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I have two questions, if we can get to both, but one is more pressing. 00:02:17.480 |
My wife and I recently welcomed our baby girl. 00:02:23.360 |
The baby came early, so she came in 26 weeks, and we're dealing with some NICU stuff. 00:02:29.800 |
Not the home birth that we were anticipating, but certainly grateful for the care that we're 00:02:36.800 |
One thing that has come up is that we were trying to avoid giving the baby a […] for 00:02:48.400 |
You broke up right when you were saying we're trying to avoid giving the baby a […] Hang 00:02:59.560 |
We were trying to avoid giving the baby a social security number, but through human 00:03:04.800 |
error, the paperwork got filed, and the hospital admitted their error to us. 00:03:17.480 |
There are various reasons to avoid having a social security number, but I don't know 00:03:33.320 |
We are aware that we could get passport information for the baby just using the birth certificate, 00:03:42.120 |
I don't know, from an international escape standpoint, if having a voided or deleted 00:03:47.200 |
social security number shows up in a system in any way that would make a border crossing 00:04:08.680 |
It looks like she is dealing with a little bit of an infection, but she's responding 00:04:12.640 |
to the treatment, and so, you know, continued prayers to God for God's grace and for the 00:04:19.680 |
excellent medical staff and all of that sort of thing. 00:04:22.600 |
I am enormous for all of the commentary and things that I have to say and try to encourage 00:04:28.600 |
people and as you were undoubtedly hoping for a wonderful, easy, smooth, natural birth. 00:04:34.440 |
I tell you what, we need to thank God continually for the miracle of cesarean delivery. 00:04:40.520 |
We need to thank God continually for the doctors and the nurses and the technology that has 00:04:47.120 |
The fact that you could have a baby at 26 weeks and the baby could generally be doing 00:04:54.440 |
With regard to social security, your specific question, the short answer is I don't really 00:05:01.600 |
I would love, let me answer your question first, and then I'd love you to tell me and 00:05:05.400 |
the audience just a little bit more of what you are hoping to accomplish by the baby not 00:05:11.800 |
having a social security number because that's not something I have talked about publicly, 00:05:16.800 |
but I think it'd be interesting to hear your perspective. 00:05:19.300 |
With regard to the question, I don't know the process of deleting it from the system. 00:05:31.800 |
In terms of international border crossings, I don't think it would make any difference 00:05:36.800 |
with regard to international border crossings whatsoever. 00:05:40.080 |
I've never been asked for a social security number, and I'm not aware of any way that 00:05:45.440 |
that particular number exists in any kind of international context. 00:05:52.500 |
So if you are able to successfully suppress and delete the number from the social security 00:05:58.040 |
system, and if subsequently you can have a passport issued for your daughter, I don't 00:06:05.160 |
think you would have any problem from an international perspective. 00:06:10.700 |
It's purely a tax identification number that the United States uses to classify and to 00:06:16.160 |
track people, and it's always used in domestic affairs, but I'm not aware of any use of it 00:06:24.560 |
So that's the best I can give you, not having gone through the process and not having any 00:06:30.440 |
Tell us more, though, about what you've learned and what you were hoping to do in terms of 00:06:35.280 |
avoiding the issuance of a social security number at all. 00:06:38.480 |
Well, I have to admit I'm not entirely clear all of the reasons. 00:06:44.960 |
Some of this comes from being in various sort of freedom communities, where at times people 00:06:51.360 |
even avoid having birth certificates for their kids. 00:06:53.920 |
My best understanding about it is that perhaps it makes a difference if at some point in 00:07:00.080 |
the future you are trying to renounce your citizenship, and it generally just kind of 00:07:07.680 |
falls under the category of trying to provide as little data to a system that we feel is 00:07:14.640 |
really corrupt and does not deserve our data and is not a good steward of our data. 00:07:21.760 |
I would also mention we talked with our CPA, and our credit is minimal from the standpoint 00:07:36.080 |
that some people have said you would need a social security number to claim your child 00:07:41.960 |
But it's not clear that we would really be getting much financial benefit from doing 00:07:49.840 |
If you were calling me up and you were just asking me the question to say, "Hey, Joshua, 00:07:55.440 |
should I get my child a social security number or not?" 00:07:58.440 |
Let me just give you what I have thought about on that subject, and you can factor it in 00:08:05.880 |
When I had my first child, I hadn't really thought about this, and so I just went down 00:08:10.440 |
I assumed that what you should do for children is get their social security numbers. 00:08:15.080 |
I assumed that that was the right thing to do, and that was, of course, the normal path. 00:08:20.160 |
As always, the normal path is always the easiest path. 00:08:28.360 |
I realized, "Oh, it is possible to not have a social security identification number for 00:08:36.600 |
At the end of my inquiries some years ago, though, I came to the conclusion that it is 00:08:42.040 |
possible, but it makes everything continually difficult. 00:08:47.200 |
You need to be very committed to it in order for it to work. 00:08:52.640 |
I respect any person who is so committed to his values and his ideology that he's willing 00:08:59.720 |
You'll always find me a friend in your corner to say, "Good for you for doing it." 00:09:04.120 |
It is important going in that you understand that it is challenging and difficult. 00:09:08.600 |
I would love to see the entire use of the social security number disbanded. 00:09:14.920 |
I think that would be in the spirit of what it means to be an American. 00:09:20.920 |
Americans traditionally have famously been suspicious of any kind of national identification 00:09:27.320 |
The social security number is a cultural aberration in the broad scale of history of the United 00:09:36.020 |
It is a federally issued identification number that's done on a federal basis, that's used 00:09:40.860 |
for tracking, that's used for all kinds of purposes. 00:09:44.260 |
What I've noticed, however, over the years is that it was a backdoor program. 00:09:49.700 |
My social security card says very clearly on it, "This document is not to be used for 00:09:56.920 |
It's exclusively for basically interaction with the Social Security Administration." 00:10:01.500 |
If my memory is correct, my children's cards, they've removed all of that. 00:10:05.740 |
So all of the skepticism that Americans formerly had about the issuing of national identification 00:10:14.900 |
And now most people seem to be pretty accepting of national identification numbers. 00:10:20.260 |
And the social security number itself is used as a form of identification that many people 00:10:27.200 |
As you well know, you go to the doctor, you go to the dentist, you go to all kinds of 00:10:29.620 |
places, they ask for your social security number. 00:10:33.280 |
So from a freedom governmental perspective, my question is just, does it really matter? 00:10:41.700 |
And number two, is it the most effective approach? 00:10:48.780 |
And again, I'm firmly in favor of anybody who says, "This is my conviction and I'm going 00:10:53.440 |
It might ultimately matter, but I'm not convinced that it's going to be that big a deal in the 00:11:00.060 |
Whether you're registered with a social security number or not, whether you're registered with 00:11:03.560 |
a name or not, there's going to be some form of file or identification that's associated 00:11:11.360 |
And it's not that hard for an intrusive government to create some tracking mechanism. 00:11:16.840 |
Now you can certainly make it a lot easier on them by giving them a social security number 00:11:20.920 |
and registering everyone dually, but it's totally doable. 00:11:24.660 |
And I think that we're probably with the continual collection of biometrics, we're probably... 00:11:32.200 |
The nightmare dystopian scenario is that it's largely done based on biometrics rather than 00:11:39.700 |
And any time you interact with the government, if you don't have the social security number, 00:11:44.540 |
it makes your interactions more difficult and you could argue that it raises your profile. 00:11:49.040 |
I tried to do a passport application for one of my children born abroad without the 00:11:54.600 |
issuance of a social security number and I found it very difficult. 00:11:58.520 |
And ultimately I wound up getting a social security number and registering on that basis. 00:12:04.800 |
Now I wasn't committed, so it's possible that it could have been done by somebody who was 00:12:08.800 |
more committed than I was, but I just found it very difficult and I think that it raises 00:12:14.360 |
And with the advanced integration of biometrics, I think that that's probably a bigger concern 00:12:20.320 |
than something like a social security number. 00:12:23.640 |
From a day-to-day basis, I think that your child would face, not having a social security 00:12:30.320 |
number, your child will face many, many challenges. 00:12:33.280 |
Now if you could get a passport issued without a social security number, that would be helpful. 00:12:38.160 |
I don't think you're gonna get a passport issued without a birth certificate, so that 00:12:43.920 |
And if you wanted to live the kind of lifestyle in which you were totally off the grid, living 00:12:51.240 |
within the borders of the United States, but not engaging in kind of the normal things, 00:12:56.480 |
flying, going abroad, then I think I would guess that you could do that. 00:13:00.560 |
But I don't think you could do it without, I don't know that you could get a passport 00:13:06.640 |
I think the biggest challenge you'll face is the new REAL ID requirements. 00:13:10.920 |
I'm personally persuaded that, so if you look at the history of a national identification 00:13:16.520 |
number, Americans voted against it time and time and time again. 00:13:21.120 |
I'm convinced the REAL ID Act was basically a backdoor pathway to a national identification 00:13:27.880 |
number, is that after failing many times at establishing a national database where each 00:13:33.160 |
citizen of the United States is numbered and counted on a national basis, that the REAL 00:13:40.380 |
And I have not observed, since the implementation of REAL ID, I have not observed any cultural 00:13:47.200 |
Most people don't seem to realize, they don't seem to care. 00:13:50.680 |
Basically everybody has become REAL ID compliant. 00:13:53.880 |
And if you look at kind of the broad acceptance of biometrics, it's pretty astonishing. 00:14:00.240 |
Just as a sake of example, I always refuse biometrics when leaving the United States. 00:14:05.800 |
The United States has now integrated an automated biometric camera-based system for leaving 00:14:13.840 |
You've seen this at the airport when you go to get on an airplane. 00:14:16.100 |
I always refuse, and that refusal has been easier in the past. 00:14:21.220 |
They specifically state, "Hey, you can refuse," and that refusal was easier in the past. 00:14:25.980 |
This last time that I refused, I stood at the gate. 00:14:30.540 |
I was the first one in line for boarding my flight with my wife and children, and I refused 00:14:36.940 |
Normally when you refuse biometrics, the airline staff comes over and threatens that they need 00:14:41.380 |
to call Border Patrol and that they're going to send an agent over, and then you say, "Look, 00:14:45.140 |
I'm a U.S. citizen," and frequently they check your passport, and you're through a couple 00:14:50.180 |
I stood there for 45 minutes with my wife and children right next to the line because 00:14:55.620 |
they refused to let me board without sending a Border Patrol officer to manually inspect 00:15:03.260 |
my passport so that we could board without biometric identification. 00:15:07.220 |
I stood there, and they threatened in multiple ways. 00:15:10.300 |
The airline agent said, "You're probably going to miss this flight because Border Patrol 00:15:13.940 |
can't come very quickly, and we're not going to let you board unless you do that," and 00:15:17.060 |
I said, "Listen, I was here at the very first. 00:15:19.860 |
I don't know what my rights and rules are, but I'm here. 00:15:26.780 |
They called Border Patrol, went back and forth, looked at my passport. 00:15:29.540 |
Finally, after 45 minutes of intimidation, they finally let me on the airplane. 00:15:33.220 |
In the meantime, I got to sit there and watch the entire flight board, and I was the only 00:15:38.460 |
one—I and my family—we were the only ones who refused biometrics. 00:15:45.020 |
The counter-argument, someone would say, "Well, look, Border Patrol deletes the information 00:15:48.100 |
very quickly for U.S. citizens and somewhat more slowly for non-U.S. citizens." 00:15:53.660 |
Maybe people have just accepted it, but it's pretty obvious to me that if we've got a plane 00:15:58.820 |
of 150 people, and I'm the only one out of 150 people who refuses biometrics, it's pretty 00:16:05.620 |
obvious to me that this perspective of opting out is not culturally possible. 00:16:16.360 |
Not many people are—I'm in a very, very small minority, and you, trying to avoid the 00:16:22.380 |
issuance of a Social Security number for your child, you're in a very, very small minority. 00:16:26.900 |
The question is, is this actually the best solution? 00:16:31.540 |
I've pretty well decided that it doesn't make sense to try to live off the grid because 00:16:42.260 |
It's not really plausibly doable in today's world. 00:16:47.140 |
When you do it, because you're so culturally out of place that you probably have a higher 00:16:58.060 |
Number one, that when more data is created, that doesn't necessarily mean that the individual 00:17:04.060 |
risk is higher, because now there's so much data being created that more and more stuff 00:17:12.420 |
I don't know that just because they're collecting more data, just because people are all being 00:17:17.820 |
issued with Social Security numbers basically automatically, I'm not sure that that's the 00:17:21.980 |
great danger for freedom and liberty as some people think it is. 00:17:50.260 |
But more importantly, I think that the best form of defense against this is not to try 00:18:04.820 |
to be the individual going up against the government, but rather to go and get another 00:18:08.940 |
government on your side and to get your governments going at each other. 00:18:12.860 |
And so the problem, especially if you didn't have a birth certificate issued, is that you 00:18:17.540 |
may be able to live in the United States, but you will never be able to get another 00:18:22.020 |
citizenship without that birth certificate from the United States. 00:18:24.780 |
You'll never be able to get a third citizenship, a fourth citizenship. 00:18:29.280 |
You'll never be able to get multiple governments on your side. 00:18:32.340 |
And I think that that's the reason I have emphasized so much what I've emphasized in 00:18:35.580 |
international escape plan stuff, is that I'm pretty persuaded that governments do not respect 00:18:44.460 |
citizens, they only respect other governments. 00:18:47.220 |
And so the most important thing is to get other governments on your side, not to try 00:18:53.260 |
to be the person going up against the government, especially when you're one out of 500, one 00:18:58.620 |
out of 1,000 perhaps, maybe that's too much, maybe it's one out of 500 or one out of 300 00:19:06.980 |
Because almost any kind of attack track that you take, almost any path of resistance that 00:19:14.780 |
you take against tyranny, if you're one out of 100, then all of the fellow citizens are 00:19:21.100 |
going to line up and do everything they can to help the government squash you. 00:19:25.460 |
And so I just don't think – what I decided on is that that pathway of resistance, while 00:19:31.300 |
I respect you and anyone else who does it for doing it, I don't think that pathway 00:19:36.700 |
of resistance is the most fruitful, which is why I've not kind of encouraged it. 00:19:41.340 |
So those are just some thoughts for you to think about. 00:19:44.100 |
As I say, I don't know the answer to your specific question. 00:19:46.500 |
Go ahead and give your thought, your response, and then go with your second question, please. 00:19:58.060 |
The second question was about a whole life insurance policy. 00:20:02.300 |
And I think it probably would suit more of like a consultation call sometime. 00:20:08.520 |
So the one question I have instead is, didn't you do a podcast about men's values, and 00:20:22.460 |
Was it with your father or with somebody in your family? 00:20:28.740 |
Encouraging Christian Fathers is what that is called. 00:20:29.740 |
It's a podcast that I did for quite a while with my own father. 00:20:33.860 |
And I haven't updated it in several years, but I'm intending to update it again soon. 00:20:37.760 |
But it's still available wherever you listen to podcasts. 00:20:48.420 |
And may you have strength and courage and wisdom as you continue to fight for your daughter's 00:20:59.620 |
And you asked me to call in with my question. 00:21:12.980 |
So kind of a spinning off of the first caller's concern about receiving a social security 00:21:18.960 |
So I'm actually calling about, you kind of surprised me a few episodes back about UTMA. 00:21:29.100 |
And we started having this conversation about how I actually feel like UTMAs are, I think, 00:21:40.080 |
And that there is a lot that parents, if they're engaged in it, can do with the UTMA. 00:21:48.400 |
And maybe for context for those who don't know, that being like a universal transfer 00:21:52.920 |
to minors, where that account belongs to the child, but there needs to be a custodian who 00:21:59.460 |
sees it as a parent who's legally kind of running that account, administering the account 00:22:09.400 |
And so, yeah, I wanted to make my case for why I am enthusiastic about it and kind of 00:22:19.600 |
So let me just state what I have said previously for context. 00:22:25.360 |
So the UTMA account, Uniform Transfer to Minors Act and UGMA accounts, is a custodial account 00:22:32.120 |
that an individual can put money into for the benefit of a minor. 00:22:38.000 |
And then that allows the minor to receive money. 00:22:41.600 |
And there's generally no tax consequences to it. 00:22:43.680 |
It just sits in the account for them until they are a legal adult, which is usually 18 00:22:50.560 |
And then at the age of 18, they now can use the money, they can do whatever they want 00:22:56.960 |
And what I stated, as far as my position, is that I'm skeptical of UTMA accounts. 00:23:02.520 |
While I think I could design a circumstance in which I think they're the best they are, 00:23:07.320 |
I could probably design something where they're useful, especially if we get into ownership 00:23:12.600 |
rules and we have very specific needs from a tax and ownership perspective, then it could 00:23:20.800 |
But my big concern is that it doesn't allow the giver of assets to control the money once 00:23:31.400 |
And so you've got a drug addict, loser son who turns 18 and all of a sudden has full 00:23:37.840 |
control of the money, and he can do whatever he wants with it now, and it's enabling bad 00:23:44.440 |
And the rebuttal that people usually give is, "Well, that's only if he knows about it." 00:23:48.320 |
And my point is that you have a fiduciary duty to inform him about it, and so now you're 00:23:53.160 |
creating a scenario in which the minor knows that, "I'm going to have access to money," 00:23:57.840 |
and you don't have the ability to pull it back. 00:23:59.960 |
So that was the basic argument that I present generally when I'm asked about it, and now 00:24:05.640 |
Tell us kind of what you love about the UTMA and why you think it's so useful. 00:24:09.920 |
Yeah, and I agree that it's definitely a risk, and for that reason, I would discourage someone 00:24:22.720 |
from having like $100,000 in the UTMA or some amount of money of substantial value because 00:24:32.240 |
But basically what I've done with our kids, I mentioned the social security number because 00:24:37.480 |
as soon as they were born and we got the social security card in the mail, the first thing 00:24:42.440 |
I did was open UTMA accounts for each of them and put in a little bit of money and bought 00:24:51.280 |
And so they're one month old and can't talk, but they already own some assets. 00:24:57.440 |
And for me, it's not about trying to pick the greatest stocks in the world or to make 00:25:04.440 |
them millionaires before they actually do not want them to be millionaires before they 00:25:08.400 |
turn 18, unless they earn it themselves, but it's just about kind of instilling the value 00:25:14.780 |
of ownership and for them to, as they grow up and as they become capable of understanding 00:25:22.360 |
a little bit of what does it mean to own something, what does it mean to, what do companies do? 00:25:30.120 |
For example, if it could be an easy choice of things like gaming companies or things 00:25:36.720 |
that kids are involved in, they engage with, that they can relate to it. 00:25:42.960 |
And as they get older to kind of teach them, okay, here's what you own, here's what that 00:25:49.200 |
does and what that means, and here's how that can benefit you in the future. 00:25:55.600 |
And then, of course, especially when you get into those years, like around 10 to 12 years 00:26:02.320 |
of age where they can start to, when they start to have interest and they start to emerge 00:26:07.240 |
with their talent to say, okay, here's some funds that so far have just been invested 00:26:13.800 |
in stocks and that's fine, but we can take this and I can help you as the responsible 00:26:20.640 |
party and to say, what would you like to do, what are some things you could explore? 00:26:26.240 |
And it might be spending it on a plane ticket to go to a certain country they would love 00:26:30.580 |
to see, or it might be starting a business that might be, we'll see what it is as their 00:26:36.040 |
interests emerge, but to kind of use it as something that's kind of like the opportunity 00:26:40.960 |
And I envision something like between five to 10,000, as far as like a dollar amount 00:26:48.200 |
And it's enough to do something really cool with, but it's not too much money. 00:26:54.960 |
And then, and essentially the goal is to use it well before they reach age of majority. 00:27:01.400 |
So we never worry about them being irresponsible with it, that then it gets used probably before 00:27:07.840 |
they even start to drive, and so that's kind of the goal, the game plan. 00:27:15.080 |
And that's kind of where I see the radical side of it, that it kind of becomes the opportunity 00:27:19.880 |
file where I have a reason to teach them about those things because they have that. 00:27:24.440 |
And it really is theirs, it legally is theirs, but then we can transform it into something 00:27:29.920 |
even more valuable with those experiences they have, if it goes the way I envision it. 00:27:39.440 |
I can see the argument, and I think it's a good one. 00:27:42.640 |
And so the first distinction I would make is there's a couple reasons why the UTMA, 00:27:50.320 |
in what you're describing, why the UTMA is an appropriate scenario. 00:27:56.560 |
First, in what you're describing, you're not trying to accumulate significant assets. 00:28:03.720 |
You're not trying to accumulate $150,000 for a college education and do that in a UTMA 00:28:11.080 |
And so if we compare the UTMA against something like a 529 account, if somebody's goal is 00:28:16.320 |
to accumulate a six-figure sum for the child's future benefit, I would say a 529 account 00:28:23.800 |
is usually going to be a superior choice because what it allows the parent to do is to retain 00:28:32.920 |
control over the money, and it is tax-advantaged. 00:28:37.480 |
One of the downsides of the UTMA account is it's subject to the kiddie tax. 00:28:41.760 |
So any taxable earnings in the account are taxed, the first, what is it, $2,500, I think? 00:28:49.640 |
First $2,500 go to the child and normally would have a 0% tax rate. 00:28:56.840 |
But beyond $2,500 of taxable income in the account, unearned income, that's taxed at 00:29:06.740 |
So due to the kiddie tax rules, that's why UTMA accounts are not appropriate tax shelters 00:29:10.800 |
for wealthy parents who are trying to transfer assets to their child to get them out of the 00:29:15.160 |
parent's taxable assets to lower the tax rate. 00:29:19.200 |
You can't because the assets are going to be taxed at the parent's highest marginal 00:29:24.520 |
I would argue that at least be the child's money that's paying the tax, but anyway, ignore 00:29:29.640 |
So for significant funds, for a six-figure sum, a 529 account would be generally a superior 00:29:37.000 |
Then the other account that we would usually look to would be something like a Roth account. 00:29:42.440 |
And so a Roth account could accomplish a similar benefit of a sense of ownership and a similar 00:29:51.200 |
benefit to a sense of ownership, but the Roth account requires earned income in order to 00:29:56.440 |
And you're not going to be generating absent baby modeling, genuine baby modeling. 00:30:00.960 |
You're not generating earned income for a one-year-old. 00:30:03.820 |
So the Roth account really can't be started until a later time in the child's name. 00:30:11.360 |
Plus the downside of a Roth account is you're teaching the child that this is for your retirement 00:30:16.200 |
and you're not getting any of those current benefits of, "Hey, I'm really into gaming 00:30:20.520 |
right now, so I'm going to buy these game stocks and I'm going to spend the money on 00:30:26.600 |
You can do all of that with a UTMA account when the child is a minor, but you can't do 00:30:31.560 |
that with a Roth IRA because it's a retirement account that's generally seen for retirement. 00:30:37.720 |
And then the other important thing is that you're not just doing this with physical money 00:30:42.000 |
or with a simple – you're not doing this with physical money or physical assets. 00:30:47.920 |
You're trying to establish the ownership of securities. 00:30:50.800 |
And so if you're going to establish ownership of securities, you need an actual legal title 00:30:54.840 |
to put on the account, unlike just money that can be earned from flipping bicycles and selling 00:31:01.920 |
And then finally, you're trying to genuinely instill a sense of ownership and you're trying 00:31:07.480 |
I may have seeded the account for you, but this is your money. 00:31:13.520 |
I'm just the custodian on it, but you're the one who makes the decisions and you can gain 00:31:19.200 |
And so if you can invest effectively and grow the balance, you can go ahead and use this 00:31:25.120 |
This is your money and you can do whatever you want with it, but – and it's legally 00:31:28.240 |
your money, genuinely legally your money, but it's not constrained in a retirement account 00:31:33.440 |
and it's available to you without any restrictions. 00:31:36.920 |
So I think that with that line of thinking, I believe you're absolutely correct. 00:31:40.160 |
The UTMA account is your superior option for that. 00:31:44.440 |
I especially think about some of these founders and people have been really – you think 00:31:49.240 |
about almost anybody, like a Bill Gates type of person who sees jobs, a lot of their skills 00:31:55.680 |
I think that's probably true for a lot of regular folks too, and so that's kind of 00:32:02.800 |
a – when I think about generational planning, that's kind of what I have in my head, empowering 00:32:10.680 |
Or maybe using it for a Roth IRA, if they want to do that. 00:32:15.680 |
And what I'm emphasizing, and I think you're agreeing with, is this is being used as a 00:32:20.400 |
training tool, not as a financial, exclusively financial tool. 00:32:29.600 |
We're not trying to move assets, move ownership. 00:32:32.220 |
We're trying to use the laws that exist to establish ownership for a minor so that he 00:32:38.400 |
can trade stocks or some variation of that and know that it's his money that he has 00:32:46.440 |
full control over, that he gets full access to prior to 18 with your approval, and full 00:32:52.200 |
access to whether he has your approval or not after the age of 18. 00:32:59.100 |
It's a training tool investing into the child's sense of ownership so that he'll take interest 00:33:15.280 |
I think that your use case is ideal, and I agree. 00:33:17.880 |
Look out for Asian majority, be careful with that. 00:33:23.880 |
I think that what's evident to me from talking it through with you is that my brain automatically 00:33:30.860 |
And I need to be careful when I'm answering a question about a UTMA account, I need to 00:33:34.640 |
be careful to specify what amount of money are we talking about here? 00:33:39.920 |
Because when someone says, "I want to set aside money for my child," I'm automatically 00:33:45.760 |
mentally interpreting that to mean, "I want to set aside $100,000 to $250,000 for a child's 00:33:53.800 |
And I'm saying, "Well, this is an inferior option when compared to a 529 account, or 00:34:00.160 |
a Roth IRA account for the long-term, this is an inferior option for that." 00:34:04.720 |
But what I should do is I should be more careful to say, "What amount of money are we talking 00:34:10.520 |
Because the two factors that you've described of, "Hey, we're talking $3,000 or $9,000, 00:34:16.320 |
whatever it grows to, we're talking modest amounts, and we want the child to have the 00:34:20.800 |
confidence of ownership, and we just need some way of titling the account so that he 00:34:26.040 |
can actually buy and sell and trade and do all that stuff on a brokerage account or other 00:34:30.720 |
exchange in some way," then I think that that makes absolute sense. 00:34:35.440 |
And I need to be careful that I don't automatically just substitute six-figure sums when somebody 00:34:44.440 |
And that's kind of what surprised me a little bit, yeah, that makes a lot of sense. 00:34:50.360 |
So, it's good to reconcile our definition of terms, right? 00:35:00.560 |
Anything else you want to cover, Jason, before I go on to the next caller? 00:35:05.960 |
Well, I thank you again for coming to the family camp. 00:35:07.720 |
I loved interacting with you there, and look forward to connecting with you again soon. 00:35:12.120 |
It's great to be able to put names to faces, to voices on the phone. 00:35:22.680 |
Well, first, I wanted to just share an impact that your podcast has had on me. 00:35:29.520 |
I was just looking it up, and you released the Friday Q&A last year, March 6, 2023, about 00:35:38.440 |
birth tourism, and you talked a lot about just the physical explanation of birthing 00:35:47.560 |
and utilizing midwives and just different, you know, you just explained very well what 00:35:55.360 |
the process of birthing was like, and it got me thinking, and I actually got pregnant later 00:36:01.320 |
on last year and ended up giving birth at a birthing center with midwives. 00:36:07.600 |
It was, like, the most beautiful experience, and I just wanted to say thank you, because 00:36:12.520 |
I don't think I would have gone down the route that I did. 00:36:15.320 |
I probably would have entertained using midwives, but would have probably done so in a more 00:36:19.520 |
clinical setting, like at a hospital or something like that, and instead I went with a birthing 00:36:24.040 |
center that had a lot less intervention, and it was just, it was amazing, and I wanted 00:36:28.960 |
to share it because I know that positive birth stories are few and far between when it comes 00:36:37.160 |
Because the media likes to share the scary stuff, all the unknowns, and I think, especially 00:36:42.520 |
as a first-time mom going into it, there were a lot of unknowns, but having gone through 00:36:48.440 |
it now, it was just, like, the most beautiful experience, and I know that it was the case 00:36:53.280 |
because there were less interventions, there was just, you know, there were medical professionals 00:36:58.920 |
involved, but they were there to do it in the most natural route possible, and I was 00:37:18.600 |
The WNBA is on Friday night, starting May 17th. 00:37:20.120 |
First of all, you've shared that, and that you've had that experience, and I love hearing 00:37:44.560 |
just a few murmurs in the background of your little baby, and it makes all the difference 00:37:50.520 |
So I'll just comment on what you said, just to say thank you for that. 00:37:56.200 |
And it's important, because one of my goals, one of my current life goals, is to do anything 00:38:04.940 |
possible to equip mothers and fathers to have as many children as they want to have. 00:38:13.160 |
And I think that that's something that we can change, especially if we approach it holistically. 00:38:18.740 |
And while it's not particularly common for a financial planner to talk about birthing, 00:38:23.300 |
I think that there's some things, some of the reasons I do it is because I think there's 00:38:31.000 |
And our culture has always, not always, but our culture has isolated birthing, and it 00:38:36.920 |
has created fear in the hearts of women and prospective mothers all across the culture. 00:38:49.100 |
And I'm convinced that that's largely a psychiatric condition that is unnecessary. 00:38:57.740 |
And if you listen to experienced midwives who have crossed the globe, there are cultures 00:39:03.820 |
in which giving birth is just perceived as totally normal, generally considered to be 00:39:09.180 |
broadly painless, straightforward, all of that. 00:39:12.820 |
And so I think that we want to hold two things really carefully. 00:39:16.100 |
We want to hold that birthing is a normal and natural process. 00:39:22.220 |
And then simultaneously, even as with the first caller, before you jumped on, simultaneously 00:39:27.340 |
recognize that we need to be grateful for the incredible medical technology that we 00:39:32.220 |
have that saves the lives of countless mothers and babies all in. 00:39:36.980 |
And before you jumped on, the first caller, they had been planning on the birth of their 00:39:40.980 |
first baby and planning for a natural birth, and the baby came at 26 weeks. 00:39:46.140 |
And the baby's in the NICU, she's doing okay, but she came at 26 weeks. 00:39:49.420 |
And so I love that we have both of these calls on here because both of them are important. 00:39:57.340 |
We want to have good, modern, informed, highly qualified medical care. 00:40:04.180 |
And we want to do it in a human context that recognizes that the needs of the mother are 00:40:11.060 |
And as you are describing from the words that if a mother's birthing experience, especially 00:40:17.500 |
her first baby, if a mother's first baby birthing experience can be a beautiful, treasured 00:40:26.820 |
memory for her, it transforms her initial days with her new baby, and it transforms 00:40:36.420 |
the family's experience of childbirth in an enormous way based upon that first initial 00:40:46.820 |
And there are being something that's treasured. 00:40:49.440 |
And that's what I try to encourage people, like for my wife and me, probably our most 00:40:53.920 |
intimate moments together as a couple have been the births of our five children, because 00:41:05.920 |
It's an intense emotional experience that is beautiful and rewarding. 00:41:10.580 |
And so I wouldn't trade that for, unless it was necessary for the medical needs of a child 00:41:18.660 |
or my wife, I wouldn't trade that for anything. 00:41:22.180 |
And yet those outcomes are much more probable when you're in an environment where that's 00:41:27.700 |
seen as a goal that's worthy of care to be held alongside proper medical care. 00:41:37.180 |
They're highly trained to what to watch out for. 00:41:39.140 |
They're there to do a job, and that frees you in order to focus on the experience and 00:41:45.420 |
And so I want to increase birth rates in the world. 00:41:49.380 |
And there's a good friend of mine that I just consider as almost a perfect foil to this, 00:41:56.340 |
that good friend of mine, both he and she wanted to have lots of babies. 00:42:01.700 |
And they got married, they had their first baby. 00:42:04.280 |
They always thought they would have lots and lots of children. 00:42:11.720 |
And then the childbirth experience was so brutal for her that they said, "That's it. 00:42:18.980 |
And I don't think in her case that there's any... 00:42:23.480 |
I'm not arguing that anything could have been done differently in her case that would have 00:42:30.220 |
I'm using it as an example to say that if mothers can have birthing experiences that 00:42:36.180 |
are gentle and that are warm and that are fulfilling and that are intimate and that 00:42:41.260 |
create precious memories while they do the hard work of birthing the baby, then it can 00:42:47.860 |
completely transform their attitudes towards motherhood, our societies, we can do it better. 00:42:55.900 |
And we can do it better while holding on to the twin necessaries of a world-class experience 00:43:05.540 |
for the mother and for the baby and for the father, as well as proper up-to-date medical 00:43:12.660 |
And it thrills my heart to no end to hear your story. 00:43:19.660 |
And we'll just call out for the other listeners. 00:43:21.740 |
One of the things that we look for in our medical care was that our midwives... 00:43:27.340 |
My husband's perspective was that he was, of course, most worried about me and wanted 00:43:31.540 |
to be comfortable that I could get the appropriate medical care as needed. 00:43:36.420 |
And so one of the things that comforted him was our birthing center had done test drills 00:43:45.100 |
There were certain birth situations in which they would not deliver, but they had practicing 00:43:50.620 |
So if necessary, they could be our medical care at the hospital. 00:43:56.700 |
And we would also have all the other equipment and doctors around that were necessary. 00:44:04.300 |
And then I'll call out with regards to the increasing birth rate. 00:44:09.020 |
One of the comments my husband made when we were younger was just that he wanted to have 00:44:12.740 |
three children and his reason being was that it was above the national average. 00:44:17.420 |
And I just kind of discounted that at the time. 00:44:19.580 |
But through listening to your podcast, I've actually bought into it and seen that perspective 00:44:25.140 |
a little bit more and have truly considered it also in addition to having a very positive 00:44:31.780 |
Take them one at a time, one at a time, and then work it out between you guys. 00:44:37.820 |
So I did have a financial question, and this is pretty laughable, but I interviewed for 00:44:48.740 |
You are a warrior, warrior through and through. 00:44:54.820 |
It was definitely a God thing, and I got a job offer, have accepted it. 00:45:05.700 |
I currently live in Texas with my husband and our now six-week-old. 00:45:11.100 |
And we are considering whether or not we should sell our house or rent it out. 00:45:17.340 |
And I just wanted to get some thoughts and your perspective on it. 00:45:20.900 |
So the reason why we're considering renting the house out is we have a really fantastic 00:45:31.980 |
This is back in 2017, and we've paid off a decent chunk, I think, like 40% of the mortgage 00:45:39.700 |
is paid off, or 40% of the house value when we bought it was paid off. 00:45:48.660 |
I'm sorry, we refinanced, so that wouldn't make sense unless I told you that we refinanced. 00:45:54.180 |
But we have 11 more years on our mortgage, 60% more to pay off. 00:46:00.420 |
Considering renting it out, it is a large house. 00:46:03.960 |
We bought a forever home and expected to stay here and be in it for a while, so it's quite 00:46:10.980 |
We'd have to rent it out for a lot of money because it's a six-bedroom home. 00:46:14.060 |
We would probably need to rent it out for at least $4,500 to break even. 00:46:18.700 |
We're looking at, I think the ideal number would be $6,000 versus selling our home and 00:46:25.700 |
then either renting or buying in the market in Florida. 00:46:30.540 |
And of course, we have a really high interest rate that we'd be picking up, so probably 00:46:36.420 |
So I just wanted to get your thoughts and things to consider. 00:46:40.100 |
We've done a lot of math and spreadsheets and all the things behind it, and we can make 00:46:45.220 |
a case based off of assumptions towards either. 00:46:49.180 |
So just to clarify, given your expected income in Florida, given the costs of buying a house 00:46:54.340 |
that's appropriate for you, you think that you could afford to keep the house in Texas, 00:46:59.580 |
rent it out and simultaneously purchase another house to live in in Florida, is that right? 00:47:06.540 |
Well, then if that's the case, then it's fairly simple and straightforward. 00:47:11.900 |
And it comes down to how your experience is as a landlord of the benefits as compared 00:47:24.700 |
to the frustration and difficulty and how much you bristle at the extra work. 00:47:31.660 |
The more property that you own and control, the more potential wealth you have in the 00:47:38.940 |
long run based upon increases in property value and based upon the fact that your tenant 00:47:48.200 |
So from a purely financial perspective, everyone who wants to be rich should go out as quickly 00:47:56.340 |
as possible, purchase as much property as you can finance, get people in place to pay 00:48:03.280 |
off your mortgages for you, and then sit back and hold that for a very long time. 00:48:09.140 |
The fastest way to become a millionaire in the United States with real estate is just 00:48:13.540 |
go borrow a million dollars and get your tenants to pay it off for you. 00:48:17.380 |
And so that's what you would do if you go ahead and purchase an additional home in Florida 00:48:23.380 |
for you to live in and keep your Texas property. 00:48:26.340 |
And that is that you're always going to be better off because of owning more property. 00:48:33.160 |
Let's say the house in Texas is $400,000 and the house in Florida is $600,000. 00:48:40.000 |
So if you own both of those and you have a million dollars worth of property and the 00:48:44.160 |
property increases in value by 10%, there's an increase in your net worth of $100,000 00:48:51.120 |
as compared to if you only own a $600,000 house in Florida and there's an increase in 00:48:58.720 |
So conceptually, for those who want to build wealth quickly, you should set a goal of purchasing 00:49:06.060 |
as much property as possible, as quickly as possible, and then fill that property with 00:49:11.320 |
tenants and setting those tenants up to pay off your property for you. 00:49:15.200 |
I've talked about this in doing it in a strategic way. 00:49:18.880 |
So let's say that you're very strategic about building wealth with real estate. 00:49:24.160 |
Well, at 18 years old, you would go out, you would have a job, you would be financeable, 00:49:32.860 |
You would fill the house with tenants, roommates, to pay your mortgage payment. 00:49:37.880 |
You would repeat it at 20, and you would fill the house with roommates to pay your mortgage 00:49:46.680 |
This time you go ahead and live in it for a year yourself. 00:49:49.760 |
Your first two houses are rented out to multiple tenants, college students. 00:49:53.520 |
Then your third house, you put another tenant in it. 00:49:55.720 |
And by 25, if you could own five houses, that'd be amazing. 00:49:59.040 |
Then you go ahead and move into your forever house, and you just make sure that those tenants 00:50:03.640 |
are continually paying down your mortgages for you until all the houses are own debt 00:50:06.920 |
free and you're a multimillionaire with real estate. 00:50:13.160 |
So now that we've extolled the virtues of the plan, what is the downside? 00:50:16.400 |
Well, the downside is simply that it takes work to deal with houses. 00:50:21.400 |
It takes work to deal with tenants, and that work is not always fun or even palatable for 00:50:32.800 |
They don't want to deal with dealing with tenants. 00:50:35.800 |
They don't want to deal with fixing the house up when the previous tenant trashes the kitchen 00:50:42.600 |
Now you might have a big advantage that if you could rent this house fairly easily, you 00:50:48.720 |
would be dealing with a higher end tenant, and that may be an advantage for you that 00:50:56.200 |
The point is simply that real estate tenants are not time free. 00:50:59.800 |
So if you can do it and you're willing to do it, or you can try it and see what your 00:51:04.200 |
experience is, then it's probably better for you to keep both houses and try it. 00:51:10.800 |
If you find that it's not working for you, you don't like managing the tenants, or this 00:51:17.240 |
house just doesn't rent well, you have so many vacancies that you can never recoup your 00:51:22.080 |
money, or it's going to sink you financially because of those vacancies, then you would 00:51:27.600 |
I need to go ahead and not pursue this path anymore." 00:51:31.240 |
But basically as I see it, it's as simple as that. 00:51:33.880 |
All the rest of the stuff with interest rates and expected returns and all of that, it's 00:51:38.840 |
all interesting and it could be factored in, but at its core, I think those two things 00:51:45.600 |
I've said, the pro and the con, cover 80% of the decision. 00:51:51.280 |
The pro is if you want to build wealth, a good way to build wealth is to acquire as 00:51:56.840 |
much property as you can finance, and then make your tenants pay it off for you. 00:52:01.400 |
And the con is it's not time free, and it could sink you financially if you don't have 00:52:07.520 |
It does take time and energy to deal with tenants, and it's got to be worth it to you 00:52:11.200 |
in the long run to put that time and energy in. 00:52:13.640 |
But if you're willing to do it, and you find that, "Hey, we can rent this house okay. 00:52:17.520 |
It's not vacant too much," then yeah, you're better off keeping both houses as far as I'm 00:52:27.920 |
It's the challenge of whether or not the vacancies will be the make or break of the decision. 00:52:33.560 |
But one of the things I had shared with my husband is at least trying to rent is not 00:52:39.200 |
a permanent decision versus selling that's very permanent, "We're never going to get 00:52:43.200 |
this house back," so something to continue to discuss and consider. 00:52:48.560 |
And I think that if the money works based upon your income, your savings, and all that 00:52:52.320 |
stuff for you to keep both houses, I think it'll be a nice thing for you to have too 00:52:57.340 |
You may get to Florida, this job is great for the first six months, and then it just 00:53:02.440 |
And so being able to turn around and go back to the house that you know you love, the forever 00:53:05.880 |
home that you have in Texas, that could be a great nice thing to have available to you 00:53:13.080 |
And the good thing is that both of these areas are in high growth areas, good economic growth, 00:53:18.600 |
good reasons to expect that real estate is good, good reasons to expect that you'd be 00:53:22.920 |
able to find tenants who want to rent the property, and it's just going to come down 00:53:26.520 |
to does this property rent easily enough that we can find tenants that we don't have too 00:53:34.680 |
Higher end, I mean $6,000 a month is not super high end but it's certainly high end. 00:53:41.400 |
It could be, it can be better and it can be worse depending on what the local market provides 00:53:55.920 |
And with that, we conclude our Friday Q&A show. 00:54:00.560 |
I love that you love it when you guys call in and update us on situations. 00:54:04.520 |
So we had, I think, two callers there that talking about past commentary and I love it. 00:54:09.400 |
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