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00:00:00.000 | (upbeat music)
00:00:02.280 | - Hello, and welcome to another episode of All The Hacks,
00:00:05.360 | a show about upgrading your life, money, and travel.
00:00:08.160 | I'm your host, Chris Hutchins,
00:00:09.400 | and I've recently gotten a ton of questions from you,
00:00:12.120 | and even from friends and past colleagues
00:00:14.160 | about time management, delegation,
00:00:16.280 | and specifically about hiring and working
00:00:18.700 | with an assistant or EA.
00:00:20.560 | So I thought it would be a great idea
00:00:22.760 | to invite my friend and founder of Levels, Sam Korkos,
00:00:26.160 | who is an absolute expert at delegation,
00:00:29.220 | to talk about delegation broadly,
00:00:31.260 | as well as the entire process
00:00:33.000 | from assessing the need to hire an EA,
00:00:35.100 | ways to hire one, how to work with them,
00:00:37.240 | and some challenges that may come up.
00:00:39.520 | Believe it or not, Sam has four EAs,
00:00:42.140 | including one he's worked with for over 10 years,
00:00:45.120 | and yet somehow has never actually had
00:00:47.640 | a synchronous one-on-one direct conversation with her.
00:00:50.760 | In addition to all that, Sam shares my passion
00:00:53.160 | for using software, automation, services,
00:00:55.360 | shortcuts, and now AI to outsource, onboard,
00:00:58.700 | and optimize so much of his life,
00:01:00.760 | and he is so good at it.
00:01:02.660 | So I hope that this is really a masterclass
00:01:05.200 | in all things delegation and focusing on what matters.
00:01:09.100 | And if you noticed the length of this episode
00:01:11.040 | and thought, "Wow, that's way too long,"
00:01:13.160 | I tried to edit out as much as I could,
00:01:15.880 | but I wanted to leave all the good stuff,
00:01:17.560 | and there was just so much.
00:01:19.480 | So my goal is that even if you listen to it
00:01:21.840 | in its entirety at 1x speed,
00:01:24.360 | I think you'll save more than that much time,
00:01:26.720 | if not 10, 100, or even 1,000 times more time
00:01:30.540 | by putting some of what you learn into place.
00:01:33.020 | And to help with that, I worked with the team at Oceans,
00:01:35.620 | which is a company I use to find
00:01:37.460 | my amazing assistant, Pasani,
00:01:39.440 | to put together a guide that covers 10 tactical steps
00:01:42.740 | you need to take before, during,
00:01:45.180 | and after hiring an assistant
00:01:47.180 | to create a paradigm shift in the way you work.
00:01:50.000 | It covers everything from changing your mindset
00:01:52.220 | to training yourself to delegate and more.
00:01:55.020 | If you wanna check it out,
00:01:56.140 | it's totally free, just go to the link in the show notes
00:01:58.980 | or go to allthehacks.com/delegate.
00:02:02.920 | Or if you're interested in getting an assistant,
00:02:04.800 | you can check out oceansxyz.com,
00:02:07.380 | and I'm pretty sure that if you tell them
00:02:08.980 | you heard about it here, they will hook you up with a deal.
00:02:12.040 | Okay, I am so excited for this conversation with Sam,
00:02:14.700 | so let's jump in right after this.
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00:03:29.420 | Sam, thanks for being here.
00:03:33.380 | - Glad to be here.
00:03:34.220 | - I wanna start this conversation off
00:03:35.660 | just talking at a high level
00:03:37.280 | on why delegation is actually important for really anyone.
00:03:41.420 | - I think it's probably the most important skill
00:03:44.020 | to develop as a leader,
00:03:45.660 | to be able to increase your capacity,
00:03:48.540 | to be able to deliver more value.
00:03:51.260 | The amount of time that you have in your life is finite.
00:03:55.020 | And so the only way at a certain point in your career
00:03:57.740 | that you can deliver more value
00:03:59.860 | is to learn how to delegate to other people,
00:04:02.420 | to be able to extend the number of hours
00:04:04.660 | that can be contributed to a certain initiative.
00:04:06.660 | So ultimately everyone who intends to reach some level
00:04:10.740 | of success in their life needs to learn how to delegate.
00:04:13.500 | That's probably the highest level explanation.
00:04:16.180 | - The only pushback I'll give you is you said a leader
00:04:18.300 | and guess we could think about leader more broadly.
00:04:20.940 | The average person listening might think,
00:04:22.300 | oh, this is a skill that's relevant
00:04:24.340 | for people who are running companies or managers.
00:04:27.680 | And I would just say, you'll learn this soon enough,
00:04:29.980 | but with two kids, I feel like time shrinks
00:04:33.640 | because there are more responsibilities at home
00:04:36.220 | and it can also become a really important skill
00:04:39.120 | for anyone beyond just leaders.
00:04:42.340 | And if you expand the definition of leaders bright enough,
00:04:44.580 | then I guess it includes everyone.
00:04:46.300 | - Yeah, and it really depends on how abstract
00:04:48.380 | we wanna go with this, but like in many ways,
00:04:50.820 | you're delegating the labor of growing crops to a farmer
00:04:55.820 | and then you're buying their service,
00:04:57.500 | you're buying the product from them.
00:04:59.260 | So it's just a little, you're already delegating
00:05:02.060 | many, many parts of your life,
00:05:03.380 | whether you realize it or not.
00:05:05.060 | And so in order to achieve anything bigger
00:05:08.260 | than what you would just be able to do by yourself
00:05:10.620 | with limited capacity, you have to be able to learn
00:05:13.420 | how to work with other people.
00:05:14.460 | And that's truly what delegation is.
00:05:16.100 | - It's funny, I was gonna ask you about some of the benefits
00:05:18.140 | you've seen in your life.
00:05:19.020 | And now I'm like, well, one benefit is
00:05:20.340 | you don't have to be a farmer.
00:05:21.500 | (all laughing)
00:05:23.100 | But how do you think, if you rewind and look at now,
00:05:27.740 | becoming great at delegation benefits your life
00:05:30.380 | and changes your life in what way?
00:05:32.060 | - You can do more things.
00:05:33.420 | Often when I'm coaching people that I work with
00:05:36.340 | or talking to friends who are struggling with these things,
00:05:39.340 | one of the biggest challenges that I found
00:05:41.340 | of trying to get people to measure their time,
00:05:45.700 | to put things in their calendar and to measure their time,
00:05:48.900 | I think the biggest reason why people don't want to do it
00:05:52.540 | is that it really, there's an existential dread
00:05:54.860 | that comes with it.
00:05:55.940 | When you have this list of all the places
00:05:58.460 | you wanna go on vacation in your life,
00:06:00.180 | it's like, I wanna go to India, I wanna go to the Bahamas,
00:06:04.780 | I wanna go here, I wanna go there.
00:06:06.860 | It's like, wow, this would be so amazing.
00:06:08.620 | And it's like, great, let's look at the rest of your life
00:06:11.740 | and how much time you have.
00:06:13.420 | And it looks like you get to pick four of those.
00:06:15.620 | That can be a really unpleasant conversation.
00:06:19.620 | And so I think to recognize
00:06:22.140 | that you have a finite amount of time,
00:06:24.500 | and if you want to deliver on anything of value,
00:06:27.980 | you have to figure out how to get better at delegating.
00:06:30.620 | And it doesn't mean that you have to pick one thing
00:06:32.980 | or the other, you don't have to say,
00:06:34.940 | I want to achieve all of these things.
00:06:37.340 | But if you wanna do something like build a piece of software
00:06:41.420 | that you sell to people,
00:06:43.060 | unless you think that you can do all of it,
00:06:45.140 | if you plot out the timeline
00:06:46.700 | of you doing all of these things, like doing a podcast,
00:06:49.820 | some people just do it all themselves,
00:06:51.420 | which is totally fine.
00:06:53.100 | Some people hand off the editing, they delegate that.
00:06:55.780 | Some people hand off the promotion, the distribution,
00:06:58.900 | they hand off a lot of different pieces.
00:07:00.420 | And so you just have to figure out
00:07:02.260 | how far do you wanna take it
00:07:03.820 | and how much leverage can you get
00:07:05.140 | by delegating to other people.
00:07:06.620 | - And if we push in this kind of like product manager way
00:07:09.340 | of the five whys, which I'm guessing you're familiar with,
00:07:12.140 | it's like, well, you have more time, you can do more things,
00:07:13.980 | but like, what's the real benefit?
00:07:15.300 | Do you feel more fulfilled in how you spend your days?
00:07:17.580 | Are you happier?
00:07:18.740 | - One of the major aspects,
00:07:19.820 | and this is coincidentally something
00:07:21.580 | I was talking to somebody about today.
00:07:24.420 | One of the major benefits of delegation
00:07:26.260 | is just learning how to better manage your energy.
00:07:29.660 | And this is sort of a,
00:07:30.980 | I don't know if it's a woo-woo thing to say,
00:07:32.660 | but there are things that take your energy
00:07:35.060 | and there are things that give you energy.
00:07:37.340 | And I think we've all experienced that
00:07:38.980 | of things that you're excited to do
00:07:41.780 | and things that as you're doing them,
00:07:44.460 | it's just crushing your soul.
00:07:46.820 | And you can do some of those soul crushing things
00:07:49.380 | for a little while, but eventually you burn out.
00:07:51.380 | And this is maybe a controversial statement,
00:07:54.500 | but burnout is a choice.
00:07:56.780 | You choose to do things that you do not like to do.
00:07:59.700 | Everything is a choice.
00:08:01.020 | Your job is a choice.
00:08:02.380 | Everything is a choice.
00:08:03.900 | And you can choose whether or not you do it,
00:08:05.980 | whether you hand it to somebody else,
00:08:07.420 | whether you find something else to do.
00:08:09.180 | And so the why of delegation from that lens
00:08:13.020 | is you're choosing a path to do a job
00:08:17.500 | that requires a daily mode of operation
00:08:20.980 | that is sucking the life force out of you.
00:08:24.060 | And so delegation is interesting
00:08:25.780 | because oftentimes the things that you find soul crushing
00:08:29.300 | are things that somebody else actually really enjoys doing.
00:08:31.900 | And then they look at what you're doing.
00:08:33.540 | Like in my world, I really like coding.
00:08:36.060 | I like programming.
00:08:37.220 | I like sitting in a dark room in a cave
00:08:40.100 | and just writing code for like 12 straight hours.
00:08:43.220 | And there are people who look at that and say,
00:08:44.860 | "That is insane. I could never do that."
00:08:47.660 | And then I look at what they do, which is, I don't know, sales.
00:08:50.140 | It's like, "I could never do that.
00:08:51.460 | It is like my worst life is doing sales calls."
00:08:54.580 | But that's what they enjoy.
00:08:55.780 | And there's no right or wrong answer here,
00:08:57.940 | but being able to delegate different skills
00:09:00.100 | for what different people want allows you
00:09:01.500 | to control more of your energy,
00:09:03.180 | and it allows you to have more stamina
00:09:05.260 | and reduce the risk of burnout.
00:09:06.620 | That's one of the major benefits.
00:09:08.500 | - When you say it like that,
00:09:09.620 | I can't imagine someone listening is like,
00:09:10.980 | "Oh, I shouldn't do more of that."
00:09:12.100 | Right? Like, "I want to spend more time
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00:11:59.540 | - Why do you think more people don't get good at this?
00:12:02.780 | Why aren't more people doing it in their personal life
00:12:04.900 | and their work life?
00:12:05.900 | - It's an interesting question.
00:12:06.860 | I can say there are many different reasons,
00:12:09.820 | some of which are more valid than others.
00:12:12.220 | Just from personal experience talking to people
00:12:14.220 | who've struggled with this,
00:12:16.180 | I would say one is some degree of insecurity
00:12:20.060 | where they feel like they don't like doing this thing,
00:12:24.100 | and so they assume nobody else likes doing this thing.
00:12:26.500 | So they feel a little bit of guilt
00:12:28.240 | handing this task to somebody else
00:12:29.940 | who's also gonna hate doing it.
00:12:32.540 | But that's not necessarily the case.
00:12:34.340 | In fact, in my experience, it's very often not the case.
00:12:36.900 | I think some of it also comes from a place of insecurity
00:12:39.420 | around some imposter syndrome of who am I
00:12:43.420 | to tell somebody else what to do with their time?
00:12:45.980 | And eventually, you just have to get over that,
00:12:47.780 | and you have to learn that the only way to get better
00:12:50.780 | at how to achieve whatever it is you wanna achieve
00:12:53.860 | is to get more comfortable
00:12:55.500 | handing off these tasks to other people.
00:12:57.500 | Some other recent examples is they feel like
00:13:01.240 | these are things that must be done,
00:13:03.700 | and they don't have the resources internally
00:13:05.800 | to be able to hand them off to other people.
00:13:08.340 | If what your company really needs is sales,
00:13:11.820 | and you hate doing sales,
00:13:13.640 | but it is definitely the most important thing,
00:13:15.920 | and you can't hire other people
00:13:17.320 | 'cause you don't have the resources for it,
00:13:19.020 | then you might just have to grind through it
00:13:20.420 | for a little while.
00:13:21.260 | But I think what's important
00:13:22.520 | is figuring out what your exit strategy is.
00:13:24.400 | If it's not the thing that you're excited about,
00:13:27.300 | you should figure out what the script is.
00:13:29.600 | If it really is ROI positive,
00:13:31.940 | eventually you'll be able to hire somebody to do it.
00:13:33.960 | There are a lot of different reasons
00:13:35.140 | why people struggle with it,
00:13:36.340 | but in my experience,
00:13:37.680 | one of the things that I try to do,
00:13:38.900 | I do once a quarter, a think week,
00:13:41.540 | which I just stole from Bill Gates,
00:13:43.540 | where I take one week off from communications,
00:13:47.420 | and I just think and read and write.
00:13:49.880 | And I found that's the right cadence for me
00:13:51.860 | to get pulled out of the hyperactive hive mind of work
00:13:56.660 | and the day-to-day and see the whole forest
00:13:59.520 | and not just the trees.
00:14:01.000 | And so when people are in that mode
00:14:03.940 | of constantly churning and grinding and grinding,
00:14:07.360 | they often lose the big picture of,
00:14:09.180 | should we even be doing this thing at all?
00:14:11.640 | Often the answer is just no.
00:14:13.200 | It's having that space to zoom out
00:14:15.780 | and think about what your major priorities are
00:14:17.480 | is really important.
00:14:18.440 | - I'm gonna go back through a few of the things you said.
00:14:20.140 | So when you talked about the imposter syndrome,
00:14:22.320 | one of the things that made me think
00:14:23.480 | was about your example about farmers,
00:14:25.680 | which was if you ship a package,
00:14:27.920 | you are inherently telling someone
00:14:29.860 | they need to go and deliver your package.
00:14:31.900 | And I think maybe the more we can normalize the fact
00:14:34.360 | that we're delegating lots of things already, right?
00:14:37.400 | You buy something at the grocery store,
00:14:38.840 | someone has to restock that thing, order that thing.
00:14:41.400 | So that was one thing that just made me realize,
00:14:43.440 | well, I'm delegating a lot.
00:14:45.000 | And so if I'm uncomfortable doing it,
00:14:47.200 | I should just get over it.
00:14:48.040 | Like it's just already happened.
00:14:49.380 | And I think that's helpful.
00:14:51.040 | I think part of it is not feeling
00:14:52.480 | like you can tell someone what to do.
00:14:53.580 | And part of it is feeling like maybe
00:14:55.660 | I don't deserve this or it's too elitist.
00:14:59.280 | I don't wanna be the one that tells my family and friends
00:15:01.820 | to interface with my assistant.
00:15:03.780 | This happened to us when I had my EA
00:15:06.940 | try to get our daughter in
00:15:08.040 | for a last minute pediatrician appointment.
00:15:10.800 | And I was like, I feel so ridiculous
00:15:12.740 | calling the pediatrician's office
00:15:15.200 | or having someone else do it and being like,
00:15:16.540 | hey, could my boss's daughter get into the appointment?
00:15:20.420 | And I remember when I got to the pediatrician's office,
00:15:22.380 | I was talking with the person there and I was like,
00:15:24.160 | oh, is this, it was that awkward.
00:15:26.000 | I was just curious.
00:15:27.180 | And the response was like,
00:15:28.860 | no, we do this for the doctors all the time.
00:15:30.760 | Like they were like, this is normal.
00:15:32.560 | Like they were more,
00:15:33.800 | it was all in my head that it was not normal.
00:15:36.100 | Now I will say I've had friends
00:15:37.560 | who've pawned me off to their EAs to like schedule a dinner.
00:15:40.680 | There is a feeling when that happens of like,
00:15:42.780 | well, I thought we were friends.
00:15:44.020 | Now you want me to work with this other person.
00:15:45.880 | Any thoughts around that whole kind of attitude
00:15:49.140 | and do you just have to get over it?
00:15:50.680 | - Some of it is just you have to get over it.
00:15:53.160 | I was talking to somebody not too long ago
00:15:55.800 | where he's really struggling with this.
00:15:58.680 | He's at a point in his life, he has kids.
00:16:01.660 | He has a meaningful amount of personal wealth.
00:16:06.360 | He has a lot of responsibilities
00:16:08.400 | and he's totally underwater.
00:16:10.300 | And I was talking to him, I said,
00:16:11.880 | you need somebody to help you manage your household,
00:16:14.880 | a head of household.
00:16:15.800 | Like this is a role, people do this role.
00:16:18.240 | And he said, I can't because my mom would judge me.
00:16:22.820 | Like my mom would not approve of that
00:16:25.320 | and it would be really difficult.
00:16:27.500 | And I don't know what you do in that situation.
00:16:29.700 | It is something that will hold him back for quite some time.
00:16:32.800 | Just not being able to get over that hurdle.
00:16:35.420 | As soon as he does it, which he will do, it's inevitable
00:16:38.020 | because he is so underwater
00:16:39.900 | with all of his life responsibilities
00:16:41.860 | that there's no way he can manage this.
00:16:44.020 | As soon as he does it,
00:16:45.100 | he's gonna wish that he did it five years earlier
00:16:47.640 | because it's gonna free up so much of his time.
00:16:50.460 | This laundry list of things that he wants to get done
00:16:53.020 | that he doesn't have capacity to do
00:16:54.700 | will all of a sudden start getting done.
00:16:56.940 | And he'll wonder why he waited so long.
00:16:58.620 | I think the answer is probably therapy.
00:17:00.540 | It's like how people get through that.
00:17:03.020 | But I don't see any other solution other than that.
00:17:05.620 | - Let's talk about a few other pain points.
00:17:06.900 | One for me was, I didn't think I had enough
00:17:10.540 | for someone to do.
00:17:11.700 | And maybe this stems from,
00:17:14.040 | and we'll get to how you could actually execute this,
00:17:16.200 | hire an assistant, software, all these tools.
00:17:18.960 | But I had experimented with single task delegation
00:17:23.960 | where you hire a virtual assistant
00:17:26.260 | on the hourly or task basis.
00:17:28.260 | I had pretty poor experiences trying to do that
00:17:30.440 | because there's a certain relationship
00:17:32.080 | that needs to be built.
00:17:32.920 | I now understand that.
00:17:34.260 | But early on, I was like,
00:17:36.420 | well, it's just, it's a lot of,
00:17:37.720 | I don't have enough to fill someone full-time,
00:17:39.520 | so do I need someone part-time?
00:17:40.980 | And it's so much work to ramp them up.
00:17:43.020 | It just felt like too much.
00:17:45.140 | And it felt like I didn't have enough work to justify it.
00:17:48.140 | So I guess I have a bunch of questions.
00:17:49.200 | One, how do you think about that?
00:17:50.740 | And I have some thoughts,
00:17:51.860 | but also the common thing I hear people say is,
00:17:55.300 | well, once you do this,
00:17:56.140 | it'll free you up to spend your time on things
00:17:59.080 | that can probably add a lot more value,
00:18:00.800 | especially when people think,
00:18:01.700 | oh, it's gonna be expensive.
00:18:02.740 | It's, well, once you have this time,
00:18:04.440 | maybe you can create value elsewhere,
00:18:06.400 | but that's so abstract.
00:18:07.980 | So I guess let's break it down and say,
00:18:10.440 | how do you think about the fact that people don't think
00:18:12.040 | they have enough to do?
00:18:13.700 | And then separately, we can talk about
00:18:15.420 | how do you think about the value of what you could do,
00:18:18.740 | but it's very nebulous.
00:18:20.700 | - Yeah, so there's several different branches from that.
00:18:24.340 | I think one is that you probably have more things to do
00:18:28.980 | than you realize.
00:18:30.260 | I have a friend who very recently,
00:18:32.840 | finally went over the hurdle,
00:18:34.720 | got an EA and immediately saw the value.
00:18:40.020 | He's been fighting this for years.
00:18:41.260 | He finally got one.
00:18:42.980 | And within about two months, he had three.
00:18:44.820 | And his major hurdle was,
00:18:47.500 | I just don't feel like I have enough stuff for an EA to do.
00:18:50.660 | And then he got one, freed up a ton of his time,
00:18:53.620 | got two more within a couple of months.
00:18:55.620 | And so part of it is you have to just take the plunge
00:18:58.900 | and see if there is enough work for somebody to do,
00:19:01.460 | especially if you're in a meaningful leadership role,
00:19:03.580 | there's almost always more stuff to do.
00:19:06.380 | I think what helps is if you work with,
00:19:09.860 | typically it would be an agency of some kind
00:19:11.940 | that is specialized in this,
00:19:13.540 | where the EAs are trained to be more proactive.
00:19:16.460 | There's a few of them.
00:19:17.300 | The one that we work with is Athena.
00:19:18.900 | They have a training program to teach the EAs
00:19:20.920 | how to make you 10 times more productive.
00:19:23.200 | That's their shtick.
00:19:24.500 | And so they are trained to be proactive
00:19:28.000 | in finding ways to help you extend your leverage.
00:19:31.780 | Whereas if you find one yourself,
00:19:33.420 | which is totally plausible
00:19:35.180 | and is probably less expensive,
00:19:37.160 | it's a lot more effort for you to have to learn
00:19:40.500 | how to interact with this person,
00:19:41.720 | how to train them onto your systems.
00:19:44.180 | You have to teach them how to do things
00:19:46.380 | as opposed to the EA trying to pull
00:19:50.060 | and get more value from your time.
00:19:52.620 | So I think that's one aspect is having the right pairing,
00:19:56.860 | depending on your level of experience.
00:19:59.060 | If you're a highly experienced alligator,
00:20:00.900 | you can probably go with a less expensive option
00:20:03.260 | and you can do a lot of the training yourself.
00:20:05.140 | Another branch of this, of the not having enough to do,
00:20:08.180 | is really try to lower the perceived risk
00:20:13.180 | of working with an EA.
00:20:15.240 | I was talking to my brother about this very recently,
00:20:18.200 | where I said, he has a lot of things he needs to delegate.
00:20:22.400 | And he said, you should just try hiring a person
00:20:25.180 | with this profile and just see how it goes.
00:20:27.160 | And he's like, yeah, but it's gonna be X dollars per year,
00:20:30.740 | and then there's this, and then there's that.
00:20:32.480 | Imagine, try to frame this as like a two week experiment.
00:20:36.560 | And how much is that gonna cost you?
00:20:38.580 | And if it doesn't work in two weeks,
00:20:39.900 | all you've lost is like $5,000.
00:20:42.620 | Working backwards, do you think it's worth
00:20:44.420 | a $5,000 experiment to see if you can delegate
00:20:48.360 | all of these parts of your life
00:20:49.860 | that you don't really wanna do?
00:20:51.540 | The answer is, well, yeah, obviously, it's worth it.
00:20:54.140 | But when you project out this,
00:20:56.940 | if you view it as a lifelong, fairly expensive commitment,
00:21:01.420 | the burden to get over that hump of,
00:21:05.020 | I should give this a shot, is just,
00:21:07.160 | it can be too high for some people.
00:21:08.940 | So I think lowering that perceived risk threshold
00:21:11.380 | is another one.
00:21:12.500 | - And that's something that I think happens to us
00:21:14.800 | as humans in a lot of ways.
00:21:16.660 | I talk to people about, oh, I wanna quit my job.
00:21:19.060 | And they're like, well, I'm gonna lose out
00:21:20.320 | on my $100,000 a year forever.
00:21:22.600 | And it's like, no, you're gonna lose out
00:21:24.020 | on your $100,000 a year until you do something else
00:21:26.420 | to replace it.
00:21:27.500 | So you could think of it as,
00:21:28.580 | if you think it'll take you three to six months,
00:21:30.740 | you're taking a 25 to $50,000 bet.
00:21:34.180 | And what's possible, and by the way, after tax,
00:21:36.540 | maybe it's half that if you live in California.
00:21:38.380 | And so it just kind of changes that perspective.
00:21:40.980 | So I think that's a really helpful perspective.
00:21:43.420 | And I've told a lot of people that now that I've done this,
00:21:46.380 | I've been like, look, commit to, I say three months.
00:21:48.940 | I feel like two weeks might be short
00:21:51.440 | to really feel the value,
00:21:52.820 | though two weeks in, I felt the value.
00:21:55.740 | But even at three months, it's a small,
00:21:58.580 | in my opinion, price to pay.
00:22:00.600 | And when it comes to what's the upside,
00:22:02.380 | it's like, well, you can get a sense of that
00:22:04.860 | in those three months.
00:22:06.100 | And then I'll just say to the previous thing
00:22:07.980 | you discussed about not having too much to do,
00:22:10.340 | my exercise I recommend people do is just for a week,
00:22:14.100 | just write down every task that you could delegate
00:22:17.180 | to someone who has built up enough context in your life.
00:22:20.980 | And at the end of that week,
00:22:22.500 | you'll probably have a list that you're like,
00:22:24.060 | wow, maybe I do need to.
00:22:26.060 | - For sure, yeah, and it sacks up pretty quickly.
00:22:28.820 | As you flex that muscle, this is, as I mentioned,
00:22:31.300 | a friend who avoided this for a long time
00:22:33.420 | and now has three EAs.
00:22:35.140 | Once you flex that muscle and you learn
00:22:38.080 | what types of things can be delegated,
00:22:40.800 | then you start to see opportunities all around you.
00:22:43.460 | It's something when you learn how to program
00:22:45.340 | for the first time, and then suddenly you discover
00:22:47.640 | all of these things that can be solved in software.
00:22:50.460 | You realize that code can solve
00:22:51.940 | all kinds of automation problems.
00:22:53.940 | So what are some examples?
00:22:55.880 | For software or a delegation? - No, no, for the delegation.
00:22:58.940 | - I'll describe it maybe in the more abstract sense,
00:23:01.220 | which is people often assume that much more context
00:23:04.340 | is necessary than is actually necessary
00:23:07.420 | in order to delegate something.
00:23:09.100 | So a recent example that I had is I have a CRM
00:23:13.840 | where I keep track of all of my friends and people
00:23:17.380 | that I want to stay in touch with.
00:23:18.700 | And we had a situation where the locations
00:23:23.580 | that people were tagged in
00:23:26.800 | were getting a little bit too specific.
00:23:28.660 | Like, do I really want it to say Los Gatos,
00:23:32.660 | or do I want it to say Atherton or Bay Area?
00:23:36.540 | Because really, I don't need that level of specificity.
00:23:38.980 | It makes it much harder to figure out where people are.
00:23:41.580 | And so I just mentioned to my EA,
00:23:44.700 | 'cause I know that I can delegate this to them,
00:23:46.660 | where I said, "Anything that is not a major metro area,
00:23:50.060 | "find the nearest airport and assume
00:23:52.240 | "that that is the major metro area."
00:23:54.220 | 'Cause that's probably where I'll be flying into.
00:23:56.180 | And so they were able to handle that whole task.
00:23:57.900 | And in the past, I probably would have said,
00:23:59.980 | "There's just too much context."
00:24:01.220 | You know, if they're in the Philippines,
00:24:02.340 | they don't know American geography,
00:24:04.300 | so I'm gonna have to go through all of these myself
00:24:06.140 | and fix this.
00:24:07.160 | But if you come up with ways where you realize,
00:24:09.340 | if I create these rules and these general heuristics,
00:24:12.740 | you can delegate it a lot better.
00:24:14.460 | So once you learn what sorts of things
00:24:18.140 | don't require such specialized knowledge,
00:24:20.700 | and also when you lower that risk threshold
00:24:23.340 | of asking somebody to do something in parallel.
00:24:25.860 | Another recent delegation that I did was,
00:24:27.980 | I totally stole this idea from Wiz, one of our investors,
00:24:31.740 | where I thought it would be cool to make
00:24:34.300 | custom Magic the Gathering cards for everyone on our team.
00:24:38.060 | And we have a company directory,
00:24:39.500 | we have a spotlight article,
00:24:40.620 | which has a bunch of background on them.
00:24:42.420 | And so I spent maybe 15 minutes doing some demos
00:24:46.180 | where I said, "All right, here's what I want you to do.
00:24:48.420 | "Go through each person in the company directory,
00:24:50.640 | "take their spotlight article,
00:24:52.240 | "feed it into chat GPT with a prompt like this
00:24:54.860 | "to get some sort of Magic the Gathering style,
00:24:57.320 | "like Ben is the marketing sorcerer,
00:25:00.600 | "and have some abilities and some cool stuff there.
00:25:03.520 | "Feed his images into Mid Journey,
00:25:06.860 | "generate a really cool looking visual
00:25:10.820 | "using his actual face,
00:25:12.720 | "using the prompts that you just generated,
00:25:15.380 | "and then put that onto a Magic card
00:25:17.120 | "and then have that shipped."
00:25:18.460 | It took me 15 minutes to do that delegation,
00:25:20.860 | and it turned out super cool.
00:25:22.780 | And I know enough about how to delegate that now,
00:25:26.420 | whereas five years ago,
00:25:28.300 | I probably would have said, "This is way too hard.
00:25:30.540 | "There's so many intricacies
00:25:32.500 | "of what needs to be done here.
00:25:33.720 | "I wouldn't know how to use the proper language
00:25:36.600 | "to delegate that effectively."
00:25:38.140 | So it just takes a lot of practice
00:25:40.020 | and you need to flex that muscle.
00:25:42.020 | - So we're gonna come back to that language,
00:25:43.420 | but we have a veneer for both kind of work and personal,
00:25:47.240 | which I wanna get to that concept,
00:25:48.740 | but also hired through an agency.
00:25:50.340 | We use an agency called Oceans.
00:25:52.500 | Similarly, appreciate the training that I'm not doing,
00:25:56.500 | the managing I'm not doing, and that kind of stuff.
00:25:59.040 | But we had started putting together a task list
00:26:02.500 | because when you start working with someone,
00:26:04.060 | you need something for them to do.
00:26:05.540 | And it was interesting because she's based in Sri Lanka,
00:26:08.420 | so her day started before we ever met.
00:26:10.740 | So she had about four hours of work before we ever met.
00:26:14.540 | And I was like, "Oh, I can't wait to give context on this."
00:26:16.900 | And so we put something in Notion that was just like,
00:26:20.380 | we need to restain the wood in our backyard.
00:26:24.580 | And that was the prompt.
00:26:26.380 | And I was like, "I can't wait
00:26:27.220 | to give this person more context."
00:26:28.860 | And then we go to the first meeting and I was like,
00:26:30.380 | "Oh, they already found five people in our general area
00:26:34.220 | because they knew where we lived
00:26:35.700 | that can do patio staining 'cause you can search that."
00:26:38.940 | And they had already emailed them and said,
00:26:40.640 | "Hey, what do we need to do to get a quote?"
00:26:42.020 | And I was like, "Oh."
00:26:43.500 | - Exactly.
00:26:44.340 | - Like I didn't realize how easy this was
00:26:46.540 | until I just wrote something.
00:26:48.380 | - I totally agree that you think you need more context
00:26:51.020 | than you need.
00:26:51.860 | I also wanna talk a little bit also
00:26:53.300 | about the language and all that.
00:26:55.620 | But let's talk briefly about finding this person.
00:26:58.540 | So agencies are an option.
00:27:00.380 | You mentioned the one you use, I mentioned the one I use.
00:27:02.460 | We both seem to have great experiences there.
00:27:04.720 | You can hire these people yourselves.
00:27:06.940 | I agree, it usually comes at a lower cost,
00:27:08.700 | but the burden is more on you.
00:27:10.620 | No matter where you go,
00:27:11.860 | I assume you have to do some vetting.
00:27:14.000 | You've hired more EAs than I.
00:27:15.560 | How do you think about that vetting,
00:27:17.340 | even though an agency might do some of it for you,
00:27:20.300 | you still wanna find someone that's a good fit for you.
00:27:22.340 | What have you learned in that process?
00:27:24.220 | - I would say we generally just set very high expectations
00:27:27.280 | for the agency.
00:27:28.540 | I think a lot of the agencies,
00:27:30.140 | I've worked with others in the past,
00:27:32.140 | they'll give you a slate of candidates.
00:27:34.260 | I usually just tell them, "I'm not gonna do this.
00:27:37.020 | "So you tell me which of these is the best
00:27:39.460 | "for what I wanna do.
00:27:40.820 | "And if they don't work, then I'm gonna fire them."
00:27:42.820 | (laughing)
00:27:44.020 | So I'm putting this on you.
00:27:45.940 | This is not a me decision.
00:27:47.820 | This is a you decision.
00:27:49.240 | When a friend of mine who was working at McKinsey
00:27:51.620 | for a partner, and he wrote up a whole slide deck,
00:27:55.060 | and the partner said, "All right, are you absolutely
00:27:57.420 | "confident that this is ready to ship?"
00:27:59.460 | He's like, "Well, let me double check."
00:28:01.500 | And he made some adjustments, he improved it.
00:28:03.460 | He's like, "All right, are you now absolutely confident?"
00:28:05.180 | He's like, "I don't know.
00:28:06.860 | "Let me do a little bit more work."
00:28:08.060 | And he's like, "All right, are you absolutely confident
00:28:09.680 | "this is ready?"
00:28:10.520 | He's like, "Yes."
00:28:11.540 | And he didn't even look at it, he just shipped it.
00:28:13.500 | And he's like, "Look, we hired you
00:28:15.440 | "because this is what you do."
00:28:17.480 | If you work with an agency that you trust,
00:28:19.340 | and you let them do the vetting,
00:28:21.540 | they're gonna know a lot more about the stuff than you will.
00:28:24.140 | The worst case scenario is you just have to rematch
00:28:26.340 | if you work with an agency.
00:28:27.960 | I would say, if you end up working with an individual,
00:28:30.840 | the best way to do it is probably through real work tasks.
00:28:35.840 | So coming up with a task of,
00:28:38.180 | it's almost like a scavenger hunt.
00:28:41.140 | It's like, here are five tasks that I often do.
00:28:44.340 | Here's a loom explaining what I need you to do,
00:28:47.020 | and then just do it.
00:28:48.140 | And the times when I have had that done,
00:28:49.660 | it is remarkable how wrong some of them can be.
00:28:54.040 | And you just know immediately.
00:28:55.740 | I would say the most basic thing that you're looking for
00:28:57.980 | is ability to follow instructions.
00:29:01.260 | It's like, what I want you to do is download this thing,
00:29:04.940 | look up these things, put it in this format,
00:29:07.540 | and then you just do none of those things.
00:29:09.060 | And you just end up with something completely different.
00:29:10.620 | It's like, okay, this is just not gonna work.
00:29:12.480 | So at the most basic, ability to follow instructions,
00:29:15.820 | if you're assessing a candidate,
00:29:17.000 | would probably be the biggest one.
00:29:18.620 | I think the second order to that
00:29:20.980 | would be their ability to be proactive
00:29:24.880 | in finding new things.
00:29:26.500 | I would say, if they follow those instructions
00:29:28.900 | and they can come up with ways of saying,
00:29:31.140 | and I think it would actually be better
00:29:32.800 | if we also did these things,
00:29:34.260 | and maybe you hadn't thought of this as well,
00:29:36.460 | that's a really good sign,
00:29:37.820 | because it's lowering that burden that you have
00:29:41.360 | to think through the process.
00:29:43.100 | Like, as recently as today, one of my EAs said,
00:29:46.900 | "Hey, I noticed I was doing this process for you,
00:29:48.860 | but it's not really getting a lot of engagement.
00:29:50.980 | I think we can probably kill this
00:29:52.540 | and fold it into this other process."
00:29:54.820 | It's like, "Oh yeah, I totally forgot
00:29:56.300 | that we were doing that.
00:29:57.420 | I'm on board."
00:29:58.660 | And so that level of proactivity
00:30:00.700 | is a really important one as well.
00:30:02.700 | I'm sure many other things,
00:30:03.840 | but those are probably the two biggest ones I'd look for.
00:30:06.100 | - Those two were top of my list.
00:30:07.640 | And the third was just the ability
00:30:10.140 | to ask questions if uncertain.
00:30:12.320 | And this, we'll get to kind of cultural challenges,
00:30:15.160 | but there are some people where you give a task
00:30:16.900 | and if they don't know how to do it,
00:30:18.320 | the kind of default answer is, "Well, let's just do it."
00:30:22.280 | And then in some people's, the default answer is,
00:30:24.300 | "Well, let me ask a clarifying question."
00:30:26.000 | And I think for me, once we built up that expectation,
00:30:30.840 | it's like, I'm not always gonna be perfect.
00:30:33.000 | I'm not always gonna give you the context.
00:30:34.920 | But if you don't have it, just ask.
00:30:36.640 | Like, it's okay.
00:30:37.980 | It reminds me of, there are some cultures in Asia
00:30:40.180 | where you tell someone something and they'll just nod
00:30:42.260 | as if they understood, even if they didn't.
00:30:44.300 | It's like, that is not the best quality in an EA,
00:30:47.300 | at least for me.
00:30:48.140 | Maybe this varies person to person.
00:30:49.660 | - Yeah, it's an interesting one
00:30:51.020 | 'cause I definitely hear the clarifying question thing.
00:30:53.740 | The nature of these clarifying questions,
00:30:55.660 | I've actually had to work with a few EAs
00:30:58.220 | who struggle with this,
00:30:59.100 | is try to make it so that your clarifying questions,
00:31:01.860 | I only have to answer yes or no to.
00:31:03.900 | If your clarifying question puts more work onto me,
00:31:06.840 | it is a bad question.
00:31:08.200 | So I don't know if you've had this experience,
00:31:09.880 | but sometimes the clarifying question will be,
00:31:11.720 | you ask them for some basic task.
00:31:13.560 | And like, "Well, what about this?
00:31:14.520 | What if this happens?
00:31:15.360 | What about this?
00:31:16.180 | What about that?"
00:31:17.020 | It's like, "Oh God, I've just spent 10 minutes
00:31:19.440 | clarifying this."
00:31:20.740 | Versus, "It's unclear to me what this would be.
00:31:23.480 | How I interpret this is it's probably this.
00:31:25.840 | Is this correct?"
00:31:27.680 | "I assume that what you mean by this is this other thing.
00:31:30.120 | Is that right?"
00:31:31.840 | And so always trying to get to a point
00:31:33.520 | where the resolution is just me saying yes or no,
00:31:36.280 | as opposed to putting the burden back onto me
00:31:39.660 | for the clarification,
00:31:40.900 | where I have to think through all the different implications
00:31:45.280 | of different tasks.
00:31:47.040 | I have had that experience.
00:31:48.520 | Totally understand.
00:31:49.480 | I've had it as just a leader with employees as well.
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00:34:44.440 | We both talked about two agencies
00:34:45.600 | that I know work with EAs overseas.
00:34:48.400 | How have you thought about working with people
00:34:50.960 | in different time zones, different cultures,
00:34:52.800 | versus in-person, versus remote,
00:34:54.800 | as kind of a few criteria when hiring someone?
00:34:58.280 | - I think it totally depends on the tasks that you need.
00:35:01.840 | So the earlier example I mentioned,
00:35:03.720 | my brother is looking for somebody to work with.
00:35:06.200 | That would be in-person,
00:35:07.400 | because almost all of the things that he needs
00:35:10.180 | would need to be done by somebody who is in-person,
00:35:12.840 | near where he lives.
00:35:13.960 | And so thinking about what it is
00:35:16.600 | that you need people to do,
00:35:17.680 | in my case, most of what I need,
00:35:20.240 | in fact, basically all of what I need,
00:35:23.040 | are background accountability-related tasks.
00:35:26.320 | Just keeping the lights on, keeping the wheels turning,
00:35:29.160 | making sure that I have clear visibility and reporting
00:35:32.100 | on everything that's happening in the business.
00:35:34.420 | And so that doesn't really need to be co-located.
00:35:37.840 | It also really doesn't need to be in the same time zone.
00:35:40.760 | I found that if you have no overlap on time zone,
00:35:43.480 | it can be pretty rough.
00:35:45.200 | Levels is a remote-first company,
00:35:47.880 | but we still say the default time zone expectation
00:35:51.920 | is America's, which is basically California to Brazil.
00:35:55.600 | If you live in the Philippines,
00:35:58.360 | if you live in India, wherever you live,
00:36:00.680 | you need to be available for at least that part of the day.
00:36:04.320 | We don't have a lot of meetings,
00:36:05.360 | so it turns out not to be particularly onerous,
00:36:07.860 | but if we're gonna schedule a meeting,
00:36:09.760 | the entire team is not gonna orient around,
00:36:12.120 | I guess we need to take this at two in the morning
00:36:14.240 | to match the schedule of the person
00:36:16.220 | who's not in this time zone.
00:36:18.000 | Otherwise, you end up running three different companies,
00:36:20.400 | and it's really, really tough.
00:36:21.920 | There was a founder of a fairly large,
00:36:24.560 | fully remote company that I asked,
00:36:26.600 | "Do you have any regrets,
00:36:29.280 | "things that you cannot undo at this point?"
00:36:31.960 | And his biggest regret was not setting
00:36:33.680 | time zone expectations.
00:36:35.520 | He said, "We basically have three
00:36:37.080 | "fully independent companies,
00:36:38.640 | "and coordinating between them is a nightmare."
00:36:41.200 | He said, "If I could do it again,
00:36:42.280 | "I would just say, you can live wherever you want,
00:36:45.160 | "but America's is the time zone,
00:36:47.740 | "and you have to adapt to that."
00:36:50.260 | - I talked to a few companies when we hired REA.
00:36:53.180 | We went with Oceans.
00:36:54.020 | I didn't realize that some of the decisions they made
00:36:56.100 | were just by default making them
00:36:57.740 | because they knew they were better,
00:36:59.260 | and so I didn't know what I was missing
00:37:00.880 | had I gone somewhere else.
00:37:01.980 | But for example, they asked me two or three intakes,
00:37:05.500 | and then said, "We think this person is the best for you."
00:37:08.500 | I never even had to think about it,
00:37:09.660 | which was wonderful. - That's awesome.
00:37:10.580 | - I didn't realize what I could have had to do.
00:37:12.300 | And then the other one was they said,
00:37:13.960 | "We think asynchronous and synchronous communication
00:37:16.960 | "can work together,
00:37:18.240 | "so we are going to have your assistant work
00:37:21.380 | "from 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. Pacific
00:37:24.220 | "with three more hours asynchronous
00:37:27.220 | "while you're not working."
00:37:28.740 | And I was like, "That sounds good."
00:37:29.820 | I didn't realize the benefit at the beginning,
00:37:32.740 | but it is actually very helpful
00:37:35.060 | to have someone working when you're not working.
00:37:37.500 | So you're signing off at the end of the day,
00:37:39.220 | and you can say, "Here's a few things
00:37:40.500 | "that need to get done,"
00:37:41.480 | and they're done when you wake up in the morning.
00:37:43.780 | - Totally.
00:37:44.620 | - And I didn't realize the benefit of that.
00:37:46.620 | - Yeah, I found it especially useful
00:37:48.300 | 'cause I have almost exactly the same time zone overlap
00:37:51.540 | in terms of when we're live and when we're not.
00:37:54.100 | And the advantage of rescheduling things in the morning
00:37:58.300 | or canceling meetings or anything that would need to happen
00:38:02.020 | that would impact my day
00:38:03.480 | that they can see before I'm even awake
00:38:06.120 | so that it's not a last-minute scramble,
00:38:07.980 | it's already handled by the time I wake up,
00:38:09.900 | which is super handy for sure.
00:38:11.940 | - One other thing you didn't mention
00:38:13.380 | that I thought was worth for some people hearing
00:38:16.580 | is if you choose to go the route
00:38:18.500 | of hiring this person yourself,
00:38:20.100 | you might save 50, 60%.
00:38:22.820 | There are companies that will help you find that person,
00:38:25.340 | like a headhunter agency.
00:38:26.500 | I think one of them's called Shepard,
00:38:27.940 | and they'll help you.
00:38:28.980 | There is this weird emotional burden
00:38:31.300 | of you are now the employer of record.
00:38:33.860 | And you mentioned rematching.
00:38:35.800 | If something doesn't work out,
00:38:37.540 | just ask yourself the question of,
00:38:39.540 | how good are you going to be at rematching
00:38:42.540 | knowing that you are gonna result
00:38:44.380 | in someone losing their job?
00:38:45.940 | If you work with an agency and you rematch,
00:38:48.060 | they'll find another person for that
00:38:49.780 | or another client for that EA.
00:38:51.900 | So I think that's something that, for me,
00:38:54.740 | it's not that I couldn't let someone go.
00:38:56.020 | I've done that in the past and it's never fun,
00:38:58.500 | but I know that I'm paying a premium
00:39:01.300 | to have a lot of the overhead removed.
00:39:04.140 | And I just think, especially for someone
00:39:06.020 | who's trying this out for the first time, like I was,
00:39:08.960 | it has been the right decision for me.
00:39:11.520 | And I'm someone who loves to save money.
00:39:13.180 | - For sure.
00:39:14.020 | The opportunity cost is real.
00:39:15.300 | People often evaluate opportunity cost as $0,
00:39:19.480 | but it's not.
00:39:20.860 | It's very much not $0.
00:39:22.300 | - Yeah, the things that I have now been able to do,
00:39:26.060 | both in terms of free time and just other work projects
00:39:30.040 | that have actually generated revenue is really incredible.
00:39:34.080 | One of the reasons that's possible
00:39:35.660 | is that our EA works both on personal stuff,
00:39:40.300 | family stuff, and work stuff.
00:39:42.980 | Have you seen that to be successful?
00:39:44.680 | I know you've had multiple EAs and I asked myself,
00:39:47.360 | should I have done this separately
00:39:48.560 | and had two and split their work or had them be part-time?
00:39:51.840 | How do you think about that house,
00:39:53.880 | personal version of an EA and work version?
00:39:56.580 | - So I haven't done much of the house stuff,
00:39:58.720 | but certainly the work and personal.
00:40:00.560 | Part of it is for a lot of people, like for me,
00:40:03.860 | there's no line between what is work and what is not work.
00:40:07.360 | Like if I have a personal task
00:40:09.840 | that I'm going to do,
00:40:11.080 | it means I'm just going to be doing less work
00:40:13.160 | because otherwise I'm just gonna be working.
00:40:15.360 | There's no line of I only work X number of hours.
00:40:18.240 | Any minute that I'm spending doing personal things
00:40:20.640 | is a minute that is detracting
00:40:22.160 | from work that I would be doing.
00:40:23.680 | So that might change once we have kids, which is imminent,
00:40:27.800 | but it will definitely change.
00:40:29.800 | - Well, the kids will be a personal thing you're doing
00:40:32.240 | and you'll say, I want to spend time with my child
00:40:34.160 | and I'm not able to work for it,
00:40:35.720 | which will actually make the value of all of this
00:40:38.160 | just so much higher because inherently you will lose time.
00:40:42.780 | And not only will you lose time
00:40:44.700 | 'cause you might just not sleep a lot,
00:40:46.880 | there's a lot of reasons you might lose time,
00:40:48.120 | but you will want to do other things.
00:40:49.800 | And the fact that we had two children
00:40:52.640 | and I want to spend time with them
00:40:54.200 | doesn't mean that there's less work.
00:40:55.760 | Like nothing magically changes.
00:40:58.360 | So you need to get better at this.
00:40:59.720 | - We have some memos internally on how to think about this.
00:41:03.800 | We encourage people on our team
00:41:05.880 | to hand off more of their personal lives
00:41:08.360 | or more of their personal tasks to their EAs,
00:41:11.420 | even though the EAs are paid for by work.
00:41:14.180 | But it really depends a lot on what the task is
00:41:17.640 | and who the person is and what their intent is.
00:41:21.160 | So a recent example,
00:41:22.780 | one of our executives was really underwater
00:41:26.280 | on selling a house, doing taxes,
00:41:30.680 | like keeping up with all of these things
00:41:33.120 | in their personal life.
00:41:34.280 | That was just, it was really a lot
00:41:37.400 | in addition to all of their work responsibilities.
00:41:39.960 | We made it super clear,
00:41:40.920 | you can absolutely use your EA to help you
00:41:43.540 | do those things and really lowered that cognitive load
00:41:47.720 | of managing those things.
00:41:49.360 | But there is a line and it's fuzzy.
00:41:51.660 | It's admittedly a fuzzy line.
00:41:53.400 | A really obvious crossing that line
00:41:56.540 | is you use your work EA to run your side business
00:42:00.960 | to that is revenue generating
00:42:03.200 | or has some personal benefit
00:42:04.880 | that is unrelated to the business.
00:42:07.400 | You can always rationalize these things.
00:42:09.120 | So like, well, if I didn't have my EA doing it,
00:42:11.720 | then I would be working on that
00:42:13.280 | instead of doing level stuff.
00:42:15.460 | But if you're making money on a product
00:42:18.660 | and you have costs of labor associated with that,
00:42:21.920 | levels should not be paying for it.
00:42:23.160 | You should just have your own team doing that.
00:42:25.520 | Everything in the middle is a little bit fuzzy
00:42:27.560 | and you just kind of have to use your judgment
00:42:29.560 | of is doing this thing,
00:42:32.080 | is this in the best interest of the company?
00:42:34.160 | Is it the case that you delegating
00:42:35.680 | this part of your personal life to an EA?
00:42:38.300 | Is that going to benefit the company?
00:42:40.060 | Are we going to have better output from you because of that?
00:42:43.240 | And if the answer is yes, do it.
00:42:44.600 | If not, don't do it.
00:42:46.040 | If you ever have questions,
00:42:46.880 | you can always just ask somebody.
00:42:48.740 | It's good to socialize these things.
00:42:50.440 | Like if you think it's reasonable
00:42:53.200 | and you ask somebody and they recoil,
00:42:56.520 | it's probably a bad sign
00:42:57.760 | and you probably shouldn't do that.
00:42:59.180 | But yeah, just asking around
00:43:01.040 | is usually a good way of getting feedback
00:43:03.360 | on whether it's appropriate or not.
00:43:05.160 | - And if you're someone who's working on your own
00:43:07.400 | or just hiring an EA to help you,
00:43:10.560 | then it doesn't matter.
00:43:11.400 | - It doesn't matter at all.
00:43:12.600 | - I'm not actually sure how companies would feel
00:43:15.320 | that don't provide EAs to someone hiring their own EA
00:43:18.720 | to help scale them at work.
00:43:20.520 | I'm going to throw that into the ether
00:43:22.400 | unless you have opinions,
00:43:23.320 | but on the personal side,
00:43:25.860 | I've talked to a lot of people about our experience,
00:43:29.920 | many of whom are a little bit later,
00:43:31.240 | have some kids, both adults working,
00:43:34.000 | and the value of just having an EA
00:43:35.760 | for completely non-work stuff
00:43:37.920 | is enough to have someone full-time.
00:43:40.240 | And for costs, for people who are just like,
00:43:42.720 | "Wait, wait, wait, how much is this?"
00:43:44.080 | I would say,
00:43:45.520 | I have not heard of anyone finding an EA directly
00:43:49.320 | on their own, fully loaded for less than $1,000 a month.
00:43:54.160 | And maybe there's some edge cases.
00:43:55.800 | I have not heard of anyone spending
00:43:57.440 | more than four or $5,000 a month for someone remote.
00:44:02.120 | And then in person, you could spend $10,000, $15,000.
00:44:05.800 | So just for people who have some rough sense of that,
00:44:08.440 | I would say for somewhere in the order of,
00:44:10.960 | let's call it 20 to $40,000 a year,
00:44:13.840 | you could probably find a very talented person
00:44:16.280 | somewhere outside of the United States
00:44:18.600 | to give you a lot of leverage.
00:44:20.040 | And in our personal life,
00:44:22.600 | there are just so many examples of things
00:44:25.320 | that I think always sit on that kind of mental burden.
00:44:30.320 | So it's like, "Oh, we're gonna go on a trip."
00:44:32.600 | As soon as you book a trip, there's like a checklist.
00:44:34.920 | You'll learn this.
00:44:35.760 | It's like, "Okay, well now we have to notify the dog walker
00:44:38.200 | that the dog needs to go somewhere.
00:44:39.960 | Now we need to notify the school
00:44:41.240 | that a kid's not gonna be there.
00:44:42.320 | And we need to notify the swimming class
00:44:44.160 | that that's not gonna happen.
00:44:45.200 | And we need to make sure,
00:44:46.840 | just double check that our passports haven't expired
00:44:49.560 | or are going to expire within six months."
00:44:51.840 | Because if anyone doesn't know,
00:44:53.680 | there are a lot of countries
00:44:54.520 | that even if your passport is valid,
00:44:55.880 | won't let you in unless it's six months out.
00:44:57.680 | And so you could almost create this checklist
00:44:59.360 | of every time we book a trip and then be like,
00:45:01.280 | "Well, this is what we need to do."
00:45:02.800 | Or it seems like something crazy
00:45:05.280 | to have someone overseas do,
00:45:07.160 | but research five healthy meals
00:45:09.520 | and order the ingredients for them
00:45:11.240 | on Instacart or Amazon Fresh
00:45:13.320 | and put the recipes in an app
00:45:15.320 | so that we can see them as a meal plan and cook them.
00:45:18.000 | Like that is a thing someone anywhere in the world can do.
00:45:21.240 | And the worst case is you might get a meal
00:45:23.800 | that's not the exact thing you would have picked yourself,
00:45:26.520 | but you spent no time planning it.
00:45:28.640 | That was one where we started doing it.
00:45:30.080 | And then we experimented with a meal kit company
00:45:32.880 | called Green Chef.
00:45:33.720 | And it's just been like, "Oh, this is great."
00:45:35.840 | Sometimes we forget to pick the meals and we're like,
00:45:37.720 | "Oh, we didn't pick it,
00:45:38.800 | but we didn't have to think about it."
00:45:40.240 | And so in our personal lives,
00:45:42.080 | there've just been like these countless research this,
00:45:45.000 | help figure this out, help plan this,
00:45:47.240 | find someone to stain the patio furniture,
00:45:49.600 | call Delta because our flight was five hours late.
00:45:52.640 | And I know that we need to get some compensation for this,
00:45:55.800 | or we need to change this thing.
00:45:58.080 | All of those have made it tremendously valuable.
00:46:01.720 | I did an episode with Dan Martell
00:46:03.760 | who wrote this book called "Buy Back Your Time."
00:46:05.760 | And he has a house manager,
00:46:06.800 | much like your friend would need.
00:46:08.640 | - I'm gonna write it down.
00:46:09.760 | - It's focused a little bit more on business than personal,
00:46:12.360 | but he is a expert delegator,
00:46:15.360 | which I have a couple of questions about things he does
00:46:17.600 | if your experience there matches.
00:46:20.080 | But he has someone doing all these things.
00:46:22.080 | He wants someone to go pick up dry cleaning.
00:46:23.440 | Obviously, that's something you'd need someone local,
00:46:25.240 | but it just opened my mind to the fact that
00:46:28.120 | even if you don't have enough work or side hustle projects,
00:46:31.480 | you might have enough personal projects.
00:46:33.640 | And the freeing up of your personal time
00:46:37.440 | might unlock you to start that side hustle project,
00:46:40.000 | to start that business,
00:46:41.160 | to just spend more time with your kids.
00:46:43.520 | Like there are things that might be not revenue generating,
00:46:46.720 | but life fulfilling that all could make this super valuable,
00:46:50.560 | even if it has nothing to do with work.
00:46:52.640 | And so in our case, it spreads the line of both,
00:46:56.640 | but almost has shown so productive,
00:46:58.880 | like, "Well, maybe we need to, maybe we want to,
00:47:00.440 | "and then how would we split them and how would we do that?"
00:47:02.040 | That's a whole other topic, but I don't know.
00:47:04.840 | It's seeing what it could unlock
00:47:06.600 | for someone outside of work is powerful.
00:47:09.520 | - And it's funny, the idea of, say,
00:47:12.160 | getting an EA to help you with work stuff,
00:47:14.240 | even if your work isn't paying for it,
00:47:15.960 | if it's $20,000 a year
00:47:17.640 | and you have a really meaningful salary,
00:47:20.200 | it could accelerate you quite a lot
00:47:22.280 | in terms of your productivity,
00:47:23.600 | and you'd really stand out in terms of where your peers are
00:47:26.760 | 'cause you get so much more done.
00:47:28.520 | But it does remind me of something from The Onion
00:47:31.520 | several years ago where there's a guy
00:47:33.920 | who had basically done exactly this
00:47:35.920 | and he outsourced his job to somebody in Minnesota.
00:47:40.160 | Then they interviewed that person
00:47:41.240 | and he had outsourced it to somebody in the Philippines,
00:47:43.440 | and that person had outsourced it to somebody in Pakistan.
00:47:46.800 | The conclusion was 60% of the world's tasks
00:47:49.360 | are delegated to one guy in Pakistan.
00:47:51.160 | (both laughing)
00:47:52.720 | You can definitely get a lot of leverage out of it,
00:47:55.200 | for sure.
00:47:56.040 | - Yeah, I would say, depending on the type of tasks,
00:47:58.440 | I would highly encourage someone
00:47:59.760 | to vet this with their employer
00:48:01.640 | before handing over their company's credentials
00:48:04.440 | or anything like that.
00:48:05.280 | - Most companies would not be cool with that.
00:48:06.600 | - Yes, but I could see a world where if you were in sales,
00:48:10.160 | which, as you mentioned earlier, you wouldn't be,
00:48:12.280 | it could be a place where you could say,
00:48:13.440 | "Hey, could I hire someone on my own dime
00:48:15.920 | "to help me source leads, to help me cold call,"
00:48:18.520 | that kind of stuff.
00:48:19.360 | Maybe you get the company to do it, but if not,
00:48:21.520 | I could see, especially for people on commission,
00:48:23.880 | with the approval of their employer,
00:48:25.520 | it could very seriously pay for itself quickly.
00:48:29.080 | But we just talked about credentials.
00:48:30.400 | You talked about an EA helping with taxes.
00:48:32.880 | One of the things that I think a lot of people are hesitant
00:48:35.680 | with hiring someone they don't know overseas
00:48:37.760 | is how much do you give access to?
00:48:41.200 | You're giving access to your email,
00:48:43.240 | or your logins, or your bank account,
00:48:46.480 | or in the case of my friend Dan,
00:48:49.400 | he actually has his EA on his iMessage,
00:48:52.200 | so all of his text messages, everything.
00:48:55.480 | How do you think about that kind of access,
00:48:58.160 | control, and trust?
00:48:59.960 | - You wanna have as few people with access
00:49:02.640 | as is necessary to do whatever tasks
00:49:05.680 | you wanna do effectively.
00:49:06.920 | It is a security vulnerability.
00:49:08.680 | Any person who has access to it is a security risk,
00:49:12.600 | and so you have to be very mindful of that.
00:49:14.960 | You want it to be as few people as humanly possible.
00:49:18.240 | What you give them access to,
00:49:19.960 | it's really gonna be a matter of your own personal risk.
00:49:22.640 | And some of this also comes down to,
00:49:24.800 | there's a lot more recourse when you have, say, an agency,
00:49:28.000 | they vet people.
00:49:29.240 | Somebody from one of the agencies we've talked about,
00:49:31.760 | it's unlikely that that person is going to copy
00:49:35.200 | all of your information and dox you.
00:49:37.520 | But if it's just some random internet troll
00:49:40.000 | that you don't realize that you've hired,
00:49:42.040 | you're not gonna be able to find this person.
00:49:43.640 | You have no recourse if they do something
00:49:45.640 | that's inappropriate.
00:49:47.000 | So that's one of the other risks you have to manage.
00:49:50.840 | I don't have a car.
00:49:52.160 | I generally just take Uber.
00:49:53.440 | I think people often underappreciate
00:49:55.400 | how much liability you take on just from driving.
00:49:58.160 | It's a very real thing,
00:49:59.320 | and you don't have that liability when you're in an Uber.
00:50:02.200 | And so pricing in, liability risk, insurance risk,
00:50:05.640 | the cost of the car, depreciation, gasoline,
00:50:08.760 | Uber's not as expensive as people think it is.
00:50:11.400 | When you calculate all these different forms of exposure
00:50:14.520 | that you have, it's very real.
00:50:15.840 | So personally, I do give access to a lot of these things,
00:50:19.400 | and I give it to as few people as necessary
00:50:21.680 | to be able to get a task done effectively.
00:50:23.680 | And I know people who are loathe to give access
00:50:27.320 | to basically anything for exactly the same reason.
00:50:29.920 | It's just, it's too risky.
00:50:31.920 | - I will say a few things I've picked up in giving access.
00:50:35.400 | So I think most people listening
00:50:36.800 | will have a password manager.
00:50:38.240 | And so, you know, that's one way to share access
00:50:41.200 | to things.
00:50:42.040 | You could potentially give someone access to an account,
00:50:44.760 | but not give them access to the two-factor code.
00:50:47.600 | So you know when they're logging in, that's something.
00:50:50.640 | I separate email addresses for banking
00:50:54.560 | and things where someone could spend money,
00:50:56.880 | or in my case, points.
00:50:58.520 | Like, let's leave that separate.
00:51:00.160 | And so that's one way that I've said,
00:51:02.400 | okay, you can have access to my email,
00:51:03.800 | but if you needed to, I don't know, send a wire transfer,
00:51:07.000 | the confirmation is not gonna come through there.
00:51:09.240 | I know plenty of people that I've talked to
00:51:12.080 | separate their phones,
00:51:13.160 | so they have two factors coming into one number,
00:51:15.320 | and they have regular things coming to another.
00:51:16.920 | So you could potentially give someone access
00:51:18.760 | to your text messages without giving them access
00:51:21.560 | to some of the controls they would need.
00:51:24.320 | Also, there are a lot of financial institutions
00:51:27.160 | that actually have access controls.
00:51:29.320 | So like, I think in Chase,
00:51:30.840 | there are probably plenty of people
00:51:32.080 | who have bad experience with Chase.
00:51:32.920 | You could actually say like, oh, can I add a person?
00:51:34.720 | Can I delegate information and give them only these rules?
00:51:38.160 | Most business accounts already have this built in,
00:51:40.320 | but a lot of personal accounts don't.
00:51:42.120 | But when you can find one that does, that can be helpful.
00:51:44.880 | And a lot of times, you can ask.
00:51:47.120 | I remember someone I know just asked
00:51:48.560 | if they could have a Wells Fargo business account,
00:51:50.960 | but for themselves,
00:51:52.320 | because it had all these rules and these tools,
00:51:54.240 | but it was like a much worse login, terrible app,
00:51:56.760 | but they could set up these kind of procedures.
00:51:58.720 | So that's some of the things I've thought about.
00:52:01.480 | You know, with credit cards, I hear someone,
00:52:02.800 | oh, they could spend all my money.
00:52:03.720 | It's like, well, you also have liability
00:52:05.560 | and fraud protection.
00:52:06.680 | You can add an authorized user and set a credit limit.
00:52:09.280 | So I think there are ways to mitigate some of these things,
00:52:12.200 | but also every time you get on the highway,
00:52:14.560 | there is some risk that something like,
00:52:16.520 | I also have to weigh the risks of being able to have a life
00:52:19.840 | where I'm spending time doing what I want.
00:52:21.720 | And sometimes that risk is just worth it.
00:52:23.680 | - It's a risk calculation.
00:52:25.040 | People in general have a very hard time assessing risk
00:52:28.560 | because status quo bias is so strong.
00:52:31.200 | Whatever you're used to doing,
00:52:32.840 | and you've never experienced some catastrophically
00:52:35.560 | bad outcome from normal day to,
00:52:37.760 | people really underestimate how dangerous driving is.
00:52:40.800 | It's super dangerous, but we do it all the time.
00:52:43.600 | And when you think about it in the abstract sense of like,
00:52:45.480 | yeah, we're just going to be whizzing by
00:52:48.160 | these multi-ton vehicles going at 70 miles an hour
00:52:52.360 | past each other with like people with very little experience
00:52:55.760 | driving while texting, you would say that should be illegal.
00:52:59.720 | There's no way that that is allowed.
00:53:02.400 | And that's what we do all the time.
00:53:03.960 | It's remarkable that it is as safe as it is.
00:53:06.480 | And so every day you're making risk calculations.
00:53:09.720 | You probably didn't check this morning
00:53:11.480 | whether somebody cut your brakes.
00:53:13.320 | If that did, that would probably be really bad,
00:53:15.560 | but you probably didn't check that.
00:53:17.080 | But if you did, it would decrease your risk
00:53:19.080 | that your brakes don't work.
00:53:20.640 | Did you check that all of these other aspects of your car
00:53:23.200 | are functioning normally every day?
00:53:24.920 | Probably not.
00:53:26.160 | And that's okay.
00:53:27.000 | That's a risk that you take,
00:53:28.080 | and it's probably a reasonable one.
00:53:29.760 | And so whatever that threshold is going to be for you,
00:53:32.280 | you just have to figure out what you're comfortable with
00:53:34.120 | and go with that.
00:53:35.720 | - But I will say, even if you don't give up
00:53:39.080 | managing your finances to an assistant,
00:53:41.760 | there are still a lot of things that you could do
00:53:43.480 | to unlock stuff.
00:53:44.720 | And for some inspiration, I actually,
00:53:46.680 | Athena has these playbooks
00:53:48.600 | that I thought are really interesting on their website.
00:53:50.440 | I'll link to them in the show notes
00:53:51.480 | where it's just like ideas of things an EA could do.
00:53:54.280 | On the personal side, I have a friend who,
00:53:57.000 | you know, uses it to be a better gift giver.
00:53:59.240 | He's like, I want to track people's birthdays
00:54:01.160 | and I want to give better gifts.
00:54:02.520 | And I want to make sure I'm more thoughtful
00:54:04.320 | sporadically and spontaneously.
00:54:05.800 | It's like, it unlocks not just things that they are doing
00:54:09.680 | that they don't want to do,
00:54:10.560 | but it unlocks things that they wish they could do
00:54:12.360 | and can't do now.
00:54:13.200 | I don't know if there's things in your life
00:54:14.440 | where you've been able to do more
00:54:16.400 | that you never were doing before because of it.
00:54:18.560 | - Yeah, for sure.
00:54:19.480 | It's less that they are things that I can't do myself.
00:54:23.000 | It's more, I would not have been able to prioritize it
00:54:26.080 | because I would not have had capacity.
00:54:27.360 | Like the magic card example that I gave.
00:54:30.000 | There was no universe where I could justify
00:54:32.360 | spending three days of dedicated time
00:54:35.520 | to making custom magic cards for everyone on the team.
00:54:38.720 | It just makes no sense.
00:54:40.120 | But I could justify 15 minutes on the instructions for it.
00:54:44.400 | And the team really liked them.
00:54:46.360 | And so there's a lot of those sorts of things
00:54:48.200 | where I can't justify doing these things consistently.
00:54:51.680 | Like another one, oftentimes when a friend has a baby,
00:54:55.000 | I'll send them flowers, which is like a nice gesture.
00:54:58.040 | And can I justify myself or all of my friends
00:55:02.720 | figuring out what their address is,
00:55:04.880 | what the local florist is,
00:55:06.880 | what kind of flowers we should get?
00:55:09.120 | I would probably have to spend 100 hours a year
00:55:12.160 | on this task.
00:55:13.160 | And it's just, I can't justify that.
00:55:15.800 | But if I can lower that threshold to 30 minutes a year,
00:55:20.720 | yeah, totally worth doing.
00:55:22.480 | So that's what I mean when I talk about getting leverage
00:55:25.560 | is that you're able to get leverage
00:55:27.360 | and you're able to do a lot more of the kinds of things
00:55:29.840 | that you really like to do,
00:55:31.280 | but it's just hard to justify relative to other priorities.
00:55:34.360 | - Let's go a little deeper on how you onboard people
00:55:37.120 | to these things.
00:55:37.960 | So you say 30 minutes, 15 minutes here,
00:55:39.240 | you gave the example earlier in how you could spend time
00:55:43.080 | delegating the magic, the gathering task.
00:55:45.280 | What things do you do, tools do you use
00:55:48.000 | to make onboarding an EA or anyone that's helping you
00:55:51.640 | on your team for that matter, more effective at doing them?
00:55:54.600 | - So the biggest tool is Loom,
00:55:56.960 | which is a screen recording tool.
00:55:59.520 | And it allows you to capture what it is
00:56:03.160 | that is on your screen.
00:56:04.160 | It allows you to capture it on content as well.
00:56:08.120 | This is one of the struggles of where people delegate
00:56:11.600 | in a more traditional sense, which is you have a phone call
00:56:14.280 | or you do it on a Zoom call,
00:56:16.160 | and then they're taking notes furiously
00:56:18.560 | while you're explaining the tasks to them.
00:56:20.800 | And as soon as you end the call,
00:56:21.880 | they have forgotten what it is that you told them.
00:56:24.460 | The nice thing about Loom is you can record it async
00:56:27.760 | on your own time, you can send it to them,
00:56:30.120 | they can watch it at 2X, they can watch it again,
00:56:33.280 | they can pause it, they can take notes,
00:56:35.940 | they can come back to it a week later,
00:56:37.920 | and they can refresh on what the task was.
00:56:39.960 | So solving this in content is really the best way
00:56:43.320 | to go about it.
00:56:44.400 | Other tools, I would say Voice Notes is a really good tool.
00:56:48.360 | I often use Signal, they have a good Voice Note tool.
00:56:51.240 | The Athena app actually is pretty good.
00:56:53.040 | Have you seen that one at all?
00:56:54.440 | - I have not.
00:56:55.620 | - It's pretty cool.
00:56:56.660 | You don't even need to use Athena for it.
00:56:58.700 | My brother actually uses it for an unrelated use case,
00:57:01.380 | but it's a cool thing where you open it up
00:57:04.220 | and then it immediately starts recording a Voice Note.
00:57:07.380 | And you set it up where once you finish recording
00:57:10.180 | the Voice Note, it emails it to whoever you specify.
00:57:13.060 | And so if you have an EA, if it's people that you know,
00:57:17.220 | however you wanna delegate these things,
00:57:19.260 | you just record a Voice Note and then you press Done,
00:57:21.540 | and then it just sends it to that email address.
00:57:23.380 | It's a very, very simple tool.
00:57:24.960 | - I've heard Whisper Notes or Whisper Memos
00:57:27.780 | is another very good tool for that same use case,
00:57:31.480 | but layering in transcription and a little bit of AI.
00:57:34.680 | I haven't used it, but I know a few people
00:57:37.000 | that swear by it as the tool for that purpose.
00:57:39.260 | - Yeah, totally.
00:57:40.100 | There's a few similar tools like that.
00:57:42.160 | Voice Notes are really helpful because the friction
00:57:46.860 | of pulling out your phone, writing it out with your thumbs,
00:57:51.100 | I have just found is usually too high
00:57:53.820 | to get the task out of my head.
00:57:56.760 | And by the time I've opened my phone,
00:57:59.260 | I've opened up my email and I've started typing,
00:58:01.700 | I've already forgotten what it is I wanted to delegate.
00:58:04.500 | If I can just open up my phone and say,
00:58:05.980 | "Hey, remember to send that thing to that person."
00:58:10.780 | Or, "Hey, I just had a meeting with this person.
00:58:13.700 | Please make sure to follow up with these three people
00:58:16.840 | so that they know that that meeting happened
00:58:18.620 | and this was the outcome."
00:58:20.020 | And then I'm done.
00:58:20.860 | I'm convinced that the thoughts that we have are ephemeral.
00:58:24.900 | When you write out your ideas,
00:58:27.620 | that is the externalization of those thoughts.
00:58:29.780 | And those thoughts have now left your brain.
00:58:31.700 | They're now in this artifact.
00:58:33.860 | And so the sooner you can get in these fleeting moments
00:58:37.300 | of inspiration, the faster you can get them out of your head
00:58:40.260 | and into some artifact that can be action, the better.
00:58:43.220 | - One other tool that has been really interesting
00:58:45.860 | to play with, I don't know if you've used
00:58:48.060 | the ChatGPT app with voice.
00:58:51.260 | - No, I haven't.
00:58:52.100 | - So you can open up the ChatGPT app now
00:58:54.020 | and you can say, "Hey, I'm trying to prep an interview guide
00:58:58.340 | about delegation."
00:58:59.980 | And it feels like a conversation where the other person
00:59:03.180 | is lagging behind you three seconds 'cause it has to think.
00:59:06.140 | But I experimented with actually prepping an interview
00:59:09.340 | in a voice conversation.
00:59:10.860 | And my only criticism is that you have to instruct it
00:59:14.580 | not to give you too much feedback until the end maybe,
00:59:19.380 | because they might say, "Oh, here's the guide again,"
00:59:21.660 | and read through it all and then read through it all.
00:59:23.660 | But it synchronizes everything with the GPT website and app.
00:59:27.340 | So you go get the text of it later,
00:59:29.420 | but you can actually have a conversation.
00:59:31.180 | And I wish I knew the name for whatever, I don't know,
00:59:34.340 | phenomenon, psychological principle, something is,
00:59:36.980 | but it is sometimes much easier for many people
00:59:40.220 | to get something out in a conversation than writing.
00:59:43.460 | Not just the friction and the time,
00:59:45.180 | but you actually sometimes get a higher quality product.
00:59:47.940 | And so I find that when I'm trying to struggle
00:59:50.540 | to think about things, my wife and I all brainstorm
00:59:52.820 | an idea together and I'm like, "Wow, I got a lot more
00:59:54.620 | out of that."
00:59:55.460 | And sometimes she's like, "I didn't even say anything.
00:59:56.780 | I just sat here and you talking to me,"
00:59:59.020 | similar to kind of rubber duck debugging.
01:00:01.500 | It's like just having a person to talk to
01:00:03.260 | and audibly bring it out loud can generate something.
01:00:06.500 | And so yes, you can record yourself,
01:00:08.860 | but I encourage people to check out GPT Voice
01:00:11.660 | 'cause you can have that conversation
01:00:12.940 | and get feedback.
01:00:13.780 | You can do it in your AirPods.
01:00:14.660 | It's almost like a little AI assistant
01:00:17.260 | that you have to trigger with the app.
01:00:18.660 | - Cool, yeah, I have it on my phone.
01:00:20.300 | I just haven't used that.
01:00:21.180 | I'll check that out.
01:00:22.220 | - You definitely said Loom was important,
01:00:23.580 | but I wanna make sure we give it a little bit more emphasis
01:00:25.660 | 'cause I've started using it for almost everything.
01:00:28.340 | And it basically, anytime I'm doing a task,
01:00:31.780 | I just record it, at least the first time.
01:00:33.860 | And so even if I'm not sure I wanna delegate it,
01:00:36.740 | I'll be like, "Oh, I'm gonna go set up a new invoice.
01:00:39.700 | Let me just record it and I'll go put it in a repository
01:00:42.380 | of all the things I do.
01:00:43.780 | Oh, I'm gonna book a flight.
01:00:44.860 | Let's record how I search for flights."
01:00:46.900 | I don't like to delegate my travel.
01:00:48.160 | I think you don't either, but at least there is a video.
01:00:50.660 | If I ever wanted to tell someone how I book a flight,
01:00:52.580 | I can walk them through the process
01:00:54.100 | of how I think about it.
01:00:55.340 | There's no cost.
01:00:56.260 | As a early Loom user, I assumed every video
01:00:58.860 | had to have me talking with the video and the audio.
01:01:01.860 | You can just make a video of you just working.
01:01:03.940 | A part of me is like, "Should I just record my whole day?"
01:01:05.780 | So that I could, you know, there's an app called Rewind
01:01:08.000 | that records your screen all day,
01:01:10.180 | records your audio all day,
01:01:11.620 | and you can actually go back and search through it.
01:01:13.660 | And it's super interesting for cases of like,
01:01:16.100 | "Oh, I was doing this thing.
01:01:17.380 | What was it?"
01:01:18.200 | And it OCRs everything so you can go search.
01:01:20.540 | Not the same use case.
01:01:22.140 | And I don't think it's as easy to go back and clip a thing,
01:01:24.340 | but it's kind of this idea of like always on.
01:01:26.680 | So I would just encourage everyone,
01:01:27.840 | if you haven't used Loom and you have any tasks
01:01:30.740 | you wanna share to use it,
01:01:32.620 | but also I use it to push back on synchronous meetings.
01:01:37.620 | And I wanna take a little tangent here
01:01:39.060 | 'cause you've thought about this deeply.
01:01:41.460 | I don't think, and I know you don't either,
01:01:43.940 | that having a synchronous meeting,
01:01:46.340 | and for anyone who's unfamiliar,
01:01:47.180 | just like both people are in the meeting at the same time,
01:01:49.460 | whether it's a phone call or a video,
01:01:51.060 | is really necessary all the time.
01:01:52.900 | - I think it's unnecessary most of the time, yeah.
01:01:55.900 | There are definitely use cases where it's really valuable
01:01:58.380 | and it is the best.
01:01:59.220 | Like we can't do this podcast asynchronously.
01:02:01.540 | It wouldn't make any sense.
01:02:03.040 | But some of the things that I found that are really useful
01:02:05.660 | is when somebody sends a meeting request,
01:02:08.580 | I will often send them a Loom in response and say,
01:02:11.940 | "Yeah, here's the answers to your questions."
01:02:14.060 | And it might take four minutes.
01:02:16.060 | And they say, "Oh, okay, great.
01:02:18.100 | "Thank you."
01:02:18.940 | It took me four minutes.
01:02:20.060 | They probably watched it at 2X.
01:02:21.820 | That whole cycle took six minutes
01:02:24.620 | as opposed to some scheduled time in the future,
01:02:27.540 | 30 minutes of each of our time,
01:02:29.780 | where we may not have even delivered
01:02:31.580 | on what we wanted to anyway.
01:02:33.100 | So you can skip all the small talk of the conversation
01:02:37.620 | and you can just get straight to the point.
01:02:39.180 | So proactively sending Looms,
01:02:41.820 | I have found has reduced the number of meetings
01:02:43.980 | that I need to take by, I don't know, 80%.
01:02:46.640 | Just 'cause a lot of times you just don't need
01:02:48.940 | to have a call to get basic information
01:02:51.020 | that people are asking for.
01:02:52.260 | - And the precursor to that sometimes for me
01:02:53.860 | is clarifying that there's actually a purpose.
01:02:56.180 | I get a message from someone, it's like,
01:02:57.260 | "Oh, we're in this WhatsApp group together.
01:03:00.980 | "Would love to connect."
01:03:02.740 | And I might write back and say,
01:03:04.640 | "Hey, the next two months are crazy.
01:03:06.400 | "Like right now I'm on a mission to get 12 episodes ahead
01:03:09.380 | "just so that it feels like there could be a break.
01:03:12.880 | "So the next two months are crazy."
01:03:14.620 | If there's something you actually want to discuss,
01:03:16.860 | feel free to send it over.
01:03:17.860 | I'm happy to record a response
01:03:19.540 | or feel free to use Loom and make a Loom
01:03:21.100 | and we can have a conversation.
01:03:22.780 | Especially with kids, there's a lot of times
01:03:24.660 | where they're asleep, I'm trying to be quiet.
01:03:26.900 | It's midnight, but I could be responsive.
01:03:30.120 | And I find that does two things.
01:03:32.660 | Two things positive and one thing negative.
01:03:34.520 | Sometimes there are interesting conversations
01:03:36.540 | that probably wouldn't happen
01:03:37.800 | because the other person didn't really have an agenda
01:03:39.820 | but wanted to just connect.
01:03:41.500 | Many times that would have been a waste of time.
01:03:43.180 | Sometimes it's not, and we should talk about that.
01:03:45.740 | But I do think that oftentimes it reduces meetings
01:03:50.740 | that are not necessary.
01:03:52.020 | Like someone we just didn't need to meet.
01:03:54.160 | It raises the burden for someone
01:03:56.340 | to actually have a conversation,
01:03:58.580 | but not in a way that says no.
01:04:00.900 | So if I get an email, it's like, "I'm too busy to meet."
01:04:03.500 | It's like, "Oh, that kind of feels bad."
01:04:05.880 | But it's like, "I'm too busy to meet synchronously."
01:04:08.300 | But if you want to record a video, I will get back to you.
01:04:10.780 | So it just kind of makes the whole process easier.
01:04:13.380 | I don't know, for me.
01:04:14.220 | But I do hate that sometimes I'm missing out.
01:04:17.380 | - What I have found is that connecting on Zoom
01:04:20.220 | is soul crushing.
01:04:21.980 | And so I don't do it, generally speaking.
01:04:25.660 | If somebody says like,
01:04:26.780 | "Hey, do you want to jump on a 30 minute call?"
01:04:29.140 | The answer is almost always going to be no,
01:04:31.700 | unless there's a specific agenda of what we will discuss.
01:04:34.900 | I have a much lower bar
01:04:36.300 | for meeting somebody for coffee in person.
01:04:39.060 | Because even if there isn't a clear agenda,
01:04:43.380 | it's much more energizing to just be in person
01:04:47.140 | and talking to people.
01:04:48.920 | Part of this is also I utterly lack discipline
01:04:52.180 | and the ability to wake up at a reasonable hour.
01:04:55.660 | And so I often will schedule 8 a.m. coffees
01:04:59.120 | just to force myself to wake up at 7.30.
01:05:02.220 | Because otherwise I'll wake up at 10 or 11.
01:05:04.780 | And so that's a really helpful strategy
01:05:06.940 | to just get me out of bed in the morning.
01:05:08.740 | - Having children will also help.
01:05:09.900 | - Yeah, for sure.
01:05:11.380 | Yeah, my friends who have kids,
01:05:12.420 | they seem to wake up at four or five in the morning now.
01:05:14.740 | One interesting thing is that I now delegate
01:05:17.480 | a lot more of my travel than I did before.
01:05:20.260 | It used to be the case that there was too much nuance
01:05:23.540 | in my travel schedule that I've tried delegating
01:05:27.780 | and I didn't have much luck.
01:05:29.520 | But now that none of the airlines
01:05:31.900 | have cancellation and change fees,
01:05:34.260 | it is a much lower burden
01:05:36.340 | to effectively semi-automate the process.
01:05:40.300 | My entire travel schedule is fixed three months in advance,
01:05:44.480 | generally speaking.
01:05:45.900 | And so my EAs will see my travel schedule
01:05:48.400 | and they will proactively book flights.
01:05:51.180 | But they don't necessarily need to be the flights
01:05:54.420 | that I will take.
01:05:55.460 | So I can see three months out or two months out,
01:05:59.140 | oh, they booked the wrong flight
01:06:00.760 | and then I could just change it.
01:06:01.940 | It's not a big deal.
01:06:03.000 | But at this point, 80% of the time,
01:06:05.460 | it's the correct flight
01:06:06.620 | and it's not a huge burden to change it.
01:06:09.020 | So I would say that I have semi-automated my travel
01:06:13.000 | because they can see my schedule,
01:06:14.820 | they can book the flights proactively
01:06:16.540 | and then I can just change it as necessary.
01:06:18.340 | So I found that to be very helpful.
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01:09:04.440 | I think if you apply the Pareto principle,
01:09:06.880 | like the 80/20 to a lot of things,
01:09:09.320 | especially in the world of optimization,
01:09:12.400 | I've found that you get to separate the decision
01:09:15.420 | from the optimal outcome and unopt outcome.
01:09:18.500 | So it's like, well, the example I've used a lot is
01:09:21.640 | I had an insurance policy for our home,
01:09:23.640 | and then we realized the home had appreciated.
01:09:25.440 | It was like, we need more coverage.
01:09:28.040 | I also would like to have the cheapest policy.
01:09:30.360 | And so I mixed those two things together and said,
01:09:33.880 | well, let's go find the best policy.
01:09:35.740 | Now, this happened again later in life,
01:09:38.000 | and it was like, let's get a policy that covers the house
01:09:40.560 | at the right amount.
01:09:41.720 | And then I can decide whether I want to go through
01:09:43.560 | the process of optimizing to save a little bit more.
01:09:45.960 | So in your case, it's like, let's book a flight.
01:09:48.200 | And then I can decide if it's worth trying to drill in
01:09:50.520 | and find the best thing or just take the one that's booked.
01:09:53.240 | And so I've tried to get a lot better at,
01:09:56.360 | let's just do the easy 80% of the thing I want,
01:10:00.140 | and then separate the decision to optimize
01:10:02.400 | from the decision to do the first part.
01:10:04.560 | Oftentimes, you can delegate that,
01:10:06.640 | like the hard part that you maybe feel
01:10:08.880 | uncomfortable delegating is that last 20%.
01:10:11.760 | - Yeah, and the reason why I wasn't able to delegate travel
01:10:14.920 | as effectively before is that it used to be the case
01:10:17.600 | that in every airline except Southwest,
01:10:19.800 | if you book a flight, you're like signing a suicide pact.
01:10:23.200 | You cannot cancel this flight or they will charge you $150,
01:10:27.120 | like plus a bunch of other fees.
01:10:29.320 | Now there's no change fees, no cancellation fees,
01:10:31.980 | no anything, and so the risk of booking a wrong flight
01:10:35.320 | is much lower.
01:10:36.360 | - Yeah, it's like you might get some credit.
01:10:37.840 | - Yeah, which I'm gonna use anyway.
01:10:39.720 | - Unless you're booking something obscurely international,
01:10:42.720 | where you probably wanna get it right
01:10:43.880 | because a Kenya Airways credit might not be that useful
01:10:47.480 | to you in the future.
01:10:48.820 | Okay, so when it comes to meetings,
01:10:51.940 | you've talked about using Looms as a way
01:10:54.240 | to reduce the meetings you have,
01:10:56.580 | but I also know that having more relationships,
01:11:00.800 | meeting more people is something you're interested in.
01:11:02.980 | Yes, you can meet them in person,
01:11:04.280 | but how do you think about that entire project
01:11:06.680 | of building relationships, networking?
01:11:09.800 | I know you've said you kind of default
01:11:11.320 | more of an introverted person.
01:11:12.480 | You say you don't wanna be in sales,
01:11:13.500 | you'd rather be an engineer.
01:11:14.780 | How do you think about building your network
01:11:16.760 | and taking meetings that might be a waste of time,
01:11:19.340 | but could turn into really powerful connections?
01:11:22.140 | - It's something that really came from the recognition
01:11:24.720 | that so many of the good things in my life
01:11:28.140 | have just come from people that are around me.
01:11:31.520 | And very rarely is it actually something that I did.
01:11:35.120 | I put more emphasis on being around people
01:11:38.080 | that I care about.
01:11:39.200 | There's a lot of spontaneity in these meetings.
01:11:41.880 | There are often people that I don't know very much about,
01:11:44.720 | and I meet with them.
01:11:45.980 | They're usually friends of friends.
01:11:47.780 | There's a, I forget who has this quote,
01:11:50.320 | but I think it's a really, it's a useful mindset
01:11:53.920 | to come into every conversation,
01:11:56.120 | including every conversation with your Uber driver,
01:11:59.040 | which is, "Every man is my superior in some way."
01:12:02.720 | Some variant of that quote.
01:12:04.600 | It has always surprised me
01:12:07.000 | how there were life experiences from people.
01:12:10.080 | There are ideas that people have
01:12:12.120 | that are really fascinating
01:12:15.320 | and often different than your own worldview.
01:12:18.320 | And so figuring out how to learn from other people
01:12:22.080 | in any context, I think it's just, it's a skill to develop.
01:12:25.360 | And once you get good at it
01:12:27.120 | and you really are excited to talk to people
01:12:29.360 | and learn from them, it's really energizing.
01:12:31.560 | So I appreciate that aspect of meeting new people.
01:12:35.680 | I would say I rarely come in with a specific agenda.
01:12:38.880 | It's like something that I want out of a person,
01:12:41.400 | but it is surprising how often unexpected value
01:12:44.840 | comes from these things.
01:12:46.320 | I would say that I'm convinced
01:12:48.360 | that the universe is conspiring in my favor.
01:12:50.920 | It's just, these things happen in a way
01:12:53.040 | that it just seems much too improbable to be random.
01:12:57.400 | - And you said, once you get good at it,
01:12:59.580 | what does that look like?
01:13:00.520 | You're meeting with a random person you don't know.
01:13:02.440 | What do you do now differently
01:13:03.600 | than you would have done before?
01:13:05.280 | - So I think some of it is you,
01:13:06.960 | who was it that I was talking to?
01:13:08.840 | He had a good way of describing it.
01:13:10.000 | He says he really doesn't like beige conversations.
01:13:12.760 | (laughs)
01:13:13.920 | Which is just like, yeah, weather is good.
01:13:16.160 | Food, I eat food too, food and weather.
01:13:19.240 | And you just kinda, you spend 10 minutes
01:13:21.400 | just sort of talking about beige things.
01:13:25.400 | And the sooner you can get to a point
01:13:28.720 | of asking a more interesting question.
01:13:31.600 | The biggest thing is, I think this was in
01:13:33.440 | How to Win Friends and Influence People,
01:13:35.380 | where he says, it's really important
01:13:37.160 | to remember people's names.
01:13:38.520 | The most important trick to doing that,
01:13:40.960 | to remembering people's names,
01:13:42.120 | is first you have to want to remember their names.
01:13:44.280 | (laughs)
01:13:45.440 | That's the secret, is you actually have to want to do it.
01:13:48.240 | If you don't want to do it, you're not gonna do it.
01:13:50.520 | And so I think that's a big part of it,
01:13:53.240 | is you have to want to find something interesting
01:13:56.680 | in these other people.
01:13:57.700 | If you're just going through the motions,
01:13:59.000 | it's not gonna be fun.
01:14:00.360 | And so if you learn about somebody's background,
01:14:03.440 | where they're from, what they're struggling with,
01:14:06.240 | if they have any regrets in their life,
01:14:08.440 | what they're excited about,
01:14:10.360 | and just the sooner you can get past that initial point
01:14:13.600 | of just sort of a conversation that you could place in
01:14:17.000 | with any random person in the world,
01:14:18.760 | and it would be exactly the same,
01:14:20.520 | the sooner you can really start to get value from those
01:14:23.000 | and find them a lot more energizing.
01:14:25.360 | - I mean, I guess maybe one of the tactics
01:14:26.960 | would be this gratitude exercise you did to find them.
01:14:29.480 | - The gratitude exercise that I did,
01:14:31.400 | this was several years ago now,
01:14:32.900 | I spent some time reflecting.
01:14:35.560 | It was in one of these books that I read,
01:14:37.880 | they recommended doing an exercise like this,
01:14:40.300 | and just writing down all of the good things
01:14:42.960 | that have happened to me in my life.
01:14:45.160 | And well, I think I maybe listed a hundred things.
01:14:48.560 | And what was so interesting when I was reflecting
01:14:50.680 | on this list was how almost all of them
01:14:53.740 | were because of people in my life
01:14:55.600 | and not because of something that I did.
01:14:57.720 | And that was a real wake-up call to realize
01:15:00.840 | that a lot of these great things and the people
01:15:04.120 | that were impactful on my life
01:15:06.000 | in both personal and professional things,
01:15:08.120 | they sort of fallen off the radar,
01:15:10.600 | and not for good reasons, just 'cause I kind of forgot.
01:15:13.360 | And the nice thing about computers
01:15:15.320 | is that they don't forget things.
01:15:16.960 | And so where I think a lot of people go wrong,
01:15:19.200 | I've tried building a personal CRM product
01:15:22.980 | maybe five or six times,
01:15:24.720 | and it's very hard.
01:15:26.160 | I'm pretty confident that it's not a category
01:15:29.060 | that will ever work.
01:15:30.360 | The main reason is when I talk to people about it,
01:15:33.160 | what they expect a personal CRM to do
01:15:35.500 | is automate all of their personal relationships.
01:15:38.340 | And that's not what a personal CRM does.
01:15:40.480 | It really just obliges you to spend a lot more time
01:15:43.400 | managing your personal relationships.
01:15:45.660 | Instead of spending one hour per week,
01:15:47.180 | now you're spending 10 hours or 20 hours a week.
01:15:49.540 | But you get a lot more value from it,
01:15:52.280 | and it's much more impactful.
01:15:53.760 | So I spend an inordinate amount of my time
01:15:57.320 | just maintaining these relationships,
01:15:59.800 | and talking to people,
01:16:01.200 | and trying to see how I can help others.
01:16:03.360 | But it definitely takes a lot of time.
01:16:05.200 | There's no way to automate it.
01:16:06.720 | - Is there a tool you're using to keep track of it all?
01:16:09.360 | You mentioned kind of the renaming of locations earlier.
01:16:12.040 | - So honestly, I just use Airtable at this point.
01:16:14.460 | There was a really interesting article,
01:16:16.360 | forget where it was from,
01:16:17.840 | but it was with Peter Boyce from,
01:16:20.720 | he's a venture capitalist.
01:16:22.100 | And what was interesting was how,
01:16:23.800 | I think it's called Peter Boyce is a People Person,
01:16:26.200 | I think is the name of the article.
01:16:27.880 | What was interesting is how convergent
01:16:29.880 | our CRMs ended up being.
01:16:31.720 | He ended up building his own.
01:16:33.400 | They're 90% the same.
01:16:35.200 | And so there's only a very limited subset of information
01:16:38.560 | that's actually useful.
01:16:39.800 | Human brains are pretty good at networked thought.
01:16:42.560 | I do think that almost all of this stuff
01:16:44.400 | will eventually be solved by some of these new AI tools,
01:16:47.720 | because they're much better at contextual networked thought
01:16:51.840 | in a way that existing tools have not been.
01:16:54.140 | But having lists of people and lists of groups of people,
01:16:58.400 | all of my friends who play board games in San Francisco,
01:17:01.840 | I have that list.
01:17:03.460 | Location, San Francisco, tag with board games.
01:17:06.880 | And I just have subsets of people
01:17:09.840 | that I want to stay in touch with on some regular basis,
01:17:13.600 | people that I meet up with for coffee.
01:17:15.760 | And you just have these lists of people
01:17:17.460 | and their interests and their locations.
01:17:19.380 | And it's really not much more complicated than that.
01:17:22.440 | And it's just the practice of every Sunday
01:17:25.680 | I have a calendar block to just look through the list.
01:17:29.880 | That's the whole process.
01:17:31.360 | I just look at all the names and I go, oh, Nick.
01:17:34.480 | I haven't talked to Nick in a long time.
01:17:36.080 | I should send him a note.
01:17:37.240 | And then I give him a call.
01:17:38.480 | We catch up.
01:17:39.440 | Or it's like, oh, Anthony, yeah.
01:17:41.920 | Man, I haven't seen him in like two years.
01:17:44.680 | I wonder, is he still in Miami?
01:17:46.800 | I'm going to check in.
01:17:47.640 | And he's like, oh, just moved to San Francisco.
01:17:49.320 | We should get coffee sometime.
01:17:51.140 | Cool.
01:17:51.820 | It's a real event that happened.
01:17:53.160 | We're meeting for coffee soon.
01:17:54.540 | So just learning that practice of just looking
01:17:57.880 | through the names, your brain is much better
01:17:59.700 | at coming up with connections of other people, things
01:18:03.040 | that you're working on, and how it relates to those people
01:18:05.620 | than the computer will be, at least
01:18:07.380 | with current technology.
01:18:08.620 | So I have a similar list, which I didn't even
01:18:10.620 | think of as a personal CRM, which
01:18:12.100 | is just I have a subset of my contacts on my phone.
01:18:16.500 | And it's called walking calls.
01:18:18.100 | And it's basically like if I'm driving or walking,
01:18:21.220 | who are all the people that I want to regularly connect with?
01:18:24.100 | And I'll go in and scroll through them.
01:18:26.220 | What it doesn't do a good job of--
01:18:28.020 | and there was an app back in the day called eTax, which
01:18:31.300 | actually, I think it was Howie Liu who might--
01:18:34.320 | I would have to look it up.
01:18:35.440 | But there's a small chance that the person who actually
01:18:37.740 | started this company went on to start Airtable.
01:18:39.580 | I'm going to look this up after.
01:18:40.900 | But the cool thing it would do was
01:18:43.140 | it would sync with your email, and it would sync with your AT&T
01:18:45.980 | login, because pre-iMessage, all of your texts
01:18:49.540 | were routed through the carrier.
01:18:51.220 | And it wouldn't know what's in the text,
01:18:52.860 | but it would just know when you last emailed or texted
01:18:55.520 | or called this person.
01:18:57.320 | And the one thing that I want a CRM to do well--
01:19:00.660 | and maybe you have an EA do this--
01:19:03.420 | is just I want to find the people that I had let go.
01:19:06.540 | And I don't know how many people are in your list,
01:19:08.660 | but I imagine it's not 10.
01:19:11.140 | Do you have a way to sort it by when you last talked to them?
01:19:13.580 | And is it too much burden to keep that date up to date?
01:19:17.340 | It is too much burden to keep that up to date
01:19:19.780 | unless it's an automated tool.
01:19:21.260 | I had actually, in some of the previous versions of CRMs,
01:19:24.820 | I had actually figured out a way to do a lot of those things.
01:19:28.660 | So very tactically, the iMessage on your desktop
01:19:33.020 | is just like an unencrypted SQLite database
01:19:35.700 | that you can hack into and get all that data.
01:19:37.980 | So you can have a script that just figures out
01:19:40.500 | when you contacted these people, syncs it with your CRM,
01:19:43.560 | and what data you have on them there.
01:19:45.460 | Google Calendar has an API.
01:19:48.300 | When you create an event, when you cancel an event,
01:19:50.380 | whatever you do, there's webhooks
01:19:51.800 | that you can tie into.
01:19:53.460 | So you can then see, oh, I had a calendar event
01:19:55.540 | with this person, and that shows up.
01:19:57.860 | There's a lot of ways that you can do this stuff.
01:20:00.480 | But the reality is just I didn't really--
01:20:03.540 | I didn't use it.
01:20:05.260 | It was a lot of work, and it just didn't add a lot of value.
01:20:08.580 | But these are totally achievable things
01:20:10.900 | if somebody wanted to build it.
01:20:12.180 | And one thing that I've heard you talk about before,
01:20:14.340 | which changed my perspective on, I don't know, random meetings,
01:20:17.940 | was I think my default assumption was, well,
01:20:21.020 | if I'm going to prioritize meeting someone,
01:20:23.540 | let's prioritize someone who we have
01:20:25.640 | a lot of mutual friends with.
01:20:27.340 | Seemed like it made sense.
01:20:28.980 | And then I heard you talk about why the opposite might actually
01:20:33.100 | be more beneficial.
01:20:34.740 | So the have a lot of mutual friends with,
01:20:38.060 | there's a term called network homophily, which
01:20:40.380 | is how similar are all the people in your network.
01:20:43.780 | And I don't want to say network homophily is a bad thing,
01:20:46.780 | but it definitely has trade-offs.
01:20:48.700 | And you limit your exposure, and you end up in a dense network.
01:20:52.100 | There's a concept called eigenvector centrality, which
01:20:55.020 | is really this idea of it's not just how many people do you
01:20:58.380 | know, but it's the second and third order effect of how many
01:21:01.060 | people do each of them know.
01:21:02.660 | If you're connected to all of these super connected people
01:21:05.820 | in each of these dense networks, you
01:21:08.060 | are a much more connected person.
01:21:09.900 | You will likely be able to deliver a lot more value
01:21:12.260 | in your life.
01:21:13.500 | You can use the network connectivity
01:21:16.220 | as maybe a proxy for potential quality of the conversation.
01:21:20.620 | But I think there are a lot of other ways
01:21:23.820 | to try to inject that diversity into it.
01:21:26.780 | In New York, I used to host these dinners.
01:21:29.100 | Hopefully, I'll start doing these again in San Francisco,
01:21:31.580 | called second degree dinners.
01:21:33.780 | Have you ever heard of this format?
01:21:35.300 | It's pretty fun.
01:21:36.500 | The idea is you start with, let's say
01:21:38.580 | you want to end up with 12 people.
01:21:40.580 | So you start with a core group of four people.
01:21:43.620 | And each of you invites somebody that you are confident nobody
01:21:47.540 | else knows.
01:21:48.820 | And then you ask that person to invite somebody
01:21:51.860 | that they think nobody else in the group will know.
01:21:54.780 | And so you end up with 12 people, most of whom
01:21:57.260 | don't know each other.
01:21:59.460 | But everyone whom knows one person.
01:22:01.380 | That's right.
01:22:01.940 | But everyone knows one person.
01:22:03.140 | That's right.
01:22:04.020 | And so it is almost necessarily going
01:22:07.420 | to be a much more diverse and interesting group of people
01:22:12.260 | than you would ordinarily have at a dinner party.
01:22:15.500 | Which would be your seven best friends.
01:22:17.620 | It would be exactly.
01:22:18.500 | It's your seven best friends.
01:22:19.860 | I host a lot of different types of dinners
01:22:21.780 | for these sorts of things.
01:22:22.900 | And each of them has their own intent.
01:22:24.500 | And that one is more like--
01:22:26.740 | it is rare that you would host some sort of event
01:22:29.260 | where you have a sculptor, a stand-up comedian, an investment
01:22:34.060 | banker.
01:22:34.860 | You just have this completely random eclectic mix
01:22:38.140 | of people that would otherwise not have interacted.
01:22:41.420 | And those can be a lot of fun.
01:22:43.100 | I hope to maybe--
01:22:44.860 | well, I guess maybe I know too many people.
01:22:46.780 | I know too many people to get the invite.
01:22:50.100 | Though I do fall in this new subset of once you have
01:22:52.580 | children, you're like, well, now I
01:22:53.700 | need people who are willing to go to dinner at 530.
01:22:56.340 | Or at 9.
01:22:57.540 | When the kids are asleep.
01:22:58.540 | But I want to circle back.
01:22:59.820 | We spent a little bit of time on some tools.
01:23:01.660 | We talked about using voice delegation.
01:23:03.700 | I think you and I share--
01:23:05.300 | maybe passion is the right word.
01:23:06.740 | I'm not sure.
01:23:07.380 | But for optimal communication and productivity and tools
01:23:12.180 | and everything, let's talk about some of the other tools
01:23:14.740 | you use to organize information, access it quickly,
01:23:18.820 | and spend less time on things that you don't
01:23:22.020 | want to spend more time on.
01:23:23.380 | Yeah, so Notion is a really good tool
01:23:25.660 | for keeping track of documentation internally.
01:23:28.820 | You probably know this because I imagine
01:23:30.540 | you are pretty deep into Notion.
01:23:32.060 | But there's the very simple version of there's a page,
01:23:34.260 | it's a wiki.
01:23:35.300 | And then there's the advanced version of Notion
01:23:37.260 | with databases, linking.
01:23:39.380 | You have all of this.
01:23:40.660 | Notion is a really flexible, very advanced tool.
01:23:44.740 | If you go deep into the inner workings of Notion,
01:23:47.500 | there is a lot more functionality in Notion
01:23:49.660 | than most people realize.
01:23:50.940 | They recently added automation, which
01:23:52.980 | I found for the podcast.
01:23:54.620 | Every time I source a new deal, a favorite, a tweet,
01:23:58.340 | it shows up in a database.
01:23:59.860 | As soon as we start working on it,
01:24:01.300 | it posts it to Slack, to a channel.
01:24:02.980 | You could do a lot.
01:24:04.700 | Do you use it in your personal life also?
01:24:06.940 | Yeah, for sure.
01:24:07.780 | My wife and I, we do a weekly family priorities
01:24:13.540 | where we have a list of some of this just logistics,
01:24:16.420 | like travel and expenses.
01:24:19.460 | And some of it is also things that
01:24:21.740 | bothered us during the week that we want to talk about.
01:24:24.700 | And we have all of it.
01:24:26.020 | It's like a weekly running one-on-one doc
01:24:28.380 | that we discuss every week.
01:24:29.940 | It's been very, very useful.
01:24:31.780 | I've gotten so many requests from people to explain--
01:24:35.220 | do a whole episode on how I use Notion.
01:24:37.700 | And I'm like, I don't even know where to start.
01:24:39.820 | It feels so personal.
01:24:40.900 | It's like, well, I want to take a trip.
01:24:42.660 | So I make a database.
01:24:43.500 | And I put all the trips in the database.
01:24:44.780 | And then each one has a page.
01:24:45.900 | And each one has a checklist.
01:24:47.100 | And it's like, you could go down these rabbit holes.
01:24:49.220 | But at the highest level, you can combine everything
01:24:52.860 | you would normally put in a spreadsheet,
01:24:54.500 | but in a database, which could do more.
01:24:56.420 | Everything you would put in a document
01:24:58.020 | could do more.
01:24:58.500 | You can link it all together and search it.
01:25:01.020 | And I don't know, that tool--
01:25:02.780 | You can publish it as a website.
01:25:04.460 | Yeah.
01:25:05.500 | OK, I know we both use email as kind
01:25:09.500 | of a triaging automated system.
01:25:12.300 | I'm using Superhuman.
01:25:14.100 | I know you have used Superhuman, are considering building
01:25:17.100 | something, or building it right now.
01:25:19.260 | How do you think first before the systems,
01:25:21.620 | just in general, about email?
01:25:23.220 | Because I think all of us, work, personal,
01:25:26.220 | feel overwhelmed by email.
01:25:27.660 | We'll start with the good things about email,
01:25:29.740 | which is email is threaded.
01:25:32.740 | And email is quantized.
01:25:34.460 | So we'll take Slack as a good opposite example.
01:25:37.900 | Slack is effectively a superset of text messaging.
01:25:41.700 | It is a relentless firehose of information.
01:25:45.420 | Anyone who's worked in a company that uses Slack,
01:25:48.060 | if you go offline for like three days,
01:25:50.860 | and you come back to Slack, you feel hopelessly behind.
01:25:55.180 | And you have to like scroll and figure out,
01:25:57.020 | what did I miss?
01:25:58.220 | Because it's just, it's all coming.
01:25:59.820 | It's like being in a WhatsApp group.
01:26:01.860 | Like I just checked earlier today,
01:26:04.700 | there's some thread that I don't,
01:26:06.300 | I haven't even checked what it is yet,
01:26:07.540 | that must have blown up.
01:26:08.580 | I have like 128 messages on WhatsApp.
01:26:11.820 | It's like, am I really going to be able to filter
01:26:14.700 | through all of those to see if any of them are relevant?
01:26:17.420 | Probably not.
01:26:18.700 | You just end up muting them, and then they go away.
01:26:21.060 | So the nice thing about email is that because it's threaded
01:26:24.340 | and quantized, each idea is encapsulated in one item.
01:26:29.220 | People can respond on that one item,
01:26:32.140 | but it doesn't impact you anymore.
01:26:34.060 | You could just mute.
01:26:35.220 | It's like, oh, I don't want to engage in this topic.
01:26:37.700 | And you can delete it, you can mute it,
01:26:39.460 | whatever you want to do,
01:26:40.700 | but you don't miss all of the information
01:26:43.180 | from all of the people.
01:26:44.860 | So the problem with email is that the signal to noise ratio
01:26:49.180 | in email is extremely low.
01:26:51.660 | Partly because anyone can just send you an email.
01:26:54.580 | I was actually talking to somebody about this very recently
01:26:56.460 | that all of these marketing agencies with dashes
01:27:01.460 | in their URL, like does anybody actually open those?
01:27:05.440 | I cannot imagine that sending this much spam email
01:27:09.020 | is delivering value for anybody, but it must be.
01:27:12.060 | And there's just so much of it,
01:27:13.220 | and it's so hard to stay on top of it.
01:27:14.980 | So that's the major problem with email,
01:27:17.140 | is that anyone else can effectively impose
01:27:20.740 | their priority on you, onto your attention.
01:27:23.740 | I don't have a great solution for it yet.
01:27:25.560 | We have really tried a lot of different tools.
01:27:28.580 | We ended up building our own comms tool
01:27:31.220 | to try to solve this problem.
01:27:32.900 | We're planning to externalize it, probably in Q1.
01:27:36.220 | My hope is that it'll be a drop-in replacement
01:27:39.220 | for Superhuman and Slack,
01:27:41.220 | and really any other workplace communication tool
01:27:43.940 | people are using.
01:27:45.140 | Almost all of these tools are designed by people
01:27:47.300 | who are either social media product managers
01:27:49.980 | in their past life, or video game designers.
01:27:52.580 | They're not people who are designing tools
01:27:54.360 | with deep work as the major focus.
01:27:56.620 | That's really been the major effort
01:27:58.260 | that we've been working on there.
01:27:59.760 | - Within email, one thing that I think has helped,
01:28:03.380 | so yes, everyone has access to your inbox.
01:28:05.220 | It can be overwhelming.
01:28:06.500 | The more you can view it as a thing
01:28:08.700 | that you can process quickly, the less you dwell on it.
01:28:11.620 | When I watch some people manage their inbox,
01:28:14.340 | it's I open an email, I open it, I think about it.
01:28:18.500 | And mine is like, first I'll just go through the inbox,
01:28:20.620 | and I'll be like, what can I just quickly delete?
01:28:22.820 | And like, keyboard shortcut,
01:28:24.700 | and maybe it's not delete and archive,
01:28:26.100 | but it's like J-J-J-E-E-E-J-J.
01:28:28.180 | Like, I'm just trying to get everything out.
01:28:30.180 | I do like one pass.
01:28:31.880 | I know this breaks a lot of people's principles,
01:28:33.540 | which is like only touch an email twice or once.
01:28:36.540 | But I'm like, one pass, get rid of all the bad stuff
01:28:40.140 | that I don't even need.
01:28:40.980 | And that's something that you can usually
01:28:43.180 | solve through delegation as well.
01:28:45.140 | Then when I'm going through it, it's like,
01:28:47.020 | each email is going to go somewhere.
01:28:49.820 | It's either going to be quickly replied to,
01:28:52.220 | or be filed to deal with later,
01:28:53.880 | or be hidden to come back later and dealt with.
01:28:56.460 | Being able to do that quickly,
01:28:57.900 | I think is an underrated skill.
01:29:00.020 | I think a lot of people are like,
01:29:00.860 | well, I don't need to be the productivity export,
01:29:03.020 | learn the keyboard shortcuts, superhuman,
01:29:06.540 | or any tool like that that I'd have to pay for
01:29:08.820 | to just use my inbox.
01:29:10.720 | I don't know how to say anything other than like,
01:29:13.720 | I think you're wrong.
01:29:15.500 | There's actually really good data on this,
01:29:17.580 | which I'm happy to share.
01:29:19.380 | Like there's so much data on how much more productive
01:29:23.660 | people are using hotkeys, or keyboard shortcuts.
01:29:28.660 | Depending on what your role is,
01:29:31.860 | there's a bunch of different studies
01:29:33.060 | trying for different tasks.
01:29:34.740 | People automatically, with a very short period of training,
01:29:39.140 | see something like a 10 to 40% increase in productivity
01:29:43.420 | for the rest of their lives,
01:29:45.240 | just by learning these shortcuts.
01:29:47.460 | If you're in a role where you're doing a lot
01:29:50.580 | of manual clicking and typing,
01:29:53.620 | and you're in a particular tool a lot,
01:29:55.640 | that's on the higher end.
01:29:57.140 | If you just process email occasionally,
01:29:59.980 | it still is useful.
01:30:01.060 | There's a tremendous amount of evidence
01:30:02.740 | for why learning these is such a positive thing,
01:30:05.740 | and it's everybody needs to do it.
01:30:07.540 | It's really what it comes down to.
01:30:09.000 | For very little effort, you get free productivity forever.
01:30:12.460 | - And this is not just true for email.
01:30:14.020 | Like most apps you use on your computer,
01:30:16.980 | and I imagine everyone knows how to copy and paste.
01:30:20.060 | - Yeah, exactly.
01:30:20.900 | - And like, take how simple copy and paste makes your life.
01:30:24.300 | Instead of dragging your cursor up and clicking the icon,
01:30:27.580 | that applies everywhere.
01:30:29.060 | I remember working in finance,
01:30:30.720 | like I went to an Excel training,
01:30:33.180 | and it was like, you can go deep
01:30:34.700 | if you're in a specific area,
01:30:36.460 | and it will also greatly increase your productivity.
01:30:39.460 | But I think at a bare minimum, email shortcuts,
01:30:43.140 | which for some reason, even Gmail,
01:30:44.900 | you have to manually enable.
01:30:46.500 | So go enable it, go look up,
01:30:48.780 | used to be able to buy stickers
01:30:49.820 | and put them on your keyboard,
01:30:50.780 | but I think you can pretty quickly learn them,
01:30:53.340 | is such an unlock.
01:30:54.940 | - Yeah, definitely.
01:30:55.940 | - And within Slack or whatever app you use,
01:30:57.960 | I would encourage that.
01:30:58.800 | And then broad computer-wise,
01:31:01.380 | just the number of people that I've witnessed
01:31:04.740 | not using on a Mac, Command + Tab,
01:31:07.780 | Control + Tab or Alt + Tab on a PC,
01:31:10.340 | just to be able to jump between windows
01:31:12.860 | within an app, within windows outside of an app,
01:31:15.680 | maybe Chrome, to be able to switch through tabs
01:31:18.260 | or whatever browser you're using.
01:31:19.980 | - Yeah, a few other things related to that,
01:31:21.380 | I would say Text Expander,
01:31:23.180 | which I know is something that you're familiar with.
01:31:25.540 | Text Expander is an awesome one
01:31:26.860 | when you're using snippets
01:31:27.820 | across all these different platforms.
01:31:30.140 | - And the principle there, for people who don't know,
01:31:31.600 | you can create a piece of text
01:31:34.140 | that is your address.
01:31:36.440 | You can have a shortcut for it
01:31:38.220 | to be able to drop your address in.
01:31:39.940 | And if you don't wanna download an app and do this,
01:31:41.940 | I actually use just the default Mac text replacement.
01:31:46.500 | So if I type ch @ symbol,
01:31:49.500 | it replaces it with my email address.
01:31:51.380 | So there are a few things
01:31:52.660 | where I've actually just built it into iOS,
01:31:55.060 | which is great, it works on your phone,
01:31:56.660 | which I don't know if Text Expander works on your phone.
01:31:59.180 | They might-- - I've used it on my phone.
01:32:00.700 | - But that's the hack on a phone,
01:32:01.800 | is you can go in and create a keyboard
01:32:03.760 | that would just turn OMW into On My Way,
01:32:07.100 | or whatever things you might say a lot.
01:32:09.200 | Or you can use Text Expander, which has more functionality.
01:32:12.100 | Superhuman has snippets built into it.
01:32:14.540 | - Nice thing about Text Expander,
01:32:16.300 | I don't use the specific key shortcuts, like ch @.
01:32:21.300 | I pretty much exclusively use it, the search functionality.
01:32:24.440 | So you can just paste the entire snippet in,
01:32:29.000 | and it will just infer as you're typing.
01:32:31.700 | You can start the search on Text Expander,
01:32:33.820 | and as you're typing in words,
01:32:35.160 | it filters it down to the one that you want.
01:32:36.980 | So you don't have to memorize nearly as many hotkeys.
01:32:40.360 | - So I use Alfred instead of Text Expander for this.
01:32:43.120 | And the thing I love is that it merges your snippets
01:32:46.920 | with your history of your clipboard.
01:32:49.040 | So with the same keyboard shortcut,
01:32:51.000 | I pull up anything I've ever copied and pasted
01:32:53.480 | in the last, I don't know how long it goes, 30 days,
01:32:56.800 | with a priority for anything that's a snippet.
01:33:00.280 | So I find myself, and the clipboard functionality
01:33:04.000 | works with photos.
01:33:06.040 | So if I wanna go screen grab three things,
01:33:08.940 | I screen grab, screen grab, screen grab,
01:33:10.700 | and I can go in and I think it's option command C,
01:33:14.780 | pulls up and I'm like, I wanna paste this,
01:33:16.700 | paste this, paste this.
01:33:17.940 | And so it combines the two.
01:33:19.020 | But Text Expander, I also don't use
01:33:21.500 | the keyboard shortcuts for it.
01:33:23.020 | It's more about being able to have a database of things
01:33:25.020 | that I wanna throw in.
01:33:26.220 | And then I use snippets within Superhuman,
01:33:28.060 | which I could probably combine those.
01:33:29.860 | I can't remember, but I think it includes
01:33:32.100 | some HTML or hybrid formatting.
01:33:35.220 | So if you wanted to say like, here's a link to my website,
01:33:39.160 | when you paste it, you could actually have the HTML in there.
01:33:42.120 | I can't remember if Alfred does that,
01:33:43.480 | but I believe Text Expander does.
01:33:45.320 | So that's one.
01:33:46.160 | - The thing I always try to help people do
01:33:48.000 | is instead of using their cursor
01:33:50.120 | and going down into their dock to open each app,
01:33:52.800 | they do command space and you type the thing.
01:33:55.460 | It's a very coder way to do it,
01:33:57.200 | but it's much, much, much faster.
01:33:58.800 | Instead of like going down, which of these 40 icons
01:34:03.240 | is the one that I want?
01:34:04.940 | And it really slows things down when you have to do that.
01:34:07.580 | - Yeah, my dock is now like five things.
01:34:09.620 | - Yeah, mine too.
01:34:10.580 | - Because I just searched for it.
01:34:11.620 | I've disabled spotlight for Alfred,
01:34:13.860 | which is like a tool to do the same.
01:34:15.660 | There's another tool that if I can find it,
01:34:17.500 | I'll put in the show notes that people have recommended.
01:34:20.060 | I believe it has--
01:34:20.900 | - It could be Raycast. - Raycast.
01:34:21.940 | I knew it had the word Ray in it as an alternative,
01:34:24.020 | which I've heard great things about.
01:34:25.500 | The one thing we didn't talk about in depth is calendaring.
01:34:29.420 | And you mentioned earlier, like doing an audit,
01:34:31.500 | making sure things are in your calendar.
01:34:33.360 | I wanna talk about it because I think I'm terrible at it.
01:34:36.760 | On the whole, I looked at this list,
01:34:38.080 | I was like, I'm great at Notion, I'm great at email,
01:34:40.040 | I'm great at a lot of productivity things.
01:34:42.440 | If you look at my calendar, there's like four things on it.
01:34:44.560 | And sometimes my EA's like,
01:34:46.520 | "Oh, you need to do this thing,
01:34:47.360 | "she'll put it on my calendar."
01:34:48.320 | And I just don't, I'm like,
01:34:49.320 | "Well, why would I do it?
01:34:50.400 | "I can do it later."
01:34:51.720 | How have you created discipline to use your calendar
01:34:55.660 | both as a place of what to do
01:34:59.120 | and as a record of what you did?
01:35:01.400 | - I wish I had a better answer
01:35:02.900 | other than to have discipline to do that.
01:35:05.480 | Let's say I ostensibly set a priority
01:35:08.520 | as I wanna make sure that I am spending a lot of time
01:35:13.520 | recruiting new engineers.
01:35:15.260 | That's my priority for this month.
01:35:17.040 | Having that feedback mechanism of my EA
01:35:20.160 | giving you my monthly report and saying,
01:35:21.700 | "You spent one hour doing this thing this whole month."
01:35:25.560 | That's a real wake up call for me to say,
01:35:27.740 | "Oh, wow, I need to move things around."
01:35:30.260 | Because my stated priority is clearly not reflected
01:35:33.400 | in my empirical record of priorities.
01:35:35.840 | Having that feedback loop, I think,
01:35:37.240 | helps with the discipline
01:35:38.860 | because it allows me to reorient my time.
01:35:42.260 | It probably started much more so
01:35:44.880 | in the retroactively capturing what I'm doing.
01:35:48.000 | And then I started proactively looking into the future
01:35:52.040 | and projecting what I would be spending my time on.
01:35:54.680 | So that's probably the order
01:35:56.440 | in which that was more of a thing
01:35:57.840 | because this whole process for me
01:35:59.640 | actually started when I was doing
01:36:01.420 | a lot of software consulting work.
01:36:03.760 | And it was just a pragmatic aspect
01:36:06.560 | of I need to know who to bill how much time for.
01:36:10.140 | That's really where it started for me
01:36:12.100 | was I started keeping track historically
01:36:14.440 | of how much time I was spending on each project.
01:36:17.120 | And then I realized that I now have to project
01:36:19.420 | into the future how many projects
01:36:20.840 | can I manage at the same time.
01:36:23.080 | And I would add those blocks into my calendar.
01:36:26.000 | And I realized I can only support this many projects.
01:36:28.480 | So I would say that's probably the order
01:36:30.360 | that I would approach it if you were to give it a shot.
01:36:32.860 | - And are you naturally not a procrastinator?
01:36:36.000 | - I'm very much a procrastinator.
01:36:38.160 | Part of the answer is I create a lot of scaffolding
01:36:41.200 | around how I spend my time and what my priorities are.
01:36:44.740 | I can give a recent example,
01:36:46.040 | something I need to deliver by next Wednesday.
01:36:48.920 | I'm not gonna put it on my calendar for tomorrow
01:36:51.400 | because I know I'm just gonna not do it.
01:36:54.280 | So I'd usually, I'll put it on my calendar
01:36:56.480 | probably for Tuesday.
01:36:58.080 | And I think it's gonna take me about four hours.
01:37:00.080 | So I block off four hours on Tuesday
01:37:02.720 | 'cause I have to deliver it by Wednesday.
01:37:04.340 | I'm not gonna be super optimistic
01:37:06.620 | about what is gonna happen
01:37:08.320 | 'cause I have enough of these empirical records
01:37:10.920 | to know how this pattern goes
01:37:13.080 | is I'm just gonna not do it until Tuesday anyway.
01:37:15.600 | So I might as well just put it on Tuesday.
01:37:17.760 | Being able to project how you're spending your time,
01:37:21.280 | it brings procrastination into much more focus.
01:37:25.140 | Let's say you know you need to do this by Wednesday
01:37:28.080 | and you say, yeah, I'll just deal with this later.
01:37:30.240 | I have plenty of time.
01:37:31.840 | But if you look at your calendar
01:37:33.080 | and you realize that actually you do not,
01:37:35.400 | you don't have any time to do this between now and next week
01:37:39.640 | you have to figure out how to move your calendar around
01:37:41.680 | that it brings it much more into focus
01:37:43.840 | and makes procrastination a lot harder
01:37:46.320 | because you would just realize
01:37:47.220 | that you either have to cut things
01:37:48.780 | from what your current calendar is
01:37:50.640 | or you have to bring it further back in time
01:37:53.340 | to be able to do it earlier.
01:37:54.560 | My challenge might actually be less
01:37:56.480 | that I don't wanna do the important thing
01:37:59.440 | but that some random thing has come up
01:38:01.800 | that I'm excited about.
01:38:03.240 | And to go full circle with an example,
01:38:05.440 | recently I realized that someone
01:38:09.480 | who as a company we owe money to sent me a bill,
01:38:12.480 | sat in the inbox, forgot to pay it.
01:38:14.640 | And I was like, there should just be a system
01:38:16.560 | where someone could, you know, when I work with vendors
01:38:19.640 | I send them an email to like invoicing at
01:38:22.640 | and I send them our invoice and it gets paid.
01:38:25.640 | So I was like, oh, I need something like that.
01:38:26.920 | And I was like, oh, what are the tools?
01:38:28.240 | Oh, well, QuickBooks can do it
01:38:29.480 | and bill.com can do it and Melio can do it
01:38:32.280 | and a few banks have it.
01:38:33.560 | And it's like, ooh, I wanna go play with all the,
01:38:35.200 | and I was like, I just got excited.
01:38:36.760 | So to go back, I'm sure many people listening
01:38:39.040 | are like that sounds like a horrible task.
01:38:40.960 | I would never wanna spend my free time
01:38:42.920 | researching accounting software to track accounts payable.
01:38:46.440 | - Sounds like a really good pass to delegate to an EA.
01:38:49.520 | - For you, for me, I was like, it was exciting.
01:38:52.160 | Like I was, how you might feel programming,
01:38:54.840 | I felt evaluating accounting tools.
01:38:57.840 | And so I'm like, gosh, today I have to do this thing
01:39:00.320 | but this thing that's really exciting.
01:39:02.560 | I think maybe what I need to get better at is like,
01:39:05.440 | it's actually less about when I put the time
01:39:08.400 | for the thing I do.
01:39:09.280 | It's about capturing the thing I'm exciting about
01:39:11.400 | and putting it somewhere so that I know I get to do it.
01:39:15.000 | - Yeah, I do this all the time.
01:39:16.360 | If I was to show you my calendar now, you would see
01:39:19.120 | there's two CSS properties that somehow I just missed
01:39:23.040 | that they were released, which is I've been using Flexbox
01:39:26.320 | for a lot of things and grid is now a thing.
01:39:28.800 | Somehow I missed that, which is a really cool way
01:39:31.320 | of orienting items in CSS.
01:39:34.560 | The other one that I missed is clamp.
01:39:36.480 | Somehow I missed when that got released,
01:39:38.160 | which effectively does away with all these
01:39:40.220 | really tedious media queries.
01:39:42.400 | And I was super excited when I discovered this.
01:39:44.920 | How did I miss that this exists?
01:39:47.400 | And I felt really motivated to do it at that exact moment.
01:39:52.400 | But then I looked at my calendar,
01:39:53.880 | it's like, I don't have time.
01:39:55.280 | So I put an hour on my calendar.
01:39:58.640 | The next time I had availability,
01:40:00.200 | which was like three days later, I put the links in there.
01:40:04.040 | I was able to externalize it and say,
01:40:05.800 | I'm not gonna forget about this.
01:40:07.560 | It's in my calendar.
01:40:08.740 | I will eventually get to it.
01:40:10.020 | And I'm gonna learn these things.
01:40:11.480 | - Have you gotten to do that yet?
01:40:12.880 | - No, I think it might be today, actually.
01:40:15.480 | - We should, I won't keep you from CSS,
01:40:19.560 | which similarly sounds like something
01:40:20.960 | I enjoy going down rabbit hole.
01:40:22.440 | I think I just enjoy going down
01:40:24.180 | learning rabbit holes too much.
01:40:26.200 | So that makes it just super challenging.
01:40:27.680 | - Yeah, and I think where a lot of people struggle with this
01:40:29.360 | and this is certainly where I used to struggle with this,
01:40:31.320 | is that it feels like if you don't do it now,
01:40:34.080 | it's gonna just fall into the void.
01:40:36.280 | But if you put it on your calendar
01:40:37.560 | and you're disciplined about sticking to your calendar,
01:40:40.200 | you will get to it.
01:40:41.360 | The nice thing about calendars
01:40:42.840 | is that things happen linearly.
01:40:45.760 | Like time will elapse.
01:40:47.080 | You will eventually get to the item
01:40:48.680 | and you will have to do something with it.
01:40:50.560 | - I think one example that actually helped
01:40:53.440 | when it comes to email,
01:40:54.700 | a lot of people that are listening
01:40:56.080 | probably leave their email open all day,
01:40:57.740 | which I think is a habit that sometimes I'm better
01:41:00.840 | and sometimes I'm worse at sticking to.
01:41:02.860 | And I thought, gosh, if I close my email,
01:41:04.960 | then I'll miss something.
01:41:06.660 | What I found was when I don't look at my email
01:41:09.040 | for three hours, it's like I have so much
01:41:11.400 | exciting things to see.
01:41:12.960 | Like that joy that you would get these little blips of,
01:41:15.600 | instead of getting the little blips, you got a big one.
01:41:17.840 | And I actually liked it more.
01:41:18.860 | So right now I haven't looked at my email
01:41:20.560 | our entire conversation and I'm like,
01:41:21.920 | ooh, I'm kind of excited to go see what's in there
01:41:24.560 | and probably archive most of it.
01:41:26.080 | - So there's a useful tool,
01:41:28.560 | not coincidentally, the tool that we're building
01:41:30.880 | has a feature called scheduled delivery,
01:41:33.120 | which batches your messages.
01:41:35.320 | So that even if you checked, you wouldn't see anything.
01:41:38.280 | It actually hides them from you
01:41:39.440 | until it's time that you specify.
01:41:41.440 | If you write out that you want to process email
01:41:45.040 | from one o'clock to two o'clock,
01:41:47.200 | it'll just hide everything from you.
01:41:49.200 | There's a way to break the glass
01:41:50.280 | and get the data if you want it,
01:41:52.000 | but it'll hide it from you until that moment.
01:41:54.040 | So you don't feel this urge to compulsively check.
01:41:56.640 | There's a tool that I use that really inspired
01:41:59.880 | a lot of this, which is called Mailman.
01:42:02.080 | I think their website's Mailman HQ.
01:42:04.320 | Very, very simple product.
01:42:05.680 | All it does is it batches your email.
01:42:08.420 | And so you say, I want my email to be delivered to me
01:42:11.080 | at one o'clock and five o'clock, and that's it.
01:42:14.120 | And so what's nice is it's useful to think
01:42:16.600 | about these things cognitively in terms of dopamine loops.
01:42:20.800 | If you check your email and there's nothing there,
01:42:24.320 | you don't get that dopamine reward.
01:42:26.180 | But if you constantly check, it's like,
01:42:27.920 | ooh, new information.
01:42:29.160 | Ooh, there's a little dot.
01:42:30.160 | Ooh, I can check that.
01:42:31.000 | I feel like I just did something.
01:42:32.520 | I marked junk mail as done.
01:42:34.640 | I've achieved something.
01:42:36.320 | You get that dopamine reinforcement.
01:42:38.700 | And what's nice about these tools is that
01:42:41.580 | if you check it enough times and there's nothing new there,
01:42:44.420 | you eventually just give up.
01:42:45.700 | And that compulsive behavioral trait just evaporates.
01:42:49.940 | And you don't feel that compulsive need to check anymore.
01:42:52.420 | The data on this stuff is really frightening.
01:42:55.120 | There's some data around use of Slack
01:42:57.060 | and other workplace communications tools like email.
01:43:00.180 | For knowledge workers, I think it was something like
01:43:03.300 | 60% of knowledge workers cannot go more than six minutes
01:43:07.860 | without checking a communications tool.
01:43:10.020 | I think it was almost half of knowledge workers
01:43:12.680 | never at any point get more than 30 minutes
01:43:16.200 | of uninterrupted time ever, which I just,
01:43:18.700 | I cannot even fathom how people get work done,
01:43:21.720 | especially doing software development.
01:43:23.580 | It's just impossible.
01:43:24.920 | - I regularly miss messages during the workday
01:43:29.680 | 'cause I have my phone set to go into work mode,
01:43:32.140 | which doesn't surface anything.
01:43:34.500 | I do think that, and I don't know if you're building this
01:43:36.660 | into your tool, there are probably a few things,
01:43:39.380 | and I don't know how to figure out what they are
01:43:41.020 | 'cause I don't have an obvious rule set
01:43:43.140 | that it's like, I would like to know about that.
01:43:45.940 | You could probably filter it on keyword or sender,
01:43:49.060 | but there are some things that I do wanna know about.
01:43:51.220 | And then there are some things like the worst is on Slack.
01:43:54.300 | There is no way to have,
01:43:57.140 | and if anyone listening knows a way, let me know,
01:43:59.540 | a Google Drive integration that will notify you
01:44:04.380 | of some things, which like I shared something to someone
01:44:06.820 | and it wasn't shared and I meant to share it,
01:44:09.900 | but I went and said, anyone can edit it in our org,
01:44:12.460 | but I forgot to say with the link.
01:44:14.300 | And I got a push on Slack that was like,
01:44:15.900 | "Hey, do you wanna grant access?"
01:44:17.980 | I was like, oh, this is so helpful.
01:44:19.180 | It was early in the morning.
01:44:20.020 | I could hit one button, grant access.
01:44:22.080 | But then someone was editing a doc and every minute
01:44:24.300 | I got a, "This person edited, this person edited."
01:44:26.300 | I was like, I don't, this is crazy.
01:44:28.380 | Suppress it all.
01:44:29.820 | I would love to see some ability to kind of filter out
01:44:32.580 | that stuff, but let the, you missed a payment,
01:44:35.740 | come through that I need to resolve.
01:44:37.500 | - The signal to noise problem in communications
01:44:39.780 | is just fundamentally hard.
01:44:41.660 | We do have some specific heuristics
01:44:43.560 | on how we're solving that problem.
01:44:45.660 | When it's intra-org, you can largely trust
01:44:49.660 | the other people in your org
01:44:51.860 | to be responsible stewards of your time.
01:44:54.580 | And so you can't do this with email.
01:44:57.500 | Like if you let every spam marketer set the priority,
01:45:00.900 | like everything, priority zero, interrupt him immediately.
01:45:04.780 | This is the highest priority thing.
01:45:06.860 | You need to work with our agency.
01:45:08.620 | It's another one of these.
01:45:09.840 | But within your company, people are usually pretty good
01:45:12.780 | about setting something to the right level of priority
01:45:15.660 | or setting a date in the future.
01:45:17.660 | It's one of the things that we were working on
01:45:19.200 | is you can say this will become high priority on Wednesday
01:45:23.860 | if you haven't done it by Wednesday.
01:45:25.380 | (laughs)
01:45:26.500 | You can specify some of these things
01:45:28.060 | where you have like an escalation path
01:45:30.940 | over some time period.
01:45:32.140 | So yeah, it's a fundamentally hard problem
01:45:34.780 | and I don't think any of these tools have solved it.
01:45:36.660 | - But I've also played with a little
01:45:37.820 | is around AI and all these things.
01:45:39.940 | I'm curious how AI has fit into,
01:45:43.500 | to go back to our earlier conversation, delegation
01:45:46.340 | and how much you or even your EAs
01:45:50.020 | have been able to lean into it
01:45:51.460 | as a way to become more efficient.
01:45:53.900 | - It's incredibly helpful for things
01:45:55.240 | like doing meeting summaries.
01:45:57.580 | I don't think that we're leveraging it
01:45:59.140 | as much as we could be.
01:46:01.940 | It would be interesting, this is maybe a question
01:46:04.500 | I should just ask some folks at Athena,
01:46:07.100 | is that if Athena is a staffing agency
01:46:09.700 | or some of these other companies,
01:46:10.940 | if they view themselves as staffing agencies, that's fine.
01:46:14.340 | But it would be interesting as this category evolves,
01:46:18.540 | if they view themselves much more
01:46:19.900 | as a task completion company
01:46:22.380 | and the abstraction of having people and staff
01:46:26.440 | is actually less important than the completion of tasks
01:46:29.680 | on some regular basis,
01:46:31.320 | you can imagine a world where you record
01:46:35.000 | loom of your workflow throughout the entire day.
01:46:38.080 | And there's some AI process that analyzes that video
01:46:41.200 | and then recommends how it could automate
01:46:43.320 | half of the things that you did.
01:46:45.160 | And it wouldn't require a person
01:46:46.720 | and you would just say like, accept.
01:46:48.720 | I accept this delegation forever at zero cost.
01:46:52.080 | That would be pretty awesome.
01:46:53.480 | And I don't think we're that far away from it.
01:46:55.400 | I would bet within the next 10 years,
01:46:57.600 | we have something that's fairly similar to that.
01:46:59.960 | - Right now, my solution has been to get a good sense
01:47:02.980 | of the things that I wanna do
01:47:04.520 | and then encourage my EA not to think
01:47:09.120 | that using AI is cheating.
01:47:11.120 | You know, it's like, this is a tool.
01:47:12.640 | If it can make you more efficient, use it.
01:47:15.000 | And I've found that it's not good
01:47:17.720 | at necessarily doing things, the execution of things,
01:47:21.360 | but it's fairly good at the brainstorming
01:47:24.960 | and thinking of things.
01:47:26.200 | What topics would I wanna talk about?
01:47:28.800 | A use case that I'd never even considered
01:47:30.600 | that a friend of mine recently did was,
01:47:32.440 | he took all of his biomarkers
01:47:33.900 | from his most recent health tests,
01:47:35.720 | where he went and got all these labs done.
01:47:37.780 | And he was like, talk to me about them.
01:47:39.560 | Here's all of them.
01:47:40.640 | Here's everything about me.
01:47:41.960 | Here's the history.
01:47:43.380 | What can you interpret from this?
01:47:44.920 | - Oh, cool.
01:47:45.760 | - It didn't even cross my mind to take my blood labs
01:47:48.760 | and put them into chat GPT and see what it said.
01:47:50.900 | - And there's lots of use cases you'll find as a parent
01:47:52.920 | where you're like, oh, make up a story
01:47:54.000 | about a dragon who likes fish tacos,
01:47:55.960 | because that's what my child wants to talk about.
01:47:58.240 | So you'll get to there.
01:47:59.600 | But I've started trying to think about, okay,
01:48:02.040 | it could be used for brainstorming.
01:48:03.320 | It could be used for analyzing stuff.
01:48:05.300 | And as these app stores and plugins get better and better
01:48:08.320 | and it can do stuff, I'm super interested.
01:48:10.720 | Right now I'm like, it's not as good at the doing
01:48:13.520 | as the thinking, but I hope it gets there.
01:48:17.000 | And one tool we didn't talk about,
01:48:18.080 | I don't know how much you use Zapier,
01:48:19.720 | but I would say that is a tool that for the longest time
01:48:23.860 | I looked at is like, how would I use it?
01:48:25.400 | It was almost like an EA.
01:48:26.240 | It was like, how would I use it?
01:48:27.140 | I would never use it.
01:48:27.980 | I would never use it.
01:48:28.800 | And then I adopt it and I've got all of these processes,
01:48:31.260 | like doing all of these things.
01:48:33.180 | Actually the way a friend of mine uses it
01:48:34.520 | is in the beginning of his voice notes,
01:48:36.420 | he just says like a category.
01:48:37.660 | He's like work or food or health.
01:48:40.760 | And then he reads this voice note.
01:48:42.300 | The voice note gets transcribed through whisper memos
01:48:45.180 | or whisper notes and gets sent to a Zapier email,
01:48:49.060 | which looks at the first five words.
01:48:51.620 | And if one of these words is there, categorizes it
01:48:54.260 | and puts it in this place in notion
01:48:56.340 | and loops in the right person and all of those things.
01:48:59.860 | And so it's pretty powerful.
01:49:01.940 | And I feel like I slept on it for too long
01:49:04.440 | thinking it was only a tool for business
01:49:07.260 | and realize there's just an infinite number of ways
01:49:09.940 | that you can loop together personal things.
01:49:11.660 | - For sure.
01:49:12.700 | Yeah, it's funny, the use of AI in a lot of these things
01:49:15.820 | and viewing it as cheating is,
01:49:17.620 | this came up in a conversation,
01:49:18.820 | I think as recently as last week
01:49:20.300 | within our engineering team,
01:49:21.740 | because we were interviewing engineers.
01:49:23.500 | We did a live coding exercise
01:49:25.260 | and I don't know if you've seen CoPilot.
01:49:27.220 | - Yeah.
01:49:28.060 | - But it writes a lot of the code for you.
01:49:30.320 | And we had, basically we discovered last week
01:49:33.340 | that our live coding exercise no longer works
01:49:35.500 | because CoPilot will just give you the answer.
01:49:38.720 | So we weren't sure like, do we make him turn off CoPilot?
01:49:41.780 | And I mentioned to the team, we just need to adapt.
01:49:45.380 | We need to change the expectations.
01:49:46.780 | We need to do adapt our live coding exercise
01:49:48.660 | because I remember when I was interviewing
01:49:50.660 | for programming jobs years ago,
01:49:53.940 | the guy who was interviewing me
01:49:55.100 | was more of an old school engineer.
01:49:57.520 | And he felt like my use of an IDE,
01:49:59.820 | which I think at the time was Atom,
01:50:01.140 | he felt like that was cheating.
01:50:02.380 | So we had to move to a whiteboard to do this whole thing.
01:50:04.740 | It's like, nobody writes actual code on it.
01:50:07.460 | He's like, well, why are you sure that this executes?
01:50:10.180 | It's like, I don't know.
01:50:11.500 | That's what my IDE tells me.
01:50:13.620 | It's mostly right.
01:50:14.580 | If there's any errors, it would tell me.
01:50:16.460 | And you just have to adapt and get used to the tools.
01:50:19.980 | Honestly, I've been back in the code base
01:50:22.340 | for a few months now.
01:50:23.900 | These new tools using GPT-4 and CoPilot,
01:50:27.440 | I'm legitimately double the productivity that I was before.
01:50:31.620 | That's not an exaggeration.
01:50:32.820 | The amount of output, the reduction,
01:50:35.500 | and the number of times I get stuck on things,
01:50:37.600 | I'm legitimately producing twice as much as I was
01:50:40.380 | before all of this stuff was available.
01:50:42.540 | - I'm not an engineer by any means,
01:50:44.160 | but I would say I'm comfortable enough
01:50:46.060 | to figure out what code's trying to do.
01:50:48.700 | And I was like, I have this idea.
01:50:49.740 | I want to build a page on our website
01:50:52.140 | where I can pull in a list of credit cards.
01:50:54.680 | We didn't talk at all about points and miles,
01:50:56.220 | which we don't need to, but I'm a nerd about it.
01:50:58.060 | And I was like, I want to be able to build a place
01:50:59.740 | where we can filter and sort and look at signup bonuses
01:51:03.600 | and reference a table of what points are worth
01:51:06.260 | and determine how much it's worth and all this stuff.
01:51:09.100 | And I literally built a site that does all of this.
01:51:11.700 | And I am 100% sure it was well beyond the scope
01:51:15.560 | of what I was able to do on my own,
01:51:17.920 | because I feel like when it comes to writing JavaScript,
01:51:20.840 | I'm like, nope, I'm not great there.
01:51:22.720 | And I was just blown away.
01:51:24.000 | The one challenge is when something breaks,
01:51:26.280 | 80% of the time, you could be like,
01:51:28.480 | hey, this is how it's broken.
01:51:29.660 | Can you help me?
01:51:30.500 | And then there's like 20% of the time where you're like,
01:51:32.320 | mm, no.
01:51:33.160 | And then you do, but funny enough,
01:51:34.600 | you think that this tool will do the same thing every time.
01:51:37.780 | So I'll revert to where it started working.
01:51:40.360 | I'll copy it into a new chat and say,
01:51:42.460 | hey, I have this thing and it's not working.
01:51:44.500 | And the same tool that couldn't solve it will solve it.
01:51:47.580 | - It will self-reflect when you say,
01:51:50.220 | are you sure that's right?
01:51:51.700 | And it was like, oh, you know what?
01:51:53.300 | - I missed something. - No, I missed something.
01:51:54.780 | Like that is weird.
01:51:55.820 | That is super weird.
01:51:56.940 | (laughs)
01:51:57.860 | Happens all the time.
01:51:59.380 | - So we talked a lot about how tracking what you're doing,
01:52:01.700 | whether it's time is interesting.
01:52:03.540 | I just briefly talked about putting biomarkers into GPT
01:52:06.660 | and what you can learn from them.
01:52:08.420 | We could probably have an entire podcast
01:52:10.420 | that's completely separate from this
01:52:11.820 | about tracking your personal health data
01:52:14.740 | and learning from it.
01:52:16.240 | And you referenced levels a few times.
01:52:18.140 | I mentioned in the intro,
01:52:20.020 | can you just spend a few minutes and talk about
01:52:22.340 | what you can learn from tracking your own health data
01:52:24.900 | and maybe inspire people to dig deeper?
01:52:27.440 | - Yeah, so levels is,
01:52:28.940 | we show you how food affects your health using biosensors,
01:52:32.420 | like a continuous glucose monitor I've went on here.
01:52:34.860 | It's just a patch on your arm.
01:52:36.720 | It shows you what your glucose levels are in real time
01:52:40.300 | and allows you to connect the dots
01:52:42.460 | on how what it is that you're eating
01:52:45.060 | is affecting your health.
01:52:46.420 | For me personally,
01:52:47.260 | it's really just been more lifestyle focused.
01:52:50.420 | I would say for me,
01:52:52.580 | it has allowed me to see what I'm eating throughout the day
01:52:56.540 | and how that impacts my energy levels throughout the day
01:52:59.380 | of am I feeling tired?
01:53:01.460 | Are my hands shaky?
01:53:02.860 | Why am I not able to focus?
01:53:04.220 | Why do I have brain fog?
01:53:06.340 | And you often uncover how many of those things
01:53:08.720 | are just because of what you're eating.
01:53:10.300 | The simplest example that I can give,
01:53:12.100 | which was really my first eye-opening moment
01:53:14.500 | was discovering that my super healthy orange juice
01:53:17.500 | and oatmeal breakfast was actually the source
01:53:20.620 | of most of my problems throughout the day.
01:53:23.140 | And I don't even like oatmeal.
01:53:24.620 | It was just, I felt like I had to do it
01:53:26.820 | because it was healthy
01:53:27.820 | and it was actually causing all of these problems.
01:53:29.980 | So there's nothing like having ground truth data
01:53:33.460 | when you're trying to make feedback loops
01:53:35.380 | on understanding how to improve.
01:53:37.060 | So that's the core of the product.
01:53:38.540 | - Yeah, I mean, I have used the product
01:53:40.360 | on multiple occasions.
01:53:41.540 | And I think the one thing that was the most interesting
01:53:44.060 | beyond just seeing how your body reacts
01:53:46.240 | is doing it with someone else
01:53:47.740 | and seeing that like you're just different.
01:53:50.500 | And so for me, I don't know why,
01:53:53.420 | but a cinnamon roll doesn't really spike my glucose at all.
01:53:56.320 | And my wife, it is through the roof.
01:53:58.460 | You think about a lot of our advice
01:54:00.020 | for health is non-personal.
01:54:02.260 | And so my takeaway from it was
01:54:04.540 | I basically watched everything I ate
01:54:06.260 | and how it affected me in a window of time.
01:54:08.500 | And my wife did the same thing
01:54:10.140 | and both like interestingly and unfortunately,
01:54:12.700 | they were very different.
01:54:14.200 | Which is disappointing 'cause it means
01:54:15.740 | if we wanna target similar behaviors in our body,
01:54:19.480 | we can't eat the same things,
01:54:20.700 | which makes life more complicated.
01:54:22.420 | But it just makes you question,
01:54:23.900 | oh, if someone says this is a definitive health truth,
01:54:26.960 | there are some, but there are also others that aren't.
01:54:30.580 | - For sure, this is a very new field.
01:54:33.020 | We've only been able to measure these things in real time
01:54:35.780 | for single digit years.
01:54:37.580 | And so a lot of the studies,
01:54:38.980 | it's still unknown to science
01:54:40.560 | what normal glucose levels even are.
01:54:43.020 | We're actually running the study now.
01:54:44.420 | It's the largest study of its kind with about 50,000 people
01:54:47.460 | to just establish what normal glucose even is.
01:54:51.820 | Which is hard to believe that we don't know that,
01:54:53.420 | but we don't.
01:54:54.260 | What's interesting about it is that there are so many things
01:54:57.320 | that can impact your health
01:54:58.960 | and how your body responds to this.
01:55:01.040 | And so much of it is still yet to be discovered.
01:55:04.220 | We know that microbiome plays a huge role in this.
01:55:08.060 | There's a lot of really cool studies out of Israel,
01:55:10.060 | I think at Iran Sehgal's lab,
01:55:11.700 | where they knock out the microbiome of mice.
01:55:15.920 | They can effectively replace their microbiome
01:55:18.100 | with that of another mouse.
01:55:19.220 | And they're able to change how those mice respond
01:55:21.700 | to different foods through microbiome transfers.
01:55:24.540 | Sleep has a huge impact.
01:55:26.540 | Hormones have a massive impact
01:55:28.300 | on cycles throughout the month.
01:55:30.740 | How much you exercise has a huge impact.
01:55:33.180 | If you did a huge workout,
01:55:34.260 | if your muscles can absorb a lot of glucose.
01:55:36.820 | There are so many variables that can impact these things.
01:55:39.900 | Genetics play a factor.
01:55:41.160 | So figuring out what is causing all of this,
01:55:43.740 | I think is gonna be a really interesting area of research
01:55:46.580 | over the next 10 to 20 years.
01:55:48.400 | - You started off saying it's about
01:55:49.500 | how food affects your body,
01:55:50.500 | but it's also, sounds a little meta,
01:55:52.160 | but it's like how your body can affect
01:55:53.560 | how your food affects your body.
01:55:54.900 | - Yeah, sure.
01:55:55.900 | - And I know like exercising after eating
01:55:59.420 | can actually change how your body processes food.
01:56:03.180 | You can see it in the data.
01:56:04.900 | And so I guess that's a pitch for walking after you eat.
01:56:08.140 | It doesn't have to be a lot of exercise, right?
01:56:09.780 | - It's a lot less than people think.
01:56:11.140 | You know, just like a short walk after eating,
01:56:13.100 | especially like a high carb meal,
01:56:14.760 | has a measurable impact on how your body responds.
01:56:17.940 | - I'll put a link in the show notes
01:56:19.260 | to where people can go check it out.
01:56:20.700 | I remember it used to be invite only,
01:56:22.100 | but now I think anyone can sign up.
01:56:23.420 | You've obviously optimized a lot of your work life,
01:56:26.420 | the tools you use, everything.
01:56:27.820 | Anything on the personal side?
01:56:29.460 | - Since, you know, this is all the hacks,
01:56:31.220 | I think one hack that is a really useful one
01:56:33.680 | that has helped me a lot,
01:56:35.920 | just stay present throughout the day,
01:56:38.580 | is set alarms for everything.
01:56:41.940 | So the first thing I do when I wake up in the morning,
01:56:44.660 | I look at every meeting that I have throughout the day,
01:56:48.380 | and I set an alarm for when my next action needs to be.
01:56:51.780 | So if I have a 9 a.m. meeting, I set an alarm for 9 a.m.
01:56:55.340 | If I have to leave for the airport at 6 p.m.,
01:56:59.020 | I set an alarm for 6 p.m.
01:57:00.700 | And it has allowed me to, for one, not miss meetings
01:57:04.420 | and not be late to things.
01:57:05.980 | There are a lot of people who just rely
01:57:07.660 | on their Google Calendar alerts,
01:57:10.820 | and they are so inconsistent,
01:57:12.700 | and you end up missing things all the time.
01:57:14.860 | But also it allows you to stay present.
01:57:17.100 | We've all been in meetings where you can see
01:57:18.820 | the person's constantly checking their watch,
01:57:20.580 | like what time is it, do I need to leave right now?
01:57:22.580 | If you have an alarm set, it's gonna go off.
01:57:25.380 | You can just relax.
01:57:26.300 | You don't have to carry that cognitive burden
01:57:28.740 | of what if I'm late, how much time has elapsed,
01:57:31.540 | how much time do I have left?
01:57:33.160 | It'll tell you, it'll be fine.
01:57:34.780 | And so I found that as a tool to just be able
01:57:37.740 | to maintain presence is a really good one.
01:57:40.260 | - That is super interesting.
01:57:41.100 | I've relied on the Google Calendar reminders don't work.
01:57:45.020 | I've actually, the interesting thing about Slack,
01:57:47.140 | so a lot of people, it's like Slack is the worst thing ever.
01:57:49.620 | For all the hacks, our Slack instance
01:57:51.900 | has like three people in it.
01:57:53.460 | So it actually really exists more as a place
01:57:56.220 | to have a bunch of conversations
01:57:57.680 | and find those conversations.
01:57:59.460 | And I'm not sure if there's a better tool for that,
01:58:02.060 | but it means that Slack isn't that noisy.
01:58:04.500 | And so the Google Calendar push to Slack as a DM,
01:58:09.300 | I just have that work,
01:58:11.060 | and it sends me a reminder one minute before.
01:58:13.300 | But I haven't thought about the fact that
01:58:15.860 | in order to guarantee that gets through,
01:58:17.840 | you have to let everything else through.
01:58:19.420 | And the alarm kind of pushes outside of that.
01:58:22.100 | - The thing about Slack or just communication tools broadly,
01:58:25.860 | the fundamental problem that makes communication hard
01:58:29.460 | is that the number of people
01:58:31.180 | in a communication cluster scales linearly.
01:58:34.980 | So you have one person, two people, three people,
01:58:38.060 | it's just linear.
01:58:39.100 | But the number of edges between those nodes
01:58:41.780 | scales polynomially.
01:58:43.440 | So the difference between 10 people and 100 people
01:58:46.980 | is not 10 times more, it's like a thousand times more.
01:58:50.540 | And so those communication pathways,
01:58:52.700 | you very quickly reach a point
01:58:54.740 | where you can no longer keep up with what's going on.
01:58:57.600 | I've talked to some founders who scaled companies
01:59:00.260 | and they say, "You have to treat every doubling
01:59:02.180 | "like it's a different company."
01:59:03.980 | Because primarily this comes from communication pathways,
01:59:08.060 | where it is no longer possible.
01:59:11.020 | At a certain scale, you could spend all of your time,
01:59:14.140 | 100% of the day, just keeping up
01:59:17.020 | with what is happening in the company
01:59:18.540 | and not doing any work.
01:59:20.020 | And it would be really bad for company productivity,
01:59:23.340 | but you could absolutely do it.
01:59:24.300 | That is how much communication is being generated.
01:59:26.380 | So you necessarily have to silo information
01:59:29.420 | and you have to figure out where that signal is.
01:59:31.380 | So it gets much, much harder
01:59:33.500 | once you hit even 20 something people.
01:59:36.040 | - This reminds me,
01:59:37.120 | and I really hope I'm not misattributing someone else,
01:59:40.240 | but I believe it was Bill Gurley,
01:59:42.060 | who is a well-known venture capitalist.
01:59:44.580 | And the idea that he presents
01:59:46.300 | is when something's not working,
01:59:47.260 | you just assume that what you're doing now
01:59:49.100 | isn't the right answer.
01:59:50.540 | And I think it's a principle I've tried to apply
01:59:53.140 | to a lot of aspects of life.
01:59:54.820 | It's like, "Oh, communication is kind of broken.
01:59:57.140 | "Let's just assume we're not gonna keep doing it
01:59:59.240 | "how we're doing it."
02:00:00.080 | It's always so easy to just say like,
02:00:01.400 | "How do we tweak the thing we're doing a little bit?"
02:00:04.080 | But I've now kind of encouraged myself.
02:00:06.500 | It's like, "Oh, if the way we do dinner isn't working,
02:00:09.320 | "let's not try to find easier recipes.
02:00:11.660 | "Let's see if we can outsource who picks our recipes
02:00:14.740 | "or something else."
02:00:15.780 | So I've tried to apply this business principle.
02:00:18.380 | And a lot of what I'm,
02:00:19.660 | because I don't have a job at a company
02:00:21.700 | with lots of employees,
02:00:22.740 | every time I hear you talk about these business ideas,
02:00:24.460 | there's a personal application that I'm processing.
02:00:26.700 | That one was one big one for me,
02:00:28.240 | where it's like, "If it's not working,
02:00:29.140 | "just don't assume you can fix it.
02:00:30.980 | "Maybe assume something else is better."
02:00:32.700 | - For sure.
02:00:33.660 | - This has been fantastic.
02:00:34.760 | I told you before you started that,
02:00:36.780 | "Well, we're not gonna go that long.
02:00:37.960 | "I like to keep it tight."
02:00:38.920 | And there was just too much to cover.
02:00:40.420 | So thank you for sticking around
02:00:41.980 | and going down so many paths.
02:00:43.840 | - For sure.
02:00:44.680 | Thanks for having me.
02:00:45.520 | (upbeat music)
02:00:47.500 | - Wow.
02:00:48.340 | If you made it this far,
02:00:49.160 | then I assume you also enjoyed this conversation
02:00:51.500 | as much as I did.
02:00:52.700 | Sam is amazing.
02:00:54.060 | And I am just so excited to be putting
02:00:55.740 | all of his knowledge to good use.
02:00:57.700 | Again, if you want a copy of the delegation guide
02:01:00.060 | I put together with the team at Oceans,
02:01:01.720 | you can find it at allthehacks.com/delegate.
02:01:05.700 | And if you wanna check out Oceans
02:01:07.740 | or look into finding your own assistant with them,
02:01:10.140 | they're at oceansxyz.com.
02:01:12.780 | Feel free to let them know I sent you
02:01:14.380 | and I'm pretty sure you'll get hooked up with a deal.
02:01:16.780 | Okay, this was a long one.
02:01:18.540 | So that's it for this week.
02:01:19.840 | I'll see you next week.
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