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and I'm excited to spend some time with you today 00:00:19.840 |
that make homeschooling the adventure of a lifetime. 00:00:27.680 |
or deep into the daily delight of family learning, 00:00:31.680 |
I believe you'll enjoy thinking along with us. 00:00:41.120 |
you'll find even closer support in a local CC community. 00:00:55.140 |
Well, listeners, I'm excited to welcome you to this episode, 00:01:03.920 |
that listeners like you have posed over the last six weeks 00:01:24.840 |
or some wisdom gained from the School of Hard Knocks. 00:01:43.760 |
or homeschooling, or classical Christian homeschooling, 00:01:49.080 |
or classical conversations and all its programs. 00:01:53.560 |
I can share with you the experiences that I have had, 00:02:10.320 |
and fellow travelers along the path of homeschooling 00:02:17.840 |
I'm glad to share all of those things with you. 00:02:22.160 |
I want you to know that for most of the questions 00:02:25.280 |
that are posed, there's not one right answer. 00:02:30.280 |
And I know that somehow discouraging to some people 00:02:34.280 |
to think that there's more than one possible route 00:02:46.440 |
while we might want there to be one perfect answer 00:03:07.640 |
So I don't want you to be discouraged when I say 00:03:16.200 |
but my caveat is that it's not the only answer, 00:03:19.960 |
and it may not be the best answer for your family. 00:03:43.400 |
we discovered, we found Classical Conversations 00:03:50.000 |
to this amazing community of like-minded families 00:04:15.720 |
And so our desire was strong, and I had lots of time, 00:04:20.360 |
but we didn't have a lot of financial resources. 00:04:31.400 |
but that we felt like we just couldn't afford financially. 00:04:47.920 |
when I accepted the call to be a tutor myself. 00:04:55.600 |
and my girls both entered the foundations program, 00:05:05.680 |
All that memorization was so much fun to them. 00:05:25.680 |
And I had other students to pour into and love on. 00:05:30.280 |
And my girls had other adults who were pouring into them 00:06:02.960 |
and I was blessed to serve as the state manager 00:06:09.540 |
I loved seeing communities all across our state grow. 00:06:13.940 |
What I really loved, though, was encouraging parents 00:06:18.100 |
that they had what it takes to homeschool their children, 00:06:28.140 |
And so I loved pouring encouragement into families, 00:06:40.100 |
I became the practicum guru for all intents and purposes 00:06:45.100 |
for about seven or eight years for Classical Conversations, 00:06:53.020 |
and the training that went into equipping facilitators 00:06:57.200 |
and speakers to lead those great conversations for families 00:07:01.540 |
as we all grew in our understanding of the classical model. 00:07:05.900 |
And so the whole idea of being able to inspire, 00:07:10.220 |
encourage and equip families really became my passion. 00:07:15.220 |
And so my responsibility with CC has continued to grow 00:07:20.860 |
and change and evolve as Classical Conversations 00:07:27.700 |
And I now serve as the Director of Program Development 00:07:32.700 |
with CCMM, so with Classical Conversations Multimedia. 00:07:37.580 |
And I have been utterly blessed to be the podcast host 00:07:42.580 |
of The Everyday Educator for more years than I can remember. 00:07:49.420 |
because it gives me a chance to keep speaking to families, 00:07:55.540 |
to keep speaking to parents who have questions about, 00:08:03.380 |
or "Now I have this problem," or "What about this resource?" 00:08:07.780 |
And so I have absolutely loved spending time with you guys 00:08:33.460 |
One of the projects that I have been able to spend 00:08:38.940 |
a lot of time on in the last four or five years 00:08:46.100 |
I was one of the principal writers of Scribblers. 00:08:48.660 |
And so we're gonna talk about some of those verbs, 00:08:54.860 |
that will help us to assess are we doing enough 00:08:59.740 |
Because y'all, sometimes you get to the end of the day 00:09:03.140 |
and you think, "Really, what did I accomplish?" 00:09:06.780 |
Yes, everybody's dressed mostly and nobody's bleeding, 00:09:11.780 |
but did we really do enough to say we had school today? 00:09:20.180 |
I have about seven questions that people sent in 00:09:25.020 |
over the last six weeks that we will address. 00:09:33.100 |
But I also hope to do a round table discussion 00:09:40.580 |
dads, fellow homeschoolers that will represent 00:09:48.580 |
So there'll be a voice that represents where you are 00:09:55.820 |
not just a voice that represents where you will be 00:10:15.900 |
It encourages me to know that there are moms and dads 00:10:19.740 |
who are still super eager to be the lead learners 00:10:24.740 |
and the best educators of their children at home. 00:10:32.140 |
The very first question that I have came from a mom 00:10:59.900 |
Give yourself some credit for taking up the challenge 00:11:27.020 |
"The hardest thing about homeschooling is consistency." 00:11:33.420 |
and she says, "Nothing is consistent except community day." 00:11:43.380 |
If you're worried or anxious about something, 00:11:46.220 |
I know I do this, I tend to speak in a hyperbole. 00:11:55.100 |
Mom, I want you to give yourself some credit. 00:11:57.020 |
I bet there are other consistencies in your family's life. 00:12:06.900 |
And all the things that we feel like are lacking 00:12:13.100 |
or the way we structure our days with our students, 00:12:25.660 |
So here's the question, should I structure my days? 00:12:35.500 |
Maybe I have so much structure built into my day 00:12:49.460 |
or even every 30 minutes of your day planned out, 00:12:57.780 |
that's gonna be tough with a two-year-old, right? 00:13:35.780 |
Maybe one of your children needs to mix it up. 00:13:49.100 |
The first thing I think that you probably need to do 00:14:16.580 |
Do you have older family members who live with you 00:14:39.020 |
That's not the same thing as having every 15 minute, 00:15:09.220 |
and get dressed and make my bed and have breakfast. 00:15:14.700 |
and see there are no times associated with this, okay? 00:15:23.700 |
and snug up on the couch and we read our Bible 00:15:27.020 |
and we read a story and we say our Bible verse, you know? 00:15:32.020 |
After our read aloud time, we do math together. 00:15:45.260 |
Maybe you use, you go through the math map booklet 00:16:06.060 |
or maybe every Tuesday after math, we go to the library. 00:16:11.060 |
We have lunch and after lunch, I work on memory work 00:16:22.100 |
I work with my mom on essentials or I have reading time. 00:16:27.100 |
If your child, if you and your child know the rhythm, 00:17:01.380 |
In Scribblers, we offer the idea of arranging your day 00:17:26.680 |
piquing their curiosity, chasing down wonder, 00:17:36.400 |
And if you can get to the end of the day, we say, 00:17:40.400 |
and you have prayed together, played together, 00:17:46.340 |
read together, explored together and served together, 00:17:56.380 |
And so you could arrange the rhythm of your day 00:18:06.520 |
You need to have a devotion, a spiritual time. 00:18:10.920 |
Maybe you will memorize scripture verses together. 00:18:24.580 |
while they are having fun, while they are doing something. 00:18:27.900 |
And most children like to be active when they play. 00:18:35.380 |
But as you build, maybe you are creating patterns. 00:18:49.600 |
Or when you put a bunch of triangles together, 00:18:55.520 |
So you play together, read together every day, 00:19:04.400 |
That will allow your children to see the beauty of words 00:19:19.780 |
Read together every day and help your little children 00:19:37.260 |
You might explore a topic that you've read about. 00:19:43.260 |
You might explore what different baking ingredients do 00:19:50.260 |
You might explore a science museum in your town. 00:20:03.820 |
Let the foundation's memory work be the guide. 00:20:06.580 |
Explore more deeply some of the people or places 00:20:11.580 |
or organisms that you encounter in the memory work, 00:20:21.700 |
Most of us have chosen to homeschool our children 00:20:37.140 |
And one of the best ways to teach our children 00:20:52.900 |
So even your two-year-old can serve his or her brothers 00:21:03.620 |
to serve your neighborhood and your church family 00:21:13.300 |
who as their children approach the teenage years, 00:21:16.020 |
do family mission trips together, even overseas. 00:21:40.060 |
that you are trying to do with your homeschool. 00:21:51.540 |
And then everything you do should serve that purpose. 00:22:04.620 |
but I suspect, Mom, that what you're looking for 00:22:55.740 |
language arts and math in the Foundations years? 00:23:00.420 |
Well, I can remember when I began as a practicum speaker 00:23:17.260 |
You and your children are gonna explore the world 00:23:58.620 |
is the one that you and your family will do regularly, 00:24:21.920 |
So you need a reading program, moms and dads, 00:24:25.760 |
that you can handle, that you can figure out, 00:24:33.740 |
and that fits the learning style of your child. 00:24:39.860 |
that won't prompt everybody to tears or mutiny 00:24:50.180 |
what you need is everyday practice and familiarity. 00:24:59.980 |
and with how to add and subtract and multiply and divide 00:25:13.260 |
every CC family supplements the language arts 00:25:18.140 |
and the math curriculum in the foundations years. 00:25:27.860 |
I will tell you that a phonics-based reading curriculum 00:25:42.140 |
And if you get a hold of the Scribblers curriculum, 00:25:50.740 |
there is an entire section with phonics games 00:25:55.860 |
and activities and learning to read activities. 00:26:00.560 |
So it's very important that you and your beginning readers 00:26:12.660 |
than just learning to decode sounds and letters. 00:26:16.740 |
You want to teach your children to read for pleasure 00:26:29.700 |
Most of the reading programs that you will find 00:26:33.900 |
will help you, will encourage you in that desire. 00:26:38.420 |
But I will tell you also that just reading aloud as a family 00:26:51.740 |
So far as math goes, you really, really need to find 00:27:04.900 |
You can look on CC Connected and get examples 00:27:21.380 |
and vocabulary and content before they are asked 00:27:34.860 |
And for me, the best teaching that you will do 00:27:39.300 |
with your little children involves you as the mentor 00:27:48.740 |
sometimes those roles flip and they become the mentor 00:27:56.900 |
But classical learning is all about the give and take. 00:28:01.900 |
It is all about a conversation and exploring together. 00:28:05.860 |
So find a reading program and find a mathematic 00:28:09.580 |
and arithmetic program that you and your children 00:28:27.220 |
This is a challenge family, a family who said, 00:28:32.220 |
what do you do, how do you handle challenge discussions 00:28:37.500 |
with families that are uncomfortable with parts of history? 00:28:42.500 |
Now, I really wish that I had the questioner here 00:28:58.020 |
I am suspecting that we're talking about conversations 00:29:03.020 |
and discussions within the Challenge Day community 00:29:09.860 |
for families that are uncomfortable with parts of history. 00:29:16.740 |
Now, I'm not sure, I'm making assumptions again 00:29:34.260 |
These are challenge discussions and the most, 00:29:39.260 |
the absolute most beautiful part of the challenge program 00:30:16.620 |
They learned how to listen twice as long as they spoke. 00:30:21.620 |
They learned how to keep asking clarifying questions 00:30:33.580 |
when they were discussing, when they were coming at an issue 00:31:02.380 |
There are very few issues that are off limits for discussion 00:31:32.820 |
that a piece of history was being presented in class, 00:31:41.820 |
and make sure I would talk to my student first 00:31:45.660 |
and say, are all sides of the issue being brought forward? 00:31:58.340 |
and it's not my way, but that's the only position 00:32:06.100 |
then I would have to say to my student, let's pray 00:32:15.820 |
to bring the other position, the opposing position 00:32:20.700 |
or a different viewpoint, or at the very least, 00:32:24.460 |
some clarifying questions that could be put forward 00:32:28.620 |
to help us all look at an issue in the broader sense. 00:32:36.060 |
Realizing that there might be another side to this issue 00:32:46.060 |
it might look different from somebody else's perspective 00:33:17.060 |
or one group's position is being shunned or belittled? 00:33:24.980 |
but that should not happen in the challenge communities. 00:33:31.580 |
I think exploring and sharing and researching and thinking. 00:33:41.680 |
is that our students are taught to examine an issue 00:33:58.000 |
and God is big enough for all of our questions. 00:34:01.320 |
As long as we are looking for God to show us, 00:34:11.720 |
that our challenge students can't explore together. 00:34:30.920 |
so that our students have practice thinking well, 00:34:39.680 |
not just appropriating what their family has always believed 00:34:44.680 |
or what the loudest voice in a group is saying 00:34:54.240 |
to be searched out and researched and thought about 00:35:07.680 |
within our classical conversations communities. 00:35:13.360 |
So bottom line, first line is to talk to your student. 00:35:21.280 |
or because you don't know how to bring up your disagreement? 00:35:26.080 |
How can we foster a true questioning, weighing, 00:35:31.080 |
looking at all the options atmosphere for our students? 00:35:43.760 |
CC looks absolutely amazing, but it's so unfamiliar. 00:36:03.640 |
or almost all of us have gone to an information meeting 00:36:10.940 |
about how great CC is and it does sound great 00:36:25.580 |
they have been drinking, but I would like to buy some 00:36:33.880 |
and think well and answer well and enjoy learning 00:36:38.400 |
and enjoy talking to people about what they're learning. 00:36:52.440 |
Here's, I wanna go back to one thing that I said earlier. 00:37:14.760 |
what is it that we as a family believe about the Lord? 00:37:20.560 |
What is it that we believe about our children individually? 00:37:25.280 |
What do we believe is God's mission for our family? 00:37:29.880 |
What do we believe about the position of education 00:37:34.400 |
as it impacts our family and our family's mission? 00:37:39.400 |
You have to know those things in order to start well. 00:37:54.500 |
and if you're not sure that this was a good, right path 00:38:07.380 |
You're gonna be tempted to quit whatever you start, 00:38:12.540 |
or even homeschooling because it is going to get hard. 00:38:16.460 |
And on hard days, you need more to fall back on 00:38:34.300 |
You will find 50 ways to second guess yourself on that 00:38:43.860 |
But if you believe that God gave you your children 00:39:01.940 |
and that He sees this world that the Lord created 00:39:06.940 |
and understands how beautiful and good it is, 00:39:26.940 |
if you are convinced that this classical education 00:39:30.940 |
is the way God's calling you to raise your children, 00:40:01.720 |
The whole idea of memorizing so much material 00:40:18.620 |
My children memorized and memorized and memorized, 00:40:35.980 |
and that He was calling them to participate in. 00:40:56.740 |
who stand up and give a presentation every week. 00:41:17.140 |
with somebody else on almost any topic that you hand them. 00:41:44.540 |
Do you need a buddy to walk arm in arm with you 00:42:10.380 |
but sometimes leaping over the same hedges that you are. 00:42:15.380 |
Homeschooling with a friend is so much better 00:42:23.100 |
no matter what method of homeschooling you take. 00:42:35.020 |
but make the commitment that you're going to stick with it. 00:42:44.940 |
from what your children are used to doing too. 00:43:06.860 |
and use the classical conversations curriculum 00:43:19.940 |
but your family relationships will grow as well. 00:43:28.140 |
This is an interesting question from a challenge mom. 00:43:32.260 |
She said, "My teenagers always finish their work early. 00:43:53.860 |
It didn't take them forever in a hundred years, 00:43:56.980 |
but they were not early finishers necessarily 00:44:04.220 |
Here are a couple of things that I have to suggest. 00:44:17.320 |
They're the things that you are expected to do every week 00:44:31.440 |
There are, for instance, in American documents, 00:44:34.560 |
there are documents that you're supposed to annotate 00:44:38.880 |
each week so that you can have a true discussion 00:44:47.760 |
Everybody's kind of chewed it up and digested it. 00:44:56.020 |
that you can work on with your student at home 00:45:02.340 |
Things that will help them see maybe even more 00:45:19.360 |
I know no teenager that I know likes to review, 00:45:39.840 |
So help your kids to not despise going back to review 00:45:49.400 |
between what they talked about and read about 00:45:53.160 |
and studied last week and what they're learning this week. 00:46:04.720 |
and help review foundations with the younger kids. 00:46:24.120 |
Man, you're gonna have a much easier time with Latin 00:46:32.040 |
Or they will be reviewing history sentences and say, 00:46:35.800 |
oh my gosh, you're gonna learn more about this. 00:46:40.360 |
Look how close this country is to this country. 00:46:44.400 |
And they begin to share and they begin to become rhetorical 00:46:54.160 |
You may, your student may be ready to consider CC+ 00:47:05.000 |
They may be able with a few tweaks to their CC curriculum, 00:47:10.000 |
be able to get college credit for some of the work 00:47:15.680 |
that they are doing in their challenge classes. 00:47:27.080 |
But you know what, do you know what you could do? 00:47:30.680 |
You could encourage your teenager to find a hobby, 00:47:35.680 |
a new hobby, a new skill that they would like to practice, 00:47:45.600 |
Something that they've always been interested in 00:47:47.920 |
that never makes it into your curriculum for the year. 00:47:58.400 |
Let them go work at a science center or an observatory 00:48:03.400 |
or a hospital or a retirement center or a farm. 00:48:11.160 |
Let your child get some real life hands-on work experience 00:48:21.280 |
to go along with their thinking, their pondering, 00:48:30.040 |
that they do in class and at home and by themselves. 00:48:44.400 |
These are all good things to do with your teenagers 00:48:58.320 |
and this is actually one of the easiest questions to answer, 00:49:02.600 |
but it is something that we all want to know. 00:49:06.360 |
This question is, how do I know what else to buy 00:49:15.480 |
Besides a foundation, when you go to a book fair, 00:49:24.440 |
and you just think, what is it that I need to buy? 00:49:29.480 |
information meeting and you come home absolutely jazzed up 00:49:39.960 |
and then you think, but what do I need to get started? 00:49:46.040 |
and come to community and memorize the timeline, 00:49:56.280 |
Here is the best resource that a CC parent can have. 00:50:01.120 |
It's the catalog, this classical conversations catalog, 00:50:14.880 |
This year, it is between page 82 and page 83, 00:50:33.080 |
so there is a list for the foundations community, 00:50:38.800 |
for scribblers at home, for the essentials community, 00:50:47.920 |
and even some resources for the CC plus college credit 00:50:54.720 |
for challenge program that I was telling you about. 00:51:04.520 |
So on this page, between page 82 and 83 in the catalog, 00:51:19.040 |
and the non-highlighted resources are just recommended. 00:51:34.480 |
that will help you explore more or in a different way. 00:51:48.480 |
First thing, so Cultivating Classical Leaders. 00:51:52.240 |
These are awesome books for parents of foundation students 00:51:57.240 |
or parents who are just beginning with classical education 00:52:03.920 |
Things like "Classical Christian Education Made Approachable" 00:52:14.440 |
It'll take you about an hour and a half, two hours to read. 00:52:30.680 |
books that parents might want to read in their downtime, 00:52:34.560 |
but then it tells you what you'll need in community. 00:52:40.800 |
and then memory work flashcards are just recommended. 00:53:00.160 |
are the things that you could use to explore more 00:53:05.160 |
or to support your program in a different way. 00:53:18.000 |
and none of those on the foundation's community list, 00:53:25.200 |
because you do not have to purchase any of those 00:53:28.600 |
in order to be part of a foundation's community. 00:54:06.920 |
This is a fun book that you and your kids can use 00:54:14.440 |
There are other resources there that are recommended. 00:54:20.200 |
Things like the Acts and Facts Science Cards, 00:54:55.880 |
this would be a fun way to learn about mammals 00:55:07.200 |
that are delightful for that morning read aloud time 00:55:12.560 |
called Exploring the Heavens with Uncle Paul. 00:55:46.040 |
all three of the Exploring with Uncle Paul books listed, 00:56:08.080 |
So only one required in the Research section, 00:56:25.920 |
This has things like art and music, all right? 00:56:35.960 |
Drawing with Children, and Classical Music for Dummies. 00:56:40.440 |
So our children in Foundations will do Music Theory, 00:57:08.920 |
And the Set 2 will align most closely with Cycle 2, 00:57:48.680 |
you'll see the Classical Acts and Facts History cards. 00:57:56.360 |
this is the resource outside of the Foundations curriculum 00:58:02.760 |
and the 10 Whistle that most families purchase. 00:58:18.880 |
a gorgeous piece of artwork reproduced on the front, 00:58:34.040 |
that you and your child can explore together. 00:58:36.640 |
And those are the Classical Acts and Facts History cards 00:58:54.600 |
You're going to use it all the way through high school, okay? 00:59:19.360 |
And the one that most closely aligns with Cycle Two 00:59:23.240 |
is highlighted there under the Grammar section. 00:59:40.840 |
from all around the world and all across time. 00:59:56.600 |
So that one is bolded on your Foundations Community page. 01:00:00.920 |
They're in the catalog between page 82 and 83 01:00:17.960 |
you might really receive the most benefit from, 01:00:21.440 |
ask another family member, ask somebody in your community. 01:00:37.240 |
And how did you use it and why did you love it? 01:00:45.800 |
who it turned out were using, say, the timeline cards 01:01:01.160 |
to value some of these recommended resources, okay? 01:01:04.840 |
As always, your director is also an invaluable resource 01:01:14.240 |
can get the very most out of the program, okay? 01:01:19.040 |
Guys, I have enjoyed talking to you so very much today 01:01:30.200 |
and we'll do another Ask Lisa and ask other people too. 01:01:38.080 |
that we have great things coming up in the spring 01:01:42.560 |
and all through the year with Everyday Educator 01:01:46.880 |
You might even wanna go ahead and mark your calendar 01:02:00.840 |
some of the major events will be National Conference,