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I had a question about opening a Canadian bank account. 00:02:04.760 |
I thought it was going to be, I mean, pretty much seems to be the simplest, one of the 00:02:09.840 |
early steps I can take to getting some money out of the US. 00:02:16.760 |
But in calling around to the different banks I was going to go visit in the next few weeks, 00:02:23.000 |
I noticed that a couple of them mentioned the same thing, which is that it's not possible 00:02:27.240 |
to do a direct, once I have the accounts open, it's not possible to do a direct bank to bank 00:02:35.440 |
Instead, you have to wire transfer the money. 00:02:40.120 |
With that limitation, do you still think it's, I mean, it's probably still worth having those 00:02:44.360 |
accounts established and set up, but it kind of takes away from some of the ability to 00:02:48.040 |
do frequent transfers just to get them used to seeing the money going back and forth. 00:02:53.520 |
Or maybe I'm just talking to the wrong banks. 00:02:57.000 |
So each bank will have a different system, but you're dealing with an international bank 00:02:59.920 |
and the international banking system is different than what you're accustomed to with the domestic 00:03:05.600 |
So usually you will do a wire over the SWIFT international transfer system. 00:03:12.200 |
And so you'll do a wire or a lot of times banks can take checks and you can deposit 00:03:17.080 |
banks by, or you can deposit funds via a check. 00:03:21.860 |
So it is possible to use a Canadian bank account for your regular banking, depending on the 00:03:26.760 |
specific bank and depending on the specific features that they offer you. 00:03:31.320 |
So you want to ask them, but usually it doesn't make a lot of sense to do frequent transactions 00:03:37.720 |
with an international bank account because of the increased fees due to international 00:03:44.720 |
So usually it makes sense to have just a few transactions. 00:03:48.920 |
And for example, at the most frequent, you might, again, if you have an account with 00:03:53.800 |
check writing privileges, then you can write some checks and those will be cash based upon 00:04:01.500 |
You will find that because you're dealing with an international bank, if you're dealing 00:04:05.640 |
with an institution that is skeptical about checks, and it just kind of feels like we're 00:04:10.080 |
in the 1980s here, you do have an international, it's an international account. 00:04:14.080 |
So you're going to have less acceptance with your check systems. 00:04:19.320 |
And so if you have a bank that has reasonable prices on international transactions, then 00:04:26.120 |
But usually if you were going to keep most of your money in an international account, 00:04:30.160 |
then you would do something like keep your money there and then just pay your credit 00:04:32.360 |
card bill once a month from it, things like that. 00:04:35.260 |
What you can do is check to see if your bank will accept paper deposits. 00:04:39.960 |
Sometimes, for example, you might have some of your checks sent there. 00:04:43.800 |
Sometimes you can just simply use the automatic bill pay function from your US based account 00:04:48.560 |
and send a check that way that can minimize the fees. 00:04:52.920 |
And so I don't think it makes a lot of sense to use an international bank account for day-to-day 00:05:00.120 |
I think it makes sense to use a credit card for day-to-day transactions. 00:05:02.440 |
And then if you really want to use the account frequently and not just have it as a savings 00:05:06.120 |
device, then go ahead and set it up with just to pay your, you know, pay your credit card 00:05:13.600 |
So it is the information that you have is correct and the specifics will depend upon 00:05:22.720 |
And to be clear, the only reason I'm looking to have more transactions or more frequent 00:05:28.280 |
transactions both ways was just for the sole purpose of just having them accustomed to 00:05:34.640 |
seeing transactions going in and out, not really for day-to-day banking or anything 00:05:40.240 |
So, yeah, for that reason, I think I'm just going to go with a pretty low-end checking 00:05:43.560 |
and savings type of account that has pretty limited withdrawals and stuff before you start 00:05:51.040 |
But if it's just for emergencies only, that seemed to be sufficient. 00:05:54.320 |
So, and now that I can go to Canada, I figured I'd get that done. 00:06:00.320 |
And just, and as always, be aware in the international banking space, you will incur significantly 00:06:07.960 |
higher fees than you're accustomed to in the United States. 00:06:13.560 |
So it's just, you know, a monthly account maintenance fee is an extremely normal thing 00:06:21.160 |
It's fairly abnormal in the United States, but it's an extremely normal thing in international 00:06:28.040 |
So monthly maintenance fees, various fees, the fees are simply higher in the international 00:06:33.720 |
world, practically, at least in my understanding, on a global basis as compared to the United 00:06:40.080 |
I still think that's a cheap price to pay for the services that you are getting. 00:06:45.600 |
But if you are very fee sensitive, then it will impact you and you'll want to minimize 00:06:52.280 |
I don't think you need to do transactions on a, you know, on a multiple transactions 00:06:57.360 |
I think the most important thing to set up is to set up your wire transfer systems. 00:07:02.640 |
If you're using a Canadian bank account as basically kind of a relief valve, a backup 00:07:07.200 |
plan in case you had to get money out of the United States, then the key is just making 00:07:10.800 |
sure that you know how to wire money, you know how long it takes, you have all the information 00:07:15.920 |
handy, so you could call up your bank and say, wire $50,000 from my US account to my 00:07:21.120 |
Canadian account, and that you know how to do it and you know how long to expect that 00:07:27.160 |
So you don't need to, of course, start with 50 grand. 00:07:29.160 |
The key is just go ahead and practice going back and forth so that when the time comes, 00:07:33.480 |
if you ever needed to do it, that you can do it very quickly and you've practiced it. 00:07:43.840 |
Just put up a minimal amount that gets me, you know, semi-free checking accounts and 00:07:50.200 |
probably open up one for both me and my wife. 00:07:53.840 |
>>Yeah, the magic number is to have enough money in the account that you don't wind up 00:07:58.320 |
incurring fees based upon the account balance, but to have, if you want to minimize your 00:08:03.840 |
reporting requirements in the United States, to keep less than $10,000 outside the country 00:08:08.280 |
so you don't have to file the extra disclosure forms. 00:08:12.040 |
It's fine to file the disclosure forms, but if you keep less than $10,000 total outside 00:08:16.220 |
of the United States, then you can minimize those forms. 00:08:23.680 |
I'm underway on the Mexican temporary residence process, and so I'm pretty excited about it. 00:08:33.760 |
I got the temporary visa, so I found out part of that is going to Mexico to actually get 00:08:41.960 |
And from what the agent was telling me at the consulate, there's some requirements in 00:08:47.760 |
there about time to renew the card within, I think it was 55 days before expiration to 00:08:58.220 |
But she also mentioned that it would be difficult to say at this point how long that process 00:09:02.160 |
takes to go from the temporary residence visa to the card. 00:09:04.600 |
So a little more complicated than I initially anticipated. 00:09:07.720 |
And I know previously you had recommended using lawyers in the local areas where you're 00:09:18.040 |
And so, one, do you still recommend that, using a lawyer for immigration purposes, even 00:09:23.760 |
for Mexico, which is pretty simple comparatively? 00:09:27.960 |
And two, are there any resources that you've used to find international services like lawyers, 00:09:35.000 |
I'm a little sensitive to hiring someone for a service like that who I haven't vetted, 00:09:41.560 |
and I'm not sure how to do that internationally. 00:09:44.480 |
So, the answer is, so just to clarify, at this point you have gone to the consulate 00:09:50.520 |
outside of Mexico, you've received the little paper sticker into your passport saying that 00:09:57.360 |
And now you need to go to Mexico for the CANJE. 00:10:03.840 |
So as I've said, in most things you can do most of the stuff yourself. 00:10:10.360 |
Most countries have some kind of system that you can go on their website, you can work 00:10:15.760 |
your way through, you can set the appointments, and you can do most of these things yourself. 00:10:20.360 |
So you don't need to hire lawyers in the world of international immigration. 00:10:27.620 |
My experience, having done it myself and having hired lawyers, is that immigration lawyers 00:10:33.480 |
or immigration consultants are worth every penny in terms of minimizing hassle and making 00:10:42.040 |
So when I went to Mexico, I speak Spanish, I'm perfectly fine, I could have gone and 00:10:47.760 |
figured it out, but it's just so much easier to use a lawyer who says, "Show up on this 00:10:53.120 |
day and you show up, all the papers are signed, you show up, they walk you up to the immigration 00:10:57.800 |
official, you sit down, they walk you up to the immigration official, the appointments 00:11:06.000 |
are set up, the official has all the papers, everything's taken care of, you sit there, 00:11:09.880 |
you walk out ten minutes later and you're done with the whole thing." 00:11:13.200 |
And that's worth so much more than trying to navigate the world of bureaucracy, especially 00:11:19.000 |
There are some places where the bureaucracy is fairly streamlined. 00:11:23.240 |
So can you do Canadian Express entry yourself? 00:11:27.120 |
I still think you should use a consultant, unless you're totally broke. 00:11:31.040 |
I think it's worth your time just to use a consultant, but you can do a lot of it yourself. 00:11:34.960 |
But if you compare the Canadian system versus the Mexican system, the Mexican system is 00:11:38.200 |
so much more... the bureaucracy in Latin America is really, really intense. 00:11:42.800 |
And so basically what you pay for with a lawyer or a consultant is to make your life easy 00:11:52.920 |
And my experience, again, having done it myself and having not done it myself, I have promised 00:11:58.120 |
myself that going forward I'm generally just always going to use a lawyer. 00:12:03.240 |
I've done two programs with lawyers and consultants and I've done one program myself. 00:12:07.400 |
When I compare my experience in those areas, it's just night and day better with a lawyer. 00:12:15.520 |
And I can't tell you how to actually navigate the bureaucracy yourself if you want to do 00:12:19.800 |
it, because it will depend upon a state by state basis, a city by city basis, and even 00:12:28.560 |
And it's very difficult to figure out what to actually do from the internet. 00:12:34.960 |
You and I are generally fairly accustomed to doing everything online. 00:12:38.720 |
But although there's been major modernization in many of the international immigration programs 00:12:44.560 |
that you can do more things online, and in fact they'll often require you to do things 00:12:48.880 |
I'm sure the Mexican consulate required you to establish an appointment online and all 00:12:56.660 |
But when you try to do it online with systems that aren't fully self-explanatory and you're 00:13:01.240 |
trying to do it in a second language, and you're trying to interpret what the second 00:13:05.400 |
language means in a legal context to figure out exactly how to do it, it is complex. 00:13:11.480 |
So the answer to question number one, do I recommend a lawyer? 00:13:19.760 |
If you work with him, Sanmiguel-legal.com, or not, sorry, not Miguel, blanking on his 00:13:28.800 |
But if you hire him and his firm, basically you send him all the stuff, he arranges everything 00:13:33.880 |
in advance, you tell him the day that you're going to come to Mexico, you show up in Mexico, 00:13:38.800 |
you go to the office, his team meets you there, you basically need to be there for two days 00:13:47.640 |
And that makes the process really, really simple. 00:13:55.880 |
I think time is money, and the hassle is pretty intense. 00:14:00.880 |
Now, if you were, and this is clearly not you, but if you were 22 years old and you 00:14:06.120 |
want to live in Mexico, and you're actually in Mexico, and you can go down to the office 00:14:11.880 |
and you can talk to a person and they'll give you a brochure and they'll say, "Here, here's 00:14:15.400 |
how you go through the brochure yourself, step by step." 00:14:21.220 |
So I want to be clear, it is totally possible to do it yourself, but it's just harder to 00:14:25.400 |
do yourself not being physically in the country that you're trying to accomplish the immigration 00:14:32.440 |
Number two, how do you find international services? 00:14:35.880 |
I'd say the two common ways, number one is through a referral. 00:14:39.960 |
If you know someone who has done something, has been happy with their service provider, 00:14:47.360 |
So when I make a referral, sanmiguel-legal.com, I'm pointing you and saying, "Hey, this is 00:14:53.720 |
a good firm, they do a good job, reach out to them, see if you can get in touch with 00:15:01.200 |
So if you have a friend of yours who's done it or you know someone who's done it, then 00:15:05.720 |
Or number two, I think it's perfectly fine to go with a firm that advertises their services 00:15:14.000 |
There's not much of a vetting process necessary for this kind of thing, right? 00:15:17.880 |
This is not like you're hiring a lawyer to defend you for a murder trial, where you've 00:15:22.720 |
got, that's a much more difficult thing to do. 00:15:24.960 |
This is pretty much a, what's the right word, an administrative process and it doesn't require 00:15:34.360 |
So if you find a firm that advertises, that they say, "Hey, I want to do Panama," and 00:15:39.320 |
you do a web search for Panama immigration lawyer, you'll find all kinds of firms. 00:15:45.040 |
And if they just feel legit and you talk to them and they sound legit, I think that's 00:15:51.440 |
What you can simply do is you can protect, you know, search for reviews of course, but 00:15:58.120 |
it's a fairly straightforward business and you'll generally make an upfront payment of 00:16:02.600 |
some kind and then you'll pay the balance when the services are rendered and you'll 00:16:06.960 |
be able to figure out whether the services are actually being rendered properly. 00:16:10.840 |
So there's, it is harder to do due diligence, but if an outfit is advertising their services, 00:16:19.000 |
they're holding themselves out as doing this work with a website and they are maybe actually 00:16:24.400 |
advertising somewhere and it feels normal, I think that's good enough. 00:16:29.080 |
I'm not aware of this being an area of widespread fraud. 00:16:32.440 |
Now it is true that you will generally have a different service standard with kind of 00:16:41.080 |
So one of the classic things is, let's say you go into a totally new country and you 00:16:47.000 |
Well you'll find that you're going to get a different service standard if you just kind 00:16:57.400 |
of hire a guy because his shingle out front says lawyer. 00:17:01.280 |
But the amount of work someone puts into their website is a good indication of their stability 00:17:08.160 |
So I've hired four lawyers in the international immigration affairs on different things and 00:17:14.800 |
I've just done it based upon, if I had a referral I've used that and I've done it just based 00:17:18.360 |
upon personally their website, finding them with a web search, saying, "Hey, this feels 00:17:24.600 |
right," and going with it and haven't had any problems. 00:17:30.880 |
I may reach out to San Miguel Legal and ask for referrals in certain areas that if I'm 00:17:35.080 |
going to be spending a couple of days in Mexico to do this, I'd like it to be in an area that 00:17:41.720 |
So I'll start with that as a referral process. 00:17:53.920 |
So I made a pitch to my wife two nights ago about her potentially taking a couple of years 00:18:03.400 |
off from work and staying home with our one-year-old and the potential new kids to come along during 00:18:11.720 |
And then the very next day you dropped a new podcast that talks about how important it 00:18:18.520 |
So I kind of wanted to talk through that with you, and I'm happy to share numbers if you 00:18:27.600 |
But how do you kind of weigh those two things against each other? 00:18:33.320 |
And just to give you a real quick picture of our scenario. 00:18:39.920 |
My income is more than sufficient to cover our lifestyle, assuming that we downsize from 00:18:48.400 |
two properties into one, which is a perfectly reasonable change to make. 00:18:59.040 |
So I'm fully remote, and I think it would make a big quality of life improvement if 00:19:03.520 |
we didn't have to deal with two jobs where she's actually at a brick and mortar job. 00:19:08.240 |
And we could downsize into one property for a few years, kids start going to school, then 00:19:14.320 |
school district or whatever we're going to do there, based on that. 00:19:22.040 |
My answer to your question is, I believe the analysis is done from a different perspective. 00:19:28.440 |
Financially speaking, I can't think of a scenario where I could argue to say that you're going 00:19:41.880 |
In most situations, if you have a dual income household, and you turn that dual income household 00:19:48.760 |
into a single income household, there's going to be a financial cost to that decision. 00:19:56.760 |
You're going to have less money coming in the door, and unless there's an offsetting 00:20:01.720 |
ability to increase income, then it's simply going to result in there's less income, we 00:20:08.240 |
may have a lower lifestyle, financially speaking, and we may minimize our long-term wealth accumulation. 00:20:16.320 |
The only way where that doesn't work is kind of the classic high performer profile. 00:20:24.480 |
So if you look at when you have a family where someone is a very high performer, I always 00:20:29.920 |
think about, I don't know, for whatever reason, years ago when I worked at Northwestern Mutual, 00:20:35.480 |
I think he's still the CEO as far as I know, there was a guy named John Schliske who was 00:20:39.000 |
the CEO, and he had six children, and he was the CEO of this huge insurance company. 00:20:48.440 |
It is not possible for a guy like John Schliske to be the CEO of a huge insurance company 00:20:57.480 |
and to have six children unless his wife is a full-time mother. 00:21:06.600 |
You cannot maintain that much responsibility, have a C-level job, have a huge business or 00:21:13.600 |
You cannot do that and also be a parent unless you have a wife, or I guess it could be either 00:21:20.720 |
way, unless you have a wife who is taking care of your children and who is managing 00:21:26.440 |
Otherwise, your kids are going to be a nightmare. 00:21:30.880 |
Now, does it make sense for, in that situation, again, I have no idea. 00:21:37.280 |
Maybe John Schliske's wife actually does have some high-flying career as well. 00:21:42.240 |
I don't know that, but I don't know what I'm saying for a fact. 00:21:50.560 |
If you try to maintain two incomes, then you can't do it if you're parents. 00:21:57.160 |
You could do it as individuals without children, but you can't do it as parents because the 00:22:02.600 |
stress and the constraints of children are going to mean that you cannot deliver at the 00:22:12.680 |
If John and his wife were both trying to maintain these jobs, they would leave the house at 00:22:18.440 |
six in the morning, they'd get home at six at night, seven o'clock at night, see the 00:22:21.400 |
children for an hour, and they would have to hire literally everything done for their 00:22:25.640 |
children and they would still get bad results because they wouldn't have any kind of relationship 00:22:30.480 |
Now, if John can go to work and his wife is able to make sure that the children are properly 00:22:37.460 |
kissed and get their teeth brushed when they're going out the door to school, and then when 00:22:41.160 |
they come home from school, she can help arrange the taxi services to get them to their events, 00:22:45.440 |
make sure their homework gets done, make sure she's there to listen to their successes and 00:22:49.280 |
their failures, etc., that division of labor can work out really, really well for John 00:22:57.440 |
You can have John make, I don't know, $15 million a year, $20 million, I don't know, 00:23:01.280 |
several millions of dollars per year, and his wife can benefit from a multi-million 00:23:06.760 |
dollar per year income, and her division of labor is that she provides the warm, loving 00:23:12.800 |
environment for the children, and John is there a little bit at night and a little bit 00:23:20.240 |
So if you go through the C-level suites of big companies and find high performers, I 00:23:25.720 |
don't think you'll find high performers who are parents who are at the very highest levels 00:23:33.040 |
who don't have a stay-at-home spouse who's able to take care of their children. 00:23:38.600 |
So if you... so this is one of the big things. 00:23:41.080 |
And again, I've had friends who I've watched go through this scenario. 00:23:44.800 |
They're trying to build two careers, but they build two careers poorly because both people 00:23:50.860 |
are struggling and they're trying to be good parents, they're trying to not, and they can't 00:23:54.240 |
really get that extra... they can't put in that extra work that's necessary to go to 00:23:59.640 |
the very highest levels in the corporate world because they feel the intensity of their duties 00:24:05.120 |
in their family life and in their personal life, their marriage relationship, etc. 00:24:09.760 |
So if you can have the division of labor, sometimes that can free you up to really invest 00:24:17.520 |
in your career at a very high level and you can make it to the top levels of management, 00:24:22.200 |
to a seven and eight figure salary, you can build a business that's really big, etc. 00:24:30.920 |
The kind of travel that's necessary for most high-level jobs, it's not possible if you 00:24:36.080 |
don't have a full-time mother to depend upon to provide the stability that the family needs. 00:24:42.320 |
You can't have two people managing ten days of travel per month. 00:24:47.520 |
So outside of that, I think we have to acknowledge that if your wife were to stop earning an 00:24:53.400 |
income, that's going to be a decrease in the financial income for your family. 00:25:00.040 |
I think it's very much kind of a matter of vision and lifestyle and a question of is 00:25:05.760 |
there an investment into our family that can be made up for it. 00:25:10.920 |
So you can minimize the financial impact in some ways. 00:25:14.560 |
So I will frequently help people do an analysis of a second income. 00:25:17.980 |
If you have one income, let's say that your income is higher and she's still working but 00:25:22.600 |
her income is lower, if you actually look and you say how much is it costing her to 00:25:26.440 |
work, you can say, well, she's working, she's paying the highest marginal tax rate on her 00:25:35.840 |
income, we have all these work-related expenses, etc. 00:25:40.240 |
Then you can mitigate and say maybe it's not as big of a loss as just her gross income 00:25:46.080 |
number, but it is still going to be a decline. 00:25:48.400 |
So you have to feel like you're getting something else out of it. 00:25:51.560 |
You have to feel like you're getting a lifestyle improvement for you, a lifestyle improvement 00:25:56.280 |
for her, a lifestyle improvement for your family, for your children. 00:25:59.800 |
You have to feel like you're getting some benefit from it that makes it worth the money. 00:26:06.560 |
And that's my conviction is I believe, and my wife would affirm this if she were here, 00:26:12.840 |
is that for us it's simply a lifestyle decision. 00:26:16.320 |
Part of it is that I would not be able to do the things that I can do if we had to manage 00:26:27.240 |
Part of what I already said, so I'm focused on the deal I made with her is I'll take care 00:26:31.920 |
of the money, I'll make sure that you're rich, I'll make sure that you have everything that 00:26:35.040 |
you need for the rest of your life, you be part of my family and come along with me. 00:26:39.440 |
And that for her was not a high cost because she was never, my particular wife, never had 00:26:44.340 |
a strong career ambition, she didn't have a career that was important to her that she 00:26:51.560 |
It was a good deal for her, it was a good deal for me. 00:26:54.040 |
But it's also a focus on in terms of the kind of family life that we want to have. 00:27:01.520 |
Well one child you could do it, five children a little different, right? 00:27:06.780 |
So you want to build a certain career and also we see it as an investment into our children. 00:27:12.780 |
So one major part of my goals in life and our family vision, a huge part of it has to 00:27:24.080 |
That's a very, very important component of my life vision is to build a dynasty and to 00:27:31.780 |
impact and build the kind of family dynasty that I'll be proud of when I'm a hundred years 00:27:37.280 |
old and the kind of family dynasty that will impact the world. 00:27:41.560 |
And I can't get that unless I put in place a system where I can see to the needs of my 00:27:50.520 |
And so the investment, right now as I record this, my wife is doing Fun Friday with the 00:27:57.360 |
children and they've done schooling all week, they've done all kinds of things and yet she's 00:28:03.120 |
still there with them and she's training them and she's working with them. 00:28:05.960 |
We don't have a perfect family, we have many challenges, but she's laser focused on that 00:28:14.100 |
So if you look at the psychological problems that adults have and you trace them back, 00:28:18.360 |
so much of that stuff is formed in childhood. 00:28:20.840 |
And so when you look at it from an early education perspective, when you look at the values that 00:28:26.600 |
are formed in children, you look at the vocabulary that is formed in children, you look at the 00:28:31.000 |
academic ability that is formed in children, you look at the emotional security that is 00:28:36.020 |
formed in children, those things are best formed with a close relationship with parents. 00:28:43.640 |
And if you believe that, if you're convinced of that, that's part of your family decision, 00:28:48.040 |
it's not a matter of a financial question, it's a matter of this is the lifestyle we 00:28:54.120 |
Now you do need to be very conscious of the cost, right? 00:28:56.320 |
If your wife stopped her job, it comes with a couple of big costs that make her very vulnerable. 00:29:03.600 |
Number one is if she stops earning an income, she's entirely dependent and your family is 00:29:10.140 |
entirely dependent on your ability to earn an income. 00:29:12.960 |
And so you need to make sure that you are a man who is worthy of that responsibility. 00:29:18.800 |
You need to make sure you have a decent income and that you have a strong growth potential 00:29:24.760 |
You need to make sure your income is properly protected for her, disability income insurance, 00:29:29.520 |
life insurance, prudent financial management. 00:29:32.600 |
It will come with a significant cost for her in her career, depending on what her vision 00:29:38.440 |
If she's a mother and she takes six years out of a career and she comes back, she will 00:29:43.280 |
from a career perspective, she'll be behind her peers who didn't take time off out of 00:29:50.860 |
If she is a longer term mother and say she takes 10 years out, it'll make a huge difference 00:29:57.440 |
in her lifetime earnings, it'll make a huge difference in her relevance in the career 00:30:03.020 |
So there are substantial costs for her if she made that decision. 00:30:06.840 |
You have to be convinced that those costs are worth it and that this is something that 00:30:12.360 |
you want as a couple and that you are committed to and it's part of your lifestyle. 00:30:18.320 |
For me, I've never imagined it any other way. 00:30:23.800 |
I love, as I have stated publicly for it, I love the lifestyle that comes with the decisions 00:30:35.560 |
It very clearly is and it needs to be something that's your conviction and her conviction 00:30:40.520 |
and kind of your shared vision as a family of what you want and the kind of lifestyle 00:30:44.280 |
that you want and not just, "Oh, okay, kind of a random thing." 00:30:51.880 |
I think it's a pretty good deal for her if you're the kind of man who could do it. 00:30:56.280 |
It's funny, I posted a tweet, Alex Hormozy tweeted out, I think he said something like, 00:31:03.320 |
"Marrying rich is the least discussed pathway to passive income." 00:31:12.880 |
I've often thought to myself that marrying rich or marrying someone who wants a stay-at-home 00:31:19.800 |
wife is one of the fastest paths to financial independence, a financial independence lifestyle 00:31:27.720 |
It's hard to suggest that as an actual course of action given the various risks that are 00:31:38.360 |
My wife, ever since we had our first child, she calls me money bag sheets. 00:31:43.880 |
When she needs money, she comes to me and she's got enough. 00:31:50.080 |
She just simply has to maintain and help pull the home together. 00:31:55.160 |
We work hard to make sure she has the support that she needs. 00:32:00.240 |
I don't intend for her ever to have to earn income for the rest of her life. 00:32:05.880 |
It can work into a really great teamwork scenario, but it is one of those things that you've 00:32:10.520 |
got to be very careful in the modern world where there's a very big difference in vision. 00:32:17.280 |
You have to recognize that if your wife does that, it does expose her to some significant 00:32:21.960 |
– it makes her vulnerable, more vulnerable. 00:32:24.880 |
You have a responsibility to honor her and to protect her in that and to make sure that 00:32:29.840 |
she's going to be better off if she does that than not. 00:32:35.200 |
Marriage, family relationships are very difficult for men and women in 2022 because she has 00:32:40.960 |
to think very carefully about making herself vulnerable in that way and come to the decision. 00:32:49.680 |
Let me say one more thing and then I'll let you respond. 00:32:52.560 |
I would make all those things independent of the comments that I said about maintain 00:32:57.520 |
your income, etc., unless there was something unique to your situation about it. 00:33:03.240 |
The reason is – for example, let's say that you have a bunch of debt and right now 00:33:09.180 |
you're trying to get out of debt and you're trying to figure out how to solve that and 00:33:13.640 |
you're five months away from getting out of debt. 00:33:15.680 |
Well, yeah, keep her income for the next five months so you can get out of debt. 00:33:19.440 |
But in terms of macro conditions of the economy or what might or might not have in the next 00:33:26.080 |
few years, I don't think we can plan those things with enough certainty to actually make 00:33:31.520 |
So if I knew recession was coming, would I delay marriage? 00:33:38.680 |
If I knew recession was coming and my wife wanted to be a stay-at-home mom or we wanted 00:33:50.240 |
We don't have any clue, any certainty of that. 00:33:53.280 |
And these things, these lifestyle decisions are too important to rely upon what might 00:33:59.920 |
happen in the future from a macroeconomic space. 00:34:02.940 |
If I knew recession was coming, would I not go and change jobs or start a business? 00:34:11.560 |
If I knew that interest rates were going to triple, would I go and start a mortgage business? 00:34:22.360 |
You want to live your life and focus on pressing forward. 00:34:24.720 |
And as long as you're generally in a good prudent space where you've got most of what 00:34:29.560 |
you need handled, then I think it just makes sense to press forward and ignore the economy. 00:34:35.720 |
I mean, I think that last little bit that you said about making the decision independent 00:34:42.040 |
of any kind of forecast about what the economy is going to do, it's exactly where I was on 00:34:49.800 |
I was outside in Texas and got a heat warning on the phone and it just shut off. 00:34:55.240 |
But so I'll go back and listen to the entire comment that you made. 00:35:00.080 |
But just to address a few of the things there at the end, from a security perspective, that 00:35:08.640 |
Just going from two to one, one is a lot closer to zero income than two is. 00:35:14.040 |
But I've had a really stable career for my first 10 years post-college with the same 00:35:20.680 |
company that a promotion like every two years for the last 10 years. 00:35:27.400 |
And the most recent one was like a month ago. 00:35:32.800 |
And then we've got just a stupid amount of cash that we've just held for no real reason. 00:35:38.480 |
I thought I was going to buy some kind of income property and just hasn't come up. 00:35:41.840 |
And so we've got like 200 grand in the bank right now. 00:35:44.880 |
But if we were to go through with this plan, we would sell one of our homes, move the other 00:35:49.800 |
one, and we'd have like 400,000 in cash, which is like five years worth of cash living fat. 00:35:56.320 |
So there's just really not a lot of financial risk in my mind, I don't think. 00:36:01.520 |
Yeah, I don't think you have any financial risk from this. 00:36:08.320 |
In terms of, and that's what I spent some time talking about, is her career something 00:36:14.040 |
Is it a sacrifice for her to leave her career? 00:36:18.520 |
Because if it's a career that she says, I've got this 30-year vision of where I want to 00:36:22.560 |
be in this career 30 years from now, the biggest cost to her if she were to leave her job is 00:36:30.480 |
The biggest cost to her is five years of lost advancement and experience in the career. 00:36:34.920 |
And so you want to weigh those costs because those are big costs for her. 00:36:39.840 |
And they need to be carefully considered and make sure that, yeah, this is something that 00:36:46.960 |
And it's definitely not something you, it needs, I think it's as a husband, it's your 00:36:53.040 |
job to share a vision and to share what you see as a family, right? 00:36:57.280 |
And say, hey, here's my proposal, here's why I think it would be a good idea. 00:37:01.120 |
But especially in today's world, based upon the situation that she's in, the advice that 00:37:08.040 |
she'll hear, what her girlfriends will say, et cetera, this is something where she needs 00:37:12.040 |
to be clear on the benefits and the costs and be sure that this is something that she 00:37:14.960 |
wants and it's definitely not something that you would force her to do. 00:37:23.560 |
And that would change everything if she had a career that she was pursuing and had some 00:37:27.840 |
kind of 30 year vision of becoming something, but she loves her job. 00:37:32.080 |
She's a professional, she's a pharmacist, she loves what she does. 00:37:34.920 |
She's stated many times that she does not want to be in management. 00:37:38.680 |
She wants to be as sort of a staff type pharmacist, which I think you can go back and get at the 00:37:44.040 |
end of being a stay at home mom whenever you decide to. 00:37:48.080 |
And in that case, I've worked with a lot of pharmacists. 00:37:49.640 |
Y'all just want to look and see, is there a way that, is there something where she does, 00:37:54.120 |
you know, one or two shifts every two weeks where she can keep her connections alive, 00:37:59.560 |
keep her head in the game, keep all of her licensing current and make a little bit of 00:38:04.880 |
money and just have a little chance to be out of the house, a chance to do something 00:38:10.080 |
I think that's one of the things that is often challenging is simply because, so on, like 00:38:18.840 |
I'm a stay at home dad, so I'm super in touch and in tune with this stuff because of how 00:38:27.600 |
Having a job to go to is a wonderful relief from family pressures. 00:38:32.280 |
It feels so easy once you have been, it feels so easy to go to work once you've been a full-time 00:38:39.240 |
father or a full-time mother because it's just an easy thing. 00:38:42.720 |
You go to work, you come into your job, eight hours, 10 hours shift, whatever, you're done 00:38:47.720 |
And so having a little break from your home life is I think very important. 00:38:52.480 |
And traditionally, this has generally been provided with community. 00:38:57.120 |
You have a community where you send your children to school, you have mom can come over and 00:39:03.480 |
help, you have neighbors, children can go play outside, etc. 00:39:07.160 |
One of the things that I think has happened in 2022, meaning just in our current day, 00:39:12.600 |
is that it's actually become more difficult for you to be a full-time parent because the 00:39:24.360 |
Number one, parents find themselves, at least in my observation, with far less community 00:39:34.840 |
And the community that is available is a very structured community. 00:39:40.040 |
So if you went back 100 years and you were a new mother and you had a baby at home, it 00:39:45.600 |
was common that in your block where you lived or in your apartment building or you had neighbors 00:39:54.560 |
But for various reasons, number one, one of which, meaning that we have many fewer children 00:39:59.400 |
in today's day than we've ever had, is just you don't have that many people in your local 00:40:05.800 |
You can go to the suburb somewhere and yeah, there are some children, but there's not, 00:40:09.960 |
in a row of 15 houses, there aren't five other mothers with babies. 00:40:13.500 |
There might be one other mother and she might have a three-year-old and not a baby. 00:40:17.180 |
So there are just far fewer families, far fewer children. 00:40:20.320 |
And then the places that you meet the children, we don't socialize much on a neighborhood 00:40:24.640 |
basis or on a close geographic location basis. 00:40:28.380 |
So maybe she goes to a mom's group at her church, but now that's drawing moms from all 00:40:36.000 |
So if she's going to go and take the children and someone's going to babysit for her so 00:40:39.440 |
that she can have a little break, she's got to make it a whole affair and a whole event, 00:40:44.400 |
Got to load up the child, make sure we have the bag all packed with everything the baby 00:40:47.040 |
needs, and then go over to Suzy's house and drop the baby off, and then I got my one hour 00:40:52.160 |
It's just not the same kind of thing of a break as when there was more of a neighborhood 00:40:55.600 |
structure where you had other parents with children and they're physically close. 00:41:00.140 |
In addition, we have in the modern age adopted very different standards for what is quality 00:41:07.720 |
parenting and what is appropriate parenting versus our forebears. 00:41:13.200 |
So today, my wife and I very rarely are our children out of our sight. 00:41:19.560 |
Very rarely are we ever physically apart from them, because we have all kinds of worries, 00:41:27.680 |
We worry about molesters, we worry about them getting hit by a car, we worry about all this 00:41:32.200 |
stuff, and we're constantly viewing everyone around us with suspicion. 00:41:41.200 |
You have all these fears and concerns that previous generations just didn't worry too 00:41:47.920 |
Now, should they have or should they not have? 00:41:49.640 |
Obviously, they should have worried more in some cases. 00:41:51.720 |
In some cases, we're a little bit overprotective. 00:41:54.620 |
But even though I'm into the concept of free-range kids and having your children have opportunities 00:42:02.000 |
and be tested, but you still are super careful. 00:42:06.440 |
Where let's say you went back a hundred years, a mother may have said, "Kids, get out of 00:42:13.920 |
And the children go out and they're gone for three hours. 00:42:15.640 |
That today is considered a form of neglect or abuse. 00:42:18.760 |
And so parenting is in some ways a lot more intensive than it once was. 00:42:26.160 |
There are many ways in which parenting is much easier than it has been in the past. 00:42:30.200 |
But I do want to acknowledge that these things contribute to make it difficult. 00:42:34.200 |
And these things contribute to making the life of a full-time mother or a full-time 00:42:40.280 |
And so having a break, having a day or two every two weeks where you go and do some shifts 00:42:46.400 |
at the pharmacy, if you guys can figure that out with appropriate childcare, with the two 00:42:50.560 |
of you working together, I think that can actually be something that is a big lifestyle 00:42:54.080 |
improvement for her where she maintains her sense of professional capacity. 00:42:58.480 |
She maintains her ability to say to others, "Yeah, I'm a pharmacist." 00:43:03.320 |
And then if she decides she wants to go back to being a full-time pharmacist in the future, 00:43:06.600 |
it's easier because she's still visible and she's not coming in out of the cold. 00:43:12.880 |
I made the same recommendation when we were discussing it the other night. 00:43:18.000 |
You could go on to get a PRN job at a hospital or whatever you want to do just to keep your 00:43:22.440 |
foot in that world if you want to, but you wouldn't have to. 00:43:26.960 |
And the good thing about this is that none of this stuff is—especially with her being 00:43:30.720 |
a pharmacist, she's highly employable, I would think, and so none of this stuff is 00:43:36.520 |
If you guys try it out as a family and realize this isn't working for us, you can always 00:43:42.040 |
It's not hard to get—it's not hard to move it back. 00:43:43.600 |
You don't have to—you don't have to have the next 20 years planned out today. 00:43:46.960 |
Just next year or two and certainly you can afford it. 00:43:50.120 |
If anything, it could be a nice sabbatical for her and an extended maternity break, which 00:43:54.760 |
I think is a really welcome—really welcome thing. 00:44:09.240 |
I have a pretty simple question compared to the last couple ones. 00:44:12.960 |
A few weeks ago—well, I guess probably a month and a half ago, we had talked about 00:44:17.080 |
a Vanguard Lifecycle Fund and some people that were holding it in a non-taxable account 00:44:24.840 |
And that episode you had mentioned, you thought there were better ways to invest money than 00:44:33.000 |
a life cycle fund that could provide a little bit more return. 00:44:37.560 |
And I'm just curious to see if you'd maybe elaborate on that, on some options other than 00:44:47.840 |
So, at its core, my opinion is simply people overestimate the value of bonds in their portfolio 00:45:01.080 |
And life cycle funds generally operate on a principle of significant increases in the 00:45:09.040 |
percentage of bonds in the portfolio as compared to the percentage of stocks. 00:45:14.840 |
So let's begin—keep it very simple, but let's talk a little bit about modern portfolio 00:45:20.480 |
So in modern portfolio theory, the idea is how can we design a portfolio that gives us 00:45:26.600 |
the maximum return based upon certain levels of acceptable volatility. 00:45:35.240 |
Usually we'll use the word risk, but by risk we mean volatility, ups and downs in the market 00:45:44.360 |
From a retirement planning perspective, as we get closer to retirement and as we are 00:45:49.640 |
in retirement, generally speaking, because we need more money from our portfolio, we're 00:45:57.160 |
increasingly less willing to accept volatility. 00:46:02.640 |
If they've got $2 million to retire on and they got a 25% market drop and all of a sudden 00:46:06.480 |
they wake up with a million and a half dollars in their portfolio, they get super nervous 00:46:12.160 |
And so modern portfolio theory purports to create the most efficient portfolios for every 00:46:22.780 |
And so the highest returning portfolio will generally be an all-stock portfolio. 00:46:30.920 |
But the remarkable thing about modern portfolio theory is that they've proven that if you 00:46:35.600 |
just have a little bit of bonds, yeah, maybe, maybe you give up a little bit of total risk—excuse 00:46:41.640 |
me, a little bit of total return, but you gain a big dampening effect with less volatility. 00:46:50.040 |
So a portfolio of 20% bonds and 80% stocks doesn't return that much less than a portfolio 00:46:57.400 |
of 100% stocks and you get a good dampening effect. 00:47:02.200 |
The efficient frontier of how much volatility are we willing to accept. 00:47:07.360 |
And you go back to the 60% bonds and a 40% stock portfolio. 00:47:12.720 |
So this is modern portfolio theory and this is what portfolios are built on. 00:47:17.280 |
And that's what a lifecycle fund generally does. 00:47:19.640 |
It says, "Okay, we're going to start you right now with an 80/20 stock to bond ratio 00:47:24.120 |
and we're going to move you steadily towards a 20/80 bond to stock ratio. 00:47:28.780 |
That way if you're 80 years old, we think that 80% of your money should be in bonds 00:47:34.140 |
So my complaint about that personally is simply this. 00:47:38.720 |
I don't buy that that's the right move for most people. 00:47:44.360 |
Number one, volatility is not generally a problem unless you've done poor financial 00:47:52.840 |
And so retirement planners are usually facing a constraint that the client says, "How do 00:48:00.200 |
I get the most return out of my portfolio possible because I've just saved barely enough 00:48:07.600 |
And also that income has to be totally stable." 00:48:17.760 |
I want the maximum income and I'm not willing to accept any ups and downs in my income." 00:48:23.280 |
You put a planner in a tight spot and the planner is generally going to take a fairly 00:48:26.600 |
conservative approach, develop a conservative portfolio that has the highest probability 00:48:34.080 |
But what if you went to the planner and you said, "Yeah, I'm totally willing to change 00:48:41.360 |
I just want to have a portfolio that gets as big as possible." 00:48:44.120 |
Well, you wind up with a different portfolio. 00:48:46.440 |
So all of traditional financial planning that creates these portfolios along the efficient 00:48:53.080 |
frontier is built upon the mathematical proposition that you have to have stability of income 00:49:01.920 |
and thus you want to maximize the return from the portfolio measured by stability of income. 00:49:10.040 |
If you take that assumption out, you could make something different happen. 00:49:22.920 |
If you came to me at 60 years old and you said, "Here's $2 million and I need as much 00:49:29.760 |
income from that money as I can get every single month and I have to have a stable income," 00:49:34.680 |
you would get a different portfolio than if you came to me at 60 years old and said, "I'm 00:49:39.520 |
I'm never going to spend a dime from this portfolio. 00:49:41.160 |
I want to leave as much money behind to my children and grandchildren as possible." 00:49:44.920 |
Does that make sense that you would get two different portfolios based on those constraints? 00:49:53.320 |
So which of them would create the higher return? 00:49:56.000 |
Well, almost certainly, again, I have to say almost because we don't know what the future 00:49:59.960 |
and past performance doesn't necessarily indicate future performance, but almost certainly any 00:50:05.240 |
analyst who looked at that would say you would have far more money in portfolio B because 00:50:10.040 |
you just said, "I want as much money as possible when I'm 90 years old." 00:50:13.400 |
And you would generally in that scenario put the money all in stocks because you don't 00:50:23.040 |
So point number one is the model is constrained by a presupposition. 00:50:27.760 |
The presupposition is I need stable income to last and I need to maximize the income 00:50:33.280 |
from my portfolio and need it to last for the rest of my life. 00:50:38.520 |
I believe that the reason stocks outperform bonds is quite simply that owners get richer 00:50:48.760 |
Owners of companies get richer than people who lend money to companies. 00:50:54.400 |
And at its core, that's the difference between stocks and bonds. 00:50:58.920 |
Stocks represent ownership in a company and bonds represent lending money to a company. 00:51:06.000 |
And so while I certainly wouldn't make a forward-looking statement such as stocks always outperform 00:51:11.320 |
bonds because it's not true, meaning we don't know the time period, but on the whole, I 00:51:18.160 |
don't see how in a long period of time it would ever be possible for a bond portfolio 00:51:26.800 |
That's why bonds have lower returns because they're lending money to companies. 00:51:35.800 |
If you're running an insurance company and you have to mathematically be certain that 00:51:41.200 |
you can pay the claims of your insureds, then you're going to have a portfolio with a lot 00:51:45.400 |
of bonds in it because you can get a good return with good stability. 00:51:51.960 |
I want a great return so I can maximize my lifestyle, which leads me to point number 00:51:56.880 |
I believe that it's better and easier to train an investor to be comfortable with volatility 00:52:11.280 |
I want to train an investor to be comfortable with volatility and then make sure that the 00:52:15.120 |
financial plan reflects that rather than indulging the ignorance of the investor. 00:52:26.760 |
Is it better, is it easier for you to build an airplane that will never bounce up and 00:52:33.000 |
down in the air and the wings will never waggle on it? 00:52:37.040 |
Or is it easier to simply train somebody to say, "An airplane bouncing up and down in 00:52:40.960 |
the air is not a big deal and the wings are wagging and wiggling because that's how metal 00:52:50.000 |
works and that's just fundamentally how the physics of metal work." 00:52:54.560 |
I remember one of the first airplane flights I was on with my dad and I looked out the 00:52:59.400 |
window and I saw the wings wagging up and down. 00:53:02.840 |
I said, "Dad, isn't that a bad thing that the wings are wagging up and down?" 00:53:06.000 |
I said, "Joshua, if the wings didn't wag up and down, the whole plane would fall apart 00:53:09.080 |
because you can't create rigidity, perfect rigidity, and have something strong." 00:53:13.880 |
The fact that the wings wag, that's just how it works. 00:53:15.880 |
For the rest of my life, it's always been normal. 00:53:18.560 |
I explained to my children what airplane turbulence is. 00:53:23.000 |
Then when you're on an airplane and the plane is bouncing up and down, it's generally not 00:53:29.120 |
There can be, of course, indications where you drop a thousand feet in an air pocket 00:53:38.160 |
It's easier to educate someone about how flying works than it is for you to try to create 00:53:45.880 |
some totally new technology where they can have a silky smooth flight and not see the 00:53:53.200 |
In investing, our job is to educate investors to be comfortable with volatility, an appropriate 00:53:58.080 |
amount of volatility based upon their goals, but not to indulge the investor's ignorance 00:54:03.240 |
and the investor's irrational fears of volatility. 00:54:07.800 |
I would rather spend time educating—it's this classic thing with risk profile questionnaires. 00:54:14.400 |
As a financial advisor, the way that you protect yourself from liability and the way the company 00:54:19.840 |
protects itself from liability is to do risk profile questionnaires. 00:54:24.360 |
These risk profile questionnaires create a written record that the investor has considered 00:54:32.480 |
the effects of market conditions on his investments. 00:54:36.280 |
He's telling you, "Here's the kind of portfolio that's suitable for me." 00:54:40.000 |
While you can push somebody a little bit, generally speaking, at least when I used to 00:54:44.160 |
give risk profile questionnaires, I just gave them. 00:54:52.760 |
But now here you face as a financial planner, let's say the person gives it back and they 00:54:56.720 |
say, "Yeah, I'm not comfortable with swings in the value of my portfolio." 00:55:00.320 |
There can be multiple reasons why an investor may not be comfortable with it. 00:55:03.200 |
One reason might be that the investor's budget doesn't allow for swings in a portfolio. 00:55:08.680 |
"I've got $3,000 a month and I've got $3,000 a month of bills, and if I don't 00:55:13.080 |
have $3,000 a month, I'm going to get kicked out of my house." 00:55:17.920 |
But then the other thing is just the emotions of the investor. 00:55:20.800 |
It might be the kind of person who's just not comfortable with volatility. 00:55:23.960 |
So let's say that somebody fills out an investor profile questionnaire. 00:55:27.840 |
They hand it back to you as the investment advisor, and you see that they're not comfortable 00:55:36.400 |
Do you just take them and say, "Yeah, you're not comfortable with turbulence on an airplane, 00:55:44.200 |
Or do you say, "Should I try to educate you to be comfortable with volatility?" 00:55:50.240 |
And that's a really hard thing because I think it's generally the duty of a financial 00:55:55.800 |
advisor to seek to educate that person to be comfortable with volatility, but that can 00:56:00.520 |
come back to bite you because now you might educate the person into accepting a more volatile 00:56:05.720 |
portfolio, then things go down, they freak out, they sell, and now you screwed up the 00:56:12.520 |
So a lot of times you just kind of quietly accept it, and you let the client steer you 00:56:16.880 |
instead of you steering the client because it just feels easier, and it feels like, "Well, 00:56:20.440 |
I'm listening, and I'm respecting their wishes." 00:56:22.800 |
Well, my goal is I want to educate the investor to be comfortable with volatility, and then 00:56:27.200 |
I want to build a financial plan that accounts for it. 00:56:29.760 |
And so if there's no way in the world where you can have somebody with a 50-year investment 00:56:34.840 |
time horizon, which we'll get to that in a moment, and them not be better off 50 years 00:56:39.560 |
from now with owning a bunch of stocks versus owning a bunch of bonds. 00:56:46.160 |
People dramatically underestimate the risk of inflation versus the risk of volatility. 00:56:56.540 |
Inflation is a huge enemy with regard to investing. 00:57:00.880 |
A normal 3% inflation rate is devastating to someone on a fixed income, let alone a 00:57:09.700 |
So the only way you can outstrip inflation is to have investments that are significantly 00:57:15.340 |
And so I believe that it's more important for an investor to maintain their lifestyle 00:57:21.680 |
than it is to maintain their portfolio balance. 00:57:27.400 |
And so over the long time horizon, it's really important that we have a portfolio that's 00:57:32.520 |
very tilted towards stocks and very non-tilted towards bonds. 00:57:36.560 |
Next point, people underestimate their actual time horizon. 00:57:40.720 |
So if you're 50 years old and you're planning a retirement plan, I think you need to plan 00:57:46.960 |
Certainly there's some people who will die at 70, but it's very probable that a significant 00:57:53.440 |
portion of people at 50 today will wind up with a 50-year income. 00:57:59.240 |
And so I'm continually trying to push people more into stocks and less into bonds for these 00:58:05.200 |
So a retirement plan in a static retirement age-date fund that is systematically pushing 00:58:13.600 |
people more and more into bonds is just antithetical to what I think matters. 00:58:21.400 |
Let's say that you're successful as a financial advisor in getting someone to invest heavily 00:58:26.680 |
And let's say that you have enough time for those stocks to do their work. 00:58:31.120 |
Let's say that you get someone into a heavy stock portfolio, say at 55 years old, and 00:58:36.720 |
then at 75, they're still in a heavy stock portfolio. 00:58:39.200 |
And let's assume that we've had good performance in the stock market. 00:58:42.880 |
Well now, the person has far more money than they otherwise would have had if they had 00:58:48.040 |
gone heavy into bonds to protect the volatility. 00:58:51.440 |
And so now that they're richer, now they can actually afford to take more risk with stocks 00:58:58.920 |
And as long as they don't need to maximize the income from the portfolio, the money can 00:59:04.040 |
And so now we look at it and say, "Hey, you're 75 years old." 00:59:09.960 |
Let's say somebody comes and says, "I've got $10 million in a portfolio. 00:59:15.760 |
I would keep a 75-year-old, or I would at least want to keep, if it were my dad and 00:59:20.160 |
he was 75 years old in that example, I would tell dad, "Dad, be all in stocks, 100% in 00:59:27.800 |
Because now I'm thinking about what can the portfolio be worth when you croak at 100 versus 00:59:33.280 |
what would happen if you went heavily into bonds. 00:59:35.000 |
There's no reason for you to go heavily into bonds. 00:59:36.480 |
If you've got $10 million, you need to spend $100,000 a year. 00:59:40.840 |
And so now you're richer because you took a stock portfolio instead of a bond portfolio. 00:59:47.520 |
So now you can afford to deal with more volatility even though you're older and your whole family 00:59:54.680 |
So with the exception of somebody who needs a totally stable portfolio so they can maximize 01:00:01.200 |
their income because they don't have enough money for retirement, I try to get people 01:00:05.280 |
to move a portfolio more in favor of stocks versus bonds and ignore ever getting to the 01:00:11.880 |
position where you've got a 60% portfolio in bonds and a 40% portfolio in stocks. 01:00:16.600 |
And then I try to solve with just good, what I call financial planning, meaning make sure 01:00:21.400 |
you're flexible with your expenses and make sure you have cash on hand and solve the volatility 01:00:26.760 |
problem with that and then educate the person to be willing to stick through during the 01:00:30.560 |
difficult times versus the bailing on the portfolio because the market went down 30%. 01:00:36.920 |
So you said you were going to give me an easy question and it's not an easy question for 01:00:40.720 |
those reasons, but that's why I say there's nothing wrong with a target date retirement 01:00:56.880 |
So for someone who has been investing in life cycle funds, how's the best way to go about 01:01:05.840 |
transitioning out of that to get away from a large percentage in bonds? 01:01:17.960 |
Well, don't do anything because a random guy on the internet tells you to do it. 01:01:23.060 |
Make sure that you understand and it's for yourself because it's your money and you care 01:01:27.880 |
about it more than anyone else's so you need to be more educated on it than anyone else's. 01:01:32.520 |
So take what I've said and then do, you know, read a dozen books on investing and see if 01:01:39.680 |
you still believe what I've said is true after you read a dozen books on investing and portfolio 01:01:44.480 |
management at whatever level you wish to engage in that. 01:01:48.920 |
Then if you are sure about that, what you do is you sit down and you say, "What is my 01:01:57.600 |
And you always need to build a portfolio based upon your goals. 01:02:02.780 |
So if this is my 20-year money, you'll have a different portfolio than my three-year money. 01:02:09.940 |
If you're using a target life cycle fund as a college savings account for your 16-year 01:02:18.300 |
They do have funds for that but basically the idea is that having volatility with money 01:02:24.140 |
that you definitely need to pay for your 18-year old's college, that's a good time to have 01:02:30.340 |
So there's a reason why we say don't invest money in stocks that you're going to need 01:02:33.300 |
in the next five years because we can't predict the volatility in the next five years and 01:02:37.700 |
if we have a 30% market drop or a 50% market drop on the college money that you need for 01:02:45.340 |
So you need to apply your personal financial planning to your portfolio and put names and 01:02:53.780 |
Then if you wind up with a portfolio and you say, "Hey, here's a million dollars over here," 01:02:57.860 |
it's currently invested in a target date retirement fund that currently has a 37% exposure to 01:03:03.700 |
bonds and I think what I'd like to do is actually move to say a 90/10 portfolio. 01:03:10.300 |
Then you simply sell the funds and you move it into new funds that will allow you to have 01:03:17.460 |
Then you need to consider the tax consequences because some of these are in tax advantaged 01:03:22.940 |
So you consider the tax consequences and figure out what those costs are and make sure it's 01:03:31.540 |
Then usually you'll locate your bonds inside of your retirement accounts and you'll locate 01:03:35.260 |
your stocks outside of your retirement accounts to the extent that you have to locate those 01:03:49.700 |
So my wife and I kind of have accounts spread across a handful of things. 01:04:04.060 |
Is there a good way to kind of keep track of those all together in terms of allocating 01:04:11.420 |
Would you use one account for one specific part of the portfolio and another account 01:04:17.820 |
for another part or would you do an even distribution of parts of the portfolio in each of those 01:04:26.700 |
If you will put the numbers down on a piece of paper of what accounts you have, how much 01:04:32.140 |
is in them and then you put your goals down of what you want to own, why you want to own 01:04:37.300 |
it, and then look at them, there's probably a fairly obvious way to set it up. 01:04:42.940 |
So that kind of question I can't and I'm not willing to answer in specificity here, but 01:04:48.020 |
it'll probably be apparent to you once you sit down and actually just look at it. 01:04:54.740 |
Having two 401ks and two Roth IRAs and two taxable accounts is probably not that big 01:05:01.900 |
of a deal, especially when you're primarily owning mutual funds as you probably are in 01:05:10.460 |
So the key is if you put them down, I am slightly sidestepping your question, but if you just 01:05:17.320 |
write down your goals it'll probably be obvious. 01:05:21.700 |
If you said, "You know what, I want to have a portfolio that is, I want to put 80% of 01:05:27.140 |
my money into index stock mutual funds, I want to put 10% of my money into bond index 01:05:36.140 |
funds and I want to put 10% of my money into speculative accounts where I'm going to speculate 01:05:42.060 |
on single stocks and I'm going to speculate on things that I'm interested in." 01:05:48.820 |
Then you look at your portfolio and you've got $300,000 at your primary 401k, you've 01:05:56.380 |
got $200,000 at your secondary 401k, you've got $50,000 in a Roth IRA and you've got another 01:06:08.460 |
Well the natural answer would be, and I didn't do my numbers right, I'm making this up on 01:06:13.620 |
the spot, but you would say, "Okay, this $50,000 Roth IRA, this is going to be my speculative 01:06:20.220 |
So I'm going to take this to a brokerage company where I can easily speculate, I can play whatever 01:06:24.060 |
trades I want to play from this account and this is my play money account. 01:06:28.880 |
Then we'll go ahead and put our 10% of bond allocation into our secondary 401k because 01:06:35.620 |
they've got a good bond fund available to us and then the balance we'll put in stock 01:06:39.060 |
mutual funds across the other three accounts." 01:06:41.560 |
So if you lay out your goals of what accounts you want and why and what your goal is for 01:06:46.900 |
that account and then you look at what the options are that are available to you, it 01:06:52.980 |
It's obvious that you're not going to speculate in your 401k because generally you're not 01:07:01.420 |
You're going to want that just to be one of your mutual fund accounts where they have 01:07:05.380 |
a good fund, "Hey, here's a good index mutual fund." 01:07:08.380 |
Whereas you put your speculation inside of your individual brokerage account or your 01:07:11.740 |
Roth IRA with the brokerage where you can do the kinds of trades that you want. 01:07:15.780 |
So just put it on paper, write out your goals, put out your macro allocation and then meaning 01:07:23.880 |
I want 5% of my money in gold, I want 5% of my money in Bitcoin, I want 10% of my money 01:07:28.320 |
in bonds and I want 80% of my money in stocks. 01:07:31.500 |
Whatever your macro allocation is, then look at your more detailed allocation. 01:07:36.020 |
If I want to do stocks, do I need to follow a more diversified plan? 01:07:40.420 |
Do I want to put a total stock market index fund? 01:07:43.600 |
Do I want to have a certain portion in the United States versus other countries? 01:07:47.980 |
And then follow whatever goal you lay out and look at the accounts through the lens 01:07:59.340 |
Have a wonderful day and I believe that brings us to the last phone call of today. 01:08:06.300 |
I'll just give you kind of my closing discussion here. 01:08:09.820 |
Obviously that same advice applies to any of us, meaning that the definition for what 01:08:18.020 |
you should do with your money always is going to come down to your goals. 01:08:24.260 |
So a goal of beating the market is irrelevant. 01:08:28.200 |
A goal of having a certain amount of money to retire is relevant. 01:08:32.580 |
And I should have said this when I was answering the question, but there are reasons to minimize 01:08:40.680 |
So there are good reasons where someone might say, "I don't want to take any volatility 01:08:46.180 |
The same person with the $10 million and the $100,000 income, that person might not have 01:08:50.960 |
any desire for the money, in which case minimizing the volatility might be a useful thing. 01:08:57.020 |
I don't think that a bond portfolio is by definition safer than a stock portfolio, at 01:09:01.580 |
least a well-diversified stock portfolio, which is why I'm avoiding using the words 01:09:10.780 |
And bonds have their own sets of safety risks, and so you have to be more precise and defined. 01:09:18.140 |
But the key is always going to be your goals. 01:09:20.980 |
And if you're wondering what to do with your money, the answer is usually, in my experience, 01:09:27.980 |
And if you'll make your goals clear, say, "This is my goal," and then put those goals 01:09:33.320 |
on a piece of paper in front of you, and then look at your balance sheet, then, or your 01:09:37.820 |
income statement, or whatever it is that your financial document you're looking at, then 01:09:41.660 |
if you compare your goals to your money, the answer to your money question will usually 01:09:48.540 |
If somebody doesn't know what to do with their money, I don't spend a lot of time talking 01:09:56.220 |
And if your goals are clear, then generally the next steps are fairly obvious. 01:10:01.420 |
And that applies on the macro level, and it also applies on the specific account location 01:10:06.940 |
level or type of particular assets that I want to invest in. 01:10:11.340 |
So if you're wondering about something, get clear on your goals, and then go back and 01:10:17.980 |
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