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Hello everybody, it's Sam from Financial Samurai and in this episode I want to talk about 00:00:04.160 |
why the pandemic is the best time to work and also how 00:00:09.280 |
rankings for public schools public universities 00:00:12.740 |
Will continue to go higher and probably outrank many of the classic elite private institutions over time 00:00:19.100 |
And in this episode I have with me a special guest Sydney my wife say hello 00:00:23.220 |
So first of all, I just want to talk about work because it seems like 00:00:29.400 |
A lot of my friends at least from the softball league are having a really great time 00:00:34.280 |
During the pandemic because they get to work from home like one guy. He's taken four 00:00:39.680 |
Vacations or trips. He recently was in New York City for a week and he said oh, yeah 00:00:45.240 |
I went to go see my parents and I was able to quote work and then oftentimes on Facebook 00:00:51.720 |
He's talking about watching games and Giants games on you know, one o'clock to four o'clock and I'm thinking myself 00:00:58.360 |
Man, I want an employer who's gonna pay me multiple six figures to go watch a Giants game 00:01:04.960 |
But maybe I'll go play tennis and take a nap and if I can make big bucks 00:01:11.600 |
My first question to you is does this friend of yours have young children? 00:01:18.520 |
Yeah, well, he doesn't have young children. He works at Facebook 00:01:22.240 |
Well thing is like other friends who work at ones at Wells Fargo 00:01:26.680 |
One I don't know what he does, but they seem to be having really flexible 00:01:30.800 |
Lifestyles, but again, they don't have children 00:01:35.560 |
That's the first thing that popped into my head because I think all of us parents during the pandemic with young children 00:01:41.560 |
Felt much differently about balancing work and child care because the pandemic changed 00:01:48.320 |
Everything with preschools closing down and schools closing down and obviously a lot has reopened 00:01:55.600 |
Since then but as a parent it pandemic has been hard. No, you know what? 00:02:02.200 |
You're right. It's like double duty all day every day, especially if you have a day job 00:02:09.880 |
there's very little boundaries between home life and work life and 00:02:13.440 |
you've got to take care of your children who are always happy to see you usually or sometimes they're screaming and 00:02:20.560 |
If you're creative and you're trying to do art or write or sing or do a podcast 00:02:25.760 |
Doing a lot of things things is it's almost impossible 00:02:30.280 |
We both had experiences where we've been sitting at our laptop and la la la la la here comes our son 00:02:38.160 |
You know one on the days where he's not in preschool, which just started a couple weeks ago, you know, and he's like 00:02:49.120 |
That's really cute and fun, you know the first couple times but then he keeps checking back in 00:02:55.360 |
As the minutes tick by our patient starts to go down and there's a point where it's like, okay 00:03:02.800 |
I just gotta escape. I need to escape or work when he's sleeping because this isn't working 00:03:09.280 |
Right, right. I mean so many times you and I have probably rewritten a sentence 00:03:15.800 |
many many times because of interruptions and we can't record this podcast if he's at home because he's gonna come find us in the house and 00:03:23.200 |
Unfortunately, unfortunately, we don't live in a mega mansion 00:03:25.920 |
So we don't have the left wing and the right wing and the north wing to hide and oh 00:03:36.760 |
Okay, so maybe working during the pandemic with kids is not the easiest thing. However 00:03:43.320 |
However, the great thing now is that he is back in preschool 00:03:47.760 |
So we decided to pull our son from preschool in March 2020 when the lockdowns began 00:03:53.640 |
And we decided you know what? He's only three years old once four years old once 00:03:59.320 |
Let's just use this time and make some lemonade and spend as much time with him and homeschool him as much as possible 00:04:05.920 |
since then so he just started preschool August 25th 2021 and 00:04:10.640 |
So far he's been having a pretty good time. He's adjusted well 00:04:15.320 |
So do you feel like you have more time to do more things? 00:04:20.480 |
Yeah, it's funny it's just change takes a while to get used to and now that he's in school 00:04:27.640 |
My my schedule is shifted. So I'm using more time to spend with our daughter one-on-one 00:04:37.440 |
When he wasn't in school, it was a lot of them 00:04:41.360 |
Simultaneously, and so I didn't have as much time with her alone and I'm taking advantage of that now 00:04:47.320 |
And I think she really likes it as well. So I 00:04:50.800 |
Do have more time to myself when she's taking her nap in the middle of the day, which is nice 00:04:59.840 |
Okay. Well, that's really great that you're able to spend more one-on-one time with our daughter 00:05:05.720 |
So am I and so what about work productivity? I 00:05:09.520 |
Still find that I do my best work at night when the kids are asleep 00:05:14.520 |
Sometimes if you've gone to bed early, I'm the only one awake in the house 00:05:19.440 |
That's when I do my best work and I think you're the exact opposite you do your best work 00:05:24.000 |
Early in the morning when all the rest of us are asleep or busy 00:05:34.520 |
I also get a I get more time during the day when he's in school as well, but 00:05:44.360 |
So early exact opposite. Yeah, I believe conquer the morning conquer the day you do something productive and awesome work 00:05:51.560 |
Whatever it is, then you can feel guilt-free for the rest of the day. Do you not believe in that philosophy? 00:05:57.280 |
I think that's a great philosophy. I'm just not a morning person. And so I start my 00:06:03.480 |
My brain just isn't as clear in the morning. I'm busy getting him ready for school 00:06:08.120 |
Our daughter wants all a lot of attention in the morning. And then at the end of the day, I'm tired, but 00:06:15.240 |
If I can do something productive I can go to sleep easier 00:06:20.800 |
All right, because I don't go to bed thinking I still wish I did this. I wish I did that 00:06:25.200 |
I'll be like, okay. I am exhausted as heck, but I was able to 00:06:30.200 |
Get this one thing done or these two things done now. I can really go to sleep and by that time I am 00:06:36.240 |
Exhausted so my head hits the pillow and I'm out 00:06:39.480 |
That's actually a good way to look at it to you go to sleep satisfied that you accomplished the things you wanted to accomplish, right? 00:06:46.240 |
so I want to go back to the idea that during a pandemic is the best time for 00:06:52.200 |
knowledge workers people who can work from home to work and one of the 00:06:57.360 |
Big benefits I think is the greater ability to side hustle when I was working in banking 00:07:03.320 |
You know, I started financial summary in 2009 during the bottom of the financial crisis 00:07:07.600 |
But I didn't report to my firm that I was doing this because I was thinking well 00:07:13.380 |
This is my freedom of speech freedom of creativity. I'm gonna go do whatever I want 00:07:17.240 |
But really if you have any kind of outside interest at work 00:07:22.680 |
Or from work you need to report that and if you're making any money 00:07:26.520 |
You should report it as well, and you definitely don't want any conflicts of interest. So I think it's pretty cool that 00:07:35.400 |
You know their employer doesn't really know what they're doing all day 00:07:38.840 |
which is why so many of my friends are going to ball games and taking naps and running errands and 00:07:43.880 |
You can work on your side hustle, which they have no way of tracking and you can make some money and there's even a story 00:07:50.360 |
Where employees some of them are taking two jobs at once? 00:07:54.680 |
Do you read that? I mean, it's like yeah, that's a no-brainer if you have the energy and time to do it 00:08:03.040 |
I don't know and in one firm if they find out they'll fire you 00:08:05.760 |
but that's the risk and if you can make double the money and the reason why you can make double the money is 00:08:17.520 |
At their jobs or they can do things more efficiently right more efficiently there they don't have to commute anymore 00:08:23.080 |
So they have that time save that they can put towards something more 00:08:43.600 |
Restrictions I will say though if you do want to do a side hustle that involves being on a computer 00:08:51.760 |
Personal computer that is not tied into your works network 00:08:56.680 |
Because there are a lot of companies out there that are logging what you're doing online 00:09:01.680 |
So if you're gonna side hustle keep it on a separate device. Yeah smart separate phone 00:09:10.160 |
That that's actually a no-brainer because I remember when I was in finance 00:09:16.080 |
They had keywords they had like a software where they had keywords where if you typed an email and that keyword pop out 00:09:22.120 |
They would review it. Yeah, there's a lot of technology out there that corporations are utilizing and they may not tell you you may have 00:09:29.440 |
No idea until you get caught. So just be aware that there is a lot of tech out there for tracking and 00:09:39.680 |
During your scheduled work hours. That's not for work. Just do it on a separate device 00:09:46.120 |
Yeah, you know, it's interesting. I was on a podcast recently called paychecks and balances a friend rich 00:09:52.600 |
I had been on his podcast. I think three or four years ago talking about 00:09:56.240 |
One of the posts I wrote called scraping by on five hundred thousand dollars a year 00:10:01.240 |
why some households have a difficult time escaping the rat race and 00:10:06.800 |
the reality is I thought rich the host of the podcast was a full-time podcaster and blogger and 00:10:16.540 |
Who I thought was a full-time, you know financial planner because he wrote a book and he also has a podcast and blog as well 00:10:23.800 |
But it turns out both rich and Roger work at Google and they've worked at Google for seven to nine years respectively 00:10:32.320 |
And I was thinking myself Wow you work at Google. So you got the best benefits 00:10:36.760 |
You know, it's considered one of the best companies you're making multiple six figures and all this time. I thought 00:10:46.120 |
so what I'm trying to say is it's possible to do both to have the comfort of a steady paycheck and 00:10:53.520 |
the comfort of health care benefits or subsidies and 00:10:57.600 |
401k matching and so forth and that's something we don't have 00:11:02.120 |
We have no safety net and we haven't had this safety net and since you left your day job in 2015 00:11:10.920 |
Frankly, I have felt a lot more pressure, especially since our kids were born in 2017 and 2019 00:11:17.520 |
To provide an income to manage our investments to make sure they don't blow up and we lose 30% in one month 00:11:30.160 |
To make sure things will be okay, right more people are depending on me 00:11:34.400 |
Yeah, and so I was wondering since I believe one of the best times to go to work is during a pandemic 00:11:40.800 |
What are your thoughts about you going back to work? 00:11:49.400 |
You are working you are working for sure. I'm working hard. We have very different roles 00:11:55.600 |
I will flat-out say that we have very different roles very different skill sets and 00:12:03.680 |
utilizing our individual strengths, and I think that's what 00:12:07.480 |
Everyone should try to whether you're in a relationship or not 00:12:12.360 |
Utilize your strengths because you're gonna have way more productivity, right? So are you saying that? 00:12:24.480 |
Even though it's much more flexible now. It's just not worth it for me 00:12:29.200 |
in my current state of mind, I don't feel like I can handle it because I 00:12:35.280 |
Already have enough guilt as a mom. I feel like I'm not doing enough for our kids and 00:12:43.920 |
Don't want to say struggling, but I'm I'm busy working on back-end stuff for 00:12:49.120 |
for the blog for you know, the administrative stuff and 00:12:54.240 |
I have I feel like I have a full plate and I'm I will say I am trying to be more involved in writing 00:13:02.960 |
Interesting stuff that I've been researching and learning about as well as sharing my own experiences. I have some upcoming articles on 00:13:11.960 |
Ambulance surprise bills and how the whole EMS system is way more complicated and broken than I ever 00:13:20.640 |
Understood before this whole experience happened. So I feel like 00:13:24.400 |
Right, so one of the things you know, you know, I wrote I wrote about this before as a father as a new father was 00:13:32.960 |
I'm thinking about taking a vacation from parenthood by going back to work 00:13:38.200 |
so I think there's a chance that you might feel less stressed if you go back to work full-time because 00:13:44.840 |
You're away from home at least mentally because you're focused on work and you're making a steady paycheck and we've got you know 00:13:52.080 |
Subsidized health care and benefits and so forth and that guilt and that stress of the homework 00:13:58.400 |
Would be greatly reduced. What are your thoughts about that? I 00:14:02.040 |
Know myself pretty well, and I don't see that happening. I just see my my mental health 00:14:26.000 |
Because a lot of the work that I'm doing can't just go away right it has to keep going 00:14:33.240 |
There's there's just all these tasks that I need to do on the back end 00:14:39.360 |
Maintain it's just an ongoing thing, which is fine 00:14:42.560 |
And I love doing it and I also love having the time 00:14:45.920 |
to do more writing and editing being more involved in that as well and I 00:14:56.520 |
Maybe it's the grass is greener on the other side syndrome that I'm feeling right now when I see friends just 00:15:04.640 |
Really flexible work hours side hustling and you have to remind yourself if those people 00:15:11.000 |
If they don't it's a very different right, okay, so I got it I know what the solution is 00:15:19.440 |
When both our children are in school full-time 00:15:31.360 |
Okay, I might go back to work full-time because oh here's one of the things that I'm really 00:15:36.480 |
Surprised about ever since our son started going to preschool. So I got a drive, you know during rush hour 830 00:15:43.920 |
A.m. I got to send him to school. So that takes 00:15:47.240 |
Up to 20 minutes to get to school and then I got a park and I gotta walk him and give him a hug and 00:15:53.000 |
All that because I love that but the driving I don't like 00:15:58.360 |
It's crazy in San Francisco and I feel like now that I'm commuting during rush hour 00:16:02.920 |
I feel like I'm mentally going back to work and the commute itself is the worst thing 00:16:07.840 |
Was the worst thing I hated about work just commuting. It just it's terrible, right? 00:16:12.700 |
and then so I go there and then I come back home and 00:16:16.600 |
Then around 3 or 5 I go there not as much traffic. So it's only taking 15 minutes 00:16:21.960 |
You know, I park we go walk around and then I come back home 00:16:27.000 |
So that in total is about an hour and 20 minutes 00:16:31.160 |
Now the other day I decided to go play tennis with a friend of mine at 4 45 p.m 00:16:37.760 |
So I went to school dropped him off came back. I went to school pick him up came back 00:16:44.040 |
You know just hung out for like 20 minutes and then I went back out to go play tennis 00:16:49.880 |
So in other words, I was almost on the road for two hours the other day 00:16:54.640 |
And I was thinking of myself. This is so inefficient. Like this is the inefficiency that I 00:16:59.620 |
Long to escape that I've appreciated since 2012. And so if I took a full-time job I could 00:17:09.640 |
And then continue on for another 5 to 7 minutes to downtown office 00:17:14.480 |
You know just twiddle my thumbs at the water cooler make some money tell people what to do and then leave at around 00:17:23.920 |
215 310 pick them up and then come back. It would just feel much more efficient 00:17:31.920 |
What happens during those work hours and what happens outside of that day that still involves work, right? 00:17:47.880 |
You know, it's just hard to say it just depends on the jobs demands 00:17:55.320 |
Generating enough passive income to pay for our living expenses is that you don't you're not all in on work 00:18:02.960 |
Right that that promotion you didn't get or that pay raise you didn't get 00:18:07.520 |
Doesn't crush you as much if you've already if you're already financially stable 00:18:11.640 |
so my thought process and I and I felt that when I did some consulting back in 2014 2015 is that 00:18:18.800 |
You know what annoying co-workers are annoying, but I don't really care 00:18:23.360 |
I'm not competing with them to you know, climb the ladder or whatever 00:18:26.200 |
Just give me something interesting to do have fun people to talk to make some money and then pick up our son and then go 00:18:35.920 |
think you I could see you enjoying that for a 00:18:40.200 |
few months and then I could see it getting old and frustrating because 00:18:55.040 |
Frustrating right? Okay. Well in conclusion, it looks like I am unable to convince you to go back to work 00:19:02.400 |
This is like the fifth year in a row running. I 00:19:08.280 |
But I'm talking. No, no, you are working very hard 00:19:11.160 |
but I'm talking about traditional work where you bring home the bacon and 00:19:22.400 |
Okay, so I failed in that however, I am working more on our business 00:19:28.680 |
Okay good and new ways with with producing more articles 00:19:32.540 |
Which you got you readers will and we're doing this podcast, which is which is great. Yeah, okay 00:19:39.680 |
Convincing you to traditionally go back to work. I 00:19:42.280 |
Have also kind of failed in convincing myself now is the ideal time to go back to work 00:19:47.800 |
But I'd love to hear from all of you guys, especially with 00:19:54.360 |
Do you find it better because the comments in my post a lot of people said oh, it's so much easier now better 00:20:02.720 |
Whereas in the past I had to travel a lot and work ten hours a day 00:20:06.920 |
so I'd love to hear from all of you about work during the pandemic and what am I missing and 00:20:16.000 |
Thanks so much. And if you enjoyed this podcast love a positive five-star review leave a comment 00:20:21.400 |
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