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- Hey, Joshua, and happy Memorial Day weekend to you. 00:03:11.940 | 
my wife and I have found ourselves in a situation 00:03:24.700 | 
We've been enjoying it for the last couple of months, 00:03:38.700 | 
versus just finding ways to spend it every month? 00:03:48.100 | 
in addition to your pension payment, is that right? 00:03:51.820 | 
- And how much are you earning at the new career? 00:03:55.020 | 
- The salary is just under 100K, like 97,000. 00:04:01.220 | 
- 84,000, with the vast majority of it being tax-free. 00:04:24.180 | 
- And about how much do you guys usually spend 00:04:31.980 | 
About normally, what do you think your budget normally is? 00:04:34.820 | 
- We normally were spending between 7,000 and 8,000 a month. 00:05:05.620 | 
What are the options that you're considering choosing among 00:05:08.660 | 
in terms of what do you think you wanna spend the money on? 00:05:12.660 | 
- Well, I mean, we would like to purchase a new house 00:05:24.220 | 
We would like to make our current house a rental 00:05:32.260 | 
So our short-term goal is pocketing some savings 00:05:44.180 | 
I think that's probably a ways off, but yeah. 00:06:12.220 | 
But I don't think I wanna work behind a computer 00:06:18.820 | 
- There's gotta be more to life than just in an office, 00:06:25.060 | 
I had a six month period between leaving the military 00:06:30.540 | 
And I do think I maybe squandered it a little bit 00:06:36.780 | 
and having the extra time with my young children. 00:06:49.180 | 
the kind of family you'd like to raise your children in? 00:06:59.020 | 
being a positive influence and role in their lives, 00:07:10.060 | 
The values have been instilled in me to be successful. 00:07:30.620 | 
But just, I need to think about that some more, 00:07:39.780 | 
Well, I won't keep probing, although ordinarily I would. 00:07:45.300 | 
I want you to think about some of these questions, 00:07:51.260 | 
But let me give you a few different layers to think about 00:08:03.140 | 
And thankfully, a significant amount of your income 00:08:26.180 | 
because now if you got sick, if you got hurt, 00:08:30.060 | 
you could just retire on that for the rest of your life. 00:08:35.540 | 
but you could do it, and that's an option for you. 00:08:50.780 | 
It doesn't mean you won't still want to save money, 00:08:58.860 | 
And so let's talk through some of those choices 00:09:28.360 | 
but if you get used to it for the next three or four years 00:09:32.740 | 
then pretty quickly that'll be your standard, 00:09:37.780 | 
Some of these expenses will be related to your children. 00:09:44.780 | 
that you really could or want to spend money on 00:10:00.080 | 
that can easily suck up 20 or $30,000 per year 00:10:06.020 | 
life enrichment things, personalized coaching, 00:10:17.860 | 
It'll make you feel good 'cause it's not just about us. 00:10:20.740 | 
Then you get to the whole layer of family experiences. 00:10:25.420 | 
that you could buy, a new house, and a new truck, 00:10:31.220 | 
just in terms of facilitating family experiences. 00:10:39.060 | 
that would genuinely enhance your family experiences. 00:10:50.620 | 
to enroll your child into an expensive school. 00:11:01.060 | 
remember that you really should be spending money 00:11:07.200 | 
that would help your younger child to flourish. 00:11:21.900 | 
and who has the money to spend on treatments, 00:11:27.060 | 
just based upon the determination of a parent. 00:11:29.180 | 
Not all, I'm not being foolish with what I say, 00:11:37.660 | 
things can be changed with determination and with money. 00:11:45.600 | 
What I would say is there are a few areas though 00:11:48.740 | 
that will probably feel better in the fullness of time 00:11:52.420 | 
than just purely wandering into it and consuming it, 00:11:57.860 | 
Number one, you should consider having more children 00:12:05.820 | 
because they don't feel like they can afford it. 00:12:11.420 | 
I've never yet met, they're probably out there, 00:12:22.460 | 
And so since you have a little bit of financial wiggle room, 00:12:25.940 | 
it should be a relatively straightforward thing 00:12:27.900 | 
if you and your wife don't want to have more children 00:12:34.660 | 
But having more children and trading some of the finances 00:12:38.520 | 
for more love in your life over the long term 00:12:46.460 | 
Number two, you should consider very, very carefully 00:12:54.020 | 
the kinds of things that you want them to actually do. 00:13:09.160 | 
you might find that really being focused on that, 00:13:12.980 | 
either with the extra money or with the flip side 00:13:18.660 | 
so that you earn what covers your income needs 00:13:22.700 | 
so that you can be free to invest into your children 00:13:27.900 | 
I doubt that's a decision that you'll regret. 00:13:30.820 | 
That's one of the things that I have purpose to do 00:13:33.060 | 
is that I have purpose to say that I like to make money, 00:13:37.000 | 
making money is great, I want to make a lot of money. 00:13:40.080 | 
But I can make a lot of money at any point in my life. 00:13:54.120 | 
is probably when the money pays off the most. 00:14:02.120 | 
and it'll pay off enormously in the long run. 00:14:07.240 | 
and I see this a lot of times with military guys, 00:14:15.320 | 
but he has this YouTube channel called Analytical Survival, 00:14:33.720 | 
hyper great organization with all of his projects. 00:14:37.260 | 
But then he started to turn his prepping channel 00:14:46.160 | 
He has a son and he brought the same intensity 00:14:49.000 | 
that he brought to all of his prepping endeavors 00:14:51.160 | 
and to his military organization into homeschooling his son. 00:14:54.360 | 
And he's clearly an amazingly dedicated homeschool dad. 00:15:15.120 | 
are two or three or four grade levels ahead of their peers, 00:15:23.780 | 
is when they're young in the elementary years. 00:15:27.760 | 
very compelling reasons to have children enrolled 00:15:30.760 | 
in traditional mainstream structures of school 00:15:38.120 | 
But there are very few reasons that I can find 00:15:41.320 | 
why that's a good decision in the elementary school years 00:15:51.340 | 
you can bring in all kinds of fascinating lifestyle choices. 00:16:00.580 | 
And so if you've got, let's say, three years from now, 00:16:05.200 | 
or 11-year-old and a five-year-old, whatever winds up. 00:16:09.800 | 
And you load up in a pickup truck and a pickup truck camper 00:16:19.720 | 
you're going to have a closeness of relationship 00:16:28.200 | 
And it can be facilitated based upon your work flexibility, 00:16:31.840 | 
the fact that you can, over the next four years, 00:16:38.120 | 
And then you plan and you work at your job right now 00:16:42.180 | 
But then you plan a three or four year sabbatical 00:16:44.840 | 
and time off and really build that relationship 00:16:47.280 | 
with your children when they're at a wonderful age 00:16:49.280 | 
to benefit from travel, benefit from world schooling. 00:16:52.840 | 
And you've got the financial structure in place 00:17:02.040 | 
but it's all built upon the vision of what you want to do 00:17:05.920 | 
mixed with the base that's provided by your pension 00:17:12.320 | 
If you have a short or medium term goal like that, 00:17:15.940 | 
then it will bring into focus what you should do 00:17:22.800 | 
if you know that I'm going to take three years off 00:17:25.560 | 
when my eldest is 10 years old or 11 years old, 00:17:30.440 | 
then my plan is I'm going to take four years off 00:17:32.600 | 
and we may not use all of it world schooling, 00:17:34.600 | 
but we'll spend a year or two in the United States 00:17:41.340 | 
Then we'll come back and we'll enroll the children 00:17:49.920 | 
And so now you're going to get more serious and say, 00:17:52.440 | 
all right, I'm not going to buy the forever house 00:17:55.920 | 
and I'm going to set up and I'm going to buy the big house 00:17:58.640 | 
when we get back and enroll them in high school, 00:18:01.600 | 
and pick up a couple of more rental properties. 00:18:06.400 | 
my goal is to buy two more cash flowing rental properties. 00:18:09.200 | 
And what I'm going to do is I'm going to buy them 00:18:10.520 | 
as quickly as possible now that I have the excess money 00:18:18.180 | 
So the goal brings into focus what I should do to achieve it. 00:18:24.640 | 
let's assume that nothing of what I've said so far 00:18:35.080 | 
with just taking this money and tossing it aside, 00:18:38.000 | 
all the extra money, tossing it aside every month 00:18:49.280 | 
- We're headfirst into the currents of change. 00:19:11.280 | 
- And your net worth will grow so fast if you do that. 00:19:18.320 | 
you'll have millions of extra dollars a few years from now, 00:19:21.960 | 
more than a few, I'm being a little bit excessive there. 00:19:24.200 | 
In a decade from now, you'll have so much extra money 00:19:28.360 | 
and it'll move you to a totally different state. 00:19:36.280 | 
I wanna get a couple of houses, one house for each child. 00:19:39.280 | 
I'm gonna make sure that the children are really set aside 00:19:43.680 | 
so they can have freedom, they won't go into debt, 00:19:45.880 | 
I'll pay for their college, all those kinds of things. 00:19:50.460 | 
And so there's nothing wrong with just saving the money, 00:19:54.240 | 
and your future self will be much more glad that you did it 00:19:58.000 | 
and that you eased into consumption more slowly 00:20:06.320 | 
you should be really focused on making certain 00:20:13.000 | 
but also for meaning and long-term impact in the world. 00:20:16.240 | 
One of the traps that people fall into mentally 00:20:18.760 | 
when they need money is they always chase the thing 00:20:21.880 | 
that provides them with the most short-term financial gain. 00:20:32.160 | 
that gives you the most direct path to money. 00:20:42.080 | 
then you can think about it on multiple levels of analysis. 00:20:51.480 | 
or meaning in some personal way that's appropriate for you. 00:20:59.120 | 
who once you've gotten the wolf away from the door 00:21:11.440 | 
"All right, I'm not chasing now any additive projects. 00:21:20.200 | 
"I'm gonna chase a genuine multiplier project. 00:21:30.680 | 
"I'm gonna try to go from $2 million of net worth 00:21:32.800 | 
"to $20 million of net worth for the next five or six years, 00:21:47.520 | 
"and just focusing on going from $2 to $3.5 million." 00:21:57.400 | 
You analyze your life and you analyze the things 00:22:01.160 | 
and you say, "If I could really make an impact, 00:22:12.240 | 
"this position that's really important to me, 00:22:14.600 | 
"this need in society that I really wanna change, 00:22:19.880 | 
"if I could really move the needle in that direction 00:22:22.800 | 
"and I could invest the next 20 years of my life 00:22:31.480 | 
"to know the difference that I made in the world 00:22:36.880 | 
an extraordinarily high potential return of impact 00:22:58.760 | 
then having a clear goal will bring into clarity 00:23:17.160 | 
with the extra money, which is the question you called, 00:23:27.840 | 
that's something like what your current expenses are. 00:23:31.760 | 
You don't need to tighten the screws, do everything, 00:23:33.880 | 
but don't also allow in a bunch of inflationary spending. 00:23:43.880 | 
And then spend a lot of time getting as clear as possible 00:23:54.360 | 
She may not have always dreamed of being a real estate agent, 00:24:05.440 | 
of what you should invest in will also be clear. 00:24:09.920 | 
I like a little bit of all three scenarios you discussed there. 00:24:15.880 | 
I need to re-listen to this and sit down with my wife 00:24:22.800 | 
because I definitely think that doing something 00:24:35.240 | 
And then I like the idea of taking a sabbatical. 00:24:38.480 | 
And you brought up some really good points, Joshua. 00:24:43.920 | 
Yeah, spend time talking with her, spend time dreaming. 00:24:53.680 | 
My experience working with guys in the military is, 00:24:56.640 | 
it's very difficult to know what you want to do, 00:25:03.240 | 
that you weren't gonna think about what you wanted to do, 00:25:05.360 | 
because you were gonna live your life under orders. 00:25:15.040 | 
what you're experiencing is kind of what a lot of 00:25:19.360 | 
And I'm touching on this because I want people to hear it 00:25:22.360 | 
both from a high school and college perspective, 00:25:32.280 | 
is we prescribe their high school career to them, 00:25:37.600 | 
But we prescribe their high school career so tightly 00:25:53.720 | 
And he's at a loss because he's not accustomed 00:26:07.840 | 
and it takes a long time for him to figure that out. 00:26:10.800 | 
And a lot of times, this explains some of the challenges 00:26:13.520 | 
that people go through of going to college and flunking out 00:26:16.160 | 
and then going back and changing majors five times. 00:26:19.560 | 
If a high school student has not had any experience, 00:26:26.400 | 
what he wants to do, and he hasn't exercised agency 00:26:29.640 | 
in actually pursuing the things that he wants to do, 00:26:33.720 | 
to be able to say, "This is what I wanna do," 00:26:41.480 | 
so that teenagers have much more agency and autonomy 00:26:47.040 | 
the muscle, the ability to actually know what they want 00:27:16.560 | 
of just doing the things that he wants to do. 00:27:18.540 | 
So part of the process of getting out of the military 00:27:21.880 | 
involves you spending time strengthening those muscles. 00:27:25.400 | 
That cannot be done in a week or a month or even a year. 00:27:43.600 | 
like a three-year time horizon on your current job 00:28:06.240 | 
And then at that point in time, your eldest would be 10. 00:28:40.140 | 
Well, you can go ahead and put in 20, 30, 40 years 00:28:42.980 | 
at a career that you're really engaged with, with outcomes. 00:28:46.100 | 
You and your wife may build a business together. 00:29:09.720 | 
because of the career choice that you previously made. 00:29:16.880 | 
- That was spot on, you know, everyone was asking 00:29:21.360 | 
when I was leaving the military, what I wanted to do. 00:29:23.360 | 
And, you know, my answer was when I was 18 year old, 00:29:29.680 | 
to what 40 year old John would do after the Navy. 00:29:37.920 | 
that are considering the military as an option. 00:29:43.520 | 
Meaning that it can pay off as it's paying off for you. 00:29:47.380 | 
So the financial rules for you to follow is number one, 00:29:57.840 | 
If you buy a house, make certain that the mortgage on it 00:30:00.320 | 
is a low enough amount that you could fire sale the house 00:30:02.920 | 
in a few weeks, pay off the mortgage and be free of it. 00:30:05.720 | 
Beyond that, don't pile up payments of any kind. 00:30:12.480 | 
then financially you can't really screw this up. 00:30:15.500 | 
So you just need to live on what you're making. 00:30:17.520 | 
And if you're making the higher amount with the job 00:30:19.960 | 
and your wife's income and the pension and all that, 00:30:22.440 | 
then awesome, you'll live on the higher amount. 00:30:24.560 | 
If you can't, if you're gonna get rid of the higher amount 00:30:28.800 | 
arrange a lifestyle that exclusively lives on your pension. 00:30:32.800 | 
And if you do that, you won't have any financial regrets. 00:31:08.560 | 
And you've talked about this a couple different times. 00:31:13.860 | 
I'm calling to challenge that viewpoint a little bit 00:31:22.280 | 
but I don't know if you have personally enough time. 00:31:26.000 | 
I'm sure you've met plenty of people that have 00:31:31.840 | 
But if I may, I'd like to just address that a little bit. 00:31:51.640 | 
you don't wanna be hanging sheet rock for 30 years. 00:31:57.480 | 
you're probably gonna get bored in a few years. 00:32:02.360 | 
But I think that people don't see those trades. 00:32:11.300 | 
I'm a scaffolder and I'm only gonna do scaffolding 00:32:19.260 | 
and coach a young man down the road of the trades, 00:32:24.740 | 
you really need to look and see that it's really a much more, 00:32:28.600 | 
you can take a much more overarching approach. 00:32:33.240 | 
Yeah, you're gonna hang sheet rock for a few years 00:32:37.060 | 
And then you're gonna finish for a few years in track homes 00:32:41.340 | 
And then you're gonna go finishing in hospitals. 00:32:43.240 | 
And then you're gonna go finishing in high-end homes. 00:32:45.320 | 
And then you're gonna be running a finishing crew. 00:32:49.120 | 
You're not doing any interesting problem solving 00:33:06.040 | 
You're not gonna be doing interesting problem solving 00:33:14.240 | 
maybe that is a lot more interesting problem solving. 00:33:20.720 | 
If you work at Grease Monkey, you're gonna get bored. 00:33:28.120 | 
and learning how it works, you're a lab coat diagnostician. 00:33:33.820 | 
you might have grease under your fingernails, 00:33:36.240 | 
but dude, you're learning all manner of different systems 00:34:02.840 | 
or start a framing company or a scaffold company 00:34:06.240 | 
But I think that it's something that really gets overlooked. 00:34:18.920 | 
And then you can start an automotive repair shop 00:34:28.640 | 
And I think it gets, I know that was a short show, 00:34:30.980 | 
but I think that the trades get minimized in that way. 00:34:33.480 | 
Like it's boring and it becomes uninteresting 00:34:45.880 | 
- I think it's a fair apology for the trades. 00:34:49.940 | 
And what I probably should do is I should go ahead, 00:34:54.040 | 
I have intended to, it's one of the many things on my list, 00:34:56.460 | 
but I should go ahead and create a standalone podcast 00:35:06.440 | 
but years ago I created a bunch of spreadsheets 00:35:21.200 | 
as compared to somebody who went directly to work. 00:35:25.920 | 
The basic idea that let's say that somebody starts 00:35:28.280 | 
at 18 years old and gets a job making $45,000 a year 00:35:33.120 | 
and earns 45,000 at 18 and 45,000 at 19, 45,000 at 20 00:35:40.320 | 
as compared to somebody who goes to college for four years 00:35:47.280 | 
which of course is not guaranteed in any way, 00:35:50.280 | 
but it starts at $55,000, but yet had to pay it back 00:35:58.280 | 
And so there is a good argument that you could be made 00:36:08.040 | 
and it's especially just with things like side work. 00:36:12.200 | 
I was amazed when I watched how many electricians I knew 00:36:21.400 | 
because they had a day job working for an electrical company 00:36:24.680 | 
and all their side work was just never ending. 00:36:51.520 | 
or they get funneled into banking or investing, 00:36:56.160 | 
And for years, I have said, usually flippantly and offhand, 00:37:00.080 | 
that if you're the kind of guy who has the mental ability 00:37:05.080 | 
and the motivation and the grit and the determination 00:37:10.800 | 
you're probably better off to go and start a daycare company 00:37:15.800 | 
or a trades business or something, open a junkyard, 00:37:24.000 | 
doing something where there are fewer wickedly smart people 00:37:29.600 | 
It's kind of like the classic thing about college selection. 00:37:32.240 | 
I heard a talk a number of years ago by a psychologist. 00:37:39.060 | 
and he gave the presentation and his point, he said, 00:37:49.720 | 
And his point was that if you are one of the smartest people 00:37:55.360 | 
to build this amazing resume and you stand out 00:38:01.640 | 
you're gonna be, instead of being filled with confidence, 00:38:05.640 | 
you're gonna be beating yourself up as the dumbest, 00:38:08.360 | 
most dim-witted, underachiever in the entire school 00:38:12.120 | 
because you're surrounded by the cream of the crop 00:38:17.120 | 
And that is what's going to affect your self-image. 00:38:28.680 | 
- We're head first into the currents of change. 00:38:32.200 | 
- A better cost of living and an incredible retirement plan 00:39:04.300 | 
because you recognize I'm smart, I'm sophisticated. 00:39:08.960 | 
And that psychological confidence is gonna flow with you 00:39:13.520 | 
And so what I'm saying as far as if someone is smart enough 00:39:16.420 | 
to be a doctor, then if that person who's really smart 00:39:20.000 | 
instead goes and opens an auto mechanic shop, 00:39:28.080 | 
and yet they are, and so he'll be able to do better 00:39:35.120 | 
than all of the physicians that he's surrounded with 00:39:40.320 | 
in favor of choosing something like the trades. 00:39:48.100 | 
and I wonder if there are different kinds of intelligence. 00:40:05.120 | 
and enough components of the trades to know that for me, 00:40:15.580 | 
I worked in a different trade all through high school, 00:40:28.640 | 
I've done cabinet, no, I've not done cabinets. 00:40:31.680 | 
So I mean, the point is that I've been around a lot of it, 00:40:40.640 | 
And I have a good friend of mine that I grew up with, 00:40:51.300 | 
and he could instantly understand how it works. 00:40:55.740 | 
he works at a nuclear power plant, makes great money, 00:40:58.220 | 
never went to college, made great money all the way through. 00:41:12.340 | 
And he'll sit there and he'll build something 00:41:17.700 | 
and the angles don't fit, I'm just annoyed as anything. 00:41:23.160 | 
Whereas for me, ideas just flip together like that. 00:41:26.340 | 
And so I can listen to a snippet of a conversation. 00:41:29.600 | 
And in my mind, it's just like, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom. 00:41:33.760 | 
here's where it's coming from, here's how it fits, 00:41:35.400 | 
here's where it flows in, here's what the person thinks, 00:41:42.120 | 
that my brain works differently in that capacity. 00:41:47.440 | 
or learnable, was it something that I grabbed 00:41:50.600 | 
that is just a natural reflection of my core genius 00:42:00.240 | 
But that's for me why I would choose something different 00:42:03.560 | 
because a lot of the day that I would spend in the trades, 00:42:07.540 | 
I would spend it frustrated by things not working 00:42:11.620 | 
And that I haven't built the skills to deal with it. 00:42:24.040 | 
I don't know if I would have written it the same way, 00:42:27.440 | 
But my point is that there is rightly a pushback 00:42:33.680 | 
because college has been so oversold for so long 00:42:37.040 | 
that a lot of people are very frustrated and hurt 00:42:42.000 | 
instead of to go to be involved in the trades, 00:42:46.640 | 
But the flip side of that is that in the coming years, 00:42:51.120 | 
when I first did shows against college years ago, 00:42:57.880 | 
don't go to college, don't go to college, go to the trades. 00:43:00.200 | 
And so I fear that we're gonna make the opposite switch 00:43:02.800 | 
and we're gonna funnel people wrongly into the trades 00:43:17.400 | 
And so what I think, if I'm elected emperor of the world, 00:43:25.040 | 
people should have experience in both things fully. 00:43:30.040 | 
So if I were elected emperor of the school system, 00:43:34.920 | 
I would immediately bring back home economics. 00:43:41.620 | 
of those types of classes are to expose people 00:43:46.560 | 
to things they otherwise wouldn't have been exposed to. 00:43:49.240 | 
And so I want to have the son of two lawyers, 00:43:54.960 | 
I want him to be in shop class building a table 00:44:00.400 | 
And then simultaneously, I want to make certain 00:44:05.880 | 
and that people are also exposed to knowledge work. 00:44:12.920 | 
I want the son of the carpenter to be taking coding classes 00:44:16.920 | 
and building something as a high school project 00:44:27.360 | 
so that the young person gets a really good sense of, 00:44:37.160 | 
people will properly self-select into the trades 00:44:41.320 | 
and people who shouldn't be in something else. 00:44:51.380 | 
that each person has in order to select properly. 00:45:00.280 | 
is a lot of journeymen have four years of apprenticeship 00:45:29.540 | 
which one I like more, knowledge work or physical labor. 00:45:32.860 | 
And so I bounce back and forth between those two things. 00:45:36.220 | 
And not to say anything about those people in the trades, 00:45:40.260 | 
if you wanna be challenged on an intellectual level 00:45:43.540 | 
And so, yeah, I didn't think that you were speaking against 00:45:51.060 | 
And I think that you can know yourself well enough to say, 00:45:54.060 | 
I just get too frustrated when I'm working on cars. 00:46:09.700 | 
but our culture was built by farmer philosophers, 00:46:14.700 | 
by warrior poets, by philosophical craftsmen. 00:46:20.440 | 
It shouldn't be the case that it's either you do one thing 00:46:31.060 | 
have drawn great solace from their physical work. 00:46:35.140 | 
One of the things that I think is very satisfying 00:46:37.660 | 
about physical work is you can go and you can do the work. 00:46:40.460 | 
You can see the outcome, what you've created quickly. 00:46:49.540 | 
with the constant low-level anxiety that comes from business 00:46:53.180 | 
that the work never finishes and it always is with you. 00:46:58.340 | 
And I often have thought how wonderful it would be 00:47:05.640 | 
And how satisfying that would be to know that I'm done. 00:47:10.400 | 
I'm genuinely free of this job because I went to work, 00:47:18.100 | 
or any kind of tradesman gets the satisfaction of knowing 00:47:22.860 | 
that I never get that satisfaction because I've never done. 00:47:26.300 | 
There's always more that I could do and I just quit. 00:47:30.700 | 
And also intellectual rumination frequently happens 00:47:40.400 | 
And so you'll find many great people throughout history 00:47:46.160 | 
or great inventors that they didn't eschew physical work. 00:47:51.160 | 
They rather found that it was an important component 00:48:05.220 | 
One of the things that I made in a separate show recently, 00:48:07.940 | 
I made the point, is that the sorting mechanism 00:48:11.420 | 
of the United States college system over the last 100 years 00:48:16.220 | 
has basically enormously succeeded at grabbing anybody 00:48:51.040 | 
But now the mass testing system has succeeded 00:49:10.280 | 
And so they're just not in the trades like they once were 00:49:22.080 | 
an unfulfilling middle-manager white-collar job 00:49:31.160 | 
Yeah, you're speaking about a good family friend of mine. 00:49:40.720 | 
and got sick of it and moved on to be a machinist 00:49:43.280 | 
'cause you're working with an eighth of an inch 00:49:48.800 | 
We were at a garage sale one time, my family, 00:49:50.520 | 
and we bought this guy an unabridged dictionary. 00:49:57.480 | 
at the drop forage plants to know seven languages. 00:50:07.080 | 
I think it's important points that you're making 00:50:16.880 | 
'cause I had a lady that asked me a bunch of questions 00:50:26.800 | 
I'm really glad that you called in and made your comments. 00:50:32.080 | 
- And with that, we move on to Ben in Florida. 00:50:37.040 | 
- Hi, Joshua, I have a tax planning question. 00:50:41.920 | 
Never too early in the year to start thinking about that. 00:50:44.960 | 
- That's the best time to be thinking about it 00:50:46.920 | 
'cause you get to April 14th and you're done. 00:50:53.400 | 
I need to realize about $100,000 worth of gain 00:51:00.400 | 
and in the spirit of being a radical personal finance 00:51:07.440 | 
I would like to start planning now to pay what I owe 00:51:19.520 | 
I do not own any real estate or any side business. 00:51:31.320 | 
I'm open to buying real estate if there is depreciation 00:51:42.640 | 
that would be a little harder to do to find a business 00:51:46.360 | 
and buy it and depreciate before the end of the year. 00:51:59.760 | 
- This stock that you have, how long have you owned it? 00:52:03.960 | 
- Long enough that it's long-term capital gains. 00:52:09.960 | 
So just privately owned stock, a single stock? 00:52:15.400 | 
- And I have done some charitable contributions. 00:52:21.600 | 
On some of it, I have done the charitable contributions 00:52:26.120 | 
so I can not pay capital gains on those shares 00:52:31.560 | 
because it will be above the standard deduction. 00:52:38.640 | 
that I want to, if this can get me into real estate 00:52:46.000 | 
- Do you have any losses, any long-term capital losses 00:52:52.240 | 
- Not as much as I would need to offset the gains. 00:53:04.720 | 
that are not business assets, just purely capital assets, 00:53:20.280 | 
you net those against short-term capital losses as well. 00:53:24.640 | 
So if you have $100,000 of long-term capital gains, 00:53:30.880 | 
do I own other assets that are long-term capital assets 00:53:38.040 | 
So I'm selling Coca-Cola stock and I don't wanna, 00:53:48.240 | 
and I've got $30,000 of losses of that stock. 00:54:00.640 | 
there's not much you could do in what you're describing. 00:54:04.080 | 
So the first thing is look around in your portfolio 00:54:09.360 | 
that have assets that you don't wanna hold anymore 00:54:11.840 | 
and sell those assets and net the assets against your gains. 00:54:24.800 | 
let me think just for a moment, my brain is going fuzzy. 00:54:35.080 | 
So basically what we wanna avoid is the wash sale rule, 00:54:42.160 | 
and we take the losses and then you can buy them back 00:55:09.000 | 
I need to go back and pull the wash sale rules up. 00:55:12.880 | 
and make certain that you don't violate something there. 00:55:15.800 | 
And my brain just went fuzzy on this for a moment. 00:55:19.520 | 
- The 30 days you can't purchase the same stock 00:55:23.240 | 
or significantly similar 30 days before or after 00:55:30.720 | 
- Right, so the point is that you have the ability 00:55:32.960 | 
to sell assets at a loss and net them against your gains. 00:55:37.860 | 
Beyond that, basically you're stuck with charitable donations 00:55:53.600 | 
I'm not aware of any useful planning technique 00:56:02.280 | 
Let me just think for a moment as we're talking, 00:56:05.200 | 
So you're gonna just sell the stock and pay the tax. 00:56:12.880 | 
where I did do the foreign earned income exclusion. 00:56:16.860 | 
I'm not gonna qualify for that this year, and that's fine. 00:56:24.840 | 
- Yep, foreign earned income exclusion is pointless 00:56:34.020 | 
And then, so I can't depreciate real estate losses 00:56:38.800 | 
I was trying to think of a way this could get me into, 00:56:52.520 | 
But it sounds like there's not much else I can do 00:56:56.080 | 
to offset that large amount of capital gains in stocks. 00:57:00.680 | 
You can do like-kind exchanges on all kinds of property, 00:57:04.800 | 
but you can't like-kind exchange a stock into real estate 00:57:12.120 | 
Like-kind exchanges are not just limited to real estate. 00:57:22.400 | 
have you thought about borrowing against the stock 00:57:38.620 | 
So, and especially since you have earned income, 00:57:46.000 | 
look to see any other capital, long-term capital losses, 00:57:55.200 | 
You'll net those other long-term capital losses 00:57:59.760 | 
that will reduce the total amount of capital gains reported, 00:58:07.160 | 
There's always these ridiculous tax proposals 00:58:12.120 | 
and just be grateful that you're in that situation 00:58:14.040 | 
that, or it's not there, or we're not there today. 00:58:19.920 | 
Hopefully it stays that way, but time will tell. 00:58:37.720 | 
you may be in the zero long-term capital gains bracket. 00:58:41.820 | 
but if you're earning income, as you described, 00:58:52.400 | 
So just be grateful the capital gains tax rates 00:58:59.600 | 
then take steps to extricate yourself entirely 00:59:04.580 | 
Puerto Rico is a great option for long-term traders. 00:59:09.000 | 
That's not applicable, and it's just the price 00:59:25.320 | 
instead of that, so thanks for your broad knowledge 00:59:30.840 | 
- The problem with broad knowledge, it can be useful, 00:59:38.720 | 
when you talk about so many things all the time, 00:59:40.240 | 
all of a sudden you get into the nitty gritty, 00:59:53.400 | 
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