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0:0 Cal's intro
3:30 Why are lumberjacks happier than lawyers?
29:0 Cal talks about Notion and Huel
32:20 Should I leave a good job to gain more autonomy?
38:27 Should I quit my trainer job?
45:52 What does Cal’s workday look like?
54:49 How can I create a career without skills?
58:38 Case Study - The Slow Lawyer
62:40 Cal talks about Policy Genius and Better Help
65:34 December 2022 Books
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I was reading my physical copy of the Washington Post 00:00:46.300 |
in my leisure life, I strive to be as much as possible 00:01:06.040 |
Anyway, so I'm reading the physical newspaper, 00:01:10.840 |
in the business section of the Washington Post. 00:01:14.020 |
The title is "The Happiest, Least Stressful Jobs on Earth." 00:01:27.080 |
as well as how stressful their life makes them. 00:01:40.040 |
what jobs make us happy, what jobs make us unhappy, 00:01:42.640 |
what jobs stress us out, what jobs don't stress us out. 00:01:45.800 |
I was a little surprised, actually, by the top choice, 00:01:50.240 |
so what was the happiest, least stressful job 00:01:57.900 |
what was the least happy, most stressful job. 00:02:02.780 |
What do you think the happiest, least stressful job 00:02:14.180 |
- I thought you were gonna say podcast producer. 00:02:17.020 |
And the fact that you didn't say podcast producer 00:02:24.460 |
And what about least happy, most stressful job? 00:02:32.140 |
- Okay, and then you think that's also the least happy? 00:02:45.380 |
Least happy, most stressful does turn out to be lawyers. 00:02:51.260 |
The surprising question, the surprising response 00:02:58.540 |
Followed closely by various other agricultural jobs, 00:03:14.820 |
which is why are lumberjacks happier than lawyers? 00:03:28.220 |
All right, so let's actually jump into this article 00:03:34.580 |
So if you're watching at youtube.com/calnewportmedia, 00:03:39.480 |
this is episode 232, you'll see this on your screen. 00:03:46.220 |
I should give credit to the writer, of course. 00:04:00.740 |
We have an analysis based on thousands of time journals 00:04:09.180 |
And they found, the researchers quoted in this article 00:04:17.360 |
have the highest levels of self-reported happiness 00:04:20.180 |
and the lowest levels of self-reported stress. 00:04:25.140 |
This is over all major industry categories they looked at. 00:04:36.460 |
instead of just asking what activities are you doing, 00:04:39.420 |
they were asking people how meaningful their activities were 00:04:41.920 |
and how happy, sad, stressed, pained and tired 00:04:46.300 |
So these were the questions they used to get this data. 00:04:49.360 |
All right, some other things I wanna point out 00:05:03.440 |
by far the most likely to say they're doing meaningful work, 00:05:11.500 |
the most stressful sectors were finance and insurance. 00:05:15.800 |
The single most stressful occupation, lawyers. 00:05:32.000 |
but they were happier and they were less stressed. 00:05:45.940 |
And the reason why this is a bit of a paradox 00:05:48.820 |
I mean, lumberjack jobs and farmers and forestry, 00:05:53.940 |
It's not particularly meaningful in the sense 00:05:55.900 |
that what I'm doing is connected to a bigger cause 00:06:06.960 |
This job, especially lumberjacks is particularly perilous. 00:06:13.060 |
the highest levels of pain on the job, right? 00:06:18.940 |
The actual activity from moment to moment is, 00:06:27.460 |
yet they're happy, yet they're less stressed. 00:06:33.020 |
Well, when it comes to this particular survey 00:06:43.380 |
the answer they honed in on for this particular example 00:06:50.000 |
So when they were doing this time-use survey, 00:06:56.300 |
ranks in the top three for both happiness and meaning 00:06:59.140 |
among locations in which measured activities occurred. 00:07:03.300 |
Only places of worship consistently rated higher 00:07:09.940 |
when you're outside, you're more likely to be happy. 00:07:16.020 |
Lumberjacks, farmers, foresters, they're outside a lot. 00:07:19.820 |
And so they're reaping that benefit throughout the day. 00:07:22.380 |
If you're a lawyer, by contrast, you're not outside. 00:07:25.860 |
And you have high stress because of the nature of your job. 00:07:34.860 |
the idea that we're gonna explore throughout today's episode, 00:07:38.120 |
which is the idea that the characteristics of your workday 00:07:56.380 |
We assume that this is where we're gonna find meaning, 00:08:00.100 |
and it's gonna be the main thing controlling our stress. 00:08:09.380 |
Similar professions in terms of their drain on society. 00:08:16.980 |
I'm still just mad you didn't say podcast producers 00:08:21.820 |
So we care a lot in American culture about what is my job. 00:08:28.060 |
by the study summarized in the Washington Post article 00:08:34.740 |
independent of the specific content of your job, 00:08:41.120 |
Those lumberjacks are happy not because on paper 00:08:47.860 |
but because of the characteristics of the workday. 00:08:55.980 |
but the characteristics can play a huge role. 00:09:01.580 |
I wrote down four different characteristics of a workday 00:09:05.540 |
that are relatively independent of the content of your job 00:09:20.140 |
beyond just telling people quit your lawyer job 00:09:25.520 |
So I'm gonna enumerate four characteristics of workdays 00:09:29.260 |
that really has an impact on your subjective experience 00:09:37.100 |
This is what we got with the lumberjack data. 00:09:40.820 |
tends to make human beings happier and less stressed. 00:09:44.140 |
Things like stressful commutes, busy offices, 00:09:48.520 |
it's in your laundry room and it's loud and it's cluttered. 00:09:59.820 |
Number two, the stress generated by your work. 00:10:03.100 |
I say this is a characteristic of your workday as well, 00:10:07.980 |
independent of the specific source of this stress. 00:10:11.620 |
This also shows up in the data summarized in that article. 00:10:18.060 |
is that their jobs have many moments of stress 00:10:20.460 |
and humans don't like to be constantly exposed to stress. 00:10:25.180 |
So if your job has these constant rate of moments 00:10:29.820 |
of your cortisol going up, that heart rate getting going, 00:10:35.320 |
you are likely to be less happy about that job. 00:10:43.700 |
I would say the major source of stress is overload, 00:10:48.860 |
So this would be your job has too many things coming at you, 00:10:54.540 |
So you're constantly context shifting, which is painful, 00:10:59.980 |
not even sure about everything that's on your plate. 00:11:02.100 |
That is probably the most common source of acute stress 00:11:06.820 |
in white collar jobs, this type of thing matters. 00:11:16.740 |
Humans are upset when we have lots of ambiguous tasks 00:11:25.020 |
Let me just tell you a specific example from my life 00:11:32.100 |
a logistical and active logistical organization 00:11:37.700 |
And there was a little bit of ambiguity about how to do it. 00:11:40.920 |
I wasn't quite sure if I had the right information 00:11:48.860 |
It was, I don't really know how to take the next step 00:11:51.700 |
towards organizing, it was office hours or something like that 00:11:58.940 |
I didn't wanna do it, it was hanging over me, 00:12:03.940 |
let me just think this through and send some messages, 00:12:05.620 |
but it was ambiguous what to do next, source of stress. 00:12:08.220 |
So the more of that type of work you have on the plate, 00:12:14.780 |
constantly trying to figure out how to put out fires, 00:12:17.540 |
whose entire scope you don't quite understand, 00:12:20.140 |
it's gonna hurt your subjective experience of work. 00:12:22.700 |
Remember, this makes me think of the movie "Office Space". 00:12:26.580 |
You know "Office Space", Jesse, the Mike Judge movie? 00:12:33.240 |
- So for those who don't know, "Office Space", 00:12:34.980 |
the Mike Judge movie, I think this was like 1999 or 2000. 00:12:46.100 |
doing something vaguely involving software development. 00:12:53.220 |
A send up of the inanity of modern knowledge work. 00:12:59.660 |
but where he ends up in the end, he's very happy, 00:13:03.140 |
is a construction crew where he's just shoveling debris. 00:13:07.540 |
Now it's actually the building, I will spoil it, 00:13:19.820 |
He's like, he shows up, I'm moving this stuff into here, 00:13:24.020 |
And he had this sort of great piece about it. 00:13:28.420 |
which is clarity and simplicity about what you wanna do. 00:13:35.540 |
we're moving these logs, here's what has to happen. 00:13:38.540 |
The final characteristic of a workday that really matters 00:13:41.140 |
for your subjective experience is control over your work. 00:13:47.820 |
Not that your job is always easy, but you can control it. 00:13:50.780 |
All right, we're gonna have a busy period here 00:14:00.900 |
I don't always feel like I'm in a performative state 00:14:09.960 |
When we don't have that, that can also be something 00:14:12.780 |
that pulls down our happiness, pushes up our stress. 00:14:17.180 |
All right, so we have four characteristics here. 00:14:23.300 |
All of this, again, is agnostic to the content of your job. 00:14:27.160 |
These are characteristics that are more general than that 00:14:30.300 |
and really matter whether or not you're happy 00:14:40.980 |
and in particular, the craft bucket of the deep life, 00:14:43.160 |
how does our work fit into our vision of the deep life, 00:14:47.280 |
we should care as much about the characteristics 00:14:54.920 |
We should engineer for the characteristics of our work, 00:14:58.680 |
just like we might engineer to get in better shape, 00:15:01.320 |
or just like we might engineer to live in a place 00:15:06.980 |
We should care and engineer for those characteristics. 00:15:28.560 |
All right, so let's go back to the setting of the work. 00:15:32.240 |
I mentioned the setting of the work can really matter. 00:15:34.960 |
So I wanna give an, oops, it's the wrong browser. 00:15:37.680 |
Again, if you're watching at youtube.com/calnewportmedia, 00:15:44.980 |
This is Nate, I guess I'll call him Nate Frugalwoods. 00:16:03.560 |
And so I have a picture of Nate and his two daughters 00:16:11.840 |
And I'm gonna focus on Nate's job in particular. 00:16:15.320 |
They were living in Central Square in Cambridge, 00:16:26.360 |
They lived there in a row house and they were stressed. 00:16:32.540 |
She worked in a different policy shop or a nonprofit. 00:16:35.760 |
And they decided they were going to leave the city. 00:16:57.800 |
Most of it's forest, but they have meadows with, 00:17:06.640 |
Very scenic, isolated up on this mountainside. 00:17:10.520 |
What's interesting about what Nate and Liz did 00:17:14.120 |
is that Nate kept his job as a computer programmer 00:17:27.080 |
due to rural internet, some rural internet programs, 00:17:39.620 |
but now interspersing this work on the computer screen 00:17:54.860 |
because they heat their house off a wood-burning stove. 00:18:08.720 |
Driving skid steers and doing things with chainsaws. 00:18:28.400 |
those Carhartt suits when you're living in New England 00:18:32.680 |
working on that stuff, working, taking breaks, 00:18:34.620 |
ending his work early, going out and doing that. 00:18:39.540 |
in which their work happened in an extreme way. 00:18:44.680 |
When I see how much he loves doing all that stuff, 00:18:50.020 |
Nate living in Central Square in a small row house, 00:18:53.280 |
He must've been way less happy than he realized. 00:18:58.300 |
Let's talk about controlling stress in your job. 00:19:08.020 |
So those who are watching the YouTube channel will see, 00:19:19.840 |
It's probably a theme you're probably seeing here, Jesse. 00:19:21.680 |
He's in the woods, walking a path in a field on his property 00:19:35.420 |
'cause I've talked about him before on the show. 00:19:46.380 |
Instead, use that career capital you're growing 00:19:49.600 |
to make your business have a smaller footprint on your life. 00:19:54.420 |
instead of saying, "Great, I can triple my business 00:20:03.420 |
Well, anyways, he has done this in his own life. 00:20:05.480 |
So he was a web developer and he was good at it. 00:20:15.960 |
There's personalities that sometimes clash with your own, 00:20:27.140 |
So he shifted from client work to now he does more, 00:20:31.260 |
I would call it like esoteric one-off projects. 00:20:35.060 |
He'll build a software tool, he'll write a book, 00:20:37.820 |
he has a newsletter, he'll build a different software tool. 00:20:42.740 |
So it's things that he completely controls the schedule for. 00:20:48.180 |
but that's fine because him and his wife moved 00:20:51.460 |
to this rural plot of land on Victoria Island 00:20:56.300 |
that again has good enough internet for him to do his work, 00:21:05.940 |
and he works on projects on his own schedule. 00:21:12.940 |
away from what they identified as specific sources of stress. 00:21:20.540 |
we mentioned before, the clarity or simplicity of your work. 00:21:30.980 |
We've talked about him recently before on the show, 00:21:35.500 |
He has a very simplified approach to life as an author. 00:21:40.500 |
He doesn't have 15 different irons in the fire. 00:21:47.860 |
and write movie scripts and direct and have products 00:21:50.460 |
and build a James Patterson style partnership deal 00:21:53.800 |
with his publisher where he has seven authors 00:22:07.660 |
So in this article on my blog, which is from May of 2017, 00:22:12.660 |
I summarize some things I learned deep diving 00:22:17.540 |
And I'll just point out a couple things here. 00:22:24.620 |
During this period, he works five days a week, 00:22:26.380 |
starting at seven and typically ending by 10. 00:22:29.860 |
So you do that math, that is a 15 hour a week work week. 00:22:34.860 |
He writes in a period outbuilding on his property 00:22:37.500 |
that used to house an antebellum summer kitchen. 00:22:43.820 |
adding only electricity and air conditioning. 00:22:53.020 |
Grisham maintains strict rituals for his writing. 00:22:55.900 |
He starts work on a novel on the same day each year, 00:23:02.140 |
He drinks the same type of coffee from the same cup. 00:23:13.340 |
which leaves him half the year to do other things. 00:23:15.860 |
So this is someone who engineered the characteristics 00:23:33.540 |
We saw a little bit of that with Paul Jarvis. 00:23:36.660 |
Another example is friend of the show, Ginny Blake. 00:23:45.300 |
and there's an interview I did with her on this show, 00:23:48.300 |
God, it must've been a year or so ago, I don't know. 00:23:51.260 |
but I have had Ginny on the show to talk about this. 00:23:55.380 |
she talks about how she left her job at Google, 00:24:10.220 |
What makes this company maximally sustainable? 00:24:16.620 |
She works with what she calls a delightfully teeny team, 00:24:42.260 |
which is, I think, best exemplified by the fact 00:24:44.620 |
that she takes off two months each year to not work. 00:24:50.380 |
Now, as she says, she could be making more money 00:24:54.380 |
if she was, whatever, hammering the big keynotes 00:25:04.420 |
So again, she engineered the characteristics of her work. 00:25:17.100 |
These type of details are not captured there. 00:25:26.100 |
Jenny Blake runs a small business consulting company. 00:25:32.740 |
you could experience those four jobs I just mentioned. 00:25:40.740 |
were engineered radically to make that experience better. 00:25:43.720 |
So the content of your job is not the sole determinant 00:25:49.940 |
and by doing so, really change how you experience your job. 00:25:53.480 |
All right, so we don't have to become lumberjacks, 00:25:57.420 |
whatever our equivalent is of working outside. 00:26:01.420 |
How we work matters as much as what we work on. 00:26:05.100 |
So Jesse, that's my conclusion from that piece. 00:26:11.900 |
- Outdoor matters, but this other stuff matters too. 00:26:15.840 |
young people get stuck on that in particular. 00:26:17.460 |
They really get stuck on just what is my job, 00:26:23.100 |
as opposed to how do I want it to actually feel. 00:26:30.700 |
I have five questions and case studies I pulled 00:26:36.640 |
of engineering the characteristics of your workday. 00:26:42.320 |
and I'll talk about the books I read in December. 00:26:44.900 |
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So my thought is if you're gonna enjoy eating, 00:28:40.640 |
But when you're in the middle of getting after it, 00:28:48.200 |
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When you're done working, then you can care about it. 00:29:28.760 |
This is a product that we use heavily here in my life 00:29:36.580 |
So Notion is one of these electronic note-taking companies 00:29:41.720 |
that is not nearly a detailed enough explanation 00:29:52.000 |
for building sort of roughly Zettelkasten-inspired 00:30:02.400 |
who are into this type of technology use most often. 00:30:14.920 |
They built a custom Notion view where what happens is 00:30:19.380 |
every ad we're supposed to do has its own entry 00:30:22.040 |
in this underlying database, but using the magic of Notion, 00:30:25.440 |
we can display it all sorts of different ways. 00:30:27.440 |
So there's a calendar view where we can just see 00:30:29.240 |
what are the ads we're supposed to read today? 00:30:33.000 |
What are all the different ads that we have done 00:30:45.920 |
"Here's the timestamp on where the ad showed up. 00:30:48.200 |
The sponsors have their own views to quickly pull out. 00:30:50.520 |
Can I see all the reads of my ads among different shows?" 00:31:03.440 |
I haven't released it yet on the podcast, but we plan to. 00:31:13.320 |
I was like, "I am absolutely going to do this." 00:31:28.440 |
collaborate with other people on your teams or clients, 00:31:34.280 |
This is why I wanted them to be a sponsor of the show 00:31:46.200 |
Notion is a flexible, collaborative workspace 00:31:57.960 |
Notion lets you build the exact system you want 00:32:27.840 |
All right, so now we're gonna do some questions. 00:32:29.240 |
Again, I'm trying to make the questions we pull 00:32:37.400 |
to make your work more happy and less stressful. 00:32:48.360 |
"but I'm considering learning web development. 00:32:52.720 |
"Data and AI are mostly related to large companies, 00:32:55.140 |
"which means working as a full-time employee. 00:33:26.740 |
"So Good I," why can't I remember my own book title, Jesse? 00:33:42.020 |
All right, so in "So Good They Can't Ignore You," 00:33:45.060 |
in that book, I talk about this exact question, 00:33:48.020 |
and I tell a story, and I believe the woman's name 00:33:52.100 |
was Lisa, and she was, I'm trying to remember here, 00:33:58.620 |
So she was in marketing, her particular position 00:34:09.020 |
And so she took a yoga instructor certification course, 00:34:13.800 |
quit her marketing job to become a yoga instructor. 00:34:22.780 |
that had not worked nearly enough to replace her income, 00:34:26.380 |
and she was actually on food stamps at that point. 00:34:29.700 |
And the argument I made is, you have to be careful 00:34:32.940 |
just thinking about, what is this job gonna offer me? 00:34:38.020 |
that's less stressful, I don't have to do email. 00:34:43.500 |
And in this point, in this particular example, 00:34:51.180 |
She was not able to offer enough in that marketplace 00:34:57.780 |
and actually live this much more flexible life. 00:35:07.340 |
Career capital is my term for the rare and valuable skills 00:35:12.020 |
that you possess, the things that are of actual value 00:35:17.780 |
So if you have career capital, rare and valuable skills, 00:35:20.820 |
that gives you leverage, you can use that leverage 00:35:22.640 |
to try to get in your work things that you desire. 00:35:30.660 |
Having more autonomy while still being financially sound 00:35:39.480 |
so you should expect a need, a substantial amount 00:35:44.720 |
Just because you want your job to be more flexible 00:35:46.980 |
doesn't mean you actually can get that in your life 00:35:48.860 |
unless you have something to offer in return. 00:35:52.620 |
in thinking through what you're doing with your career 00:36:06.860 |
and enjoy flexibility, you have to be really good 00:36:10.500 |
And even if you're really good at what you do, 00:36:18.700 |
but still eventually switched to living cheaply 00:36:23.660 |
because the stress of dealing with the clients 00:36:30.460 |
you do two at a time, they pay you really good money, 00:36:37.940 |
So think through what would really be involved 00:36:42.500 |
hey, if I do a summer course online in web development, 00:36:58.300 |
for this other job to give me these traits I want, 00:37:10.840 |
are there other ways I can apply this leverage? 00:37:22.020 |
what is the full range of possible modifications 00:37:25.660 |
or ways forward I might be able to imagine or ask for? 00:37:37.220 |
who we talked about in the first segment of the show, 00:38:04.640 |
is in addition to thinking about what is really required 00:38:10.100 |
ask, if I get even better at what I'm doing now, 00:38:17.220 |
You might be the only person at your company doing that, 00:38:27.180 |
or modifying the characteristics of your workday 00:38:44.180 |
Hi, Cal and Jessie, I have a question about my career 00:38:51.940 |
but I work long hours and my pay is stagnant, 00:38:54.580 |
so I'm starting to resent my boss and the company. 00:38:57.280 |
Unfortunately, there are no better gyms for me to go. 00:39:00.900 |
I'm currently looking for adjunct teaching positions. 00:39:16.300 |
- Well, Nick, I think your solution is I'm gonna hire you. 00:39:23.820 |
into building the "Scarsguard" body from the "Viking" movie. 00:39:34.220 |
Actually, Jessie, yesterday, my sons and I were watching 00:39:41.220 |
I mentioned this to you maybe with Chris Hemsworth, 00:39:58.980 |
because he's been doing these movies for a decade. 00:40:04.220 |
before one of these shoots, 30 pounds of muscle. 00:40:10.180 |
which means he has to eat, he eats like 10 meals a day. 00:40:15.220 |
And then the other thing we learned from that 00:40:16.940 |
is when they're on set, if it's a shirtless scene, 00:40:21.940 |
there is a long weightlifting session he has to do 00:40:25.300 |
right before he goes on camera to get pumped. 00:40:28.320 |
So they're doing all of these curls and pull-ups 00:40:32.060 |
and all this type of stuff right before they run 00:40:41.940 |
- That's interesting. - So they're like bodybuilders. 00:40:43.260 |
They're super dehydrated so that the veins will pop 00:40:47.940 |
and then they have like 30 extra pounds of muscle 00:40:52.220 |
because of how much food they have to eat to keep it there. 00:40:54.820 |
So anyways, Nick, you and I, that's what we're doing. 00:41:06.780 |
No shirt, four muscles, 20 minutes of pumping up 00:41:10.620 |
right before every episode so they can get veiny. 00:41:14.900 |
is looking for, Jesse, when it comes to content 00:41:21.020 |
All right, Nick, let me give you my first reaction 00:41:24.700 |
from your question is that my concern is that you're 00:41:34.780 |
You're just bouncing off one idea to another. 00:41:37.380 |
I don't know, I guess I could be an adjunct professor 00:41:39.780 |
or maybe I could just do like an online thing 00:41:41.580 |
but that seems like really hard and I don't like my boss 00:41:44.220 |
but there's no other gym so I can't do anything else. 00:41:47.980 |
You're ping ponging off a different career ideas 00:41:55.020 |
So what I wanna do is first of all, slow you down 00:41:57.860 |
and say, okay, you're unhappy in your current situation. 00:42:03.020 |
You don't like your boss and the way he's treating you. 00:42:07.100 |
Yeah, my book's so good they can't ignore you. 00:42:09.900 |
of the small number of things that really disqualifies 00:42:11.860 |
a job regardless of all the other attributes. 00:42:21.380 |
So number one, go through the lifestyle-centric 00:42:24.340 |
career planning exercise we always talk about. 00:42:33.380 |
Now we have a target that we're working backwards 00:42:36.180 |
from when thinking through different career opportunities. 00:42:38.900 |
Our goal now is not just, is this a thing I could do? 00:42:43.180 |
Our goal is, is this on a path I can articulate 00:42:48.420 |
And that might lead you to very different options. 00:42:50.940 |
Next, as you explore these different options, 00:43:03.980 |
How does it fit into their overall income streams? 00:43:13.260 |
Or do they have a lot of complaints about it? 00:43:15.420 |
What's going on with people doing online coaching? 00:43:27.500 |
Maybe they're in different parts of the country, 00:43:33.540 |
on your list that goes into your ideal lifestyle. 00:43:38.460 |
And maybe there's something holding you back there. 00:43:40.060 |
Like, well, there's whatever, one family member there, 00:43:47.500 |
from which you could build an online coaching. 00:43:49.280 |
Meanwhile, there's gyms there that are hiring. 00:43:51.220 |
So you could start doing personal training there 00:43:55.540 |
that are grounded in research on the reality of options 00:43:59.100 |
and guided by your vision of an ideal lifestyle. 00:44:02.060 |
So this is what I'm trying to get you to do here, Nick, 00:44:09.660 |
Don't just random, that's no good, that's good. 00:44:21.300 |
It has all these other issues that come with it. 00:44:22.920 |
It's going to make these parts of their life worse 00:44:24.460 |
if they fix this, but if you're just bouncing around, 00:44:26.460 |
we're just going to stick to things randomly. 00:44:28.060 |
So let's get more systematic, lifestyle articulation, 00:44:31.660 |
research options, consider different locations, 00:44:35.220 |
and then really work through things carefully. 00:44:37.260 |
What's going to get me closer to my ideal lifestyle? 00:44:39.760 |
The combination of decisions you come up with in the end 00:44:45.380 |
- Strength and conditioning coaches are hard, 00:45:05.820 |
And then the other thing about those coaches, 00:45:22.020 |
- If it's at a college, yeah, that's the dream. 00:45:25.140 |
I think there's five college strength and conditioning 00:45:29.180 |
coaches or whatever that make over a million dollars a year. 00:45:41.340 |
is figuring out am I actually on this trajectory or not? 00:45:44.180 |
Or have I already started, I'm over at this small college, 00:46:06.660 |
or are you up early burning the midnight oil? 00:46:09.700 |
- Well, Ben, I'll tell you about my workday in a second, 00:46:13.180 |
but I gotta say, I was having fun walking over here, 00:46:21.700 |
So I know that I do have some critics out there 00:46:26.660 |
about my workday are probably quite different 00:46:31.140 |
So I thought it'd be fun to go through a critics assumption 00:46:35.060 |
about what Cal Newport's normal workday works like. 00:46:38.380 |
So I would say the critics would probably assume 00:46:39.860 |
that I'm up at something like 4.30 in the morning. 00:46:42.820 |
This is when the head of my extensive household staff 00:46:48.540 |
Maybe the head of the household staff would say, 00:47:03.860 |
My worth and meaning as a person is based off of the labor 00:47:30.660 |
like Tom Cruise in "Minority Report" at extreme speeds. 00:47:33.620 |
Next to me would be a coach who I insist dress 00:47:46.740 |
Because again, as I would tell people frequently 00:48:03.540 |
This is when James Clear and Tim Ferriss would come over. 00:48:06.420 |
We'll take supplements and weight lift for two hours 00:48:10.740 |
that we understand how everything in the world 00:48:14.420 |
Another couple hours of quick work on my Trello board. 00:48:23.740 |
and then look for any examples that feature women 00:48:26.140 |
that I could swap out for examples featuring men instead. 00:48:31.740 |
Patriarchy preserved, I'll then return to more work. 00:48:48.460 |
seven more hours of work, boom, 2 a.m. I'm back in bed. 00:49:01.420 |
From the very earliest days of my grad student career, 00:49:04.960 |
I've maintained what I call fixed schedule productivity, 00:49:07.100 |
where I fix in advance the hours I wanna work, 00:49:29.540 |
When I'm writing, I'll also put in writing sessions 00:49:32.880 |
I'll occasionally also do like an evening writing session 00:49:41.140 |
What I do during those roughly nine to five schedule, 00:49:50.280 |
when I had a teaching release and I was writing a book, 00:50:04.980 |
Right now, for example, I'm in a teaching semester, 00:50:08.140 |
I'm not writing a book, I just submitted my manuscript. 00:50:16.020 |
So I thought what I would do is I'm gonna grab it 00:50:18.940 |
and just, I'll load up my calendar for this week. 00:50:23.140 |
but I will walk through and just quickly summarize 00:50:25.620 |
like what each of my days looks like if this is helpful. 00:50:31.780 |
for those who are watching the YouTube channel. 00:50:39.660 |
where I'm just sort of in a normal teaching semester, 00:50:46.620 |
Let's look at the things around the calendar. 00:50:51.980 |
So there was actually, I didn't have to teach, 00:50:55.460 |
nothing on my calendar actually for that Monday. 00:50:58.460 |
Tuesday was also a very light day in terms of appointments. 00:51:03.460 |
So I don't even remember what I did on Tuesday. 00:51:11.700 |
I watched "Downhill Racer" with Robert Redford, 1969. 00:51:16.620 |
Fantastic sports movie, I highly recommend it. 00:51:21.180 |
So I did some work on my course in the morning, 00:51:24.900 |
drove into campus at 10, taught, office hours, taught, 00:51:40.940 |
And while I was waiting for my other kids to wake up, 00:51:42.820 |
I actually did some podcast work in the morning. 00:51:45.740 |
Then I did some administrative work, now we're podcasting. 00:51:48.540 |
And then I'm gonna do a relatively early shutdown 00:51:50.220 |
and workout before I pick up one of my other kids at three. 00:52:02.260 |
because I need to get out of my normal routine 00:52:06.700 |
Tomorrow, I'm going to campus for a faculty meeting 00:52:09.780 |
So I'm gonna go to a scenic library to continue writing. 00:52:25.940 |
It depends how crowded various libraries are. 00:52:33.540 |
- 'Cause my thought is if I'm going into Georgetown 00:52:35.180 |
for a meeting, I might as well take advantage 00:52:41.900 |
So I like, for example, the bioethical library 00:52:46.220 |
If that's crowded, I'll go to a lesser used floor 00:52:55.220 |
So there's these trails that go up through Glover Park, 00:53:05.340 |
So I'll often leave campus and walk up and down those 00:53:09.060 |
When the weather's nicer, I have a bunch of outdoor spots 00:53:11.980 |
on campus where I'll bring my laptop to write. 00:53:19.300 |
and it's hard to get started and get a hard article going. 00:53:23.300 |
So I like to do this trick whenever possible, 00:53:25.460 |
use interesting locations to try to get the juices flowing. 00:53:32.140 |
six months into the writing, you're just, let's just go. 00:53:34.780 |
You know, you start each morning at your office. 00:53:38.220 |
this needs to be, I don't know how I'm gonna even do this. 00:53:46.620 |
or somewhere kind of interesting to shake it out. 00:54:01.020 |
I mentioned that I watched a movie on Tuesday. 00:54:27.500 |
I am usually working on a couple things at a time. 00:54:32.160 |
on multiple things at a time and things finish. 00:54:37.420 |
and finished this book and did all these things, 00:54:45.620 |
over time aggregates to some pretty cool results. 00:54:54.420 |
and then I have a case study I want to share. 00:55:05.720 |
"I worry that I don't really have found an activity 00:55:08.180 |
"which I find so fulfilling as to accomplish that. 00:55:10.940 |
"Do you have any recommendations on getting started?" 00:55:14.220 |
- Well, Moritz, it's good that you're thinking 00:55:36.800 |
At the core of follow your passion is this notion 00:55:45.060 |
and therefore use that certainty to actually guide you 00:55:49.920 |
My big argument is that that's rarely the case. 00:55:57.160 |
that require a lot of skill, that create impact, 00:56:08.380 |
I would focus on figuring out how to be a student, 00:56:14.500 |
letting that open up various university opportunities. 00:56:19.340 |
choose a field of study that matches the skills 00:56:31.820 |
be efficient, autopilot schedule, time control, et cetera. 00:56:38.440 |
Choose an opportunity that is well-matched to your skills. 00:56:43.040 |
the career capital you built up in college or university, 00:56:48.040 |
and use it as leverage, and that's interesting to you, 00:56:51.000 |
and that has interesting opportunities down the line 00:56:57.120 |
I mean, really, it's often not until you're five years in 00:57:02.120 |
that was well-suited to your skills and interesting 00:57:04.800 |
that you really get to start doing cool things, 00:57:10.640 |
or go over to another company or start your own thing. 00:57:14.440 |
Right now, just be a good high school student, 00:57:17.880 |
get to university, figure out how to ace that particular job, 00:57:22.880 |
open up opportunities, choose an interesting one, 00:57:29.680 |
"Okay, now I'm ready to take my career capital 00:57:34.040 |
and that's when things really do start to get interesting. 00:57:41.500 |
but the German edition of "So Good They Can't Ignore You," 00:57:51.520 |
The German edition, it's a newspaper on the cover 00:57:57.680 |
I think it's called "The Dream Job Delusion." 00:58:07.560 |
and the Germans are like, "Ah, that dream job delusion? 00:58:29.940 |
I don't know what that means, road or something like that. 00:58:37.060 |
again, all of these questions and case studies 00:58:52.420 |
So she, Dana, or it might be a he, I'm not sure, 00:59:05.220 |
so it's the most stressful, least hapful job. 00:59:13.000 |
She says, "I work as a lawyer in civil litigation 00:59:17.640 |
"It is a deadline-driven client service profession. 00:59:24.580 |
"where you try to figure out how work fits into your life, 00:59:30.800 |
"as well as offers of partnership in this firm 00:59:32.940 |
"because they offered less freedom in my schedule. 00:59:38.100 |
"who can dictate my schedule and quota of cases. 00:59:47.060 |
"or be paying money to the partners for a share. 00:59:49.320 |
"Alternatively, if I went into the public sector 00:59:51.200 |
"or a larger firm, then I would lose autonomy. 00:59:54.180 |
"I have found that lifestyle-centric career planning 01:00:01.840 |
when you engineer the characteristics of your workday. 01:00:04.860 |
You reject the inertia towards what everyone else is doing 01:00:09.180 |
"These are the characteristics I want in my job. 01:00:13.520 |
"I have some say over how my working life unfolds. 01:00:16.680 |
"What can I do to get more of these and less of that?" 01:00:21.820 |
"Okay, I know everyone else thinks being a partner 01:00:24.320 |
"is the ultimate goal because I guess ultimately 01:00:26.400 |
"that's the highest prestige and/or the highest income, 01:00:29.900 |
"I make more than enough money as a non-partner lawyer. 01:00:39.240 |
"where I tell you how many cases I wanna take on 01:00:50.080 |
Now, I didn't read these details in the episode, 01:01:05.160 |
so I didn't wanna get into all the details on the show, 01:01:19.460 |
she can see all the other cases that need records pulled 01:01:29.100 |
They use Agile-style weekly check-in planning. 01:01:33.260 |
is that Dana plugged in the organizational systems 01:01:47.000 |
That's controlling the characteristics of your workday. 01:01:49.600 |
So I thought that was a good example to end on. 01:01:52.300 |
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This final segment, I wanna mention the books 01:05:53.400 |
As you might recall, December for me is Thriller December. 01:05:57.920 |
It is the month in which I like to read adventure 01:06:02.560 |
That's the genre that I'd say genre I really like. 01:06:07.360 |
So it's a tradition of mine is to read more thrillers 01:06:11.360 |
So I read three thrillers in December, Jesse, 01:06:38.320 |
other than there's gun battles happening in space 01:06:43.720 |
What was cool about this book, what attracted me to it 01:06:45.800 |
is that Chris Hadfield, the author, is an astronaut. 01:06:53.840 |
of how all the 1970s era Apollo space program 01:07:00.120 |
He actually understands space and what this world is like. 01:07:03.480 |
So I liked that idea that it was written by an astronaut, 01:07:08.120 |
The next one I read was Recursion by Blake Crouch. 01:07:27.520 |
It's like a masterclass in thriller structure and pacing. 01:07:32.520 |
Really that this piece of it is brilliantly done. 01:07:40.240 |
and you're moving back and forth between two timelines 01:07:44.000 |
and the way it moves back and forth, back and forth 01:07:46.680 |
and ratchets up is just a precision plot construction. 01:07:59.160 |
when I went back to read a prior book of Blake's, 01:08:10.960 |
One of the best thriller pacing I've probably ever read. 01:08:17.720 |
It's like a time, I won't give away everything that happens, 01:08:21.480 |
but the way it opens is it's playing with time. 01:08:29.200 |
He's not like, I used to say relatively young. 01:08:36.200 |
where people are having memories of different lives 01:08:40.480 |
suddenly appear and it seems to be contagious. 01:08:43.440 |
Like people nearby have the same thing happen. 01:08:46.880 |
And there's a detective that's trying to unwind 01:08:54.600 |
And then you get a plot line from back in time 01:08:56.960 |
and it catches up and then it gets crazy at the end. 01:09:10.760 |
Here's the thing about being a writer like John Grisham. 01:09:15.240 |
If you have that one or two huge successes early on, 01:09:22.600 |
Like if The Last Juror was written by someone else, 01:09:32.160 |
because he wrote The Pelican Brief and The Client 01:09:41.040 |
It's just, it's a guy starting up a newspaper 01:09:43.120 |
in the small Mississippi town that he likes to write about. 01:09:53.900 |
And then they kind of figure out what's going on. 01:10:00.120 |
But if this was the book you ran instead of The Firm, 01:10:06.980 |
There's another thriller I didn't quite finish 01:10:08.800 |
in December, so I'll get to that in the January. 01:10:11.720 |
but the fifth one I didn't finish until into January. 01:10:16.920 |
All right, I read two other books as well, non-thrillers. 01:10:38.000 |
has this thesis about what does it really mean 01:11:10.080 |
and then also the impact of religions on Lincoln. 01:11:13.480 |
I really enjoyed the way this Meacham treated it 01:11:19.680 |
What he does good in this book is set context. 01:11:41.000 |
the reactionary culture that was emerging in the South 01:11:46.360 |
And understanding that really helps make sense 01:11:48.920 |
of some of the big historical things that happened. 01:11:56.720 |
I didn't know this, and I read a lot of Lincoln, 01:11:59.120 |
that Lincoln's family, when he was a young kid, 01:12:02.340 |
was attending a church, one of these rural churches, 01:12:12.380 |
in part because of, this was the early exposure 01:12:15.900 |
he had to it, was in church, which I hadn't heard. 01:12:18.200 |
I had heard about the, there's a labor argument. 01:12:21.060 |
His dad was a working, poor, working class white 01:12:26.020 |
in Illinois, were worried about the economic ramifications 01:12:35.020 |
but he was inculcated with a religious anti-slavery message. 01:12:38.780 |
And Meacham went back and found, here's the preacher, 01:12:42.260 |
and here's the type of things they talked about. 01:12:45.420 |
Once they get to the war, and the presidency, 01:12:52.220 |
It just, it moves by really fast, but enjoyed it. 01:12:55.420 |
All right, Jesse, those were my five books from December. 01:12:58.220 |
Next month, we will talk about the five books I read 01:13:02.380 |
We'll try to do a little bit sooner next time. 01:13:12.560 |
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