back to indexBogleheads® 2022 Conference – Accumulators Session – Chris Mamula on Finding Financial Independence
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12:56 F.I.R.E. people don't really retire. It's a Ponzi scheme and they're just "selling the dream."
16:12 FIRE relies on the 4% Rule which is naïve and/or uninformed.
17:9 FIRE Reality
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So tell all your friends how great the conference is 00:00:25.440 |
Anyway, today I am very happy to have Chris Mamula with us. 00:00:30.440 |
Chris is the lead author of the Choose FI book, 00:00:39.520 |
a lot of great information on the Choose FI book. 00:00:43.240 |
He's a financial writer for Can I Retire Yet? 00:00:49.680 |
with the financial industry in his professional life, 00:00:52.120 |
Chris educated himself on investing and tax planning 00:00:56.760 |
to write about wealth building, do-it-yourself investing, 00:00:59.920 |
financial planning, early retirement, and lifestyle design. 00:01:05.640 |
Ladies and gentlemen, let me introduce Chris Mamula. 00:01:23.520 |
and also Christine Benz for having me on their podcast 00:01:27.240 |
to kind of talk about FIRE and to bring me here 00:01:30.000 |
to share the message of FIRE with the Bogleheads, 00:01:35.400 |
'cause in general, in the personal finance community, 00:01:40.160 |
I think FIRE is somewhere around like the GameStop people 00:01:59.800 |
There is a lot of bad ideas and always new ideas 00:02:04.640 |
in finance and in personal finance in particular, 00:02:11.680 |
But it is important to note that occasionally 00:02:14.000 |
there is an idea that's based on really sound, 00:02:16.160 |
solid principles, and those ideas do tend to stick around. 00:02:21.640 |
what would be an idea that may resonate with Bogleheads 00:02:27.600 |
An idea that maybe was initially laughed off and ridiculed, 00:02:36.480 |
if you're not familiar with the history of John Bogle 00:02:41.400 |
this kind of gives you the CliffsNotes version, 00:02:45.560 |
"the thought of buying a stock index fund was ridiculed. 00:02:48.000 |
"Why would anyone be satisfied with an investment 00:02:50.080 |
"that promised nothing more than the same return 00:02:53.720 |
Well, I think the reason that this stuck around, 00:03:09.920 |
And something that I kind of learned after reading the, 00:03:13.680 |
this is the first book I ever read about investing, 00:03:15.480 |
was "The Little Book of Common Sense Investing." 00:03:22.520 |
And I found it was this organic community that grew up 00:03:29.080 |
So it wasn't like he had to go hire a marketing team. 00:03:35.160 |
between this community and the FIRE community. 00:03:40.360 |
The first is I wanna challenge some misconceptions of FIRE 00:03:53.760 |
And then I wanna demonstrate just the common sense principles 00:03:59.400 |
and why I think this is an idea that has the potential 00:04:01.320 |
to still be around in another 40 or 50 years as well. 00:04:03.960 |
So I'm gonna start with a couple of misconceptions 00:04:17.160 |
So I think we need to address some of these misconceptions. 00:04:19.520 |
So the first one, the first myth that I came up with is 00:04:38.480 |
And you see this term thrown around everywhere. 00:04:43.360 |
'cause I just don't feel that that represents it at all. 00:04:53.720 |
But it's really not for the average everyday person. 00:05:15.200 |
money was really a source of stress and anxiety growing up. 00:05:22.480 |
in the fire community and knowing a lot of them, 00:05:28.880 |
And I think honestly, if you came from wealth 00:05:34.120 |
And the key to fire is to live below your means, 00:05:40.640 |
And so if you're used to growing up in a certain lifestyle 00:05:48.600 |
and it's available to many people who are natural savers. 00:05:54.440 |
my wife started working at about $35,000 a year 00:06:00.440 |
we started living off of her salary and banking mine, 00:06:02.560 |
just 'cause again, it gave us a feeling of security. 00:06:05.320 |
Neither of us ever made $100,000 in a single year. 00:06:09.480 |
To be clear, we did grow our salaries over time 00:06:19.360 |
And at 41, I left my career as a physical therapist. 00:06:23.320 |
where we were entering our peak earning years. 00:06:40.520 |
I got into FIRE blogs and these FIRE bloggers really helped me 00:06:46.760 |
And it was just a lot of people who weren't in the industry, 00:06:53.440 |
that I thought maybe I could give back and pay that forward. 00:07:09.840 |
And that's 'cause I'm pretty sure we made it up. 00:07:23.240 |
And it really resonated with me 'cause it really made it, 00:07:29.320 |
it really felt exactly like my wife and I were doing. 00:07:36.760 |
and in contrast to the idea of suffering and sacrificing 00:07:41.680 |
I felt that we were living better than most of our peers 00:07:53.040 |
So I've shared my story in a bunch of podcast interviews 00:07:58.480 |
and some things kind of raised people's eyebrows 00:08:00.120 |
that could be perceived as extreme frugality. 00:08:07.000 |
So like I said, we started living off my wife's salary 00:08:15.040 |
from putting herself through school and a small car loan. 00:08:17.760 |
And so we managed to do that in about 18 months. 00:08:19.680 |
We wanted to be debt-free before we were married. 00:08:22.640 |
the only debt that we've ever had in our lives 00:08:24.400 |
is a small mortgage, and we pay that off in eight years, 00:08:26.800 |
and we've never had debt again, and we still don't. 00:08:32.640 |
Part of the reason we didn't have car payments 00:08:39.440 |
I mean, I'm not a great dresser by any means. 00:08:41.600 |
I don't even own like a watch or a wedding ring. 00:08:46.360 |
but my wife and I, we just decided one year that, 00:08:50.200 |
and for like birthday and Christmas presents, 00:08:51.760 |
it was more of a pain in the butt, and we didn't enjoy it. 00:08:55.240 |
So we just made an agreement to not exchange gifts, 00:08:59.080 |
And technology, I don't care about that stuff. 00:09:05.720 |
So that slide might turn you off a little bit and say, 00:09:07.760 |
well, maybe this does sound like extreme frugality. 00:09:10.120 |
But there's other areas where we absolutely were not frugal. 00:09:16.640 |
we were living in the Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania area, 00:09:19.240 |
and we kind of moved to the suburbs and bought the house 00:09:21.320 |
and do the things like you're supposed to do. 00:09:23.400 |
And so my wife was commuting into downtown Pittsburgh. 00:09:32.640 |
But it was about a 50-minute one-way commute every day. 00:09:35.600 |
And within a year, I think we were living the American dream, 00:09:39.080 |
where we had the degree and the nice house and everything 00:09:44.600 |
So we kind of blew it up, and we sold our house 00:09:46.560 |
after only 18 months, which is not a great financial move, 00:09:53.840 |
So we focused on places where we could enjoy our work. 00:09:57.740 |
so we weren't spending the whole day sitting in the car 00:10:00.240 |
and kind of building the lifestyle we wanted. 00:10:02.160 |
And then when we reached this point of where we were kind 00:10:05.360 |
we thought, what do we want our life to look like? 00:10:07.560 |
And at this point, it wasn't built around work. 00:10:09.160 |
It was built around the activities we wanted to do. 00:10:11.200 |
So where was a place we can get outside and enjoy 00:10:13.240 |
our lives every day, which is what we like to do? 00:10:15.180 |
And where was a great place to raise our daughter? 00:10:24.200 |
Like we love outdoor adventure activities, sporting events, 00:10:29.880 |
and travel, and just to kind of give you a look at what 00:10:35.240 |
We were in our 20s, and we went to Australia. 00:10:38.160 |
We climbed Kilimanjaro, and we did an African safari. 00:10:42.760 |
This was us in Ecuador, the highest we've ever 00:10:47.920 |
I want to kind of pause on this one, because to me, 00:10:54.000 |
a really religious community, and the religion 00:10:56.800 |
And so like every Sunday of my life, that's what we did. 00:11:01.480 |
And like I was born as they were entering this dynasty 00:11:05.880 |
Yeah, I don't remember it, because I was too young. 00:11:13.840 |
And I was a sophomore at the University of Pittsburgh, 00:11:16.600 |
and I was working at a pizza shop because I needed the money, 00:11:27.680 |
in the host city of the Super Bowl on Super Bowl Sunday, 00:11:30.060 |
everybody wants off, so they said nobody could have off. 00:11:31.820 |
So after watching this all my life, I couldn't watch them. 00:11:34.440 |
And I always said if they made the Super Bowl, 00:11:37.840 |
And fast forward 10 years, they did make the Super Bowl, 00:11:41.160 |
So my wife and I drove up and scalped tickets 00:11:45.400 |
for like $5,000 a couple hours before the game. 00:11:50.280 |
And if you notice the picture, that's not Detroit. 00:11:52.360 |
So three years later, we ended up going again in Tampa 00:11:54.660 |
and we saw one of the greatest games in NFL history. 00:11:57.000 |
So for some people that might sound frivolous, 00:12:00.240 |
And again, that's what being a valuist means. 00:12:04.920 |
We kind of brought her into our active lifestyle. 00:12:06.960 |
And it's not about dragging her to stuff that we like, 00:12:08.880 |
but as a little kid, she's been on Disney cruises. 00:12:12.780 |
she's become the world's biggest Dolly Parton fan. 00:12:14.960 |
So we've managed to make it to Dollywood with her. 00:12:17.460 |
But so what I would kind of just ask you to do 00:12:25.640 |
'Cause I find that it just does not ring true. 00:12:28.000 |
And the question I would say is, are you a valuist? 00:12:30.200 |
And are you lining up your spending with your money? 00:12:37.360 |
it's quick compared to a standard 40 to 50 year career, 00:12:40.200 |
but you're still talking about 10 to 20 years 00:12:45.080 |
So you have to find a way to make it enjoyable for you. 00:12:49.040 |
And so for me, that's kind of what fire is all about. 00:12:51.360 |
And that's how you're going to develop a savings rate 00:13:08.900 |
who then buys our books and listens to our podcasts 00:13:16.940 |
That's who I actually think of with a Ponzi scheme, 00:13:31.580 |
I will say since then, I've published a book. 00:13:33.760 |
I've partnered on and taken over one of my favorite blogs. 00:13:37.600 |
This past year, I completed the CFP curriculum 00:13:39.720 |
and I'm currently preparing to take the CFP exam 00:13:43.080 |
And as you can see, I'm here, I'm publicly speaking 00:13:45.160 |
and I've been on many podcasts to promote my ideas. 00:13:49.880 |
AKA I do still work even though I say I retired. 00:13:55.560 |
my income is about 80% less than what it used to be. 00:14:03.380 |
These days, instead of my schedule being controlled 00:14:05.660 |
by an employer, I have complete control over my time. 00:14:12.360 |
and I'm generally outside four or five days a week. 00:14:14.940 |
And I'm extremely involved in my daughter's life, 00:14:19.500 |
We typically travel five or six weeks a year as a family. 00:14:22.560 |
But I think even maybe more important than the big things, 00:14:35.180 |
I would get everything I need to get done during the day 00:14:40.060 |
And that's something that I think a lot of people, 00:14:42.900 |
that they didn't have that time with their kids. 00:14:44.180 |
And that's something I'd never wanted to regret. 00:14:45.980 |
So again, I'm kind of lining up with my values. 00:14:50.540 |
So the second question though, it really doesn't matter. 00:14:58.260 |
It doesn't really matter if you think I retired 00:15:00.980 |
I think the second question that's really important 00:15:02.740 |
is how do you want to define your retirement? 00:15:07.180 |
to end the last segment to bring us into here 00:15:18.540 |
when they do retire, many people do walk away. 00:15:22.300 |
And many people struggle with purpose and meaning 00:15:29.540 |
Many people, they save money their whole life 00:15:31.900 |
and they turn around and because they're such, 00:15:41.220 |
and they don't actually enjoy their retirement. 00:15:59.780 |
But just because that's how most people picture retirement, 00:16:02.780 |
it doesn't mean that's what it has to mean for you. 00:16:13.260 |
like when I talk to more sophisticated people 00:16:23.100 |
I had a great conversation about this with Christine 00:16:27.660 |
So if you're not aware of what the 4% rule is, 00:16:38.980 |
if you have a portfolio on day one of your retirement, 00:16:43.540 |
and then you're going to spend that same amount every year, 00:16:54.380 |
We talk a lot about this in the fire community. 00:16:56.940 |
And we also talk about the inverse of that then 00:17:00.380 |
then you know that you need 25 times your annual spending 00:17:09.580 |
I know almost everybody in the fire community, 00:17:11.500 |
I don't know anybody that follows the 4% rule 00:17:19.500 |
we call it the 4% rule of thumb or the 4% guideline. 00:17:24.060 |
I think this is a great thing to learn and to understand. 00:17:27.100 |
Number one is that it makes you kind of focus 00:17:33.180 |
Most people don't budget or track their spending. 00:17:36.980 |
to know what 25 times your annual spending is. 00:17:39.100 |
You have to know what your annual spending is. 00:17:48.500 |
And yesterday, if you were at the Bogleheads University, 00:17:57.660 |
what we found is people start to take action. 00:18:01.020 |
they learn this principle and it really turns things around. 00:18:05.140 |
You're gonna discover that you may wanna spend 00:18:09.380 |
And you're gonna learn these things and adapt, 00:18:10.740 |
but at least you have a place that you're starting from 00:18:17.420 |
and more important point about the whole idea 00:18:40.500 |
And I think it's a question we don't ask enough 00:18:44.380 |
And then once you have enough, what comes next? 00:18:47.140 |
So I wanted to really kind of start with the why, 00:18:51.900 |
but now I wanna kind of get into a little bit of the how, 00:19:04.020 |
the conversation again in the Bogleheads University 00:19:09.740 |
but I always talk about tactics and principles. 00:19:13.660 |
they learn a FIRE 'cause they read like one story 00:19:24.340 |
we kind of are all following the same basic common principles 00:19:28.540 |
but the tactics are gonna look wildly different within that. 00:19:34.380 |
And that's what I wanna focus on in the talk. 00:19:38.140 |
One thing I'll say is the Boglehead investment philosophy 00:19:40.900 |
that we're gonna learn about here this weekend 00:19:43.700 |
or this week, it's really endorsed and embraced 00:19:50.100 |
We talk about using that investment philosophy, 00:19:52.580 |
you can achieve FIRE reliably in 10 to 20 years 00:20:11.940 |
what does the FIRE community do so differently 00:20:14.260 |
than most people and what can we learn from it 00:20:17.700 |
and be trying to say 50% and then retiring early. 00:20:20.820 |
Well, there's only three levers that any of us can pull 00:20:27.220 |
if we wanna achieve financial independence quickly. 00:20:32.180 |
And I think number three is kind of the sexy one. 00:20:36.880 |
But if you want to achieve financial independence, 00:20:42.620 |
And so we really need to focus on numbers one and two, 00:20:47.020 |
The reason for that, again, this isn't my opinion. 00:21:08.840 |
is he was obviously playing with a compounding 00:21:26.080 |
If you are a bogal head, if you are a passive investor, 00:21:35.940 |
but essentially you're gonna get what the market gives you. 00:21:43.740 |
you have 40 to 50 years for money to work for you. 00:21:50.140 |
you're cutting that down to one to two decades. 00:21:53.780 |
And so we actually have time working against us. 00:22:07.400 |
another favorite topic in the FIRE community, 00:22:12.400 |
It's just how much you save divided by how much you earn. 00:22:15.200 |
And so there's really only two things you can do 00:22:18.240 |
You can either spend less or you can earn more, 00:22:23.340 |
But in the FIRE community, we talk about frugality a lot, 00:22:26.400 |
and I think that's maybe where some of the idea 00:22:30.320 |
But I do think it's worth starting with frugality 00:22:33.240 |
One, it just tends to be a little bit faster. 00:22:38.600 |
although it's fine and you should be working on both. 00:22:47.960 |
But if you can learn to be happy living on less, 00:22:56.680 |
And so going back to that 4% rule and the inverse, 00:22:59.500 |
the rule of 25, if you want to live off $100,000 a year, 00:23:02.600 |
that's perfectly fine, but that's gonna take, 00:23:07.520 |
If you can learn to be happy living on half of that, 00:23:14.920 |
if you want to hit financial independence quickly. 00:23:17.420 |
A lot of these ideas, when we talk about savings rate, 00:23:25.320 |
from a really popular blog, Mr. Money Mustache. 00:23:28.000 |
And the article's called the Shockingly Simple Math 00:23:40.140 |
And the assumptions he uses is that you're gonna get 00:23:44.580 |
and you're gonna utilize the 4% rule in early retirement. 00:23:47.020 |
And we can argue around the edges about that, 00:23:48.340 |
but I think it's a really good place to start. 00:24:10.820 |
So if you want a standard career, follow standard advice, 00:24:20.980 |
And I think a lot of this is a psychological game. 00:24:22.820 |
So I think a lot of the reason saving 10% is hard 00:24:25.260 |
is because you're gonna see results really slowly, 00:24:28.020 |
and you're not gonna notice any progress for a long time, 00:24:30.220 |
'cause it takes a while to get compounding working for you. 00:24:37.220 |
and you have this plan to work towards your goal, 00:24:40.420 |
it's actually not all that hard for many people. 00:24:44.500 |
we talk about starting thinking about a 50% savings rate. 00:24:48.900 |
if you don't have these other things in line first. 00:24:56.540 |
to that one to two decades that we talk about, 00:25:15.940 |
And so a lot of people, they'll maybe hear my story, 00:25:18.540 |
and they'll say, you know, that's kind of cool. 00:25:19.700 |
I wish I would have thought of that when I was 25 or 30, 00:25:33.300 |
And so this is a message that could help a lot of people 00:25:40.540 |
Well, we see that there's a lot of people behind the game. 00:25:47.580 |
I'd say these balances are probably pretty bloated, 00:25:53.380 |
those last two lines is what I want you to zoom in on, 00:26:01.580 |
'cause it's people that have retirement accounts 00:26:05.480 |
Many people don't have any retirement account, 00:26:09.220 |
and they're not maybe getting the same advice. 00:26:11.340 |
But even in this crew, at that retirement age, 00:26:14.440 |
we're looking at about a quarter of a million dollars. 00:26:26.020 |
if they wanna do anything more than just supplement 00:26:28.180 |
social security and live on a pretty bare bones existence. 00:26:39.940 |
And again, this is already a kind of a privileged sample, 00:26:43.580 |
like above average sample compared to the general society. 00:26:47.140 |
And we're looking at people that have less than $100,000 00:26:53.660 |
you're talking people can take $4,000 for the entire year 00:27:09.980 |
some of these principles and take them to heart, 00:27:12.340 |
there's actually a lot of advantages that you have 00:27:14.300 |
if you're saving late versus the typical fire person. 00:27:17.340 |
I would say, I'm gonna acknowledge off the top, 00:27:18.900 |
the one big disadvantage, if you haven't been saving at all 00:27:21.700 |
or haven't been saving much for 20 or 30 years, 00:27:34.580 |
if you just think about where you're at in the life cycle, 00:27:40.260 |
so you're still paying for diapers and daycare 00:27:45.620 |
you tend to be entering your peak earning years, 00:27:51.460 |
that you have all these expenses in the rear view mirror, 00:27:54.580 |
or the kids are starting to go to college and moving out, 00:27:56.660 |
and you can redirect that money to retirement savings. 00:28:03.500 |
when you're spending is to cut your housing costs, 00:28:13.260 |
is just utilize your retirement accounts to the max 00:28:15.420 |
and utilize your HSA, and get as much tax advantage 00:28:19.380 |
Well, as you get older, you have catch-up contributions, 00:28:23.020 |
and it gives you a little more space to work with there. 00:28:27.180 |
it's just less hard to plan for a traditional retirement. 00:28:31.540 |
a lot of uncertainty, but compared to 60 years, 00:28:46.660 |
And you also have Medicare, which it's not free, 00:28:51.980 |
to bridge that gap from working to traditional retirement, 00:29:02.980 |
So, I wanted to kind of leave some time for questions, 00:29:07.180 |
so I want to kind of go through, fairly quickly, 00:29:12.100 |
and investing better, and so I want to kind of close on that. 00:29:20.740 |
that we love to talk about in the FHIR community 00:29:34.420 |
50% of your expenses is going to come from these big three, 00:29:39.420 |
So, I kind of like to picture this as like a big pie chart, 00:29:44.260 |
And on one side, you have housing, cars, and food, 00:29:48.980 |
"Well, I don't want to cut on my housing, cars, and food." 00:29:52.180 |
that means you essentially cut everything else, 00:29:55.340 |
To me, that's the definition of extreme frugality. 00:30:02.580 |
and that's where you want to focus your energy to start. 00:30:05.700 |
And again, for some people, this is going to feel like, 00:30:07.620 |
this is going to feel like frugality and sacrifice, 00:30:16.060 |
and a lot of people have bought into that dream. 00:30:28.380 |
because now you're just throwing gasoline on the fire. 00:30:34.180 |
"if I could just pay a few more dollars in investment fees, 00:30:39.180 |
"if I could pay some extra insurance premiums, 00:30:41.580 |
"or I love to travel, but if I could just spend more on it." 00:30:44.580 |
But all those things, once you master your finances, 00:30:49.220 |
A lot of people, and again, in the Bogleheads, 00:30:50.820 |
this is something we talk about a lot, is investment fees, 00:30:53.500 |
but it really doesn't matter if you don't have much invested. 00:30:58.700 |
and you cut that from a 1% fee to a 0.05% fee, 00:31:02.140 |
you're talking about saving almost $10,000 a year. 00:31:06.640 |
Mike Piper talked about this a little bit yesterday. 00:31:13.960 |
and defer those taxes in your high-earning years. 00:31:15.960 |
And by definition, you have a high savings rate 00:31:19.560 |
And if you retire early or even semi-retire or whatever, 00:31:21.800 |
and you can spread that out over 20 or 30 years, 00:31:28.880 |
and this whole financial independence lifestyle 00:31:36.060 |
We still have some income, but our income's low enough 00:31:46.900 |
If you don't live in as big and expensive a house, 00:31:52.320 |
this is a great way to cut them, all these things. 00:31:57.640 |
every little thing that happens can kind of be an emergency. 00:31:59.480 |
And so you need a lot of insurance in your life. 00:32:01.720 |
But as you have a couple of years of savings, 00:32:07.280 |
If you're getting to 20 and 30 years of savings, 00:32:09.160 |
having a long-term disability and having a life insurance 00:32:18.060 |
and lowering your premiums on everything from auto 00:32:30.280 |
And again, this is something in the FHIR community 00:32:31.480 |
we like to talk about, but using travel credit cards 00:32:38.360 |
and most people are not gonna benefit by that. 00:32:40.600 |
And so they're willing to give some pretty outrageous bonuses 00:32:45.160 |
because most people are gonna end up paying 15 or 20%. 00:32:57.880 |
just signing up for four or five cards a year, 00:32:59.480 |
we collect about four to $5,000 of free travel 00:33:10.880 |
And again, I think it all comes down to that. 00:33:15.120 |
So yes, a lot of people say everybody should go to college 00:33:18.040 |
at any cost and there's no other investment in the world 00:33:22.120 |
We wouldn't say, is a house a good investment? 00:33:29.720 |
But with college, we just kind of throw our brain out 00:33:40.880 |
And I can tell you in my story, again, my wife and I, 00:33:45.240 |
and plus a bunch of different certifications. 00:33:55.200 |
Then you wanna kind of just grow your earning power 00:33:58.600 |
and all these things just to kind of allow you to make more. 00:34:05.480 |
you do have to do something to grow your investments 00:34:17.640 |
their blogs I read, their podcasts I listen to. 00:34:21.160 |
the rest of this conference, suck up as much as you can, 00:34:23.640 |
and then take it out and pay it forward to your community 00:34:32.800 |
I'm happy to stay and talk as long as you need. 00:34:39.280 |
- And I appreciate the slide you put on at the end 00:34:59.960 |
And very rarely do they ever talk about earning more. 00:35:04.240 |
And in my experience, people dramatically overestimate 00:35:10.200 |
Why doesn't the FIRE community talk about earning more, 00:35:18.920 |
but it is something that, I mean, in the book, 00:35:21.320 |
we devoted a section to each of those three levers 00:35:25.800 |
So in my own personal story, I do focus on that. 00:35:31.920 |
like I know a lot of people get anti-college or whatever. 00:35:35.240 |
I absolutely benefited from having three degrees, 00:35:38.520 |
But again, you have to look at the cost benefit. 00:35:41.280 |
And so even when you are focusing on earning more, 00:35:45.720 |
and you still have to look at what you're spending. 00:35:49.880 |
I think maybe the only thing I would argue is, 00:35:51.920 |
I think a lot of people think that if you earn more, 00:36:02.840 |
And their spending grows right with their earnings. 00:36:06.960 |
And you can look at like professional athletes, 00:36:09.000 |
you know very well with doctors, you know the statistics. 00:36:18.280 |
but that's why we focus on spending first, at least I do. 00:36:26.320 |
My question is regard, how do you know emotionally 00:36:46.880 |
we were now scouting, you know, where to retire, 00:37:01.760 |
until we get hit our social security, you know, benefits. 00:37:10.960 |
and just to, you know, living the FI, the fire life? 00:37:21.400 |
we didn't look at, did we hit some target number 00:37:25.680 |
My wife and I, we kind of always wanted to move West 00:37:30.720 |
And so we had a daughter and she was turning five 00:37:34.400 |
And for us, it was really a lifestyle decision of 00:37:37.320 |
once she starts school and making her friends 00:37:49.960 |
I had that same vision of retire is don't work at all. 00:37:58.400 |
What are you going to do to just fill your time? 00:38:03.800 |
And also it's just a psychological component. 00:38:08.360 |
because you are suffering and sacrificing for 15 years. 00:38:12.520 |
And so imagine like you're driving down the road 00:38:15.120 |
and then you're just going to slam it in reverse. 00:38:20.960 |
So our plan was always to be very gradual and cutting back. 00:38:26.000 |
She works for a company out of Washington, D.C., part-time. 00:38:30.040 |
Shortly after that, she started with that company. 00:38:34.520 |
So they kind of just give her a really sweet deal. 00:38:37.680 |
And I plan to keep my physical therapy license. 00:38:41.640 |
or do a travel assignment once or twice a year. 00:38:45.600 |
I did better than I thought with our book and blog. 00:38:58.840 |
And so it'll be five years for us in December. 00:39:00.840 |
And my wife is, again, looking to cut back working. 00:39:08.360 |
most months, we are just basically right about even. 00:39:13.280 |
if we have expenses, we'll take from our savings. 00:39:28.600 |
I know about a fire committee I see as a downside. 00:39:37.200 |
And they just want to get out in 10 or 20 years. 00:39:43.120 |
Or maybe just the loudest, voiceless in that community 00:39:47.280 |
And I'm wondering if you have any thoughts about that. 00:39:54.940 |
'cause I'm kind of like, I'm at that transition stage. 00:39:59.300 |
I do think sometimes the loudest, most extreme voices 00:40:07.260 |
I think if you are two to three years away from fire, 00:40:14.980 |
If you have a high paying job to maybe put your nose down 00:40:16.900 |
and just get through it and hit your number and then quit. 00:40:31.260 |
that there's no guarantee you're ever going to get there. 00:40:33.180 |
So you got to live your life and enjoy it along the way. 00:40:43.300 |
it seems like there's accumulation, accumulation of, 00:40:46.500 |
and it has to be taxable investments at this point, 00:40:52.260 |
Is there a trade-off here where you're just bypassing 00:41:18.780 |
unless maybe, like if you have a ton of credit card debt, 00:41:21.460 |
something like maybe, but you're getting a tax advantage 00:41:37.060 |
I mean, for us, we maxed out both of our 401ks, 00:41:59.740 |
I don't know how I would answer that question. 00:42:03.460 |
at your own situation and where you're gonna be. 00:42:14.040 |
Yeah, there is ways to get money out of your 401k. 00:42:31.100 |
There's, you have to jump through some hoops, 00:42:34.380 |
but like there's, you can do, it's called a 72T, 00:42:37.340 |
and you could take like, kind of almost equivalent 00:42:40.040 |
to RMDs, but you're doing it earlier in your life. 00:42:48.620 |
and sometimes that still might be better than paying, 00:42:52.060 |
If you're in a much lower tax rate in retirement 00:42:56.040 |
So again, it's really hard to give specific advice 00:43:01.180 |
You have to kind of look at your own situation. 00:43:08.500 |
One of the big threes that you mentioned was housing. 00:43:23.160 |
but I find that the housing costs are extreme right now. 00:43:48.480 |
I think one thing in a high cost of living area, 00:43:51.420 |
like I guess my question would be, why are you living? 00:43:57.420 |
because there's higher paying job opportunities, 00:44:03.740 |
Now, if you want to stay in the higher cost of living area, 00:44:07.280 |
I mean, you're kind of limited by your creativity 00:44:13.000 |
like if you're in the Bay Area or in Manhattan, 00:44:23.480 |
And that's a personal decision that you have to make. 00:44:31.740 |
It's a little, because I'm in the insurance business, 00:44:35.380 |
but I'm an attorney, so I'm practicing there. 00:44:38.300 |
So, I mean, I guess looking to practice elsewhere, 00:44:41.580 |
I'd have to take the bar unless it's a UBE state, 00:44:46.620 |
- Yeah, I think again, like I think a lot of it 00:44:51.420 |
she works for a company based out of Washington DC, 00:44:53.340 |
but she worked for them when we were in Pennsylvania 00:44:56.420 |
And so some, like, especially now since the pandemic, 00:45:10.880 |
and I can't give you a good, easy answer on them. 00:45:13.320 |
- Hello, my name's Chris, I'm from the DC area. 00:45:25.160 |
For example, somebody who's still working their way 00:45:27.880 |
up the income curve, you know, I didn't really think it, 00:45:31.700 |
you know, it could be possible to achieve FIRE, 00:45:33.980 |
you know, without, you know, six figure and above income. 00:45:37.420 |
So that was really encouraging, so thank you for that. 00:45:41.660 |
that I don't hear too often in the FIRE community 00:45:50.280 |
that you should always put your retirement first 00:45:52.820 |
because, you know, your child can always borrow for college, 00:45:55.220 |
but I'm just curious if those are things you think about 00:46:08.520 |
we were cutting those investment fees and tax fees 00:46:11.480 |
because we were, I was also learning the investment side 00:46:17.880 |
that we were already saving that was freed up. 00:46:19.880 |
And so, and also I took a little, a side job. 00:46:24.560 |
Like we, I like rock climbing and I couldn't get out 00:46:30.920 |
So all I did was that little side hustle money. 00:46:38.600 |
I kind of maxed out what I wanted to save for her 00:46:41.760 |
And so we stopped saving when we stopped working. 00:46:45.480 |
And just like we front loaded our retirement savings. 00:46:58.640 |
because I'm a nurse and I work in a trauma center 00:47:08.600 |
about getting ready for whatever particular catastrophe 00:47:16.080 |
- Yeah, I mean, this is one area where I do differ 00:47:20.880 |
who are way more risk tolerant or maybe naive 00:47:24.680 |
than if I want to be not as diplomatic about it. 00:47:27.680 |
But to me, health insurance is absolutely a must 00:47:34.880 |
you have to figure out how you're going to get it. 00:47:39.160 |
I know some people like the health share ministries. 00:47:49.640 |
And my wife has a preexisting condition it wouldn't cover. 00:47:55.160 |
I think for most people, they try to optimize. 00:47:56.920 |
And this is what we're going to do when my wife cuts back 00:48:02.680 |
But again, it's a big challenge because again, 00:48:04.720 |
they passed the law, I guess, what are we in 2022? 00:48:10.840 |
'cause you're already halfway through the year 00:48:21.480 |
trying to do math on the flyer, 16 years till Medicare. 00:48:26.560 |
I think maybe a reason to over-save a little bit, 00:48:28.640 |
a reason to, if you can be open to having some income 00:48:54.160 |
you can get your insurance subsidized to a high level 00:49:04.000 |
You also don't know if you're going to be healthy. 00:49:07.960 |
you can have some substantial out-of-pocket costs 00:49:10.520 |
So you have to look at what your potential max 00:49:17.040 |
And again, the hard part is on the premium side, 00:49:19.680 |
you just don't know what things are going to be 00:49:33.760 |
I just, first of all, thank you to you, Chris 00:49:37.040 |
and Rick and Dr. Dolly and everybody that's here. 00:49:40.240 |
I feel like I've kind of found my tribe here, right? 00:49:43.040 |
So I guess my question is more of a general one 00:50:06.880 |
- I'm trying to think of these questions one at a time. 00:50:10.160 |
So I'll start with the last 'cause I remember that. 00:50:12.200 |
As far as paying it forward, I mean, just being here, 00:50:14.040 |
being a part of this conference, I really respect 00:50:16.440 |
what the BOGO heads do and I was beyond honored 00:50:22.920 |
Writing my blog, again, I do monetize it now, 00:50:24.800 |
but I wrote for five years and didn't make a penny on it. 00:50:29.620 |
So just trying to put good information out there. 00:50:38.660 |
you know, what don't I know and to better be able 00:50:42.720 |
So that's that question and then I think you asked 00:50:44.800 |
about like just in our life, interacting with people. 00:50:47.440 |
I'm open, like I don't like, if people ask what I do, 00:50:54.640 |
Or most people don't really care to be honest. 00:50:58.120 |
As far as my child, I guess I'm a little bit like, 00:51:01.920 |
I'm a little bit worried like, are we going to spoil her? 00:51:04.760 |
Is she gonna not have the work ethic we have? 00:51:06.540 |
I mean, I think every parent has that though. 00:51:08.060 |
I mean, I don't know how you know the right balance 00:51:11.160 |
And then as far as like her friends and stuff, 00:51:13.200 |
I mean, I think again, like with my wife and I, 00:51:27.220 |
Mostly just we watched and saw what they were doing 00:51:30.560 |
So we try to set a good example with how we are stewards 00:51:37.840 |
but she's 10 and she doesn't really wanna get too involved 00:51:42.860 |
- Okay, so one of the biggest expenses was housing 00:51:52.200 |
was you liked to rock climb and you wanted a better, 00:52:11.240 |
- That is a great question and a tough question 00:52:13.800 |
'cause that's, my parents, that's their only granddaughter. 00:52:22.360 |
where we moved is substantially more expensive 00:52:26.320 |
So it wasn't a, we weren't moving to save money. 00:52:30.280 |
and like the area we were at in Pennsylvania, 00:52:33.680 |
I mean, if my family wasn't there, I would never live there. 00:52:52.980 |
that kind of factored into her quality of life, 00:53:00.440 |
We typically go back, we were back there this summer, 00:53:05.780 |
My parents, we have a house with like a mother-in-law suite. 00:53:12.940 |
and spend three, four weeks at a time with us 00:53:14.500 |
to be around my daughter, their granddaughter. 00:53:16.620 |
So, but yeah, I mean, those are always tough things 00:53:20.660 |
And so I think you have to navigate that on your own. 00:53:34.880 |
If the parents follow, they chase their kids, 00:53:40.060 |
But don't let that be a factor in what you do.