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and I'm excited to spend some time with you today 00:00:19.600 |
that make homeschooling the adventure of a lifetime. 00:00:27.120 |
or deep into the daily delight of family learning, 00:00:31.220 |
I believe you will enjoy thinking along with us. 00:00:40.180 |
you will find even closer support in a local CC community. 00:00:51.780 |
Well, listeners, I'm excited about this episode 00:01:01.300 |
and a wonderful organization to make you aware of. 00:01:05.420 |
The Classical Learning Cohort has been a blessing 00:01:17.660 |
by helping those parents and tutors and directors 00:01:31.340 |
so that they can pass on the skills of learning 00:01:37.140 |
So I wanna introduce you to John and Rebecca Saw. 00:01:42.140 |
They are going to give us an up-close and personal look 00:01:56.020 |
- Rebecca, you actually work for Classical Conversations, 00:02:02.540 |
"Oh, well, Rebecca's paid to know all about the CLC." 00:02:09.380 |
Tell us a little bit, Rebecca, about what you do. 00:02:16.520 |
the Classical Learning Cohort Support Specialist, 00:02:20.220 |
and so what that looks like daily is I support mentors, 00:02:25.220 |
I help coach them, I also communicate regularly 00:02:46.540 |
And then each year, I plan and host a retreat 00:02:51.540 |
with the mentors for anyone who has ever taken 00:03:32.420 |
those are three of the big things that you mentioned 00:03:37.620 |
and I suspect my listeners have questions about too. 00:03:45.700 |
I want to start at the very beginning with you, Rebecca. 00:03:57.800 |
What intrigued you when you first heard about it? 00:04:03.940 |
when I was an academics advisor for Challenge A, 00:04:08.260 |
and so it was part of my continuing education 00:04:25.140 |
but when she brought me in and got to know me 00:04:33.700 |
that I met from all around the world that do CC, 00:04:37.460 |
I was so inspired by my interactions with them. 00:05:05.080 |
How did you hear about the CLC for the first time 00:05:12.900 |
- Yes, so when I first started hearing about it, 00:05:19.740 |
this extra class to be a better challenge director. 00:05:24.740 |
But when she became a mentor and started leading the cohorts 00:05:38.640 |
and describe what conversations were happening. 00:05:44.500 |
being a Challenge IV director, and I knew I needed help. 00:05:58.900 |
by what Rebecca was doing with the people she worked with, 00:06:16.660 |
What was it that you hoped you would learn with the CLC? 00:06:21.660 |
How did you think, John, you've said you really thought 00:06:26.020 |
it would help you to be a better Challenge IV tutor, 00:06:43.940 |
So I wanted the cohort to help me ask better questions 00:06:48.940 |
and guiding the conversations in a challenge class. 00:06:53.300 |
And I thought it would help me by being more immersed 00:06:56.100 |
in the five common topics and the canons of rhetoric. 00:06:59.900 |
I knew about them, but wasn't comfortable in applying them. 00:07:05.260 |
And the cohort gave me space to have conversations 00:07:09.780 |
about them and to practice them through my lesson planning 00:07:14.580 |
and through receiving and giving assessments. 00:07:29.420 |
You know, we throw around the naming, attending, 00:07:38.620 |
And then we throw around, oh, we want to get very immersed 00:07:48.220 |
- Yes, so that would be definition, comparison, 00:07:52.460 |
circumstance, relationship, and testimony or authority. 00:07:58.420 |
And what's the whole purpose of the five common topics? 00:08:31.980 |
and for you to be on your own learning journey, 00:08:42.780 |
So these five common topics are ways of asking questions 00:08:47.780 |
that allow somebody to begin the journey of exploration 00:08:59.340 |
Yeah, John, I can see how that would help you. 00:09:04.380 |
it would help you to ask your students better questions 00:09:09.380 |
that would help them delve more deeply into a subject 00:09:19.580 |
I like it that you said the cohort helped you 00:09:24.180 |
have the space to have conversations about these skills 00:09:31.740 |
and gave you time to think about how to use them 00:09:45.620 |
to do continuing ed when you were an academic advisor. 00:09:56.340 |
I was hoping it would help me invite a learner 00:09:59.900 |
who was apprehensive or frustrated in their learning 00:10:08.460 |
and that would happen sometimes in community. 00:10:13.860 |
be able to reach and connect with their students. 00:10:16.900 |
So for instance, if I'm teaching a focus lesson 00:10:43.620 |
is you have to learn how to do the concept yourself, 00:10:56.980 |
- Yes, yes, well, you have become a lifelong learner. 00:11:01.460 |
Maybe it's something that you didn't remember. 00:11:03.580 |
I can remember doing stoichiometry in chemistry 00:11:06.540 |
and thinking, sitting at the table with my daughter, 00:11:08.620 |
thinking this is more chemistry than I did 30 years ago. 00:11:31.260 |
And so they're like, okay, I figured this out. 00:11:54.180 |
but then I just wanted them to sit and listen to me, 00:12:11.740 |
in any program, in any age through a conversation 00:12:15.500 |
where you are attending to what the human in front of you 00:12:20.180 |
is or is not understanding every step of the way 00:12:25.820 |
where they can actually explain it back to you. 00:12:29.540 |
And it just reminds me of the way Christ walks alongside us 00:12:46.820 |
'cause this happened to me when Rebecca was talking, 00:12:50.260 |
I had a, yes, I'm doing it, I did that, I did that. 00:13:06.340 |
I was very, after I knew what classical education 00:13:12.220 |
I was very eager to reclaim my own education. 00:14:08.820 |
The mentors show you how to help somebody else 00:14:19.180 |
because that is education through relationship. 00:14:23.060 |
And I personally believe that is the most powerful 00:14:34.420 |
for this thing that sounds absolutely amazing. 00:15:09.540 |
Each cohort has one mentor and up to six members. 00:15:14.020 |
And these are all members that are part of CC 00:15:24.900 |
And registration is located in the bookstore, 00:15:32.060 |
And it happens twice a year in fall and spring. 00:15:36.020 |
Okay, so that makes me think it's like a semester long. 00:15:39.220 |
Each cohort is a semester long, is that true? 00:15:46.540 |
It is six meetings and they're each two hours long. 00:16:00.140 |
And how do you, I mean, do you read something 00:16:09.340 |
Is there studying involved in between the meetings? 00:16:32.020 |
And there is an online platform that you become part of. 00:16:47.220 |
and things to help you to prepare your lessons 00:17:00.620 |
and then you will bring two of your own every semester 00:17:13.780 |
of what you did well and what you could improve. 00:17:16.540 |
And then the members will also give written assessment. 00:17:20.540 |
And so what happens is you're just in a very unusual place 00:17:29.700 |
that are all doing the same thing you're doing 00:17:33.140 |
and they're giving you adult valuable feedback. 00:17:37.540 |
So you grow very fast in a short, intense amount of time. 00:17:46.900 |
these are folks that are part of classical conversations 00:17:52.540 |
So you are choosing a lesson that you want to teach 00:17:59.540 |
- Yep, it's anything that you're doing at home 00:18:02.940 |
with your kids or in community if you're a leader. 00:18:09.380 |
planning something that you're not gonna use. 00:18:11.460 |
You're actually doing exactly what you're doing at home 00:18:17.580 |
Yeah, because that means that I am, like you said, 00:18:28.900 |
And I'm already obviously very motivated to do it 00:18:34.540 |
And the cohort is just gonna help me get better at it. 00:18:48.340 |
- Yes, we'll actually model lessons in every meeting. 00:18:51.820 |
So you're constantly seeing lessons in different strands 00:19:04.500 |
So very similar to other things in our program, 00:19:08.740 |
So each meeting you're also learning one more new thing 00:19:20.100 |
which yeah, we could all have figured that out. 00:19:21.980 |
The classical learning cohort is gonna teach me 00:19:27.020 |
But also you said hospitality and assessment. 00:19:40.860 |
that I know that hospitality and assessment training 00:19:45.660 |
is super important and maybe not the most obvious part 00:20:03.340 |
John, have you been a mentor before or just a cohort member? 00:20:17.100 |
- So for me, it was mainly about having conversations. 00:20:28.620 |
has been the most surprising aspect of the cohort 00:20:34.900 |
So the conversations can be about ideas or concepts, 00:20:39.460 |
but they feed off of each other's experiences 00:20:44.100 |
So learning to listen was another aspect of the cohort 00:21:04.300 |
be better listeners will make us more valuable 00:21:14.980 |
Did you find, John, that participation in the cohort, 00:21:21.660 |
I don't want to say helped you overcome being an introvert 00:21:27.980 |
but did it help you as an introvert be more comfortable 00:21:52.860 |
And the mentors would not allow me just to sit back. 00:22:06.740 |
because it is easy for talkative people to take over 00:22:20.780 |
and their ideas don't ever get the play that they deserve. 00:22:30.860 |
the three things that people everywhere know about CC 00:22:35.580 |
is that we are a classical education company, 00:22:47.700 |
how would you say that the classical learning cohort 00:23:00.060 |
of using questions to reveal truths about himself 00:23:24.980 |
So ultimately we're using Jesus' example of using questions 00:23:42.960 |
And the thing I love about Jesus and his stories, 00:23:54.800 |
but he draws people in and then there's the question 00:24:04.420 |
to ask good questions that, I love what you said, 00:24:08.140 |
it reveals truths about ourselves and about the Lord also. 00:24:11.840 |
So Rebecca, let me throw the classical ball to you. 00:24:22.660 |
the classical learning cohort being classical in nature? 00:24:31.380 |
and things that are classical always come in threes. 00:24:43.580 |
The first is that we learn how we can use the 15 skills 00:24:54.160 |
The mentors model lessons by asking questions 00:24:57.220 |
to lead their learners on an adventure of discovery 00:25:18.180 |
rather than listening to a video or a lecture passively. 00:25:30.620 |
And that's what it is when somebody invites you 00:25:33.460 |
to take part instead of just expecting you to listen 00:25:45.780 |
and then we give you an opportunity to do it yourself. 00:25:53.260 |
is giving members a space to actually practice 00:25:56.380 |
what they've learned through leading their own lessons 00:25:59.320 |
that they've brought and then navigating and responding 00:26:10.000 |
and because they're not lecturing the whole time, 00:26:13.840 |
They don't know what people are going to say. 00:26:28.840 |
and that they're hoping that they'll discover 00:26:33.440 |
So it really is a guiding discussion on the fly 00:26:50.360 |
and receiving hospitable assessment to other adults, 00:26:54.260 |
which sadly is a lost skill in our culture today. 00:27:04.880 |
and they showed up to help build your confidence 00:27:08.080 |
and help you grow so that when you get off the cohort, 00:27:11.720 |
which was John and I's experience and return to your family, 00:27:24.200 |
and can truly experience the joy of learning again 00:27:32.560 |
- Yeah, that equipping that leads you to be so encouraged 00:27:50.760 |
is we are sharing experiences of homeschool parents 00:27:59.160 |
and having the same shared struggle, for instance, 00:28:02.420 |
of science fair or mock trial or debate or Latin. 00:28:15.160 |
where you can share resources with each other, 00:28:17.560 |
ask questions about anything in your homeschooling journey 00:28:33.480 |
I can remember years ago, speaking at practicums, 00:28:37.520 |
I would say to people, look around at this big group. 00:28:41.480 |
The truth is, as long as we don't all have a bad day, 00:28:58.680 |
How did you get your husband to join the CLC? 00:29:02.640 |
Are there many other dads or homeschooling dads involved? 00:29:07.480 |
- Actually, she didn't try to convince me to join. 00:29:28.680 |
It might've been that I wanted to surprise her, 00:29:32.920 |
but it was more likely that I just forgot to tell her. 00:29:35.920 |
And she found out about me joining from her friend 00:29:45.900 |
what was the biggest surprise about what you've learned, 00:29:53.740 |
"Hey, did you know your husband joined the cohort?" 00:30:02.100 |
So I know that you are both aware of what you could gain 00:30:06.540 |
and you had expectations and hopes for what you would learn. 00:30:09.660 |
But I also know that after people get involved in things, 00:30:18.020 |
Rebecca, tell me, well, let me start with John. 00:30:22.540 |
- The biggest surprise for me was that there was a form, 00:30:28.900 |
a method to preparing a lesson and presenting the lesson. 00:30:33.520 |
And so there's a method to guiding the students 00:30:36.900 |
by having a conversation through asking questions. 00:30:42.700 |
And so it wasn't anything that I had to come up on my own, 00:30:51.660 |
And another surprise to me was how useful comparison can be 00:30:59.320 |
to spark that aha moment in myself and the learners. 00:31:05.100 |
Sometimes comparison is needed to find that truth 00:31:21.500 |
how these skills of learning can lead us deeper. 00:31:27.220 |
And so, yeah, what a blessing to learn that comparison 00:31:37.980 |
- The bonus for me was how I saw the value of assessment 00:31:43.700 |
I never imagined that I would come to value assessment. 00:31:48.740 |
- But I had to come to realization that assessment 00:32:00.580 |
that could be the biggest thing that we learn, 00:32:08.300 |
And that assessment is about helping us to grow. 00:32:12.340 |
And so I really appreciate that comment, John. 00:32:18.260 |
That's something I think that a lot of my listeners 00:32:27.620 |
- Well, I will try to hold it together and not cry. 00:32:39.060 |
is seeing parents who really wanted homeschooling 00:32:47.980 |
they assumed that it was something they were doing wrong 00:32:56.300 |
And, you know, that is a really vulnerable place to be. 00:33:09.740 |
And so when I saw the impact that hospitality played 00:33:18.780 |
in such a way that they would come back and say, 00:33:23.980 |
And they're understanding what we're learning. 00:33:28.940 |
and getting into arguments, you know, over learning. 00:33:45.980 |
is definitely the most fulfilling part of my job 00:33:54.380 |
I can already tell that I'm gonna want you to come back 00:34:07.100 |
And I really do wonder if that's where a lot of us 00:34:19.220 |
I'm gonna be coming back to knock on your door. 00:34:22.540 |
Talk to me about some bonuses that you got from the CLC. 00:34:26.980 |
- Yes, so John and I go on dates with all of our kids. 00:34:34.660 |
And we would ask them these questions that we were learning 00:34:50.700 |
So what I never thought that I would hear from my kids 00:34:55.340 |
is hearing that they had started implementing this 00:35:42.420 |
in all your relationships and all of the environments 00:36:15.660 |
So being a guy, I can be more result-oriented 00:36:20.340 |
whether the students understand the material or not. 00:36:24.020 |
Rather, I had to learn to be more people-oriented 00:36:39.100 |
better if they discover the truth for themselves 00:36:58.740 |
Rebecca, you were already a homeschooling mom of years 00:37:16.220 |
and listening to know what they actually understood 00:37:37.020 |
- I would say, "Don't you remember this memory, 00:37:45.220 |
- Yeah, right, and their eyes just kind of cross 00:37:48.940 |
- Right, I mean, by the time they're in high school, 00:37:50.980 |
there is a lot of information in their brain. 00:37:58.580 |
in the moment of, "Let's just see what you do 00:38:02.500 |
actually remember and understand today before we-" 00:38:26.060 |
talkative students, quiet students, difficult students. 00:38:32.820 |
towards students and parents in love like Christ 00:38:43.060 |
- Yeah, boy, that was a great lesson for all of us. 00:38:47.660 |
That would change our lives and all of our relationships. 00:39:00.780 |
in ways that go beyond schooling and homeschooling. 00:39:12.460 |
Rebecca and I have used assessment to help our marriage grow 00:39:18.780 |
Assessment was a way of being vulnerable to one another 00:39:35.460 |
instead of criticism and view that as a positive. 00:39:49.820 |
It has helped in assessing the strengths and weaknesses 00:39:55.860 |
Now I've also used them in evaluating employees 00:40:06.100 |
I use what I've learned specifically in mentoring 00:40:14.420 |
- It has helped in sparking deeper conversations 00:40:17.020 |
that could prompt us to become more Christ-like. 00:40:25.780 |
with what we've always said about classical education. 00:40:30.420 |
It's not keeping a set of skills and tools for academics 00:40:37.340 |
and a different set for life in the community 00:40:39.580 |
and another set for how we act or think at church. 00:40:45.940 |
around the pursuit of truth, goodness, and beauty 00:41:04.420 |
- Well, the skills of assessment, like John said, 00:41:07.540 |
they can also transfer to parenting life skills. 00:41:22.020 |
as they're preparing or practicing for a speech 00:41:31.900 |
How do you think you could have improved that? 00:41:38.580 |
- It's so great to give our kids those questions 00:41:56.460 |
then they'll start going and doing that at their jobs 00:42:04.340 |
They'll be asking those questions of themselves 00:42:08.860 |
at the end of a game or at the end of a practice. 00:42:11.900 |
And it literally does just become a part of them. 00:42:30.700 |
they would marvel that our kids wanted to know 00:42:42.460 |
- Yeah, and I think what it does is it shows people 00:42:50.500 |
that we realize that God is always calling us onward 00:43:12.580 |
I think that's just a beautiful way to look at it. 00:43:25.100 |
John, what would you do if somebody came up to you 00:43:42.260 |
that it would help me become a more effective teacher. 00:43:47.060 |
But what I didn't realize was that it helped me 00:43:50.580 |
become a better mentor to my wife and adult children, 00:43:57.580 |
and the employees that are entrusted to me at work. 00:44:04.580 |
to become a better leader at home or church or work. 00:44:12.300 |
You know, it reminds me that when we put our hearts 00:44:23.180 |
And so I think it's beautiful that he has allowed 00:44:27.420 |
these skills that you've learned to be useful 00:44:30.660 |
in way more contexts than you may have thought 00:44:35.140 |
Okay, Rebecca, I know that since you work for CC 00:44:50.780 |
- Well, I mean, I'm here because of what you have just heard. 00:44:55.100 |
I have the job I have because the CLC transformed 00:45:17.340 |
and you have no intention to ever be a tutor or director, 00:45:22.300 |
but you just want to get better at homeschooling your kids, 00:45:26.780 |
What we've also found is that most of the time 00:45:29.140 |
when people do that, by the end of their first semester, 00:45:40.180 |
- Yes, yeah, it just breaks down so many barriers 00:45:43.740 |
that keep people from joining leading and community. 00:45:52.860 |
that just wants to grow and become better at their craft. 00:45:57.700 |
And also just to be mentored on your homeschool journey. 00:46:02.700 |
Homeschooling, like you said, it's amazing and wonderful. 00:46:13.340 |
for you to have someone who their job is to mentor you, 00:46:22.740 |
and continue growing right alongside your children. 00:46:27.380 |
That's gonna make its way into the podcast description. 00:46:33.500 |
All right, I think that you probably have thousands 00:46:37.380 |
of listeners who are at least eager to find out more 00:46:43.940 |
and when the next one starts and what do we have to do. 00:46:46.780 |
So Rebecca, as we bring our time together to a close, 00:46:50.460 |
I wanna let you give us the how-tos, the next steps. 00:47:00.900 |
Whether we just want to know a little bit more 00:47:10.940 |
our website is classicalconversations.com/cohort 00:48:01.740 |
classicalconversationsbooks.com/pages/clc-events. 00:48:13.660 |
and the day and time that they are available, 00:48:17.740 |
Monday through Friday morning, afternoon and evening, 00:48:25.380 |
you can always email us at cohort@classicalconversations.com. 00:48:36.700 |
Thank you, Rebecca for giving us this look into the CLC 00:48:51.100 |
Thank you to Rebecca for the great contact information. 00:48:56.100 |
I'm sure that there are thousands of listeners 00:49:04.660 |
to see how to find out more information about this. 00:49:22.300 |
that should make my heart go pitter-pat instead of, oh no.