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Hello, and welcome to another episode of All The Hacks, a show about upgrading 00:01:44.880 |
So imagine this, you're a smart kid, your family prioritizes education, you study 00:01:49.760 |
hard, and you decide you want to become a doctor. 00:01:51.720 |
You ace your exams, you're admitted to one of the top medical schools in the 00:01:55.040 |
world, you complete the program, and you start work. 00:01:57.720 |
And then a few years later, you decide to leave it all behind to focus on something 00:02:02.000 |
At first glance, many of you might think that's crazy, but it's exactly what my 00:02:07.560 |
He left the practice of medicine a few years ago to focus on his exploding and 00:02:11.880 |
growing YouTube channel and the businesses that surround it, which now has more than 00:02:17.800 |
On it, he talks about everything from productivity, to study skills, to making 00:02:24.160 |
And if that's not enough, he hosts two podcasts, has two courses, a blog, and a 00:02:28.400 |
I've consumed so much of Ali's content that I'm such a huge fan of his work. 00:02:32.160 |
So I'm really excited to talk about everything from how he got the courage to 00:02:36.120 |
quit a successful career, to double down on his passion and build a business around 00:02:39.720 |
it, a lesson I might need in the near future. 00:02:41.960 |
I also want to spend a good part of the conversation digging into the strategies, 00:02:45.360 |
the tools, the hacks he uses to live a happier, healthier, and more productive 00:02:51.640 |
He's dialed in when it comes to productivity, reading efficiently, the tech 00:02:57.400 |
This is going to be a really great conversation. 00:03:02.280 |
Ali, welcome to the show and thanks for being here. 00:03:10.560 |
I'm just like, wow, that sounds really cool when you put it that way. 00:03:14.240 |
So I want to start off and just talk about your passion for teaching. 00:03:17.200 |
You said that being able to teach more through your YouTube channel, your 00:03:20.840 |
podcast, your courses, and have an impact that way is a big reason you step back 00:03:25.360 |
for medicine, but it must have been a tough decision. 00:03:28.560 |
So what can you share about that process that might help anyone, myself included, 00:03:32.800 |
figure out what it takes to step away and take a big bet on yourself? 00:03:39.360 |
So a few things come to mind in no particular order. 00:03:42.160 |
Basically, I was always trying to figure out what the hell do I actually want to 00:03:46.320 |
And after a couple of years in medicine, after going through med school, I always 00:03:49.880 |
kind of knew I wanted to have some level of streams of passive income, financial 00:03:54.680 |
I've discovered the fire movement through Tim Ferriss's interview with Mr. 00:04:00.440 |
I remember I was on my general practice placement when I discovered it. 00:04:03.440 |
And I was just like, I need to get through my patients as soon as possible so I can 00:04:09.840 |
But ever since I discovered the four hour work week at the age of 17, just before 00:04:13.240 |
going into med school, I knew that like medicine is cool, but it's not the only 00:04:18.240 |
Seems a bit, you know, not very anti-fragile to just be reliant on a single 00:04:22.520 |
So throughout my whole time in med school, I always kind of knew that I wanted to 00:04:26.520 |
dabble with like, maybe making a startup, maybe being interested in tech, because I 00:04:30.760 |
knew how to code and stuff and started a couple of businesses along the way. 00:04:33.720 |
But really, like, as the YouTube channel started to become successful, and I 00:04:39.280 |
really started to think, okay, what do I actually want to do with my life? 00:04:42.040 |
There were a couple of exercises that I discovered on the internet and various 00:04:47.840 |
The first one was, I didn't have a name, but I'm calling it the gravestone 00:04:50.960 |
technique, which is figuring out like, when you die, what do you want to be 00:04:58.720 |
And I realized some combination of good father, good husband, and inspirational 00:05:06.040 |
I guess that is probably Yeah, you know, if I died, and people thought of me as an 00:05:10.000 |
inspirational teacher, alongside being a good father and a good husband, you're my 00:05:16.880 |
And then there was this other exercise I tried that a friend of mine who's like 00:05:20.480 |
this business coach ran past me when I was like, Hey, man, Simon, like, what do I 00:05:25.600 |
And it's called the ideal ordinary week, where you fast forward your Google 00:05:29.000 |
calendar five years, you hope that you don't have any recurring events that are 00:05:32.800 |
And you basically block out what does your ideal ordinary week look like? 00:05:37.080 |
And so it's like, where are your time for deep work? 00:05:43.520 |
I went through that, and I looked at it, I was like, Oh, damn, there's not even a 00:05:46.960 |
single half day here, where in my ideal ordinary week, I'm in a hospital treating 00:05:52.520 |
And so those two data points together, kind of made me think, if I could design a 00:05:57.280 |
life, however, I wanted, in theory, would I choose to spend time in a hospital 00:06:04.040 |
The answer was like, I think it's great for a lot of people, but it really wasn't 00:06:07.880 |
And I then looked back through my time in med school and being a doctor, and I 00:06:12.760 |
realized that I much preferred teaching medical students than actually doing 00:06:17.480 |
And on days where I would have medical students with me, those would be the 00:06:20.440 |
great days, because I'd be like, yeah, we can learn stuff. 00:06:23.280 |
And on days where I didn't, I'd be like, I guess I've got to deal with patients 00:06:26.360 |
Sounds really bad to say, but that gave me a big signal that maybe my quote 00:06:30.600 |
calling, maybe the thing that I'm supposed to be doing is something to do with 00:06:33.760 |
teaching rather than something to do with medicine. 00:06:35.560 |
And so that was the I guess, the philosophy behind what led to me ultimately 00:06:42.960 |
So maybe one thing that an exercise that I just came up with thinking about your 00:06:46.640 |
process is to look back at what you're doing and your job and what are the parts 00:06:51.280 |
So for you, it was teaching within that role to younger students, like maybe 00:06:56.920 |
I interviewed Cal Newport last month, and he talked about trying to figure out the 00:07:00.920 |
life you want, and then work backwards towards make it happen. 00:07:03.840 |
He calls it lifestyle centric career planning. 00:07:06.520 |
So is that something that you think came naturally? 00:07:09.880 |
Or is that another version of this five year calendar? 00:07:15.200 |
I was recently on a binge rereading of Cal's blog posts from like 2008 to 2012. 00:07:20.160 |
I came across this kind of lifestyle centric career planning. 00:07:22.880 |
And I was like, damn, this is basically what I did. 00:07:25.800 |
I just didn't realize that Cal Newport had already said it about 10 years ago. 00:07:30.120 |
And I should have just read his blog post because it would have saved me a lot of 00:07:32.080 |
time. But I've now seen that play out in a lot of decisions I'm making with this 00:07:36.960 |
business as well, instead of thinking, I've got this thing, what do I do with it? 00:07:40.480 |
It's more like, okay, what is the actual lifestyle that I want? 00:07:42.760 |
And how do I then reverse engineer the stuff that I'm doing today to optimize for 00:07:48.040 |
When it came to paying the bills, right, a lot of times I see people encourage 00:07:54.000 |
others, maybe not themselves to say, Oh, take a bet on yourself now, take a bet on 00:07:57.280 |
yourself now. And people often maybe default more towards waiting till their side 00:08:02.040 |
business is so big that it's like an obvious decision. 00:08:04.600 |
Is there a point where you think people should actually maybe wait a little longer 00:08:10.400 |
What have you kind of reflecting what you did think now? 00:08:13.240 |
Yeah, so for me, I waited until the side business was like ridiculously huge before 00:08:18.960 |
making the leap. But I was also in a career where after two years of working as a 00:08:22.800 |
doctor, there's a very natural career break where a lot of people take time out. 00:08:26.560 |
And then it makes a lot of sense to take time out at that point. 00:08:29.360 |
Whereas I've got a bunch of friends who are in careers where it never makes sense to 00:08:32.840 |
take time out because you're always going to be worried about the gap in the resume 00:08:35.640 |
and stuff. And especially my friends in management consulting, it's always like, oh, 00:08:40.040 |
the next promotion, the next round of bonuses is when I will do the thing. 00:08:43.280 |
And they never end up doing the thing because it's not like a hard stop of like, two 00:08:48.840 |
And now you have to reapply for the next round of residency, specialty training or 00:08:51.800 |
whatever. So I kind of think I had it easy in that the decision was made for me in 00:08:55.560 |
that a) the business became ridiculously successful and b) I already had this career 00:09:00.160 |
I think if I had my time again or if I were advising someone and they were young and 00:09:05.800 |
actually I very much vibe with the Gary Vee approach of like when you're young and 00:09:09.360 |
unencumbered, that's when taking risks, the whole asymmetrical upside thing that if 00:09:13.760 |
you start a business and it pays off, you are then sorted for life. 00:09:17.160 |
Whereas you lose out on an extra few tens of thousands of dollars worth of earnings. 00:09:22.080 |
And unless you really, really, really need that money for you and your family to 00:09:24.960 |
survive, I think being young and unencumbered is a great time to take risks. 00:09:32.120 |
You talked about how you got fulfillment from that. 00:09:33.880 |
It's not clear to me that if you were thinking, what am I going to take a bet on? 00:09:37.360 |
What is it going to be that you knew what it would become ultimately? 00:09:40.880 |
Are there things you learned along the way that helped you figure out how to take, 00:09:45.120 |
OK, I love teaching and turn that into I want a YouTube channel. 00:09:50.920 |
I want here's what I actually want to teach about. 00:09:53.480 |
You know, here are the different mediums, whether it's a newsletter, a blog. 00:09:58.200 |
For me, it was there's this thing I was passionate about. 00:10:01.080 |
I would say most of my friends almost all knew that one day I would be talking 00:10:05.520 |
about optimization of life and travel and money and all this stuff. 00:10:09.880 |
But for me, I was like, maybe I should start a podcast. 00:10:12.200 |
And at first, the podcast was actually going to be about parenting 00:10:19.520 |
And then slowly I was like, well, maybe I don't love the parenting thing 00:10:26.480 |
Like 10 years ago, people probably could have better predicted 00:10:29.480 |
I would be doing this than I could have done it myself. 00:10:34.640 |
It sort of felt like just one step in front of another. 00:10:40.320 |
and in the summer holidays just before going to med school, 00:10:43.640 |
I had saved up about a thousand pounds, like twelve hundred dollars 00:10:47.960 |
through private tutoring here and there for years and years to get a MacBook. 00:10:51.640 |
I was like, I'm going to get a MacBook for the first time in my life. 00:10:55.160 |
Apple products are super expensive, but now I can finally afford it. 00:10:57.520 |
And instead of buying the base model MacBook Air from the Apple Store in 2012, 00:11:02.520 |
I decided I was going to go on Craigslist and find one that was more specked out. 00:11:10.120 |
I forked over a thousand pounds in cash and turned out he'd actually sold me 00:11:14.200 |
like a four year old defunct model of a MacBook Air. 00:11:17.280 |
And because I was an idiot, I kind of took his word for it. 00:11:22.480 |
And I was like, oh, my God, I've lost all this money. 00:11:24.320 |
I spent a month trying to get it back and trying to geolocate his tweets 00:11:27.160 |
to see where is he, where can I serve him papers to take him 00:11:29.560 |
to small claims court and like sue him and stuff. 00:11:32.120 |
And eventually my mom was like, you know what, screw this guy. 00:11:37.320 |
And she was like, just forget about this guy, which was very nice of her. 00:11:39.640 |
But at that point, I opened up an Evernote document and I still got it 00:11:43.400 |
from like August of 2012, where I said, OK, I need to make money. 00:11:46.640 |
What are the things I'm good at and what are the things I enjoy doing? 00:11:49.760 |
And on the list of things that I was good at, I put teaching. 00:11:52.240 |
I put web design and I put I did well in med school admissions exams. 00:11:58.560 |
How do I make a business that involves teaching web design 00:12:02.520 |
Huh. Why don't I make a business that teaches courses 00:12:08.800 |
that markets this nationally and undercut all the other competitors 00:12:11.920 |
and make a website that just looks more pro than anyone else is on the market? 00:12:16.640 |
And that was how my first kind of successful business started 00:12:20.880 |
And then really five years later, I'd sort of gotten a bit bored of that business. 00:12:24.640 |
But I was reading a lot about SEO and content marketing. 00:12:28.640 |
And I was like, content marketing is a thing. 00:12:31.000 |
No one is really making high quality YouTube videos 00:12:35.920 |
So if I make videos on YouTube teaching med school admissions 00:12:38.320 |
and teaching people how to get a med school in the UK, 00:12:40.560 |
maybe some of them will convert and buy my course or sign up to my email list. 00:12:45.360 |
that I had a very unsophisticated knowledge of at the time. 00:12:48.080 |
And that was how the YouTube channel got started. 00:12:50.600 |
So connecting the dots, looking back, it feels like, yes, of course, 00:12:54.720 |
because I've been teaching from like the age of seven. 00:12:56.280 |
My job when I was 13 involved private tutoring. 00:12:59.120 |
I was always teaching medical students and people were always asking me 00:13:01.680 |
to explain stuff, whether it was medical stuff or website stuff 00:13:06.600 |
But it was really just sort of putting one step in front of another 00:13:09.040 |
and putting things together that ultimately led me to this point 00:13:13.320 |
But I mean, it wasn't an overnight success, right? 00:13:15.160 |
You mentioned when you left your medical career, 00:13:18.000 |
the channel had grown big enough that it was an easier decision. 00:13:22.040 |
There are people who have successful followings. 00:13:27.520 |
If I recall, you started with like zero followers, zero views, zero anything 00:13:40.120 |
I think I had about 37 subscribers on YouTube just because I had a YouTube 00:13:48.760 |
In general, I only set goals that are within my control. 00:13:52.880 |
And so the goal that I set for my YouTube channel was like, 00:13:59.200 |
But the only thing I'm going to think about is I just need to make one 00:14:02.600 |
or two videos every week and I'm not going to care about the numbers. 00:14:05.600 |
And maybe a year from now, if I can hit, I don't know, 00:14:09.600 |
a few thousand subscribers, that would be incredible. 00:14:13.840 |
I was like, oh, there's that person over there who's making medical content. 00:14:16.640 |
And I think I can make better videos than she can. 00:14:19.880 |
So maybe if things go really well, I can be on 4000 subscribers. 00:14:22.760 |
But really, the goal was just one foot in front of the other. 00:14:25.360 |
How do I just make sure I bang out a video or two every week? 00:14:27.920 |
And by just staying true to that particular thing 00:14:32.320 |
and not being overly wedded to outcomes that are outside of my control, 00:14:35.680 |
like how many views are getting or how many subscribers or revenue? 00:14:41.560 |
And along the way, just found ways to make it interesting for myself. 00:14:45.760 |
I get to try this new transition and get to try this new thing. 00:14:47.960 |
And let me try and explain this in a little bit of a different way. 00:14:50.280 |
The goals that are within my control exclusively and finding a way 00:14:56.280 |
Did you ever find that a video maybe did well on a topic, 00:14:59.400 |
but maybe you weren't that excited about that topic and have to balance 00:15:02.720 |
like what's personally exciting to you, to what's working 00:15:06.800 |
and growing for your business or your brand and have to pick? 00:15:09.920 |
Yeah, so in the early days, that was not really a consideration 00:15:13.240 |
because I didn't have any videos that did well. 00:15:15.160 |
I was just like, cool, let's just keep going. 00:15:18.160 |
People are viewing them. People are commenting. 00:15:21.080 |
Even got recognized in the street one time and I was like, oh, my God, I've made it. 00:15:25.480 |
But it's been really more of a thing that I've had to figure out now 00:15:28.560 |
because now we're at a point where the channel is five years old. 00:15:31.840 |
I kind of know that if I do a video about personal finance, 00:15:34.720 |
about like passive income, about how I make however many million a year, 00:15:40.040 |
And I know I enjoy talking about those topics, but I often think to myself like, 00:15:43.600 |
OK, if we took money out of the equation and if we took status out of the equation 00:15:47.800 |
and if we took the sort of the need to accumulate more and more 00:15:50.760 |
out of the equation completely, what would I be doing with my time? 00:15:53.760 |
What is the YouTube channel that I would want? 00:15:56.000 |
And I always think, yeah, I still make YouTube videos 00:15:57.560 |
because I like teaching and YouTube videos are teaching a scale 00:15:59.600 |
and I get to learn and cool shit and teach it to people, which is nice. 00:16:03.520 |
But do I really want a channel where all the only videos I make 00:16:06.600 |
are about finance or crypto because that's currently doing well? 00:16:08.760 |
No, I want a channel where I can hit record and talk about anything, 00:16:12.320 |
whether it's, oh, my God, guys, check out Chris's podcast. 00:16:17.480 |
Or here is why I use this pen pocket knife to unbox my parcels. 00:16:23.240 |
I want to have the YouTube channel that I wish Tim Ferriss would have 00:16:26.240 |
where I would just lap up anything that he posts on YouTube 00:16:30.040 |
and just be like, Tim, man, I just want you to make two videos a week 00:16:32.280 |
where you talk about whatever's on your mind and I would just watch it. 00:16:34.440 |
And I'm like, OK, let me have that kind of channel that I know I'd want to watch. 00:16:38.720 |
Is that the future of where the channel is going? 00:16:41.480 |
I think so. I think my dream is where the channel is. 00:16:47.880 |
And the team that I've built around me takes care of everything else, 00:16:51.280 |
like the money side of the equation, the figuring out the funnels, 00:16:54.560 |
figuring out the products and figuring out a way 00:16:56.760 |
to make this whole thing sustainable for the long term. 00:16:59.920 |
So I don't know if this is going to be a topic that fits in line 00:17:02.560 |
with that future channel or not, but a lot of the content you've made 00:17:05.840 |
is about productivity, getting more done, optimizing your time. 00:17:10.920 |
You have this great ultimate guide to productivity. 00:17:14.160 |
We don't need to cover everything, but I would love to run through 00:17:17.240 |
some of the core components you think are important to someone just starting to say, 00:17:23.600 |
And we might go a little deeper on a few things along the way. 00:17:28.880 |
Where do you start with someone saying, OK, is there an inventory 00:17:34.240 |
Because some people might already be at the 201 level, the 101 level. 00:17:37.360 |
Yeah. How do you get people in the door thinking about productivity? 00:17:40.400 |
Yeah. So I've got a bunch of different disorganized thoughts about this. 00:17:43.960 |
But actually, I did a podcast interview with my productivity 00:17:49.880 |
His name is Chris Sparks earlier today, and he has a quiz on his website. 00:17:57.720 |
It's on like forcing function dot com forward slash assessment. 00:18:03.360 |
And it's basically asks you questions like, do you have a vision for your life? 00:18:10.200 |
And in the morning, do you check your email first thing? 00:18:16.640 |
And based on the answers to those questions, it basically says, OK, 00:18:20.120 |
here are all of the things you could be doing to increase your productivity. 00:18:24.840 |
And it orders all of the evidence based productivity tips 00:18:28.440 |
in order of how needle moving they actually are. 00:18:31.080 |
And I think that quiz would be a I've been recommending it today 00:18:35.360 |
to everyone on my team being like, guys, take this quiz because it's actually 00:18:38.520 |
It always helps me realize, oh, you know, I'm not doing weekly reviews. 00:18:42.680 |
because it's a thing that is really, really helpful. 00:18:46.240 |
And I kind of wish I made something like that. 00:18:48.280 |
But in the meantime, I think that's the best resource that I can point people to. 00:18:56.520 |
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I'll focus on ones that I'm most interested in is just not wasting time 00:21:34.560 |
procrastinating, pushing things off, getting distracted. 00:21:40.200 |
I know this was an interview I was really excited to prepare for. 00:21:43.560 |
Yet somehow, even though there was a hard start last night, 00:21:46.920 |
I found myself going down a rabbit hole of something that was less time sensitive, 00:21:59.080 |
I am in the process of writing three book chapters on this for my book, 00:22:02.760 |
so I've had the whole procrastination thing in my mind 00:22:11.720 |
Appreciate the difference between procrastination and prioritization, 00:22:15.800 |
because a lot of people will say that they don't have time to do something. 00:22:18.880 |
I know that you aren't like that because you're in this optimization space. 00:22:21.760 |
But when people say, oh, I don't have time to do X, 00:22:23.720 |
I want to learn Japanese, but I don't have time. 00:22:25.320 |
I always think if I'm in the mode of giving unsolicited advice 00:22:28.400 |
or if they're asking me for advice, I'd be like, OK, 00:22:31.120 |
do you not have time, like genuinely, or is it just not a priority? 00:22:34.520 |
And people like, no, I don't feel like I have the time. 00:22:38.160 |
I work full time. I've got kids. I've got to put them to bed. 00:22:40.560 |
I'm like, OK, fair enough. You haven't got the time. 00:22:42.240 |
Basically what that means is it's not a priority. 00:22:44.200 |
Then I say something like, OK, if I gave you a million dollars 00:22:47.080 |
every time you did 20 minutes of Japanese practice, 00:22:49.280 |
would you do the 20 minutes of Japanese practice? 00:22:53.000 |
So you're consciously deprioritizing Japanese 00:22:55.760 |
because there are other more important things in your life. 00:22:58.560 |
That doesn't mean you're procrastinating from this thing. 00:23:00.240 |
So there's no need to beat yourself up about it. 00:23:01.840 |
It just means it's not a priority in your life. 00:23:04.360 |
But I have this thing that is a priority in my life. 00:23:06.320 |
And then that takes us down an interesting conversation of like, 00:23:09.320 |
how do we actually prioritize things that we say are a priority? 00:23:14.280 |
I feel like it's easy to give advice and then we just don't take our own advice. 00:23:17.200 |
So when it comes to book writing, for example, literally last week, 00:23:22.080 |
She was like, how's progress on the book this week? 00:23:26.400 |
Oh, you know, this happened and that happened and this happened. 00:23:29.640 |
She was like, OK. She was super nice about it. 00:23:31.840 |
But she was like, you know, it sounds like this book 00:23:33.480 |
is supposed to be a priority in your life. Is it actually? 00:23:36.840 |
It definitely is. It's my number one priority. 00:23:38.840 |
And she was like, OK, so then why aren't you prioritizing it? 00:23:43.880 |
And then we figured out strategies to help me prioritize that 00:23:49.640 |
But those have really helped in the last week. 00:23:51.200 |
I've been able to make so much more progress than I did in the last month. 00:23:55.040 |
My biggest satisfaction when I get an email from a listener is 00:23:57.760 |
I took all these notes of tactics listening to this episode. 00:24:02.600 |
Amazing. OK, so basically three part way to approach this equation. 00:24:10.200 |
My opening gambit is going to be that procrastination 00:24:14.240 |
Procrastination is a problem with starting the work, 00:24:16.440 |
because usually once you've gotten started with something, 00:24:25.000 |
But once it's going, it's like, oh, you know, you're into the swing of things. 00:24:31.320 |
Does that broadly vibe with your experience of procrastinating as well? 00:24:38.000 |
And then it's hard to avoid the shiny objects that pop in front of you, 00:24:45.200 |
So those those two are big for me. Yes, exactly. 00:24:48.240 |
Yeah. So the way I think of them is I separate out procrastination, 00:24:51.280 |
which is the getting started problem from distraction, 00:24:53.360 |
which is the how do I focus once I've already gotten started? 00:25:01.320 |
Option and clicking on a Mac on your time in the corner 00:25:05.840 |
automatically puts your Mac into do not disturb mode, 00:25:08.200 |
which automatically silences all notifications, 00:25:11.040 |
except the ones that you let through from a loved one or something like that. 00:25:13.920 |
So I've been using that a lot this last week. 00:25:22.280 |
because they would have just completely taken me out of flow 00:25:25.760 |
But just for the procrastination stuff, then we can talk about distraction in a sec. 00:25:29.520 |
If we accept that procrastination is ultimately a problem with getting started, 00:25:33.560 |
and that's the thing that we're trying to optimize for, 00:25:35.320 |
it's like, OK, what are the barriers that stop us from getting started with something? 00:25:40.400 |
And I call them I like to give things names in my mind. 00:25:42.680 |
The fog of obscurity, the bridge of anxiety and the hump of inertia 00:25:50.600 |
I sort of have a bit of a diagram in my head. 00:25:52.080 |
And the fog of obscurity is where, you know, you want to do a thing, 00:25:55.280 |
but you actually don't know specifically what you need to do 00:25:58.280 |
or when you're going to do it or where you're going to do it 00:26:01.920 |
And then you're just like, oh, you know, there's this thing. 00:26:05.720 |
But if you don't know what that first step is or what the next step is, 00:26:08.160 |
it's just so hard to even think about getting started 00:26:10.400 |
because now there's this enormous like mental barrier 00:26:13.040 |
that's stopping us from actually moving forward in this thing. 00:26:15.920 |
And so the solution to that one is basically just make a very, very concrete plan. 00:26:18.880 |
And what I like to do is separate the planning of a thing 00:26:21.680 |
from the doing of a thing, because it's very easy to make a plan, right? 00:26:26.360 |
it's very easy for me to procrastinate when I don't have a plan. 00:26:29.080 |
I don't know what I'm doing. I don't know why I'm working out. 00:26:30.880 |
But if I was talking to someone right now and they were to be like, all right, 00:26:34.680 |
I'd be like, I can make a plan. It's not that hard making a plan. 00:26:39.080 |
Yeah, I'll go to the gym that's in my building and I'll do, you know, 00:26:42.960 |
let me bring up Reddit fitness and find a workout plan. 00:26:45.880 |
And it's taken me two minutes to make a plan. 00:26:48.520 |
But now I'm far more likely to actually go and do the thing. 00:26:52.200 |
I either work out because I've got a slot in my calendar for it. 00:26:56.000 |
I think it's really just about those two things, finding a slot in the calendar 00:27:00.560 |
And that is broadly how you tackle the fog of obscurity. 00:27:03.760 |
Are you with me so far? Any thoughts? Yeah, yeah. 00:27:08.440 |
And then there are other things we can do with this. 00:27:10.320 |
If I'm coaching someone or this is the method that this chap Chris, 00:27:13.040 |
this productivity coach that I had, but it was always like, OK, 00:27:15.720 |
so for me at the time, I wanted to get good at art because I was thinking, 00:27:19.320 |
you know what, I wanted to take some art lessons because why not? 00:27:25.960 |
It was like, OK, how are you going to do that? 00:27:28.120 |
I was like, OK, post on Instagram and be like, hey, anyone want to teach me art? 00:27:31.920 |
And also, like, just do a Google search for art teachers in Cambridge. 00:27:35.000 |
And I was like, cool, when are you going to do that? 00:27:37.240 |
And I was like, shit, OK, I guess I've got a 15 minute slot 00:27:44.040 |
And it was like, OK, now you've got a slot in your calendar. 00:27:49.080 |
You and I are chatting and you have not found an art teacher. 00:27:51.640 |
What are the top three reasons why you've not found an art teacher? 00:27:55.120 |
And I was like, OK, maybe something came up and I was super busy. 00:27:59.280 |
Maybe I looked on Google and I couldn't find anyone in the first two results. 00:28:07.160 |
How might you mitigate against each of those risks? 00:28:09.400 |
I was like, OK, maybe I mean, I can just like look at ten Google results 00:28:13.640 |
I can maybe post on Twitter as well, not Instagram. 00:28:15.480 |
It's like you're coming up with strategies ahead of time, 00:28:18.520 |
knowing that I am a dumbass and my brain is going to encourage me 00:28:24.200 |
But if I try and nudge myself in the direction of doing the thing 00:28:29.880 |
I'm far more likely to actually do the thing. 00:28:31.440 |
And so just working through this loop a single time. 00:28:33.560 |
The final question there is what is the action you can take right now 00:28:36.520 |
that will almost guarantee that you'll actually do this thing 00:28:42.000 |
While I'm here, I'll just type out the message 00:28:46.320 |
I typed out, hey, guys, looking for an art teacher. 00:28:50.520 |
And then when it came to two hours later, I just copied and pasted 00:28:53.560 |
that onto Instagram, and now I found an art teacher. 00:28:55.920 |
And just through that one action, I'd been procrastinating 00:28:58.240 |
from taking art lessons for three years at that point. 00:29:00.520 |
But all it took was a conversation with a guy who had paid a lot of money 00:29:04.560 |
to ask me a basic question of what are you doing, when are you doing it? 00:29:08.040 |
And just giving me this framework to think about decision making here. 00:29:12.520 |
And I took art lessons for about six months, but it was super fun. 00:29:19.960 |
So it was fog of obscurity, something and then a hump. 00:29:25.400 |
You know, you've gotten over the fog of obscurity when the thing 00:29:28.960 |
you've got it in the calendar and you know what you're doing. 00:29:31.840 |
At that point, you have enough clarity on the task to be able to make progress on it. 00:29:34.760 |
But if you don't have those two crucial points and everything else, 00:29:37.920 |
Basically, getting clarity on what you're doing and when you're doing it 00:29:43.800 |
coach large amounts of money to encourage you to basically do that. 00:29:47.040 |
The next one is what I like to call the bridge of anxiety. 00:29:50.680 |
And this is where we appreciate that a lot of procrastination 00:29:55.400 |
doesn't come from not having the time to do something. 00:29:57.880 |
It comes from actually our emotions that get in our way. 00:30:00.640 |
And there's a researcher called Tim Pitchell, who has a great book. 00:30:05.280 |
I think it's called The Procrastination Puzzle, which is basically 00:30:08.280 |
all about the emotional side of procrastination. 00:30:09.920 |
And he researches this and talks about all the different 00:30:13.600 |
The example I use a lot is people who procrastinate 00:30:15.800 |
from starting a YouTube channel, for example. 00:30:17.960 |
And it's like, yeah, I know that I've got my time slot 00:30:21.600 |
because I've taken Ali Abdaal's course on YouTube or whatever. 00:30:25.440 |
But you're in the time slot and there's something that's stopping you, 00:30:29.040 |
from doing this thing which you claim to want, crucially. 00:30:33.280 |
And there's this thing in the world of meditational mindfulness 00:30:37.120 |
called the RAIN method. Have you come across this? 00:30:39.120 |
No. So the RAIN method, Tara Brock talks about this quite a lot. 00:30:43.440 |
I think it was invented like 20 years ago by some other meditation practitioner. 00:30:46.440 |
Basically, the idea is that any time an emotion is getting in our way, 00:30:54.400 |
So recognize that what the feeling is, it's getting in the way. 00:30:57.720 |
In the case of I'm struggling to start my YouTube channel, 00:31:01.400 |
It's probably some kind of fear or rather some kind of anxiety, 00:31:04.520 |
because I'm going to cite Brene Brown's Atlas of the Heart, 00:31:07.200 |
which defines fear as when there is a threat to your survival right now 00:31:11.000 |
and anxiety as there is a potential threat to your survival 00:31:17.320 |
And so no one ever procrastinates from running away from a lion, 00:31:22.320 |
We procrastinate from starting the podcast, from writing a blog, 00:31:24.640 |
from putting ourselves out there in some way because we perceive 00:31:27.000 |
that there is a potential threat to our survival, i.e. 00:31:30.120 |
our social status within our group at some point, maybe in the future. 00:31:33.360 |
And just recognizing that as a thing that like, yeah, 00:31:37.280 |
because I'm afraid of what people will think of me. OK, cool. 00:31:39.840 |
We've recognized the emotion that's getting in our way. 00:31:42.560 |
Then we have A for allow, which is basically that that's totally fine. 00:31:48.160 |
I don't need to beat myself up for having this emotion. 00:31:50.440 |
But yeah, I have a fear that people are going to look down on me 00:31:53.000 |
if I start a TikTok page, because I feel that people are going to judge me. 00:31:56.400 |
And I feel that that's going to be really bad 00:31:57.760 |
for my social standing in my group, and that's totally OK. I'm human. 00:32:00.320 |
Then we have I, which is investigate, which is like getting curious. 00:32:04.880 |
Huh? I wonder where this feeling is coming from. 00:32:06.680 |
Why do I feel like if I started a YouTube channel or if I started a podcast 00:32:12.520 |
hacking on a podcast that suddenly it would be a bad thing? 00:32:17.160 |
And that's where you just take a few minutes to explore your feelings 00:32:20.400 |
And then N stands for either nurture or non-identification, 00:32:25.800 |
And basically what that means is just this appreciation 00:32:27.920 |
in the world of meditation and mindfulness that we are not our feelings. 00:32:31.680 |
Just because I have the feeling of fear does not mean I am that thing 00:32:36.040 |
and does not mean necessarily that I need to let that hold me back. 00:32:38.800 |
And this idea that the way you feel about something 00:32:41.640 |
actually doesn't really have any bearing on whether you do the thing or not. 00:32:45.080 |
I might not feel like going to work in the morning, but I'm going to go to work. 00:32:47.680 |
Anyway, I might not feel like brushing my teeth 00:32:49.880 |
because I can't be bothered, but I'm going to brush my teeth anyway. 00:32:52.120 |
Similarly, just because I feel the fear of starting my podcast 00:32:57.480 |
that doesn't necessarily mean like I have to identify with that. 00:33:01.440 |
And so that's where we kind of go a little bit emotional 00:33:06.400 |
And I've got a bunch of more specific things, but I think that's the general 00:33:09.760 |
kind of rain method for dealing with any kind of emotion that gets in our way. 00:33:13.040 |
OK, I'm practically thinking about a few ways that I would have used this. 00:33:17.400 |
I feel like the one place where I get stuck is like, oh, I'm trying to get 00:33:24.560 |
And then I end up just sending the thing that I drafted like two weeks ago. 00:33:28.200 |
And now I'm just like, I just waited two weeks to do the thing 00:33:30.240 |
I was already going to do because it's not writing it. 00:33:33.440 |
It's like trying to figure out, is there a more optimal way to do something? 00:33:36.800 |
Maybe I can find a friend who knows the person and that would be better. 00:33:40.560 |
But I don't think even doing it precludes you from finding another path 00:33:44.840 |
So yeah, I just need to like zone in on why I'm not doing it. 00:33:48.840 |
No, exactly. Yeah, I think that's interesting. 00:33:51.960 |
Again, it's fresh in my mind because me and Chris were talking about this. 00:33:54.640 |
So Chris, this productivity coach who I interviewed is a professional poker player. 00:34:00.960 |
he's learned from the world of poker that apply to life. 00:34:03.200 |
And there's a concept that apparently people who play poker use, 00:34:05.960 |
which is the idea of expected value, which you and some listeners 00:34:09.160 |
might be familiar with, basically the magnitude of the outcome you want, 00:34:14.880 |
Cool. And then multiplied by the probability of the thing happening. 00:34:18.320 |
So if I've got a 50% chance of making $100, the expected value 00:34:21.880 |
of every time I flip the coin is $50, for example. 00:34:25.480 |
And expected value poker players shorten to EV 00:34:31.440 |
And whenever poker players are making decisions, they're like, oh, 00:34:34.040 |
it's either a plus EV or a minus EV decision. 00:34:37.120 |
That is the expected value positive or is it negative? 00:34:39.440 |
And what they mean there is that if I did this decision every time, 00:34:42.400 |
would I expect to come out on top or would I expect to not come out on top? 00:34:49.120 |
that sounds like a pretty plus EV decision, because if you were to send 100 emails, 00:34:58.680 |
And so rather than being wedded to the specific outcome of this decision 00:35:02.560 |
that I really want this person, how do I reach out to them? 00:35:06.920 |
You were like, yeah, I was kind of procrastinating a bit. 00:35:08.640 |
I was kind of thinking we might have it in, but then I thought I'd just email you. 00:35:14.000 |
Yeah, I love it because I have that same feeling. 00:35:17.080 |
I'm always like, oh, maybe I couldn't possibly just cold email someone. 00:35:20.240 |
I've got to find some kind of way of like DMing them on Twitter in some way 00:35:25.960 |
Like it's just sending a cold email is always a plus EV decision 00:35:30.640 |
And chances are, if someone didn't respond to the email, 00:35:32.920 |
they either didn't want to talk to you or didn't see it. 00:35:35.200 |
So if you reach out to them through some other channel, 00:35:39.640 |
If they don't want to talk to you, they probably won't respond there either. 00:35:43.360 |
I'm I'm I'm coaching myself through this conversation. 00:35:49.640 |
And that is this recognition that like for whatever we're struggling with, 00:35:52.880 |
whatever we're struggling to get started with, 00:35:54.480 |
there's always a little bit of a push of energy 00:35:58.400 |
Now, the question is, like, how do we get there? 00:36:00.800 |
Once we've got the clarity on the thing, once we've tried to figure out 00:36:03.440 |
what our emotions are getting in the way at some points, 00:36:05.760 |
some stuff is just kind of boring and you just kind of have to do it. 00:36:08.120 |
So like, how do you nudge yourself to just get started? 00:36:10.160 |
At this point, some people would say that motivation is a thing. 00:36:15.840 |
You've got to want it so much that you can't breathe or whatever. 00:36:18.160 |
These motivational videos say, and that's fine. 00:36:20.560 |
But there's a great book by Jeff Hayden called The Motivation Myth, 00:36:23.360 |
which basically argues that motivation is a bit of a myth. 00:36:25.920 |
Like we don't summon up the motivation magically to do a thing. 00:36:30.560 |
And by seeing a small success, that then helps us 00:36:33.960 |
summon the motivation to continue to do the thing. 00:36:36.720 |
And so really, motivation doesn't lead to action. 00:36:40.560 |
And so understanding that, I think, was a big unlock for me that like, really, 00:36:44.080 |
just because I don't feel like doing something 00:36:46.520 |
doesn't actually stop me from doing the thing. 00:36:50.520 |
And sometimes that works where I just tell myself that 00:36:54.200 |
I could just get out of bed right now, even though I don't feel like it. 00:36:58.840 |
And you've got like the discipline approach, the willpower approach, 00:37:02.200 |
If you're not doing it at that point, you're just soft. 00:37:05.440 |
You've got to use grit, determination, discipline to push through and do the thing. 00:37:09.640 |
The thing that I personally like to do is I like to tell myself, 00:37:13.000 |
I'm just going to do the thing for two minutes 00:37:16.960 |
I've got a couple of songs on my Spotify playlist, 00:37:18.760 |
which are like two minutes long, like instrumental songs. 00:37:22.440 |
I mean, I'm just going to do this thing until the end of the song. 00:37:24.200 |
And usually the song ends, the next one plays on shuffle. 00:37:26.440 |
And I don't even realize that I've just continued doing the thing. 00:37:28.720 |
Occasionally I just do it for two minutes and then I stop. 00:37:30.720 |
And I think, cool, that's fine. It's not my day. 00:37:32.520 |
I say 90% of the time, as long as I can just talk myself into doing it 00:37:35.560 |
for two minutes, then I'm unlikely to stop doing it 00:37:39.120 |
because once I've gotten to the swing of things, it's a lot easier to get started. 00:37:41.720 |
And I guess my final point on this is if all else fails, 00:37:46.120 |
something that will never fail is actually putting money on the line. 00:37:49.600 |
My friend Thomas Frank is this huge YouTuber, two and a half million subscribers. 00:37:53.000 |
The way he motivated himself to publish videos in the early days of his channel 00:37:56.920 |
when no one was watching was an app called Beeminder, 00:37:59.720 |
which is an automatic thing where it like connects to your YouTube RSS feed. 00:38:04.120 |
And if you don't publish a video every week, it will take $30 00:38:07.600 |
out of your debit card or out of your bank account just completely automatically. 00:38:10.640 |
And that was how he made himself accountable. 00:38:12.840 |
He's like, well, I've got to publish a video every week. 00:38:16.200 |
Now, depending on who you are, $30 might not seem like enough money, 00:38:21.520 |
So one thing that I've actually tried in the past is giving my housemate 00:38:25.840 |
£1,000 and saying, if I don't do this thing, you get to keep the £1,000. 00:38:29.960 |
And that has just worked magically for me to do absolutely anything. 00:38:34.760 |
I'd much rather use all these other nicer methods. 00:38:38.400 |
If I'm ever really struggling to do a thing that I know I have to do, 00:38:41.000 |
like write £1,000, transfer the money, and they can always give it back to me 00:38:48.200 |
I was running today with our daughter in a stroller, which, by the way, 00:38:52.360 |
for anyone who doesn't have kids, once you start running with a child, 00:38:57.160 |
I've taken like 10 steps back because I'm now pushing this stroller 00:39:05.080 |
am I really going to tell myself that I can't just make it 00:39:11.840 |
But I don't think that works as well when you're like sitting down at your desk 00:39:16.160 |
So having all the tools is probably pretty helpful. Yeah. 00:39:18.600 |
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You mentioned a few apps in the conversation. 00:40:57.640 |
I'm curious, right before we started, I was just doing some quick 00:41:04.280 |
I don't need to go through all 24, but I'm curious 00:41:07.800 |
how you process information and where you put it. 00:41:11.000 |
What is the main stack for processing email or a new newsletter 00:41:16.360 |
or something you find that you want to read later? 00:41:18.560 |
Because I find that a lot of the distraction that comes is like, 00:41:26.840 |
So the app that I used to use until about three months ago was Instapaper. 00:41:32.320 |
Anytime I'd see a link, I'd either share it to Instapaper or right click, 00:41:35.400 |
save to Instapaper or open the article in Chrome and just save to Instapaper 00:41:40.440 |
Installing that app was just freaking game changing because I was also getting 00:41:43.520 |
so distracted down these rabbit holes of these interesting articles. 00:41:46.000 |
But then I'd save them to Instapaper and I'd just go through them 00:41:48.840 |
when I was like on a train or on a bus or on the toilet or something like that. 00:41:52.200 |
And the nice thing is, as I would follow links, you can click on a link 00:41:55.080 |
and you can just save that link to Instapaper as well. 00:41:57.440 |
So as I go through binge reading someone's blog, I'd be saving all these articles. 00:42:02.600 |
and it gets rid of the ads and it formats it really nicely. 00:42:04.840 |
Recently, I've started using an app called Reader by the guys who make Readwise. 00:42:12.280 |
Readwise.io/ali for extended trial and affiliate link. 00:42:15.080 |
Readwise is basically an app that connects to your Kindle account 00:42:18.760 |
and imports everything you've ever highlighted. 00:42:21.240 |
And every day it sends you an email with five of your highlights. 00:42:25.480 |
It means you can revisit stuff that you've highlighted in books on Kindle. 00:42:28.000 |
But they've also now got this feature where they import all of your highlights 00:42:32.440 |
from Instapaper and from Pocket and from these other read it later type apps. 00:42:35.640 |
So every morning, if you want, you can subscribe to the email 00:42:41.320 |
you've highlighted at some point in a previous life. 00:42:43.160 |
And often I'll see things that are highlighted 00:42:46.920 |
And surprisingly, this highlight came to me at a reasonable time. 00:42:49.760 |
And that helps me keep ideas that I've highlighted in the past fresh on top of mind. 00:42:54.200 |
But the guys who make Readwise, I'm kind of mates with them. 00:42:59.880 |
We became internet friends through me just loving the app. 00:43:02.920 |
And they've built this new app called Reader, which is in beta. 00:43:06.800 |
And it's coming out like either August or September. 00:43:09.240 |
And it's basically like Superhuman, but for articles and PDFs 00:43:14.200 |
And it's amazing. So this Reader app in beta. 00:43:16.440 |
I've got the test flight version on iOS is currently how I consume everything. 00:43:25.280 |
whether it's a PDF or a blog post or an article or tweet thread, 00:43:28.880 |
And it means I can deal with it at a later date rather than it 00:43:31.400 |
distracting me from whatever I'm doing in the moment. 00:43:33.520 |
Superhuman 4 is like a sucker hook for me, right? 00:43:37.560 |
For anyone not listening, I think I've talked about Superhuman in the past. 00:43:40.280 |
I looked at my email and I had all these invitations. 00:43:42.800 |
So Superhuman is this replacement email interface for Gmail. 00:43:46.200 |
You schedule a call to get to know the product before you sign up 00:43:49.160 |
because it costs, I think, about $20 a month. 00:43:51.720 |
All the hacks.com/superhuman affiliate link on my site 00:43:56.760 |
But I never did it because I never wanted to take the plunge 00:43:59.160 |
because I was like, really, I'm going to pay for email like this is crazy. 00:44:01.680 |
And then finally, I was like, OK, I'm just going to try it 00:44:05.640 |
And there was one feature I needed and Gmail didn't have it. 00:44:09.160 |
And the feature, which is probably not important to that many people, 00:44:12.320 |
is I was wanted to look at emails I'd gotten from listeners 00:44:15.600 |
and people and see all the other emails they've sent. 00:44:18.360 |
And Gmail has this feature, but it doesn't work if you have aliases. 00:44:21.840 |
So for my Gmail, I send from my personal email, my work email, all this stuff. 00:44:26.400 |
Gmail only works if that email came to or from the core Gmail account. 00:44:32.800 |
And so what I wanted to be able to do is know if we've talked about something 00:44:42.560 |
Like setting up different snippets to auto send things. 00:44:46.600 |
So when you say this is like Superhuman for this, I'm like, where's the link? 00:44:49.840 |
I want to install it. I'm going to pay for it. It's great. What else? 00:44:52.280 |
Yeah, I can hook you up with beta access if you'd like. 00:44:54.640 |
I can do an email intro to the guys. I think you'd really like it. 00:44:57.840 |
Are there other apps like that that have kind of changed your productivity 00:45:01.000 |
stack make you operate more efficiently that are not the obvious? 00:45:04.840 |
Yeah, I mean, I've tried dozens, if not hundreds over the years. 00:45:08.680 |
Part of being a productivity YouTuber is there is an incentive for me 00:45:11.560 |
to try out every app on the market and maybe decide if I want to use it. 00:45:14.720 |
We use Notion for organizing basically everything in our business, 00:45:18.240 |
all of our content production for YouTube videos and for podcasts 00:45:26.120 |
which is this interactive whiteboarding software. 00:45:28.640 |
Just gives you a blank canvas where you can put poster notes. 00:45:32.120 |
for like brainstorming and whiteboarding ideas for my book 00:45:35.560 |
Honestly, like I haven't tried like dozens of these apps. 00:45:39.280 |
If I want to write something down, it goes into Apple Notes 00:45:45.920 |
Yeah, I use Todoist, but it's kind of annoying. 00:45:50.960 |
because I delegate a lot of things to my assistant times two. 00:45:56.680 |
So we're actually switching to Notion for task management. 00:46:00.480 |
I have one Notion that's everything related to all the hacks. 00:46:02.880 |
I have another Notion that's everything for our family. 00:46:08.960 |
What are we looking at, you know, for our daughter? 00:46:13.040 |
What is the schedule of doctor's appointments? 00:46:16.240 |
So I'm a huge fan, but I find that getting information in and out of it 00:46:20.200 |
is more like a project than like a quick, "Oh, I got to do this thing." 00:46:27.200 |
So how do you make that easy or is it just it's not easy, 00:46:32.800 |
Yeah, so I think my favorite task manager for iOS is Things 3. 00:46:38.240 |
The only problem is that it just doesn't work if you delegate things 00:46:41.120 |
But if I was purely solo, Things 3 all the way. 00:46:46.080 |
It's free. It's on iOS, it's on Android, it's on Windows, etc. 00:46:50.160 |
Honestly, I think everyone should have a part-time personal assistant. 00:46:53.480 |
And that's an absolutely life-changing productivity hack. 00:47:01.440 |
What kinds of things do you have this person do? 00:47:03.720 |
And do you ever get too caught up in, "I want to make sure that they're doing them 00:47:10.360 |
Yeah, basically everything that I don't want to do myself. 00:47:15.320 |
So my assistant, Dan, is remote, but he's based in the UK. 00:47:18.760 |
So we've met in real life, which I think is really useful. 00:47:20.960 |
A lot of people try and hire a VA in the Philippines for $5 an hour 00:47:24.760 |
and then they're surprised when it doesn't work. 00:47:28.200 |
that you can potentially work with in real life some of the time, 00:47:31.080 |
or at least meet in person, it's just really nice. 00:47:34.480 |
But anyway, Dan basically goes through all my emails. 00:47:36.680 |
He deals with all my scheduling, things like scheduling this podcast, for example. 00:47:40.840 |
I have basically outsourced the management of my calendar to Dan. 00:47:46.000 |
And it means that as emails come in and stuff, 00:47:48.040 |
I'm actually not the first person to see an email. 00:47:50.080 |
I'll see the superhuman notification on my phone. 00:47:51.680 |
And if it's something like really interesting or really urgent, 00:47:56.800 |
But just beyond that, there's a lot of random admin tasks in life. 00:48:00.480 |
Like, for example, I knew I wanted to get a cleaner for the house. 00:48:05.800 |
But like, I don't want to be the one calling up random cleaning 00:48:09.000 |
agencies in London and trying to find a cleaner who can like be there 00:48:11.840 |
at the same time that I want and do some of the ironing and change the sheets. 00:48:15.520 |
So I just said, Hey, Dan, can you find me a cleaner for the house? 00:48:17.800 |
Basically, if they can come in on a weekday morning 00:48:19.600 |
and do all the things, including ironing, that's what I want. 00:48:24.320 |
And he found someone and we've got a cleaner. 00:48:25.880 |
Things like I remember when I first got an assistant, 00:48:28.040 |
I was just sort of playing around to be like, huh, 00:48:31.920 |
I was like, you know, I wanted to learn how to play the ukulele. 00:48:35.600 |
I said, Hey, Elizabeth, can you find me a ukulele for under like 200 pounds 00:48:39.640 |
and just find some reviews and just order it? 00:48:44.880 |
I'd been procrastinating from, again, playing the ukulele for like two years 00:48:47.560 |
because all it would have taken was for me to sit down and spend five minutes 00:48:50.160 |
searching on the Internet for what's the best ukulele for a certain budget. 00:48:52.880 |
But it's in a way so much easier to be able to say that to an assistant 00:48:56.400 |
or to a voice note that you can then send to an assistant. 00:48:58.840 |
Right now, Dan is hunting for a new property that we're moving into. 00:49:04.280 |
ringing up estate agents and dealing with booking viewings and arranging viewings. 00:49:08.880 |
And he's just getting them to send us WhatsApp videos 00:49:10.760 |
so that I can spend my time doing things that I actually want to be doing, 00:49:12.920 |
like talking to you on this podcast or like making videos or like writing 00:49:15.680 |
or things other than dealing with the hours and hours 00:49:18.440 |
a bad minute takes to book viewings for a property in a market 00:49:22.840 |
So almost anything within reason can be outsourced to an assistant. 00:49:26.760 |
or a video on how to use an assistant and all the tasks you could use for them? 00:49:31.400 |
I have this course idea in my mind that we've sort of fleshed out. 00:49:33.960 |
It's going to be called something like the life changing 00:49:37.320 |
And I want to make videos and blog posts and tweets 00:49:39.520 |
and all of this stuff about it at some point soon. 00:49:41.640 |
And for someone who hasn't gone down the path of how much this could cost, 00:49:45.960 |
you mentioned you could go to the Philippines. 00:49:50.480 |
This is something you can start at a pretty low cost. 00:49:53.960 |
Yeah. I've been telling all my friends four hours a week 00:49:57.160 |
And if you can find someone local here in the UK, 15 pounds an hour. 00:50:00.480 |
So that's like 20 dollars an hour for four hours. 00:50:04.960 |
And people are always like, oh, that's like 320 dollars a month. 00:50:15.480 |
Like you're doing the whole Naval thing of like, 00:50:18.560 |
Should you really be the one to do this thing that you don't want to do? 00:50:20.960 |
But also the other way of thinking of it is like if you could free up 00:50:23.960 |
four hours of your time to, for example, spend with your family, 00:50:26.720 |
how much would that be worth to you over the long term? 00:50:29.040 |
It's like, OK, probably worth more than 20 dollars. Great. 00:50:31.120 |
So now that gives you an idea of how much it would potentially be worth 00:50:36.880 |
I'm so bullish on the part time personal assistant thing. 00:50:41.920 |
I'm going to butcher the name, but Lee Aaron. 00:50:44.400 |
And they were like, hey, can you do an episode on family life? 00:50:46.840 |
I know you've talked about it a little, but time. 00:50:50.000 |
So this is a great example to the Aaron who wrote in 00:50:54.960 |
And I'm a big fan of buying time, like to the extent that you can find 00:50:58.080 |
a person to do a thing that you don't want to do 00:51:03.920 |
Cooking was like in lieu of sitting on the couch, doing nothing. 00:51:08.200 |
Now, cooking might be in lieu of spending time with your kids 00:51:11.560 |
or working or doing these other things because you just have less time. 00:51:20.520 |
And so whatever's at the bottom of that list, I find that we often 00:51:24.120 |
are doing those things, even though we might not actually prioritize them 00:51:29.320 |
But to the extent you can hire someone to cook or to clean 00:51:35.240 |
It sounds like I need to test out one of these services. 00:51:40.680 |
I got to get something very clear of what I'm going to do next. 00:51:43.040 |
So Chris, the next question I would ask you is when are you going to find a VA? 00:51:49.000 |
But before I want to hit one thing and then I want to jump to what 00:51:58.560 |
I've seen that you write a bunch about reading effectively and efficiently. 00:52:01.040 |
And so I want to wrap up the productivity thing with what you're doing there, 00:52:05.880 |
I enjoy reading them, but I don't think I'm doing it right. 00:52:10.320 |
Like I know how to read the words on the page, but I feel like 00:52:13.200 |
if you've written posts and made videos about reading effectively and efficiently, 00:52:16.840 |
I'm confident that there's a way I can do it better. 00:52:19.480 |
Hmm. So do you read on physical book or Kindle or what's your jam? 00:52:23.960 |
To be honest, I a lot of times get the e-book, 00:52:26.200 |
but I sometimes really prefer the physical book, but I could do both. 00:52:29.360 |
I'm not like wedded to one or the other, but I am not good at audio books, 00:52:36.040 |
I feel like whenever I'm listening to an audio book, sometimes I get distracted. 00:52:40.400 |
And then I realize, oh, I missed the last five minutes. 00:52:43.520 |
And if I try to not be distracted and I just like lie in bed to listen, 00:52:46.960 |
then I find that, you know, I might fall asleep or something. 00:52:50.640 |
Another question I would ask, and maybe you can answer 00:52:52.160 |
like what your listeners would be thinking about this is like, 00:52:58.120 |
Retention, I read a lot of things and I learn these fascinating things, 00:53:02.640 |
especially when I'm reading books that people I'm interviewing have written. 00:53:05.160 |
I want to remember those things, not just for five minutes, 00:53:10.520 |
And then to the extent they're a way to read faster or more efficiently, 00:53:15.880 |
they're kind of like efficiently, maybe effectively. 00:53:17.640 |
It's like effectively, I retain the information efficiently. 00:53:21.560 |
Yeah, sure. Have you come across building a second brain? 00:53:26.360 |
who will come on the show a little later this year. 00:53:28.960 |
I took his course in like 2019, 2020, something like that. 00:53:32.640 |
And that introduced me to a lot of ideas around retention of stuff 00:53:37.200 |
and taking information and doing useful things with it. 00:53:40.240 |
It's a fairly expensive course, but the book covers all of the things 00:53:43.000 |
and the book is, you know, the price of a book. 00:53:44.640 |
But broadly, I think the easy hack, we're all about hacks here 00:53:47.680 |
for remembering stuff is to basically use Readwise. 00:53:51.880 |
I have yet to find an app that is better than Readwise at this, 00:53:54.520 |
which if you're highlighting things on Kindle, it automatically files them. 00:53:58.360 |
It also has like an app where you can literally scan the text of a book 00:54:02.200 |
as you're reading it, if you want a thing, and it will OCR 00:54:05.240 |
recognize the characters and will recognize what book it's from 00:54:11.680 |
And then just by virtue of reading that email every day of like five highlights, 00:54:15.440 |
five things that have resonated enough with you for you to want to highlight. 00:54:18.160 |
I found that to be genuinely the single biggest thing 00:54:20.760 |
that has changed the game in terms of my retention of ideas. 00:54:24.000 |
And people was like, oh, you know, when you're on podcasts, 00:54:26.640 |
how are you able to cite all these sources and these books and quotes and stuff? 00:54:29.480 |
So I was like, look at the Readwise email once in a while. 00:54:34.560 |
That's like, I think, the basic level that does most of the good stuff. 00:54:37.600 |
To make sure I got that, if you scan the page of a physical book, 00:54:41.120 |
look, I mean, Apple now has this live text, right? 00:54:44.240 |
You could just copy and paste the text, but this actually knows what book it is 00:54:47.360 |
and will actually store that information also. 00:54:49.400 |
There may be an intermediate step where it connects to your Amazon account 00:54:54.880 |
And sometimes you have to like type in the name of the title or something. 00:55:00.120 |
There is an intermediate step when that particular thing doesn't work. 00:55:02.240 |
So that would be how I'd do the whole retention thing broadly. 00:55:05.360 |
The actual way of retaining anything is to find a way 00:55:07.920 |
to use that information in your day to day life, 00:55:10.000 |
maybe to create a piece of content or something or other based around that. 00:55:13.640 |
So if a book really, really resonated with me, I've got loads of highlights for it. 00:55:17.440 |
I will try and write a book summary or write like a tweet thread summary 00:55:21.080 |
of a book or make a video about the book or interview the author of the book 00:55:25.840 |
Just some kind of output that creates this tangible thing, 00:55:29.760 |
which is a reason to actually bother retaining the stuff, 00:55:32.960 |
because it's all well and good saying, I really want to remember what's in this book. 00:55:36.200 |
But if I'm not creating anything from it, it's going to be hard 00:55:40.400 |
beyond looking at my Readwise email every day. 00:55:42.320 |
So for me, it's easy because I do videos about books 00:55:44.360 |
and that helps me remember a lot of the things. 00:55:48.160 |
And so I've got a Notion page that has literally everything 00:55:50.160 |
I've ever highlighted in my life on Kindle or Instapaper or Reader or Pocket 00:55:53.480 |
or any other app I've used to read books or read articles. 00:55:55.720 |
And so if I ever need ideas for videos, I'll just look through my highlights 00:56:02.120 |
Let's piece things together and turn it into a video. 00:56:05.080 |
Nick Gray was on the show a couple weeks ago and talked about Friends newsletter. 00:56:09.120 |
So I'd say if you need a way to take the interesting content you're consuming, 00:56:12.920 |
I can promise you that most people, at least I do from your newsletter, 00:56:17.360 |
Oh, here's this app I checked out. Here's this book I read. 00:56:20.840 |
And so he proposed that everyone start a Friends newsletter. 00:56:23.680 |
That's just, you know, send your friends an email, 00:56:26.960 |
And I feel like that would be a great place to put this stuff and reinforce it, 00:56:34.360 |
OK, I always try to wrap these conversations up 00:56:37.200 |
where I ask everyone I interview to pick a city they know well, 00:56:41.160 |
maybe London for you, and give people a suggestion of where to go for a meal, 00:56:45.080 |
have a drink, something unusual to do that isn't the obvious. 00:56:51.560 |
So I spent nine years in Cambridge, which is just an hour north of London. 00:56:54.680 |
That's where I went to university, where I worked as a doctor 00:56:56.520 |
and where I spent a year of pandemic trying to grow my YouTube channel. 00:56:59.000 |
The nice thing to do in Cambridge is go punting. 00:57:00.960 |
You get these little boats, you sort of get this rod 00:57:03.240 |
and you sort of pull yourself along the river with a rod. 00:57:05.440 |
And it's super nice when the weather is good. 00:57:07.480 |
And then there's this cafe called Fitzbillies, 00:57:11.880 |
You can have tea with scones and jam and clotted cream. 00:57:19.120 |
and then you have your tea and scones in Fitzbillies. 00:57:21.200 |
And it's a great vibe. Fantastic day out with the family. 00:57:26.600 |
Last thing, where should people find everything you're working on online? 00:57:30.000 |
Yeah, so probably my website, Ali Abdaal.com or my YouTube channel. 00:57:32.760 |
If you just search Ali Abdaal or Ali or something on YouTube, it'll come up. 00:57:38.080 |
And we got a lot of links from this episode in the show notes. 00:57:42.080 |
Thank you so much for having me. It's been a pleasure. 00:57:48.920 |
If you haven't already left a rating and a review for the show in Apple 00:57:52.240 |
Podcasts or Spotify, I would really appreciate it. 00:57:55.240 |
And if you have any feedback on the show, questions for me or just want to say hi, 00:57:59.240 |
I'm Chris at AllTheHacks.com or @Hutchins on Twitter. 00:58:03.360 |
That's it for this week. I'll see you next week.