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Hello everybody, it's Sam and Sydney from Financial Samurai and in this episode we want to talk about combating inflation and some novel ideas 00:00:09.840 |
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We just like to share our thoughts and also like to share some of your thoughts as well. 00:00:54.600 |
So without further ado, we want to talk about inflation because inflation is the topic du jour 00:01:00.320 |
that the government is really trying to squash. The Fed is so determined to squash inflation 00:01:06.920 |
that it's likely to keep on raising the Fed funds rate, maybe until 5.25 to 5.5% 00:01:16.320 |
There was hope that they'd stop by 5%, that they'd start cutting by the end of 2023, 00:01:23.400 |
but I think that hope is all lost because of the strong inflationary data in January. 00:01:29.480 |
So I thought, well, why not write a post about how to combat inflation and also share with you 00:01:35.760 |
some reader commentary on how they're combating inflation and 00:01:41.280 |
talk about this issue about us being tone-deaf 00:01:44.440 |
about how straightforward it is to combat inflation, but 00:01:49.520 |
highlighting that it's not easy and it's different for all of us. 00:01:53.140 |
To start off, the latest inflationary numbers for January 2023 came in at 6.4%. 00:01:59.180 |
Now that's down from mid-2022, peak level of 8.9%. 00:02:07.940 |
the inflationary changes, the price changes of consumer goods and services since 00:02:12.580 |
2000. And the goods and services that inflated the most are 00:02:56.140 |
clothing about flat. Now since the year 2000, 00:02:59.940 |
here are the items that declined in prices. Cell phone services, software, 00:03:08.300 |
So if we want to combat inflation, it's pretty straightforward, right? 00:03:13.620 |
We can decide not to go to college or attend community college or a state school like my wife and I did. 00:03:20.820 |
We can stay in great physical and mental shape to decrease our chances of receiving medical services. 00:03:30.100 |
substitute cheaper foods. This is a very contentious 00:03:34.140 |
topic. I think people are offended by this in particular 00:03:38.060 |
for the idea of eating less for some reason, but that is obviously a straightforward way 00:03:46.700 |
We can decide not to buy new cars because the average new car price is almost 00:03:51.140 |
$50,000 now, which is crazy compared to the median household income of about 00:03:59.340 |
We can also drive our existing cars for as long as possible, or we can take public transportation more. 00:04:05.420 |
We can decide not to have kids or have fewer kids. 00:04:10.140 |
We can buy a house with a fixed-rate mortgage, and we can own stocks and other risk assets that tend to increase in price 00:04:17.900 |
faster than the rate of inflation. Of course, not all of you will completely agree with all the above listed items to combat 00:04:26.540 |
inflation. I suspect some of you may balk at not going to college or going to state school like we did, 00:04:36.380 |
Further, if you have kids already, it's not like you can just return them. 00:04:40.340 |
Hence, let's discuss in a little more detail about the items and strategies to help save money. 00:04:48.820 |
We must weigh the costs and benefits of each compared to the clear benefits of saving money, and that's why I say in the title, 00:04:56.620 |
it's straightforward to combat inflation, but it's not easy because of human nature. 00:05:02.380 |
The more we desire to save money, I think the more we will agree that the above strategies will help. 00:05:09.500 |
And the less we desire to save money, I think the less we will agree. Let's start off with college. 00:05:17.060 |
college is crazy expensive now, given everything can be learned online for free. So why is it that college tuition is 00:05:24.140 |
inflating faster than headline inflation? It makes no sense to me. There are more administrators than college professors. 00:05:31.780 |
What is going on, folks? Part of the reason why I'm recording Financial Samurai 00:05:37.100 |
podcast and writing on Financial Samurai and doing the newsletters is to provide as much free education based on firsthand 00:05:44.260 |
experience as possible. I strongly believe if you listen to this podcast regularly and read the newsletters and read the posts, 00:05:50.780 |
you're gonna be more financially educated than 99% of the population. 00:05:58.540 |
climbing so much and it just seems like there's a problem. What are your thoughts on going to college, 00:06:04.020 |
not going to college to save money, or going to state school or community college, Sydney? 00:06:08.180 |
Times are changing and costs are just out of control. 00:06:11.220 |
So I think it makes sense for people to look at more options today, such as trade school or junior college or just 00:06:19.020 |
skipping college altogether and utilizing online resources. We've had discussions ourselves about whether or not 00:06:27.580 |
we want our kids to continue on the traditional path or if we want to 00:06:31.940 |
switch them back to homeschool at some point. What do you think? I think homeschool is pretty elucidating. 00:06:40.020 |
There's something interesting that happened the other day. I asked our son as I do 00:06:44.300 |
every single time I pick him up and drive 20 minutes back home. What did you learn today in school? 00:06:50.220 |
I forced him to tell me one thing to justify the cost of his tuition and he said, you know, I read 00:06:57.220 |
Brown Bear, Brown Bear. And then he talked about, you know, we learned about octagons. 00:07:01.940 |
And I told him, didn't we learn this like two years ago when we were homeschooling you? And he goes, yeah, we did. 00:07:11.220 |
interesting. So the efficiency of homeschooling is much higher than regular schooling. 00:07:16.300 |
I really believe you can teach two to three times more homeschooling. You know, when I was growing up, 00:07:21.420 |
I would always wonder how do these kids graduate high school at 14 years old? 00:07:24.900 |
How do they graduate college at 18 years old? It's because a lot of them were homeschooled and they had supplemental 00:07:30.900 |
education from their parents or tutors and then they just skipped grades. 00:07:34.820 |
And so what I realized from this also is that you and I are educated, college educated. I got my master's degree as well. 00:07:42.380 |
Why don't we just teach our children everything we know and 00:07:47.540 |
if they know everything we know, then they should be able to do our jobs, 00:07:52.700 |
which means that they should be able to earn money. And if we can't teach them everything we know, 00:07:57.460 |
then what did we really learn in college? And maybe we need to spend more time with them. 00:08:03.020 |
Instead of just spending five hundred thousand and fifteen years to send them to college, which sounds crazy, 00:08:08.980 |
why don't we just spend more time teaching them? For example, I graduated from the College of William & Mary. 00:08:15.780 |
It's a liberal arts school. So I learned about history, about religion, 00:08:21.380 |
English, and also I studied Mandarin and economics. 00:08:24.540 |
Why not spend time teaching him these subjects and her? As a graduate of UC Berkeley's Haas School of Business, 00:08:32.420 |
I should be able to teach them about cash flow statements, 00:08:37.860 |
organizational behavior. And as an operator financial samurai since 2009, I can teach him about writing, marketing, 00:08:48.780 |
business development, all these things that can help 00:08:53.180 |
generate income and run an online business. And don't forget property management. 00:08:58.180 |
Oh, yeah, and property management. Basically, we all are educated, right? You listening to this podcast, reading Financial Samurai, 00:09:04.620 |
you all have some sort of education, some sort of skills that 00:09:08.420 |
can, you know, you can educate our children. So and for you, you have musical skills, 00:09:14.420 |
you can teach our children how to play piano or violin. I mean, what is your thought on 00:09:19.340 |
educating our children more to save money in college? 00:09:21.900 |
I think the biggest hurdle that most people come across is time. A lot of people are working 00:09:28.500 |
Monday through Friday, and they don't have the flexibility or the capacity to homeschool their children. 00:09:37.340 |
flexibility and the ability to do so if we want. 00:09:48.660 |
school day, maybe three times a week balanced with two days at home would be an 00:09:53.380 |
optimal ratio, but you just can't find that really these days. 00:09:57.700 |
Okay, so just to counteract your point, we have the weekends to spend time with our children, 00:10:03.780 |
we have the mornings, and we have the evenings, right? We all talk about 00:10:09.100 |
40 hour work weeks, right? So that means if you come home at 5 30 p.m. 6 p.m. 00:10:14.220 |
You know, you can spend time with your children at night for 00:10:18.500 |
1 to 2 hours and on the weekends you can spend 8 hours. 00:10:21.900 |
Obviously, they might not want to listen to you for that long. Right, but then if you're doing that, that's supplemental. 00:10:28.380 |
If you're doing homeschooling as primary, if you have a 9 to 5 job and 00:10:33.620 |
you want to homeschool your kids at night, what are your kids gonna do during that 00:10:38.460 |
period from 9 to 5? Right, so that's what I'm saying, supplemental. Supplemental is a good idea. 00:10:43.060 |
Our hybrid seems difficult, but supplemental is just, "Hey, let's just spend more time educating our kids so that by the time they get to 00:10:52.140 |
the age of 18, maybe they don't have to go to that expensive college, or maybe they don't have to go to college at all. 00:10:57.440 |
Maybe they'll know more about what they want to do and they can take more inexpensive or free courses 00:11:08.020 |
You know what? Before we talk about not going to college, we should have talked about saving money by not having kids. 00:11:15.300 |
Okay. Now, I know it's a non-starter for many folks who want kids and if too many of us don't have kids, 00:11:22.220 |
we can't replace our population and then society will go into decline because who's gonna support, you know, 00:11:28.660 |
with Social Security and all that, our older generation, right? 00:11:31.660 |
You're seeing a problem with that with China now, given they have their one-child policy and 00:11:36.580 |
Japan is going through this demographic decline. 00:11:39.140 |
But if you don't have kids, you won't have to save for a college tuition. 00:11:46.420 |
You don't have to buy college textbooks, get as big of a house, 00:11:50.100 |
get as large of a car, buy as much food, buy as many plane tickets, and pay as much in health care expenses. 00:11:56.820 |
Right? Like our health care expenses every month, it's unsubsidized. It's like $2,300 a month. 00:12:01.820 |
If we didn't have two kids, it'd probably be like only $1,800 a month. 00:12:06.780 |
We wouldn't have had to have bought a bigger house in 2020, 00:12:11.340 |
which would have saved us a lot of money here in San Francisco. 00:12:15.620 |
And we wouldn't have to pay for grade school tuition, language immersion. So our cash flow would be way up. 00:12:24.860 |
not having kids is one of the best solutions to combating inflation. 00:12:35.500 |
then you can use this time to really think about your finances and putting together a plan or a 00:12:42.700 |
savings target that you want to achieve or certain milestones in your career that you want to hit before starting a family. 00:12:50.700 |
But you know, there's other things that you have to weigh as well in terms of your biology and your age. 00:12:58.860 |
I have an article that I wrote in terms of answering what is the best age to have a baby? 00:13:04.940 |
And the conclusion was between, well, I think the conclusion was age 32. 00:13:09.980 |
And that's to consider biology in terms of safety and the feasibility of having children as well as 00:13:19.220 |
14 years post high school to make enough and save enough money to feel financially secure to have children. 00:13:26.060 |
And I do agree that having a net worth target or savings target to shoot for before having children 00:13:32.380 |
will help you feel better once you do have children. Some people say children are not expensive. 00:13:38.460 |
We say they can be as expensive as you want them to be. 00:13:43.340 |
A financial samurai reader named Eva Marie said, "I love this idea. Yes, you can combat inflation in a very straightforward way. 00:13:50.900 |
However, I disagree with the whole quote kids are so expensive nonsense. 00:13:55.820 |
Though every time I see one of those calculators, I just have to laugh because they're so niche." 00:14:01.980 |
That's like saying modern life is just so expensive with my brand new iPhone, two new SUVs, 00:14:09.180 |
designer clothing, expensive vacations, and myriad subscriptions to services that only 00:14:17.980 |
Yes, all kids need care, food, shelter, clothing, and transportation. 00:14:22.780 |
But as a full-time caregiver, I don't pay anybody to do it. I can make food for a lot cheaper than buying it, and 00:14:29.660 |
yes, it's delicious. I can fit three kids in a bedroom, easy peasy, even teenagers, and I know because I do it. 00:14:37.780 |
As far as clothing goes, buy high quality for discount prices and then hand them down. 00:14:42.700 |
Teach your kids skills instead of paying someone else. I have the internet and a brain. I can do this. 00:14:50.220 |
Spend time together as a family instead of shuffling everybody to ridiculously expensive 00:14:55.220 |
extracurricular activities, and life is great and cheap. And the first reaction 00:15:01.060 |
I thought to that was, "That's a great attitude to teach your kids skills instead of paying someone else." 00:15:05.180 |
Because that's what we just talked about, teaching our children everything. 00:15:08.540 |
But also I had to laugh when she talked about three kids in one room because we just came back from Sonoma, 00:15:14.580 |
and we attempted to have our two kids, three and five and three quarters year old, 00:15:20.260 |
sleep together for the first time in the same room. 00:15:27.180 |
Gosh, the first night was was pretty bad, and she just kept waking up and she was screaming, 00:15:34.100 |
and then she was just saying no like every five seconds, and our son was like, 00:15:38.700 |
"Stop saying no!" from across the room, and I was just so stressed out because nobody was sleeping at that point. 00:15:45.780 |
I mean, every family is different. Every child is different, and for us, 00:15:51.620 |
at this age, it just was not working. So maybe in a couple years they can bunk together. 00:16:04.140 |
college. We talked about kids. Now, let's talk about eating less, not wasting food, and staying in better shape 00:16:11.420 |
to save money and combat inflation. I'm not sure why these recommendations to counteract inflation may be controversial. 00:16:22.820 |
Staying in better shape will increase your chances of living a more comfortable and longer life. 00:16:28.460 |
You know, these are pretty logical to me. I remember in 2020, 00:16:32.340 |
there's like news report after news report showing some relatively unhealthy looking folks who are passing away from COVID-19, 00:16:40.820 |
and there was an underlying theme there, and they all had comorbidities. 00:16:45.860 |
So comorbidities because of some other health issues, and 00:16:50.340 |
the data says that those with more comorbidities 00:16:59.380 |
logically, I think most of us who fear dying would spend 00:17:03.100 |
more time exercising and eating healthier foods. 00:17:06.700 |
So what are your thoughts about eating healthier and exercising more to save money? 00:17:12.460 |
I think it's a great idea. In reality, it can be very hard. 00:17:19.980 |
and I don't need to snack, but I often do. But the interesting thing was I 00:17:26.260 |
got braces, Invisalign, for about nine months, 00:17:32.460 |
people were telling me, "Oh, you're gonna snack less. It's a great way to lose weight." And I didn't really 00:17:37.900 |
get it until I started wearing the trays. And you have to take your trays out every time you eat or eat a 00:17:46.060 |
drink, a hot beverage, for example, and it becomes a royal pain in the butt to 00:17:52.780 |
take those trays in and out and clean them and brush your teeth and floss every time. And I 00:17:58.020 |
actually did end up losing weight because I cut out all my snacking. I had a reason to lose weight, and I did. It was great. 00:18:05.740 |
So the reason to do something, I think, is a very powerful motivator. So we have to all ask ourselves, 00:18:12.460 |
"Why do we get up in the morning to go to a job to make money?" If it's not the perfect job or a great job, 00:18:19.220 |
why do we do it? So we have to spend time listing out our reasons. The reason why, 00:18:24.580 |
one of the reasons why we record this podcast is to help y'all 00:18:28.580 |
get better in touch with us and to learn more about personal finances. The other reason, which is actually 00:18:34.300 |
honestly the most powerful reason why we continue to record these podcasts, is because we want to create an archive of 00:18:41.620 |
audio episodes for our children to listen to when they're older. 00:18:45.660 |
And it's also a hedge just in case one or both of us pass away prematurely. I think it would be just a wonderful gift 00:18:55.460 |
motivator to keep going even though there aren't any financial sponsors, no monetary reward. 00:19:01.460 |
Find your intrinsic motivation to do something. They can be for your children or for your parents or 00:19:08.300 |
for a friend or a loved one or just for yourself. 00:19:13.500 |
struggled with weight my entire life as well. 00:19:16.540 |
I was a relatively chubby kid and then I grew out of it. I worked out a lot. 00:19:21.140 |
You know, I wanted to make friends, find a girlfriend, look good, feel good. 00:19:26.060 |
And now that I play, I've been playing a lot of tennis for over 25 years, 00:19:30.460 |
any type of weight gain really slows me down and it weighs on my knees. 00:19:34.940 |
And so I've tried to maintain the same weight since college. So one, I could fit into the same clothes 00:19:41.380 |
so I don't have to buy more clothes. But two, I've been wanting to keep the weight off so I can 00:19:46.200 |
potentially win more tennis matches and now pickleball matches. So it means to an end and also the end itself. 00:19:53.100 |
Now with inflation so high, I have another reason to 00:19:57.300 |
maintain my weight and that is to save money on food costs. 00:20:01.340 |
Again, food hasn't inflated as much as a lot of other things. Food and beverages are up about 00:20:11.580 |
230% for hospital services, but they're all tied together. What we eat, our health and all that. So 00:20:19.900 |
let's pay attention more to what we eat and how much we exercise. Oh, 00:20:24.620 |
there is one more thing we should all be aware of and that is to not waste food. 00:20:31.020 |
According to feedingamerica.org, each year 119 billion pounds of food is wasted in the United States. 00:20:37.820 |
That equates to 130 billion meals and more than 408 billion in food thrown away each year. 00:20:43.940 |
So 40% of all food in America is wasted and the food waste in our homes make up about 00:20:50.100 |
39% of all food waste or about 42 billion pounds of food wasted. 00:20:56.900 |
Think about how many times we go to the grocery store, 00:21:00.020 |
buy food, and then we peek in our refrigerator a week later and realize, "Oh, we didn't end up eating what we bought." 00:21:07.340 |
I've done that before. I'm sure many of you have as well. 00:21:11.100 |
So if we stop wasting as much food, we eat everything on our plate and 00:21:16.060 |
everything in our refrigerators and freezers, we could easily 00:21:20.380 |
counteract up to, let's say, 16% food inflation every single year if we don't waste our food. 00:21:28.300 |
I remember growing up eating with my parents and boy, I got a tongue lashing and 00:21:35.220 |
sometimes I remember if I didn't eat every single kernel of rice from my bowl, my mom would make me 00:21:40.860 |
stick out my hands and slap them and then she would just explain, "Look, there are 00:21:46.860 |
billions of people who are malnourished or who are hungry every single day. 00:21:52.060 |
You are disrespecting them and you're being an entitled brat if you don't finish all your food. 00:21:58.740 |
And you're also insulting the cook. The people, me, 00:22:03.740 |
she was talking about, who spend time making the food for you. So be respectful. 00:22:08.420 |
Be thankful." I'd love to hear from all of you whether 00:22:13.460 |
inflation is negatively impacting your lifestyles. How are you changing your behaviors? 00:22:19.700 |
We all know food, gas, and utility prices are higher. 00:22:28.140 |
is it because they are reoccurring that we're just annoyed by these higher prices or do they really 00:22:34.500 |
account for a large percentage of our budget? Food, gas, and utilities. 00:22:40.540 |
Everybody's different. I'd love to hear from you. I suspect that because these are reoccurring 00:22:46.180 |
expenses, we kind of just get reminded and agitated. "Ah, we got to pay more money." 00:22:51.780 |
I remember this one place, they have this Greg 00:22:54.260 |
black bean noodles and egg omelet and it was priced at $15, like $14.99 on Uber Eats. 00:23:04.700 |
And I stopped ordering that entirely because I thought that was ridiculous. That's a, you know, a large increase, 35% increase. 00:23:11.420 |
And I found that to be somewhat annoying because I really was craving those black bean noodles and egg omelet that they make. 00:23:18.740 |
But in terms of the overall cost to our income, 00:23:22.820 |
it's not huge. Obviously, the lower your income, the higher percentage of these overall costs. 00:23:28.620 |
But I'm trying to figure out, is it the annoyance or the actual cost that's really, 00:23:33.740 |
really agitating a lot of American households? What are your thoughts? 00:23:45.820 |
aggravating because it just happens all the time. Like every time you go to the gas pump or every time you're buying groceries. 00:23:51.940 |
And I do most of the grocery shopping for us. And so it's just, gosh, I was like, wow, 00:23:59.860 |
just this and I'm paying that much, you know. 00:24:03.300 |
I definitely find myself thinking that a lot. 00:24:06.460 |
So what I've tried to do is instead of buying groceries once a week, I am 00:24:12.700 |
now doing it two times a week, sometimes three, just in smaller 00:24:18.300 |
quantities so that the food stays fresher longer and we have less waste. That's one strategy that I've been trying. 00:24:23.540 |
Okay. Well, my strategy on the black bean noodles and egg omelet is just not buy it and be hungry. 00:24:31.980 |
Or just eat whatever else is left in my fridge, even if it's like, you know, six-day-old rubber chicken. 00:24:40.620 |
we have the ability to not spend as much money. There's a lot of discretionary items. 00:24:48.060 |
Right? We don't have to send our kids to private school. We don't have to take an Uber home. 00:24:53.780 |
We can take a bus or we can bike or we can walk. 00:24:56.060 |
You don't have to buy a $78 dry-aged ribeye. You can buy 00:25:01.300 |
$10 cheeseburger. It sounds expensive still, but $10 cheeseburger that tastes just as good. 00:25:06.580 |
So if we have the ability to be discretionary in our consumption, that's a great way to combat inflation. 00:25:15.460 |
The one thing we can't really combat in terms of inflation, well, there's two things. 00:25:19.540 |
One, health care expenses. We spend the most per capita, yet our life expectancy is not the highest in the world. 00:25:27.020 |
It's not close. And so that is a problem and we can't really do anything about it except, you know, earn 00:25:33.100 |
below 400% of the federal poverty level limit to get some subsidies or 00:25:37.940 |
work at a job that provides health care subsidies. And this is one of the biggest expenses for us. 00:25:45.020 |
We're only $2,300 a month because we don't have employers subsidizing our health insurance. 00:25:49.420 |
So really think about that, especially if you're having children. 00:25:52.980 |
Since we can't do much about our health care expenses besides, you know, doing those several things, 00:25:58.900 |
we should try to eat as best as we can and stay healthy, right? We talked about this. 00:26:03.300 |
The other thing we can do is we can get neutral real estate by owning our primary residence and getting a fixed-rate mortgage. 00:26:10.380 |
This is for most Americans. 66% of Americans own their primary residence. 00:26:16.460 |
So you can get a fixed-rate mortgage and several years you'll realize or you'll start feeling, "Ah, 00:26:23.540 |
Because if you're a renter, you're at the mercy of inflation and you're a price taker. 00:26:28.180 |
Now, here's the segment where I want to address where one reader named Peter said, "I'm tone-deaf." 00:26:34.260 |
He said, "Suggesting people to give up going to the best schools, 00:26:38.420 |
have fewer or no children, eat cheaper and less nutritious food, 00:26:43.060 |
just strikes me as being tone-deaf and a poor solution that sounds like it mostly benefits the well-off in this country." 00:26:50.260 |
He goes on to say, "The real problem with inflation and currency debasement 00:26:54.820 |
is that it prevents people from saving and forces people to monetize assets that are generally risky and/or overvalued, 00:27:04.260 |
Housing is a particularly good example as most people use their house as their savings account. 00:27:09.140 |
At the current 30-year mortgage rate, a family would need 20% down and a 00:27:13.860 |
$120,000 gross income to afford the average American home." So who exactly is buying the average 00:27:21.220 |
American home? And for that comment, I appreciate being called tone-deaf and also out of touch because I tried to be 00:27:29.340 |
realistic in my assessment and assumptions. It's one of the reasons why I entitled the podcast episode in the post, 00:27:34.620 |
"Combating Inflation is Straightforward, but Not Easy." It's not easy because life is difficult. 00:27:41.940 |
We all have different choices. We start in different places. 00:27:45.620 |
However, I do want us all to recognize our own 00:27:49.700 |
realities, our own realities. If we are struggling with inflation, if we want to save money, 00:27:56.420 |
then maybe we can't send our kids to the best private schools. 00:28:07.740 |
lower cost foods that might be less nutritious, 00:28:10.780 |
but at least it'll save us money, if we feel that inflation is combating us. 00:28:15.020 |
I know my wife and I, we delayed having children until our late 30s because we couldn't 00:28:21.020 |
afford, we didn't feel like we could comfortably afford to have a child in expensive San Francisco. 00:28:26.460 |
Therefore, we waited. I don't think it's tone-deaf that we waited to be able to comfortably afford having children to have children. 00:28:34.740 |
I actually think that's quite responsible and reasonable. 00:28:38.060 |
I feel bad if someone else, you know, taxpayers are gonna subsidize 00:28:43.380 |
our childcare expenses because it was our choice to have children, our choice to bring them into the world. 00:28:52.180 |
I recognized my parents weren't rich because we lived in a townhouse and we drove a 00:29:00.100 |
So I researched the cost of going to private school and the cost of going to public college and I decided, you know what, 00:29:07.100 |
I got into Babson College, which costs $25,000 a year in private school tuition, 00:29:11.460 |
and I got into the College of William & Mary that cost $2,800 in in-state tuition. 00:29:16.940 |
I'm gonna go to the William & Mary because worst case, if I graduate without a job, 00:29:21.780 |
I can go back to my minimum wage job at McDonald's making $4 an hour and pay back my parents. 00:29:28.300 |
I think that is responsible and rational thinking. 00:29:31.580 |
I don't think that's tone-deaf and I don't think that's entitled at all. 00:29:34.900 |
And finally, to address the commoners question, who is buying these houses today in America? 00:29:46.340 |
40% of those homes are owned free and clear without a mortgage. 00:29:49.460 |
So who is buying? Well, the majority of Americans are buying. 00:29:53.460 |
There's a fallacy where you compare the median home price to the median household income. 00:29:58.700 |
It's actually not the median household income buying. It's never been that way. 00:30:02.420 |
It's the person with enough funds who are buying and it's clear from the statistics that the majority of Americans are buying. 00:30:09.660 |
So I'd like to ask you, Sydney, do you think I'm tone-deaf for discussing 00:30:15.580 |
inflation and talking about how to combat inflation? 00:30:20.460 |
So why do you think some people do think I'm tone-deaf or think my reality is not as real as their reality? 00:30:27.620 |
Because people forget that reality is unique to each individual. 00:30:35.140 |
Why is it so hard to understand another person's point of view? 00:30:39.740 |
I think we all get kind of lost in our own world sometimes and 00:30:43.980 |
everybody has problems and we kind of get so sucked up into all the things that are stressing us out or 00:30:51.820 |
causing us misery, suffering, and pain and we forget that there's 00:30:56.500 |
lots and lots of other people in the world who have their own issues going on. 00:31:00.620 |
Yeah, that's true. It's impossible to understand what everybody else is going through because we're not walking in other people's shoes. 00:31:08.500 |
Everybody's shoes. All we can do is really listen, empathize, and try to think again 00:31:13.860 |
about how our original beliefs differ from someone else's beliefs. 00:31:18.380 |
So this is one of the most fun thing about Financial Samurai is that I can put out something, 00:31:24.500 |
share my opinions, and then get feedback from as many people who want to share as possible, 00:31:30.540 |
hopefully in a respectful way, so that I can shine lights on my blind spots and have these aha moments. 00:31:36.060 |
That's actually really exciting to me. So please, if you disagree with me, please let me know. 00:31:41.300 |
Obviously in a respectful manner, but please let me know. I'm not gonna attack your opinions. 00:31:45.420 |
I'm gonna ask more about your background and why you think the way you do so we can come to better decision-making. 00:31:51.700 |
This is part of the thesis in my book, "By This, Not That." Coming to better 00:31:56.260 |
optimal decisions with a 70% probability and confidence that we'll get it right and 00:32:01.580 |
while having the humility knowing that, you know, 20-30% of the time, hopefully not much more than 30% of the time, 00:32:07.100 |
we're gonna get it wrong, but when we do, we learn from our mistakes. 00:32:10.780 |
So we can make better decisions going forward. 00:32:13.940 |
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