back to indexEp. 228: A World Without Busyness
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0:0 Cal's intro
4:49 Deep Dive - A World Without Busyness?
16:35 Cal talks about Wren and Zocdoc
22:17 In an era of Quiet Quitting is it easier to become a star?
29:59 How do I resist my job’s demand for out-of-hours work?
35:45 Should new writers use social media to get feedback?
46:25 Should I use social media to promote my filmmaking website?
58:24 Cal talks about Eight Sleep and Ladder
62:59 On Teenage Luddites
67:39 Deep Work in Stocism
69:40 Finding the Deep Life in the Mountains
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A lot less deep work, a lot longer working hours, 00:00:05.380 |
and just a lot more grinding organizational skill required 00:00:08.960 |
even to just sort of get through the day, which is draining. 00:00:16.440 |
in the sense of producing things that the world notices 00:00:28.400 |
I'm Kyle Newport, and this is Deep Questions, episode 228. 00:00:33.400 |
This is the show where I answer questions from my audience 00:00:44.080 |
and give advice about the challenge of cultivating 00:00:48.240 |
a deep life in a world increasingly beset by distractions. 00:01:02.640 |
This episode's coming out, what, the day after Christmas? 00:01:08.860 |
- We should have brought in Christmas lights. 00:01:12.480 |
I was gonna decorate the HQ, and then I didn't. 00:01:17.060 |
I was gonna bring in some lights and do whatever, 00:01:21.820 |
- The last time we had props, we brought the skeleton. 00:01:30.960 |
I honestly didn't really, I've lost track of time. 00:01:33.600 |
We're sort of just barreling through December. 00:01:40.400 |
we're recording this a week in advance more or less, 00:01:42.520 |
that like, oh, this is actually the holiday episode. 00:01:48.120 |
I surveyed our listeners to find out what holidays 00:02:01.420 |
I just wanted to air grievances later in the episode. 00:02:07.120 |
I did not, I did not, I did not interview them on that. 00:02:09.680 |
All right, we've got a good, simple show today 00:02:14.200 |
One deep dive, which you will see is tangentially 00:02:30.560 |
We got a good mix, followed by our favorite final segment, 00:02:46.720 |
I want to mention a brief experiment going on 00:02:59.320 |
I launched an experimental video with friend of the show, 00:03:03.480 |
an old friend of mine, comedian, Jamie Kilstein. 00:03:06.520 |
We did a pilot episode of a show we're calling 00:03:12.380 |
The short premise is, I don't use social media, 00:03:15.180 |
so I know very little about what's happening on the internet. 00:03:17.800 |
Jamie is, as you've heard from his interviews on this show, 00:03:21.640 |
is working really hard to be disconnected from social media, 00:03:24.240 |
so he also doesn't really know what's going on right now 00:03:29.800 |
to ask to explain contemporary internet trends, 00:03:35.420 |
So we take five trending ideas, memes, tweets, 00:03:40.000 |
TikToks, et cetera, from the week in the internet, 00:03:49.600 |
but there's an underlying actual motivation here, 00:03:52.560 |
which is when you are immersed in internet culture, 00:04:10.040 |
because often what's happening in internet culture 00:04:15.160 |
it can be nerve-wracking or anxiety-producing. 00:04:17.500 |
And so I think there's some benefit, perhaps, 00:04:25.760 |
struggling to understand it, and yeah, it's funny, 00:04:27.720 |
but it also, I hope, also sends the message of, 00:04:30.960 |
look, a lot of this stuff is kinda arbitrary. 00:04:34.520 |
this is not everything that's happening in the world. 00:04:42.480 |
that's what this looks like to most of the world. 00:04:43.880 |
So hopefully there'll be some relief to be gained 00:04:47.120 |
from those who feel too engaged in internet culture. 00:04:49.300 |
So that's a Jamie, or Cal and Jamie explain the internet. 00:04:58.840 |
All right, and with that, I think we're ready to jump in. 00:05:07.120 |
I'm gonna call this a world without busyness. 00:05:19.160 |
most workers get the week between Christmas and New Year's. 00:05:30.560 |
That is the week that I'm in right now as I record this. 00:05:38.040 |
the week before this break is a really nice week of work. 00:05:43.800 |
And the reason is is because it's 40% less busy 00:05:51.040 |
as people are getting ready for the holidays, 00:05:58.760 |
This is particularly true in the academic context 00:06:12.460 |
So what I have here, I'm gonna switch to the tablet. 00:06:14.900 |
So for those who are watching this on YouTube, 00:06:17.200 |
you're gonna see me drawing on the screen here. 00:06:27.000 |
with beautiful penmanship and straight lines. 00:06:29.200 |
Those who are watching online know that's not the case. 00:06:31.140 |
I have Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, 00:06:33.080 |
just sort of blocked out here on this calendar. 00:06:45.120 |
So things that are sort of scheduled on the calendar 00:06:49.660 |
So this week, and I looked at my calendar this morning, 00:06:58.220 |
actually every morning this week, not most, every morning, 00:07:12.620 |
Friday, we're leaving to go visit my parents. 00:07:18.060 |
So we're gonna cross that off, no work on Friday. 00:07:21.900 |
Can do deep work every morning, working on, I'm writing. 00:07:31.300 |
plenty of time to do another deep work session. 00:07:38.300 |
And for me this week, that's gonna be largely, 00:07:45.140 |
something I'm working on with some collaborators. 00:07:50.260 |
Well, because it's a week before a break, it's pretty light. 00:08:04.660 |
I'm podcasting some other things I wanna get done. 00:08:07.500 |
And I'm gonna put a little sliver of deep work 00:08:11.060 |
until Jesse has a little more writing I wanna do 00:08:22.060 |
most of these on Tuesday, on Wednesday and Thursday, 00:08:29.260 |
that are coming via email, things on my calendar, 00:08:31.840 |
There's still a little detail that I have to get done. 00:08:34.000 |
I have a doctoral student who's defending a dissertation 00:08:40.560 |
There's a web designer working on an update to our website. 00:08:45.460 |
So about 30 to 60 minutes on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday 00:08:49.460 |
will keep me very much on top of administrative work, 00:08:54.020 |
So here we have a calendar that if you're looking online, 00:09:03.220 |
And then another deep work session in the afternoon, 00:09:08.380 |
These days can all end at three or four o'clock. 00:09:11.900 |
Monday is the one day where I have sort of appointments 00:09:14.260 |
during the day after a morning deep work session, 00:09:19.540 |
Now here's the thought experiment I want you to follow. 00:09:29.180 |
What would happen to my observable productivity 00:09:33.500 |
if I had more or less a schedule like this every week? 00:09:37.660 |
30 to 60 minutes admin, one day with appointments, 00:09:41.040 |
maybe an entire day just taken off to do other things. 00:09:45.660 |
and the things that people at the scale of years 00:09:48.080 |
would notice about me, which is books, academic articles, 00:09:55.700 |
The big visible things that define my impact. 00:09:59.520 |
That productivity would not only be preserved 00:10:02.940 |
with this schedule, it would almost certainly be increased. 00:10:15.180 |
and more than enough time for the mind to refract 00:10:21.760 |
I think a lot of people would have a similar conclusion 00:10:25.780 |
that if they could take the pre-holiday week schedule 00:10:48.520 |
One, the number of appointments would rapidly increase. 00:10:54.700 |
for the half a day on one day would be unrealistic 00:11:07.860 |
would have to double or sometimes triple in length. 00:11:10.260 |
There's just way more things pulling at my attention 00:11:15.260 |
So now maybe I need on average two hours a day of admin. 00:11:20.540 |
you throw in a lot more of these appointments, 00:11:29.340 |
A, a lot of those afternoon deep work sessions go away, 00:11:37.900 |
is I have to also aggressively time block plan 00:11:44.580 |
and a strategic plan to try to make everything fit. 00:11:47.660 |
In this holiday schedule that's on, that I drew on the screen, 00:12:02.980 |
A lot less deep work, a lot longer working hours, 00:12:05.900 |
and just a lot more grinding organizational skill required 00:12:09.460 |
even to just sort of get through the day, which is draining. 00:12:16.920 |
in the sense of producing things that the world notices 00:12:30.000 |
And this is, I would say, probably the question 00:12:36.000 |
the one that we're ignoring to instead focus on the minutiae. 00:12:45.960 |
Are you a bullet journal person or a time block planner? 00:12:48.520 |
As we look at the particular leaves on the trees, 00:12:53.280 |
we're missing the outline of the whole forest. 00:12:55.480 |
And this is the question that we're not asking, 00:13:06.560 |
What would we have to change to make that the standard? 00:13:09.580 |
And if we did, would our organizations, our universities, 00:13:13.320 |
our companies, our small entrepreneurial endeavors, 00:13:17.500 |
Or would they actually become better at what they do? 00:13:21.360 |
So I thought I would pose it to you, my audience, 00:13:23.720 |
because you have a week to actually think about it. 00:13:36.580 |
That matches, I have kind of reversed it, haven't I? 00:13:44.200 |
- Yeah, 'cause in my time block planner, I go down. 00:13:50.960 |
And yet in my mind, I think this is interesting. 00:14:00.040 |
Yeah, so this is, if you're watching this on the YouTube, 00:14:02.120 |
you'll see an interesting artifact of the way my mind works. 00:14:06.160 |
My mind visualizes schedules as time moving up. 00:14:20.940 |
Let's do, I'll put like 9 a.m. at the bottom. 00:14:26.840 |
And then I'll make the very top here like 4 p.m. 00:14:34.560 |
Now I can't complain because I actually get to do this 00:14:43.240 |
For most people, it's like just one or two weeks 00:14:51.600 |
or before nine o'clock, you'll read a little bit? 00:14:55.120 |
Well, it's exercise, kids, other stuff, kids. 00:15:03.920 |
when you read your five books on that schedule. 00:15:07.600 |
- So typically, if I'm up, I'm reading in the morning. 00:15:21.240 |
So now if I, usually at least one of my books 00:15:28.840 |
And because that's work, for those, I'll put aside time. 00:15:31.960 |
You know, hey, this is what I'm gonna do in the afternoon. 00:15:39.320 |
Did we talk about Thriller December last week? 00:15:42.760 |
Okay, so hopefully people, this is your week. 00:15:46.240 |
to really make progress on Thriller December. 00:15:57.280 |
I'll talk about that when we do our reading roundup 00:16:00.280 |
I was like, okay, I gotta get the bad taste out of my mouth. 00:16:11.120 |
He says it invented the medical thriller genre. 00:16:13.600 |
Like him and Crichton might argue about that, 00:16:18.160 |
They haven't even got to the thrillery parts yet. 00:16:27.800 |
of young, healthy patients going in for surgery 00:16:36.600 |
I think it, but so Cook gets into the details 00:16:38.280 |
of all the, the science of, of how anesthesia works. 00:16:41.520 |
And so it's like brings you into the hospital world. 00:16:45.080 |
You're starting to realize like there's something 00:16:57.080 |
We got a good collection of questions to dive into. 00:17:09.600 |
W R E N, which is a startup that's making it easy 00:17:25.200 |
then offset it by supporting awesome climate projects 00:17:32.400 |
So you can actually offset the carbon footprint 00:17:34.400 |
that you are generating elsewhere in your life. 00:17:41.840 |
is that it lowers the barrier of entry to do something. 00:18:04.200 |
It's the gateway drug into more effective action. 00:18:09.200 |
Now, I think that's important, especially right now. 00:18:12.040 |
if you'll excuse a little cultural commentary, 00:18:14.920 |
especially in sort of a place like suburban DC, 00:18:19.720 |
there's this list of sort of approved things you can do 00:18:30.880 |
And I'm talking about like solar installations 00:18:38.160 |
where they feel like, well, then I can't do anything. 00:18:45.320 |
It's an entry point where you don't have to buy a Tesla 00:18:54.520 |
So I'm glad, I think it's from a social psych perspective, 00:18:59.800 |
to do something meaningful about the climate crisis. 00:19:03.400 |
So it's gonna take all of us to end the climate crisis. 00:19:10.320 |
and they will plant 10 extra trees in your name. 00:19:40.880 |
But my neighbor has like a, from a big flat South facing, 00:19:52.560 |
I also wanna talk about my friends at ZocDoc. 00:19:56.640 |
ZocDoc is the only free app that lets you find 00:20:03.360 |
take your insurance and are available when you need them 00:20:06.400 |
to treat almost every condition under the sun. 00:20:10.280 |
but people have been getting sick in recent years. 00:20:18.040 |
So people, especially younger people are saying, 00:20:35.200 |
Your area, this specialty, take this insurance, 00:20:42.160 |
of each of these doctors to see what's going on. 00:20:55.240 |
I have now two different healthcare providers 00:21:01.720 |
So in addition to helping me identify these providers, 00:21:41.560 |
Now, interestingly, I don't know if you know this, 00:21:44.900 |
but the actor The Rock also sponsors ZocDoc on his podcast, 00:22:09.040 |
and it's about living by the water in Rockport, 00:22:24.080 |
All right, Jesse, what's our first question here? 00:22:31.800 |
the new normal is to just do the bare minimum. 00:22:34.440 |
Does this mean that showing even a little bit of initiative 00:22:52.580 |
that it's just assumed that most people around you 00:23:02.200 |
the amplification effects of internet distributed 00:23:07.640 |
they have a way for those who are plugged into it, 00:23:28.760 |
like all of these particular possible terrible things 00:23:38.260 |
because the internet makes these things seem totalizing. 00:23:44.340 |
you're really plugged in the conservative Twitter 00:23:52.520 |
it makes it feel like essentially 80% of the populace 00:24:03.820 |
it makes it seem like this is happening everywhere. 00:24:05.680 |
Well, same thing for a trend like quiet quitting. 00:24:17.960 |
let's say the dynamics of your particular workplace. 00:24:23.880 |
let's say TikTok makes it seem like everyone is doing this. 00:24:25.920 |
So that's just a side commentary on internet movements. 00:24:29.440 |
That's not to say by the way, that it's not important. 00:24:31.400 |
I think internet movements play a good signaling purpose. 00:24:33.880 |
Like quiet quitting's importance is not that, 00:24:38.880 |
Because of course that's not what's happening. 00:24:46.760 |
that this particular generation is having with work 00:24:54.580 |
So that's where internet movements are important 00:24:58.000 |
that might be meaningful to shifts happening in the culture, 00:25:04.560 |
is to receive it as if this thing is happening universally. 00:25:14.640 |
You can be worried about things like cancellation 00:25:23.200 |
So this is the tension of internet movements. 00:25:32.200 |
can deceive us in the feeling like these trends 00:25:37.940 |
but just a little bit of internet culture chat. 00:25:39.520 |
So what about this particular question though? 00:25:45.700 |
do I have to do just a little bit more to stand out? 00:25:51.140 |
This is something I've talked about for years, 00:26:07.300 |
than the other young employees at your same employer. 00:26:13.020 |
And in particular, there's two things you can do 00:26:25.760 |
And they don't have to worry about bothering you 00:26:27.360 |
and sending you follow up messages and saying, 00:26:29.640 |
sometimes Cal does this, sometimes Cal doesn't. 00:26:34.000 |
It's not that hard to do, but it's pretty rare. 00:26:39.360 |
A quick test about whether or not you're succeeding 00:26:44.200 |
Do the people you work for send lots of follow up emails 00:26:48.140 |
or chats after they ask you to do something like, 00:26:51.920 |
If so, that means they don't really trust you. 00:26:54.180 |
If they don't, then you're probably doing this right. 00:27:08.380 |
Let me make sure I get them what's really gonna help them. 00:27:14.600 |
Oh, they're trying to put together this marketing message. 00:27:20.800 |
Well, let me pull out some better, let me call up a client. 00:27:31.320 |
It's just that we know when Cal turns something in, 00:27:41.000 |
You know, like this guy did, this client did ask me 00:27:51.860 |
Just meet the expectations you're looking for. 00:27:57.900 |
you're gonna, your path is going to angle upwards 00:28:08.100 |
Like why bother advancing quickly when you're new to a job? 00:28:11.360 |
I mean, isn't that just playing into, you know, 00:28:13.760 |
the sort of exploitative dynamic of capitalism 00:28:17.920 |
The reason is, is because when you advance quickly, 00:28:21.080 |
Career capital is what gives you control over your career. 00:28:27.600 |
to decide what you want your working life to be like, 00:28:30.440 |
mold it towards what resonates and away from what doesn't. 00:28:33.000 |
It is the only way to make your job work for you 00:28:39.540 |
The things that make great work great is appealing. 00:28:44.700 |
You have to have something to offer in return. 00:28:51.700 |
you don't like this thing or this boss or these hours, 00:28:59.660 |
but you can career capital your way out of it. 00:29:03.260 |
And then you use those skills as leverage and say, 00:29:11.020 |
I'm going to this company that just specialize on this, 00:29:13.180 |
fully remote, and I only check in once a week. 00:29:15.560 |
All of those types of things that you could use 00:29:22.140 |
gathered by you being good and advancing quickly. 00:29:24.380 |
This is the quickest way to get to career capital 00:29:43.940 |
I have a quiet quitting article I wrote for The New Yorker 00:29:55.340 |
but probably by the time you hear this podcast, 00:30:03.140 |
But I've been thinking a lot about quiet quitting recently. 00:30:13.300 |
on billable client projects from nine to five. 00:30:20.680 |
I've been trying to minimize these out of our obligations, 00:30:37.340 |
and the reality of a lot of these billable hour jobs. 00:30:39.740 |
So this is true of a lot of lawyer positions, 00:30:56.300 |
And then everything else has to happen outside of that. 00:30:59.560 |
And the employer doesn't really care where you do it. 00:31:02.260 |
but like you need to, we're gonna track your billables. 00:31:11.340 |
I mean, a lot of the stuff is internal focused. 00:31:14.260 |
So he mentioned like doing an internal training 00:31:21.300 |
And all that's just like, hey, you get that done, 00:31:30.060 |
almost certainly not going to be able to just 00:31:39.180 |
So I have time to do this other type of work, 00:31:45.140 |
You have three options if you want to improve things. 00:31:53.540 |
So number one is you can build an internal practice. 00:32:04.420 |
And you essentially build a independent practice 00:32:12.100 |
Usually it's you're gathering your own clients, 00:32:16.580 |
you're billing at a higher rate than other people 00:32:32.620 |
You only see that you're only in the office once a week. 00:32:37.860 |
And you're more of like an independent contractor, 00:32:39.900 |
even though you are a paid employee of that firm. 00:32:46.500 |
I'm our whatever retirement law specialist at the law firm. 00:33:06.140 |
You can control that and make up time if you need to. 00:33:11.180 |
quit your job and do the same work as a freelancer. 00:33:17.500 |
Jesse, you probably know people who have done this. 00:33:29.100 |
And it's like a very specific expertise or whatever. 00:33:34.740 |
I could just contract with some clients directly 00:33:48.480 |
They can say, I don't, I work this much or that much. 00:33:59.980 |
but if you have a very specialized expertise, 00:34:08.780 |
in exchange for a little bit more economic risk. 00:34:22.640 |
this time be more careful about how you evaluate them. 00:34:28.380 |
they end up there because of money or prestige. 00:34:32.380 |
This consultancy is offering this much money. 00:34:53.500 |
If you go back to find a different job, York, 00:34:59.720 |
What you want your life to be like in five years from now, 00:35:05.780 |
not just the general aspects of the professional. 00:35:08.100 |
And then you're working backwards to find careers 00:35:10.420 |
and other decisions that can move you towards there. 00:35:13.360 |
So if this vision of your life doesn't have you 00:35:26.380 |
But this job is in, you know, Boise instead of suburban DC. 00:35:36.260 |
this time be more careful about how you're selecting 00:35:45.600 |
Our next, what do we got here is our next question. 00:35:50.460 |
I recently participated in an online writing course 00:35:59.400 |
This course's premise is that using social media 00:36:04.620 |
What do you suggest to a writer just starting out 00:36:12.100 |
So first of all, I looked up this course's website. 00:36:16.460 |
So I don't actually wanna use the name of this course. 00:36:18.340 |
So Jesse, don't put the website up on the screen, 00:36:24.540 |
I'm trying to figure out what he's talking about. 00:36:41.420 |
that focuses on the fundamentals of writing on the internet. 00:36:52.780 |
So you pass your writing around to other people. 00:36:59.980 |
Have you ever wanted to start writing online, 00:37:03.460 |
Have you started writing online, but now feel stuck? 00:37:07.980 |
If any of these sound familiar, this course is for you. 00:37:15.980 |
"I'm left more energized now than ever before, 00:37:47.340 |
This will help you get motivated to write online. 00:37:49.900 |
"I've never been more energized to write online." 00:38:00.220 |
- But, all right, okay. - It's like a typical 00:38:10.860 |
and you think you know what people want to read, 00:38:16.420 |
what's the problem this is solving for people? 00:38:22.260 |
Like, "I want to write online and make money off of it." 00:38:26.460 |
Like, "I just want to write online and share my thoughts, 00:38:39.020 |
but you think this is like content marketing. 00:38:43.100 |
if it was the first topic that you talked about. 00:38:45.860 |
- So I have, so, okay, that's the first problem, CK. 00:38:48.940 |
I mean, I'm not plugged into internet culture, 00:38:53.740 |
"I'm not quite sure what it is you're trying to go for 00:39:10.460 |
but they want to do it as a profession, get paid. 00:39:19.180 |
three possible interpretations of, including this one. 00:39:23.380 |
But let me give two other interpretations first, 00:39:25.020 |
and then we'll go to the third interpretation. 00:39:41.220 |
on the same topic, you're doing fantasy novels, 00:39:46.500 |
and you like those people and you like writing, 00:39:52.100 |
I would recommend an in-person writing group, 00:39:54.820 |
of which many exist, or an online writing group, 00:39:57.900 |
where it's just, here's 15 people working on this 00:40:01.220 |
But it should be a group of people that you know, 00:40:06.140 |
That is a well-established path in the world of writing. 00:40:11.020 |
And a lot of people who write for fun do this. 00:40:22.620 |
I don't think social media has any role in that. 00:40:27.340 |
You're not trying to become Brandon Sanderson. 00:40:43.940 |
I mean, you can't make up your own path there. 00:40:48.220 |
you need to study how professional writers get there, 00:41:04.860 |
I've talked about that, I've written about that. 00:41:07.940 |
You know, face the reality of how those worlds actually work 00:41:11.460 |
and then figure out if there's a reasonable entrance 00:41:15.220 |
There's a lot of different answers to that question. 00:41:20.500 |
you know, start a blog and promote it with Twitter. 00:41:23.580 |
All right, the third thing, this is Jesse's interpretation, 00:41:28.100 |
as a content marketer or producer of content online. 00:41:37.660 |
You know, typically, I don't know that world well, 00:41:49.340 |
that you're offering that's interesting to people 00:41:53.020 |
that you are the right person to be writing about it. 00:41:59.420 |
of this makes me the right person to write about it. 00:42:05.300 |
in a very sort of compelling, easily graspable way. 00:42:08.860 |
I would say, and you can correct me if I'm wrong here, Jesse, 00:42:10.500 |
that tends to be now more days, much more visual. 00:42:27.700 |
- Yeah, anyway, he's like a fitness influencer 00:42:30.620 |
It's bodybuilding or weightlifting or whatever, yeah. 00:42:42.980 |
like why I'm the right person to talk about this. 00:42:49.020 |
I mean, I see that out there, people just trying to, 00:42:52.020 |
you can tell they took some sort of content marketing course 00:42:58.940 |
It's just like, I gotta write my Thursday post 00:43:07.700 |
or influencer type side hustles tends to be more visual. 00:43:12.020 |
It's gonna be more Instagram image type based. 00:43:19.540 |
Well, what you need there is a particular hook. 00:43:33.140 |
is to make money online by the production of content, 00:43:48.020 |
of writing across the country while doing whatever. 00:43:53.860 |
or learning the three languages in three months 00:44:00.060 |
as an exemplar of some sort of really interesting thing. 00:44:02.620 |
That's probably where you should put your energy. 00:44:04.740 |
And then you can figure out how do I deliver this 00:44:11.040 |
we're talking about really say what you need to be doing 00:44:15.260 |
is like sharing your writing on social media, 00:44:20.300 |
People sometimes say I'm snobbish about this, Jesse, 00:44:22.060 |
just because like I've been writing for a long time 00:44:27.780 |
I write books for the biggest publisher in the world. 00:44:32.020 |
that I'm out of touch with what it's like to be coming up. 00:44:36.300 |
So it's possible I'm being a little bit snobbish about it, 00:44:38.300 |
but like I'm not turning my nose at like influence 00:44:42.620 |
I think that could be a powerful side hustle. 00:45:00.820 |
And doing these like incredible feats of endurance 00:45:05.880 |
And you can show him hitting a target from far away, 00:45:12.260 |
saw him do that and was like, you have to come on my show. 00:45:15.320 |
that's my understanding of influence or culture. 00:45:17.060 |
Now, I mean, I don't understand that there's the whole, 00:45:18.780 |
obviously like TikTok influence, which I don't understand. 00:45:22.300 |
That's more about like how you literally look 00:45:24.980 |
But they're like YouTube, you know, Twitter based. 00:45:28.020 |
And now I can sell a lot of books or courses. 00:45:33.100 |
- So it's like, focus on doing something cool. 00:45:34.340 |
Hey, the side effect is you'll still have ended up 00:45:37.500 |
doing something cool regardless of what happens with. 00:45:41.580 |
- That's almost like writing is not that important 00:45:47.380 |
Writing is not as important as it maybe once was. 00:45:50.980 |
- No matter what, I mean, those great videos and stuff, 00:46:03.020 |
- Like the YouTube idiom, like it's different 00:46:09.500 |
If they write the scripts, when they edit, edit, edit, 00:46:11.220 |
edit until it's like, so you don't, for example, 00:46:21.060 |
but I think that's an art in just you do it, you practice. 00:46:31.420 |
I organize filmmaking workshops and produce my own films. 00:46:36.060 |
I am developing a new website to sell my own content 00:46:40.260 |
It will include a blog, newsletter, and podcast. 00:46:43.780 |
Should I use social media to help build an audience 00:46:53.740 |
So we're pairing two questions that are somewhat related. 00:46:56.380 |
All right, so let's, in Flavio or Flavio's case, 00:47:10.860 |
to promote a relevant project without massive net harms. 00:47:17.900 |
So I have some advice about if you wanna try to do that, 00:47:22.620 |
First, I'm gonna say treat your social media channels 00:47:49.100 |
does filmmaking courses, produces his own film. 00:47:51.300 |
So maybe like when he's thinking about Instagram, 00:47:54.300 |
it is these like beautifully shot short videos 00:48:00.260 |
You can imagine it's like all on cinematography 00:48:14.740 |
And it's like you're programming a television channel. 00:48:29.020 |
It's like the executive at the Discovery Channel 00:48:36.980 |
I think that's the only sustainable way to do it. 00:48:39.780 |
So you have this clarity of here's what we're doing 00:48:41.980 |
and why and what it looks like and it's regular. 00:48:49.100 |
There is whole different levels of difficulty 00:48:58.340 |
like Ryan Holiday, where it's a quote once a day. 00:49:02.700 |
Stoic quote once a day, he has a big list of them. 00:49:12.260 |
you could have something like Adam Savage's Tested.com 00:49:17.220 |
where they do treat it like a television channel, 00:49:31.460 |
And they're sort of released on a semi-regular schedule 00:49:36.260 |
of difficulty here, but the key is you're seeing it 00:49:42.820 |
much in the same way that Discovery Channel might say, 00:49:47.020 |
What you want to avoid if you're gonna try this strategy 00:49:51.420 |
is the Faustian bargain of I can build an audience. 00:50:08.340 |
That I am going to just react to things that are going on, 00:50:16.260 |
make takes, see what gets picked up by other people 00:50:19.780 |
That's the fastest way to grow a say a Twitter following 00:50:24.540 |
or Instagram following, but it is a Faustian bargain 00:50:30.940 |
but what that requires is 10 to 30 typically posts a day. 00:50:38.180 |
And your entire world becomes this online world 00:50:40.500 |
and it's anxiety producing and it's stressful 00:50:46.020 |
and it reduces your ability to do almost anything else. 00:50:50.940 |
don't translate into sales of the other things you're doing 00:51:01.580 |
every two weeks and it's beautifully done and informative, 00:51:04.420 |
that is an audience that's gonna convert at a high rate 00:51:06.580 |
when you sell an online course about filmmaking. 00:51:10.540 |
that's three times as big, but it's been built up 00:51:21.820 |
So yeah, maybe you have a hundred thousand followers 00:51:23.700 |
instead of 30,000, but you get less conversion 00:51:28.740 |
where you have this program channel mentality. 00:51:32.940 |
If you were going to do a social media promotion strategy, 00:51:52.100 |
That is a bet that I don't think is worth taking. 00:52:05.500 |
which won, just 2015, won the Oscar for best cinematography. 00:52:17.980 |
That is a movie, there is an Anthony Hopkins movie 00:52:27.740 |
But when he's essentially like completely immobilized 00:52:32.180 |
from his injuries, he sees Tom Hardy kill his son. 00:52:40.100 |
and the whole thing is him tracking him down. 00:52:52.040 |
and broom sequences with wide angle primate lenses. 00:53:01.060 |
the only establishing shots are of nature for the most part. 00:53:03.900 |
And there's like some, I think they did the initial attack 00:53:07.740 |
at the riverboat in deep focus, so that's different. 00:53:10.740 |
But once they're out there, it's a prime wide angle lens, 00:53:14.320 |
usually below eye level and is just in there, 00:53:17.960 |
just like up to the person's face and turn to camera 00:53:21.300 |
And so you're just like in this, you're in the world. 00:53:26.460 |
because you're on the wide angle lens, right? 00:53:29.340 |
they're using a good digital Aeroflex camera. 00:53:32.340 |
And you're seeing, so it's like you're there. 00:53:35.340 |
like right among the people, right among the crowd. 00:53:41.740 |
- That one best, and then the director won best director. 00:53:50.380 |
Birdman, Revenant, you know, you flex, you drop the mic 00:54:07.900 |
from the holidays, but let's do one more question here. 00:54:10.700 |
CT, how do I address my growing desire to make new friends 00:54:15.820 |
and build a network outside my hometown connections 00:54:22.500 |
- Well, okay, first of all, I'm not impressed. 00:54:26.220 |
I mean, I'm impressed that you're writing a novel. 00:54:27.740 |
I'm not impressed by the idea that this somehow 00:54:32.940 |
Lots of people have lots of things going on outside of work 00:54:34.940 |
and still have friends, but it is hard to make new friends. 00:54:42.260 |
You make friends with people just walking down the street. 00:55:01.860 |
you can meet a lot of community people at gyms 00:55:11.060 |
and you meet a lot of regular people that do the same thing 00:55:15.780 |
- So like when you started, how long ago did you start 00:55:43.860 |
You worked me through the numbers at some point. 00:55:52.420 |
there's different sports going on and tournaments 00:56:03.940 |
it's like that's actually like a really good investment. 00:56:12.980 |
These are all sports you end up playing with. 00:56:34.420 |
a huge return on that investment in terms of socialization, 00:56:44.660 |
and even classes, like say you took Spanish classes 00:56:47.620 |
like the local community college or something like that. 00:57:01.620 |
Or was that the, maybe some of this was at like 00:57:10.180 |
to a photo exhibit together or something like that. 00:57:17.140 |
go downtown, go to museums, go to like tours, 00:57:44.700 |
You have to sign up for things and go places. 00:57:46.260 |
And then once you meet people, ask them to do things. 00:57:50.700 |
Because not only is it important to make new friends, 00:57:52.220 |
but actually I think the whole process of trying to do this 00:58:02.340 |
and I had coffee with two or three different people. 00:58:18.740 |
it's interesting even before you actually like sift through 00:58:28.900 |
I used to hike more and it was closer to our old house. 00:58:31.140 |
And there was a group that maintained the trail. 00:58:35.060 |
- Like you would really get to know that trail well 00:58:37.020 |
and like trail maintenance and get to spend time outside. 00:58:44.140 |
Sign up for lots of things, do lots of things. 00:58:48.580 |
All right, well, the final segment I wanna get to 00:58:50.860 |
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to my interesting@calnewport.com email address 01:03:04.780 |
from the world of the news and internet and media 01:03:07.820 |
that are relevant to our goal of living a deep life. 01:03:17.620 |
If you're just listening, I'll narrate what's going on here. 01:03:21.060 |
But in the three interesting things segment, I have visuals. 01:03:24.080 |
All right, the first interesting thing to talk about 01:03:27.040 |
is an article by an up and coming brilliant young writer. 01:03:39.920 |
So this article, I just wanted to briefly mention it 01:03:44.020 |
'cause it's reacting to a New York Times piece 01:03:56.240 |
So the exact title of this New York Times piece was 01:04:25.240 |
So the article, this New York Times article opens 01:04:30.240 |
It's being held on a dirt mound in Prospect Park. 01:04:33.460 |
Some of the members are drawing in sketch pads 01:04:44.400 |
Someone else, and this is true, was whittling a stick. 01:04:49.920 |
they're like, "We don't wanna be on our phones all day." 01:04:52.480 |
The article goes on to talk to the founder of the group, 01:05:02.500 |
They've heard of at least three different chapters 01:05:04.160 |
that might be forming at other New York area high schools. 01:05:12.640 |
And essentially I was saying, "I told you so." 01:05:16.160 |
In particular, I cited in my article how back in 2019, 01:05:23.900 |
I started to come across parents who were telling me stories 01:05:30.640 |
and in some cases, handing in their smartphones 01:05:33.160 |
for dumber phones, as an act of authentic self-liberation. 01:05:38.160 |
That it was a counter-cultural move to not use those tools. 01:05:44.600 |
and hoping they didn't lose all their friends. 01:05:46.040 |
These were tales of teenagers who were trying 01:06:05.280 |
Because of those stories I heard from parents 01:06:07.720 |
back when I was promoting Digital Minimalism, 01:06:12.840 |
Leaving social media, leaving the attention economy 01:06:19.080 |
Something that is cool or authentic among teenagers. 01:06:26.740 |
So I think teenagers were going to liberate themselves 01:06:37.420 |
"just how uncool these online media conglomerates 01:06:39.620 |
"with their creepy geek overlords really are." 01:06:45.080 |
has been the dethroning of the CEOs of these tech companies 01:06:52.360 |
at least in the perspective of a lot of mainstream media, 01:06:57.620 |
So what could be less cool if you're a 17-year-old 01:07:01.080 |
in Brooklyn than trying to support Mark Zuckerberg 01:07:06.760 |
So I think this de-romanticization is already happening. 01:07:12.480 |
I found and presented as a signal that my prediction 01:07:21.760 |
That we're going to see more and more of this going forward. 01:07:24.440 |
And the reason why I'm more confident about this 01:07:31.360 |
the founder of the Brooklyn-based Luddite Club. 01:07:37.520 |
"My mom got on Twitter and I've seen it tear her apart. 01:07:42.020 |
"because I get to feel a little superior to them." 01:07:51.380 |
If kids start seeing, hey, this is something my parents do 01:07:55.040 |
and I get to feel superior to them by not being on my phone, 01:08:12.160 |
This was from Carl, I blacked out his actual email address, 01:08:25.340 |
"It made," and I'm jumping over some things here. 01:08:34.140 |
This is from book two of The Meditations, section five. 01:08:39.880 |
"think at all times how you can perform the task at hand 01:08:46.880 |
"making yourself free from all other preoccupations." 01:08:54.960 |
One might assume he would not be a big fan of TikTok. 01:08:59.260 |
So I like that, "Make yourself free of all preoccupations 01:09:22.680 |
Let's get our daydreaming muscles fired up here. 01:09:30.280 |
All right, so for those who are listening, not watching, 01:09:48.540 |
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