back to indexEveryday Educator - Building a Family Library
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and I'm excited to spend some time with you today 00:00:18.840 |
that make homeschooling the adventure of a lifetime. 00:00:26.560 |
or deep into the daily delight of family learning, 00:00:30.540 |
I believe you'll enjoy thinking along with us. 00:00:38.600 |
you'll find even closer support in a local CC community. 00:01:17.920 |
I wanna celebrate something that I really think 00:01:23.240 |
or really anyone who wants to be a learner for life. 00:01:37.080 |
Jennifer Courtney, welcome to "Everyday Educator." 00:01:43.640 |
- I love it when you and I get to talk about books. 00:01:57.080 |
and say that you would willingly deputize this all. 00:02:00.800 |
But I mean, really, that seemed too nerdy even for us. 00:02:11.600 |
I'm gonna answer that question by telling a story. 00:02:17.000 |
- A few years back, well, more than a few years back now, 00:02:35.360 |
And I stood in a bookstore in my hometown that was closing. 00:02:41.840 |
which I did not act on, was to buy all the books. 00:02:45.200 |
And I told my husband, which is why we didn't do it. 00:02:54.200 |
And so I did not buy a copy of every book there, 00:02:59.920 |
been concerned that we will lose these resources. 00:03:03.000 |
And so I have been building a library in my home. 00:03:08.160 |
I would like to be known as the keeper of the books. 00:03:19.720 |
So expand a little bit on what keeper of the books 00:03:26.000 |
would mean and why you think that would be an important job. 00:03:40.720 |
I remember thinking how easy it was for the rulers 00:03:56.840 |
that was my reaction to the digital books and e-readers, 00:04:05.320 |
I was reading C.S. Lewis's "Abolition of Man" 00:04:07.480 |
and thinking about how we are humans, we are in soul bodies, 00:04:12.840 |
and therefore we like to have incarnate things. 00:04:20.360 |
I began to really think that we need an effort 00:04:37.360 |
my parents moved around a lot for my dad's work 00:04:44.480 |
that was the seed for my library that now is in my home. 00:04:51.560 |
So you actually had some that you could build on. 00:05:02.480 |
to your library and I happen to have seen pictures of it, 00:05:11.080 |
I want you to talk to us about building a library 00:05:21.200 |
Do you just have lots of books in your house? 00:05:36.160 |
And my daughter opened up a cabinet in the living room 00:05:39.520 |
that you couldn't see unless you opened the door 00:05:44.240 |
and then she opened a door in our house and said, 00:05:48.560 |
We have shelves between the slats in the basement 00:05:59.360 |
and how we could become keepers of the books. 00:06:06.680 |
of having books all over my house, in closets, in cabinets, 00:06:18.400 |
of children's books and then I majored in English literature 00:06:25.600 |
and was researching homeschooling and classical education, 00:06:31.080 |
I've acquired many books to read with my children. 00:06:40.880 |
My husband and I started shopping for bookcases 00:06:47.480 |
- I have many, like you, I have many children 00:06:50.600 |
so I finally had a space where I could do this. 00:06:56.080 |
and then my daughter who is in her last year of college, 00:07:03.920 |
she inventoried all of our books on a digital app. 00:07:17.520 |
My husband did the shelves and built the rail 00:07:30.160 |
and we covered all of the children's books in plastic 00:07:36.200 |
and stamps that showed that they belong in my library 00:07:42.840 |
homeschool families can begin checking out my books. 00:07:49.720 |
I still have collector's books in the downstairs 00:08:06.080 |
and they're like me, I'm sitting here listening to you 00:08:26.160 |
a beautiful shelving with, my heart's desire, 00:08:35.560 |
I love that you are covering the children's books 00:09:05.360 |
in lots and lots of older children's literature. 00:09:13.160 |
from the 1930s to the 1950s series for young readers. 00:09:20.880 |
when she was helping me with the library said, 00:09:27.360 |
they are four children and they're being lost 00:09:31.880 |
And if something happens to them, I'll replace them. 00:09:46.720 |
to get her next batch of "Happy Hollister" mysteries 00:09:51.920 |
So it's really fun to have some repeat customers. 00:10:09.880 |
And if you really are worried that books are being lost, 00:10:28.120 |
and you described that a little bit as you went along. 00:10:32.680 |
And I found myself thinking, oh yeah, I got books there. 00:10:51.040 |
- Well, that was an interesting quest for me. 00:11:10.000 |
So what I decided to do is have shelves by genre 00:11:36.880 |
But I started with the youngest readers at the bottom shelf 00:11:40.640 |
and then so that the adult books are on the highest shelves 00:11:47.160 |
are on the bottom shelves where they can reach them. 00:11:48.800 |
I want them to pull them out and look at them 00:12:10.000 |
- They get unorganized very easily, don't they? 00:12:16.880 |
is that my husband and I have different ideas 00:12:23.840 |
or even of the categories that we should have. 00:12:31.320 |
So because, well, partly because that's a pain 00:12:42.880 |
- So were you the one who decided the categories? 00:12:46.280 |
'Cause that's what my husband and I argue about. 00:12:51.680 |
and I just did the best I could to keep it consistent. 00:12:54.840 |
And right now, because of the size of my library, 00:12:58.280 |
I know where things are that they might want. 00:13:05.240 |
was the landmark history books from the 1950s. 00:13:11.920 |
and get those for their essential spaces of history 00:13:22.960 |
Some of them probably could be in a different category 00:13:27.720 |
but it was just easier to keep them all together 00:13:29.880 |
so that children know where to go when they come over. 00:13:41.200 |
Some of them were gifted to you from childhood, I'm sure. 00:13:46.480 |
And still as an adult, people are giving you books. 00:13:59.160 |
I make a lot of trips with my husband on his business trips 00:14:02.760 |
and I have used bookstores in every town I would go to. 00:14:06.640 |
And so I have some really good places that I go 00:14:12.280 |
if they're gonna have the kinds of children's literature 00:14:15.360 |
I do occasionally look at places like eBay or archive books 00:14:20.200 |
but I do try to go to the used bookstores and support them 00:14:33.480 |
In fact, this weekend, I went to one of my favorites 00:14:42.840 |
- With each other, but I did find some good finds there. 00:14:45.120 |
I got some new hardback copies of Andrew Lang's fairy books 00:14:50.520 |
Yeah, so one thing I forgot to mention to you too 00:14:55.280 |
about the organization is that I do have a lot 00:15:01.960 |
toddler, preschool age, and those I don't organize at all 00:15:14.000 |
- That's so good because that's the way little people read. 00:15:22.720 |
- There's absolutely no organization to that shelf 00:15:24.920 |
because I don't want the moms to feel stressed 00:15:26.760 |
that their children are pulling off 10 and 20 things 00:15:30.960 |
- You know what, that's really important that we be, 00:15:40.920 |
I think I would hold my breath or maybe even cringe 00:15:43.760 |
every time somebody put a book back in the wrong place. 00:15:57.120 |
I'm still very much at private library status. 00:15:59.720 |
So people bring back four or five books at a time 00:16:09.920 |
I'm in work meetings with you and other people. 00:16:19.840 |
So I've had a limited clientele this past spring 00:16:25.680 |
And now this fall, I'm gonna open it up wider. 00:16:37.960 |
How are people finding out about the Courtney Library? 00:16:44.800 |
So I started with my CC community and my neighborhood 00:16:48.600 |
so that I had a good sense of the families that are coming 00:16:52.720 |
and then I'll open it up to other CC communities 00:16:56.640 |
where there are lots and lots of CC communities. 00:16:58.720 |
So I can get a lot of traffic just from that. 00:17:01.120 |
And then I'll see about expanding it beyond that. 00:17:04.200 |
And there are a few people at church that know. 00:17:09.160 |
- So yeah, I'm just kind of spreading the word slowly 00:17:11.400 |
until we as a family get the hang of this lending gig. 00:17:25.840 |
but some people really like to keep their books 00:17:30.840 |
to themselves, why are your books not just for you? 00:17:36.120 |
- Yeah, one of the things that was breaking my heart 00:17:46.040 |
from probably when you and I were homeschooling 00:17:52.000 |
and there are fewer and fewer things that they approve of. 00:17:58.240 |
because we can't all afford to own all the books 00:18:02.200 |
And when children, especially when children are small, 00:18:06.960 |
And so they can go through 30 picture books in a week. 00:18:13.240 |
And it really broke my heart hearing their stories 00:18:20.920 |
I had students in my challenge two, three, and four classes 00:18:23.800 |
that would get interested in an author and say, 00:18:25.600 |
oh, Mrs. Courtney, do you have George McDonald's Lilith? 00:18:35.200 |
And I have carefully selected the children's books 00:18:47.480 |
and that the books will be ones they would feel comfortable 00:18:58.080 |
Have you had much trouble with books not coming back? 00:19:04.640 |
but it's been a pretty tight circle of people I know. 00:19:07.840 |
So they've been worried about getting the books back to me 00:19:11.280 |
and the inventory will help, you know, that I can, 00:19:15.720 |
Whereas in the past, I did lose a lot of books loaning them, 00:19:18.480 |
but that's because I never made an attempt to know 00:19:21.320 |
who took it and when they took it, I just loaned them out. 00:19:27.120 |
I am quite sure that will happen at some point 00:19:29.160 |
as the circle gets wider and then I'll just, you know, 00:19:40.720 |
and I love to give people books I think they will love. 00:19:44.080 |
They say, I like this, I like this kind of thing, 00:19:52.640 |
by lending out some of my favorite books and I've lost them. 00:19:57.480 |
And sometimes they were books that were out of print 00:20:00.520 |
or hard to get and so I haven't been able to replace them. 00:20:03.440 |
So I really, really like your system of library cards 00:20:13.720 |
how does sharing your books change your world? 00:20:28.560 |
who checks out all my "Happy Hollister" mysteries, 00:20:32.320 |
they're about a family of five kids and a dog 00:20:39.080 |
It's a really strong family element, they're just precious. 00:20:43.320 |
And so it's been fun to see how excited she gets 00:20:47.080 |
when she realizes how very many there are in the series 00:20:50.240 |
and how she can continue to work with her friends. 00:21:14.400 |
and really enjoyed rereading that childhood classic 00:21:21.840 |
to connect with people about what they're reading. 00:21:36.560 |
and then you do have something to talk about. 00:21:44.760 |
tell me, this is a question I really wanted to know. 00:21:48.160 |
Do you have, and I know your propensity to cheat 00:21:50.840 |
at these kinds of games and questions, so I'm prepared. 00:21:58.360 |
I wanted to ask you what's your favorite book 00:22:00.000 |
in your library, but I know that that would not go well. 00:22:03.760 |
What are you most excited to have in your library? 00:22:31.480 |
And I think it's important for us to preserve 00:22:36.560 |
In fact, I was on a words aptly spoken book club yesterday 00:22:49.960 |
the miraculous ways that they were saved are being lost. 00:22:52.880 |
And so I really appreciate having a lot of books 00:22:56.760 |
for, you know, 10 to 12 year olds in my library 00:22:58.800 |
that are about the people who formed our country 00:23:11.960 |
And I remember reading all of those kinds of books 00:23:16.760 |
in the public library and in our church library 00:23:19.600 |
when I was little and biographies of presidents 00:23:23.240 |
from the time they were little until they were world leaders. 00:23:27.080 |
And I remember reading a biography of Clara Barton 00:23:36.160 |
of what a noble sacrificial leader is or can be 00:23:41.800 |
and how to grow those virtues from childhood on up. 00:23:45.760 |
And I love it that you are really on a mission 00:23:53.040 |
- Yeah, I also was fascinated by Clara Barton 00:23:59.040 |
So I love sharing those stories with families. 00:24:05.400 |
I did just four weeks ago acquire a hardback copy 00:24:10.400 |
of "Invincible Louisa" is the award-winning biography 00:24:21.240 |
And I now have a beautiful illustrated hardcover 00:24:26.880 |
"Surely you're not going to lend that one out." 00:24:38.960 |
will enjoy that book as much as I did as a child. 00:24:49.840 |
Well, if I get to Oklahoma, I may just check it out myself. 00:24:59.680 |
on the call are just starting out as homeschoolers. 00:25:04.720 |
And so I said at the top of the hour together, 00:25:08.840 |
starting your library could really be the superpower 00:25:14.880 |
As we're starting out or while our families are young, 00:25:46.040 |
And then I had a couple of what I call books of books. 00:25:51.240 |
One of those is now carried in the CC bookstore 00:25:56.120 |
because I knew I needed good recommendations of books. 00:25:59.240 |
So some of those I got from other homeschool parents 00:26:06.760 |
But I felt it was important to have that seed 00:26:10.880 |
so that whenever we were curious about something, 00:26:17.360 |
And my children did spend hours pouring over, 00:26:23.040 |
because they loved learning about different creatures 00:26:55.200 |
especially when my children weren't reading it. 00:27:00.480 |
that had great pictures that were our jumping off place 00:27:04.520 |
or just really basic information that I could read 00:27:09.320 |
and then water down for them to whatever level they were. 00:27:21.680 |
And one thing I find often at used book sales 00:27:46.720 |
that just are volumes and volumes of stories, 00:27:54.360 |
And I collect those almost every time I stumble across one 00:28:02.560 |
and they have aged very well for young children, 00:28:05.280 |
but that gives you lots of stories to choose from. 00:28:07.120 |
And in fact, I have a friend whose son is moving 00:28:20.800 |
And those kinds of collection books are very good for that 00:28:23.320 |
'cause they can't take anything and everything 00:28:27.600 |
- We found a couple of great fairy tale anthologies 00:28:31.240 |
and picture book anthologies 'cause he's little. 00:28:36.680 |
- Trying to think of some collections of things 00:28:41.440 |
are a good place to start when you're building your library 00:28:43.800 |
because then you can get a lot of stories in one volume. 00:28:55.000 |
You don't have to have all the things at the beginning 00:29:22.320 |
to the Laura Ingalls Wilder farm in Missouri. 00:30:04.000 |
So that again, I don't want parents worrying. 00:30:08.440 |
that they feel comfortable letting their kids read, 00:30:17.080 |
to slowly replace all my paperbacks with hardbacks. 00:30:26.000 |
- And you can find a lot of library discards in-- 00:30:35.600 |
A lot of my junior classics and junior fiction 00:30:50.880 |
your library might be two or three low bookcases 00:31:01.320 |
And like Jennifer said, a beginning reference section 00:31:05.840 |
of a dictionary and history and science encyclopedias, 00:31:10.280 |
an atlas, and maybe an anthology or a book of books 00:31:15.080 |
that gives you suggestions of other things to do. 00:31:34.440 |
Have you folded your kids' books into your library 00:31:44.000 |
- So there were a few of my children's favorites 00:31:49.480 |
because I want to be able to give them the seed 00:31:52.240 |
for their library when they form their own families. 00:31:56.480 |
So I have kept back a few, you know, a couple of favorites 00:32:09.880 |
And so they have the seed of their own libraries 00:32:18.160 |
- Yes, my girls have their bookcases in their bedrooms 00:32:29.800 |
They come back home and take an armful of their favorites. 00:32:33.680 |
Many of the picture books that they used as children 00:32:39.800 |
And I hope to keep them at my house for grandchildren, 00:32:52.000 |
- Yeah, because some of them, I let them take my grandson. 00:33:04.160 |
- I was just gonna say, I'm in a little bit of a quandary 00:33:09.000 |
for our 30th anniversary, I bought three picture books. 00:33:19.320 |
who Caldecott Picture Book Awards are named after. 00:33:26.400 |
I haven't quite worked my way up to loaning that one yet, 00:33:32.080 |
So I'm in a bit of a quandary about that one. 00:33:35.440 |
And then I bought two books by a French children's author 00:34:11.520 |
When my girls were little, I picked their library books 00:34:30.240 |
"I want to be sure that you're reading good things. 00:34:39.800 |
And she, so she showed me this paperback book. 00:34:47.240 |
And I said, "Do you think that you will like that?" 00:34:50.640 |
And she said, "Oh, I want to check this one out." 00:34:53.000 |
And so I went on and picked some other ones for her, 00:34:57.560 |
And we got home and she disappeared immediately to her room 00:35:09.400 |
that all the library books were supposed to stay in 00:35:11.920 |
because it was way too easy to get them mingled 00:35:22.800 |
Which was not beyond the pale of possibility. 00:35:35.000 |
And she said, "Well, the characters are not very fleshed out 00:35:45.120 |
I was pretty glad that she was able to see that. 00:35:47.840 |
But that brings me to this question that I have for you. 00:35:52.840 |
Do you have a little bit of everything in your library 00:35:56.480 |
or do you really have what you consider to be the good stuff? 00:36:02.360 |
My mom was pretty careful about what we read growing up. 00:36:19.920 |
there are points when it's good for kids to read fast. 00:36:26.520 |
that just help them get faster and faster at reading. 00:36:28.760 |
But even those are ones that I read with my kids 00:36:31.800 |
when they were younger and so comfortable having them. 00:36:35.800 |
Because I have limited resources to collect a library, 00:36:38.960 |
I don't see the point of collecting junk or fluff. 00:36:47.440 |
that might actually disappear if we don't all pay attention. 00:37:12.560 |
- Well, one thing, if people don't have a resource 00:37:18.320 |
I realize I'm in a time of life now where I am. 00:37:46.320 |
because we all have some number of books in our home 00:37:49.680 |
and we can share them through our CC communities 00:37:51.840 |
and through our church groups and through our neighborhoods. 00:37:58.080 |
if you don't have the resources to build a gigantic library. 00:38:20.680 |
You have told us why it's important to keep the books. 00:38:30.400 |
You mentioned that it kind of brought you up short 00:38:41.480 |
there aren't as many good books at the library 00:38:52.400 |
Physical bookstores experienced a lot of growth 00:39:02.680 |
And usually when I go to my local bookstores, 00:39:12.560 |
And I'm feeling better than I did two decades ago 00:39:32.800 |
It always made me laugh too around the years around COVID 00:40:09.000 |
And I was not above letting my voracious fast reader 00:40:14.000 |
sit and read a book and then buy another one. 00:40:20.080 |
but I was not above letting her read something 00:40:23.000 |
because we lived 30 minutes from the bookstore. 00:40:30.200 |
- That does not work for me on my fixed income. 00:40:44.000 |
you never thought you would be interested in. 00:40:51.320 |
but sometimes we got things that became favorites. 00:41:08.920 |
I had book clubs for the children in our CC communities 00:41:17.840 |
And then the other thing I forgot to share earlier 00:41:51.600 |
Mom's, dad's just starting out homeschooling. 00:41:55.600 |
If you hear that and think, wow, but I can't do that. 00:42:08.800 |
or a good share if that's not where you are in life. 00:42:13.920 |
And that's what this whole podcast has been about, 00:42:28.640 |
that you are gonna build a family culture of learning 00:42:32.240 |
as you collect your books and share your books 00:42:41.520 |
Jennifer, thank you so much for sharing about your library. 00:42:45.400 |
I know that we all wish we could go and see it, 00:42:57.440 |
- Parents, if you are thinking, man, that sounds so good. 00:43:10.360 |
a better homeschooler, a better lead learner in my home. 00:43:18.240 |
What you might need is our classical learning cohort. 00:43:23.240 |
These classical learning cohorts help CC directors 00:43:27.400 |
and tutors and parent teachers grow in their confidence 00:43:45.600 |
about how it would work or how it would work for you, 00:44:10.040 |
Go and build your libraries and read with your families