Couples Goal Setting Retreat | #shorts
00:00:00.000 | My wife and I, every year on the first or maybe the second,
00:00:02.440 | whenever we get a babysitter, we will go out and spend the half
00:00:04.480 | or maybe even a full day doing our couple's goal setting retreat.
00:00:08.000 | Now, in a perfect world, I'd go for two or three days.
00:00:10.520 | We go to the mountains or whatever.
00:00:11.800 | And I got little kids at home.
00:00:13.320 | I got a two year old and six year old.
00:00:14.400 | So right now that's not happening, but we'll get out for a day
00:00:16.480 | and we will work together on where we want to be as a couple.
00:00:21.920 | And that starts with a reflection on your past.
00:00:24.200 | Like, where were we last year?
00:00:25.440 | Where do we struggle?
00:00:26.200 | What are we doing right?
00:00:27.160 | What are we doing wrong?
00:00:28.640 | And then where do we want to be?
00:00:30.160 | So we do that in our marriage.
00:00:31.440 | We set goals together every year.
00:00:33.120 | We visit them every quarter.
00:00:35.160 | I have a sheet hung up on my bathroom mirror
00:00:37.600 | that has our goals for the year, as well as spots for checking off.
00:00:41.640 | And I'm not very good at checking, honestly, with this.
00:00:43.360 | I wish I checked it every single day.
00:00:44.680 | All the habits that are going to give us a better marriage.
00:00:47.040 | But we at least have it in the mirror every single day
00:00:50.000 | when I open up my toothbrush.
00:00:51.800 | Just being intentional, doing the things that we do in business
00:00:55.200 | and applying them to our personal life, that has made such a difference on the relationship side.