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Welcome to the show. How can I serve you today? 00:02:35.000 |
I wanted to start off with a personal question. 00:02:39.000 |
I recently sold all my rental property real estate 00:02:44.000 |
and was looking for an investment suggestion from you 00:02:54.000 |
The real estate market is not looking good to upgrade in. 00:02:59.000 |
So I wanted to know personally what other investments 00:03:03.000 |
that you may have uncovered or suggest I put that $100,000 into. 00:03:09.000 |
What are you investing for? What are you hoping to accomplish? 00:03:14.000 |
I'm hoping to invest, increase, and gain monthly cash flow. 00:03:24.000 |
I was recently considering investing in a barber shop. 00:03:32.000 |
and was looking to start open a second location 00:03:35.000 |
and add an additional schooling element to his barber shop 00:03:39.000 |
so he can teach future barbers for the area here in Virginia. 00:03:45.000 |
I have a scheduled appointment with him and his wife this Sunday 00:03:48.000 |
to talk about investing in that with the money 00:03:51.000 |
and buying equity and income, generate income from that, 00:04:08.000 |
The duration of the investment, about three years. 00:04:18.000 |
they're going to turn that into $22,000, $25,000 00:04:21.000 |
over the course of three years when they sell a car wash 00:04:24.000 |
to a known business that buys up car washes in the U.S. market. 00:04:30.000 |
Didn't know if you had anything that you found, 00:04:32.000 |
but just trying to figure out what to do with that money 00:04:41.000 |
I'm a disabled veteran, and I am also self-employed. 00:04:48.000 |
So I deliver pharmaceutical products, prescriptions, 00:04:54.000 |
lab specimens throughout the--this area in Virginia 00:04:57.000 |
has a very big presence with medical, big hospitals, 00:05:06.000 |
So I do that for myself, and then I'm a disabled veteran, 00:05:11.000 |
so I receive a monthly stipend from the military 00:05:17.000 |
Would you yourself be willing to work in a business 00:05:29.000 |
and your goal is to invest for monthly cash flow, 00:05:32.000 |
it's hard to come up with any better possible investment 00:05:37.000 |
than some form of business that you yourself work in, 00:05:45.000 |
It's not unreasonable to expect that you could turn 00:05:48.000 |
your $100,000 of capital into a business that could get you 00:05:53.000 |
$10,000 a month of cash flow or much, much more. 00:05:59.000 |
Now, the reason it's not unreasonable, though, 00:06:02.000 |
is we're kind of folding in the idea that you're working 00:06:05.000 |
in the business because that's where you have the ability 00:06:08.000 |
to then change the business to its maximum amount. 00:06:19.000 |
then that's going to be the highest potential return 00:06:23.000 |
is going to come from your investing into a business, 00:06:29.000 |
So I would encourage you to think about the attributes 00:06:35.000 |
and look at the opportunities that are in the marketplace. 00:06:37.000 |
Now, let me give you just a quick précis on a few 00:06:42.000 |
Notice I said the business that you yourself work in. 00:06:46.000 |
If you're purely engaging in some form of passive investment 00:06:50.000 |
where you're going to advance money into a business 00:06:55.000 |
you're going to have a much lower potential cash flow. 00:07:04.000 |
They just want your money, and they're going to take it 00:07:14.000 |
I'm trying to help you categorize it in your own mind 00:07:20.000 |
So think about, first of all, am I investing into a business 00:07:23.000 |
as a passive investment, just a pure money man? 00:07:30.000 |
I'm going to be getting something like a dividend yield 00:07:32.000 |
on my money, which for $100,000 is going to be 00:07:39.000 |
If you're investing into something like the car wash business, 00:07:42.000 |
then your $100,000 makes you just a minor investor, 00:07:50.000 |
but it's just going to be a relatively small amount. 00:07:57.000 |
And if you are, then you can derive your compensation. 00:08:00.000 |
Of course, some of it would be the equivalent of a salary, 00:08:03.000 |
but it's going to be where you have the most control, 00:08:13.000 |
So what I would suggest is that you think about 00:08:19.000 |
see if it fits with your overall willingness, 00:08:25.000 |
and within your network at the kinds of businesses 00:08:31.000 |
And so look at your medical delivery business 00:08:34.000 |
and ask yourself, "Well, is there a way that I could expand this?" 00:08:37.000 |
And this could be the business, because after all, I know this, 00:08:43.000 |
But on literally every corner, everywhere you go, 00:08:46.000 |
you'll find businesses that you could invest in. 00:08:49.000 |
I can't go further to give you a specific suggestion. 00:08:53.000 |
I would encourage you to go and look at some of the franchise directories, 00:08:58.000 |
because you're very well positioned to start with a new franchise. 00:09:05.000 |
your franchisor will probably give you the information that you need 00:09:15.000 |
of every business that you're thinking about getting into. 00:09:17.000 |
On the whole, that's the direction I would go 00:09:26.000 |
He sent me a list of 10 franchises that have a high propensity 00:09:32.000 |
And the two that I selected, that stood out to me, 00:09:36.000 |
were a home health care franchise and a mental health franchise, 00:09:41.000 |
both with a startup cost of less than $50K to $150K startup cost. 00:09:51.000 |
So those were two other opportunities that I was looking at 00:09:55.000 |
in addition to the car wash and the barbershop with the school. 00:10:02.000 |
So yes, I have looked into the franchise opportunity as well. 00:10:07.000 |
And let's assume that you invested the $150,000 00:10:11.000 |
into one of those opportunities that the broker suggested to you. 00:10:16.000 |
What would be the expected profit on one of those kinds of opportunities, 00:10:28.000 |
I would guess the cash flow would be about $15,000 to $22,000 a month. 00:10:36.000 |
I've also confirmed that with a young lady who owns her own practice, 00:10:42.000 |
and she said that's what she makes in her mental health practice. 00:10:48.000 |
That's what they're bringing in monthly is about $22,000 a month 00:10:52.000 |
with their mental health practice, and they're all remote. 00:10:55.000 |
They use interns, a lot of interns, and their costs are very, very low. 00:11:05.000 |
that if your investment goal is cash flow, you're in the right direction. 00:11:09.000 |
I wouldn't be comfortable making comments beyond what I've said 00:11:14.000 |
but I think you're looking in the right direction 00:11:24.000 |
Maybe consider another 10 from another franchise broker. 00:11:26.000 |
Do good due diligence in interviewing other people who are involved in this. 00:11:30.000 |
Think about where the franchise agreement puts you in three years, five years. 00:11:35.000 |
But if those things fit your vision, I think you'd be very well served 00:11:56.000 |
Hey, this is hopefully an easy lifestyle-related question. 00:11:59.000 |
Exploration is a key part of our family culture, 00:12:03.000 |
and we live in the Mid-South, so we do a lot of road tripping. 00:12:07.000 |
I've heard you talk off and on about overlanding or things like that. 00:12:15.000 |
we typically spend probably 10 to 15 nights a year ground camping. 00:12:23.000 |
Usually got six bikes and then like a kayak and stand-up paddleboard. 00:12:30.000 |
But the interior volume is still really tight, and it may be marketing, 00:12:38.000 |
but the overland setups look slick, and they add a lot of creature comforts. 00:12:45.000 |
and kind of reduce the friction when we say, "Hey, let's go out 00:12:53.000 |
We don't truly need like hardcore overland off-grid, 00:12:57.000 |
kind of like Earth Roamer extended time off the grid. 00:13:04.000 |
and I've heard you talk about fewer vehicles is better. 00:13:12.000 |
are you referring to the interior volume of your suburban? 00:13:17.000 |
And you're traveling as a family of six, two adults, four children? 00:13:28.000 |
and bikes that I can currently put in the trunk 00:13:36.000 |
If I woke up in your shoes, I'd keep the suburban. 00:13:37.000 |
I'd just add a trailer or a small cargo trailer 00:13:52.000 |
so I've been curious about whether it's a toy hauler 00:13:55.000 |
or a purely cargo or a teardrop, things like that. 00:14:01.000 |
are you thinking mainly of cargo for the stuff? 00:14:05.000 |
that I think would probably solve what you're trying. 00:14:07.000 |
So if you're going out for maximum a couple weeks, 00:14:13.000 |
to consider going with a large structured trailer 00:14:25.000 |
that we took back and forth across the United States. 00:14:28.000 |
And there wasn't enough room in the pop-up camper 00:14:31.000 |
so the boys always got stuck in a cheap tent on the ground. 00:15:25.000 |
But it adds a whole different set of friction to your life 00:15:38.000 |
I have learned that I would only do that again 00:15:49.000 |
and you're gonna be full-time on the road for a year, 00:16:31.000 |
When you're camping for up to 15 nights a year, 00:16:44.000 |
go rent a place at a hotel with an indoor pool 00:17:18.000 |
just for the confidence of having the double axles, 00:17:29.000 |
but you have a trailer that tows really easily, 00:17:32.000 |
is really simple to put in and out of a campsite 00:17:39.000 |
And if you're not doing hardcore backwoods travel, 00:18:14.000 |
but you just keep your current ground tent set up. 00:18:19.000 |
if you're genuinely going onto off-road trails 00:18:34.000 |
one of those nice three-way tow hitch connections 00:18:41.000 |
and all of the off-road camber pretty easily. 00:18:57.000 |
California realtors are Californians just like you, 00:19:08.000 |
on the biggest financial decision of your life. 00:19:17.000 |
because we know California real estate is not easy. 00:19:27.000 |
we're there to help you get through what's new and different. 00:19:30.000 |
We tirelessly negotiate so you don't have to, 00:19:46.000 |
just get one and maybe put one rooftop tent on it 00:19:50.000 |
and then keep the kids in a nice ground tent, 00:19:53.000 |
where you could put two big rooftop tents on it 00:19:57.000 |
of just the convenience of the rooftop tent on the trailer, 00:20:00.000 |
but yet you're still living outside around the vehicle. 00:20:03.000 |
I think those are the two most practical setups 00:20:12.000 |
I'm picturing like the open-air cargo trailer, 00:20:54.000 |
Go in the forums there on expeditionportal.com 00:21:02.000 |
from some of those guys who know that market. 00:21:07.000 |
Yeah, has your family wound up being an outdoors culture? 00:21:17.000 |
That's where I've spent so much time thinking about it 00:21:27.000 |
So the only rational way to approach these decisions 00:21:38.000 |
The vehicle that you want for 15 nights of camping 00:21:44.000 |
within a four to five-hour drive of your home 00:21:46.000 |
is going to be very different than the vehicle 00:22:06.000 |
You can bring along some slightly bigger pieces of gear 00:22:09.000 |
that make your car camping trip a little easier. 00:22:16.000 |
All that stuff fits beautifully in the cargo trailer, 00:22:28.000 |
- Yeah, I was going to say, thanks for the softball. 00:22:30.000 |
It doesn't get easier than that and more fun. 00:22:49.000 |
and I wanted to say thank you for your great insight 00:22:52.000 |
and ability to foresee the future during the pandemic. 00:22:56.000 |
I think you greatly helped me stay safe and myself as well, 00:23:23.000 |
So I am trying to buy a car, but I essentially have no cash. 00:23:29.000 |
It's close to $100,000, but it's, like, all in crypto. 00:23:38.000 |
I've looked at a lot of options, but I'm just stuck on how to get -- 00:23:46.000 |
and I'm just a little stuck on how to get the money 00:23:50.000 |
and, like, what should I -- or should I still do this? 00:23:54.000 |
I don't know. I really want the car, but I don't know. 00:24:04.000 |
With this current job, I'm not working my normal job in HR. 00:24:22.000 |
You're earning $60,000 a year, and as I understand it, 00:24:26.000 |
you don't have any money saved that is available for buying a car, 00:24:30.000 |
but you do have about $100,000 in crypto value. 00:24:49.000 |
I was -- when I first got into personal finance, 00:24:56.000 |
where I'm going to invest everything and not keep any -- 00:24:58.000 |
like, only keep $1,000 cash on hand, basically, 00:25:02.000 |
and, like, it's been really hard for me to break that. 00:25:05.000 |
So I'm kind of just really, like, basically addicted to it. 00:25:09.000 |
Anytime I get money, I just want to invest it over. 00:25:13.000 |
I had probably about $10,000 not too long ago, 00:25:16.000 |
and, like, situations came up where I, you know, 00:25:22.000 |
probably used it for something else, like my normal life, 00:25:27.000 |
and I've kind of just ended up in the position now 00:25:36.000 |
such as retirement investments, things like that? 00:25:40.000 |
- About half of that is actually in a retirement account 00:25:45.000 |
that I moved from a 401(k) to a IRA, a crypto IRA. 00:26:00.000 |
and, like, $2,000 in a random brokerage account. 00:26:22.000 |
The reason why I want the car is kind of an image deal. 00:26:34.000 |
Like, it's something I've vacated for a long time 00:26:37.000 |
and, like, or, you know, just haven't really prioritized, 00:26:40.000 |
and, like, I believe it's time for me to do this. 00:26:55.000 |
So I'm totally in favor of your buying another car. 00:27:01.000 |
If you observe the fact that I've got this junky old car 00:27:05.000 |
and this junky old car is no longer appropriate for me 00:27:11.000 |
then absolutely, go ahead and upgrade your car. 00:27:15.000 |
The first thing to talk about is how much money 00:27:18.000 |
you should consider spending on your new upgraded car. 00:27:27.000 |
then I would recommend that you target spending 00:27:46.000 |
But I recognize that there may be good reasons 00:27:51.000 |
So your budget for your next car should be between $6,000 00:28:00.000 |
That's the total purchase price of your vehicle. 00:28:03.000 |
So again, from a purely financial perspective, 00:28:07.000 |
go as close to the $6,000 as you possibly can. 00:28:11.000 |
But if it turns out that there's a vehicle that's appropriate, 00:28:16.000 |
I'm not going to beat you up and say you're stupid. 00:28:23.000 |
but any higher than 50%, I'll call you stupid. 00:28:27.000 |
But your budget should be between $6,000 and $30,000. 00:28:33.000 |
should involve exclusively the money that you have 00:28:37.000 |
that you can give to another person for the car. 00:28:45.000 |
because to do so will always result in your overspending 00:28:50.000 |
for something that goes down in value like crazy. 00:28:56.000 |
you shouldn't buy it when it comes to something like a car 00:29:01.000 |
So you do have money, you just don't want to spend it. 00:29:05.000 |
You first of all have some value of the car that you have 00:29:26.000 |
You have $2,000 in a brokerage account that you could use, 00:29:29.000 |
and there'd be another that'd take you to $4,500. 00:29:33.000 |
And then if you need to take some money out of your Roth IRA, 00:29:38.000 |
What I think you should be very concerned about 00:29:46.000 |
you should ask yourself why is it that I don't have it. 00:29:50.000 |
because that's what I've been putting money into, 00:29:58.000 |
and in three months with a $60,000 income as a single man, 00:30:05.000 |
So what I would suggest is you put the current car on the market, 00:30:10.000 |
see if you can start to get a little interest in that. 00:30:15.000 |
and then just start saving money like crazy out of your budget. 00:30:27.000 |
The idea being that recognize that I need a car, 00:30:33.000 |
and that takes a priority over my other investing. 00:30:46.000 |
And if you need to upgrade for a better image, great. 00:30:49.000 |
But there's no reason why that needs to happen 00:30:54.000 |
that it takes you to save the money for your next car. 00:31:11.000 |
and then I was going to try to start a little rental car company. 00:31:16.000 |
That is part of the plan for the next five years. 00:31:19.000 |
You're breaking up just a little bit after you said 00:31:27.000 |
you were thinking about starting a rental car company, 00:31:33.000 |
and you think that you could rent out this little $2,500 car 00:31:38.000 |
then sure, you could probably make more money with it as a rental 00:31:41.000 |
than what you're going to get selling it out in the open market. 00:31:46.000 |
and I would give you full rights of decide whatever is best for you. 00:31:50.000 |
I just want you to follow two or three rules. 00:31:56.000 |
is the total value of the car up to as high as 50%, 00:32:00.000 |
so your budget should be $6,000 to as high as $30,000. 00:32:04.000 |
Rule number two, you only buy what you can afford to pay cash for, 00:32:10.000 |
or you have to sell some investment that you've previously made 00:32:17.000 |
And then number three is think really carefully 00:32:19.000 |
about what you actually need from the perspective of image, 00:32:30.000 |
that will fit this image issue without being stupid. 00:32:36.000 |
I need to drive a car that is a little bit newer. 00:32:39.000 |
Well, maybe a Tesla Model 3 or something like that 00:32:43.000 |
doesn't come with the baggage that it gives you a high-performance, 00:32:47.000 |
high-functioning car that doesn't come with the baggage of a BMW 3 Series. 00:32:53.000 |
And so you don't want image to be kind of this aspirational thing 00:32:57.000 |
because what happens is frequently when people say that, 00:33:01.000 |
they turn towards the entry model of a luxury brand, 00:33:05.000 |
and the entry model of a luxury brand winds up making you look stupid 00:33:13.000 |
to actually afford a decent car with that company, 00:33:15.000 |
and now you wind up with high ownership costs, high maintenance costs, 00:33:19.000 |
and it just turns into a piece of junk very quickly. 00:33:22.000 |
So I think the perfect car for most guys, for most people, is a Toyota Prius. 00:33:27.000 |
Unless you need something that has a higher level of sex appeal, 00:33:31.000 |
in which case go and find some kind of crossover SUV or something like that 00:33:36.000 |
that kind of doesn't fit any kind of image issues, 00:33:43.000 |
No one knows whether you're a greenie or just smart with money, 00:33:47.000 |
and yet it's a great, reliable vehicle that you can have for many years, 00:33:51.000 |
widely available, good parts availability, it's great. 00:33:55.000 |
Look for some kind of efficient crossover or something 00:33:59.000 |
that just doesn't fit any kind of standard mold, 00:34:04.000 |
and that way you're not driving something that's clearly cheap, clearly junky, 00:34:08.000 |
but you are fixing your image issues, but you're doing it in an intelligent way. 00:34:13.000 |
So with those things in mind, go and do that. 00:34:15.000 |
Just give yourself three to six months and save for it, 00:34:17.000 |
and use it as a chance to save like a crazy man 00:34:20.000 |
so that you can pay for the thing that you actually want. 00:34:23.000 |
Cavanaugh in California, welcome to the show. 00:34:39.000 |
I was calling because I've been listening to you for years. 00:34:42.000 |
I think we have somewhere around the same number of kids. 00:34:48.000 |
We also homeschooled, also Charlotte Mason style. 00:35:03.000 |
maybe this is something you'd end up doing a whole show about at some point. 00:35:06.000 |
I know you've talked about traveling with kids. 00:35:08.000 |
I would love some tips on the financial side of traveling with kids. 00:35:14.000 |
I was curious, do you play any of the credit card games to do the points 00:35:19.000 |
I know when you did that big traveling trip, you flew a ton. 00:35:27.000 |
I'm just wondering how some people do it because it's crazy. 00:35:33.000 |
What's your second question just so I know how to position my answers? 00:35:36.000 |
My second question is about my oldest who is about to be 12. 00:35:57.000 |
He actually spends more time listening to audiobooks than anyone I've ever 00:36:08.000 |
He's absolutely insecure because of his dyslexia. 00:36:12.000 |
He ended up being very athletic and does very well in several sports to the 00:36:17.000 |
point where we ended up involving him in travel sports, 00:36:21.000 |
which is always one of those things I said we'd never do. 00:36:23.000 |
Amazing how our commitments go out the window when we face a circumstance 00:36:27.000 |
where all of a sudden I need to do this thing that I said I would never do. 00:36:30.000 |
I spent years saying we would never do that, but here we are. 00:36:33.000 |
He's also the kind of kid that has a really good head on his shoulders and 00:36:40.000 |
He's always starting different businesses and has saved several thousand 00:36:44.000 |
dollars at only 11 and is already investing in the stock market. 00:36:50.000 |
He's already thinking about what kind of career he wants in the future. 00:36:52.000 |
When you're talking about all the different trades and everything, 00:36:55.000 |
that's kind of -- we've had a couple conversations about it, too. 00:36:59.000 |
Interestingly, his latest idea is that he wants to be a plumber and start his 00:37:04.000 |
plumbing empire, as he calls it, because his dad is self-employed and owns his 00:37:13.000 |
I'm just curious if you were talking to a kid in that situation, you tend to 00:37:26.000 |
I'm just curious if you had any directions to start looking into for him. 00:37:31.000 |
First of all, let's start with that one, and then I will answer the travel 00:37:36.000 |
I just want to do it, and I'll do it now in this show rather than saving it for 00:37:39.000 |
another episode, because somehow my list of shows I should do tends to be longer 00:37:46.000 |
First, I would say that even though your son has profound dyslexia, he shouldn't 00:37:53.000 |
automatically avoid some kind of academic or intellectual work. 00:38:01.000 |
First, Andrew Pudowa, who is a well-known speaker in the homeschool – Pudowa, I 00:38:09.000 |
I'm pretty sure we've listened to his interviews of his son, because he's also 00:38:16.000 |
For those who are uninitiated, he's the guy who started something called the 00:38:19.000 |
Institute for the Excellence in Writing, is well-known in homeschool circles, 00:38:24.000 |
As I understand his story, he had his son, who was profoundly dyslexic, couldn't 00:38:30.000 |
read a book with his eyes until he was 15 years old, something like that, and 00:38:36.000 |
just couldn't do anything with his eyes until he was in his teenage years. 00:38:41.000 |
I don't know what he ultimately broke through with, but what Andrew would say 00:38:47.000 |
is that this son of his, he did everything with audiobooks, and this son of his 00:38:54.000 |
Basically, his entire homeschool education was audiobooks. 00:38:59.000 |
As it turns out, because I listened to a seminar that he gave on how to teach 00:39:02.000 |
people to be effective writers, he alleged that this son of his was actually a 00:39:07.000 |
better writer when they were able to develop strategies to deal with the 00:39:13.000 |
dyslexia, he was a better writer than any of his other children. 00:39:18.000 |
In thinking back about it, he realized that because he had had so much exposure 00:39:23.000 |
to the verbal language, his son had a much deeper connection with language than 00:39:30.000 |
any of his children did who read with their eyes. 00:39:34.000 |
It was based upon that that actually convinced me to not try to get away from 00:39:42.000 |
The point that he alleged in the talk that I listened to was that when children 00:39:48.000 |
are very skilled at reading with their eyes, then they have a tendency to skip 00:39:53.000 |
over the language and just read for meaning, whereas when someone's always 00:39:57.000 |
reading with his ears, then he hears the language all the time, and thus the 00:40:03.000 |
beauty of the language is imprinted on him more to a deeper level. 00:40:09.000 |
We live in 2024, in which not only is there massive profusion of professionally 00:40:15.000 |
recorded audiobooks, but also we have really good AI voice generation where any 00:40:22.000 |
document can be read aloud to your son, and so he can have amazing access to the 00:40:29.000 |
text, and I would just make everything reading with his ears while you work with 00:40:33.000 |
whatever therapists and things like that who are working for solutions for him to 00:40:36.000 |
be able to function in reading with his eyes. 00:40:39.000 |
The second thing I would say is that this in no way diminishes his long-term 00:40:45.000 |
My friend Mikel Thorup has an interesting story. 00:40:48.000 |
He runs Expat Money, and he dropped out of school when he was 12 or 13 years old, 00:40:54.000 |
and one of the big issues for him was dyslexia. 00:40:58.000 |
He couldn't do well in school, and he just couldn't conquer it. 00:41:01.000 |
So he dropped out of school, started traveling the world, and thought, "I just 00:41:06.000 |
I'm not fit for learning in any way, shape, or form." 00:41:09.000 |
Later on, he figured out that he could read using audiobooks, and so today he 00:41:15.000 |
listens to audiobooks constantly, and he reads over 100 books a year, and he does 00:41:22.000 |
it all by listening to audiobooks at about 3x speed, and that's how he consumes his 00:41:29.000 |
He runs a multimillion-dollar business, is financially independent, travels the 00:41:33.000 |
world, he and his wife have three beautiful children. 00:41:36.000 |
He's in no way limited by the learning disability that gave issues for him when 00:41:41.000 |
he was younger because he figured out how to work with it. 00:41:45.000 |
And so today, with the world of audiobooks, especially with accelerated 00:41:49.000 |
audiobook listening, your son can use that to learn just as well as anyone else. 00:41:54.000 |
And then if you'll continue to get him therapy until he figures out something 00:41:58.000 |
that works for him to be able to read with his eyes effectively and knowing that it 00:42:02.000 |
might take many more years, I don't think he should just automatically walk away 00:42:06.000 |
from a life of the mind because of this, but rather he should approach it from the 00:42:11.000 |
perspective of, "I can do this, and I can also do these other great things because 00:42:15.000 |
there's nothing wrong with blue-collar businesses. 00:42:18.000 |
There's nothing wrong with any of these businesses." 00:42:20.000 |
But he shouldn't just automatically let his dyslexia be seen as something that is 00:42:27.000 |
It can be overcome, it is being overcome, and it can continue to be overcome, 00:42:39.000 |
Lately, there's been a lot in the news about real estate and realtors, 00:42:45.000 |
California realtors are Californians just like you, your neighbor, your best friend's 00:42:53.000 |
And we all strive every day to be your trusted advisors on the biggest financial 00:42:59.000 |
No one cares more about helping Californians live the California dream than 00:43:03.000 |
California realtors because we know California real estate is not easy. 00:43:10.000 |
But if you're a first-timer, we help you confidently get in the game. 00:43:14.000 |
And if you've been there, done that, we're there to help you get through 00:43:19.000 |
We tirelessly negotiate so you don't have to, and we help you get past all the 00:43:23.000 |
tough stuff and on to the good stuff, not because it's our job, 00:43:36.000 |
I think a good bit of it, I mean, he, when you were saying has a better command 00:43:40.000 |
of language, I would absolutely say his vocabulary and command of language are 00:43:44.000 |
surpasses, like, any other kids I know his age. 00:43:46.000 |
And I would say he is exposed to great literature all the time. 00:43:54.000 |
We have done a lot of the, like, AI language stuff. 00:43:56.000 |
And I'm really thankful that, at least if he's dyslexic, 00:43:59.000 |
he's dyslexic in 2024 where we can, you know, 00:44:02.000 |
there's so many tools that we can use to help him. 00:44:04.000 |
And I do think, like, learning to advocate for himself, 00:44:07.000 |
to be able to use those tools in other situations is, 00:44:10.000 |
and it's still something, despite having encouraged him that way, 00:44:14.000 |
it's something he definitely feels a lot of embarrassment about. 00:44:17.000 |
And, you know, we're working with him, but it's hard to be a middle school 00:44:20.000 |
boy, you know, so we have sympathy that way, too. 00:44:24.000 |
But nonetheless, I mean, and so we are, you know, 00:44:27.000 |
I don't want him to think that any career path is closed for him, too. 00:44:31.000 |
he's absolutely one of those kids that, like, 00:44:33.000 |
loves to think about the future and, like, plan for the future. 00:44:35.000 |
And he already does like to consider a career. 00:44:37.000 |
So I guess, yeah, I was just curious if there was anything, 00:44:40.000 |
while we don't want to close doors for him, just, I don't know, 00:44:46.000 |
Because I notice you tend to be good at that. 00:44:49.000 |
You always have an idea that I've never thought of before. 00:44:51.000 |
Hopefully just some inspiration is important. 00:44:55.000 |
And he needs to just understand that, you know, people are different. 00:45:07.000 |
when that society doesn't fit the values that we ourselves want to espouse. 00:45:14.000 |
But I want to appreciate the fact that we do live in a kinder, 00:45:22.000 |
and we're much less likely to spend our time criticizing people 00:45:26.000 |
for fundamental characteristics that are innate to who they are, 00:45:30.000 |
when we, instead of just appreciating them for who they are. 00:45:47.000 |
Today, I joke about autism because I'm convinced that a lot of forms of autism 00:45:54.000 |
And similar things, ADHD is in some ways a superpower. 00:46:04.000 |
But the point is simply that these things are, 00:46:07.000 |
these differences are not differences to be shunned 00:46:11.000 |
or to be made fun of or discriminated against. 00:46:14.000 |
They're things that genuinely we can work with. 00:46:17.000 |
And so any way that we can inspire his confidence is important. 00:46:24.000 |
that there are lots and lots of very successful people 00:46:29.000 |
and they have been able to figure out ways to deal with it, 00:46:37.000 |
I've been thinking and thinking and thinking. 00:46:39.000 |
I heard some wacko theory about dyslexia at one point in time, 00:46:47.000 |
but go out and look for some wacko theories about dyslexia 00:46:49.000 |
and see if there's something that you've not considered or not tried. 00:46:53.000 |
But beyond that, I just want to encourage him 00:46:58.000 |
Listening to audiobooks is just as effective as reading them. 00:47:01.000 |
Reading them with your ears is just as effective as reading them with your eyes. 00:47:04.000 |
And I think that the fact that he's in a homeschool environment 00:47:07.000 |
and he's great at sports, we can work on his strengths. 00:47:13.000 |
truly, your gifts make a place for you in the world. 00:47:17.000 |
And he should just always lean into his strengths 00:47:21.000 |
and try to, from time to time, shore up weaknesses. 00:47:24.000 |
But a lot of times, people spend so much time 00:47:26.000 |
focusing on their weaknesses instead of their strengths 00:47:34.000 |
is to focus doggedly on the things that you're really good at 00:47:39.000 |
And so lean into athletics, lean into literature, 00:47:47.000 |
You don't have to be able to write to be a world-class speaker. 00:47:52.000 |
Let me pivot back now to traveling with children 00:47:59.000 |
I would say that reality always means that we need to acknowledge 00:48:04.000 |
that it's going to be different traveling with five children 00:48:14.000 |
And that's going to mean that our travels are going to look different 00:48:24.000 |
If I have the choice between having five children 00:48:30.000 |
on a regional or national basis doing road trips around our house 00:48:40.000 |
I'm going to pick the five children every single time 00:48:49.000 |
and much more effective and a much better lifestyle 00:48:52.000 |
for everyone above than the bouncing around the world. 00:49:00.000 |
and your family travel involves traveling around 00:49:09.000 |
is traveling around the world with her parents 00:49:27.000 |
I was just this weekend starting a mini outline of a show 00:49:37.000 |
because I believe it's important that guys like me 00:49:39.000 |
who talk about travel and talk about the stuff that we did 00:49:41.000 |
and I took my children to 16 countries last year 00:49:44.000 |
so I do have some credentials and bona fides in this area 00:49:48.000 |
and on the whole while I'm happy about a lot of it, 00:49:54.000 |
and especially for Americans living in the United States, 00:49:58.000 |
a lot of international travel is just overrated. 00:50:05.000 |
than traveling around the world on every objective level. 00:50:10.000 |
The primary reason many people want to do international travel 00:50:22.000 |
and as more and more luxury goods have become more common, 00:50:32.000 |
that we can show to others that's not easily achievable 00:50:46.000 |
One of the reasons I travel is because it allows me to say, 00:50:50.000 |
I've been to all these places around the world." 00:50:52.000 |
It's not only that, so I don't want to oversell the point, 00:50:55.000 |
but I do want to make sure that we understand 00:50:57.000 |
that in many cases we're not talking about something that's real. 00:51:03.000 |
Let's say you want to take a vacation to Hawaii 00:51:07.000 |
or you want to take a vacation to Costa Rica. 00:51:10.000 |
I'm going to bet that on the whole your vacation to Hawaii 00:51:23.000 |
but oh, you didn't get a stamp in your passport. 00:51:38.000 |
there needs to be some other reason other than those things 00:51:41.000 |
and so that's where I embrace the difficulty of it. 00:51:50.000 |
it's going to be a more difficult experience, 00:51:53.000 |
is because I want to see a world that's not perfect, 00:51:55.000 |
where not all the bushes are beautifully manicured 00:51:58.000 |
and where not all the people have great customer service. 00:52:01.000 |
So I travel to get worse experiences that cost me more money 00:52:08.000 |
and the linguistic diversity, things like that. 00:52:15.000 |
is to travel around the world with my five children. 00:52:29.000 |
If you still have a desire to travel after that, 00:52:35.000 |
I now appreciate what I didn't appreciate before 00:52:42.000 |
you have to pull it apart into its component parts 00:52:45.000 |
and figure out where does the cost of travel come from. 00:52:59.000 |
shockingly cheap if you're flexible on time and location. 00:53:05.000 |
So you alluded to traveling with credit card points, 00:53:09.000 |
It is possible to travel with credit card points. 00:53:11.000 |
I did a whole podcast on the value of credit card points. 00:53:28.000 |
And so the people who should use credit card points 00:53:30.000 |
are generally people who just have high structural expenses, 00:53:41.000 |
So if you've got tens of thousands of dollars 00:53:43.000 |
of business expenses that are spendable as credit cards, 00:53:45.000 |
do that, collect the points, and travel that way. 00:53:58.000 |
but I don't think it's the highest and best use of time. 00:54:01.000 |
The secret to traveling inexpensively with children 00:54:08.000 |
to travel to the places that it's cheap to travel. 00:54:21.000 |
doesn't have availability for seven tickets at a time. 00:54:25.000 |
And you're probably not going to collect enough points 00:54:32.000 |
But what you can do is you can get inexpensive tickets 00:54:42.000 |
has different places that you can travel inexpensively. 00:54:49.000 |
that can get you back and forth to Asia pretty expensively. 00:54:51.000 |
You've got ZipAir that can get you to Tokyo for a few hundred dollars. 00:54:55.000 |
There's other low-cost carriers that come in and out. 00:54:58.000 |
And if you buy your fares when the fares are cheap 00:55:02.000 |
and you buy them to the places that are cheap, 00:55:08.000 |
there's all kinds of discounts to the Caribbean, 00:55:12.000 |
and then to Europe on low-cost carriers and low-cost fares. 00:55:16.000 |
So the first secret to inexpensive family travel 00:55:23.000 |
that you're going to travel in a specific place. 00:55:30.000 |
and then figure out what you're going to do when you get there. 00:55:51.000 |
I subscribed to years to Scott's Cheap Flights, 00:56:29.000 |
So figure out when you can get a transatlantic 01:00:56.000 |
now the daily cost of your tickets gets higher. 01:00:59.000 |
But if you can take that same $3,000 of expenses 01:01:04.000 |
and you can amortize that $3,000 over 60 days, 01:01:22.000 |
and then another one and another one for 30 days 01:01:24.000 |
and you get another 25% monthly rental discount 01:01:30.000 |
your daily cost of your accommodation is now lower. 01:01:33.000 |
And then the third big cost has to do with food. 01:01:39.000 |
because the expenses of tickets are much higher 01:01:42.000 |
and the expenses of eating out now become much higher. 01:01:51.000 |
to be spending $500 to $750 a day in food costs. 01:01:58.000 |
where you can choose your eating out to strategic, 01:02:02.000 |
to either a peak experience or something else. 01:02:05.000 |
And so you want to stay in a place where you can cook 01:02:11.000 |
or once every other day or once every third day 01:02:24.000 |
The final thing that if you really want to travel 01:02:28.000 |
the best way to do that is to get your own RV for a family. 01:02:32.000 |
The lowest possible cost of travel for a large family 01:02:35.000 |
is to have your own RV and to travel in your own RV. 01:02:39.000 |
So if you do this, and you can do this all around the world, 01:02:44.000 |
you now aren't paying per person per bed per night. 01:02:50.000 |
and you're usually going to pay, depending on the place, 01:02:53.000 |
you're usually going to pay a fee for the vehicle 01:02:55.000 |
for a camping spot rather than a fee per person. 01:02:58.000 |
You can now have your own food that you travel with 01:03:04.000 |
because you have your own cookware, things like that. 01:03:07.000 |
And so the actual costs of travel diminish quite a lot. 01:03:13.000 |
and going for a style that's going to give you 01:03:16.000 |
the kinds of travel experiences that you're looking for 01:03:24.000 |
buy an RV or rent an RV, but in many cases, buy an RV, 01:03:45.000 |
that rather you can do a lot of that close to home 01:03:48.000 |
and you can do a lot of the culture stuff even at home. 01:03:56.000 |
has to do with things like foreign language acquisition. 01:04:10.000 |
And I myself previously had an unrealistic perspective. 01:04:14.000 |
This is one of the reasons people want to travel. 01:04:16.000 |
It's actually very hard to learn languages while traveling 01:04:19.000 |
unless you're genuinely going to move to another country 01:04:28.000 |
which by the way is a strategy that you should consider. 01:04:37.000 |
is not to try to take an annual trip to Europe for three weeks. 01:04:41.000 |
Rather, it's to wait until you've got a 15 year old, 01:04:44.000 |
a 13 year old, a 11 year old, a nine year old, 01:04:46.000 |
and a seven year old and then move to Europe for a year. 01:04:52.000 |
Rent out your house in California for a year. 01:04:59.000 |
and then make short trips from your central location. 01:05:12.000 |
because you can get a six month visa free entry as a tourist. 01:05:23.000 |
back and forth from London to every corner of Europe 01:05:31.000 |
And so having a location where you do your travels 01:05:36.000 |
is a much better idea than trying to plan a two week trip 01:05:57.000 |
you have no time to spend on language studies. 01:05:59.000 |
So you don't actually wind up learning much language 01:06:04.000 |
The best you can hope for in terms of language studies 01:06:12.000 |
Your best format for actual immersion study is at home 01:06:18.000 |
and we can just do two hours of French every day 01:06:27.000 |
And then once you have a very high level of French comprehension 01:06:34.000 |
and enjoy that as like your language activation 01:06:38.000 |
But if your children have very rudimentary language ability 01:06:41.000 |
don't think that somehow it's gonna magically fix itself 01:06:47.000 |
but hopefully that's enough to get you started 01:06:58.000 |
- Oh, probably when I have more time, sometime 01:07:04.000 |
about women in Harrison, but I don't have enough time 01:07:15.000 |
All right, Lindsey in Colorado, welcome to the show. 01:07:27.000 |
I've been interested of course to hear your thoughts 01:07:32.000 |
and I especially appreciated your recent episode 01:07:37.000 |
Let me give a little background about what I'm hoping 01:07:52.000 |
and then I went to schools in the US and I'm an attorney 01:07:56.000 |
and we've always really valued education for our kids. 01:08:05.000 |
and thank God our kids seem to be, they're young 01:08:08.000 |
but they seem to be very bright, very academically inclined. 01:08:13.000 |
And I would have thought that we would be doing everything 01:08:18.000 |
we can to set them up to go to elite universities 01:08:24.000 |
If their inclination continues, I also am of two minds. 01:08:29.000 |
I believe that we can also get pretty much everything 01:08:32.000 |
that you get at university in books and on YouTube. 01:08:38.000 |
However, both the, I think that the opportunities 01:08:41.000 |
that come with getting an elite degree are just second to none. 01:08:47.000 |
That you get both the signaling that you get to say 01:08:50.000 |
you're an intelligent person who went to XYZ school 01:08:57.000 |
and just make more opportunities for yourself. 01:09:01.000 |
So I would have thought that that would be the case. 01:09:07.000 |
I think I've been watching or we've been watching 01:09:10.000 |
with growing concern about, with respect to some 01:09:15.000 |
of the values that are, and the dogmas that are 01:09:24.000 |
Another piece of this is that we're Orthodox Jews 01:09:29.000 |
and so I think that in many ways, similar to Christians, 01:09:38.000 |
that are very important to us and that's gonna carry through 01:09:43.000 |
and we want our kids to maintain those values as well. 01:09:50.000 |
in our community, of course, with lots of ideas 01:09:57.000 |
You know, both, you know, we are concerned perhaps 01:10:02.000 |
We've been really just aghast at what, you know, 01:10:10.000 |
and defecating there and siding with terrorists 01:10:20.000 |
And, you know, and we are also concerned though, 01:10:27.000 |
in a very snowflakey way, it's just, you know, 01:10:29.000 |
if you're paying for the privilege for your kids 01:10:31.000 |
to be, you know, taunted and then also maybe missing out 01:10:37.000 |
on opportunities with professors and, you know, 01:10:42.000 |
And then we're also concerned about their morality. 01:10:45.000 |
You know, with being in an environment like that, 01:10:49.000 |
you know, is something that we would be concerned about, 01:10:56.000 |
start to adopt this oppressor, oppressed mentality 01:11:10.000 |
and either, you know, when to, I think about like 01:11:26.000 |
But if you, you know, just dump them into a pot 01:11:31.000 |
I've heard that's not actually true, but you get the idea. 01:11:35.000 |
- And in any case, you know, whether it makes sense 01:11:40.000 |
or at what point it makes sense to be looking at, 01:11:43.000 |
to be looking at alternatives, whether to, you know, 01:11:46.000 |
whether we maybe shouldn't be going to colleges 01:11:56.000 |
and they're not really promoting a lot of the values 01:12:02.000 |
just choosing the right university versus, you know, 01:12:07.000 |
for the university, you know, with facts, with values, 01:12:12.000 |
with, you know, speaking and writing ability. 01:12:15.000 |
And then, you know, and then of course making connections 01:12:19.000 |
help our kids, you know, be in the right communities 01:12:24.000 |
But I would just love to hear just your perspective 01:12:37.000 |
So the first thing that's, I love the question. 01:12:41.000 |
It's something that I think obsessively about 01:12:45.000 |
But there is going to be a big difference today 01:12:51.000 |
And that difference is partly going to be driven 01:12:53.000 |
by what is the actual campus environment today 01:13:01.000 |
It's also going to be driven by what are the actual ambitions 01:13:12.000 |
So these are the things that make it difficult to assess 01:13:31.000 |
until we get a sense of who your student actually is 01:13:36.000 |
and what your student actually wants to study. 01:13:45.000 |
or excuse me, in 10 years for this individual student. 01:13:52.000 |
and what your income is and what your assets are. 01:13:57.000 |
I'm gonna talk about it from a framework perspective, 01:14:03.000 |
and there are many, all of them are important. 01:14:12.000 |
based upon whatever the elite universities are 01:14:14.000 |
or are not doing at that point in time for admissions. 01:14:22.000 |
the value of an elite university education today 01:14:30.000 |
have dramatically diminished their brand value 01:14:33.000 |
with all of the events over the last couple of weeks. 01:14:35.000 |
There's no one denying that there still have brand value, 01:14:42.000 |
the same way today as I looked at a Columbia grad 01:14:47.000 |
And so that Columbia grad is gonna have to do, 01:14:52.000 |
that Columbia grad is gonna have to demonstrate 01:15:00.000 |
that they're not an anti-Semite racist protester of some kind 01:15:06.000 |
who's just crazy and crazy at making decisions. 01:15:13.000 |
with anti-Semitic philosophy left, right and center 01:15:17.000 |
So it's not a surprise what's boiling over today. 01:15:33.000 |
So what we can be doing is be paying attention to it. 01:15:36.000 |
And as I would see, the basic focus that we have 01:15:44.000 |
And the nice thing about it is the things that we do 01:15:57.000 |
understanding that they're going to drop out of school 01:15:59.000 |
at 16 years old and become a self-employed entrepreneur 01:16:05.000 |
And we don't want to be so laser focused on college 01:16:16.000 |
So it's good to keep kind of a general perspective on it. 01:16:21.000 |
Let's start with the first thing that you've alluded to, 01:16:38.000 |
On the whole, if there's actual risks to actual physical safety, 01:16:46.000 |
that results in actual risks to physical safety 01:16:49.000 |
without a strong conviction that you're doing so 01:16:54.000 |
A college that cannot maintain a physically safe environment 01:17:08.000 |
That's 101, is maintaining a studious environment 01:17:29.000 |
then there can be no free interchange of ideas. 01:17:32.000 |
And it's astonishing to me how so many of these colleges 01:17:37.000 |
that have harped on and on about intellectual uncertainty 01:18:03.000 |
over difficult things with absolute free speech 01:18:06.000 |
in order for it to avoid physical confrontation 01:18:13.000 |
and who knows what the world's going to look like 01:18:16.000 |
But that's, to me, going to be a clear line in the sand. 01:18:20.000 |
The next thing to consider with regard to opportunity 01:18:33.000 |
So, for example, let's say that you have a student 01:18:49.000 |
is going to be very valuable for your student 01:18:55.000 |
to move systematically into a position of power in society 01:19:02.000 |
where he can develop influence and authority and power. 01:19:11.000 |
even if he does face some form of discrimination 01:19:20.000 |
especially if your goal is to be a federal judge 01:19:32.000 |
and is just going to go and get a general business degree 01:19:43.000 |
but a few years later it's not nearly as impactful 01:19:46.000 |
So that's why I say it's too young to think about, 01:19:50.000 |
of what direction your child is going to go in. 01:19:53.000 |
Similarly, with regard to cost and the ability to get in, 01:20:10.000 |
So as I discussed in that scholarship podcast, 01:20:13.000 |
I remember being an undergraduate business student, 01:20:20.000 |
"Well, I don't have that money, so of course I can't go. 01:20:25.000 |
is that all of the elite Ivy League universities, 01:20:37.000 |
And so sometimes going to an elite university 01:20:46.000 |
for a student than going to a local public university 01:21:13.000 |
so that verbal ability, mathematical ability, 01:21:17.000 |
It's going to require work to perform at a high level, 01:21:46.000 |
is students who have high levels of interestingness. 01:21:49.000 |
And I think that we can coach interestingness, 01:21:54.000 |
that can help you get into an elite university, 01:22:32.000 |
and then make the actual decision down the road. 01:33:06.000 |
by being encouraged not to go to college at all. 01:33:18.000 |
many of the most educated people in the world 01:33:25.000 |
who spend all their time reading arcane books 01:33:46.000 |
that they basically have nothing interesting to say. 01:34:11.000 |
that are producing what colleges used to produce.