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So, this Christmas was just past, really for the first time, I found myself watching multiple 00:00:12.760 |
This all transpired because I came across an interesting article written by the New 00:00:18.680 |
The article was titled, "How I Aged Into the Bad Christmas Movie." 00:00:22.620 |
It was an interesting discussion which piqued my interest, so I decided to go watch some 00:00:28.320 |
And what I want to argue today is that in watching these movies, I identified an unexpected 00:00:33.460 |
but interesting connection to one of the major ideas we talked about on the show, an idea 00:00:38.280 |
that is very relevant to the New Year season where we are right now. 00:00:43.220 |
I'll pull it up on the screen here for those who are watching instead of just listening. 00:00:47.900 |
Here is the article from the New York Times, "How I Aged Into the Bad Christmas Movie," 00:00:55.100 |
So I want to start for those who are, like I was until recently, uninitiated with these 00:01:02.320 |
So I'm going to read from this article up here on the screen. 00:01:04.960 |
This is Amanda Hess's summary of the typical Hallmark Christmas movie. 00:01:12.500 |
So quote, "The protagonist will be a pastry chef or a gift wrap shop owner or a candy 00:01:18.620 |
She will acquire an Alaskan inn or she will inherit a Scottish castle or her flight will 00:01:25.180 |
By the way, Jesse, I watched both the Scottish castle movie and the flight being diverted 00:01:37.260 |
I feel a lot more dark if early in the movie she becomes a widower. 00:01:41.660 |
"She will meet a recent widower or a handsome woodworker or a charming earl. 00:01:46.340 |
His home will be aggressively bedecked with Christmas lights and decorative bowls of frosted 00:01:52.740 |
At some point he will gift the protagonist a seasonally appropriate necklace. 00:01:57.060 |
Together they will be forced to put on a strudel fest or locate a missing antique nutcracker. 00:02:01.980 |
In the end she will abandon her professional ambitions in order to join him in his small 00:02:05.460 |
town or in a more recent plot reversal he will forgo his small town life to join her 00:02:12.240 |
So that's kind of the plot of most of these movies. 00:02:20.740 |
I think at their worst they look very bad and at their best it's sort of network TV 00:02:28.020 |
They're shooting fast and quick, like a Clint Eastwood movie. 00:02:32.420 |
The writing is very bad in these movies, I will say that. 00:02:35.380 |
No one's really caring much about the dialogue. 00:02:38.660 |
The acting also tends to be very bad as well. 00:02:43.700 |
The Netflix movies, they try to be more funny. 00:02:46.860 |
They're like more ironic and then the Hallmark movies are much more earnest. 00:02:51.820 |
And a lot of the Hallmark movies are on Netflix, so it's kind of confusing. 00:02:56.420 |
Well, again, I'm going to go back to Amanda Hess explaining her conversion from someone 00:03:03.940 |
cynical about these films into someone who grew to like them. 00:03:08.740 |
So here's what Amanda said, "When I first discovered the existence of made-for-television 00:03:13.020 |
Christmas movies maybe 15 years ago, they struck me as sentimental and anti-feminist. 00:03:17.180 |
Recently, I have felt so pummeled by stress and responsibility that I have found it difficult 00:03:24.700 |
to turn on a compelling new television show at the end of the day. 00:03:28.060 |
I have no extra energy to expend familiarizing myself with unknown characters, deciphering 00:03:32.980 |
twists or even absorbing scenes of visual interest. 00:03:37.820 |
What I've been looking for instead is a totally uncompelling new television show, one that 00:03:41.580 |
expects nothing from me and that gives me little in return. 00:03:44.940 |
The bad Christmas movies' beats are so consistent, its twists so predictable, its actors and 00:03:52.260 |
It's easy to relax drowsily into its rhythms. 00:03:54.740 |
The genre is formulaic, which makes for a kind of tradition. 00:03:58.580 |
Now it plays through the winter like a crackling fireplace in my living room. 00:04:07.380 |
So, look, you wouldn't be able to keep this up for a full year because these movies aren't 00:04:12.220 |
But this idea, she's saying that it's something that you look forward to in the season. 00:04:20.380 |
She then, Amanda then elaborated in a podcast I listened to, she did a daily episode. 00:04:25.920 |
She talked about this article and she elaborated the, she was pummeled by stress and responsibility 00:04:30.060 |
in part because a friend had gotten a potentially very scary medical diagnosis and they were 00:04:34.980 |
sort of fearing the worst that it ended up okay, but it was a stressful time. 00:04:47.100 |
What I want to add today is that I think there is another reason for the appeal of these 00:04:52.260 |
movies, especially to people of our generation, that is not only relevant to us, but underscores 00:04:57.380 |
one of the big lessons we talk about on this show. 00:05:01.460 |
So what is this hidden lesson in these movies? 00:05:06.500 |
I remembered it vaguely and I found it earlier today, it was from five years ago, that made 00:05:11.660 |
fun of Hallmark movies and it set up was, it was a dating game where the, it was the 00:05:18.220 |
sort of the female protagonist and dating the sort of classic characters from these 00:05:22.500 |
movies and the dating game was titled A Winter Boyfriend for Holiday Christmas. 00:05:27.320 |
And toward the end, the host named Emily Kringle delivers sort of the joke line, the true reason 00:05:36.180 |
And I think that matches a curve of common misunderstanding about these movies that they're 00:05:41.800 |
basically visual romance novels where the thrill is in imagining sort of finding true 00:05:49.500 |
This was sort of the original understanding that led Amanda Hess to think like, hey, these 00:05:55.260 |
I want to argue for millennial viewers, this is not why these movies are largely appealing. 00:05:59.620 |
A lot of these viewers already are married, already have families. 00:06:03.900 |
It's not the, the fantasy of the Christmas tree lot owner that captures them. 00:06:09.660 |
The real value I think these movies have, the real aspiration is in their portrayal 00:06:17.340 |
So yes, Jesse, I brought this all back to my favorite deep life topic, lifestyle centric 00:06:23.780 |
The most common plot for these movies, think about this, is a lead that has a stressful 00:06:32.140 |
They end up in a small town where they do not have the stresses of that job. 00:06:38.600 |
They connect with the community, which tends to be like tightly knit around. 00:06:42.100 |
They all are coming together around a holiday. 00:06:44.540 |
The holiday itself gives them exposure to sort of escapism and fantasy. 00:06:50.280 |
The town is beautifully lit up and they just sort of appreciate the way it looks. 00:07:03.020 |
They're hunting down an antique nutcracker, trying to put on the strudel fest. 00:07:07.020 |
The escapism in here, therefore, is not, hey, maybe I can find a husband who owns a Christmas 00:07:11.900 |
tree farm, but instead the idea that you might be able to reduce your work hours, spend more 00:07:15.940 |
time outside, walk down the street through the snow to the coffee shop that has the quirky 00:07:20.780 |
owner who knows you and get lost that evening in some like town tradition or they like light 00:07:25.800 |
up the tree in a way that is really over the top attractive. 00:07:31.360 |
So one way to recast these movies then is the struggle between two approaches to trying 00:07:38.060 |
The protagonists at the beginning of these movies are often implicitly deploying what 00:07:42.540 |
here on the show we call the grand goal strategy, which is where you pursue a single big and 00:07:48.220 |
impressive goal that you hope will make everything in your life good. 00:07:53.180 |
So in the movies, as it is for many people, that ambitious goal is usually some sort of 00:07:59.340 |
They're trying to get the CEO slot there, whatever it is, it's the big city job ambition. 00:08:06.440 |
By the end, the protagonist has found happiness deploying something more like the lifestyle 00:08:10.560 |
centric approach in which it's not a singular goal that's going to make their life better, 00:08:16.720 |
but they're identifying the properties of an ideal lifestyle and then finding ways to 00:08:21.440 |
And then so often what they are discovering is that this new life that is presented to 00:08:25.440 |
them in the town, which is usually called like Jingle Bell City or something, this new 00:08:31.440 |
life hits a lot of beats of a lifestyle that's more attractive. 00:08:34.600 |
So there's no one thing about the new lifestyle. 00:08:37.960 |
They realize a lifestyle that day to day resonates, has more value than the pursuit and accomplishment 00:08:48.580 |
So let's recap then lifestyle centric planning since these movies are implicitly endorsing 00:08:56.920 |
To do lifestyle centric planning, you begin by imagining a typical day, like what it's 00:09:03.360 |
I'm in this town, I have this job, but what's it like? 00:09:06.560 |
Are you going through a trail walk through the woods? 00:09:09.040 |
Are you in a busy city and you're, it's like this really active scene. 00:09:12.040 |
You kind of get a sense of like, what are the rhythms? 00:09:15.320 |
You use specific imagery that also resonates. 00:09:18.400 |
You imagine yourself in this scene or that scene. 00:09:20.320 |
You're really playing with these internal resonance, trying to imagine sort of like 00:09:26.880 |
You then identify and isolate the properties that make these images, that make these scenes 00:09:33.200 |
So what is it about the sort of day I've constructed in my head that makes it resonate so much 00:09:40.560 |
You can then survey your full landscape of opportunities and obstacles to figure out 00:09:44.360 |
what's your best bet for moving towards those properties in your life. 00:09:46.940 |
And it's here where like really interesting options come up. 00:09:49.200 |
I'm just giving all the obstacles I have and opportunities I have, how can I move closer 00:09:55.380 |
You're able to explore a wider range of options. 00:10:02.640 |
If I, if I move this over here, if we, you begin to come up with these interesting configurations, 00:10:07.280 |
which you probably never would have thought of from scratch. 00:10:11.120 |
It's not necessarily like, oh, here's the obvious big thing to do. 00:10:15.020 |
But it ends up in the end having the effect of making your lifestyle overall more congruent 00:10:23.220 |
So I think that's what, that's one of the true messages of these movies. 00:10:30.460 |
They're happy because in the end, they better aligned your lifestyle with stuff that matters. 00:10:36.160 |
And I've realized that the pursuit of the singular grand goal wasn't making them happy. 00:10:43.920 |
And so we're seeing, I think millennials in particular, because they're at that stage 00:10:47.300 |
of life are saying, huh, there's something here. 00:10:50.600 |
And so that's where I think we have our hidden value of these movies. 00:10:56.640 |
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So yes, you know, somehow in the end, as I always do, I've made the leap from Hallmark 00:11:27.460 |
movies to lifestyle centric planning, like one of my, one of my favorite topics. 00:11:31.600 |
And as I always argue, all this stuff comes back to the modern digital landscape of the 00:11:35.560 |
modern digital environment one way or the other. 00:11:37.360 |
And one of the reasons why lifestyle centric planning is so important is because in our 00:11:41.800 |
current digital environment, work has become more abstract. 00:11:46.240 |
It's moving symbols around on a screen, so it's much less able to sort of directly provide 00:11:56.800 |
So these sort of modern symbolic knowledge jobs now have the way of sort of infusing 00:12:00.240 |
more and more of our life and therefore bleaching from those parts of our lives are things that 00:12:09.640 |
We also have all of this sort of electronic distraction that subverts our deeper instincts 00:12:14.960 |
So when we feel connection and wonder and all this type of stuff, we get a very attenuated 00:12:21.720 |
form of this through social media in our form. 00:12:23.640 |
I'm kind of like talking to people on Twitter or I'm seeing these TikToks that are kind 00:12:27.200 |
of pressing the button of like, "Whoa, that was kind of cool to see." 00:12:30.560 |
And it subverts those instincts just enough that the drive doesn't push us to actually 00:12:34.200 |
like change our lives in meaningful ways to get there. 00:12:36.720 |
So the modern digital environment did help set up this sort of meaning crisis that we 00:12:45.760 |
That abstract work that persists as sort of you're just on a screen moving symbols can 00:12:52.400 |
It's something that's compatible with a much greater variety of day-to-day lifestyles than 00:12:58.840 |
maybe work would have been 40 years ago, where it's like, where's your office building? 00:13:02.040 |
You need to be within 10 miles and that's just what your day is going to be. 00:13:05.660 |
So all of this comes back to the modern digital environment, but that's the lesson I think 00:13:10.480 |
So I've connected Hallmark movies to email and social media because I always find a way 00:13:25.720 |
I would say my, I think the best example this year of this year's crop that kind of hit 00:13:30.600 |
my theory and just the best production values was Christmas Island, which has a no-nonsense 00:13:42.280 |
And this doesn't quite track if you look at the plot line. 00:13:46.780 |
This very ambitious young pilot, she wants to be a very successful pilot, but she's flying 00:13:51.720 |
just the regional routes and gets hired to be a pilot of a private plane for like a rich 00:13:57.960 |
Now, for some reason, the first flight she's given on the private plane is LA to Switzerland. 00:14:03.280 |
So she's been doing regional flights and now she's flying for LA to Switzerland, whatever. 00:14:06.800 |
As things go, the flight gets diverted to Christmas Island, which is like a small island 00:14:11.960 |
off the coast of Canada that's really into Christmas. 00:14:15.360 |
And the air traffic controller that was sort of snippy with her while she was in the air 00:14:19.080 |
also for some reason lives on Christmas Island. 00:14:23.440 |
Classic movie, you know, ends up falling in love with Christmas and becoming less blah, 00:14:30.480 |
It had good scenes of the island and they had a really good decorated downtown. 00:14:35.320 |
It often comes to like how Christmassy they can decorate the sets. 00:14:39.080 |
I watched another one where they were in Ireland maybe or Scotland and Scott Wolfe and Lucy 00:14:48.560 |
was her name, who were both in Party of Five, are like the siblings and they find out their 00:15:01.160 |
They have a newspaper clip of the mom being born. 00:15:05.200 |
It was like 1963, right, mom, you know, Duke has a baby or something. 00:15:10.520 |
They show that clip because I guess the actress liked the idea of like whatever age that was 00:15:15.000 |
The problem is Scott Wolfe is playing her son and Scott Wolfe was born in like 1967. 00:15:20.520 |
So like for this to actually work, she would have had to been five years old when she had 00:15:25.000 |
I think that's more Scott Wolfe trying to play 20 years younger than the mom trying 00:15:29.280 |
Anyways, I don't think I'll be watching a lot of these movies now that we're in the 00:15:32.160 |
new year, but I think that's what's going on, lifestyle-centric planning captured in 00:15:37.480 |
I did see the red one on Amazon Prime with The Rock. 00:15:54.560 |
Yeah, because, you know, it seems like it's aimed more like a teenage crowd, but teenagers 00:16:14.960 |
I mean, let's say the plot didn't completely check out. 00:16:20.120 |
I didn't completely understand the plan, but it was good. 00:16:35.920 |
It won't hold a candle in an Oscar competition perspective, probably. 00:16:40.080 |
A Complete Unknown will probably struggle to beat out, for best picture, Christmas Island, 00:16:49.440 |
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I just finished reading Where Good Ideas Come From by Steven Johnson. 00:20:55.980 |
Johnson talks about the Commonplace book, a notebook to record interesting ideas. 00:21:00.760 |
The idea is that you can revisit this book to examine incomplete ideas. 00:21:09.380 |
Actually, I was trading emails with him not that long ago. 00:21:14.660 |
Cool writer, one of that like original idea writers who came up in the '90s and early 00:21:21.100 |
Okay, so Steven, if I remember, was really early to these ideas of using technology to 00:21:31.860 |
He was big on a tool called DevinThink that you could enter in ideas and it would help 00:21:38.780 |
I think that's now since been more subsumed by these Zettelkasten-specific techniques 00:21:42.580 |
that are all about storing ideas even when you don't know what to do with them in a way 00:21:47.140 |
that like connections can be formed and excavated, and the tool can work with your ideas to help 00:21:54.060 |
Right now, a lot of other people are excited about that as well. 00:21:58.140 |
I don't tend to do that, so I don't keep any sort of digital equivalent of a commonplace 00:22:05.900 |
My problem is not coming up with an idea when it comes to writing. 00:22:17.580 |
There's only so many things I can write, and the limiting factor is almost always time 00:22:25.340 |
So I actually tend to just use my brain as a commonplace book, informally speaking. 00:22:34.180 |
What I look for, for ideas, is something that becomes insistent. 00:22:40.180 |
I'm using my brain as its own informal filter. 00:22:42.620 |
An idea really sticks around in my mind, and it keeps coming back, and I'm like, "Yeah, 00:22:48.460 |
Oh, I just heard this new thing that supports what I was thinking about before. 00:22:55.220 |
If an idea has really stuck around, then that's usually when I'll write about it. 00:22:59.500 |
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I'm going to write a book chapter on this," then I start collecting information systematically. 00:23:07.300 |
I typically just put that right into the Scrivener project I'm using for that particular writing 00:23:16.100 |
If I'm writing an article, the research folder of the Scrivener project for that article 00:23:20.140 |
is where I'll start throwing any sort of ideas I have, any sort of links, clips, movies. 00:23:25.100 |
So once I'm specifically working on something, I do collect everything, but not in a highly 00:23:31.120 |
So I lean more into my mind's informal ability to sort through ideas. 00:23:35.300 |
I lean into that quite a bit and don't really use outside structures to help me structure 00:23:43.740 |
He had an op-ed in The New York Times this morning. 00:23:55.100 |
"I'm looking for some advice on a weekly template. 00:23:56.100 |
I'm a high school teacher and need to set aside time for prep. 00:23:59.440 |
I'm also learning web design with a view to starting a side business. 00:24:02.700 |
I train in the gym three times per week and run two times per week. 00:24:06.340 |
I train in the gym in the mornings before school. 00:24:08.700 |
At the moment, I get some school prep done at school, but most in the evenings. 00:24:11.940 |
I would like to use the mornings more for cognitive work." 00:24:14.540 |
Well, let's just remember real quick what's meant by a weekly template. 00:24:18.540 |
We talked about this earlier in the fall in an episode. 00:24:21.900 |
So a weekly template is where you've set aside certain times of the week to sort of work 00:24:30.660 |
So when you make your weekly plan for a week, you apply the template first. 00:24:39.220 |
On Thursdays afternoons is when I work on this. 00:24:41.520 |
So when you're making your weekly plan, you start with that template, then you can fill 00:24:45.960 |
You can add some regularity to your work, and I always argue if you have stuff you're 00:24:49.440 |
going to do on a regular basis, have a weekly template, and then that can change season 00:24:55.560 |
I change my weekly template every semester because depending on my teaching schedule, 00:25:02.800 |
the days and times I want to do certain work is going to change. 00:25:06.340 |
I'm constructing a weekly template now for the upcoming spring/winter semester. 00:25:13.560 |
The good thing about designing a weekly template is that it forces you to use terminology from 00:25:18.980 |
earlier in the show to face the productivity dragon. 00:25:30.620 |
I want to run and have a bunch of prep to do." 00:25:35.100 |
Setting up a weekly template for all those regular occurring activities will help you 00:25:42.960 |
You might as well go through this exercise of, where am I going to actually make this 00:25:47.820 |
If you're hitting up against hard constraints, like, "I really don't have enough time. 00:25:52.300 |
So much of my day is spent in the classroom, and then prepping takes a lot of time, and 00:25:56.580 |
I'm not just seeing enough time unless I wake up at four in the morning," that's an important 00:26:04.980 |
Maybe that change is dropping something from this ambition, or it's alternation, or it's 00:26:08.580 |
finding a way to mix cardio with strength training in a more intense way, or whatever 00:26:15.380 |
It might look different or be more effective about prep. 00:26:19.380 |
The time is time, and that signal is going to force you to be sort of innovative. 00:26:24.220 |
So I can't tell you a specific template because I don't know your exact details of your schedule. 00:26:30.940 |
But I think coming up with the template is important because it's a way for you to actually 00:26:35.100 |
just move your time around like chess pieces. 00:26:37.680 |
If you were just going to take each day as it came, say, "What do I want to work on today?" 00:26:42.580 |
Just imagine how much less you would get done. 00:26:45.380 |
You would have such a lower probability of actually fitting these various things into 00:26:49.980 |
So the weekly template, we can see in examples like this, is really important for figuring 00:26:54.560 |
out the puzzle that is your week and can be really important as a reality check. 00:27:01.260 |
I mean, we're recording this on the, what, January 2nd. 00:27:04.900 |
And so I have like a week until the semester starts. 00:27:08.200 |
So I'm working on my weekly template now, Monday-Wednesday teaching. 00:27:16.540 |
I'm probably going to use the space in between the classes as office hours. 00:27:22.900 |
And then, like, what day we're going to podcast and versus, like, what days—I often like 00:27:27.940 |
to have a meeting afternoon on my weekly template, on-campus meeting afternoon. 00:27:31.980 |
Like, I'm still trying to figure out where that's all going to fit. 00:27:34.780 |
In terms of, Mike, in terms of the question in terms of cognitive work in the mornings 00:27:41.660 |
and going to the gym in the mornings, do you think that working out in the afternoon would 00:27:47.020 |
be better than doing all this stuff in the morning? 00:27:48.780 |
I think more people should work out in the afternoon, yeah. 00:27:51.420 |
I think for most people, the natural rhythm, all things being equal, cognitive work in 00:27:56.580 |
the morning, exercise is a transition from work to non-work. 00:28:00.380 |
That might not be logistically possible for everyone, but just from, like, a physiological 00:28:05.500 |
standpoint, I would say for probably the majority of people, that's best. 00:28:10.460 |
Get up—I mean, you could stretch or do some things in the morning, but take advantage 00:28:14.180 |
of, like, that first rush of coffee and have good thoughts. 00:28:19.700 |
And then, like, serious exercise, use that to transition. 00:28:25.260 |
Some people really do swear by, like, the early-morning run. 00:28:28.020 |
But cognitive work in the afternoon is hard for a lot of people. 00:28:32.620 |
I mean, when you hear about writers who are night owls, the reality is typically what 00:28:36.780 |
they mean is not 4 o'clock, but, you know, 10 p.m. to 3 a.m. or something like that, 00:28:43.500 |
where they find this, like, completely blank bit of time. 00:28:46.780 |
But for most people, afternoon's hard, early evening—I sometimes do early evening writing 00:28:52.540 |
I call them happy hour sessions because it falls, like, in the time that you would normally 00:28:56.460 |
have happy hour at a bar, and it sometimes works. 00:28:59.260 |
I'll often come here to the HQ so that it's, like, a definitive break from, you know, home. 00:29:10.900 |
It's always much harder than just coming over in the morning and writing. 00:29:17.280 |
"Are the five books you read every month separate from the reading you do for book and article 00:29:25.240 |
If I finish a book—I read a book in its entirety—I will count it on my list of books 00:29:32.400 |
So you will see, you'll notice—the astute listener will notice—that in my monthly 00:29:38.160 |
book collection, you can often pull out, like, "Oh, I think these books were being read for 00:29:44.840 |
You'll see a couple books on similar themes that I read, like, one after another. 00:29:49.800 |
But when I'm researching a book or an article, oftentimes I'm not reading an entire book. 00:29:54.440 |
I'm reading certain chapters of a book, or I'm skimming a book, or trying to get out 00:29:58.620 |
And that's a lot of research, and those don't get counted. 00:30:02.640 |
So yeah, I will count the book if I finish it, regardless of the cause. 00:30:06.600 |
But when it comes to research, there's a lot less finishing a book than you might imagine. 00:30:11.200 |
You get very good at, like, "This chapter's what's important of this book. 00:30:15.640 |
Oh, I remember reading this book 10 years ago, and this section is relevant to what 00:30:21.180 |
I'll give you an example for the deep life book I'm working on now. 00:30:26.620 |
The first part of the book, and especially the first chapter, the first part of the book, 00:30:29.860 |
I'm drawing some from the history of monasticism. 00:30:32.040 |
I'm actually sort of using the history of monasticism—we've talked about this on the 00:30:35.180 |
show before—I'm using that as an analogy for understanding, preparing for the deep 00:30:44.340 |
The idea being in the history of monasticism, just very, very briefly, you see very early 00:30:52.260 |
Its precursors were the so-called desert fathers, the hermits, essentially, that went out into 00:30:57.380 |
the desert and led aesthetic lives, going to just be in a cave and eschew everything 00:31:07.680 |
What they discovered is, okay, this just, like, throw everything out and just go out 00:31:12.540 |
there and be aesthetic and try not to die, and you'll eventually have a religious experience. 00:31:17.380 |
So the monastic system was built up, where they said, "Okay, we have to have structure. 00:31:21.680 |
We have to kind of help people prepare, the monks prepare to have these religious experiences 00:31:28.260 |
Here's how we run our days, and here's our rules. 00:31:30.740 |
We have these short-term goals and structures to help get you ready for the big encounter 00:31:36.380 |
with divinity, as opposed to just, like, let's just go for it." 00:31:39.460 |
I have this whole analogy in the first part of the book, is this is the same when it comes 00:31:42.940 |
to overhauling your life and overhauling a deep life. 00:31:45.340 |
Don't just do the equivalent of going to the desert. 00:31:48.760 |
You actually need short-term goals and structure that get you ready, that prepare you for making 00:31:53.700 |
So the first part of the book is about, like, preparing yourself and practicing to get ready 00:31:59.380 |
I wanted to pull from Jamie Creener's book, The Distracted Mind, which is this, like, 00:32:08.860 |
I might have that wrong, but a medievalist that studies monks and wrote this good book. 00:32:14.060 |
So I had read it years ago, and I said, "This book is – she's a great medievalist. 00:32:17.540 |
It's got a great sort of history about monks and how they think about distraction." 00:32:23.540 |
I read selected chapters that really had what I needed. 00:32:27.560 |
It's like, that book didn't show up – I wrote this in July. 00:32:30.860 |
That book did not show up on my July books I read, but I got really good information 00:32:36.780 |
So a lot of research for books and articles is like that. 00:32:39.300 |
You've heard of a book, you've read it a long time ago, and you're pulling out 00:32:44.100 |
On the other hand, there are some books – I think, was it last month or the month before? 00:32:55.460 |
I can't remember when I read what, but there's been a couple of these memoirs I've been 00:33:00.500 |
Like, Zena Hertz's – what was that book called? 00:33:07.700 |
Not The Intellectual Life, that's Churchill and Jeans, but whatever – Lost in Thought, 00:33:13.100 |
And that was like a memoir of like an intellectual life. 00:33:15.060 |
I reread Rich Roll's memoir recently, and that might be in the January books. 00:33:22.860 |
I finished – you'll see there's like a bunch of memoirs that are coming up soon, 00:33:27.420 |
and that's because I was preemptively like, I'm reading these various memoirs that have 00:33:31.300 |
particular properties because I might want to pull something from them for my book. 00:33:34.460 |
So what I'm trying to say, my peak inside the writing process here is a lot of times 00:33:40.460 |
when researching stuff, you're not reading full books, and then sometimes you are, and 00:33:45.740 |
And is that research done during deep work hours? 00:33:50.300 |
I mean, I worked on that – most of that monk writing was when we were up in the mountains 00:33:56.740 |
and at the house that had the writing shed, that like really cool writing shed. 00:34:00.180 |
Again, in the morning were my deep work hours, and I would go down to that writing shed with 00:34:05.180 |
I have very strong connections with that book and that place, really. 00:34:09.220 |
But that I was largely reading in deep work hours. 00:34:12.140 |
I would be there with my laptop and I would read a chapter and underline it and then pull 00:34:21.500 |
Other books, if I'm lost in thought, that book, that was just reading during my normal 00:34:28.420 |
I haven't really thought so systematically about how and when I read, so that's cool. 00:34:37.500 |
I'm a third year mechanical engineering student at Georgia Tech, and I've failed integral 00:34:44.980 |
I spend over 30 hours in the library every week trying to study and never seem to get 00:34:48.500 |
the results that one would expect from that effort. 00:34:50.980 |
I bought How to Become a Straight A Student, but would appreciate an overview of the best 00:35:01.900 |
I was just reading about that in that math class book. 00:35:07.260 |
I'm going to go back to the remember multivariate integration. 00:35:12.500 |
So Heath, when I see you say, "I spend over 30 hours in the library every week trying 00:35:23.700 |
And I think the fact that that's meaningless is important because this really is one of 00:35:27.300 |
the key messages I had for students in books like How to Become a Straight A Student. 00:35:32.740 |
It can mean all sorts of things, many things which aren't very useful at all when it comes 00:35:38.100 |
Studying is not a self-evident activity that you either do or don't do. 00:35:42.580 |
A lot of students get into similar trouble like you get into by "studying for hour 00:35:47.220 |
after hour," but what they're really doing is actually very ineffective when it comes 00:35:51.100 |
to cementing in their mind understanding of knowledge. 00:35:54.700 |
So a lot of people just have this mindset of like, "I spent a ton of time in the 00:35:59.260 |
library the weekend before the exam," and that this is like penance. 00:36:04.060 |
The pain of being in the library for 30 hours should transmute into a better grade. 00:36:08.700 |
But your exam doesn't care like how painful your weekend was or how many hours you spent 00:36:14.500 |
It cares how much you understand the material. 00:36:16.180 |
And so all that really matters is activity that cements your understanding of the material. 00:36:20.820 |
And as it turns out, the activities that best cement understanding of the material don't 00:36:27.160 |
The very best students don't tend to be the students who "study" the most, but they 00:36:34.680 |
So for example, in your case, integral calculus, I write about this in the book How to Become 00:36:40.360 |
I also wrote a blog post you can find on my blog from way back when. 00:36:44.640 |
It's titled something like "How I Got the Highest Grade in My Discrete Mathematics Course." 00:36:47.940 |
I wrote this not long after I graduated from college, so I remembered getting the highest 00:36:52.820 |
grade in my discrete math class, which was 50 or 60 students. 00:36:56.620 |
My number one tool for studying in that class was a big stack of white printer paper. 00:37:02.980 |
And what I would do, I had written down, and this method is in How to Become a Straight 00:37:06.400 |
A Student, I had for every topic we covered sort of sample problems taken from lectures 00:37:13.860 |
And I would copy one of the problems without the answer onto a sheet of white paper and 00:37:19.460 |
then solve it on that paper while solving it, annotating it as if I was lecturing to 00:37:28.340 |
Well, hey, if we're doing this integration, what we're looking for here is the anti-derivative. 00:37:32.860 |
And notice when doing the anti-derivative here that we can sort of ignore those terms 00:37:36.540 |
because those would be constant, et cetera, et cetera. 00:37:39.740 |
If I could do that, I could get the answer right, show the proof, get to the right answer 00:37:44.100 |
without looking at my notes, explaining my steps so I'm clearly indicating to myself 00:37:51.020 |
If I struggle, I go back and review it and try again later. 00:37:55.260 |
Once I can actually teach from scratch sample problems from every topic I need to know, 00:38:00.820 |
then I know it and I'm ready to take the class. 00:38:02.340 |
And that got me the highest grade in my math class. 00:38:05.740 |
Now the problem you might be having if you try this approach is that you might find that 00:38:09.220 |
you're not able to answer many of the questions. 00:38:11.660 |
Because what a lot of people do, and this is a huge problem I think with undergraduate 00:38:15.020 |
education in general, a lot of people don't attend lectures or sort of tune out in lectures 00:38:19.100 |
and then sort of implicitly hope that in the two days before the exam that they can not 00:38:23.580 |
only study but teach themselves all the material from scratch. 00:38:28.740 |
This is going to be the trap that I think really captures people. 00:38:32.260 |
If I had to guess, the problem with your 30 hours is partially that what you're doing 00:38:37.260 |
You're probably reading notes silently to yourself as opposed to trying to recreate 00:38:40.460 |
problems from scratch, and partially you're spending most of that time trying to teach 00:38:46.180 |
That's why they pay us professors the big bucks. 00:38:48.460 |
It's not obvious how to teach yourself this stuff. 00:38:50.760 |
So the other thing you have to do is the 48-hour rule, and again, this comes from how to become 00:38:57.820 |
You go to lecture, you pay attention in lecture, you take notes. 00:38:59.620 |
In a math class, you want to capture every sample problem, every step to the solution 00:39:03.460 |
and annotate those steps to the best of your ability. 00:39:06.340 |
When you don't understand something, this step in this integration problem, I don't 00:39:10.940 |
understand how they did that, you put a question mark and you circle it. 00:39:16.740 |
You got 48 hours to replace that question mark with understanding, not deferring it 00:39:22.600 |
You got 48 hours to fill in that question mark right then, 40 hours from right then. 00:39:28.120 |
Now you have various circles of time, sort of concentric circles of time to stretch out 00:39:35.600 |
So the very tightest circle is right away raise your hand. 00:39:39.820 |
The next tightest circle is right after class. 00:39:43.520 |
Hey, I don't understand what was happening here and here. 00:39:46.880 |
The next tightest circle would be office hours. 00:39:50.020 |
Like when is the next time that there's office hours with either a TA or the professor? 00:39:55.620 |
Also in between those circles is like talking to a friend or looking at the textbook to 00:40:00.220 |
So typically why we call it the 48 hours rules is that you're no more than 48 hours away 00:40:04.760 |
from all of those circles being done, that you're no more than 48 hours away from probably 00:40:08.060 |
the next office hours and all these other things can happen quicker. 00:40:11.320 |
So by that point, you should have resolved those question marks. 00:40:14.720 |
Now when you do this, when it comes time to "study for the exam," you already at some 00:40:23.080 |
You actually went through the mental effort of grokking the technique already. 00:40:26.840 |
There's nothing you're learning from scratch for the first time. 00:40:28.640 |
You might have to review it, but there's a huge difference between remembering something 00:40:32.440 |
you actually did the mental activity of learning than there is actually learning it from scratch. 00:40:38.060 |
The effort to learn from scratch is intense, so you want to spread that out over the semester 00:40:45.400 |
And then when you're reviewing, you want to use the white paper method of just, "I'm recreating 00:40:55.680 |
It's all about distributing the understanding of the material as you learn it, and then 00:41:01.960 |
you're reviewing being all what we call active recall, as that's the most effective way to 00:41:07.840 |
So if you can absolutely pass integral calculus, and integrals are not actually that complicated, 00:41:13.720 |
but I think what's happening is you're probably trying to teach yourself this material from 00:41:27.540 |
We like to have one question every week that is related to my new book, "Slow Productivity, 00:41:31.980 |
the Lost Art of Accomplishment Without Burnout." 00:41:33.640 |
We mainly do this corner because we have theme music, which we're going to hear right now. 00:41:39.520 |
All right, what's our slow productivity corner question of the week? 00:41:48.680 |
In addition to your books, do you have any book recommendations for cultivating a deep 00:41:56.520 |
What I often recommend, like if you're interested broadly in the deep life or more specifically 00:42:00.940 |
in more of a slow productivity approach, find real stories that resonate. 00:42:10.640 |
Look for memoir that resonates because what happens is the written form, when you're reading 00:42:15.320 |
a nonfiction book like a memoir, the written form can put you inside the head and experience 00:42:26.460 |
When you're in that life, you've stepped into someone else's shoes. 00:42:29.320 |
You really get a visceral sense of what resonates and what doesn't. 00:42:38.160 |
There's a lot of motivation or inspiration to be made about what's important to you, 00:42:41.240 |
what's not important to you, what about this life is important to me, what's not. 00:42:44.000 |
I'm a big believer of finding memoirs where the life of the person being lived in the 00:42:55.000 |
It could be a book that is specifically a memoir, but sometimes it could be like a nonfiction 00:42:59.360 |
book where it's a certain part of a person's life and they're doing some adventure or something 00:43:05.200 |
It could be anything that's actually about someone's life that resonates. 00:43:08.600 |
I often think that's the right way to better understand yourself and what you're looking 00:43:12.560 |
for, what the possibilities are for pursuing it, as opposed to just straight-up advice. 00:43:19.120 |
The obvious exception, of course, would be my books, which you need to buy many, many 00:43:32.200 |
I think in 2025, we should commit to playing ourselves out of the slow productivity corner 00:43:38.240 |
Are we going to have a slow productivity for the whole year? 00:43:42.600 |
That's a good question, at least for the next couple of months. 00:43:46.720 |
I want to get to the one-year mark of the book. 00:43:55.680 |
So we're going to keep the corner alive until we get to the one-year anniversary of the 00:43:57.680 |
book and in 2025, in the three months that are between now and that anniversary, we're 00:44:20.360 |
I'm a digital product manager and earlier this year, I left my full-time position and 00:44:25.880 |
I'm offering consulting and fractional product management. 00:44:32.040 |
Where I'm struggling is applying multi-scale planning to the growth of my own business. 00:44:37.440 |
Previously, as an employee, I've gotten pretty good at applying the principles and prioritizing 00:44:48.640 |
And even now, I feel like I'm doing a decent job applying that to my client work and helping 00:44:57.400 |
Last week, I spent a day trying to work on multi-scale for my own business. 00:45:03.440 |
And while I was able to develop the values, which I want to develop my lifestyle, career 00:45:12.880 |
plan around, putting together that career strategic plan, I kept banging my head against 00:45:22.760 |
So I'm curious if you could share more details in terms of what kinds of things are in your 00:45:29.960 |
career strategic plan, because it's that middle piece between the values and principles into 00:45:42.960 |
the weekly and daily planning that I'm struggling with in terms of growing my own business and 00:45:54.680 |
So in multi-scale planning, we have three levels. 00:45:58.440 |
There's that strategic plan, which is maybe covering the next season. 00:46:02.840 |
Then you have weekly planning, then you have daily planning. 00:46:06.880 |
So the caller today is talking about that biggest scale, thinking through that more 00:46:11.040 |
strategic plan that's maybe existing at the scope of something like a season. 00:46:16.560 |
And it sounds like, if I'm understanding him properly, he's not sure what to put in there, 00:46:24.200 |
What am I working on, more specifically, you know, if you're writing this plan right now, 00:46:34.440 |
Well, I think there's two things that are relevant here that hopefully are helpful. 00:46:39.120 |
One, it's OK for this to seem relatively underspecified if you're doing something new. 00:46:49.400 |
In particular, it is sometimes not even clear what the potential opportunities to pursue 00:46:58.160 |
are, what, like, you should put the pedal down on and what you should put the brake 00:47:04.360 |
Sometimes this is not even clear yet when something is relatively new. 00:47:08.180 |
You're still feeling out your client base and what's working and what the opportunities 00:47:12.560 |
So it's completely fine if you're like, "I don't have this crystal clear. 00:47:15.240 |
My goal for the next four months is to try to introduce this product or move this." 00:47:19.780 |
You might actually be very sensically gathering data on this new setup and trying to just 00:47:27.080 |
So that's completely fine to be underspecified, especially when something is new and you're 00:47:32.720 |
So your strategic plan, let's say, for this upcoming semester or season, for something 00:47:37.040 |
new like you're talking about, might really seem very mundane. 00:47:42.440 |
You know, it's continuing to polish your client management setup and to get your some sort 00:47:50.820 |
of logistical pieces that you're using to bill or deliver assets, like, get those cleaned 00:48:01.320 |
That doesn't mean your ambitions are mundane. 00:48:02.440 |
It means you're waiting to choose your spot to make a bigger move. 00:48:08.400 |
The other thing I would say when it comes to these plans, the key is working backwards, 00:48:12.600 |
especially when you're doing something like you're doing, which really is a lifestyle 00:48:16.080 |
Fractional project management, for example, clearly you're looking for autonomy. 00:48:22.100 |
You really want to have this clarity about the properties of the ideal lifestyle that 00:48:29.520 |
And you can keep coming back to that and asking the question, "What's going to move me closer 00:48:40.440 |
And this can lead you to some objectives that you might not otherwise come up with if you're 00:48:44.280 |
just trying to say, like, "What's good for this business?" or "What's a big idea I can 00:48:48.640 |
So, like, one of the analyses you might be doing the new year, for example, is you have 00:48:52.680 |
these properties identified that you're looking for in your ideal lifestyle and be saying, 00:48:58.000 |
Is there, like, one of these properties I'm really far away from or one that I seem to 00:49:04.280 |
What changes could I imagine that could stop that erosion or move me closer to it?" 00:49:09.700 |
So when you're specifically working backwards from properties of ideal lifestyle, specific 00:49:13.600 |
changes can emerge that wouldn't normally show up if you were just taking an approach 00:49:18.000 |
of, "Hey, what's something good to do with my business?" or "What's the natural next 00:49:24.120 |
If you're doing something new, it's okay to—don't feel underspecified. 00:49:28.560 |
Sometimes you're just trying to, like, get the lights on and the invoice is sent out. 00:49:32.440 |
And once you really get to know what you're doing, then the opportunities will become 00:49:37.120 |
And number two, work backwards from the properties of ideal lifestyle and just keep asking the 00:49:41.360 |
question, "Am I on track towards getting closer to these? 00:49:44.920 |
And in the places where I'm not, do I yet see a change I could make that would correct 00:49:50.560 |
And the answer might be, "Not yet, but at least I have it at the top of my mind." 00:49:55.600 |
I could do this completely unexpected thing that makes no sense financially, makes no 00:49:59.640 |
sense strategically, but from the point of view of, like, it's really important to me 00:50:03.480 |
that I can, you know, ski every day, makes a lot of sense. 00:50:07.920 |
When I'm working backwards from my lifestyle image, this change I'm making makes a lot 00:50:12.280 |
So those are the two things I would say keep in mind. 00:50:16.960 |
This is where people send in a description of how they've applied the type of advice 00:50:20.520 |
we talked about on the show into their own life. 00:50:22.360 |
So we can see the advice we discuss in action. 00:50:25.120 |
If you have a case study, you can send it to jesse@calnewport.com. 00:50:32.760 |
Holden says, "Long time listener, first time writer. 00:50:39.760 |
Out of high school, I fell for the follow your passion narrative. 00:50:42.600 |
At the time, I was not ready to pursue a degree and elected to move across the country and 00:50:46.880 |
pursue my dream of working in the mountain bike industry. 00:50:51.200 |
I graduated from a certification program related to the mountain bike industry, got my foot 00:50:55.040 |
in the door and accomplished what dreams I had for the industry by the time I was 22. 00:51:00.200 |
I shortly became embittered by the industry and realized that regardless of one's passion, 00:51:07.060 |
I left the bike industry at 23 and having established connections and friendships in 00:51:10.840 |
a town that I love, I took the best job available to me at the time. 00:51:15.220 |
This was a landscape gardening job where I could leverage the trail building and construction 00:51:18.480 |
skills that I had gained over the preceding years. 00:51:22.000 |
In the five years since leaving the mountain bike industry, I started my own landscaping 00:51:27.400 |
For the last year and a half or so, I began to feel unfulfilled in my business venture 00:51:31.120 |
and unhappy with the path I was on and had set for myself the past decade. 00:51:35.920 |
This sense of unfulfillment as well as economic circumstances motivated me to begin to shutter 00:51:40.540 |
my business and take a job with the local government as a gardener. 00:51:44.240 |
I had fun in my early 20s, but I'm unfulfilled with where that has left me in my late 20s. 00:51:48.600 |
I found that I enjoyed being a business owner/entrepreneur, but did not like my future in the particular 00:51:54.360 |
I began doing lifestyle-centric career planning a few months ago. 00:51:58.880 |
I have taken your advice and started a single-purpose notebook to jot down anything that resonates 00:52:02.860 |
with me as it pertains to my ideal lifestyle. 00:52:05.960 |
These things then inform my lifestyle-centric career plan. 00:52:09.000 |
I have found the career path that I have been on since high school is not in alignment with 00:52:14.360 |
I am called to more intellectual pursuits and work in which my mind as opposed to my 00:52:17.960 |
body is the main tool I use to produce value. 00:52:20.720 |
I am unsure how to make this transition or begin this transition towards a knowledge-based 00:52:26.720 |
I do feel ready to pursue a degree now, but have trouble determining what I may study 00:52:30.640 |
as I have an embarrassment of intellectual interest. 00:52:32.760 |
I also cannot shake the small cow on my shoulder telling me that I am falling for the trap 00:52:36.680 |
of grand goals, but I really enjoy studying for studying and knowledge's sake and do believe 00:52:41.240 |
a degree would set me up better for a professional life where my mind is the main producer of 00:52:46.880 |
All right, Holden, we see a pretty realistic case study here of lifestyle design in both 00:52:56.960 |
I'm going to zoom in early on this story where he talked about my, quote, "dream of working 00:53:04.440 |
That's like a classic passion trap type move, as Holden correctly identifies. 00:53:09.560 |
The interest was in mountain biking, and our mind tricks us into thinking, well, if I had 00:53:14.960 |
a job related to this thing I like, that must be my dream. 00:53:20.560 |
And as Holden quickly learned, a job is a job. 00:53:23.960 |
What matters for a job are the properties of the job, not the content, not the subject 00:53:29.720 |
So the fact that your job is related to mountain biking probably doesn't matter so much as 00:53:33.000 |
like what are the properties of that job—engagement, autonomy, connection, mastery, et cetera. 00:53:41.640 |
All right, so he fell out of that, went into gardening where he could start his own business, 00:53:48.720 |
Now you have something you can put in the marketplace and you seem to do well with that. 00:53:52.640 |
The government job doing gardening simplified probably his life, got rid of some autonomy, 00:54:00.240 |
Like I can just sort of do the work that I'm given. 00:54:03.920 |
And now he's doing lifestyle-centric career planning and realizing there's parts of his 00:54:07.880 |
Like if he really sits and says, well, what is it that I'm looking for in my life? 00:54:10.960 |
All right, so now there's the complicated piece. 00:54:18.800 |
You want to be careful here of being like, OK, maybe what I'm missing is intellectual 00:54:24.280 |
So let me just make a big swing and go get a degree and hope that this somehow leads 00:54:32.040 |
I would really try to clarify what your ideal day looks like. 00:54:44.320 |
Is it being outside but having a lot of flexibility with your hands? 00:54:49.080 |
It could be that the government gardening job is this very stable base on top of which 00:54:54.860 |
you are a writer, that you teach yourself to be a writer, which doesn't involve you 00:54:58.960 |
like quitting everything and spending years going back for a degree. 00:55:01.720 |
Or maybe really it's like you're tired of working with your hands and it's exhausting. 00:55:05.160 |
And you say I would be very happy to have like a shed in my backyard that I convert 00:55:10.600 |
into an office that I can go to and like work on a laptop and like five hours a day. 00:55:14.200 |
And it's like kind of engaging that I could be done and go mountain biking. 00:55:18.760 |
You can start asking, what's the quickest way to get there? 00:55:21.520 |
What are skills I can learn effectively and efficiently that allow me to try to find a 00:55:27.000 |
So I would get very specific about what you want your day to be like and then figure out 00:55:33.560 |
You know, I'm concerned that you might just say I'll just go get a degree and then maybe 00:55:37.480 |
You should be way ahead on your planning than that. 00:55:41.120 |
I want to know how to do this because then I could do this type of work which allows 00:55:44.760 |
my day to unfold in this type of way and that's what I'm really looking for. 00:55:47.400 |
So you need to sort out like what is this like this appeal of the intellectual? 00:55:52.840 |
Is it really related to your actual day to day work? 00:55:56.440 |
Is it related to what you do in your time outside of work? 00:55:59.160 |
What are you actually looking for in work in terms of like how it feels and the autonomy 00:56:05.160 |
You need to keep thinking about your career capital. 00:56:08.000 |
You're starting from scratch with career capital is very hard to compete in the marketplace 00:56:14.340 |
So this is a time not to get caught up in like a singular move because it can be seducing 00:56:24.600 |
You'll feel good if you do something big for a little while. 00:56:28.360 |
Go back to school, you'll feel good because you made a big change. 00:56:32.820 |
That goodness wears off and you're still pursuing that change and it doesn't necessarily lead 00:56:39.400 |
So this is the time to do careful lifestyle centric planning. 00:56:44.560 |
Don't be seduced by any one particular change or move. 00:56:48.160 |
That's a complicated case study there, Jesse. 00:56:51.480 |
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So I like to report in the first episode of each month, the books I read in the preceding 01:01:21.540 |
No, I read, I try to read five books a month. 01:01:25.500 |
So it's January 2nd when we're recording this, so we're gonna be talking about the books 01:01:34.460 |
There's no, I like in December because of the holidays as a way to kind of unwind from 01:01:39.380 |
I love thrillers in particular, techno thrillers. 01:01:45.860 |
And this December did not disappoint, especially because I was dealing with these medical, 01:01:50.980 |
I was like, the thrillers were like, I went two ways with this. 01:01:56.260 |
And then, and these books are all gonna show up in the January list because I was just 01:02:03.380 |
So I turned to books that were like hardcore intellectual because I couldn't exercise. 01:02:10.380 |
So like I read a bunch of math stuff, which we'll get into at the next book. 01:02:13.300 |
But I started December with a bunch of thrillers. 01:02:15.260 |
All right, here's the first thriller I read was Brad Meltzer's book, Midnight Ride. 01:02:21.900 |
So Brad is known, he's a Boston based writer that's known for writing these sort of narrative 01:02:27.800 |
He got famous with Bringing Down the House, which was about the MIT Blackjack Club that 01:02:34.060 |
But he also wrote the book The Social, no, The Accidental Billionaires about Mark Zuckerberg, 01:02:40.260 |
which was the book on which the movie The Social Network was based. 01:02:45.860 |
So this was his style was he wrote these nonfiction books, but he would write the nonfiction books 01:02:50.460 |
in a novelistic style, like with dialogue and interior thoughts. 01:02:53.140 |
So he was like, he kind of just like guesses. 01:02:55.340 |
So it's like this mix of like fiction and nonfiction. 01:02:58.220 |
But during the pandemic, he serialized in a Boston newspaper, a thriller like each week, 01:03:10.640 |
And then he collected into this book, The Midnight Ride. 01:03:12.900 |
So this is like a National Treasure style plot line. 01:03:18.360 |
It's a Harvard professor and a Tufts professor. 01:03:23.780 |
They're going to all these different historical sites in Boston to try to collect clues that 01:03:29.140 |
One of those type of one of those types of books. 01:03:32.660 |
It doesn't end at the end of this book as part of a longer series, so you're going to 01:03:39.380 |
I mean, it's the style he was writing his nonfiction books in. 01:03:41.540 |
So when it's purely fiction, he can just let it unfold in any crazy way he wants. 01:03:48.060 |
And so there's some cool Boston history in there, some good villains. 01:03:53.940 |
Then I went and read one of the few Michael Crichton books that I haven't yet read. 01:04:05.540 |
So, I mean, this was written in this period post Andromeda Strain, but really before Crichton 01:04:14.380 |
But he wasn't a huge writer right away after that. 01:04:16.660 |
He was he was much more eclectic in his writing style. 01:04:19.900 |
He was still doing some kind of cheaper thrillers under nom-de-guerres, like under fake names 01:04:26.500 |
And he was also going all around stylistically. 01:04:30.620 |
This is when he wrote like The Great Train Robbery. 01:04:35.220 |
He wrote a book about like a memoir of his travelings. 01:04:40.980 |
And in that period, that early experimental period, he wrote The Eaters of the Dead, which 01:04:47.620 |
It's told, it's written like you've discovered a historical document. 01:04:50.820 |
The whole conceit is like this is a document, written by someone who is part of this trip 01:04:59.700 |
And this is like in the year 600 or something. 01:05:04.700 |
And you're reading a historical document, right? 01:05:08.100 |
He actually built it off of a real document that talked about the travel of someone from 01:05:13.740 |
like, I don't know, some court in the Middle East all the way towards Scandinavia. 01:05:18.780 |
And then once they actually get to Scandinavia, it's basically Beowulf. 01:05:27.260 |
So he kind of is in the style of like a real historical account that existed of traveling 01:05:32.440 |
with Vikings back then that turns into Beowulf and they're fighting monsters or whatever. 01:05:39.260 |
It's weird because it's like in the style of a translated 7th century travelogue. 01:05:50.460 |
Then following this theme, the third thriller I wrote was The Andromeda Evolution, a follow 01:05:55.580 |
up to Michael Crichton's breakout book, The Andromeda Strain, written after Michael Crichton 01:06:06.540 |
Man, it gets a little crazy, you know, it makes me respect early Crichton more. 01:06:13.620 |
The Andromeda Strain had some like big, big high concept ideas in it, but it still felt 01:06:21.620 |
Like you're reading like a cool New Yorker piece. 01:06:30.420 |
The biggest issue I had with it is not everything is well motivated. 01:06:35.580 |
There's this like mission to go investigate this thing and it's unclear like why these 01:06:41.060 |
people have to do it and why they have to like go through the woods to do it and why 01:06:45.420 |
Like there's, there's some, we just need these people to be in the woods and so action can 01:06:50.320 |
take place and it doesn't really, there's some lack of motivation that Crichton was 01:06:54.180 |
Like everything is always motivated in a Crichton book. 01:06:56.140 |
You completely believe why someone is doing what they're doing. 01:06:59.660 |
They play a little fast and loose with this here, but it gets wild and it was fun. 01:07:07.380 |
Then I read, leaving the thriller theme, I read Open. 01:07:18.580 |
He grew up in a situation where his dad was like, I'm going to make you into a tennis 01:07:23.820 |
And it wasn't necessarily like the best childhood. 01:07:26.740 |
And then he builds these entourages where it's like very needy and I don't think, I 01:07:33.620 |
don't think Agassi even realizes this where he'll, he'll just glom on to these people 01:07:37.380 |
and then give them these big speeches of like, you have to be in my life and my life means 01:07:41.580 |
And he creates these like entourages of big trainers and stuff that just like follow him 01:07:46.940 |
The main issue is I'm dealing with some pain from my injury I'm recovering from and like 01:07:53.340 |
Agassi's whole life becomes pain after a while, you know, a professional athlete who plays 01:07:57.580 |
So I was like, that's a little close to home. 01:08:18.700 |
You really learn about the world of professional tennis. 01:08:20.420 |
I mean, it's a problem with all these sports memoirs is they sometimes have a hard time 01:08:24.580 |
really capturing at that level what makes you so good. 01:08:31.060 |
And, you know, this book had the issue of there was a lot of like, just, I was feeling 01:08:40.020 |
And then other days, like, I just wasn't feeling it that day. 01:08:43.700 |
They often make it seem like in these books that winning at this level is like a matter 01:08:50.700 |
And then, you know, you turn it on and like some sort of abstract sense. 01:08:54.420 |
And I'm much more interested, like they give hints that like, no, no, no. 01:08:57.540 |
It's like, I guess he had like the serve return that his dad had forced into him that like 01:09:03.980 |
this was his advantage or his quickness or it's like, you know, I really love when a 01:09:11.700 |
So if you look at levels of the game, by contrast, John McPhee's book about tennis, the US Open, 01:09:17.580 |
that's much better at capturing like what made the tennis player good, like what they 01:09:24.300 |
did, what the other player did, what that cat and mouse game was like, how this all 01:09:28.940 |
Like that was a much better book at capturing like what, what makes you good at the sport. 01:09:32.060 |
A lot of times you support memoirs don't get there. 01:09:33.780 |
Well, you still have to be on the, in that level, right? 01:09:38.180 |
And then it's amongst the level where it gets distinguished. 01:09:43.540 |
What did he have that even when he's like a little bit older and achy that like he could 01:09:47.140 |
turn it on and beat so many of these other people? 01:09:57.940 |
I mean, the other problem about the book, it's not a problem, the book, but just about 01:09:58.940 |
tennis, like most of the time he's losing because most of the time you lose, you know, 01:10:01.560 |
so there's like these whole long sweatshirt and you just lose, lose, lose, lose because 01:10:04.420 |
it's so minor that a little edge you're required to win that you can just lose for a year. 01:10:10.500 |
I guess in individual sports is you lose a lot like golf, you lose a lot. 01:10:15.940 |
Like if you read a memoir of golf, like you lose most of the matches or tournaments, whatever 01:10:21.940 |
But yeah, he won a bunch of, he won a bunch of majors. 01:10:24.420 |
He was not, the sense I got is like the, he's a great, but like the super greats were more, 01:10:33.180 |
not organized, but like their life was much more structured around. 01:10:38.420 |
It's like Pete Sampras was more just regimented. 01:10:42.060 |
Like his life was much more carefully built around what you need to do to do well at tennis. 01:10:46.860 |
What do you need to do with like your body and your recovery and the, and it was very 01:10:51.020 |
like locked in and Augusty was sort of all over the place. 01:10:54.100 |
There's a part of this book where he's, he's taking meth. 01:11:02.020 |
His hair fell out early and then he would wear, he was wearing wigs and stuff like that. 01:11:06.780 |
The final book I read in December is called The Future Was Now by Chris Nashawati. 01:11:11.260 |
This is from this genre of book that I like that there's a lot of similarity to it, right? 01:11:16.460 |
It's a movie book where it'll be about a movie or a group of movies and it's kind of basically 01:11:21.620 |
Like we're just going to like tell you a lot about, like it's not, I discovered there's 01:11:26.180 |
a whole genre of these I've been reading where we're going to talk about this movie year 01:11:30.340 |
or this particular movie and it's just like an oral history. 01:11:34.180 |
Here's, they collect quotes from like a lot of other sources and pull it together. 01:11:39.580 |
The Future Was Now is about the sci-fi movies from 1989. 01:11:44.220 |
So there's like all of these like big sci-fi movies came out in the same year. 01:11:47.660 |
This is like ET, this is the year that Blade Runner came out, it's the year that Conan 01:11:52.820 |
the Barbarian came out and Tron came out and so there's all of these, these big sci-fi, 01:12:01.140 |
like the idea of the big sci-fi movie became a thing in this one year. 01:12:04.900 |
And so he kind of tells the stories of all these movies and how they came about or whatever. 01:12:09.700 |
You learn, you hear about the directors and what was happening and this was sort of the 01:12:13.620 |
It was like, oh, we could, these like big sci-fi movies can be like huge box office 01:12:17.200 |
and that it kind of helped kicked off that idea. 01:12:21.180 |
If you like movies and like these sort of oral history style movie books, this one was 01:12:26.380 |
I listened to this one instead of read it and finished it. 01:12:32.540 |
Those are my books from December and at the end of January, I'll report what I read in 01:12:39.740 |
As I mentioned, it's a lot more mathy because I was sort of punishing myself, I don't know, 01:12:43.820 |
trying to compensate for lack of physical activity with more intellectual activity. 01:12:48.200 |
So more on that, but let's just say I can tell you now about how support vector machines 01:12:56.060 |
and machine learning are really using kernels to help do multidimensional dot products to 01:13:02.160 |
help figure out optimal margin algorithms in multidimensions without the computational 01:13:07.400 |
I can talk to you about infinite dimension calculus and why you want to use this on vector 01:13:11.040 |
representations of functions as a dual way of thinking about function calculus, etc. 01:13:15.840 |
All stuff I learned after Thriller December to try to compensate for my body not doing 01:13:20.720 |
You'll learn all about that in a few weeks, but we'll be back next week with just a normal 01:13:28.800 |
If you like today's episode, and in particular, the part where I talked about weekly templates, 01:13:33.760 |
you might want to check out episode 316, where I give a much more detailed discussion of 01:13:43.160 |
So what is this tool we're going to talk about?