back to indexRyan Hall: Value of Competition | Take It Uneasy Podcast
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You have been both a supporter and a critic of competition. 00:00:04.200 |
What do you think is the value of competition for a martial artist? 00:00:06.960 |
I believe that the value of competition is in that it teaches you the true 00:00:11.160 |
purpose of martial arts. And again, the true purpose of martial arts is being able to 00:00:14.440 |
defend yourself and whatnot and all of these other things in real life, yes. 00:00:18.000 |
Because let's say you win an 80cc gold medal, 00:00:21.280 |
you know, you get slapped around by someone bigger and stronger than you at a bar. 00:00:24.920 |
People will talk about how sweet that gold medal is, but for the rest of your 00:00:27.960 |
life it'll feel pretty hollow. That's not what we're looking for. 00:00:31.400 |
What I'm talking about, I guess, is what I believe competition develops if 00:00:35.760 |
is proper focus, proper dedication. Because anytime you have a very defined goal 00:00:40.240 |
and strong opposition, it will force you to be better, period. 00:00:43.600 |
The better your opposition is, if you focus and you take what you're doing 00:00:48.500 |
People are better wrestlers today than they once were. People are better 00:00:51.560 |
basketball players today than they once were. Military is better now than it was 00:00:54.760 |
in the past because of all of the competition 00:00:59.720 |
And if you go out in competition and just kind of 00:01:03.040 |
bullshit it, if you're like, "Oh, I'm going to go out and see how it happens," 00:01:05.960 |
that's a cowardly way to approach competition and that gets you nothing. 00:01:10.160 |
to really do the right things. And the same thing, not properly 00:01:15.120 |
that was a cowardly way to approach it because you intentionally left yourself 00:01:19.160 |
"If I win, oh man, I'm talented and blah-de-blah. And if I lose, it's, 00:01:22.680 |
well, you know, I didn't really train that hard." Well, if that's 00:01:25.800 |
the case, then you shouldn't have been out there. Win, lose, or draw. I don't care 00:01:28.520 |
if I've got a student that I think is going to win gold at the world 00:01:30.680 |
championships. If he or she does not train properly ahead of time, I will not 00:01:33.640 |
allow them to go. And if they go, I will send them off the team. 00:01:36.360 |
You know? And hey, they can do what they want. They're a grown adult. I'm not the 00:01:39.160 |
boss of them, but I am the boss of my team and the boss of my gym. 00:01:41.720 |
And that's not how we conduct ourselves. And it has way less to do about the 00:01:45.640 |
physical, you know, the result than it does about the proper preparation. 00:01:48.600 |
Because proper preparation and proper focus and dedication 00:01:51.480 |
over the long haul yields positive results. But most importantly, it's about 00:01:55.400 |
are we conducting ourselves in an honorable and respectable manner. 00:01:59.080 |
So, I believe that competition really teaches us that. Because 00:02:02.360 |
in the room, you know, there's always like, "Oh, it was practice. Oh, 00:02:05.880 |
I was kind of this to that happened today." The other thing, when you go to 00:02:09.240 |
competition, everyone is, that's on. Everyone is on 00:02:12.120 |
that day. Because everyone is trained for that specific moment. And 00:02:15.240 |
we'll see what happens. So, you get the most honesty out of a time like that. 00:02:19.160 |
And the higher the level, the better it gets. 00:02:20.920 |
And, you know, provided that there's not a lot of cheating. But regardless, you know, 00:02:24.520 |
from an athletic performance perspective, it is the most honest thing. 00:02:27.080 |
Because, and it's the toughest as well. Because it takes 00:02:30.280 |
courage and it takes some heart to really properly prepare 00:02:33.000 |
and put it on the line. Because you're risking horrible disappointment. 00:02:36.520 |
I've prepared so hard before and tried so hard and I've won. 00:02:40.200 |
And I've prepared other times and I've tried so hard and I've failed. And it 00:02:43.240 |
hurts. It really hurts. It doesn't hurt nearly as 00:02:45.480 |
much if you kind of half-ass it. Because you didn't put that much into it. But 00:02:48.360 |
again, that's how a coward approaches things. 00:02:50.360 |
If you have, if you're going to conduct yourself the right way, you prepare 00:02:53.720 |
properly, you train hard. And then win, lose, or draw, you deal with 00:02:56.840 |
the results. And that's what I believe is the real benefit of competition if 00:03:00.200 |
approached properly. Do you admire somebody who sacrifices, 00:03:05.800 |
you know, like 10, 20 years of their life in that singular pursuit 00:03:11.080 |
of competition towards a gold medal at the Olympics, 00:03:14.520 |
say? Just most of the Olympians do. Goodness, absolutely. I mean, I admire 00:03:18.120 |
anyone that's willing to sacrifice and willing to work hard in any 00:03:21.240 |
area of life. Actually, a book that I'm reading again that I really, really like 00:03:24.360 |
is Dune. It's, I don't know, I'm kind of like 00:03:27.800 |
sci-fi nerding out on everybody. But basically, 00:03:30.200 |
you know, one of the things that, you know, one of the 00:03:33.480 |
things that the author was kind of Frank Herbert, and it's 00:03:36.920 |
widely regarded as one of the, you know, greatest science fiction novels ever, if 00:03:39.400 |
not the preeminent. But anyway, one of the things he said, you 00:03:48.440 |
desires, ironically. And if you search for discipline, you 00:03:52.120 |
find liberty, because you're able to make yourself do what you want in the long 00:03:56.320 |
run. Whereas if I'm like, oh, I'm gonna do whatever I want all the time and, and 00:03:59.180 |
screw you, Dad, I'm gonna do what I want, and that's kind of like a teenager-type 00:04:01.960 |
attitude, you end up getting into a bunch of nonsense. But anyone that's able, and 00:04:06.360 |
again, this doesn't matter, it doesn't mean that it's athletic, it could be in 00:04:08.880 |
any area of human endeavor, any area of life. It could be parenting, it could be 00:04:12.880 |
military, it could be athletics, it could be business, it could be school, it could be 00:04:15.680 |
anything. But as long as you're making, you know, an incredibly large commitment, 00:04:19.800 |
I have an immense amount of respect for the, for the level of dedication, that, and 00:04:23.400 |
the level of commitment, and the level of risk that it, that you're taking 00:04:27.520 |
emotionally, psychologically. Because, hey, like you said, you work 20 years, you get 00:04:31.280 |
that gold medal. But there's other people that work 20 years and got the silver. 00:04:35.080 |
Most people. Most. Yeah. Metal. Now, most people, most people that think they work 00:04:39.640 |
hard don't, I'll be frank. You know, like, seriously. I said that in class the other 00:04:42.600 |
day. Like, again, it's like, I don't want to be too negative, but most of the people 00:04:46.440 |
that, most people that think they work hard do not. How do you know that if 00:04:49.440 |
you're working hard or not? I think you know. But most people are not very honest 00:04:54.880 |
with themselves. They, most people would press a button, in my experience, you 00:04:58.680 |
know, like, would prefer to be, look like the thing, than be the thing. Right. And, 00:05:03.400 |
you know, that's, that's fine. But it really, I can't, I think Sun Tzu said it, 00:05:08.960 |
it's like, "Victory is reserved for those willing to pay its price." And there is a 00:05:12.000 |
price. And now, that doesn't guarantee that if you pay the price that you will 00:05:15.120 |
have victory. But you guarantee, but, I mean, from a physical perspective, but you 00:05:19.160 |
will have the moral victory regardless. Because you will have, you will have 00:05:21.680 |
learned discipline. You will have shown, not only to others, forget others, you do 00:05:25.080 |
it not for others, but for yourself. You, you show that you are the master of your 00:05:29.560 |
own mind, and of your own body, and of your own circumstance. And you can 00:05:32.480 |
discipline yourself, and focus, and you deny yourself certain things in the 00:05:36.760 |
pursuit of something, something that is valuable to you. And that is incredibly 00:05:41.360 |
useful in any area of life. And that's, I mean, not shocking to me why the same 00:05:45.200 |
reason that you'll see guys that were, you know, like high-level military, like 00:05:49.240 |
kind of big dogs in SF world, get hired by, let's say for instance, a Fortune 500 00:05:53.760 |
company. Because what would they know about business? Nothing. But also 00:05:57.760 |
everything. Because that level of focus and dedicate, like you don't get to that 00:06:02.520 |
level of ability in something by accident. And that's what I think, you 00:06:07.880 |
know, like again, the value of competition, and what they do, competition 00:06:10.640 |
only. It's as serious as it gets, you know. Because if you don't get the gold 00:06:13.960 |
medal, you may not, you may not walk out of it. But basically, I have an 00:06:19.080 |
immense amount of respect for anyone that is willing, and able to, over the 00:06:23.000 |
long haul, put that time in. But I have to, trying hard doesn't mean just getting 00:06:27.000 |
on an air done bike, and walking off the mat, or having to be carried off the mat. 00:06:30.880 |
It means thinking, approaching, reassessing, re-evaluating, saying how 00:06:36.080 |
could I be better? And it takes honest, honest self-analysis. And also it takes a 00:06:40.920 |
lot of times, because let's say, you know, I think I'm doing well, but I have to say, 00:06:43.440 |
"Hey Lex, you know, I mean, no matter how well I believe, I look at myself, I'm 00:06:46.940 |
still biased. I'm still looking at myself. What should I be doing better?" I'm 00:06:50.840 |
gonna find other people that I respect, and people that I think can tell me, and 00:06:53.280 |
I'm gonna ask them. And then I'm gonna have the courage to listen to them, and 00:06:56.440 |
not just dismiss what they're saying out of hand. And if you're doing those things, 00:06:59.840 |
then I believe that a lot of times you're working hard. But I know plenty 00:07:01.960 |
of people that come in, it's just like in Jiu-Jitsu. There's plenty of people who've 00:07:03.960 |
been training for 15 years that frankly suck. And there's plenty of people that 00:07:07.400 |
have been training for four that are pretty dang good, you know. And again, 00:07:11.280 |
are they the best person that's been training for four years? It's still, 00:07:14.040 |
compared to like Cobrinha, not that good. But they could be really, really, really 00:07:17.680 |
good, because they understand how to be directed, and how to focus. And I believe, 00:07:21.640 |
and this is something I've discussed, you know, before with some other, you know, 00:07:25.320 |
friends of mine, you know, that some of whom are at a very high level of MMA, 00:07:28.400 |
others that are at a high level of Jiu-Jitsu, wrestling, or whatever. Look at 00:07:32.840 |
guys like Randy Couture, guys like Rick Hahn. They're on their second career. 00:07:37.120 |
They started MMA when they were like 32, and yet they got to the top. Maybe they 00:07:42.320 |
weren't always champion, but they were freaking good. Why? Because their 26-year-old 00:07:47.280 |
self would be scary. But, you know, like, hey, they know what it is to be 00:07:52.000 |
dedicated and work hard. Because again, they're Olympians, like you said, on a 00:07:56.000 |
level that a regular person has no concept of. So I think that that is 00:08:00.560 |
ultimately the skill. It's not the, "Oh man, this person's dangerous because he's 00:08:03.880 |
got good Judo or good wrestling." No, this person is dangerous because he or she 00:08:06.840 |
knows how to work their ass off, and be focused on a level that most people 00:08:11.240 |
can't comprehend. And that's what produces success in any area of life, in 00:08:15.120 |
my opinion. Yeah, and be brutally honest with yourself at all times. And it stings 00:08:19.640 |
sometimes, you know. I think it's like the price of looking inward, 00:08:24.280 |
you know, objectively, is that you're not gonna like what you see a lot, you know. 00:08:29.000 |
And because even if you're like, "Oh man, I'm 90% the way I want to be," it's like 00:08:32.760 |
if you are going to take that next step, in my opinion, you're gonna focus on 00:08:35.880 |
the 10%, because it's like, "Oh man, we're doing a lot of things good. Yeah, who 00:08:38.720 |
gives a shit? Let's talk about what we need to improve on." You know, and that's a 00:08:42.080 |
little bit less fun, but in the long run, I think it's what's gonna 00:08:46.680 |
drive you to a higher level. But at the same time, I think it's what makes a lot 00:08:49.200 |
of people that are like that a little bit neurotic and nutty by a 00:08:52.340 |
normal standard. But again, you show me someone that's super well-adjusted, and 00:08:56.080 |
I'll show you someone that's probably not a high achiever.