320 |
And they'll send this email like in the one case at four o'clock. 00:41:29.960 |
I don't see it because I didn't happen to check email after four o'clock. 00:41:32.760 |
And maybe the next day, I finally get the check in email after I write and it's noon, 00:41:36.800 |
and they have a bunch of back and forth discussion that's ended with like having to call me out 00:41:45.520 |
As if like something weird happened, like I must have somehow missed or ignored their 00:41:49.280 |
thread because I didn't answer it at 4.30 or at 9 a.m. the next morning. 00:41:54.360 |
And whenever I encountered that, and that's happened to me twice, one of them was 4 p.m. 00:41:58.760 |
the message was sent and by like 10 a.m. the next morning, they were repeating it for me. 00:42:05.760 |
And by Sunday, this person was saying, "Cal, what's going on? 00:42:11.420 |
When I see that, I say, "Okay, this is someone who is completely captured in the hyperactive 00:42:16.000 |
Your entire work is just doing these back and forth ongoing conversations. 00:42:19.720 |
And if that's the way you do all of your work, you're dependent on everyone else to do the 00:42:39.400 |
Fizz says, "I tried to get my workplace to listen to your podcast and read your books, 00:42:48.160 |
The pause for long enough to actually listen or read them. 00:42:51.800 |
This startup is my first job out of engineering school. 00:42:54.260 |
And to me, it seems like my boss is more concerned with looking busy than actual impact. 00:43:00.360 |
I often get requests from my boss at noon for something he wants done by the end of 00:43:05.800 |
Following your advice to build career capital, this means that I usually stay late and work 00:43:09.320 |
50 hour weeks to meet these short turnaround times. 00:43:12.360 |
How can I push back against this hyperactivity despite not having earned the career capital 00:43:23.080 |
You're new to the world of work based on your elaboration. 00:43:26.120 |
So it's one of your first jobs and it's at a startup. 00:43:32.440 |
So much as I appreciate the advertising for all of my young listeners out there, all my 00:43:40.600 |
22 year old listeners in their first job, do not push my stuff on people in your office. 00:43:48.680 |
I will become a, that will be a big source of annoyance. 00:43:51.280 |
If you say, listen to Cal Newport, they will say, fill the copier, change the copier ink. 00:44:00.980 |
What you do is you deliver and you deliver faster than your boss expects at a higher 00:44:10.760 |
If they put something on your plate, it's going to get done. 00:44:12.560 |
If that schedule has to be changed, you'll tell them it has to be changed. 00:44:15.080 |
And you deliver when you said it was going to get it done. 00:44:17.520 |
You become reliable, you become indispensable and you become someone who is known as a producer. 00:44:24.320 |
This is the fastest way to accrue career capital when you are new to a position. 00:44:29.000 |
Once you accrue this career capital, then you can start to use this as leverage. 00:44:36.060 |
Then you can get to the place where I was just ranting about, where I said, if you send 00:44:40.120 |
me an email at four and then bother me at 10 the next morning, I'm not apologizing. 00:44:44.800 |
In fact, I might wait a little bit longer before I respond. 00:44:48.400 |
And the way you get there is at first you deliver, you're indispensable, you produce 00:44:55.640 |
Once you have established this, they're going to want you to stay. 00:44:57.840 |
They're going to promote you to new positions. 00:44:59.200 |
It's in that upward movement that you deploy your career capital leverage. 00:45:03.480 |
But until then, like, yeah, it's not unreasonable in a startup that this is kind of what you 00:45:08.560 |
You're the guy who turns the thing around for your boss that he needs in a few hours. 00:45:18.000 |
You better know where you're trying to head so that as you build this capital, you know 00:45:22.120 |
what to do with it, that you don't just chase what's the next rung of immediate admiration. 00:45:28.520 |
What's the thing that's going to make my boss the happiest? 00:45:30.220 |
What's the thing that's going to impress my friends from business school? 00:45:32.080 |
The most you have to know where you're going so you can deploy this capital when the time 00:45:36.000 |
I talk about this in my book, so good they can't ignore you. 00:45:41.400 |
Trap number one, which is what you're falling into until you've really earned some career 00:45:48.640 |
But trap number two, once you have some capital, you're probably so good. 00:45:53.280 |
There will be all the pressure in the world to just move up to the next rank. 00:45:57.600 |
More money, more responsibility, more respect in this very narrow world in which you happen 00:46:01.320 |
to work and not exercise your autonomy at all. 00:46:08.240 |
The third segment of the show is I'm going to do a deep life academy segment on lifestyle 00:46:15.640 |
So you will get all the lessons you need about how to make sure you have the right vision 00:46:19.640 |
So once you do build up this capital, you'll know where to go and then you can start recommending 00:46:34.920 |
She says, this is not a new question, just a follow up on a question I sent before. 00:46:42.640 |
My question at the time was about the fact that I'm a writer who works at home and seem 00:46:47.680 |
to be able to consistently do whatever I wanted first thing in the morning, but then having 00:46:52.480 |
trouble ever moving on to the second thing I want to do due to the distractions of being 00:47:00.080 |
So update since then, I think I've solved the problem by renting a small office near 00:47:08.400 |
Now I'm exercising first thing and then I go into the office just like a normal pre-COVID 00:47:16.120 |
So it's up to you whether you choose to use my question or not, but I feel like I've solved 00:47:35.520 |
There are lots of things we freely spend money on without even really thinking about it. 00:47:40.880 |
But for some reason we have this resistance about, I don't want to spend money on a workspace 00:47:46.080 |
if I'm a remote worker, if I don't have to go to an office, I don't want to spend money 00:47:50.000 |
on a workspace near my home because technically you don't need it. 00:47:58.200 |
But the difference in experience about having a place to go versus not is worth quite a 00:48:03.920 |
So let's say, this is a quick thought example building on this case study. 00:48:16.960 |
So in this thought experiment, you live in Kensington, relatively expensive house. 00:48:25.400 |
So you have a home office and your house in Kensington, but your dogs are there and, and 00:48:29.720 |
your kids come home from school and whatever, right? 00:48:34.520 |
The TV is always playing and you find yourself really distracted. 00:48:40.240 |
If you could have a office to go to near your house, your productivity, happiness, sustainability 00:48:47.640 |
Now let's say you're spending all your money. 00:48:50.840 |
Well, now that you're really remote, you move out of Kensington. 00:48:55.180 |
You move for whatever reason, you've always had this dream of having land. 00:49:06.200 |
My local listeners know who I'm talking about here. 00:49:07.880 |
This is actually a real person we know who's doing this and you have some land and a barn 00:49:11.760 |
and, and, and you know, it's cheaper to live there. 00:49:15.740 |
And then you can, you go and rent a little bit of office space in the nearby downtown 00:49:20.080 |
and it's still cheaper than where you live before. 00:49:21.720 |
You kind of live in this cool place and you have this land and it's cheaper to live. 00:49:24.740 |
So you can spend some of that money you save into an office. 00:49:27.960 |
That's what you should do because you know what, if you can go to that office to work, 00:49:31.440 |
You'll have much clearer separation between work and home. 00:49:35.420 |
So what I'm trying to say here is what Diane did is great. 00:49:38.360 |
If it is all possible to find a way to invest money in a dedicated working space, that's 00:49:42.720 |
not your house, but convenient to your house, do it. 00:49:47.840 |
And I think maybe we should see more of this. 00:49:49.800 |
If I'm remote, I'm going to move somewhere cheaper. 00:49:53.960 |
We claim 50% of that savings invested in a place to work. 00:50:01.800 |
I want to wrap up the show with a deep life Academy feature. 00:50:07.100 |
We go through some lessons about a core idea for living the deep life. 00:50:21.400 |
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So what we're going to do here is we're going to start with a question and use this question 00:54:04.160 |
to motivate a deeper look at a key idea in the deep life universe. 00:54:09.440 |
All right, so our motivating question comes from Anon. 00:54:14.520 |
How do you go about figuring out the lifestyle you want to have and the career you want to 00:54:21.320 |
You talk about lifestyle-centric career planning. 00:54:22.560 |
And while I love your idea, I am still unable to put it into practice. 00:54:26.880 |
I work in IT as a data engineer, and I'm trying to think about what next, which is where your 00:54:35.360 |
Where can I get inspiration from you to help figure out the type of lifestyle I would like 00:54:40.760 |
All right, this is an opportunity to open up the deep life academy for the topic of 00:54:52.080 |
One of my favorite strategies, probably the piece of advice I give most often to young 00:55:00.040 |
So I have, let's see, three, four lessons, four brief lessons. 00:55:05.000 |
Lesson number one, what is lifestyle-centric career planning? 00:55:11.620 |
When making decisions about what career to follow or what advancement to pursue in your 00:55:17.680 |
current career, you should work backwards from a concrete image of your ideal lifestyle 00:55:23.600 |
that you hope to be living in the near to intermediate future. 00:55:26.860 |
This vision, this concrete image should include details about the physical environment where 00:55:31.160 |
you are, the social environment in which you find yourself, the stress pace and general 00:55:37.120 |
atmosphere of your life, your mental and spiritual life. 00:55:40.000 |
What are the details there and what your time outside of work is occupied with. 00:55:47.160 |
So you're building a concrete image that has all of these things in it, concrete specific 00:55:53.160 |
imagery, but does not have specifics about what exact career you're doing or what exact 00:55:59.640 |
So it's all of the elements of your lifestyle, save specifics about I work in UX design at 00:56:11.420 |
You then use this image to help figure out what job you want or what career advancement 00:56:15.600 |
to take, because now you have a simple question. 00:56:18.440 |
Of the things available to me now, what will most effectively move me closer to achieving 00:56:27.160 |
So you have a clear target for your decisions. 00:56:30.180 |
It gets you away from much more vague approaches to making career decisions, such as a what's 00:56:36.040 |
my passion, what's my true calling possible to answer questions or just what seems most 00:56:43.560 |
respectable or most stable or make my parents happiest. 00:56:49.560 |
This is, I think, a much more effective means of pursuing these questions. 00:56:58.880 |
Lesson number two, and this goes straight to Anand's particular query. 00:57:04.600 |
How do you figure out the answers to those questions? 00:57:07.820 |
How do you figure out what your ideal lifestyle should look like? 00:57:18.920 |
I reject the idea that we have a gut instinct about jobs that is pretty effective, right? 00:57:24.840 |
This idea that we have a passion, we're wired for this particular job and we'll know it 00:57:33.440 |
We don't have a great instinct for what they really mean for our lives. 00:57:36.360 |
We don't have good prediction software on what would that job actually be like. 00:57:40.820 |
I don't trust my gut too much about something as vague as a career in UX design versus a 00:57:51.160 |
My gut's not going to give me interesting reactions about this, but I do trust my gut 00:57:56.140 |
when I'm thinking about specific concrete aspects of my lifestyle. 00:58:02.440 |
When I imagine myself going for a long walk among the pine trees in the morning with my 00:58:09.320 |
dog and the sun is filtering through and that really resonates, I want to be doing that 00:58:16.720 |
I trust my gut about that because that's concrete that's specific, specific concrete. 00:58:23.880 |
Where do you find examples to test for resonance? 00:58:26.720 |
Documentaries, movies, magazine profiles, books, YouTube videos, people that you know 00:58:31.840 |
and experience in your life, all these different forms of media, expose yourself. 00:58:35.240 |
Let me watch the thing about Laird Hamilton and his house in Malibu or his house in Hawaii 00:58:42.280 |
and that weird kind of like outdoor exercise focused lifestyle. 00:58:44.800 |
Let me watch something about Steve Jobs and his hard charging style to try to change the 00:58:53.800 |
Let me watch something about a guy who shapes surfboards. 00:58:55.560 |
Expose yourself, expose yourself to all sorts of different stories, all sorts of different 00:58:59.400 |
examples and aspects of life and see what resonates. 00:59:03.560 |
All right, for lesson number three, let's do a case study. 00:59:12.000 |
Using our original question asker as our starting point here, let's go through two possible 00:59:24.600 |
So I want to show you an example of what a good concrete lifestyle looks like and then 00:59:28.720 |
discuss how that could impact decisions he makes about his career. 00:59:31.920 |
So let's let's make this tangible with a case study. 00:59:40.520 |
I'm not sure if that's true, but just for the case of our case study, he has a technical 00:59:44.780 |
degree working in some sort of data engineering job. 00:59:48.640 |
He goes through our exercises here, exposes himself to a lot of media, sees what resonates, 00:59:53.280 |
come up with a concrete image of his lifestyle that has all details tangible except for the 00:59:59.160 |
Let's look at two possible visions he might come up with. 01:00:04.280 |
Maybe the image he creates that resonates is that he's in a house overlooking a sun-drenched 01:00:19.580 |
It's like the opening scene in that NBC show Parenthood where there's cafe lights over 01:00:26.320 |
an old picnic table and some Tibetan prayer flags. 01:00:30.240 |
It's a little bohemian, enjoying some wine from a local vineyard that someone brought, 01:00:39.180 |
Maybe as part of this vision, Anand is imagining sort of in the late afternoon, sort of as 01:00:45.000 |
In his workday, he imagines he's looking out through a picture window over the meadow, 01:00:51.880 |
working generically at a computer screen, but with his tea and it's quiet. 01:00:56.140 |
By three, he's done and he has a riding shed at the corner of the property, maybe by a 01:01:01.120 |
garden with a deer fence up that he tends and he's working on a novel, speculative 01:01:07.580 |
Not stressed about money, but nothing in this image shows him being particularly rich. 01:01:16.120 |
That's an image with lots of concrete attributes about different aspects of his life. 01:01:22.920 |
What impact might that have on how he advances in his career as a data engineer? 01:01:28.800 |
Well, it might tell him, I need autonomy, so I'm going to move towards highly valuable 01:01:37.460 |
So skills where you can do a project, applying the skill and it's really valuable, it's really 01:01:44.280 |
This would then give him going forward, a lot of flexibility in where and how he looked. 01:01:51.080 |
So for example, he might follow the path of Lulu from my book, So Good They Can't Ignore 01:02:00.600 |
Lulu did database design, so this is very similar. 01:02:03.800 |
She got very good at doing a particular type of database design that was relevant for financial 01:02:07.560 |
institutions, left her job and did this freelance. 01:02:13.080 |
Projects took, you know, four or five months. 01:02:15.960 |
So she constructed a life where she worked half the time and then the other half of the 01:02:23.420 |
year would go do adventure to do something else. 01:02:29.480 |
I got to build up some specific skill where I can take on a few projects a year. 01:02:34.400 |
I want to do, I have control over how many I do, but it's lucrative enough that if we 01:02:38.280 |
live someplace that's not super expensive, can have the house in the meadow because, 01:02:41.840 |
you know, we don't need to be in suburban DC. 01:02:48.160 |
You're looking for shifting to a position that's more location independent. 01:02:51.880 |
Let me leave this firm where it's all in person to work for this remote firm. 01:02:55.120 |
So now I have more arbitrage over where I live. 01:03:04.040 |
And so I don't have to get as high up the income possibility salary with my skills before 01:03:09.640 |
So all these things become relevant once you have the vision. 01:03:15.520 |
So let's assume instead of that being the vision, when Anand does lifestyle centric 01:03:21.080 |
career planning, he comes up with the following image. 01:03:24.200 |
He sees himself in a high rise apartment in the city, and he's got a cool view of the 01:03:32.400 |
He's plugged into the cultural scene of the city. 01:03:34.480 |
So he's seen like the latest movies and interesting music. 01:03:38.320 |
He's really plugged in, being exposed to the interesting culture. 01:03:42.820 |
He has an exciting type of professional life where he's leading a team. 01:03:46.080 |
There's a Steve Jobsian feel to it that they're getting something new off of the ground. 01:03:51.160 |
He's respected in this world of entrepreneurs. 01:03:53.360 |
There's this sense of like, if this goes right, like we might be wealthy. 01:04:02.880 |
Maybe Anand came from a quieter background and felt bored and wanted the energy. 01:04:08.640 |
So if that's your vision, it would lead to different decisions about what to do with 01:04:14.520 |
Now you might take on a more aggressive path where you're trying to get into team leadership 01:04:20.900 |
You're not trying to develop a very bespoke skill that you can then trickle out in as 01:04:27.480 |
You instead want to prove yourself as someone who can get things done. 01:04:32.460 |
Maybe he moves from his company to a company that's in a bigger city and faster growing 01:04:36.640 |
where there's startup capital at play so he can meet investors, meet higher end players, 01:04:42.480 |
be around more skilled people, the people who are going to get the biggest investment 01:04:45.760 |
and make the biggest moves to try to get new companies started. 01:04:51.160 |
Completely different types of decisions will be made if that's the vision. 01:04:53.920 |
Same person, different visions, both give you clear images of what to do. 01:05:02.660 |
Why does lifestyle centric career planning works? 01:05:07.620 |
Because ultimately the daily reality of your lifestyle is what affects your sense of well-being. 01:05:13.740 |
The details of your life each day is what is directly acting on your body and your mind 01:05:22.980 |
So working backwards from what are the details that I am going to enjoy, they're going to 01:05:27.180 |
be meaningful to me, they're going to be sustainable to me. 01:05:29.500 |
Working backwards from that is the most consistent way you have of getting to a place where you 01:05:37.460 |
To instead focus on your career in isolation. 01:05:47.660 |
And to just hope that after you make those decisions, you can get the rest of your life 01:05:59.820 |
You are very likely to end up in a career path in which things that are really important 01:06:05.540 |
to you to enjoy and find meaning in your life are difficult or unavailable. 01:06:15.940 |
I won't mention the specific book, but, but the, the author had moved from the Pacific 01:06:22.020 |
Northwest to suburban Washington, DC, and like being outside outdoor activity, exercise, 01:06:28.900 |
fresh air, the woods, like all of this was really important to her. 01:06:33.700 |
And they moved to the suburban DC because this is a better job. 01:06:38.500 |
And if I'm just going to put on my blinkers and say, what do I want to do? 01:06:45.460 |
So they come to the suburban DC, which is not near any nature. 01:06:50.060 |
Now this book wasn't just about that, but I pulled that thread out of it. 01:06:53.420 |
I was thinking, man, if you're a lifestyle, such a career planning, you would say, I could 01:06:57.340 |
care less that there is a quote unquote, good opportunity at a think tank in DC. 01:07:05.860 |
What I care about is do I have the opportunities where I am? 01:07:09.460 |
Do I have the opportunities right now to make my life something I really liked? 01:07:13.060 |
And for me, the person speaking in the voice of the person, that book, that's probably 01:07:16.620 |
staying in the Pacific Northwest and finding the right skillset that allows you to not 01:07:19.780 |
be stressed about money and to have this flexibility. 01:07:25.300 |
Career serves your life because ultimately your daily experience of your life is what 01:07:31.500 |
Life's just a career planning is the natural consequence of that truism. 01:07:39.060 |
I have six minutes until my meeting with my doctoral students. 01:07:48.300 |
As Jesse likes to say, one take, Tony is my name today. 01:07:51.940 |
We just turned on the camera and rocked and rolled. 01:07:54.620 |
Thank you everyone who sent in their questions. 01:07:57.500 |
There'll be a new question survey being posted soon. 01:08:00.580 |
We just want to get the answers to our feedback survey first before we do it. 01:08:05.300 |
As I like to say, if you like what you heard, you will like what you see. 01:08:10.140 |
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