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I'm joined today by Dr. Daria Rose, and we're going to talk all about food and the 00:02:30.720 |
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Without Dieting, and the creator of the award-winning blog Summer Tomato, a site 00:02:58.560 |
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So without further ado, I hope you enjoy my conversation with Dr. 00:03:16.960 |
Yeah, so I just want to jump in and get your take on what do most people get wrong 00:03:24.840 |
Well, I think there's a general misunderstanding that diets somehow work. 00:03:30.200 |
And this is an understandable thing to be confused about because it really depends 00:03:36.760 |
So for the short term, you can get pretty much any diet to work, right? 00:03:44.400 |
I mean, if you're paying attention and you start something new and you're 00:03:48.320 |
motivated, like it's pretty easy to lose weight for a few months. 00:03:51.520 |
The issue, though, is that in the long term, 95% of diets fail. 00:03:57.240 |
And I'm not just throwing that number out there. 00:03:58.520 |
That's the actual number, like the long term success rate is low. 00:04:03.120 |
And in fact, having a history of dieting is a predictor of weight gain. 00:04:07.880 |
So in fact, dieting is a better way to gain weight than to lose weight. 00:04:12.520 |
I mean, decades of data that show this, the best data set of people that we know 00:04:19.360 |
that have lost weight and keeped it off is the National Weight Control Registry, 00:04:23.920 |
And there is a group of people that have succeeded. 00:04:30.600 |
And when I say long term, I mean like three years. 00:04:32.800 |
Like if you're saying has worked for like three years, you're in the top 5%. 00:04:37.640 |
And so just to get a little bit of your background, how did this become an 00:04:42.360 |
How did you become so knowledgeable and passionate about food and everything? 00:04:47.720 |
Well, I grew up, I might date myself here, but I grew up in, in Southern 00:05:06.080 |
I thought that's what just what women did to be normal. 00:05:11.200 |
I know a lot of women and girls who grew up that way, but you know, it's, it's 00:05:21.080 |
You're never satisfied with the food you eat or how you look, which are two big 00:05:26.320 |
I mean, those are two things that have a lot of impact on your quality of life. 00:05:33.040 |
So that was always just kind of going on in the background of existence. 00:05:35.560 |
And then when I got to college, I realized I really loved biology and I 00:05:40.280 |
And I actually developed the skills and training to be able to read scientific 00:05:46.920 |
And actually it helps to even be on the university campus and have access to the 00:05:50.200 |
scientific papers because they're not generally accessible to the general 00:05:56.000 |
It's a lot of many years of training to be able to actually read those papers. 00:05:58.640 |
And that was when I realized that I didn't have to rely on like a glossy 00:06:02.520 |
magazines and diet books to figure out how to do this. 00:06:06.080 |
And so I just I literally spent an entire year just reading papers about how to 00:06:10.920 |
be healthy and keep your weight in a good place. 00:06:14.520 |
And it just ended up being astounding to me what I learned. 00:06:20.960 |
And then I felt like I had to tell everybody about it. 00:06:23.480 |
What were a few of those astounding things that you picked up along the way? 00:06:29.480 |
It's like I knew that, like I knew that the diets didn't work for very long, but 00:06:33.120 |
For some reason, it's I kept trying, like doing the same thing over and over 00:06:39.920 |
Like the research is overwhelmingly convincing on that. 00:06:45.000 |
And the other thing I dug deep into the research of because I got frustrated. 00:06:50.520 |
I was like, OK, it sounds like it's impossible to lose weight. 00:06:52.480 |
But the the other question I had was, well, what about people who never have 00:06:56.960 |
this problem, who are always healthy and always spend their entire lives? 00:07:01.480 |
And it turns out what they do is not doesn't seem very special if you just 00:07:06.720 |
But on the inside, what they do is they have dozens of little habits that just 00:07:14.200 |
sort of keep them in check, whether that's they walk a lot or they cook at 00:07:20.360 |
They don't it doesn't have to look the same for everybody. 00:07:22.480 |
But healthy people tend to have a suite of habits that they use to sort of keep 00:07:31.400 |
I was expecting to find something like, oh, you can't eat carbs or, oh, you need 00:07:36.680 |
Or I thought there was going to be some trick, because when you read a lot of 00:07:39.560 |
diet books, you're kind of prone to thinking there's going to be some special 00:07:43.400 |
It's very boring if they cook vegetables and eat them. 00:07:46.000 |
And what do you think causes people to believe that these diets will work if 00:07:52.840 |
A lot of marketing money is in this industry. 00:07:57.480 |
I mean, it's a multi-billion dollar industry and there's a lot of money to be 00:08:04.680 |
made by making people feel bad and about themselves. 00:08:08.000 |
And a certain vision of beauty is projected in the world and people are 00:08:13.920 |
And then the other big thing is, like I said earlier, all diets can kind of work 00:08:19.880 |
So it gives you this false sense of, oh, if I just keep doing that, it'll the 00:08:27.360 |
Like I, if I just kept doing this thing, it would work. 00:08:30.960 |
And that's just, that just goes against everything about the human mind and how 00:08:38.600 |
So you think you're failing by not sticking to the diet, but in the reality 00:08:45.520 |
Nobody can torture themselves indefinitely and expect to magically like come out the 00:08:53.920 |
And it's kind of remarkable when you think about it. 00:08:57.800 |
And so is the reason that any diet ends up failing just that people don't have, I 00:09:01.800 |
guess, the willpower to keep it up or why does it fail? 00:09:06.760 |
It's usually what'll happen is people will find shortcuts. 00:09:12.040 |
They're like, well, I can't eat carbs, but, oh, but all these like low carb energy 00:09:17.440 |
They'll start like finding ways to sort of actually eat a bunch of processed food 00:09:22.800 |
So you start being really good and like only eating chicken thighs and broccoli 00:09:27.280 |
and salmon, but then it sort of morphs into something less good. 00:09:30.840 |
But also sometimes even people that are able to mostly stick to it, your body 00:09:36.480 |
So you can't really do the same thing and expect it to keep working. 00:09:43.040 |
You have to change your life around it and you have to kind of go the other 00:09:50.560 |
And so, you know, you read all these research papers, you learned all this, 00:09:54.600 |
What kind of was the desire to make that move in your life? 00:09:59.120 |
Well, before that, I was running a website called Summer Tomatoes, basically 00:10:04.160 |
my blog, and I was writing articles and I just really wanted to put everything 00:10:08.640 |
that I'd learned together over a decade of doing this work. 00:10:12.240 |
And what I really wanted to convey with Foodist, my book, was if you are a 00:10:19.080 |
dieter and this is something you've struggled with for your entire life, 00:10:22.640 |
this is a way you can go from that to being what I call a foodist, which is 00:10:28.520 |
somebody who uses food to make their lives better and happier and healthier, 00:10:37.280 |
A dieter is like a food is their enemy, like you're constantly trying to prevent 00:10:43.880 |
Like for me, food was the biggest source of anxiety and struggle in my life 00:10:48.200 |
And now it's like my favorite thing in the world. 00:10:51.240 |
I know I've been fortunate to eat meals with you and food around you is always 00:10:57.480 |
So I want to dig into this whole idea of being able to find a different way, have 00:11:02.360 |
a different relationship with food that can be way more, I guess, enjoyable than 00:11:11.240 |
So, I mean, on the just practical level of what to eat, that's sort of the first 00:11:15.800 |
step. And my piece of advice there is to get away from processed foods as much as 00:11:23.040 |
possible and have most of your food be about real intact, whole foods that you 00:11:28.080 |
would find like in a garden or in the produce section of the grocery store or 00:11:33.440 |
Real food ingredients, basic ingredients versus packaged things. 00:11:39.080 |
And obviously, like we all have moments where we're out and we need to like do 00:11:42.640 |
convenience things or it's a holiday or you're at the movies with your kids for 00:11:46.080 |
the first time in two years and you want to just have some stupid M&M's like 00:11:49.680 |
But I'm just talking like the bulk of your day, your breakfast, lunch, dinner, 00:11:53.480 |
five days a week type of thing should be focused on real food. 00:11:56.920 |
And then there is a whole psychology around interacting with that real food 00:12:03.120 |
and making yourself want it more than you want the processed stuff. 00:12:08.400 |
And there's an art and a science to that as well. 00:12:11.000 |
Yeah, I mean, let's start with so is it it's just packaged foods, but are there 00:12:15.760 |
other things about this kind of real food concept to dig into about what they 00:12:20.600 |
are, how to pick them, things that are important? 00:12:22.640 |
But generally, you want to just start with raw ingredients. 00:12:26.520 |
And I it takes it's a skill to be able to cook, right? 00:12:33.160 |
But real ingredients are kind of pretty good. 00:12:36.880 |
Like you just take some broccoli, as long as it's like a decent kind of 00:12:39.840 |
broccoli, like you found it somewhere and doesn't smell like mildew or 00:12:42.360 |
something, which sadly, a lot of broccoli at grocery stores does smell like 00:12:45.600 |
mildew. But if you find a decent piece of broccoli and you heat it up in a pan 00:12:50.120 |
with some olive oil and some salt and some garlic, it's gonna taste pretty 00:12:53.440 |
good if you just kind of don't make a lot of errors. 00:12:57.160 |
So I would generally recommend people start their eat more vegetables. 00:13:02.040 |
I think one of the biggest mistakes people make is when they're trying to get 00:13:04.640 |
healthy, they think they need to eat less of things. 00:13:08.280 |
Start with adding adding these foods to whatever else you're doing until it 00:13:14.160 |
Then you can add more or then you can start thinking about what to remove. 00:13:17.280 |
But start by adding most people just don't even know how to eat vegetables 00:13:19.920 |
or have like never they're like they've lost this practice. 00:13:23.120 |
And so it's something that people need to learn. 00:13:26.360 |
I've certainly I remember one time we had a tenant in our house and we were 00:13:29.840 |
like, you know what, we should get to know Scott, let's go out to dinner. 00:13:31.720 |
And he was like, Yeah, I don't eat vegetables. 00:13:35.280 |
And and I feel like I had nothing to say other than like, just pure shock. 00:13:40.320 |
But I feel like if you were at that table, and you met this person who's 00:13:42.640 |
like, yeah, I just I've never eaten vegetables. 00:13:45.160 |
What would you tell that person to kind of open their eyes up to what 00:13:52.840 |
I've done this with with more people than I can count. 00:13:55.920 |
You the main thing I want to do is feed them because my deep held belief is 00:14:01.720 |
that people don't like vegetables because they haven't had good ones. 00:14:05.280 |
Or the texture or something is just so outside of the realm of experience 00:14:12.040 |
And I and I 100% believe that you you can learn to like foods you don't 00:14:21.680 |
I you know, I ate some vegetables, but I didn't like wouldn't say I loved 00:14:26.040 |
I definitely hated spinach, Brussels sprouts, lima beans, all sorts of 00:14:36.280 |
And when I changed my approach to food, I started shopping at different 00:14:41.640 |
So I really realized that I really like the food at the farmer's market 00:14:44.520 |
because it's in season, it's cheaper, and it tastes better. 00:14:47.160 |
And because it's grown by people who really care about these giant 00:14:51.160 |
And one of the things that was most profound to me was that when you buy 00:14:55.680 |
food in season, when you buy food that somebody cares about, it tastes 00:15:00.600 |
You don't really know what that tastes like if you've never had it before, 00:15:05.920 |
Sometimes I'd try cucumbers and I'm like, No, these are still not good. 00:15:09.240 |
But eventually, I figured out a way to like everything I can honestly say 00:15:13.640 |
that I like all vegetables right now are all foods in general. 00:15:16.600 |
I mean, I'll and I'll definitely try or eat anything. 00:15:18.680 |
I would never just like categorically say I don't like something because I 00:15:22.880 |
know that's just that's just my perception of it. 00:15:25.560 |
I can say I have never enjoyed this, but I'm open to the fact that it's 00:15:30.080 |
Yeah. And one thing that you said that I thought was interesting was go to 00:15:33.480 |
the farmer's market seven season that makes sense. 00:15:36.720 |
And there's a theme to this show about saving. 00:15:39.760 |
And I think there's a perception and I would say I even have it sometimes that 00:15:43.600 |
going to the farmer's market is like so boutique II all these little shops like 00:15:56.240 |
Fruit at the farmer's market is really expensive. 00:15:58.720 |
But most people, since they're kind of vegetable rookies, they go there and 00:16:02.760 |
they mainly see the fruit and they'll see these like four dollar a pound 00:16:09.160 |
But you buy one of those peaches and you eat one of those peaches and you're 00:16:12.360 |
like, holy shit, this is the best peach I've ever had in my life. 00:16:17.240 |
But right next door, there's the kale and you can get two bunches for a 00:16:21.120 |
dollar. That'll feed a lot of people for like one or two meals. 00:16:26.720 |
And and so my experience is the vegetables are actually quite comparable 00:16:32.320 |
in terms of price. Ripe fruit is very delicate and heavy and it's a lot 00:16:37.480 |
harder to ship. That's why the stuff at the grocery store isn't good. 00:16:40.160 |
It's bred to be hard and firm and like withstand a lot of travel and being 00:16:47.200 |
So, yes, if you go there and all you want to buy is fruit, you're going to be 00:16:51.040 |
But for the most part, I think if you go to the farmer's market knowing I 00:16:54.840 |
should be shopping for vegetables, you'll find incredibly good deals. 00:16:58.040 |
And when I was a grad student in SF, I was like literally living in SF on 00:17:15.960 |
Yeah. And so, OK, so in season, organic food in season, cheaper. 00:17:21.440 |
Great. When you said knowing how to cook it, are there are there tips on how to 00:17:25.280 |
cook these fresh foods that make it easier for someone who maybe isn't used to 00:17:30.680 |
Yeah. So there's a ton of little tricks I taught myself really to cook. 00:17:36.480 |
And that makes it really fun because you do you learn these little tricks that. 00:17:41.600 |
You're like, oh, if I would have just known this before, I would have liked 00:17:46.520 |
So like one example, like a mistake that I see people often use, they'll put 00:17:51.360 |
food in a pan before it's hot and like that's just like you don't want to do 00:17:55.480 |
that. You want to heat the pan first, then put oil in it and then put the food. 00:17:59.240 |
So when it sizzles, when it gets there, so you can get that crisp in there. 00:18:02.280 |
Also, people often put way too much in the pan and it gets overcrowded. 00:18:06.120 |
So instead of browning and making something crispy and yummy, it'll steam it 00:18:10.160 |
and make it soggy. And that'll really like kill the texture and sometimes even 00:18:14.480 |
kill some of the flavor because it'll get overcooked but never really brown. 00:18:19.760 |
It sounds like you could fix that with just a bigger pan. 00:18:23.960 |
Yeah, exactly. People often don't use enough salt, which is so ironic because 00:18:31.600 |
But if you're cooking at home, it's you're using literally like seventy five 00:18:37.520 |
Even if you like go to town salting your food, it's like really hard to oversalt 00:18:41.640 |
your own food. So if something doesn't quite taste right, try a little more salt 00:18:46.240 |
sometimes. I mean, and don't and don't do the whole batch, like take one little 00:18:48.960 |
piece off and test it if you're and taste it. 00:18:51.920 |
And if you're if it tastes better than you're on the right track. 00:18:54.280 |
Honestly, I really recommend Samin Nosrat's book, Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat. 00:18:58.480 |
I think for like a priming and cooking skills, you can't beat that book because 00:19:02.760 |
sometimes you just need a little bit of acid. 00:19:04.400 |
You know, sometimes you just need a little fat in there to fix it. 00:19:07.320 |
And that can really take food that you are not very excited about and make it 00:19:10.720 |
amazing. And you're like, wow, I didn't even think I had this in me. 00:19:12.840 |
I never wanted to be a cook, but now I can cook. 00:19:16.680 |
I mean, I know I've learned this both from you and others that a plate of fresh 00:19:20.960 |
vegetables from the farmer's market just easily cooked in without much work can be 00:19:25.760 |
delicious. Like we often go to the farmer's market, make some rice, make some 00:19:38.760 |
Rice is not an expensive thing, but rice is a carb. 00:19:43.200 |
Is that OK? Do you feel like carbs are like fresh rice? 00:19:51.000 |
So one of the most important things you can do psychologically is never call any 00:19:55.040 |
food good or bad. OK, every food has value in some way. 00:20:02.120 |
Yes, in the right setting, the Twinkie has value because maybe it has nostalgia or 00:20:09.600 |
I don't I don't know what you're I mean, I don't think you should eat Twinkies for 00:20:12.320 |
breakfast every day, but I don't even like Twinkies. 00:20:15.360 |
I just think of them as like the quintessential worst food. 00:20:18.160 |
I mean, in some ways, it's one of the least healthy things you can put in your 00:20:22.440 |
body. My point is that that health isn't the only reason we eat. 00:20:25.440 |
And again, there's like the psychology that goes on. 00:20:28.000 |
If you tell yourself a food is forbidden, you are just setting up a whole dichotomy 00:20:34.000 |
that will set you up for failure because all of a sudden it becomes a reward. 00:20:36.920 |
Right. If you tell yourself something's forbidden, suddenly you can earn it if 00:20:46.240 |
So I discourage anyone from thinking carbs or meat or fat is bad. 00:20:55.200 |
You can make a more healthful choice or you can make a choice for a different 00:20:58.720 |
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Is this an approach to that or is this just a new lifestyle? 00:24:24.840 |
Or what would you say to someone who's like, I probably need to lose 10 or 15 00:24:30.880 |
So I would encourage you to just try to focus more on vegetables. 00:24:34.520 |
I mean, it's funny, you can even eat a pretty rich salad, but if you're eating a 00:24:38.400 |
salad, you're going to, I find no matter what, I like find myself losing weight if 00:24:45.120 |
But, you know, it's just one of those things. 00:24:46.720 |
It's like, OK, if you've gained a little weight because of COVID or whatever, and 00:24:49.680 |
you notice you've maybe been eating a little more ice cream or whatever, I would 00:24:53.960 |
say don't, yes, like so an obvious thing you can do is eat less ice cream, right? 00:24:58.520 |
Like that's an obvious thing or pizza or whatever your little indulgence is. 00:25:02.120 |
But and I don't want you to say you can't have it, but just try to be more mindful 00:25:07.880 |
If you if it's come to the point where you're doing it two or three times a week, 00:25:16.040 |
Like and then watch your body and listen to your body. 00:25:20.240 |
And maybe for you, like you're like, no way in hell I'm giving up my ice cream. 00:25:25.520 |
So you you pick what matters to you, and be mindful of both quality and quantity. 00:25:34.240 |
I mean, if you're just if you just sit down at any meal and kind of eat whatever's in 00:25:39.720 |
But you do have to sort of think and plan like, how am I going to because you want to 00:25:43.160 |
eat enough healthy food that you feel good to when you have energy and you're not 00:25:46.400 |
So you sort of have to think about your life and think about what you're doing and how 00:25:50.080 |
much energy you need and what your weight goals are and what your health goals are 00:25:55.080 |
I think the biggest one of the biggest things people do is they go they go like, all in 00:25:59.920 |
And I just I don't think that's a recipe for long term success. 00:26:02.720 |
Yeah, we've been very happy with meal planning and kind of mapping out. 00:26:07.400 |
Okay, these are the things we're going to do this week. 00:26:09.480 |
Let's buy the groceries that make this possible. 00:26:11.920 |
And we end up not bringing home as many things that like, like, it's almost hard to 00:26:16.920 |
fall into a bad situation if you don't have it in your house. 00:26:19.680 |
And if you've made a plan, but if five o'clock rolls around, and you're like, Oh, my 00:26:26.400 |
I feel like I would just fall into a panic mode where I might take out Thai food, of 00:26:33.880 |
But yeah, what about when you're out and about and you're ordering carry out or at a 00:26:42.800 |
So yeah, if I find myself at sort of a mid range restaurant where I think the food's 00:26:47.760 |
going to be all right, like nothing that I is particularly special, but I need to get 00:26:53.000 |
some food in my body, I will definitely be super careful to make sure I order a lot of 00:26:57.680 |
vegetables. So even if it means ordering a little extra and spending an extra like six 00:27:01.240 |
bucks on the appetizer, that's a lot of vegetables. 00:27:04.840 |
And then I try to be mindful of what I'm ordering. 00:27:06.920 |
I avoid words like glazed, crispy, because it's really easy to get tricked into eating 00:27:13.080 |
like 2000 calories in one meal at a restaurant like that if you're not careful. 00:27:17.520 |
And if it's not an amazing place that you're like, this is a once in a lifetime thing. 00:27:22.400 |
I've been saving up for this for three months, you know, that's not really worth it to 00:27:29.960 |
So I try to make meals like that as healthy as I can. 00:27:32.920 |
My trick is I find that if I'm at a restaurant, I'm looking at the menu, I end up on 00:27:37.640 |
like the thing that's probably glazed and crispy. 00:27:41.040 |
But I'll look at the menu at home, like maybe right after I had breakfast and I'm not 00:27:46.880 |
When I go to this restaurant, I'm going to order this chicken salad. 00:27:50.280 |
Right. And I'll decide what I want before I go. 00:27:54.160 |
I get there and I'm like, I don't even need to look at the menu. 00:28:01.760 |
Maybe a couple of drinks in, I might change my mind if it's one of those dinners. 00:28:09.840 |
And the more you can plan in advance and make decisions before you get hungry, the more 00:28:13.800 |
you're going to win. Because nobody who's hungry makes a good decision. 00:28:18.120 |
And I assume that's also true at the grocery store. 00:28:20.280 |
Absolutely. Like you said, as long as you can keep the bad stuff out of your house, you're 00:28:28.560 |
It's really hard to strain yourself out of the same. 00:28:31.720 |
But yeah, keep things in your house that are healthy and that you want to say that you 00:28:37.480 |
Yeah. The last time I hung out with you in person, I noticed that after dinner you had 00:28:44.560 |
And it had me thinking, gosh, sometimes after dinner, I just want something sweet to 00:28:50.520 |
And I was like, man, if I just had that, that would that would substitute any other 00:28:59.280 |
And I was like, instead, I have no dark chocolate. 00:29:01.960 |
I just have a box of Oreos and both would have been fine. 00:29:06.280 |
And so I made the wrong decision or I made the only decision. 00:29:10.800 |
But it sounds like you analyzed it and you figured out why. 00:29:13.280 |
So you have the opportunity next time to make the right decision. 00:29:15.880 |
Yeah. Yeah. Are there other things for people who have that sweet tooth, which I would 00:29:21.080 |
say I fall into a trap of less self-control around a batch of freshly baked cookies 00:29:29.320 |
Like what are ways to either kind of get over that desire or sweet tooth? 00:29:34.880 |
Let's start there. And then I'm also curious if there are things that kind of fill that 00:29:42.160 |
Yeah. So what one thing that I found to be very true is the less you eat it, the more 00:29:47.960 |
you crave it. So I used to consider myself a sweet tooth and I always had to have 00:29:53.200 |
something up to do, especially if I had a lot of garlic, for some reason, five garlic 00:29:56.160 |
breath. Even if I brush my teeth, I kind of just like want some sugar. 00:29:58.400 |
But that has just faded and faded and faded over time. 00:30:01.840 |
And it's a lot less desirable to me now, which is fantastic. 00:30:06.680 |
The other thing is that there's dark chocolate is fantastic. 00:30:10.040 |
I like sometimes it's it's kind of calorie rich, but it's not I wouldn't say it's bad 00:30:13.680 |
for you. But I like dark chocolate with a scoop of peanut butter on it. 00:30:15.880 |
And that's good. But I'm also I have like so I'm a weirdo. 00:30:18.960 |
Like I said, I don't like that much sugar these days, but I do. 00:30:23.320 |
One of my biggest indulgences that I'm a little bit embarrassed about is I pay a sort 00:30:28.120 |
of ridiculous amount of money to get fruit shipped from California to my house in 00:30:36.320 |
These these Pluots, they're called Flavor King Pluots and these peaches from Frog Hollow 00:30:42.680 |
Farm. I buy them and get so excited to eat one after dinner because they're so delicious 00:30:49.040 |
and they smell so good and they're just like worth every penny. 00:30:50.960 |
They're so good. Yeah, one time my my parents used to live on the East Coast and they 00:30:55.240 |
came out to visit and we went to a farmer's market in Oakland and my mom's like, what 00:31:00.200 |
is a Pluot? Like a Pluot, I would say, at least growing up, I'd never heard of a 00:31:04.680 |
Pluot. And up until that farmer's market, I hadn't even ever heard of one either. 00:31:08.840 |
And we tried it. We're like, oh, my gosh, this is amazing. 00:31:11.120 |
Obviously, me living in California, my sister living in California, we're really big 00:31:14.640 |
drivers. But I think 20 percent of her desire to move to California was the fresh fruit 00:31:21.240 |
So I think I think you would you would enjoy time together enjoying fresh fruit here. 00:31:26.840 |
You talked about the group of people that actually were able to to keep weight down 00:31:34.040 |
Are there habits that you think people can adopt to start to make this easier, both 00:31:40.160 |
eating healthy and just kind of living a more intentional lifestyle? 00:31:43.400 |
There's a good question. So there's two big pieces. 00:31:47.560 |
One is around movement and one is around food. 00:31:52.520 |
I there's this thing of formal exercise is fantastic, like if you enjoy it, that's 00:32:01.480 |
I think that no matter what your health status, everybody should do a little bit of 00:32:05.160 |
cardio a few times a week and do some strength training just for aging. 00:32:09.240 |
I mean, you're just not going to get a better bang for your buck for staying alive and 00:32:16.200 |
And and it is like an amazing it like it helps you sleep. 00:32:21.240 |
But. The amount of energy that you can use just doing normal daily life stuff, people 00:32:30.760 |
So people tend to have habits of like taking the elevator, sitting on a bench when 00:32:34.840 |
waiting for something like I would just encourage people to start looking at those as 00:32:40.080 |
And so I almost never sit if I'm waiting at a doctor's office, like I'm the one 00:32:44.600 |
standing. Well, it's much easier now with covid because I'm like, oh, I'm going to get 00:32:49.040 |
a disease if I sit there. So I'm not going to touch anything. 00:32:51.200 |
But maybe we all have a little bit more of these habits now. 00:32:53.760 |
But just just try to be thoughtful about just try to be active and get your kids 00:32:57.520 |
involved to get whatever like well, it's like recruitment. 00:33:02.080 |
Actually, it feels really good before you go to the next one. 00:33:04.120 |
With regard to covid, I feel like video meetings have taken over and now there's 00:33:08.960 |
constantly meetings that could be phone calls, probably were phone calls in 2019. 00:33:14.480 |
And as much as I enjoy getting to connect with people's faces on a screen, I feel like 00:33:19.880 |
I've lost a lot of the ability to take a walking call or a walking in-person meeting. 00:33:28.240 |
And I'm like, actually, let's do this as a phone call and go on a walk. 00:33:32.320 |
And it's been hard during covid because everyone wants to meet on Zoom or Skype or 00:33:37.360 |
something. And so I'd say if you don't feel like you get enough time to do that 00:33:40.560 |
anymore, just push back, say, hey, we don't need to do this on a video call. 00:33:44.360 |
Let's do a phone call or just most of these have ability to dial in. 00:33:47.640 |
I'll just dial in and say, hey, you don't need to turn your video on. 00:33:55.280 |
So movement and and so on the food front, like I said, the first thing I recommend to 00:34:02.080 |
Like it's so much easier than a don't don't don't don't. 00:34:05.040 |
I mean, if you don't know how to cook, it's one of the the number one skills you can 00:34:10.720 |
develop in life. And I would say start small and pick pick a meal. 00:34:16.960 |
Maybe start with breakfast or figure out ways to cook. 00:34:19.440 |
I say having a schedule around the grocery store is really important to like working 00:34:24.280 |
that into figuring out when that's going to happen, what it's going to look like. 00:34:27.800 |
I'll rearrange my whole week to make sure that the produce I get is good because like 00:34:32.800 |
I was saying earlier, I want to love what I eat. 00:34:35.840 |
And even if it's just my Tuesday night dinner. 00:34:38.280 |
And so I will go out of my way to make sure that the salad mix I get is delightful or 00:34:44.400 |
that the the carrots I'm going to cook for my kids are sweet and tasty. 00:34:49.320 |
So it's not something that we have to fight over. 00:34:52.120 |
And so for me, I spend a little extra time, energy and money on finding the best foods 00:34:59.720 |
and make sure that like that's not a negotiable on my day. 00:35:03.360 |
Like everybody knows like I can't take meetings on Tuesdays in the afternoon because I am 00:35:08.520 |
grocery shopping. So there's just things like that are really helpful. 00:35:12.800 |
And I'd say finally, when you are thinking about removing things like again, try not to 00:35:18.000 |
build into that your self-talk, anything about moralizing food as good or bad and try to 00:35:24.440 |
acknowledge what your body wants when it wants something a little sweet or wants to have 00:35:31.560 |
some of your like mom's famous chocolate chip cookies or whatever. 00:35:37.600 |
Just kind of be more aware and know that you can't do that every day, but that you're not 00:35:41.480 |
like bad for doing it or that it's OK to like it. 00:35:49.160 |
And one thing you mentioned about learning to cook, I was doing some research before 00:35:54.960 |
this. Am I right that you have a course for learning to cook? 00:36:00.040 |
I do. So this is something that comes up a lot and it's hard to cook. 00:36:04.680 |
And I the reason I think it's hard to cook is because cooking isn't one skill. 00:36:16.520 |
And I taught myself and I know it wasn't that hard. 00:36:20.600 |
And I had so many people telling me it was too hard and like it's not that hard. 00:36:25.120 |
It's a 30 day program to teach people to cook without recipes, because when I started 00:36:30.080 |
interviewing people about why they don't cook, they would just give me these stories 00:36:34.520 |
about how they go to the grocery store with a list trying to make all these recipes. 00:36:38.800 |
They get home. But, you know, they only used half an onion and like two carrots out of 00:36:44.520 |
And because they don't really know how to cook, maybe they didn't quite season it 00:36:47.040 |
right. Or maybe they cut the carrot chunks too big. 00:36:49.600 |
And so it didn't quite turn out as well as they want. 00:36:51.720 |
So they have all this food because they made a batch for like six people. 00:36:57.000 |
There's a bunch of leftovers in the fridge that go bad. 00:36:59.040 |
Then the rest of their groceries that they didn't use in the recipes go bad. 00:37:02.000 |
And they're like miserable. They're like, why did I do this? 00:37:10.680 |
So I realized after talking to the people who do cook and the people who don't cook 00:37:14.520 |
is the biggest difference was how much they rely on recipes as like a day to day 00:37:18.080 |
cooking thing. It's like, yeah, almost everybody will use a recipe for a bigger, 00:37:24.200 |
But people who cook a lot can throw stuff together with whatever's in their fridge. 00:37:28.240 |
And I wanted to teach people that skill because that's how I cook. 00:37:30.680 |
And I just that's the first thing I do if I'm like, what's for dinner? 00:37:32.760 |
And I don't know. I look in my fridge and see what's there. 00:37:34.880 |
It's like and I like I can start being the conductor of the orchestra of how this is 00:37:38.480 |
all going to come together in my belly later. 00:37:40.640 |
Yeah. And so is that do you think that's something easy to learn? 00:37:43.600 |
It sounds hard. I think you can learn it in 30 days. 00:37:51.440 |
Yeah. What do you think about habits that people feel like are kind of ingrained 00:37:57.560 |
from childhood? So one thing that I feel like I regret and maybe I'm 00:38:02.720 |
overemphasizing it is that I grew up in a clean plate club household and I feel like 00:38:08.440 |
it's been really hard, if not, you know, almost impossible to break the habit of 00:38:12.840 |
always eat everything that's in front of you. 00:38:17.560 |
Any any reactions or thoughts on on people who kind of grew up in that household and 00:38:22.960 |
have that kind of ingrained in their style of eating? 00:38:25.520 |
Well, I will 100 percent say that habits that you develop like under the age of 10 00:38:30.320 |
are really, really hard to break because they're they're pretty ingrained in who you 00:38:35.040 |
are and your identity. So I don't blame you for that being challenging. 00:38:39.560 |
I would say, I mean, there's a couple of ways you can solve this, right? 00:38:44.920 |
Another one is you could start a mindful eating practice. 00:38:53.480 |
So when you're eating to finish your plate, you're on autopilot, right? 00:38:57.640 |
You're telling me that the cue to stop eating is that your plate's empty. 00:39:01.840 |
So that just means you're not you're not focused on other goals. 00:39:05.640 |
One thing you can do is you can train yourself to really focus on the food in your 00:39:16.840 |
This is the single hardest food habit I developed, but I knew I needed it because I 00:39:22.000 |
would eat really fast. I grew up with two brothers, so we didn't it wasn't like 00:39:25.120 |
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But so and my husband eats really fast and I'm like triggered by his eating fast. 00:39:44.680 |
And the way I did it was I. Trained myself with one meal a day and I would just go 00:39:50.880 |
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So the premise is kind of really focus on the food, get to understand it. 00:43:36.400 |
Is it that it will slow you down and that will make you realize you're full or how does 00:43:42.640 |
I mean, one of the biggest things you'd be surprised to hear, people don't chew. 00:43:47.680 |
So when you're a fast eater and you're getting to the bottom of your plate, my guess is you're 00:43:52.760 |
chewing food probably like 20% as much as you should. 00:43:56.000 |
So that 100%, you will not feel as full as quickly. 00:44:00.400 |
And you will also probably get more stomach aches if you chew more. 00:44:04.400 |
And basically, it takes you out of the autopilot so you can actually start making decisions 00:44:08.560 |
about what you want to eat and when you want to stop that's conscious instead of unconscious. 00:44:23.400 |
And it's a five-day free program that takes you through how to tackle that one meal. 00:44:30.040 |
And there's like sort of five different things you can try. 00:44:36.480 |
So I'm coming back to some of the kind of habits and ways to get going. 00:44:42.880 |
And I know you've talked in the past and thought a lot about habits, habit creation, rewards. 00:44:48.360 |
Are there things that someone who's trying to really incorporate more vegetables, trying 00:44:52.920 |
to eat more real foods and kind of be more intentional about what they're eating, are 00:44:57.080 |
there ways to make that easier to become a habit and part of your new lifestyle? 00:45:02.040 |
Well, I mean, the easiest thing to do is work with your brain instead of against it. 00:45:08.040 |
So we kind of touched on this a little bit earlier when we were talking about moralizing 00:45:13.480 |
But when it comes to motivation, especially for things like health, where it's just day 00:45:18.680 |
to day for the rest of your life, it's not like if you have to just study for a final 00:45:22.680 |
or something or like prep for a podcast, you use willpower, you force yourself to work, 00:45:28.200 |
But this is a very different type of activity. 00:45:31.560 |
And the most important thing for activities like that in habits that you want to build 00:45:35.960 |
is that your motivation needs to be intrinsic. 00:45:38.120 |
So you need to truly enjoy what you're doing for the sake of itself. 00:45:43.020 |
So I absolutely encourage people not to think of rewards as being outside the food. 00:45:47.920 |
Like if I cook myself dinner, then I can eat dessert. 00:45:50.960 |
That's an extrinsic motivation, and it can actually undermine your intrinsic motivation. 00:45:56.080 |
There's a lot of science here, but just try to believe me on this one, that when you tell 00:46:00.600 |
yourself you have to do things for a prize, it makes the thing you're doing less and less 00:46:07.240 |
And so for food, that's why I'm constantly harping on seasonality, farmers markets, cooking 00:46:13.000 |
Because one of the things that happens when you can cook for yourself is you can actually 00:46:18.120 |
Because if you like to eat something more, like I like my food cooking more than the 00:46:21.840 |
vast majority of restaurants in probably any city I've lived in. 00:46:26.820 |
I didn't start out as some amazing chef, but I know what I like to eat and now I'm pretty 00:46:33.960 |
And I think that you really can't underestimate how much energy you need to spend making sure 00:46:38.960 |
that that is what you dial that in on your habits. 00:46:42.320 |
Because if you're trying to force yourself to do something, then it's not a habit. 00:46:45.480 |
A habit is automatic, and the only way it becomes automatic is if it's reinforced with 00:46:53.000 |
You mentioned, of course, you enjoy the food more than restaurants. 00:46:56.320 |
And earlier, you started talking about how you're willing to spend a little bit more 00:47:00.240 |
But I just want to throw out there like, if you're spending a little bit more on ingredients, 00:47:04.320 |
but making it at home, net net, it's probably still way less expensive than going way less 00:47:10.880 |
I mean, this was like my probably my number one hack for grad school was learning to cook. 00:47:14.800 |
Because I was so broke, and I'm such a food snob that like, it was like, literally, I 00:47:20.280 |
I just I was like, I have to figure out how to cook. 00:47:23.400 |
Otherwise, I'm gonna like eat myself into bankruptcy at these like fancy restaurants 00:47:27.120 |
in San Francisco, because I just I discovered those restaurants and I couldn't afford to 00:47:35.840 |
You know, I know you said get past the recipes eventually. 00:47:40.600 |
But are there a few kind of like, easy, healthy meals, someone listening to this could say, 00:47:44.240 |
you know what, give me something to make this week that I could try and I might really enjoy. 00:47:48.520 |
Oh my god, I'm gonna give you the best recipe right now. 00:47:52.080 |
Okay, get ahead of cauliflower, fresh as possible, break it up, throw it in a bowl, dose it with 00:47:59.560 |
a solid amount of olive oil and a solid amount of salt. 00:48:03.080 |
Make the pieces as close to evenly sized as possible. 00:48:06.640 |
Heat your oven to 500 or 475 if you have convection, go 475 and put the cauliflower in a baking 00:48:18.440 |
You don't have to but there's some curry powder on there. 00:48:20.280 |
It's really good on the cauliflower, get get it kind of orange, and then separate it out 00:48:26.160 |
Make sure there's like enough space on the baking sheet so it's not crowded. 00:48:35.960 |
What will happen is it'll steam a teeny bit inside there and it'll start to look a little 00:48:41.840 |
Sometimes I reduce the heat a little bit more like by 25 degrees, stir it up and stick it 00:48:45.760 |
back in the oven set your timer for eight minutes this time. 00:48:48.720 |
And then keep checking it and stirring it every eight minutes until it's brown and crispy. 00:48:53.240 |
I mean, my kids, like, I could feed them that every meal for every day and they would eat 00:49:01.120 |
It kind of tastes like cauliflower french fries. 00:49:02.640 |
I don't know, it's by far my most popular recipe and everybody I've made it for absolutely 00:49:10.520 |
And the one thing you'll realize is that you wish you bought more cauliflower, get a big 00:49:17.720 |
We're going to type it up and put it in the show notes for anyone who wants to make it. 00:49:20.040 |
I'll probably make it this weekend and I'm excited. 00:49:24.160 |
I can send you a link and there are tons of other recipes over at Summer Tomato is a huge 00:49:35.640 |
So with meat, if you're cooking meat, take it out of the fridge like an hour before you 00:49:41.280 |
Like cooking cold meat is like a really fantastic way to make it tough. 00:49:45.360 |
And if you can even better, it'd be salted the night before. 00:49:48.800 |
And then like, that's like probably the number one hack for cooking chicken. 00:49:51.960 |
Just like give it a good rub of salt, probably a little more salt than you think you need. 00:49:56.960 |
Let it sit overnight in the fridge, pull it out an hour before you want to cook it and 00:50:00.960 |
It'll your mind will be blown how much different it tastes. 00:50:11.000 |
So you've mentioned your, your kids a few times. 00:50:13.240 |
How have you started to apply these lessons to your kids? 00:50:16.040 |
And I think we probably both grew up at a time where what you eat as a kid is, is kind 00:50:20.720 |
of very different hopefully than, than what the kids eat today. 00:50:28.240 |
So this is the main thing I think about these days and yeah, my kids are amazing eaters. 00:50:34.480 |
They have this tree stump down in the yard and they call it their fairy house and they're, 00:50:38.840 |
they like go down there and they're like, we're going to cook for the fairies. 00:50:41.200 |
We're going to make the fairies kale and lentils because they love kale and lentils. 00:50:46.120 |
And Zelda, my oldest, she says the onions are her first favorite food and kale is her 00:50:51.840 |
And cauliflower is definitely up there somewhere too. 00:50:54.040 |
Yeah, no, they're fantastic eaters, but you know, it was not, not always. 00:51:01.280 |
Any, any tricks for getting them to like these foods, especially for people whose kids right 00:51:06.120 |
now kind of sneer at, at the idea of eating vegetables. 00:51:12.080 |
So a few things, I mean, make sure it tastes good. 00:51:13.080 |
I mean, one thing I find that parents will often just sort of steam vegetables in the 00:51:16.800 |
microwave or something and like barely put any salt or oil. 00:51:26.280 |
There's some rumor that started that kids need to start with bland food. 00:51:30.240 |
If you give your kids bland food, they're going to be used to and expect bland food. 00:51:33.400 |
And then when you give them flavor, they're going to freak out and think it's weird. 00:51:36.600 |
So I recommend starting with flavor as early as you can and cook things in different ways. 00:51:41.840 |
If they reject something, which totally happens, or like most kids, I mean, they're good eaters 00:51:46.080 |
until they're two and then they get, and they'll start rejecting things, you know, just be 00:51:51.480 |
Kids need to try something sometimes up to 20 times before they'll truly accept it. 00:51:55.160 |
So what I'll do is I'll cook things in different ways. 00:51:57.840 |
I'll use different spices, I'll roast versus saute if they didn't like the saute last time. 00:52:02.880 |
And then I just, I don't fight with them over it, but you know, I do expect them to take 00:52:09.420 |
I mean, at one point Zelda would, her limited vegetables, her vegetables were limited to 00:52:18.320 |
And I mean, she would sometimes eat broccoli, but like not really, but she, she was pretty 00:52:22.760 |
She wouldn't eat anything orange and she's, I mean, I'm not a hundred percent there with 00:52:25.960 |
everything yet, but she now loves carrots, like loves broccoli, like everything. 00:52:32.320 |
And it just took persistence and just making sure that the food tastes good and having 00:52:36.420 |
And sometimes I wait a few months and try again. 00:52:41.600 |
They were like, Oh, if there's a toy that someone's that your daughter's not interested 00:52:44.880 |
in, just hide it for a couple months and bring it back. 00:52:47.940 |
Like memory is not so well-formed yet that two months later, they probably think it's 00:52:52.200 |
a brand new toy and they're excited to see it again. 00:53:00.480 |
So a couple of quick hits I want to, I want to ask, what are your thoughts on skipping 00:53:04.560 |
meals or, or intermittent fasting as, as part of the food lifestyle? 00:53:11.740 |
So my initial thought is a lot of the data that was done on intermittent fasting were 00:53:16.200 |
pretty short fasts, like 13 to 14 hours, which is a pretty reasonable amount of time to go 00:53:26.000 |
Like you don't really get hungry in 13, 14 hours and there's a lot of like potential 00:53:34.320 |
When you start getting into longer fasts, 16, 18, 24, multi-day fasts, it gets a little 00:53:40.600 |
I would say that for certain populations, it's amazing. 00:53:44.080 |
For instance, it's been shown to really, really help with cancer, like chemotherapy. 00:53:49.960 |
As our friends, Mike Mazur had a really excellent result with his chemotherapy because he was 00:53:57.080 |
And there's tons of science supporting this now. 00:54:00.600 |
So in certain populations, I think longer fasts can be extremely beneficial. 00:54:05.640 |
But for most people, it can be a little risky, I'd say, for a couple of reasons. 00:54:10.880 |
One, if you've been a chronic dieter at all, it can really lead to some binging behavior. 00:54:17.200 |
And I would generally recommend anybody who has a history of dieting to avoid long fasting. 00:54:22.640 |
I think there's better ways to get those same results. 00:54:26.280 |
I would also say that you have to be really careful with fasting because a lot of the 00:54:30.480 |
recent data that's coming out is showing that extended fasting can really, really reduce 00:54:37.040 |
So if you are going to be fasting, it's really, really important that when you do eat, you 00:54:40.400 |
eat a good amount of protein and you do a lot of strength training exercises. 00:54:43.960 |
Otherwise, you can really mess up your metabolism and lose a lot of muscle mass. 00:54:48.360 |
So those are some things to be cautious about in that realm. 00:54:58.920 |
Is it important to follow a schedule or circadian rhythm? 00:55:02.480 |
Or people always talk about how just grazing is a bad habit. 00:55:07.040 |
Is that less important if you're grazing on good things? 00:55:10.240 |
My goodness, I think you're the first non-scientist to ever ask me about circadian rhythms. 00:55:16.760 |
Yeah, no, circadian rhythms are really, really, really important. 00:55:20.200 |
I think they're underestimated by most people. 00:55:23.320 |
And the more you are on a schedule, the easier your life's going to be for a lot of things, 00:55:33.480 |
We're on a really tight schedule with the kids. 00:55:35.040 |
But for myself personally, even, your body and your mind know what to expect, and they 00:55:40.760 |
can regulate their hormones in a way to prepare you for that. 00:55:43.720 |
And if you're eating all over the place, your body's going to be confused and it's going 00:55:48.360 |
So yes, generally, if you can, I highly recommend sticking to a schedule. 00:55:56.600 |
If someone were out there saying, "I want to get started," obviously, you said earlier, 00:56:00.720 |
don't just jump all the way and maybe start with a meal. 00:56:02.760 |
Any other tips for someone who's trying to transition from maybe a less healthy style? 00:56:07.920 |
Yeah, I would say just start with one or two habits at a time. 00:56:14.080 |
I mean, when it was me, so basically what I did was, I mean, I was like dieting all 00:56:25.280 |
And I just, one day I was like, "I'm going to stop doing this. 00:56:27.920 |
I'm going to stop being crazy and I'm going to start eating breakfast." 00:56:30.960 |
And so I started with breakfast and I hadn't eaten carbs in like seven years or something, 00:56:39.480 |
And crazy things happened just from this oatmeal. 00:56:41.760 |
First of all, I expected to gain weight because I was eating carbs. 00:56:45.400 |
And two, I was like, that did amazing things to kill my sugar cravings because I think 00:56:51.320 |
one of the big reasons my body wanted sugar so bad was because I wasn't giving it any 00:56:55.800 |
But when I would have just a little bit of carbs in the morning, my whole day was so 00:57:01.800 |
And that's the sort of thing that you can see when you just change one habit at a time. 00:57:07.360 |
And same thing with like adding vegetables or just like adding more vegetables to your 00:57:11.720 |
Just start with dinner or lunch or something like that. 00:57:13.120 |
And you can see when you make changes that way, you can see what is and what isn't working 00:57:17.080 |
and you can adjust accordingly and then you can see your progress and you can see exactly 00:57:22.280 |
what the building blocks you need to create your healthy lifestyle. 00:57:28.440 |
I hope everyone can put some of this to good use. 00:57:33.000 |
I have this thing in my head and I think it's totally wrong, but I can't get over it. 00:57:39.880 |
I've associated sugar with bad and I'm like, ah, sugar, which I know, nothing should be 00:57:46.120 |
And so somehow I've like translated sugar being bad to fruit has a lot of natural sugar 00:58:00.800 |
I always am trying to like decide what my favorite fruit is. 00:58:02.720 |
And I think I just do this to torture myself because it's always whatever's in season and 00:58:07.640 |
Like the melons right now are so good, like brings a tear to the eye and those pluots. 00:58:16.360 |
If you eat a ton of fruit, you could gain weight eating anything, right? 00:58:21.620 |
It's really just a matter of how much you're eating. 00:58:24.440 |
And that sounds simple, but it's true on one level. 00:58:27.600 |
The problem is if you aren't eating a lot of protein and you then you can feel more 00:58:34.680 |
And that's how people end up gaining weight is if they're eating more because they're 00:58:40.080 |
But you know, there's plenty of room for fruit and in a healthy diet. 00:58:47.040 |
And I find fruit is so ethereal, you know, it's like the really good stuff will be in 00:58:53.520 |
So the really good cherries, really good strawberries and like nothing on earth would tell me to 00:58:59.200 |
ever tell somebody to like slow down on that. 00:59:03.320 |
Is there an easy way to figure out what's in season right now? 00:59:05.320 |
I mean, the easiest way is to go to your local farmer's market. 00:59:12.480 |
I mean, you know, it's funny, it's like people ask me this all the time and I just picked 00:59:18.880 |
But if you want to think about it in broad terms, so in the spring, everything's coming 00:59:24.560 |
Everything was dead and cold and everything's coming up. 00:59:26.440 |
So you get buds, you get asparagus shooting out of the ground, you get fresh lettuces, 00:59:31.000 |
you get green garlic, you get sort of the delicate early stuff. 00:59:35.500 |
You don't start really seeing new fruit until strawberries come out kind of in the late 00:59:39.520 |
spring, early summer, and then you start getting like a fruit bonanza. 00:59:44.320 |
And then in the summer, like it progresses into more hearty vegetables, carrots, broccolis, 00:59:50.920 |
Later in the summer, you get stuff that like takes a lot more ripening. 00:59:53.320 |
So you think about like harvests and what takes a long time, like a tomato takes longer 00:59:57.840 |
to ripen, winter squash take longer to ripen, corn takes longer to ripen, apples, pears 01:00:03.200 |
kind of even later in the summer, melons are early or late summer. 01:00:07.960 |
And as you move into winter, you start to have to like have the more hearty foods that 01:00:14.920 |
You get pomegranates at the beginning, you get a lot of root vegetables, tubers, heartier 01:00:22.840 |
In the winter, we eat a lot of radicchio salads, a lot of bitter greens, and then that's why 01:00:27.560 |
we're so happy when the sweet ones come out in the spring again. 01:00:29.800 |
But yeah, I mean, there's certain things that are kind of good all year, like broccoli, 01:00:37.080 |
You can always get onions, you can always get garlic, although they're usually grown 01:00:41.960 |
Winter squash in the winter, summer squash in the summer. 01:00:47.160 |
If they just named every vegetable or fruit when it's ripe, that would be wonderful. 01:00:53.840 |
Okay, now I'm hungry, which is probably the worst time to go figure out what to eat. 01:00:56.640 |
But before we go, I want you to share a little bit about what you're working on now because 01:01:00.200 |
I know you have a new podcast and tell people where to find everything. 01:01:05.040 |
I recently launched the Daria Rose Show, which is all about me. 01:01:11.920 |
I really wanted to just tackle some of the harder problems I was seeing in the world. 01:01:19.000 |
So I had a podcast called Foodist about all this stuff we're talking about right now. 01:01:26.560 |
And that kind of fell aside for two years, and then COVID hit, and the whole world turned 01:01:31.280 |
And I just felt like I needed to take a step back and address more basic questions. 01:01:37.600 |
So instead of just personal health, how do we know what's true anymore? 01:01:42.800 |
I felt like I had to step back and define that before I could even really get started 01:01:47.720 |
So my first four or five episodes are all about figuring out how to know what's true 01:01:52.960 |
in the media, in science, in health, in medicine. 01:01:57.680 |
And I just interview some amazing people on that front. 01:02:00.160 |
And then just other personal health questions that aren't specific to food. 01:02:03.840 |
For instance, I have an episode about sunscreen and how to pick a sunscreen because that's 01:02:12.640 |
So just those questions that are kind of hard, kind of controversial, but that you need answers 01:02:19.400 |
And I just take a very fact-based, science-based approach and do what I've always done in food 01:02:24.560 |
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It's been awesome to talk to smart people again and learn so much from others and share 01:02:40.720 |
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