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and I'm excited to spend some time with you today 00:00:15.440 |
learn together and ponder the delights and challenges 00:00:19.560 |
that make homeschooling the adventure of a lifetime. 00:00:27.200 |
or deep into the daily delight of family learning, 00:00:31.280 |
I believe you'll enjoy thinking along with us. 00:00:39.740 |
you'll find even closer support in a local CC community. 00:01:01.500 |
who is going to shed some light on homeschooling teenagers. 00:01:13.300 |
that your challenge student either is going through 00:01:36.120 |
You have experience with your own teenagers in your home. 00:01:40.760 |
You have experience with teenagers in your local community. 00:02:00.080 |
And you're gonna share both of those with us, right? 00:02:04.880 |
- So guys, if you tuned in and you really want to hear 00:02:29.760 |
about some general learning along with your teenager ideas. 00:02:42.220 |
Unless you are vastly different from me and I suspect Deb, 00:02:50.900 |
- You know, surprisingly that is definitely the road 00:03:00.280 |
Some of the things that I thought that I knew 00:03:04.920 |
I really shored up my education as I taught my girls at home. 00:03:10.520 |
Like I seriously redeemed huge pieces of my own education 00:03:30.600 |
to be able to learn alongside your teenagers. 00:03:34.200 |
It opens up so many doors of opportunity for learning 00:03:38.400 |
and understanding as you build relationship with your child 00:03:51.320 |
where you just have to look at your teenagers. 00:03:57.840 |
And we're just gonna have to dive in here together 00:04:08.840 |
because your kids get to see that one, you want to learn 00:04:17.640 |
There's never this place where you've arrived. 00:04:27.200 |
as mother and daughter or mother and son, it's beautiful. 00:04:33.640 |
I know that when I had my, my girls are grown now, 00:04:38.640 |
but we went through all the way through high school with them 00:04:42.120 |
so they marched through the entire challenge program 00:04:45.600 |
with us nipping at their heels or leading them 00:04:49.120 |
or in lockstep with them, depending on what subject 00:04:55.320 |
But I'll tell you, even in the subjects that I loved, 00:05:03.080 |
and/or I thought I got really good instruction 00:05:09.000 |
there were still assignments, books, projects 00:05:18.200 |
And so there were times that even in subjects that I loved, 00:05:29.080 |
And so parents, I want you to take a deep breath. 00:05:32.920 |
If you are stressed about the art grant proposal project, 00:05:44.480 |
And so we sort of think, I don't know what I'm doing 00:05:53.320 |
But like I said, I wanna just ask a couple of questions 00:06:01.560 |
and the adventures of learning alongside our teenager. 00:06:06.040 |
You, Deb, you already gave us some of the good stuff. 00:06:10.840 |
It really builds camaraderie with your student 00:06:19.640 |
You are, I love what you said about, it is very humbling 00:06:24.640 |
and it provides opportunities for our kids to see that, 00:06:30.040 |
hey, mom, dad, they don't know all this stuff, 00:06:38.960 |
This is a grownup who already has a college education 00:06:43.680 |
or already has had a job or already is in charge of our home 00:06:55.360 |
And I think it's a beautiful thing for our children 00:07:14.960 |
This whole classical model thing that we're doing 00:07:41.200 |
of being able to ask questions and discover together 00:07:44.560 |
without having all of the answers right in front of you, 00:07:47.720 |
that's part of the growing process of becoming a teenager 00:08:02.520 |
where we get to discover and learn along the way 00:08:05.480 |
and not have all the answers right in front of us. 00:08:10.160 |
Okay, so that's a great feather of encouragement. 00:08:17.840 |
'Cause I know you have been a challenge director 00:08:22.280 |
and you've seen the learning journey play out 00:08:28.240 |
What have you seen as the biggest challenge for parents 00:08:33.240 |
as their students move into the upper challenge years? 00:08:43.720 |
that what you're doing as a homeschool mom and dad, 00:09:03.720 |
especially I could speak from my own experience 00:09:23.040 |
And so as they were starting to get assignments 00:09:28.760 |
I started to have those homeschool stress panic attacks. 00:09:37.520 |
'Cause I don't know how to do this particular project. 00:09:39.960 |
And so I think that having that time to just want, 00:09:50.680 |
They're gonna work their way through that project 00:09:53.080 |
and actually not being able to have everything right there 00:09:56.960 |
is actually a beautiful growing experience for them, 00:10:01.560 |
But it's also this sense of just carving out, 00:10:06.960 |
was I carved out a little bit of time every week 00:10:11.920 |
about the things that you're feeling uncomfortable with, 00:10:24.400 |
and finding that special time that was just for them 00:10:28.560 |
where they knew they had my undivided attention, 00:10:30.840 |
that I wasn't gonna be over here and over there 00:10:47.200 |
because it was an incredible time of just saying, 00:10:55.280 |
I just, I talked with a mom recently who just said, 00:11:02.520 |
and just talk about the books that they're reading. 00:11:19.040 |
those times to just sit down and connect and say, 00:11:25.680 |
And I think that that's a blessing for the kids. 00:11:32.480 |
and they know that they have our undivided attention. 00:11:35.440 |
- Undivided attention is something I think all of us value. 00:11:45.320 |
and when I feel like they have all the time in the world 00:11:49.120 |
to spend with me doing whatever is most important to me, 00:12:09.880 |
to open up about things that are bothering me. 00:12:15.680 |
I mean, I think sometimes as our students get older, 00:12:30.720 |
I don't quite have this, or I'm not sure about this, 00:12:34.600 |
or I have hit a concept that is beyond me in the moment, 00:12:39.600 |
a lot of times they don't want to admit that to us. 00:12:42.000 |
And so I think, I love your idea of making sure 00:12:53.360 |
where they have your absolute undivided attention. 00:12:58.240 |
we'll talk about all the things that are right, 00:13:00.440 |
or we will study something together that we both love, 00:13:08.200 |
they'll have your ear and your eye and your full attention. 00:13:21.120 |
And I mean, just consider how incredible it would be to, 00:13:25.880 |
you know, on those weeks where things are going well 00:13:30.920 |
where did you find God in your studies this week? 00:13:33.720 |
And we have this time and we can talk about that. 00:13:37.560 |
And, you know, embrace that and enjoy that moment 00:13:47.000 |
or in the language of the choice that was, you know, 00:13:50.560 |
there in the word and you saw it somewhere else 00:14:11.480 |
- Yeah, and sometimes that meeting time every week 00:14:24.080 |
and I am not helping to excavate this problem. 00:14:30.760 |
- I can't even begin to tell you how many times 00:14:40.880 |
because I had to dive through chemistry with my daughter. 00:14:53.320 |
and just suffering through chemistry with me. 00:14:55.360 |
And now it's like our biggest point of laughter 00:14:57.840 |
because we just laugh about how much I blew it, 00:15:01.400 |
but that we still struggled through it together. 00:15:04.120 |
And it's a point of like just enjoyment in our lives. 00:15:09.320 |
hey, you tried mom and you didn't do so great, 00:15:17.000 |
that me and my younger daughter used to do the, 00:15:20.360 |
and that, you know, that's where I discovered that, 00:15:26.720 |
And so, and it's like, okay, we're gonna have to, 00:15:37.600 |
of this chemistry module and it is to go through it. 00:15:40.920 |
And to do that, we're gonna have to press together. 00:15:54.200 |
It teaches you things about the faithfulness of God 00:15:57.480 |
that He leads you into hard things and through hard things. 00:16:04.440 |
He taught us lessons that I was not expecting to learn 00:16:12.800 |
- It's good to remember, I think in those moments 00:16:15.280 |
when it's hard and you're ready to pull your hair out 00:16:20.400 |
To just reflect back and say, you know, God, I prayed 00:16:30.960 |
it was going to look, but it doesn't change the fact 00:16:42.400 |
where it looks so beautiful and perfect and Pinterest-y. 00:16:47.360 |
- The days where I wouldn't post in a million years. 00:16:54.160 |
probably nobody listening to this had God say, 00:16:58.240 |
I intend for you to teach your child stoichiometry. 00:17:02.880 |
I intend for your child to know the fourth principal part 00:17:24.200 |
that you were called to help them along the way 00:17:40.080 |
when we are introducing our child to the Lord Jesus. 00:17:47.320 |
and all of these projects and all of these problem sets 00:18:14.800 |
I mean, like I never had to write an art grant proposal 00:18:25.160 |
What are we as parents supposed to do with stuff like that? 00:18:29.520 |
- Oh, it's the most important thing is to remember, 00:18:40.800 |
And you sit there and you look at your computer 00:18:44.160 |
or your guide and you go, I don't know what to do. 00:18:47.520 |
So remember that you have this beautiful community with you. 00:18:52.520 |
You have a director who is gonna be able to provide you 00:18:58.160 |
and provide your student with some great information. 00:19:00.440 |
And more than likely, or there's a good possibility 00:19:12.680 |
You can say, "Hey, did you do this last year? 00:19:15.840 |
Can you show me what you did or what it was like?" 00:19:19.560 |
Because those conversations are what helped to shape 00:19:27.240 |
into what is this project actually going to look like. 00:19:30.480 |
So I would say use those resources first and foremost, 00:19:38.440 |
Those, the conversations are what bring things to life 00:19:46.240 |
Although that's an important paragraph to read. 00:19:49.840 |
- Those conversations really put the flesh on it. 00:19:55.400 |
which gives you a good overview of the project 00:20:05.000 |
to give you a little bit of like, what is this project 00:20:14.120 |
watch it with your student, watch it together. 00:20:16.920 |
- And then ask questions and answers together 00:20:19.080 |
to kind of just help form it in your mind a little bit more. 00:20:39.080 |
All right, I have to just be really transparent. 00:20:42.160 |
I had been a challenge tutor myself for a while 00:20:47.040 |
and one of my daughters made it to challenge one 00:21:01.880 |
he had some rather, I felt, critical feedback for her 00:21:11.800 |
about her bibliography and about some title page 00:21:16.040 |
And I was very affronted, okay, so why did you not? 00:21:23.440 |
"I'm expecting all of my students and parents 00:21:29.880 |
And so parents, the guide is more than a syllabus 00:21:43.600 |
to help put all of these different dimensions 00:21:51.000 |
and sometimes things are more specific, right? 00:21:53.080 |
So you might have in that challenge one research paper, 00:22:00.960 |
"Give me like this point A, point B, point C." 00:22:13.080 |
- Yes, give me my checklist and give me all the things. 00:22:42.040 |
But if you're on a certain timeline or checklist for that, 00:22:46.920 |
especially with like such a variety of personalities 00:22:52.640 |
And we want students to really explore their creativity 00:22:57.640 |
and all the different dimensions of the project. 00:23:03.280 |
but then understand that there's a lot of freedom here 00:23:05.720 |
because we want students to explore their creative juices 00:23:14.360 |
There are lots of places you can go to get help and support. 00:23:21.240 |
you're in the deep end and nobody gave you a kickboard, 00:23:32.120 |
and your student about the art grant project. 00:23:38.200 |
the director of your child who will give some, 00:23:52.880 |
You can consult with other parents in the community. 00:24:05.920 |
Somebody who's got children a little older than yours 00:24:09.240 |
who have walked through this, they have, listen, y'all, 00:24:15.760 |
and in love can say to you, and don't forget this, 00:24:21.720 |
And this was some, and this is what I wish I had done, okay? 00:24:28.400 |
But then Deb, you mentioned something on CC Connected. 00:24:56.480 |
And so again, I think that is a great tutorial to watch 00:25:02.800 |
take notes together, talk about it afterwards, 00:25:19.480 |
And so that has all kinds of different questions 00:25:39.800 |
'cause your ideas are gonna change over and over again. 00:25:48.720 |
But that's available to you to be able to have 00:26:06.720 |
All right, now let's talk a little bit about the project. 00:26:10.400 |
Deb has whetted my appetite and yours too, I bet, 00:26:19.240 |
a bit looser in structure than some of the projects 00:26:27.040 |
mostly because we want students to feel the freedom 00:26:35.080 |
and I dare say, to chase their interest a little bit. 00:26:39.280 |
So let's talk specifically about the Art Grant Project. 00:26:50.680 |
- Sure, so the Art Grant Project happens in Challenge 2. 00:26:53.920 |
It's a great connection with the Western Cultural Studies 00:27:02.640 |
So in the first semester, between week six and week 10, 00:27:09.600 |
which starts on week six and ends on week 10. 00:27:15.880 |
the arts are a place where people ask for money 00:27:19.560 |
And so they're going to think through an idea 00:27:23.600 |
that they could take any passion that they have 00:27:35.640 |
we're in the middle of this right now with my students, 00:27:40.280 |
All these inventors are coming in with all these ideas 00:27:50.200 |
And so then they basically just think through an idea, 00:27:56.880 |
They fill in the application, they create a visual. 00:28:02.040 |
is they create some form of visual to go with their speech. 00:28:06.000 |
It's a five minute memorized speech with their visual. 00:28:34.960 |
as they think through what kind of ideas they want to do. 00:28:44.720 |
with the cultural studies of art and music that they do. 00:28:49.720 |
But more than that, why do we do this project? 00:29:16.560 |
'cause they just learned so many different integrated skills 00:29:25.800 |
So obviously one, they get to express their creativity 00:29:42.560 |
And then they also have to take questions and answers 00:29:52.960 |
of just being able to know their project so well 00:29:55.560 |
that they can answer questions about it from the board 00:29:59.400 |
or their colleagues or peers as they do that. 00:30:02.440 |
They also just get to practice either technical skills 00:30:08.120 |
depending on how they want to do that visual. 00:30:10.600 |
So some students are going to do a PowerPoint presentation 00:30:15.840 |
what actually makes a PowerPoint presentation? 00:30:18.920 |
I feel like that's a great business world skill. 00:30:23.280 |
And this is one of the times where we're like, 00:30:25.800 |
technology is okay, you can do PowerPoint here. 00:30:38.400 |
or they might create their own mini sculpture 00:31:10.840 |
How much money do I actually need to do this project? 00:31:24.640 |
So that's definitely a skill that they're learning. 00:31:40.920 |
Here's why my idea is worth you giving money to, right? 00:31:48.760 |
You know, I discovered when my girls were doing this 00:31:57.400 |
getting started and coming up with your idea. 00:32:13.880 |
as they went through the steps and stages of this project. 00:32:23.680 |
this happens sometime between week six and 10. 00:32:36.800 |
then that is not a good management of your time. 00:32:52.600 |
when some things took longer than they had anticipated. 00:33:00.000 |
because they had not considered all the possibilities 00:33:11.480 |
Not everything works out like you think it will. 00:33:16.640 |
you realize you have now gained valuable insights 00:33:30.480 |
we can start to just be upset with our teenagers saying, 00:33:38.680 |
Or, you know, but this is part of the process, right? 00:33:42.320 |
Is that they are becoming a stronger decision-making adult 00:33:55.560 |
if your child is halfway through their project 00:34:04.240 |
of course we would prefer that that didn't happen. 00:34:08.880 |
- You know, I'm laughing 'cause I've had this conversation. 00:34:10.880 |
I'm like, "Why are you changing your project right now? 00:34:14.680 |
'Cause now I have to shift and adjust my whole life 00:34:28.640 |
"Did I really go through that invention process well? 00:34:32.720 |
Did I really spend time on that arrangement canon?" 00:34:37.080 |
And, you know, "Consider the way I have to present it 00:34:42.520 |
And so each of these canons is a learning process. 00:34:46.240 |
And so the Art Grant gives them an opportunity 00:34:57.360 |
but my arrangement canon needs some serious help." 00:35:01.520 |
And projects like these help you learn yourself 00:35:04.640 |
and where your strengths and your weaknesses are 00:35:09.120 |
I'm gonna need to account for more time on this part. 00:35:16.520 |
and then finding out that it's a disaster later, 00:35:22.480 |
when it comes to inventing or arranging or elocuting 00:35:32.000 |
where your strengths and your weaknesses are. 00:35:52.480 |
And sometimes they have to learn it the hard way. 00:36:00.160 |
And then they don't have it and it needs to buy. 00:36:09.080 |
very viscerally remember her art grant project 00:36:13.600 |
because we were, like all of our families do, 00:36:34.200 |
and I was very committed to getting there early 00:36:36.920 |
so I could meet with parents who had issues or questions. 00:36:40.720 |
And so we, "Hurry, hurry, hurry, get in the car. 00:36:48.800 |
And we got halfway and she said, "Oh, we have to go back." 00:36:56.840 |
I left my visual aid and today is presentation. 00:37:04.840 |
And I said, "You know, you need for us to go back. 00:37:11.120 |
And she said, "Well, then I have to use your phone 00:37:25.120 |
And in fact, she had to give her art grant project 00:37:30.600 |
which made it, you know, for the "Shark Tank" judges 00:37:39.320 |
it took a lot of weeks for her to quote, unquote, 00:37:43.880 |
But what I noticed is that it was a very valuable lesson 00:38:04.320 |
It was a hard lesson that it paid dividends, okay? 00:38:29.320 |
arrange how you would structure your proposal, 00:38:34.320 |
but then also arrange how you would tell about it. 00:38:49.800 |
I think one of the hardest things is to realize 00:38:54.720 |
three or four or five weeks even into a project 00:39:05.120 |
so that people can understand the passion that you feel 00:39:12.400 |
How much freedom do parents and students have 00:39:22.360 |
to design a project that their students could feel 00:39:34.200 |
I think that's the hardest part of the Art Grant Project 00:39:40.480 |
what is this idea that I am going to pitch, right? 00:39:44.640 |
- And students often just sit there and look at you 00:40:02.720 |
- And so it's kind of working your way backwards 00:40:13.960 |
Let's figure out what you're passionate about 00:40:16.880 |
And then the second question after we would talk about that 00:40:22.160 |
now how might we be able to incorporate that with the arts 00:40:44.200 |
Because really when you're asking for the Art Grant, 00:40:49.040 |
but quite often it's in some way blessing a community 00:40:52.920 |
'cause people are gonna be giving money to it, right? 00:40:56.920 |
that is going to enjoy it or participate in it. 00:41:04.840 |
like my daughter and my son are very different. 00:41:08.960 |
And so she was already there in term of the Arts Grant 00:41:23.800 |
And then my son though, he's a sports guy, right? 00:41:26.960 |
And he's like, I don't know, I don't sing, I don't dance. 00:41:33.800 |
And so, but he started to think about a missions trip 00:41:36.480 |
that he was on and how all the kids played sports. 00:41:41.400 |
what if we were able to design clothes, you know, 00:41:45.360 |
like little soccer uniforms for these kids overseas 00:41:56.440 |
to thinking about how that could go with the arts 00:41:59.880 |
and then moved it into how it could bless a community 00:42:07.480 |
And lots of kids have things that they're passionate about, 00:42:11.120 |
you know, I think I posted something in the form about, 00:42:13.920 |
you know, if you're a Save the Turtles person, right? 00:42:29.560 |
And so it's trying to meld those three things together, 00:42:37.680 |
Those three things are going to help you form 00:42:43.040 |
- Oh man, Deb, that is absolutely perfect, okay? 00:42:54.160 |
and what skills our students are gonna sharpen 00:42:57.920 |
that are gonna be useful to them for the rest of their lives 00:43:02.640 |
but also how you've given us some really practical ways 00:43:08.480 |
of narrowing down the hardest part of the whole project, 00:43:28.480 |
And what could you do with that to bless a community? 00:43:35.080 |
that others would be motivated to support with giving? 00:43:47.000 |
to think about the way the Lord has placed giftings 00:43:57.320 |
and then what they could do with the passion God 00:44:19.560 |
where they're like, oh, I could actually do something 00:44:24.480 |
or I can have an idea, whether it's arts-based or not, 00:44:32.640 |
And so I had a student a couple of years ago, 00:44:36.480 |
and her art grant proposal was about music again, 00:44:42.680 |
to get donations of instruments to impoverished families. 00:44:55.200 |
she actually went to a music store and pitched her idea 00:44:59.840 |
and said, hey, there's this family that has eight kids, 00:45:12.920 |
And the music company just listened to her idea 00:45:17.000 |
And so they rented these cellos for free to this family 00:45:21.120 |
so that my student could give free music lessons 00:45:31.960 |
You never know what's gonna come out of this idea 00:45:35.600 |
of breaking out of our normal academic mindset 00:45:58.520 |
is that they are able to make a difference in the world. 00:46:03.520 |
Can you imagine being more empowered as a teenager 00:46:25.480 |
Deb, thank you so much for making this seem like 00:47:30.040 |
I want you to know that we're collecting those stories, 00:47:39.080 |
So we want you to provide as much information, 00:47:43.080 |
as many details as possible to completely tell your story. 00:47:50.640 |
whether it's of the Art Grant Proposal or something else, 00:47:55.400 |
share your story at classicalconversations.com/celebrate-together. 00:48:09.240 |
Here we go again, classicalconversations.com/celebrate-together. 00:48:18.120 |
and we will celebrate our successes and our growth together. 00:48:23.120 |
Again, Deb, thank you so much for being an inspiration 00:48:37.720 |
- All right, families, we will see you guys again