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on how to invest in your children at an early age. 00:01:19.680 |
and what I'm seeking to do is to persuade you 00:01:27.980 |
that you can buy from a financial product salesman. 00:01:32.980 |
Rather, you should think broadly about the term. 00:01:39.300 |
that I've had for many years that most of the dollars 00:01:42.620 |
that parents save to spend and invest in their children, 00:01:50.460 |
are probably better off spent in some other form 00:01:54.060 |
or fashion at an early age into the wellbeing 00:02:02.460 |
And so while these are not mutually exclusive, 00:02:09.020 |
I wanna encourage you that you're gonna get a better bang 00:02:14.140 |
So in this series, we began by talking about your child, 00:02:18.140 |
preconception of your child and the basic genetic material 00:02:21.380 |
that your child inheritance, conception and childbirth. 00:02:24.340 |
Then we talked about nourishing your child's body, 00:02:27.860 |
helping him to develop a body that is free of disease, 00:02:32.140 |
helping him to maximize his genetic potential 00:02:39.940 |
lots of exercise, getting stronger, et cetera. 00:02:51.580 |
And now in this episode, we're going to turn to numeracy 00:03:01.420 |
and they're certainly the basics of academics, 00:03:03.620 |
but I think they're the basic skills of life. 00:03:05.980 |
If we had to choose one or the other to focus on, 00:03:17.300 |
is gonna have a harder time absorbing the information 00:03:34.420 |
should be maintaining both of these things together, 00:04:00.380 |
of which we really start to focus on numeracy. 00:04:14.340 |
numeracy is a way of making your children smarter. 00:04:18.780 |
And we wanna have children that are beautiful, 00:04:21.180 |
that are strong, that are physically dexterous, 00:04:45.220 |
and we want them to have a large and healthy brain. 00:05:00.260 |
but with the manipulation of mental processes. 00:05:09.460 |
So we want our children to exercise their brains 00:05:15.500 |
about what a perfect brain day would look like for me. 00:05:19.060 |
You know, how do I make my brain smarter on a daily basis? 00:05:24.300 |
Well, ideally, on a daily basis in a perfect world, 00:05:32.260 |
that something that I read should be beautiful, 00:05:36.620 |
it should inform me, and it should inspire me. 00:05:39.940 |
So I want to access something that's beautiful 00:05:58.000 |
So I wanna do some form of a math workout every day, 00:06:03.520 |
And I wanna look at math as a way of strengthening my brain. 00:06:09.840 |
I should be regularly building my mathematical ability. 00:06:13.640 |
In an ideal day, I should be making myself smarter 00:06:23.840 |
Multilingualism also is proven to enhance my brain ability. 00:06:33.800 |
So if I can play an instrument or engage in something 00:06:41.600 |
Something that's aesthetic would be quite valuable. 00:06:44.920 |
So if I can draw or paint or just appreciate art, 00:06:50.580 |
And of course, we get into all the world of emotions, 00:06:52.200 |
surrounding myself with the positive emotions of love 00:07:00.060 |
and they do some heavy lifting in our brains. 00:07:04.160 |
But at its core, the ones that work up our brains 00:07:11.880 |
That's where we often have to think, we have to struggle. 00:07:20.520 |
There are benefits, of course, to going for a walk. 00:07:25.200 |
But if you want to grow your muscular ability, 00:07:44.880 |
And one of the fundamentally most useful ways 00:07:48.000 |
to challenge your brain is quite simply with math. 00:07:51.960 |
It's extremely valuable to build your brain muscles. 00:08:05.740 |
and it makes your brain work more efficiently, 00:08:13.760 |
to actually study math, regardless of any practical concepts, 00:08:23.000 |
from a book called "The Equation for Excellence, 00:08:25.680 |
"How to Make Your Child Excel at Math" by Arvind Vohra. 00:08:33.680 |
And I think it's important that you understand this concept. 00:08:38.300 |
When children ask why they need to study math, 00:08:47.540 |
is that it is an obvious and transparent lie. 00:08:54.160 |
tends to have the opposite of the intended effect. 00:08:59.780 |
that they will need math for their daily activities. 00:09:02.340 |
For example, they will need to calculate the tip 00:09:04.120 |
in a restaurant or determine how much they should pay 00:09:11.620 |
And anyone who is worried about running out of batteries 00:09:32.500 |
the language sounds when that was a mere 16 years ago. 00:09:36.100 |
But of course, 2007 was the year that the iPhone, 00:09:47.580 |
The arguments against the daily life explanation continue. 00:10:08.120 |
the only math I used on the job was multiplication 00:10:20.420 |
We need math to design space shuttles and satellites, 00:10:23.220 |
to work in laboratories, and to build the newest computers. 00:10:28.580 |
Much of that work requires intensive use of advanced math. 00:10:41.200 |
In fact, from the perspective of most students, 00:10:43.140 |
there is very little external motivation to be a scientist. 00:10:46.680 |
The strongest external motivators for most teenagers 00:11:00.420 |
the businessmen for whom he works make a billion. 00:11:04.460 |
there are a thousand famous musicians and actors. 00:11:12.460 |
And in American culture, scientists have no more popularity 00:11:18.120 |
Thus, this argument not only fails to motivate students, 00:11:22.380 |
A student with no interest in being a scientist 00:11:26.780 |
now thinks that advanced math is useful only for scientists. 00:11:33.940 |
his time is better spent doing almost anything else, 00:11:36.680 |
studying politics, learning to play the guitar, 00:11:39.220 |
working out, or thinking of ways to make himself rich. 00:11:45.700 |
So then, why should a student learn math at all? 00:11:48.700 |
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Kings used to play chess to learn military strategy. 00:12:30.380 |
In chess, the bishop can move only diagonally. 00:12:38.940 |
How would studying chess help in any real war? 00:12:42.840 |
I had, of course, completely missed the point. 00:12:44.820 |
Strategy has nothing to do with L shapes or diagonals. 00:12:48.540 |
A chess player learns to anticipate his opponent. 00:12:57.500 |
and be wary of the strategic artifices of his opponent. 00:13:00.740 |
He learns to predict his opponent's future responses 00:13:03.220 |
to his actions rather than focusing on the immediate gains. 00:13:07.300 |
This mental discipline makes his mind sharper 00:13:09.760 |
and he becomes a much more capable strategist. 00:13:14.980 |
not because it teaches a student how to use trigonometry 00:13:31.660 |
that can be applied to science and technology. 00:13:41.220 |
The student will develop the logical reasoning skills 00:13:43.700 |
that allow a lawyer to analyze a legal situation 00:13:46.300 |
and to present a coherent and convincing argument. 00:13:55.060 |
He will develop mental skills that can be used 00:13:59.540 |
His mind will become faster, sharper, and more precise. 00:14:07.660 |
In no sport will an athlete suddenly lie down on his back 00:14:12.640 |
However, the vast majority of athletes do the bench press. 00:14:17.100 |
It makes them stronger and thus prepares them 00:14:21.300 |
When you teach a child math in the right way, 00:14:27.420 |
You are helping him actually develop his mind. 00:14:49.840 |
When we think about how to make our children smarter, 00:14:52.540 |
we have to consider the tools at our disposal. 00:15:02.540 |
things like high fat consumption, lots of exercise, 00:15:17.420 |
not only the physical gray matter of their brain, 00:15:22.020 |
And mathematics is one of the most consistent tools 00:15:28.100 |
because math is analogous to a form of a language. 00:15:33.100 |
I think mathematics could be described quite elegantly 00:15:40.900 |
I'm persuaded that there's an incredibly useful apologetic 00:15:46.420 |
in the unreasonable effectiveness of mathematics. 00:15:49.540 |
When you look at how precisely ordered the universe is 00:15:53.060 |
and how beautifully consistently mathematical, 00:15:57.100 |
it beggars belief to think that that form of, 00:16:01.880 |
that language that exists, that is non-physical, 00:16:06.260 |
that human beings universally can have access to, 00:16:17.300 |
that there is a beautiful and elegant design. 00:16:24.940 |
it just leads to ever increasing opportunities. 00:16:45.100 |
but I know what it's like to be a struggling student in math 00:16:49.980 |
and I know the struggles that I myself faced in doing math. 00:16:54.980 |
And I know how those struggles can be resolved. 00:17:11.740 |
their love for mathematics chewed up and destroyed 00:17:21.140 |
And I think that's unfortunate and unnecessary. 00:17:26.060 |
I think that if we understand that math is a language, 00:17:39.200 |
assuming it's, let's assume it's English for the moment, 00:17:52.040 |
that will allow them to never master the English language 00:18:01.320 |
who will never attain that level of linguistic ability. 00:18:18.920 |
is not due to a fundamental handicap or disability. 00:18:23.920 |
Rather, it's due to not being exposed to high levels 00:18:33.120 |
not being trained in the fundamentals necessary 00:18:48.880 |
anybody can become a master of the English language 00:18:58.400 |
the right basic tools, and the fullness of time, 00:19:19.120 |
As you can tell from the previous two episodes, 00:19:30.000 |
understands that I'm a quite literate person. 00:19:49.600 |
that in order to write effective, successful sales copy, 00:20:08.000 |
causes you to lose vast swaths of your audience 00:20:13.360 |
And where I remember this really standing out to me 00:20:19.240 |
was when I saw in prior to the 2016 presidential election 00:20:22.800 |
in the United States, I saw at some point an analysis 00:20:29.760 |
saying he never used more than fifth grade words, 00:20:38.400 |
I thought, boom, this guy understands how to reach people 00:20:53.200 |
My goal is not to reach the highest number of people. 00:20:57.120 |
My goal is to reach people that I enjoy talking to 00:20:59.640 |
and inspiring those who are looking for more. 00:21:01.600 |
So the world of popular level financial advice 00:21:09.520 |
My point is, because I'm so passionate about language, 00:21:21.120 |
to achieve a higher level faster than most other people. 00:21:28.000 |
and a fourth, third or fourth, fourth grader, 00:21:29.880 |
fourth grader, second grader, something like that, 00:21:40.880 |
as graduate-level in terms of their Lexile scores. 00:21:44.160 |
That's intentional because the exposure at a young age 00:21:51.680 |
of allowing a student to go much farther, much faster. 00:22:03.880 |
and we're skillful about how we introduce math 00:22:10.560 |
we can help our children to go very, very far in math. 00:22:14.560 |
And it should be very rare that a child ever thinks, 00:22:26.480 |
at different rates and have struggled with different things. 00:22:29.040 |
That is normal, but we can and must adapt then what we do 00:22:48.320 |
or because they need a special aid of some kind 00:23:04.840 |
Just like we don't stop encouraging our children to walk 00:23:07.760 |
just because one child walks at three years old, 00:23:14.480 |
you're gonna continue working with your child 00:23:18.100 |
You're going to continue working with your child 00:23:21.480 |
And you must continue working with your child 00:23:29.040 |
Mathematics is a language that is accessible to all people. 00:23:46.860 |
where it's very hard to get worse at languages. 00:24:04.960 |
say you don't use a language at all for five years, 00:24:08.960 |
in very short time, you quickly reach your ability 00:24:44.780 |
And one of the things that I have appreciated over the years 00:24:50.880 |
that those who maintain the educational philosophy 00:24:59.000 |
and many of the critiques that they make of schooling. 00:25:05.040 |
you need to actually care about it and want to learn it. 00:25:15.620 |
But I myself am not an unschooler, excuse me, 00:25:25.960 |
an appropriate structure for character formation. 00:25:46.080 |
to do difficult things each and every single day 00:25:50.720 |
of their life in order that they develop the skill 00:26:13.460 |
Perhaps a man who has a farm or some form of lifestyle 00:26:20.060 |
can use that heavy physical labor as the tool 00:26:26.300 |
That's certainly something that I think many people 00:26:28.380 |
notice that can happen well in farming economies. 00:26:31.900 |
But we no longer live in an agrarian economy. 00:26:34.260 |
And so that tool is often not very effective for us. 00:26:39.420 |
your tool can be the hard thing we're gonna do every day 00:26:41.700 |
is go jump in the frozen lake and have cold exposure. 00:26:49.540 |
and in an intellectual world, we need something hard 00:27:22.780 |
a New Apologia for Greek and Latin" by Tracey Lee Simmons. 00:27:34.300 |
that many centuries of classically educated students 00:27:41.280 |
that's talking about the value of the struggle 00:27:46.300 |
I believe though that this applies first to mathematics. 00:28:00.020 |
is simply we have never gone through that challenge 00:28:04.660 |
I myself was never exposed to Greek and Latin as a child. 00:28:10.060 |
I didn't have the experience that these authors have. 00:28:13.940 |
Nor is it easy for me as a father to find tutors 00:28:25.300 |
But I believe mathematics can accomplish the same thing. 00:28:36.580 |
Enjoy this excerpt here from "Climbing Parnassus." 00:28:55.540 |
made indelible impressions, intellectual and otherwise. 00:29:03.740 |
And he lived to see the stupid, numbing consensus arise 00:29:11.820 |
The modern revolt against centering the school curriculum 00:29:14.140 |
around the study of Latin and Greek is understandable 00:29:21.620 |
It is no doubt a pleasure to read the Greek and Latin poets, 00:29:30.140 |
kept up their Greek and Latin after leaving school. 00:29:36.940 |
Anybody who has spent many hours in his youth 00:29:42.540 |
so syntactically and rhetorically different from his own, 00:29:48.740 |
which I do not think can be learned in any other way. 00:29:51.700 |
It inculcates the habit, whenever one uses a word, 00:29:55.020 |
of automatically asking what is its exact meaning. 00:29:58.460 |
Auden's case for classics was not so much the cultural one, 00:30:27.540 |
since classical education became undemocratic 00:30:32.860 |
Their natural love of languages sees them through. 00:30:35.860 |
But all those, like politicians, journalists, lawyers, 00:30:40.620 |
who use language for everyday and non-literary purposes. 00:30:44.540 |
Among such, one observes an appalling deterioration 00:30:50.300 |
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- How ironic that those democratic fears of elitism 00:31:25.020 |
should ensure that those born without the privileges 00:31:27.740 |
of the educated classes will remain permanently disabled, 00:31:36.820 |
Nobody, Auden wrote, who had had a classical education 00:31:40.780 |
could have perpetuated this sentence in "The New Yorker." 00:31:44.420 |
He, a film director, expresses that dichotomy 00:31:47.980 |
between man and woman in the images of the bra and dachau. 00:32:03.460 |
It exists to confuse and impress easily bamboozled, 00:32:15.660 |
Language like this is not hatched for civilized people. 00:32:24.780 |
upon a goodly number of intelligent men and women. 00:32:27.420 |
We may doubt whether we can have a literary culture 00:32:45.060 |
changes the shape of the mind for the better. 00:32:53.100 |
Most of my hours in the form room for 10 years 00:33:02.900 |
and should now be hard put to compose a simple epitaph. 00:33:08.940 |
superficial for the time perhaps, classical studies. 00:33:12.020 |
I believe that the conventional defense of them is valid. 00:33:19.900 |
and that words have basic inalienable meanings, 00:33:23.340 |
departure from which is either conscious metaphor 00:33:36.700 |
The old fashioned test of an English sentence, 00:33:40.620 |
Still stands after we have lost the trick of translation. 00:33:50.660 |
His schoolmasters might have chosen to clutter the classroom 00:33:54.900 |
than it did in the second decade of the 20th century. 00:34:02.340 |
That world was changing after all, true enough. 00:34:12.740 |
The better schools then, as they ought to be now, 00:34:15.180 |
were eager primarily to form the student's mind, 00:34:26.260 |
the curriculum of Wauw's school was also marked 00:34:30.420 |
"By a definite rejection of what it did not include." 00:34:34.900 |
What it didn't let in was of equal importance 00:35:02.100 |
for the earnestly shallow, commonly confusing, 00:35:04.980 |
pious or patriotic piffle with real education. 00:35:09.900 |
any educated human being is bound to respect. 00:35:13.460 |
Schools of the best kind have always aimed high 00:35:23.500 |
Those who ran them knew that we educate ourselves 00:35:37.980 |
They shaped their curricula narrowly and wisely. 00:35:42.020 |
Information alone is not knowledge as they knew. 00:35:48.860 |
when they recognize squarely how little they can do. 00:35:51.860 |
Yet how much more can be done when our gaze remains steady, 00:35:58.180 |
No results are guaranteed, but the effort pays off. 00:36:06.780 |
Let's see one more example of how good schooling goes bad 00:36:11.740 |
Perhaps the school should be, as we might say now, 00:36:18.180 |
The work enjoined upon us should help us to develop, 00:36:21.740 |
not only by its content, but also by its method, 00:36:25.580 |
the mind capable of teaching itself anything. 00:36:32.860 |
the one full of information for an information age, 00:36:44.540 |
one able to place the society to which it belongs 00:37:00.100 |
yet we must emerge from school doors knowing something, 00:37:07.140 |
We should learn how to appreciate the better things of life. 00:37:13.140 |
The snare here, the snake in the grass waiting to bite, 00:37:15.980 |
is that this idea has led us down some false paths. 00:37:20.100 |
Appreciation squares with Renaissance ideals, 00:37:35.140 |
Many have tipped their hats to this principle 00:37:37.100 |
by designing courses whose purpose is to help those students 00:37:44.700 |
Yet this isn't the learning Vittorino da Feltre knew. 00:37:49.980 |
to learn the hard things about poetry or music or art. 00:37:53.660 |
We need only to appreciate them as poetry, music, or art. 00:38:00.300 |
While it's easy to make fun of this attitude, 00:38:01.860 |
we should recognize that in the ablest hands, 00:38:09.220 |
Poetry, music, and art were not created after all 00:38:14.260 |
Poetry is more than scansion and difficult words, 00:38:19.740 |
and art more than cracked vases and spatial perspective. 00:38:26.060 |
They were meant to please us in some deep or diverting way. 00:38:31.540 |
But however good the object of helping young people 00:38:33.780 |
to take easy the light and the fine things around them, 00:38:36.500 |
this approach to forming the rough, formless mind 00:38:41.580 |
C.S. Lewis helps us to see why in a little known essay 00:38:51.740 |
looking up from some milk and watery entrance papers 00:38:55.940 |
"The trouble with these boys is that the masters 00:38:57.980 |
have been talking to them about the Parthenon 00:39:03.460 |
The optative is one of the moods of the Greek verb. 00:39:06.900 |
"Ever since then, I have tended to use the Parthenon 00:39:09.540 |
and the optative as the symbols of two types of education. 00:39:21.460 |
in a real appreciation, which is equally hard and firm, 00:39:26.140 |
The other begins in appreciation and ends in gush. 00:39:31.020 |
When the first fails, it has, at the very least, 00:39:35.940 |
He may decide that he doesn't care for knowledge, 00:39:54.100 |
It makes him think he is enjoying poems he can't construe. 00:39:57.940 |
It qualifies him to review books he does not understand 00:40:21.180 |
The teacher doesn't teach, the teacher facilitates. 00:40:25.620 |
Instead of providing solid instruction, for instance, 00:40:30.540 |
about its religious significance and dates and place 00:40:37.860 |
the things that is, we can really know about it, 00:40:41.540 |
the teacher is now just as likely to stand before a class 00:40:52.740 |
Would you want to walk into a building like this? 00:41:01.740 |
Write a paragraph on what you think it must have felt like 00:41:16.300 |
allow us later to think we know more than we do. 00:41:20.420 |
These questions might not make a bad exercise 00:41:23.140 |
for kindergartners, but they're unfit for anyone older. 00:41:29.620 |
will be better spent memorizing Roman numerals. 00:41:32.260 |
Yet much schooling today, even high schooling, 00:41:43.860 |
of soft teaching or the seductions of ignorance, 00:42:02.700 |
They are moved by a kind of false reverence for the muses. 00:42:09.140 |
seems to them so delicate and spiritual a thing 00:42:12.860 |
that they cannot bear to see it, as they think, 00:42:19.320 |
as paradigms, blackboards, marks, and examination papers. 00:42:24.320 |
But there is a profound misunderstanding here. 00:42:29.620 |
are quite right in thinking that literary appreciation 00:42:34.220 |
What they do not seem to see is that for this very reason, 00:42:40.340 |
ought to confine themselves to just those dry 00:42:44.260 |
and factual questions, which are so often ridiculed. 00:42:49.060 |
The questions were never supposed to test appreciation. 00:43:01.060 |
And this, so far from being a defect in such examinations, 00:43:05.680 |
is just what renders them useful or even tolerable. 00:43:18.380 |
we have no way of knowing if it's happening at all. 00:43:24.660 |
Furthermore, trying to test pleasure or approval 00:43:30.700 |
Tell the boy to mug up, which means study up on, 00:43:36.520 |
and then set questions to find out whether he has done so. 00:43:41.020 |
and best of all, unconsciously, to enjoy a great poem. 00:43:44.540 |
At second best, he has done an honest piece of work 00:43:53.340 |
have not taught him to be a prig or a hypocrite, 00:43:56.340 |
but an elementary examination which attempts to assess 00:43:59.820 |
the adventure of the soul among books is a dangerous thing. 00:44:06.240 |
will try to manufacture and clever ones can ape 00:44:16.180 |
to exhibit itself at that very stage when it's timid, 00:44:25.920 |
If the tenets of formation ought to guide method 00:44:28.580 |
in our schools, we also see what content must be. 00:44:42.680 |
the bar we use to pull ourselves out of ignorance. 00:44:46.360 |
The formed and forming mind is the muscle we use to pull. 00:44:50.940 |
Appreciation may be properly valued above solid knowledge. 00:44:55.560 |
The best kind accompanies us into our sunset years. 00:45:13.700 |
the way of the optative may not guarantee a rival 00:45:24.220 |
have tested and found to be not only reliable, 00:45:46.100 |
but I think it's hard to believe that most of us 00:46:05.180 |
Most of us are not equipped and we may have other concerns. 00:46:08.760 |
But I think mathematics provides us with so much of that. 00:46:14.820 |
And while many of us may be skeptical about Greek and Latin 00:46:22.060 |
I think far fewer of us are skeptical about mathematics 00:46:32.100 |
and we want to use the tools at our disposal. 00:46:40.900 |
"There is a time for play and a time for work. 00:46:44.300 |
"School can be an enriching, enjoyable place, 00:46:50.500 |
"Those are fortunate children with fortunate parents. 00:46:53.720 |
"But children's approval should not be our first concern. 00:46:57.200 |
"Like a healing doctor, we know this will hurt. 00:47:08.240 |
"Students should be encouraged to develop a sense 00:47:10.700 |
"of their smallness alongside the world's riches. 00:47:13.900 |
"Humility remains a decent aim for the well-educated mind. 00:47:20.440 |
"Those subjects that can be got outside school doors, 00:47:23.320 |
"things like fashion design, computer training, 00:47:33.420 |
"School ought to be a training ground for the intellect, 00:47:41.180 |
"And if it's to be the latter, we should admit it. 00:47:45.640 |
"who will one day step forward to run the world. 00:47:48.580 |
"And why should we teach anything other than languages, 00:47:53.360 |
"mathematics, and geography before the age of 13? 00:48:01.400 |
"These are human beings equipped both with minds and souls. 00:48:22.400 |
so that they can do something hard every single day. 00:48:34.500 |
So what is necessary for mathematical success? 00:48:52.440 |
My parents tried, I was homeschooled, they did their best. 00:49:03.900 |
I wasn't required to drill them until mastery. 00:49:09.560 |
that was probably fine, and then we switched. 00:49:25.400 |
from my mom's desk and just copy down the answers. 00:49:30.400 |
And I was able to successfully fool my grandmother 00:49:37.000 |
and I confessed and whatnot, but I got behind. 00:49:43.200 |
into a local, more traditional private school, 00:49:52.280 |
because I did not pass the math tests sufficiently. 00:49:58.760 |
I got a D the first semester, so I was barely passing. 00:50:03.760 |
I was reasonably smart, but I was barely passing. 00:50:18.160 |
I forget all of them, but one of the requirements 00:50:21.600 |
was that I had to review my homework with him. 00:50:25.280 |
I think I had to bring him every test that I went through, 00:50:28.280 |
and basically, he just took a strong interest 00:50:31.840 |
So I got a D the first quarter, a C the next quarter, 00:50:34.400 |
B the end of that quarter, and then from then, 00:50:39.680 |
and I think I mostly got As, either high Bs or low As, 00:50:49.480 |
I did pass through algebra, trigonometry, geometry, et cetera 00:51:04.840 |
at the end of the year, I got a two on my AP exam, 00:51:07.520 |
which is a failure on, so I failed my AP exam, 00:51:11.760 |
When I went into college, my freshman year of college, 00:51:19.040 |
and I figured, well, I'll take calculus again. 00:51:51.480 |
and I knew that I was insufficiently prepared for it. 00:52:00.480 |
And what went wrong was I never did nearly enough math 00:52:05.320 |
First, I never did nearly enough of the day in, day out, 00:52:08.600 |
nuts and bolts of arithmetic to master my math facts. 00:52:11.560 |
Now, I eventually did master them in high school, 00:52:20.980 |
Math facts, one of the most fundamentally important things 00:52:28.820 |
is that they have absolute and total mastery over math facts. 00:52:35.580 |
about perhaps the inadvisability of doing math too young. 00:52:56.580 |
your subtraction tables, your multiplication tables, 00:53:00.780 |
knowing them cold as just flat out memorized, 00:53:16.220 |
If you have children who are past, I don't know, 00:53:19.660 |
third grade, I think third grade age, whatever that is, 00:53:25.580 |
if your children do not have their math facts known 00:53:29.380 |
cold, you wake 'em up, shake 'em in the middle of the night 00:53:36.100 |
were always nine times seven or things like that. 00:53:58.340 |
and if you're looking to invest into your children's brains 00:54:07.260 |
that they know their math facts absolutely cold. 00:54:11.380 |
Go on Amazon, buy a set of math flashcards of math facts, 00:54:29.140 |
You can start with your ones and your twos and your threes, 00:54:36.840 |
That's the most important thing to start with. 00:54:51.940 |
In my high school, the curriculum that was used 00:55:06.320 |
But what we didn't do was we didn't do all the problems. 00:55:10.980 |
because we had to have class time explaining things. 00:55:16.220 |
was that I almost never benefited from class explanations. 00:55:34.740 |
very limited college, very limited college math career, 00:55:37.620 |
I never got confident with my ability in math 00:55:44.280 |
okay, you gotta go home and do the evens today, 00:55:51.300 |
And the reason the teacher, the math teacher, 00:56:02.020 |
who were all at various abilities with mathematics, 00:56:10.260 |
and then answer questions of people who don't understand 00:56:12.900 |
and work those problems and give us enough time. 00:56:21.340 |
of my having a room to come into that was quiet 00:56:24.780 |
and my being expected to read the lesson in the math book 00:56:29.340 |
and then have a teacher or a tutor available to help me 00:56:37.940 |
where you have all the time dedicated to upfront teaching 00:56:41.740 |
and then you don't have enough time to do the homework. 00:56:45.140 |
And so the speed at which a math student proceeds through 00:56:49.500 |
needs to be slow enough that the student can develop 00:57:00.040 |
about how important it would have been for me 00:57:07.020 |
Working math problems when you know the material, 00:57:19.220 |
Doing math that you know how to do is very satisfying. 00:57:29.220 |
And so I don't know if that's a universal experience, 00:57:42.580 |
it's probably because your child is not mastering math. 00:57:45.760 |
And then what happens is you get into this vicious cycle. 00:57:51.840 |
because he's not done enough problems to understand it, 00:57:59.200 |
Because he doesn't understand, the problems are painful. 00:58:05.880 |
where you're just not doing enough of the actual effort. 00:58:10.800 |
Let's use a weightlifting, or let's use a running analogy. 00:58:19.520 |
by once a month going out for a really long run. 00:58:30.840 |
to build the overall muscular strength and stability 00:58:35.620 |
and stamina, et cetera, and lung strength, et cetera. 00:58:38.100 |
And then you then challenge yourself on occasion, 00:58:52.160 |
and then he challenges himself with a long run 00:58:57.040 |
Mathematics should be done on the same principle. 00:59:04.000 |
putting in the problems of things that you know, 00:59:07.720 |
where you learn a new concept, it's really challenging, 00:59:14.880 |
And that leads to confidence with mathematics. 00:59:24.840 |
The teacher, how can, if the teacher enforces 00:59:36.640 |
versus just somehow magically understanding it. 00:59:39.920 |
Now, this is not, these opinions are not without controversy, 00:59:43.200 |
but I've read and listened to a lot of people, 00:59:48.760 |
as a self-aware student who struggled with math, 01:00:04.920 |
whether your child is in a homeschool environment 01:00:09.480 |
one of the best things you can do with his math abilities 01:00:15.900 |
so that he doesn't go into the summertime slump. 01:00:21.800 |
at least the American educational calendar is set up 01:00:31.620 |
that they should only do work five days a week 01:00:35.880 |
And then the last couple of weeks are wasted, generally. 01:00:48.160 |
it's more important to have daily consistency 01:00:59.300 |
if you could only, if you try to study a language 01:01:03.040 |
for a three-hour stretch, and then you wait a week, 01:01:06.960 |
you would be better off with just 20 minutes every day 01:01:16.280 |
And I think math has the same basic focus and need. 01:01:34.660 |
And here, I think a good inspirational example 01:01:48.440 |
But the short version of it is that Art Robinson 01:01:53.880 |
and he and his wife were both research scientists 01:02:05.040 |
that killed her in something like 24, 48 hours. 01:02:13.440 |
who was desirous and committed to homeschooling 01:02:19.040 |
And basically, he applied a very simple system 01:02:27.820 |
and he required his children to learn math facts. 01:02:31.340 |
Then he wound up accidentally creating a system 01:02:39.020 |
What he would do is he would require his children 01:02:51.340 |
and they would just work their way through the problems. 01:02:54.340 |
And what they did was they did math six days a week, 01:03:10.420 |
a Saxon lesson usually has 30 problems on a daily basis, 01:03:13.420 |
so a 30-problem set would take about an hour to two, 01:03:52.180 |
to read off of an assigned book list for two hours a day, 01:03:56.940 |
which wound up basically being an hour a day. 01:04:07.340 |
they went on and studied physics and chemistry. 01:04:10.060 |
They all passed AP calculus exams, et cetera. 01:04:20.380 |
You can find some old lectures of him lecturing 01:04:32.100 |
But very, very inspirational in terms of his story. 01:04:35.860 |
And I first read that story before I ever had children, 01:04:57.580 |
is that he always required his children to start with math. 01:05:04.580 |
because math is hard, children need to be trained 01:05:08.580 |
that the first thing you do when you wake up in the morning 01:05:29.860 |
and we can use math to develop it in our children. 01:05:35.860 |
or trying to figure out what do I really wanna do first. 01:05:38.460 |
I wanna start with the hardest thing on my list. 01:05:55.880 |
so you might as well get up and face it and eat the frog, 01:05:58.300 |
and then you know everything's better from there. 01:06:05.140 |
this should be a fundamental tool that we use, 01:06:11.900 |
of a rigorous mathematical occasion, education, excuse me. 01:06:19.700 |
we want them to have true and fundamental knowledge, 01:06:24.020 |
and we want them to be trained to do something hard, 01:06:29.860 |
And so mathematics to me seems the ideal way to do it. 01:06:41.220 |
should be tailored individually to the child. 01:06:48.220 |
that involves cumulative knowledge and skills, 01:06:55.820 |
If the child is struggling with something, we slow down. 01:07:03.700 |
Now I'm fairly young in my own tutoring of this 01:07:13.300 |
and the importance of proceeding at the rate of the student 01:07:20.260 |
and practicing long division to my eldest child. 01:07:25.680 |
that probably for most of us was intimidating at first. 01:07:28.220 |
It can be difficult, it takes time to develop. 01:07:32.740 |
I wasn't requiring an entirely self-taught system 01:07:51.600 |
and that he does it himself then until he is confident. 01:07:58.320 |
to say, "Well, I'm just gonna help you with a few things, 01:08:03.400 |
not at the age yet where I'm willing to be so hardcore. 01:08:20.000 |
and you're helped with it until you master it. 01:08:22.760 |
And then that you have enough practice examples 01:08:43.840 |
I do believe that requiring the child's brain 01:09:04.080 |
in the way that lifting weights builds the muscles. 01:09:06.160 |
But not all methods of teaching math do this equally. 01:09:09.080 |
In fact, some of the more recently adopted methods 01:09:13.720 |
Not only do these methods fail to build cognitive skills, 01:09:19.360 |
that the student has already built to atrophy. 01:09:23.060 |
Three things cause cognitive skills to develop. 01:09:34.760 |
The second thing that causes cognitive skills to develop 01:09:39.560 |
Children who are exposed to interesting ideas 01:09:42.060 |
and problem types can freely stretch their minds 01:09:46.840 |
As a simple example, a child who plays with a Rubik's cube 01:09:49.680 |
may develop a surer sense of three-dimensional reasoning. 01:09:57.920 |
may develop the foundation for strong spatial reasoning. 01:10:05.280 |
If he cannot figure out how to solve the Rubik's cube, 01:10:09.880 |
For the mind to have the incentive to develop, 01:10:13.880 |
First, it must encounter a problem that it is unable to do. 01:10:34.640 |
what incentive does the mind have to improve? 01:10:47.400 |
Parents and teachers of gifted students often overlook this 01:10:50.160 |
and just allow them to work at a comfortable pace. 01:10:54.520 |
never get the opportunity to realize their full potential. 01:10:59.880 |
they end up squandering their innate talents. 01:11:04.760 |
he must be given some challenging math problems 01:11:15.600 |
should take anywhere from 20 minutes to a week to solve. 01:11:19.520 |
Once you have a sufficiently challenging problem, 01:11:30.920 |
However, by understanding what motivates your child, 01:11:33.840 |
you can design the right kinds of incentives. 01:11:40.880 |
we want the child's brain to struggle with something hard 01:11:51.180 |
while lifting a heavy weight so that his muscles may grow. 01:12:05.440 |
into which most math curricula are segmented. 01:12:17.720 |
Basically, the concept is we're going to introduce a concept 01:12:20.760 |
and we're gonna drill it and drill it and drill it 01:12:32.880 |
and then we're gonna go on to something else. 01:12:43.500 |
The spiral approach is we're gonna introduce a new concept, 01:12:48.240 |
and then the next day you're gonna do a couple of problems, 01:12:50.640 |
but it's gonna be intermixed with everything else. 01:12:55.960 |
and you're gonna master the concept over time 01:12:58.280 |
because you're doing it a little bit every day. 01:13:01.240 |
I've read enough parents' results to recognize 01:13:09.320 |
different math curricula searching for something 01:13:13.480 |
And of course, finding something that works for you 01:13:25.600 |
Right now, we are using the ABECA math curriculum 01:13:36.960 |
I'm more attracted to the concept of the spiral methodology 01:13:39.800 |
'cause it fits with my concept of math as a language. 01:13:43.400 |
Introduce something new, learn it, drill it, use it, 01:13:46.960 |
Just continually build, build, build little by little. 01:13:53.080 |
I just have never needed to try anything else. 01:14:00.440 |
is that Saxon math being a non-consumable textbook 01:14:05.440 |
requires the math student to write a significant amount 01:14:11.240 |
'cause all the problems have to be copied out on paper. 01:14:13.920 |
And the specific hangup that I faced with my eldest 01:14:25.280 |
Now we make progress in it, good progress over time, 01:14:32.840 |
meaning confined, limited, a very discrete thing. 01:14:37.480 |
and once you're done with the page, you're done. 01:14:45.960 |
I'm impressed with the arithmetic curriculum of the Abeka. 01:14:48.720 |
I don't intend to continue at past arithmetic, 01:15:02.220 |
And so I have also supplemented the Abeka curriculum 01:15:09.640 |
I stumbled into Life of Fred in a very organic manner. 01:15:13.480 |
I was actually looking for a high school level 01:15:17.200 |
I was researching the market on personal finance, 01:15:20.840 |
And I stumbled across the Life of Fred personal finance book. 01:15:33.720 |
I thought to myself, like, this guy's teaching concepts 01:15:35.820 |
that I'm the only one I know who teaches this stuff, 01:15:43.360 |
And Life of Fred, the author Stanley Schmidt, 01:16:02.440 |
He might have a differential equation book, I'm not sure. 01:16:12.120 |
that kids seem to love, this goofy character. 01:16:30.680 |
So it shows the application of the math skills. 01:16:37.620 |
and my children have loved reading the books. 01:16:40.420 |
He's very strong on the idea that his math curriculum 01:16:54.820 |
But I really love that, and the children really enjoy it. 01:17:17.180 |
And that can be something I think that you may enjoy. 01:17:20.020 |
So I think that math, what can help with math 01:17:22.100 |
is learning the concepts, gaining tutoring, et cetera. 01:17:38.900 |
I think if your student needs a few weeks off, fine. 01:17:55.540 |
So I look at it and say, if I go on vacation, fine. 01:17:59.800 |
That's a good time to have a vacation from school. 01:18:03.820 |
from any kind of schooling seems to me a little bit silly. 01:18:16.920 |
Again, a vacation is fine, but it doesn't need 01:18:20.080 |
We should never have a vacation from thinking. 01:18:25.580 |
should help a child to be very skilled with mathematics. 01:18:29.260 |
Now I want to, I'm not concluding the episode. 01:18:32.200 |
There's gonna be quite a lot of time after this point. 01:18:39.300 |
is at what age should we start teaching math and how? 01:18:45.660 |
And I arrived at my current opinion somewhat on my own. 01:18:50.660 |
And then I have since found people that agree with me, 01:18:58.020 |
which helps me to feel increasingly confident. 01:19:17.000 |
And his observation and experience of learning mathematics 01:19:20.980 |
and teaching mathematics is that a whole lot of time 01:19:28.980 |
And that why do we spend a month teaching a concept 01:19:33.180 |
and drilling a concept for a very young child, 01:19:37.540 |
the child could grasp that same concept in a day. 01:19:44.580 |
Now, I'm persuaded, I was always persuaded of the idea 01:19:47.840 |
that we should teach children things at a very young age. 01:19:51.900 |
and I filed that away and paid attention to it. 01:19:54.540 |
Secondly, I've come across various math teachers 01:20:01.260 |
And one math teacher who runs a curriculum that I like, 01:20:13.300 |
Basic idea being, your brain needs a certain degree 01:20:16.120 |
of physical maturity before it can completely and fully 01:20:26.020 |
So don't try to teach algebra to your child prodigy 01:20:30.460 |
Just wait until the child is emotionally mature 01:20:38.940 |
and hearing various math teachers say things like this, 01:20:42.180 |
this is why I developed the personal philosophy 01:20:46.140 |
that our primary focus in the early years should be language 01:20:50.300 |
because there are disadvantages to many subjects 01:20:57.540 |
and a student needs a certain ability with abstract thinking 01:21:03.940 |
then our goal is not to get our seven-year-old 01:21:09.960 |
I think it's crazy why we spend all kinds of times 01:21:12.960 |
on kinds of time on science education, quote unquote, 01:21:17.500 |
I'm personally persuaded that science education 01:21:25.820 |
you can't do physics without math, without calculus. 01:21:40.720 |
Doing science, you should master math and then do science. 01:21:52.000 |
And so I think the primary emphasis with young children 01:22:11.280 |
building within them and practicing the skills of character. 01:22:16.100 |
But from an academic perspective, it should be language. 01:22:21.400 |
It can be ancient languages, Greek, Latin, Hebrew, fine. 01:22:40.880 |
simply be taught in a very straightforward way. 01:22:44.240 |
So if you go and you look at the Montessori people, 01:22:53.160 |
teaching your child the basic concepts of addition 01:22:55.760 |
and subtraction and multiplication, et cetera, 01:22:57.680 |
with physical objects, lots of physical stuff, 01:23:08.580 |
this fascinating book called "Teaching the Trivium, 01:23:11.640 |
Christian Homeschooling in a Classical Style" 01:23:20.860 |
of what the so-called classical educators have to say, 01:23:24.620 |
I'm not a big fan of the so-called classical cultures. 01:23:28.800 |
I think that Greek thinking has damaged many aspects 01:23:32.400 |
of our modern world, especially Christianity. 01:23:36.920 |
and the Greek thinking that has been applied. 01:23:38.800 |
I see it as a major problem in much of modern Christianity. 01:23:52.080 |
but I'm no Hellenist and I'm no Latinist myself. 01:23:55.460 |
They were disgusting, evil, horrifically sinful societies. 01:24:20.920 |
but my lack of appreciation for Greek and Roman cultures 01:24:54.960 |
And so in this book, they talk about basically 01:24:58.440 |
the philosophy that I've just described to you, 01:25:00.080 |
which is a philosophy I arrived at independent. 01:25:03.960 |
well-researched position and it blew me away. 01:25:06.360 |
And their basic idea is that children should not start 01:25:13.560 |
which means a formalized workbook-based math curriculum 01:25:21.280 |
is that their children have been easily able to start 01:25:26.040 |
their math instruction with basically fifth grade 01:25:38.440 |
do informal math instruction through real life living, 01:25:48.040 |
I think they had six children go through this, 01:25:51.560 |
in a few weeks, you can iron out and catch up 01:25:57.280 |
Interestingly, this compares also with Robinson, 01:26:00.920 |
his idea about math instruction as a scientist. 01:26:04.160 |
Just simply have children learn their math facts. 01:26:09.340 |
But they, in this book, include this remarkable appendix, 01:26:13.000 |
which I think is really beautifully researched. 01:26:16.960 |
Because while I have not chosen to put off intentionally 01:26:30.380 |
it should not be a big focus for you if they're seven. 01:26:35.880 |
I don't think you should expect your seven-year-old 01:26:39.760 |
And so I wanna share this lengthy appendix with you 01:26:43.200 |
as a tempering commentary on what I have said, 01:26:46.680 |
and also something that is perhaps educational 01:26:50.880 |
as far as some areas where perhaps we are wrong 01:26:56.400 |
I'm changing my mind on what I've just said to you. 01:27:03.080 |
I'm going to release this appendix as a separate audio file 01:27:08.800 |
rather than including it at the end of this episode. 01:27:10.960 |
If I include it here, too many people will avoid the episode 01:27:15.400 |
And I don't want what I've said to be missed. 01:27:19.720 |
and hope you'll listen to that appendix separately. 01:27:31.400 |
and be able to lead themselves to greater success. 01:27:34.840 |
Numeracy, encouraging and developing numeracy 01:27:38.760 |
is a fundamental way for us to accomplish that. 01:27:42.520 |
So we want our children to do lots and lots of math. 01:27:54.920 |
a scientific career or a career in which they use the math, 01:28:04.240 |
Frankly, you and I should be doing math every day 01:28:11.760 |
doing Sudoku or crossword puzzles or something is key. 01:28:21.240 |
we need to be challenging our brain and making it think. 01:28:26.880 |
So don't force too much math on your children. 01:28:31.440 |
and they're not doing well with math, back off. 01:28:33.480 |
Focus on language at an early age rather than mathematics. 01:28:56.120 |
who know how to teach themselves the things that matter. 01:28:58.960 |
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